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I’ve had girls straight up ignore me while in a set, or while I tried opening. Like literally they hear me, they just look away from me until I leave. It’s insanity, but it’s just part of the game. From my experience, it’s probably not what you were saying, but just that she perceived her SMV to be higher than yours. Game matters, but looks also matter, and status also matters. It’s not always your game that’s off.
/r/seduction19/04/21 02:08 PM
14

Best sex I’ve ever had, hands down. Daddy issue girls are the best.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:20 PM
1

Right on brother
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:57 PM
1

She was drunk and kinda just rambling on, so I just smiled and let her continue talking lol
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:02 PM
1

Hm, pretty decent take here. Thank you.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:04 PM
1

Yea it’s impossible to change the underlying personality, but it’s very possible to change what others’ perception of your personality is. And that’s the important part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:26 PM
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This is negative enough news that I will probably dump the stock if this is actually implemented
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:17 PM
1

5’6”, 200lbs, fat ass and nice belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:26 PM
1

In the modern world, spinning plates is the happiest a man will ever be. Don’t skip out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:26 PM
1

Obviously yes. It would be an amazing source of relief for me. I'd still use a condom though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:03 PM
5

It’s okay to help people. Not everything in life is about spinning plates.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:45 PM
1

I dunno man, this isn’t that big of a deal. It’s a normal fantasy for all modern women to want a sugar daddy.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:51 PM
1

It all depends on how she said it. There is a time to be sarcastic, and there is a time to be serious. The ability to tell the difference is what differentiates autistic people from neurotypicals. If she said it seriously, respond seriously. If she’s just playing around, you should also. If you can’t tell, assume it’s a shit test and go sarcastic.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 03:46 AM
2

Strength. Courage. Mastery. Honor.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 11:59 AM
1

This literally just happened to me. I find it’s a good strategy to ask her if she’s coming home with me before the bill comes. If she says yes, I pay the whole bill. If no, she’d better be paying half.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:28 AM
2

Wtf are you talking about. Take this down.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 01:38 PM
1

Redpill is great, I’ve been a loyal adherent for years. But it doesn’t offer a solution to the nihilism of life. In fact it worsens it considerably.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:35 PM
-9

The nihilism just hasn’t hit you yet.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:25 PM
1

I kinda love when my women is bigger than me. It makes me feel way more masculine when I do dominate her. It’s keeping frame on hard mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:34 PM
2

Just chill and don’t be insecure.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:24 PM
1

2 notches by the time I was 25. 40 notches by 28. You can become Hercules.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:07 PM
3

Yeah you passed the shit test. Good job.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:44 AM
16

Just keep going. You’re doing fine. This is going well. Ish. I would have made around the same moves. This is one of the problems with TRP theory - we generalize so much that when you get into a weird situation like this, you simply don’t believe it. Just because something is true for 99% of cases, doesn’t mean that the other 1% doesn’t exist. Please remember this. You don’t know if she’s actually a virgin or not, and never will. But it doesn’t matter. Just keep doing reach and withdraw and you’…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:28 PM
1

Short, chubby in the wrong places, short hair, pimples, not great hygiene. Her moans stirred something deep inside my soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:50 PM
3

This comment is so accurate it’s making my head hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:25 PM
7

Came here to say exactly this. The OP is on some real “ok boomer” shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:25 PM
6

I actually shut down the cocky talk personally. Didn’t work for me. Better off just being real. Don’t forget, the old masters didn’t just say to be cocky, they said be “cocky/funny”. There’s a difference there, and if you can’t do both, do neither. That’s why Rollo changed it from “cocky/funny” to “amused mastery”. It’s a more accurate description of the state you should be in.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:40 AM
3

Because game is still a thing, despite how many people here want it to not be.
/r/seduction11/11/19 01:10 AM
3

I’ll throw my opinion in here: I actually do not care at all about the Madonna/Whore thing. I’ve never viewed women like that, even when I was an incel, and I still don’t see it like that. The only reason I would ever want to know a women’s n-count is just to know how to better handle her. For example, if a women says “we’re not having sex tonight” I would interpret that differently based on her n-count. Low n-count means she’s nervous and needs more comfort, high n-count means she’s saying I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 06:21 PM
2

