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When it comes to dating men prefer short woman and woman prefer tall man because height is sexually dimorphism When it comes to dating, men prefer women who have had fewer partners, it's sexual dimorphism, why are any women complaining (Im tall don't at me)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:16 PM
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Lmao "no one is being forced to do everything" would shut down basically every ppd topic It's a discussion thread. You're welcome not to engage in it as well, but that's what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:15 PM
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There are statistics about men complaining about women not wanting to marry?! Show me!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:14 PM
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Yeah I'm sure no one ever is more open in their expression to anonymous strangers than they are to their "besties" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:14 PM
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Yeah, there's always grifters, I'm just saying, that's why there's this specific grift 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:13 PM
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Plus those poor frogs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:12 PM
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Mid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:11 PM
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And the fertile grounds for said grifts were laid by men not having assured prime age dickwetting as used to be the case with early marriage. You get the society you pay for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:10 PM
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No one wants to see how the sausage is made
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:07 PM
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🔥 Pearl of wisdom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:06 PM
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Just think of it as an early divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:06 PM
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That's basically how we're all here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:05 PM
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Y'all need Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:05 PM
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Fake name
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:05 PM
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It be what it be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:04 PM
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The fact that women clamor for it anyway, badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD, shows that either they in fact do get a great deal out of it or they're not able to look after their own interests. Pick One
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:58 PM
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If they didn't want gerrymandering, they can cast their votes for someone who doesn't gerrymander They don't even understand what the fuck it is. They're like "my team good"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:49 PM
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Win-win for everyone. Well it's a win for someone alright
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:48 PM
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Everyone is fallible. Including the middle class. No matter how hard you dO ThE RiGhT ThInG, you're one chatgpt decision away from years of chaos. I'm just addressing your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:45 PM
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Ah yes the other classic retort of the helpless middle "Just world fallacy will get em" "My mediocrity is permanent, their non mediocrity is only temporary"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:42 PM
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They haven't even figured out safe women's birth control yet (as shown by the widespread complaints and fears about their side effects) All roads lead to Rome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:40 PM
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People slow down as they age lmao goddamn millennials think they'll be going young forever You get the society you pay for and the life you deserve I guess 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:39 PM
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exiting the scope of ppd Not really, it's all baked into the cake You're asserting the political system is causing much of what is discussed here Your explanation requires the assumption that voters are so goddamn stupid they don't and can't know what's good for em or react to it If that's true scrap the whole democracy thing altogether and let's go back to kings. At least they're answerable to some kind of motivation other than themselves that they have to live up to beyond getting the highest …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:38 PM
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IUDs don't ruin bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:36 PM
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Muh irresponsible men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:36 PM
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The mediocre tend to find fake comfort in the trappings of mediocrity, because what choice do they have to keep themselves sane
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:36 PM
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Uhh no either people have the agency to resist pressure or they don't Unless the way to square the circle is only men have agency and women are always hypoagent goddamn children, in which case bring back chaperones and patriarchy immediately Even in your recitation above, instead of badger why doesn't the woman just break up? HoPe tHiS hElPs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:34 PM
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That's a best case scenario, and one in which they are risking birth defects, being so old and decrepit they can't keep up with active children, etc. Many more are just like "nah kids are too expensive it's Instagram vacations for me !!!!1111"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:32 PM
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Interesting that women don't have the same energy about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:31 PM
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Men don't have to let their wealth cause them the mistake of getting married, and your argument about disparate treatment of unmarried fathers doesn't hold water even in this allegedly harder state
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:30 PM
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I'm sure people thought that about a lot of things which now are an assumed part of current year clownshow Modernity comes at you fast
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:29 PM
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Women don't have the same energy about sex do they
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:28 PM
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Disproportionately. And it is a trend, meaning it will apply increasingly and by its nature to relatively younger people. None of anything that will be said on this subreddit is universally applicable to every single person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:28 PM
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They waste their money on frivolities and then complain about depression and not being able to afford children. The sooner isn't happening the way you claim it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:26 PM
