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It's a cool sport to learn that's very practical in self-defense but the fucking people in those gyms are the biggest douchebags I've ever seen. I did a beginner level BJJ class at a local gym just for kicks and the instructor asked if I had any MMA background. I said no but I've done boxing for 5 years and he basically said "All those professional boxers would get their ass kicked by MMA fighters in a street fight." in a very condescending tone. Fucking idiots I swear
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:30 PM
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Some guys might be fine with it, others won't be. But for me personally, that would be a dealbreaker. Instead of just breaking things down into only green and red flags I have yellow flags too which are negative aspects of the girl but not necessarily deal breakers. For instance a bad relationship with her father would be a yellow flag. As in it's a negative, but if everything else about her was fine it wouldn't prevent me from LTRing her. For me a past incident of her getting spit roasted would…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:20 PM
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As others have said you might be giving off beta bux but some girls just are gold diggers. Trust me dude I get it. I have a decent job but I just graduated college and I'm living at home for 8-12 months to save money (no college debt thank god) and I drive a 2008 Rav-4. In addition to that, I also live in one of the wealthiest areas in the entire United States. So I'm a 22 year old competing with guys in their mid-to-late 20's who work in finance making 200k/year and who drive BMW and Audis. And…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:10 PM
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If she hasn't physically cheated yet then she's on the way to doing so. Texting an ex is an instant NEXT for any man with a set of balls
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:23 PM
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Then get decaf or get tea or something.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 12:00 AM
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You idiot buddhism doesn't expect you to be a fucking psychic. And if your religion would punish you for a whore lying about her relationship status then it's a retarded one.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:40 PM
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Save the messages in case that happens
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:39 PM
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What the fuck do you want us to tell you? 35%? Being tan and ripped is definitely a plus but it doesn't mean a lot if you talk to girls like a sperg.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 01:26 AM
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First of all see a doctor. Might just be a skin tag which is harmless. Secondly realize that HPV isn’t a big deal. Something like 55% of sexually active men will get the virus at some point in their life even if they don’t all show symptoms. Also if it is HPV they’ll freeze the warts off and you’ll be fine after. I had HPV and if I recall correctly if they freeze them off and you have no other outbreaks for 6 months the virus is basically cleared from your system and you are fine to have unprote…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:02 PM
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You know what you need to do man so do it. Read instead of gaming all the time, eat less so you lose the weight you’ve gained. From what I’ve read in your post she’s been a pretty good gf and is taking care of you. So take care of yourself as well. Wish you luck with your illness man.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:58 PM
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I see a lot of guys saying just sit back and do nothing but I don't think that's the right move sometimes. Girls sometimes don't know how to politely turn down someone's advances, it doesn't mean they like that some guy is talking to them. What I normally did was just grab my girlfriend by the hand/arm look at the guy and say "have a nice night" in a completely normal friendly tone and then just walk somewhere else. People on TRP hate mate-guarding but I think some level is needed if you're in a…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:33 PM
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TRP sexual strategy is amoral but you can have your own personal code of morals as well obviously. TRP is a toolbox that you can draw from, not a religion. You don't have to follow every single thing the sub espouses. I have fucked girls with boyfriends in the past but I never really felt good about it afterwards. So I try not to go out of my way to pursue women who I know have boyfriends anymore. I understand the logic some people have on here of "if I don't fuck her someone else will so why sh…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:24 PM
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You did good. Fuck that bullshit. But a word of advice, the movies aren't a good place for a first date in my opinion. Go someplace where you guys can talk instead of just sitting next to each other in silence for 2 hours. Think about what a girl would be more comfortable with? Making out with a guy who she talked to for 10 mins on the car ride there and barely knows? Or making out with a guy who she just had a nice sexually charged conversation with over drinks?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 05:44 PM
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It's really as simple as this comment puts it. So many people my age (early 20's) complain about how they don't have enough time in the day, feel like shit, yadda yadda. And I get it. I was that guy who was like that and was stuck in a rut too. But even just the small change of forcing myself to go to sleep before 11pm every night and wake up at 7 changed so much. I feel so much more productive and full of energy. Just having a routine of productive activities in your life makes all the differen…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 05:19 AM
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Only do that with women you’ve met and hopefully fucked before. Very few women are gonna meet some possible creepy guy online who is taking them to an unknown place. Women like mystery but they also like security. Be firm in setting an agenda for the date that you want to do.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:22 PM
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This relationship is akin to you falling out of an airplane. Just pull the god damn chute and leave her
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:22 PM
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I opened this post expecting you to say you were in your 40's or something but 21??? College seniors fuck freshmen girls all the god damn time. What jealous retards...
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:18 PM
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I think of it in the same way as any other vice. Fine in moderation, bad in excess or if it’s affecting your daily life. For instance, if someone told you they have a casual drink or two once a week you wouldn’t think they had a problem. But if they drink every day then you know they have a problem.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:11 AM
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In high school my friend drank mead to help him last longer in bed with his girlfriend. We called it the magic mead lol.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:53 AM
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Exactly. Going out with decent looking female friends is some of the best social proof you can have in a bar/club setting. Girls see that if hot women hang out with you, then you must be a cool guy, and your SMV goes up. But as you said, just don’t do retarded shit like buy them drinks.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 10:05 PM
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Ehh it can be nice to do something small like a decent dinner but the people who celebrate a 6 month anniversary with an expensive dinner and gifts are absolutely retarded
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:58 PM
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Some of the posts pertaining to how to shop for clothes that actually fit you are decent but the "MFA style" is atrocious 85% of the time. If you think that thread was bad look at their daily "what did you wear today" thread and sort by top. It's a joke. https://old.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/comments/9buw3j/waywt_august_31/?sort=top I mean this is one of the most upvoted outfits: https://i.imgur.com/lusoDXb.jpg Guy dresses like a fucking 50 year old suburban dad.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:44 AM
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Yeah I feel you man. I used to be a boozehound during college and since graduation I just have almost zero desire to drink. I haven't given it up completely but I probably go out once every 6-8 weeks. You might have a harder time getting casual sex but like others have said the quality of girls you will meet will probably be better.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:37 AM
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Why is her boyfriend mad lol? He found out she cheated?
/r/askTRP01/09/18 08:03 PM
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You're over simplifying a lot. You chalk up black fathers abandoning their children as being the result of genetic memory when it's most assuredly the result of being raised fatherless themselves. Black people with strong intelligent fathers in their lives usually turn out to be good fathers figures as well. You can say this about any race. The reason why black culture is in the shitter right now is because of the lack of a stable family unit. And the black family unit has been shattered due to …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:38 PM
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This
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:31 PM
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The problem with graduating college are: You'll never be in an environment with that many DTF 18-22 year old girls in your life again You go from being a senior at the top of the totem pole to being back at the bottom again. All your friends are also spreading their wings and moving away and busy with work. No more of those summers where you'd wake up at 11 on a Tuesday, go play some sports with your friends then game until 3 in the morning just enjoying life with no responsibilities. As others …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:22 PM
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Because like others have said right wing ideologies have been shunted to the corners of the internet so people think that they overlap. That being said in relation to that other post, I wouldn't LTR a woman who admitted to me she had "jungle fever" just because I think it's honestly bigoted for women to fetishize a race like that because black people are perceived as being more savage and animalistic. If I'm thinking of getting into an LTR with a woman and some of her past relationships happened…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:17 PM
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Colombian women are great. In general they're hot as fuck and very feminine like you mentioned. In Colombian culture it's a woman's job to cook and clean for her man and be a good wife. But just so you know there are caveats. Colombian women are a lot less likely (in general) to have one night stands. And when you go on dates with them you as the man are expected to pay. But if you are a well put together American man in Colombia you can be banging legit 9's and 10's who like to cook and clean l…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 02:49 PM
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lol I'm 180 at 5'10. I can't imagine what 180 at 6'4 would be. 202 is good for 6'4 he's just skinny fat. Ideally at 6'4 I'd like to be 215 or something.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 02:30 AM
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Good post man. I agree completely. I just graduated college and the state of guys my age is pitiful for the most part. Especially hygiene and wardrobe. I feel like people on this sub underestimate how much just doing the fucking basics raises your SMV. I see guys out at bars who have fingernails a full inch long, wearing fucking sports jerseys like the guys you mentioned in your post. Unless these guys are Adonis' or have 10/10 game there's just no way they're getting laid. I discovered TRP abou…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 02:25 AM
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Well you’ve done the first step and have admitted you have a problem and that’s good. My dad was an alcoholic who kicked his addiction and has been sober for almost a decade. AA helped him a lot. Not just going to the meetings but spending time with his sponsor and talking about his struggles with him. So definitely seek out your local AA chapter. I know it is embarrassing and shit but you gotta try to turn this around. My dad was in AA for 3-4 years before he finally quit alcohol all together. …
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:15 PM
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It can be fun once in a blue moon, but as an early 20's year old guy who lives right next to a major city I can truly say I've been clubbing maybe 3 times in the past year. Here are my problems with the club scene: Super emphasis on status. Oh you make 100k/year? (not saying that I do but just giving a hypothetical) Well some poser bum just spent 2 weeks pay on a table and bottle service and now the girl you were talking to is being pulled away by her friends to go into the VIP section to sit wi…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 01:45 AM
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you can turn it into a semi-dominant one it's just hard. A girl I used to fuck was 5 foot even, and maybe 100 lbs. I did this move where I would transition from fucking her on the edge of the bed missionary with her legs on my shoulders to eating her out while standing up with her legs on my shoulders and pressing her against the wall. Kind of hard to explain but I swear when I busted that move out I could tell with my mouth she was gushing like crazy. The problem is the girl's im hooking up wit…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 01:29 AM
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You wouldn’t get a herpes sore from her only hours after you made out with her. You either already had it or just have a canker sore and are freaking out for no reason.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:55 AM
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Unpopular opinion on here but if I know I'm going out that night I'll "clean the pipes" earlier that day or the night before. I've cut my jerking off to once every 10-14 days. If I've gone 14 days without busting a nut then grind with a girl at a bar or club then foreplay there's a decent chance I don't even make it to fucking.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:23 AM
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Am I the only one who’s run over this exact scenario in my head and just decided to book it out of the country lmao? Life is too fucking short to spend 10 god damn years in prison for some bullshit like that. OP mentioned he might be getting out on bail so if I were in his shoes I’d just pack up and leave as soon as I got out. Empty savings, hightail it to Mexico, and just wing it from there. I know I’m making it more simple that it actually is but I’d rather be a fugitive than rot in prison for…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 06:30 PM
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This. You have to master the art of getting close to the girl first. It’s this weird sort of ritual where you kinda semi-dance your way over to them from where you made eye contact. This guy is also right with the hand grabbing and spinny shit. I always just grab her hand and continue dancing. Wait a few seconds, then give her a spin or two, then turn her around and start grinding. Good luck
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:27 PM
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So hire a professional photographer and take better ones
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:21 PM
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Lol 99%. Yup something fishy went down. If it was a close friend after a night of drinking and he crashed on her couch/floor that’s one thing. But why the fuck did she even let some random kid crash in her bed? If she didn’t fuck him then what the fuck is wrong with her letting a random guy sleep with her?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 02:40 PM
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Some of the older guys on here don’t get it. In the 18-22 year old bracket, 90% of girls post pics to Instagram. Out of the attractive ones probably closer to 95%. I’m 22 so if I go around and next girls because they post on Instagram there’s nobody left lol. A more realistic approach would be to say if a girl has an Instagram the dealbreakers are: Large number of followers. I swear every girl I’ve met with more than 5k followers is a massive whore. Super revealing pics. No fucking nudes, no ski…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 04:08 AM
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Well she originally asked him to come along. Not like she all of a sudden was like I’m going on this trek alone with my guy friend. If you live any place with good trails hiking with friends is completely normal. I hiked with one of my female friends who had a boyfriend at the time just the two of us and it was a normal completely platonic hike. I wanted to hike a trail I’d never hiked before and I mentioned it to her and she said she wanted to hike it too. And no I wasn’t trying to bang her and…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 04:01 AM
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Dude I understand women don't like weak men but either this is made up or your mom is a sociopath. I've seen plenty of gfs show extreme sadness when their bf is hurt, extremely sick, or in the hospital. Sounds like your mom is just a massive cunt.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 11:50 PM
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Unless your parents give you spending money then get a small job through your school. During my freshman year I just swiped people into the Dining Halls and made a solid 100-120 bucks a week. I saved about half of it, and spent the rest on fun. Fucking study. My freshman year was a bit of an adjustment period because I was the kid who didn't study once in high school. I didn't build up those good habits while the work was easy and then struggled when I couldn't just wing things anymore. First se…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:30 PM
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Also won't work as well for average looking guys.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 12:30 PM
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Yeah I agree with the credit card thing. I got one in my junior year of college. Literally only used it for groceries and gas and when I wasn't going out for either of those things it stayed in my sock drawer in my room. Paid it off in fully every month like clockwork. But I know a few friends who are already a grand or two in debt and we've been graduated for less than 6 months. Ridiculous.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:20 PM
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My last LTR was a latina and luckily her immediate family liked me because I was a polite good looking guy who was a good influence but some of her distant family and friends gave her a lot of shit. One of the reasons I liked her a lot was because she didn't stand for any of it. During one family BBQ her distant family was talking shit about me in spanish (typical "he's a gringo" type shit but in a mean way, not banter) so she told them to fuck off in front of everyone and said they could leave …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 05:38 PM
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That’s a great article man. Thanks for linking it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 02:07 PM
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Shut the fuck up. The guy killed himself. There obviously was some deeper seated issues there. To suggest that everything would be fine if he just “went out and spun plates is absolutely ridiculous. The man was depressed already and that put him over the edge. You talk about him swallowing the pill like it was something he knew about and chose to ignore. 95% of men don’t have a single fucking clue what the red pill is you retard.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 02:02 PM
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She then says " Yeah, every time I go into work now, I make sure to walk by his area and we smile at each other". What kind of bullshit is that? I wouldn't want to be in an LTR with someone who played petty jealousy games.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:09 PM
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Prostitution, like any vice is okay in moderation. On one hand I'm jealous because living in America you have to deal with the possibility that your life could get fucked up if you try to cheap out on some backpage hoe and get caught in a sting operation. But the alternative is pay 200 bucks for an escort service. But I think not having access to easy cheap sex pushes you to go out and work on your game more. I'm torn. Sometimes when I'm in a 3-4 week dry spell I just want to be able to pay 50-6…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:55 PM
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I've had two girls run out of my apartment, afraid that I'm some sort of serial killer, after choking and slapping them. Dude wtf... You're doing something very wrong then if you get girls in your apartment down to fuck and have them running for the door. Jesus christ.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:36 PM
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To be honest it depends on the girl I think. A lot of guys look pretty good with tattoos but it's usually because they'd already be attractive without them. Take David Beckham for example. In the top 1% of men in the world but are his tattoos really enhancing his SMV? Look at another soccer player Ricardo Quaresma. He looks pretty good with tattoos I think but it's probably more because he's tan and ripped rather than because of the tattoos themselves. Tattoos are becoming more and more mainstre…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:33 PM
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Wtf she had him saved under a girl’s name? That’s fucking grounds for you dumping her dude.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:36 PM
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Hinge is great because you get notification when someone likes your profile.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 04:24 PM
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Well now it's pretty easy to verify people because a lot of girls link their instagrams to the app. That being said I'm done with Tinder. It's become terrible now. You can blatantly see they use ELO ratings and stuff to keep you invested. Whenever I'd reactivate my account I'd get a ton of matches for a week then suddenly none. Bumble is a bit better in that regard, but I've mostly moved onto Hinge. I like Hinge because people appearing in your stack isn't a big deal because they get a notificat…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 04:23 PM
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That's why I only listen to misogynistic rap /s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mw3IiyXZJds
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 08:18 PM
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Trust your gut. Your gut told you something was up so you found something. As for what to do, it's up to you. I personally would not want to be with someone who stilled emailed/messaged their Ex.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:27 AM
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It's horror stories like these that explain why men are saying fuck it and just fucking plates and one night stands or just staying home and jerking off all day instead of trying to get into a relationship. Obviously this guy wasn't assertive enough and didn't excite her. But imagine moving across the god damn country to be with the woman you love only to realize she's been cheating on you with a guy. Then has the audacity to bring the guy over to meet you. The Red Pill was a mindfuck when I fir…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 03:19 AM
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If she was actually on a train like you said in your comments then the snap map could have shown her at "some house" Was the house near the tracks? If so then she was probably on the train. If not you're probably getting cucked. Godspeed.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:36 PM
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Try to get some light exercise in while you are on vacation. Go for a run, do some bodyweight exercises, etc. I've gotten into a few slumps before, and the only thing you can do is just force yourself to get back into a routine even if every fiber of your being is telling you the opposite. Get your 8-plus hours of sleep, eat well, hit the gym, get your other life shit done.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:31 PM
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One of the most impactful motivators for me is an old Japanese proverb: "Fall down 7 times, get up 8" It sounds like you're depressed. I've been through exactly what you're going through man. I know what it's like. Here's what you can do immediately to help. Continue to exercise every day if you can. Go outside and get 20-30 minutes of sunlight a day minimum. If it's cloudy all the time where you live look into getting a light box to get the sunlight you should be getting. Costs around 50 bucks …
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:27 PM
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Because approaching and gaming random girls while sober is terrifying to 90% of guys.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:36 AM
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pool parties during the day. Easy. Especially if you have a nice body. The competition from other men is fierce though.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:02 AM
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It's ridiculous the revisionist history bullshit women pull. Had an LTR early on in college that ended after about a year. I treated her great. We barely fought, good sex, yadda yadda. Our breakup wasn't bad or anything, we just both realized we weren't meant for each other then split up. No fighting at all. Then suddenly 2 years later I hear from a mutual friend that she told her entire friend group I was "emotionally abusive" to her. I swear that's the go-to phrase for women.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:49 AM
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Millions of years of evolution at work. When something feels off, humans are usually pretty good at picking up on it.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:46 AM
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You can’t control what some dumb girl does but you can control how you react to it. Good job leaving her.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:22 AM
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Fuck tinder. Hop on Hinge. As someone who’s had pretty good success on tinder the last 4-5 years let me tell you it’s terrible now. So many bots, and they just try to get you to sign up for the paid version but giving you a bunch of matches when you first make your account then giving you none after a few days. Hinge is better for so many reasons: Firstly, purely anecdotal evidence here but at least around me the girls on Hinge are much hotter. You have to post answers to 3 of a pool of question…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 01:37 AM
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Think he means more in the residence halls rather than walking around campus itself. This girl doesn’t have roommates but I assume she lives in a dorm building.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 01:31 AM
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Girls want a captain to lead them, especially when they’re in an unfamiliar place. You bumbling around unable to safely get her from point A to B by your lead makes you look low value. Yeah it sucks but that’s life. Make sure it doesn’t happen again. As for what already happened you can’t change it. Just ignore her tantrums and don’t fucking engage in arguments with her. Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:15 PM
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If you're on vacation in an unfamiliar place then plan ahead. Plan out the route before you even leave the hotel. Women look for men to be leaders. So lead. And ignore her future tantrums.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:23 PM
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All you can say to her is that you weren't exclusive at the time and it's none of her business. If she keeps bringing it up then walk away, hang up the phone, or stop texting her back. Also dude, wtf were you doing telling her you were sleeping with another girl. Tell her it's not her business or better yet lie about it. Just asking for trouble man.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:16 PM
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I disagree with people saying you can't do anything until he comes to you for help. You can help him out. But you need to straddle the fine line between being supportive and telling him the harsh truth/patronizing him. Like others have said, lead by example and be there for him but obviously don't enable his behavior. Try to get him involved and out of the house. Ask if he wants to come lift, go for a run, hike, etc. Anything active will do. I'm not sure how your relationship is with your brothe…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:12 PM
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The park
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:30 AM
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We didn’t really talk about her past relationships. She just said she doesn’t rush into things. And I cold approached her so I don’t really have anyone to ask about her past.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:11 AM
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Yep exactly. If there’s two things I’ve taken away from TRP it’s to never stop improving yourself, and that there’s always another girl.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:07 AM
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Yeah I mean I have 3 plates at the moment so it’s not like I’m starved for sex. And I do genuinely enjoy my time with this girl. With most dates I’ve been on the conversation over drinks has been me doing the techniques espoused on this subreddit and yes they obviously work but the girls haven’t really been engaging in good conversation. This girl has an interesting career and can actually hold a conversation about fun topics pretty well. It may sound like I have oneitis but I really don’t, it’s…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:48 AM
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See here’s my only issue with that thinking. Many here on TRP lament the fact that the quality of women has gone down in the transactional sex and social media validation culture we live in. But if I drop a girl who won’t immediately fuck me then isn’t that kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy? How can I expect to find a girl with a low n-count if I drop them if they don’t have sex with me quickly? Yeah ideally they would be prude for every other guy and then be a slut for me as soon as we meet. L…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:43 AM
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I said in my first paragraph I have 3 plates currently but one of them is probably gonna break soon because she’s been hounding me for commitment. I guess maybe I do have slight oneitis but to be honest I think part of it is just me being surprised because basically every girl I’ve been involved with in the last year or two has been down to fuck on the first date. Like I said I’m torn because on one hand she stopped me at second base both dates. But on the other hand she texts me all the time de…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:37 AM
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Pussy over friendship? Fucking lame. Plus she’s obviously just using you to get back at your friend so if you enjoy being a fucking pawn then go ahead.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:38 AM
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My mom and father (addict) divorced when I was 5. We reasonably well off but my dad fell off the deep end so my mom basically never saw a penny of child support or alimony. So she went back to work after being out of the workforce for a decade, invested well, and managed to put multiple kids through great colleges debt free by herself. Yeah my mom did annoying woman shit like be irrational and nag, but I cannot have more respect for her. She could have taken the easy way out and just tried to re…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:31 AM
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Penelope Cruz is fucking smokeshow lol
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:13 AM
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Sometimes we get tired of “the chase”. I know I have after 4 years of college. I’ve realized I’m more of an LTR type of guy. I don’t center my value on my relationship, but I’d prefer to be with someone I have a good connection with than going out and nihilistically fucking ONS whore #37. The problem is like other commenters have said, the best way to find a good girl is by trying out a lot of them and vetting thoroughly. In the last 6-8 months there’s been 2-3 girls that the old me would have a…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:44 AM
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Yeah don’t do that again. Get yourself a fakeid so you can hit the college bars. Girls will grind on you and you can start making out with them without saying a word. And ok so your classmates won’t be inviting you to any parties anytime soon. So join an athletics club or intramural team of some kind. Could be anything from a traditional sport like soccer, or something weird (for instance, my school had inner tube water polo. Honestly a fuck ton of fun on a weeknight and you get an easy excuse t…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:12 PM
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Are you approaching random girls around your dorms and flirting with them? If you’re doing that and you’re not good looking and don’t have good game this is a recipe for disaster. No offense but you’ve probably been branded the “creepy” kid if that’s the case. If you’re going to try to daygame, then do it out and about the college and with random girls, not ones you live with. Also yes pull back and work on yourself but in college getting laid at bars or house parties is painfully easy so try fo…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:10 PM
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Pretty sure herpes can take weeks if not months to show up visually and on tests for it so congrats. You might have contracted an incurable STD just because you wanted to bang a crazy chick.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 05:47 AM
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I know he's your buddy and all, but I think I'd legitimately struggle to continue being friends with someone who has such low self-respect and is as retarded as your co-worker.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 04:59 PM
12