The skills necessary to get women are the same skills necessary to do everything else successfully. They are General life/social skills. They are broadly applicable. Money making skills tend to be more specific, like programming or carpentry or manufacturing or whatever. General skills are “senior to” specific skills because they apply more broadly. Get it? So being good with women usually means you are good at everything. But there are plenty of guys with fancy degrees and some tech knowledge, …
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:16 AM
2

That’s why all those Google programmers making 120k are swimming in the pussy, right?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:31 PM
4

If you’re good at getting women, you have the skills to make a lot of money. If you’re good at making money, you may or may not have the skills to get women. One skill is senior to the other. Once you get to Lil Wayne’s level you can scream “money over bitches”.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:30 PM
6

Here’s a hot take: women think men have out of control egos because those are the men that they are most attracted to, and so remember the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:40 PM
1

NoFap is the other extreme end of porn addiction. They both destroy lives.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:28 PM
1

I can’t tell you how many times I invited a girl that I knew was a lost cause back to my place, and to my great surprise she said yes with relief and enthusiasm. Girls can be shy too.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:20 PM
10

I love it. Best time to be alive and it’s only getting better IMO. At no other point in history could a commoner like me spin plates like this. I’m literally living like a king (sexually speaking) on a middle class salary. Also I love the sharp divide between sex and love. Some people see this as degradation, I see it as liberation. I want sex to be as common and mundane as eating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:34 PM
1

I like to do daygame just to prove I can, but other than that, yeah it’s a losing proposition.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 11:11 AM
2

When I was first coming up, it took every ounce of strength and discipline I had to just meet up with a landwhale from tinder. Just to meet up - I’m not even talking about physical intimacy. Talking to a rando at a bar was not even an option. I have a feeling a lot of guys on here are still in that stage, despite the fact that they “understand” the Redpill.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 04:20 PM
1

I don’t know what y’all are talking about, getting laid did in fact solve all of my problems, much to my surprise. Or more specifically, developing the ability to get laid solved all my problems. There were so many things in my life that were so wrong, that I thought couldn’t possibly be related to sex. But I was wrong. They were all related to sex. I handled the sex thing, every other “unrelated” problem just melted away.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 04:11 PM
5

Regret rape is such a real thing that I have never in my life met one girl who DIDN’T claim that this happened to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:12 AM
1

Sex and drugs are the only things that ever made life worthwhile for me. Religion helped too, but wasn’t that great without the first 2 things. You should try those things again.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:18 PM
2

Have you tried having sex? That doesn’t make the struggle worthwhile for you? Then damn. Have you tried drugs?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:18 PM
2

...no. It doesn’t work both ways like that. Men needs to be fathers to their wives, because wives will be children to their husbands. That’s the relationship, it doesn’t reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 08:24 PM
1

Yeah but it’s your job to be a father to your wife. If you want to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:11 PM
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Women CANNOT be the breadwinners. No matter how much they earn. Hypergamy ensures they will never be happy in such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:09 PM
4

Came here to say this, but couldn’t put it any more perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:11 AM
14

You can talk about your struggles, you just need to frame it with you being the hero, conquering foes and winning battles the whole way through. Struggles make us interesting. Women just want to make sure that you’re the one winning. Which, to be frank, is the frame of mind you should be in anyway.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:23 PM
2

I wanted to go back to gaming, and couldn’t do that with a girl in my house.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:39 PM
10

I loved living with my LTR. Some of the best years of my life, despite what you or Rollo or anyone has to say. That being said, gotta be careful who you choose. Obviously.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:05 AM
0

I love Rollo’s work. He doesn’t have it 100% right imo because he is still bitter about hypergamy and that sort of filters into his work, but he’s still a genius in my book. It’s because he was never that great looking that he was able to figure everything out. Naturals just don’t really get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:27 AM
1

If you don’t text her during these 3 weeks, and you’re not Brad Pitt, you will never hear from her again. I promise. There are A LOT of incels in this thread who don’t get the online dating game. I don’t really know why, because it’s easy as shit. If you lose contact, it’s over. She’s moved on. Keep texting but don’t get obsessed over it. Just some light stuff to keep in touch. Nothing crazy. Ask her to share some pics, stuff like that. I’m telling you, if you do the “alpha” move here and ignore…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 11:59 PM
1

