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Life ain’t easy dog, sounds like you need to just buckle down and do the work. Other opportunities will present themselves, but not to those who quit.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:06 PM
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You can try getting something like a cat or dog if your current path allows the responsibility. Being able to car for something keeps me going and fixes that provider mentality. STAY AWAY FROM WORKING DOGS. I get it, they’re cool, they’ve got the look, the status.... but they will absolutely kick your ass and eat your time. Especially if you’re younger. Those are passion projects when you’re older and don’t have to balance work and a high energy dog that needs absurd exercise and stimulation req…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 02:34 AM
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Bro one chick told me she was BPD and then continued to show me a grocery bag full to the brim of empty pill bottles.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:10 PM
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That sounds good. Next time I would try to be a bit more specific. Like “No worries, my only other available time is going to be Sunday night.” If she says yes, plan the date. If she says no, then just say “No worries, when you’re schedule frees up let me know and we will plan something for then”
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:56 PM
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I mean just be like the only other time I’m available is X
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:41 PM
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I need more prayer time at the iron temple haha
/r/askTRP30/05/21 05:05 PM
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One of the major gaming strategies in this subreddit is to only use texting/snap as an Avenue to set dates. You don’t need to text them, or you become one in the same as the other beta bucks asking her to fart in their mouth. Read the how to use tinder section in the sidebar and you should be getting some good info out of that. Ask to hang, set the date, a date that would set you up for the opportunity to have sex, say C U Next Tuesday, and be on your way.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:12 AM
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Not sure I have specific advice but sales as a profession has basically cured my approach anxiety to most situations. I can maybe give some sort example, do you have sales experience at all of any kind?
/r/askTRP30/05/21 01:58 AM
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The guide in the sidebar had completely changed the game for me. So I can get some girls to h/u but I was basically saying I’ve added new pics, but hasn’t seen too much change in closing number/matches etc hence the question of if my profile was good or not. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:54 PM
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Thanks dude, yeah I’m working on cutting another 10 pounds or so until I can get the abs showing. Thanks for the deep insight
/r/askTRP29/05/21 11:27 PM
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Yep good call. It’s Film grain from a film camera, so quality isn’t as good as digital but I know what you’re talking about. Thanks!
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:22 PM
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I’m sorry for not being built like your god and savior Arnold Schwarzenegger
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:02 PM
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Hahaha
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:01 PM
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Thanks dude, yeah the solo pics are zoomed in from full band pics so I get it. When we take more I’ll keep that in mind
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:57 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/askTRP29/05/21 07:56 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:59 PM
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Bio has been edited thanks
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:59 PM
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Thanks dude you’re pretty kick ass yourself!
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:59 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:26 PM
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Thanks dude, it always comes down to reading in between the lines so having photos that don’t correlate with the bio is a good idea. Gives me something to ponder on.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:40 PM
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Haha love it thanks man
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:38 PM
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Thanks dude, I’ll take a look at adjusting those things
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:27 PM
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Thanks dude, yeah that’s probably a good call trying to get some golden hour pics. Appreciate the insight.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:26 PM
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Shes not even a 5 under that makeup up and fake nails my guy.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 11:28 PM
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Great point
/r/askTRP24/03/21 01:31 AM
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Got it, don’t show that I care she’s leaving. It’s my first plate that has broke so just learning the process
/r/askTRP23/03/21 07:39 PM
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I’m no expert in vaping by any means, but I flipped from cigarettes to 5% juul pods, and I think the convenience of hitting it practically anywhere just juiced the addiction. Plus they’re higher in nicotine content I believe than cigs. I had way worse with drawl with those versus the cigs. And I’m not saying stay on cigs, just don’t jump in to vapes with researching what nicotine content you’re hitting.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 05:24 PM
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“The scariest 9 words in the English language are, ‘I’m from the government, and I’m here to help.’” -Reagan
/r/askTRP22/03/21 04:28 PM
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Do not switch to vapes from cigs. Juul fucked me up more than cigs ever did. Try to find a better alternative
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:50 PM
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Sales training/job helps a lot here
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:34 PM
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Great read thanks
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:57 AM
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So because that I’ve left it at her reaching out to me, I should cut my losses and move and not double text yeah?
/r/askTRP18/03/21 01:57 AM
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These last few chicks I had to use condoms with and I’ll be honest it kinda sucked. I put in the work elsewhere but now I’m getting performance anxiety when I go to reach for a dome.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 11:37 PM
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This is what I needed to hear, thanks.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 10:44 PM
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Hi this is a more sales type of view. Some of the easiest people to sell something to are the people who say “I’m not buying anything today”. Why do they say this? It’s because they’ve bought something/or have a habit of buying something they like the day that they see it. This is the same thing, you’re selling her the idea of fucking. She says I don’t want to have sex cause her hoe phase is over. This tells you that she is self aware of a hoe phase that she experienced. So what’s one more night…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:20 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/askTRP17/03/21 04:32 PM
