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CMVSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:05 AM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:39 PM
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Question For MenSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:41 PM
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Question For WomenSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:41 PM
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Question For MenSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:56 PM
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Basic QuestionSimple-Craft-9577/r/askMRP03/04/21 06:10 PM
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DiscussionSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:26 AM
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DiscussionSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:48 AM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:31 PM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:15 AM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:48 PM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:04 PM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:00 PM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:36 PM
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Simple-Craft-9577/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:39 PM
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DiscussionSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:40 PM
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Pretty sure this is a troll account
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 01:52 AM
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In ultra hd 1080 fps , going down on one man together
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:09 AM
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Yeah but it’s important to know what someone is referring to as sexual assault. A lot of teenage girls engage in consensual sex etc. with guys of their age and above. Eventually they realize that what they did would be frowned upon and then claim that they were assaulted. So you’re right victim blaming is wrong. But what is also wrong is claiming you were assaulted when you clearly consented to everything and enjoyed it. It’s unfair to actual victims of sexual violence and desensitizes others fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:33 PM
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Yeah maybe 12 -14 is a child , but around 15 most people develop enough sense to tell right from wrong in extreme cases
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:22 PM
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Only if it was penetrative. Also, a lot of women below the age have consensual sex when they’re about 16-17. That’s below the age of consent in some states. We don’t call that rape even though it statutorily is. Technically it is. But it’s not regarded as a form of rape or sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:06 PM
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What do you mean by sexually assaulted? Like what happened exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:59 PM
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Fighting off giant spiders and gators
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:55 AM
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No they won’t. That’s not casual at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:23 PM
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It is a sad state of society that we live in that literally hosting sessions where you parade naked to appease random men is considered a “red flag” now. Only fans and cam girls are a red flag ?!? I would have imagined that these would literally disqualify women from any serious relationship ever, let alone marriage. But now this is only a red flag?! Meaning hypothetically, there is opportunity for this to be balanced out by other green flags ?! It’s one thing to do it due to financial issues. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:56 AM
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Please don’t generalize. A lot of women claim not having doors open for them as harassment. The reason why most women have a “story to share” is because several of them piggy back off what actual victims go through and use their trivial inconvenience as a ground to bash men. This is exactly what has pushed men away from supporting women rights and gender equality. Because it is no longer about who is the victim vs who is the perp. It’s more about “being a victim” being in trend. Edit: Also age g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:04 AM
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It’s 2022. That could actually be true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:48 PM
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FDS is banned ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:53 AM
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Who the fuck thinks it’s gay to wipe their ass ? Are we saying we have men walking around with poop filled butts ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:02 AM
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No it’s not. Demisexuality is when you need an emotional connection to fuck. Stop trying to weasel your way lower on the slut-o-meter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:24 AM
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Your first statement is such a paradox lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:40 PM
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Demisexuality has nothing to do with physical attraction. Look it up. You’re arguing about irrelevant stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:40 PM
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Sure. I can agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:30 PM
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I doubt that is the case. Women folks tend to know their peers better. Saying I don’t have casual sex is one thing. Saying that a large population of women don’t is another. What is being mentioned in the OP is not a personal preference, but as assumption about women in general. That’s what I’m refuting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:14 PM
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Said it before and I’ll say it again: the only people that harp about this whole demisexual notion are folks that women are not having casual sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:10 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:21 PM
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Disagree. It happens the moment they start considering her for an LTR or a future co parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:32 PM
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If chad had a child with Beckie, would the child be called checkie or bad ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:01 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:27 PM
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Then you’re not dealing with red pill men. You’re dealing with socially inept fools that lack basic people skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:35 PM
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Exactly. Same here, except that I probably became RP aware in 2018. Never had any issues whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:29 PM
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Utter crap. A plethora of men hide their misogyny and deep rooted bias just to be able to sleep with a woman and then later back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:13 PM
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I agree. It’s still no consent. But all I said was that the conversation is never black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:24 PM
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But it’s not alway as black and white as that Him: Can I choke you while we fuck? Her : Tee Hee! I dunno. Feel like such a slut but I wanna be dirty. Lol! ROFL ! I dunno! Stop asking me. Just so unromantic!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:48 PM
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Not sure about getting hit on. But this one time on a first date, a girl wanted me to come back to her place to Netflix and chill. I didn’t know what that meant and thought that it meant actually watching Netflix. In my head I was like why go all the way to the other end of the state to watch TV? I can watch tv at home. Turned down the offer. Still regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:25 PM
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Sex on the beach ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:18 PM
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You’re not a pro until you can do all 4 together
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:32 PM
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Lol you can’t ignore the social stigma. What world are you living in ? If you’re ok with severe negative judgment, then looks like you’re shameless and probably don’t know what a good social status feels like. In which case, I doubt I’d be interested in debating with you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:11 PM
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That’s not the stigma. That’s just the term used to describe the male counterpart of a slut. But it doesn’t being any stigma. At least hasn’t to me. Everyone around me that’s aware of my sexual history, has never used that as reason to not pursue me. Literally no one. They may have been concerned about whether I will commit to them. But never have they said “oh. That’s disgusting. I won’t date you.” And this includes women from all kinds of backgrounds, all educated and excellent potential partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:55 PM
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I don’t care about being the ideal person when it come to dating. I date to be happy. Not to be virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:53 PM
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Firstly, the stigma isn’t old school. The thought process might be. But the stigma still very well exists. That’s why there’s so much agitation and debate about female promiscuity. Like it or not, it does. Secondly, what you are referring to as pathetic has actually got me so much luck in life. Not being with someone that has a reputation actually buys you social value and that in turn buys you more connections and opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:52 PM
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I can understand why it’s too much get into your thick skull. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:49 PM
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I think by stigma I meant slut shaming and actively calling them out. Like a lot of folks do. Both here and irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:41 PM
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In a heartbeat. I don’t care about stupid divorce and n count related studies. Neither do I care about her having slept with better endowed men. If the social stigma didn’t exist, I would have happily married women with high counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:38 PM
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I don’t think so. I don’t shame women that are promiscuous. I never call them out or shame them or say they’re in the wrong. I just don’t want anything to do with the social stigma they bring on to themselves. If I had it my way, there would be no shame and everyone would be free to date whoever they wanted. But it’s not that way right ? So why should I worry about their decisions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:36 PM
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Yea coz I like expressing myself and am right now in a boring cab and ride. You’re probably too thick to string two sentences together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:32 PM
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The irony is I am literally happier than ever. I’m with a super attractive medium n count girl who is super educated. I make 2.5 times the median income in my area. The latter helps get whatever resources I need to have a happy life. Your internet ranting is literally funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:30 PM
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Proud and own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:26 PM
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Nope. Hard to put a number on it. I’d rather judge by overall attitude towards sex than a distinct number. I usually date women 28 and above and so maybe 15 is a max. Of course that entails serial monogamy only. Non monogamy, threesome, etc are dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:24 PM
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The social stigma associated with me sleeping around is not the same for a woman engaging in the same behavior. Women are shamed for it. Men are not. I prefer women that acknowledge that and act accordingly. It’s a sad truth about society, but it is what it is. I slept with 30+ women across 2 years to sow my wild oats. Between 26-28.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:22 PM
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Social stigma is not trivial. People laughing at you is not trivial. It’s humiliating and shameful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:14 PM
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I’ve slept with more than 40 women. I still don’t want someone with a crazy n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:12 PM
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The day you forego your “innate” desire for a long term relationship or marriage, you will truly stop worrying about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:56 PM
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I respect them a bit more. Even if they just offer and I dont let them pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:47 PM
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Yeah but why are you assuming that the relationship is predatory ? If there is evidence to establish that, then sure call it predatory. But there needs to be more evidence to substantiate than just the age difference. You said it yourself. Negative issues can exist in all relationships, irrespective of age difference. The moral base exists because people assume a prejudice against men and adopt the women are helpless victims mindset for no good reason at all. Virtue is gender independent. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:46 PM
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I would never understand this concept of predatory. Two consenting adults choose to be in a relationship/casual arrangement. Both are of legal age and both capable of taking decisions out of free will. Where the fuck does predator instinct come into play ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:16 PM
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lol 😂 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:17 AM
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Seriously!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:08 AM
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Honestly, I don’t buy this whole “spread my seed” notion. I for one have no interest in doing so. I can’t ever imagine having kids but if I do, I would only do it because I want to add to my life, and not because I am concerned about my seed. Like I literally don’t give two hoots if my genes were to die with me. But then I could be biased since I’ve had a lot of sex and so don’t see as much thrill to it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:42 PM
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The only people to blame for that is men and their undying thirst. I say this as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:38 PM
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That’s a weak argument. There are a million problems out there in the world. A movement/community can choose to fight against any of them. That doesn’t mean they don’t acknowledge the existence of others. Male on male sexual violence is a problem. Female on male sexual violence is also a problem. I choose to focus my efforts on addressing the latter. That does not mean I don’t acknowledge the former’s existence.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/22 02:39 AM
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Won’t wash their dicks lol ! I spat my water.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:51 PM
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Not sure about beta or cuck or whatever but his actions at the Oscar appeared to be pretty stupid and ridiculous. Also, you could be “alpha” at one point and then go on to becoming a chump eventually, because of circumstances and mindset shifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:49 PM
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More power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:01 AM
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Where do you meet these escorts? How do you get them to come over ?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/22 06:19 PM
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Why does “watching porn” have to equate to having a full blown addiction? Everything in moderation is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:02 AM
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Casual sex is casual sex. The intent, objective and frequency is immaterial. You are judging others for enjoying casual sex, because YOUR experiences were bad. That’s literally the kettle calling the pot black. Setting a standard, while not having lived up to it is fine. Just acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:20 PM
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You just said you had two ONS ?!! What do you mean “don’t do casual bullshit”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:01 AM
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That’s exactly how I was. Literally the same. But once it happened, it was like that anxiety never existed !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:53 AM
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I made the social validation point as a second one, not as a continuation. I agree that there is desire but then all that passion and strength would only come for the right woman right ? I cannot fathom being with someone that I am not attracted to. Sure, I can compromise a little bit dropping my standards below a certain point will seem like being with someone for the sake of it and not because of the aforementioned desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:38 AM
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The issue I have with this post is that it promotes the concept of a man being “incomplete” without a permanent partner. Why should one have to lower standards just to have someone in one’s life where basic premise like attraction is missing. Why can the average man just accept that he won’t have female companionship ? I’m not even talking MGTOW or woman hating. Just learn to be happy on your own. For sex there’s always other avenues like hookers. Perhaps there is some level of social validation…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:31 AM
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I’d get 200 of those women and make a human centipede out of them. Then do the last one Doggy style and claim that I did 200 women at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:25 PM
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By holding on to anger against someone that doesn’t matter to you anymore and cannot influence your life, you are unnecessarily punishing yourself. It’s human to feel angry but it’s important to acknowledge it, and let it go for your own sake. Not always because the other person “deserves forgiveness”, but because you don’t want to impact your own self.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:57 PM
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What she group is this ? 3-5 is not that high
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:46 AM
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Pot-ass-ium
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:08 AM
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You just had to say this right before I was about to have bananas for breakfast !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:16 PM
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Protecting something entails doing so at the risk of your own sake. Which would further indicate that what you are protecting is valuable and worth dying for. I would certainly put my life on the line to protect the dignity and respect of my partner, IF she has done her best to protect it herself. If however, her actions indicate that she is not too bothered about protecting it herself, or she doesn’t care too much about what it represents, only a fool would sacrifice his own purposeful existenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:50 AM
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The word “trauma” is thrown around like crap these days. It’s being trivialized like anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:58 AM
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Like a meat or vegetable filling ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:02 AM
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No patty ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:01 AM
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What burger was it ? I’m hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:00 AM
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Shulk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:39 PM
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I’m sorry but aromatic individuals do exist. I reek of a sandalwood smell and I could never date someone that smells like anything other than lemongrass or peppermint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:51 PM
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Sure but I don’t reel under the misconception that the desire to engage in sex stems only from hormonal urges. Societal validation, wanting to feel empowered and intoxication are just few of the several reasons why women engage in intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:07 AM
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Once again, I’m sure you meant to write “that WHICH contains”. WHICH is a pronoun. WITCH is what your mom is :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:24 AM
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I think he’s trying to say something. Someone please find him the punctuations and an idiot’s guide to the difference between you’re and your.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:16 AM
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Sure but that is because of social conditioning. Society shames women for being upfront about their sexual desires. Also, it’s about supply and demand. Men throw themselves at women and hence women, by default do not need to approach or engage proactively. Your OP is referring to the desire for sex, not the means.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:35 AM
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Yes because blatant and shameless expression of desire is not how most normal people, especially women are conditioned to behave. Your example is flawed from the perspective of the approach that the subject takes to soliciting sex. Given favorable and non judgement circumstances, women are just as interested in casual as men are. Do they want to do that for their entire lives ? Maybe not. But do they file it out completely ? Not as frequently as you would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:30 AM
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The only people that say this are the folks women are not having casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:24 AM
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I refuse to have a threeway with her and organisms with more than 7 limbs. Takes away octopuses, squids and spiders. Call me old fashioned but I just don’t feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:04 AM
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When you said dexter, I immediately thought of the cartoon with the laboratory. I was like weirdest fantasy ever !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:46 AM
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😅😅😅😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:01 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:28 AM
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I highly doubt calorie counting belongs in that list. All those massive muscular guys that are considered masculine, got there by optimizing their diet just as much as their workout regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:19 AM
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Got it. Thank you for your explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:05 PM
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What happened in Japan ? Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:58 PM
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I meant lower than mine*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:35 PM
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There is a certain status associated with being highly educated. Your lifestyle and recognition becomes way higher. No flight attendants coz of not being able to spend enough time with me due to their work schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:01 PM
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I’m not as particular about her income as I am about her qualifications. She has to be a masters degree holder or higher, for me to even consider getting into an LTR with her. If a girl actively chooses to pursue a slightly lower paying job i.e. 75-90k per year because she is truly passionate about that domain and is working there, not because she is not qualified to work elsewhere but because she has a passion for that domain , I would be fine with it. Notwithstanding the above, I would never d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:35 PM
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As long as the man has verbally asserted it’s casual, there is no reason for the woman to assume it’s not. If she does that, it’s her own fault if she is disappointed subsequently. More than holding hands, going on dates, kissing etc, the biggest example of what was once considered as the ultimate sign of a relationship was sex. Now that sex can sustain outside of a relationship, anything else that the guy does should never be construed as indication of wanting a relationship. As a man, there co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:46 AM
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Bro who the fuck cares ?!! Stop losing your sleep over some random person on TikTok. This is why people with zero talent become celebs and Inflate their egos on social media. It’s because you spend too much time analyzing and obsessing over them. I bet she wouldn’t care if you something super difficult were to happen to you tomorrow ! Same applies to celebrities. Some commoners literally obsess over what they wear, who they fuck etc. And it’s not as if those people are super good human beings or…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:32 AM
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I agree. Perhaps special was not really the right word to use. Makes it sound very Disney like as you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:37 PM
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Lol. Jillian is super funny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:11 AM
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Reasons why past promiscuity won’t bother me- She thinks her ex was better. If she does, she does. That’s for her to deal with. As long as I’m having a good time and she doesn’t complain of me being selfish in bed, i am good. Of course this applies only if she doesn’t cheat. She tried something in bed once or twice, did not like it and now won’t do it with me. She’s a human being and is allowed to try stuff and not like it. She is not bound by contract or obligation to do the same for me, if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:06 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:03 PM
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The last statement sums it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:02 PM
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I like how you meant to write pay instead of lay but the typo makes perfect sense too :p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:08 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:20 AM
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I once dated a girl like that. She had an amazing Instagram profile, with very appealing photos and a lot of followers. Was very attractive. However, that was one of the worst relationships of my life. She was pathetically obsessed with getting clicked, posing and spent hours in trying to filter her photos to look good. And all this while being conventionally attractive, without any filters. I recall going to Atlantic City with her and being excited about exploring the boardwalk. She made me sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:55 AM
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Aren’t you out of money by now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:04 PM
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Human cock-ipede
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:14 AM
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So articulate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:57 PM
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So did it happen or na ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:26 AM
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What’s an interrupted opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:18 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:21 PM
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I hail from India and lived there for 28 years before moving to the west. Do what you want but I assure you that women in India are not as “peaches and cream” as you consider. I have had multiple casual relationships with women in India, many of which included meeting them moments ago. As have my friends. And this is while living in a conservative city like New Delhi. The situation is far far more worse in places like Mumbai and Kolkata . Not trying to discourage you. Just giving you cogent advi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:00 AM
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You just eliminated 90 percent of the women in North America. Especially if 1996 is your birth year and you’re looking to date within a similar age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:51 AM
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Lol your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:25 PM
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“Come on, you’re my stepsister” “So what, it’s not as if we are related?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:08 PM
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Convenient is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:56 PM
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So is the use of sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:52 AM
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Doesn’t that make it closer to actual sex? Some may argue that it’s better to “simulate” something as close to real life experiences as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:49 AM
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Hahaha good one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:46 AM
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Any recommendations for around the Bellevue area ? Moving there later this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:05 AM
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Gotcha. Yes I totally agree with all of those points. I think I misinterpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:04 PM
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Only they’re not. You’re telling me that only a minority of women have ever engaged in casual sex?! I strongly disagree based on my personal experience. I’d say that a small minority of women would choose casual sex over an actual relationship. But to say that only a small minority has ever had casual sex or has probably dipped their toes in it once or twice is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:54 PM
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They were referring to age gaps of 6-9 years. Each of those two relationships I referred to had the same age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:51 PM
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Most women want relationships. However, there could be occasions where that’s not feasible. Either because the guy is leaving soon or she just got out of a relationship. There could be a lot of reasons. During those times, plenty of women engage in casual sex. Believe it or not, women have the ability to have NSA sex. The question of getting hurt only arises when there is a mismatch of expectations. When both parties know that it’s going to be casual, there is no question of getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:48 PM
3