Quantity is always more important than quality, except when, eventually, it isn’t. At some point, the risk you’re taking by constantly going out to get new girls is just going to not be worth it. Then you just pick one and focus on quality.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:08 PM
2

Human life really is just all about “being right”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 05:00 PM
6

That’s because, to women, they arent red flags. They are the exact characteristics they are looking for in the alpha part of the AF/BB mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:53 PM
3

As a former incel I will tell you that this is some true stuff, and I’m actually kind of surprised that a non-incel got it so right. I will comment on something though - it wasn’t very obvious to me, even in hindsight, that the grand lie of “looks don’t matter” was total BS. Most of the “hot jocks” aka chads in my high school did get girls - but it was mostly steady, monogamous long term relationships. The guys who were really slangin that pussy were the beat up, ugly ass fucked up drug dealers …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:20 PM
5

This. The fact that this isn’t upvoted but the “muh equality” comment is...do people even study red pill anymore, or are we just circlejerking at this point?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:02 AM
7

Lmao too real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:27 PM
3

This was actually pretty eye opening. Hm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:27 PM
0

Yes, yes and yes. So what? Fat men can find fat wives, yeah. That’s not the same as being successful at dating though. Also there’s the factor of older people getting fat after they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:30 PM
6

Fat women* do not have a hard time. Fat men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:09 PM
2

Wow this is freaking spot on, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 02:02 PM
6

This happened to me as well. It’s just because your neural circuitry is fucked from not getting laid for so long. You need viagra. It’s not a big deal, no need to be embarrassed about it and you won’t need it forever. I used it for about the first 10 girls (on the first night ONLY) and I never needed it again, because I built up the neural circuitry that says that I can do it. Every time you fail, the problem is just going to get worse. There is no “natural” solution to this, trust me. Just get …
/r/askTRP08/10/19 06:35 PM
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This good mindset from a production standpoint. Very productive, very secure. You will keep yourself out of trouble by thinking this way, for sure. It also makes life utterly devoid of meaning and fulfillment. Some of the greatest times of my life were doing what I loved with my partner by my side. If all you want to do your whole life is work and produce, then by all means, do it. I’m not going to stop you. I have a feeling that a lot of men who wasted away their younger years long for a mindse…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 06:19 PM
-1

Do you know why you think her slutty past matters? YOUR insecurity. How many plates have you spun? Get that number over 50 and I guarantee you will never care about a women’s past ever again. It just simply doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:48 PM
2

Wow that’s crazy. Love it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 02:16 PM
1

The uncomfortable truth of this is that because women are the “subservient” sex, they are more susceptible to the societal brainwashing. If the media’s message was “traditional gender roles are the superior way of life” then we would see the roles reversed - more women than men would be advocating for it. Women, as a group, just follow the prevailing political winds. Men think more independently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 02:38 PM
1

Cavemen spent most of their lives getting pussy. Just like a lot of other mammals. It wasn’t some “side effect”, it was a direct goal, just like eating was a direct goal. Imagine going out with your hunting buddies back in 5000 BC and being like, “well boys, let’s go out and try to kill something, and hopefully we’ll be able to eat as a side effect!” Do you think they would have survived? Obviously not. In this world, you get what you go for. There has to be intention behind your actions, or you…
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:37 AM
1

Do you have Asperger’s? I might be able to help.
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:18 AM
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My favorite one is just telling them to buy the product. In sales, very often we got to a point with our customer where it looked pretty certain that they weren’t going to buy. They seemed interested, but they weren’t totally sold. It’s amazing how often all I had to do was just tell them, “(name), you really should get this.” Sometimes people just need reassurance from someone that what they are doing is the right thing. There is so much chaos in the world today that when you throw them a rope …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 07:40 PM
174

This is fucking hilarious. Also, I know this is just a joke, but sales techniques actually do work wonders on women. It’s all the same principles.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:02 PM
2

This is utterly silly. Life is much, much more rewarding when you actually go for what you really want. If you want pussy and you go for pussy, you’re going to be happy. If you want spiritual growth and you go for it, you’re going to have a good time. If you want to be a chef but go work at McDonald’s so that you can “one day” be a chef as a “side effect”, you’re going to have a bad time. You goal should be your goal. Stop pretending.
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:56 PM
1

