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#JustLVMThingsHappyNovel/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:48 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHappyNovel/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:13 PM
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DISCUSSIONHappyNovel/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:32 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEHappyNovel/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:50 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEHappyNovel/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:10 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSHappyNovel/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:11 PM
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Contentedness and confidence aren’t quantifiable and can’t be used as parameters for a rating system. But, as you said, this is your own subjective understanding of a “rating” system. It’s not real. It’s opinion. You’re ready and good enough, when you’re ready and good enough. Same every other person. They’re good enough and ready when they FEEL like they’re good enough and ready, based on their own subjective rating systems. I can rate your emotions and pain on a 1-10 scale, if I define paramet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:06 PM
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It was pretty disgusting. I feel like OP wrote this as a form of projection, possibly from a place to feel superior. She doesn’t feel good enough, so she wants to remind everyone else that they’re not good enough for basic human decency from men. We shouldn’t have to break and bend ourselves into being glorious, impossibly gorgeous creatures just to have a chance at finding a decent man. That’s fucked up. That’s misogynistic af. We’re fine. Men need to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:47 PM
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It was literally a posturing post that reeked of internalized misogyny and was very self serving to the OP’s ego and their own sense of superiority. I can only understand it as projection. I was actually appalled to read something like that, something so “red-pill”, in a sub that actually celebrates women philosophers and sociologists with something that was sooo opposite of the works that those women wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:42 PM
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I very much appreciate Andrea Dworkin. I come from a solid philosophical academic background and am so happy to see other women delving into more radical feminism. At the same time, however, I am surprised at the posts in a subreddit where so many are familiar with her works, still create posts that focus on what we should rate ourselves according to arbitrary guidelines to determine whether or not our value is “deserving” of good and ethical treatment from male partners. I don’t quite understan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:32 PM
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How do you rate on a 1-10 scale? What are your parameters? I know that is obviously subjected to you and what you want to accomplish but I’d really like others to explain their ratings systems to me. Like, what is a 9/10 HVW?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:25 PM
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Oh well. This post didn’t resonate with me. I don’t think it resonated with quite a few people. But it appears it was helpful to some others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:55 PM
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“Lemme remind all of you that you’re probably not good enough to have a HVM. Always work on yourself, never think you’re good enough! Push and push and push so that maybe some rare unicorn man might want you!” Jesus Christ. Women already have a hard enough time with society shitting all over them and their own internalized self-hatred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:48 PM
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It’s quite gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:42 PM
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I second this. This is reads like some tough love shit that isn’t actually applicable. I’d like “leagues” to be defined. Define where men and women would fit into those supposed leagues and what the parameters are. Income? Women make less. Looks? Women are generally more attractive while simultaneously rating themselves lower. And attractive is highly subjective anyway. Race? Class? Childhood? Health? Religion? Hobbies? Life experience? What are the leagues?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:42 PM
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I wear smelly workout clothes or clean lounge clothes depending on how I late finish my workout or if we’re planning on going for a hike when he gets home. Dude doesn’t give af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:53 PM
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Personally, being proposed to at Ida Gearon and Bruce Campbell’s lavender farm in Oregon would be ideal for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:28 PM
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Fair enough. But we don’t know their ages and that can be a factor. Suppose they are high school or undergrad sweethearts. If they started dating between the ages of 16-19 then I think that’s a fine amount of time to wait. I’m 30 and gave my s/o a deadline of two and a half years. It really does depend on age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:22 PM
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I happen to like all of those things and wouldn’t mind being proposed to at a state park or a lavender farm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:52 PM
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They really like role-playing, don’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:07 PM
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Michelle McDaniel has some Big Ed videos that are chef’s kiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:02 PM
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Only ten dollars per session? You’d make more on a corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:28 PM
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My ex boyfriend sent me 30,000 dollars. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:59 PM
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Gash, axe wound, stink ditch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:26 AM
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I don’t think I’ve given the impression that I don’t understand or haven’t analyzed why most women feel the “need” to wear makeup. My whole issue with most of the comments in this thread are women tearing down others and saying that things they enjoy aren’t “real” hobbies or art. I’m mad at the “I’m more a feminist than you” type comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:03 PM
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She’s a gem. I had a playlist of her videos going today as I’ve been stuck in bed, literally as I read your post. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:56 PM
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Are you a fan of Michelle McDaniel? 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:24 PM
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Okay, then what about other things like skincare, clothing, jewelry, and hair? Wouldn’t it be fair to no longer do those things as well? What is the acceptable aesthetic here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:18 PM
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Well no shit but that how would that be accomplished?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:05 PM
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Ah, okay. So “male” is the default. The actual model we should follow for real liberation. Uh huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:57 PM
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Real freedom is doing nothing that could possibly be construed as feminine? Okay, then have at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:34 PM
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I like corsets. I like historic clothing. I collect antique and historical clothing. I’m a radical feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:32 PM
