| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Why is my ex texting me? BrainstormBlock! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I need your honest opinion - was I crazy ?Why are you still following him on social media??? Block him, block his new insta. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:21 PM |
| 12 | 39 yo Shiva Safai breaks up with 71 yo Mohammed Haddid (Gigi’s dad) because he didn’t want kids. Replaces him with gorgeous 26 yo millionaire Niels Houweling within weeks.They split about a year ago I think (could be wrong). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 05:57 PM |
| 2 | /r/HireAGirlfriend is now a thingIf he starts blowing up her phone she can always just block or if it does take up too much time. I mean there’s no contract, there’s nothing to enforce for him to pay. The whole thing seems iffy to begin with. But charging $2 / day for whatever she’s wanting to offer seems fair, IMO since it is on her terms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:12 PM |
| 3 | /r/HireAGirlfriend is now a thingHow much would you charge someone to text? I don’t think they are offering to meet up, it’s for online communicating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 03:57 PM |
| 6 | TrappedThat is a terrible feeling and no one should have to feel that way. I’m sorry you’re in the position. Maybe someone else has a response to this because I’m unsure how to move forward from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 01:47 PM |
| 14 | TrappedHave you tried talking with him? What does he say, why did it become a dead bedroom? Why is he now what sounds like choosing porn over time with you? Congrats on all of your hard work. You have already accomplished so much with your studies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 01:41 PM |
| 7 | Moms of FDS, how young do you feel is age appropriate to start teaching daughters about FDS?Oh then now is a good time in my opinion lol 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Moms of FDS, how young do you feel is age appropriate to start teaching daughters about FDS?I think whenever she gets her own cell phone would be a good time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Is this harassment?I know your cat is going to be a priority. Could any of your friends watch your cat until you get settled? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Have you successfully broken an addiction to a fuckboy? Tell us how you did it, please!Yes. Frequently. If it’s not going to work out romantically or just as friends and I don’t want them to be creeping on my social media’s or texting/calling yeah, they’ll be blocked. Downtime at work I recommend reading, playing games like Pokémon go, reddit of course. Can you go on walks in between meetings? Is there a gym near your work? Why unblock? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 44 | Have you successfully broken an addiction to a fuckboy? Tell us how you did it, please!Block, delete, unfriend, stop responding, any of the above. It always works out. It sucks at first if/when you have your feelings involved but you have to stay busy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 05:14 PM |
| 9 | Another reason why men are the worst. What would you ladies do if your partner finds you repulsive and doesn't wanna have sex with youHe’s trolling. Don’t give it any attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 05:16 AM |
| 24 | Never Internalize Men’s BehaviorAnd to add to this, Khloe didn’t blame Tristan for cheating, Khloe blamed the woman that he had hooked up with for cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 06:03 PM |
| 25 | You guys were right and now I feel like a fucking retard.You’re not stupid, but let’s not say the r word. Stop contacting him though, don’t let him know how much he’s got you down, don’t let him have that power over you. And let’s not say we want to kill ourself over fuck boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 05:00 AM |
| 10 | Not sure if this is appropriate for this sub...I have a High Value Man who loves me deeply...but I don't feel the same.Just not romantically compatible? Maybe tell him this and see what he says and go from there, maybe he’ll offer a solution or you both can come up with something but if not it’d probably be best to split. But definitely leave the first guy alone because it wouldn’t be fair to go back to him but that’s just my $0.02. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:41 PM |
| 14 | Not sure if this is appropriate for this sub...I have a High Value Man who loves me deeply...but I don't feel the same.It sounds like you started a new relationship before being over the prior one. Why do you not like the guy that you’re seeing now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:27 PM |
| 18 | Can men and women truly be friends? Idk about thatIn my experience, the men that are okay with being just friends with me and don’t push that boundary are the ones with girlfriends or a SO and I make an effort to meet them. If they don’t have girlfriends/wives/fwb , yeah, shit always gets weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 09:35 PM |
| 25 | How to take the control back in a relationship and be a bad b?I don’t want to sound mean but this post makes it sound like you want more control BECAUSE you’re clingy and needy. Stop stalking his socials. Focus more on you. Are you codependent? If so, maybe try therapy. Again, I’m not trying to sound mean. Just offering an outsider view. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:24 PM |
| 15 | Another guy who knows what women want better than they do...in reality is 71 and busted-ass broke....”sing a Christmas carol”...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Fucking pathetic. I ask for genuine advice over a gut feeling and you have the AUDACITY to message me shit like this. Nah lmaoI’m sure he will. But don’t waste your time sis. It’s best to just delete and block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:25 PM |
| 5 | Fucking pathetic. I ask for genuine advice over a gut feeling and you have the AUDACITY to message me shit like this. Nah lmaoJust delete and block and I wouldn’t screen shot and post because... why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:23 PM |
| 11 | Something that irks meThis is a good response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 12:53 PM |
| 23 | The shit 'nice guys' pull when you tell them you only value you them as a friendI love the “good luck”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 07:52 PM |
| 2 | I got video dumped this morningYou won’t fuck his life up the slightest with this. Posting anything regarding this on your account or an anonymous account will make you look mentally unstable and bitter, while telling the world that he got laid. Just learn from this and grow from this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 03:59 PM |
