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Baby face and short here (27M). Can confirm this is absolutely the worst looks situation for a man and the worst part is you just get gaslit that you are not that bad looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:46 PM
6

No he sounds like a great guy actually. I’ve learned that everything is the opposite of what you think. Lying is good. Domestic abuse is good. Black is white and up is down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 PM
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Agree it’s not the same as homelessness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:23 PM
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I’m fine with prostitution and I also see that as an intimate experience between two people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:10 PM
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So you think that sex is just a physical release and not an intimate connected experience between two people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:54 AM
1

Exactly. The desire to “provide”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:39 PM
3

Why would a man pay an OF model if he can just jerk off to porn for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:10 PM
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Haha I agree 100% man. The female gender truly hates us anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:51 PM
0

Expanding your social circle is a joke. We live in a throwaway culture where as soon as you’re not entertaining someone they leave you. Most adults don’t have a “social circle” outside of their spouse and and family and maybe a couple people for this reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:46 PM
1

Guitar, camping/kayaking, mountain biking, weightlifting, boxing, playing pool. That’s mostly it although I’ve had others over the years like homebrewing and 3d printing although interest tends to wane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:56 AM
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What you are doing does not produce a tangible result and is therefore not considered interesting to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:53 AM
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I think marriage statistics basically prove that over a long period of time, it doesn’t work. You can butthurt over that fact, but it’s true. People are a bad investment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:06 AM
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Most relationships are crappy over a long period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:16 AM
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That’s how most relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:58 AM
0

Funny that sex is somehow not considered affectionate. What is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:45 AM
1

B-b-because it’s bad to be attracted to people of another race!! Don’t you get it?? It’s a “fetish”. That’s a buzzword I’m supposed to be mad at
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:08 AM
2

You sound like a very young child
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:51 AM
3

Nah not really but you seem to be quite animated right now. You sure you’re a “man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:48 AM
3

You’ve proven to be a great identifier of “racists”. Congrats! Probably a big accomplishment for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:46 AM
2

I still don’t care and thanks for the downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:44 AM
1

Ok let’s say you’re a man and you are attracted to an asian woman. That makes you a pervert? People just find something wrong with everything. Male sexuality is demonized so much even being attracted to someone is considered a social crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:37 AM
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When I dated an asian woman, people made fun of me for having an “asian fetish”. It was literally because no one else was interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:34 AM
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We can’t meet anyone here and when we move away to meet someone, we’re racists. You just can’t win
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:32 AM
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Send me a pic and I’ll tell you if that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:12 AM
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Thank god. Maybe I can finally overcome my forever alone status as I am approaching my late twenties now. I’m fine with someone within 2-5 years as long as they are childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:32 PM
4

I just asked my wife’s boyfriend and he agrees you need to have at least 5 female friends before attempting to date anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:18 PM
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Where the hell did OP say anything remotely resembling what you just said? You are a complete idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:11 PM
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Trying to start a relationship is now considered preying on someone. This where we’re at people. Oh well. Enjoy the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:53 PM
1

What society wants us to do: die alone quietly and keep paying taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:40 PM
1

Glad I chose EE as a career /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:00 PM
7

I’ve just noticed that very few people care at all about “undesirable” males and if no one cares about you how can you care about anything at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:55 PM
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I’ve been a complainer for years but I am currently “transitioning” into an emotionless person myself. I have experienced so much rejection in all areas of life I’m starting to simply not care about anything or anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:28 PM
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Thanks man. I’m sorry someone downvoting you hurt you so bad. I thought you were such a tough resilient guy or something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:02 PM
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Did you meet her on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:53 PM
1

