Wtf do I do now.

Real_Pokemon · 2017-07-29T00:51:29+00:00

Niqqa you is fucked.

In all honestly though, you should go Dalia Dippolito on her ass.

yes_we_can_t · 2017-07-29T00:51:47+00:00

Are the children yours? If yes, personally, I imagine I would feel a deep sense of obligation to them, but even divorce may be better for them. I would have been happier if my parents divorced before I was a teenager though, it was an incredibly tough time. In the end everyone was happier though.

Have you talked to a lawyer about what could happen financially in a divorce, and if you can protect yourself? Regardless of the financial consequences, do you really want to spend your life with her? You may not have a say in whether or when you get divorced anyway. From what I've seen, if she's the one who decides when to do it, she'll probably be ruthless (Briffaults law/light switch theory).

You have one life. Figure out for yourself how you want to spend it.

rocknrollchuck · 2017-07-29T05:02:11+00:00

You need to make a decision. Can you forgive her? If not, you need to move on sooner rather than later. Your choice, I wouldn't be able to stay with someone that cheated on me.

MisterRoid · 2017-07-29T00:57:23+00:00

The first thing you should do is to make sure the children are actually yours.

RedPill_Swinger · 2017-07-29T06:25:29+00:00

Tell her "either you're going to swing now or I'm filing for divorce, you cheated so not a chance am I gonna consider this relationship an healthy and stable one"

mrbossman123 · 2017-07-29T03:46:34+00:00

Either you stop cheating now (meaning that you say no to instant gratification and escapism, and you stop putting yourself in the position to cheat) and focus hard on keeping her interest in you rising or you will find out what REAL problems are. You still have a path back. Do you really want to learn the hard way what the never ending bitterness of a ruined life feels like? Put your excess time and energy into learning a new, interesting skill.

Title	Wtf do I do now.
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Date	July 29, 2017 12:30 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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