Ok I’ve been snapping this girl for about two months and I just want to smash and that’s it, but she told me that her “hoe phase” is over with etc. After hearing that I got vibes that I have to seriously talk to her and stuff but I’m not trying to date.

So I would usually just leave her on opened all the time, and she would snap me selfies to get me to respond. But then she invited me to her house, she’s been telling me to come for about a lil over a week now, but I’m like wtf because she still lives with her parents; and she can’t come to me to because “It’s too far of a drive”(literally 1hr away from my uni) Also I’m not too sure if she’s DTF, but we flirt all the time and she sends me ass, cleavage, and shower pics. She said she hasn’t fucked in like a year or so, so i’m thinking she would want to and she shows high interest and responds fast. This past week she’s been making fun by saying i’m scared to come etc. So in my mind she might be DTF. Im going to her house on my birthday(not sure if that helps me) to chill and do the stuff.

What should I say to get her on the same page?

Should I chill and take it slow on the first link?