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Yeah she had some nice titties, but I’ve got 2 other plates that I’ll try to keep my head focused on.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 01:54 AM
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Yeah it was an in the moment quick question as I was thrown off guard. She does post her dog a lot on Instagram so like if ya followed her I don’t think it would be out of pocket, but looking back you’re probably right.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 01:53 AM
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No, she will see right through it cause you write like a guy lmao
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:57 AM
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Yeah, in a social setting of getting to know other people, talking to other women in front of your GF is really the best way
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:56 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:31 PM
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Yeah hear you loud and clear. It was mainly a question of maximizing every opportunity. But I know the option thing is definitely the main reason. Thanks
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:31 PM
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Most porn shoots are during the day
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:49 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:23 PM
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Bro I am a fucking ghost online. I have a Instagram that is private. Girls always ask for my insta, but I’ve been saying no or I don’t have one. It keeps them intrigued about you I think. Plus I never follow girls I meet. You’re bound to see some of them with other dudes anyway and I’d rather not stress myself over some Instagram story from 2am.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:37 PM
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Probably the only time would be working on setting up that first meeting. Just have some convo to make sure she’s cool/comfortable hanging. After that first meeting only text for meeting
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:23 PM
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“Tell me it’s big without telling me it’s big” Damn bro you got her fucking weak haha. Good job
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:20 PM
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Hope you’re well man. It sucks. Take a bit of time for you. Get off her socials that is the biggest killer. The true healer is the abundance mindset. Trust me
/r/askTRP04/03/21 02:29 PM
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There’s is definitely not enough information on this post to suggest BPD or other cluster B disorders but since I’ve been through it, the love bombing portion would throw me towards that as a possibility. Has she ever joked about how she’s on meds or have you seen her take meds in front of you. I would see if you spend the night or something snoop a few cabinets and see if there’s a lot of those orange bottles laying around lol. One way to trigger a BPD is triggering her fear of loss. That’s rea…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:00 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP02/03/21 03:15 PM
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Thanks man, I figured it’d be that simple
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:23 PM
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Will do lol
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:33 PM
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What do you mean by your second statement
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:05 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP25/02/21 04:37 PM
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Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP25/02/21 04:36 PM
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Yeah, and I do enjoy her company (shit, free brunch) and our dogs get along too. I just haven’t fucked her. Ik she finds me attractive because one, she went from client to personal friend, do saying I was super hot while making out at a concert etc. I just don’t know how to escalate after being told we were friends. I’m doing my best to not be beta support at this time, the only thing I’ve really done for her besides give my time up is help her with hanging some pictures, and in return she made …
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:22 AM
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Yeah that’s a good point
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:18 AM
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In the US social media can be weaponized easily. I’ve tried to reduce my internet footprint for this reason. I’m just nervous cause if I ever piss of the wrong chick they’d basically have open access to my friends and family. It’s an extreme stance Ik, but it’s how I’ve come to feel about it. Just trying to find the best way to present these girls that I appreciate privacy without being looked at as weird for being private ya know
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:07 AM
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As I said in another comment, privacy is a lost attribute I feel. I don’t feel comfortable with telling people about me personally I guess? I see social media weaponized constantly in the US and it’s made me fear it more than liked to use it. So I’m trying to find a better way for me to handle it
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:05 AM
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It’s probably the same. Getting a Snapchat is the way it’s done here mostly. I go for numbers though
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:03 AM
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Privacy is a lost attribute I feel in today’s society. And I don’t do it as a tactic for girls or anything, I just am not comfortable with people knowing everything I do in my life. So I’m trying to find a better way to handle it while these chicks are always asking for it
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:50 AM
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6.5 but whose counting.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:00 AM
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First date sounded ok, little beta imo but she's agreed to meet again. With her not being able to drink at a bar, it kind of makes meeting spots around campus kind of tough. Whatever you do, stay within 10 mins of your place. When you go to invite her back, say it with confidence, or have an excuse where it makes sense to go back. I wouldn't take too long of a walk though, maybe incorporate the walk to include picking up some take out to bring back to your place. If she is inexperienced it's goi…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:56 AM
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Most girls won't even get the whole thing in their mouth anyway. I find they only get halfway with it haha
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:42 AM
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Show me your friends and I'll show you you're future. Gotta upgrade bro.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:36 AM
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Cheers
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:30 AM
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So basically text her but not beg her to come by. As long as I don’t sound beta I can ask for what I want
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:04 AM
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Facts (RP) don’t care about your feelings. People (you) do. It’s okay to feel human sorry for the loss