Guy probably makes like 65-70k in a normal job and does his second job to earn the extra money needed to sustain their ridiculous lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 04:57 PM
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Not salty about myself being circumcised (can’t do anything about it now and I’ve had plenty of women compliment me on “my looks”), but this shit gotta stop. Literally the exact same thing as female genital mutilation but seen in an entirely different light.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:58 PM
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Fellas, first of all do not ever enter into an LTR if you still have work to do on yourself. What? Unless someone on here is the Brad Pitt of their respective field (Looks, game, money, success) then everyone should be constantly working on themselves.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 03:27 AM
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Concrete proof for the doubters that the RP principles work. IDGAF mentality will increase her attraction to you tenfold. This shit isn't hard folks. Recognize and evade the shit tests Push/pull tactics Don't constantly respond to her texts instantly like you're fucking staring at your phone waiting around for them. Once in a while you can send a quick response but make her wait 20-30 minutes minimum. The best thing for yourself is to make her wait because you are ACTUALLY busy, and not just see…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:13 PM
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The silent mysterious archetype can definitely work because it is the epitome of IDGAF attitude. No class clown bullshit when in groups, no desperately trying to be the center of attention. Just calm and composed.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:04 PM
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In the date don't try to be more than you are. Sell yourself but not too much. If she don't like you she should fuck herself. So true. I'm a 22 year-old who just graduated from college. I drive an 8 year old toyota and still live with my parents in their apartment but will be moving out in the next year after I save up a bit of money from my job I'm starting in a month. I also live in one of the most affluent areas in the entire world. In the chase for college-age girls I have to compete with gu…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 08:59 PM
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Zero personal responsibility Yep that's women for you. In the movie "As Good as it Gets", Jack Nicholson's character (a best-selling author) is asked how he writes women so well and his reply is: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability." https://youtu.be/c-ecbGNxEHM?t=1m37s Younger me just thought it was a typical asshole misogynist line but as I've gotten older I've realized how god damn true it is. For women, it's always someone else's fault. Fail a test? "My professor jus…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 08:48 PM
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Exactly. My friend found out his gf cheated on him and kicked her out of his apartment at 3am and has never spoken another word to her online or in person since despite her still messaging him 2 years later. The first thing I thought of when that happened was not that he was a cuck or anything but how I respected him for kicking that bitch to the curb with no remorse.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 07:16 PM
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I feel for you man. I really do. I've been in the same situation. It fucking sucks and your stomach is churning and your heart is aching but here's the thing. I feel like ending it, but I also feel like improving till I am a better person and making this work. If you actually put in the work and improve yourself then why would you settle for a proven whore? I realize it's hard to let go. But have some damn self-respect for yourself and dump her ass. Even if she somehow reverts to a perfectly fai…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:48 PM
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Go out and do something active. Hiking, Beach/pool time if you have access to them, etc. I fell into the same boring trap with my old LTR at the start of our relationship. Would just chill, watch netflix, and fuck and that's it. Fine for a plate but not an LTR. Not saying you have to go out and spend a bunch of money or anything but try to bring some excitement to the relationship. Women thrive off of that shit.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:39 PM
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bruh what the fuck
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:31 PM
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Too lazy to find it but a few hours later he tweeted a gif of a guy reeling in a fishing line so yeah this was a troll
/r/MensRights28/07/18 10:12 PM
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The more to talk about aspect of it is so true. A few years back, me and my former LTR would facetime basically every day for hours (gay I know). And it got to a point that we just wouldn't have anything to talk about some days because how much conversation material can you conceivably have with a person per week? I cut it back a lot and suddenly we were more excited to see each other and we had tons to talk about when we did see each other.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:56 PM
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A large part of whether or not I'd personally be okay with the trip would highly depend on the friends she was going with. If she's going with some party animal whores then fuck that. If she's going with a friend who's responsible and is also in an LTR then I would at least think about it.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:54 AM
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There's 52-ish weekends in a year. That means there's approximately 104 Fridays and Saturdays to go out and get laid. And this girl is on tinder so she was most likely meeting up with guys during the week. You'd be shocked at how many guys these girls fuck man it's wild.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 03:49 AM
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Every guy has to face what you’re going thru at some time in their life. I faced it with my gf from senior year of high school. I took her virginity and really liked her but she was going to school literally across the country and I didn’t want to do an LTR where I would only see her during holidays so we broke up. I made the mistake of keeping her on Snapchat and Instagram and I saw the pics she would post when she was out and I just knew she was out there getting fucked. It was so damn hard fo…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:00 AM
1

