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| 8 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Dude, if you want to attract the kind of girls that won't get feelings then good luck. All girls get feelings. My only advice (if you aren't doing it already) is to make it clear what you're looking for and set boundaries. It will scare a few girls off, but the ones looking for hookups only might bite. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 02:46 PM |
| 0 | I (26f) have a friend (28m) who's copying my music taste suddenly, and doing lots of things for me.It's not actually a big deal. I'm posting on behalf of my girlfriend who seems to believe this guy had nothing but good intentions, and friendship in mind when I believe he is actually a simp and friend zoned. Just trying to settle a disagreement. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 11:06 PM |
| 0 | I (26f) have a friend (28m) who's copying my music taste suddenly, and doing lots of things for me.Yes, but the key word is that you dated them. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I (26f) have a friend (28m) who's copying my music taste suddenly, and doing lots of things for me.You're right, I am a guy, but I'm not trolling. I'm asking on behalf of my girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | I (26f) have a friend (28m) who's copying my music taste suddenly, and doing lots of things for me.Thanks | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 0 | I (26f) have a friend (28m) who's copying my music taste suddenly, and doing lots of things for me.You don't think it's weird that he's copying everything I do? | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | The Importance of Being Good in BedI agree with this. As a man, you definitely need a strong core to be good in bed. Squats help too. The more sex you have, the stronger your core will become anyway if you're putting in any work. If you just sit on your ass and let the girl do all the work most of the time though, then whatever. Good luck to you. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 10:44 AM |
| 4 | The Importance of Being Good in BedDude, what he's describing is a combination of teasing and sensitive zones. Women have lots of these sensitive erogenous zones, and by imagining their nipples to their vagina as a Bermuda Triangle and not going anywhere within it for a while builds suspense, especially since those are the first areas a guy typically goes for during foreplay. Kiss everywhere else first and tease close to the triangle zone, trust in this. Their neck, their ears, their collar bone, along their arms, their ribs and … | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.You seem to get it, you seem to understand what women feel comfortable with. I'm not so certain that A LOT of other men do. It's because I am a sexy motherfucker, that's why. You act against your own interests and then complain about the outcome which society has "forced" on you. You don't take notice that you've trapped yourself in a box and decided to blame someone else. Can you elaborate on what you mean here? Also, I'm not gonna get into feminism. I think it's good for women if they do appro… | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Well, I'm speaking about seduction as a means to introduce yourself to, and meet new women. In terms of a relationship, you definitely have to have a lot more bases covered. But actual seduction doesn't require too much of that, when the end goal is usually to get laid only - speaking from a man's perspective. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Generally women don't know how to hit on men. It's either to the extreme (being upfront and forward, usually when drunk) or it's the complete opposite (throwing subtle signals out there hoping the guy will pick up on them so HE can make the move). | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Yes, but we're talking about cold approaching women, not fucking relationships. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.What reputation are you even speaking about? I cold approach strangers all the time. If I wanted to ask someone for the time, or if they have light for my cigarette, that still counts as me cold approaching. There is nothing wrong with cold approaching. It's what you do with it that matters. The only way you'll get a "reputation", is if you go around asking girls if you can fuck them in an alleyway, or something else ridiculous. If I cold approached a girl literally only to tell her I thought sh… | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.What reputation are you even speaking about? I cold approach strangers all the time. If I wanted to ask someone for the time, or if they have light for my cigarette, I am still cold approaching. There is nothing wrong with cold approaching. It's what you do with it that matters. The only way you'll get a "reputation", is if you go around asking girls if you can fuck them in an alleyway, or something else ridiculous. If I cold approached a girl literally only to tell her I thought she was pretty,… | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Be emotionally invested No. Don't. Being emotionally invested is exactly why men fear rejection. Be outcome independent. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Okay? Let's hear your advice as a girl. How would you approach a man on the street (not a bar, or on Tinder) if you were interested? | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 15 | How to not be a nice guy online?This needs to be higher. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.If you say so... | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.That's an assumption you've made because you're butthurt by my comment. Of course anomalies exist. I've had plenty of women try and "hit" on me, which mostly involved them staring at me compulsively from the corner of their eye, shuffling close to me, laughing at every dumb thing I say, following me around, offering to buy me drinks. I've even had some that were brutally upfront about what they wanted, but it's extremely rare. For the most part though, men do all the heavy lifting because women … | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 05:10 PM |
| -1 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.I've had that happen many times. You're not pick up masters. You can make it easier for men to initiate towards you, if he has the balls and understands what's happening, but men are usually doing the groundwork. Women also don't approach men on the street or anywhere else, which is the point of this post. Bars are easy. Also, in my experience, women absolutely fucking hate rejection, whereas men are at least willing to risk it. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.I know you're being sarcastic, but when it comes to dating, women are the worst to ask advice from. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 04:00 PM |
| 17 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.Saw something on this same topic being asked by a guy in r/AskMen of all places, and weirdly, most of the replies were from women telling him not to approach, and then asking why he feels entitled to sex (LOL). The problem is that women are terrible at giving advice to men on things such as dating and seduction because A. Every woman is different, B. Women rarely know what they want, and C. Women don't know how to hit on men, let alone other women. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Extremely fucked up situation with roommate. Advice needed.Nah, he's just autistic. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Extremely fucked up situation with roommate. Advice needed.Lmao | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Best cities in the U.K. to move to?Unfortunately if you are a man of taste and want to witness a full blown Chechen beheading I choked on my Twix bar. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How to give better head?Hey man. First of all, it's called Eating Pussy. Secondly, I couldn't really give you a better response than u/ajajaj99 already did, but I will try to add and elaborate on it more for you. Ehh you sound young I’ll give a real answer. Foreplay is first. Start by licking her neck then kiss down to her breast and gently suck her nipples. I like to put my hand around their neck at this time. Because snitches love being choked. Kiss down her stomach while holding both her arms down. It really doesn't… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | How to give better head?Solid response. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do women always try to attack masculinityI can't speak for America as I'm from the UK. I mean, there aren't a huge list of requirements, and each woman is different of course but on a primal, biological level, the topic discussed above remains true enough. Any idiot can create a child regardless of intellect or emotional maturity. But women are generally looking for someone either as mature as them emotionally, or much more mature. It's normal to want a partner that isn't mentally like a child themselves. This is not a gold standard th… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do women always try to attack masculinityAs another dude replied to you below said, it's not something that's conscious - it's unconscious, genetic, biological. You're taking it literally as well. Not every man that a woman meets wants a child, but when it comes down to the basic biology of man and woman, the two main perogatives are: men procreate in order to continue their genetic lineage wherever they can, and women procreate for the same reasons but ideally they want the father of their lineage to stick around and help raise and pr… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveNo, that's just the state of mind I get into when I feel like I've fucked up in a good relationship. It's do or die. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 12:29 PM |
| 20 | Why do women always try to attack masculinityIf you aren't emotionally mature enough to handle a woman's emotional fits, then you aren't mature enough to raise a child. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveLol, I literally have OCD and intrusive thoughts which affect my moods. Not sure you realise how debilitating OCD actually is, dude. It's the reason I behaved the way I did and I explained that in my post. I wouldn't mind hearing your explanation about this though, if you really are trying to help. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveI have OCD and intrusive thoughts, and I get myself into mood swings that are hard to get out of. Even though rationally I know it's not me, it's my brain giving me shit. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveSays the guy who's also on this forum. You must be that one dude here who wasn't blessed with mental health problems. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveYeah, that did fuck with my mood initially but I got past it after 2 days. My own thinking fucked my mood after that as standard because I over analyse my intrusive thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveI see. Usually I cycle everywhere for cardio, or walk for quite a while. I'm quite fit anyway but since the elbow fracture, obviously haven't cycled as much. Thinking about it though, cycling around tends to solve a lot of shit, so I might try and see if I can use my arm again with that. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I have2 all day. They're all good though IMO. You? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveShe can do whatever she wants, she's going to anyway. I'm more concerned about how to get out of the moods I put myself in | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:21 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveOkay, that's cool. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveReally? At this very moment I'm at her place. Unless John Cena is here, I'm the only chad I can see. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveGaba release? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:13 PM |
| 4 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveIs this a joke? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveI definitely feel like I'm maybe a little more outcome dependent lately, I'm acutely aware of it and that's also fucking with me. How can I regain that sense of independence? That's gonna eat at me knowing that and feeling that. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveYeah, that's a great way to look at it. I just have this strong urge to run away because of this, but I know that won't solve anything and will become a pattern in future LTRs. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveMaybe so, but I do feel like I've moved into her frame a little by being like this as well and I'm not entirely sure how to get back into mine while I'm currently around her. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveYeah, I feel like I have moved into her frame. That's why I'm worrying. I will try to focus on myself more right now. I just don't want to have to ignore her in order to do that. She hasn't actually done anything to deserve being nexted. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveYou're right, dude, I'm just worried this "mood" right now will become the norm unless I somehow switch out of it soon. Does that sound crazy? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:26 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveYeah man, I'm trying to let this aspect go a bit as well as I know 100% it gets in the way but I also know it's a blessing in terms of becoming better at almost anything you want to achieve. Relationships can't be perfect anyway... Nothing can be really. Thanks dude. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveIt's gonna sound ridiculous, but hear me out. Me and her were out yesterday travelling around, and we usually have a lot of fun when we do - similar sense of humour and vibes, but I got it in my head that I wasn't being "very funny". It's basically an intrusive thought, and I allowed the thought to eat at me gradually throughout the day. I don't know why. It's BS. I make her laugh all the fucking time. As I explained to another dude here, it's this perfectionism in me. If I don't feel funny, the… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I've lost frame in my LTR. Actually, I know I haveIt's all mental with me. I have OCD that still occasionally fucks with me as well. It's not that I'm mentally weak, I'm actually quite mentally strong to be able to deal with the BS that goes on in my head from day to day, but I think it's more the knowledge that I have and perfectionism working in tandem that fucks with me most. Like knowing I've behaved in a certain way that goes against either what I aspire or like to be like, or how I usually am fucks with me because I feel like there's no g… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Just wanna share a quick Red Pill moment I witnessedMaybe both? I'm only 5'9" so I don't really see myself as a chad, but I'm quite personable, funny, assertive and good looking, so I guess that helped. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 11 | Just wanna share a quick Red Pill moment I witnessedI can attest to this because I was a homeless musician for years, women bought me shit, allowed me to live with them rent-free. Not proud of it, but you are right. Value is what you as an individual put out, not the possessions you own. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?I understand what you're saying, but it's all internalised from me. It has nothing to do with her at the moment. When I feel like I've lost frame somehow, or I'm not behaving or living up to the standard/expectation I've set for myself, I get in these weird moods where I go inward and close off. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?My frame isn't solid. I'm not in denial about that. I mean I overcame a lot of my fears based around OCD, which is what messed me up in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?Well, those posts were from over a month ago. I was in bad way back then, and had been out of the game for a long time. Since then, I've faced a lot of my fears head on and overcome the shit I was posting about. I've got new challenges now. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?Actually, I've identified the problem already I just don't know how to fix it right now. I've got this fucking brain fog. I've noticed that when I'm away from her, I tend to think about her a lot, or I feel a little lost. It wasn't like this in the beginning. I was able to pull away and pursue my goals and purpose. I don't know exactly when that switched. It's definitely the cause, I'm just not sure what to do to regain frame. I've lost motivation to pursue goals, I've even had thoughts about ge… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?No, I'm actually thinking about leaving this girl because of this bullshit. I'm just not good in relationships. I never have been. I could be doing a lot more though, you're right. I know this deep down. I've been feeling quite apathetic for the last couple of weeks in this relationship and have kind of lost motivation. I tend to have an anxious attachment style in relationships. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?Let me guess... you only read the titles? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain frame within an LTR?The pill was swallowed like 10 years ago, I think you're right about the foundation though. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 10:06 AM |
| 1 | The number one trait you need to get laid.Well, if you're already confident in yourself then you won't feel the need to over talk anyway. | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | If you had a son around the age of 16-18, what advice would you give him about life and girls ?"Lift. Read sidebar" | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a woman with great sense of humor?My LTR at the moment is like this. If I take off the love goggles, and look at her rationally, she's about a 7 in looks, and has a great body, but it's the rest of her that lifts it up to an 8-9. She has a great sense of humour and a healthy dose of insecurity to balance it all out. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Not really a question, but more of an observation on dread.True story. I should have implied that that's what I meant, after getting them somewhat invested. Good point, man. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Some girls just flat-out suckWhen are you free? | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Not really a question, but more of an observation on dread.But that's why I say simply being good looking is a good form of passive dread, because you're not actively going out of your way to make girls jealous. I agree with your point though that being a likeable dude also helps a lot. There's a few variables that go into it. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 0 | Some girls just flat-out suckIt's a true story. Cue ugly liberal downvotes | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Some girls just flat-out suck"Conservatives are racist"......... interesting. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Some girls just flat-out suckNo point being butthurt about it, just carry on until you find someone you do vibe with. But if you keep finding the women you're attracted to "suck", then maybe it's time to look at yourself. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 10:21 AM |
| 7 | The more I improve the more hate from menBuckle in. It's not that you're disliked for nothing at all. From my own personal experience, I had a large friend group(not every friend in the group was like this, but a few) eventually treat me with disdain because the more of me they saw at parties etc, the more they realised I was good with women. They essentially became haters. Some of those guys were 25 all the way up to 45. I'm not joking. Fully grown men acting like bitches. There was one dude who was 50 who used to organise parties onc… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 08:37 AM |
| 5 | The more I improve the more hate from menBecause not all men have your best intentions at heart. Trust me, there are some crabs out there. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Which country has the highest quality women but the least competition?Amazonia | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP is my guilty pleasureU ok hun? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?I didn't miss the point, but it is contradictory to say if you want to get laid, then stop wanting to get laid. I think a better way to frame it would be, "If you want to get laid, stop needing to get laid. But I'm just being pedantic. My point is that you'll never get laid even if you stop caring about it if you don't ever leave your house, put yourself out there and risk rejection. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:24 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?It's pretty obvious that your problem is that you are a drummer. Everyone knows drummers get laid even less than bass players Man, we're the rhythm section. You're supposed to have my back out here. I concur 100% with the other paragraph though. I'm not lacking abundance, but I am lacking the mindset that goes with it strangely. Probably need to upgrade my plates. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:18 AM |
| 17 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?This only works if stopping wanting to get laid doesn't coincide with you being a loser who never leaves his home. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?Obviously almost instantly, but women are vetting more than men and for slightly different reasons. If a woman doesn't want to give me her ass either, I'm not gonna cry about it and post images of her on my social media. But then, I'm not a woman obviously. Just trying to understand why she would do that for someone she doesn't know. Women usually cry after they've become emotionally attached to a man. So, either this dude is good, or she's seriously, seriously needy and insecure. Either way, OP… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 09:29 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?You haven't seen nothing yet. It actually has nothing to do with your friends physical looks, but his behavior. Guys get the correlation wrong all the time. They think - the guy is good looking and he gets a lot of puss and so he can afford to be an asshole and they love him despite of it. I am here to tell you that they love him because of it. The more you are pulling away from women, the more they want you. But OP says he barely speaks to the girls, so how is he obtaining that level of attract… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question. Is this a comfort or shit test?You're right. That generally is my game, and it was like that initially but I think I just went overboard trying to set logistics and she's been open to it, but now the idea just seems fruitless from both perspectives. It's mainly due to location and distance. I'll just next her, fuck it. I think I've lost this one, chief. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question. Is this a comfort or shit test?She definitely stands out. Pics of her at a BBQ the other day with what I can only describe as Bigfoot and the Hendersons. That's what I thought though. She seems to think I'm too good looking for her as well. I just think my game is not as fresh as it used to be - I mean I couldn't even accurately recognise that I was too outcome dependent until you mentioned it. I'm digressing anyway. Appreciate your help, man. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question. Is this a comfort or shit test?Yep, I'm too outcome dependent over this girl. I have other girls in rotation, but this one girl I am craving more than usual. One thing I don't quite get about her is that she seems to surround herself with unattractive people as well. All of her friends are average or below in looks. Guessing that's a self esteem thing. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question. Is this a comfort or shit test?She's definitely not chasing me now, I agree. She was initially, but all the waiting has kind of taken the fun out of it all, and I should have nexted her sooner. I didn't have to work hard for nudes, because as I said I charmed them out of her but she's not easy in general. That's the point. She has a lot of ASD going on. Her excuse was, "I don't normally share nudes with guys who aren't my boyfriend", which is obviously BS. And then justified it after by saying it's her "hoe phase". I really w… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question. Is this a comfort or shit test?I liked your spiel but it doesn't really apply in the context of my situation. She knows I can stand up to her, charm her, she perceives me as better than her as well, at least physically (she has some self esteem issues, she's hot though). I think her problem is that I'm too much of a fuckboi. Usually that's a good thing, but I may have gone overboard and caused her to ASD hard. The nudes I charmed out of her, she didn't give them too willingly. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How to game a girl at the church?Be Jesus. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, need help on rectifying the situation, confessed I like a coworker.Just shamelessly don't give a fuck. Play it cool, but give her no IOIs anymore. Just do your job, and look elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question. Is this a comfort or shit test?Shit, that is brilliant. I really need to practice A&A more. I used to be good at it. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys do to keep your sex drive/testosterone levels high?No Fap is basically what caused this. I didn't really have a porn addiction before it either. I mean, I enjoyed porn but it was never extreme, and I was getting sex way more frequently than I needed to masturbate anyway. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys do to keep your sex drive/testosterone levels high?The evopsych theory about masturbation (and, incidentally, homosexuality) is precisely that it maintains the sex drive when there are no sexual opportunities. Can you elaborate on this theory? Never heard of it. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys do to keep your sex drive/testosterone levels high?In the comments or in my post? Lmao | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys do to keep your sex drive/testosterone levels high?Nah, man. I'm not going down that road unless absolutely necessary. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 6 | What do you guys do to keep your sex drive/testosterone levels high?You're right, I do know the fucking answers. I guess I'm just looking for motivation or support, but I also know the answer to that is discipline and action. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:55 AM |
| 7 | Q: Why would any woman ever want to be the Dominant one in the bed? Like WHY THE FUCK?There are certain girls who are used to fucking beta males, and getting their way, so they might "test" you for fun in bed. Really what they want is for you to dominate them, and win that test. All women long to be submissive to the right man. It's easy for guys who are naturally dominant. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 07:45 AM |