Nope. One had a part time job through out our relationship whereas I didn’t. She picked up tabs several times and even paid more than 50 per cent for stuff that we did together. The second one graduated before me since my degree took longer. She landed a job that put her in the top 10 percentile of industry earners. She didn’t need a dime of my money. Yet happily stayed with me until we had to part ways since I got a job in a different city. Both girls were extremely attractive. I don’t get into…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:51 AM
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Firstly, that doesn’t matter. Dating is dating. Everyone dates for one or more of the reasons above. Secondly I was a broke grad school student and they were in college. So there was no question of my money being an incentive for them. I had none. Neither am I a chad or some super good looking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:44 AM
1

News correspondent: A lot of people died during COVID. OP: no they didn’t. Because more number of people didn’t die.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:18 AM
4

~ 20 percent is a huge proportion. That’s like 1/5th of the entire sample space.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:47 AM
2

There are a plethora of women willing to date elder guys. When I was single I dated women that were 8-9 years younger to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:16 AM
5

I’ve never had a bad experience. There are all kinds of folks on apps. All about luck in terms of being able to find and connect with the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:56 PM
2

Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:05 PM
2

I saw this. But couldn’t access the results. Do you have a link to that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:53 PM
1

The idea is not to lose sleep over your partner cheating. The idea is to develop a mindset where you won’t care even if she does. It’s not ideal but definitely a better stance in terms of self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:43 PM
0

I highly doubt that these folks have conventional relationships/marriages. Perhaps they do. But i wouldn’t be surprised if their “family life” is actually a facade to sport a politically acceptable image while not adhering to any of the conventional norms of marriage or monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:47 AM
4

The only solace is if you were a chad during youth. It’s somewhat of a saving face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:19 AM
2

What country are you in ? The norm will vary across different cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:13 AM
13

Yes. Plus a lot of influx of products for skincare, hair care and nutrition for men. I think several are really popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:39 PM
7

This
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:48 PM
3

I mean I kind of agree but then I still feel like there is only so much you can do to avoid a social judgement due to promiscuity. If you hook up with complete strangers on tinder every time you want sex, just so you can maintain anonymity, it still involves those random men thinking of you as a slut. That is a blow to reputation right there. While I agree with you that it is not a direct tangible impact in that no one group of setting knows of her actions, it still involves a general disregard …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:07 PM
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Not a hypocrite but I do hold men and women to different standards. Everyone does. That’s how society is. Women hold men to different standards than themselves too. I don’t care about some n count statistics or doubts about paternity. I understand science welL enough to know that all those are flimsy arguments. However, I care about reputation. If I sleep around, it’s not going to impact my reputation. If a woman does,‘it’s going to impact hers. And I don’t want someone that doesn’t value strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:50 PM
4

Such an underrated and important statement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:44 PM
8

False. I had a great time during my youth. I still refuse to marry a super promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:41 PM
7

I wouldn’t say useless,but the emotional interdependence between the genders will surely reduce. Society is transitioning towards becoming more individualistic and hedonistic. Community, family and union are concepts that are gradually being compromised and will soon create to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:53 AM
2

Yes but they are way higher in proportion than before. And with the way things are going, the proportion is bound to increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:51 AM
1

Sorry :|
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:12 AM
3

Agreed. Well put. Btw what’s a “hippyish” couple ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:08 PM
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True. The same women also get pissed when we retort “not all men” to discussions about rape and sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:09 PM
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Did you casually hook up or sleep with someone else after breaking up with your last ex ? How were those experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:20 AM
1

For sure !
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:51 AM
4

This seems to be a Swiss study. Not sure of the culture there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:53 AM
0

I wasn’t responding to the OP. I was specifically talking about the one statement that you made where you said that “women generally don’t like being looked at as fresh young pussy”. I’m saying a lot of women don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:23 PM
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Your last statement is factually incoherent, simply because sleeping with someone that you just met, does not give a woman enough time to determine how she is being perceived. She barely knows the guy. If she goes home with a guy she just met at the bar, how does she know how she is being viewed by the guy ? How does she know of his character and intent ? How does she know what he would think of her after orgasming, now that he won’t be horny ? She doesn’t! And the huge numbers of women that flo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:17 PM
2

Don’t bother to argue. It’s like hitting your head against a wall. Women that are between 18-22, perhaps 24, would anyday be more valuable and preferred by men all over. The only reason why it even makes minor sense to LTR or marry a woman above that age is if she earns enough to manage her own expenses and will have a lower chance of leaving you since she knows she won’t have as large a chance of finding love again as she would have when she was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:13 PM
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Lol “who hurt you” is textbook desperate pathetic cat lady vibes. GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:06 PM
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What are you talking about ?! Women have random hookups and ONS all the time. Do you really think that those men value the woman for her personality ?! They only want her for her genitalia and the women know this too. Don’t generalize. Women are perfectly fine with being used as long as it is with their consent. Hence, if a woman consents to date a middle aged man, then there is no qualm in it .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:12 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:16 PM
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There’s literally nothing wrong with it. All these averments about it being predatory and there being a power imbalance assumes that age and resources are proportional to power in a relationship. They’re not. Emotional power is way more influential and there’s no way to tell which of the two has that in a relationship with major age gap. Can anyone seriously advocate for the fact that 18 year old guys are less predatory ? They lie to get into women’s pants and then make fun of her for putting ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:59 PM
1

What country are you in ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:51 PM
1

Lol @ she’d be a bike ! Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:50 PM
1

Well there’s nothing wrong with that. If you want to be a lady that’s taken home to a mom, be one. Else don’t crib.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:45 PM
1

That’s why I mentioned subject to morality. I agree that some things are inherently wrong and immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:09 PM
1

Best I can do is post a picture of a fish my grandpa caught and gave for me to hold for two seconds to have my photo clicked, before it bit me and escaped and I had to use bandaid and moisturtizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:11 PM
1

Yes but they also watched Snow White :p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:32 PM
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A lot of these men did not. They never got enough attention to develop experience. Women are as pretentious as men are stupid. Several of them dawn the goodie two shoes Madonna mask pretending that they’re made of peaches and cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:45 PM
0

I never claimed it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:25 PM
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I think for a lot of people, the anger stems from being conditioned to believe the exact opposite about women by media and pop culture. Modern day dating is a wake up call for a lot of people, who believed that women were perfect little angels that did no wrong. There is nothing inherently wrong with women doing anything( subject to morality). However, a bubble that a lot of men were fed or conditioned to believe is that women can never do wrong. Hence, it’s more of a wake up call.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:34 PM
2

Haha yeah ! Biggest hypocrites. “Stop animal testing of Medicines and cosmetics. Whew, that protesting made me hungry. Whose up for chick-fil-a?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:41 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:40 AM
1

This is barely an experience. You are a stranger on the internet that is unable to provide a concrete example of how sex, that is not rape, is not consensual. My experiences and opinions are too well founded and engrained, to be dislodged by random internet strangers that make assertions without substantiating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:50 PM
1