When I go out solo and get asked about who I’m with I sometimes say I lost my friends. But that only works in a crowded bar.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:52 AM
2

Cook your own food and be very wary of excess spending. If I could go back and change one thing about my late high school/early college years I would limit myself to a max one meal out a week. I ate out so god damn much those years and probably wasted at least 10k if you add it all up. Imagine if I had cut back even half of that. Buy rice by the bagload. You can get pounds of rice for like 3/4 bucks that will last you a month at the very least. Buying beans is also a good way to get cheap protei…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:02 AM
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malefashionadvice, eatcheapandhealthy, slowcooking, amateur boxing, and wallstreetbets are just a few.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 09:32 PM
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Trust me I know reddit can be a massive time sink but it has also taught me how to: dress better, game women, cook tons of recipes, fix my car, and play the stock market better.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 02:05 PM
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While my last BPD gf was nowhere near this bad the worst fucking thing was the god damn mood swings. 3-4 weeks of some of the best “relationship time” I’ve ever had in my life followed by 3-4 weeks of constant arguing over dumb shit, insane jealousy, and her not taking responsibility for anything. And you convince yourself to stay because you think if you can change a few things then it’ll be like the “highs” of the relationship all the time. How good she was during her good periods made it hard…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 02:00 PM
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Friend has gotta go too. If a dude doesn't even have the least level of respect for you required to not bang your gf he's not worth keeping around. That is a betrayal of the highest order.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:37 AM
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Trust me man I feel for you but just know it gets better with time. The way you're feeling is completely normal. It's normal to want to talk to her. Think about it. You were together for 5 fucking years. That is approximately 1/16 of your lifetime. Those feelings don't just go away overnight despite the betrayal. But you need to remain fucking strong and ghost this bitch and your cunt friend for eternity. It's fucked but you honestly should be thankful this happened now. Imagine if you'd found o…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:36 AM
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One of the best comments I’ve read on this subreddit. Your point about men doing all those provider things their woman wants and then having the woman turn around and complain that they’re not alpha enough is so damn true.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 06:01 PM
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To be honest all this dumbass woman-worshipping aside, these guys don’t sound like true friends. In my group of friends we never go after each other’s ex-LTRs. Ex-ONS or hookup sure. But an ex relationship? Seems like your “friends” don’t really respect you to be honest. There are so many fucking women out there in the world there’s no reason to bang a buddy’s ex. I also don’t believe that you don’t care if one of your friends fucks your ex. Nothing against you, but as someone the same age I wou…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:10 AM
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So then lift and get tot he point where you are having success with women. Either you're severely overestimating your looks or you cannot talk to women for shit or both. I know plenty of 5'11 skinny-ish guys with 6/10 face that get laid like crazy. So just read the sidebar, and fucking lift. Also there is tons of advice in pook's book that applies to men in general, not just ones that attract women. Internalize that shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:30 PM
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Demanding to move out of the country is insane, especially for a 4 month relationship. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:35 AM
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Sadly I had a slipped disc in my back and since then I am afraid to deadlift. A shame because deadlifting heavy weights made me feel like a fucking terminator lol. Such a great exercise.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:34 AM
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Hell to the fucking no. Not because I am trying to hide any cheating or anything but because when does it fucking end? That's a pandora's box that can't be unopened. Once you give up that one inch you give up and mile and trust me she'll expect access anytime she wants in the future. I also just say dumb "locker room talk" stuff with my friends in group chats that I know a girlfriend would be upset with so no thanks.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:31 AM
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Yeah honestly if you just limit yourself to eating out once a week you can save an easy 150 bucks a month. Even more if you buy groceries very frugally. As for alcohol I've honestly cut back to 1 night out drinking a month and I not only feel better but I've saved so much money. I just split a handle of Captain Morgan with 3 other friends which works out to 5-6 bucks apiece. Then I fill up my flask with rum and drink that at the bar. Most of the time that's it but sometimes I'll buy one drink, f…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 06:22 AM
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Eh I mean one day when I’m 60 I’d like to be able to look back on my past and remember stuff like a fun concert or day out in the city fondly. I just put all the physical reminders of my last gf in a small box and shoved it to the back of my closet. Then exported all the photos of her and us on my phone to my computer then put them in an obscure file tucked away on my google drive account. That being said, that relationship ended on a good note so the situations aren’t necessarily the same.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:51 AM
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Don’t just link him the site. I got a friend into TRP by just dropping small nuggets of wisdom every couples weeks just in normal conversation. Then when he started to change his views a bit I told him about TRP and sent him a good post. But this was probably a 4-5 month process. 99% of guys won’t respond well if you just send them plunging into TRP.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:52 PM
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Agreed but if someone enjoys fragrances and wants to spend money on them they can go for it. I’ve never had a single problem with just taking a good shower with body wash, shampoo/conditioner, and a facial scrub. Then following it up with a little bit of moisturizer on my face and hands. Then finished off with deodorant on the armpits and a spray of polo in the front and back of my shirt. Every woman I’ve been with has said I smelled amazing.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 10:18 PM
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The second one is exactly what happened with my first gf. We broke up then she texts me a few weeks later asking to talk. And unsurprisingly I act like a complete bitch and basically beg for her back because it was my first real girlfriend that I cared for. We talk and “take things slow” for a few weeks and then she says to me out of the blue “I can’t do this I’m too hurt from our past” and deletes me on everything. I wrote her a letter and sent her flowers and everything and heard no response. …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 10:08 PM
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So set goals within those hobbies. Say I'm gonna perfect my kickflip by the end of the summer or some shit. Soccer is my main hobby. I play in a pretty competitive league (lots of former D1 players and former low-level pros) during the summer where we play 22 games. I play right wing so I set a goal for myself of 8 goals and 8 assists for the season. We've played 18 games so far and I only have 5 goals and 4 assists but overall this has probably been my best season. A lot of my teammates have co…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:15 PM
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Not mentioned in OP's post (which is great by the way) is get yourself a fucking calendar. I personally have both a digital one that sends me alerts and a physical one I keep on my desk in my room. The amount of people these days who don't even have the most basic tool to staying on top of your shit is ridiculous. Before I first got myself a calendar about 7-8 months ago I was a fucking mess. Forgetting events, birthdays, etc. Being late because I would remember things late. In probably a month …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 05:05 PM
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Depends on what country and what part of the country. I live in America but in a wealthier part so the obesity rate isn't as high. I honestly thought all those fat people scooter memes were a joke until my Dad and I stopped by a walmart in Wheeling, West Virginia to get a car charger on our road trip to visit family in Columbus, Ohio. I was scared to see that it wasn't just a meme. There were probably 20-30 people riding those scooters around that store in addition to literally 80% of those peop…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 04:57 PM
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Agree completely. I'm 22 and discovered TRP maybe a year ago and since then my life has changed a lot. Not just with women either. But with other aspects of life such as meditation, reading, hobbies, finance, etc. When I found TRP I was treading water in life with no clear path. I did well in school but didn't have much else going for me. But in the last year I've had a lot of success with women, got down to 10% body fat at the start of the summer, and done a ton of reading of not just TRP mater…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 04:03 AM
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Getting this butthurt about something so miniscule is what's cringey. People just refer to it as something to mark the start of when they discovered this subreddit and actually starting paying attention to what it was espousing.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 03:48 AM
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You gotta perfect the maneuver of getting in close to her while you pretend like you're just dancing normally. Then you start dancing with her and you have to read her reactions to decide your next move. If she's obviously not into it, then move on. If she is into it then I grab her hand, make her do a twirl or some other dumb shit then twist her around, grab her waist, and start grinding. She saw that you were too pussy to start dancing with her right away then she lost attraction probably.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:57 AM
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Dude that desperation text at the end shows you haven't read the sidebar for shit or basically any post on this sub. I thought I could tell you some bedtime stories but it won't happen now Dude wtf were you thinking with that text. Listen, from reading the other texts you were already dead in the water. But that is just terrible man. Sending that beta text after 3 previous ones she didn't respond to when she made you drive to her and she stood you up while you're in your car waiting? Fuck that. …
/r/askTRP14/07/18 03:03 PM
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Why is there this new wave of people going on about how Asian girls are the best? Most traditional Asian families will hate that their daughter is marrying/going out with someone who isn't Asian and even if they don't mind it they have insane expectations. You know what kind of girls are the best? Submissive ones. And you can find them in any race.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 02:46 PM
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Well since he was probably rawdogging a bunch of other sluts as well be glad that you wrapped it up lol
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 06:48 AM
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I mean my mom was/is great but remember they're human too. There are moms out there that are not just terrible mothers but terrible people as well.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 04:06 AM
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If the guy actually cares about the girl then being friends is basically impossible. When girls are done with a relationship they can find a new guy to come dick them down in under an hour, for 99% of guys it's not that easy. Just wait to see how his tune changes when she starts getting ran through by his frat brothers.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 04:04 AM
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Because unlike some people, I don't want to see the decline of society into a bunch of SJW bullshit.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:48 PM
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Yeah I had no problem getting it up or anything, I’ve fucked while high before. The problem is when I haven’t smoked in a while and get super high I get in my own head and overthink things.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:49 PM
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Yeah jerking off while smoking is fun but when you get super high it makes you second guess your reading of social cues and just overthink random things. You get in your own head.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:48 PM
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This isn’t a question. But anyways you’re not responsible for her emotions. She knew the arrangement was friend with benefits and she’s the one who caught feelings. Also her being that hung up about a fwb she hasn’t seen in a year makes her sound insane. Also she’s probably lying about not being able to hook up with other guys. Women will say anything to gain a guy back when they’re in that state.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:46 PM
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Besides all the obvious red flags why are you trying to be with someone who doesn’t seem like they want to be with you? If you go into a relationship as the one pushing for commitment she has all the leverage in the world over you, and she doesn’t seem like she wants commitment from you. You’re just her plate lol. Trust me this is a mistake I made a bunch of times before I learned better. You NEVER go out into the world seeking an LTR. In times past, before I discovered TRP I would get tired of …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:39 PM
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He probably was just high as balls and overthinking things
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:32 PM
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I used to smoke a few times a week 2-3 years ago during college but stopped and now maybe just enjoy it 2-3 times per year max with friends. But one time I invited a tinder date over and she brought over weed and invited me to smoke and so I did. But since I hadn’t smoked in months my tolerance was so low. So I was just crazy high and overthought everything and got super anxious. I wouldn’t recommend smoking before a hookup unless you smoke a lot already.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:31 PM
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Dude 90% of 21 year olds still live at home. Most girls would rather go home to a guy who has his shit together living alone in a small apartment than have to sneak in because the parents are sleeping. Also aesthetically pleasing interior design can make your room look a lot better. Furniture, posters, the layout of your room, the lighting. All of these combine to make a good room. I know it’s not the same but during college while I was a freshman living in a shitty dorm I got so many compliment…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:38 PM
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I really do wanna get married some day because I feel that is the optimal way to raise children but then I read posts like this. In the words of Kanye “We want prenup” The only way I’m gonna get married is if I have a thorough prenup document drafted by a good lawyer.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:28 PM
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Don't really have anything else to contribute to this thread besides saying "good job." I'm not as short as you (I'm 5'10) but I'm still at a height where certain girls can be taller than me or just as tall. It can be daunting but if you show a taller girl you're dominant then they will get their panties wet. Most taller girls haven't been tied up so try out some light BDSM next time you fuck her and she'll be craving your dick for months.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 09:28 PM
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Welp lesson learned. Don't shit where you eat. In another timeline this guy could be an MMA fighter and then you're going to the hospital. All things considered you made out well. In terms of money and in a valuable lesson.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 09:22 PM
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Because they are basically kangaroo courts. Also I don't have the exact demographics but I'd venture to guess that over 70% of corporate HR workers are female, and in a situation like OP's they are always going to side with the girl. There's also basically no repercussions if they're caught as well as they can pretty easily get another job because of diversity hiring so there ya go. So yeah there's also basi
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 09:20 PM
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Depends on what industry he's in. If it's a close-knit one and news gets around that he KO'd some dude in the parking lot then it might make it impossible to get a job in the same field. But all things considered he made out like a bandit with the situation in the parking lot.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 09:17 PM
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The problem is going pro in video games is fucking hard. Yeah I bet populars players and streamers can get laid a fuck ton. They're making crazy money and there's a bunch of "gamer girls" who throw themselves at them. It's the equivalent of banking on becoming a pro athlete. The chances are so slim.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:05 AM
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Not in Colombia lol. Went there with an ex-LTR and her family and I swear Bogota had the highest concentration of beautiful women I've ever seen in my life. Too bad I couldn't do anything about it at the time. Gonna try to go back by myself in the next year or so.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:03 AM
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Good report. A lot of people don't realize that most guys are pretty accepting assuming you have any sort of social skills. During college I would just strike up conversations with random guys at parties or at the bars. I became friends with guys from the good frats on campus so I could get into any of their parties no problem without having to pay 1000 bucks to be in the frat. While out at bars and clubs I can only recall a single time where a guy reacted negatively when I struck up a conversat…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 04:43 AM
2

