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HeartOfSky/r/MensRights23/04/21 04:49 AM
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-1

No, fucker. It means stand up for yourself when a woman is flexing her drama over you. It has nothing to do with "man up", aka: "no one cares", and everything to do with caring enough about yourself to refuse to be treated disrespectfully. Kinda how I'm refusing to sit back and let you be disrespectful to me. Make sure you understand where your opponent is pc OMG from, before you jump to shitty conclusions.
/r/MensRights25/04/21 04:42 AM
-4

Think about it. All you have to do is not give them your power. FFS, get a back bone. "No." says everything you need to know.
/r/MensRights25/04/21 04:09 AM
-1

No.
/r/MensRights25/04/21 03:57 AM
9

Oh no. There is no support for troubled men. I'm living proof. So, I fixed myself, and will always remember that I had to do it with nearly no help. It's a good thing I'm as smart as I am. They're are a lot of guys who can't do this on their own.
/r/MensRights25/04/21 02:53 AM
12

Oh, and telling him that it was his job to give her a wide berth, because it's his job to make her feel safe. Utter bullshit. It's a public sidewalk. If she feels unsafe, she can get an escort. To lash out at a stranger like that deserves one reply. "Princess, you're not that hot."
/r/MensRights23/04/21 05:17 AM
1

As my hips continue to open up, after being largely lucked my entire life, I'm finding the manspread position to be more comfortable and highly preferable. Ain't no one going to give me flack over it, either.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 05:01 AM
1

I can't remember the name of the town, but look up "black wall street". It's an utter embarrassment to "white history". It reveals them for what they were back then. Petty, jealous, vindictive, and, worst of all... Malicious.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 10:22 PM
1

Here's another way of looking at it: Her behavior, from the very get go, was that of an uncivil, vicious little creature. There's a word to describe women like that. So, if she starts the fight by being completely uncivil (violent), why is he expected to maintain his composure and be civil in response? He would, because he's clearly the better person here. He'll regret the extra edge of violence he brought out. He'd probably never met that part of himself before that moment. I mean, how often to…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/21 04:31 AM
1

It's the nature of chaos. What this means is that it's never ok to push someone to the point of "snapping". Actually, it's just never ok to push someone. WHY one earth would someone behave in a manner specifically to rile someone else up to the point they become violent? This means she's a shitty person in the making. So, his reaction to her was an overreaction. All of this could have been avoided if she had behaved like a civil human. She pushed him to the point that he snapped and became viole…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/21 04:25 AM
5

The only thing you can trust about them is that they cannot be trusted.
/r/MensRights14/03/21 08:07 PM
4

Send me a PM/chat if you'd like someone to talk to about this. You were accosted, caught off guard, had your boundaries violated, and... were accused of being a malicious animal. All in the span of just a few moments. There's a word to describe women like those people. Your are right to be angry about this, but it doesn't need to stay with you for long. The lesson learned is the next time a group of so-called women approx with a camera is to say "leave me alone".
/r/MensRights14/03/21 08:05 PM
1

I think the issue with ALM is that it's said right after someone is trying to explain BLM. It's a way of refusing to acknowledge the actual subject of conversation and invalidating the speaker. Combine with base insecurity and we have our current mess. Take race out of it, and make the conversation more personal. Tell a woman how bad your headaches are, to the point of crippling you, and she'll immediately jump to how bad her headaches are or... everyone gets headaches. Either response indicia l…
/r/MensRights14/03/21 11:05 AM
1

If you spend any time in the GME/AMC communities, all of those words make sense. He's not simping out on them. He's saying that we'd rather watch our investments skyrocket than deal with women right now. I'm in GME for $731, which had grown to $2909 in five weeks. It's expected to go way higher than that, and had been the best video game I've ever played.
/r/MensRights14/03/21 11:00 AM
4

Yes, we must care about them, but they only have to care about themselves. In their eyes, anything less is evil oppression.
/r/MensRights14/03/21 10:57 AM
5

It boils down to one single retort. "Sweetie, you're not that hot."
/r/MensRights14/03/21 10:49 AM
2

She's basic.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 10:08 PM
1

She speaks as if work were more important than the relationships needed for a healthy family. Men don't go to work they want to. They go to work, because someone had to do the world building. Either that, or their trying to get away from their nagging wives. Take your pick. I don care anymore.
/r/MensRights11/03/21 11:42 PM
1

Who the fuck said anything about a cold shoulder? Your and I are having two different conversations, and I see no point in debating further. Good day.
/r/MensRights11/03/21 10:27 PM
2

It's not childish if you're a mature adult who knows how to utilize language. His attempts at 'teaching' his daughter are clearly failing. Do you suggest he have her sit in the corner? What about his wife, where the two of them are clearly not in alignment on how to parent their children when it comes to unsavory manners. Wifey is apologizing for a daughter who's essentially growing up to become an emotional abuser. What do you suggest then?
/r/MensRights11/03/21 03:28 AM
0

Wow, just full on emotionally abusing the woman. How typical.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 05:16 PM
3

You've misinterpreted what I wrote. At no point did I recommend he behave as his daughter behaves (childish brat), but to show her what is like to be on the receiving end of her own words. An adult don't this, as opposed to the child you assume him to be, can make a few skillful placements of "creepy", and that's all that will be needed. Someone in that family has to behave like an adult, an dim sure hell be damned beifrw he raises a child who's allowed to be so openly rude and inconsiderate of …
/r/MensRights09/03/21 05:09 PM
3

Ellipses are too beautiful a punctuation to be so bastardized. I... can't... even. lmao
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 02:34 PM
3

That's easy for her to say, since she has no intention of being in that position. And, were the listed circumstances present, you're guaranteed she'll try to whine her way out of it.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/03/21 10:31 AM
1

How do heterosexual men put up with all of this bullshit?
/r/MensRights09/03/21 10:25 AM
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Oh, those don't matter. Males are disposable. /s
/r/MensRights09/03/21 12:13 AM
4

Ya know, the more I thought about this, the more I couldn't leave it alone. This is what I wrote to that guy. I hope he reads it: Restricting her use of language is not going to work. She's behaving like a brat. Her mom, and the rest of the internet community are enabling her and demonizing you. So, instead of asking advice from a bunch of anonymous idiots who have absolutely zero vested interest in the outcome of their tacky advice... try this: Use her language in the exact same context that sh…
/r/MensRights08/03/21 07:48 PM
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Poor guy. I can't belive the mass of perverted minds commenting there. An adult complimenting a child is not creepy. Anyone who defaults that it is has a broken mind.
/r/MensRights08/03/21 07:17 PM
4

"Our words have been hijacked" We see this in all to many areas, the perversion, corruption, and coopting of language. When "good" words become vessels for evil intent. That shit pisses me off.
/r/MensRights05/03/21 07:56 PM
2

I'm an extremely sensitive person, and can read deeply and accurately into the nuances of a single sentence, yet I'm completely dumbfounded at how easily triggered those creatures are. Will be they offended if we call them creatures? It's a legitimate descriptor?
/r/MensRights05/03/21 02:50 AM
1

I can get lime at my local grocery, or I can go to the specialty candy store, pay twice the price, and get... Strawberry. OMG, it's my favorite of the five flavors I've tried.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/21 06:21 PM
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One of my male clients is about to have his first child in a few weeks. He's excited and anxious. So, during our session (in Agent Smith's voice) I leaned in and said... 'That, Mr. Anderson, is the sound of inevitability. " We got a good chuckle out of it.
/r/MensRights02/03/21 06:19 PM
1

The commenter is making a typical conversational faux pas by apologizing for the person who's not apologizing for themselves. This person acts this way, because they see themselves in the daughter's position more likely than the father's.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 09:20 PM
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If she had any finesse in her attempts at manipulation, at all, the interaction would have gone way differently. She's an amateur.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 09:15 PM
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He was too polite. There was no need to explain himself, other than to defend why he kicked them out of the car (which he should have done).
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/21 09:06 PM
1

Oooooooh, you are a nasty little thing when you feel threatened, aren't you? How often do the boys realize the mistake they made by dipping their sticks in such a rancid inkwell? Am I a special occasion for you, or is this your fault attitude?
/r/MensRights01/03/21 04:31 PM
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Why what? I'm not sure what exactly you're commenting on. If you clarify, I'll be able to give a better answer.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 03:58 AM
1

It was meant for me, because you replied to my comment. Those words you just put down came out of your head. Not mine. Look in the mirror and mind your projections. To be honest, it marks you as ugly inside.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 02:25 AM
1

I'm not interested enough to read your response. I just don't... Give a shit about you.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 02:15 AM
8

Man, this triggers my past, big time. I'm a 45 y/o gay male who's spent an extremely long time surrounded by mostly women. I never knew how much I was being criticized until I got pretty far into my spiritual awakening, which started at 39 y/o. Two years ago, I finally started to embrace how much I like sparkle and iridescence. I decided that glittered eye makeup and orange, metallic nail polish (emulating aspects of sunrise) were my jam. It's fun to look in the mirror and see the subtle sparkle…
/r/MensRights28/02/21 11:58 PM
3

I don't know if I can say this gracefully enough, so here goes. You know how your parents told you to not be afraid of bees, because 'they can smell your fear'? It's not just bees. PTSD off gasses a lot of energy and people can be naturally drawn to it, some repulsed, and others varying degrees of indifferent. It's extremely important for you so clear out this fear. While valid in its roots, it's destroying any ability you have to enjoy your present moment. The problem is that you can't afford t…
/r/MensRights28/02/21 11:38 PM
3

She's always been that way. She was so tremenorude to Lucille Ball. I mean, miss babawawa is a dime-a-dozen journalist. Ms. Ball was an industry-defining comedic genius and icon.
/r/MensRights28/02/21 11:28 PM
1

Sometimes, it's all someone has left to work with. What do you think happens when this man loses hope?
/r/MensRights27/02/21 04:51 PM
14

This manufactured war between the sexes has caused a massive mess. So little love actually happening.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 07:01 AM
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It's absolute bullshit that a woman can consent to an act, follow through on said act, then revoke consent for said act at a later date... turning the agreed-upon endeavor into a crime. This is different that consenting to an act one day, and revoking consent for a future act, which both sexes are entitled to. Imagine the uproar if he sued for her fertilized egg to gestate in a surrogate. It is no different than what she's done, but you and I both now it would never fly.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 06:56 AM
28

He'd have to really snap to do murder suicide.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 01:53 AM
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As awful and horrific an experience, it would drive a point home. I think I now have an understanding of why someone would self immolate.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 01:53 AM
111

I know. I was hoping there might be some consideration for anyone other than herself. Doesn't matter what happens to the man, so long as her biological clock is satisfied.
/r/MensRights26/02/21 10:04 PM
618

