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| 2 | The Red Pill is dyingIt still exists in milder forms. There’s still a big community of teenagers and young adults following guys like Austin Dunham and Fitxfearless. While these guys aren’t inherently misogynistic nor hate female nature per se, I still sum their teachings as “self-improve your looks, make money and become extroverted & emotionally unavailable to women”. It’s still RP-lite, because taking their words for gospel truth could make guys a bit “too” careful towards women, and prevent them from becoming em… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/24 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Guys that were deep into red pill, did the number of girls you hooked up with increase or decrease after you were indoctrinated?Got a little spike in hookups at first, but no meaningful relationship. Then sunk deeper in the RP rabbit hole, dry spell after dry spell, wondering why I couldn’t capitalize on any girl’s high interest despite building myself as a cliche “alpha male” (improving my financial situation, looks and physique but faking emotional unavailability). Then freed myself from the RP and magic, I restarted being able to form emotional connections! | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 10:04 AM |
| 3 | What if I want to break the rules and "shit where [I] eat" ?Yes indeed. Also since we're all relatively young, I shouldn't sweat it that much and see this as playful chatting. It's not as if I'll have to spend 40 hours per week for years in a cubicle with someone I was deeply in love with. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What if I want to break the rules and "shit where [I] eat" ?Yes, but it's the timing of asking out that's bugging me, when in my shift should I do it? And how do I get to the subject? | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:54 PM |
| 8 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoI wish AD and his boy FitX would stick to fitness and fashion advice, their "female nature" content is repetitive and toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Who do you look up to now?Mark Manson, LFA. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/21 04:41 PM |
| 14 | I have a weird habit where I give minimum attention or none to girls I’m interested in and casual attention to girls I couldn’t give a shit about.Well you gotta step out of the comfort zone, one girl at a time. Next time you meet a girl you're interested in, make an effort to initiate a casual conversation. You'll see how the conversation turns out and be able to gauge how easy or not it will be to make a move. Don't be afraid to be your authentic self. Girls (and also people in general) either love or hate polarizing people. I'll exaggerate my point, but basically you want a girl to either hate your guts or make her panties wet. That's h… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 11:31 PM |
| 37 | I have a weird habit where I give minimum attention or none to girls I’m interested in and casual attention to girls I couldn’t give a shit about.It's simple, when you're around a girl that you don't find attractive, since you don't give two shits about what she thinks, you're able to be your 100% self. I have a basketball analogy for this : you're playing on a children's hoop there, so you can throw up any kind of shot and you know the ball will go in. When you find someone genuinely attractive, there's some "pressure" to give a good impression. Here you're playing on a regulation hoop, you need to prepare yourself a bit before shooting … | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 5 | This is literally the STUPIDEST video about nice guys I've ever watchedLmao that's what I thought too. I remember a video where he talks about a secret trick he has for dates, he's like "I like to show my sextapes to girls when they come to my place, it spikes their interest up like crazy" In which world does that even work? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/21 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional societyIMHO all Western society works more or less the same. Dating-wise and relationship-wise, I feel that America is Western Europe on steroids (France in my case), we feel the same problems and dysfunctions as y'all but on a different level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 10:11 AM |
| 18 | Send your text and forget about itYou never get left on "Seen", if you never check for a reply taps forehead Maybe I'm extra-sensitive, but even coming from a friend who means no harm, being left on Seen hurts my ego a bit. I never bother to check for a reply until I get the notification. My rule for girls is : if she hasn't responded to a text/social media message and I have the urge to see if the message is still on "delivered" or left on "seen", time to back off the emotional investment. | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 09:47 AM |
| 0 | Whats the reality of being an older guy trying to date younger women?There's a reason for the Age/2 + 7 rule of thumb. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How do PUAs have the energy to do all the game, mind game tactic, alpha persona shit?Well their selling product is fucking as many b*tches as possible, not building healthy relationships... | /r/ExRedPill | 16/05/21 12:16 PM |
