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You haven't done anything truly erroneous yet. You going cold on women pulling back and beginning to play games is totally justifiable. Your tryst with FWB is also fair except for not following her exclusivity limit. As for the work situation ... yeah that's on you. You led someone on. And if you sleep with her now you will just be hurting her. So don't. You know.what that feels like. You don't need to inflict that upon the world. So yeah man. Enjoy yourself. Make up for the teenage years as lon…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 04:07 AM
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Im gonna call bullshit on this one. you and most women are not that special. Men just tend to be not as astute in terms of social dynamics. If a malicious individual were to practice it and actually get good at this? You wouldnt be able to tell. Even if you were able to, some other special snowflake would . Which is what this individual would want.. I promise you this person is not picky.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 03:21 PM
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How the hell would you know, if you have had zero experience?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 05:59 PM
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Was he banned or something?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 04:39 PM
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The crappy thing about being a good guy is that you can't complain. Even if you give objective evidence of why you think dating sucks for you, they are gonna laugh at you and say "Nah homie. You are a nice guy. And we don't owe you jack shit". They will talk to you and laugh with you aslong as you laugh with them, the second you express pain in a way thta seems to imply that they might be the cause they will balk withdraw and get defensive. Cause you know good guys don't complain, cause they are…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 04:34 PM
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Depends on what you want. If all you want are casual flings and you are able to attract college coeds, then more power to you. I actually consider that more responsible than dating your own age-group where people are more likely to want to settle down. At least you are not wasting anyone's time.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 04:22 PM
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Not interested in being your thesis project.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 11:09 AM
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It doesn't matter what the reasons are if the end result is you getting fucked over. All thta matters how to recognize harmful behavior and split if you need to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:52 PM
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It may be that way for women, but connection is so fleeting for guys that unless you are simply in it to hit it and quit it, we have to treat our relationships a lot more seriously. I didnt even really have requirements (preredpill) so long as the woman was simply kind to me.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 08:40 PM
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I'll give you my guide for mainting your sanity. The entire premise of AFBB is that women pursue more exciting men and the n later as they get older settle for the milder men. 'Beta' so to speak. The reasons are multifaceted Bule pill says that 'they have matured and are now ready to give the guys they overlooked a shot Red Pill says that they are over correcting because of the abuse and looking for someone safe and overcorrect into someone more stable or else they ate simply looking for someone…
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 09:26 AM
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I don't know how to phrase this without coming across as a total tool. I believe that everything we do sholud be weighed on the scale of good vs EVIL. By not working on yourself and leave behind a you shaped hole in the world which which is worse for every one. I believe that sexwork and onlyfans can be done ethically, how ever the ones who enter this business do not do so with the wellbeing of others involved. Sexworkers are vulnerable and need face to face time to conduct business and therefor…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 09:51 AM
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I am gonna save this.post
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 03:50 AM
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They call it that because it is.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 01:24 PM
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This happened to me but with streetwalkers.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 07:27 PM
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I would tell him thta the red pill and blue pill are 2 sides of the same coin. Treating a woman like they can do no wrong is a recipe for disaster. However love requires you to be the greater fool sometimes to trust that the other person has your best interests at heart. It is a leap of faith. That you are gonna shift through endless miles of the same in search of your unicorn. Be pragmatic , manage risks with your mind but love and live with your heart. Your mind and your heart are not at odds …
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 04:59 AM
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You can find meanin in any type of labour. The original pickup artists were nerds who are used to hyper focusing on something. They hyper focused on socialization to figure out a basic frame work of interaction. When you are nervous it's easier to execute if you have a plan. And then it is plan with contingencies for ever possible outcome. You want to start a conversation Draw attention to something happening nearby. Ask a question as of trying to settle a debate etc Let the conversation flow no…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 05:16 PM
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Exceptions do not the rule make.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 01:13 PM
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That's kinda the point no. What are you gonna say ? That life is shit in general for men because 'MEN' made it that way?? No shit. But the men and the 'MEN' involves are different. We have very little agency over our lives in terms of success. Both men and women, so we take advantage of whatever is offered our way. Women can if they wish to take advantage of their looks. Guys will have to accommodate resources jn general to be in the game to do so as long a sthey are not pretty. Old men have mad…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 02:40 AM
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That might actually be projection here.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 02:47 AM
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I am just gonna leave this here. I heard it recently in the 28th year of my life and I regret not hearing it sooner. This will help you although it is 2 hrs long. Stick through it. https://youtu.be/be_Ms3nVG10
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 03:28 AM
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Pretty sure you won't ever show up in my crosshair so why even care?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 03:30 AM
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It's like when they say 'money won't buy you happiness.' True. But I would rather cry in a comfortable bed than out on the street in a cardboard box. If I am still unhappy after reaching that goal.... I'll look into other avenues People use each other all the time. Others don't really give a flying fuck about me and and I don't care about them either. Being concerned for them while dealing with any situation puts me at a disadvantage because I am the only one thinking about me while we both are …
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 12:38 AM
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Barely anyone has girls "falling all over them". The good news is, unless you're just trying to get as much different pussy as you can (in which case you're probably an asshole), Why does that make you an asshole? It's one of my goals actually, ... to know what it's like to be desired like that. To get so much external validation that it no longer matters..... I am a virgin, in a generally conservative nation. 2 yards from the time my parents will try to marry me off. .... I want at least consis…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 10:05 PM
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So easy.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 02:44 PM
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I guess he is balking ar the advice of self improvement as if who he was before was not good enough? He probably resents the effort that he put in to be a better partner because when he looks around he doesn't see a similar level of effort from the other side? Like "what has she done to deserve me?"