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There are genuinely people who do love it though. I will put makeup on when I’m by myself and have nowhere to go because I find it soothing. I’m an artist and I like painting my face. But really, what aesthetic would be the most feminist? Obviously we can’t dress for ourselves, we can’t do our hair for ourselves, we can’t use skin care for ourselves, we can’t get surgery for ourselves, we can’t get tattoos or piercings for ourselves. What can we actually do for our physical selves and aesthetic …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:26 PM
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So many women here saying we can’t win with men. Shit — Can’t even win with a lot of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:19 PM
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One of your comments was calling other women here libfem/pickmes because they were defending makeup use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:16 PM
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Do men always feel secure with their natural faces? Like, dudes can grow facial hair. In this sub you’ll see women make fun of men with beards because essentially a push up bra for their chins. Look, you’re not a better person or more of a feminist than any other woman here just because you don’t wear make up. How exactly would you like women to appear in order to never be part of the patriarchy? What aesthetic, in your opinion, is the most feminist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:03 PM
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What would you prefer that women do to never be perceived as doing something for penis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:59 PM
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How exactly should we appear and represent ourselves so as not to possibly ever be pandering to the male gaze? I’m honestly curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:59 PM
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Men can and do grow facial hair. I know lots of guys who are insecure about their faces without beards. Shit, men will fill in the facial hair with eyebrow pencils. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:34 PM
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By empowered they mean “confident”. Some people feel insecure without it. Ideally, we could all have perfect self esteems but I mean - That’s fucking impossible. Also, maybe “empowered” because they’re proud to be good at something. It’s empowering to feel talented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:22 PM
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There really is some “more feminist than thou” bullshit going on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:10 PM
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I’m appalled as well. I feel like they were trying to do a “hot take” because makeup is considered performative. So is like 50 billion other things. Fuck, is trimming and filing your nails performative? Or is it not because long nails are technically more feminine? Is cleaning performative? Cleaning agents are expensive and is associated with femininity so should I no longer clean? Should I shave my head? Should none of us dye our hair? Should we throw out all of our feminine clothes? Should we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:59 PM
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There’s something to be said for simple gestures that improve your overall physical comfort. If I’m on the couch with my s/o and put my legs on his lap then he will slide a pillow behind my back to give me more support and so the arm doesn’t dig in. If I appear cold, he will put a blanket on me. If I don’t feel well, he’ll go upstairs and get medicine for me. If I’ve started my period and am in too much pain to drive anywhere, he will go buy me tampons. He will grab my heating pad and hook it up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:47 PM
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Okay, so it’s not a hobby or an art. I like wearing makeup. I suppose I do it for men. Now what? Everyone is going on and on about skincare but skincare is an incredibly similar industry and most of the products are snake oil anyway but are we going to be pretend that the women using layers and layers of serums and creams to look good are only trying to look good for themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:30 PM
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I always assume women who are wearing make up at the gym didn’t specially apply it for the gym but are coming in after work or something and didn’t take the time to remove it. That’s the only time I’ve ever had makeup on in the gym. I don’t know a single woman who puts it on for the gym - Especially because typically everyone showers after the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:01 PM
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If women hate each other so much, then how the hell can scrotes claim that thruples, polyamory, and polygamy are natural? If women hate each other so much then how’re these types of arrangements successful? You can’t reason with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:06 PM
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Being spoiled is wonderful, isn’t it? My s/o saw I was getting pretty anxious and bored from being stuck in the house all of the time (pandemic blues) and so he spent the weekend with me building a garden and paid for all of the plants, soil, and equipment to do so. I already had my card out to pay for it and he shoved his card into the terminal before I could. Being with him has taken a lot of getting used to. My ex would send me Venmo requests for 3 dollars spent at Aldi. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:09 PM
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Most men who are leftist are disingenuous and don’t want to give up the benefits they receive from women’s unpaid labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:45 PM
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Leftist men are just as likely to be low value as liberal men. Reminds me of when Shulamith Firestone was elected to speak at a conference of leftist/Marxist men and the crowd started throwing things and chanting, “take her off and fuck her”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:44 PM
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I honestly just love the kitchen and fridge. He’s nice enough as well. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:25 PM
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Yeah, I got a thing for young John Saxon. I feel you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:26 PM
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My mom was a single mother. Think I might do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:39 PM
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Her voice gives me life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:03 PM
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I came here to mention Alexis Sharkey. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:28 PM
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Phone: 14 IG: 19 FB: 38
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:32 PM
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Nothing. I just think they’re really overpriced for something that has no determined resale value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:21 AM
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Hope he stays there and rots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:08 PM
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Ugh. I hate when people say that. So. Much. Yeah, there’s lots of diamonds but most of them are only suitable for industrial tools. Although - That did remind me a horrible trend a few years ago where people were buying and selling highly included diamonds as “salt and pepper” diamonds. You know, cuz they’re friggin’ cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:51 PM
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The state of healthcare The state of education Taking on a disproportionately large amount of unpaid labor compared to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:38 PM
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That is a depressed person. People who want to be alive for as long as possible do not live recklessly. That lady is having an episode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:59 PM