What happened to “get to know me first”? It’s always the opposite of what you do. If you linger and get to know her youre deceptive. If you declare your intentions right away, you’re just valuing her for her looks and not getting to know her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:05 PM
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No one but these guys have success nevertheless. Trust me, people can sense I am a loser just by looking at me which is why I’ve never had a single success on OLD for years. Haven’t been able to meet a single person. What other explanation could there be? Whenever I send my photos to people they say I’m a 5/10 which I know means 3/10 since people try to be nice. You probably wouldn’t understand but it actually hurts really bad when no one on earth wants you. I will never be loved by anyone no ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:05 PM
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Yes they are way better than me. That’s what I get for being born unattractive. I deserve to be treated like shit for my bad appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:49 PM
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It’s over boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:59 PM
4

That is the reality I have. I only have work acquaintances and they have things going on already. I’ve had some friends in the past but people come and go or I get tired of treated like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:16 PM
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Thanks man! It’s because I’ve done these things before and it doesn’t work unless you’re super slick already and have the opportunity. You can sign up for retarded gay shit all day and waste your time because there is no mechanism to set you up with anyone except OLD which is all about your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:48 PM
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Have you ever considered that signing up for every damn thing under the sun after you’ve worked all week could lead to absolutely nothing and that you’re not getting any younger? Have you ever considered that people who sign up for dumb shit don’t do it because they are single and looking and may even find it creepy if you do it for that reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:45 PM
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Make friends not to woo them. Got it. That’s “creepy” and “problematic” but also hanging around a woman without declaring intentions is deceptive. Good luck having little buddies as a fully grown adult. People have shit going on and they don’t want to be your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:42 PM
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Eliot roger was not good looking at all. He looked like an unattractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:38 PM
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Hey it’s probably written by a woman. They are used to people buying all their bullshit unchallenged
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:37 PM
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Only hope for uglies and normies is orbiting around to “prove” what a “nice guy” you are, but even that will be misconstrued as “problematic” and “deceptive”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:34 PM
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Great. Now how do we get into a situation where we can be around a woman for months and woo her? Oh wait, that isn’t practical in reality especially when they can just log into a dating app and meet somebody better in seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:30 PM
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I believe statistics have shown that the most dangerous men are the ones you know but for some reason people assign danger to random strangers instead of
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:21 PM
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And where are you getting that from? A single post you don’t like?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:06 PM
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I’m in the same boat and I agree. I’ll be 27 next month and financially far superior to my peers. I know what I’ve missed out on. The people who have everything won’t convince me it’s better to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:04 PM
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Good luck getting a woman to see errors in her own behavior. They aren’t capable of that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:57 PM
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The thing is the women that post in this sub are some of the dumbest women on earth, so take it with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:08 PM
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Amazingly enough people can’t seem to understand learning from other people’s experience. That’s how people with higher intelligence learn what to do and what not do without getting burned so much themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:07 PM
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Absolutely true. Women usually take their anger out on men who are perceived as harmless simply because they are unattractive. I’ve experienced this personally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:58 PM
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Can’t post anything here without 10 peer reviewed studies I guess. It’s just a theory. It definitely applies to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:50 PM
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I’d actually argue that you have to be at least somewhat broken to be considered attractive. Some of the most well put together guys I know are single. They don’t bring the drama that comes with a fixer upper
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:15 PM
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And what this does is make the guy think they are a subhuman and they become a loner unable to relate to anyone anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:00 PM
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They all had awesome personalities and passed the vibe test. The ugly shy guy with no personality? That doesn’t pass the vibe test
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:07 PM
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At least that was just a dumb comment. When people say these things to your face it’s a bad sign. It’s basically saying “YOU shouldn’t approach because no one would want that”. I have a sister who has met guys at concerts before so these aren’t rules that apply to everyone. I’ve even approached at bars but it’s all been negative responses haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:58 PM
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My old therapist told me not to approach women in gyms. Then the next therapy session she mentioned a couple she knows who met at a gym. It’s different rules when you’re unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:51 PM