Get whatsapp dude. I'm in America but have lots of friends overseas and basically everyone in Europe has it.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 05:15 AM
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One of the best comments I've read on this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 07:38 PM
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It’s possible. Can’t say for sure. But like I said I’ve gained about 25 pounds of muscle since then and started dressing a lot better. I’ve probably raised my looks from a 5/10 to a 6-6.5.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 06:51 AM
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I understand how this post could give you hope but that wasn’t my intention. The point is that when you get out in the world and fuck a bunch of other chicks you’ll look back and cringe at how much importance you gave that girl who didn’t really deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 06:27 AM
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I don't see why it should be frowned upon. Some of the most profound life lessons I've learned have been from fiction whether it be books or movies.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 05:22 AM
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I think that's something everyone struggles with when first swallowing the red pill. Dismissing the red pill as a bunch of bullshit is all too easy. You can just go back to your old way of thinking about the world and try to forget you ever questioned it while living in ignorance. I still get sad about it at times. When I was younger falling in love with my "soulmate" and growing old together while raising a family was a dream of mine. And now that fantasy has been shattered for me. Took me a fe…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 05:19 AM
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I don't use a specific technique per say but you just have to remind yourself that women are basically children and treat them as such. So yeah she might be acting all self-important but don't acknowledge that at all and just treat her like any other girl. Having that idgaf attitude is something I still struggle with from time to time because part of me somehow still fears it will kill my chances with a girl. Happens rarely for me now but still creeps up from time to time. Still a big improvemen…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 05:15 AM
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Hardly think 5 paragraphs is a wall of text
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 05:11 AM
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It's definitely rough that first time your heart is broken. You almost feel physically ill, like there's this massive knot in your stomach. It's very easy to just give up and fall into a pit of despair but real men pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and get back to improving themselves. Trust me I know how you feel. I got oneitis for my first serious girlfriend as well. You feel like there's no hope that you'll ever find a girl like her again and that life is fucked. But guess what? It's n…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 05:10 AM
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You probably didn't miss that much. And the only reason I even made time for her was because she was the one who hit me up and invited me out. When I could tell that I was going to fuck her that night part of me thought that I'd be amped to fuck my high school crush but it really wasn't that way at all.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 05:04 AM
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Yeah it wasn’t one of the tighter ones I’ve had and the fact that she didn’t know how to ride a cock for the life of her.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 02:00 AM
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I mean the problem is these pussy starved idiots who reek so badly of desperation these foreign gold diggers can detect them a mile away. The ones who shower them in gifts before they've even kissed much less fucked. If you go into a foreign country and follow TRP principles it's very possible you'd be able to find an LTR there. But the thing is you'd need to live there for an extended period of time not just visit for 2 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 02:52 AM
1

In what world is coke addiction easy to overcome?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 02:45 AM
2

Well the problem is what is considered minor offenses. Some people are in jail for large amounts of weed. It might be a major offense in the law's eyes but I don't think someone possessing a few lbs of weed is a major offense.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 02:44 AM
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I think this is a great point. Some people treat TRP like a religion where everything said on here needs to be followed to a T. There's a lot I like about TRP. The insistence of getting off your ass and taking action, not only in terms of personal growth (appearance, finances, etc.) but in terms of women as well. The way it explains male and female sexual behavior and how it is rooted in evolution. The way it is a place for men who feel lost in the world to come and congregate in a "safe space" …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:33 PM
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If your friends aren’t at least telling this douchebag to stop then they might not be good friends. Even in high school if I saw someone doing that to a friend I cared for I wouldn’t just twiddle my thumbs I’d tell him to fuck off.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 01:45 PM
12

As my dad used to say about his shithead brother, "Family. You gotta love em' but you don't gotta like em."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 11:44 PM
1

It's kind of absurd to just say college is outdated. That's just such an overgeneralization. You say you want to become an "entrepreneur" and "build your own brand" but with what money. A lot of entrepreneurs used the money they made from working jobs they got after college to start their own businesses. College is what you make of it. If you wanna spend 40k-plus a year to major in gender studies, then you're fucking retarded. But if you spend that to double major in Finance and Math then go wor…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 12:18 AM
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There's obvious general things that you will see in other comments like: hot mentally stable comes from a stable family with a strong father figure low n-count and the n-count consists of LTRs not one night stands Submissive and wants to please you Pays her own way and treats you as well etc. But don't forget that the biggest way partners are compatible are through shared values, not because you guys like the same music or movies. Make sure that the woman you LTR ascribes to the things you value…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 12:04 AM
3

I know you're college sweethearts but the fact that she threw your engagement and 7 year relationship down the drain without an explanation means she's a cunt. Look I'm not gonna sit here and say "oh she definitely cheated" because all I'm going on is your 100 word post. Is it possible? Yes. Did it definitely happen? You'd know better than us. I know this shit is tough man. I know it feels like someone just sucker punched you in the gut. And I know every time you think of her you want to just pi…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 03:35 AM
1

Yeah I think most men strive for that bond. It’s just that in today’s day and age of basically every decent looking girl riding the cc thru college it seems it’s hard to find a decent one. I know they’re out there but I just prefer monogamy. I’ve spun plates since the breakup and while yeah sex is fun it doesn’t compare to doing it with someone you have a great bond with.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 09:19 PM
3

Positives: I'm cutting a bit late this year because I wasn't where I'd like muscle-wise after my bulk but I've cut down from 195 to 180 in the last 6-8 weeks. I'm trying to get to 170 so I can have the 8 pack. It's not very big but I play soccer and I'm planning to box at super middleweight (168 lbs) so I'm fine with that. I'm only 5'10 as well. I plan on starting my bulk a bit earlier this coming year. Ideally I'd like to be a lean and ripped 175-180 next summer. I'm doing a quasi monk mode and…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:04 PM
4

Whatever you think about the morality of being the “other man” in a relationship why the fuck are you trying to fuck a girl from a mental health chat website. No offense but that’s just retarded.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 12:51 AM
3

First of all if you're seriously thinking of harming yourself please get some help. You're not alone. PM me if you need to talk. Secondly, it sounds like you're just waiting for good things to happen to you when you're in a shit situation. You're in thousands of debt? Here's how you fix that: Get a job. Even if it's some bullshit job that makes you hate yourself. Debt is a shackle that you want to be lifted off of you as soon as you can. Live frugally. Until you pay down that debt you buy necess…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:50 AM
10

she will probably cheat Ok sure it's possible. But you can mitigate this by properly screening girls before you commit to an LTR. knowing in the back of your head she will probably cheat but really hoping she won’t Literally what abundance mentality is about. No not every girl will cheat but if she does then onto the next one. you’ll probably neglect your friends and family If you let this happen then your frame is shit. if you’re a beta you’ll neglect your person sense of any type of self impro…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:38 AM
1

Yeah but she was my plate before we started dating for about 5 months so I had a decent vetting period. I also didn't go into it looking for an LTR. An LTR might arise from tinder but if you're going into tinder looking for an LTR you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:21 AM
1

It can basically be boiled down to projection. People who cheat know that it’s possible to be cheated on so they project on their LTRs. It is one of the biggest signs of cheating. Though that being said I’m not sure if it’s manipulation because I consider manipulation to be conscious actions/words. I’m pretty sure most projection is subconscious.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 11:52 PM
1

Lol concise and to the point
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:56 AM
14

Don’t beat yourself up. Common beginner mistake. Just remember women’s words don’t mean shit, their actions do. But that being said hey sometimes no actually means no. It’s just all about reading the situation.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 01:39 AM
3

Not in one now but I've been in a few LTRs so maybe I can shed some light. I prefer monogamy for a few reasons: Sex basically whenever you want. No dressing up to go clubbing to game girls. No dealing with tinder whores' bullshit. If you live together with your LTR then you just start kissing her and escalate or simply say "let's fuck", if you live apart just invite her over to chill and you can fuck. Minimal effort in terms of time and money. Sex with an LTR is better than sex with a randoms. I…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:42 PM
2

I don't think so. If you're really insistent on fucking her then at least ask him if it's cool but I know most guys would not be cool with their friends fucking their ex. In my opinion there's so many women out there it's not worth it. I know she seems eager but it's probably so she can "get back" at her ex. Now that's fine if it's some dude you don't know but if it's your friend then it's some murky waters. I personally wouldn't.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:35 PM
1

I think the best way to go about things is in waves. There have been past LTRs/hookups that I genuinely enjoyed texting. Especially when I was bored at work or something. We would talk about books, movies, all kinds of things etc. But my time is my time and if I have more important shit to do then that takes precedence. I think the notion that you have to take an hour to respond to every text is a bit absurd in the information age unless you're truly a top-level man. Just don't become their fuck…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:32 PM
1

I drink about once a month now when I used to drink thursday-sunday while at college. Drinking would always seep into the next day for me. I would go to bed at 4-5am. Sleep til 2. Be hungover til 7. Then drink again at 10. It was a pretty miserable existence although I got laid in college a lot. Since then I've just had one night a month where I go crazy with friends. So I've not fully quit, but I drink significantly less than your average 22 year old.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:27 PM
1

Go to the amateur boxing subreddit and on their sidebar they have a list of boxing gyms. Find one close to you, read reviews and go. Make sure it’s a legit boxing gym not these new cardio boxing gyms that don’t actually teach you how to box. Look to see if they have any pros or former pros that train/teach there. When you first get there it will be intimidating but almost everyone I’ve met at my gym has been eager to help. Start with some beginner classes maybe and if you like it then feel free …
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:05 AM
2

Yes it is amazing. I love it as a hobby. It’s a great competitive sport that takes skill and mastery of technique to be good at. And for me it really was a great way to harness some raw energy I had that was being unused. Conditioning-wise it’s definitely great. But to be honest while a good boxing workout definitely will sweat you out and leave your shoulders more sore than they’ve ever been in their life, most of true boxing conditioning is just running. Basically every great boxer has put in …
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:52 AM
1