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I worked in jewelry for years, am GIA certified, and have incredibly sensitive skin. My s/o knows not to fuck around. My birthday was on Tuesday and he gave me a gorgeous, sterling silver magnifying glass necklace from the 1930’s. He said it took him months to find because he didn’t want anything plated or made of pewter because of my sensitive skin. He also was obsessively checking WitchyVintage for one (because he cared to remember that she was one of my favorite dealers.) He ended up buying f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:41 PM
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Ahhh! That smoke detector in the background though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:45 PM
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No matter how heavy it is I’m sure you’re strong enough to keep your head up. 💪🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:11 PM
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I love it! You deserve to feel like a queen. Where did you get it?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:07 PM
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My S/O and I went to the mall today for the first time since the pandemic (we’re both vaccinated) because I had some things from an online order that I wanted to return. Men were straight up the creepiest I’ve ever seen them. Especially the ones who wear their masks below their noses or under their chin. They’re literally out in groups and shouting at women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:04 PM
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“Is there anyone who would be hurt if they found out you’re on a date with me?” This question is fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:58 PM
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That woman who said she’d vomit if she lost a stone - That’s why fine jewelry places offer warranties, protection plans, and insurance. That’s why you can claim fine jewelry on your renters/home owners insurance. Like calm the fuck down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:59 PM
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I’m in my late twenties - Even 18 year olds look like 13 year olds to me. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:30 PM
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Scrotes gonna scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:40 PM
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Word. The comments are just a bunch of men lamenting about how awful women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:35 PM
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I want to be mad but she’s like 13? She can hopefully grow out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:03 PM
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I’m really proud of his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:28 PM
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Safety money to get out of bad dates/situations with men is necessary. But I’m getting real friggin’ sick of how expensive it is to be a women. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:27 PM
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Kind of. I just ignored it and/or was blatantly honest and open about what he did to everyone I spoke with. After awhile though, I just stopped giving a shit because all of the people he had lied to weren’t people I wanted to be friends with anyway. I could just move/move on and make new friends and connections. I realized that the people who wanted to believe him over me were likely just as fucked in the head as he is. Focus on yourself and making your own life better. Focus on leveling up. You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:29 PM
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The movies were such trash and such an insult to all the characters in Sex and the City. Just the absolute worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:30 PM
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Friendship goals. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:29 PM
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Yeah, that was pretty telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:34 PM
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I love her. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:05 PM
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Def the only BDSM that’s empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:30 PM
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The original is worse. Not only does she give up her voice, but every time she takes a step it feels like she’s walking on daggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:02 PM
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She’s not advising anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:47 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:49 AM
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It means he can’t practice, which is why his career is just being on TV and interviewing weird people and flinging out generic advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:18 PM
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Yes. He’s just a TV star. He does have a degree in psychology but that means fuck all if you’re not licensed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:04 PM
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Because he’s not a licensed therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:59 PM
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Oh. Oh no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:57 PM
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“Why can’t someone love me for me?!” starts relationship out on a lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:13 PM
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Greedy, entitled 🤬🤬🤬.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:07 PM
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I had to peep his shit too after your comment. 500 dollars is 83% of my monthly rent. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:42 PM
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Mmm, oh yes. The bare minimum! Yes! Give it to me! Did you wipe your ass too?! OMG! I’m gonna, I’m gonna — Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:56 PM
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We both know he only has one suit. And it’s a sad, JC Penny, ill-fitting suit he got for a funeral years ago. And he wears it over and over again to job interviews and weddings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:43 PM
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99% of men don’t dress like that. Also, he doesn’t know shit about suits if he thinks a decent one costs that much. Told on himself. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:36 PM
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I buy homeless strangers food and this guy can’t even get her a slice of pizza. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:27 PM
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Search “frugal as f” in the Reddit search bar. It’s on a dating advice sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:25 PM
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My boyfriend is a horror writer. I handed him my phone to read this article and all he said to me was, “I should quit. I couldn’t even make that shit up.” 😂😂💀⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:06 PM
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I’ve been laughing at this like a maniac all morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:39 PM
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Yeah, typically removing an engraving involves adding more gold to the piece because buffing it out with take away gold and make the piece very weak. For a simple gold band it could cost anywhere from 65-125 dollars to remove an engraving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:16 PM
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I wish I knew! I can’t count the number of cheap or greasy assholes that I had to talk out of buying hideous, cheap shit for the women in their lives. Or the men who would want to buy two or three of the same thing to give to their wives and girlfriends so they didn’t get confused about who they gave what. 🤢🤢🤢 Edit: Also, your new necklace sounds like it’ll be lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:57 PM