Well if that’s happened with you or a loved one, I’m sorry. But until I experience something that makes me alter my intent of communicating it that way, I will continue to do so. More power to you and GOD bless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:29 PM
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That is so damn dumb a statement seriously. Do you always preface consensual before every act ? When I say someone had sex with another person, I would never preface it with consensual. The presumption that normal people make is that unless specified otherwise, it was consensual. If it wasn’t, it’s rape. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:37 PM
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Well what they tell others doesn’t matter. I’m not debating the impact of hearsay. All I’m saying is that the act of rape is not consensual sex. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:28 PM
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Yes but it’s not for them to determine the nature of the act. The law does. If the woman is aggrieved, she has the right to set the process into motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:55 AM
4

Well then it’s rape, if it’s not consensual. I wouldn’t refer to that as sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:50 AM
4

The fact that she has sex with him ?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:36 AM
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Gotcha. Yeah that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:38 PM
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But what’s wrong with that message objectively? The guy wants to cut to the chase and ask whether you want sex. If the girl isn’t interested, then she can always say no. If he persists of stalks, then it’s wrong and perhaps predatory. But if he is just saving time, what’s wrong with such an approach ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:34 PM
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I think the reason why a lot of women say “just sex” is because they are trying to downplay the impact that the event had on their lives. Perhaps they assume that the man would be concerned about how much emotional impact that relationship may have left on the woman and so she tries to downplay it to make it appear that she wasn’t emotionally invested in the guy and so tiger current partner doesn’t feel as if she is still into that casual partner. What they fail to understand is that the lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:23 PM
1

Well 2020 stats said that 21 percent of women in the US have had more than 10 sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:11 PM
1

Same with takis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:18 PM
1

Somewhat yes. I’d say it’s the other way round. Anything that is shamed by others is what impacts the family the most. Although trends vary culturally. The larger and more metropolitan cities don’t care as much. The somewhat less developed ones ostracize folks for such acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:01 PM
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And this is what is abused by a bunch of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:46 PM
3

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:19 PM
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IMO, your father’s perspective is ideal and exactly how a father should raise daughters. It promotes protecting reputation and choosing dignity over temporary pleasure and hedonism. While at the same time, not instilling any patriarchal or stereotypical behavior. It’s wonderful to read this and if I ever had a daughter, I’d replicate this as much as I can. Reputation matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:28 PM
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31 M, 7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:43 PM
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I didn’t assume that. I said that because those are the more commonly stated reasons behind those events other than just the “pleasure oriented ones”. Also, your perception about romance and love is entirely different than mine. I realized that the moment you mentioned that both you and your partner have engaged in multiple orgies. I’m not judging, but it’s a very different societal construct that I don’t relate to at all and hence I doubt there would be any benefit in my continuing to debate wi…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 07:09 PM
1

While I appreciate your considerate advice ( genuine statement), I would also recommend for you to look beyond the protective layer of your immediate circle and perceive how society actually works. There is judgement and ridicule everywhere. Not just RP. Even if I were to go out there and start hanging out with better people that were more progressive and liberal, which I can’t fathom since my friend circle is as liberal as it can be and mostly women, I doubt it would change a lot of my percepti…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 07:05 PM
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You are basically reducing your dating pool by a substantial margin if you think that most men don’t judge you for your sexual history. It’s not just conservatives and RP’ers that do that. I know well read, blue voting, liberal, grad school educated men that have grown up in the most open minded environments and even they have expressed discomfort about dating women that have been too casual with their sex lives. Just because they don’t tel you on your face and just because most candid conversat…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:51 PM
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That’s just a cope. They could be amazing and absolutely wonderful people that would make great partners. Their perceptions about sex may stem from legit sources as well.You’re telling me that you would rather prefer removing them from your dating pool just because you wanted to hookup with some rando?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:48 PM
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How the person prioritizes and evaluates their actions does not determine how society perceives it. If a woman has trauma and ends up becoming a stripper, no one will care what led her towards that path. She will be remembered as a stripper period. All the social ramifications associated with that tag will be associated with her too, irrespective of her doing it to “feel empowered” rather than to earn money or just any other hedonistic reason. Similarly, a woman may engage in a one night stand b…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:34 PM
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There is a huge difference between having had sexual experience and being promiscuous. One can have a very average or even above average sexual life and still not engage in promiscuity. Standards differ across communities and societies, but there are still some unanimous intervals within which most folks operate. Not dating a virgin is not the same as wanting to date someone that has had orgies. Btw, what did you mean when you mentioned you’re open ? Did you mean in an open relationship ? Also, …
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:09 PM
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You’re argument while literally correct is missing practical application. Literally no one disqualifies partners, based on not having been promiscuous. Yet, a lot of people disqualify partners based on the latter having been promiscuous. Too less sexual experience is rarely a deal breaker, unless caused due to other factors. Hence my premise still stands that promiscuity mathematically does diminish your prospects. You’re right that there is no guarantee that the people that have been eliminated…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 05:51 PM
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I’m not saying they don’t find partners. Everyone does. Even strippers and hookers end up finding partners eventually. But the fact is that their value as a potential partner does go for a toss. All those friends of yours would have had a much wider range of partners had they chosen to not be promiscuous. On a practical level, it doesn’t matter since the dating world is so open that everyone finds a partner. However, anyone that values a conventional relationship will always value their female p…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 01:47 PM
1

What area is lcol?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:42 AM
1

Well even if she does, you’re still out of the running. No one would imagine considering a depressed maniac with sensitive skin issues and drug addicted family members for a serious prospect anyway. Perhaps you can seek solace in trying to become a spot girl to one of the movie starts you obsess about. May help give some purpose to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:41 AM
1

No idea. In my circle, it’s very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:37 AM
2

Yes I think the factors you included were relevant to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:36 AM
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Lol how on earth would the women know that the guy is someone that hooks up with anyone ? There is no way to tell ! If you meet a guy at a party and hook up with him that night, you have no way to be able to tell whether he is a genuinely nice person and will respect you after you are done, or will go to his friends the next day and call you pathetic names. A lot of these men WILL hook up with anyone. After a particular point, some men get so accustomed to hooking up that they don’t care about t…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 03:33 AM
2

It’s not even about just not hyping her up. She would be ostracized for admitting that fact. Just that the ostracism would be different in different communities. In the more liberal and progressive environments, her actions would be ignored and overlooked. In the more narrow minded and backward ones, she would be called names and insulted. Irrespective of that, her actions would seriously impact her being considered for serious relationships, in both communities.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 03:24 AM
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Herein lies your delusion. The very basis of your argument is that by surrounding yourself with people that you consider are “non shitty”, you create a bubble around yourself and assume that just because no one within that group is judgmental, that’s how the rest of the world is. That is not how the world operates. Whether you accept it, the world is still very judgmental. Even the most progressive and liberal regions are. Perhaps, No one will point fingers at you and laugh, but they will surely…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 03:09 AM
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I’m in the US as well. I didn’t mean tangible impact such as employment or rental. I meant social reputation amongst friend circles and acquaintances.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 12:25 AM
2

Just curious, how much does one’s income have to be to be considered UMC ? Individual or household?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:13 AM
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Not at all. They are not morally wrong. Just that the impact on them is going to be way more than that on a guy, until things change. Again, I’m not justifying this. Just stating what the fact is.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 12:12 AM
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While the lock and key analogy is dumb and pathetic, not everyone perceives sex as a “beautiful thing”. There are people out there, mostly guys, that consider sex and their partners as nothing but conquests and flashlights. They pretend up to an infinite extent to be respectful and dignified, while the bare truth is that all they want is to use a woman’s body for their sexual release. For me, promiscuity, fundamentally should be equally perceived for all genders. However, given today’s social dy…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 11:54 PM
1

But how would you reference your annual salary on a dating app ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:37 PM
3

I have had good success. I didn’t get a huge number of matches, but at least 4-5 per day. Sooner or later, you hit it off with at least one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:35 PM
1

Yes good point. Actually since white is the most sought after race conventionally, my mind went to assume that it’s a cut off. Whereas statistically, it would be higher. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:25 PM
1

Haha yeah I can imagine !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:13 PM
1

It’s a slang for “got ya” or “ got it”. Just an acknowledgment of having understood your point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:41 PM
1

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:38 PM
0

Yeah but did you get intimate with them ? My friend is also pretty much on the same page. She likes this co worker but isn’t sure how to figure out what her feelings mean. Does intimacy or “trying” things out help ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:37 PM
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Lol I was 0.082%. Despite not being white. This calculator is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:34 PM
0

Are you in an open marriage ? Just asking out of curiosity. I have a friend that is bi curious and we are not sure how to “help her get clarity on it”. How did you find out that you were bi ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:31 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:28 PM
33

“Yass queen” is the most popular diet here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:27 PM
21

Lol I was thinking the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:18 PM
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I think what I meant is that they would gladly give up the party habits. But you’re right, the context was of a traditional relationship. I was off point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:25 AM
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Almost every one of these women, will gladly jump onto the wagon of a traditional relationship, once they are done with the party years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:04 AM
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Lol I mean if she is on social media, that’s fine. But someone that basically breathes Instagram is a no go for me. I’ve dated two girls like that and it was a cringefest !
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:01 PM
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I mean I wouldn’t date a Bollywood obsessed good for nothing anyway and so your opinion becomes irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:07 PM
2

Gotcha. Sorry I assumed dating meant exclusive dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:47 AM
2

What do you mean “men I am dating”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:11 AM
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Well getting into a relationship IS how a lot of women get “pumped and dumped”. I don’t know where you’re from, but I’d think that in the west, sex usually happens on the 2nd or 3rd date. The max that happens is that people establish exclusivity before that. If a guy just really wants to have sex with you, he can do all of that, enjoy the sex for a few weeks and then say “sorry, don’t feel a connection”. If that’s a relationship, then it’s clearly not a barrier to getting pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:38 AM
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Lol this is a ridiculous take. Firstly, how long does it take to book a dinner date ? I make good money. Let’s say I want to lie my way into a girl’s pants. You’re saying that just because I call up a restaurant, make a reservation and pay for a 25 dollar meal, I am “invested” in a woman?! For anyone making decent money all this would take literally 2 minutes and maybe a decimal percentage of their salary. No one gives a fuck in investing that for a sure shot at knowing that you will pass her ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:23 AM
1

Didn’t get you sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:46 AM
2

I’m assuming the music part isn’t as much of a dealbreaker for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:33 AM
2

All this sounds very reasonable and what a normal person should expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:23 AM
4

My expectations Has to be physically attractive. My choice is very conventional and so what’s conventionally attractive is attractive to me. Both face and body. More face than body since the latter can be worked on. Has to be have a good education and career. She should be independent and financially stable, not just so that I don’t worry about having to maintain her, but also because I can introduce her to others more confidently. A career means an actual career, preferably in STEM and not some…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:19 AM
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Couldn’t have put it better. Especially the first and the last parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:26 PM
2

Dating ? Not sure. But men that are “active” in their casual sex phase do this with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:21 PM
-1

Yes. This is relevant. It’s all right to be naive and silly during early years and make some mistakes. Let’s face it. Men are no angels. Especially in their younger years, most are outright manipulative and will lie their ass off to get into a girl’s pants. But if a person doesn’t learn despite repeated bad experiences and being “used”, then it just reflects a poor sense of self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:31 AM
2

Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:41 AM
3

Can you invite me next time ? I’m in Bellevue !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:37 AM
4

It is not her fault at all. But such is the world we live in. And everyone that is concerned about reputation, has to live as per its rules until things change for the good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:30 PM
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True. And you have every right to. But it’s not a good feeling for a guy to know that there are other men out there talking smack about her character and calling her names, especially when he himself wants to give her utmost respect and affection. It’s not about “Why should I pay for what others got for free”. It’s about the fact that she hooked up with a douche, while fully embracing the risk that her character and choices could or would be slut-shamed potentially and that she chooses temporary…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:05 PM
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They don’t. But they get pissed off when other men treat her in that way and she voluntarily puts up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:55 PM
1

Are people also less sensitive to stuff like n count ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:59 PM
0

Can you talk a little bit about what PPD discusses that is not part of your circles ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:43 PM
2

I don’t know what love is but there are parts of her that I am attracted to and parts that I could live without. Just that the former exceeds the latter and so we are still together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:48 PM
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Of course. I am not unfair or inappropriate towards her. No cheating, yelling, gaslighting etc. I respect her as a person. Just that I grew up with very different notions about relationships and people and that too in a much more conservative country. When I moved to the west, I had assumed that my mind has adapted its expectations. I quickly realized that it has not. That’s all. It’s ny fault completely. Should have gotten more LTR experience during my early years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:46 PM
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Honestly, sometimes I feel like I have a partner only because being single would mean being a social outcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:34 AM
3

😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/08/21 06:58 PM
5

So when you say IG or FB, you mean sliding into DM’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:12 PM
5