I mean I'm gonna assume that they actually just met up for coffee, but even then that is just ridiculous. The first day of your relationship she's pulling that shit? That is absurd. I've always wondered about this "closure" bullshit. I know some girls do it because they want to see their ex one last time. But I swear some girls do this with no intention of actually getting back together or doing anything with them, but just because they've been taught to by tv shows lol.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:54 PM
1

Not to nitpick but he also walks a fuck ton so he gets to first more like 47% of the time. Which is crazy when you think about it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 02:17 PM
1

Get boys outdoors doing stuff like hiking and sports more than one hour a week. Obviously there's a time for more formal education in science, math, etc. but boys at a young age are being chastised for being themselves. Almost all young boys are energetic, impulsive, and hard to control. But instead of channeling that raw energy they're simply put down and punished by elementary school teachers that I would guess are 85-90% female. The education system in the US is completely catered towards the…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 01:20 PM
1

Everyone's actions speak louder than words. Literally everyone. Women are no exception.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 05:06 PM
3

Completely agree. Fuck I’m only in my early 20’s and going out drinking/clubbing then gaming and fucking girls isn’t even fun anymore. My last LTR was a bipolar mess but the manic periods she’d have where she’d be an amazing gf made me realize I’d rather be in an LTR than single. That’s why That relationship is just sad to me. She could go from being the ideal gf for a month then be a terrible mess for another month. The thing I need to remember is that despite the fact I want a LTR I can’t go o…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:50 AM
9

I mean yeah Ariana Grande is a whore but they've been on and off again for 3 or 4 years and he's still an alcoholic and drug addict. Yes her hamster is spinning but I would expect basically every girl to do the same. Especially one with as much access to high quality alpha men like she does. The thing is yes Mac Miller is rich and famous but obviously doesn't have his shit together. Don't even blame her for leaving.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:18 AM
1

Just go for a walk away from your family is it that hard? You're 16 for fuck's sake. Plenty of girls your age will be walking around alone as well at these vacation spots.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:04 PM
9

Go for Latinas lol. It's a good middle ground. But in all seriousness like other commenters have said it depends on their upbringing. I would stay away from ghetto women in general, not just ghetto black women. But with other types of black women it's not too different from white girls. From my experience they definitely expect you to be more forward and masculine than white girls would expect.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:30 PM
1

The problem with video games is that they're meant to suck you into binge-playing. It's basically impossible to sit down and only play for 30 minutes. I used to play a lot too but now play one session a week for an hour or two. It takes a lot of discipline though and the way I broke my habit was by not playing for over a month. I just occupied myself with lifting, sports, hobbies, etc. then suddenly I had no time to game even if I wanted to.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:27 PM
1

Yeah online poker is dead basically. And it's not gonna get better. Just wait another 5 years and they're gonna have poker AI that will beat any human player which will kill it for good.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 10:23 PM
2

fair enough. Latinas are my favorite type of women but they are insane lol. I've dated 3 of them and they're all BPD I swear.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 09:07 PM
2

If you’re paying that much in a third world country you’re doing it wrong
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:55 PM
9

Get a snapchat at least if you really care that much. It's private by default and you can just add who you like. These girls are getting cold feet because your SMV isn't high enough and they think that you not having social media is weird instead of mysterious. Or you could just not give a fuck. I personally have snapchat because it's pretty easy to game through it. I know it's annoying to have to "play the game" but watch how quickly a woman will try to jump on your dick when you ignore a snap …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:44 AM
2

I think you should sell the house and continue to rack up rental properties. Like you've experienced owning a house is so much maintenance and upkeep. Plus you're tied down to that area. Sell the house, rent an apartment, then start buying more rentals. Then maybe in 5 years you can buy an even nicer house.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:10 AM
1

Also if he takes the right steps he can pivot towards something easily. I might be bullshitting but I'm pretty sure I read an article how 60-70% of college grads don't end up in the field that their major is in. Now I'm not sure if OP went to college but it's always possible to switch fields in this day and age.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:08 AM
5

There’s no way of knowing if she was banging other guys at the same time. Yeah it’s a distinct possibility it isn’t his, but it could also be his kid. Gotta wait for the paternity test
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:01 PM
1

Leave man. Yes kids are better raised in family's where both parents are together but that is providing the parents have a good relationship. Life is too fleeting to spend it with someone who disrespects you and has probably cheated on you. You're 30 for fuck's sake. You can easily find a woman or multiple women who are good for you. Good luck
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:27 PM
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I don't understand TRP's obsession with advocating cheating. Yes sexual strategy is amoral, but if you are trying to become true man that people respect and look up to then act like one.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:24 PM
1

I don't agree that it's more efficient though. On tinder you have 6's on the app that are choosier than 9's in person because of all the messages they receive. And yeah I'm not a huge fan of daygame but I think that it has a higher efficiency than tinder. Think of all the women you swipe on that don't even swipe back. Then think of all the women you match with that don't even message back or barely want to talk since they're just on the app for attention. Tinder 2-3 years ago was amazing but now…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:14 PM
1

Yeah but at the same time it's not refining your skills with women. Approaching women in real life is a skill that you want to refine as a young man. Dealing with rejection in person rather than on a screen is a must. Being able to hold an engaging conversation in person rather than having unlimited time to come up with a witty or escalating response is a skill you should have. And this is coming from someone who spent the last 4 years at college banging tinder girls. Tinder should be a suppleme…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:58 PM
2

I don't think so. Judging from his post she was into him and his edit said it was her weed. Plus her text afterwards is promising. To suggest it's done after one meetup is just jumping to conclusions
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:52 PM
1

You can be happy with a girl without having classic "oneitis" Just appreciate it for what it is and realize that it probably won't last forever. I'd had past LTRs/flings that didn't necessarily end well but I will still remember fondly because of good memories I have from those times. Part of TRP is to be able to stay disciplined with your emotions and just realize that no matter how nice you feel right now and how "special" this girl is, there will always be someone who makes you feel the same …
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:18 PM
1

You being butthurt about it makes her want to do it more. Like other commenters have said utilize dread game. If that doesn't work then dump her. To be honest, almost every decent looking girl that age is gonna have beta orbiters. It's basically uncontrollable. But her prioritizing him over you is just unacceptable. So you can either try to have a rational conversation about it but I doubt that will go well. She'll probably just be more secretive about texting with him. Or you can go with dread.…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:14 PM
3

Wow never seen this. Daygame is my biggest weakness so this is a god send
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:08 PM
2

Unlike other commenters I actually like coffee dates because it's a lower time and money investment and I'm not wasting a valuable friday or saturday night on a girl who might not pan out. But it's all about my impression of her. If it's a girl who I think is a slut then I'm definitely choosing drinks. A "nicer" girl, then I'm probably gonna do a coffee date or another type of day date.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:05 PM
3

A good friend doesn't stop talking to you because of his wife. Fuck that. Get friends that will laugh in a bitches face if she tries to tell them not to hang out with their guy friends.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:47 PM
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I mean fuck her by all means but fucking wrap it up and don't you dare think of LTRing her. She's a fucking camwhore she is not innocent or shy lol. Innocent and shy girls don't show their tits and pussy on the internet lmao...
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:42 PM
2

Because sometimes I just like going to a bar with my older friend that has a more laid back atmosphere and those usually skew older. Also it’s because I partly see it as a newer challenge after running through ~50 college thots during the past 4 years. I’m not talking about women in their 40’s or 50’s I’m referring to late 20’s to 35 let’s say.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:15 PM
4

Not in a LTR now but have had multiple ones over the years and I would say there's a multitude of reasons: Bored with hookup culture. The main way a lot of younger guys like me get laid is by going out to bars and clubs and picking up chicks there. I'm only 22 but after 4-plus years of going out almost every friday and saturday during college I'm just bored with gaming chicks at those settings. Sex with one night stands isn't as good as sex with an LTR. For me personally, sex with someone you ha…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:17 PM
1

Some girls like basketball shoes, some don't. If your frame and game are good enough then it shouldn't matter. That being said it depends on the context. During the date paired with joggers? Sure. Going out to dinner or drinks at night? No.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:09 PM
3

Always be prepared to defend yourself but it's just not worth it unless you fear for your safety. I've been in a few fights and a decent amount of shoving bullshit and it's just not worth it. Is getting stomped out really worth it to save your ego?
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:48 PM
0

If she's asking you to go then it's not mate guarding. Just go
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:46 PM
3

Be friends with the guy and I bet he’ll be throwing you chicks left and right. It’s not like when you’re out at a bar or club girls are ever alone. They travel in packs.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:51 PM
1

Royal blue button down is my go to during the fall/winter and then during the summer I switch it over to a sky blue short sleeve button down so I can show off my arms and tan lol. I find myself never wearing black when I go out anymore. The closest I get is a navy blue bomber jacket.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:26 PM
10

I mean at base evolutionary thinking yes women do exist for us to try and fuck and we exist to fuck them. That’s how we have 8 billion people on this planet. I agree red pill takes gender interactions a bit far in some ways but this post is pure gold. One of the best contributions I’ve seen on this website. And in what world are you living in where guys and girls talk about the same thing 99% of the time? I don’t talk in a manner as extreme as OP, probably only 60% as extreme RP as the examples …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 04:09 PM
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In the words of Bill Burr, “lean on the ropes and let her punch herself out. You’ve won”
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 01:07 AM
6

Don’t listen to this guy. If your parents are paying for your college and can afford it I don’t think they’re just gonna pull the rug out from under you. The decision on whether or not to work is up to you but here’s a few questions I’d ask myself if I were you: How much do I have in savings? Do I also get spending money from my parents? How intensive is my courseload? Will it negatively impact my social life? When I was in college I just got a job swiping people into the dining halls. Flexible …
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:11 PM
1

I prefer boxing to other types of martial arts just because the ground game and grappling doesn't appeal to me. Not as useful in a real fight as BJJ or Muay Thai but I just like it better personally. Being able to spar for even just 4-5 rounds in a row takes insane stamina. In addition to that, the strategy element of boxing is very intriguing to me.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:12 AM
2

Even if she wasn’t going on this trip I’d tell you to break up with her because of all the other shit you described. Sex once a month?!?!!? Fuck off. But he a man about it and break up with her in person.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:22 PM
1

I was originally gonna say to stick to your boundaries but after reading that she’s 21 and has never drank or did drugs I’m starting to reconsider. If I was dating some party girl who when to bars and clubs then I wouldn’t back down from my boundaries. I’m not gonna get cucked while she bangs some Spanish Adonis while she’s plastered in Barcelona. But the fact she doesn’t drink really lowers a lot of risk in my personal opinion. From what you’ve described she doesn’t seem like the type of person…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:38 AM
2

Dude you have anger issues if you are seriously considering punching a guy for just reaffirming he’s in front of you in line at a fucking ice cream shop. How bout you take some fucking deep breaths and stop over analyzing every situation as you being challenged as an “alpha” And the guy who’s nitpicking everything you do is just a insecure douchebag. Why pay any mind to him. Just have some witty remarks for his douchebag comments and laugh his assholeness off for fucks sake
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:32 AM
1

Dude wtf gain some god damn weight. If anything you’ll look better if you add 45-50 lbs. Jesus Christ dude
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:27 AM
1

Whatever you do don’t pay for this girl’s dinner. Why not go out for drinks instead?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:25 AM
3

I don’t recommend that lol
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:23 AM
2

Every girl you will find will have subtle manipulation attempts. Literally every single one. TRP simply teaches you how to navigate them when they inevitably happen. If she’s “perfect” in every other way and still fucking your brains out daily then why ruin a good thing? Don’t break up with her just because you’re in the anger phase and waiting for her to possibly fuck you over. Remember AWALT, while mostly true is a generalization. Not literally 100% of girls act that way. Maybe you have found …
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:23 AM
1

Work up a nice tan, and then change your shirtless mirror pic to a shot of you shirtless at the beach. Trust me. Deserved or not, shirtless mirror pics just scream douchebag to girls. And since you say you’re only a 6/10 you can’t really get away with it. I have a pretty decent body, and when I put up a beach pic showing my 6 pack the amount of matches I got skyrocketed. If you live in some podunk landlocked state then try to take a pic near an outdoor pool, or you hiking, or some other activity…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:17 AM
1

Quit porn. I used to jack off basically once a day like clockwork. I stopped watching porn about 8-9 months back and cut my fapping to at most once every 2-3 weeks and I’m getting random boners like I’m 15 again lol. It took a while for my brain to reprogram but it’s improved my sex life so much. I now get rock hard before we even move to third base. No more blowjobs/shitty handjobs to get me hard anymore. If I know I’m having a girl come over on a certain date I’ll sometimes have a tactical fap…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:05 AM
3

As long as you’re not blubbering like a bitch I’m sure it’s fine. I often shed a tear or two at certain points in sad movies. I’m sure you’ll be fine lol
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:00 AM
2