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:01 AM
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You’re right
/r/askTRP18/02/21 12:59 AM
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Maybe upstate
/r/askTRP17/02/21 10:30 PM
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Like honestly 300k + to live comfortably
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:27 PM
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Typically in BPD relationships, the mom is almost never there haha
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:20 AM
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Queef for short
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:18 AM
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Yeah, just always remember they cannot be reasoned with. The hardest part for me was to realize no matter how much sense you make to them in an argument, they will always think you’re wrong once you’ve been painted black. Best to ghost. Also, she will find someone else almost immediately. It is not a reflection of them not having love for you, they honestly cannot live on their own. They seek the image of the parent that was not there for them in their relationships.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:17 AM
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Hey, as someone who has dealt with the quiet borderline, these next few months may be tough on your mental capacity. There’s gunna be a lot of shit thrown your way and I’m just gunna leave some resources on BPD in case your getting hoovered and idealized again. Also, she may come after you under her fear of abandonment. I have first hand experience so if you ever need to ask specific BPD questions feel free to pm me. AJ Mahari: treated BPD sufferer and now treats others of the same illness: http…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 03:15 AM
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Knowing what you want is attractive. Saying I want sex is better than saying “Hey ummmm.... >.< can u suck my dick tonite after I clean the dishes :p”
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:27 PM
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Yeah, might have to see the chick a few more times before she trusts me raw haha
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:20 PM
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I will, thanks
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:19 PM
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Cheers
/r/askTRP10/02/21 08:45 PM
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Hey what’s your question guy
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:42 AM
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Plate. Here’s a good video as to why. https://youtu.be/_sSjNWPWi_I tldr: male stripper gives insight as to how far women will go, and what women will hide from their men back home.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:58 PM
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What’s your question guy
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:43 PM
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It's cause these girls have nothing to be proud of. They aren't proud of their family name, their hobbies, their work. That's why it's young chicks that virtue signal on social media at the expense of "oppressed" people, so that way they have their fix of dopamine of "I am doing a good thing" when they're not actually doing anything to fix the problem. There is a very interesting video I think the guy from Vsauce did that answers this direct observation. That if people do 1 good deed, they don't…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:46 PM
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It's a majority for sure, but not all. You meet a girl from a good Chicago/NY italian family, they take pride in character roles and keeping the family together. You get the spoiled brat from Cali who never had to work in her life, thats what you get. What you described is one of the basic categories of what type of women we are on the look for as men. She failed your shit test, which means she won't be more than a plate. The lack of attention you provide, or lack of rewards given, will make you…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:09 PM
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What the fuck is an on/off blue pulled alpha?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:59 PM
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You’re having an existential crisis just for a broken arm? Sheesh. You can still do cardio. Play some video games, get on Twitter. 8 weeks will pass in no time. It’s the middle of winter you ain’t missing out on anything
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:55 PM
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Lesbians still fuck dildos.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:53 PM
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In the woods where the tigers are
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:51 PM
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No need to tell her how you feel. Only explain the boundary and expect the fix. If no fix, you leave without explanation.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:51 PM
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Oneitus
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:49 PM
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This happened to me. Now granted she asked if she could come by. Basically said she was stressed and wanted to get out of her apt. Bars were closed, I said you’ve limited yourself to a late night coffee shop or my apt. With wine. She said after a bit that she would come over, and said I just need a friend rn. I just ignored it and literally copy paste my address. Ended up with 2nd base that night. There’s different ways to handle shit tests, but ignore the statement completely. It’ll work out.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:49 AM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:44 PM
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A chick wouldve stomped through all the COVID restrictions to fuck you if she wanted to.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:05 AM
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Thanks bro, through the other comments as well I have arrived at this train of thought. Appreciate the insight
/r/askTRP02/02/21 12:15 AM
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Leave and never explain further. Start tinder game up on trip and get that supply up before you get back to town
/r/askTRP01/02/21 08:57 PM
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Honestly, I just talk to my dog in private. It's more of thinking out loud, but I get some sort of eye contact out of it haha.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:42 PM
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I’d understand if it was like two weeks. That’s about the interest I have in talking with old platonic girls from back home.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:35 PM
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Thanks. I just wasn’t sure how much attention to give a flake. Good idea on the midweek slot versus prime time
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:38 AM
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Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:37 AM
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Thank you for the observation.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 02:37 PM
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Thanks, have yet to get that far down the side bar.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:02 AM
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Well correct me if I am wrong but I do believe I need to respond to her as we are currently setting up a date this weekend. This shit test came up, so I'm just wondering the best way to respond.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 11:54 PM
