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FDS MEMESHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:19 AM
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FDS MEMESHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:00 PM
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Healthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:21 PM
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NAH, SISHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:20 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:27 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:55 PM
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QUEEN SH*THealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:08 PM
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PICKME CULTUREHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:13 AM
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PICKME CULTUREHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:19 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:07 AM
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FDS MEMESHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:29 AM
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FDS MEMESHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:50 AM
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LEVEL UPHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:25 AM
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FOREVER GF TALESHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:13 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTHealthy-Salt-4361/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:31 PM
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this is why compatible attachment styles are so important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:08 PM
4

because they're only mature enough to be vulnerable for thirty minutes at a time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:21 PM
3

this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:11 PM
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I mean, every big sub on this site has an accompanying ______circlejerk sr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:33 AM
4

slightly off topic, but why have you been to so many weddings? feeling suddenly very aware that I'm in my mid 30s and haven't attended any since I was in elementary school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:54 AM
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my current guy understands my complicated past (disordered eating) and makes me dinner every night too! He doesn't see it as a burden, he literally gets joy out of helping me with something that I struggle with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:32 PM
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Plenty of cultures where men live at home and mooch off their mothers until they marry and mooch off their wives 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:54 PM
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it's their fantasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:40 AM
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I think we should be EXTRA on the lookout for frauds who want to skim OUR brand to pivot into a career as an 'FDS lifecoach' or 'influencer'. This is a grassroots movement of women who have had enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:05 PM
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Great post, got a time machine so I can send it back to my 20 y/o self?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:28 PM
12

Casual sex? this doesn't apply with someone who cares about you? as long as bad sex isn't all you get, I can handle the occasional flop. I won't be on my game 100% of the time anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:04 PM
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but only of they wash their stinky beard first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:04 PM
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At least he's not deathly afraid of the vibrator, that shit is soooo embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:56 PM
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Same! I sometimes think we don't talk about luck often enough in tgis sub. My HVM started small talk with me at the thrift store. I keep vetting, but I'm happy our paths crossed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:21 AM
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All your posts have brightened my days - at least we still get to have your voice 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:14 AM
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That filter USED to exist before Match ruined OkCupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:48 AM
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Sooo best chance is finding a man who doesn't have the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:35 AM
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And in the rare case that a guy has faked one with me this 👆👆 is why I was so offended. He did not understand one bit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:56 AM
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Aaron you had one job! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:19 AM
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god and she did everything right to protect herself and it still happened, bleak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:19 PM
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She's dating Ursula from Kiki's Delivery Service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:17 PM
2

I like your outlook here, it's realistic. Don't compromise on what's important to you! Antidepressants/SSRIs are as common as pornsickness now... Does anyone want to write a handbook section on it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:10 PM
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maybe eventually when she's had enough there's a special additive in the green smoothie and she gets a big life insurance payout 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:33 PM
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there's an interesting niche of HVW who got 'bad' tattoos when they were younger and then leveled up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:47 PM
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We're not entitled to love. But they are robbing themselves of chances with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:39 PM
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I'm laughing because I always think of his Hot Ones interview
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:35 PM
4