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Please note though that my grievances are with our political system, not women. Why not go to the source? Women are the majority of voters at every level of constituency The political system is answerable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:24 PM
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All those condoms you had in your wallet thinking they would be effective lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:23 PM
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They're not doing it sooner. It's irrelevant whether it's because they want to or not, and in fact there very well may be substantive non-utopia reasons they don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:22 PM
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Have you considered doing a 23 and me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:09 PM
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Same idea with the socialist utopias of Europe with their generous policies...they have among the lowest birth rates Gotta treat em lean to keep em keen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:08 PM
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People are giving up parenthood because they can't afford to adequately provide a quality life that gives their children opportunities. And yet the working class have the most children, the only ones reproducing at above a replacement level Colorized The middle class thinks it's beneath them, they haven't yet internalized that the brief postwar period was a blip that is gone forever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:08 PM
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Nah the man can just offload the responsibility on the woman, be the fun weekend dad for the cost of a child support payment. Win win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:06 PM
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You're the one complaining about If you took immigration out of the picture, the western world has population shrinkage severe enough that it would cause a demographic crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:57 PM
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Which trend do I seem to resent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:53 PM
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I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:51 PM
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Why not? LMAO turning point epiphany in real time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:45 PM
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Would you believe some married people still insist on condoms. That would be a hl no from me dawg why be married with no rawdogging, but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:44 PM
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Nevertheless, the rosy utopia painted by the op isn't happening soon for most people, and certainly not for average people. If anyone it is the working classes that anything of this sort happens "soon" in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:42 PM
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"Reformed"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:40 PM
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Only the working class are reproducing at an above replacement level. Also least likely to marry People think that pampering these PowerPoint hooker princesses is the way to get them to breed, but it isn't (also evident on a societal level...the socialist utopias of Europe with their generous policies have some of the world's lowest birth rates) Gotta treat em lean to keep em keen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:38 PM
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That's pretty late. Nearly 50 by the time your kid graduates fucking high school, and that's if you have the kid right after marrying, which of course neurotic middle classers are allergic to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:38 PM
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Jana Hocking: Mid Anyone can be the bad guy for a girl that is less attractive than them. Those guys the girls are talking about, they're guys too lol and those guys feel the same ick and post nut clarity from reluctantly dumping a load in mids that average guys do from dumping a load in uggos It is what it is, all the same in the dark lmao, or pay hookers for guaranteed sex with a hotter girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:33 PM
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SaUcE
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:32 PM
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It is what it is, and things are what they are. Get your best deal. That's all you can do, and others surely will. When In Rome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:30 PM
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Well if a woman wants a kid they're probably better off when they're not solely having to deal with 100% of what happens from conception onward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:29 PM
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Yeah right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:28 PM
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That implies that the woman gives up her career to settle down and become a mom, but that's a declining trend. Mommy track doesn't necessarily mean giving up career. It can often mean just working less, and thus earning less, and thus availing of the benefits divorce laws give to the lower earner at divorce societal impact of having children that doesn't drive individual decision making No need to marry to have children. Over half of millennial births are out of wedlock. 1/3 overall. Only patria…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:27 PM
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The relevant comparison is whether they would've each been better off unmarried, not how they do relative to each other. They can't swap bodies or lives So if she wants a kid, is she better of raising the kid alone from the start or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:25 PM
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you freaks No u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:22 PM
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It was after reading a post about how marriage advantages women and not men that I started thinking about this. The relevant comparison is whether they would've each been better off unmarried, not how they do relative to each other. They can't swap bodies or lives The kind of divorce settlements that some men worry about are not something that the average person experiences Marriage is increasingly the province of the rich. So if you're a guy who is MarrIageAblE by today's standards it's very po…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:21 PM
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Lol yeah women would only be happy if they took all the money from the marriage Tldr now that men don't have to marry for access to hole or even children, there's no reason to do so. Thanks liberation!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:20 PM
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Sooner means sooner lol 30s isn't very soon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:19 PM
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As SMBC put it: Wife: Sex! Husband: Money! Caption: We decided to keep our wedding vows succinct
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:18 PM
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Ergo for a man monogamy is dumb but practical way to get consistent hole but marriage is just insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:17 PM