Genuine questions: 1. Where do you meet these people ? 2. Personally, how high do you think your threshold for looks is ? As in how import is it for your partner to look attractive? 3. Do you ever spend time chatting someone up and realizing that they’re not available?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:50 PM
2

How high ? And how old are you ? Some of the numbers that people call “high” here are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:57 AM
1

So if you meet a great girl (based on your own expectations) and say she has around 12-13 before you, you would call it off ? Say she’s around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:02 AM
2

What do you mean depending on age? You mean the lower the age, the lower the threshold?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:56 AM
1

DMed you. Tell me more when you get time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:06 AM
1

Why breaking up bro ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:59 PM
5

Women that have personally trodden down a hedonistic and unconventional lifestyle will almost always encourage conventional women to do the same. A woman that sleeps around and has a body count that’s super high, is aware of the fact that she is an outlier. She will never have the same life or path moving forward as that of a normal woman that is probably average. She has decided to embrace the stigma associated with her lifestyle and yet at the same time wants validation and normalcy to be asso…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:28 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:51 PM
1

You think you would have felt differently had your n count been higher or similar ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:54 AM
3

Mind sharing details ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:39 AM
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Lol good luck with asking her up front and even better luck with expecting an honest answer, if at all any answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:57 PM
2

Men have the closest possible relationships with each other. Provide emotional support and even financial if required.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:48 PM
3

I’ve never been happier. Not everyone needs “love” to feel emotionally content.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:46 AM
1

It does complicate things. But it’s not a situation you can’t come out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:56 AM
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I don’t give two fucks. If I’m not her best, that’s not my headache. It’s hers. If that means that she is going to be thinking about her better endowed ex while being in bed with me, I don’t care. As long as she does not yell his name out. If she cheats, no worries. I would have built enough resources to next her and find another one. Once you realize that nothing about a woman is irreplaceable or that a lot of money can get you a lot of women, this shot stops mattering. I personally believe lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:57 PM
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Yeah but how many of those chat room or Reddit relationships blossomed into actual dating ? If the objective of a user joining the app is to meet a partner, serious or casual, then looks are super important. Just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:04 PM
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The intent of the app is a good one. But as a man, I wouldn’t even bother to get to know someone unless I am physically attracted to them. It might sound shallow but I can’t get myself to overcome the need to be physically attracted to someone. If I spend days on an app, only to realize that the person I was talking to and developing a connection with is actually a land whale, I’ll lose interest from the app super fast and be annoyed at it. Like it or not, dating and relationships are superficia…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:53 PM
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Lol yea seriously! Imagine claiming that guys randomly send insults to women’s DMs. If that were to be the majority, there wouldn’t be as many open Instagram profiles with click bait pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:09 PM
1

I bloomed late in life and started watching pornography at 24. Watched a wide variety of it as well. Eventually when I started having casual sex, I started engaging in all those fetishes with my partners. Several were happy to oblige. Even though those sexual experiences were far more dynamic and intense than the ones I have with my LTRs, the one good thing that came out of all that was that I don’t have my “sex goggles” on anymore. Because I know that none of my sexual experiences with my SO wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:27 AM
1

Actually I asked you the wrong question. I meant to ask what’s a unicorn crowd ? :|
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:26 PM
1

Go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:34 PM
1

True. Maybe not woke in the sense of how some people overdo stuff. I agree that some of the woke folks overdo stuff. But liberal for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:31 PM
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Dude did you not read my comment ?! I literally mentioned irrespective of governments in power. Governments, especially in democracies can be voted in by a vast majority of the population that lives in areas about whom no one gives a shit. Have a look at the coastal states in the US. Even within red states, look at how economic hubs like Atlanta vote blue. With each passing half decade, a new generation of children become adults and get brainwashed into fake “woke” culture and lead lives strikin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:47 PM
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Very true. The entire world is progressing towards a more “liberal and woke” culture. A lot of folks here think that south East Asian countries are still conservative and have cultural contrast with the west. But with the internet connecting everyone, it’s only a matter of 10 years before all these “conservative” cultures will soon become way closer to the west than they ever were. Like it or not, irrespective of governments in power, the future of the world is going to be liberal and woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:37 PM
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Yes but it’s not in consonance with the tone of your sentence. You clearly were listing origin based on geographical origin such as Mexican, Brazilian and African. Mentioning a Hindu origin as part of that doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:29 PM
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FYI, Hindu isn’t a nationality. It’s a religious identification. Think you meant Indian women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:23 PM
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Good points everyone. How about we change this page to the new Asktrp? I miss that page a lot and the new interface isn’t as good !
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/07/21 02:31 AM
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I’m an Indian from India and have had my share of challenges in dating within the US. For all the reasons you mentioned and the fact that I’m not from here. But I’ve always had enough success to keep content. Whether it’s an LTR or casual dating, I get enough matches with attractive and educated women. Of course, its not as smooth an experience as jt may be for a non desi, but the sheer large number of women on dating apps makes your odds higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:41 AM
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And what state do you stay in ? Location could be a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:36 AM
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Are you an Indian from India or from the west ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:34 AM
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What is your definition of a non unicorn crowd? I’m not challenging you. I’m asking for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:30 PM
0

How old are you ? And where do you stay ? I ask because my experience has been a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:09 PM
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And how old are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:23 PM
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Lol you mean in college alone or until she is like 30 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:22 PM
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That’s a silly retort. So you’re saying that the only way a woman can be run through is if she were to have been part of a train ?! I asked what all you entail under your definition of being ran through ? Some guys would say having sex with more than 1 guy. Some would say 20. I’m asking your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:19 PM
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Define “ran through” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:17 PM
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Dude I’m a guy. No ones talking about preferences here. I’m just questioning the logic. Even if you prefer a girl with an n count of 1, why is is your responsibility to be better than the last guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:55 PM
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I won’t. As long as she has been a Madonna through out her life. If she becomes a Madonna only for me, while I may respect her choice, I will not feel comfortable in dating her. I’d feel that she is not embracing who she truly is, and hence will consider her deceitful. The conclusion is that women should either not sleep around, or if they do, they should accept the fact that one of the ramifications is that a lot of men won’t want to date her. That is to say, if they find out everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:56 PM
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But that’s deceitful and immoral. If a woman wants a man that wants a Madonna, then be a Madonna. Don’t pretend to be one !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:39 PM
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It has to be both ways I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:36 PM
2

This is as simple as it can get. Totally agree. Some people complicate simple shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:27 PM
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Any sexual encounter(s) where then intention between the parties is for the relationship to never become an LTR. If you sleep with someone the third date onwards, with the intent of establishing a relationship, and it eventually doesn’t work out for some other reason, it’s not casual. As long as you’re exclusive and monogamous. When I hear FWB, I assume that it’s two friends that are sleeping with each other. It’s very much casual. They clearly don’t want the relationship to head somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:58 PM
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This is the most basic and accurate way of putting it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:54 PM
1

Gotcha. Yeah that’s a good point. In your case I would consider that as casual. Glad to know that some of them worked out well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:13 AM
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I’d disagree with the definition. Casual sex is when two people engage in sex, knowing fully well that it’s not going to lead somewhere. If two people are “seeing each other exclusively” and explore physical intimacy at that stage, it’s not casual. If I sleep with someone on the third date, after being exclusive with her, I’m not in a relationship with her yet, but my intent is to get into one. Hence that intent renders it to not be casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:07 AM
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also, have you never had casual sex ? Like an FWB or a hookup ? I would think that adds to the count as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:39 PM
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I’m sure everyone tries to find that person. Most serial monogamists get into LTRs one after the other. But circumstances can lead people to break up. Especially when you prioritize careers along with your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:32 PM
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Seriously ! This made me crack up 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:18 PM
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Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:12 PM
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Don’t think that’s the case. Many of them had multiple relationships that lasted more than 1-2 years. The reason why the number becomes a bit high is because there are some relationships that become false starts and don’t go beyond a few months. What country are you in ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:11 PM
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Doesn’t it feel bad to you to know that they’re using you as nothing but a flesh light ? I mean you may not want a connection but at least respect ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:49 PM
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Maybe 10 plus is high for early 20s. I don’t know but I date late 20s and early 30s women that are at least masters educated. Most women in that category have at least 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:48 PM
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Then you should not hook up with them. I mean not you personally, but any girl in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:43 PM
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10 plus is high ? How old are you ? Just asking to get context
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:42 PM
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That’s a huge assumption. A man that spent his twenties working on himself, building a career and wealth and has only been in LTRs is a huge catch for a promiscuous woman trying to finally settle down after her sexual escapades. Also, promiscuity and sexual experiences, in that the judgement arising out of them, matter far more for a woman than they do for a man. From the perspective of reputation at least. Is it wrong ? For sure, it is. But until a utopic world is established, that’s how it’s g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:53 PM
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Not just because she fucks him, but the sex is a much bigger deal to a guy than it is to a girl. Physical attraction within a relationship matters a lot more to a guy than it does to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:51 PM
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Yes but being sexually liberal doesn’t equate to fucking randos at bars, as mentioned in the prior comment. What I’m saying is that, a lot of women that lead “crazy and promiscuous lives” will not necessarily highlight that in front of men they are actively trying to court for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:39 PM
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Yes but the rationale behind that appears to be that you don’t want to give away sex to any random person since you value it and only want to share it with someone that matters. Which is a great perspective and rationale, until one realizes that you may have not held another person to the same standard in the past. That’s when your current partner will feel devalued and lesser of a person. It’s a great way to weed out jerks sure, but it also potentially jeopardizes your would be SO’s opinion abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:33 PM
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This is highly highly incorrect. Any woman that enjoys sleeping around, will put on her best and most chaste foot forward, when she is trying to impress another guy that she wants to get settled with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:50 PM
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Theek bhai. Graduated last year and now working full time. Ghar pe sab Theek aapke ? Covid ki koi dikkat to Nai aayi ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:59 AM
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Dilli se. Abhi US mein rehta hu. Aap ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:41 AM
1

Bhai yeh india ka standard bata raha hain ke US ka ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:39 AM
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What’s a high n count for a 20/25/30 year old in your opinion ? Asking coz I read your flair!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:38 AM
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I Miss it man ! :( the new portal just doesn’t cut it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:47 PM
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I’m from India and not a lot of Indian women would be willing to date/ marry a guy from another country, simply because he has a lot of money. Casually hook up ? Sure. But marriage has a far higher threshold and it’s mostly more than just being a rich exotic foreigner. Edit: spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:31 PM
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Lol this made me crack up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:46 PM
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28 out of 31 years of my life. Thought it was pretty obvious based on my comment.
/r/askTRP29/06/21 07:09 PM
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Lol she wants to be “taken out on a date”. The self entitlement on this one is higher than the tallest of peaks. Trust me, it only exists in women that have zero idea what it feels to be truly desired. Let her stew in her pool of unhappiness🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:21 PM
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LOL. I could respond by listing out my four degrees and six figure base pay. But instead, I’ll choose to remind you how sad and unfortunate your life must be to think that you don’t have to pay for shit while getting everything in life. Pretty sure no one gives a fuck about you and your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:16 PM
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A woman wanting to pay for dates is a stronger sign of self respect than not wanting to. Not wanting to pay ever is a sign of self entitlement, not self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:36 PM
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Haha like seriously right ?! It’s funny how some people tend to project utter crap all over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:11 PM
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I think companionship and family are considered to be very relevant for emotional solace. In some ways, indispensable and unparalleled. It’s hard to find emotional solace in other domains, although it’s very much possible. Hence, success in other realms, while very attainable and important, perhaps won’t be able to make up for the lack of emotional needs being met. Although more and more people are dropping out of the “ conventional family” lifestyle, I think it’s hard to find something that pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:18 PM
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It is considered rape in several jurisdictions. Having sex while pretending to be someone that you’re not, is considered rape. In some conservative countries, convincing someone to have sex, on the pretext of a promise to marry is also considered rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:18 AM
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This is such a shit idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:17 AM
1