Oh, but a woman can revoke consent at any time? Bullshit. Watch him commit suicide and see how she likes that. Edit: typo
/r/MensRights26/02/21 08:12 PM
1

The boundaries weren't set up. That much is clear. How do we know this? OP is confused.
/r/MensRights26/02/21 05:36 PM
1

Then it's her responsibility to find her voice and use it to set boundaries. I do insanely nuanced work with boundaries and trauma, so all of this isn't news to me. At sun's point in time, women are going to have to take responsibility for their boundaries. Boys do not read minds.
/r/MensRights26/02/21 04:54 PM
1

Please tell me you're not this obtuse in the bedroom? You, and anyone who behaves like this, shootouts never be in a relationship. You're speculating that this girl felt unsafe, when she just wasn't in the mood.
/r/MensRights26/02/21 04:05 PM
2

The woman was in bed with the man, each and every time. If she's "uncomfortable" with morning sex, it's her job to set a mother fucking boundary. I'm so glad I'm gay, because all of this is total bullshit.
/r/MensRights26/02/21 03:49 PM
22

I'd wager that he's highly empathic and that she's actively bullying him, via emotional manipulation. Look at his eyes and his smile. Why is she fucking with that?
/r/MensRights25/02/21 10:59 PM
2

The more I learn what heterosexual men are subjected to, the more I'm grateful for my homosexuality. If you'd like to have a conversation with someone who can empathize with you at very deep levels, let me know. A train with me can do wonders to smooth over complex stresses. Nothing like empathy and understanding to brighten a day.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 07:18 PM
0

Agreed. About the push over bit. Those who attack masculinity, as a whole, want us to be push overs. Your and I both know better. It just took me a few decades to figure out.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 07:12 PM
2

That, sir, must be an awful experience for you.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 07:09 PM
3

People get pissy at times. Just because it's mostly guys here doesn't mean that they're not subject to emotional thinking. LOL
/r/PussyPassDenied25/02/21 03:22 PM
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Ego will do its dannedest to try though.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 03:14 PM
0

Why do you think I'm here? I'm delving into ideas that reach further out than my personal experience. I'm just aware enough to make sure to back out before I lose myself. Your post didn't reveal that much to me. My only concern was what I mentioned. Take your risks as you see them, and be ready for any consequences.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 03:06 PM
1

Ya know... that bit worked fifty years ago, when divorce was less common, and women really did have no life skills outside maintaining a home. Times have changed.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 09:08 AM
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What's the point of 2/365? The man will be more of a stranger to the child than literally every other male the child knows.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 09:05 AM
5

While you want to believe this, it's quite untrue. You cannot unsee what had been read. Your thinking will be slowly and subtly affected until one day, you're beating up on yourself and a friend will have to call you out and say "When did you start believing this bullshit? When did you lose yourself?" You'll reply that you're fine, and always were. By then, you're stuck in the delusion until something sparks you enough to start breaking free. Then, you'll see yourself for who you became and will…
/r/MensRights25/02/21 08:55 AM
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It is their job, however, to set boundaries with men. Running to an authority and complaining is what weak people do. This assumption that every male is inherently creepy is downright offensive.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 08:50 AM
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So many people trying to define it by traits and behaviors. Even in the gay community, masc is a look and a sound. Masculinity is none of those things. It's a presence from within. A power. A force of nature. Never in my wildest dreams would I have described or imagined myself to be masculine. It just kinda happened to me. Now that it's here? If never give it up. Here's why 'they' don't like masculinity. We are no longer push overs. They can't get away with their incessant tantrums in the presen…
/r/MensRights25/02/21 08:47 AM
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By that point, he'd snapped. He needed to be stopped, yes. This is what she gets for pushing someone that far. It yields an unexpected outcome that was wholly avoidable by her not being a spoiled brat.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/02/21 08:33 AM
1

It sure does. I won't tolerate people projecting their toxicity on to me anymore. The feminist narrative caused my tremendous damage, and had me fully convinced that I was a burden, in so many respects. Now that I understand how awesome I am (I can solve chronic pain issues that no one else can), I don't have the time for letting people tell me I'm bad because I'm a man. I'm a good person and I do good things to and for people. Toxic males can get in the back of the line. Toxic females can get i…
/r/MensRights25/02/21 04:12 AM
3

Oh, he'll realize his mistake soon enough.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 12:27 AM
2

Yeah, you better be humiliated. Those men are entitled to an apology that a person like her is incapable of giving. I hope no one chooses to breed with her.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/21 11:59 PM
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Collectively, nobody cares about boys.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 11:53 PM
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Amen!
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/21 10:10 PM
3

Agreed!
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/21 12:32 PM
3

What I'm trying to say is that there is no point adopting the monicre of TM so it can be reframed. Clearly, you're not a toxic person. You're way too introspective for that. All you need to be is the best you that you've met so far. If he's masculine as well, then it's just not toxic. I'm. 45 y/o gay male. I didn't find my masculinity until just these past couple of years. While I was caught up in my trauma, I had a toxic effect. When I healed, and subsequently found my masculinity, I realized t…
/r/MensRights24/02/21 07:27 AM
9

Thanks for the added details. Makes perfect sense.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 07:20 AM
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Nothing like a cry for attention, no? We choose more lethal methods, becuase we know that no one cares. If the attempt fails, no one is going to come around and coddle us.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 07:01 AM
6

Defamation.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 06:55 AM
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Don't reframe it. Just don't be it and don't tolerate it in others.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 06:54 AM
4

True. No excuse. Also, not unexpected. She earned that response from him, whether he was right to do it or not. I've never been stupid enough to pick a fight with anyone. I don't have that kinda strength and they'd wipe the floor with me. Yet a girl with even less strength than I does this? That's not ballsy. It's just plain dumb.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/21 06:52 AM
1

I've got several female clients who are highly empathic and have zero issues caring for a man and his issues. The problem is that women take advantage of that empathy and leave these female clients with a crappy self image. Add to it that the men they've been involved with don't know the slightest about how to love someone... making their self image even worse. I get frustrated encountering so many "sparkly" men and women, only to realize that they've been totally fucked over by narcissistic wom…
/r/MensRights23/02/21 08:35 PM
2

Man, that's really gotta suck. This, I feel, is the bullet I dodged by being gay. My life would have been way worse if I had a vested interest in women other than to improve their quality of life. If you're game, send me a pm. In one phone call, I can help smooth over a lot of the "rough edges" you're experiencing. I specialize in profound empathy and emotional integration. I can't stand seeing reading what you've been through, knowing I can do something to help. Lemme know.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 07:23 PM
3

Am entire town was burned to the ground, a century ago, because a black man looked at a white woman the wrong way. Those kinds of women still have not changed.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 06:29 PM
2

See how quickly she turned on you? Ridiculous. To date, most of my clients are still female. The ones I'm still willing to work with are on the receiving end of this same kind of bs. While I'm very good at it, I'm tired of having to help people clean up the emotional damage women so wantonly cause.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 06:27 PM
10

I'm gay. Looking back, however, I was an absolute simp toward women. Then I woke up to what was happening and fixed that character flaw ASAP.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 06:20 PM
7

How privileged she must be to get a man in trouble for looking at her wrong. I wonder how many black men (forget slaves) would have met their end, because of that, were she alive a century ago. This is the exact same behavior. Men have died because of tantrums like hers.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 10:37 AM
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Good luck trying to get women to empathize with men. Only quality women do that, and they're not common.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 10:33 AM
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When pressed, a woman will always choose her survival instinct when feeling even slightly threatened. While there are exemptions to this rule, they're free and far between.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 10:31 AM
4

Not a single one of them able to accept responsibility for... anything. How female of them.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 10:25 AM
3

It all just seems like to much work, doesn't it? Mental gymnastics aren't worth the effort for the outcome. I much prefer the personal outcomes in getting from ignoring all the silly chatter and just doing my own thing.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 04:49 AM
2

That's a hard boundary for me.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 04:48 AM
1

There's nothing to discuss. Nothing to rationalize. Nothing to explain away. You're mother was blatantly of of line by weaponizing your childhood against you. This is a significant character flaw and you are absolutely entitled to an apology, though she likely doesn't have to capacity for such a thing. I'm a gay male. I've had to come to terms with the likely reality that I will actually have a child one day. When that happens, it's going to be a boy. Call me sexist so you want, but there's no w…
/r/MensRights22/02/21 09:43 PM
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Reminds me of Reagan's porn commission. That group of people got seriously fucked up looking at all that content. Or the people who screen YouTube videos, to filter out the bad stuff. It's traumatizing. People looking for sexism and hatred will find it everywhere. Eventually, it'll be the only thing they'll be capable of seeing. The damage can be mitigated, but can never be undone.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 09:28 PM
2

Sissy? Thems fightin' words.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 09:05 PM
12

That goes without saying, and also does nothing to recognize the topic of this post.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 08:59 PM
25

How very womanlike of them to interrupt someone's private conversation to their their unsolicited opinion on the mix. Women have no idea how privileged they are in that they can have a public fit and it's always justified. They've never learned how to control their tongues.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 07:34 PM
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Yeah, that's like one thing, compared to the innumerable things that 'ruin' a woman's day.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 10:38 AM
1

"Well I believe that this word means 'xyz'", as they make up a new definition to suit themselves.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 10:36 AM
2

That would be hilariously dark. I love it!
/r/MensRights22/02/21 08:47 AM
2

I tend to lean toward electronic music, or music that has electronic embellishments. Rich, dense layers ranging from silky smooth to intense and driving. Most of the things I listen to tend to be just off center from the mainstream. It sounds like things that should be played on the radio, but never are. I'm sure you know exactly how that feels. Music that leans toward cacophony is almost immediately ruled out. This excludes a lot of jazz and anything that amounts to a "jam session". Metal, pers…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 05:21 AM
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The year 2019.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 05:06 AM
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You know... the more I think on this... the angrier I become. Your 'girlfriend' accused you of raping her, because she wanted to end (being tired. fair.) and you asked to continue for a bit longer. She acquiesced. The next day, she accuses you of one of the most heinous acts a human can perform. She accused you of intentionally working to cause her harm. She accused you of malevolence. Here is a woman who claims to not only trust you enough to spend extended amounts of time with you, but to also…
/r/MensRights22/02/21 04:42 AM
1

I'd buy into that. I'm surprised I haven't been banned yet, since I do comment here. I'm feeling kinda left out. Of course, any 'sane' woman would be an absolute moron for removing me from her life.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 04:04 AM
2

Oh, gosh, then there's SOHN. He is spectacular.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 04:03 AM
1

