So I'm seeing this beautiful girl, we got off to a great start, closed on the second date, she seems super submissive to me and seems to really like me.

But she slipped in this really subtle shit test - she mentioned how all of her ex's were "tough" guys.

She goes, "I don't wanna say this, because I don't know how you see yourself...but all of my ex's were like tough guys, like really tough guys, like you see them on the street and you're just like wow they're tough."

Inside, I was just like...this fucking bitch. It's an insult, right? She's implying that I'm not as "tough" as they are (whatever that actually translates to in womenese).

I just kind of brushed it off, but I think this is going to pop up again and I have no clue how to handle it. I was thinking I could say:

  1. "Well hey if you couldn't handle those tough guys, it surely won't work out between me and you." (pull back interest a little bit)
  2. "Yeah, you're right, I'm like super wimpy and weak in comparison to those guys" (eye roll while flexing my arms - I'm fairly jacked) (This would be like an agree and amplify)
  3. "Don't ever compare me to your ex's again/don't ever say something like that again" (thereby acting like a typical 'tough guy', fulfilling her fantasy)
  4. Just talk right past her mentioning her ex's as if it never happened.

What do you geniuses here think?