| 16 | Had one of the best first date sex experiences on Saturday and the girl was so enthusiastic in bed that we basically wanted to eat each other. We are both highly attracted to each other.Dude, I miss those days. I'm not old or anything, but I have been depressed as shit for the last few years. The enthusiasm isn't always there. Happy for you though, brother. My advice is to get the most out of this girl while she's there - rinse the fuck out of her. Have fun, and don't worry about anything. Frame is everything, but beyond that, just enjoy what you have and see where it goes. Girls like this are potentially crazy which is why the sex is so addictive, but fuck it. Enjoy the ride f… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Just a vent.Point taken. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Just a vent.I really do lack a mission. Depression took my mission away from me. Robbed me of a lot more than that as well. In order to get any where close to how I was before all of this, it feels like I've literally got fucking mountains to climb, and I'm 32, not 22 anymore. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Just a vent.I'd be doing nothing otherwise. That's the issue. But she motivated me to actually want to do something. I felt my self esteem come back, even if it was just a little bit. The issue is that I have nothing now, and I don't know what I want to do with my life. I have no purpose, or can't see it yet. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Just a vent.Pretty much now, yep. I have zero motivation and zero discipline. Even if I had discipline, there's almost literally nothing I want to do anymore. The pandemic hasn't helped. I cut all of my friends off. I barely speak to my family anymore even though I currently live with some of them. I stonewall everything. The only thing that motivated me and gave me some energy was talking to this one girl, as sad as that is. Seriously. I'm a professional drummer, and have been playing seriously since I was… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Just a vent.I understand what you're saying. I'm not really worried about the theory that much, because I know from experience being red pilled means to cultivate it through action. Hard to do that when you're in my position. I feel like I'm at the bottom of the barrel. There's nothing wrong with my physically, I'm not ugly, I don't have a small dick, I'm not poor, or retarded and most of the time I'm not even that emotional. I'm just fucking depressed and feel hopeless. Just like a shell of a man basically… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Just a vent.I was red pilled, I'm not anymore. I still know it all in theory but I'm incapable of acting on what I know now. I'm too fucked up. I'm at a point where suicide genuinely feels like the more viable option. I'm not even crying for help, I'm just speaking as a matter of fact. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?Any where I felt like, generally. I did have a phone the whole time and access to Facebook, and any other apps but finding reliable internet was a consistent pain in the ass - I never had credit or data for my phone. I was poor as fuck. So I would go to coffee shops, chill out for a bit to charge my phone and use the free Internet there sometimes. Luckily I wasn't majorly homeless, as in, I did get the opportunity to sofa surf a lot, on some friends couches, or at a girl's place. I could shower … | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?That's a long ass story. I guess being good looking helps and also not wanting to be homeless, showing potential for growth and improvement. Are you homeless?? In terms of the mindset, I always knew being homeless was just a temporary issue and that it didn't actually define me. Even if temporary meant a year. So I still maintained a high self esteem throughout being homeless. The girls I would sleep with knew I was homeless, but it didn't seem to matter to them. Probably because they felt I was… | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?Where do you need me to elaborate? | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?You're god damn right. I actually see the problem now. I was more invested in her than I realised, and I lost frame and started communicating that to her. I just didn't see it. I've got some work to do on myself too. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?Rocket surgery doesn't sound like fun. But I hear you loud and clear. I've definitely projected insecurity, when I didn't need to. I actually agree with what you're saying here. I became too familiar with her and started acting like a bitch. All shitty things happen for a good reason, so this is an opportunity to learn. Appreciate the feedback. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?I've already got Marcus Aurelius pulled up. I think what happened was that my non-committal reaction, or vagueness hurt her, and her response was to threaten to cut me off to get a reaction out of me. She went to the extreme. I could see that, but I still didn't get the result I wanted. I didn't want the plate to break but I didn't want her trying to grab frame from me either. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?So what could I have done better in this scenario in your opinion? How would you have handled it? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?So she'll probably be back at some point wondering why I didn't reach out first, and then I capitalise and act like nothing happened. This particular drama just came out the blue for me. One second we were good, and then the next this happened. But I probably am to blame for that. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?I'm not butthurt, and good to see you again, Chief. I'm just trying to see what mistakes I made, and learn from them. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?You're right. I didn't realise I was aiding the drama. Too much familiarity with her. I didn't say "ok" but I did say, "I think that's fair" and then left it at that. Why would she not fully block me? She's trying to pull me into drama I'm guessing? Wanting me to chase. I've clearly got a lot of shit to learn still. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?You're right, man. It just annoyed me that instead of asking me "why?", she went straight to "OK well we can just stop talking", which I felt was her way of trying to grab frame. Should I just continue to next and learn from this? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?I do go real life. As I said, I don't even know why this happened. It all happened fast. There was no drama until I said "we probably won't be able to meet soon". That's literally all I said, and now this. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:12 PM |
| -3 | Can anyone explain this drama to me?In what regard? When I said we probably won't be able to meet? I wasn't saying it out of butthurt, I was just being honest. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.Okay, level 13 Wizard. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.Stop trying to bait me, you absolute clown. You literally have nothing to offer me other than your time, which you're wasting trying to troll a guy who could not give a single fuck about your opinion. Go and blow out the candles on your cake now, kid. Edit: You're a D&D player 😂 My god. You can go away now. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.I kicked cocaine a long time ago, and that wasn't the only drug I kicked at the time either. I was doing fucking MDMA, speed, drinking a lot and smoking a lot too. This was a habit I picked up just before, and after the depression began - not long term. It's a large part of why this happened to me though, so I'm fully aware of the consequences. Should have mentioned I quit in the OP. And I'm not on any meds, nor do I intend to be. I feel like I can get out of this if I just face up to the anxiet… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 0 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.Keep talking like you know anything, bud. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.Fair enough, man. Appreciate it all the same. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.I'm insecure? Lmao. Look at how you speak to people, and you even took the time to reply, big man. Appreciate that. Happy Cake Day, motherfucker. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.Don't be a dick, man. I know what DEER is, which is why I said at the beginning of the post "I hate to give context but I need to". If I don't explain myself a little, then people like you end up giving me shitty advice. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Past infatuation stage extremely quickly boring chickDude, just quietly leave her in the background. You might wanna go back there. No need for theatrics. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.I've already read it. I'm not a noobie, I've been fucking my entire life. I'm just anxious to go and do it again after what I clearly explained in the post. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.My dick works fine, mate. It's my anxiety around having sex again. It's all mental. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.Should have mentioned that I did kill that elephant quite a while back | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.I think I just need to build it up again naturally. It's not that I've always been low on testosterone, I don't even know if testosterone is actually the problem. I'd need a doctor to check that. If that is the case though, then surely just working out regularly again, eating properly and sleeping properly, trying to have sex, etc should naturally raise the levels, right? Because all of those things I've stopped doing - for 3 years. That adds up. Plus, I've no doubt taken on a lot of cortisol, b… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.I am finding therapy a bit useless, and I'm not on any meds either with it - by choice. I want to break out of this naturally and off of my own will power. I got myself into this mess, so I must be able to get myself out. The therapy I'm having though is ERP. It's a form of CBT and is specifically for OCD patients. It's not really talk therapy, it's more about gradually exposing myself to my fears and anxieties. I think I know what to do now anyway, mate. Thanks again! | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:15 PM |
| -1 | Serious question about libido/sexuality.I do feel like I had high testosterone prior to this. Although I never thought or worried about it. I've not long hit 32 years of age, so maybe that also plays a part, but I don't imagine it would play a huge part. I definitely need to start lifting again. I didn't mention in my post but I basically stopped all exercise, and sat on my ass collecting cortisol for 3 years. I'm still a slim dude but I am out of shape. A lot of the muscle mass vanished, which contributed to my self esteem issues. I'… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?No, I'm not, but that's a good point you make. What I'm saying is that overly emotional men turn women off. | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Strange Shit Test"Don't ever say anything like that to me again woman" 😠😭 Yeah, don't go with that one. Get rid of your ego about this. And how exactly did you just "brush it off"? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 4 | LTR gets angry for 3 days if we don't do something the way she wantsIt's time for some dread. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 7 | When should I call or text her after I took her number?Whenever the fuck you want. If you're asking a question like this, then you're still invested in the woman's validation to some degree. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | What is negging?There's a lot of questions to ask here though. Who is someone? Is it a man? A woman? A friend? A family member? And what's the context of them coming after you? I wouldn't say the average non-red pilled man. I'd narrow it down more and say blue pilled men. Blue pilled men are just reactive. Within the context of women especially. They supplicate to women's emotions without fully understanding that they're digging their own grave. They're afraid of invoking women's emotions because they don't rea… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What is negging?Yeah, they're my favourite too, but all women are insecure if you know which buttons to hit, but never do it maliciously. I don't think you will, but for anyone else reading this, it has to be said. You don't wanna make the girl feel like shit. It's all about fun. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | What is negging?Well, that's a fair example of negging. If you got her to laugh or respond emotionally in any way, then you're winning. Especially if you're communicating that it's all in good fun, which obviously you were. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 14 | What is negging?Negging is just literally finding something about the person; whether it's something they're wearing, the way they look, goofy teeth, a belief they have or a stupid opinion, literally anything about them you can tease them about and doing it. Negging is usually best used on girls who ordinarily don't get negged, and are showered with praise and compliments instead (they're bored by this)- girls up their own ass, HB9s and HB10s. But negging works on anyone as long as you don't neg them to death. … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?When you figure out how to be attractive and how to actually communicate with women (not overtly) then it all becomes fun, and you'll find opportunities to meet women literally everywhere. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?A masculine woman craves to be submissive for the right man, but most dudes these days are far from masculine. Let's be real. And I don't just mean masculine in the Arnold Schwarzenegger muscular sense either, I mean not being a little bitch or emotional. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?Mostly true, but not always true. It's more about mindset than almost anything else. Not discounting other factors. Even a homeless guy can pick up chicks with the right mindset. I know this because I was that homeless dude once upon a time, it was the only way for me get any where to sleep sometimes, lmao. Not recommending this though. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 2 | How to not feel guilty when a plate is falling for you?I do have to keep things in perspective like this. You're right. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 02:51 PM |
| 2 | How to not feel guilty when a plate is falling for you?I guess I'm worried that if I focus more on myself, she's just gonna be constantly pulling comfort tests. Edit: Not saying I won't focus on myself. But difficult not to feel guilty. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How to not feel guilty when a plate is falling for you?She is definitely in my frame now, but I feel a bit uncomfortable with the idea of her falling for me, and also with her being the one initiating more. It's a strange dichotomy to go from you putting effort, to them making the effort. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?Don't worry about if she thinks or calls you a fuckboy. Take it as a compliment and keep going. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?Comfort is if you wanna be in a relationship with her. So that's down to you, it's risky as fuck with a girl like this though and you know it. As for when she said, "So you don't hate me now?". That is basically her asking to be validated by you, but you shouldn't be giving her comfort too much otherwise she'll just keep repeating the same bullshit with you over and over, and eventually the comfort you give her will be like a drug, and you'll lose frame and power. Set boundaries with this girl. … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?Then in your case, you might be right. The problem the other guys here have is that they see your title and think you're a beta. Nothing wrong with actually liking a girl, even if she is a bit mental, as long as you know where to draw the line and keep frame, and know when to pack your shit and run. It does sound to me like she has some major trust issues though. A bit bipolar. But that could be for so many reasons. As they say here, "watch what she does, not what she says". You're definitely tr… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?Don't listen to everything you read in here. It is true, but it depends. For example: if she's just ghosting you, and you're wondering/assuming she's doing that because she's afraid of catching feelings, it doesn't necessarily mean she isn't but it mostly likely means she's just ghosting you out of indifference. Another example is from personal experience today: A girl I've been messaging a little bit, was ghosting now and again but I didn't worry about it. Continued the conversation with her an… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Is it normal to enjoy shit tests?Enjoying shit tests is what you want to actualize. As for the girls you say that don't shit test you, well, they're not gonna seem as fun compared to the ones who do because they're either too interested, or not interested at all. If it's the latter, then you wanna do what Patrice O'Neal did and trigger them somehow. Tease them about something. See if they bite, and if they do, you've got them. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Need advice with a Bear.Genius. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Need advice with a Bear.She'll be engaged with my cock soon. I'm just wondering what kind of beast I'm up against. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Need advice with a Bear.That's what I've been doing, and I enjoy it too, but then she complains I'm a cunt. Saying "I know there's a heart of gold underneath". Maybe, but I'm gonna enjoy being cunt until you get it. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Need advice with a Bear.I am better and stronger. Words to live by. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Need advice with a Bear.Wow. Yeah this girl is 25, I'm 32. It's not like I haven't been with girls who like to try and be dominant, but 10/10 I've won the battle. That is the fun of it. But with this girl, she's difficult and strong-headed. And I'm quite out of practice. I know she's gonna be fun at least, but I won't ever submit to a girl. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 4 | What is it like dating a spiritually awakened girl?Here's a good one if you ever meet a chick who likes to do Lunar/Astrological readings. Get her to do your reading, and ask, "Does it say we're gonna fuck tonight?" | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 7 | What is it like dating a spiritually awakened girl?Did your driftwood get touched though? That's all that matters. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceIt's the right kind of monk mode when you're doing it in a healthy way. Read up on monk mode again. Learn about it more. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | A little advice needed with confidenceYes, sir. Spot on. My ego took a huge hit after what happened to me, it was in desperate self-preservation mode for a long time. Thanks, man. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceBy not locking yourself away. We discussed this a minute ago. It's the context of my post, dude. Isolation kills you. It doesn't matter how much theory you learn in a dark room in your mum's house, if you don't ever make the steps to break out of that and practice what you've learned then you've really learned nothing. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceNo you won't learn shit in the kind of "Monk Mode" you and I did, that's why you're in this mess in the first place. You actually have to practice what you learn. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceCould be a few months if you really push yourself. The brain learns quick. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceAllow yourself to forget. That's the key. Make those mistakes, and the mistakes that stand out in your mind, you come back here and reference them. Then go back out and try again. See, you've got it all logged down in your mind like there's a script that needs to be run by, but as you can tell, the real world doesn't operate like that. You have to learn to be adaptable under pressure. Then all of the theory will make sense. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceYou're right, but there's also nothing better than realising you have nothing to lose too. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceOf course. Good advice. I know all this too. Fear is the mind killer. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:08 PM |
| 2 | A little advice needed with confidenceMonk mode is fine, but it's no longer monk mode when it's not benefitting your mental and physical health. It can easily happen. You just become comfortable with living in fear, which eventually paralyses you. Glad you're doing something about this, man. Expect it to be painful. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceExactly, maintain that outlook as best as you can and just keep going forward. I need to do this for myself again too. There's beautiful girls out there that want to meet me, and I'm not allowing them to meet the "prize" because the "prize" is too afraid. It's stupid. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceAh shit, good to see you, man. Hope my advice is actually working out for you. Ironic that you're giving me advice, but I think you're right. I know the answer already. Appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | A little advice needed with confidenceI knew this was the answer, so it's good to see it reflected back at me. The isolation is what really fucked me up, and I knew it would too. Thank you brother. My advice to anyone suffering with doubts, anxiety or depression... and even to some degree procrastination is DON'T ever isolate yourself. It will fuck you up beyond belief, especially if it evolves into agoraphobia. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What should I do in this situation?Sounds to me like she should just be a plate and that's it. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | What should I do in this situation?Hahaha. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 6 | When a girl you've fucked texts you "what are you doing?" is she tryna come over or just get attention?Do you wanna fuck her? Just reply, "Waiting for you to come over" | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | I don't completely understand why this keeps happening to me (Long-ass post)I don't really wanna get into a religious discussion, and I respect your beliefs, but I feel that I can also respect and live by some religious teachings without adhering to a deity as well. I just can't believe in a deity myself. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | I don't completely understand why this keeps happening to me (Long-ass post)Uncle V, appreciate the comment. That is the problem: that the Disney Girl usually appears when I'm at my best. I'm terrified of those girls, not because of who they are - I know that essentially girls aren't shit, and if I break a girl down, it helps to realise that. But I'm terrified because I know regardless of all that shit, I'm gonna fall for them in the end anyway, and lose. That's why I start sabotaging. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I don't completely understand why this keeps happening to me (Long-ass post)I know I'm damaged, man, haha. That's what I've been trying to reverse my entire life. I did quit the drugs 2 years ago though. Even alcohol. I've been totally clean. And can't say I ever connected with a god in the first place, but maybe I need to connect with myself a bit more instead. As corny as that shit sounds. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Become a total physcopathSeems like you're already there, dude... Seriously, though. This is not a good goal to aim for. Dark Triad mating strategy should only really be employed short term, you don't want to actually become a psychopath long term. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:53 AM |
| 0 | Dudes in their 30s, how do you keep getting results with girls in their early 20s?Younger girls generally see older men as having some status of dominance just because they're older. That's just one variable to it though. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:49 AM |
| 6 | Faced with Unique Situation I've never dealt with.Funerals make bitches horny. Then again, that's your friend's sister. It's kinda fucked up, but you only live once.... as evidenced by the funeral. RIP OP's friend. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Paranoid about boss's girlfriend?Dick & Destroy | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Never been in a real fightTell me something... Are you a frontiersman living in 1873? Just shoot the bastard. On a serious note. Are you a son of a whore? If not, then who cares? If you are, then who cares? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or if you genuinely just love it, lmao. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?There's a dude I've jammed with in a few bands who posts selfies of himself every day, duck facing. I'm no longer in a band with that dude. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?You're dead on. I never like these girl's posts unless I'm scrolling unconsciously and I find one that's genuinely funny, but consciously... never. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?Ah shit, I scrolled right on past it a few times. Thanks again. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?I can't actually find the post you're talking about. Nothing titled Hard versus Soft next. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?Appreciate that, man. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?Okay, man. I'm a bit retarded concerning navigating Reddit. Can I find Whisper in the search bar or something? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?I know dis, bruddah. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?She clearly needs a strong man in her life. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?Fear of rejection I guess. Two parties can be guilty of pulling back, whether that's intentional or not. She may be feeling like if she initiates then she doesn't have any leverage. But you're right, if she really wants the D she'll let it be known. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?So it's basically a fantasy they have, and they won't reach out themselves because they don't want to risk rejection. That's interesting too. But if it's a guy she's already acquainted with, and is thinking about, then why wouldn't she? Let's say the guy is on his purpose, he's not chasing any girl in particular. Surely the girls posting shit like this will eventually fold and initiate contact? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?This is the most Russian answer I've ever seen on this sub. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?When they feel extra emotional they go for the quotes though. It might even be easier to slide into her dms in that scenario. That's a great point. Didn't think of that, get them at their weakest 😁 But if their quotes are directed at garnering a particular man's attention, I guess that man would know. And if so, she expects them to care. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?This is interesting, so they're simply just signals for attention? That is what I thought initially. But because something like that is so fucking vague, how do they ever expect anyone to get it if that's their intention? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always share bullshit like this?I know it's a load of shite, I was curious about the subtext. But you're right, it doesn't actually matter. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Nope. Not being pussy means facing your fears despite all of your attempts to control the situation. The fun lies in the situation being unpredictable. You just don't know this yet | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Dude, I'm telling you... don't be a pussy. It's a choice. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 01:56 PM |
| 8 | How can I reclaim my life?You're obsessed with dick. Just fucking use it already. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim my life?That's it. It's that simple. You'll thank us all one day when you actually do it. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Yeah, but once action takes over, thinking takes a back seat. Unless you're anxious and overthinking, then action falters instead, i.e, fight or flight. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?You're obviously disconnected. Look at your post. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 5 | How can I reclaim my life?I realised this about 2 hours ago, but I'm not a quitter. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Well, there you go. You were able to differentiate the two, clearly demonstrating that you know what it takes to overcome this. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?A lot of average dudes are chads. Chad is essentially what you described, but I mean loosely as in just your average good looking dude who gets laid. It's not a specific archetype in my mind. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Yeah, why not? The average guy is getting laid at least. The point is he needs to stop comparing himself to this chad ideal. It's getting in the way when he hasn't even left his room yet. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim my life?100%. Overanalysing and anxiety is his main problem. He's trying to desperately control the outcome. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim my life?The solution is not to overthink. No one has ever overthinked their way into pussy. Just grit your teeth and talk to a girl, even if the only words that come out of your mouth are, "DURRRRRR". You need to get past the anxiety first. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Just don't think. Thinking is your main problem. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:19 PM |
| 3 | How can I reclaim my life?You'll have no opportunities if you don't do something about this. You'll either die old and alone and miserable, or you'll kill yourself. That's the truth. You seem to have some intelligence, you're a programmer right? So you should have a good grasp on logic. So how did you become a programmer? Were you just automatically good? Or did you have to make some mistakes before you got good? That's simple logic for you right there. That's the logic of game. Make mistakes, and do badly. Try to do bad… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim my life?Yeah, it's a terrifying thought right? Keep imagining it, and let the anxiety run its course. You'd need to do the same thing in front of women. Just let the anxiety be there, and then say anything to begin with, "hi" and then awkwardly scurry away. Maybe next time you could ask a cute girl if she knows the directions to anywhere. Start small. You become adaptable by learning the game through experience, not just theory. Theory gives you ideas, experience gives you wisdom and internal insight so… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Mate, this is not a maths class though. Comparing getting women to preparing for a maths test is not a good analogy. With women you have to be able to NOT think or be overly prepared, you have to learn on the go and only really use the theory as a reference. Most of your learning will be done in-field, because experience teaches quickly. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:07 PM |
| 4 | How can I reclaim my life?This is a war that won't kill you, that's the difference. Doing nothing is what will kill you in the end. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim my life?You need to forget the things you've read. It's all "what if what if what if", that's what needs to be eliminated. Self doubt and uncertainty. The anxiety. Go and face your anxiety. I wish you had someone there with you who would just push you in front of some random girls and tell you to talk to them. If he did it enough, the anxiety you feel would eventually dissipate. But you can't see that when you haven't experienced it. Perfection doesn't work in this game, adaptability does. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:00 PM |
| 0 | How can I reclaim my life?Chad just loosely means someone who gets laid. Stop looking for this perfect ideal of a chad or an alpha. You ain't there yet (and it's BS anyway), and no it's not because of your perceived looks or flaws, it's because of your mindset. You're comparing yourself to statistics and ideals, when you haven't even set a foot in the right direction yet. In fact, that's a big part of why you haven't. You almost need to forget everything you've learnt for a minute and just go and talk to a girl. Get out … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim my life?Get rid of this Chad ideal in your head. Start off small, and get small wins for yourself. An example of a small win is getting off this subreddit and talking to a girl. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | How can I reclaim my life?Yep. That's not unfortunate though. What would be unfortunate is if you don't ever do that, and instead you go deeper into insanity and crippling self doubt until you eventually commit actual suicide. Learn from failure. Go and fall down, and pick yourself up every time it happens. Basically choose not to be a pussy anymore. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:48 AM |