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Which tells you all you need to know about the reason$ women have to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:17 PM
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Divorce laws favor the lower earner Similar incomes at marriage doesn't mean similar incomes at divorce (e.g., the mommy track)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:16 PM
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What're youuuuu doing here There's more than enough places that do the fake sugarcoated kumbaya thing, and even then the mask is leaking everywhere lmao. CNN be talking about the 80-20 rule now both sides are coming into this w a full clip of ammo and a chip on their shoulder. That's the reality of the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:15 PM
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most women who are married, and that goes for women who live outside of the Anglo-Saxon world, marry men who don't make much. Most men, and especially most men in the USA live paycheck to paycheck. In the US at least, marriage is increasingly disproportionately something that rich people do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:14 PM
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The relevant comparison is if they'd be better off raising the kid alone from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:14 PM
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A lot of young women even out-earn men And yet women prefer men who earn more than them, and marriages where women earn more are likelier to end in divorce maybe he gains money. With the misery she will put him through for being the lower earner, he will earn every penny and then some
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:13 PM
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women its financially they fare worse? Compared to what? The relevant comparison if they want a kid is if they would be better off raising the kid alone from the start. If they are better off doing that, then they should put their money where their mouth is and do that You know 1/3rd of American marriages, the woman is the breadwinner? And are more likely to divorce. Hard for women to forego their hooker mentality notwithstanding what the elite blankslatists blather. (As for them, the actual eli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:11 PM
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Just engaging with the post, which said among other things They go on average holidays with their average kids and they are happy. In fact the more unremarkable a person is, the sooner they seem to find happiness and marriage, with their perfectly equally unremarkable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:04 PM
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I do not necessarily disagree. I am just engaging with your post They go on average holidays with their average kids and they are happy. In fact the more unremarkable a person is, the sooner they seem to find happiness and marriage, with their perfectly equally unremarkable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:00 PM
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It's a thread about marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:57 PM
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money is a substitute for manners. People get away with as much as they can get away with Middle class "morality" is no more and no less than slave morality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:57 PM
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The average man (and then some) 18-29 is single. Apparently your just so narrative isn't really so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:55 PM
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And she would've had to raise a kid alone. Which part of her journey of triumph are you appending that scenario to and assuming it would go exactly as it did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:54 PM
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Over half of millennial births are out of wedlock
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:53 PM
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Other half of that: men are Johns 🤷‍♂️ We are all complicit. I see no need to sugarcoat reality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:52 PM
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Most guys are broke and don't own anything to their name Correct, but MarrIageAblE ones do, due to women selecting for $$ because women have worthless hooker mentality despite being StRoNg And IndePenDeNt now. Oh great what a privilege to be tied by the govt to some worthless nagging boring pussy day in and day out. Might as well pay a real hooker. Marriage is increasingly just for the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:44 PM
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Maybe you are surrounded by ugly women who have given up because even badgering can't inspire men to commit to something that isn't pleasant to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:43 PM
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This assumes what kind of earnings she could've had as a mom raising a baby alone would've been better than what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:42 PM
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I'm self made your highness, it's cute when kiddos who have access to a spendthrift trust that metes out an electrician's salary (adjustable to prevailing market conditions) calls their family's money theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:37 PM
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My mother was a stay at home mom, so she contributed to the family by maintaining the home, caring for kids, caring for my dad, and when my dad lost his job in the recession they had to foreclose on their house and declare bankruptcy - meaning she lost the house that was half hers, which is a lot of money, plus had a bankruptcy on her record, so couldn’t get a loan for 7 years What are you comparing it to exactly? Let's assume she wanted a kid whether or not she had to raise it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:33 PM
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Well if you can't beat em, join em, maximize feelings of pleasure. What else to do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:28 PM
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People could care less Great point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:27 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:23 PM
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Same could be said of many ppd posts and comments. You've even got the cottage industry comment of "reasonable, nuanced comment? That's not for ppd" LOL Regardless, there's a debate to be had and it's being had in the comments one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:21 PM
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Aren't all the candidates democrats
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 05:12 PM
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Just have the law be changed and make poly marriages a reality and that way, the guy who has something to offer, whatever it is that the women who marry him are looking for, can get simultaneously married to 5, 10, 20, 30 women at the same time and stay married to them? Gotta change other parts of divorce laws for this to mean anything you want them to split the marital estate 30 ways everytime someone wants a divorce lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:10 PM
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Nor does yours mine. They could be sociopathic fuckboys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:07 PM
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Meanwhile
