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Thanks for all the responses. Yeah I am pretty hard on myself which is my problem that I've realized and am now working through. Also, I have always felt guided by circumstance and I was in survival mode the past few years. Those two things aren't my problem anymore. I have life really good right now and it feels so weird and bizarre I almost don't know how to function. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing, picking up plates, working and saving, riding and enjoying life and I'll go whatever direc…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 03:42 AM
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You're response is genius. The sad thing is that unfortunately it's true. I've always had balls but I've been lazy. I need to channel that into dedication and skill.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:57 AM
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Yeah. I think I am a natural red pull too. Just our societal conditioning has taken its toll on me as well. O brave new world. Fuck this huxlien society.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 10:27 PM
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You're absolutely right and I didn't see that at the time. I probably shifted the frame more to the true definition of friend rather than the hamsterese definition. That's my mistake and will probably be my undoing with this short lived plate but fuck. I consider this situation a win for me. I've gained the reference and experience and now I'm just moving forward on this red pill life. Seriously. I don't want to imagine what I'd be becoming without the red pill. I'm 23. So glad I found this comm…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:23 PM
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Yeah I probably went a little more blue pill than I realized. I was just so taken off guard once we did the deed that it I almost couldn't believe it. I've read field reports here. And I've always come frome a blue pill beta mindset. So now that I'm going Alpha red pill it's just very surreal. Almost like straight up waking up from the matrix. This shit just works man. I need more plates. That's my problem and I've been in a dry spell for a while. I'm changing my mindset to abundance by in not i…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:18 PM
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I feel like this question defeats the purpose of TRP. I feel like this questions emphasis of value and importance is on the woman rather than the man.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:26 AM
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I definitely always escalate and listen to her actions not her words which is why we have been banging. I wont let it get to the point where we are friends with no bang. I know she wants it I think she just doesn't want to look like a slut. I'll just keep making it look like "Ohh no we fucked again" but then I'm just gonna frame it into a "friends who understand eachother with sexual benefits thing" Either way I won in this situation, I've gained the experience and reference and I'm growing as a…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:45 PM
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Yeah. I got daddy issues and all that. I always want to validate myself. I'll keep that in mind. We fuck or 0 fucks given. Do you think her wanting to be friends with me could be a shit test? Because I think at the end of the day she wants me as a fuck buddy but her Anti-Slut Defense is on like red alert in her mind. But I will do that. Pussy or nothing. Patrice o neal said that women ho us out with our time, money, energy and pretty much everything. I won't be a time ho.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:58 PM
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No I am. Cali life brah. It's just my day off.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:55 PM
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Yeah fersure. Just woke up and all.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:40 PM
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Apparently so. I don't see that as a bad thing. Men are logical creatures. We see someone's attractive so they must be alpha. Women are emotional. He's hot, has money, but he doesn't FEEL alpha. I think when you get in touch with that and realize it, it will change everything. During my encounters with this women everything was coming to me in a logical fashion. She has a bf, she doesn't want to fuck. She's 30, I'm 23 no way. We just fucked, omg shes gonna tell him. She's this, there's that. But…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:38 PM
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I take whatever works from what people say and discard the rest. Red pill is practical wisdom after all.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:26 PM
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I just woke up. I'm not into twilight it's just really funny.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:25 PM
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That's just so crazy to me how you could essentially have qualities that make you alpha even if they are external but inside you're beta. I have to remind myself though. If not for the red pill, I'd probably be in the same position. Fuck that shit. So this is our advantage though and why this shit works? You can't get mad at a dog if you leave it in a room with a steak and it eats it. A dog is gonna do what a do is gonna do. Betas think those dogs are princess and don't understand them for their…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:24 PM
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Ok the twilight reference may have been to much. It was intended for the people who didn't want to read my shit so it's having its effect but yeah I get it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:16 PM
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That makes sense. I can see that. I'll have that abundance 0 fuck a given mentality then.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:15 PM