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I had the same problem. Platonic friends are doc's or into medical research. I am in Sales. Once they start talking about med stuff (almost every time at dinner), there's only one thing to do. Just actively listen. You can then listen for something interesting they mention, and then ask them to explain it further. "Today I performed a Biopsy" "Is that something that you perform often?" Eventually they will want to talk about other things, and that will sometimes circle back to me and my field, a…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 08:21 PM
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Thanks for the insight. Will adjust for the next one
/r/askTRP28/01/21 05:23 AM
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Thanks good luck out there
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:28 AM
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I can understand that. There was no convo on tinder to be had outside of these texts. So I felt a little convo wouldn't hurt. And like I said this is over 4 days, so it didn't seem long and drawn out in the moment. The ultimate goal was to have 2 short convos to leave her hanging with, and then set up the date.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:26 AM
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I guess the sidebar is a bit mis leading. I guess if you read the pinned post, at least from how I interpreted it, 2 short convos with the goal to leave on read for the hamster sets you up better for the date without a flake.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:24 AM
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All fine till she doesn't text back haha. I was planning to basically ask her out next. You think I waited too long?
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:23 AM
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Yeah, the sidebar says to have some convo on 2 separate occasions so you can get them to hamster. Over three days it didn’t seem like a ton, but after seeing the convo together it does. Whats best to do then if the sidebar calls for too much convo
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:15 AM
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Ok thanks. I’ve got the whole getting the numbers nailed down, but I guess the guide says there should be some sort of convo so you can ultimately leave her on read for the hamster. I guess it’s misleading for how long that should last.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:08 AM
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Have you read the sidebar post
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:47 AM
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Exactly!
/r/askTRP24/01/21 05:05 PM
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Just know that one of the main philosophies of red pill is to only plate single moms. I encourage you to watch this video. https://youtu.be/0pVynoc9r78
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:38 PM
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First of all you gotta be in your mode. Fresh, cocky but not arrogant. Seem like you know where you’re going, not spinning around in circles. My go to line is “Hey, I’m looking for a weekend girlfriend, know anybody?” Answer: I’m somebody(or anything that keeps the convo on her.) I do a quick three question interview and come up with some sarcastic line at the end. For example. “Can you cook” “Not Really” “oh that’s gunna be a problem for thanksgiving” etc. Answer: Not me but a friend. “Oh wow y…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:56 PM
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“I’ve been pretty depressed lately”
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:53 PM
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Your mental stay is too far down the rabbit whole of red pill. Red pill is a philosophy, not a cult religion. Know that it exists, exercise the advice given in it, but realize that you telling yourself every girl has three other guys fucking her is probably making you lose interest. The goal should be for you to have fun, and if having fun for you right now is 1 night stands, then role with it. Your perception will change in the future as you’ve had enough, and you might move on to FWBs.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:50 PM
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CMON MAN YOU CANT LTR A SINGLE MOM BRO. THAT IS THE MOST BETA THING YOU CAN DO. YOU HAVE BECOME A PROVIDER P R O V I D E R. She’s wanting to get railed by the same chad who knocked her up. Plate it or leave it dog.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:47 PM
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First of all you gotta be in your mode. Fresh, cocky but not arrogant. Seem like you know where you’re going, not spinning around in circles. My go to line is “Hey, I’m looking for a weekend girlfriend, know anybody?” Answer: I’m somebody(or anything that keeps the convo on her.) I do a quick three question interview and come up with some sarcastic line at the end. For example. “Can you cook” “Not Really” “oh that’s gunna be a problem for thanksgiving” etc. Answer: Not me but a friend. “Oh wow y…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:42 PM
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I think you got the gist from other comments. I would move the smiling pic towards the front.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:30 PM
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You either cum in an instant, or won’t cum at all. Be fine with either outcum.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:28 PM
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For mother’s, isn’t it just the simple idea of raising their sons like girls? Same for single dads with raising girls like boys?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:26 PM
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Hey bro. First chick for me ever was diagnosed BPD and BP1. And that was a legitimate diagnosis. I’ve seen the meds. Mother was narcissistic and shit too. And I tell you what, after all the girls I’ve been with after, I still think about her the most. Idk if these girls you’re with love bomb you or what not like mine did, but it makes it so much worse to cope sometimes. You need a trained professional, I’m serious. Look into figuring out what all these girls had in common in their home/relations…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:56 PM
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As far as mentality, you need to find someone on YouTube who expresses a father like advice giving stance on trp. My childhood was fatherless till I was 10 because he died when I was 1. My step dad definitely helped bring balance, but now that I’m older, I can see he’s beta. Entrepreneur and cars has been that rock alpha figure from me. Great content and sometimes you just need to hear things from a male perspective, because we honestly all think the same. Hopefully that will help crack the habi…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:57 PM
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That’s a good point thanks. It was a bit late to start, she came by at 11.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:42 PM
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All good thanks for chiming in
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:50 AM
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I was making the move to be on top.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 10:36 PM
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Updated
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:27 PM
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Will do. Thank you
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:15 PM
2