Yes, that’s what a society is. A vast and widespread conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:38 PM
1

My point is that beliefs that 5 year olds are indoctrinated with don’t just go away on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 03:26 PM
1

You’re implying that the default state of young humans should be something else other than gullibility? How would that even work? Just imagine a 5 year old yelling at his iPad screen, “Ariel would never give up her voice for legs! So unrealistic! Real women don’t act like that!” Like it’s crazy to even think about. How would a 5 year old have any knowledge like that to compare new information to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:25 PM
1

Benzos and beta blockers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:15 PM
1

It takes thousands of attempts. Not hundreds. You are simply underestimating the effort required. Thousands.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 01:16 PM
1

Well whatever word you want to use to describe someone who is so bad off socially that they can’t even hold a normal conversation? Maybe there’s a better word, but beta certainly doesn’t cover it. Betas are still generally functional humans.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:58 PM
1

You’re an omega, like I was. It’s possible to fix yourself, but these guys have no clue. Moving from beta to alpha is an entirely different process than moving from omega to alpha. You need to learn the basic basic basics before anything in this sub is going to make sense. Like super basic. You don’t need more confidence, you don’t need bigger muscles, you don’t need to “lift”. You need elementary school level social skills. Like can you have a 5 minute conversation with a coworker? Can you crac…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:38 PM
4

You are absolutely right - the less you say about yourself and the more you ask about her, the more her hamster will be spinning. But a low SMV man will apply this advice and immediately enter something called “interview mode” where the girl is just mindlessly answering questions, not asking any back and not caring about what you say. Asking a girl questions and being interested in her, as a low SMV, will just bore her.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 12:36 PM
1

The cringe hurts me.
/r/seduction22/07/19 09:51 AM
1

You hit the nail on the head. It’s your own insecurity that has you feeling like this. I used to be jealous af but once I got better at seduction I all of a sudden did not care one bit about a girls n count. If you’ve fucked 50 and she’s fucked 20, does it matter? No. It matters when she’s fucked 20 and you’ve fucked 3. Right?
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:55 AM
0

Yes.
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:52 AM
8

Really? You think a 5’5” man with autism has the same potential maximum attractiveness as a 6’2” neurotypical?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 08:51 AM
20

Yes, and I’m saying that this advice is applicable to 8s, but not necessarily to “experienced TRP” men. Being experienced in TRP principles helps you maximize your potential attractiveness, but that doesn’t mean it makes you attractive. Some guys max out at 9, some max out at 6. Genetics is unfortunately a huge factor, both looks wise and personality wise. Acting like the “strong, silent type” (like this post suggests) doesn’t work for people who are maxing out at a 6.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 02:17 AM
0

On video maybe, or as part of a threesome. That’s not what the compliment is about though.
/r/seduction22/07/19 01:29 AM
7

15 minutes dude? On a bus? You guys live like right next to each other. It’s now or never, trust me.
/r/seduction22/07/19 01:04 AM
0

This is a normal guy compliment. I tell my main plate all the time that I think that she would make a lot of money as a prostitute. That doesn’t mean that I literally want her to be a prostitute. Obviously. Just saying that I like her.
/r/seduction22/07/19 12:59 AM
29

Literally I had this exact thought while reading this. A lot of advice on this sub is literal autism when used by men who are 5s and 6s, but work perfectly for guys who are 8s.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 12:46 AM
1

Go direct with the one you don’t like first, then switch.
/r/seduction20/07/19 02:05 PM
2

I’m thinner and lighter than I’ve ever been and I get more girls than I ever have. I think it’s more a “comfortable in your own skin” thing rather than an actual physical thing.
/r/seduction20/07/19 02:03 PM
2

I’m a reformed incel. I tried to create a sub for a quick second, r/reformedincels, but I quickly realized how hard it is to reach these people over the internet. It took tremendous, catastrophic life events for me to start to improve. I don’t think these people can be reached in any sort of broad way over the internet. Maybe on a one on one basis. But when you’ve been an incel your whole life, you’ve been in the downward spiral for so long that you sort of reinforce it yourself and you don’t kn…
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:58 PM
2