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I am someone who is overly agreeable as man. I am basically doing shock therapy by getting into boxing. I think it’s a great idea for “nice guys” since they tend to be unassertive and less masculine. I’m also getting ketamine treatments for anxiety and depression. Basically putting yourself in uncomfortable situations you normally wouldn’t do. Buying a motorcycle, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:01 PM
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Yeah i meant for the himbo personality part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:43 PM
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Hasan piker comes to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:40 PM
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So true. The only reason someone could be polite is they are plotting the next holocaust
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:39 PM
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As a woman you don’t need to take any advice to be attractive. It’s just common sense. 80% of males will be attracted to you even if you do nothing unless you are hideously deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:58 PM
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Who is even giving women advice? All you have to do is show up and not be a complete bitch. Most can’t even handle that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:59 PM
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Maybe you should get off this sub then? You seem to have it all figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:51 PM
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Most women have a combination of narcissism, entitlement and low self esteem and expect others to boost their confidence yet require a man who knows everything and has no issues with confidence whatsoever. No man cares if a woman “lacks confidence” or anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:36 PM
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Or just don’t even watch women. We know thy are hypocrites who don’t care about you so why bother
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:35 PM
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There are not infinite topics related to this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:33 PM
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Let’s say in theory there is a person responding to you on reddit and this person makes a six figure income and works out every day. Maybe he doesn’t have an amazing body but it’s thin and decent. Now let’s say this person has swiped on every person between the ages 18 and 60 within 100 miles. What do you suggest? The standards cannot get lower and the self improvement cannot increase
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:43 PM
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Income doesn’t matter looks do. I probably make more than you but look like an abomination
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:33 PM
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Thanks I’m cured. I’ve never thought about improving myself at all. I don’t know how to do that since it’s so vague but maybe I’ll ask my neighbor who doesn’t work and lives with his parents yet seems to do fine dating wise. Oh but maybe his personality is better whatever that means. As men, if we are ugly asses we don’t choose anything. Thankfully society has made it impossible for us to do anything in person (work = sexual harassment, gym = lose your membership, everywhere else = but youre not…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:31 PM
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Sorry but you have a smooth brain. All you know is “muh taxes” and yet you probably think surplus value is naturally occuring. I’d rather pay a tax to something that can at least possibly benefit me than a tax to a private entity that will distributed to shareholders. Surplus value is a tax that doesn’t even benefit you. It’s wealth redistribution to a monopoly. The problem with “muh taxes” is that there are too many loopholes caused by lack of govt regulation. So we need more regulation to clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:19 PM
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We didn’t have a government before classes existed. There has to be a government to regulate and mediate diametrically opposed classes. This is basic shit. Sorry your history only extends 100 years. People have been around much longer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:11 PM
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“The government” is a publicly elected body. It can change form and has changed form over time. Governments hundreds of years ago were less democratic than today. Government exist because of class antagonisms like I already explained
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:21 PM
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Socialist countries are cosntantly under sanction and pressure to submit to western capital. Just look at china. South korea is a lot nicer than vietnam and north korea because they are buddies with imperial core countries and weren’t bombed to shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:37 PM
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Excellent retort. There is no exercise for your face and height. Hopefully that was simple enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:30 PM
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Hmm I wonder why you’re on this sub then? Can’t imagine you’re as hot as you think. My attitude sucks because I’m short and ugly which is an uncurable disability
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:24 PM
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So you are indeed a fat woman. I’m a 137 lb 5foot8 man who is ugly in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:18 PM
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There is no exercise for your face. There is exercise for your weight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:13 PM
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So I see that you are fat woman. That’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:10 PM
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I should become a street magician to meet women. But I should also do things purely for myself not to meet women. You learn so much online. I should quit my desk job with stable benefits and income to go juggle on the side of the street
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:08 PM
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You’re doing the “they tried socialism” thing. “They tried socialism” in countries that were underdeveloped to begin with. Unfortunately socialism is more likely to occur in countries that were in deplorable conditions. Eventually we will have to move towards socialism since this system is unsustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:07 PM