| 5 | How can I reclaim my life?No, I'm trying to help this nigga. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 2 | How can I reclaim my life?Everyone in here is just echoing what I told you in PM, more or less word for word. Others in the future will tell you the same until they eventually all become fed up - like the boy who cried wolf. Or you might get banned. You have all the guidance and the correct advice, but the advice isn't working for you because you haven't even begun to apply it. You're mentally preparing for an event that you don't want to take place out of fear of failure, rejection, and shame. When as I said to you, the… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 6 | How can I reclaim my life?u/perijaso4 And also this as well. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 6 | How can I reclaim my life?u/perijaso4 And I told you this too. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 5 | How can I reclaim my life?u/perijaso4 This is exactly what I told you in PM. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 2 | I need some talking to.Well, I feel you are being sarcastic but yeah she obviously knows I exist. We're fucking. She is my type man. So a conventional HB10 isn't necessarily above her level in my opinion. I'm quite picky with women these days because I've only really fucked hot girls in the last like 6 years. No going back. And as I mentioned in my post, there is certainly some form of scarcity mentality going on due to being isolated for 2-3 years. That doesn't mean she isn't a cool chick and not worth plating. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | I need some talking to.Yeah... I will talk to other women still but the focus is mainly on her right now whether I want it to be or not. That could change though. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:48 AM |
| 0 | I need some talking to.Thank you, man. I was expecting people to comment here going, "Lift. Read side bar, beta". I am being hard on myself, to be fair but I do wanna just enjoy this shit, you're right. I'll definitely be keeping the concepts in mind. I just don't want it to fuck with my fun. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:01 AM |
| 7 | Does stopping masgurbation increase sexual performance?Kegal exercises, delayed ejaculation while masturbating (delay it for about 10 minutes each time), and enjoy/savour the thought or image you have to the fullest while doing this so it doesn't feel like a chore. Also, don't masturbate yourself into a saggy, cumless organism. I know it can be tempting when you're bored, especially if you have a porn addiction but just try to chill on it. Think of it like a muscle. You exercise it quite a bit a few times a week, but it needs its rest days in betwee… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 08:25 AM |
| 15 | Does stopping masgurbation increase sexual performance?Not in my experience. A few years back, I inadvertently partook in NoFap for about 2 months straight, and then when I went back to fucking women again, I found myself almost cumming within about 5-10 seconds. Shit horrified me, but can't say I was too surprised. It's good to take a little break from masturbation now and again, but if you want your performance to be good, you need to choke the chain still. That thing needs to be exercised like a muscle. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Is eating pussy beta?Fuck Asian chicks or small animals. Joking. Learn how to please these girls by other means such as foreplay. I don't personally have a small dick, so I don't know precisely. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 07:37 AM |
| 3 | is massages beta?No massages aren't beta. They're one avenue into sex. Think of it that way instead. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to deal with a girl psychologically analysing you?There's no need to next her. We're gonna fuck. She hasn't done anything wrong, I'm just being a little bitch over nothing. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to deal with a girl psychologically analysing you?That's exactly how it felt. No one wants to be psycho-analysed. Good advice, man. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to deal with a girl psychologically analysing you?That's the thing, I did do that but that's hard to do while you're staring at her fucking ass as well. She's also good at reading people, probably better than me, which surprised me. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 0 | Any advice on how to deal with a girl psychologically analysing you?Yeah, I get all of that and I did pressure flip it but I feel like this is an insecurity based on not feeling I know enough to go deeper on the convo. I know a lot about psychology, but this bitch was busting out Fruedian 101 shit on me. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 33 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?Chinese Communist Party Flags = Red Flags. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How to fuck a girl who’s mad at you?If she likes you enough then just don't be affected by her anger. Her anger will eventually turn into arousal. Then coupled with whatever emotional shit you're feeling, you'll have the angriest, most passionate sex. But don't lose frame with her anger. Be a rock, and even call her out on some shit if you feel it's valid enough, but mainly just don't be scared homie. Chill and wait, then escalate. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?And watch all of the Black Phillip episodes too. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 22 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?That anger and disrespect you felt inside when you witnessed that shit, that's telling you everything you need to know. Go forth, nigga, and learn from this. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 12 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?Pro tip: learn to figure out if they have daddy issues sooner. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 48 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?Just don't go to any more of her "family" get togethers, jesus. Sounded like you wanted to LTR this girl potentially despite CCP flags. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.I was playing that game as well, but it's my patience that's the problem. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Definitely an idiot. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 05:03 PM |
| 3 | What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with?Yeah, there's a lot of them when you realise how to spot it. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with?Had a couple of friends like this that you reminded me of, but one in particular ticks a few of the boxes you mentioned. Dude I was in a band with a few years back was a bit of a creepy simp - a good guitarist and generally well liked though in the music scene. It wasn't until I joined a band with him more full time, and started attending parties with the guy that I realised who he really was. I could see how much of a simp he was, even when he tried to hide it from others because he was always … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 04:53 AM |
| 4 | Is there any coming back from a bad sexual experience?That's the sacrifice you have to make. You gotta risk taking that L, man. It's the only way you'll find out. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Is there any coming back from a bad sexual experience?Whats wrong with going over and banging the shit out of them at their place? I've done this loads of times. You can choose to leave as well, which takes the pressure off. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Extremely beta lookingMate, I wouldn't even worry about your physicality, it's your mindset that needs help. You need to shift it through a painful process of growth. Keep lifting, get some cardio in as well, and grow a beard or stubble one day if you're capable. If not, it's fine. Your chin isn't receding into the back of your head, so chill. Game can be LEARNED. Confidence can be LEARNED also. Keep making mistakes and improve. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Thank you, man. It definitely felt righteous as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.This was on Facebook not Tinder. I just hit up a girl randomly and then we hit it off. She does want my cock, bro. I re-engaged her not long after this post, and I've sealed the deal. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.I think the confusion was in that I wasn't clearly defining that that's what I wanted. I did, and I didn't. I was almost tentative to escalate it further. Past me wouldn't have given a fuck and shamelessly put it out there. But with this girl I felt there was a risk in doing that, even though I was sure I could have her. That's where I went wrong. So yes, man. Appreciate your comments brother, and I will close that deal. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Update: I thought about some of the comments here, and I messaged her just to be straight with her a few minutes ago. Apologised for my dramatic exit, and basically laid out what I really wanted from her because I think she was confused. I said I wanted to fuck her until her legs become jelly, but that I thought she was cool too. And she said that sounds really hot, and that she found me very attractive which is something she wasn't overtly saying before. Wtf is this? Have I just rediscovered a … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.A man of culture. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.I take douche as a W, even if my behaviours lead to an L. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Man, I've forgotten how to play this shit instinctively. At some points I realised that's what she was doing and I was also enjoying it, but I'm so out of practice in regards to women that my ego and self esteem are getting in the way. I'm filled with doubts in the quiet moments. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.She wasn't explicitly asking me to come over, she was playing the waiting game and throwing me crumbs more often than not. But she loved my time and attention, and I realised that. Yep, lack of pussy has fucked up my ability think clearly. She is definitely right. It's my fault I'm not tapping that pussy. Past me would have had this down. One woman is worse than no women Agreed. I'm an idiot. But this is a learning lesson. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.To be honest, I take douche as a compliment. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl I was talking to called me douche for walking away.Yep. That's how I found out her house would be free. But honestly, I was taken out of my game anyway. As soon as I realised I was thinking about her a lot, I kind of lost the frame. Whether she realises it or not. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Soft Dread apparently works.She did mention to me that her house is free next week, meaning all of her housemates will be gone. So there is that, so maybe I'll hit her up then and if she's still playing this game then I'm hard nexting. Thanks for pointing out something that should already be clear to me though. I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Soft Dread apparently works.Well, now I'm just confused. I understand that I probably have been unwittingly orbiting, which I'm not happy about, but the bait... I don't get it. I'm not really wasting my time validating her, I'm trying to get her to meet. Do you suggest I just next her? I want to fuck the girl, obviously, but if it's going no where then I don't want to keep wasting my time. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Soft Dread apparently works.Good to know! That's why I'm here, so I can stop being a retard. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Soft Dread apparently works.Hmm, I told her "Good talking to you anyway". That was my ticket out, and then I ghosted her until she replied. Probably meant to say soft next. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What piece of advice in the sidebar is most helpful in your opinion?It honestly depends on where you're at in your journey. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | I feel inferior to other men and it’s depressiveWow. 10/10, my nigga. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you unload emotions sometimes?As others have said here, deal with that shit either alone, with a male friend (as long as you don't whine), or a therapist. Also, another good way to channel those emotions is through action; working out, going for a run, boxing, playing an instrument works too, anything really that has a positive effect on you. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Soft Dread apparently works.I am doing that too. This is more practice for me. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Soft Dread apparently works.I'm deathly aware of the oneitis, it's just that I'm re-learning all of this shit again right down to the fundamentals, because I literally took 2 years out from dating and plating due to depression. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Soft Dread apparently works.Yeah, I'm feeling that right now. Seems obvious. 2 years of social isolation have definitely made me retarded. I'm re-learning all of this shit again. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl do this?Nah not yet, that's what I've been trying to achieve. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Why would a girl do this?Maybe not in a decade? Haha. I could also flake on this girl. But I get your point, man. Actions over words. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl do this?Hmm. Yeah, I see. It did seem like she was asking me questions like she was vetting me for longterm potential though. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Why would a girl do this?Yeah, it's a problem | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl do this?She has just replied with voice notes but I haven't looked at or listened to them. I don't want this to be like a fucking game. Not saying I don't like push and pull, but you are right that I care too much. This is the first girl I've connected with for about a year, honestly. The rest have just been thots. Depression took me out of my game which was pristine before that. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl do this?That's what I was thinking. If she does eventually reply, I'm just gonna get her to meet me, and if she still doesn't seem interested then I'll have to move on. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl do this?Dude, I've been trying to sort logistics. She lives a few miles from me, but it's not a huge deal. So far, she's been guarded about meeting. I've noticed it, and probably should have nexted her sooner. But she has shit tested me a lot, or possibly comfort tested as well but I don't recognise comfort tests as easily as shit tests. Whenever I suggest us meeting though, she comes out with shit like, "I'm unattractive", or some other low self esteem BS which I just ignore. Seems like she's deflectin… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl do this?Lmao. Fair point. It's just I'm not good at recognising comfort tests. This girl doesn't seem like your typical thot. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl do this?I would gladly share some screenshots but there's quite a bit to rummage through. My overall sense talking to her has been that I've held the frame, but that she seems a bit wary of me still in some regard. The last thing we were speaking about was fuck boys and how she doesn't have time for them, and I said well, I'm a fuckboy and you've had plenty of time for me. But even before that she's just been quiet all day. Realistically if I had abundance again, this wouldn't matter. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Why would a girl do this?Yeah, that's what I'm doing right now. She was asking if I was mentally stable last night, telling me I remind her of her ex and shit. Was she comfort or shit testing me? I just used A&A and carried on. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.You heard that? The force is strong with you. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.That last paragraph is exactly my sentiments, man, and how I approach talking to women. I'm not saying I'm "alpha", but I'm not worried about where she categorises me, because I know what I'm aiming for already and if I don't get it, then I go elsewhere. The point of the post, even if it is pointless musings, was just to try to understand the hidden context of what she, and some other girls have said before. Don't ask me why. It's not even really worth pondering on, because I didn't react to wha… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.You're right, I would be hard pressed. The thing is, just prior to her saying this to me, I wasn't trying to establish rapport, I was just joking around and teasing her. Apparently she found it funny, and then said that shit to me twice. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.Well, that's the thing. When she said those things to me I did just ignore it and carried on joking around with her, but I noted it in my mind for this post. Attraction is already assumed for me. I'm not worried whether she actually finds me attractive or not, I already feel that she does, and she's really receptive to whatever I say or do. So I don't feel the need to try create more chemistry. I can just say whatever I want. I've literally passed all her shit tests. The biggest shit test was wh… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.I've made that perfectly clear to her from day one, in more than a few ways. She should have no doubts about how I feel. And I will walk away if I have to, even though it would be a shame because her body is ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.Sorry man. I've got an ego, lol and the last thing anyone here wants to be associated with is orbiting. But I've gotta consider that you guys could be right, but then you don't have all the info either and I don't want to write a fucking essay about one girl. And to be honest, when she said it to me both times, I just ignored it, and carried on joking around. But it did make me wonder why girls say that sometimes. When I think about it enough, I do see the possibility of it meaning she sees me a… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.She does show interest. Do people lack reading comprehension here? I said she didn't initially show interest because she didn't know who the fuck I was, and I randomly commented on one of her posts negging her one day. Hardly chasing. Just because someone makes the initial move, doesn't mean they're chasing. After that, she now shows indications of interest. Also, I have escalated with her. I have other shit in my life to do, I don't speak to her 24/7, I don't like all of her posts, I'm not depe… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.Fair point. I'm not an orbiter though. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Why is the chat getting dry?Unless you want to send her your dick by post, then it's not worth it for now. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:40 AM |
| 5 | Alpha with thots but beta with potential GF-material females?I get what you're saying. It is hard to find girls who are actually funny, but just enjoy it, man. Make sure to let those type of girls know your intentions though, whether subconciously or otherwise so they know where you stand. You don't wanna fall into the friend zone accidentally. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.How can that be true when I've fucked women who've said this before? Also, this girl is DTF. She's sent me nudes, paid me multiple compliments, and wants to meet. Friends don't send nudes. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Might be looking too deeply into this, but I'm curious either way.Who's orbiting who? I'm not orbiting her, lmao. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 57 | Alpha with thots but beta with potential GF-material females?Well, at least you're aware of it. That's a start. In my opinion, I'd say as long as you hold your frame and don't over invest in her, you'll be fine. Some beta shit is gonna seep through from time to time, just let it pass and go back to holding frame. It's because you feel you have more to lose with a girl who's not a hoe, and higher value. That makes sense. Higher value girls tend to vet more too. Just relax, and enjoy the convos, have fun. Keep a check on your investment in her though. Also,… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?No, it's not generally hard at all. My life is not fun anymore. Just stating a fact. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?Man, I don't watch porn anymore anyway. I lost my sex drive for ages which only contributed to my ever-growing bullshit list of psychological problems. I just feel like a caged lion atm. I feel trapped by the anxiety, and the self doubt, and my only fucking release is working out. That's it. So I'm just left feeling angry most of the time, but I have to contain it and keep my shit together as best as possible. You're right though, pussy definitely isn't everything. It was a release among many ot… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?Thank you for the comment, man. Guess I'll have to just dive back in head first. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?Yeah, I can smell it too. The problem is my balls are bluer than the Pacific Solid advice though. Appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?Yeah, no shit. I'd like to see anyone else be a normal functioning member of society after being depressed for 3 years straight and with OCD. Come join the fun, man | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?That's the problem, I can't now. I get bad anxiety and intrusive thoughts when I'm around people, even my own family. I'm working on it though. I'm fucking angry dude... depression has fucked my life up. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?I don't know, man. It usually happens with girls I'm opening on. Just weird shit like I made an opener about some girl's teeth earlier today and haven't heard back since. I know it's stupid when I'm typing it yet I send it anyway. It's not even that what I'm saying is particularly bad, I think it's the delivery and the vibe of it. I think I'm just depressed and socially retarded from isolating myself. Some other guy said here "if you don't use it, you lose it". That's pretty much how I'm feeling… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?It's obviously not for life though because being depressed and isolating myself completely eliminated everything I worked hard to internalised. I don't even know if what I'm saying is really all that bad, or if I'm just perceiving it to be worse than it is. This is what depression does - it fucks with your ability to see things rationally, and you start to see yourself through a negative lense. More than likely I'm just putting out bad vibes. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have any idea why I'm consistently saying creepy/awkward shit to girls now?Oh, good one! 🖒 | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Finding myself becoming angry with women lately, but I don't want to feel that way.Yeah, I do feel a bit complacent but not entirely out of choice. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?I don't even put 5'9" on my bio. I always ask a woman for her height first, and if she's anywhere above that, then I next them. I'm the one vetting here, not these bitches. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 7 | What was your easiest lay? online dating excludedI was 24, just got out of an LTR with a seriously BPD girl, and was just released after spending 24 hours in a police cell for questioning over something I was innocent of related to her shenanigans. The police station was a few miles away from my hometown, and I had to walk all the way back home in the rain in just a t-shirt and jeans. Couldn't have a cigarette because the rain was so heavy it had basically soaked through the jeans and destroyed my smokes. I was completely pissed. As I was gett… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 01:45 PM |
| 6 | My LTR is clearly losing attraction but we live together. How can I put some distance and kick her out?Dude, sounds like she's lost some respect for you for whatever reason, can you think of why? You gotta be honest with yourself here. You definitely need to next her for now anyway, but take some lessons with you. I'm not saying it's entirely your fault. Sometimes we do shit unconsciously. You've essentially lost frame though in this LTR, and only you can know how or why. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?Blocking them shows to some extent that you give a shit, it could also be a good way to help you move on if you need to. But moving on just happens in a click. It's a conscious choice: "I now have all the reason I need to move on - So I'm moving on". Then you just do it without thinking any more about it. When you've actually moved on and have other things going on in your life, you'll realise that you didn't even need to look back in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Sorry? Are you a woman? | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid with a VirginThey're not virgins anymore, trust me. Just don't tell OP | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 11:27 PM |
| 17 | How to get laid with a VirginBecome a Muslim. Die. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 11:24 PM |
| 4 | ONS called me to confront me about me lying about my age. How did I handle it?First of all, just tell her you're 17, dude. Sounds to me like she'll keep wanting to smash you regardless of your age. If you're in the UK, you're still legal. Also, don't take it too seriously. Just keep having fun like you already are. No biggie if she doesn't want to keep sleeping with you - just feel enriched in the knowledge that you got some 19 year old pussy at 16. Big respect 👊 | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 11:20 PM |
| 4 | ONS called me to confront me about me lying about my age. How did I handle it?He was 16, lmao. Fair fucking play to the kid. She obviously wants to bang again as well. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?Probably less intimidated by him as well; by his looks, etc etc. It's possible he's putting out some strong daddy energy too. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Dark Triad fat guy. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?They will violate those rules, they just need to be sure you will too so it becomes like a dirty little secret between you both. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Last time I fucked an 18 year old was when I was 30. I'm 32 now. But I still look about 26. I'm quite lucky in that respect. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Are dating apps just broken now?Well, if you weren't seeing more women than ever we all know you'd just invade our coasts again. Bad news though, all our women are fat now | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Just came up with an idea on how to “transcend” to the ultimate alphaThis is basically how I live my life. I have no shame about asking women to do shit for me, pick me up in their car and drive me to their place so we can fuck, and then drop me back. I am a selfish bastard. I don't think that makes me alpha though. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Are dating apps just broken now?I've seen all this shit taking place on my social media as well. Yeah, you're right, shit is getting more difficult. Soon you won't be able to make approaches without being labeled as some kind of abuser. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Are dating apps just broken now?Was in an LTR with a beautiful Polish chick that other men seemed to be intimidated by, but really she was just goofy as fuck. Better looking than most English girls on average, and she apparently wasn't considered all that beautiful in Poland. I call BS, but what do I know. Fucked a few other Polish girls. They all like to drink, are generally amazing cooks, funny, and their bodies are lit. There are a few Polish girls that when they age they start to look like a Witch from some Disney fantasy,… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Okay, bobcats it is. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?I'm white as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Possibly, but I think the more likely reality is that everyone destroys themselves including the pubs, but the pubs make enough money to cover costs. Or they forcibly enstrict people to still wear masks in pubs, and keep a distance. Hopefully not though. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?18-23 is the sweet spot for the most athletic, and hyper sex in my opinion as well, but that's not a golden rule. Just do as most of us are doing here, dude, and work on sculpting yourself until the pandemic subsides. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?How so? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Music doesn't also matter to you? I know that's not what you're saying, but I'm asking. Fitness and game to me are just as important as being a musician. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Never been to a bar, what colors should I wear. Bright? Dark?Wear a hi-vis, and say you're an interior decorator and the only colour of paint you brought is cream coloured. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?I remember when my Tinder used to do that. Good times. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?Of course, no one is ever perfect. But if the dudes we're in competition with look like GI Joes with good pics, and flaunting a rich lifestyle, then it really all comes down to that on the apps. Girls are primarily looking for that shit, whether it's all a lie or not. Probably is a lie a lot of the time. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?That's what I'm saying, man! | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Not jacked, but ripped. I'm lean more than I am bulked, but that's the nature of my life style. I'm forever doing cardio; whether that's biking to places, or playing drums. Music is just the bullshit they can ask you about because they were already attracted. I agree with that. I think it does give you an edge though because if you're particularly good at your instrument, and are well known in the music scene then girls that are also in that scene see you as having an alpha status. For girls tha… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps just broken now?I'm humble bragging all over this post. My ego is in damage control thanks to Tinder, lmao. I agree that there are probably frauds and catfish out there though. Maybe a lot of people just seeking attention, but no doubt there is a top percentage sweeping most of the good girls up. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?I might have to go cougar hunting again. Desperate times out here. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?Crazy. Imagine being top 5%. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:16 PM |