That's an interesting way of thinking. I don't know enough to agree or disagree, as I'm definitely keyed toward female vocalists. Alison Goldfrapp has a spectacular range and ability to modulate her voice. I don't have enough experience with male vocalists to weigh the two sexes against each other. On that note, I absolutely must say that Rhye recently released an absolutely amazing album last month. Every song sounds great and is a true ode to love. I did learn something from him that I haven't…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 04:03 AM
1

Of the ten highest paid musicians of 2019, Taylor Swift was #1, and Beyonce was #6. The remaining 8 were men.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/21 03:06 AM
5

Remember one thing about Shapiro, and one thing only. He's a boy. He's never presented himself with the intellect and wisdom of an actual mature man. His PoV on life is largely irrelevant, since he speaks for the purpose of condemnation and attention.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 03:02 AM
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You asked. She said yes. There is nothing more to it. Get out of the relationship, ASAP.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 02:58 AM
1

I genuinely can't imagine what this must be like for heterosexual men. All I can think is that we need to teach our boys and young men a kind of self control that is so strong the female side of our face is starved for it. This yes means no and no means no, with no yes means yes is absolute bs. No one should be trapped by those games.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 02:57 AM
5

Roman Polanski fled the country over a situation with similar circumstances. Such a such a difference.
/r/MensRights21/02/21 10:41 AM
2

The fact that she went back for a second attack, smdh. Her survival instinct is broken. Stupid girl.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/21 10:34 AM
3

If only at could get away with being so fragile. What really gets me is that I'm gay and bought into the narrative due quite some time. Not like all up in it, I just went along. Now, when I see gay guys spewing vitriolic in support of feminism, it makes me sad. They don't realize that the movement only likes them for their letter, and the support they bring. They don't realize that they're still male, which means that women don't really care about them other than for the attention we hats give t…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/02/21 10:25 AM
1

Consider yourself flattered to have been stalked by some random female for the sole purpose of projecting her hate onto you. That sub has likely the most delicate 'princesses' in existence.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/21 09:22 PM
4

While that is your opinion, OP seems to be agitated enough by it to post a rant online.
/r/MensRights20/02/21 02:31 AM
1

It's not really the videos that are the problem, but that OP's sister is using them to bully him.
/r/MensRights20/02/21 02:27 AM
3

Aw, thanks for the compliment. I was unclear about your intent and apologize for being snippy in my other reply to you.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 07:12 PM
2

Yes! But the human appendix actually does serve a function. Fds doesn't even have that going for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 06:35 PM
1

You're being too kind. It's more a rancid and malignant cesspool.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 05:58 PM
1

It's almost as if... she was stalking you to ban you. The psychological damage of those people, and their denial of it, is downright malignant.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 05:56 PM
3

If she actually loved the kids, then she would have patiently waited 5+ years for him to be old enough. Then, it's just an age gap, not something very creepy, very wrong, and very... selfish.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 02:37 PM
5

Well, if he's an asshole, this is exactly how it would play out. Me? Hotness doesn't make up for poor behavior. I've been down that road before. I know where it leads. Not worth it.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 05:33 AM
1

Hmmm... OK.... Let's say he is, in fact, a task man. Tall enough to meet her demands. Here's what's wrong with her behavior. She didn't use any tact in finding out if he fit her criteria. She just demanded something from him as if she were the one doing him the favor. This is entitlement. Were she actually a good person, she could have flirtatiously for the info out if him, and then played that flirtation even more. Flattery, when done well, WILL get you everywhere. Tact, in a way that puts him …
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 05:18 AM
1

There's a huge miscommunication between us. One doesn't earn a sense of entitlemen. Where did you come up with that, and how is it relevant to OP? If you're going to draw bizarre conclusions, please share the thought process got you from what I wrote to what you read.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 05:04 AM
1

You're reading into my comment something that wasn't there. People who make demands are petty. I'm speaking to her sense of entitlement, which would express itself regardless of her level of attractiveness. Of course, may would say that a sense of entitlement actively diminishes attractiveness. I will always strive to be better, because I want to bring that for my lover. Why? Because my lover would never make demands of me, and I most certainly won't be putting my D in anyone who thinks they can…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 04:53 AM
1

If your decide to take it, and it goes poorly for you I want you to remind yourself "I signed up for this. This is what I get for doing that. Noted. Not gonna do that shit again." This is essentially an experiment you're going to have with yourself. You can learn about feminism, but you're more likely to learn what it's like to be surrounded by feminists. That can slowly chip away at your psyche. So, be aware of yourself and have a good friend pay attention to any long-term changes in your mood …
/r/MensRights19/02/21 04:17 AM
2

That's the kind of person you never have this kind of conversation with again. Ever. Set the boundary within yourself, and enforce it on yourself. The next time you get into a conversation that ends like that reminds yourself "this is what I get for going there with someone like that", and start to curb the behavior of of your system. How dare she project onto your that your are motivated by hatred! How dare you allow that to diminish your self image. People like that are never going to be good …
/r/MensRights19/02/21 04:12 AM
3

Poor man must have been terrified.
/r/MensRights19/02/21 03:55 AM
10

It's not her preferences, but that skanky sense of entitlement to something that wasn't earned.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 11:28 PM
1

Beat you to it. I reduced interaction a few months ago.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 06:31 PM
1

Oh, gawd no. Why would I want to be one of those?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 03:43 PM
1

It's real hard to break our conditioning, isn't it?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 03:12 PM
2

Dude! You've just given me your version of my story. There's massive overlap. Spend some time talking to me, and I can pass on knowledge on how to value your empathy faster and more efficiently than anyone else you've ever talked to. I'm on the tail end of learning how to set boundaries. I don't fear setting them. I have no anxiety over setting them. Why? Because experience has taught me that when I set a boundary, and enforce consequences of violating it, I feel soooooo much better.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 09:46 AM
1

THIS!!! Thank you so much for this addition. IMO,the doctrine, as it's currently narrated, is intended to guide people who are intrinsically selfish into being aware that there is a whole world of people who have feelings, too. It teaches shitty people how to be less shitty. The problem is that the shitty people are currently doing the oration of the old tales. Becuase they cannot conceive of love, the "punish" via lack. When this doctrine is preached to people who are fundamentally selfless, th…
/r/MensRights18/02/21 07:44 AM
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Dude! Don't let them anywhere near your balls!!! Now that I have a much more keen understanding of who I truly am, and that I am also a man, no feminist can have any effect on me. I feel very empowered. I have the leverage in every conversation now and I love it.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 07:13 AM
3

Oh, the virtues are definitely gendered. Those lines are blurring now, and that's also OK. It's just that those men in the article are idiots.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 06:54 AM
14

Good God, I'm so tired of intellectual idiots. The marketing narrative of what a "man should be", as given to us by our society is largely toxic. As is the narrative on what a woman should be. The reality of being a man vs. trying to mold oneself into a narrative are as different as as night and day. I just keep seeing a bunch of basic people who think they understand humanity pontificating for the sake of hearing their own voices.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 06:53 AM
0

At what point in her life did her "rot" begin? She's already gone rancid, and there's no coming back from that.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 06:23 AM
1

I want to know whom the patriarchy benefits. If it's oppressive to women and its men are disposable, then it's not a damned patriarchy. It's just evil.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 06:19 AM
1

Doesn't this make them one more "victimized minority". We should use equal-opportunity legislation to balance out those numbers. And, since no one seems to care about getting homeless men off the street, the only way to equalize things is for us to generate more homeless women. Then, they won't be able to whine any more.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 06:16 AM
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Agreed. Sometimes one has to go on the offensive to protect the integrity of their character.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 06:09 AM
1

"Are you asking, becuase you know or because you want to belittle my answer?" is really the only valid response.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 06:07 AM
12

Every time a woman maliciously calls a man an incel, a shooter is born. I preferred it when every time a bell rings, an angle gets its wings. But, hey, we gonna have it how women want to have it.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 06:00 AM
12

No, they sure can't. They'd tear each other apart.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 05:57 AM
8

That's the thing... Good men protect their women from bad men. Good women protect their men from bad women. Any good and loving woman would cut a b**** for taking advantage of her man.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 05:43 AM
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From a breeding perspective, historically, men have always been disposable. The problem is that now... breeding is no longer a societal priority. We're not little tribes and villages anymore. I don't think the psychology of women has evolved to catch up with the fact that all of us our now disposable. Ego has a lot of catching up to do with the massive and rapid advances of modern culture and life. I've been good at making myself indispensable to women. Now that I've done that, I'm refusing to w…
/r/MensRights18/02/21 05:41 AM
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"Wife, honey... this isn't about you. Do you want me to start shutting you down every time you open up to me? Then back the f off."
/r/MensRights18/02/21 05:36 AM
1

Let me blow that fucker right out of the water. I'm a gay male in his mid forties. I have no problem talking about my feelings. It's all I've ever done. I have to bounce my feelings off of people in order to understand what's going on inside myself. Naturally, this does fit in well with masculine men, because they don't talk about thing like that. Naturally, I didn't fit in with men and always connected better with women. When women have talked to me, they leave the conversation feeling better b…
/r/MensRights18/02/21 05:34 AM
1

When women did get the right to vote, they still did not get drafted because they were not considered strong enough for war. That's funny, cuz in Israel EVERYBODY goes into military service.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 03:08 AM
3

Does it sound like a joke to you? No? Then it's not a joke. It's just cruelty. "If is a joke, then why aren't I laughing?"
/r/MensRights17/02/21 09:38 PM
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The $600 is likely from the last stimulus check.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/21 06:55 PM
1

Me, neither. While I would likely never ask, cuz they're gonna die, I would definitely be happy to get them. Love color.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:52 AM
3

Which is weird, cuz a lot of guys there commented on how they do like receiving flowers. Guess it depends on the person.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:31 AM
2

It's lifted directly from the article, if one can stomach it enough to read past the first paragraph. I never made it past the line I referenced.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:35 AM
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If they were any good at this, they'd let the movie stand on its own merit. Virtue signaling is just a crutch that confesses women can't do it on their own. We all know this to be patently untrue, as there are so many women whose merit far exceeds any need to virtue signal.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 09:09 PM
1

Yep! That's the moment where they lose what little composure they thought they had. If a woman can maintain her manners and civility during that kind of a challenge... she has my respect.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 08:43 PM
2

That's a woman for you. Never waits her conversational turn to speak. It's why I rarely speak now when women are present. One more ill-mannered interruption and my temper will snap.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 08:32 PM
4

What a tool. I'm neither conservative, misogynistic, or white supremacist, and I fit into to his manosphere better than I have anywhere else. The author does not account for me. I should complain and demand equal representation.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 08:12 PM
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They only care in so much as the pity wll bring attention to them. It's not actually about helping struggling women, and more like "Women are oppressed. I'm a woman. So, you have to treat me special."
/r/MensRights14/02/21 06:29 PM
2