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💀 ⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:22 PM
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That’s awful! Real pearls can peel too though. They’re incredibly soft and you should not wear them all the time or get them wet. I worked in jewelry for years. I’ve seen it happen way too many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:26 PM
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Thank you for maintaining a safe space for us! The mods here are incredible. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:17 PM
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I really believe that these are working as bait for the inevitable daddy/daughter OF they’ll create. Why abuse her for free when you can get paid to? She’s a popular TikTok user now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:35 PM
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I watched all of her TikToks. Yikes. Very big yikes. I know this is a gross and horrifying thought but the tone of them feels like it’s building up to an OF that caters to the daddy/daughter fetish. I fucking hope not though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:32 PM
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That would make more sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:49 AM
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DBT modules. Feel better, sister. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:59 PM
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CLR is great for drains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:57 PM
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Wait. What? Why? I just felt the world shake - I think the feminists that came before us are turning in their graves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:09 PM
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Video game references? From scrotes? Groundbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:10 PM
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When I was a young bangmaid to an academic, my biggest fear was being replaced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:06 PM
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Meh, humanity isn’t worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:52 PM
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Disparate for sure, lol. I’ll likely post an update soon. It’s been a wild few days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:47 PM
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You would def enjoy my whole life story then. Honestly, the most bizarre shit happens to me. I deleted the post but just recently my abusive ex sent me a cashiers check for 30,000 dollars. I’m probably going back into standup after the pandemic ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:39 PM
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Sad story time - When I was 20 I had moved across the country with an ex so he could take a position teaching at a university. He was eleven years older than me. For four years he told me that he wanted to marry me. I had a job at jewelry store and one day I was doing markdowns and found the perfect ring! I called him because it was a great deal (especially after adding my discount). He told me to go ahead and open a store credit card under my name to purchase it. He said he would pay me back. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:11 PM
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I haven’t yet. I’m still building the foundation - But that’s because I needed help to get out of the hole. Like a trampoline in a ditch so I could bounce back. My foundation is going to be experience and education. My frame work will be my investments. My walls will be built on perseverance. My windows will be stained glass and my door will never be open. I’ll buzz you in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:55 PM
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I’ve been a “dream girl”, a “soulmate”, and the “one who got away” too many damn times. Fuck your flowery words. Let’s see some action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:57 PM
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Some therapist out there is going to pay off their student loans with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:53 PM
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I just checked and saw a couple that told her to communicate and that she doesn’t have to throw the relationship away over this. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:47 PM
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I’m so happy for you! And so proud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:42 PM
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I’d like to add that dudes in med school are assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:29 AM
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Put his career first because “he’ll make more money than her”? What the actual fuck did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:28 AM
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I am also fasting apparently. Didn’t know until I saw this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:44 PM
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My last male roommate refused to flush the toilet after using it as an attempt to save water I guess? Hated being in the shower and smelling whatever was brewing in the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:23 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:00 PM
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Add “love languages”. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:00 PM
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It was literally written by THREE men. It took THREE of their shit brains to write ONE shit screenplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:57 PM
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Who needs Ringling Bros with posts like these?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:53 PM
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Yeah, my ex is a legit psychopath. Certifiable. I cannot stress how much I am not exaggerating. It was like a mantra for him to say “you’re too sensitive”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:44 PM
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I guarantee that’s the real problem, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:26 PM
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The hoar-er
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:13 PM
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I’ve been there too. ❤️ There’s nothing liberating about it. It’s a lie sold to us by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:59 PM
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It’s going to be a sad backyard wedding, isn’t it? I can smell the Tyson chicken nuggets from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:56 PM
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Ahhhhh, get the fuck away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:54 PM
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🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:51 PM
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If he ever, EVER says that you’re too sensitive then you need to get the fuck outta there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah, the guy I’m seeing went to art school and has some stick and pokes. So far he’s been an ocean of green flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:44 PM
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Doctors are such fucking assholes. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:41 PM
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I’m glad this is top comment cuz like, why couldn’t you just use any other type of disposable glove?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:24 PM
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But... Why couldn’t you use any type of disposable glove?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:22 PM
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It’s always photography. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:05 PM
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Anyone who eats well-done steak is a fucking monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:45 PM
53