| 16 | PicturesSo instead of having conversations with HVM you’d rather send pictures of animals to LVM, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 02:47 PM |
| 18 | PicturesWhy spend any of your time on him, is it really that funny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 01:41 PM |
| 7 | I royally cucked myself (how to recover)?Agreed. Solid response to him, and to add pick up some of the books suggested as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 01:38 PM |
| 13 | What to do if guy shows up unprepared?It’s not a “date” at all if there’s no plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 02:42 AM |
| 51 | Can we just talk about the nerve of some guys on Tinder?Well, he wasn’t wrong- there wasn’t a connection (for good reason). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else gets turned off by picky eaters?I relate to this but I’m not a picky eater so...idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:08 AM |
| 51 | Can we just talk about the nerve of some guys on Tinder?Omg. What’s his response tho 👀☕️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:06 AM |
| 4 | How to talk to sister about her LVM?Unfortunately, this is sounds like a live and learn type of thing except for the std part... maybe say something like, “I’m going to go get tested soon but I’m nervous, will you get tested with me?” Next time she’s crying maybe suggest that they take some time apart because it sounds like something isn’t working for them. If you come off too harsh, she’ll just resent you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 03:35 AM |
| 16 | When your "friend" of 6 years turns out to be a niceguyJust don’t respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Male entitlement to sexual favorsSecond this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 02:19 PM |
| 5 | I think my date drugged me last nightThe first thing to do is to go to the ER and then the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 11:47 PM |
| 34 | Something a little different - Teaching our young girls how to protect themselvesOh maaaan I wish I had this growing up! -Setting limits, knowing how to say no and feeling comfortable saying no. -If they do end up at some point sending nudes as minors, telling their parents or another trusted adult. -Knowing that they are soo lucky to be receiving this extra education and to spread what they learn. Edit, sorry for the formatting. On my phone and unsure how to space it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 06:36 PM |
| 36 | Went on one date, I think he has a gf/wifeI’d message her from an anonymous account but that’s just me, and cut ties with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 02:18 AM |
| 8 | I’m Dating an athlete? Shouldn’t he be looking for a real job (need advice)He cheated on you and you took him back?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 09:50 AM |
| 88 | I really don't get why guys are raging about this subBecause they aren’t allowed here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 09:48 PM |
| 3 | What to say when your partner objectifies women?Yeah... that’s... uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 04:44 PM |
| 3 | What should I do?Don’t rush things with him. Get to know him better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 03:58 AM |
| 9 | What to say when your partner objectifies women?Start calling him “bud”, not dude but “bud”. You’re not overreacting about the movie comments. That’s a weird comment to make out loud to his girlfriend. If he wants to think it okay whatever but for him to watch an entire film and to only take away the boob part... yeah, that’s weird and annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 01:03 AM |
| 7 | What is your opinion on cheating?Cheating isn’t high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:56 PM |
| 6 | How did you ladies deal with shame looking back at past relationships?Learn from it. Grow from it. Understand that you’re not the only one who’s been there, and when you see someone else going through what you’ve been through offer advice if they ask for it. All of those past relationships were stepping stones to get you to where you are now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 35 | STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM!This is so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 07:13 PM |
| 21 | Keep your standards right where they are ladiesGoddddd. I love hearing the “not looking for pen pals” line, they always think they’re so clever using it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:35 AM |
| 8 | My date: Goldie Hawn & Kate Hudson are MONSTERS! Oddest negging and "the wall" nonsense.You handled that whole situation so well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:32 AM |
| 6 | Help shedding the guilt of moving on?I’m confused, why do you feel guilty? You dropped the guy who was calling you bro, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:28 AM |
| 6 | I have male best friend that I’m in love with, we became FWB and I don’t know if I should continue itHe can’t develop feelings for a woman before having sex with her? Delete, block, next. Edit- to add, it sounds like you’re not getting what you want from this. Onto the next one. I understand he was there for you but these games aren’t going to end anytime soon and he’s not interested in being serious with you at this time. Focus on yourself, you deserve so much better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 02:20 PM |
| 3 | I just want to shake her. She lets a married man fuck and abuse her, and calls it a BDSM relationship.She’s using him for sex, idk how attached she really is. The whole last part of her post is about how she’d give up her current man for “the right one”. She also asks for advice about going out by herself because she feels awkward about it. She’s only keeping this guy around for their meetups until she’s able to find someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 01:17 PM |
| 7 | I just want to shake her. She lets a married man fuck and abuse her, and calls it a BDSM relationship.Sorry if I read it wrong (which is totally possible) I don’t think she said it was a relationship. Think she said it was more of a BDSM FWB but she’s not happy with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 12:53 PM |
| 36 | Why are men so deeply, innately threatened by us?I think it’s more that men don’t want to be treated the way that women are treated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 01:29 PM |
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