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 02:41 PM
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Yeah. That seems to be the simplest way to look at it. Correlation doesn't mean causation
/r/ExRedPill26/04/21 05:52 PM
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You weren't a nice guy. You were a mama's boy who perceived that you were doing the right things because your mommy validated your actions as such. Lol That is a lot of assumptions. I mean I was pretty attached to my mom until I was like 12 years old, so maybe you are right there, but I have had a strong moral compass since that time, even to the point of defying the authority figures in my life. In dating, however, even teen boys should aim to embody the values of a grown man who takes responsi…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/21 02:33 PM
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Your problem is the degree to which you value niceness. It’s not a feature to many people, not because they want the opposite of niceness, but because it’s just not where the value of a partner lies. And yet it seems to in short supply in general.at least that's what I get from my own interactions and from the comments of the people around me at large.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/21 01:45 PM
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That's what you think. I was not ever successful with women but I was genuinely and unironically a nice guy. But being completely ignored, mocked and otherwise misled (you will make a great husband someday) I killed the best parts of me to survive. I became a more shifty person who deserves to be treated with indifference ( at least I think so) I guess I would still be a pretty decent guy among the masses, but my reflexively antagonistic nature makes me tough to deal with. Easier to ignore. If s…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 05:20 PM
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That means, I genuinely and very sincerely thought that for most men, the feeling of being betrayed by a trusted someone = seeing their parents died of cancer = getting a bad marks in a math exam = their car broke down = seeing their bestfriends got mowed down in front of them = accidentally cutting themselves during shaving = dropping their pizza down = being back from war after seeing their fellow soldier executed = burning their chicken nuggets = the same. Yoooo.... wtf
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 04:26 PM
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If you are not getting any, it is easy yo obsess over it.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 08:11 AM
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I haven't really. I still belive looks are important. But overall attractiveness is a composite thing.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 06:03 AM
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It's would be if it wasn't so ducking scary.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/21 09:13 AM
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Tomi Larsen is a walking red-flag. She is everything the Redpill claims women are.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 10:40 AM
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That's just * chefs kiss* great advice right there. It's the kinda thing I get called a misogynistic for when I point out to women who have been through multiple abusive relationships.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 01:25 AM
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I feel like it's my duty to point out that asking women for dating advice , even successful ones is basically shooting yourself in the foot. They have no conception if what it's like to try an ask someone out. All the advice they give is solid if you have a girl who is also interested in you. However they have no idea how to spark interest. To women romance just happens, advice like be yourself is good advice for them because in general men approach them. Be yourself is idiotic advice for guys b…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/21 01:23 AM
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the wall is a "this is what you deserve " concept that TRP came up with. To them life is a long game of getting even, especially since it generally consists of men who are probably not experienced in dating or only have had bad experiences. They resent the fact that women get more attention. They resent the fact that they were invisible when they were younger. They resent the phenomenon where women who ignored the needs in their hey day decide to settle for them when they get older, looks fade a…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 04:26 AM
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I was miserable. Got red pilled, and became even more miserable. Stopped believing in it as an active choice so now I am back to manageable levels of misery. Yay
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 11:10 PM
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Best : I began to respect myself Worst: I could never be loved the way I wanted to be.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/21 05:37 AM
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I guess what he is trying to say is that in most situations there is an expectation that the strong must take care of the weak, this extends to male female dynamics with men assuming the role of protector. It's so ingrained in our culture that we can still see the results of it in today's world. In any attacker style attack (,,terror or incel or school shooter) there are multiple nameless examples of men covering up their loved ones or friends to protect them with their bodies, of men charging i…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 03:24 PM
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I mean yeah, if the authorities are readily available. But where I am from they tend to not be. And whoever intervenes has the legitimate risk of ending up dead. So many kids with delusions of being defenders of justice ending up being lynched to death or stabbed .... It's fucking scary.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 03:04 PM