Eminem is the biggest red flag. He was my ex’s favorite musician.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:09 PM
1

This is so beautiful. Yay for you both!! Yay for all of us! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:46 PM
21

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:01 PM
231

Cremation it is, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:01 PM
30

What’s the author’s name? I just wanna talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:55 PM
41

Yeah, plastic surgery creeps me the fuck out. I don’t want foreign objects surgically placed inside my body. Like I’m good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:41 PM
113

He’s an EDM musician. He probably doesn’t brush his teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:37 PM
128

That I would be a “perfect 10” if I got breast implants. I never got them and never will. Also, that I was funny and most women weren’t. Happened a lot when I was doing stand up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:02 PM
58

Well, that’s fucking repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:51 PM
1

Oooh, that’s sneaky. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:39 PM
19

What the actual fuck? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:37 PM
3

I’m sorry about what happened to you too, sweetheart. I’m glad you’re here. ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:22 PM
1

The money already left his account. That’s what a cashiers check is. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Edit: He already gave the money to the bank to guarantee the check. He does not have that 30k anymore. It’s essentially like him sending 30 grand in cash. He already took the money out of his account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:19 PM
4

I will never forgive that movie adaptation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:34 PM
4

Oh, his crimes are not secret. Everyone knows. And I mean everyone - I did stand up for awhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:07 PM
3

Wise investments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:04 PM
9

Thank you. I don’t want to get hurt either. My mom has text receipts from him and he and I have been no contact for over a year and live in different states. How do you think he could claim he was set up? He had to go to the bank and get the cashiers check himself and has no evidence of us interacting at all. The priority mail envelope he sent has his current address on it and he paid for the postage. EDIT: it’s also a cashiers check so he’ll have no idea if I cash it or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:42 PM
6

For what though? What could he take me to court for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:32 PM
11

Thank you. All of your comments have been really helpful. They’re calming me down a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:17 PM
4

He can’t tell if I cash the check or not. It’s a cashiers check. The money is already gone from his account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:15 PM
12

Thank you. I’m okay now and am receiving treatment. And yeah, I def can’t do this myself, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:07 PM
14