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Cool thanks for the input. Yeah I thought it was really funny but ok haha. I am very hard on myself it's one of my short comings, I'll work on that. Yeah those two options make sense in light of what I have been learning from here. Experiencing it is just a whole different thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:19 AM
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Fersure man thanks for the words. My mind is just blown. I've been reading and applying everything here as best I can but to actually live it out firsthand is something else. Yeah I'll just be giving her what she wants. Thanks bros.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 06:17 PM
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I just ignored it completly. No hesitation. Completely stoic and unphased and did everything as if she was single. TBH I see the "I have a boyfriend" as a shit test.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 04:38 AM
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Actually we just got off the phone. SHes cool. Said she could NEVER tell her bf cause it would DEVASTATE him. We are hanging tomorrow. Im taking her on my R6 down pch. Im just seeing this with logic and reason and realizing shes fueled by hamstering and emotion. When you realize that its like being fucking neo man and seeing the matrix You just use it against them. Theres always gonna be an Alpha fux. Im just that Alpha now. Ty Red Pill. Ty.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 04:34 AM
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No he is a bf. Ok yeah this is all just so weird to me. Its my first lay since taking the red pill and like I just went with what I have learned from here not with my old self and I just feel like my reality shattered. I listened to her actions not her words. Blue pill me would never even have been in this situation in the first place. Let alone I would have stopped escalation wayyyyy before her words said no but her actions said everything else. Lo and behold we fucked man. I just don't get it …
/r/askTRP17/09/14 03:39 AM
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You know, I recently went on a date with a girl who I met the night after hanging with my bro and while I saw that PU worked that night. When I was on the date PU isn't shit. On a date you are either alpha or you arent. You are either a man of value, or youre just a guy who knows how to manipulate a woman into sleeping with them when they are looking for that as well on a night out. I am really starting to see the depth of red pill.
/r/trpGAME17/09/14 03:02 AM
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Ill check that out.
/r/trpGAME17/09/14 03:00 AM
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Makes sense. Ill just do what I know I need to do better and faster. Practice makes perfect and all that.
/r/trpGAME15/09/14 02:49 AM
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stoicism
/r/trpGAME13/09/14 08:50 PM
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hahah. that's pretty good. Ill remember that one. That's an example of AA right? I understand the concept, however I'm not as experienced in the utilization of AA and it doesn't always come to me right away. More examples like this from others would be great.
/r/trpGAME13/09/14 08:06 PM
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I also found the sub a few months ago too
/r/trpGAME06/09/14 01:06 AM
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Fuck yeah. You are definitely right. That mental block was going through my head last night. I felt that like shock of "This is actually working" last night and it felt like I couldn't proceed even though everything I knew I needed to do to escalate and close was right in front of me and I could see it now. Like I was almost socially paralyzed. Yeah we got to break the social conditioning. I actually think I am a natural alpha but I was betafied by my mom and society. She actually died of breast…
/r/trpGAME06/09/14 01:06 AM
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No shame. Just close and fuck pussy man. Cause I am a man worth fucking and women lose out when they arent riding my D. Anyways I thought about your comment a little bit more and I think I almost like innately dont want to believe the red pill. Because I swallowed it and I definitely believe it, but now that I'm applying it its like shattering my reality. All my past interactions with women make sense, even the heartbreaks I understand now. But like knowing and seeing this stuff I almost feel ki…
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 11:09 PM
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Yeah probably. I think I'm just nervous to have sex. It's been a while.
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 10:46 PM
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You know. I was kinda taken aback by it all. Because listening to her actions not words was going through my mind all night and at any point I could have gone for it. Tbh I was still kinda sketched out by the whole don't shit where you eat cause I kinda messed up at another place before with a really crazy girl so I was hesitant to escalate to closing. Because she's a coworker I wanted to lay things at clear as day so if she says no. All that's between us is a just a conversation and nothing mor…
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 09:50 PM
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Anyways long story short we hungout for a bit and I basically laid it out for her if she was down to have a mutual non-serious fuck buddy relationship and I told her straight up thats what I want. She said she was open to it and would think about it. I told her if shes cool we fuck and work like nothings going on. If shes not cool with it there is no weird confusion, no beating around bushes or going in circles I just take it as a no and move on. So thats that. Honestly I feel like I approached …
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 11:13 AM
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Kid you not. Not at the same time. But one after the other. I got the idea from here. http://youtu.be/-Kk62700eMs But I'm not here to make yall believe me. I'm here for advice and to encourage others. Naysayers gonna naysay.
