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| 149 | My mistake with male nurses | discussion | HateKnuckle | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/08/24 04:28 AM |
| 15 | What do you want? | discussion | HateKnuckle | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/24 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone here gone to a Men's Group? | discussion | HateKnuckle | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/25 07:14 PM |
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| 3 | What's a good response or 'comeback' to the pick me girl insult?I often get called a pick-me for saying that hating rich people isn't helpful. So I just say that I'm sorry for wanting tangible progress rather than childish complaining. "Sorry to want healthy men in my life rather than just whining about how much men suck and how they should just be better." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/25 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Can't ask if she is angryWhen she's calmed down, talk to her about what you need and whether she can give that to you. If not, is compromise possible? If not, then you gotta leave or be cool with how she handles emotions. | /r/MenSupportMen | 29/01/25 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here gone to a Men's Group?Do you keep in touch and talk as a group regularly? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe I can change my life at 31What's your town's population? | /r/MenSupportMen | 26/09/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe I can change my life at 31How big is your town? How far away is the nearest larger town? | /r/MenSupportMen | 26/09/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I don't believe I can change my life at 31No Meetups where you live? | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/09/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe I can change my life at 31I feel that. I almost started from scratch 2 years ago when I moved from my hometown to Minneapolis. I went to some Meetups and met some cool people. I played a bunch of board games. I recently started going to some concerts. I joined a Slack channel for a card game I've been interested in and now I have a game night every week. I also have a gf. I don't really have any close friends but I'm still working on it. | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/09/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | I don't believe I can change my life at 31My stepmom got her Masters degree in her 50s and she's currently a district manager for mental health services in Poughkeepsie in her 70s. I used to work with a pharmacist who left the Soviet Union to go to NYC. Then in his 30s he went to school to become a pharmacist. It's never too late. Start small. Get some friends. Find things you like doing so you can find the motivation to do things. Trying to reinvent yourself without a foundation of support and structure is a recipe for failure. | /r/MenSupportMen | 24/09/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I don't believe I can change my life at 31Yep. My stepmom got her Masters degree in her 50s and she's currently a district manager for mental health services in Poughkeepsie in her 70s. I used to work with a pharmacist who left the Soviet Union to go to NYC. Then in his 30s he went to school to become a pharmacist. It's never too late. | /r/MenSupportMen | 24/09/24 05:08 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to “who set that system up?”?Honestly, you're probably right. I've done a fair bit of arguing with people who say that and they're just trying to remove any and all agency from themselves. "Women can't uphold patriarchy and even if they do, they're not responsible because patriarchy so heavily disadvantages women." I've maybe gotten some people to think about how they're selectively thinking about systems but they're just plugging their ears and choosing to avoid difficult work. You can't make them do the necessary work. Th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/08/24 06:23 PM |
| -6 | First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feminista social system where men control a disproportionately large share of social, economic, political and religious power, and inheritance usually passes down the male line We have patriarchy. Notice how voting or legislation is not mentioned in the definition. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/24 02:54 AM |
| -3 | First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feministPositions of power are likely to be occupied by men. That's the proof. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/24 02:35 AM |
| 0 | First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feministHow would I not be a feminist? Just because some people misunderstand a word doean't kean it still doesn't have value. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/24 01:11 AM |
| -2 | First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feministSo then the problem is feminists using it incorrectly rather than the thing itself. So why try to get rid of the thing when you can't get rid of it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feministleads to the assumption What if I'm not lead to that assumption? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/24 03:32 AM |
| -8 | First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feministWhat's wrong with saying that men hold most positions of power in society and have for a long time? What's wrong with calling that "patriarchy? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What do you want?What would that look like to you? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/24 06:47 PM |
| 12 | My mistake with male nursesGotta love that shit lol. We learn we need to be warriors capable of violence at any moment. Then we're told that this isn't the Middle Ages so we don't have to worry about fighting off brigands. Then you get people saying that they kind of want you to be a warrior. WHICH IS IT!? PICK ONE! Remember when Will Smith slapped Chris Rock? Women were creaming their pants because they got to see a man "defend his woman's honor". Is this not the toxic masculinity you guys have been condemning? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/24 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Menslib being menslibDid they put a reason? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 07:38 AM |
| -1 | Menslib being menslibWhat "gaslighting" are you referring to? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Menslib being menslibAre rape allegations more likely to be false than other crimes? I'd be interested in seeing research on the effects of false rape allegations. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/24 07:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you want?Are there issues feminism has raised that you think would be solved by feminism disappearing? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/24 04:05 AM |
