So a plate who I hooked up with has been giving me problems. I get the feeling she either wants something more or my game is kinda off. I may want to develop it into something more.
We hooked up a couple nights after a long build up, had a really great time, then parted ways. We're been texting a little since and made some plans. She essentially wants to sext a lot and is fishing for compliments about her looks constantly. I give little here. I felt like my intent to see her again and arranging plans was enough covert communication.
She eventually told me shes upset that I can never compliment her, and that she thinks i'm emotionally unavailable blah blah. Normally i'd think i'm on the right track, but i thought it's possible I am pushing way too much. She elaborated and said i almost make her feel "unworthy" in the vibe i give off. she also suspects that I might sleep around. I got some big comfort tests the day after i slept with her. She also went on about how I am kinda disrespectful in some language I use to tease her with.(I talk about spanking her sometimes).
anyway, Is this a legit thing? my only analysis is that:
A: She wants commitment from me
B: I am pushing too much and not pulling enough and complimenting etc
I'm newish to red pill so advice really appreciated. I find it hard to pull as i worry about appearing needy, but i guess thats ok in balance?
Extra details that always help: She tries to communicate to me that she has options but has still picked me a couple times. I took this wrong at first thinking it was a shit test, and reacted as such, but i realised that she may have actually been trying to say "look, other guys want me, but i'm not going for them i'm pursuing you".
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