Lmaooooo
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:58 AM
1

Find a recommended program such as stronglifts or something else and stick with it. YouTube proper form of certain lifts/exercises and make sure you’re doing it right. Tbh personal trainers are just a massive waste of money. In the internet age where you can find almost anything online why would you be paying for one? It’s for older rich people.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:57 AM
6

Your sexual repression has made you anxious about sex. While I believe every man should get their T levels checked I think it’s mental for you. I experienced a brief period like this a few years ago. The way I got over it was just pushing through it until it didn’t happen. The first time my dick worked fine the anxiousness stopped and it hasn’t happened since. I know it sounds like obvious advice but just try your hardest to just put it out of your head. The way I did it was while getting to the…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:54 AM
2

Like other posters have stated the specific count doesn’t really matter to me (within reason) but the context does. I would feel a lot more comfortable LTRing a woman who’d fucked 30 guys but they were all relationships/one night stands vs a girl who’s fucked 15 but had a gangbang. Just my personal preference. I believe it just shows a lack of values and good decision making. And the fact that your plate is rubbing it in your face is even a bigger red flag. You and only you can decide if her pas…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:11 AM
25

I can’t believe society has gotten to this point. Fuck’s sake this is gonna come to a head soon.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:21 AM
2

You really have to read the room. Luckily for me out of my main friend group of 5 guys, 2 read TRP actively and the other 3 at least agree with some of the main concepts. Our group chat has a lot of talk about TRP concepts and it’s great. We’ve been through a lot together and been there for each other so there’s no question about one of us throwing another under the bus for pussy lol. I feel bad for the guys on here who don’t have a tight friend group like that.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 05:09 PM
1

I’m not gonna comment on whether I think this story is true or not but what I will say is this. Studies have shown that basically 95% of people will abuse power in some way if they are given it. In public social interactions like this, women know they have all the power in the world because of beta faggots like the front desk guy. I bet she went home and told all of her friends about how she got someone kicked out of the gym. If this story is true, just take solace in the fact that this probably…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 02:35 PM
2

Dude if the guy is saying she's cheating then it's probably true. Even the evening bowling shows she has no respect for you. Drop her ass and move on for fuck's sake
/r/askTRP09/05/18 11:37 AM
2

I will never get back with someone who cheated on me just on the principle of it. It is basically the worst act you can commit in a relationship besides murder lol. Have some damn self respect Jesus Christ. A woman who cheats on you shouldn’t deserve to even speak with you again.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:59 AM
5

A red-pilled man's strong will is what is supposed to separate them from women. Hiding your infidelity is just a bitch move.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:25 PM
2

It’s more of a pop culture thing than a red pill one. And it’s not just limited to girls. There’s a phenomenon that as fall turns into winter people either get into LTR’s or long term hookups because if you live in an area of the world that experiences 4 seasons it’s just harder to go out and meet new people during the winter. You wanna get laid in the summer? You can just go to the beach or a pool party etc. But during winter the weather keeps a lot of people inside and not doing fun stuff. So …
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:07 AM
1

You never have heard of cuffing season?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:26 AM
5

What fucking podunk place do you live where you can't find a place to go on Cinco de Mayo??
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:59 AM
13

As a guy who actually finds alt-chicks pretty attractive it sucks that they’re all either mega sluts or insane lol. Maybe one will prove me wrong but I doubt it. Short term hookups and nothing more.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:31 PM
1

Great stuff there. The sad part is that so many guys are proud that they've tied down these almost-at-the-wall girls that were riding the cock carousel for all of their 20's when it's so transparent the women are settling. The guys are thinking they're getting women out of their league but they're really just getting used, depreciating by the second goods. In my short time so far as an adult (22 y.o.) I've already seen these mini AF/BB cycles and the girls aren't even out of college yet. And the…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:29 AM
2

You don't have physical ED most likely you have mental. The sex specialist will help but try to just not focus on your cock while trying to have sex. You're just overthinking it.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:50 PM
6

That logic is all too common amongst girls. A female friend of mine is currently making this new guy she met wait for sex. Seems like a nice guy. Not in that he is being nice just to get laid but he respects her wanting to wait and seems to be fine with it. I think they've gone on 5 dates and he's gotten nothing more than some making out and heavy petting. And yet a month ago she was banging a different guy every thursday friday saturday. If he knew it would kill him inside, guarantee it. And I …
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:46 PM
5

5 inches is perfectly normal. Just try to realize women basically have no idea of size anyways and almost always overestimate. A few months into the relationship with my ex I asked her how big she thought my dick was. She said 8 inches lol (I wish). I'm generally around 6 inches, rising up another quarter inch if I'm really really aroused. Point being is 5 inches is fine. Also, getting in amazing shape will make it seem bigger because having a lot of fat around the pubic hair area covers it up a…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:38 PM
0

Diet has a lot to do with it as well I think. Even if a girl is freshly showered she won't taste good if she's eating cheeseburgers every day.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:22 PM
4

I have banged a Muslim girl who wore the veil before and she told me a lot of Muslim girls are actually sex freaks and they just put up a facade for the Islamic community. Not saying that this girl is like that though. But why not go for it?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:22 PM
4

My tinder experience hasn't seen such a drastic drop because I've been in college for the past 4 years. With 15k 18-22 year old women in a 5 mile radius there was never a shortage for me at school. But in the last 2 years whenever I've gone home I barely get any. I had so much success with tinder during college despite being a 6.5-7.5/10 during my time here but I'll probably delete it when I move home in 2 weeks. I'll miss being able to set up hookups basically every weekend without fail. Tinder…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 01:54 AM
4

Looks is a huge part of getting that initial attention though and can really overcome a deficiency in game. I'd rather look like a 10 and have a 5 game, than look like a 5 and have a game of 10.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 10:09 PM
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The only way you should be planning that far ahead is if you’re going to a concert or something and you need to buy tickets before they sell out. What are you planning 3 weeks ahead? “Hey do you wanna get drinks with me in 3 weeks?” As others have said, try to make the plans 2-3 days before and then confirm the day of.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:41 PM
1

Dude if you're smoking 3.5 a day how much money are you spending a month on weed ffs.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:35 AM
2

Dude a girl who you previously went on a date with came up to you out of the blue asking to hang out. This is a layup if you play it right
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:27 AM
3

Can work if there's no attraction. I have a female friend and I think it works because we really just have no desire to bang each other. She's also a nursing student so I've just been running through her nursing friend group for the past couple of years lol.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:22 AM
1

READ THE SIDEBAR Ok now since that's over... Dude what the fuck are you doing? LTRing anyone is a recipe for disaster, much less a fucking emotional druggie. I would bet my life on her cheating on you. She goes out and does ecstasy, which makes you horny as fuck btw. Then gets pissed when you're taking time out of your day to take care of her? Fuck her. Stop being such a god damn pushover.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:17 AM
1

I mean if he really is your friend you can be an adult and talk to him about it to stop it from happening in the first place. Or say what the top comment says to say. It's one thing for him to to tell an embarrassing story about you that you can laugh at yourself about. It's another thing to constantly put you down. Doesn't sound like a good "friend". When I'm with a group of girls with my friends I talk them up like a good wingman should.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:08 AM
7

The driving thing really does work in my experience
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 02:05 AM
1

TRP has some weird thing against having female friends. Yeah don’t be a fucking gal pal. No one likes that one guy who is only friends with girls despite being straight. But I have two close female friends that have wingmanned for me so hard these last 4 years of college it’s insane. Just treat them like another guy friend and you’re fine.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:40 AM
2

That is essentially what I did. Just explained to her why we talked about this situation and how we are both too young to have kids. I didn’t dump her immediately after but probably a month or two later. I knew the relationship was over as soon as she said she was pregnant. Because firstly I was not trying to marry this girl, and secondly if she aborted it I knew she would twist the past to make it out like I was pressuring her when I was completely supportive. I just reminded her about our conv…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 09:15 PM
4

I got my ex pregnant about a year back. Was before I discovered TRP and she was on birth control so I was raw dogging literally every time. When we started having sex without a condom we talked about this scenario and she said she would have an abortion at this stage in her life. Luckily about 3 weeks after she told me she was pregnant she ended up getting one. Was the most stressful period of my life. But never ever ever ever ever pressure her into having an abortion. That is giving her an insa…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:34 AM
3

I personally cut it out of my life because I found myself relying on it to get through the day at my job. I fucking hate the rhetoric of "oh I need 3 cups of coffee to get through the day". No you just want to still stay up until 2 am then wake up at 7 for your job. I know because I was that person a few years ago. Lamenting that I "needed" coffee yet not taking into account I was running up a sleep debt every day until the weekend when I'd sleep until noon. As I quit coffee I also fixed my slee…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 05:38 PM
1

You should have never responded to him and never have met up with him. What purpose did meeting up with him serve? What would you possibly gain from it?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 05:31 PM
1

Yeah I'm not sure what everyone else is this thread is talking about. If you escalate and end up getting your ass kicked are you gonna still think you did the "right" thing when you're eating through a straw for the next 2 months? When you go out you will inevitably encounter drunk douchebags just looking for a reason to fight. Ignore until they actually start trying to start a fight.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 05:28 PM
3

Great analogy. A thing to remember is that when we say AWALT we're talking about a overwhelming majority, not literally every single woman. There obviously will be exceptions. But like you said, if you've ingrained yourself to always wear your seatbelt (TRP), the fallout of a possible crash will be less severe.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 05:23 PM
2

Or how bout instead of just focusing on money and “mouth” we focus on making ourselves the complete package. Money, muscle, game, etc. Money should be a priority so you can live an exciting lifestyle comfortably so you can buy quality healthy food, travel, and save for the future. You shouldn’t want money just so you can impress vapid gold-digging whores at clubs.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 06:54 AM
1

If you're looking for fights constantly one day you're gonna find one and it's gonna end badly for you. That being said yeah training a combat sport is a great way to both stay fit, learn self defense skills, and meet people. I chose boxing over MMA personally (the grappling game of MMA is just boring to me and I've been a boxing fan for a decade now as well). I know MMA is definitely more practical for self defense but I just prefer the sport of boxing more. It's a great way to meet new people …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 08:46 PM
6

I’ve seen it a hundred times. When she says she’s not gonna fuck other guys she’s lying 99% of the time. It’s just a way for them to attempt to claim the moral high ground. “Well I’m such a good person unlike you because I haven’t been having sex with anyone else” when she probably got railed the last time she went out “with the girls” You have the exact right mindset. Actions over words.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:51 PM
6

Same thing happened to me this past fall. Didn’t cry at the hospital in front of my mother and sisters but a few days later I was taking a shower just thinking about life and it just kinda hit me and a cried for a bit. You probably just haven’t processed it yet
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:47 AM
2

110 lbs jesus. Dude that is way too thin. That’s about what most of my ex girlfriends weighed. So you broke your arm? Hit legs like there’s no tomorrow for the next two months until your arms heal then work those as well as the rest of your upper body. You also need to eat. A lot. When I bulk I eat 4-5 decent sized meals a day. Eat lean meat for protein and don’t overdo it on the carbs but don’t necessarily be afraid of them. Your body needs fuel.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 08:28 PM
1

Who would ever catcall that wildebeest of a "woman"?
/r/MensRights14/04/18 02:17 PM
20

As long as you don't spend more than 5 mins on the app a day then you're fine. I'm a senior in college and I swear Tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel. I still go out to parties/bars and pick up chicks there but I've genuinely fucked probably 10-12 girls this school year from tinder alone. Takes such minimal effort and I'm not some 10/10 guy either. I'm 5'10 and probably a 6.5 normally, rising to a 7 maybe 7.5 by the end of my cut in 6 weeks once I get a defined 6 pack and a bit of a tan. I…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 10:19 PM
2

I mean it's basically like any sort of timesink. Fine in moderation, bad in excess. If you spend an hour a day checking your fantasy football stats then for sure it's a waste of time. That's why I like baseball because it's a very passive viewing experience. I'll throw it on in the background while I do schoolwork (still in college) or doing stock analysis. One thing that is an underrated aspect of watching sports on this sub is the inspiration it gives. I mentioned it in another comment on this…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:20 PM
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Your logic is flawed. With the way you present your argument literally everything that isn't directly improving your life should be cut out. So that's gonna be cutting out basically every form of entertainment. Just because you had no self control and let sports dominate your life doesn't mean we have to cut it out of our lives. Watching sports is one of the biggest forms of inspiration for men. When I would watch Floyd Mayweather put on a masterclass performance it would inspire me to put in th…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:15 PM
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One of the paths to becoming a man is dealing with some girl ripping your heart out. Don't believe any guy who says it hasn't happened to them they're lying. And honestly it's a necessary experience in my opinion. Because it's a learning experience. Being angry is normal. A couple years ago I broke up with an ex who disrespected me (I still can't believe the shit I put up with when I look back on it). And for a few months after the breakup I would just get angry at random times just beating myse…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:43 PM
1