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What is your weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:04 PM
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It really isn’t. I’m sure you can find niche people who are interested in tiny wrist beta males but those people are fringe and it would take me an entire lifetime to find them. I’m 26 and swiped on every person on the east coast but I am universally unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:02 PM
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Unatttractive people are so funny. We should laugh and throw things at them and tell them to “self improve” all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:01 PM
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Well apparently no one’s type is me. I can’t afford to have a type myself since I’m universally undesirable. That’s how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:53 PM
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I feel like blaming the government for lobbying is just a scapegoat. The private company has every incentive to lobby because it’s inherent profit motive. The state in theory operates in the public interest but is of course susceptible for corruption. But at least in theory it operates for the public interest. The private company doesn’t even pretend. It directly operates against workers and consumers in favor of shareholders. The only hope for democracy is state interference brought upon by inp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:52 PM
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I don’t believe the state can be a monopoly in a socialist state since with a democratic government, there is planning from top to bottom with democratic input. A private corporation plans top down for shareholder profits without consulting with anyone below. I don’t think anyone disagree that govt should punish lobbyists but good luck getting that to happen when big company lobbying is so powerful. We don’t vote or have any control over leaders of corporations, they are shareholders. Whether we…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:47 PM
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They are ologopolies and it’s impossible to start a small business airline or car company anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:26 PM
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I’d love to know where all the women who love skinny scrawny effeminate men are. I’ve been alive for 26 years and swiped on thousands of people and never met a single person. Maybe they all live on a different corner of the earth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:47 PM
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That’s a joke. A monopoly is ofc a small minority. It’s a monopoly. That means there are less of them. “The rest” eventually dwindle to zero. We have never seen a centralized economy in our lives that didn’t start from shambles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:43 PM
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Not sure what you mean. Unless the government allow. So you want the government to disallow monopolies? Why can’t the “free” market do it itself? How did big monopolies like Carnegie, rockefeller form? They used their own profits to create monopolies not government capital. Not sure what is the URSS but if you mean the soviet union, then monopolies didn’t exist there. The state is not a monopoly it’s the only thing stopping monopolies from occurring. A centrally planned economy cannot have monop…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:08 PM
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I am definitely immature for my age (26) and still obsess over one woman who doesn’t want me like a high schooler. Problem is no other one wants me either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:07 PM
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Yeah good luck breaking into a corner of a market that’s already a monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:43 PM
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Big capital always wants to centralize for its bottom line. That’ why anti trust laws were passed. The state is definitely a tool for lobbyists nowadays but back then it had to be used to break monopolies since they form naturally under capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:14 AM
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Which happened in early americas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:45 AM
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Really hate the concept of “free market” which really doesn’t exist. It’s just an ideology really. Private property effectively eliminates competition and leads to monopolies, undermining itself. But yeah I would say dating is a market, since resources definitely get distributed to a few people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:43 PM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:06 PM
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Wasn’t at all during the Mao Era
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:22 PM
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Wait are we talking about a country that had a cultural revolution not too long ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:22 PM
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Yeah why would I be responsible for someone else’s relationship decisions? They are the ones choosing their partners not me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:47 AM
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This is my life minus the consistent friends and it is still over
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:43 PM
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The core of the issue is women do not want to held responsible for any decision they make. They are natural born narcissists who think that something is always someone else’s fault. So she thinks nothing of creating endless rules and hurdles for an average or below average guy while throwing all the rules out the window for chad. Average and below average guys must become expert conversationalists, independently wealthy, and build a massive social circle out of their ass meanwhile chad lives wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:38 PM
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Middle ground only exists for chads
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:36 AM
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Yeah Ok if you count somebody who utilized old patriarchy concepts that don’t exist today and is currently divorced with no prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:35 AM
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The absolute worst condition is having a blue pill dad who actually believes being Mr nice guy is great even when it clearly didn’t work for him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:04 PM