Answer the question.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:40 PM
2

That, right there. Who the hell are you to come here and shame people? Shame isn't the proper tool for discipline. Have you changed any conservative mind via shaming?
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:39 PM
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Why bother? If you can see yourself now, I most certainly won't be the one to change that about you.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:29 PM
0

Than you? By a long shot. Look at how people respond to you here. If you had an ounce of introspection, you'd use it.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:20 PM
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Gawd, your comments are awful. So much irrationality combined with you being stuck in pure ego. Do less commenting and more learning. You don't know everything. Hell, you don't even understand what you think you know. Freaking children.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:52 AM
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You are weak.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:49 AM
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She did what women do... ignored your argument and played the victim.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:46 AM
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Fair. I'm taking an irrational point of view. I've empathized with women so deeply for decades. Fi ally learned that none of them ever empathized with me to the same degree. Right now? I'm angry. It's fun to explore this mindset, because I know I won't be in it forever. I tell you though... each time I deeply empathize with a female client, and help them figure out their turmoil... I get mad at the feminist narrative. If women were so damned good at supporting each other, and so much better than…
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:40 AM
2

Stop defending him to people. Instead, maintain this simple boundary: Anyone who speaks to you baiut your husband must regard him with the same level of respect that you have for him. A reductive example of this is: "My husband is not a monster and will not become one. He sacrificed his sanity for your safety. Show some damned respect!"
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:35 AM
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Muting people is such bs. All it says is that mods are too fragile to handle being challenged. Instead, you're sent you a corner... which is so damned condescending, it's downright insulting to any decent human. I'm highly empathic, and have empathized with women for likely longer than you've been alive. Having said that, I've lost interest in continuing to empathize with people who refuse to do the same for me. Trying to mingle with them, while appreciating their PoV has landed you being burned…
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:26 AM
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Grrrr... when people are so dismissive about plans. Glad you immediately lost interest.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/21 06:11 AM
2

Yet, here you are... having a conversation with me. Walk your talk, princess.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:48 AM
1

That sucks. We'll all reap the consequences of this.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:33 AM
1

I'm glad she was cared for. And, no... it would not have gone the same way were roles reversed.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:16 AM
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Wow. Now you're gaslighting. Fucking narcissist. If I'm lucky, the comments, and your presence in them, will be deleted. Hell, I'm not so fragile that I have to complain to the authorities when someone calls me out for my bullshit.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:13 AM
1

Indeed. I'm also this way in person. Had a female coworker flip out on me, in front of management. I told her what I told you and walked away. I ain't got time for adult children.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:10 AM
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You sure can't. Anytime a conversation turns the direction of "I'm speaking with an irrational idiot"... I say "Yeah... I'm done with this conversation. Bye."
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:04 AM
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I'm surprised she married her husband, rather than just drugging and robbing him. Perhaps, she sounds be more generous with her gift giving as a small form of remorse. Oh, what am I saying? She was don't what she needed to do to survive. Fuck all the people she hurt on the way. Hell, if I had a conscience that would allow be to be so cruel, I'd probably not be poor.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:02 AM
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It's ridiculous and intolerable. I'm so glad that I'm at a point in my professional and personal development that I never have to suffer people like that again.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:57 AM
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Narcissistic little shit. Take some fucking responsibility. Yes, I'm triggered. You and your kind don't belong here. Take your stink somewhere else.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:52 AM
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No. This isn't a conversation about shitty men. Go start that fire somewhere else. You've essentially apologized for a female who believes it's OK to abuse males, because she believes they cannot be traumatized. And then she had the nerve to say that we incapable of generosity? Fuck her and fuck you. I have been way more generous with my love than any woman I've ever met. I've healed more women than you can imagine. None of them. And I repeat NONE OF THEM have been healed by the magical amazingn…
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:49 AM
3

What's even worse is that this shit person has justified cruelty toward boys and men, because... they don't feel the pain? Bullshit.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:43 AM
1

The person who wrote that has a litany of expletives to describe 'her', and not a single one of them is appropriate to write out. What a rancid human being.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:42 AM
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Males do not experience mental trauma? I have only one response to that, and it's not calm. "F. U. and may your wicked ass rot in hell."
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:40 AM
2

And girls talk as if it's only men who like to gain 'achievements'. One of your greatest accomplishments in life is to have never become one of their achievements. LMAO
/r/MensRights13/02/21 10:01 PM
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As I progress further into mature adulthood, I can see more clearly some of the glaring differences between the sexes. Women, it seems, don't understand the true depths of pain caused by character assassination. They also don't understand loneliness, or how much being respected means to a man. Obviously, there are exceptions to the rule, but experience tells me this rule holds up well.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 08:34 PM
2

You're very welcome! I'd like to expand on it a little bit, to help you get a more full understanding of how important boundaries are going to be in your life. Several years ago, I had someone I thought was a female best friend. Her business started to fail, so I stepped in and kept it open for several more years. The start up for the new business was delayed by a year. The whole time, she was stringing me along with "next week" and "next month". After the business finally started, I wasn't gett…
/r/MensRights13/02/21 08:31 PM
2

Exactly! Respecting our own boundaries can be much harder than you think. It's requires us to say "no" and/or walk away. It's easy only in theory, but gets much better with practice. Good luck!
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:58 PM
2

I think you misread me. I want talking about you needing to make sure your respect boundaries, but that you insist yours are respected.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:54 PM
9

Switch genders and a comment like this would be laden with apologies for the poor, underprivileged girl who just needed some empathy. Your comment is bs.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:48 PM
1

For crying out loud, block out the names!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/21 06:43 PM
1

Without context, this is just an awful video.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/21 06:41 PM
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If men are not allowed the privilege of defining what feminism is, then women must certainly can't sprak on masculinity. They don't understand concepts like loyalty, trust, sacrifice... The way men do. How can they possibly speak on the subject with any kind of expertise?
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:34 PM
0

Wow.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:32 PM
1

Oh, they just don't care at all. I can't tell you how many times I've mentioned suicidal ideations and women just don't seem to give a shit. They sure love what I do for them though. So, I stopped doing for them. I'm more alone, but certainly no longer being taken advantage of.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:32 PM
1

Ya know... That's some real bs right there. Look at the sympathy she garnered over this. I just read up on the legal battle. I cringe at the idea that someone would make such heinous allegations. It's even harder to trust people now. Smdh
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:27 PM
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That's utter bs. People having tantrums over wearing masks aren't being toxically masculine. They're being malignantly narcissistic. There was nothing wrong with what you said.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:25 PM
1

Wait! All of that drama with her was her falsely accusing him?
/r/MensRights13/02/21 06:06 PM
2

I'm glad to know it's not a symptom of greater abuse. I think 'special' is a generous word to describe them. Distance is your best bet. I'm sure you'll find them to be vindictive if you push back on them. It's just not right. Don't ever forget this as you get older. Never kiss a girl who won't respect your boundaries. Your hormones are just starting to kick in, and are going to get stronger in a few more years. Your urges are going to be overwhelming. So, explore only with people who are still n…
/r/MensRights13/02/21 05:59 PM
2

Do you notice this kind of behavior in any other aspect of your life? Meaning... are there other scenarios where people routinely disrespect and ignore your boundaries as a person? Or, are these girls an isolated experience?
/r/MensRights13/02/21 05:51 PM
1

Can I laugh at that with you? In hindsight, that is hilarious!
/r/MensRights13/02/21 03:19 AM
2

The sexes speak different languages. So many people want to deny this. I'm never going to feel at home surrounded by a bunch of bros.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 03:02 AM
2

Similar! I'm a gay cis male whose never fit in with men. Just realized that I also don't fit in with women. After that epiphany, in finding myself able to empathize with cis hetero men in ways few women ever consider. I'm so much more interested in this direction.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 02:45 AM
1

I'm five chapters into the black Jewels books and am blown away, yet again. When I read them last year, as was as if for the first time. Reading and understanding the male PoV is a whole new experience. I can see the lack of empathy they're getting. So blind to that, and I first read these books 18 years ago.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 02:18 AM
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You feel weird, because she was being inappropriate with you. This is what that feeling feels like. Do not forget it. It's gong to be near impossible to bring it up with her, in any direct form, as she will likeky convince you that it was harmless. The likelihood of her acknowledging your boundary are slim to none. Create a bit of distance, if you can. Meaning, do not be near enough to her that she is able to touch you. You can ignore her words much more easily than a violating touch. This touch…
/r/MensRights13/02/21 01:53 AM
3

"Wah! Look at me! I'm desperate for attention! Someone immediately coddle me while catering to my hyper-inflated, yet tremendously fragile ego." No, thanks. I'll pass.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 01:48 AM
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I'm a healer. I've come to realize, these past few years, that I can solve pain issues that seemingly no one else can. I'm starting to take my clients though self image work, while I work with their bodies. The results are crazy effective. Because of my extreme sensitivity, and general lack of boundaries (until recently) I never knew just how much damage my connections with women were causing me. That's a different story though. My new boundaries have me categorizing women based upon how interes…
/r/MensRights12/02/21 10:36 PM
2

If you read them, let me know! No, I haven't read that one. I'll add it to my list. Thanks!
/r/MensRights12/02/21 10:11 PM
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She clearly hasn't met me. I'm repeatedly annoyed at the narrative of how great and supportive women are to one another. If that were even remotely true, then why am I (a lonely, middle-aged gay male) the only person my female clients have met who can actually figure out their issues? It's like no one has ever been willing to sit with someone else's pain before and hello them through it. If women were so magical at this, I'd be out of a job.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 09:53 PM
1

A mod for a psychology sub who fails to understand basic human psychology. Pshhh.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 09:46 PM
2

Ooooh... the rest of the trilogy is well worth the read. I love the focus on manners to maintain civility when people want to be uncivil. Also, I found myself actively trying to parse out the sex of each character. That compulsion highlighted how my brain was programmed to do just that. Was fun trying to break that pattern. The story audio contained a single moment of empathy that hit me real hard. I'm currently re-reading The Black Jewels Trilogy. It's very male/female, with our differences hig…
/r/MensRights12/02/21 09:19 PM
1

Yeah, Worm really highlighted how limited writers of super powers think. WiggleBobble creates a visionary super power every minute, it seems. There's just no going back from that. Have you read Ancillary Justic? I stated that after Worm and was mad about that. Just as I'm really getting to know Breq, the story ended!!! If you haven't read it, the language they just is non gendered. That adjectives of the story gave me a good psychological challenge.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 09:01 PM
1

OMG, that's the best story ever! I haven't finished Ward yet. Stopped about a year and a half ago, too fast stuff that was less emotionally dark. That guy sure can craft a story.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 08:31 PM
1