Thank you. What’s FR?
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:11 PM
2

Agreed on the kick out. Will adjust for next time.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:09 PM
-1

Haven’t been on as much, new year has been busy at work.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:39 PM
1

Are you saying nice as in succumbing to beta ness or just being nice in general? It’s not a bad thing to be a nice and caring person, but it just matters when you are and when you’re not. That is what I struggled with after red pill, I went asshole 100% off the time and it did not work out. It’s a game of chess, show you’re cards when it benefits you kinda thing.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:22 PM
18

Wow thanks dad what great advice
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:20 AM
11

Yeah, I’ve been selling Mercedes since I was 18, and for a time, I could tell I was light years ahead of kids my age just graduating college when it came to carrying myself in conversations and knowing what to say when.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:18 AM
3

How young? My 13 y/o bro did the same shit with my 20 year old girlfriend. Don’t be a puss and talk to him if it bothers you he’s your brother
/r/askTRP25/12/20 10:57 PM
3

This is the advice I needed. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:41 PM
6

Just thinking on past relationships and how to be better and change mindsets after encounters with women. Every guy here runs into every situation mentioned in this sub, and it’s my turn with this one.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:50 PM
2

I guess as men we perceive status (money, house, job) as our worth. And just looking to understand how that reflects in women’s choices of guys, when we as men view hyper gamy as the practice of dating across and up.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:48 PM
1

Hey if girls can shave their head you can to! Best of luck.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:33 PM
1

I got a working dog, and it’s helped me keep me motivated and have some purpose. Don’t get a dumb dog like a shitzu, some sort of working dog will wake you up to go out and play, be smart enough to train, and the best reward is seeing them understand new tricks and commands. She fills my time before and after work and it’s been a great change of pace rather than sitting home and playing video games.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:51 PM
1

Thanks bro. It was only 4 months, I couldn’t supply her hidden drug addiction was it. Like I said trash girl/trash situation. But it feels like my egos been bruised either way. I look back at it as good practice.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 06:16 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP11/12/20 09:34 AM
1

How long is it?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:16 PM
2

When the topic of what do you do for work comes up at dinner you can say you own your own business hence the van and make light of it. Don’t don’t sound insecure about it. Be proud to drive your own business van.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:36 PM
1

Cheers laddy
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:07 AM
2

It’s my first breakup so mainly just trying to get an idea of a pretty common situation that I’m going to have soon. The ex coming back that is. She broke up with me, is seeing someone else, but a friend of hers and I chatted and I’m sure I’m gunna get brought up.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:34 AM
23

Ehh Reddit isn’t totally social media. You can be pretty anon here and there’s no pics posted of yourself ya know. I wouldn’t put Reddit as the same category as insta and fb and Twitter.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:16 PM
1