Could you talk a little bit about what prenups get thrown out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:38 AM
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A lot depends on your take towards life. I was raised in a society where education is given a lot of value. Not to mention, a girl working hard on her career and goals indicates to me that she has the ability to be independent and self sustaining and will not leech of my resources. At least the chances go down substantially. Btw what does your flair mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:41 AM
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Depends on the guy. I exclusively date well educated women. If you’re just a pretty face and body with zero zeal to build a career, I would never be able to respect you as a partner or introduce you to other colleagues and friends with pride. Work on both, if you can. Most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:00 PM
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Since centuries, the primary attribute that men have been credited with has been to provide and in case of women, it has been her sexuality and beauty. Hence, despite having become a very progressive and liberal society, those gender norms are much more strongly ingrained within our minds, that we know of. Women will still be judged more about decisions with respect to their bodies, whether it is sexuality or whether it is their ability to have a body attractive enough to win over a man. Hence p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:58 PM
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PMed you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:23 AM
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I also got an MBA/MS dual degree. What university do you go to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:07 AM
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I’m 31. Got done with my masters last year :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:02 AM
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Haha that’s funny bro. How old are you btw ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:37 PM
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Yeah. Plus those stepsisters need a lot of help when they’re stuck :p
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:39 PM
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Yep. Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:34 PM
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I don’t know about other chads, but as a guy who has had a lot of casual sex, after a point of time, finding just a pretty face and a hot body to fuck becomes boring. My first few casual encounters were with very pretty girls. Once those happened a few times, casual sex got boring for me. My mind started wandering towards other stuff such as kinkier women and getting with girls that would agree to do stuff that other girls won’t. That’s one domain where the average looking girl is usually golden…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:58 AM
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While this is a decent take, here is what happens a lot of times. A girl that is between a 3 and a 6, hooks up with a chad. While chad is using her as nothing but his flesh light and gives literally zero fucks about her personality and nature, she thinks that he is into her because of reasons beyond her sexual abilities. She could misinterpret that chad is into her because of her looks or her personality or both whereas chad just wants her body. Eventually, because chad hooked up with her once, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:14 AM
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These kind of female authors are extremely sad and unfortunate deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:41 PM
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He could if that’s what his preference is. I’d consider that winning as well. As long as he does what he wants without hurting anyone else and by using his own resources, he’s a winner. Also, an inanimate object could never replace the physical touch of a human being. Probably the same reason why women would rather hook up than use a dildo. It’s just not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:17 PM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:11 PM
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No one cares as long as they get sex. Those women can very well be thinking of chad while sleeping with the sugar daddy. I doubt he cares. He’s getting what he wants by using his surplus resources. How does it matter whether the girl is enjoying it ? If he had been in a relationship, then his woman’s satisfaction would have been his obligation. Not here. His obligation is paying her. He might miss out on the joy of having a family. But not everyone wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:10 PM
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Chad uses his strengths I.e. his personality and his looks. A sugar daddy uses his strengths I.e. money and resources. Both are similar setups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:08 PM
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Exactly. Exclusivity in today’s world is also a price. In conventional relationships, men lay exclusivity. In sugar baby arrangements, they pay money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:07 PM
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Just like anything else in life, if they are doing it because that’s what they want to do, they are winners. If they are doing it because money is the only way for them to fill their hollow existence with better sex, then probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:32 PM
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OP is a she.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:24 AM
2

The first two are the same ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:23 PM
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Not a butterfly 😅😅😅😅😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:37 PM
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I agree. But most folks that have sex third date onwards usually establish exclusivity and don’t see other people. They may not be “serious” by definition, but then the exclusivity ensures that they’re giving the relationship a shot and want it to lead somewhere. Most folks become serious after say 2-3 months of dating. Usually. Imagine investing all that time only to find out that the person is not sexually compatible with you. That’s why, during the courtship phase, even though two people aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:01 PM
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That’s not casual sex at all IMO. Casual sex is when both parties have a mutual agreement for things to not go anywhere. If you’re getting to know someone, have sex with them after the 3rd date or so and then eventually things don’t work out after 2-3 months, most people don’t categorize that as casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:52 PM
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What country and city are you in ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:42 PM
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As an Indian man staying in the US, I can definitely vouch for the fact that your SMV will go for a huge toss in most other countries. You have correctly identified the stereotypes associated with Indian guys, especially the ones associated with asking for bob and vagene pics. Not to say that you won’t pull any game at all. But things won’t be as easy as they were back home. Almost 80’percent of my notch count came from girls in India. Here in the US, the barrier is higher to be able to score, n…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:37 PM
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It’s not as easy as finding an answer on Reddit. South Asian women (Indian, Pakistanis, Nepalese, Sri Lankan,etc.) that are born and raised in the US, are just as much influenced by western culture as white women. I’ve hooked up with so many, it’s not funny. South Asian women who have been born and raised in South Asia and move to the US, usually come from the more liberal and larger cities in those countries. They are just as feminized, if not more and while their n counts may not be as high, t…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:12 PM
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What’s her notch count ?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:06 PM
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Very well put
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:12 PM
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Haha very witty response :)
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:24 AM
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Not wanting to take her husbands surname is a personal choice. Wanting to enforce her own on children is a little too extreme. Nothing wrong with it except that it could be an example of similar arbitrary expectations in the future.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:41 AM
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Her age ?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:21 AM
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As long as it’s legal, it’s perfectly acceptable. There’s nothing wrong with it except the fact that some societal agencies frown upon it.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:48 PM
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How much money do you need to have to have a valid sugar baby account on OLD ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:14 PM
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On the outside, work on being someone that has higher value than what you do right now. Not to steal back her attention. Not to win her over. Only and only for yourself. Mentally, focus on developing a mindset where even if she cheats, you won’t give a fuck. She can never have an overbearing emotional impact on you, if you don’t let her. Never let anyone tell you, not even folks on the RP, that your partner cheating has anything to do with you. It’s always about them. Always. Once you realize th…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:59 PM
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That’s exactly what I said. No one dislikes women here. I don’t. Most mature folks don’t. Whenever someone posts shit here about sleeping with married women or flaking on someone after getting them pregnant, everyone advises against it. No body hates women here. Hatred towards something that exists is futile and a waste of personal emotions. Can I hate the sky for being blue ? Is it going to change the color of the sky ? Will my hatred change the inherent nature of a lion to attack me ? Nope. Wh…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:49 PM
2

I love my mother too. However, I never shared a sexual relationship with her. I’m assuming you didn’t with yours either. The red pill focusses on sexual traits that are very deep rooted in all women. It also advises on how to navigate through life while keeping those in mind. There’s nothing wrong with that. There are a lot of deep rooted habits in men as well. Many of which are not ideal. It’s just that men have grown up learning about women with an unrealistic , almost perfect lens, because of…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:44 PM
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He’s not disrespecting her. He simply acknowledges the truth about her and embraces it. If he starts putting his mother on a pedestal, he is going to have unrealistic high expectations of other women that he brings into his life. Later, when they are unable to meet those expectations, he will feel bad. Hence by acknowledging some inherent traits of all women, whether it’s his mother, sister or partner, he is looking beyond what modern day contemporary values propagate women to be.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:35 PM
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Nobody advocates for “plating” women without their consent. It’s just a term used to describe casual partners. Just like FDS uses the term “scrotes”.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:31 PM
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What does she mean only 6 months ? Most women fuck within 6 days…..
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:22 PM
2

Nice gains bro.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:17 PM
1

The ideal thing to do is to pacify her temporarily, ensure that you eventually go to a private space, and then break up. Looks like you did that. Beware of girls like this. One of my exes threatened suicide when I broke up. I was worried for at least a week. Not the best mental space to be in !
/r/askTRP18/06/21 08:20 PM
1

I think this is a very important step for every guy to consider. Not just to increase n count and sexual skills, but also it helps you understand just how much sex people are having these days. The cute library geek, the friendly receptionist that doesn’t wear bold clothes, as well as the super busy grad student, everyone has sex, including casual. It helps you realize and set more realistic standards about what to expect.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:03 PM
1

Where are some right places where you can manage to find quality women? Some options that are practical ?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 10:41 PM
3

Happens with me too. My LTR gets pissed when my exes text me. Like even if they text me randomly and I don’t respond, she gets salty. I usually try to capitalize on the situation and leverage it to create dread. Perhaps try that.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:26 PM
0

Everyone has their own shortcomings. For you it could be your hair, for some it could be that they’re not as tall or as well built as you, and for some it could also mean a general lack of awareness about the world. While there is no denial that the hair might cause some disadvantage, you would still find enough women that would overlook it. Practically speaking, you would always have enough women that don’t care about your hair, whether it’s to spin plates or whether it’s to get into an LTR wit…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:51 PM
9

But if they hunt in packs Iike actual vultures, doesn’t that guarantee orgies ?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:45 PM
1

Good article
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:49 AM
1

Maybe she liked a minerals heavy diet ;)
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:30 AM
13

If she pushed for LTR a few weeks back, this guy could be a ploy to make you jealous and get you to LTR her out of desperation and envy. Just a possibility.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:31 PM
1

Off with her head
/r/askTRP12/06/21 08:40 PM
1

Smart investment practices usually prescribe investing up to 30 percent of your take home into rent plus utilities. But this is purely from a financial investment practice.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:31 AM
2

This.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:49 PM
1

Where do you live ? Just curious
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:48 PM
1

Happens a lot in the Middle East.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:48 PM
1

There is an inherent difference in how women and men value “honor and integrity” in relationships. No matter how much my girl pisses me off, I would never go to my friends and bitch about her. I’ll be too concerned about what perception they would walk away with about her. Women however, may think otherwise. A relationship is a reflection of the person that is leading it. Through out time and across evolution, men have led relationships and women have followed. Hence men don’t choose to air thei…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:49 AM
12

I only pursue career driven woman and so if I were to know your daughter, the fact that she worked hard to establish herself would raise her value in my eyes. As far as sleeping around is concerned, while that might not be the best idea for someone, is it at all possible that you are evaluating her actions a bit more harshly because you have protective father goggles on ? Might make sense to evaluate what “going through boyfriends like French fries” entails ? If it’s a new guy every week or mont…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:38 AM
1

It’s probably because the algorithm messed up your profile.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:38 AM
0

Yeah ok dude. You made your point. Congrats on being assertive.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:13 AM
0

Ok dude. Here’s my admission. Enjoy it.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:49 AM
9

I guess the question here is more about respect than it is about protection. He may be the weakest bitch around, but I would still have an issue if he were to hold my LTRs hand. Your LTR is equally to be called out on this. Tell her you are not comfortable with her letting the guy flex on her. She can easily do it without offending him, so as to not cause any professional issues. I would simply tell her it makes you uncomfortable without losing your cool or scowling and then expect her to respec…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:19 PM
-1

Doesn’t allude to anything. I’m asking whether the barriers would be high. That’s all.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 08:56 PM
1

Yeah good point :)
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:41 PM
5

She appears to be very rude and dismissive. I wouldn’t even plate. Not worth the drama and irritation. In my experience, legit, fun and affectionate girls are sweet and respectful because they know that their natural personality is enough to do the work. They don’t need to be bossy bitches.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:29 PM
2

You cannot hold back on doing stuff towards self development just because you think you will cross lines. Have you ever taken any fucked up steroids to boost gains ? No right? So if you can restrain yourself in one domain, why not others ? You don’t have to go to a club just because others are. But if you want to experience it, go ahead and dip your toes and see how you feel. If you don’t like it, then don’t go anymore. I used to have a very similar mindset about a lot of things back when I was …
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:27 PM
1

Good point. I’ll edit the post.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:57 PM
-2

It’s a question about societal behavior and determining who would be more open to certain stuff than others. Has nothing to do with the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:49 PM
2

That’s coz if she says no , you are best positioned to RKO out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 01:39 PM
1

The only situation where I can see that making sense is when you’re fucking her daughter and she “accidentally walks in on you” and then later joins.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:28 AM
20

Yes. How can he be sure that the 37 isn’t actually 137 ? The trust is gone !
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:07 PM
6

I think he feels icky because both those numbers are pretty high for a 22 year old. If she had been closer to 30, then perhaps 13 would not be that bad a number for him to accept. 37 of course is very hard to digest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:06 PM
2

I don’t get it. If she is in an LTR, what’s the logic behind going on a date with someone else ? I’m assuming you both are monogamous and exclusive?! Does he just want to hang out with her after the prom and that’s what you are referring to as a date ? Either way, if you’re uncomfortable with it, set a boundary and enforce it.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 02:12 PM
2

Got it. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:12 AM
2

If you are happy with her, then be content. You should not be requiring the consent of the rest of the RP community to be content. Promiscuity is subjective. A guy may be condemned for wifing up a girl with a triple digit n count by someone that wifed up a girl with 50 notches. The one with 50 will be laughed at by one with 20 and so on. There would be guys laughing at others for wifing up non virgins and if you go the more conservative societies in Asia, a guy will laugh at you for wifing up a …
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:18 PM
1

What’s removeddit?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 10:45 PM
1

I can understand why not LA. But why not NJ ? Too close to NYC ?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:32 PM
6

You’re 46 ?! Is the picture old ? You look 30 dude. No homo.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:41 PM
7

I’m much younger but am curious to know the intent of you not wanting her to go. Is it because you think she may cheat on you or because you want to generally enforce a boundary around something that you are uncomfortable with ? If you think that you want to “prevent” cheating, then it’s an unnecessary move. Anyone that wants to cheat in today’s day and age can very conveniently do so without their partner coming to know. I mean it takes zero effort to download an app, meet a guy during lunch, f…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:35 PM
9