| 4 | What do you want?I also want that. I think we need a critical mass of men who care about a singular or group of issues in order for us to be taken seruously. I think our main issue is a lack of numbers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you want?Is there a group/country that you believe could be used to model a society you would want? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | What do you want?Yeah, this is the feeling that got me to create this post. I wish we had as much solidarity as women seem to have. I think the problem is we don't have the same ideal scenarios. Hopefully we can come to a consenaus that guys outside of our groups can say "Yeah, that would be awesome to have. I should join." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/24 12:46 AM |
| 4 | What do you want?What would that look like? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What do you want?What do you mean by "gender neutral"? Are you saying you support all the things in that post? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 10 | What do you want?For me, the most obvious change is banning medically unnecessary circumcision. I can't believe that practice is still so popular. From there, I would want men and women to be friends more often. The male and female experience is so different that we have immense trouble relating to each other. Hopefully, by closing that gap, we can better understand and fight for the issues faced by both genders. I realize that if we've gotten to the point where men and women are just as likely to be friends wit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/24 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Book recommendations?Breaking Barriers in Counseling Men was a good book. Lots of stories of experiences mental healthcare professionals have had with helping men. It acknowledges issues men have in engaging in therapy and tries to provide solutions. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Not giving women agency is harmful towards both women and men.What do you believe "abused women can be attached to their abusers" means? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/24 01:36 AM |
| -1 | I'm really confused about MensLib take here.they would provide equally the same support or resources or at least half of what they do for women This is a fair criticism but just because they've failed at advocating for men, doesn't mean that feminism and feminists can't be changed or used by men to get equality. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/24 12:39 AM |
| -3 | I'm really confused about MensLib take here.It's not "blaming men" to say something exists. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/24 11:56 PM |
| 10 | I'm really confused about MensLib take here.Menslib is fine if you want a place that validates the feelings you have about your experiences with toxic/hegemonic masculinity. If you've had bad experiences or feelings about feminist thoughts or actions, you're screwed. Menslib is a social club where criticism is basically banned. I can kind of understand why they basically ban it. Criticism of feminism can quickly and often leads to unproductive screeds about fringe feminists who think we should kill all males. But that doesn't mean that fe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/24 11:51 PM |
| -4 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?You didn't answer my question. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/07/24 09:29 PM |
| -2 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?What laws have declared the Duluth model be used? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?What do you mean by "fixed"? Feminists are constantly fighting amongst themselves. There is still a war raging about whether porn can be feminist. Just look at any porn thread on TwoX and you'll see how much division there is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?I never said it was. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?I don't see how that contradicts what I said. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 03:57 AM |
| -1 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?even tho Feminism has done nothing on its part to earn the goodwill of Men. Does someone need to earn your good will for them to he correct? I've encountered people who haven't been terribly nice to me but I was able to determine that what they said was correct. If I had disregarded the contsnt of their kessage just because it was packaged in a less than persuasive manner, I'd have missrd out on valuable information. You're just hurting yourself by limiting the tools available to you. You have y… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?the idea that men are responsible for all woe's in the world You can be feminist and not believe that. I'm one of them. I also don't know whers feminism states that one nust believe that in order to be a feminist. Duluth model Just because some bad or stupid things have been done in the name of feminism, doesn't mean feminism is bad, wrong, or useless. I really wonder how to have a constructive conversation with someone that holds such beliefs and that tries to be as divisive as possible? I argu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?The words only matter if they mean different things. I don't see how your example demonstrates that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/07/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?You could do that but I think you'd just end up making feminism again with different terms. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 04:03 PM |
| 23 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?I would like to echo your desire for a sub between this one and menslib. Menslib has trouble handling criticism of feminism and this sub has trouble with being constructive. I just want a place where guys can say "Feminists and feminism have failed men in multiple ways, but I think there are good ideas from them that we can use to change how society sees us and how we see ourselves." I can kinda understand their perspective. Seeing "FEMINISM SUCKS AND IT KILLED MY DOG" for the millionth time get… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 08:21 AM |
| -1 | Why Men Enter And Exit The ‘Manosphere’—By A (Male) PsychologistWhat exactly did he say that you disagree with? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/24 06:23 PM |