It’s called “masking”. Everyone with neurological issues like this has to learn to do it. I was a legit autist until I built my mask well enough to pass for normal. Now almost no one can tell. You just create a fake persona and “be” it for a little while. We unfortunately just have to work a little harder than the regular population because we have to operate through a mask. I’m the same way though brother. If I didn’t need sex, I don’t think I’d ever talk to a soul.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:49 PM
1

I wouldn’t worry about people “fighting” you. What he says in fight club is totally true. The lengths that people will go to not fight is truly amazing.
/r/seduction20/07/19 02:05 AM
0

You’re*
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:51 AM
1

At 17, yeah girls will like this.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:49 AM
1

Hah I love this. What we do is hard as fuck. The rest of the population thinks we are gods or some shit.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:45 AM
6

You attract what you are. Basic rule of the universe. I heard a book called “No More Mr. Nice Guy” is good for guys like you. Rational male would be good too, but it’s gunna hurt to read.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:41 AM
1

I love you.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:39 AM
1

Isn’t it funny how the universe works?
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:02 AM
1

Was this from a cold approach?
/r/seduction19/07/19 10:02 PM
1

Get a new girl
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:18 PM
1

They are saying this because they think you aren’t attractive. Sorry bud. Women want and need chad to approach them. However, they will do everything in their power to stop the betas from thinking they are able to approach. Don’t worry, not everyone is out of your league. There’s a peg for every hole and all that. But asking if something is okay is a real beta move, so asking a girl if anything is okay will make her say no because it puts you into the category of “beta”. Which she is trying to r…
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:53 PM
2

Oh my god yes this is real. I swear that I’m so into a girl, she is the hottest thing ever and then after I take her home I’m like...okay next.
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:46 PM
1

I really wish I could somehow verify if this is real. I really want to believe it, but I just don’t know. I’m 40 plates in and I’ve never been hit on like this.
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:45 PM
11

I don’t know what you’re talking about, I love it. I do it for myself just to get hard, I don’t even care if she likes it.
/r/seduction19/07/19 04:45 PM
2

Congratulations you have found the black pill.
/r/seduction18/07/19 03:30 PM
1

Don’t do streaks. You’re too busy for that.
/r/seduction18/07/19 03:29 PM
2

The only reward/punishment system a guy can ever have is the giving or withdrawing of attention. Give attention as reward, take it away as punishment. That’s all. The trick is, though, that she needs to want your attention in the first place right? To do that, you must hook her in the beginning - which it looks like you are already sort of doing. Just talking to a girl and being attractive are the first steps. Then give and withdraw attention and you got it made. Also, text less.
/r/seduction18/07/19 03:28 PM
2

None of these guys are really answering your question, they are just shouting out the same old red pill platitudes that are in every thread. I think that’s telling. Also, just wanted to say that the nihilism of the red pill is getting to me too. You’re not alone brother. It’s not a sustainable philosophy, as effective as it is in getting you to unplug from the dominant narrative.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:20 PM
3

I did this once. Low investment, figured what the hell, I’ll tell her. She’s the only plate still around after 4 years...
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:43 PM
2

This is it right here. School tries to teach you backwards - learn first then do. It’s totally backwards. They are just trying to make you believe that knowledge has no value, so you’ll be disincentivized from future learning. It’s sick.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:41 PM
2

I know Freud is a classic, and you can read him if you want, but you’re not going to get a lot of practical stuff out of it. Way better psych books out there. Psycho-cybernetics, for one.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:38 PM
0

1/10 ratio is pretty good for random girls on the street, this other kid doesn’t have a clue. The old guard PUA masters like Mystery and Roosh were running at about 10% iirc.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:55 PM
3

Conversion rate for tinder is about 90% if I can get them to meet in person, conversion rate for hitting on randos is about 5%.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:49 PM
1

I think it depends how far gone you were.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:44 PM
2

Lmfao omg. Insane. Not to mention then she was actually 4 hours late. Dodged a bullet there, I’d say. Move on to the next, better luck in the future.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:56 PM
1

Yeah but what about the whole coming 8 hours early thing? Did she say why?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:50 PM
0