It's not likely that HRT can bring the strength of a biological male (trans female) to bring it to a competitive "on par" with cis females.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 08:19 PM
1

What your can do is learn to empathize with men. If you've got a male friend who starts opening up to you, treat his emotions as you expect him to treat yours. This is all you have to do.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 06:03 AM
3

I work in a female dominated work place and have to say that I have no patience for that crap. I'm too old, and way too good at what I do to put up with women's bullshit. I've got a couple of female coworkers I'll speak to, but generally resist to speak to anyone.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 06:01 AM
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"Why are you pressuring meeeeeeee!?!?" "Because I don't trust you."
/r/MensRights11/02/21 10:58 PM
2

Just because they "see you as the opposition" does not mean that you have to be that. You are not responsible for all men. You are not responsible for defending men. They are protecting that onto you, and you're feeling compelled to oblige. They're getting practice for what women do best... emotional manipulation.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 04:50 PM
1

"If you don't want to be touched, too the point that you're willing to yell at a stranger... take a cab."
/r/MensRights11/02/21 04:43 PM
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"i have no doubt your were a remarkable and loving mother..." Said to the woman who murdered her own child. OK. Whatever.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 03:41 PM
3

At this point in time? I can't tell anymore.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 11:49 AM
3

Decades later!?!? Bullshit.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 09:03 AM
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You are someone who gets to have an extremely rare experience of reality: to experience life from the perspective of two different genders, as well as all of the psychological changes that comes along with it. I've worked with a few trans male clients, and their bodies tend to carry a very unique kind of story. Anyway... You're lucky in that being perceived as female for your first 18 years brought you great privilege. It wasn't until you transitioned, and the world perceived you as male, that y…
/r/MensRights11/02/21 01:07 AM
6

It works for some, but is detrimental for others. Think Anakin Skywalker.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 12:35 AM
1

Good on you!!! Those is what you get when you defend your integrity with a fierceness. I hope you feel proud of what you just accomplished.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 12:30 AM
2

The concepts definitely have some solid overlap.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 10:52 PM
5

Men and women speak different languages from each other. Since we live in a culture that caters to women, we're expected to speak their language while they don't have to learn ours. I ain't got the time for that. If someone /someone thinks I'm mansplaining to them, she should go have her ears checked.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:30 AM
1