| -1 | Why Men Enter And Exit The ‘Manosphere’—By A (Male) PsychologistHow was his approach judgmental? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/24 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Enter And Exit The ‘Manosphere’—By A (Male) PsychologistI think the article is a very small step in the right direction. It said men need to have better experiences with women. Hopefully feminists read it and realize that they need to actually reach out and/or appeal to men to get things to change | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Why Men Enter And Exit The ‘Manosphere’—By A (Male) PsychologistHs recognizes that the manosphere provides validation and community. He just thinka the answer provided by the manosphere is bad. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/24 05:25 PM |
| 0 | What's the deal with r/menslib?I don't see how Shoe is better. Just because she's middle of the road doesn't mean she's better. How are men impacted by "love-yourself rhetoric, economic defeatism, and relativism" more than women? So much so that we're seeing different outcomes depending on gender? Like, why aren't women also declining in standardized test scores? Are standarsized test scores the only way in which men are doing worse than women? It doesn't matter why someone recommends something because the result is what matt… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?Of course they do those things. They're constantly fighting each other. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/24 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Dr. Elizabeth Blackwell’s (first woman in the US to earn a medical degree) take on routine infant male genital mutilationI can't find anything confirming this quote. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/24 09:09 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?I don't doubt that criticizing feminists is important but telling feminists that saying "Men are trash" is counterproductive is something I already know and do often. Shoe's not telling me things I don't already know. Where is JBP getting this idea that men are failing while women are thriving because of factors that affect both genders and a narrative that masculinity is bad? What evidence is there that this is true? I don't see the difference between JBP's advice and a parent's. Parents do oft… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/24 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Is what the mainstream media says about male friendships/bonding reflect reality?I think it accurately describes the reality of men's experiences. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is what the mainstream media says about male friendships/bonding reflect reality?Do you believe men and women compete the same amount and to the same degree? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 08:59 PM |
| -1 | Feminist GaslightingI think feminism identifies an issue. That issue is that there are indeed far more men than women in the highest positions of political and professional power. FeminisTs who say those things you mentioned suck but that's a fault with their interpretation of feminism rather than feminism itself. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 2 | What's the deal with r/menslib?Doesn't shoe just criticize feminists rather than provide answers? JBP has provided solid self improvement but my issue is why men seem to have found themselves in such a dire need for self improvement. His advice is no different than stuff you hear from a parent. "Be responsible. Clean your room." I'll check out Scott Alexander's stuff. Contrapoints' videos are amazing....except for her Man video. I've watched it multiple times in hopes of finding something good but she just says "Wow, men sure… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?So you agree with me? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?I never said anything cared about anything. Are most politicians and heads of business men? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 06:43 PM |
| -1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?I haven't seen any other ideologies that uave better answers than feminism. If you're aware of an ideology that provides better explanations and solutions, I'm all ears. Why does there need to be feminist marches for men fighting in Ukraine? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?I don't think I necessarily have any problem with non-feminist analysis being used. It seems your issue lies with feminisTs rather than femi isM. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?Isn't this just an accounting of events and history rather than addressing the actual ideology? Liken it's entirely possible to be a feminist and disagree with other feminists. Women do it all the time. That's how TERFs and SWERFs came to be along with all the different "waves". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?Who do you believe does a better job of describing men's issues and providing better solutions? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with r/menslib?"since the late 20th century it has also been used to refer to social systems in which power is primarily held by adult men" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patriarchy Do you believe most politicians and heads of business are men? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal with r/menslib?I think the sub is struggling to figure out if it should believe every man is an oppressor who created, upholds, and benefits from patriarchy or believe men can also be victims of patriarchy. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/24 09:19 AM |
| -5 | What's the deal with r/menslib?How do feminists not see men's issues as a priority? Didn't Bell Hooks(a feminist) write a whole book on the problems men face? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/24 09:13 AM |
| -12 | What's the deal with r/menslib?What's wrong with feminism? How else should men's problems be seen? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/24 09:11 AM |
| 10 | What's the deal with r/menslib?Duluth model incident? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/24 08:58 AM |
| 6 | It seems like a lot of men are highly motivated by sex, more than they actually desire it.I think men are so starved for connection(see number and quality of friendships) that sex ends up being the only acceptable way to connect with another person. There are multuple ways to get oxytocin flowing and sex is a great hack for getting it. Since all the other ways are hard to get as a man, sex ends up being choice #1. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/24 09:52 AM |
| -1 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkWhat studies show that teachers grade boys more harshly? I'm aware of the sentencing issue but that doesn't account for the criminality in the first place. How do lawauits not correct attitudes? Do you have any data to suggest that that is what is causing these drops in employment for young men? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 06:12 PM |
| -2 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkJust because you call something an example doesn't make it one. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 05:19 PM |
