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| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.Any man that says it’s not rewarding knowing that you did what you thought you needed to do to have sex with the woman you wanted to have sex with it and accomplished that goal is lying. It’s not even about being a simp or even if she was manipulating you the whole time and you unknowingly went along it which I doubt is ever really the case if she was willing to have sex with you just to get it. Sex isn’t a reward most women are willing to offer just to get whatever it is they want. There are re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Men make no sense in any regard.Whatever man saying they want virgins is probably a virgin themselves Complaining about women that have sex a lot is like complaining a car that has a lot of miles but you know is reliable in that regard. If want a woman that’s willing to put out easy you expect her to have some miles under her belt. These are the same dudes that complain they can’t get any sex from women but also want a woman that’s saving her self for the right guy. You can’t really be choosy Men don’t cheat… cheaters cheat it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Redditors are insane when it comes to age gapsI feel like the same older men that go after really young women are the same ones that never got laid a lot when they were young. Not that it makes them a loser but it says something about older men that still want younger women. Like come on man you haven’t had enough of that by now or what are you still trying to prove? I get it guys want hot women but if you were any bit successful with hot women when you were younger you would have that woman that was hot when she was younger still with you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:09 PM |
| 3 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themI was under the assumption 30s is considered middle aged but I definitely agree if we’re talking 40-50 year old men. I’ve seen that they do have this way of thinking they still have something to prove | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:18 PM |
| 7 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themI don’t know where and when this became the narrative that middle aged men are looking for early 20 something’s but I just don’t see it and haven’t seen it being middle aged myself. I think it’s more so men that are over the hill and coming down it that feel like they still have something to prove before it’s too late. I know I could date early 20 something’s if I wanted to but why would I want to as a middle aged man? That’s the age you should start looking at building a solid mature relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:16 PM |
| 0 | "Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness.Most women don’t have the desire to fuck a lot of different men if they could the way we as men do. That’s the main difference. Women are just as horny if not more hornier than men is what I’ve seen being in relationships where there were times I really wasn’t in the mood but my girlfriends would get me in the mood pretty quickly. They just want more sex with someone that’s suits their personal preferences of someone that really turns them on. Sometimes that’s with someone they’re in a relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 01:49 PM |
| – | The standards of what is considered cheating today makes monogamous relationships and marriages not worth itHonestly how many people have a conversation about what they do and don’t consider cheating in a relationship before it happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Porn watching is more morally wrong in men than it is in womenI don’t think porn is making men feel entitled to women’s I actually think it’s causing men to not care about pursuing women for sex. Once you get to the addiction levels of watching porn you stop really making an effort to find someone to have sex with. Of course there are men out there that want to mimic everything they see in porn but those are men that actually pursue women or are already in relationships but they aren’t porn addicts to that extent. So you’re dealing with a small percentage … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 07:50 AM |
| 2 | People don’t “outgrow” or “change” away from their partner, they just don’t know who they are and so are at faultPeople change and I would hate to not allow someone to change into the person they wanted to be for whatever reason. I do agree though that the term “outgrow” in many cases implies that the other person wasn’t good enough. That’s not the right term to use. You outgrow material things not people. It’s just that people change, their desires and wants change. For most people It’s hard to be directly honest and tell someone you just want a change after spending a significant amount of time with them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 08:16 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyIf you invoke emotional responses in women that they need at the time it doesn’t matter if you were satan himself they’ll find you attractive in some way. When it comes to women throw away any type of programmed mindset you have about how they think and behave and play everything by emotional response. If you can’t get anywhere by being the nice guy to her then she’s obviously not looking for that. Attraction is only based on the emotional response she’s looking for in herself. If she wants to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Why is this sub so puritanical? Why no recreational drug use at all?I drank heavily, smoked weed and did a fair amount of experimenting with hallucinogens in my early twenties. It just got kind of not as fun anymore so I stopped. When it comes to dating and finding someone that accepts that kind of lifestyle you definitely will attract a certain kind of people good or bad if that’s what you’re looking for at the moment. I wanted to find someone more into a potential serious relationship and tbh I don’t think I can attract that type of person if I was still doing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Are there really women out there that expect men to pay for literally everything in a relationship?Interesting question. I always felt when I paid for all the dates and events that I was conveying the message to her that I thought she was worth it and meant something to me. Now I look at it more like that’s trying to buy her love and appreciation for me indirectly. The equality part is important because both should be showing the same level of affection and care for each other when it comes to paying for things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 03:33 AM |