| 7 | Are dating apps just broken now?I'm not looking to redecorate my room right now, man. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?I know with tinder at least, as a guy you basically have to pay for it to make it worth it. It’s mostly just hearsay but a lot of people speculate that they intentionally make your profile less viewed over time in order to get people paying for it out of frustration. I think there's some truth to this. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?Had a nice prostitute offer me her services for free once as I was walking past her to get to a show, but even then I wouldn't take that offer, let alone pay for one. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?I do kind of agree with those sentiments. I was getting older women in my early 20s and always had a good time, but there's something about the freshness and the fitness of a girl in her 20s that I prefer. It's hard to choose. A balance would be nice. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:05 PM |
| 40 | Are dating apps just broken now?I would only ever refer to myself as Red Pilled in a red pilled forum. It's not like I walk around with a Red Pill badge on my arm like Chadolf Hitler. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?They're all closed here still (I think). | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?The "Love Island" archetype. That is strangely accurate, and I've noticed that myself. But I don't want to conform to that. I'm just hoping gigs and festivals become the norm again after this pandemic, so musicians are back on the menu. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Are dating apps just broken now?That's a shocker. He's probably giving off big dick energy. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:17 PM |
| 9 | Are dating apps just broken now?It's all about the Polish girls that live here, man. But I know what you're saying, if I went to the US, my accent alone would net me pussy. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:14 PM |
| -1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Well, I had the added benefit of being a ripped asshole who plays drums. Never dried any panties as far as I'm aware. Had to put down wet floor signs every time I played a gig. Guess it depends on the musician as well. Also, got a lot of girls who didn't care about music at all asking me all kinds of shit about music, or I'd get "So you're good with your hands, huh?". I'd definitely say being a musician helps with a lot of girls. That's just my own personal experience though. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?Lmao. They all want you to be their daddy. Even the "strong independent" types, who say "if you can't handle me on my worst day, then you don't deserve me at my best". To me that shouts = You're BPD, and yes I will be your daddy for a night. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:09 PM |
| 11 | Are dating apps just broken now?LOL, promoting the saviour complex. Society is fucked. The good news is that, even as society progressively degenerates, there's always a need for men who hold true to their principals. If anyone wants to see an eye opening example of this, just type in Google or YouTube: former feminists speak out. Hardcore feminists admitting they didn't really know what the fuck they were arguing about half the time, and that deep down they just wanted a strong man who wouldn't be pushed over to fuck them. It… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Are dating apps just broken now?I'm not saying there is a conspiracy against me. I've just become confused by the sudden change in results I get there. From having multiple matches every week, to practically nothing since the pandemic has left me asking wtf? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps just broken now?We're well aware of that, my guy. This isn't about desperation, it's more about frustration for me right now. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Are dating apps just broken now?I thought the algorithm changed to something more like your SMV being determined by the amount of high value profiles swiping right on you. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Are dating apps just broken now?Well, who are you? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Are dating apps just broken now?What I found worked for me was before the pandemic, I was out playing music a lot, meeting girls that way. But I also had the dating apps on tap in case I ever felt the need to get an Uber Fucks delivery. So there was this consistent harmonious balance between the two where I was never out of opportunities to get laid if I wanted, but then the pandemic rolled in, I had no plates because I was a bit depressed at the time and put a hold on ALL women for a while. That was a big mistake. Someone els… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Are dating apps just broken now?Didn't meant to get defensive with you, man, but I am a bit pissed and disillusioned by all of this. It's like I'm living in a different reality now. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:22 PM |
| -1 | Are dating apps just broken now?Okay, guess I should go back to thinking I'm not attractive even when I had girls throwing themselves at me. I could agree that I might not be attractive if I'd never dated girls before, or had any success prior to using these apps post-pandemic, but my own personal history says that's BS. I've been in relationships with beautiful women, women that most men are afraid of. I've fucked shallow but hot instagram models. I've fucked more varieties of hot women than I can seriously count at this poin… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:17 PM |
| 17 | Are dating apps just broken now?Also, I don't personally have anything against fat people - it's whatever. Just not my thing. But I don't like this culture of normalising being overweight, I mean what the fuck is that? Should we normalise BPD girls as well and make that acceptable? If you've gained weight due to some physical incapacity, then fair enough, but if you've gained weight due to a pandemic and your lack of self control then that's your fucking problem. No one has to like it. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 16 | Are dating apps just broken now?To be honest, man. I'm close to giving up on women right now and just going back to focusing on improvement. I'm wasting my time on these apps during the tail end of a pandemic, and I'm allowing it to affect my confidence. Maybe this is just a serious drought that I'm going through. Either way, I know what I'm capable of having, even when it comes to women. So fuck the apps for now. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 01:27 PM |
| 14 | Are dating apps just broken now?I get what you're saying but I'm not gonna lie about my height and wear man heels, lmao. I might just delete the app and say well done to the 10%. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 9 | Are dating apps just broken now?It wasn't unreliable before though. I was hooking up with attractive women pretty regularly. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 4 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?The guy stole money from you. End of story. I wouldn't give a fuck about any apologies - either pay me back and then fuck off, or save your story and then fuck off. That should be your response. The other guy who commented here is absolutely spot on, in that you shouldn't be seeking a way back to them, or for revenge or redemption. The best revenge is to become better than you were, and by affect, better than they are. To move on, and look back and have pity on them. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 12:33 PM |
| 2 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?A loss. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 11:05 AM |
| 2 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?Truth. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Yeah, I can handle face to face rejection. It's all good. I see what you mean now, I thought you were talking strictly genetics. I think I'll just lay off dating apps for now and work on what you suggested instead for a while. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.But I am good looking, dude. I have a lifetime of experiences to pull from. I was also good looking the last time I used Tinder. I've never not been able to get women up until this depression, and not much has changed about me apart from a lack of confidence. I just feel demoralised using this shit lately, so maybe face to face rejection wouldn't be so bad at this point. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 01:06 AM |
| 6 | Having a hard time accepting some parts of red pillYou're taking everything you read so far too literally. The rules can be bent once you become Red Pilled and internalise it all more. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Things about TRP that you don’t agree with?Yeah, you're right man. These bitches deserve better. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 19 | Women are jealous creatures use that to your advantageWell played. But you did this all for your female friend. Keep that in mind. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Justin Bieber has supermodel looks? I thought he was Ellen DeGeneres' daughter. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Which means looks ultimately take priority then? Because out of 10,000 people to choose from, you're not gonna talk to them all to find out which ones you like, you're just gonna find the top 10% you find attractive, maybe less. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.I do like Jerry Seinfeld, but never watched the show. They don't air it over here in the UK. Sorry I didn't catch the reference, man. But I understand the sentiment | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.You mean become disabled? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Ah shit, my bad hahaha. My Indian friends would be pissed with me for not knowing that. I'm more of a football man. Sorry dude! | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Personal trainer or no?Do it man, because even after the trainer is long gone, you would essentially become your own personal trainer for life after the experience you gain. Yeah, it'll cost you but you'll save a lot of time learning from one of the best. Proper technique, and everything else. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.I appreciate it, brother! What's the t20 series? Should I know it? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 2 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.I'm grinning from ear to ear. I thought you were just fucking around in the first part of this comment, but then quickly realised you are a genius. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Lmao, I feel like I'm becoming the "Don't settle king" equivalent right now with these apps. There are undoubtedly a sea of whales on them, but there's also girls that are really my type, and I don't mean big titted thots with lip implants, I'm talking about beautiful girls next door with a fat ass and a slim waist. That's what I've always been capable of getting on these apps before, but now... Nothing but mass, not ass. If good girls exist on Tinder, there must be a decent reason I'm no longer… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 2 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Is it possible Tinder is just harder for men now without paying? Like obviously they're trying to get every buck they can out of average chumps. I'm about 5'9", not the tallest dude in the world but I don't suffer from small man syndrome. Height has never been an issue for me. I'm white and British. Also a musician/drummer, and I'm good and well known in my city and outside of it. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 33 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?I would say FUCK those cunts. Find new friends who provide value and who don't try to bring you down. If they were bullies back then, then they're bullies now. In fact, your old friends will likely be more insufferable now if they see you're trying to improve yourself. You could also see it all as a shit test, and stand up to them and take their shit in your stride, just to see if you can. But fuck them off, ie, move on. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Oh I see. So, was the difference night and day for you after paying? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.It's almost the same thing to me, lmao. It's because before when I used apps I didn't need to pay for better access to women, because I already had access to good women. So that's why I'm so stubborn about it. But I'm not shitting on anyone who does pay | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.It's not that I don't have the money for premium, it's more that I'm stubborn. I've never had to pay for sex, and I've never had to pay to get matches on a dating app. A lot of pride involved. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Am i Beta because i need comfort before sex?Yeah, then it's psychological. You simply need to build up sexual assertiveness or confidence, if that's what you're actually aiming for. Just have more sex, man, and in time you'll start to become more comfortable with yourself and the idea of it. It should come naturally to you after a while, and then you'll begin to just take what you want which is exactly what women want from men anyway, no matter how much they may deny it in a vaccum chamber on social media. Also, avoid soy products. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Am i Beta because i need comfort before sex?Probably mainly psychological, but I have a question. Are you in shape? You mentioned your testosterone levels. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Lasting a long timeI've got a trick for that. Your dick obviously becomes desensitised from the constant ground and pound you inflict on it, which means you can last longer but at a cost. The trick is to just go down on them while you work it up. Eat that ass out. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Girls ex makes me RAGE, advice?How does he have oneitis? • He lost his shit when she showed him her exes. • He lost his shit multiple other times over nothing. • He sent her a damage control message trying to restore his frame. • He then 'waited' for her reply. • He made this post. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Girls ex makes me RAGE, advice?Wtf, man? You need to get a handle on your emotions first and foremost. Punching shit because some girl you barely know is showing you pictures of her exes? Why would you even wanna know? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts?Her hoe phase is over with. Next her, man. Don't focus so much on this girl, and spin others. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.You're right, man. I've been on the apps for a few months now, and pretty much no success has come my way. It's taken a few months to get to me, but now it finally has. It's like I climbed to the top of the mountain before, but now I'm at the bottom again. It feels like karma is biting me in the ass for some shit I must have done. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.I did try hinge but got annoyed with the limitation on swipes - I'm not paying for that shit. Also, when I checked it the next day, I saw a huge difference between the girls I swiped on day one, and the girls I swiped the day after. Day 1 - all hot. Day 2 - all not. I realised the algorithm must have worked it's magic over night, and categorised me with the unattractive girls. Conclusion? I must not be attractive anymore. So I deleted that shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I didn't realise I was so unattractive.Yeah, but I'm not even getting matched with any hot bitches, dude - maybe 1 or 2 if I'm lucky within a week. I'd appreciate a flake now and again, at least then I'd be able to put it down to a lack of game. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I know this is called 'ask' trp, but I just need somewhere to vent. If I try it anywhere else on reddit, I'll get flamed and labeled a misogynist.Yeah, I was consuming it like it was candy at one point. Took it for granted way too much. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | I know this is called 'ask' trp, but I just need somewhere to vent. If I try it anywhere else on reddit, I'll get flamed and labeled a misogynist.If you're jacking it to porn every day, if you're watching all kinds of fucked up porn. If you can take a break for weeks though, then maybe not. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I know this is called 'ask' trp, but I just need somewhere to vent. If I try it anywhere else on reddit, I'll get flamed and labeled a misogynist.Thank you, brother. As for my looks - I'm not getting "loads" of hot matches on Tinder, not many at all actually compared to before this pandemic.This is why I'm confused because I've never had problems attracting hot women before this, but now all of a sudden Tinder isn't a fan of me. It's difficult for me to explain, but I do think it is a lack of confidence playing a part as well. Before I was struck with this depression, I was quite capable of getting beautiful women (in my opinion). I have … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | I know this is called 'ask' trp, but I just need somewhere to vent. If I try it anywhere else on reddit, I'll get flamed and labeled a misogynist.Good man. I appreciate all of that, and well done on getting past OCD. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I know this is called 'ask' trp, but I just need somewhere to vent. If I try it anywhere else on reddit, I'll get flamed and labeled a misogynist.Thing is, I can't even tell anymore. Whether it's the pandemic affecting it, or I'm living in a new dimension suddenly where I'm perceived as an ugly buttface, I don't know. I did really well before this depression, I mean I got by on looks more often than not until my game eventually got better. But I don't actually know. I have no way to judge it, and I'm not gonna go and ask my mother. Also, yeah, I'm not strictly a Red Pill theologian. I know the rules can be bent, and that there are loads o… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 09:36 PM |
| 3 | I know this is called 'ask' trp, but I just need somewhere to vent. If I try it anywhere else on reddit, I'll get flamed and labeled a misogynist.Dude, I didn't mention it but OCD is basically what I've been dealing with. I know there aren't many people who get what that's like though, and I don't want to turn this into a pity fest but it's fucking hell. I'm already a meat eater anyway, so is the carnivore diet just no consumption of greens whatsoever then? I'm willing to try it. I could definitely do with cutting out sugar and some other shit that I've been eating more than I usually would. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Plate made a 20 slide PowerPoint show on why I should promote her to LTRWell, what does this girl's social media look like to you? Is she an InstaHo? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Plate made a 20 slide PowerPoint show on why I should promote her to LTRI think he does but somewhere down the line he's learned to supress that through Red Pill theory. He's afraid of losing his frame and everything he's achieved, but he won't if he sticks to the fundamental principals he's learned. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 17 | Plate made a 20 slide PowerPoint show on why I should promote her to LTRLet's see the PowerPoint show, lmao. Also, just take the risk if you like her, man. Overcome that fear of commitment or of somehow losing your frame. Take it as an opportunity to learn, but also to let your guard down a little bit and be happy. A lot of people in here would say that's bad advice, but you don't have much to lose (unless you marry the girl). You've got the knowledge to take you forward and it should help pick you back up if things go south as well. You got this, man. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Need some quick advice.Just all kinds of fucked up shit that causes me anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Need some quick advice.I don't not fap because i don't want to, it's because I get these intrusive thoughts sometimes when I do now. I'm working on that. And lifting and running is something I've just recently started up again so barely at all compared to what I used to do. I was extremely active most of my life. But I think I know where you're going with all this. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Need some quick advice.Basically never anymore. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 5 | what can I do to get laid right fucking now, at least this weekSelf improvement is a broad term, and there could be so many variables as to why those "losers" get laid that you're not taking into account. You're obviously angry, and blue balled, and jealous. Good. Feel all of that shit, and then try to understand how they get laid, and also try to understand how you could also get laid. See this anger as an opportunity to learn. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 04:34 PM |
| 8 | what can I do to get laid right fucking now, at least this weekSparing yourself the self improvement bullshit is exactly why you're not getting laid, King Jeoffrey | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Need some quick advice.I do, but I'm waiting for my first appointment. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Need some quick advice.I have spent about a year not really talking to women at all because of this. So kind of suffering from some major blue balls. But you're probably right for now. The confidence I need has to be built from within first. I'm happy to lift again, go biking and do mma but I worry I'll become too serious through that after depression, which kind of took the fun out of who I am. Although I respect people like Jocko and Goggins, I don't want to become this super serious dude who only thinks about getti… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | How to be more fun?Yeah, careful with this shit though. Don't turn it into a habit because cocaine will end up becoming your personality instead of being a buffer to it. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Need some quick advice.I'm intimidated by the mid and long term goal ideas right now. I could manage short term. But that's just indicative of the state of mind I'm currently in. I'll start off small, but this is great advice as I do tend to keep a lot of my issues and shit tucked in, and deal with it on my own. There's a lot of other things I could be channeling my frustrations and doubts into as well, which I fully intend on doing. Appreciate the comment, man. Do you have any advice on how to recultivate your sense … | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Do women have a different voice depending who they talk to, similarly to men?Why do you think a woman would actively try to sound more feminine around you? Think about it. It's like when some women start speaking in goo goo ga ga language, like they're babies. They're basically showing you they're submissive around you, and that they like you. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Need some quick advice.Right on. I'm gonna read your comment a few more times. Thanks, man. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Need some quick advice.Nobody cares. Nobody will help you I'm well aware of this part. I care though, and that's all that matters to me right now. My doubts are based around not being able to get back the personality and version of me I had worked so long for to sculpt, only for depression to seemingly take it all away. Which I also blamed myself for. I have this perfectionism within me that either helps to make me better at what I do, or makes me turn on myself when I don't feel I'm good enough. I'm aware of this, an… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I Feel Like It’s Feminine To Send SelfiesYeah, we both agree those dudes are fucked. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?Yeah, I know, I was joking around man. But I actually think his quote is more to do with being adaptable, especially when it comes to martial arts. Which is important. And now we have MMA as a result. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?George Floyd riots? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | I Feel Like It’s Feminine To Send SelfiesRight, you could make a good argument about guys doing selfies like a girl all day every day, but there's nothing inherently wrong or "gay" with a guy taking a selfie - there is a grey area with this. I'm honestly shocked at the comments in here, lmao. Must be low self esteemers. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 01:22 PM |
| 0 | I Feel Like It’s Feminine To Send SelfiesThat's the fucking problem, is that dudes with low self esteem don't tend to send selfies and use the excuse "because that's gay". There's nothing wrong with dudes sending selfies as long as they don't overdo it, and they don't duck face. That's it. Also, she was probably asking for a selfie because she didn't wanna be catfished. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else refuse to lower their standards to bang chicks they aren’t attracted to?When you start fucking girls beyond 7s, it's hard to ever go back. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Bros before hoes, or is my bro being a bitch?"My boy", father/son activities are getting wild these days. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Sex advice?Not necessarily. They'll wanna fuck you more than other dudes, yes, but if you're shit in bed, that'll turn any girl off I imagine. They may continue to fuck a high SMV guy simply for the reason that he's high SMV but I doubt they'd be enjoying it beyond that. That said, if you are perceived as higher in SMV and you are good in bed, then yeah, they will fall in love with you pretty easily. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Sex advice?Step 1. Be good in bed. Step 2. Reap the rewards. Basically your aim should be to make sure they're pleased before you are. It's as simple as that. Passion works for me, and being dominant. But that's just the way I am, not everyone is like that, so long as you're not a robot who feels nothing. Enjoy the process of pleasing them first. There's way more to it than just this, but that is the meat and potatoes of it. Have fun. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 2 | The redpill awareness is great but application of TRP strategies is making me seem like a huge try hard. How do I fix this?Try hard until it's not hard anymore. Just make sure to learn from mistakes along the way otherwise you'll be a try hard forever, and an autist. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?Yeah, but you can't really abuse any power if you're a fire fighter. They choose that job because they're actively opting to save lives. The police aren't obligated to save anyone's ass. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?Yeah, I'm pretty much the same. Often you find they open up more than just their legs as well, and actually realise that some of their political opinions aren't really justified, or that they don't really care. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?Congrats on skydiving man, that takes serious balls, but the adrenaline pay off is worth it. I'll give you some examples of how it roots back to the fear of death, as you're kind of close: Your fear of being pulled over by a cop> Fear of being beaten> Fear of death Your fear of being pulled over by a cop> Fear of being jailed> Fear of death. Being beaten could obviously lead to death, but being jailed is like death because essentially you're losing your freedom, and if it's a long sentence, then… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?I would have said, "Let my dick be the United Airlines to your World Trade Centre, girl" | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:36 AM |
| 5 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?So when Bruce Lee was telling us to be formless like water, he was actually telling us to be more like a bitch? Damn, Bruce. Why you do us like that | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:33 AM |
| 7 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?I'm sure some liberal girls entertain dark fantasies of fucking the shit out of someone who disagrees with their idealogical bullshit. That's where I come in. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:30 AM |
| 10 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?Yeah, but your fears aren't valid because you're white remember? Check your privilege, honky. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:28 AM |