She didn’t change it - She got a new iPhone and he was no longer blocked. But as someone already pointed out on a different sub - He could always hire a private investigator to find me no matter what. Which is so fucking terrifying and I hate this planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:56 PM
12

I kinda do though. He put me into debt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:49 PM
32

I understand what you’re saying and he will never have my forgiveness. I do, however, really want this money. It would drastically improve my life. Being with him put me into a fucking hole — I was legit considering filing for bankruptcy earlier this year. I could finally settle all of my debts and invest the rest. I don’t think I’d feel powerful if I turned it down. I think I’d feel like an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:48 PM
16

I did, thank you. Momma is marked safe! And changing her phone number, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:41 PM
50

This guy legit left me at the clinic during my abortion to go grab drinks with his friend, made me homeless twice, beat me, and raped me. This letter is honestly the most disgusting thing I’ve ever read. And I’m cackling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:33 PM
6

Lol, no way I was ever going to contact him. My mom read me the letter over the phone and I cackled. I did want to post his incredibly manipulative letter here though because ... Just holy fuck. Thank you for this awesome comment. I’m so grateful to have this community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:26 PM
18

Omg, I love you. Thank you for this response. I’ve been losing my mind waiting for my mom to finish up and get a hold of her attorney. Even posted on legal advice subreddit. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:23 PM
4

It’s authentic. I’m familiar with the Craigslist check scam. Called the bank that issued it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:19 PM
3

Thank you so much for this info!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:18 PM
9

I confirmed its authenticity with Navy Fed, the institution that issued it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:17 PM
4

It’s from navy fed and we’re calling to confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:35 PM
89

I just want to throw the whole planet away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:44 PM
19

Damn, that’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:25 PM
15

Yeah, I thought so too. That line was so confusing. My mother and I are going to seek legal advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:17 PM
43

I’m literally shaking. Honestly, I could really use that money - It would be life changing and a huge part of me feels I am owed it for what he’s done to me. I fucking loathe him. I don’t forgive him at all. I will never speak to him ever again. I feel like this is incredibly manipulative and scary. My mother is going to call me after she gets done at her store and is going to contact one of her lawyers about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:13 PM
87

I went to couples therapy with my ex. The therapist and I had a private session and told me to leave him. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:10 PM
52

And this is why I had to post this here, lol. I love y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:59 PM
58

Thanks! Current plan is to sign it over to my mother and have her put it into an account for me to avoid him finding out where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:50 PM
57

Thanks. He was only able to contact her because she got a new phone and he was no longer blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:45 PM
7

Oh fuck yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:05 AM
3

I love your username and it is one of my favorite movies. ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:07 AM
109

You shouldn’t sent nudes. There are revenge porn laws for a reason. If a guy doesn’t understand why you don’t want to send nudes then he’s gross. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:24 PM
331

“Bimbofication” is one of the scariest rabbit holes I’ve gone down. It doesn’t even try to hide that it is reducing women down to sexual objects. This kink fucks with me more than furries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:37 PM
166

Yeah, honestly, kinda disappointed in her in brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:09 PM
14

Oh, I remember. I was goth though and was more into metal and some nu metal. Now there seems to be a resurgence of the same type of pop-punk that was popular in the early 00’s. In fact, people posting the band The Tramp Stamps here has caused me to go down a rabbit hole where I’m comparing the negative reactions they’re getting to the same reactions that the nu metal band Kittie received in the early 00’s. I’ve spent the morning reading and watching reactions to them and comparing them to Kittie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:13 PM
155

It’s weird because they’re so quick to say “not all men!” but when you literally have a man that isn’t like them they can’t actually register it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:58 PM
26

I can’t believe the whole e-girl/e-boy trend is still going. I thought it peaked like two years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:46 PM
26

The women who have sex with him all have the same tragic aesthetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:44 PM
59

Oh that guy def doesn’t share his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:00 PM
85

It’ll blow up in their faces eventually. Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:30 AM
9

We can have both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:55 PM
38

I’m dating myself - But I just remembered how people treated Kittie, lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:56 PM
27

Lovely band. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:54 PM
41

I eat chicken, rice, and broccoli like everyday. I legit hate cooking though and would never tell anyone I was good at it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:54 AM
27