| 4 | My story : swallowing TRP as an overthinking introvert - need for recoveryI may have had some player tendencies even from the beginning, ever since my ex dumped me. But when seducing new girls, if we clicked, I used to be able to maintain some kind of contact instead of constant cycles of ghosting and reappearing. I also used to communicate clearly what I wanted out of our "relationship". Some girls were OK with being FWB, some wanted to lock me down in a LTR right away so I wished them well and we left at that. That's what I meant by empathy, it was more of honesty t… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you unload emotions sometimes?Only exception for talking about your problems with girls is when you've got them figured out. Women like men "at the finish line", they don't give a damn about the process. Talking about mental health to your LTR for example : "I went through depression not so long ago, but now I've got this shit figured out, I'm good." It's venting for the sake of venting that is unattractive. "Babe I'm depressed, I just don't know what to do." As understanding as she'll seem to be, her pussy will dry faster t… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What are the major different between the European SMV to American SMV?Well the dating market in Europe seems less "polarized" than in the US. All the typican American issues (high divorce rates, empowered feminists and fat women, female nature in general...) exist but to a lesser extent. And in Europe there isn't as much of an individualist culture than in the US (for example teen athletes aren't as glorified, it's common not to own a car until you're 22-23, you don't "root" for your university like American ppl do), so the masculine SMV range is narrower in Europ… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 4 | What's the craziest story you have about girls acting slutty?We were a group of 3 guys in a dancing bar, when this innocent-looking girl and her guy friend introduced themselves to us. Girl was looking like your stereotypical religious white girl, blue eyes, 5'9, conservatively dressed, wearing a cross pendant. I immediately recognized within moments that the poor guy, shorter than her, seemed to be a typical beta orbiter that secretly liked her. We chatted with them, a few drinks later she was grinding all over us 3... At one time she told me "You're all… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 3 | "It's just your turn" , "You are replaceable no matter who you are" Best 2 advices from this sub?He has over 1600 in total look carefully. 270 are new ones he didn't even bother to check out. That man SLAYS. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal when people takes ages to respond on the dating apps?Messaging on dating apps is so random, all females literally get hundreds of matches, think how easy it is for them to forget you. Once the conversation goes smoothly on the dating app, take her number or whichever social handle you like the most (Snapchat, Instagram...) you'll be less likely to be flaked on. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | The redpill awareness is great but application of TRP strategies is making me seem like a huge try hard. How do I fix this?Well, over time you learn the kino cues that work with girls, building comfort and learning to take action at the right time takes practice. But remember, sometimes even with good kino there isn't really a perfect moment to go for the kiss. So you just gotta go for it, be spontaneous. Worst case, she rejects you, either she isn't that into you or you tried too early. Best case, she follows along and the rest is history. My own kino ladder that has worked 9 times out of 10 : proximity (she's comf… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Why did validation/compliments work for me?Don't listen to the others, no validation ever is a bit too extreme. No harm in feeding her crumbs. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How much muscle do I need to have before I’m allowed to look at women?Bro, Alpha Male Strategies allegedly pulled women being a 300 lbs bouncer in NY. Granted he is 6'5, but being overweight or skinny shouldn't affect your game, you will just get less options to practice with. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do things always go south after the first date?Low virtual engagement either means she wants to test your frame to see if you'll chase her, or just medium to low interest. Blocking or being rude isn't the right answer, you fell into a childish bait. "oH i BlOcKeD tHaT bItCh ThAt'Ll ShOw HeR" yeah right, like she's gonna lose any sleep over this. Keep her on social media (if that's too much of a burden for you, mute her posts and stories) and show your value. How do you do this? By posting fine pictures of yourself, partying with hot girls...… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Black Girls Try to Open me All the TimeI've noticed this too, even lightskin girls behave like this. They're pretty much straightforward and are less naive to getting played than white girls. They're a bit more masculine in their behaviour, on the extreme side of the spectrum they're these entitled IG/Twitter thots that proclaim themselves as queens lmao. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Used to recieve these snapchats all the time. WTF am I supposed to do?Reply something silly about the background, don't validate her looks or you'll just be a classic orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Classic case of too afraid of going for the kiss, how to proceed next?24 lmao. I've fucked girls on first or second dates before, let's say COVID has ruined some of my confidence... | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually go for the kiss?Exactly, going for it makes her respect you for being a man and making your intents known. Worst case scenario, you wish her well and go on with your life. Best case scenario, you can stay in touch with her (or even be friends), since she's attractive you can set her up with a friend, go to parties with her (since her presence will give you positive social proof). | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you actually go for the kiss?Wish I had read this thread about 5 hours ago, just came back from our 3rd date where I didn't have the balls to go for it. We had kissed on the 2nd date, but for some reason I was too shy today, I managed to go reverse on the kino scale, what the fuck. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 07:47 PM |
| 3 | What was the catalyst in your life that made you Red Pilled?It's when my first LTR I ever loved sent me the classic "We need to talk". We talked things over for 2 hours in a parking lot, and I managed to cry in front of her, then hugged her at the end "thanking her for the good times". EW BLEH. 22 yo me, what the hell stupid ass beta cuck? And after learning RP, everything made sense and I realized I should have left months earlier. I forgot who wrote this gem, something along the lines of "If a girl has to break up a relationship, it means the guy shoul… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Is the red pill popular now?That's what females call "toxic masculinity" | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Do girls try to "destroy" guys who alpha widow them or what is this about?He's a man confronting HR (likely women) against a woman... She won't face any consequences. She can even claim sexual harassment for revenge so HE's the one who'll get framed. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | About to "soft-next" every girl I'm gaming to focus on myself, change my mind.Props for the weight loss. Of course it will help, yet I've seen fat guys pulling chicks, so maybe there's no reason I should refrain myself from dating. I'm "only" overweight at that point. Interesting point of view. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | About to "soft-next" every girl I'm gaming to focus on myself, change my mind.Makes sense, I've had a girl who was in class with me, back in 2017, hit me up after she ran into a fitter version of me two years later! Cutting back on dating won't be harmful for long term that's right. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Add all girls you are dating on IG : good or bad idea?IG can be used as a bonus to your dating life, TRP likes to hate on social media but used correctly they can definitely help. Fair point, also you can showcase your looks and/or body if you're fit enough. A good ratio looks good, but tbh it's secondary. If she's really into you, it doesn't matter whether you have a 1K/200 or 100/600 ratio. Nah you're overthinking, girls don't creep through your followers. However they love to stalk who COMMENTED your pictures. Especially if it was cute girls who… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | U unfollow the chick that u broke up withThere's a "Mute" button made for you, if you want to hide a person off your feed without unfollowing. Unfollowing doesn't make you look butthurt per se, but usually sends a message that you want to distance yourself from that person. However, when a girl does it to you, it's a strong message tho, because all girls spend countless hours on Instagram and follow hundreds of ppl. Getting removed by a girl following 1000 ppl means seeing you on her newsfeed triggered more negative feelings than the c… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | What are some big turnoffs that you discovered about a girl that completely lowered your attraction to her after you got to really kno her?Girls who have multiple pets tend to be crazy and messy. In general, it shows that they have attachment issues. They want to compensate their excessive need for love & affection, by getting it from a constant feed from external sources, e.g animals. This cute 7 took me to her place, she had multiple cats. The smell turned me off so I ended things with her after hooking up once. She went so crazy on me that I had to block her from social media. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:49 PM |
| 3 | I may be pushing too hard with girls. Advice?It's funny, I just posted a thread about issues I'm having about becoming RP, basically I don't invest emotionally at all anymore , so I behave very coldly with girls. But introspection made me realize it's not my authentic self, but only a facade against my fear of abandonment. And trying too hard to glow up as a fuckboy as a revenge, after being an ugly beta in my teen years, who knows. Girls sense it when you're being an overcompensating alpha trying to mask beta behaviour. Try to improve you… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?Jesus stop being so insecure, of course you're going to encounter guys that AMOG you, it's part of life. If you're currently the best version of yourself, there's no need to worry about another guy's SMV. Of course if you're out of shape, not on your purpose, e.g not in your masculine frame, your GF will at some point lose attraction for you and may be tempted by someone who has his shit together. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 04:41 PM |