| -2 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkThere was no evidence provided of discrimination. He just made a claim with nothing to back it up. At that point, I can dismiss it just as easily as he peovided it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 05:08 PM |
| -3 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkI didn't see any examples. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 05:03 PM |
| 0 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkYep. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 04:44 PM |
| 0 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkBelieve whatever you want. The family courts identified that my mother was struggling to take care of herself. So my father got custody. She wasn't even abusive. I've dealt with CPS several times and they were able to tell when abuse was happening. Come back with good statistics if you want to make your claims. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 04:42 PM |
| 0 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkHow does this address the manosphere issue if you never got involved with any manfluencers? You just made the case for men's problems existing long before the drop in employment and education. What's wrong with drugs? Just because someone else would have gotten drugs doesn't mean you would have. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 04:38 PM |
| 0 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkHow did institutional biases keep you from leaving? The courts are good at identifying bad behavior. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 04:27 PM |
| -1 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkWhat reverse discrimination? What unequal and subpar treatment in family court? Do you even have anything that even links family court to negative outcomes in men? What unequal and subpar treatments from governmental institutions? Whaf unequal treatment in the education system? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 04:22 PM |
| -1 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkWhat institutional constraints? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 04:12 PM |
| -2 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkYes | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkHow is dating up upholding the status quo? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 10:15 AM |
| -7 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkWhat discrimination? What prefersntial treatment? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 10:13 AM |
| -2 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkIf men are so good at determining what is necessary to be better, then why are so many men failing? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 10:11 AM |
| -1 | The disappearance of men | Christine Emba from Big ThinkIf positive male role models aren't what's needed then why why has the manosphere risen recently? If we need the same protection to get out of this rut, then why have problems such as education and employment only recently become problems? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Double standards: are men just better at the piano?I just wanna know where the violinist data came from. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Double standards: are men just better at the piano?Where did you get the violinist data? | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Woman, 39, who glassed a male pub drinker after he wrongly guessed she was 43 during light-hearted exchange is spared jail by female judge.https://www.irishtimes.com/crime-law/courts/2024/04/17/man-given-suspended-sentence-for-brutal-assault-on-former-partner/ | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Woman, 39, who glassed a male pub drinker after he wrongly guessed she was 43 during light-hearted exchange is spared jail by female judge.https://www.irishtimes.com/crime-law/courts/2024/04/17/man-given-suspended-sentence-for-brutal-assault-on-former-partner/ | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the youtuber 'Better Bachelor'?What are you talking about? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the youtuber 'Better Bachelor'?Hypergamy is the idea that women will find mates of greater status. The red pill version of hypergamy is that women are super ultra mega sluts and only care about money. I'm not saying he believes you or women should be hyergamous but that it is something womem do. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 01:47 AM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on the youtuber 'Better Bachelor'?I've watched a gandful of his videos. He tells a lot of stories. He seems to have a lot of experiences. I would be wary of drawing conclusions from his material since he is just one guy and he doesn't think very critically of the the things he experienced. One story I had a problem with was one he told about a stripper who was nice to customers' faces but was resentful behind their backs. He claimed they were being deceitful or lying but the stripper in the story never claimed she was telling th… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayWhat else would you call em? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayTrans Exclusionary Radical Feminists and Sex Worker Exclusionary Radical Feminists | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayCheck out radfems and lesbian separatists. I think they mostly gather on corners of tumblr. That's where you get the TERFs and SWERFs who believe anything related to men is bad. I'm not sure of its size but it has some number of followers. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Just Wondering, Why Are You On This Subreddit?Figured I'd try to help people get out but most seem to be out already. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/20 02:48 PM |
| 4 | I have misogynistic views and I want to changeSounds like you need to realize your worth. It's totally fine to be a virgin. It's fine to not be a virgin. Neither of those things makes you less worthy of consideration. You have value and you need to remind yourself of that if you don't have friends to help you. I'm sure there are things you do that make you a cool person to talk to and be around. Keep in mind what those are and try to build a community from those things. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | After leaving TRP, what do you think defines a good gf (or partner in general)How is "What if...?" similar to "I want..." What if someone is unhappy with their normal relationship? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | How does one express to a woman that he like her without being or acting needy?You only look needy or desperate if you don't accept a "No". If someone wants to consider you needy ir desperate for asking if someone wants to be your friend/partner then then they got something wrong with them. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/20 07:38 AM |