Sudan
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:42 PM
2

Take your time and observe if the situation improves. If it does then great, if not, the split. Just don’t get oneitis and waste time over something that you know is unsustainable.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:57 AM
3

First and foremost, if she tells you that she loves you after the third date, I’m not sure just how much thought she had put into it. I’m not Disney sucker but love is a complicated feeling that takes a while to develop and a three date old relationship doesn’t inspire enough time to be able to establish that. I could be wrong, but I would think that is the case. Secondly, let’s give her the benefit of doubt and say that maybe she does have a genuine issue with her body now. Perhaps she is not t…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:34 AM
0

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:49 AM
0

Same! I’m relieved to know it’s not just me
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:49 AM
7

Independent woman : has her own career, is not dependent on you for resources, is self made, has opinions about the world but is all right with you not agreeing with them, doesn’t need constant validation, has a life beyond you, and lastly, despite all this, respects and acknowledge your true masculinity. Sounds like a lot, but i know plenty of women that are this way. It’s the ones that are “independent” in the sense of working in crappy jobs and getting random Inconsequential degrees that make…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:48 AM
3

Bro my LTR is a PhD and has the most successful career ever. She is what I would define as independent. Yet I’ve never felt a communication gap. Perhaps I got lucky because her style matched mine. Most people on Reddit tend to project their personal opinion in their comments. Women that have felt suffocated by their partners in the past, will react to your post in the way that they did. Therapy is a silly suggestion, not because it’s a bad thing, but because the nature of your expectation is not…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:33 PM
4

Dude that’s her style. If you are not all right with it, might make sense to break up and find someone that you are more compatible with, communication wise. There’s also guys that complain here about their partners being too clingy and wanting to do everything together. No one is going to be perfect. You need to decide what kind of imperfections you are all right in accepting. I can understand that it might not be your fault, since she used to communicate more before y’all were dating. But for …
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:11 PM
2

I’m not innocent. Just that I’ve never experienced this personally or heard anyone that has. That doesn’t make it untrue though. I’m sure it happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:46 PM
3

Oh that’s unfortunate and borderline deceitful! No wonder a lot of men are bitter about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:17 PM
1

I would assume that they would fuck before they marry and so they would have a chance to evaluate each other’s drives and compatibility, before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:51 PM
1

So then they only marry those men for providership ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:50 PM
0

I’m very curious to know. Do women actually behave this way ? I probably don’t have a lot of dating experience in the west, but from the 3-5 women that I have dated, almost everyone has been super enthusiastic about sex, including being very cognizant of what pleasures me. Is what you’re a describing very common after marriage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:36 PM
2

Talking somewhat from personal experience, what helped me was substantially increasing my notch count. Like super high. Now, the only reason I vet a girl’s past is to evaluate her capabilities to become a strong partner. I don’t feel weirded out by the fact that other men may have gotten to have sex with her immediately after meeting her. Mostly because I’m convinced that I could have as well, if I wanted that kind of a relationship with her. I’d recommend tagging these questions as Q4M. Women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:30 AM
4

Bro, no toppings ? You have to pay for toppings ! It’s the only rule.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:07 AM
2

Well said
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:55 AM
6

Even if what she is saying were to be true, does she intend on keeping you a secret forever ?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:47 AM
1

From Italian FDS
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:05 AM
2

She will do just fine. Everyone moves on in life. Even if she can’t find a guy, sooner or later she will embrace that fact and hopefully adapt herself mentally. The manosphere advice helps in leading an optimal life. It does not mean that people can’t survive without incorporating these principles
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:52 PM
6

You can use this information to either be upset about life and lament. Or finally realize that your motivation in life should not be loving someone else but being able to make it big enough to be able to love yourself.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:55 AM
4

Don’t think any HR policies extend to ex partners. Only current.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:47 PM
1

Nah we’ve all been through shit. One time a girl fell asleep while I was “professing my love” to her on the phone. I don’t know what’s weaker than that!
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:42 PM
1

What did she tell you about her past ?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:58 PM
-1

What country are you in ? A lot depends on that. The stats and trends in areas like south east Asia and Africa are way different than the west.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:26 AM
20

Not being given new work or projects over a prolonged period of time is often an indicator that the organization is at least considering laying you off. Of course this depends on the nature of your work.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:32 AM
0

I don’t think there are as many people with more than 100 partners to skew the average. If in a survey of 2000 respondents, even 50 of them have a notch count of 100 +, it will only skew the number by a brief margin. The 10 would probably become a 9 if you remove those 50 folks. Also I highly highly doubt that in a random sample of 2000 folks, there are even 50 that have an n count of more than 100. 100 is a super high number and only super deranged folks have those numbers. Statistics state tha…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:32 AM
1

Gotcha. I was actually asking what part of her past warn promiscuous ? But yeah from what you mentioned, she did have issues bro. Sorry you had to go through that. But don’t feel bad. The strongest of folks have weak moments.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:59 AM
1

What situation were you in ?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:37 AM
0

What’s the trump derangement syndrome ?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:10 PM
6

I like how your advice is always very direct but does not make the other person feel belittled or less. You should be a shrink.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:38 PM
2

Steal his washcloth and towels.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:37 PM
19

I was in the exact same situation a few years ago. Like word by word, especially the lone phone calls. My assessment is that you are smack in the center of the friend zone and she sees you as nothing but a platonic friend. She has no feelings for you at all and only considers you a good friend. Be grateful that she is not some mean person that would use you for your resources and money because she could take advantage of your feelings for her. If you think that it is too difficult for you to see…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 06:52 PM
2

I’ve heard that prenups get thrown out of court a lot. Is that true ?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:17 PM
8

Why give it up ? Ask for another date. Kiss her/him then. Don’t overthink and try to “frame rules” about sexuality and dating. Just go with the flow.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 05:10 AM
1

How do you recommend weeding out the bad ones ? Any legit tell tale signs of someone being a potentially bad partner or someone that’s not a good choice in general ?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:56 PM
2

Too distracting and entertaining :)
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:10 PM
1

What are some red flags that you recommended screening for ? For instance, let’s say I go on a date with a girl, what are some cues? I know it’s hard to crystallize and structure, but still any pointers ?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:00 PM
1

Do you think it’s because of your position and change in status in life ? Have you also identified any trends in the quality of women ?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:59 PM
1

That’s great news man. Honestly, your clear perspective on life is often reflected in your answers on the sub. What do you think about the last question ? Quality of women ?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:58 PM
0

Good luck to you :)
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:09 AM
0

From personal experience, I think a “disadvantage” such as this does not pose a practical challenge, simply because there are so many women at access to you thanks to covid restrictions being lifted and dating apps. As an Indian man( from India) in the US, the stereotype associated with my community is also strong. I used to drown in pussy in India whereas here it’s not the same. But I never had a lack of quality girls, while spinning plates or for an LTR. If you want an LTR, you need one girl. …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:00 AM
3

Irrespective of whether she is trustworthy, if this bothers you, you are at liberty to set the boundary and ask her not to go. It’s difficult to have “stern” discussions with your LTR because you are somewhat emotionally invested and can’t have a supreme DGAF attitude. But it’s still better than losing your sleep over her going there.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:15 PM
1

True. If it’s tangible benefit you are seeking then perhaps an MBA/ STEM masters degree would be best. Those are super intense but have great returns due to their versatility.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 05:44 PM
1

I think my point was that it doesn’t matter. She can work wherever she likes as long as she comes back home during regular hours and doesn’t get too stressed out. I’d want her to work in a domain where she is happy so that she has good professional satisfaction and doesn’t develop frustration and let it impact our life outside of her work. This of course is subject to extreme exceptions like working as a hooters server or a professional stripper. But I exclusively date women with masters degrees…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 05:40 PM
2

I could be wrong but those are two independent aspects. I believe that the right woman will be able to balance a reasonable amount of housework and a good career, if she has the right man leading her in life. Think about it, how much housework is there to do really ? If it’s just the two of you, then I guess only cleaning and doing the dishes is an everyday task. Perhaps cooking, if you don’t meal prep. Other stuff like laundry, taking out the trash and lawn work isn’t something you need to do e…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 04:45 PM
86

The beginning of the title is very misleading :
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:48 PM
1

In my opinion, her knowing that you have plenty of options to cheat on her with commands more respect than actual cheating :)
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:25 AM
3

Haha thank you buddy. Truth is I’m only wise when advising others and yet struggle resolving my own issues sometimes! 🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP29/05/21 05:23 AM
6

This may or may not have anything to do with you or your physique. If someone wants to cheat they would pull one up over the Chadest of Chads. Sometimes women do stupid ass stuff man. They say stupid stuff too. Maybe she thought that describing how hot he was might make you feel jealous or she was trying to have a “buddy” moment with you. Instagram or phone, the idea is to not create a bridge for someone to get in touch with her. Now that you have the Instagram rule set up, would she give out he…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 03:23 AM
0

Honestly, it was extremely silly and ignorant on her part to think that it was fine to give out her Instagram, when she had a boyfriend. But since she came and told you honestly, perhaps her intention wasn’t malicious. Doesn’t make it any less of a bad decision and borderline disrespectful. But then perhaps not malicious or with a guilty intent. Since you have been with her for so long, I’m assuming you vetted her behavior in other spheres to identify potential infidelity. If I were you, I would…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:51 AM
1

Curious about your three week rule. If the third date were to happen in less than 3 weeks, say maybe 2 weeks, would you still wait for three weeks or so or would you expect sex on the third date ? Also do you text and chat between the three dates or do you usually only text for logistics ?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:35 AM
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I don’t think most women operate like that. Most intend to find an LTR, start seeing a guy and then hit it off with him. They date exclusively and during that period, have sex. Some of those eventually end up becoming long term relationships that last for more than 6 months and go on to a few years. Some don’t work out and end up after a few weeks/2-3 months of exclusive dating. Occasionally, there could be a fling/FWB in between. I don’t think that’s riding the CC at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:59 PM
1

What’s your threshold ? What do you think is a good threshold?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:08 PM
1

My issue does not lie with understanding female nature. It lies in convincing myself to not chase the BP dream.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:55 AM
17

Where does he mention an n count of 15?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:31 PM
1

Both your comments are golden. This is exactly how I would have recommended dealing with the situation.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 10:16 PM
1

There’s nothing insecure about setting boundaries. Boundaries are set about things you can pre empt. Not going to a music festival is a very specific boundary that I guess no one can ever pre emptively set. If you’re not comfortable with it, just tell her calmly that you’re not. You are human and if something makes you uncomfortable despite her not giving you a reason to feel that way, you are allowed to be that way. Tell her that you don’t prefer her going and if she doesn’t comply, then next h…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:48 PM
2

How old is she ? You’re 20 and so I assumed that the is in the same age range. But how is it that she had a 7 year relationship then ?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:23 PM
-2

I didn’t critique the girl. I just said that prolonged virginity despite dating in India is common. Sell all the bridges you want. IDGAF.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:19 PM
2

Smoking generally becomes an issue when it’s a habit. She may have tried is just for fun or because her gay friend pushed her to try one. She realized that she didn’t like it. Unless she does it again, don’t fret. This would be also be a good time to set ground rules for other deal breakers for you.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:18 PM
1

Bro no sex for 7 years in India is way more common than you will imagine. Trust me. I’m from India. It’s not surprising to me at all.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:15 PM
0

I don’t think it’s low per se but it’s I guess it’s not high either. The average for millennials is 10.8. So perhaps it’s around average to above average. Coupled with the fact that she went to grad school, and so that’s two colleges back to back ,I’d say it wouldn’t bother me much. It’s not low, but it’s not high enough to be a dealbreaker. That’s just me though.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:03 PM
1

He’s not promoting hitting anyone bro. Rather is asking for potential ways to respond.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:04 PM
3

Haha love the wordplay.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:02 PM
24

So what part of her past appears to be an issue ? Being ghosted a lot or the fact that she snuck out to do drugs and drink ? Sorry, just trying to understand.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:01 PM
3

I don’t think they do. But you need to evaluate which red flags are a deal breaker do you and which ones are not. It varies from person to person. Some people don’t date women with a lot of education. I personally exclusively date highly educated women. Some people don’t date women with tattoos. Some DGAF. You should decide which one is a red flag glaring enough for you to not pursue this.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:59 PM
1

What does “separated” mean ? Is that a legal term or were they just not talking but sharing logistical ties ? Also how old is she ?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:57 PM
0

Right ? 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:51 PM
6

How is that even biologically possible ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:46 PM
26