Thank you for the unsolicited advice. I don't think I'll be returning to this sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/21 05:25 AM
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No. It's not. You've jumped to a conclusion about me that I have not presented. You've then been arguing against that perceived conclusion, rather than engage in an actual conversation. If I wanted to talk to people like this all day, I'd have stayed with trying to be friends with women. If you don't understand what I'm saying, or are unsure that your conclusions are congruent with my point, then stop projecting onto me and ask some damned questions. In case you're wondering, this is exactly wha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/21 05:18 AM
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Never in history have we had this much easy access to sexual imagery. I think we're in the struggles of trying to evolve to cope. Currently, it's being used against us. Mastering our sexuality in such a massive sea was extremely complicated for me. I can't imagine that I'm the only one.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:08 AM
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Reading it, in its entirety, gives the author exactly what they wanted... your undivided attention to her complaints, with zero reciprocation.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 05:00 AM
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Lucy constantly, a d intentionally, betrayed the trust of a gullible boy. This makes her essentially... malicious.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/21 04:54 AM
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So... your response is to continue to be needlessly difficult and off topic. Noted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/21 04:48 AM
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Oh, for chrissakes, stop being difficult. You're way off my point, and I don't need to waste time trying to explain something to a contrarian.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/21 03:05 AM
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Agreed! I can't imagine the physical pain and how it's so intimately tired into her act of terror against him.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/21 01:34 AM
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What's the first thing that people see about you when you walk in the room for the first time? They've never seen you before. They don't know anything about you. Look at yourself, at that moment, and tell yourself what they are looking at.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/21 01:33 AM
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To the point of the women you described. While we don't need validation from women, it sure is nice to have one of them feedback to us that they do actually understand. Most women who think they understand, in fact... Do not. More so they care to try.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/21 10:32 PM
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Thank you! It was a series of tough realizations. In them, I saw my privilege. Being white and gay, I've been allowed to not acknowledge that I'm seen as a man first. I've seen the distrust people have in their looks. If I were a black man, I'd have been forced to see this perception society had of me much sooner. You and I are in such similar places, while being completely different. I'm so glad you found the joy of solitude.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/21 10:30 PM
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There is a marked difference in maturity between a boy and a man. The parts of you who still feel like a boy simply haven't matured yet. That's not a judgment statement. It simply just is. I'm not talking about evils. I'm talking about how society sees you differently than you see yourself. It's your responsibility to understand how your objectively perceived, so that it cannot be weaponized against you. I think you're trying to read things into my comment that don't exist. I'm not interested in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/21 09:36 PM
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As far as YouTube videos of women who think they understand men, because they raised male children... Women know how to raise boys. Very few know how to raise men. IMO, masculinity deserves to be glorified. Just as much as femininity deserves to he glorified. I'm a gay male in my forties. It wasn't until a few years ago that I started feeling comfortable around men. While I wasn't masculine, I certainly wasn't feminine either. It's been an uncomfortable place. Then, I started waking up into my t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/21 09:11 PM
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A broken nose from a metaphorically thrown book is absolutely nothing combared to a burn from boiling water. She lacks empathy. So my wish for her is that she gain a full & intimate understanding of the damage she caused to another human.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/21 05:39 PM
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The answer is easy: narcissism. There's no such thing as 'bad attention' to these people. And the girl mentioned in the first paragraph should be avoided at all costs. She's being emotionally manipulative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/21 04:50 PM
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I'm not reading past your first sentence. Go read up on trauma and it's effects. Read up on it extensively. Maybe then you'll realize that what you're saying here is absolute horse shit.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 04:43 PM
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Here's the deal. While you may have been OK with it happening to you, without your consent, there are those of us who aren't. Who cares about the difference between procedures. That's rationalizing and apologizing. I'm sorry. Strike what I just said. I saw your final thoughts. There's no harm? There's no fucking harm!?!? What is wrong with you? You have zero right to assert that claim, as it requires the confirmation of victims. None of us knows is we turned out fine or not.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:09 AM
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Oh, yes. I think the vast majority of women have this problem. Very few women are keyed to empathize with men. And when they do empathize, it has real limits. Most women can fathom the depths of loneliness we often feel.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 08:39 AM
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They're the women that "conscious natural selection" is ruling out.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 08:34 AM
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What a wretched woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 01:26 PM
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Always remember the depravity of minds that behave like that. Their narcissism can admit no fault, so the project their depraved thoughts onto us, and expect us to sit back and take it.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/21 09:40 PM
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They odnt understand tat men really don't get what "me time" is. We're always too busy trying to please women who can't be pleased.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/21 11:15 PM
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Oh? I'm so glad for you. That would have been an awful LTR to witness & experience, as a friend.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 11:21 PM
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Ignore interacting with her, and have a stern talk with this friend of yours. His girlfriend is not your friend and has no business speaking her mind toward you. Please kindly inform your friend that his girlfriend needs to know how to behave herself in your presence. Odds are that if she's this way to you, she's also this way toward him. He's not setting boundaries with her, but you can compel that by setting a boundary with him. Talking to you like that is simply not OK. I riotous never take t…
/r/MensRights04/02/21 10:43 PM
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You said the safe word and she didn't stop? Doesn't matter the reason, your trust was violated right there. No more kissy kissy until princess learns that No means No.
/r/MensRights03/02/21 11:54 PM
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Then go for the glee of setting people like her rot. What she did was cruel and malevolent.
/r/MensRights03/02/21 08:11 AM
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It sure is.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 08:25 AM
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True. Yet, something on him is now broken. The innocence he had right up until that moment. Women will never appear the same to him again. They'll always be just a tiny bit less beautiful.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 08:09 AM
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I regard them as Varelse.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 08:57 PM
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OMG. It took me an hour to remember the context of this. Thanks!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 05:33 AM
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Man, that is so fucked up. That kind of stuff can scar someone for life. And, here you are, still wanting a woman but having a real hard time trusting them, correct?
/r/MensRights01/02/21 03:04 AM
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If I can give you one piece of advice that I think would actually be useful, it's this: Indulge your whims. I'm not talking cravings and urges, but actual whims. One of my experiences in this was that I've always loved sexy tan lines, but never had the body, confidence, or complexion for it. The idea of being so bare around other people was a major no no. Back when I was 39, I said "Fuck it! I want a speedo tanline." I live a block away from a neighborhood beach, which makes this easy. I had to …
/r/MensRights01/02/21 02:56 AM
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That women's shelter got robbed by your ex. There are women with serious and legitimate need to that kind of support. It almost always relies on donations and volunteering. To take advantage of their help, in order to pursue a vendetta against you Isa massive betrayal of their trust in trying to help women with real struggles. The more I think about your story, the more mad I get at all the people she screwed over just to screw you over. You, and the world, deserve better than that.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 01:58 AM
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I would be in the exact same place as you, if I didn't have that core thing that drives me. Two years ago, I wrote a love letter to someone. It was a real big deal for me. As in... I have no intentions of spending my life with anyone else. Even if he never wants to be with me, which is a silly idea, there just isn't anyone else. (note: this is not up for discussion, as I'm very well aware of how I feel about these things). Anyway, so he does reject me, and my world collapses. It wasn't that I co…
/r/MensRights01/02/21 01:38 AM
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It's not particularly simple. I do find that it helps to know that I'm not the only one who has come to this exact same conclusion as you have: Nobody really cares about my safety and well being. They only care about how I benefit them. Now? I know I can't trust people the way I used to, and I am very socially isolated. This isolation, though unpleasant, also feels really great. Why? Because I don't have those people drawing upon my emotional resources, which allows me to focus all of my intensi…
/r/MensRights01/02/21 12:44 AM
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It's part of the climactic sequence in "The Fountain" where Tomas (Hugh Jackman) makes his way to the Tree of Life. He exits the doorway and says "Behold." as the scene opens up and the music swells. It's one of my favorites.
/r/MensRights01/02/21 12:27 AM
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I cant bail on my gf and our baby, so I just gotta get better and try again. Protect your girlfriend and your unborn child, even when she's unwilling/unable to protect herself. You're right, she's in a hugely vulnerable position. I'd wager that she's desperately trying to get her mother to finally love her correctly. One would think that bearing a child would trigger that instinct. I'm also going to wager that mother will not change her tiger stripes, and that you'll need to step up and be the p…
/r/MensRights31/01/21 10:47 PM
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My favorite line from Labyrinth: "You have no power over me." Funny that I just recently rewatched that movie, as I've loved it since it came out. This time I could see the story for what it was: A spoiled brat being forced to grow up. LMAO
/r/MensRights31/01/21 10:16 PM
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Exactly! There are so many valid issues that concern me on how women are treated. The feminists often do not care about those. I remember a young woman parading herself around a business I was helping to keep open. I had befriended the female owner many years ago, and swooped in when everything was falling apart for her. I sacrificed years of my life for this woman's dream, but that's a different story. Back to the attention-seeking woman child. She'd burst on into the business and immediate com…
/r/MensRights31/01/21 10:14 PM
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After I matured out of my arrested development, and painfully so, at the age of 45... that's when I went on strike. I'm a gay male and have come to the same conclusion that heterosexual men have come to. I've made a conscious decision to no longer support, or make comfortable, people who refuse to the same for me as generously as I do it for them. Since I'm a very generous person, my standards are now through the roof. I may be alone as fuck now, but I don't have anyone where I feel the need to …
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:58 PM
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You are so right! It's the assholes in each gender, race, and socioeconomic status that ruin it for all of the non assholes out there. The silent majority are the people who haven't learned that they should be speaking up and defending themselves, and each other, from... assholes.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:55 PM
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OMG, this!!!!! I've spent my life around women, as I used to connect with them much more easily than men. I'd spend hours of days at this local knitting store. I'd have my lady friends, and I continued my habit of oversharing. The rudeness of some of those women who interject their opinions into a conversation I was building would ruin the fun for me. So, I started talking in more hushed tones. I wanted to guarantee that I could finish my conversation with whichever lady "friend" I was talking t…
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:53 PM
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I had a male coworker tell me he believed in the patriarchy. The tone he used indicated it was oppressive toward women and that he was less valuable as a human. I told him that we should have a talk outside of work sometime. :P
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:46 PM
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The conversational trick is to get you to see things from their perspective, so they can beat you with it. Was debating something socio-political with a guy once. I knew he was seeing only a smaller picture, and could feel him trying to get me to see things his way. This would make his logic absolutely perfect, though flawed and reductive. Sure, I can easily see things from the perspective of other people. It's part of who I am. Am I going to just do that for people, willy nilly? Not anymore. Ac…
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:45 PM
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Follow the advice these men are giving you here. She's going to be more interested in destroying your character and any possibility of a happy future, but won't be reporting your "crime" to the police. I'm going to rephrase an old addage that "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman who feels scorned." Attempting to scorch your Earth bears no consequences for her. This is not OK>
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:42 PM
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Agreed. We can't resort to the same restrictive tactics they adhere to. They'll only see themselves as continued victims. My personal approach is to simply not tolerate people who speak or act in unbecoming or incongruent manners. I'm old enough, and good enough at what I do, that I can walk out of a conversation, mid sentence, because I don't have the time for the petty tantrums of the pampered class.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:35 PM
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Is the threat you're perceiving that of contracted COVID? I think that is a "wary" that we're all going to have to consciously work to change as the threat itself diminishes. We've already been living in a "world without smiles" for 11 months now. And that's on top of living in a world where not many people even like to smile. Time to change that up.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:33 PM
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Behold! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5X1Pv9KBBTE&ab_channel=OctoBeard
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:22 PM
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If you'd like someone to talk with, and maybe perhaps untangle some of that web you're snared it, send me a PM. Maybe I can help facilitate your way through this a little.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:20 PM
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We've been kept too busy to be allowed time to realize that we're all in this together. I'm a gay male who has always felt intimidated by men. While not being necessarily feminine in nature, I'm generally way to emotive and expressive for men. For decades, I befriended women, only to come to the conclusion (at 45 y/o) that women cannot understand the depth of loneliness men feel on a daily basis. While there are exceptions to that generality, they are few and far between. Now? I've done my work.…
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:18 PM
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This is the closes to solitary confinement any of us will ever know. I found it both interesting and truly disheartening to know that I was losing track of time. There was a day, last December, where I knew it was Saturday, but had to ask people just to make sure. I've done that before, but this was more severe. No stable sleep schedule. No routines to follow. Just varying phases of light/dark outside with no real feeling of the passage of time.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:10 PM
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Man, that is a super-tough predicament to be in. This also indicates that your gf has not aptly come to terms with the reality that her mother may actually not have been good for her as a child. Most people are afraid to look that far back, as it threatens to shatter their reality in a way they can't put it back together. Hence, "I need to be right about this." "Ok, honey. Fine. What are you prepared to accept as consequences if you're wrong? Are you willing to take responsibility for the damage…
/r/MensRights31/01/21 09:06 PM
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I used psychedelics, pretty intensely, for 6 years. That's how long it took me to untangle my issues. My most recent was on Thanksgiving, where I got a very clear understanding of "nobody actually cares about me". Well... what do I do with that knowledge? If that's how things really are, then I give a fuck even less than before. I do that thing I'm good at. And I do it expressly on my terms. If no one really cares about me, then they're not welcome to share their opinions of my behavior. It's my…
/r/MensRights31/01/21 07:58 PM
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Would you regard yourself as empathic? Given your life of work, and your concerns over your own "stability", it's very likely that much of what you're feeling is absorbed emotions from other people. Added to your own core emotions, boooooy, can it weigh your life down in unnecessarily painful ways.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 07:55 PM
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This is genuinely so great to see! I've been feeling the same emotional squeeze, but also the same push to make sure other guys know they have people to talk to. Overall, I'm good. Life is still difficult, and money is still super tight, and I'm still alone as fuck. But... I've carried myself through all of this for decades, am emotionally on the other side, and am unshakable. I want to help other men to find their unshakable cores as well. edit: typo
/r/MensRights31/01/21 07:53 PM
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Oh my. I do believe that you are correct!
/r/MensRights31/01/21 06:31 PM
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That's well thought out. I don't think they understand, at a fundamental level, the atrocities a man is capable of art the behest of or creation by women. What I think really gets them is that the first person to contribute to his creation, and the single-greatest contributor, was his deluded, narcissistic mother. Feminists can't handle the reality that bad women exist. Good women understand this, because they're left cleaning up the mess.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 08:24 PM
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Oh, I can see why they find this so offensive, and I think that's absolutely hilarious.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 10:55 AM
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Female Dorian Gray? Someone whose sins don't stick.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 08:45 AM
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Ooooh, I highly recommend it. I watched it on this past Christmas, and have to say that it really helped me understand some things about myself.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 08:15 AM
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This is why Joker (2019) made so many people uncomfortable. It's practically a documentary.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:04 AM
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It's a trap!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/21 10:36 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:49 PM
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We are no longer at a place where breeding is a top priority. If going to be hard to equalize that.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:48 PM
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I'm finally where you are. I didn't realize what I was letting them do to me. I do massage for a living, and man... the amount of women who come in because they can't calm November last themselves down. Hell, I can fix that in a matter of minutes. I'm quite addictive. It wasn't until last November that I realized I touch these women better than their men do. Oh, hell no. Here I am, completely alone, in the darkest time our modern world had known, and I'm calming down people who have someone to k…
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:45 PM
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Oh gawd. It's a bit different for me, cuz I'm gay and the ladies think I'm really sparkly. I'm also extremely good at understanding their feelings and they have taken advantage of that so much that I'm done with them.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:35 PM
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Writhe a micro peen, as those women think, or.... The man is so damned huge he don't care what people think about how he decorates his truck.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:22 AM
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Then I wasn't referring to your tone.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:19 AM
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Are you the "her" from the story? I have no idea who you are to be able to reference you with a gendered pronoun.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:17 AM
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"It's not 'your' sidewalk, princess." Do you know why I move away from women like that? I can feel their apprehension... radiating from them. I hate the feeling. So, I get away from them to get away from how they feel.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:12 AM
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I'm curious about her tone. I bet it lacks common common courtesy.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:09 AM
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Not coddling, but nurturing. Do you coddle your own when you mow it, or is that just the basic care that needs to be taken?
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:07 AM
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I still work with quite a few female clients. This past Monday, I saw four. A wife, a mother/daughter combo, and a young Muslim woman whose family emigrated from Somalia when she was a child. Each of these women are good people, and each has unique pains and traumas. So, here I am, empathizing with this sparkly woman and helping her clean off her self image. Then, the mother/daughter combo, as we work through the breakdowns in their communications. Mom knows she wasn't a good mother, and daughte…
/r/MensRights28/01/21 11:06 PM
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I can't offer the kind of social support you're looking for. Having said that, I'm an extremely skilled healer in Seattle, and would love to get to work with you. I think you're looking for the kind of empathy I have to offer, and I'll be able to help you gain access to your own internal resources. If you're curious, send me a PM. I happy to elaborate.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 10:38 PM
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The rebalancing is happening. Moving toward homeostasis, so to see peak, is inevitable.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 10:36 PM
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Indeed!
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 05:46 PM
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That's... Smart.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 04:07 PM
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Fair. If someone offered me Applebee's, it's not my style, but I wouldn't be a dick about it.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 09:05 AM
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Remember the term p***ywhipped, from when we were younger?
/r/MensRights28/01/21 12:28 AM
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"Ego", abstractly speaking, is trying to prove that it's capable, regardless of the sex of the human housing it. What it hasn't come to accept yet is that our biological differences DO impact things, much more heavily than so many care to admit.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 12:27 AM
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Word. Took me decades to figure that one out. I've been weeding out clients left and right lately. Am only willing to work with people who reflect my energy back to me, and who are eager to actually develop themselves as a person. If they're not doing the work on themselves, I just can't be bothered. They're taking up the timeslot of someone who's actually fun to work with. If I'm going to continue to touch people for a living, every session better be real freaking fun... for me.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 12:26 AM
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Broken people don't know when to leave. It's a huge issue.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 12:17 AM
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What is he's had so many women wanting a free dinner, while not actually carrying about him, that he's decided to not spend a large sum on money on a rude woman? His dating strategy is working. It weeded her out. Bullet dodged.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 12:16 AM
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Bright enough. Comparatively speaking, women are more emotionally vicious than men by orders of magnitude.
/r/MensRights27/01/21 08:29 AM
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He wasn't defending anything. He was trying to create as much damage as possible.
/r/MensRights27/01/21 08:06 AM
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I had a client for years who would complain over trivial personal squabbles at work. She's got 20 years on me. Now, when I would share my complaints about life, she'd tell me to get over it. I fired her, mid session, a year ago this weekend. It was glorious. She deserved it. Coming into my home and criticizing my life. When I called her out on it, she doubled down. Oh, hell no. It wasn't until just this month that I realized I wasn't allowed to complain, becuase I'm male. If I were female, she'd…
/r/MensRights27/01/21 07:55 AM
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Men are top simple to be emotionally abusive, to the degree implied. They simply lack the language. Women, on the other hand, can be incredibly vicious.
/r/MensRights27/01/21 05:13 AM
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Oh? Then that means there are tons of slurs for men.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/21 07:14 PM
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For me, the only response to them banning is: "Who the fuck do you think you are stalking me to ban me from a sub I've never visited. That's some psycho behavior. It's no wonder men hate women like you." I'm not sure I've littered it with enough trigger words though.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/21 06:58 PM
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There's a series of fantasy books, called The Black Jewels Trilogy, by Ann Bishop. From my enjoyment of the books, they're great "emotion porn". The story takes place in a more extreme version of the reality you described in your post. I think the could help you find a more detailed language for the experiences you've got bottled up in their. Finding that language, and empathizing with yourself would be excellently healing. I've read the series like four times now. Most recently was a year ago, …
/r/MensRights26/01/21 10:39 AM
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You're arguing like a female. Vicious little off-color attacks. You need to go hang out with the entitled bitches. You'll find yourself in better company there.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/21 10:22 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? There's a subject matter of this thread, and you're fixated on some silly tangent. Correct you compass. I'm out.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/21 10:15 AM
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Oh that poor man. All he dreamt of was her. Then she poisoned his trust in that by admitting she could imagine a future without him. I can see why he withdrew his trust in her.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/21 10:14 AM
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I stated my orientation for context only. I didn't want OP thinking I'm female when I mentioned my man. I wasn't virtue signaling, and you could easily have chosen the context I just laid out. Instead? You bitched. smdh
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/21 03:12 AM
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If I got a call from my special someone, while I'm in session, I'm obviously not going to answer. What I am guaranteed to do is call him back, ASAP, and before I call anyone else back. That's priorities. (for the record, I'm gay)
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 07:28 PM
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"I'm going to randomly just call you for no reason just to keep you on your toes." Here's the unspoken second half of that: "and if you don't do everything you're doing, regardless of priority, to show me I'm the most important thing you've barely met, I'll have a fit, insult, and berate you." Did I accurately sum that up?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 07:24 PM
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Tone is everything. If it sounds slightly entitled for small things, it will sound massively entitled for big things. Pattern recognition is everything.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 07:16 PM
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One would think they'd be on their best behavior if they knew their bad behavior will brand them for eternity. If she's lucky enough to actually grow up, this will be forever humiliating. Rebecca Black was "just a girl" when she made that video with her friends. It wasn't that awful, and it caused no harm to anyone, but that one part of her life forced her to grow up real fast. The way she was bullied was inexcusable. Ponsetto here isn't "a girl". She's a rotten b in the making.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 06:46 AM
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I'd sooner die.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 06:37 AM
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Seems like a lot of people just let her have her tantrums, for "fear of losing their jobs". Wouldn't it just be better to shut that tantrum down, so you can get some peace and quiet at the work place? Fearful complacence is old school, and this is what we have to show for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 12:29 AM
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I keep being taken back to Paul's experience of 'the box' in Dune. That single experience pretty much sums everything up. Once you realize that you're talking to most people's survival instinct, rather than who that person actually is... well... I've lost interest in most people.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 12:22 AM
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Wasn't she still coming down from the uppers she was taking while filming on location? That show is a modern treasure trove.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 09:14 PM
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A year ago, I worked with a th a new client for a session. He was 54 y/o and had recently had a child via surrogacy. He knew he wanted a child, but the relationship to make one never happened. So, he did it on his own. At the time, he was so glad he made the decision. I don't know any more details, becuase we haven't worked together since.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 08:55 PM
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Heck! All Moira Rose did when she found love letters between her husband and his mistress was her dramatic. She didn't stab her man.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 07:41 PM
1