What reason does she have for staying out until 1 fucking am?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:35 PM
3

What point is this post even making? Women are irrational and hypocritical? Wow stop the presses.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:32 PM
0

Yeah I did it twice at festivals and it was pretty fun but I'd never do it again. Plus there's tons of stories about how it can permanently affect the brain chemistry of a small percentage of people. And it led to depression and in rare cases suicide. If I had known that before I wouldn't have even tried it.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:30 PM
2

The biggest way people are compatible is not through liking the same movies, musicians, sports, etc, but through having similar morals. Not to say drugs are immoral. To be honest I'm in my last year of college and I've done plenty. She's not your parent. You can do drugs if you want. But like /u/re1ser said, having differing opinions on drug use is a pretty big thing to disagree on.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:28 PM
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They're a waste of time if you make it a waste of time. Posting a pic of you doing something interesting (boxing, hiking, traveling, at a caribbean beach showing that you have a 6 pack) does build social proof. I post a pic of me doing something cool every 3-4 months and that's basically the only time I spend on Instagram.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:23 PM
1

I would never LTR a girl who I knew was a cheater. Literally irrefutable proof they’re a whore.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:43 PM
3

Throughout my TRP journey the biggest problem I had was getting over my fear of cold approaches. Now my TRP success story isn't as crazy as others. I lifted heavy for years before I discovered this place. I stayed pretty fit and while I wasn't slaying pussy at every corner I did well for myself. But when I look back at all the girls I gamed and fucked I realized they basically all started at house parties and bars/clubs. I realized I had barely ever approached a random girl that I wanted to fuck…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 03:20 AM
10

In western countries a lot of muslim girls love to experiment with guys, especially at high school and college. I banged a girl who just wore the headscarf in public once. And not gonna lie when she took it off to give me dome it was pretty fucking hot because I had never seen her hair before basically. And it was so long it went down to her ass lol.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 03:13 AM
3

I went through something similar with a past long term relationship. Society shames men for “slut shaming” but in my opinion it is pretty fucking normal to not want to be the guy who marries the village bicycle. In my current state I wouldn’t really give a fuck because I don’t plan on getting married. But back then before I discovered TRP, I was really insecure about it. And the thing is, me and my LTR had a great sex life. Sex 2 times a day minimum most days (it was college we had a lot of free…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:38 PM
1

If that shit happens I’m moving to Thailand or Ecuador lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 05:25 PM
1

I mean it's hard to judge based on your small explanation. It could be her hiding stuff (I'm of the opinion that 95% of girls flirt back to those DM's and texts from guys obviously trying to bang her because they crave validation). Or it could be her just be her not liking you insisting on trying to get to her phone. I wouldn't like it if a LTR kept trying to get into my phone either.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:04 AM
1

Chicken thighs. Much more flavorful than breasts. Only thing is you have to spend an extra 5 mins of prep cutting some of the fat off. Put the thighs on a plate and coat each side with olive oil and a bit of montreal steak seasoning (I know it's steak seasoning but it goes really well with chicken). Cook in a pan on medium-high. Tastes delicious and is very tender. Thighs are cheaper than breasts and taste better in my opinion. You can buy a week's worth for like 8 bucks. When you reheat chicken…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:57 AM
2

Glad someone else has been mentioning putting your hands on her neck when you're making out. Don't choke her like you would in bed, but just placing your hand on her neck while you're kissing her has made every girl I've been with wet since I've started doing it. Good work bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 04:47 AM
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Don’t take sides or anything but I don’t see a problem with telling them to not argue in front of you, or just leaving if it’s getting unbearable. I’ve had a few similar experiences and that shit is so annoying and awkward.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 01:27 AM
1

Any women that still contacts her ex should never be more than a plate. How can you respect yourself if you’re admitting that your gf is still obsessed with her ex from 2 years ago!?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:57 PM
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Bro why do you think you could pull a 17 year old in front of her mom... Unless her mom is a complete degenerate that’s not happening
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:48 PM
2

It’s not dead it’s just not as good as a few years ago. If you live on a college campus like I do it still can be amazing. A few weekends ago I got 70 matches and I’m pretty picky with my swipes. But yeah a lot of whores just looking for IG followers or for guys to Venmo them. 2-3 years ago was prime tinder. Unlimited swipes, no paid version, majority of girls down to fuck or at least meet up. Now I’ve noticed it’s just harder to get girls to commit to meet up than before. But in person gaming s…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:02 AM
4

Pretending you're gonna slap a girl in public? You're a bold man lol
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 06:42 AM
1

Skyn
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:16 AM
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Don't do option b please. Don't subject your children to single motherhood.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:50 AM
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Experienced this first hand this past week. I was buying my friend and his roommate a round of drinks at a club. The bartender brings over the drinks and I looked back for probably 10 seconds as my friend and his roommate offered to venmo me(I said no they had housed me for the week while I was on spring break from school). I look back and I see there are only two drinks on the counter and see some girl in a grey dress speed walking away. I catch up to her and grab her shoulder (not even hard at…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:40 AM
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Depends on how much you like your gf. If you have vetted her and like her enough to commit to her in a LTR I think it would be best to let her know her friend is a piece of shit. But you do you
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:07 PM
3

First of all before you start taking hormones get yourself tested before. To go on testosterone without even knowing your current levels is retarded. Secondly you stay at 130 is literally just you not eating enough. I know it sometimes is tough but you got to push through. During my first bulk I felt so full for literally every moment of the first 1-2 weeks. After that your body adjusts to the new intake in my experience. The people who say they “can’t” gain weight simply aren’t eating enough
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:32 AM
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Bring baby wipes in your backpack. Thin shitty hostel toilet paper won’t get all of the shit off your ass and it lets you be squeaky clean down there.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:02 PM
2

I understand how you feel but if all these messages were from before you were going out why are you mad? Maybe because you thought she was “different” than everyone else you had dated in the past. Remember AWALT. If her sending sexual messages to guys before you were even dating makes you so angry then demote or break up. I know this attention seeking behavior shatters your image of her but realistically almost every girl does this shit.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:07 PM
1

Yeah basically whatever everyone else is saying. Play something like beer pong where you guys are on a team and you can make easy physical contact. After a bit of flirting and touching say something like “I’m going outside to get some fresh air, come with?” Anything to get her away from her cockblocking friends. Then bam you’re alone with her so you’re free to escalate. “Wanna come back to my place to watch a movie” “Wanna go upstairs and get some privacy” If the girl is flirting back with you, …
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:15 PM
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This was probably the hardest thing for me to come to grips with when I first swallowed TRP. The fact that “everything you’ve been told about growing up, finding a woman you love, and starting a family was a lie” We were all told that if you were a nice guy with a nice job then you’d find the love of your life. How false that sentiment truly is. That’s why I don’t make fun of guys like this who haven’t seen the truth yet. It’s like Billy here was trying to fix a car but the manual was in mandari…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 09:10 PM
-1

The whole metaphor about spinning plates has to do with the fact that you’re spinning multiple ones at once. So if you only have one “plate” then she’s not really a plate. You don’t just spin one plate you spin multiple ones.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:50 PM
-1

The whole thing about plates is that it implies that there’s multiple of them. If you only have one plate then she’s just a girl you’re fucking.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:09 PM
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Sounds like you’re falling for her a bit. But let’s be realistic, this girl isn’t LTR material. So if you can keep fucking her and not get upset at her trying to make you jealous. But since I’m not sure that you can do that judging from your post I’m gonna recommend a soft next.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:53 AM
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If it’s only one then she’s not a plate lol.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:51 AM
2

Dump her. First of all, because someone who cheats doesn't deserve being in a LTR with you. Secondly, because if you take her back then no matter how much she says she's changed, you're always gonna have doubts in the back of your mind. Not worth it. Hard next and start fucking plates.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:22 PM
1

If you're in college and reasonably attractive it's honestly not too hard. I just exchange 2-3 back and forths then mention I'm looking for something casual. I've fucked 8-10 girls this school year off tinder alone and 3 of them have become good FWBs. But since tinder is basically based purely off attraction you need to first of all increase your physical attractiveness through things like: lifting, getting a bit tan, teeth whitening, etc. Then you need to have your profile filled with good and …
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:01 PM
2

I prefer boxing to other sports because it is one of my favorite sports to watch. I just like the technique behind it and the formality behind it compared to MMA. MMA will definitely give you more helpful knowledge in terms of a street fight though. I’m just not a big MMA fan because the grappling aspect of the sport does nothing for me.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 03:31 PM
1

If your muscles are really that sore you should be resting them. A tip I haven’t really seen mentioned on TRP much is just taking a full week off from lifting. For every 10-12 weeks lifting I take 1 full week off where I reduce my food intake and just rest up and do at most cardio from sports. After that week off I come back to the gym and then I feel so good. Trust me on this. It’s almost like a reset button. The hardest part of this for me was first of all going to the gym was part of my daily…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:15 AM
1

I’ve never heard of a college where clubs are reserved for upperclassmen. The whole point of clubs is to get new students involved... Put yourself out there man. It’s college. A time in your life where you will literally have thousands of fuckable girls within a 10 mile radius of you. Lift like your life depends on it Avoid the freshman 15 The only way to get better at talking with girls is by actually doing it. You can read all the internet tips you want but getting out there in the real world …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:11 AM
1

“how about a hug instead” Yikes. We’ve all been there before man. Think of it as a learning experience. Just one more thing, in my experience women always shit test, they’re just sometimes very subtle about it. So she probably shit tested you and you just didn’t realize it. There’s a slight chance she’s just some Christian prude who doesn’t kiss on the first date but realistically she’s probably friend zoned you. But the fact she paid for you contradicts that a bit but that’s what I’m getting fr…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:06 AM
1

Talk to your doctor. If you have actual anxiety problems then being on medication isn’t the end of the world though the first option should always to work through things naturally if possible. My father suffered from serious depression and anti-depressants probably saved his life. I never thought of him as weak for having to take them.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:59 AM
2

Can’t stress enough how having viagra as a peace of mind thing benefits. I was having similar problems as OP because of watching porn 5 times a week which led to me not getting that hard with real girls which then led into the cycle of performance anxiety. Just having those pills in my nightstand changed everything. I only ever used them once or twice because I didn’t even need them. It was all mental but it provided the peace of mind I needed to get out of my slump.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:54 AM
1

If you have tinder in a college town it's like fishing with fucking dynamite man. I've probably banged around 8 hot girls this school year by just having a brief 2-3 message exchange then asking them "what are you on tinder for?" They'll give some bs answer like "just looking to meet new people" and then ask me about myself and I'll say "just looking for something casual." Usually after that they say something like "yeah same" and then bam they're usually at my apartment that night or in the nex…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 03:25 AM
2

Surely there's a good middle ground between being a beta holding 5 hour long text convos with her and literally ignoring every text she sends. Any girl under the age of 25 is gonna think you're autistic if you behave like that. Probably 60-70% of my texts are logistics but not responding when she asks if she left something at your house seems a bit absurd. Especially when you could easily maneuver that into her coming over to "retrieve" it and banging her again.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 03:19 AM
1

Dude fuck that. I had a similar thing happen a few years ago with an ex. We were dancing at a frat party back in college and all of a sudden she breaks away from me and sends a selfie. I immediately confront her about it because that’s just suspect behavior and she sent a selfie of her to a guy she hooked up with before. I took her home from the party, fucked her, and then broke up with her the next day. That is just disrespectful behavior. At worst she is cheating on you with that guy. At best …
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:44 PM
1

A joke or two is fine. That’s how guy’s friend groups are. But if he’s constantly picking on you than either confront him about it or get better friends.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:39 PM
0

If you feel like getting accused of rape options 1 and 2 are great courses of action lol
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:12 PM
4

If she hasn’t cheated on you physically then she has over text for sure. She sent the convo to you over text and then deleted it?? Why wouldn’t she just send you screenshots of the whole thing or better yet show you in person?
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:31 PM
1

first one wouldn't be bad as a 4th pic on tinder but it's not great. Second one would be good if you shaved and the girl you had your arm around was hotter (no offense) Like other commenters have said. Get pro quality pics with a real camera of you doing dope shit.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:42 AM
1

Nah I think he could look decent with a thicker stache and goatee.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:40 AM
2