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:06 PM
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Every guy can be a sociopathic fuckboy if the woman is ugly enough relative to them, it's the relative difference in attractiveness that opens up that possibility
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:01 PM
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Doesn't really make sense to tell half the story
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:59 PM
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Women are worthless hookerbeggar prostitutes. At least it was worth paying for them when they were bangmaids, but now? Men shouldn't be paying one red cent for the privilege of fucking the same aging boring nagging face day in and day out...temporarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:58 PM
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Because most women on reddit are autistic, obese emtionally stunted manipulators with zero social awareness and zero self introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:55 PM
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You need to remember that's the exception rather than the rule We'll never know for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:53 PM
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People my age who are married are not trailer uncles or whatever you're blathering on about lol, which again is my point, the bar has escalated to meet the hookers' most base needs of receiving their hooker vig Ever wondered whether those women didn't just make those husbands of yore miserable because they weren't wealthy enough to pay sufficient whore vig
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:46 PM
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This is the default state. Paywalling sex behind marriage was something those mean old patriarchs forced on women for a very temporary period of thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:42 PM
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There's a new in between thing now short of marriage called a girlfriend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:37 PM
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she will take care of the man, all the children, cooking, cleaning. this even enables the man to focus more on his own career. While complaining about how unequal it is. That isn't accepting a role. That's borrowing it. marriage is an exchange A transaction. No need for men to marry now. They can have the milk for free. Thanks liberation!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:35 PM
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You have no idea my family’s income status. From the sound of it, clinging neurotically to the last dredges of middle class respectability
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:27 PM
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They generally would've been higher earning staying single How do you figure...are they having a kid in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:26 PM
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They're sharing a bigger pot than they would otherwise get when it's a higher earning spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:23 PM
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Better even to pay a hooker than to debase oneself in the much more expensive exercise of marriage, which is basically a hooker you have to pay through the nose for and who gets older and saggier and naggier with each passing day If you can afford marriage, you can afford hookers. Marriage today is disproportionately the province of the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:14 PM
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"almost got to be her first", can't imagine that's not a thought that ever even once crossed his mind but 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:12 PM
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Unmarried women don't get to split half of assets with their higher earning partner when they break up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:11 PM
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Then replace her with someone else. When she's clamoring is likely about when her looks are fading
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:10 PM
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It's actually not a huge risk Many more men have that happen to them than women murdered by their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:09 PM
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Pretty sure TRP doesn't have 64% penetration lol Single women outearn single men, and if you're not Chad you gotta have the higher $$ because women are hookers and men are Johns It's simple Shames women Yeah women don't give a single fuck about that we wouldn't have the society we do if they did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:07 PM
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All I can say is I think the odds are better in my favor if Partner A was someone successful vs Partner B who has no meaningful work history or assets or income. Yeah that's fair. It's just not really a guarantee. The road is long.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:04 PM
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Hash tag believe men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:02 PM
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Hashtag believe men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:02 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:00 PM
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Yeah of course walk away knowing it's impossible to refute that women are worthless fucking hooker beggar prostitutes by nature even when they outearn their victim prey men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:55 PM
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If you don't see it happening, then lucky you I guess because it's super cringe and pathetic, behaving like a homeless beggar when they are not🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:53 PM
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wahh wahh victimhood whining on behalf of long dead people 🎻 just Single women outearn single men The thing is it doesn't matter. Women just can't help themselves. They're innate hookers, and men are Johns
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:52 PM
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This is ppd not your therapist's office wall. It's a debate lmao I'm not forcing you to debate it if you don't want to "Do whatever you want" would end every debate on ppd, yet here we all are My demographic I could buy your whole family in cash. Marriage is still dumb though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:51 PM
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Research shows the increases in health, wealth, and happiness often associated with marriage are disproportionately experienced by men Wet grass causes rain Women pick the winners who can afford to pay them their vig
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:50 PM
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MarrIageAblE is changing It's only for the rich now I could buy your whole family in cash, but marriage is still dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:49 PM
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See you're not even getting a bangmaid why would a guy commit to fucking the same aging boring pussy day in and day out upon penalty of financial loss for nothing in return, ust keep it as a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:48 PM
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Over half of millennial births are out of wedlock (1/3 overall, only patriarchal Utah is less than 20% across all age groups) so there's plenty of women available.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:46 PM