| 9 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?Everything stems from a fear of death if you trace the roots. It sounds edgy as fuck, but if you overcome the fear of death then you overcome all of your fears. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 15 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?A lot of truly smart people don't actually realise or believe they are, while a lot of educated people don't realise how fucking stupid they really are. That's the way it is sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl dumped me out of the blue and here is the screenshot of the text, still trying to know whyYeah, reading that text convo gave me fond memories of Elder Scrolls Oblivion | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 11 | Tinder girl dumped me out of the blue and here is the screenshot of the text, still trying to know why4rd date This is why she dumped you. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Is this worth a soft next?I'm laughing reading it, man. This is not really worth posting over. Girl obviously has low self esteem and took what you said way too seriously in the moment. Yeah, you handled it fine. If you wanna continue to see her, just wait for her to apologise and get back to you. Don't message first or feed into her mood. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 11:04 AM |
| 6 | This is the only subreddit that can help me - need advice...I'm talking specifically about the guys living in their parent's houses in their 30s. I'm not saying there's anything inherently wrong with doing anything you enjoy and making money off of it - that's great. But these YouTubers basically never have to grow up. It's not good in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 04:30 AM |
| 27 | This is the only subreddit that can help me - need advice...He took doing nothing with his life personally. As we all should. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 04:18 AM |
| 0 | This is the only subreddit that can help me - need advice...Every YouTube gamer in a nutshell, except a lot of them make big bucks off of kids, giving them a false sense of confidence and pride. Yeah, don't be that guy. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Post-Nut Clarity Not InterestedYeah, exactly. Post-nut clarity only happens when you realise the girl you've just nutted in is not LTR material, or not as attractive as you thought she was while you were in Hulk mode. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:46 AM |
| 8 | My good friend hooked up with a girl he knew I was into. Not sure how to proceedLOL, exactly my sentiments. I remember a couple of years ago I went to the beach with some friends, they were both there to pick up girls, and I was there just because I hadn't been to the beach in fucking ages. They spot two hot blonde chicks, and to their credit, they made an approach. We all go over and eventually sit down and start talking to them. One of the dudes was too full on with this barbie doll looking girl, and you could tell she was not in to it. I was just chilling and making casu… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Can a girl become attached to a guy who’s more needy/emotional than she is?Only through Stockholm Syndrome. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many guys so completely devoid of any ambition these days? All my friends are content with living in the same small village we grew up in smoking weed everyday and achieving nothing, it’s crazy to me. Was society always like this?Someone else more or less asked it already, but I'll ask it again. Why do you care what anyone else does? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Plate says we should just be friends after a girl spent the night at my place.Drama says you're wrong. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Plate says we should just be friends after a girl spent the night at my place.You're the one that's naive, dude. She was already fucking the guy before the drama, so it's obvious she doesn't just want "friendship", she wants commitment. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Plate says we should just be friends after a girl spent the night at my place.She's the emotional type that gets attached easily There's your problem. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Yo do you boys send pics to girls?People in here saying that being proud of your own body is "gay or something", or that women are pure evil is just clearly wrong in my opinion. Women should always send nudes first, but once that's accomplished I don't think it's such a big deal to reward them with some pics of your own. Obviously sexting game is most important, and has to be on point, but in my experience, some women in fact DO get turned on by the pics you send. If they don't, then that's your problem. There obviously are some… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Already on it now. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?That's how I'm feeling. There's a stigma around the number 30 in age. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 5 | Does treating women like children include letting them think they're in control sometimes?Yeah, you play games with children, and sometimes you let them win because that's what makes it fun for both of you. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I'm in the UK. The girls are definitely fresher here in general, and the general population is not fat, but Tinder seems to find the ones that are. And I honestly don't think that I'm near a 5, man. If I'm being generous with myself, I may stretch to an 8 from a 7 on a good day. But do I think I'm a Chad? Absolutely not. So I understand totally what your point is, and hypergamy is gonna do what it does. I need to just keep playing the game and get smart again. Think the thing that bothers me the… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 12:20 AM |
| 3 | What is going on? Ghosting after ONSI imagine it would, and would probably a lot easier. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | What is going on? Ghosting after ONSI couldn't have explained it like that or any better, but this is pretty much how I normally roll. I haven't dated for a while due to depression and anxiety that messed me up for the last 2 years, but after reading this all of my knowledge and memories about how I gamed women before suddenly flooded back in like Neo in the Matrix when he says, "I know Kung Fu". So thanks for this, man. It was like a refresher course. Also, I like your approach to getting only sexual dates as a priority and filte… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Yeah, starting to realise I need to care less about those apps for now and get back to self improvement and the real world again. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Damn, dude. That is brutal. I don't have it that bad, but at times I feel like I do. This puts shit into perspective quite a lot. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I had a discussion here earlier with someone who agreed with me that age may have something to do with it as a lot of girls possibly aren't searching above the 30 age range. I really haven't changed in looks since I last used dating apps, and I've been killing it my whole life. Now whether that was a mix of charm, game, SMV and luck as well, I don't know exactly - probably. But places like Tinder evaluate that differently. Maybe it's just my face is out of season. I'm not sure, but now I'm consi… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Uber Eats deliverers aren't even wearing masks here anymore. Saying that, I need to stop eating junk again. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:32 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Ahhh yeah yeah, lmao. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I'd say I'm in good shape and a slim athletic guy. I wouldn't know what to rate my face as realistically. I've had many girls find me highly attractive over the years but then I've had one or two say I'm the weirdest looking dude they've ever seen. But honestly, the good severely outweighs the bad so I'm hopeful. If anything, I'm polarising? Don't see that as bad. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Thanks, man. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Really, a year away? I'm in the UK. Seems like things might be speeding up here. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:13 PM |
| 6 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Any where I can read up about the great blimpification? Or did you just coin it? | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Seems to make sense. The life I had a few years ago was an attractive lifestyle compared to the one I lead currently. Got some work to do, I guess. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Might have to put up better pics. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?To be honest, even if a woman is a 6, if her ass is a 10, that's all I'd need to tap that regularly. Would be slightly different if I was looking for an LTR, but I can see why a lot of women feel entitled and it's because of features like having a 10 for an ass, even if their face is a 6. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?What's some examples of bad pics? There's a high quality pic of me smiling, one shirtless one that's not over the top, a couple of me drumming and with friends. That's about it. Mainly close ups | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?That's actually a good point. That's kind of reminiscent of how I used it before, and life was a lot busier back then so the apps were just a tool, and nothing was stagnant like it's become now. Thanks dude. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I'm gonna have to check that out. Couple of people mentioning it, first I've actually heard of it today. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:39 PM |
| 4 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Yeah, some other dude informed me about this here earlier. Appreciate that, man. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?"If you're fuckin with E-Harmony", hahahaha | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 6 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Female equivalent is surely Incelina? It's not a downer, dude. The last 3 years for me has been mostly a downer anyway, so nothing really phases me at this point. It's just shocking to see wtf happened to everyone and the dating apps when I finally came back up. Things will pick up again. This pandemic is finally fucking off, but for those of us who know, the pandemic was really just monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:05 PM |
| 4 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Yeah, for girls it's like Tinder is the bus stop, and Instagram is the destination. This is a good write up, man. Appreciate that. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I've had situations where I've fucked 3 different girls off Facebook, and didn't realise they were all close friends. But that's on my dumbass for not paying attention to who the mutual friends were. Didn't really matter either way. I didn't die, no one got hurt. For Facebook though you've gotta be able to charm your way into these girl's DMs because the benefit of Facebook is that you can pick and choose good looking girls to just message (although it is slightly creepy), but you've got to imag… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?Yeah, that's how I see it in reality. You have to let the girl be free, it also shows your strength to her. You'd be surprised how many dudes get paranoid about their girls/plates doing shit without them, especially if it involves other girls and clubs. Listen, I'm not saying let yourself be cucked, but you can't monitor these girls either. Unless she starts behaving weirdly towards you after, or gives you any other reason to doubt her, then just let it go. But don't take my word for it. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Well, I'm a musician so the music scene and travelling was always good for business, but the pandemic shut music down as well basically. But that's coming back soon too thankfully. SMV is about to go up a few notches again. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I don't get along with OK cupid. They gave me a total hardware ban years ago for adding a photo of me shirtless. That was it. Every time I tried to create a new account since, whether it was by phone or with a different email address, the cunts would ban my account again within 5 minutes of creation. So gave up. Glad you mentioned Facebook as well. I used to make a killing on Facebook, haha. It's risky though because of all the connections these girls have. Word gets around after a while. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:48 PM |
| 20 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?It's almost demoralising, man. When I compare what I was actually physically getting before the pandemic to the matches I'm getting now is just a joke. It's been difficult not to think it's somehow my fault as well which is why I'm posting this here. But I wouldn't be surprised if it's just the apps degrading either. Can't really complain though, as you said, the option to approach is becoming more of a reality again. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?No, mate guarding is when you chase off the beta tribe with a makeshift spear. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Ahhh yeah, because I'm offering my face up as a seat, much like a peasant would offer his back as a foot rest. Yeah, got ya. Might have to change it to, "WILL SMASH YOUR BACK DOORS IN WITHOUT PERMISSION". | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Yeah, I don't have an instagram anyway, but trust me I know what you're talking about. I'm not orbiting any of these girls. Never gonna happen. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Yeah, I'm down with that conspiracy when all I see is them brandishing ads in my face to view all my matches. There's about 30 something matches i haven't discovered yet, and I'm guessing the reason I haven't is because they're all baluga whales. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Lmao. I did have that. Eating pussy is a sign of submission? I never saw that as coming across as submissive, but maybe you have a point, man. I'm good for Facebook. I don't fuck with instagram though. Also, I think I might have just got a bit too keen after I realised she was DTF. Not 100%, but no biggy. I feel like I've got a lot of shit to relearn anyway, so I'll just try and enjoy the process. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:17 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Oh shit, I see what you mean now. I did not think of that. What a spark of genius. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I am seeing plenty of hot girls as well, but there's a lot of chunkies. Seems to stand out a lot more. I'd feel like shit putting my age back to 29, man. Not because I'd be lying to the girls, but because I'd be lying to myself. I always assumed age wasn't as important for a man, as it is for girls because they hit their wall early. I'm a musician as well, good looking dude. So no idea what is going on. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 07:05 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I don't get that line from them, I just see "No nudes, no one night stands" and that's half my game out of the window right there already 😂 I'm a persistent bastard though. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Wasn't that bad before. I guess I need to stand out again. Time to up the game. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I see. That was my suspicion. I could easily lie and whip that age back to 25, but I'm not that kind of dude. Think I might have to just approach again. Things are clearing up now anyway pandemic-wise. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | When is a girl “TOO drunk” to smash?Any where after 3 vodka martinis. Even if you do find yourself in a position to fuck a girl in that state, 9 times 10 they're either puking or they pass out anyway. It's a waste of time, and anyone who takes advantage is a rapist. End of story. Spend more time around drunk girls and you'll get a feel for what's wrong and what's not. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?I've never actually used Hinge. Any good? | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed a girl with a sexually implicated bio on TinderAbundance mentality is still your problem. You care too much about getting a reply. Just say whatever the fuck you want like a man. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Getting deleted or blocked because I don't respond that much?Embrace it man. If you don't actually care for the minute while you're focusing on yourself, then no real harm has come. Just don't let yourself slack for when you wanna go back. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 15 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Yeah, I noticed that as well. I'd match with a few girls with their ass cheeks in full view, with "fuck me daddy" eyes, and then I'd scroll down and see "Add me on snap and IG". Instant boner killer. And nah, I'm still in good physical condition. That won't change for a while yet. I think age has something to do with it though. I also look pretty young for my age, so possibly they suspect I'm a catfish? BTW, curious how would one get fat trying to revert their age? | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 05:41 PM |
| 7 | Getting deleted or blocked because I don't respond that much?Mate, are you just humble bragging? Pretty obvious women don't like being ignored, especially when they send nudes lmao. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 47 | What the fuck happened to these shitty dating apps?Yeah, but there seems to be so many of them now, can't they all just jump into the Pacific together and migrate away from Tinder for a bit | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Is It Possible To Get Used To Getting Too Much PussyControversial but: try fucking a girl you actually like. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Does having charisma automatically win you half the battle?Nice observation, man. I'll take that, haha. Although I would like to agree, but when you're depressed, the sense of hopelessness and worthlessness you feel makes it seems like you're more of a beta or omega at the time. But I don't think that's inherently true. And they say that Sigma males are 'made'. There might be some truth to that, as I was always extroverted as a kid, but I liked doing things alone as well. It's always been that way. And I've definitely always been quieter than loud, but … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Does having charisma automatically win you half the battle?Absolutely. I don't want to fake it. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Does having charisma automatically win you half the battle?Dude, I can be introverted but if I wasn't so depressed, I believe I'd be more extroverted because as much as I do enjoy my own company (when I'm not depressed) and working on myself, I also do enjoy being around people as well, for completely different reasons - I'm actually a show off, and a musician. I've performed in front of loads of people many times. I love it, and the energy I get from making a group of people laugh as well. Both introverted and extroverted traits give me energy. I've al… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Does having charisma automatically win you half the battle?Thanks for replying, man. I'm not trying to be a copy cat, or a try hard... I'm not even "faking it till I make it". What you see is what you get at the moment, literally. I am depressed most of the time, I don't talk much because of it. You're right that I am a competitive person in general though. Before depression hit, I had game, humour, frame... luckily still have my looks, but nearly all of that vanished so quickly after. Either that, or its lying dormant until I can overcome this. I hones… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Does having charisma automatically win you half the battle?You're right. I'm not actualising who I really am in that state of mind, but you can't force your way out of it either. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Does having charisma automatically win you half the battle?I'm way out of practice. About 2 and a half years out. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Does having charisma automatically win you half the battle?Yeah, 100% agree with you. I'm actually consciously aware of all of this as well. I realise most people don't want to deal with depression, which is why I tend to handle it all alone, and hide away but that only made it worse I believe. Ironically, I don't want to become a "normal" person though. I want to retain that weirdness I've always had, but to be able to be 'charismatic' and comfortable with it again like I used to. As for sense of humour, that pretty much abandoned me after depression s… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Is self development actually working?You're not entirely wrong. I think some people just live with a positive feedback loop no matter what they do. Whether that's feedback from others, and/or the shit they tell themselves. But more than likely, the majority of successful people have gone through a lot of failure to get where they are. Whether that's social, financial, or anything else. And over time they've self-actualised it to a point where it just becomes natural for them, and they keep growing without having to try. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you regain your natural sense of humour after a mental breakdown?Yeah, sorry man. I edited my comment when I finally read the rest of the message lol. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you regain your natural sense of humour after a mental breakdown?A good comment but I don't think it's so much about people accepting me, it's more about me not being happy with myself as you said. I've been through breakdowns a couple of times in my life and seemed to bounce back stronger each time, but this has been different. I didn't mention it either, but I have avoided and isolated myself more than ever before due to this, so there's probably some social degradation too. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 01:12 PM |
| 2 | leaving a date that sucksDude, I know the more obvious option would be to exit politely as there's nothing to lose from that. But sometimes if you're really not feeling it in the moment, and want to get out quick, it's best to just say, "Look, I'm not really feeling it. I'm sorry." Then leave. No reason to be a dick, but no reason to drag yourself through mud either. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 08:53 PM |
| 13 | leaving a date that sucksThis is a chick tactic. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Lost my frame. How would you have handled this situation better?I know you said you didn't want to be with her in the heat of the moment, but you have to realise you were disrespected and hold true to your standards after the fact. It doesn't look good when you explode with rage, although maybe understandable given the situation, as you're giving away (especially to narcissists) your emotional energy. So, it would be best to walk away at this point so it doesn't keep repeating itself, and you end up in a situation where you become bitter and resentful down t… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Potential Sperg Post. I need a few of you to put your brains together, because mine can't figure it out yet.Aiight, well said. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Potential Sperg Post. I need a few of you to put your brains together, because mine can't figure it out yet.The blonde almost immediately told the plate that I was hitting on her, and at the time the plate acted as though it was some great betrayal. Although, usually that is not something I'd ever do - hit on a girlfriend's friend, this plate was not my girlfriend. However, it didn't break her. We still fucked now and again, I just ended seeing her after she became too clingy and crazy. Don't talk to the blonde chick either, but obviously the situation is still on my mind. I'm more bitter about the fa… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Potential Sperg Post. I need a few of you to put your brains together, because mine can't figure it out yet.I don't know wtf it is, man. An attempt, lol. Yeah, but this plate of mine ended up being a bit crazy herself. Started saying shit like, "Blondie likes you, why don't I call her up now and set up a date between you both?". Just fucking nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Other than lifting and reading, what are some other hobbies for people with a lot of free time?+1 for woodworking. I've already got drumming down for 13 years. Reading, writing, cooking, martial arts, art and drawing, hiking, exercising, sports... I'd even consider fucking as something productive, as well as re-productive, but woodworking is something I really wanna master. Would love to build a fucking log cabin in the middle of no where one day. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?I see where you're coming from, but I still disagree. I already know I am the prize, but if I spent my entire life waiting for every woman who took my eye to come to me, it wouldn't be very enjoyable. I mean I'd have my music, friends, gigs, and whatever else to fill my days, but I enjoy the thrill of hunting women who are more challenging IMO. That's just the way it is. I understand the tenets of the Red Pill, and I understand what you're saying but no woman is good enough to me that I'd lower … | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?It's not "in the hopes that she validates me", I don't give a fuck about being validated by women. I don't know what you're missing from anything I've said, but I enjoy women who shit test more, over women who automatically serve themselves on a plate for you. I like a challenge. What part of you doesn't understand that? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?What makes you assume that I don't? I'm a recording drummer and have been for 13 years. I workout, I read a lot, I have a social life. Just because I enjoy the hunt of women, doesn't mean that I don't have a productive life. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Past bullying experiences still traumatise me todayLearning to control them is one thing, overcoming them with action is another entirely. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Past bullying experiences still traumatise me todayI went through this when I was your age or a bit younger too. I spent a good 3-4 years hiding away, dodging anyone I thought looked suspicious on the streets, groups of kids/thugs... I was petrified of them. It's not that I couldn't fight or stand up for myself, but it was that I allowed myself to be dominated by fear which is your problem too. The only way I got past this was by facing my fears to teach and show my brain that I COULD fight back if needed, I COULD stand up for myself. If you can… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why does every girl I have sex with ask me to nut in them? 19 year old black male.I mean generally women want you to nut in them anyway just the same as we want them to nut for us. But the consequences are different obviously. So, yeah you gotta be careful with these hoes. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Why does every girl I have sex with ask me to nut in them? 19 year old black male.I just gave you the reason, bro. These chicks white? If so, they more than likely want a black baby because it's fashionable. Black is en vogue right now. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Why does every girl I have sex with ask me to nut in them? 19 year old black male.Because Black Lives Matter. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?I like earning that pedestal position on the shit test battleground, but the minute women start clinging, needing to know what I do every second I fucking hate it. That's why I say there's a fine line between being pedestalled by a woman, and codependency. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?I agree, but it's a bit more complicated than that. Women putting you on a pedestal is more preferable than a man putting a woman on a pedestal, in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?Eh? I don't think self esteem has anything to do with it. I like my girls to shit test me, not worship me automatically. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 20 | How to date an 18 year old?Nearly met this 18 year old chick's dad a couple of years ago when he randomly decided to come back to the house on a lunch break from work while I was literally railing his daughter in the kitchen. I had to Usain Bolt it through the garden and high jump the fence with my trousers round my ankles. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?I think OP is talking about codependency though, where the girl just throws herself at you, flatters you, bombards you without you ever really having to try - which I guess is the point of the Red Pill (You are the prize), but where's the fun in that? | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?I like overcoming that challenge to then be put on a pedestal by that girl. You feel like a god after. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?I understand what you're saying, and I've experienced this as well. It's GOOD to have a girl put you on a pedestal, once you've passed numerous shit tests, and she's hot... If she's not that hot, or challenging though then yeah, you're gonna get bored. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Does Anyone Else Find It a Turnoff When Women Put You on a Pedestal?Nah, I embrace it. My ego loves it. Especially if the girl is cute, and high value herself then it feels earned. There's a fine line though between someone putting you on a pedestal, and codependency/clinginess, and I think that's what needs differentiating here. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 2 | How do I push through this cringy learning curveOr when you have a brief moment of introspection while there's a cute 9/10 with her head between your legs, instead of a bowl of cereal, and a greasy ass PS4 controller. You put it nicely though, dude. I had many moments like you described, and it always came out of no where. Like OP, you could be balls deep out in the trenches, learning the game, getting past all the awkward shit for months feeling like nothing has changed, but then suddenly out of the blue, your presence of mind is interrupted… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Am I high value yet for a teenagerIf you have to ask the question, then you're not quite there yet. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:47 AM |