Oh, ffs.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 07:36 PM
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This is what an animal looks like. She's never met her survival instinct, and it runs her life. A human has control over such things.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/21 07:31 PM
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I lucked out... after decades of this misery. My emotional sensitivity is what allows me to be so good at what I do. Anyone wants to push back, give me any kind of lip, or shame me, and I have only one reply. "There's the door. Take your migraine headache with you and leave." Very few people have ever cared for my sensitivity, and I just recently connected that a good portion of that is because I'm male. Now? I fiercely protect my sensitive nature and won't take shit from anyone. Ever again.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 05:29 AM
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Women have never had such sexual freedom as they do right now. They've never had to learn to control their base urges, like men are required to do.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 05:26 AM
1

There is no counter argument they'll listen to. Most of them are varelse.
/r/MensRights24/01/21 04:57 AM
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In twenty years, after he truly understands how spectacularly he was insulted, he's going to tell himself something... If I were there, knowing what I know now, I'd defend the fu k outta you, little bro. We'd tell her "Don't ever take that tone of voice with me again."
/r/MensRights23/01/21 11:01 AM
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Gawd no! Back in the kate 90s, I was friends with a female coworker who was on the company co-ed softball league. I went to a practice and game once with her and her fiance. Watching it was atrocious. Not because "women can't play", but because of all the hoops men had to jump through to equalize game play. This made the men hyper competitive against the tiniest infraction of the rules. Was. Not. Fun. To. Watch. I think it was actually anxiety inducing too see.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/21 07:42 AM
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Of course they were trying. If they weren't trying after the boys scored their first goal, they were definitely trying my the time it was 3x0. I wonder... when did it occur to them, during the match, that they were being bested by children? Not just bested, but pulverized.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/21 07:36 AM
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Agreed. I think it draws the distinction between embarrassment and humiliation. One is easily recovered from, the other can last a lifetime.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/21 07:28 AM
1

My logic thinks it's ok if it's not one sex doing it to the other.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/21 07:26 AM
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I'll take that. What I tried to articulate is, feminism or not, what this doctor did was a fundamental violation of trust and abuse of her authority over a patient. She had a minor male separated from his parents, and used this one-on-one time to push a personal agenda. He was uncomfortable to the point of it shaking his sense of self, and he didn't have either of his parents present to supervise the interaction and/or defend/protect their child. I work with people on an extremely intimate emoti…
/r/MensRights23/01/21 05:38 AM
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Oh, now she's projecting. Go home, princess.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 04:15 AM
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So this is what you resort to? Attacks? Thanks for proving our point.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 04:13 AM
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Those comments were so great to read. I can't imagine the depth of the wound she just gouged open that he now has to try to restabilize.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 01:59 AM
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Well, when you type it out that way... I'm convinced! /s LMAO
/r/MensRights23/01/21 01:41 AM
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That doctor was abusing her authority over her patient. This is unacceptable.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 11:39 PM
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No social power? Women are the definition of social power. No one assassinates a character quite like a woman can.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 07:13 PM
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There's an old John Wayne and Maureen O'Hara movie called McClintock! It's a great movie and highlights the differences in how men solve disputes vs. how women do. But what if the dispute is across the sexes and the subject matter serious? Well a good man can't fight a woman the way her would a man. So... I bends her over her knee and spenks her. Seeing this movie as a child vs. as an adult was very eye opening.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/21 07:12 PM
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OMG, dude I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Under no circumstances should you respond to her, but your already know that. Her message is a narcissistic behavior called 'hoovering', making a dramatic display to suck you back into her reality. That is a recipe for continued disaster. Again, you already know that. Good luck and best wishes.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 07:06 PM
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"So glad I failed. Dodged a bullet with you." The nerve to "test" people.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/21 10:22 AM
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And a boat. Don't forget that he has to own a boat so he can sail her around the world.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/21 10:15 AM
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These people are just too old to get away with being third poorly behaved.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:09 AM
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Then they haven't met me. LMAO
/r/MensRights22/01/21 01:11 AM
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There's a a series of fantasy books, by Ann Bishop, called The Black Jewels Trilogy. I've read the three times over. The most recent read was exactly a year ago. I ifnd myself needing to read them again, because it's eerily accurate to this subject. Men being forced to 'service bitches'. I never saw it from deep in the male perspective before. I mainly saw the process of heal and the emotions. This time, I'll be reframing it with the language you're all sharing here.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:56 AM
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In our litigative and punitive world, intent is everything.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:45 AM
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All that takes is a smug, condescending tone of voice. They already got that perfected.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:39 AM
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OMG, that would so never ever fly. The comparison is so perfect, too.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 11:32 PM
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If you're girlfriend is using feminism to guilt trip you, this is what she's actually saying... Women are oppressed. I am a woman. So, you a have to treat me special. It has little to actually do with how other women are treated, and is almost entirely selfish in motivation. Virtue signaling is a shameful, manipulative behavior. IMO, most men aren't saavy to the way women use emotions to manipulate poeple. This is why you must my figure all of your emotions out, in time, so that they can never b…
/r/MensRights21/01/21 11:31 PM
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Serviam is a new word to me. Thank you for it. I'm a gay male who has repeatedly sacrificed his own self interest to care for and support other women. For a little over a month now, I've been no longer of service. While I still care for women and am willing to work with them I do not, however, service bitches. The moment entitlement to my empathy enters the session, they're fired on the spot.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:53 PM
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At a fundamental level, women just don't empathize with men. At least, that's the mindset I'm exploring for a while. It perfectly encapsulates the story you told. The empathy is only ever allowed to flow toward women. Yes, this is a very broad brush stroke, and I've obviously experienced exceptions. But they're just that... exceptions. If we can't say notallmen, then they can't say notallwomen. Fair is fair.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:50 PM
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Pedophile!!! A man would be drawn and quartered for saying "but I thought she was 18!?!?"
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:39 PM
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But, you see... those aren't pejoratives. Those are accurate adjectives that you and I deserved since birth. /s LMAO!!!!!
/r/MensRights21/01/21 05:55 PM
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"No one hates them enough to create a derogatory term for them." Um... If no one hates us enough, how are we also the greatest evil alive?
/r/MensRights21/01/21 03:43 PM
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Don't let their words convince you otherwise... they do, in fact, eat their own.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 03:26 PM
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Not sure if I'd be productive. I'm still in my pissy phase. Just realized last month, at the age of 45, that I don't like women. This has really thrown me for a loop, since women were the only people I've really been friends with. I've seen the world through their eyes for so long, and never accessed the male perspective of this reality. Oh, how everything makes more sense now. So many pieces coming together.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 10:37 AM
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I completely agree. The view from my perspective is that women aren't looking in the mirror. They see no flaw within themselves. So, by deduction, men must be the cause of their problems. Just another manifestation of narcissism.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 09:07 AM
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The utter hubris of it all. I'm 45 and have spent the better part of the last 15 years almost exclusively around women. And let me tell you, they are just as shitty at conversation as anyone else I've met. Women have no problem interrupting into a conversation they're not even a part of, just because they had an opinion and are entitled to share it out of turn. It's become so annoying to me that I'm done speaking in the room the moment women enter.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 08:28 AM
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It's so damned condescending, too. As if any of them would tolerate a man pointing out any of their many character flaws. Yet, there they are, ready to wave a red flag and scream bloody murder each time they decide that a male speaks out of turn. Reading through, it's as if not a single one of them is capable of introspection.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 08:25 AM
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Such micromanaging and nitpicking. Men just want women to be nice. Yet, these women over there are so fixated that they must have a say in every little thing a man says and does, because: inequality.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 08:15 AM
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OMG, I have rants for each bullet point.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 06:14 AM
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Ya know... I don't know. I'm gay and am just realizing that I'm not comfortable with being in the same room as a woman, 1-to-1. I don't know how hetero guys deal with this. You know... Actually having a vested interest in relating with women. I just wanted a really good friend. Made only a couple, but only after massive shedding and boundary realization.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 06:07 AM
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What irks me about this is that she genuinely believes she was chosen upon her merit and superior character. Ultimately, I don't care what sex the person is, or political affiliation. I want to see people who are good at governance.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 02:02 AM
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Now that my vape is kicking in, it m connecting to dots about this "agenda". The powers that work to keep us controlled have put rich against poor, nation against nation, race against race, and... women against men. It's total war/chaos specifically intended to keep us as separate and uncooperative with each other as possible. Massive wedges being driven between us and most people fall for it. Feminism us just another if those wedges meant to hurt everyone.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:47 PM
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IMO, always keep your intimate thoughts to yourself when a non-familiar woman asks you to open those thoughts up to her. It's a recipe for disaster.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:38 PM
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Thanks! I was born to 21 y/o woman who had a horrific childhood. Violent, alcoholic father and narcissistic mother. Her mother essentially sacrificed her daughters to keep herself less on the cross hairs. I've spent years untangling the psychological damage that my grandparents wrought upon their family. I grew up in poverty, moved a million times, and went to eight different elementary schools. Nearly no one gives me credit for the immense struggles of my life, because I'm a white male. My moth…
/r/MensRights20/01/21 09:36 PM
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Don't tell us that we're in this together. I, for one, already know that. Tell them.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:38 PM
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I think I may have noticed this. I'm pretty certain that if I were heterosexual my quality of life would be even worse than it is now.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 06:05 PM
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Ooooh... A communications degree? So, what you're telling me is that her drop rate is 'common'? She's been afforded more luxuries in life than I have, yet she's had it worse AND gets to hate me for it? Lucky for me that my drop rate is 'Legendary', and that my four decades of struggling to survive are in the process of paying off. I've only ever met a couple of people who are like, but have met oodles of communications majors.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 04:28 PM
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It is, after all, a sex offense, so should be treated as one.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 12:14 AM
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How can a 26 y/o (essentially a child) make such broad and definitive claims against an entire demographic? It took me 45 years to realize what most women are. I have much more experience with the opposite sex than a 26 y/o and I still won't summarily claim that I hate women. Oh, the whining that ensues.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 11:31 PM
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Good for you!!!
/r/MensRights19/01/21 11:08 PM
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That she did it, and thought I would be funny, is the character flaw. That she did it "too hard" was nothing more than miscalculation. Her reaction to your confrontatiwill be everything. Will she offer to accept responsibility, or will you have to convince her to?
/r/MensRights19/01/21 09:03 PM
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Not a single ounce of responsibility taken by anyone in that thread. Hashtag: VirtuousVictims
/r/MensRights19/01/21 09:00 PM
14