| 1 | After leaving TRP, what do you think defines a good gf (or partner in general)I'm guessing it's personal preference. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/20 07:14 AM |
| 3 | After leaving TRP, what do you think defines a good gf (or partner in general)Why is there not much value in thinking about what makes a relationship good or not? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/20 07:13 AM |
| 3 | After leaving TRP, what do you think defines a good gf (or partner in general)Respecting boundaries. You can't go wrong with that. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/20 07:12 AM |
| 3 | I think I'm beginning to get sucked into the red pill mindset. Any Thoughts/advice?If you talk to enough guys, you'll see that they too are quite irrational. Sure, men may tend to use facts and/or logic more but that's not entirely the whole picture. There are a lot of people who don't fit stereotypes. For instance, I have two brothers and a father who think with their hearts and less with their heads. I know only 2 other "facts and logic" people of all the people I interact with regularly. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 5 | 27 yo M, is it true i should not get in a serious relationship before my 30s 40s?Set hard boundaries. If she doesn't love you for who you are, then move on. If she's with you for your money, then move on. The key is to know that there is someone out there for you and to keep looking despite failure. Take me for instance. I enjoy arguing and deep analytical conversations. I am not the kind of guy that the average person is going to like being around. However, I know that there are women out there who DO enjoy what I am. The problem is casting a wide net and building yourself … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/20 06:22 PM |
| -3 | How do I overcome the perception of women as “gold diggers”?Do what I do. Date girls but keep your finances entirely separate. Everything is half. Period. There is no "ours". There is mine and there is yours. Hopefully, from there you will find women who aren't in it for the money and you can see that wimen get into relatiinshios for all sorts of reasins. Experiencing reality is our best way to change our perceptions. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 12 | How to help those who haven’t made it out?The best way to get people out is to show people that it's possible to change. I don't mean to show them that others have and can leave, even though that may help. I mean that you should let them know that if they were to look for answers outside of TRP, they could leave if they wanted and find a group that would accept them. People are in groups like TRP because they're looking for answers or a sense of belonging. If you can show red pillers that what they're looking for can be found outside of… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/20 07:24 AM |
| 8 | Why I'm in the middle of blue and red pill and why I hate the red pill even though it makes senseThis is why you have to see the value in your own progress. Don't make getting a loving girlfriend as your sign of success. Make your progress your success. Feel good inowing that you found your boundaries. Feel good when you stick to those boundaries. Remind yourself that you won't be stuck in a relationship like that again because of the work you've done. Be happy because of who YOU are and not because of who you've attracted. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/20 10:03 AM |
| 7 | At least girls have certaintyI also have generally undesirable personality traits. I absolutely love to argue. Ideological conflict is my jam but many people avoid it like the plague. So I stay true to myself in hopes that I'll find a girl who wants to argue with me. I know they exist. I just have to find one. The trick is to become content with who you are first and then just pursue your passions where people are likely to encounter you so women can find you. If you can be happy without the attention of women then finding … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/20 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Someone please help me... I don’t wanna be “incel” anymoreYeah, without a proper mindset and help, rejection can be disastrous. I wish guys had more support from their friends and family but in lieu of their presence, I shall try to provide what they haven't. Maybe you're not ready for a romantic or sexual relationship but your efforts to see people as they are instead of through the harmful lens of TRP is something I think you can be proud of and find personal value in. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Someone please help me... I don’t wanna be “incel” anymoreJust because you're a virgin doesn't mean you'll always be one. Change can make a difference. Your sexual status doesn't mean you're less valuable as a person. You're a human being who deserves to be happy and not to be considered inferior for your circumstances. I'm glad you're focusing on changing for the better. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/20 06:51 PM |
| 14 | Someone please help me... I don’t wanna be “incel” anymoreWhy do you think women are this way? How are women different from men? What experiences have you had with women and men that have led you to beleieve these things? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/20 08:56 AM |
| 6 | Being friends with women?Now, I do believe it's very unlikely that you'd find a woman like that, but I think you should hold off on being friends with women till you figure out why a woman having any number of partners in any amount of time would negatively impact you. Her romantic life should not matter to you nor yours to her. On being led on, it's best to keep firm boundaries. If you find a woman asking for or doing things that you think a romantic partner should only be allowed to do, then communicate that and act a… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 2 | I'm 21 (M) and I dont have experience with womenBasically what everyone else said. Think about what you want. Communicate that to your partner. Make arrangements to give what she wants and for her to give you what you want. If those things are not given then talk more about why it didn't work. Set new requirements. If you are dissatisfied at any time then feel free to leave. Setting boundaries and sticking to them really helps. Don't not reform boundaries but be careful if you do. Realize that mistakes happen and learn from them. Also, have f… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/20 07:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm 21 (M) and I dont have experience with womenYou sure you're in the right place? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/20 06:46 AM |
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