The very first sentence of this post made me laugh my ass off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:49 PM
14

RKO out of nowhere
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:48 PM
3

Same for India.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:12 PM
3

I relate to this. I’d say that I’m still internalizing every part of the RP. I want to believe that I have come a long way from chasing my Disney story. But then a part of me still clings on to it like a bitch. Baby steps I guess. I feel you bro. It’s a challenge for those of us that seek an LTR I guess. Plating is easier and so much less complex.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:58 PM
1

Is she worth it ?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:38 PM
2

Give her support dude. She’s only human. No one on the internet an advice you on how to approach this. Just make sure she gets over this as easily as possible. If you’re already seeing her, I doubt that you would be risking ending up in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:05 PM
5

Forget pregnancy. Ever heard of STIs ? Be responsible with your body!
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:33 PM
4

I never advocate for breaking up with LTRs at the drop of a hat but then there is a difference between something that needs to be set a boundary around and something that’s a dealbreaker. For me, if my GF touches and flirts with another guy in front of me, it’s a dealbreaker and I will end it. If she wanted to get into your head, even in a manipulative way, there are far many ways to do it rather than flirting with another guy and that too in front of you. I am willing to work through a lot of i…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:30 PM
2

That’s the thing. Sometimes I feel that the definitions of what’s high/ average/low probably needs to change.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:03 PM
3

I don’t know if a straitjacket formula. Honestly, the first step would be to have realistic expectations about the world. Embrace the fact that women have a lot of casual sex now. Not in a wow that’s so cool and with an I’m a cuck mindset. But just acknowledging that the world has changed and the first step towards leveraging your surroundings to grow in life is to accept that you work with the new world.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:02 PM
1

Never too late to start over and make progress. Good luck to you and GOD bless.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:56 AM
2

Not worth it IMO. Just find another chick if you want and focus on getting out of the legal issue.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:43 AM
2

I don’t know man. I’d rather just find another chick and start from scratch. Has this one even hit you up and asked you how you’re doing or offered to help or be a defense witness? If not, then pursuing her further might be a bad idea. Others could comment otherwise maybe. That’s just my two cents.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:39 AM
3

Think about it. You didn’t even get the girl and may not get her in the future. I hope you do. But you may not. Instead, you end up with a lawsuit that involves expenditure and time, to say the least. Next time, please don’t lose your cool over a girl that is not even a plate yet, let alone an LTR. If she were to genuinely be interested in you, she would have stepped away from the other guy and hung out with you when you came back from the restroom. Instead, now she will probably get on with her…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:35 AM
2

Dick ups 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:44 AM
3

How do you know that there are women between 18-24 that aren’t having casual sex? I’m not challenging you. I’m curious
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:56 AM
4

Agreed.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:53 AM
3

I think you’re assuming that only women that “party” have casual sex. Casual sex is super common amongst even the library geeks and the quiet girl next door. Stats say that the average n count for a millennial woman in the US is 10.8. The median is 7.9. I’m sure those aren’t all relationships. Stats also say that 82 percent of women in the US have tried casual sex at least once. 70-80 percent of them have had a ONS. These are all survey results and so self reported.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:44 AM
2

All that sounds perfect until you want kids. I’d say lineage is the only reason why someone would want to get into an LTR today.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:27 AM
1

I don’t think anyone is doubting the inherent biological feeling. Most people commenting are saying that in today’s world, that point is moot since every woman goes around. Some more , some less, some negligible.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:25 AM
5

Honestly, what I have come to realize is that promiscuity is so much beyond just n count. It’s a whole package that is evaluated through several factors. One of my friends recently, started dating a girl. She was also around 26 and had a notch count of around 8. He was happy that it was low and was going strong with her. For some reason however, she wasn’t using Facebook. Just used messenger and not the actual FB app. One day, she somehow messes with her messenger account and her FB account got …
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:29 AM
1

Same! It was so strange when it happened to me. What brand were you using ? :p
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:57 PM
13

I’m no expert but I one watched a video on this where the guy said that the reason why this is super common these days is because our biological programming has not evolved as fast as the sexual marketplace has. We are wired to accept only a handful of past partners whereas people have casual sex left, right and center these days. The challenge is not just your oneitis. The challenge is that it is extremely difficult to find attractive women these days that haven’t had casual sex. At least in my…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:35 PM
1

How old is she ? I guess that gives better context.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:55 PM
6

You are not your dick size. That’s not why she got into bed with you. She realized your dick size after she got into bed with you. Everything that led up to her getting there is you and your personality and your game or whatever you want to call it. Everyone wants certain parts of their body to change. Don’t let it mess with your head. Focus on creating a good experience with what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:03 PM
1

Gotcha. Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:51 PM
2

Lol. Most women are a combination of both. No ones perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:28 PM
2

Welcome to 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:16 PM
1

I can understand how you feel, given that I was in your shoes a few years ago. If you think that being alone will give you happiness, then that’s not a bad idea either. You could also continue your search for a virgin woman. Perhaps you will find one. Or maybe consider opening up yourself and changing with the world. It doesn’t make you a bad person. Just sets you up to be happier and less disappointed. Choose the path that you think suits you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:04 PM
2

I started dating a girl that I really liked. She basically checked off all the boxes that i would usually consider valid for an LTR. Prior to that I had zero sexual experience. When we started dating, she voluntarily told me that she had cheated on her ex boyfriend during a trip to London. That didn’t sit well with me. We eventually broke up because cheating is a deal breaker for me. But the experience made me think about how out of tune with the world I was because of my inexperience. I had no …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:36 PM
1

The only thing stupid is your analogy of comparing nazism to statistical changes in the society. Affiliation to a particular group is a mental subscription concept. Doesn’t have anything to do with changing societal dynamics. To consider the same example, if I were to say that the percentage of people that identify as nazis has gone down substantially from what it was in 1975 to what it is today, then that is a valid statement. Hence if there is someone out there that only wants to marry a nazi,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:01 PM
1

Yes but your point is moot on the fact that every culture evolves. The culture that you went to outside of your bubble, also evolved from what it was two decades ago to what it is today. No community stays in a social bubble. Speaking particularly of sex, communities where virginity was valued decades ago have now started valuing low n count because losing your virginity is no longer rare. Similar trends follow suit everywhere. So that “something else that you found elsewhere” is also an evoluti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:53 PM
4

It’s not stupid at all. Times and culture evolve with the world. If you’re going to be in denial that people have a lot more sex these days than they used to in the past, say 25-30 years ago, then you’re basically going to be making silly rules for your own life and never be able to be happy. Either accept the world for what it has become or continue ranting online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:08 PM
2

Could you talk a bit more about this ? I’m also considering LA .
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:41 PM
3

No one really thinks this way. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:43 PM
2

The modern day prerogative is perhaps to redefine what low, average and high entail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:17 PM
1

You have yourself identified the red flags. If despite that, you like her enough, then assume some risk, vet the fuck out of her and move forward slowly. Only if you really want to and she has a lot to offer.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:55 AM
0

I assume she’s not and move on.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:52 AM
16

Not just validation. Some are downright woman haters.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:20 AM
0

Seriously 😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:41 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP09/05/21 10:36 PM
2

Can you explain your second statement a bit more ?
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:46 PM
0

Agreed
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:41 PM
2

Dude just chill the fuck out. If she doesn’t wanna smash, just let her be. If she says no once, she could have a million reasons other than the fact that she is cheating or shit testing you. If it becomes a pattern, either tell her it won’t work that way or next her. Simple.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:41 PM
6

Same. I have trust issues since I saw people cheating on partners they had been with since 7 years. It’s really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:36 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:24 PM
3

Happens to everyone. I struggled with it for a while and eventually had no issues. Quit porn.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 04:50 PM
2

Yeah but even that is assault I guess, though I’m not sure. My point is that don’t get into legal trouble over people that don’t matter.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:08 PM
4

I think you did the right thing by setting up a ground rule with your girl and letting her know that you were not comfortable with her being spoken of this way by another guy. If she can’t comply, perhaps it’s time to next her. But don’t hit people and shit. What’s the point of going to prison over a girl that probably won’t even matter in the long run ?
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:01 PM
1

Women should think that as well. Settling down, starting a family etc requires money. You shouldn’t be rushing into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:37 PM
3

Just one tip: Never make the conversation only about her. That’s one thing I never do. For eg. if the entire message exchange is about her ethnicity and background and she doesn’t ask questions about yours or at least asks you one question in the entire chain, then chances are that she may not be interested. Even on dating apps, if I feel that a girl isn’t asking me questions in return or responding to my casual flirts, but is rather only answering what I ask, I usually drop the conversation by …
/r/askTRP09/05/21 02:32 PM
2

No I didn’t. I literally concluded my comment by saying that those men may very well have been attractive before they started earning as well. You inferred the implication based on your own deep rooted bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:12 PM
1

Very deep and touching. Zero connection with what I said though. I just said that most men want to build some capital before they settle down and get married and that sometimes happens when they’re 30 or above.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:08 AM
0

I didn’t say that they are attractive because of their wealth. I just said that theh build wealth before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:20 AM
8

This is so deep and true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:18 AM
0

No no I’m not perceiving any of this as bitter. I just like learning from varying perspectives. What do you mean by traditional feminine energy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:52 PM
9

Lol please. This is highly inaccurate. Plenty of men start earning well around their early 30s. Eventually take a year or two to build wealth and investments and then want to marry. They could have been fairly attractive to women before that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:47 PM
2

What do you think are some of the unreasonable expectations that post 30 women have from their partners ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:44 PM
1

What constitutes a HVM ? The three 6’s ? Or is there more ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:07 PM
2

RKO out of nowhere!
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:40 PM
1

Didn’t realize that he was a teenager. The post edit came after my comment.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:31 PM
6

I’m very curious to know. How practical is it for mid 30 and above aged men to be able to get into LTRs with early 20 year olds ? I’ve seen maybe one occasion of that happening back in my home country in India and even then the guy was 31. In the west is it really common for rich middle aged men to be dating early 20s women, in a conventional, non sugar daddy arrangement? I feel like I read that a lot on the pill pages. An RP coach once said that a 35 YO guy could date a 23 YO girl if he had hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:12 PM
1

What country are you in ?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 05:07 PM
6

It’s not normal but very common. I’m assuming that you’re ok with her past hoe phase and that is why decided to LTR her. Hence I won’t go into that. But if she has given you no reason to not trust her and you still feel apprehensive of her actions, it could possibly be stemming from an OCD that you have. Have you ever felt OCD about other stuff outside the relationship? Over obsessing about stuff that doesn’t necessarily seem too harmful ?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 05:00 PM
1

Just tell her that you want to keep it casual and aren’t looking for something serious. If she is ok with a non exclusive casual fling, then go for it. If not, next her and find someone else.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:27 PM
7

She seems to be a sorted person that doesn’t want to be treated like a plate. Either convince her otherwise, or let her go and find another plate.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:14 PM
7

If you think she is LTR material, no harm in trying to lock her down and try and establish something serious. But don’t go all head over heels like you sound in the post. Maintain frame and vet well.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:08 PM
29

I know we all like shaving with a swordfish and using a python as a belt while doing squats here, since it’s the manosphere. But I do think that somewhere or the other we all considered falling in love in our lives. Here’s what I wish I knew about love. There’s two kinds of people. The first that fall in love. And the second, that fall in love with the idea of falling in love. The former is happy, content , had little expectations, accepts a partner with reasonable flaws and chases excellence. T…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:45 AM
1

What red flags and baggage ?
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:50 PM
18

Leave a piece of your condom in there and see whether the next guy follows yours. Maybe you guys can make a condom centipede.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:55 PM
6

😂
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:54 PM
1

😂
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:54 PM
1

Good luck!
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:56 PM
6

Fuck Anna to assert dominance.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:18 PM
2

You must reward them with a pearl necklace every time they manage to successfully steer your camel across the desert to deliver your scroll to the neighboring allies. But be careful. If her ankle is showing, she a ho
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:57 AM
1

Some girls are just shy and don’t take the initiative. Doesn’t mean she’s not into you. Perhaps that’s her style. She likes you taking control of situations.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:10 AM
3

We all go through this phase in life buddy. I even transitioned to the US from a different country to find myself and still couldn’t. Everything is temporary and doesn’t really matter as much as we want/ believe it to.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:15 PM
10

I think he is equating having LTRs/ occasional flings/ONS as sleeping around ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:13 PM
3

That’s what I understood of it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:12 PM
0

What does LARPers/panderers mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:08 PM
1

Thanks. Useful to know such stuff.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:58 PM
1

Can you help understand some typical traits of a BPF chick ? Like other than stuff on the sidebar, how do you actually understand tell tale signs of someone being BPD ?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:49 PM
4