You’re the only white knight here, bud.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:02 PM
1

When I realized that I have 10x the notches of most guys my age.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:32 PM
2

Let us know how this one goes, she seems like straight looney tunes.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 05:20 PM
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If you’ve ever wanted to see inside the mind of an omega...this is it folks. I would recommend you read the sidebar. You’re going to get this sub banned.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:30 PM
2

I never knew I could get this hard.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:59 PM
2

Looking forward to it, your advice is legit. I’m totally going to use the idea you brought up about the job of an employee being to make the boss look good.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 09:38 PM
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That’s just the normal definition of the word, lol. What else could it mean...
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:11 PM
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Are you really new here? Or just dumb? I’m offering a meta-critique of the “redpill” obsession with being inside of a gym.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:42 AM
1

How about just move on past monogamy so you just eradicate the whole idea of “cheating”.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:02 PM
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“Happy wife, happy life” becomes instituted after the man has lost his frame. That’s all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 02:26 PM
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Wow this is actually some real shit right here. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 02:25 PM
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I’m guessing you’re female? Trust me, when I go into a club to pick up girls, unless I bring other guys with me, I’m the only one in that place bringing a girl home. That’s facts. There’s just no competition out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:27 AM
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You are a victim of feminist propaganda. Men these days almost never have the balls to approach a women to engage in regular conversation, let alone cat calls. What you are hearing about is scripted propaganda designed to justify violence towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:41 PM
1

Nice pook reference.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:30 PM
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Looks technically make up most of your SMV but you can only do so much to maximize that. Game, however, even though it maybe normally makes up about 20% of your SMV, can be trained to such sky high levels that it can make up for your looks. And both are necessary tbh. I get laid wayyyyyy more than all the tall, thick sexy hunks who spend their lives in the gym because I understand body language, I know how to make moves, and I know how to manipulate the backbone of all game: social proof.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:28 PM
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You are misunderstanding the 80/20 rule from the TRP perspective. It is absolutely true that 20% of men sleep with 80% of women. The other 80% of men are not all tossing around the other 20% of women though - they are either not getting any women at all (which is way more common than women think, because most women only know the behavior of the top 20% percent) or these guys are getting the woman that the top 20% have already been through. Like there is some overlap here, it’s not a sharp divide…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:21 PM
2

Relevant book: The Way of Men by Jack Donovan
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:04 PM
1

I get it, and it’s honestly the truth. You know why all these professional redpillers are constantly shouting to the heavens “go to the gym!” on literally every post? Because you don’t have to talk to anyone at the gym.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:26 PM
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Get out of the gym, get out of the books, get off TRP and get into the real world. TRP essentially teaches weaponized autism. It’s insanely useful and practical data, but it needs to be balanced with actual real world experience with real people. Don’t forget, the organic Chads of the world never studied red pill theory a day in their life. They are out there actually making shit happen. Don’t be the loser who learned game. Become the winner who never needed to.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:06 PM
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Sone of these responses here are a perfect example of the blind leading the blind, unfortunately. Being in love is hands down the best feeling our bodies are capable of experiencing. Better than and drug you can take, better than the rush you get from any accomplishment you can imagine. It’s deep and visceral and so so different from what you think it will be, because there is nothing that could ever compare to it. It’s not butterflies in your stomach or the warm affection of companionship. It’s…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:37 AM
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How about this one: the porn that I watch is not and has never been of the type of girls that I actually want to experience in real life. Never. Ever. Porn is for fantasy, which is very often far far removed from what people actually want. That being said, this chart only gives the #1 ranking. Looking at the top 10 would give us a much better picture of what’s going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 10:11 PM
1

Monogamy is outdated anyway. Just skip that whole deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:57 PM
5

I know this advice isn’t going to seem 100% redpilled, but I got out of my depression by listening to “The Secret” on repeat about 100 times. I brainwashed myself into believing that my emotional state was something I had to consciously choose, every second of every day. At first it was impossible to believe because it was so obviously not the case. But some days I was able to shift my emotional state just a tiny bit and that gave me some hope. And then I did it more and more until the depressio…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 06:42 PM
2