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Being in a relationship is different from being married. We are talking about marriage. There's also that marriage rates are declining, and 64% of men 18-29 are single (not even in a relationship) Moreover, the minority or majority taking particular decisions is irrelevant to whether a decision is harmful A majority of Americans are eating themselves into an early grave
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:44 PM
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Something can have a nonzero benefit and still be a bad deal And to reiterate And yet younger generations are learning marriage isn't necessary for that anymore, hence marriage rates are declining (second marriages will necessarily be an older batch of men)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:43 PM
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Just because she's earning a lot at marriage doesn't mean that won't change over time...taking the mommy track etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:42 PM
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proven Then it should be easy to show the proof lol. I assume you're talking about those wet grass causes rain stats like married men are richer, healthier, etc. Women pick the viable workmules to pay them their vig
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:41 PM
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I disagree. Marriage definitely benefits men 1) One would think you'd be able to offer up even one example. 2) it can have some nonzero benefit and still be a bad deal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:40 PM
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voluntarily succumbing to badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD Higher regard Oh sure blame him. Meanwhile there's women out here who be like asking for sex a second time is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:40 PM
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Yet women vastly prefer higher earning men. 2/3 of husbands outearn their wives. Guess it's only ok for women to be transactional huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:39 PM
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I was his first partner and he was my second, Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:38 PM
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They're disproportionately winners. I'm not saying every single one of them are, nor does my claim require it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:36 PM
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A man who is marrying is probably already succumbing to badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD, so the odds are he doesn't have the strength to stand up for himself in the form of a prenup Oh sure blame him. Meanwhile there's women out here who be like asking for sex a second time is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:35 PM
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tends to be Oh sure I'll just take your word for it that women aren't ending marriages out of boredom (which is necessarily a part of no reason or any reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:34 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/oct/07/marriage-america-privilege-rich
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:33 PM
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Previous generations aren't current ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:30 PM
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For no reason or any reason (including boredom), because that's what no fault divorce is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:28 PM
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Assets are divided equally even when incomes are unequal Divorce laws favor the lower earner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:26 PM
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If that's the case, why are men always pressuring women into getting marriage Lmao what planet are you on it's women who are badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD All of your complaints are based on the idea of a 1940s-1990s cultural structure where women often quit their jobs to care for children Divorce laws benefit the lower earner. The amount doesn't have to be 0 for there to be a benefit, and it doesn't have to be at the start of the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:25 PM
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Most of your parents and most of you aren't rich Most men are not MarrIageAblE. It's the ones who have something to lose who are most at risk of some woman badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD rooking them into marriage Most of your fathers do not know how to fully take care of themselves. Most men die before women. Unmarried men die before unmarried women. Unmarried women are fully functioning and men aren't. Men don't even go to the doct…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:23 PM
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Lol gave up on rebutting the arguments eh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:23 PM
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voluntarily The woman badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD There's women out there who be like asking twice for sex is rape, so what would you call the shit show above
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:21 PM
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Most men are not MarrIageAblE. It's the ones who have something to lose who are most at risk of some woman badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD rooking them into marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:20 PM
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Wet grass causes rain Men who earn a lot of money, meeting milestones etc are more likely to be MarrIageAblE and thus more likely to be in the presence of a woman who badgers and whines and complains and nags and cries about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD thus rooking them into marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:19 PM
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The object they're treating men as is an ATM 2/3 of husbands outearn their wives Moreover For marriages formed after 1975, husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk. Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:17 PM
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Lock it down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:14 PM
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file an action for legitimization in court. Once you get the court order, you have the right to seek visitation and even custody There's your divorce petition, but fewer factors to have to fight about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:14 PM
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This spouse is usually the man, but this is slowly changing What's really changing? These marriages to they extent they even occur at all leave the women very dissatisfied. Can't blank slate woke away human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:10 PM
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so you're only looking at the money you will spend or save Women vastly prefer higher earning men So only women are allowed to look out for their interests huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:09 PM
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Boomer mentality (which makes sense that that's who made it) Note that he was divorced and not unmarried lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:08 PM