| 5 | A new trend at parties : getting shit-tested by her friends for being a playerIt's funny because one of the girl's friends who tried to cockblock me has had a crazy crush on me for months but she's deep in my friendzone lmao, you got that right. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I quit looking at my ex's social media?Move tf on, there are so many girls. Work on yourself until the breakup has been digested, get some easy lays and you’ll forget that girl for real. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 01:53 AM |
| 7 | How do I quit looking at my ex's social media?Hope it’s satire tbh. Otherwise block her, that will make you feel better. Are you sure that you wanna see her with her new bf that’s digging her guts TILL SHE BUHHH | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 68 | Plate thats obsessed w/ me stalks me on IG and sent me this shit lol. Unreal. Thoughts?Follow this stuff with a burner account, because this RP advice without context is exactly what unaware people (e.g girls) categorize as incel/misogynistic/patriarchal mentality. They hate the fact that men are figuring them out. I know it's unfair, but like other commenters said, Rule #1 of Fight Club. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 11:12 PM |
| 20 | How do you guys cope with all the "psudo alpha gurus"? I'm so sick and tired of all the liars ruining the manosphere."Yewtewb, what it dew" | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 01:53 AM |
| 2 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyAFAIK, yes lmao | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 12:35 PM |
| 90 | What Red pill Has Surprised You the Most on Your JourneyYour relationship (whether plate, FWB, LTR) is one IG DM away from getting ruined. I literally got a plate "stolen" by a pro bball player from my city. We were seeing each other for 2 months. After carefully vetting her, I was ready to get in a LTR with her whenever she would want to have the "talk". She then ghosted me out of the blue (leaving me on seen when I asked her to hang out) and I saw this tall guy on her IG story a week later. She even hard nexted me herself (IG unfollow/Snap deleted)… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Is it sometimes better to not go for the f close on the first date?Kclose on first, Fclose on second if first date succeeded, would be the most reasonable middle-ground to go for. You don't give the impression that you wanna pump & dump, but you still wanna be assertive with your attraction and build some kind of relationship (that's up to you). | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 11:23 PM |
| 8 | What are your worst post RP fuck ups?Lost some plates by stopping pursuing completely whenever I noticed their interest fading via text. You’ll be chased by simply existing if you’re a top male, but I forgot that the average male has to pursue at least a bit to keep some chemistry. And girls have so many orbiters and high value males around them, that she’ll forget about you quick if you didn’t make a good enough impression on her. I took “if she really wants to see you, she’ll text you back in 2 seconds” too literally. And that so… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 10:30 PM |
| 7 | Do you recover from not kissing when you had an oppurtunity?Well you missed your window with that girl, don’t ever hit her up again unless she reinitiates. You know what, I’d rather be bold from the start and get rejected. Girls that reject you fast will at least respect you for having balls to make a move. And they can still resurface later, if they see that you greatly improved your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | What are your techniques for changing low-interest girls into high-interest girls?Major SMV upgrade often works | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Waiting for an attractive 17F to be 18, acceptable or grooming?A Western European country ! | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 206 | How I Turned A Formerly Low Interest Girl Into A Fuck BuddyReally interesting, shows how SMV upgrading can change a girl's impression of you. Have a similar story. Summer 2019, I went to a new gym and ran into this hottie (anecdote : we knew each other by sight from a training course, in which I hooked up with another hot girl who ended becoming an ex, preselection eh). So long story short, we reminisced on this funny training course, and decided to get drinks a few days later. I tried to make my move and she rejected me, by stating she has a bf (which … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Not chasing at all, even nexting some girls without closure feels wrong to meShowing less interest = vague response when getting asked out / tendency to leave on read / colder body language on dates, these kind of signs | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Not chasing at all, even nexting some girls without closure feels wrong to meUseful reply, what you said showed that I care maybe too much about what the girl will think. Definitely something to work on. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on Youtube red pill coaches?The Four Horsemen of Game aka : FITXFEARLESS MJGetRight AlphaMaleStrategies StephIsCold They are the big brothers I never had, so much wisdom, facts and life lessons learned from these Gs | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Who is a real life examples of Alpha male?FitXFearless | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Tinder questionWhen a girl is reluctant to give her number, getting her IG is fine. Best case scenario, you have interesting/attractive pictures and you have great chances to successfully set up a date. Worst case scenario, it doesn't go anywhere but you gain an extra follower which can help your account grow. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 5 | What's that one simple technique or mindset you started implementing has changed your skills with women?Abundance mindset & minimal emotional investment is the most important, if a woman plays games/leaves you on read/takes long to text back, on to the next one ! | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 23 | What RP lesson was so bitter for you?She is not yours it is only your turn | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with abundance in tactful way?Yeah girls are so backwards about this, never tell them upfront. I failed to plate some girls I had made out with, just because I was too honest when they shit-tested me about being a fuckboy, the typical “I don’t want to be in competition with other girls, if you see other ones besides me I’m out”. Always be mysterious about it, they love being left wondering. An optional thing you can do is showing yourself on IG/Snap stories with attractive girls, that can help if you’re a social media guy. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Do THOTS at the gym also makes you guys so fucking mad?You should use this anger as motivation to be the ripped Chad those fit thots will want to fuck ! | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Using task planner apps (e.g. Todoist, Notion, OneNote etc) to keep track of girls in your rotation?iPhone Notes app is enough for me | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 7 | How do I screen out promiscuous girls?Their social media can be pretty telling, if they have IG pictures showing lot of skin, those are the ones who crave (and get) male attention/validation the most. And of course they’ll fuck IG Chads who slide in their dm’s. Also watch their stories, if they party a lot, with slutty-looking friends they’re likely to be slutty too. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 06:42 PM |
| 7 | What was your harshest experience of "She's not yours,it's just your turn"?I’ve been the opposite in that situation, going for a smoke on the girl’s balcony while she was showering post-sex, and keeping tabs on my dating apps | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | New plates want to be exclusive very early?Yes indeed, meeting girls who live by themselves almost always resulted in 1st or 2nd date lays. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | New plates want to be exclusive very early?What do you mean exactly? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | What was your biggest blue pill slip up after becoming red pilled?Giving flirty attention again to some girl I don't really fancy. I used to flirt a bit at the start, but in the end rejected her and clearly stated I just wanna be friends with her. I think that made me even 10x more attractive to her, she started flirting aggressively and I bit again. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you have gf? Shit testThis. You don't know what to answer? Agree and amplify, always | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 07:33 PM |
| 12 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Exactly, well said. Also, be busy and STAY OFF YOUR DAMN PHONE. Instead of texting/dm-ing/snapping all day, investing all your energy into worrying about being left on read, find short bursts of time during your day to interact with your social media bitches. Of course from time to time you can have a long conversation with some girls, but in general always being a little unavailable (e.g being online but not opening her messages, taking hours to answer, leaving an uninteresting message on read)… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 03:03 PM |
| 37 | How to text girls [Guide + Personal tips]Yeah indeed. Lost a former fuckbuddy I hadn't talked to in months, I initiated a conversation during this quarantine, we talked a bit, we ended on a double-text that she left on seen for days. I found this strange, I should've let it slide but emotions got the best of me and I texted her "Ok you left me on read, I'd rather have you tell you're not interested anymore right away instead of playing me like this". Of course it didn't end well, she replied "Well fine if you're going to react like thi… | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 09:19 PM |
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