Do you unload emotions sometimes?

Snowboard18 · 2021-04-01T14:57:22+00:00

Your misunderstanding the idea of a “real man,” sure there are some guys that think that means they can never let their emotions out, and this is not good.

What you should do is experience/let out those emotions fully, but do it either while alone, with a close male friend, or a therapist.

tiverma · 2021-04-01T15:49:01+00:00

Lift, have a beer, aggressive sex, whatever man just onload your emotions on something and blow off steam

New_Guard · 2021-04-01T17:24:13+00:00

"I don't have feelings, 'cause feelings are gay."

CoyoteMiyamoto · 2021-04-01T14:12:09+00:00

That's one of the things friends are for man. You talk to your buddies when shit bothers you and they talk to you. One hand washes the other.

Secret_Twitch · 2021-04-01T14:54:36+00:00

Don't ever show weakness in front of any woman. They may tell you that they like a man to be sensitive and in touch with his emotions, but what they really mean is that they like it when you show them how weak you are so it can help them know if it's time to leave you.

I would even go as far as to say that you don't ever show weakness in front of other men either. They will offer you a shoulder to cry on, but inside they will know that you are weak.

Save the drama for your mama or your therapist.

Simple-Craft-9577 · 2021-04-01T14:36:30+00:00

A real man IS emotional. If you have dreams and have struggled or are struggling to fulfil them, you will get overwhelmed at times. Just don’t let those emotions make your decisions for you.

EarlySpend3 · 2021-04-01T16:17:02+00:00

I lift, big boys don't cry

bduwowy272habbw · 2021-04-01T15:10:29+00:00

I feel strongly myself but yes unload to a homie or family. Never to a girl you like she will run.

soltanparham · 2021-04-01T16:09:04+00:00

girls don't give a shit about your problems , girls don't give a flying fuck about how sad , exhausted or tired you are ...

never ever tell them to girls .. i used to think just cause some girls are soft or tell " i'm always there for you " they can hear me when i'm sad or lost and they can help me
lol i was so stupid and 100% wrong! it just affect your reputation and of course , they'll leave you as soon as they think you're not that tough !
even if the worst things happen to you , you should never tell it to girls
and if they ask : you simply reply everything's good , life is on point ...
girls should always think your life is great and things are working well

you can tell your problems to your most trusted men around you , but never the girls. even even if it's your wife

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-04-01T15:57:00+00:00

She doesn't want to her it.

Also, it will make her doubt why she even likes you...nothing good can come of it.

ExcellentItem · 2021-04-01T16:28:22+00:00

Only exception for talking about your problems with girls is when you've got them figured out. Women like men "at the finish line", they don't give a damn about the process. Talking about mental health to your LTR for example : "I went through depression not so long ago, but now I've got this shit figured out, I'm good."

It's venting for the sake of venting that is unattractive. "Babe I'm depressed, I just don't know what to do."

As understanding as she'll seem to be, her pussy will dry faster than the Sahara.

Republic_of_Ash · 2021-04-01T17:49:20+00:00

As others have said here, deal with that shit either alone, with a male friend (as long as you don't whine), or a therapist. Also, another good way to channel those emotions is through action; working out, going for a run, boxing, playing an instrument works too, anything really that has a positive effect on you.

QPRCHOC · 2021-04-01T20:05:41+00:00

Go see a therapist or a counselor. No harm in it. One of the best decisions I'd ever made a few years ago - it dug me out of a hole.

Title	Do you unload emotions sometimes?
Author	sobrage
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	April 1, 2021 2:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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