| 1 | A girl said she thought I looked like a creepy freak tonightBrutal. Well, if there shouldn't be a concept of self esteem, what would you like to coin this, Sir Wombat? I kept my poker face well at the time, I can say, but I'm seething now obviously. Annoyingly, I got the hint from her earlier on in the chat, but I did press a few buttons just to see what she'd tell me, because it's been a long time since I've chatted with any girls, and I wanted the perception, or someone to be honest with me, but your point about contempt and false indignation makes me … | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | A girl said she thought I looked like a creepy freak tonightDucking autocorrect, am I right? Btw, weed was just one of the drugs that night, on top of speed, coke, alcohol and mdma. Not proud. It set me back a year. Don't do drugs. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | A girl said she thought I looked like a creepy freak tonightBazed? Lmao, I'm not a hobo but I get your point. This girl knows fuck all about my life, other than the times we've met. Both times were at a gig I was playing at, and she showed loads of interest, but she was taken at the time, and so was I. So this feels like a big 180. It's not so much about what she said, it's why she said it. This issue is that you're letting shit trigger your ego and make your rationalization hamster run in circles. You are right, man. I'm aware of that. My self esteem ha… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I talk alot with people one on one but suck at making convo in groups.What other books would you recommend? I'm gonna give the Charisma Myth a try, definitely. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | I talk alot with people one on one but suck at making convo in groups.I'm more the opposite. Not sure why. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Plate has started Mirroring me.Was this written in Microsoft Notepad? | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 08:46 AM |
| 5 | I lied to many girls, and on this one got her to fall in love with me and now its absolutely killing me inside.I can never have anything real with her again You didn't have anything real to begin with. Why do you feel the need to lie? Nothing meaningful comes from lying, even to yourself. But I'm sure you realise that now. This is just a lesson, man. Don't kill yourself when you could just work on redeeming yourself by being more honest. Shouldn't have to lie to get pussy, and generally, if you're lying all the time, then you have insecurities that seriously need to be dealt with, and how do you do that?… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach situation with old oneitis.If that's the case, then bat away! Just don't cling, and try not to create problems for yourself during the semester. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach situation with old oneitis.It depends what you want out of having her in your life. Think about it long term, will she benefit you in any way? | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Entering LTR with an alpha widow when ur just 16Alpha Widow sounds like a spider you wouldn't want to fuck with. You can take that literally or metaphorically. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 03:11 PM |
| 8 | Friends see me as a clown and I’m the butt of each joke.Don't get a girlfriend and stop hanging out with people for a month, because then you'll be like every other beta male who ditches their friends at the first sign of pussy. Stop thinking about it so much, and begin to focus on yourself and what you'd like to achieve. You can't be high SMV if no one respects you, and certainly not if you stop respecting yourself. Work on your self esteem, your goals, better yourself and try to objectively get to the route cause of why you feel they've lost respec… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Friends see me as a clown and I’m the butt of each joke.incorrect things | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 11:31 AM |
| 6 | The chick I’m rooming with just asked me “how was your day?”...what’s the best way to answer this in a way to keep her chasing?It's less about what you say, and more about how you're saying it. Some people go for the aloof, disinterested approach, others may be more upbeat and enthusiastic. Whatever works for you, as long as you're not overthinking it, and not outcome dependent. I personally would say something funny, or unexpected, or flirty. Whatever the situation calls for. I'm not the best at giving this advice, I'll admit, but the main thing is to chill out, have fun with it, and don't worry about what she thinks. … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 11:26 AM |
| 27 | The chick I’m rooming with just asked me “how was your day?”...what’s the best way to answer this in a way to keep her chasing?Don't respond. Take one of her possessions, and start running. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 11:16 AM |
| 4 | How do I approach situation with old oneitis.Only time you should revisit the past is in a therapist's office. Edit: © | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Is thanking my bus driver beta?Yeah, because all bus drivers are alpha as fuck, right? | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 11:10 AM |
| 5 | What to say when a girl asks if "she's the special one"?Say she's second only to Rain Man | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 01:32 PM |
| 4 | I have a good one for you boysYou lost that race. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 12:54 PM |
| 4 | Witty replies to "wyd"How is that witty? Lmao. It's unexpected. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 07:35 AM |
| 21 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?Savage. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?They were big dick people | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:48 AM |
| 0 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?Arise, Small Dick People! ... a bit higher | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:48 AM |
| 1 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?Small dick people, how do you respond? Small dick people: | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:44 AM |
| -6 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?Keenan & Kel got this | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you compete with a phone for attention?Okay, fair enough. I feel a little bit passionate about this subject because I guess I have a tendency to look inward sometimes. I've never considered myself to be boring, and boring can be subjective more than not anyway, but there have been times where I've been around people and they go straight to their phones - not all the time, but the few times it's happened I've found myself getting irritated, not outwardly though. And I start to wonder: is it me? It's horrible though, because ordinarily… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 03:53 PM |
| 7 | How do you compete with a phone for attention?Not sure if I agree with this totally. I think people who have a tendency to bury their heads in their phones are boring, whether it's around other people or not. Of course, I could construe it as I have nothing interesting to talk about, or maybe I have a monotonous voice, and I just can't keep their attention... but why does it only work one way? So you mean to suggest that if you can't keep their attention, that you'd need to put more time and effort into becoming more interesting for the sak… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | How do you compete with a phone for attention?But what if they're on their phones because they're boring? Or anxious? Could be any number of things. Not saying you aren't right, but there's got to be more to it. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I'm losing my personality, sense of humour, and ability to flirt.As stupidly obvious as that is, it means a lot to have someone say it to me. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried approaching much lower SMV chicks? Has this helped your approach anxiety?What if approach anxiety is actually social anxiety instead? | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Feel like I'm losing my personality, sense of humour, and ability to flirt.Not reading excuses, but making them, yeah. You have a point. I kind of gave up on myself at some point when I lost my sex drive. That was after giving nofap a try for 2 months (max). I flatlined, and doesn't feel like I ever recovered, and I just allowed the self doubt to consume me and make me resentful. You're right though: Anxiety = Take action Lack of motivation = Discipline I should know this shit. Thanks man for your comment. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Got cheated on by LTR, to next or to plate?You knew the answer before you even posted here. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Don’t like going outside how do I improve?Yeah, unfortunately more than enough. And I wasn't bombing the stuff either, I was snorting it and mixing it with MDMA and cocaine sometimes, as well as alcohol and marijuana some nights. A whole cocktail of all of this shit. High quantities, on a regular basis. You're right though, if you're to do any... in small doses wouldn't be so bad, but I still wouldn't recommend touching any of that shit now regardless because once the gateways are open... | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Girl ghosts me on tinder then adds me on facebook?You have to fuck crazy a few times to realise that though. The sex is usually lit, and that's the only real redeeming thing about doing it. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Nofap kind of fucked me up.Can you elaborate on why you think that? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 07:20 PM |
| 3 | If you could cut out one of food addiction, porn addiction, or video game addiction, which would you cut?Fuck yeah dude. It's a crutch, like any other drug. A lot of people don't realise it. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Nofap kind of fucked me up.I'm gonna have to force myself to, aren't I? I have no real motivation to do it other than the anxiety this shit has given me. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What can women provide that men can't?Vaginas. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | She wants me to help her move onThe only way you're gonna help her move on is if you move on too. Simples. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl ghosts me on tinder then adds me on facebook?Depends. Do you think fucking "crazy" is worth it? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Bothered by something this plate I'm attached to said. How would you feel?She wanted an emotional reaction from you and has probably wanted it for some time, maybe to satisfy her own ego, or to genuinely see how you'd feel about that, but clearly she should just be a plate if she's fucking off to Bali with random greasy dudes. Sadly, you're gonna need to detach and reframe. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Telling a girl she’s boring over textThis is the answer here. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 06:04 PM |
| 3 | How to get over my exes?Them? One guy mentioned abundance mentality and he is right, but to achieve that, you need to be talking to as many girls as possible, to begin with... The key here is in the word mentality. It doesn't matter if you don't have a million girls chasing after you, it's more about achieving a state of mind in which you confidently feel like no matter what losses you take, there's always other options out there for you. This will breed confidence in you. To get to that stage though, will take some ti… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Meeting crazy ex in public?One question. Why though? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Don’t like going outside how do I improve?Yeah, OP, I don't recommend this, lmao. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Huge introvert and not sure how to improve sociallyKeeping it simple for now: the best way to improve socially with women, is to improve socially with everyone. Just go and talk to as many people as you can, no matter how awkward it gets. Fight through the anxiety and self doubt and rejection, perceived or otherwise. If this is really something you want to overcome, and need to, then you will. Mind over matter. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 05:50 PM |
| 3 | How do you discipline yourself?Discipline is essentially doing something for your benefit, whether you want to or not. That's how motivation is more easily forged. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 05:47 PM |
| 11 | Met girl in court. Used 2nd language. Fuck 1.5hrs later. Plate.You're proud of pulling a single mother you met in court, and fucking her in a rundown hovel? Not hating. A fuck is a fuck, but if this is something you're proud of, it says a lot about your 'success'. Bragging and taking the time to sculpt a highly literate, structured and thorough post about this scenario tells me you are immature and have way too much spare time. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Met girl in court. Used 2nd language. Fuck 1.5hrs later. Plate.It took him literally no time at all, because it's BS. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 07:40 PM |
| 5 | What manner of shit test is this? Suggested responses welcome.Isn't it obvious? Mate, she is putting herself on a plate for you. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Older woman tinder [screenshot]She's 29. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | She wants a break(abundance made it easier to let go)Mate, you are dramatic and weird. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 03:53 AM |
| -5 | Why the fuck are literal 8/9 males in ltrs with overweight 3s?Sounds like oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.You'll spend a month or so coming down from the MDMA, take your thoughts in the mean time with a grain of salt. Try not to fall into a pit of doing drugs to recover your now desensitized endorphin receptors. Right you are, boss. I feel like maybe I was on a come down for about a day after, and I'm aware it's still in my system but I actually feel a little better today. I don't intend to create an MDMA habit, or any kind of drug habit for that matter as I'm fully aware of the cost for a small pie… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.Thanks for the advice, dude... although I need to mention that my school existed about 15 years ago, and I'm now 30 :P I'm sure they had a great mental health branch at the time though! I welcome any and all advice though. I won't outright discredit anything, because I'm not feeling sage enough to give myself any advice right now. I just take what I feel resonates with me the most here, and filter out anything else. For example: your post resonates a lot with me because I feel the same way as yo… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.So, what is it then... She wants me to validate her entire message? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What are some gems to remember when life is feeling overwhelming and your brain starts to enter "poor me" territory?You've probably heard this a few times, and I definitely have too....Stop beating yourself up | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How to make her cum?Vague? Do you need a physical instruction manual? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How to make her cum?(it's literally a tiny dick btw so your gay) I laughed. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:59 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill left me somewhat lonely. How to change it?He doesn't know what he's talking about. You'll be okay, man. You're young and you're crafting yourself into somebody who's worth a shit. It's good to feel like you're part of something sometimes, but do you want to lead or follow? Cliques are BS. The sad truth is that real growth, and self improvement is usually time spent alone with yourself. As for feeling lonely in the World, think about some things you love to do, or would love to do, and try to meet people through that. Also try and spin s… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Did I apply “dread” correctly?Not exactly. If you want a plate to keep spinning and she starts to wobble, you have to either let it topple and smash, or spin a bit harder essentially through some form of dread, depending on the scenario. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Would love advice on how to respondI noticed that as well but decided to go with amused mastery. Good man. Great choice, and that was your first choice. Trust your gut. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.I actually haven't replied. Haven't felt the need. I like the girl but what is there to really say to that? I feel a bit numb anyway. But yeah, I noticed that as well, haha. She didn't need to justify herself, so obviously she feels something. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Would love advice on how to respondHe said they'd been fucking around for nearly 2 weeks. I presumed that meant they've fucked, but now she's had a change of mind. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:54 PM |
| 5 | Would love advice on how to respondI just don't think it's in his best interest. Amused mastery and then hard or soft dread (his choice) I think would be better. Ultimately it doesn't matter, as he's only trying to spin a plate anyway. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Would love advice on how to respondGo with this OP. Don't look back. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:24 PM |
| 21 | Would love advice on how to respondTo me, this reply just looks like butthurt. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.I didn't use any drugs or alcohol to get the girl initially. I'm not actually a major drinker or drug user anyway. It just sort of happened naturally when she started coming here. I live in a house with other band mates, one of which who is basically like Russell Brand, and there are constantly people here and parties going on because of him. I'm the drummer in that band. Speaking of which, I recognise my own strengths sometimes but I feel quite insecure around him because he is so high function… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:18 PM |
| 0 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.She couldn't fuck me up if she tried. She is a nice girl, and I'm aware she might even have some feelings for me, even if it is just concern. I just don't know how she recognised any of this in me. I never let on. I thought... | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.I do own the PDF, but haven't gotten round to it yet. I will right now, but my issues seem quite deeply embedded, I'm not sure how much I can get out of this book. I know the game of Red Pill reasonably well, I just lack the self esteem and confidence to pull it off at all times. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Is there a purpose nowadays?The answer to this is obviously to bring back the samurai, and have ourselves another warring states period - only with weabos | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Your Comfort Zone & OneitisHow did she take it? How are you doing since? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/18 10:50 AM |
| 0 | I'm starting to lose it I'm afraidI'm guessing your dad was a major stonewall-dick? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Simply put: How to stop being a bitch?Whether that was true, or not. How does that help me, or anyone else? At least be productive if you're gonna waste your time on Reddit, dweeb. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Simply put: How to stop being a bitch?You can always check my post history... lmao. I love MMA dude - have always been into martial arts, or even just the simple science and philosophies behind fighting. I haven't always lifted, but I'm quite lucky in that I'm already in decent shape all things considered. I don't really see myself as a macho kind of dude, as there's a sensitive side to me as a musician as well which I appreciate having, but I definitely enjoy knowing I could handle myself in a fight. I suppose if I was to elaborate… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How to max out the testosteroneONS? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dealing with a coworker that tries really hard to be AlphaSaid the Low IQ. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dealing with a coworker that tries really hard to be AlphaThere* | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.You seem overbearingly interested in what my testes produce. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.And you're a dumbass troll. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.Explain your analysis at least, genius. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.Okay, I won't rule that out. Thanks anyway. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.There's absolutely nothing wrong with my sex drive whatsoever. It's never faltered once throughout my entire life. I have a beard, I have good facial structure and body shape, I'm muscular, women say they love the manly husk that exudes from my being. I have absolutely nothing wrong with my testosterone. The one thing I have noticed in relation to what you're talking about is when I've jacked off a little too much - then I feel low, uninspired, needy, ashamed, etc etc. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:11 PM |
| 0 | On the verge of just ending it.So if I have a shit tonne of testosterone coursing through my body, I won't think like a bitch sometimes? I find that hard to believe. There's loads of evidence to the contrary as well - Big, strong men, who you can only assume are filled to the brim with testosterone, crying like massive man babies - sensitive, etc etc. Explain that. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.Would you recommend staying away from plates in the meantime, as well? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:04 PM |
| 0 | On the verge of just ending it.Testosterone is not the answer to everything. I'm pretty sure my testosterone is fine. I'm not a fucking pushover, I literally caught oneitis and allowed it to fuck my head up. I accept I didn't take action when it was needed. This isn't about how much testosterone I have, it's about how I think which is the cause, to the effect: emotional instability. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.Go and puke then, retard. I have a job, I already lift. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | On the verge of just ending it.I feel pathetic at the moment. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 11:59 AM |
| 2 | On the verge of just ending it.That's possible. What are the best ways to increase it? And I wouldn't necessarily say I have low testosterone but my rationale and thinking are both fucked lately. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 11:58 AM |
| -2 | On the verge of just ending it.That bad? 😧 | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How to Monk ModeYou say "easy to find" but I need to be sure of those posts. I'd be grateful if you could provide links? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | LTR ended after 2 years. Need honest advice.So, with Monk Mode, is that cutting out all women for a year as well? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR ended after 2 years. Need honest advice.I appreciate this response, mate. I feel very alone at the moment as well, but as the saying goes: Hard times create strong men. I'm holding on to that idea. In terms of lifting, I understand how it is beneficial but the problem is, I don't think I could afford the gym right now - realistically, I'd like to lift if I move out of here first. But for now, is even working out at home good enough? I'll put as much effort as physically possible if that has the same affect. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | LTR ended after 2 years. Need honest advice.I don't gap much anyway, but that does sound delicious. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR ended after 2 years. Need honest advice.I'm here because I want to take it seriously. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Is this final message Red Pilled enough? (Already sent, will hard next LTR of 2 years)Is it really that bad? Fuck... I thought I was more self aware than that. I haven't really been thinking rationally lately | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Is this final message Red Pilled enough? (Already sent, will hard next LTR of 2 years)It's already been sent faceplant | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Is this final message Red Pilled enough? (Already sent, will hard next LTR of 2 years)So, what should I have done? That's what I'm here for. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Is this final message Red Pilled enough? (Already sent, will hard next LTR of 2 years)Next time? The whole point of the novel was so that I could basically let go of whatever bullshit I was feeling and be done. But you're right, I know women aren't interested in a man's feelings. I should have acted accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:08 AM |
| 2 | How to pass the "you're a nice boy, but I like men" shit test?Well, either grow up or go for something younger for god's sake. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 01:06 AM |
| 5 | How to pass the "you're a nice boy, but I like men" shit test?Smh | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed the brightness of your clothes?Think 'peacock'. This is how it works. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.He's talking about having the ability to be vulnerable, dude. Not vulnerable as in, cry and bitch about how you feel - but vulnerable as in, allowing yourself to express any fucking emotion with fear of consequence. A man who's ashamed of crying, is less than a man, in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.They're defeated when you soften them up emotionally. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.You'd look like more of a pussy if you ever hit a woman. At most, restrain that hoe, but don't ever hit. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.Because he wasn't doing it from a place of insecurity, or for validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 07:58 PM |
| 11 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.Am I wrong in thinking it's because you made her feel like a slut? After all, she is your LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.Then you're having fun. Amused mastery. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.Just curious. What insecurities does she think you're harbouring? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Break up with LTRI suggested he do it face to face as well, but telling him to do that just to ruin her holiday is a tad much. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Break up with LTRThey do if their relationship is long over :) | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Break up with LTRWay to the feed the paranoia there, Sigmund. What you're suggesting to him is emotional manipulation. I know both men and women do it all the time, but you're asking him to consciously fuck with her head when there is no real reason to do that. That's not how men behave, that's how bitches behave. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Break up with LTRShe didn't ditch him. According to him, he was invited but decided not to go. His loss. Also, 100% cheat? Lol, I can see you'd be amazing relationship material... | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Break up with LTRMy source is nearly any feminist born pre-2000s. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Break up with LTRI know the Scotsman fallacy.... my bad. What I mean by 'true feminists' are the ones who hold no malice towards men, but are for equality of opportunity rather than equality of outcome. I have a couple of feminist friends who are lovely people and who aren't really preachy, and shock, horror... don't hate men! | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 09:16 AM |
| 0 | Break up with LTRLol, I'm not saying you're wrong... but there's quite a difference between what feminism actually is, and what most mistake it to be today - millenial feminism. Which really isn't feminism, so much as it is misandry. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 09:11 AM |
| -7 | Break up with LTRTrue feminists respect men. That's the difference. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 01:11 PM |
| 18 | Break up with LTRFuck off, cunt. There's being redpilled, and then there's this. You're all advocating that he should just quit and pussy out on her while her back is turned. Why, because he's a male? This isn't incels. By the sound of it, he isn't pulling his shit together and she's tired/bored of it. Women are almost always willing to put out for a man who deserves it. If he was a man though, he would have left her face to face a long time ago. If anyone is the beta here, it's OP. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Break up with LTRHe stated he doesn't feel like going. So sounds like he had a choice to me. Maybe he doesn't have the money, and she's going regardless because she needs to get the fuck away from all the work, the monotony of their country as well, and maybe even him. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 12:44 PM |