/r/trpGAME30/08/14 12:29 AM
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That is an interesting statistic as well as insight. Ill keep that in mind
/r/trpGAME29/08/14 09:18 PM
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Fersure. I also just ordered day game on amazon so I'll be tearing up that. I'll just be tenacious. The events I described were in a bar that wasn't so packed. When a bar/club is really packed with tons of people I feel like I just don't know how to handle that. How should I re frame my mind right now for a more packed and intense environment. I feel like I just don't match up to the other guys there. Do I just have to jump in and keep approaching? Trial by fire? Or is there a way to build up. I…
/r/trpGAME29/08/14 06:45 AM
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I think I was just making it more complicated than it was. I just forget the simplicity of things sometimes.
/r/trpGAME21/08/14 03:31 AM
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Yeah I've been reading up on social circles coincidentally. That seems like the way to go. What are the benefits of a social circle? That's where you like figuratively create your own kingdom in a sense right?
/r/trpGAME20/08/14 07:45 PM
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Dude this is awesome thanks. I'll definitely do this. Was gonna work on tinder game soon but I was looking for info like what you gave me. Thanks brah.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 09:04 PM
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Well fuck. Yeah Ive been meaning to buy it but I guess I really should get it now. I've just been lazy. Ill get on that then.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 09:06 AM
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Cool that's great insight and that makes alot of sense. I'll take that into account.
/r/trpGAME14/08/14 02:58 AM
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Stealing doesn't seem to be the right word. I'm learning from it and applying it to to my life. It works. That's just what knowledge is. And wisdom is applying it. I'm just taking whatever I can to improve my game and live a red pill lifestyle. Isn't that why we are all here?
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 06:19 AM
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Actually I went out tonight and got this cute girls number who is a server at a place I have seen around for a while. Gonna follow up with that and post a field report with the results. It wasn't anything to intense. Just rolled up, asked to see her, said I thought she was cute and got her number. She walked away as if I made her night. I'm just believing in myself and realizing my value, it's so easy.
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 04:32 AM
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ripping?
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 04:30 AM
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Fuck yeah. Ok thanks man. I'll post the results of what happened either way later tonight on my phone in her bed or tomorrow. Either way I am shooting to score so that's my objective tonight to fuck this chick. All or nothing. Many more field reports to come. I took the pill I can't go back, we are in this shit together. Thanks for the advice.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 10:27 PM
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Ok that's good stuff I appreciate the advice man. I'll keep it simple and I actually needed that reminder from you cause like those 2 points I need to ingrain in my head. Cause those 2 points essentially are moving from "I am lucky to be here with you as I am finding value in you"(blue pill/beta mindset) to "you are lucky to be here with me because I am a man who's life has value and I am constantly improving my value"(red pill/alpha mindset) and then fucking just comes naturally with that menta…
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 10:14 PM
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That's true, I did do the shy guy frame. Ok, some of my life story came out while first interacting with her but I'll hold the whole starting over mysterious new guy in town frame. How can I play the whole shy guy to my advantage now? Also for next time, how do I open as the like alpha bad boy? Is that viable? I am just doing shy guy game now for practice and starters and honestly its relative to me cause I can understand it. But I do want to progress to the no fucks given alpha bad boy motorcyc…
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 09:58 PM
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Yeah definitely. Well this is my first time taking action and applying TRP principles to my life in regards to game so I am getting there. If I do seal the deal, where do I go from there? I am planning to hang out with her today cause I am off and she definitely wants to hang. I am kinda just winging it right now cause I am new to my area of residence. The general plan I have is to go out for coffee with her or drinks or something casual where we can talk and near where she lives so I can get he…
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 09:26 PM
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That cafe racer style is nice. It's a little more classy and In my opinion I think It would be better for game. I was gonna get a sporster 1200 but I decided to get my current r6. Every bike sends a certain message to people but I haven't experimented with it in regards to game yet.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 07:37 PM
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Actually I have just been watching his youtube channel. You should check it out. He has infield footage and a ton of other good stuff on his channel. Just youtube good looking loser.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 07:33 PM
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I actually got day game on my amazon wish list. I'm gonna get it soon. Fak yah brah! Keep riding man. I want to make a detailed account of motorcycle game soon but I am still new to trp so I'm lurking more for now but definitely taking notes for when I start contributing. I really believe that motorcycles are a healthy part of a trp lifestyle even aside from a game standpoint.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 07:46 AM
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I actually did that right after I read what you said earlier. Thanks for that advice. Ill hand them the phone next time. That Seems Pretty smart.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 07:43 AM
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It's very applicable to trp
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 07:18 AM
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If I can do it, anyone can. Acta non verba.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 04:11 AM
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Thus was really helpful for me. I think it will answer your question. http://youtu.be/eFuMi36mg2k.