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I’m relatively short caucasian man. Problem is autism and dorky appearance (I look like a child at 26). I had a head injury as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:18 PM
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We’re all doing that man. But it’s just polishing a turd. These things are predetermined
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:50 PM
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You’re either a doormat or an asshole. No matter what you do as an unattractive guy it will be perceived as negative and nitpicked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:35 PM
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I can assure you no one cares about a woman’s level of assertive. You can be assertive or feeble as you want. It makes no difference. Also expecting a dude to be celibate for life being a doormat for others is silly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:33 PM
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I don’t think anyone thinks being nice entitles them to sex. The whole point is respecting others and being overly polite makes you less attractive whereas being assertive and being kind of a dick makes you more attractive, given you have a certain looks level
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:08 PM
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Same bro. Even disabled women have zero interest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:03 PM
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And also stop using it is a trendy cool thing. People with autism are disabled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:07 PM
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In bars people often converse with many different people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:16 PM
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People tell me “You don’t fit in here”. Imagine you are in a bar with your frat bros or whoever and some untouchable walks in by himself. He tries to make conversation but ultimately isn’t acceptable. Do you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:19 AM
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Thanks but I have a regular day job like most people. I go out on occasion but my demographics and persona don’t fit with most people. I do most things alone otherwise I have to insert myself into situations that don’t amount to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:49 PM
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How old are you? No way you’re doing night life every week at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:24 PM
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I love how when a man experiences a negative reaction to rejection it’s because he has a big ego he needs to get over. When it’s a woman it’s because of “muh trauma” which is always a man’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:23 PM
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That “hi” was crafted by the superior social intellect of a woman though. That paragraph you wrote attempting to find common interest with someone who gives you no information? That’s the sign of a socially inept person. Man bad women good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:16 PM
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Not happening outside your head bud
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:12 PM
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My default is to assume no one is interested. Why? Because the few times I thought someone was flirting they already had a partner. Why would I bother trying to interpret vague “signals” when the penalty for guessing wrong is getting reported or embarrassed? And before you say this doesn’t happen, it happened to me and I don’t want it to happen again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:09 PM
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I have a job/career already but it’s a struggle. Office jobs sound nice and cushy unless you are lacking in the social department.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:48 PM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:12 PM
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Sadly the regressive “bootstraps” mentality is the standard line of thought here. It’s super painful to be rejected for things you can’t control on top of having people hate your existence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:06 PM
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You do realize that autism is a disability? Honestly society failed most of us through lack of diagnosis and now we have to spend our entire adult lives confused and lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:32 PM
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Saw a news story the other day where this horribly ugly guy threw his wife in a fire. I think it’s more to do with being socially dominant and neurotypical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:38 PM
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What it boils down to is are you neurotypical and do you have charisma naturally? If you don’t nothing you do matters. You won’t succeed in dating, in the workplace or anywhere. It’s unfortunate because I am not that person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:36 PM
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Not sure if this is relevant but my personal trainer is a 38 year old woman and I would date her in a heartbeat if she was interested. She’s seeing someone though plus I’m 26 so she probably thinks I’m immature
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:36 PM
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This is correct. People didn’t have so much issue meeting before OLD. Now it’s taboo to meet anyone in person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:32 PM
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The problem is when they dress the way they do then get mad when people look at them. You are not entitled to control other people’s gaze and you freely choose what to put on your body
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:17 PM
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Forced and enslaved? Do you get your info from hollywood? Last post before I get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:11 PM
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Wow. Further confirmation I am forever alone. It’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:19 PM
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Should a man be shamed for soliciting a prostitute? I mean it’s just a tool that they can use
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:46 PM
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Man I wish it was easier to get rid of this stupid demeanor. People assume i am a loser thar lives with my parents but i haven’t lived with family for years. I just have this annoying awkward persona that I can’t get rid of
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:08 PM