| 6 | Dating advice by men, for women?As men we can mostly only give dating advice regarding what not to do and what to look out for. Women give dating advice to men on what they think works for men but doesn’t actually work practically in most cases and there’s proof that it doesn’t work but they continue to give that advice. I’m not even sure women give good dating advice to other women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Do you miss red flags in the beginning of a relationship that lead to the reason why you ultimately end your LTR?It’s just a question I have specifically for women since most breakups or divorces are initiated by women. The same question can be asked for men. I didn’t place blame anywhere I said everyone’s entitled to breakup for any reason they choose and I do believe life is too short to be in any relationship you have to question you’re happiness in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?I don’t care for gender specific children activities or groups. I mean kids are innocent for the most part until you get into teenage/young adult years and shouldn’t be separated by gender in social settings anyway. I think those are crucial years when you learn how to commingle with the opposite gender and find out what’s socially acceptable. Especially in clubs like this it’s even more important so you don’t get sort of an echo chamber of ideas being passed back and forth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:26 AM |
| 0 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?That definitely would solve the privacy issue but I still wonder how efficient it would then be having men and women lineup for stall restrooms and only men using urinal restrooms. You would have a longer line for stalls whereas before some of that traffic was cut by having stalls in the men's restrooms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 02:05 PM |
| -1 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Someone argued your latter statement with if women do feel unsafe or uneasy about men going into the women's restrooms they surely would not want to go into the men's restroom where there's nothing but men that could possibly take advantage of them I argue that she would also have more of a chance of being protected by a man if someone did try to take advantage of her. I would think it would actually lessen the chances of it happening by being in a restroom full of men that can help physically h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Specifically in venues or restrooms meant to accommodate large numbers of people using them. There's no other efficient way for women to use restrooms with some sort of privacy in public restrooms. Mens restrooms have urinals because it's efficient to have them thats why you often see more urinals than stalls in men's restrooms. Urinals would be more efficient as well in gender neutral restrooms meant for large numbers of people to use but they aren't in them because the privacy issue between ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:29 PM |
| -1 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Yeah I’m going to assume most of the time this is the case when we’re talking about venues and large crowds. I don’t see moms taking their sons into men’s restrooms however but again it could be the mom thinking of her safety. I think in the case of 2 possibly drunk women using the men’s restroom it’s not the best idea for a woman even if the slightest possibly that something could go wrong is there I wouldn’t advise it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?That’s a good point to be made as well regarding that. I don’t exactly know the numbers but are women more likely to be assaulted by men in the women’s restroom or in the off chance they use the men’s restroom? I would think as men we don’t go in women’s restrooms nearly as much just to use the toilet because urinals are quick and there’s usually more of them to use than stalls in our restroom compared to the women’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:02 PM |
| -3 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Well then you would need to accommodate urinals in those gender neutral restrooms which I haven’t really seen in restrooms meant for more a large number of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 12:51 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?I agree and I don’t think each situation is worse or better than the other but given the fact that most gender neutral restrooms don’t have urinals I think there’s still this stigma that men shouldn’t share restroom spaces with women. Men can use stalls just as well but in a men’s restroom there’s urinals and with urinals genitals are exposed and can be seen even unintentionally. Women’s restrooms are more private with stalls so it’s kind of less “invasive” for a man to be in a woman’s restroom … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 12:45 PM |