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Consistent access to hole feels good 🤷‍♂️ And yet younger generations are learning marriage isn't necessary for that anymore, hence marriage rates are declining (second marriages will necessarily be an older batch of men)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:07 PM
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"marriage is a bad deal for anyone who marries someone who at any point at or after marriage earns less than them"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:06 PM
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Women vastly prefer higher earning men, thus they are treating men like objects, and at a minimum there is nothing wrong with reciprocating the same since what's good for the goose is good for the gander Or do you think it's only valid for women to act in their interest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:06 PM
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But it’s a little bit over-dramatic to make out that it’s this perilous trap that men are bamboozled into participating in. Generally speaking adults understand the risks, rewards, and potential outcomes of making what is broadly regarded as a serious compact with specific rights and responsibilities. Nah they just kinda fall into it. this is like saying people read all the internet terms and conditions they click accept on lol (and those are far less emotional circumstances where usually the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:05 PM
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All the men bitching about marriage forget that THEY initiated it, you’re the one who got down on one knee and popped the question. After badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD. Women be out here saying asking for sex a second time is rape, so what do you call this shit show women do when they aren't getting their way in the relationship then Nobody forced you to get married. Yeah all they did was badger and whine and complain and nag and cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:03 PM
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Women do have a history of badgering and whining and complaining and nagging and crying about being a fOrEvEr GiRLfRiEnD, however. Even taking this asserted "need" for women as true (it's need for hole really) doesn't mean you have to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:00 PM
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Everyone does, this isn’t based on gender. Marriage is a financial partnership, it’s a financial risk for anyone. It's a financial risk for the higher earner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:59 PM
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Go ahead and have kids with a woman willing to be an unwed mom. See how that turns out. Over half of millennial births If you think the court system is biased against married men, just wait until you find out how biased it is against unwed fathers. Literally no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:58 PM
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Women are generally poorer after divorce than men The relevant comparison is whether they're poorer than they would've been never marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:57 PM
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if you don't want to. You don't have to Could be said about every discussion topic on ppd yet here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:57 PM
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Why is not getting used for sex the only thing you all care about? People's interests aren't any better or worse because they don't happen to be your interests
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:56 PM
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Prolly also China
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:52 PM
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Oh sure, fine by me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:50 PM
1

Isn't this that work dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:50 PM
1

Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:48 PM
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Leftovers is another term for unmarrieds after a certain age (akin to spinsters, confirmed bachelors, bare branches in China, and so on)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:47 PM
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Yet here you still are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:45 PM
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I didn't see the word beautiful or hot there in your description of your past self lol. I'm just saying, the whistleblowers on male nature are likely to be the ones who aren't receiving the positive end of it, and hot women are the ones who get the good side because that's who men give a single flying fuck about, which is only natural and reasonable because hot women make men feel better than anything else in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:39 PM
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They sound fat. Attractive women don't tend to resent men so much because they get far more of the positives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:02 AM
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They're posting there so odds are...only higher average weight/number of existing children would be FatautistDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:01 AM
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r/thanksimcured
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:00 AM
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Do you think it was a coincidence that societies used to have so many rules in place to socialize the experience of wet peepeee
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:53 AM
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Suffering Equalizer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:49 AM
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A good thing BTW. There's a tangible dollar figure that can be assigned to what divorce costs the divorcee' lol Hope it's worth it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:47 AM
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License plate bingo?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:45 AM
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Men need to become much more picky and ignore all women any less than perfect How's that gonna work lol only so many perfect women to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:43 AM
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"do what you feel like" would wrap pretty much every discussion on ppd for good, and yet here we all are, aimlessly beating the same dead horse over and over again, day in and day out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:39 AM
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let me google that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:56 PM
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A general consensus does not and couldn't possibly ever uniformly apply to every single person Even Lizzie Velazquez has a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:50 PM
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Why wouldn't it be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:34 PM
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The caricature if there is any is more about the relative expectation of extreme masculinity harbored by the lower classes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:36 PM
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She was dumber than a brick wall and so was he. Sounds like a good match
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:31 PM
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They're causing inflation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:30 PM
