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ConversationHeWokeMeUpAgainAgain/r/seduction29/07/21 05:50 PM
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It's a different mindset, not naive. Some people are looking for quality (of match), not quantity. So if I'm not on the same page as someone and I'm not super invested, why would I continue something with them? If anything it's mature to acknowledge your boundaries and what makes you comfortable rather than shoehorning yourself into anyone's idea of what someone 30+ "should" do
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:25 AM
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You aren't getting it. Some people don't play the game like that. If they like someone, they're all in — whether its officially exclusive or not. She doesn't want to compete for your affection and she doesn't have to. It's very simple.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:16 AM
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I mean it depends how sensitive you are. Like she's allowed to have other things on her mind, just like I'm sure you do sometimes. If you want to end it, then do it, but don't expect anyone to laugh at every joke, be dtf all the time, etc because your partner is a person, not a validation robot. Have you just asked her if something is bothering her?
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:56 PM
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Please just talk to her. It could be as simple as something has changed in the last few months (maybe a partner insulted her), maybe she has an upcoming appointment for a wax, maybe she's building it up in her head that you don't actually like her, could have been on her period etc. I'd give it one more go and then ask her upfront. Not in the heat of the moment, but a bit later.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:42 AM
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THIS. Like a know I could find a man to sleep with me, but I have no interest in that being our entire relationship. Also, echoing that men generally seem to get more attractive to women with age (not physically but more established/stable) and that's not seen as attractive for women. Not to mention it's way easier to date as a single dad than as a single mom (based on the way people look at you.)
/r/seduction06/09/21 12:22 PM
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You didn't take this in the way I intended. Im saying if you feel awkward, or uncomfortable, it's not going to read as seductive. It's not about ego masturbation at all but being in the moment. Speaking for myself when I'm anxious about this sort of stuff it's difficult to really enjoy it and it's important that this isn't a chore or an ego thing. It's about OP and her bf both having a good time together. She can't control her bf, but she can control herself and that's why she's the most importa…
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:01 AM
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For me, it's all about anticipation, teasing, and tension. You want to touch him in ways that could be sexual or not to start: a hand on the chest, the lower back, etc. I like to walk around in not lingerie, but tight short shorts and a low top that I can pass off as sleepwear and do something to catch his attention. Reach up for something high that you can't reach and ask for his help. Grind yourself into him, but act innocent. Show of your body til he's begging to touch it. To rip off your clo…
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:52 PM
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Yeah if the tall handsome man was an asshole and the short ugly dude treated me well, there's no question. I'd choose the short ugly dude (or neither). The only girl that would have your attitude in a situation like the one I described would be very immature.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:52 AM
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Ok so you agreed to casual. That's fine, but it doesn't necessarily imply sex or going back to someone's place on the first date. I know someone recommended kissing her kind of early, I do not recommend at all. Some women don't like kissing in public, even if they're interested. And a rejection that early ruins the whole mood. A better move, in my opinion, is to continually raise the level of sexual tension. You want her to borderline beg you to kiss her/go home together by the end of the night.…
/r/seduction06/08/21 01:51 AM
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Look, she wants a relationship. She's clearly into you, but she's not ready to have sex. If you want that right now, then move on. If you don't, just don't push past that point for a while, but keep it at a simmer instead of a rolling boil. I know this is against the sub's general advice, but there was nothing wrong with apologizing. It wasn't for your actions, but about how they made her feel. She physically wants to have sex with you, but she's not emotionally ready. That's it. Men think women…
/r/seduction04/08/21 11:02 AM
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OMG. This is awful. As someone already said, she suggested drinks and YOU escalated it to dinner. She didn't try to bilk dinner out of you. You're complaining that you had to initiate conversation for a date that you initiated. From your account, I don't understand how she sounds slutty, possibly bored. And it's a problem that she only had one drink? On any given day as a woman I'll have max 2, and certainly not on a date because I have a low tolerance. You think you were smooth, but the way you…
/r/seduction03/08/21 01:06 AM
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Ok. So the secret is that CANNOT be the first time you've touched or even the second. Before you go in for the kiss you should have escalated to hand holding, arm around waist, etc. If she allows those things she's more likely to want to kiss you. Go for a lingering hug, put your hand under her chin (I hate when people touch my face so while I like the sentiment of that from another comment, I might move back bc im avoiding acne and makeup smudging), look at her lips and then her eyes and ask he…
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:23 PM
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Agree with all of these but 3. That would piss me off. It's like the slightly better cousin of negging.