| -4 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?Not that it makes it right but I’m going to assume there was something else missing in the marriage that lead to him cheating. Unless we’re saying men just can’t control their impulses. I highly doubt he cheated just for the sex if you we’re providing it everyday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?I’m going to assume the first thought that came to mind was she’s having sex with someone else because no communication was made on her behalf as to why the sex stopped. In a marriage it’s hard to bring those accusations up against your partner. It may have gotten to the point he just accepted that was the case. Had they BOTH communicated more than likely the cheating wouldn’t have happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?For most men they would assume the woman is cheating because without any verbal communication as to why the sex went from on a frequent basis to not. It could be any reason but the one that would make logical sense would be she’s having sex with someone else. Most women would assume the same so it’s not just men thinking the worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 04:32 PM |
| -1 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?No one is really saying the cheating part isn’t wrong but its just that a lot of times men aren’t afforded the same benefit as women when they say “I checked out from wanting sex with my husband” and it’s ok even though they don’t communicate that to their husband. Cheating is wrong but we’re overlooking any sort of fault in the woman saying she didn’t want to have sex with her husband anymore anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?Well there’s the fact that a lot of times in threads about this when a man says sex stopped with his wife and he’s unhappy he’s crucified for thinking sex is the most important thing in the marriage. So I can see how the man might not question it so that he’s not making it seem like that’s all he cares about to his wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 04:08 PM |
| -4 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?That’s true but then it seems like we’re putting all the burden on the man when it was actually the woman who cut down on sex and never expressed why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?I think most people would just consider that cheating. Emotionally cheating is more cutting out the emotional and physical bonding you had without really letting the other person know why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?Should the right thing have been to communicate why she cut back on the sex so that he could fix what he was doing and possibly eliminate the chance that he might cheat? Maybe it didn’t cross her mind that it would lead to him cheating so she didn’t feel importance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 03:37 PM |
| -6 | Women will emotionally cheat/manipulate/hide things more often but men physically cheat more in a relationship?I guess I should make what I mean by emotionally cheating more clear. Not being emotionally available to your partner to the point you stop trying to communicate your feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsI just could never bring myself to casually have sex with women. The opportunity has came up so many times for me and I purposely did things to divert it because it just felt like a sleazy thing to do. I could be in the minority of men that think this way but sex is actually something special to me and not just about getting my pleasures met That being said I would pretty much have sex with most women depending on if a real connection was made first. I don’t look at women and my first thought is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 08:42 PM |
| -1 | Are men in competition with women to make them happy or other men?But if you’re truly happy being single wouldn’t dating kind of say otherwise because you’re looking for someone that can bring more into your life? I get that most people want companionship and a partner but I don’t think if you were happy being single a potential partner should compete with your own happiness being single. I just don’t think that’s a healthy way of going about dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Are men in competition with women to make them happy or other men?I agree with most of this but can you explain how a man is supposed to be in competition with the woman to make her happier if her happiness doesn’t rely on a man? I just don’t understand what she was getting at with saying “be in competition with me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Are men in competition with women to make them happy or other men?Yeah I really didn’t understand what she was getting at saying men aren’t in competition with other men for access to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceYou’d be surprised how many much women aren’t used to being approached nowadays that when it does actually happen they’re actually a lot more receptive to it than you think. Maybe it’s social media and the norm now has shifted to women actually wanting to be complimented and longing for guys that have the confidence to approach in public. Now whether or not it actually leads to anything is a different story but from what I’ve experienced trying it myself just for the hell of having conversations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Women think men want a normal SO vs a unique one, Men think women want a unique man but truly want a normal oneThe problem with this is that it assumes most women actually know what they want and that their wants are constant and consistent. Women either have no idea what they want at times or they know what they want for the time being. There is no constant want within almost all women. It could be cloudy one day and sunny the next and a woman's wants and likes can completely change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Incels be like..Except in my case I put myself in many social settings in hopes of finding a mate but being 5'4 is basically like being invisible no matter where I go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 11:03 PM |
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