Yeah, I have medium length blond hair, the surfer look if you will, so it’s important to the look. Luckily I’m catching the signs early there is time to reverse. I don’t think I’d look good bald, I got a big forehead lmao.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 04:43 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:13 AM
1

I’ll look into it thanks dog
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:12 AM
1

Yeah I guess the notable side effect that I’d be worried about is DHT and screwing with test. Did you see a dr for it or use keeps/hims?
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:05 AM
1

Yeah I got that, but what types of conversations do I engage with that is different from the betas.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:31 AM
1

Sounds like you got good at it, then started losing your rhythm. Here’s some sales 101. Trust the process. I find that when I can’t sell anything at work, it most likely has to do with me skipping steps, making things too complicated, or not following what works. Take a look at what you were doing before, and compare at how you’re doing it now and look for the shit you’re fucking up
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:26 AM
4

Gents, I encourage you to watch this tik tok for this exact point. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJXjM89L/ It is that easy.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:02 AM
1

You need to be both in all aspects of life. You just need to know when to shut up and when to speak
/r/askTRP21/11/20 02:38 PM
1

Read the first paragraph
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:52 AM
1

No reason to hit her up as someone else said until you’re about to head back. Don’t feel the need to justify where you’ve been. Just show up back in her phone and set a date.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:29 PM
1

When she called, it was from the hospital phone. So I had no idea who it was. I never ended up helping her as her parents happened to drive 8 hours to help but she didn’t know that at the time of the call. Her friends were there and took over. She texted me at the end of July to say thanks, I said no problem. First week of august she said to never contact her again (BPD typical action) and that she was seeing someone else. Never replied and haven’t spoken since.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:23 PM
1

Work is work right now. I am keeping a healthy diet however I cant go to the gym because they’re still closed. I do however take my dog to the park every day so I get to run around with her. Video games can be an issue for me, if I have nothing going on, that’s where I go to. I typically ride motorcycles but the season is over, and I sing for an original band, but there is very little to do with that currently as no venues are open. I’m two years into a new city so social life is small, and with…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:18 PM
0

A lot of shit happened in between break up and now. She went manic cause she went off meds. They are a yes man to everything in this state. Boy toy is an enabler and fed her drugs, while she had no filter of knowing these are bad decisions. She calls me from the hospital asking for clothes and shit, and then her friend filled me in on what’s been going on the 2 months of no contact I had had. I’m now in month 5. So it wasn’t an easy road till now.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:44 PM
1

I was unfamiliar with the condition, she said she was on medication which I thought was enough. Wasn’t until after being dumped over a minuscule argument did I look into both conditions.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:39 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:36 PM
2

In private yes.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:35 PM
0

The only reason I did not approach was because this guy was next to her. Decided to play it cool, they saw me, they know what’s up, and leave it there. If she was alone, I probably would have said something out of courtesy.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:34 PM
3

I don’t intend to take her back. Luckily this sub has done enough for me to see why that’s not a good idea. It was just a matter of that was once someone I cared about, that I can’t help no more. When I saw her, obviously I never broke frame or anything, it’s just when I go home and am to myself when I sit in these emotions.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:31 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:27 PM
9

Thanks bro, I’m a pretty busy guy, but it’s always those moments when you’re not doing anything, like loading the dishwasher, or brushing your teeth, when this all comes flooding back. Ik time heals all wounds but it becomes a problem because I tend to shut down for a good bit if I get on a train of thought about it.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 03:27 PM
1

Look at the sidebar there’s a good walk through on what to do
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:03 AM
1

Listen 10-15 times
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:33 PM
2

It's very easy to lie and say you agree with everything if it comes up. Women's favorite thing is to like what they hear
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:26 PM
1

Thanks dude, outcome independence is def the thing I need to work on. Part of the reason why I don't message in the first place. I appreciate the short guide it means a lot.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 12:49 AM
2

Thank you for the sound advice
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:38 PM
1

Or at least get some tips on how to be better at it. Thanks for the line
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:29 PM
3

That’s the thing I just don’t know what to start with. I suck at it. In person is a different story. Should I just pretend I’m cold approaching in person and roll with the same convo, or is it totally different online.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:22 PM
-5

Still primarily dark hair traits
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:35 PM
1

Tends to be that way for colleges.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:58 PM
3