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:20 PM
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My goodness. Disrespectful? To not have sex with someone they've only been on a few dates with? That's a lot. She never said she slept with anyone on the first date, that's just what you assumed. And it's only worth the wait if they're a virgin? Wow. Sex is best when both people are ready and excited, not just because it's the Xth date or 3 months or whatever. Women (or anyone) shouldn't just have sex with someone because the other person deserves it, but because they want to.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:34 PM
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I'm expecting the same thing I'm happy to give. The effort Im talking about isn't even that much. It's literally just genuine curiosity and openness (and a lack of games). I have to know I find him interesting first so if he doesn't build up to asking for my number with a good conversation he's dead in the water. If they don't seem interesting from early on (talking about hobbies, careers, what they want to do, etc) I'm out. But, I try to get to deep questions quickly because that's what interes…
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:27 PM
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I'm very much quality over quantity. Anything else feels like a waste of my time. I want my SO (or in this case it would be a potential one) to feel as special and wanted as possible and I'd want to do the same for him. I'm also just very naturally discerning about people who I will get along with in general though.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:20 PM
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Maybe this is the next step but PLEASE don't comment on how beautiful I am, it makes me uncomfortable and I think you're lying because you just want to sleep with me, even if that's not true. Do comment on what I'm reading, watching, drinking, doing/ask me a question about it. If I answer enthusiastically, I'm willing to talk. If I don't, just walk away. This has more to do with how I'm feeling that day than anything you do though. I don't mind having a conversation with a stranger usually. It f…
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:12 AM
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Just a tip: I know this may be against general sentiment in the sub, but you don't have to go 0 to 100 with a girl. I mean you can start out as friends (of sorts) and let it grow because you're evaluating her (and vice versa). I'm not saying settle into the friend zone, make the same flirty moves, but it doesn't have to be immediately a date if that makes sense, you're just two people with similar interests hanging out (that might also be interested in each other). It takes the edge off and let'…
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:49 AM
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Sure! (I adapted some of this from an older post) Things like light touches on the arm that linger or glide down his skin. A girl might find excuses to press her body against yours, like reading something you are reading or reaching for something. Touching you in ways that might be awkward, but making it look accidental, then immediately smiling at you after or giving you a smirk. Spilling something on her front or adjusting her bra and then looking you dead in the eye, like you have an inside s…
/r/seduction29/07/21 08:45 PM
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Let me help you out here. So, it does start long before the act. Touch him lightly on the arm throughout the day, lingering touches that glide down his skin. Find excuses to press your body against his, like reading something he's reading or reaching for something. Graze his butt, but make it look accidental, and smile at him after or give him a smirk. Whisper in his ear when you smell nice, exposing your neck. Maybe even whisper to him he smells nice and touch his chest or lower. Expose more sk…
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:42 PM
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If my guy friend asked me that, I wouldn't care. It would be the equivalent of asking for any other favor. They have perspective that you could never have. Use all of the tools in your toolbox. Even just having a conversation about how OLD sucks could just be a good way to enter into a convo about if they know someone they think would get along well with you. It doesn't even have to be a big deal. They might just invite them to a party that you're invited to as well and see if you hit it off or …
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:06 PM
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Have you ever asked your female friends for tips or even for them to hook you up with one of their single friends? Or even for feedback on how you come off to other women? That could be super useful and honestly more useful than any feedback someone off the internet who doesn't know you at all could give. That being said here's my advice. I know I've definitely been interested in a guy with no idea how to show it because I don't want it to be weird and I'm definitely not the only girl who thinks…
/r/seduction21/07/21 01:43 AM
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How do you know no woman has ever considered you attractive? It's more likely you've never recognized that a woman has found you attractive. How do you approach women? Do you have female friends? I feel like I could answer your main question better with the answers to these questions.
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:11 PM
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Probably going to be unpopular here but this is an important detail. When a girl says no and you keep pushing forward it can be a turnoff where it's like if we're in this situation again, will he not take no for an answer? IMO this is where you messed up. She might feel uncomfortable. If it was the the first thing she probably would have left immediately after that.
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:10 AM
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All I'm saying (and I'm sure a lot of people may disagree) but if that's what you're looking for you're better off trying to go for a relationship with a girl that you like and have things in common with. Someone who cares about that you have a good time and you care that she does too. That's less about having game and more about finding people you like and who likes you. Not that game doesn't have its place, but you can waste game on someone who's just not base level interested.
/r/seduction29/06/21 09:10 PM
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I just think it's counter-productive. I wouldn't mind sleeping with a guy who was a virgin in the slightest, especially if I really cared about him (which is the only way I'd sleep with anyone anyway) but if a guy just wanted to sleep with me to tick a box off? That's a total and complete turn off. Do you want to have sex just to say you did it or do you want to have consistent fulfilling sex?
/r/seduction29/06/21 08:58 PM
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