For real!!! That violent, vicious animal!!!
/r/MensRights19/01/21 07:55 PM
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I was excited for her. I'be seen her in a few things and thought she could be a fun Dr. Watched the first episode and... that absolutely awful writing was still on display. Neither a man nor a woman can make writing palatable, IMO.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 06:52 PM
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Seconded, and without a second thought.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 06:22 PM
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The problem is that you're asking for empathy from a demographic who feels entitled to all of the empathy and refuses to share it with anyone else. For decades, I actively empathized with women, to the point of dramatically improving the quality of individual lives. That empathy rarely ever came back my way. So, I've recalibrated myself and will be focusing more on empathizing with men. It's amazing what I've learned in just one month.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 09:01 PM
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Isn't it frustrating when poeple refuse to actually listen to you, rather than project all their psychological crap onto you? She wasn't having a conversation with 'you', but some images of you she created in her head. The image is incongruent with reality, but that doesn't matter to her.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:56 PM
1

I wonder if it's okay if the power dynamic, so to speak? Were these men, who didn't believe men can be molested, large in stature or confidence? Could you find a common thread that connects the mentality?
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:33 PM
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Well, with all of the eyes you've lost in your acts of retribution, I'm surprised you can even read my comments, let alone understand them. Is it forbidden here for me to tell you to go f yourself?
/r/MensRights16/01/21 11:45 AM
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Oh, for crying out loud. You still miss my point about self control. I'm done with this conversation. Good evening.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 11:41 AM
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You miss my point. If she's so much better than him, she had to be... better. This means to have control over herself. I doubt her disrespect started after she was wronged by him.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 11:33 AM
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It was disrespectful. She may be mad at him, but has proven herself no better. Being unable to control one's temper, lashing out... that's what animals do.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 11:29 AM
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TRUTH!!! I have no patience for poor manners. And, now that I'm finally garnering some leverage in this world, manners & civility are the measures by which I filter people in/out.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:15 AM
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It sure is disgusting, isn't it? If you had done anything even remotely retaliative toward an ex, you'd be labeled as a freak or obsessed stalker.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 03:56 AM
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You're half right. I actually do believe what I wrote, to an extent. I'm not an idiot and I know that there are 'good' women out there. It's just that I'm now sitting in the perspective of "treat them as if they are fundamentally untrustworthy until they've proven otherwise." This is a direct contrast to me pretty much liking every person I meet and wanting to be friends with them. I'm happy to articulate how I've come this conclusion of mine, but it's lengthy. If you want to know, I'm happy to …
/r/MensRights16/01/21 03:54 AM
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That's not the point. Women of low quality are praised for getting revenge on men. Men of low quality are monsters for doing the same thing.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 03:30 AM
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the scorned woman took her revenge in a very original and crafty way Oh, the entitlement. Men aren't allowed to take revenge, but it's so acceptable among women that they get cute adjectives like OP pointed out. It's bad enough that "media" glorified her actions, but even worse that the article was written by two men.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 12:18 AM
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We should be "afraid" of them, because the majority of them are self-serving and untrustworthy. I can't trust a gender that has no mechanism for accountability built into their behaviors.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 12:16 AM
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"Yes, I do."
/r/MensRights15/01/21 08:00 PM
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Send one of them to me, and we'll both find out what I'm capable of. I'm game.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 11:01 PM
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While that may be true for you, it's definitely not the case with me. I provide pain relief at unprecedented levels, and have my best successes when clients have "tried everything and none of it works."
/r/MensRights12/01/21 10:47 PM
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Lucky for you then. I feel people's pain simply by walking outside. It's not optional for me. So, I do things about it, like take the pain away. It's why I'm such a hermit now.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 09:39 PM
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And those is why we don't cater to their fears. I will not tolerate being treated as if I were malevolent.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 09:32 PM
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I think you've overlooked some key concepts written into my comments. I heal poeple for money, not friendships. That e actually my biggest mistake. In my desire to be friends with women, I shared my healing. Again, big mistake. Lesson learned.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 08:15 PM
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I'm happy to elaborate, but will need you to ask an actual question.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 08:08 PM
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Relationships aren't strictly romantic. The way I heal people requires a relationship of sorts, and lots of trust.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 08:05 PM
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Exactly. Fortunately for me, I'm gay and have no long-term vested interest in women or their collective poor manners. And given the fact that I can touch most women more intimately than their lovers can, in the process of removing their chronic, untreatable pain... I have the leverage in any relationship I enter with a woman. No more catering to whining, tantrums, and unsolicited advice.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 07:37 PM
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I'm a gay man and have recently come to the exact same conclusion. I'm done. I now only allow women in my practice under strict boundaries. I'm tired of being the man who has touched them more deeply (emotional/spiritual) than their lovers do, and then to have it disrespected. The 4 y/o boy inside me is the person who does all the healing. He's not been treated sensitively enough by women, so he's done. A few years ago, I bumped into a woman at a store. The owner and I were having a laugh. He wa…
/r/MensRights12/01/21 05:19 AM
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Not a single one of them can even begin to understand the depth of loneliness men feel. Instead of trying to understand, they whine that they're not being treated special enough. Daddy's little princess never grew into the royal responsibilities of being a queen.
/r/MensRights11/01/21 09:14 PM
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I apologize for the blunt nature of my advice. Your wife needs help with her boundaries. Women cutting her down, and making her doubt herself must be eliminated from her closer circles. She's made the choices in life that she feels are best for her, your marriage, and your family. No one has the right to criticize her for it. You may need to teach her how to assert herself over the harpies. It's not right that women should shame a sister for following her heart's desire. The just jealous.
/r/MensRights10/01/21 04:54 AM
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She thinks she's sweet. The world thinks she's rotten. Her feedback mechanism is broken. I have objective evidence that I'm a good person, because the world reflects our back to me. 'Sweet' poeple don't violently attack children out of the blue.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 11:26 PM
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Kudos for not giving up your determination to protect your child.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 11:16 PM
2

I started looking more and more and started to see that the movement I thought I supported was rife with hate We live in a reality where Love is at its lowest point in probably ever. Feminism, in a world full of Love, looks like everyone supporting each other and not shitting on other peoples' parades. In our current world, where there is so little Love, expressions of feminism will lack the appropriate language and everything will express itself in the lower vibrations of fear and hate. They ca…
/r/MensRights07/01/21 10:50 PM
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It's the rudest comment on the thead.
/r/MensRights07/01/21 10:46 PM
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WTH was that thread locked for? I participated in the conversation yesterday and all I saw were men who wanted to be cuddled by someone and have their heads massaged or hair played with. There were even women commenting to support the men. The mod is messed in the head.
/r/MensRights07/01/21 10:45 PM
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India has awful examples of things like this. I still don't understand how so many people can regard India as a spiritual capitol of the world when they behave so poorly.
/r/MensRights07/01/21 10:43 PM
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I had a fun-to-play-with thought last week: What if Mr. Depp had sold his soul to the devil, all those years ago, to become a famous actor... and now his bill has come due and he's being climbed over by another person whose soul the devil bought? I mean... it's like the only sensible explanation for wth that man is going through, right?
/r/MensRights07/01/21 10:38 PM
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How is her behavior not sexist? Ugh.
/r/MensRights07/01/21 10:35 PM
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If she gets drunk again, maintain your damned decorum and settle the manner when all involved are actually sober.
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