Intersectionality is really just recognizing that everyone has a unique experience and may have certain advantages or disadvantages like race or cultural background, which I don’t think anyone here denies, but we want to work as a movement for all women and improve the lives of everyone without putting our own individual “empowerment” before our sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:33 AM
19

“Liberal” is this case means the centrists. The feminists here are “radical”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:26 AM
4

Maybe I AM a lesbian. I have to call my mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:56 PM
468

“I’m not as good at it as she is” It’s... Folding laundry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:53 AM
61

I’m sexually liberated from how men expect me to behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:18 PM
2

I’ve been with my partner for a year and he cooks everything or buys food. I don’t think he would ever ask me to cook. If he doesn’t want to then he asks me what type of takeaway to get. I HATE cooking and I really don’t like food. I’m one of the people that intermittently fasts and does OMAD as my natural default. I think it’s fine to whip something up for the both of you every now and then though. I think the point is that no man should ever expect you to cook for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:38 PM
14

I wouldn’t trust a man to actually keep up with or be honest about being on a form of birth control. There are so many that stealthily take condoms off or even tamper with their s/o’s BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:07 PM
51

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:19 PM
60

That’s a broken human being right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:35 PM
17

Imagine blowing a guy who doesn’t care if you become homeless. Okay, so I’ve done that. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:44 PM
13

Oof. Don’t call me out like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:31 PM
11

Get after it and post it if you can. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:18 PM
14

This infuriated me. I’m sorry OP and I’m glad you’re here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:13 PM
42

That pick me going on about her “on the smaller side of average” dicked bf though. RIP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:04 PM
218

This gave me cancer and now I’ve lost the will do kegels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:03 AM
48

Oh my god... Is the poster at least over 18??? I hope she isn’t a minor and this is how he lives during custody visits. Or else he’s keeping his child in filth with no food?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:46 PM
53

He definitely rents and he’s definitely not getting that deposit back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:43 PM
24

Link please? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:40 PM
86

The same way she supposedly got her degree in psychology - She made both of them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:48 PM
8

I had no idea who this guy was until I read the other comments that popped up. I googled and you’re dead on about the voice, lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:39 PM
24

Right? Kitties are the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:18 PM
25

I was never into playing video games but I had a NVX buy me a 360 because he thought I would enjoy Borderlands. No, I did not enjoy being screamed at and corrected by him because I didn’t know how to play. And he would want me to practice and play by myself so I could get better and then play with him... But I had work and actual hobbies that I enjoyed much more than video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:22 PM
47

No clue who this is but he belongs at the shuffleboard court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:12 PM
388

Divorce it is then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:29 PM
219

They legit are mad that we’re not going to fuck them. And even the pickme’s seem legit offended that we’re also not sleeping with these types of guys. Their only insult is “enjoy being single/alone”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:50 PM
2

Yeah, I read the thread. I got you. It tickled me because I haven’t had a conversation about Dworkin with anybody except for with people in philosophy. And on principle I probably never will. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:41 PM
109

I like the that it’s a three stone - Past, present, and future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:54 PM
14

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:41 PM
14

I once met a dude who wanted to learn bongos in order to emulate Richard Feynman. I mentioned learning physics instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:23 PM
19

I would like to include ukulele guy in is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:19 PM
4

Lol, yes. I can’t imagine this topic coming up organically in any other setting. I’ve never met a man outside of philosophy or sociology that knows who Andrea Dworkin is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:04 PM
0

Are you faculty in a phil department?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:42 PM
101

Prolapsed anuses are one of many reasons why a pornstar’s average shelf life is about three months. In fact, anal prolapse is a pretty big porn genre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:42 PM
183

Upvoting because this looks like my cat. But he just brings me his favorite piece of string. Which is still more than a lot of men have brought to my bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:04 PM
17

I remember reading this. The woman’s daughter didn’t even care. She just went and started dancing to a song she liked. The woman’s husband thought she was an asshole too. Just because she didn’t want her five year old to be covered in makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:15 PM
3

Oof. I have no idea then. Hopefully someone else more knowledgeable (like a mod or admin) can chime in on this or DM you an explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:28 PM
10