| 5 | Break up with LTRSounds like you're doing all of this because you're positive she is going to cheat, when really you have no idea. Maybe it's you who's boring and manipulative? Maybe you're the reason you don't have sex anymore. Ever think of that? Why is she going on holiday and not you? Why don't you have the balls to leave her, what's making you feel so guilty? Just because she is a woman, does not mean she isn't a person too. If you want to leave her, then man up and tell her. Don't be a fucking pussy after … | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 12:38 PM |
| -12 | Break up with LTRNothing wrong with a true feminist. You're referring to the nutcases that have hijacked it today, and modified it's meaning. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Performed A Small Social ExperimentIf you don't do it, someone else will! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:26 PM |
| 6 | I've met a celebrity - personal adviceNot sure if you're overly prepared or just have major trust issues. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:10 PM |
| 7 | I've met a celebrity - personal adviceYeah, I'm just as dumbfounded | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Well, I'm the furthest thing from rich - in fact, she makes more money than me and is easily 3 times as beautiful compared to most of the indigenous women here. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Surely not all? The one I'm seeing is very hard working. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Coincidentally, that does sound like a very Croatian thing to do... in my experience. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Do you think there's a difference between China and Hong Kong when it comes to their women? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Shitty men? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?What happened?... | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 13 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Polish women, slavic women in general. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:21 AM |
| 7 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Can vouch, although not Warsaw but Lublin is my current piece. Polish women in general are very strong, beautiful and outgoing, yet feminine... a side you have to earn. Worth it though. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?Calm down. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?Don't be a shitty person. Just ignore her from now on. No good is gonna come of this. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?If a man was confident in his ability to defend himself, he'd already know how to de-escelate a situation like this. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?We'll have to wait and see :D | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?If he did, he wouldn't be posting here. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?But Joe Rogan is a manlet. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?You knew she had a boyfriend prior to flirting with her, right? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:49 PM |
| 28 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?Please report back to us on the outcome of this meeting. We're all looking forward to it. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?Another thing OP. Don't speak to him in your room. Do it outside. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 18 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?Don't just take a beating. Admit you were wrong to try and poach his girlfriend. Own up to it like a man, and say it won't happen again (i. e. get rid of your oneitis and develop no scarcity). If he lays a finger on you, you FIGHT back. Either way, make sure you follow through on what you do and say. It's one thing to lie and let others down, it's far worse however to do that to yourself. This is how self esteem is made or broken. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:36 PM |
| 4 | wife is overwhelmingly attracted to another man and is in my face about itThis is real good advice, but it looks like he's made his mind up now. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Why do some days I feel super confident other days socially anxious?I have this problem sometimes too, but I'm not sure if it is Bipolar as the anxiety is very much caused by outside factors, I've noticed. I don't just wake up feeling shit but I'll have a week where I'll feel like a hero, and then the tiniest thing can happen, and I'm down for another week or maybe longer. Being low seems more prevalent than the highs. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Met a post-wall woman divorcing her husband she “loves”. Blew my mind validating Red PillBut I'm talking about, ordinary, young, decent, hardworking women. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/18 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Met a post-wall woman divorcing her husband she “loves”. Blew my mind validating Red PillI understand that, but I actually meant, what kind of a man would sleep around with other women, and gold dig; leech off of them, basically? I know there are men like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Met a post-wall woman divorcing her husband she “loves”. Blew my mind validating Red PillWhat is the male version of this description? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 10:37 PM |
| 2 | I experimented with a fat girl, and I regret it a lot. This whole thing was a huge slap in the face. I am truly lost.Haha, what a story, Mark! | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Why is every openly bi chick a bit weird ?She forgot she wasn't on Tinder for a second | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Have I just been shit-tested?I was talking to my mate about cumming on girls faces for some reason You talk like a boy. No offense. You're reacting too much to what she says, and thinks as well. You need to get over the idea that what you say matters. Don't be embarrassed to speak honestly, or to amuse yourself. Do it at her expense, even. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Getting a better social life? (23M)What if you want to do as OP does but don't feel that you're good enough, am boring, and lack the self esteem to do so? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Does Game or Strategy Change Depending on a Woman's Age?27? How about 27 and a half? :P | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Do attractive girls makes bad girlfriends?That is an excellent response, from the most badass, communist, western 50 year old I've ever spoken to. Much appreciated. I, myself, am 29 (although I do still look and feel like I'm 21), and I've had a quite an introspective life leading up to this point. I'm not afraid to admit that even after realising so much about myself, and the World and life in general, everything still scares the shit out of me - some things more than others, so perhaps I haven't truly realised the points you made abov… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | The 13 Dont's of GamingWhat if having a BPD mother does affect you, as a male, are there ways to manage this? I'm saying is all hope lost for a BPD male? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 06:27 AM |
| 11 | Do attractive girls makes bad girlfriends?I believe this... Most 50 year old dudes I've ever known were either unhappily married, mellow business owners, or had given up, but there were a couple who seemed as though they'd mastered their lives. I just want to ask you, at which point (or age) roughly do you remember realising you weren't scared of the World anymore? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Lol, she's been working and living here for over 6 years. A bit too late for that now. I say she's earned that at least. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Go back? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.When I addressed her with almost exactly what you just said, her response was: Stop being a child. It's time to ghost. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Are there any other books you would recommend? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.I think you are right. Doesn't change that I feel guilty for having done that, but the overriding point is that regardless of that, she lied to my face when confronted about it, and then deflected it on me. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 10:06 AM |
| 5 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Tell us how Dave's dick tastes. Probably full of soy. We'll never know. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Don't edit them out, as harsh as it was, I need to remind myself of the mistakes I've made here. Someone else said something here that resonated with me as well, and that was: Hard Next. She was trying to branch swing. She was looking for a way out of the relationship and you gave her an easy out by telling her that you snooped her phone. You dodged a train wreck. It's true. She wasn't sorry. She even lied to my face, I called her out on it, and I also called that 60 year old out on his bullshit… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Well said. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.She was the one keeping me around. That's mostly what this whole break up has been about, why she's looking at another dude.... because I wasn't there emotionally or even physically while she was hamstering. Guilt got the better of me and I reacted. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Her being gorgeous is a fact though. What's that got to do with age? Does every girl you choose to fuck have to be barely legal? That said, sidebar is gonna get it. Don't worry. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.I didn't really have a reason to look in there initially though. I suspected her of nothing at the time. I just happened to see a notification and curiosity got the better of me. And good point on the confrontation. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.You've pretty much confirmed for me what I felt I already knew deep down. Does seem convenient. I was wrong to go through her tablet, let alone tell her about it though. But she did try to negate the original point with that. You're right dude. I will add though, that this man is pushing 60 and married, and although I do see what he's doing as white knighting, I don't believe she'd go for him. This other dude, however... perhaps. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Lol... I see I've written this like more of a long-ass diary entry than a question. Yeah, the question is what the fuck do I do about this? Should I be walking away, or fighting? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Discovered my girlfriend fancies another dude.Because she isn't two years in the opposite direction? Dude, she is ridiculously gorgeous. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 02:47 AM |
| 10 | How do I even reply to this?You could surprise her by not having sex with her. She'd want sex with you then. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Finally got myself to breaking the iceWhen you break the ice, make it a clean hit, but with a big fucking hammer. Metaphorically. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Girl accidently sends a voicemail into a group chat, says what most women are too afraid to admitI get the point of your post but A. Not all women are that slutty. And B. Who'd want to fuck someone like that anyway? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 05:07 AM |
| 7 | Guys who actually raised their "SMV" and went through the whole self-improvement process, how did it impact your life outside of just women alone?Is this what you tell your women too? | /r/askTRP | 23/11/17 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Be sure to make best friends with Chad Thundercock. It's eye-opening.Found the Incel. Your friend sounds awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.The front is that everyone here is acting alpha. You expect me to believe everyone here is an alpha, asshole? Even if that's the case, a little courteousy goes a long way. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.I didn't say anyone was wrong, I was questioning your attitudes. You've proven my point, again. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.Just to summarise: her ex was far from being alpha himself. The only possible thing I could attribute to him being alpha, was that he was so numb to her, cheated on her, that she didn't feel worthy but the fact of the matter was... He did that because he was weak; he was, and still is dependent on alcohol, is lacking direction in life, and is avoiding any vulnerability. He doesn't lift, he's 5'6", a bit chubby now. For whatever reason she saw something in him, and tried to help him, and he used … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 09:22 AM |
| 6 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.Here's another question for you: why is everyone in here such aggressive cunts? Is it the fact that you're all pretending to be alpha? You think talking down to people is alpha? It's not. Most of you are weak. That's why you're here. Drop the front. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.Not really a proven statistic, is it? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.Based on my history, is any woman? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.It was obviously only supposed to be a hookup for both of us. Me and her knew that, and we even joked about it, but it turned out she knew a lot of the same people as I did, and we started hanging out at those places which made the bond tighter and that's where it shifted. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:28 PM |
| -1 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.I believe she was regularly pissed off with me because a lot of the things I'd say I would do, I rarely followed through on. Sometimes I would just ignore her, and I even admit, take advantage of her sometimes. I'm not blaming myself wholly, but I am admitting I'm not perfect either. My behaviour wasn't perfect at all. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.She knows I have other options, I do lift and I've always been in shape, I'm also a musician, and if I say so, not a talentless one either. I do okay, man. I have no issues getting women, it's the maintaining a relationship... I'm so used to fucking around with different women like you guys, that I don't possess the skills or the strength to even maintain a relationship anymore. Once the honeymoon period is over I'm at a loss as to what the fuck I'm doing, and if I really like the girl, I try to… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.I never said I was going to love her forever. I was honest with how I felt about her, and if that isn't good enough, then I walk. What's beta about that? Should I never love anyone? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:15 PM |
| -4 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.It's not all entirely because of her. Perhaps I was at fault as well. Lack of communication, flirtation, motivation or any other of those could have contributed to this. I'm not perfect, man. All women are talented manipulators, but so are us men. Think about that. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.So you want me to control who she can and can't speak to? If she fucks him, I'd know about it, believe me and that would be the end of it. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.The way I see it, I shouldn't be jealous anyway. That's not her problem, and to be completely fair, the full context of what's gone on isn't in the OP. It's too much to explain. It would be easier if people asked me questions to try and help me get to the root of it | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Me and my girlfriend having issues because of my lack of trust.I used to game girls all the time. So, I know it's important to keep your game practiced, but I'm tired of it. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 11:47 AM |
| -11 | She said she actually doesnt like when guys are in shapeYou can't presume everyone in a gym has terrible genetics. That is fucking stupid. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Funniest/craziest hook up stories?Long story short: a couple of years ago I was living in a shared house. New girl moves in downstairs. We make eye contact, we dig each other, I give her my number if she needs anything. Later that night I text her, and we flirt, I tell her I'm naked upstairs and she should come and see for herself. Silence for 10 minutes, then there's a knock on my door. I answer naked as promised, and the rest is history. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls see guys on a scale of 0 - 1I think you're confused about what RP is. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/17 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or really uninterestedHe has no sense of self-awareness or self-analysis. Basically no understanding of sarcasm. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Shit test or really uninterestedJesus, man.... | /r/askTRP | 11/04/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you compete in? What are some areas to compete in?I know I need help. You need a miracle though. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:29 AM |
| 2 | What do you compete in? What are some areas to compete in?It's too late for you to employ sarcasm now. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Girls with green/blue hairI've had many multicoloureds. I've found them to be extremely adventurous and experimental. Whack away, Jim. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:15 AM |
| 2 | What do you compete in? What are some areas to compete in?No, you're autistic. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:12 AM |
| 1 | 24 hours on Bumble as a Male Model in San Francisco: 100 matches.Get over yourself, man. You could be a Greek god, but if you're dull and uninteresting, no mortal women are going to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:09 AM |
| 1 | ever feel "weird" sometimes when you go outside?Yeah... it's almost like I'm in real life... | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:07 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when crosses her legs but keeps her foot by your leg?Well, for one thing... She is comfortable around you. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:06 AM |
| 1 | What do you compete in? What are some areas to compete in?Music. Although it's not supposed to be a competition, I get off on out-drumming my peers. So do women. Ultimately though, who you were yesterday should be the guy you're trying to beat. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Chads, I need your help: How often should you see plates/potential plates so that they stay around?So the goal is to never have a LTR? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Chads, I need your help: How often should you see plates/potential plates so that they stay around?Isn't it natural to gain a preference for a certain girl? So how can you avoid this? Or should you even? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Isn't it a matter of context? Depending on how you use it. If you're dreading because you want that girl to chase you, then yes, that is manipulation. If someone is toxic, or fucking you about, then I feel it isn't manipulative to distance yourself. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Sometimes you have to just dread, even if it means indefinitely. It's not manipulation. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Not really. It's a tool to respect yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:16 PM |
| 12 | "NOTICE ME!"Had to stop reading after you mentioned that you "don't need that childishness" in your life, because if that's the case, then why in the fuck do you still have her on social media? Clearly you still want to bang this girl but deep down perhaps you're afraid that, by finally initiating with her, you'll lose her. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?I'm not okay with manipulating women, or anyone. I don't feel that this is what the Red Pill is about. I see it more as a self-improvement tool for men - to strengthen their minds, and to improve their lives. Don't blame the tools, blame the person using them. There are a lot of people here who are misguided. I don't believe I'm one of them. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:59 PM |
| 2 | How do i gently tell her to get the fuck out of my houseYeah, fair point but in regards to this particular girl - she obviously cannot take a hint. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How to become more "Alpha" in mindset and not just behavior?No fapping I believe can have some potential benefits but most of what you typed out here was complete and utter horse shit, dude. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What was the most difficult thing you've ever had to hold frame through?Fuck.... dude. Well done. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Cardinal rules for when girls ignore youThey'll usually message you first. That's a good indicator. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:54 PM |
| 29 | How do i gently tell her to get the fuck out of my houseFuck them at their place if you can. Always aim for that, but if you absolutely can't, then you need to just be straight down the line with the girl and say honestly, "I'm sorry, but I've got work in the morning. Do you mind leaving?". You shouldn't even have to ask. It's common curteousy - sounds like a crazy bitch. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?And passionately. It sounds like he needs a good fucking... | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:37 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Do you always give out bad advice? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:36 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?I feel you're completely missing the point. To decide what kind of man you want to be; the codes, and ethics, and beliefs that you personally want to live by, separates you from the pack. Of course, people change over time, and those values may change, but to not live by your own principals will eventually wreak havoc on your self esteem, and potentially your reputation as well. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:36 PM |
| 0 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?It's likely? So you're enabling what he did by giving him the assumption that his girlfriend is also a cheat? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?It only becomes a common theme in your life if you don't have the bollocks to remove toxic people. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:22 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?"Crime" is a pretty strong word here, but good point. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Ha? Be grateful and don't fuck it up again. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:46 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Because that's not how we treat people who don't have spines :) | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:44 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?That's why you don't do it at your place. I can't imagine this scenario having the same impact: "I will always love you.... Now, could you leave for roughly 2 weeks?" | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:43 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Only thing to do is apologise and blame it on alcohol Or.... He could take responsibility for his actions? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?The only hoe I see is OP. He should dump her out of respect. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:37 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Paul is a cuck. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:37 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Dude version? Trickle truth is trickle truth. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:36 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up, got caught cheating, what do I do ?Cockblockula is not someone you want around anymore. Ditch him, and move on. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 10:22 AM |
| 2 | I have a situation I don't quite understandI usually go for younger women. 18 is what I normally go for at the very least, but I found the last one's lack of maturity disturbing. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I have a situation I don't quite understandThat's more concise for me. Thanks dude. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | I have a situation I don't quite understandI think she knows. I've been behaving a little too invested lately. We discussed this last night and that's why I told her I wanted to walk away. She didn't want me to, and even tried to compromise by suggesting we just be friends. She says she doesn't have feelings for me. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 02:19 PM |
| 4 | I have a situation I don't quite understandI have been "lightly" pursuing other women in the meantime but it feels disingenuous to do that, because I like this girl. Call that beta if you will. I don't mind talking to other girls and having a laugh, but I'm not interested in other girls right now. I spent years sleeping around, and although I don't regret any of it, I do not want to keep repeating it. Now what would your advice be? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I have a situation I don't quite understandWise words, my friend. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 01:36 PM |
| 1 | I have a situation I don't quite understandI think you're spot on. The truth may be harsh, but it's necessary sometimes. I understand everything you're saying, but occasionally I need reminding. I forget myself. I think I became invested because I've been in a stint with my personal life - meaning, I've lost sight of my goals and what I want. How should I act from here? | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 01:29 PM |
| 3 | I have a situation I don't quite understandHaha... True. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I have a situation I don't quite understandShe is 30. I am 28. Why do you ask? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 12:59 PM |
| 3 | I have a situation I don't quite understandThat's what I thought too. There was one occasion about a month ago where I realised this and attempted to walk out, but she begged me to stay with tears in her eyes. I brutally told her that she is lonely, and that I am not putting up with the neediness. But by giving her another chance I think I may have lost frame. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I have a situation I don't quite understandYou're right. Absolutely. I gave away frame by entertaining the idea that she felt something for me, rather than just accepting it and carrying on. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | I have a situation I don't quite understandLogic is my only tool for keeping frame. I enjoy the feels, but I need to put into perspective why she is pushing and pulling. Could it be that she's simply afraid of being hurt again? And yeah, I only brought it up jokingly. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 12:54 PM |
| 0 | I have a situation I don't quite understandCan you explain a little more? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Lady friend is very upset with me, need advice.I'm with her. I already have been open with her but I keep saying the wrong things. She just can't accept that I am attracted to her. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 12:43 PM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Hit me in the feels, why don't you? | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".That is brilliant, haha. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 02:14 PM |
| 3 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".You give that cougar a rollicking good time | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 12:27 PM |
| 2 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".I like the Han Solo method. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 12:22 PM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".So it needs to be as though they'd each have something to lose? | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".This came to mind too. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 12:19 PM |
| 2 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Hahahaha | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Date # 1 ConfusionShe's a tinder girl playing pool with you, of course she'll be positive. HIV positive probably. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:41 AM |
| 32 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Could be 4 friends... | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:18 AM |
| 0 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Exactly, if you make your intentions clear, then you can use that as leverage for the future. Edit: I knew what I meant anyway... | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:17 AM |
| – | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".To be completely honest, given the right opportunity, I probably would lay wreckage to their vaginas and their friendships for my own selfish pleasure, but I do have enough dignity to not go through with that... I hope, haha. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Honestly just some fun. I know how this post looks now... I failed to see it before, but basically, I only pondered on this girl's statement because it isn't the first time someone has said this to me. It struck a little chord this time. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:08 AM |
| 10 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".That excuse does seem rather retarded considering the circumstances. No real offense intended, but how could I justify going through all of her friends like a bowling ball smashing through tenpins, merely on the basis that she told me they find me attractive? | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:05 AM |
| -1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".She probably will have to when I eventually meet them ;) | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:01 AM |