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You can help if you feel like it but only after considering the risks to yourself. No one is going to be better of if you get hurt or worse while trying to help your damsel. Watch over yourself and your own, anything beyond that is extra karma you are throwing out into the world. Nice but also optional
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 10:09 AM
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What does this look like to you? Where do you draw the line that says 'yep, this is a good net positive'? An earlier lack of self esteem had me pursing this goal at detriment to myself. Earlier I would have hurt myself for basically anyone to help them because I considered everyone's wellbeing more important than mine. Now however, I look for reciprocity, to know within my bones that the people I help would help me or even others at a similar cost. ( I guess tge guiding principle is that while t…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 10:16 PM
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It is simple. Does my existence add up to a net positive? That is my macro. The micro is also applied to every thing that I do in an individual basis. I avoid lying and deceit. I can chose to use them and I have in service of a larger goal, but I avoid it of I can. I guess its at its core to be forever true to myself, at the very least honest to myself. I look at my interactions with others and try to take care to leave them better than before they met me. With some notable exceptions. I also ex…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 09:20 PM
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I am not religious. I just hold myself to a rigorous moral standard.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 08:36 PM
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Here's the problem: someone tells you that they love you and then you think "What if they're lying?" You gotta understand this point because this is the core. These thoughts don't exist in a vacuum. They have happened to me, helped form me. To ask me to ignore them is to ask me to deny who I am. I am was kind, I was generous, I helped with no expectation of reciprocation but my experiences have led me to become jaded. I still help but its in a "why am I even doing this kinda way" like when I wal…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 06:37 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I do belive that love exists, but it is rare enough to give others hope that they too can find it. I feel like most of us only find fools gold because a majority of relationships simply crash and burn (if they do, how can it be love?) So I find myself asking if it is all worth it. It was easier to simply cauterise the part of me that yearned fot it... And now my worldview has made me so different from the rest of my generation, ... Ironically I feel like I am looking for a un…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 06:18 PM
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Quite simply, it’s a scam. You’re being presented with arguments built off hypotheticals to inspire doubt and insecurity: What if she’s lying, what if she’s cheating, what if everyone else is selfish, what if you are really a hero in a world of victims? I get that. That's why I got out. However I am not gonna pretend that I am a trash of a person either. If I had to describe my behaviour, I am basically a moral catholic, in so far as I weigh my action on a scale of good and evil (not even good a…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 05:52 PM
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Unfortunately it seems that I have dicked myself most of the time. I chose to feel good at least morally able to defend my actions as opposed to scoring notches on my belt. I mean ... I am a mess, but thats more self-hatred than anything else. But my life experience have taught me not to compromise on anything that could fuck me up cause life us too short for that shit. And to that end I am certain that I will never be in a relationship where I feel like I am giving more of myself that I receive…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 03:28 PM
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I agree with you. To me being blue pilled is yo be totally blind to all the various ways women can fuck you up. (Speaking as a straight man) Exredpill gives context to behaviors we see and allows us to define our boundaries. attraction cannot be negotiated oneitis is a mistake sexual pasts matter reciprocity matters
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 05:46 AM
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Victim blame much?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 08:20 AM
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Its not. I mean it looks that way but its not really. The pill sucks in guys who are insecure and tells them , "nah fam, you al'ight! Its the world that's crazy. You want to love a woman but guess what they don't want to settle with you!! they want to have their fun now! You can sit around and wait until they are not as attractive anymore and want 'a provider, equal partner.' Tough to swallow right? But some of you are fine with that and being picked last cause why should your romantic life be a…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 06:58 AM
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A lot of TRP is insecurity. It is one I share as well. As a virgin in his 27s I dread the very really possibility of AFBB in my future. I would prefer it if my wife was a virgin to keep it level and I think I could theoretically get past her not being one either. But I refuse to be 2nd string in her head. I want to have her sexual best. Not a performative action to keep me around How can I do that? Look at her past. If she used to date guys like me and later comited to me .. ok, she has a type, …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 06:17 AM
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I don't think it is wrong. It actually saves a lot of time. If a woman doesn't see you sexually, doesn't actively want to date you, you can't negotiate her into liking you. Its best to just move on. In a marriage if you find yourself begging for intimacy with no reciprocation or attempts to do so for years, then yeah you should leave. There is nothing wrong with that. Infact, it is kinder to do so.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 05:08 PM
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