/r/trpGAME03/08/14 10:45 AM
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Acta Non Verba. "Deeds not words"
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 06:38 AM
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the misc?
/r/askTRP31/07/14 12:19 AM
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Fuck yes, everyone has awesome advice. I'm gonna take everything into account here and get in it. I'll save this page and Ill be sure to keep coming back to it on those down days. I'll be building discipline and killing old habits this month but I'll be hitting the gym for sure.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 12:18 AM
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Ok, ill look stronglifts 5x5 up. And is that an android app? Honestly, that is something I have been doing but I didn't realize I could use that as a motivation. Zyzz actually has the body type I want to go for. The aesthetic look. I'll put a picture of him on my bathroom mirror. No homo. Ill get into bodybuilding.com then.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 05:56 AM
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No I need that hear that. That is actually gonna be my frame going in. Headphones on, do my shit, leave. I had some friends from my previous college teach me everything I needed to know lifting wise but the difference is I am just going it alone now. Once I reach my goals I'll probably look for potential plates but I am also keeping a mindset of "I do not seduce, I become worthy of seducing." So I think once I start improving myself and finding my value/validation in myself. Women will come easi…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 05:53 AM
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It seems it was an overt display and not a covert one. To my understanding so far as a red pill newbie thats what chicks dig. Covert not overt.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:10 PM
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Thanks. Ill make this my mentality.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 10:41 PM
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Good solid advice all around. I'll take into consideration everything you said and start putting it into practice. Also what's a good way to get into meditation? Personally for me riding my motorcycle is like my form of mediation cause once you're on the bike it's like a trance state of mind.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 04:01 AM
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I had to go to an alternative school but I turned it around and did 3 years in a year and a half. I have some college so far basically enough credits to be a sophmore. I ride motorcycles and that's my hobby right now. I might go to school for welding or fixing motorcycles but I love philosophy as I was a philosophy major. Thinking about maybe doing rehab as well cause I walked down the drug and gnarly party scene side of life. Did alot but never got hooked.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 03:56 AM
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Yeah ill probably just get into a lifting regime at a local gym. Headphones and Beast mode forget about life lifting mode. I might do crossfit later for exactly what you said about the social aspect. All those fit chicks are ripe for the taking.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 03:55 AM
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Yeah acta non verba. Action not words. I'll make a habit of practicing.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 03:53 AM
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Well I'lll check back tomorrow. Whether anyone responds or not I'm gonna be a MGTOW regardless. I'll be Alpha but I would like some support/help/advice. Either way I can't go back. Two nights ago I didn't sleep I just stayed up the entire night reading red pill articles.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 06:10 AM
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Yeah I need to hear that. Thanks. I definitely got my bike for the love of riding. At first that wasn't the case but once I got on everything changed.
/r/trpGAME19/07/14 06:41 PM
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dude this is fucking gold! Thanks for the insight man. I want to definitely get something either cafe racer style or scrambler style. A triumph or even an old school honda cb 750 if I can cause I feel it is more appealing to me and to girls. I got my R6 cause its all I could afford and it was a good price for a starter bike. Thank you though this is all solid advice. I'm getting a second helmet soon for exactly what you said. Also coffee shops are my natural habitat so I have seen what you talke…
/r/trpGAME19/07/14 04:24 AM
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