This is so cringey.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:37 AM
1

That’s...100% not true, definitely don’t know what 1800s psych textbook you’re pulling that from. Personality changes all the time, and quite easily. Any habit change would, in my mind, constitute a change in personality. Maybe you are using some awkwardly specific or technical definition of “personality”, which is why I’m more fond of using the term “inner game”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:45 PM
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Here’s the thing though - good looks can be maximized, and relatively quickly. Personality, or “inner game” has virtually no limit. So sure, max your looks first, but you’re only going to be playing that game for a little while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 02:55 PM
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It will become much easier for the top 5% and much harder for the bottom 95%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:12 AM
1

I can’t believe everyone is saying no. She could ruin your whole life if you ghost her... I wouldn’t touch it.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:28 AM
1

I can’t believe everyone is saying no. She could ruin your whole life if you ghost her... I wouldn’t touch it.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:28 AM
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See this is why I almost like this sub better than the main one. This is a real answer from real experience with no autistic shock value thrown in. Thank you.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:27 PM
1

You’re worried about your reputation???? Are you fucking kidding me? How about financially smashing the face off of someone who betrayed you? How bout that for a reputation?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 10:49 PM
1

The former incel in me wants to hate you, but the libertarian in me wants to love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:24 AM
1

I’m big on the idea that “you get what you put your attention on”. So you put your attention on self improvement, and you are improving. That’s good. But is it what you really want? Or are you self improving as a road to some other purpose? Run towards that. That’s what will get you out of the burnout. You’re not pursuing your true purpose.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:09 PM
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It’s nice to take a day to honor that. The veneration of veterans should be an obvious one too, but it’s good to have a day for that also.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:28 PM
2

The real answer is right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 08:07 PM
1

Trust me, when you really make it in life, you will look back and realize that every single thing that has ever happened to you has lead you right to this moment. And, having made it, you will forgive all of the so called “losses” you have accumulated over the course of your life - for if you have success in the present, what difference do your past losses make?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:35 PM
1

Women will never initiate the kiss. And if they do, you’d better run. It’s up to men to lead. You might not like it, but it’s biology. It ain’t gunna change any time soon. And never ask for a kiss. That should go without saying. You just lean in slowly and kiss them. They will respond with their bodies whether they want to or not. And of course they leave after going outside...what else are they supposed to do? They are waiting for you to lead them somewhere- either to another venue, back to the…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:34 PM
2

Your body is a 9 and your face is a 7? And you didn’t pull a girl 4 times in a row? No. Something is way off here. So first off - what is your goal? Are you trying to take these women home, or just get their number, or what? What kind of girls are you hitting on? The hottest ones in the place, or mid tier, or what? Also..you’re 18, where are you going to game? The mall? Once I get a girl to dance, it’s 30 minutes of dancing, kiss close and then back to my place. Girls generally know what they’re…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:51 PM
2

The sad truth.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 08:05 PM
1

You only get hard if you’re aroused, unless you overdose. I once took too much by accident when I was still figuring out my dosage, and I couldn’t even walk because the head of my dick rubbing against my pants was getting me hard. But if you take the right amount, sex should go just as it normally does, but your erection during will be stronger and last longer, and you’ll have a shorter recovery time between rounds.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:45 PM
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https://www.artofmanliness.com
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:45 PM
1

Lower doses of alcohol help. Benzos help. But nothing beats viagra. Maybe try Roman or one of those new mail order sites, if you don’t want to talk to your doctor about it.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:47 PM
1

My advice is tailored to the audience I am speaking to. That’s a part of learning how to communicate effectively. You should learn something about that. This isn’t my main RP account obviously. Over 30 plates and 3 years in, I ain’t going anywhere.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:07 PM
1

I’m no rookie, partner. I’ve been actually living the RP life instead of sitting on my ass reading about it. It’s always so obvious when someone doesn’t live the life.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:43 PM
1

I would just chill and not worry about it. This happens all the time. You probably just made a few enemies along the way, but that happens.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:31 PM
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The real question is why do you want a relationship so bad? That seems to me to be the real red flag here. Why is it so important to you that you guys are exclusive?
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:23 PM
0

Circular logic. There would be no point to abundance in the first place if you didn’t care about the benefits of abundance.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:16 PM
1