Your posts are showing up to me and you’re flaired now! I think you were just filtered until most of mods saw that you were a member of the community and not a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:23 PM
13

I’m proud of you! You’re on the right path, sister! ❤️🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:27 PM
33

It be like that though! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:32 PM
8

I dropped my phone because I started clapping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:12 PM
12

Oh my god. Why do they all have that ONE suit? 😂 So grateful for my partner now. He actually got excited the other day because he realized he had a reason to buy a new one because my sister’s wedding is coming up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:09 PM
30

Liberation > Empowerment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:29 PM
36

I can’t stop laughing at “scrotonimo” and I have to urge to shout it next time I cannonball into a pool. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:18 PM
118

Yeah, it’s very telling of Reddit that there are no comments about any of these sex workers being beaten to an inch of their lives or forced to do degrading acts with clients unless they want to be beaten by their pimp. But of course, most sex workers aren’t on Reddit. Just a bunch of losers role playing or a few “sexually empowered” liberal feminists who are living out the least intrusive forms of sex work because they “chose it” instead of being trafficked into it or forced to choose it becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:00 PM
97

It also just gears up gals and guys to accept ever increasing shittier behavior. I can just imagine the future posts on relationship subs: “My (34m) wife (21f) is mad at me for seeing a prostitute but it was just for cuddles” Or “My (19f) bf (41m) wants to hire a prostitute because he needs someone to talk to”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:48 PM
3

What is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:18 PM
15

We can hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:26 PM
133

Well they have to. And it’s also in their best financial interest to paint themselves as loving angels who really do love selling their bodies to scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:06 PM
27

I felt something in me die when I read this. Edit: By “this” I meant the post, not your comment. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:02 PM
155

Well, it’s not like the women who’ve been trafficked into it can respond with their sad stories on Reddit while they’re tied to a hot water heater for a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:58 PM
69

I just call myself a feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:53 PM
17

It’s like the minimum wage - They would pay you less if they could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:42 PM
186

Well of course they’re dragging her! Because what she’s saying is antithetical to their warped, rosy delusion of what sex work actually involves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:39 PM
30

Joe Rogan needs to disappear entirely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:31 PM
43

This reminds me of Gail Dines’ interviews with child r*pists in Connecticut. She asked one of the pieces of shit about how he groomed his victim and he said it was easy because “the culture did most of the work”. We live in a culture telling women they PEAK at EIGHTEEN. Horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:25 PM
16

Happy that you’re here now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:20 PM
626

But so many of the most upvoted comments are about sex workers essentially acting like therapists for sad dudes. Like, just go to therapy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:06 PM
129

“To right wing men, we are private property. To left wing men, we are public property.” - Andrea Dworkin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:03 PM
1

I love this so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:26 PM
4

I wish I had saved all the money I had spent on 50/50 dates. I could’ve had a few nice vacations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:06 PM
3

I assume he added her and then she called the pharmacy he worked at and they canned him. Also, as someone who has worked retail pharmacy for a few years, it is not that it specifically violated HIPAA that got him fired, it was using the patient’s information, without her permission, to contact her. It’s not necessarily a HIPAA violation, but it is harassment. There are more ways to get canned as a pharmacist than just violating HIPAA - Especially if you work in a retail setting. EDIT: For exampl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:10 PM
3

My ex played the biggest “feminist” on social media. He had left me at an abortion clinic, made me homeless twice, “picked” my job for me, abused me physically and emotionally, and also raped me. He once lectured me on using the “r” word once - Only to use it himself two days later. But hey, if he virtue signals enough he can prey on an endless supply of “pick me” libfems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:10 PM
21

So sick of liberal types that won’t buy from Amazon because they “exploit” their workers but will defend porn as “empowering”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:49 PM
62

When I was an oh-so mature 13 year old girl that was groomed and raped by a 19 year old who would travel from his state to mine and keep me in a motel room. The exes that followed were no better. It fucked me up in the head and even as I approach 30 my life is still in shambles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:39 PM
40

Honestly, it’s easy after my own experiences and solidified by the horror stories I read here and on other subreddits. I spent all of my life trying not to “miss out” on dating. Missed out on my life though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:47 PM
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