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Just give up smoking and drinking, buy a prius and be the nicest guy the world has ever seen and everyone will just love you for it! Women will see you and think wow he’s the nicest guy I ever met. I’m so sick of dating assholes but he’s my hero! I love the way he never takes a risk and defers to authority!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:53 PM
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What in your life allowed you to have this mindset so young?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:41 PM
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Unfortunately you’re going to get a lot of backlash for stating simple facts. Women hate awkward guys because those guys are not “pioneers” they are followers. They probably were obedient conformists who wanted to please their teachers and parents growing up. All women regardless of what nonsense they spew like guys that have the confidence to break new ground even if it means throwing others under the bus for personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:31 PM
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Women on this sub are just ridiculous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:36 PM
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Because you want to lie to yourself thinking you prefer soft, low body count males when in reality they probably disgust you. Just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:56 PM
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Well you would love me then! I only had one partner my whole life at 26. Then again I bet you’re not being very truthful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah no one cares about a degree but definitely having multiple partners is great
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:43 PM
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Absolutely not. The only way to meet anyone is through pursuit as a man unless you have god tier looks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:14 PM
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For me having a lowered sex drive is depressing. I miss being a teen and craving it all the time. Now I watch porn as a mid twenties guy and lose interest halfway through. It’s depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:13 PM
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The desire to start a family
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:12 PM
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All of these described are preferences, not fetishes but I do agree with the premise of OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:35 PM
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The term “fetish” is almost always used in the wrong context. It’s supposed to refer to being sexually turned on by inanimate objects, not just having a kink
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:18 PM
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I’m 26 and in the same boat. Most women I’ve met (especially younger) can’t hold a conversation to save their life. I just can’t hold interest in that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:01 PM
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Wtf.. most men would fuck any woman who is a non granny or morbidly obese. Although there are people who are into that the vast majority are not and this goes for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:37 PM
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Agreed man. I am a severe late bloomer and it’s pretty much over. I’m approaching my late twenties at this point. And you’re right I would look like a total loser going to a dance class. I also work in a technical field and although there are women here I don’t think any of them have interest in dating anyone at work or are already in longterm situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:18 PM
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I’ve never heard of it but I will give it a try. Confidence is hard because I feel constant fatigue, sadness and social anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:54 PM
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Of course I’d love a long term relationship leading to marriage. The problem is I am 26 and look like shit facially. I just look like a twerp. I’ve made improvements to my body working out every day but looking like a dufus and extreme anxiety I can’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah and I like minimize my contributions to shit that’s useless. You’re right though I do eat food
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:07 PM
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So you think blindly giving money to corporations means you are “serious”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:10 PM
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The fuck? I make 100k a year. What else is there to “offer”? I know you are going to say “have an awesome personality” which is utter bs. Of course I can sit here and say “I have an awesome personality” but then you will say “No based on two of your posts online I immediately know everything about how you interact on a day to basis”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:52 PM
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Oh of course paid sites. It’s not enough that the apps sell your data but you have to pay them on top of that. Also it doesn’t matter what we are looking for since we will never get it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:19 PM
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Shared hobbies are a pipe dream. I mean what sorts of single women are signing up for ham radio club or rc car events? Not too many. Best bet is group hikes but honestly those are mostly older people like you said. My personal trainer recommended the gym and she actually said she has helped people in the past get girls numbers however people mostly wear headphones in there and I can guarantee the vast majority do not want to be bothered especially if you aren’t tall, confident and attractive. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:17 PM
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1 happened to me a month or two back. Funny thing is whenever I tell anyone about it they blame me. If people can’t handle being slightly uncomfortable by someone glancing in their direction they shouldn’t go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:35 PM
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My neighbor is a loser with no job or car who walks around in a g string every summer. He has a girlfriend. I guess she drives him around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:29 PM
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I’ve been sexually assaulted before (as a man). Didn’t affect me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:00 PM
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Spot on! 100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:01 PM
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