This, I think the same way. I need to write out everything good and bad and diagnose what the problem is. German people do that a lot.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:39 PM
8

Hey buddy. I got out of a STL with a Bi Polar 1 chick who had strong evidence of quiet BPD back in June. It was my first time dealing with someone with that, but I was so not informed of Bi Polar/BPD because I didn't know what they were. She said she was on meds, so I thought it was being taken care of. When she broke up with me for a very small argument, I was so lost. I couldn't help but think I was the problem, and that there was something that I could do to make her see she was in the wrong.…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:35 PM
1

It’s okay to open up. Just do it to a trusted friend or better yet a therapist. Therapy is pretty cheap. Don’t open up to your sig tho
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:10 PM
2

And I knew about this one. It was the first time I asked someone out on shift so I didn’t want to give the runaround while she was working. Do you find that on shift/off shift girls respond the same?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:21 PM
2

Funny, witty, not creepy. Thanks!
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:10 PM
1

Well it was the first time I was asked right away. Usually I can get the number and it comes up later and I handle it well then. Just had to think on the fly for that the first time. But, looks like there’s some good lines in here I can keep in mind
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:09 PM
2

Thanks buddy
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:06 PM
2

It’s alright I need the experience. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:05 PM
5

Love the delta!
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:09 PM
3

Bump
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:08 PM
6

Bring a few change of close and get some pics. Don’t post like a douchebag. Well done photos can be used to add a sense of experiences that you’ve been having making your life more interesting. You will capitalize on the pics in the long run when chicks ask you about “The Nice car and you at the beach with it”
/r/askTRP03/11/20 10:05 PM
1

Thanks buddy
/r/askTRP27/10/20 07:12 PM
3

My dad is dead and I care, he cared as well.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:59 AM
4

Yeah, I’ve had my first heartbreak already with a BPD diagnosed chick. I won’t be doing that again lol.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:52 AM
1

Yeah I kinda knew about them however I thought it was mainly for the Uber rich. I’ll look into it more
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:51 AM
5

Yep, same here. The few I know have IUDs too. Heavenly.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 02:46 PM
1

Online it’s become a joke however it is very hard to tell who is joking and who is not. So it’s like double or triple the amount of actual simps.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:14 AM
13

Just make sure if you go for getting it while carding to not make it creepy cause you’re holding their drivers license with their address on it.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:22 PM
14

Woah are you me? My ex is 23, left me after 4 months, found a felon drug dealer in a month and she has lied to and screwed over all her friends and family for this one dude. BPD and Bipolar. I knew about the Bipolar and helped with meds, but the trail of destruction she is leaving behind is massive with both diagnosis’s. I have yet to see her tho, but she has drove past my apartment on occasion. I heard from her prior best friend they’re kicking her out of the apt cause she’s never there and doe…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:54 PM
0

Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:02 AM
1

Whether it’s a therapist/social worker/counselor, there really isn’t a difference, as long as the credentials are there they should be able to help out just fine. They’ll usually have posted their focuses on their ads so if you’re looking for a family focused therapist don’t go see one that specializes in mood disorders like Bipolar.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:38 PM
7

It’s possible that since you never had a serious connection you may not feel the loss in an emotional capacity. I always recommend (and it never hurts) to talk to someone like a therapist about it. Get yourself 4 sessions and see how it goes. With insurance co pay is like 40-70 bucks a sessions.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:47 PM
12

When I moved a year ago I used to go around jokingly asking girls “Hey I’m looking for a weekend girlfriend, you know anybody?” They may be single or link you up with a friend. Not garunteed connection every time but as long as you can keep the convo funny and light it has good results.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 07:39 PM
2

That’s an interesting thought. Didn’t think of that.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 11:21 PM
16

You probably wont have the drive to play the field for 2-3 months. Just do you for now and try not to get discouraged if you see your ex rebounding.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 01:16 PM
2

Yeah definitely avoid the squids haha.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:23 AM
25

If you can, try getting a motorcycle. I live in a large city compared to what you described, but last weekend I parked next to some other bikes at a gas station and they asked me if I wanted to go to the restaurant they were going to. I said yes, and they had a group of 25 people that would text back and forth if they were going out to ride. That now can take up a few hours of my week doing that. There is almost 0 effort needed to meet people who ride motorcycles, everyone assumes you're cool!
/r/askTRP06/09/20 12:40 PM
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