these guys are okay with the floor mattress because they're all 5'5"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:45 PM
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Thissssss I'm the one with the unusual schedule, make him bend to ME (is most of the FDS sub working 9-5? that's kinda interesting)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:33 PM
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I want to watch a movie about this trip 💞 sell the rights!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:15 PM
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I don't care how great a guy is, if he works 70+ hours a week then his job IS his girlfriend. I'm outta there to find someone who actually has time for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:09 PM
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Once you lose respect for a man, it is damn near impossible to get it back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:16 PM
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Has anyone had a date respond to this by taking you out somewhere to eat and they just... only order coffee and watch you eat? I had a girl do this and her reasoning was sound ("why pay for what I can do better at home? I can cook but I don't have an espresso machine."). I mean, she paid, and it was a nice enough first date, but %100 if a man did this I would flip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:13 PM
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BADASS 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:09 PM
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I wanna hear more about your bikes! for me that's such a level up goal, I'll know I've made it when I'm cruising around on 2 wheels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:02 PM
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Honestly, bring back in-person speed dating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:00 PM
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just going about my day with the new and cursed knowledge that we have creepy men AND fascist death cults among us. ⚰️ uhhb how's y'all's day?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:57 PM
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now we're talking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:56 AM
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you're right AND I love your username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:44 AM
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I'm going to read this back to back with Katherine Angel's "Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again" so I can crack my mind wide open
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:40 AM
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Christianity is that original redpill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:39 AM
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All my friends tend to get mansplainers in their relationships... I tend to only get guys who shut down and go completely silent. Maddening in it's own way. My LVM ex got 0 on this bingo and it still makes me want to tear my hair out thinking about it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:37 AM
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check out how long widows vs widowers live single if you want a good chuckle ⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:34 AM
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MM, the more I've read your posts the more I'm dying to know a little bit about your dating geography - it seems you've sunk a pickaxe directly into a rich vein of toxic tech dudes. Sorry for all of the hurt they've caused you 💞 I wish there were more opportunities for honest people to start businesses and make money without diving headfirst into turning themselves into a brand. It seems like Men really cannot handle that realm at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:15 PM
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Jesus Christ, dude. Write this in a diary, not on FB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:33 AM
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I loved #1 so much that I'm looking into certification to become a private eye in my state - I love a good snoop and I love helping queens dump a trash cheater 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:26 AM
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usually the way the karma works out is that the man realizes the woman has way more ability and agency to get casual sex on the side than he does, and comes crawling back to close the relationship HE opened 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:43 AM
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what do y'all think about that adage about "men only go to the gym for other men?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:35 AM
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I'd say a good vetting process for this, a little further along, is to see if his habits match his outlook. Guys who are honestly trying to declutter their lives will be practicing mindfulness, actively trying to reduce their screen time, reading, pursuing hobbies etc. Otherwise the cognitive dissonance gnaws at them Guys who are saying one thing but doing another will eventually make themselves obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:30 AM
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Low budget Adam Driver
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:17 AM
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I'm sure there are plenty of pictures of them smiling and being enthralled on their wedding day - but what does it say about your relationship if THIS is the photo that gets shared the most on socials?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:16 AM
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Also a good reminder to pickmeishas: can't put in sex tokens until a relationship falls out, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:56 PM
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have these commenters ever seen photography before? like, if someone was trying to make a composition here it'd be obvious, but this is clearly just a voyeur
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:20 AM
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there is no such thing as intervention in America, just consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:14 AM
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I get in trouble for saying this, but the entire format of tiktok is infantile - the distance between a front-facing camera and the subject feels oddly similar to arms length talking to a baby. And the algorithm says all the best content is 3 minutes or less. The only social media I have left are Twitter and reddit, because I like WORDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:11 AM
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why is the ground covered in trash??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:45 PM
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Right? The guy I'm talking to built his own cabin, grows all his own food, repairs his own stuff. I'm not far enough along in the courtship to ask, but I wouldn't be surprised if he makes FOUR DIGITS after healthcare and money into savings, but he still has big HVM provider energy because he's got his life sorted out. I think what really matters at this point in our lives (early 30s) is that you find a lane, and thrive in it while still challenging yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:45 PM
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Right? It's the biggest cognitive dissonance in FDS and I think we're stuck until we get it figured out currently we hold two conflicting truths: 1) marriage is an institution designed to benefit men 2) You don't want to be a forever girlfriend, so get that ring. Uhhhh, no thanks. My 88 year old grandma has it figured out with her boyfriend - they have dates, love, companionship BUT also separate households, separate finances, etc. I think that this is the FDS ideal, and I'll die on this hill!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:09 PM
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Is there a method to trace a diamond's origins as well? I could see an LVM cheaping out for a blood diamond
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:50 PM
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at this point, wishing for peace between the monogamous and the poly feels like wishing for peace between the world's major religions... irreconcilable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:09 PM
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because so many 'worldy men' are sex tourists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:06 PM
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yeah, in USA they just never stopped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:13 PM
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I cannot UNSEE these skinnyfat men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:38 PM
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Brown eyes are a must! Over 6' Thin but not scrawny, love guys who swim or cycle Strong hands w/ neat nails, bonus if they have a job or hobbies where they work with their hands GOOD Tattoos and tasteful piercings only - on the face only if it compliments their actual features Hair long enough for me to play with. Beards are fine if they clean it up around the neck / cheeks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:41 PM
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It's really sad that her own family treated her like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:37 PM
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Aren't they all owned by the same company anyways?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:33 PM
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sounds like less of a dumpster fire than OLD honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:30 PM
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how the hell did my mom ride the city bus alone at 8 years old before the invention of the walkman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:29 PM
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He's been made fun of by scrotes for doing 'hover hands' in photos with fans - to me it just illustrates that he has good boundaries unproblematic men actually DO age well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:29 AM
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50% limp dick from porn, 50% numb dick from SSRIs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:22 AM
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I'm soooo glad covid is almost over so I can say no to less of these 😂 one guy got me with 'oh so you think your date preferences are more important than restaurant workers' health' and I said 'yeah, you're right, dating isn't essential' and BLOCKED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:20 AM
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lmao yukio mishima loved dick and nationalism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:06 AM
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What does Omni mean in this context? I'm unfamiliar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:29 PM
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Also worth noting that this approach can transcend cultures. I see guys avoiding beautiful cholas here done up to the max - crisp tee, nice bandana, eyebrows and make uo razor sharp, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:15 PM
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Ugh, we wouldn't have to deal with this shit on Ovarrit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:30 AM
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They think we all belong in nunneries but they need to join a monastery 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:31 PM
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Any Loser Will Attack You, Sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:45 PM
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I like OP's highlights on this, makes me think of my nascent understanding of choice theory and how it applies to HVW - no one can 'make' you feel a certain way, you have the power to choose a lot of how you feel, once you have the inner well of confidence that is key to becoming HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:51 AM
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Interesting that they didn't ask about marriage - lots of single men over forty will answer 'sOmEdAy' and skew the data.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:25 PM
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the ones out here invest in a bolo tie and a cowboy hat and think it's a 'look' 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:17 AM
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if anything, climate collapse and impending political upheaval means I should be even choosier about who I'm partnered up with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:04 AM
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and honestly the dollar store generics are just as effective so he's got NO EXCUSE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:55 AM
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They're going to find a way to blame climate change on us next, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:54 AM
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Your mom sounds rad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:29 PM
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emphasis on QUEEN with that last one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:02 PM
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For over 65 men, they tend to not live very long as divorced/single/widowed because they never learned to take care of themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:04 PM
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the one-two suckerpunch of modern times: porn everywhere and everyone is on antidepressants now nobody c*ms from vanilla sex and it adds to the pressure to do weird kinky shit with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:39 PM
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I gave all the loser fuckbois a shared last name so I could mass delete easier 🥰 aaaaaand they really did come out of the woodwork for vaccine spring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:12 AM
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I'm so sorry, the same thing happened to me in my pre-FDS years ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:09 AM
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if I have to talk about meyers-briggs on another first date I'm gonna big scream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:57 AM
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Lorena Bobbit did nothing wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:54 AM
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