I'm gonna take a more moderate approach than most of the other commenters. You guys are both pretty young and sometimes people get this idea from pop culture that "breaks" are normal things in relationships. But they really aren't. Listen. I'm not gonna go and tell you that she is certainly gonna bang another guy. But remember AWALT. There is definitely a possibility that that is the case. I'm of the opinion that someone either wants to be with me or they don't. I don't "do" breaks in a LTR. It'…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:37 AM
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Because for the most part they are losers. For every rich alpha sugar daddy like OP who just wants to bypass bullshit dating rituals there are 10 super betas who are just rich and terrible with women so they resort to being a sugar daddy. I have very attractive 2 female friends who sugar daddied their way through college and they said 95% of the guys are awkward losers. Just anecdotal evidence but still.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 05:12 AM
1

as someone who suffers from patchy facial hair I've considered using minox on my face but I've heard that it ages your face a lot and isn't good for your skin.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:43 PM
3

Yeah 2-3 years ago it was amazing. Now it's 40% bots 30% landwhales and 20% girls with their venmos in their bios looking for money.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:37 PM
3

I will never LTR a girl who cheated on a past bf with me. It's literally incontrovertible proof she's a whore and will fuck over someone she supposedly loves. Guys settle down with a girl like that because they either get oneitis or they get a rush out of being the guy to "tame" her or both. You've also admitted she has a litany of problems. Would you be comfortable marrying this woman and having her unstable self be the mother of your children? What is the point of a LTR if you know she's full …
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:25 PM
5

I know it sucks now, but I'm of the opinion that getting burned by a woman like that is essential to truly understanding TRP. I was cheated on too, and it was probably the lowest point of my adult life. But looking back I'm thankful it happened because a) she revealed to me her true nature. This was a girl I was thinking of proposing to (bullet dodged) and b) it led to me discovering TRP and completely changing myself for the better in all aspects.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 04:46 AM
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Any remotely tech savvy kid knows that you can delete single entries when it comes to internet history. Or he could just open up an incognito mode browser. So if you’re trying to catch your kid doing something wrong on the internet you’re gonna fail 99% of the time. I mean the kid is 15. Why are you going through his internet and phone? Teach him to be a man through leading by example. Do fun guy stuff with him. You might think you’re helping him by making him fear you randomly checking his devi…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 06:31 PM
4

His wife posted a pic on Instagram with just the hand of their daughter visible and the daughter is most certainly lighter than her. https://www.instagram.com/p/BRr3vQigT0d/?utm_source=ig_embed So I'm not sure how much truth there is to what that guy is saying
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 06:07 PM
11

anime personality Wtf is an anime personality
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 06:00 PM
1

I'm gonna give this a few more read-throughs to get a more comprehensive understanding but this is great fucking content. You're a great writer and your section about "The Deal" breaks things down so simply yet so effectively. If that is your original content then bravo.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 05:49 PM
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Because he was with her at the time (even though you didn't know when you sent the message) he may have felt that you were trying to cockblock him. I can understand his anger in the moment but it's stupid that he hasn't talked to you in days because of this.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:22 AM
1

The tough truth is that some girls will just not fuck on the first date no matter how good your game is or how high your SMV is. They can be giving off all the signs but just not do it because they "never fuck on the first date." Not much you can do when presented with that mindset.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:21 AM
1

Yeah in that case we're a little different. My main goal from tinder is to be able to fuck with the least amount of time and effort spent. My goal is to message the girl, have her come over to watch "netflix" and be banging within 30 mins of her getting to my house. If you're looking for girls to go out with you to bars and stuff, you can close on a lot of girls because physical escalation always beats escalation over messaging. The hard part for you is just making sure they're down to fuck for …
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:13 AM
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As someone with decent experience with f-closes on tinder it's all about doing what you said: making it clear that sex is on the agenda without being too up front about it. Messaging on tinder really isn't any different than messaging over text. You still have to use basically the same game and the same tactics. I saw this in a post about tinder on TRP about 2 weeks ago and it's been my go to opener for every girl I've matched with since. You just ask "So what's the weirdest message you've gotte…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:02 AM
1

Very true. And we're only hearing it from the POV of OP so of course it's going to be skewed to make him look better even subconsciously.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 11:41 PM
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Don't give her the satisfaction of texting her to try to get her explain because from the sound of it you're just gonna get emotional and say some stupid shit. You're a guaranteed free meal to her. Ghost her.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:39 PM
1

You're right I missed that. Still a dick move either way but I agree if a guy doesn't ask for help then you shouldn't extend any.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 11:27 PM
3

Your gf shouldn't be upset internally when her ex is getting married much less be venting to you. Fuck that disrespectful shit. This seems like she's showing her true nature/feelings just now. For me personally if there's any sign I'm not the most important man in a LTR's life then I'm pulling the chute immediately. Life's too short to deal with that shit.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:26 PM
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Even if you're a fucking beta you don't betray people's trust like that. Fuck people who take screenshots of convos and send it to other people trying to score some brownie points.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 11:22 PM
2

He said that the guy was lamenting the fact that he was a kissless virgin. Most closeted gay guys would make up stories about fucking girls to seem less gay. He heard the guy complaining so he tried to help him. Got thrown under the bus for it though so I guess it's a cautionary tale.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 11:20 PM
2

After being taken down for 10 days with a chest infection last week I woke up from a nap yesterday with a 103 degree fever and it looks like I have the flu. My lungs still haven't even fully recovered from the chest infection and I have asthma so I'm a bit worried. I just feel so useless lounging around the house feeling like shit for what will probably be another week to 10 days. My family is also out of the country for the next week so I'm a bit nervous about being home alone. The only positiv…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:24 PM
4

No she got the hint but she said that to downplay the situation and to remind OP where he stands.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:35 PM
2

I think that's jumping to conclusions a bit. Maybe his friend had a genuine reason he couldn't come. Work, vacation, etc. He invited OP out to a dinner on him so I think he sounds like a bro.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:27 PM
1

The main part you're leaving out is the response to your first invite. Did any of them say "yes ill definitely make it" and then just not come? Did everyone see the message? (meaning was it over a format like fb that some people rarely check?) Did you send follow up reminders? (If someone invites me to an event 3 weeks prior but doesn't remind me in any way I'm probably gonna forget) Did they at least wish you happy birthday? (phone calls, texts, etc.) It sounds like it was shitty for you but I …
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:25 PM
3

First of all get your resume in order, and make sure your emergency fund has 6 months of living expenses if you can. You are in a precarious situation. It looks like she's looking to branch swing and obviously you don't want a cheating slut as a gf so you have to have a deft hand here. A few things: You have to assume your coworker is going to find out. And when he finds out the rest of the office will probably know as well. She seems crazy so breaking things off with her abruptly might set her …
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:17 PM
7

Exactly. As long as you don't say it too much or say it fawningly it's fine. To go through life never calling a woman pretty because you don't want to seem "beta" is pretty ridiculous. Being a real, valuable man, is about having the capacity to feel all the needs of a women and doing the right thing at the right time. This is such good advice. So much of success with women in general depends on the timing of your words and actions. When to escalate, when to put them down, when to build them up, …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:18 AM
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There's only so hard you can push someone who doesn't want to change. For whatever reason this guy is still enamored with her so I bet the harder you try to convince him to dump her the more he will push against it. It's a tough situation because if she finds out you don't like her then say goodbye to your friendship. She will make sure you guys never spend any meaningful time together as long as she's with him. The only way to successfully get him to open his fucking eyes is maybe have an inter…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 04:42 AM
1

Except it's been proven that it's not necessarily concussions that lead to CTE but the repeated "microclashes." https://www.cbsnews.com/news/head-impact-concussion-leads-to-cte-study-finds/ That's why linemen are especially vulnerable because they make contact on basically every down. It's the same thing with boxing. It's not the huge punches and knockouts in actual fights that get most people. It's the hours and hours spent sparring and taking repeated shots to the head.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 06:10 AM
1

Except your comment contributed nothing to this subreddit besides being a cautionary tale for how not to act with a woman. You take no responsibility for how things went. And your post reeks of desperation. Now that being said we all have to start somewhere. We’ve all done beta shit in the past but the key is realizing it and wanting to move past it. Your conclusion of “you can never trust anybody these days” is absurd given the background information you gave us. You broke frame and acted despe…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 04:56 AM
3

For real man. We all need to start somewhere but christ. That whole comment is a fucking trainwreck. And he takes no responsibility for his desperate behavior.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 03:40 AM
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Not to rain on your parade but it's possible that she got her friend to call fake call her so she could get out of the date. But whatever maybe her friend's car did really break down. She then tried to blocked you on everything but forgot Instagram. Not getting the hint you then message her (revealing that you went through all the other channels to reach her that didn't work) and end the convo swearing at her. I would say you broke your frame but from your comment it never was established in the…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 03:38 AM
4

You got irrefutable proof she's a slut on your first date and now you want to go on another one?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 04:10 PM
3

I think this is a great cautionary tale. This guy fucked up a lot in this whole story but no one can become fully red pill overnight.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 04:01 PM
1

Feel for your friend man. Obviously he needs to divorce that cunt but how old is the kid? If he’s over like 10 I can only imagine how hard it would be to raise a kid for a decade then find out it’s not his. I’m genuinely curious what others on this sub would do in that situation.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 03:01 PM
3

If you feel the need to cut video games out completely if you enjoy them then your problem is with discipline. There is nothing inherently wrong with video games. It's the fact that on a saturday instead of playing for an hour or two and then doing something productive with the other 12 hours awake of the day, people will just play all day. And that sedentary lifestyle leads to poor choices when it comes to other things as well such as diet. I play fortnite squads for about an hour to 90 minutes…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 05:58 PM
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I mean it’s all about being disciplined in what you consume. Ok if you watch dumb vloggers like jake paul for hours a day then yes change your ways. But like it or not when used correctly YouTube is probably the greatest teaching tool of all time and it has made me a much more well rounded person. Fitness tips, boxing techniques, cooking, car repairs/other handiwork, hell even game and sex advice. All of these have helped me become a better person.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 07:04 PM
5

This should only reinforce your decision to not speak to her ever again. Screenshot it for proof if you like. But most importantly, take a knee man. You won. She's just a bitter cunt. Don't waste brain power on her.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:23 AM
3

Good: Continued my 3 week streak of eating very healthily. Used tinder to pick up 2 new fuck buddies for my last semester at college. Finished 8 full rounds of boxing on the heavy bag with 30 second rests between rounds going full speed. Bad: Got a bad chest infection which is gonna keep me from working out for a solid week at least.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 12:13 AM
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I've seen men called racist for not wanting to fuck black women. I've also seen men called racist for saying they prefer black or latina or asian women because they're seen as "fetishizing" a race. Can't win these days.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 05:56 AM
7

Down from the heaviest I’ve ever been at 207 to 192 when I woke up today. So I’ve lost 15 pounds over the course of about 3 weeks. Granted most of that is probably water weight but still. I wasn’t fat or anything but I had an internship in the fall that paid for lunch everyday and I slacked off really hard with my diet. Just ate junk food for lunch everyday which led to me going from the 180-185 range to ballooning up to 207. Then my poor eating habits just led to other poor choices like not wor…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:05 PM
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I mean I think it depends on the girl. One night stand? Then it’s completely fine. But if it’s a girl that your friend hooked up with multiple times I personally would ask. I prioritize preserving a friendship over a lay. That being said when a girl has made her rounds around your friend group that shit is funny. A few girls I know are like that and honestly being able to joke around how we all have banged 3 of these girls is hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:54 AM
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To be honest the over the top field reports are starting to wear thin. Some of these stories are such obvious fan fiction but still get tons of upvotes and comments. The problem is there isn’t really a good way of dealing with this. What are we gonna have mods looking at the FR’s and determine their authenticity? And I agree about the misogyny as well. 80-90% of the people on this subreddit are great but there are some despicable posters here and they get upvoted a lot too. I still come to TRP o…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:22 AM
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This is terrible advice... Push them around? Are you seriously gonna advise putting your hands on another guy because he insulted you. That's a quick way to start a bar fight and either get your ass beat or get arrested.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 06:01 PM
4

Finally had a "perfect week" in terms of getting in shape. Lifted 3 times. Cardio everyday. Didn't spend any money on going out for food. Only sin was a few drinks last night at the local bar with some friends but I still stayed under my daily calorie limit. Been 3 months since I've had soda or coffee as well. Goal for this summer is to reveal the 8 pack that I used to have 2 years ago but lost due to bad diet.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 03:59 AM
2

Getting into a bar fight is one of the stupidest things you could ever do. The reward is so minuscule compared to the risk. For instance something similar happened to me last night. To give some backstory about a year ago I deleted a ton of people off snapchat that I never interacted with. One of them was this annoying flamboyantly gay kid who we'll call Derek. The only reason I even associated with him to begin with was the fact that his adopted father helped out my dad when he was in a rough p…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 03:48 AM
1

Even if this somehow isn’t LARPing there’s a difference between standing up for yourself and acting retarded. 9 times out of 10 your actions in this scenario would have resulted in you getting clocked in the face and for what? Your whore gf who has no respect for you? Not worth it whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 06:36 AM
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