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In other words, the middle class square can move down to find the dumpster quality women that bang face tattooed losers, but the face tattooed criminal will have a much more difficult time moving up. Nah too culturally different middle class square will come off as too effeminate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:29 PM
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Yeah that's right only what hot women want matters lol what's so confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:27 PM
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Pissing off the guys. Crime stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:25 PM
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It's likelier he will treat her shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:25 PM
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It's permission to say the same thing and then call it satire, thank you o7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:22 PM
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Just because he himself feels that way about himself doesn't mean he's saying every other man must feel that way It's as ridiculous as saying that because one girl (or even all girls a guy has dated) likes being choked/other weird shit during sex that means all girls must like it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:20 PM
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Word who cares about passing around uggos that's the only thing they're good for Meg you're what they call a practice girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:23 PM
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Did the women consider that when making that actually existing group that that too might be an outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:22 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:21 PM
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There is birth control and abortions now damn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:21 PM
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Men being hotter than the girl does though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:20 PM
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not married yet Username doesn't check out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:19 PM
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You said this to the commenter above I mean sure if being a sex crazed manwhore is what you want to be then just embrace it Were you a virgin until marriage? If not, you're doing the exact thing you claim to be upset about I’m pointing out the hypocrisy of men who slutshame women but are no better. Or is it ok for you to do it because you're a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:01 PM
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Or molestation victims or autism. It's usually not attractive well adjusted women who of course naturally benefit. Why would it be lol people follow their incentives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:56 PM
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Nope. Maybe the two of you are referring to women fucking shitty men. Yeah that would be easy enough to solve, they should also just be shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:55 PM
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Younger = more runway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:53 PM
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Somehow the examples always only come up with the man being older. Chaperones if is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:53 PM
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But naturally you would never say this to an antimarriage woman You wouldn't have the balls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:52 PM
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almost never Or molestation victim Awomen Sometimes it's just autism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:51 PM
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Either all lawful slutshaming is ok or none is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:51 PM
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Most women are outearned by their husbands Who encouraged women to be prossies? (Yeah correspondingly men are punters) That is the way of nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:50 PM
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So let's just ignore the criminal statistic of who actually commits the crime, then? Nice cherry picking. How is it ignoring it? Some dumb rant about how feminists make men feel alone and oppress them and yadda yadda as if males can't be driven to suicide by other men and things unrelated to feminism. Yeah if it were really that men would just organize a revolution not kill themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:49 PM
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There is a context set forth by the first comment under which you've been replying https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11eyxvw/daily_community_chat_megathread/jah0nli/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:47 PM
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Bluepillers really trying to have it both ways lol women choosing singlehood "a-ok" men choosing not to marry "awkward drives" pick a narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:46 PM
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For many of them I guess it's their only exposure to men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:43 PM
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Who do you believe is mad at hot women fucking hot men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:42 PM
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Unless you're not planning on more than a few months, even someone who makes it to (whatever age), the clock is ticking, and the odds against maintaining their looks increase and keep increasing. It's not predictable exactly when it happens, but it happens to everyone one day or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:42 PM
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Is this from something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:40 PM
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Women's toxicity is everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:39 PM
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And then she has the nerve to wonder why she's running into the stuff she's reading
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:38 PM
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On one hand, abusive men are getting all “pussy” (disgusting that you call women that) but as we saw from earlier this week most men are single between the ages of 18-29… Few men are being shared Women and girls should avoid males at all costs. Given that it's almost always unattractive girls who reach this conclusion, I'm not seeing any loss. Who gives one single shit about uglies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:31 PM
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U
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:29 PM
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Look who understands self interest "No I won't date someone making less than 6 figures...even though I make less than 6 figures" Apparently being a glorified prossie is a-ok eh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:28 PM
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There are also women here who say vile things about men but apparently are still interested in dating men. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:25 PM
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Someone has a crush
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:23 PM