Yeah totally, I appreciate the discussion. It’s not that you “have” to make the time commitment, I’m just saying, if you want to see her, that takes away time that you could be using to game other girls. I just mean you should evaluate to see if it’s worth the opportunity cost. If you like her, keep her, but not at the expense of looking for other girls. See what I’m saying?
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:34 PM
1

No reason to hard next, I don’t know what this other guy is saying. She’s probably fucking other guys, so what? If she’s fun for you, keep her around while you look for others. Only hard next if you can’t take the time commitment to keep her in the rotation (which it looks like may be the case).
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:09 PM
0

That’s silly. You’ll just get ghosted. Being an asshole in person can be attractive. Through text, you’ll just get ghosted. Only those with no confidence intentionally try to display confidence, and women pick right up on that.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:59 AM
1

Be a gentleman like the Count of Monte Cristo. All the manners and customs of high society, but on top of a ruthless man with a purpose.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:57 AM
0

“I’m just busy”
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:51 AM
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More work is not going to help you heal from work. Take an hour and go do something you love. Video games, a good tv show, or whatever you consider to be “not work”.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:50 AM
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I passed my 30th plate and I am just now starting to feel like sex is less exciting than it was. All that means to me is that it’s time to move up to hotter and crazier girls.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:25 AM
2

Either you just aren’t good at spotting them, or you are waayyyyy above her SMV and you need to find a less ugly girl.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:29 PM
0

She’s not going to show up if you don’t text her. It’s that simple.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:54 PM
3

Viagra will change your freaking life. Seriously, no man should be afraid to ask for it if they are having trouble. Even the smallest doses can give you that little extra boost just to get the ball rolling. Lifting and nofap just don't always cut it. Good on you for having the balls to admit that.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:06 PM
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This is literally the most beta shit I've ever read. This type of shit is allowed in the sub? Mods?
/r/seduction17/06/18 01:27 PM
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If you're not trying to have sex with her, I would just say "I had a great time, let's do it again later it in the week" or sometimes I even go with a simple, yet confident, "that went well". Then hug her and let her go. I wouldn't walk her back to her apartment unless you are trying to get invited inside, or if it was very close.
/r/seduction16/06/18 03:31 PM
2

Chill man, it's gunna be okay. I had huge performance anxiety issues when I first started out too. It takes a lot of mental training and a lot of practice, and maybe a little viagra. Pro tips: spend time every day visualizing yourself putting it in, with your dick hard. Get comfortable doing it, so that it's not big deal (in your head, at least). This will help when the actual situation comes around. There are some otc pills that could give you a little boost. Anything with L-arginine and l-citr…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:07 PM
1

her bargaining power is diminished Yeah, I think this is it. This is what she is trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:28 PM
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It's a lot better than suppressing your emotions, that's for sure.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 02:12 PM
2

Can someone please explain to me what "I don't want to play games" means from a redpill POV? This is written on almost every older women's profile on online dating, and I have no clue what it means. To me, not playing games means just getting right down to sex, but I doubt that's how they mean it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:17 AM
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That's not redpill, that's blackpill. Red pill is sexual strategy. Not wallowing in your own failure like a loser. This is exactly why looks don't matter - you aren't going to do much to change them, so might as well not worry about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:41 AM
2

Well IDGAF is important only if you are already good at starting and maintaining the flow of conversation. Almost every redpill technique, including "lift", already assumes that you are a competent conversationalist. Or "not an autist" if you want to get harsh about it. I'm willing to bet you could use a little more training on the actual approach itself?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 11:50 PM
2

It just makes it so they are the ones getting chased, not the other way around. They still need to have decent social skills and and an understanding of female psychology, but not nearly as much as the average guy. The reason that I don't love focusing on looks too much is because realistically, you're not going to go from a 6 to a 9 in the looks department. You can go from a 5 to a 7, or a 7 to an 8, maybe. But mindset and social skills wise? You can easily go from a 2 to a 9 in a few months wi…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 11:49 PM
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Physical attractiveness is important if you are like a 3 or a 4. Men who are 6+, it doesn't matter. Just work on conversation, DGAF, mindset, etc. Looks only matter for men if you are excessively ugly or excessively attractive.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 01:38 PM
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