| 3 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".I can only see this as a compliment. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".She knows I like her. We've already hooked up once. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:56 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".There are some quite prominent social circles I'm involved in - basically everyone knows everyone in my city when it comes to the music scene. So, although I've only recently met her, we both share the same friends, roughly. If I were to fuck some of her close, personal friends, she'd take that as an insult and by word of mouth, everyone will know I am a massive 'playah', and I'll likely won't get hired anymore, haha | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:52 AM |
| 3 | I think she's playing with me. Am I running good game?I think, like the other guy said, that she is enjoying you validating her, and ordinarily I would agree, and tell you that you should just move on after you've already made your intentions clear. But.... she is also escalating sexual tensions between the two of you as well, and I'm pretty sure eventually you two will both fuck, and it'll be amazing. But if/and when that happens, keep doing your thing. Don't chase this girl. For now, keep doing what you're doing and just enjoy it I would say. Don… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 03:44 AM |
| 1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Possibly, but then my reputation would be fucked in the music scene here. Or would it be?.... | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:36 AM |
| 18 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Currently replying from jail. Got your message too late... | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:35 AM |
| 4 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".This makes sense. I ruined her. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:34 AM |
| -1 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".Hey, what I want from this is some fun, and maybe a potential friend eventually. I'm not looking for much. But with all due respect, I'm not really over thinking it. I happened to be stoned, and in a contemplative mood after receiving her message. It's not the first time a girl has ever said this to me, but I never really thought about why they say this, before. PS. I've banged her once already. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 03:26 AM |
| 38 | When a woman tells you, "My friends think you're hot".No, it's a girl who likes me. That's interesting though. What would be a good response in this situation? | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Trump is not an AlphaAnd what are you in comparison? Judge yourself before you judge others. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 11:52 PM |
| 11 | To the young man I saw at the gym last night:You are shamelessly in love with yourself apparently. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 11:35 PM |
| 3 | To the young man I saw at the gym last night:Bullshit. Whatever happened to being yourself? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | To the young man I saw at the gym last night:I would say that air carried with it a definite whiff of douchebaggery. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 11:24 PM |
| -4 | One of the most important things I've learned about being around girls.You guys need to check out r/TheRedPill if you don't know it already. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | You are the prize. Never forget that.Yes, but if you have a good level of self esteem then you don't need mottos like this. | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 12:52 PM |
| – | How to go down to their level?Then why are you here? | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 10:44 AM |
| 9 | So I managed to cock block myself lolDude, that's your in to get a threesome going. Seriously, suggest it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Solo Travel To Europe - Social Anxiety + GirlsJust be careful in Europe. Social anxiety may be the least of your problems there. To the main point though: this will be good for your confidence. Trust me. Just be brave and don't give up in whatever you do out there. | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 10:30 AM |
| 1 | You are the prize. Never forget that.This could be motivational to some, but I wouldn't buy it. You have to build yourself up. You are not automatically the prize. | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 10:28 AM |
| 0 | How To Stop Putting Crushes On A PedestalAnd ruin it? | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 08:26 AM |
| 2 | How to go down to their level?No, me being British is the reason you couldn't understand why I would find this guy funny. I don't actually talk down to people you know, that was another "joke". I wasn't talking down to you I was just trying to understand your anger, and I felt you were being a tad much, considering the situation. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How to go down to their level?I talk down to everyone. That's about as equal as it gets. I'm not a troll though. I'm British... perhaps that would explain things. I find myself having to say I'm British a lot lately. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 06:10 PM |
| 0 | How to go down to their level?This is guy is going no where near women. All the men commenting in here can see how clear his misogyny is, and we all disagree with it. I am not being misogynistic towards you, I am just suggesting you need to lighten up. I am treating you as an equal, which is what you feminists want right? Take it like a woman. Just because you don't like my opinion does not mean I am a misogynist. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Which does humor increase more of: value or comfort?I'm sure we had a similar discussion earlier.... Again, ignore my earlier comments. I can be a douche. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:49 PM |
| 0 | How to go down to their level?Oh, so you were offended? It is unacceptable, I agree. But OP is a little lamb compared to the kind of men it sounds like you've experienced. We've all been through shit though, even us men. We suffer as well at the hands of abuse, in its many forms, from women. You are not special because of your gender. You've obviously just been misfortunate. And I am sorry for that, but you need to chill the fuck out. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:42 PM |
| 0 | How to go down to their level?Okay, so you're opinionated. It just came across to me personally that you were really bothered by his post. I only see humour in what he said because he is so out of touch with reality. And it's not his fault at all. Funnily enough, I was trying to make lightheart out of the situation and you threw me in the same boat with him! | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Polite way to restart communication?I'm not going to say that it isn't more engaging, because it certainly is. To say you miss someone is to imply you've thought of them in an emotional context. Which would be a problem if OP said it to the girl, because he clearly hasn't been thinking of her up until now. Maybe if he jokingly said it to her, but then he'd more than likely come across as a douchebag. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How to go down to their level?I think you're taking this too seriously. Why are you offended by one man's opinion? And I don't mean mine. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | I want to make my motivation and objective with girls more than just sex. Help?He helped in the beginning. So maybe he's good at getting girls naturally but not securing them? I could be wrong, but that's the inkling I have. I need no luck, my friend ;) It's all in the practice, and have fun with that practice. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Polite way to restart communication?No.... Are you trying to troll me? Lol. I couldn't have made myself clearer. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Dating app experiences/rejectionDating sites are more of a numbers game from what I can tell. Unless you are super model attractive. It's just a shallow place. You're much better off in the scary world outside. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Polite way to restart communication?Completely different context. It is a variation of saying hi I suppose if you already have an established connection with that person... | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | [Newbie] Inspiring View from Girl of InteractionNice work dude. Hopefully you follow that up. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:50 PM |
| 2 | How to go down to their level?You sound perfect for him :P | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How to go down to their level?Your honesty kills me 😂 Damn, man... You are edgy as hell. What are you good at? Do you have a particular field or hobby you excel in? You need to find women more on your level, rather than going down to their level as you put it. Branch out. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | A natural's twitter game - picking up a pornstarNot sure if this is irony or not. That guy failed. Plus, even if he didn't, she's a porn star and he's not a bad looking guy. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | 5 of my Favorite Opening Lines (That Actually Work)I'm in the same boat as you. It could be a cultural thing. I'm British. We don't take ourselves too seriously over here. Most people would laugh if I opened with that, and I'm quite cheeky anyway so I'm sure I'd get away with it a few more times :) | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What would be the best tips to give to someone who is afraid of approaching ?I knew you were trying to plant the seed of doubt in me. It was a strong effort. You did humble me a bit though, to be fair. I need that sometimes. My respects you. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:31 PM |
| 2 | I want to make my motivation and objective with girls more than just sex. Help?Don't listen to your friend again without questioning their advice first... lol. I'm sure they meant well. You're doing the right thing though. Just wait for them to come to you. In the mean time, talk to other girls. Keep yourself fresh. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | These Two Openers Work 99% of the timeI am guilty of using "hi" sometimes on dating websites, but I don't lack creativity either. Just lazy sometimes. But I think the key factors to getting away with a "hi" is to vary it as much as possible with each girl; it helps if you look good on the profile pics; and it helps a lot if you know how to follow up with interesting conversation. I probably have it too easy. I don't know :/ | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | These Two Openers Work 99% of the timeI don't feel that confident in general if i'm honest, but that's mainly because I can't shake the belief that it's about how you look, and i'm aware that i'm not very good looking. Dude, you have self esteem issues. Who's been telling you you're not good looking? Are you sure? Or are you just depressed? Get help with that if you haven't already, but chances are, you are not bad looking at all. I know people who are beautiful, yet you cannot convince them they look good at all. They won't listen.… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with aggressive girl 'friends' who try to kill your vibe and throw provocative statements at you?The way you deal with any nagging, aggressive woman. Ignore them until they realise their behaviour is mental and they apologise. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What would be the best tips to give to someone who is afraid of approaching ?Okay. Well, I can see I have some competition around here... Not bad advice. If you check my commenting history, you'll see I'm not a complete dick by the way :P That one post is the exception. Not that I'm trying to validate myself to you or anything. Mutual respect, I hope :) | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:05 PM |
| 3 | These Two Openers Work 99% of the timeThe trick with "hi" and "hello" is to be able to follow it up by being comfortable with yourself, knowing what you want and working towards it confidently. No script required. But you know all this ;) | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I want to make my motivation and objective with girls more than just sex. Help?What happened? | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 03:47 PM |
| 1 | 5 of my Favorite Opening Lines (That Actually Work)How do you know that if you haven't tested it? Possibly it is because they're already attracted to me. But I wouldn't have a problem saying it to someone who wasn't either because even if it fails, we could at least laugh about it. Obviously don't open with that line, but throw it in early on. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 03:46 PM |
| 3 | These Two Openers Work 99% of the timeEvery single successful ingteraction i have has had this ingredient. Humour is an important component to all relationships, but you know this. Every single awkward/bad interaction has started off with a very normal/how are you?/what do you do/ bla bla bla But it absolutely does not have to be awkward. That would depend on how confident you feel. Girls can pick up on your anxiety, like dogs can smell fear. Vice versa as well really. You need to practice going through the awkward shit so you can l… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 03:38 PM |
| 1 | These Two Openers Work 99% of the timeWell, if it was me, then yeah I would start off with that. If you don't really know the girl then small talk is necessary to just get the ball rolling. Small talk doesn't have to be this scary thing, it's literally just a way of opening up more interesting conversation. Don't blame yourself too much if a convo doesn't go your way though. Remember it's a two way street when conversing. Some girls are just very shy and will take a bit of work to talk to, whereas you may meet other girls who will d… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 03:11 PM |
| -1 | Had enough of your shit r/seduction. The secret to unlocking the pussy palace.No, it isn't a surprise I am not welcome, but I appreciate your constructive critique of my post. In all honesty, the intention was to come across as fed up but without being too serious about it. I guess I'll have to work on how I word it next time. I have an often odd way of trying to help people. But.... I am a doer, not a teacher. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 02:38 PM |
| 1 | 5 of my Favorite Opening Lines (That Actually Work)I've done this, it works. The trick to doing this is having the confidence to pull it off authentically. The same with any pickup line I suppose. The point is to get a smile and laugh, not to make them go, "oh wow, I'm dripping. Thank you!" Use this at your own discretion, but it's just for fun really. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 02:35 PM |
| 3 | [For Pros] What happens after you have slept with enough # of women that you thought you could never have?It may fizzle down a little depending on your age, but it'll never fully go away. It's like a drug. I guess you alone just have to make the conscious decision to stop and maybe commit yourself to one lady. But make sure she's perfect for you, whatever that may be. I'm honestly still figuring this out myself at the moment. In my opinion though, I'm not even sure men were designed to be with one woman anyway, at least from a biological standpoint. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 02:27 PM |
| 1 | These Two Openers Work 99% of the timeBy having some confidence in yourself, and your ability to converse openly. Practice that with anyone and everyone. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | 5 of my Favorite Opening Lines (That Actually Work)This has been downvoted but I promise this works, haha. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Which does humor increase more of: value or comfort?I am just being rude today - my apologies. Just go get 'em tiger. No fear. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Polite way to restart communication?Well, thank you :) | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 02:18 PM |
| -1 | Had enough of your shit r/seduction. The secret to unlocking the pussy palace.I reflect upon myself and my actions and everything I think or do all the time, mate. I am completely self aware, but I just do not have any qualms about who I am or how I may come across. It may offend some people but why should I let that bother me? There is a time and a place to apologise and this is not one those times. And definitely not the place. There is nothing to cringe about. I know cringe too well, and I laugh at it. Like I said, i can see how i come across and how it looks but you'r… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 01:36 PM |
| -1 | Had enough of your shit r/seduction. The secret to unlocking the pussy palace.Dude, what works for me, works for me. I'm sorry that I could not be bothered to articulate the post more. I did say it would be vague, and yet here you are complaining about it. Not my problem, man. You guys are definitely neckbeards. I'm not sure you got my point though, initially. I never said that approaching a girl is enough to have a chance with them, where the fuck did I say that? I said it was enough to show you're interested. Which it is. Depending on the context. Obviously if I'm a str… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Had enough of your shit r/seduction. The secret to unlocking the pussy palace.I think approaching a girl is enough to declare interest? Women aren't naive. Not everything needs to be spelled out for you neckbeards. Some of the work does have to be done by you guys too, you know that, right? I've just regurgitated the same old shit you guys have been regurgitating for years, except mine was done with an air condescension and ire because I am a dick :) | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 12:58 PM |
| -3 | Had enough of your shit r/seduction. The secret to unlocking the pussy palace.Right... And this isn't your ego talking now then? You seem pretty invested in trying to diagnose me. I'm really not bothered though. And hey, I will take your advice and go through some of your history, because that's not creepy at all :D I just do not care enough to do that. I'm sure your wealth of experience comes from reading "The Game" and Mark Manson's "Models". Whereas mine comes from reality - the World we currently exist in - where real women roam, free and beautiful for me to select fr… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 12:48 PM |
| 6 | How do you stop getting crushes and getting needy to girls you hardly know?Local market. 3 for 1 if you're sexy. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 12:23 PM |
| -5 | Had enough of your shit r/seduction. The secret to unlocking the pussy palace.It will last. Until the day I die. It's called esteem. I've seen this sub pop up a few times on the front page, and today decided to come in here and say something about it. I'm happy to give constructive advice to anyone here, but you guys need to understand that theorising is ultimately futile when it comes to this. The post may not offer anything different but in its simplest, purest form, this is how you get women. Now, do you want to prove me wrong? Share your wealth of experience with me. … | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 11:59 AM |
| 1 | What are some good conversation topics to bring up when approaching girls during daytime?Well, nothing wrong with that. By the way, I never meant that you should just go and ask for their contact info and then leave. Fill in the gaps. Tall about them, ask about them. This takes the pressure off of you a little and gives you a chance to open up yourself, and be witty, charming, etc. My point though originally was that you shouldn't draw the conversation out if you're just meeting the girl for the first time on the street or whatever. Consider their time, whether they're busy. But mos… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 11:21 AM |
| 3 | These Two Openers Work 99% of the timeHahaha. Right on. Those two break the ice better than the Titanic ever could. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 11:11 AM |
| 21 | How do you stop getting crushes and getting needy to girls you hardly know?Sounds like you attach yourself to the first bit of attention you get, which yes, would be offputting. You definitely need a better perspective on girls, and more self esteem. It's gonna be hard to do that without fucking a few first though. For now, I'd recommend meeting girls in places where you are essentially an alpha. For example; if you're a musician, make sure you're fucking good. Women who like music will be drawn to you and will want your "expertise", they'll see you as an alpha of musi… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Polite way to restart communication?Okay, my apologies Cassanova. I bow to your superior knowledge.... There's a large difference in what I said. The context and outcome is different. How can you not understand that? Yours sounds off. OP does not know the girl that well, as I have said. Unless he can confirm otherwise, then he has no reason to truly miss her. Like you mentioned earlier, "girls aren't dumb". You're right, because he had a whole month to contact her and he didn't, so why would she fall for his shit? Also, there is n… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact is the closest thing to a 'miracle pill' in pickupWell... debatable. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Eye contact is the closest thing to a 'miracle pill' in pickupThis doesn't have to be complicated. Take it from a guy who's fucked more girls than he can remember and is still in his 20s. It's not weird as fuck. The longer you both gaze at eachother, the more reason you'll have to draw a smile. You could literally say hi at the point you both smile and it would be game over. You'd win a small victory, even if it's only a hi. That's a step in the right direction and a boost to your self esteem. A girl would normally feel safer to glance at you from a distan… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Well that went went horribly! what i learnedLearn to talk to women without a script. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Polite way to restart communication?You don't need to educate me, man. I do very well thanks. You obviously think about this way too much yourself. He's not missing her, he barely even knows her by the sound of it. He just wants to fuck her and remembered she was an option. Ignoring a girl for a month is rude, and now all of a sudden you're gonna reconnect with her and tell her you miss her? Lol. My point is exactly that. If you're telling a girl you missed her in order to re-establish a connection with her based upon the fact tha… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 10:02 AM |
| -10 | 5 of my Favorite Opening Lines (That Actually Work)If you must use a pickup line. Do it with the intention to be funny not to impress them. A line I have used before that works is: "Hey, can you thank your parents for me?" That'll spark their interest, and they'll ask "why?" Then all you have to say is, "Because they produced you". Along those lines anyway. It always works. It's corny as fuck but girls will laugh at it, and feel good about themselves too. You win. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Girls sleep with me all the time but never call me back... what am I doing wrong?The sex bit probably. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you separate confidence from arrogance?Cocky confidence is knowing you can do wonderous things with your cock. This is the difference. Arrogance is thinking you can work your cock better than you actually can. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Which does humor increase more of: value or comfort?Jesus man, you talk like a neckbeard. I don't mean to be offensive but if you talk like this around women, their cunts will be dryer than the Sahara desert. Just go out and explore man. Loosen up and spend less time on theory, and more on actual practice. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Which does humor increase more of: value or comfort?The way you speak is very theoretical pickup artisty, jesus.... Humour is a master key. It will unlock everything. There you go. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing as a bunch of guysNever buy the drinks. Always get them to buy you a drink. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:44 AM |
| 1 | What are some good conversation topics to bring up when approaching girls during daytime?The idea shouldn't be that you have to have a drawn out conversation with a girl. Just do this: Notice something you like about her. Approach. Comment on it. See how she reacts and either leave her alone, or capitalise and introduce yourself and ask for her name as well. If it goes well, ask for her number or Facebook(although this is kinda personal) and then leave. Contact her at a later point. Just not too late. Always smile, engage with her eyes and make sure she seems comfortable with you. D… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible someone can "force" me to take action?Yes it is possible. That someone is you, man. If you're aware that you need to be forced then why the hell aren't you taking responsibility for it? | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Is theory completely useless?Not completely, but it's a small part of the process. A lot of guys on here depend way too much on theory. Trying to learn as much as they can when generally the best thing to do is not over think it and just go for it, and find out for yourself how it works on an emotional level, or a subconscious level even. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:35 AM |
| 1 | What would be the best tips to give to someone who is afraid of approaching ?If he really wants to do this, then I'm afraid he's going to have to get over that wall somehow. There's no gain without excruciating, ball aching pain. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:30 AM |
| 5 | I want to make my motivation and objective with girls more than just sex. Help?Building a deeper connection takes some time. If you can seduce a girl, that's good. You're off to a blinding start, but then to take it to the next level, just spend more time with the girl. That's literally it. Don't start falling over your feet for her, confessing your love, talking of the future, just spend time with her if you like her. Meet up gradually more often and build a damn connection. Eventually she will let you know that she likes you on a deeper level, whilst in the mean time you… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Advice for picking up at yogaGet good at yoga. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Polite way to restart communication?This is decent advice. If you're going to restart a conversation with a girl after straight ignoring her for a month, always restart at a casual level. hi, how's it going? :) And then if she replies to that, you're good to go. But the least you could do is then explain why you fucked off for a month. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:23 AM |
| 5 | Polite way to restart communication?Someone in here gets it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Polite way to restart communication?That's manipulation dude. Learn integrity and move on to another girl. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Polite way to restart communication?sorry I ignored you for a month but I missed you Yeah... that's not creepy. Just sad. He doesn't deserve her time. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:20 AM |
| 3 | How to Be More Outgoing When Talking to WomenPractice is the key. If you're not outgoing generally, then you're definitely not going to be when with an attractive girl. Force yourself to be around outgoing people and commit to it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:18 AM |
| 25 | How To Stop Putting Crushes On A PedestalSee girls for who they really are. Rather than what they're trying to portray. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:17 AM |
| 28 | Eye contact is the closest thing to a 'miracle pill' in pickupIt's just common sense dude. There's no need to go around trying to "dominate" everyone with eye contact. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 09:06 AM |
| 1 | The 5 Distinct Phases of Confidence (in my experience)Just e-mailed you now, man. I'm Ash (obviously), and would love to hear back from you. Fantastic concepts. | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 02:49 AM |
| 0 | What do you do when women are bullying you at a party? (How do you disarm asshole chicks?)But that's what I meant. The come back doesn't need to be elaborate, just a quick and witty observation. I've done it many times. It's about reducing the high value which they hold themselves to, bringing them down to a certain level of self awareness. I don't feel the need to ignore anyone because I don't move for anyone. I'm not threatened by shit tests - if the opportunity arises for a witty comeback, then I'll take it. If not, they get ignored until they go away. I'm not leaving for their be… | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 09:10 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when women are bullying you at a party? (How do you disarm asshole chicks?)I was thinking more of a Good Will Hunting bar room showdown. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 09:06 PM |
| 4 | What do you do when women are bullying you at a party? (How do you disarm asshole chicks?)Nothing wrong with a witty comeback so long as it is enough to destroy the sense of entitlement she has, and makes her look stupid. Otherwise yeah, walk away and don't acknowledge it. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when women are bullying you at a party? (How do you disarm asshole chicks?)Dude, you either quickly find something to use as a witty come back or you walk away. They are pathetic and not worth your anger, which btw, you should look into because it's not healthy by the sounds of it. Good job restraining yourself though. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 04:35 PM |
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