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The magnitude of the interest could be equal or even more just with the target audience narrowed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:23 PM
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women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 40s Differentiating over 30 is like shuffling deck chairs on the titanic 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:22 PM
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Neveruary
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:21 PM
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Time to bring back chaperones to protect the poor manipulable women then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:20 PM
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What does this sub have to do with finding a difference of maturity such that a 30 year old can be manipulated by a 40 year old. Damn near begging for chaperones, misogyny and infantilization this lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:19 PM
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Ah interesting so slutshaming men is ok but slutshaming women isn't. Which question of yours isn't answered by your own comment? People prioritize their own interests. And that's their sovereign right to do so long as they're following the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:17 PM
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OP said even stop dating though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:11 PM
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Family unit would make sense if permanent, and no fault takes all the permanence out of it. Better off pay a lawyer to replicate through document creation whatever those other desired benefits are. Fault only divorce or bust. Surely there are jurisdictions left that have it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:11 PM
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No reason or any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:09 PM
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this sub Reddit blames the actions of male criminals on single mom. Statistics bear that out. Hope Chadgineytingles were worth ruining society Blame men for all your problems guys blame women for male suicide, even when women provide proof of men contributing to the problem by telling other males not to go to therapy, not to show their feelings, and bullying them. What do men say to blame this on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:08 PM
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It's almost never attractive women who arrive at this conclusion is it. Wonder why that is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:05 PM
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This pearl of wisdom What’s the point of getting married if no fault divorce is legal? If you can get divorced for anything, you may as well not get married at all. Men not wanting to get married makes sense to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:00 AM
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That's just semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:59 AM
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Like, prossies?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:46 AM
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But what about pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:35 AM
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I'm probably going to stay single unless I change my mind and decide to get married Uhh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:11 AM
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Why is innately wanting more inherently a "better" thing than innately wanting to put less effort/conserve effort/etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:12 PM
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I think that it’s mostly men for not wanting to put in the work to attract women as they gain more in society Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:38 PM
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People always follow their incentives, and this is the result (just as whatever preceded this was the result of people following their incentives)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:38 PM
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Yeah, I'm just saying, the OP's thing is no less and no more ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:36 PM
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Interests are interests, autism is autism, numerically protecting interests is either equally autistic or equally unautistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:04 PM
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Pretty common for women doe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:17 PM
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What if they are right, how are you going to reconcile that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:08 PM
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and then wonder why there’s women who conclude that men should just be in cages to be treated like dogs. It's just a silly perspective even if justified; how are the weak going to imprison the strong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:52 PM
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How's it any more autistic than an "x number of dates and/or months before sex" rule
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:27 PM
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RP types don't seem to want to accept that looks and money and being chad aren't the only thing either, because all their hopes hinge on that. For casual. Their position is that marriage is untenable today.
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 06:38 AM
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How does that negate the hooker thing
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 01:38 AM
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What is the mechanism by which such a thing would occur
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 10:01 PM
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How's that gonna happen
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 09:13 PM
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Then it would be really easy to argue the opposite position, and yet I don't see any arguments, just childish insults
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 09:13 PM
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Tom Brady cheated or the other examples
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 08:21 PM
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Seems odd that that would be the only thing
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 07:18 PM
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Western society is everywhere, increasing daily
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 07:07 PM
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I've seen from anecdotal experience the most lazy slob unproductive guy marrying a Young highly productive beautiful female. In the same social class? Frequently?
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 03:10 AM
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The reality is: - the lazy unproductive low IQ low labor man is getting LAID without doing any self improvement bs I'm saying that we have an "FACTOR X", that's COMPLETELY UNRELATED TO what we call "MERIT or HARD WORK or GAME" or whatever. Lower standards?
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 02:58 AM
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Grass on the field
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 12:59 AM
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