Are all western women really like this ? Or are majority like this ? I’m genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:46 PM
2

Why are you worrying so much ? Just leave her and move on ?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:38 PM
1

What are some criteria that you recommend people should ordinarily consider while taking a decision on this ?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 06:36 PM
6

I think for most people it’s kids.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 05:28 PM
6

Yeah. It’s best to do it playfully and not deliver a clothesline from hell.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:28 PM
1

If she doesn’t want to lead you on, why is she meeting you on Friday ? Is it not a date ?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:15 PM
5

Agreed
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:20 AM
7

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:17 AM
1

I wouldn’t even get involved with a woman that was in an open marriage or relationship. This one time a woman told my friend that she was in an open marriage and had sex with him. Later her husband showed up and threatened to press charges coz apparently, she had lied.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:14 AM
3

Or maybe she wore a pink dress, went to Harvard law and won a lawsuit as an intern.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:52 AM
7

Fuck the chihuahua to assert dominance.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:15 AM
1

Do you know a good hair care sub for men on Reddit ?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:15 AM
4

Banging for roof is a legit phrase in pop culture. Google it before making awkward comments.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 12:12 AM
1

😂😂😂😂😂 I would have said lift, but he was already in a gym/
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:44 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:44 PM
1

RKO out of nowhere !
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:44 PM
1

What are some of the criteria or personal preferences that you consider while deciding on whether to LTR/ marry a girl ?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:51 PM
6

Thank you !
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:15 PM
1

What does that mean ? Do you mean the bar for standards for modern day women ?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:14 PM
5

Na I recall reading something similar here a while ago.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:03 PM
8

What’s SOP ?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:01 PM
3

Honestly, if she had a really good time with you, I would assume that she can change her life plans for you. A good partner can often drive people to grow and look at the world differently. You seem to be a reasonable guy that has the right priorities in mind. Keep on it and continue vetting bro. Worst scenario here is a break up and not a divorce or alimony. Hence you can continue vetting without having to worry too much.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:00 PM
1

Depends on your face bro. I usually go with aviators. They seem to suit everyone. I like the reflector series. Colorful ones. But that’s just me and my friends say they look too flashy. You can go wrong with a pair of black aviators with golden frames. Look for cheaper brands that are affordable.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:51 PM
8

The issue here is more than her texting her ex. Maybe they are friends or whatever. Some people try that. I am more concerned about her telling him that she still thinks of him while she is already dating you. That’s something I would be cautious about. Why would she think about him , if she is with you ? Even if the thought came up in her head, why would she tell him that ? I’m usually not the one to suggest nexting people at the drop of a hat. But I would hate it if my LTR were to message her …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:33 PM
5

Why are you assuming that she will want to have kids ? Has she told you this expressly ? If not I wouldn’t assume. If it matters that much I’d have a conversation with her about this topic. Not about having kids with you, but her plans in general. She might lie but that’s something no one can do anything about. At your age, unless you date someone significantly younger, you are always going to have to worry about her having ridden the CC. Don’t fret over that. Assume that she did and then contin…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:26 PM
24

If that makes you uncomfortable, why are you with her in the first place ? If she had solicited herself once and that’s a dealbreaker for you , you should break up with her, right ?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:10 PM
19

How do you know that she was banging for roof ? Maybe they just hooked up. As long as it wasn’t an arrangement between them, I’d assume it was just a random hookup. You have been with her long enough to vet her I’m assuming. Does she seem to be the kind of person that would bang for roof ? Is she financially weak or deficient ? Use your intuition. What’s the point of living with her for so long and not knowing her well enough to know whether she would do something like that ?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:07 PM
2

Depends. On whether she’s angry because you didn’t return her call or because you had a threesome with her mom and her yoga instructor.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:43 PM
1

Happens at happy hours too
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:09 AM
5

There’s nothing wrong with caring. One should care for everyone around them. Just don’t get oneitis for a wrong person and don’t let your compassion make you beta or weak. Beyond that if you start caring for them, that’s just who you are. Embrace it.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:08 AM
2

If you don’t like certain aspects of her social life, you have every right to expect her to change those things. It’s not insecure or beta. Wanting her to change certain habits of hers is not losing frame. How you communicate that expectation determines your frame. I’m not saying condition her or be mean and rude and controlling. That comes off as weak and stupid. But I’m sure you can be firm in conveying that you don’t necessarily enjoy the fact that she is out so much.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:06 AM
35

You can’t. If she wants to cheat, she will find a way and there’s nothing one can do to prevent it. Even if you lock her up in a tower, she will find someone to climb into the tower using her hair. What you focus on are two things. Firstly continue working on yourself without her being the motivations it keeps her in check and somewhere wires her to believe that you’re the best she can have. Secondly, instead of Focussing on how to prevent her from Cheating, focus on becoming the guy that won’t …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:01 AM
2

What do you mean by emotional roller coaster ?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:55 AM
2

Same here. The moment a girl offers to reach for the check, it’s a good sign in my head. My current LTR flat told me before the second date, that she would love to meet again but only if I let her pay. She makes a little less than 1/2 of what I do. But the gesture itself speaks a lot.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:52 AM
6

I agree with this. Being born in a certain year is no reason to be superior to others. Being sensitive to age oriented issues is one thing. But some people want respect based on the sheer fact they they’re elder yo you :|. It’s far far worse in the east trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:50 AM
8

I used to struggle with accepting this as well. It was hard for me to swallow. Happens in college and grad school as well. Get used to it and stop giving a fuck. It will take time but eventually it will have zero impact on you.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:48 AM
2

Just talk to her and set a frame for her to communicate her issues with you. Perhaps she has had a bad experience in the past or grew up introverted. But do so only once and also be ready to come to you for every issue if she starts going the other extreme. These kind of things can be smoothened out over time. I won’t sweat.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:10 AM
1

Is this a recent development or has it always been this way ?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:42 AM
6

Just to add, I’m a fan of sunglasses. Feel like a good pair adds a lot to your look.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:25 AM
4

What are some of the things that you vetted for ?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:42 PM
6

This first point is gold. I can only imagine the quality of girls that let you sleep with them randomly without getting clarification on defining the relationship. If she wanted casual as well, why would she push for a relationship? And if she wanted a relationship, why be strung along for a year ?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:29 PM
3

I agree with you on some aspects. I recently read an article where a trans person chose to not reveal her being a trans to a date and then when he found out and said he didn’t want to have sex with her, she gout angry and blew him up on the internet. While I agree that some aspects of the movement might be extreme and require to be condoned, overall a person should support communities that require support. To your point of focusing on the Christian crisis in TME, that is also a very relevant iss…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:29 PM
2

We all have bad phases man. No one hates you honestly. They may not love you. But then people today are too self centered to even hate others. Don’t feel out and low over the opinions of others. We all go through shit and eventually learn our lessons. GOD bless
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:01 PM
1

The question is not about what you mentioned. The real question often becomes what’s high and what’s low. That’s what most people on Reddit argue about a lot.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:48 PM
-5

So you’re saying that every girl that supports the LGBTQ/trans community is an sex worker or only fans holder ? What’s desirable in an LTR is compassion and support. Something that is reflected when someone has the ability to stand up for groups that they don’t identify with.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:27 PM
-4

Seriously ! Some people here are pathetically obnoxious.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:27 PM
-10

How the fuck does it matter ? If you can manage to hold frame, her opinions about the world are irrelevant. Some people here are hopelessly delusional. If she supports transgenders, how does that make her a bad bet ? Do you think everyone that support transgenders is a raging feminist out to get you by the balls ? There are a plethora of sane people that support transgenders/ LGBTQ and can still lead healthy lives. If you have strong political leanings and want to date people with only a certain…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:17 PM
8

Some people are just rude. Chill Most people, even if they don’t want to talk to you, will politely respond, make minor chit chat and leave. This girl seems to be exceptionally rude.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:03 AM
2

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:53 PM
2

Read para 4 of my response. I asked him to bring it up without admitting to snooping.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:30 PM
1

Maybe she forgot? It’s negligent but not necessarily malicious. Tell her clearly that you expect her to inform you because you are concerned about her safety. In case she can’t respect that, you are not obligated to have concern for her. Build a frame for yourself and establish the rules around it. Be clear about the fact that this is a requirement that you won’t budge around. Observe her behavior after you have done that and then introspect. No one’s perfect. Especially women. Set the frame and…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:05 PM
3

Good advice. If she lies, despite having spoken to him, it says a lot about how transparent and platonic she intends on keeping the conversation with the ex.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:27 PM
12

Some women and a few men think that it’s ok for them to be “platonic friends” after the relationship is over because they won’t want bitter relations etc. The truth is that post relationship dynamics are seldom platonic. There’s always that sexual chemistry that lingers between those two people. I wouldn’t be comfortable at all if my LTR were to be texting her ex. It’s not because of trust issues or because of insecurity, as a lot of people may tell you. Simply because I don’t like it. Not every…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:25 PM
3

How long ago did they have the conversation?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:07 PM
3

Where exactly in LA are you looking ? If you’re looking in downtown LA, then you are better off not matching with the hotties since 1 in 3 are wannabe Hollywood pursuers and won’t do anything other than have you follow their Instagram or be extremely flaky and arrogant even if you go out with them. Try resetting to locations like Ventura/Sherman oaks/ Thousand Oaks etc for somewhat better quality girls As for what you should do, that depends on what you’re looking for. Whether an LTR or whether …
/r/askTRP03/05/21 08:29 PM
1

What country are you in ?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:33 PM
3

I mean I’ve been through those. I was more asking for a personal opinion based on your experiences. A lot of the content that is floated on those channels is tailored to cater to their audience. I prefer complimenting it with advice from actual people who don’t have an incentive in giving me advice and can be unfiltered.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:23 PM
1

Got it. What are some major red flags in your opinion. ?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:19 PM
3

Can you elaborate on what you meant ?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:16 PM
1

What are some criteria that you would went fulfilled to determine that someone is wife material ? It’s an open ended term. If you want to marry in today’s world, you either need to accept some things that make you uncomfortable or keep away from marriage all together. It’s sad but then it is what it is. Don’t think that our ancestors had anything easier. Just that what appears to be awkward behavior today wasn’t the same back then. Back in the day, women that “spoke up”, wanted to vote or even w…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:31 PM
1

I see what you did there in the last sentence. Nice pun
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:06 AM
5

I stay in DC and went to business school. Hence that crowd is mostly liberal and sex positive. Even if someone has strong opinions, they don’t openly declare them out of fear of judgment. Also I’m not assuming everyone here is from the US. I’ve read a lot of comments from people that assert that they’re from the US and then claim that they think casual sex is wrong and taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:43 AM
3

Ok. What men believe this ? Men here on ppd ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:24 AM
3

Who said anything about the estimation of the validation ? All I said that sometimes it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:18 AM
9

Yeah but many do it for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:32 PM
1

If you were at a party, maybe the person who invited you knows her ?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:23 PM
1

So let’s say I meet someone on a dating app and start sleeping with her on the third date, both of us exclusive. We’re not yet in a relationship but we’re seeing each other exclusively. Is that casual ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:45 PM
2

Exactly. Avoid strangers and randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:21 PM
1

Ah got it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:16 PM
3

4 digits ? You mean they’ve slept with more than 999 men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:08 PM
13

The moment she says stuff like wanting to jump him and kiss him while she has a boyfriend, the cheating has begun. If my girl did that, I’ll break up with her irrespective of the fact that she didn’t actually kiss him.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:38 PM
5

When I moved to the US from a far more conservative country, I had assumed that casual sex would be far more embraced and normalized here. The purple pill sub seems to prove me wrong everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:35 PM
37

This is a one liner summary to the entire debate about casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:31 PM
2

I think want is an open ended term here. It could mean that they want to incorporate it as a regular part of their lifestyle. It could also mean that they want to try it and get it over with. It could also mean that they use it to end a dry spell or because they need validation, like you said. In my opinion, most women experience it a little and then get over with it. Very few would actively choose it over a solid relationship, unless they have very different priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:30 PM
10

Hahaha exactly. Most men here tend to think casual sex means way different than what it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:24 PM
6

I think the mistake you make is assuming that every woman that has had casual sex is promiscuous. Promiscuity is a spectrum and just because a woman dips her toes in casual sex 2-3 times over a period of say 10 years does not make her promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:20 PM
4

I don’t get it . If they’re using it to get a relationship, how is it casual ? I thought casual sex only entailed ONS or FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:18 PM
1

If you’re thinking this way right now, how are you ever going to get into an LTR someone ? Wont this bother you then?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 07:53 PM
4

I think this has a lot to do with motivations. I myself sometimes find myself lacking a lot of motivation. I always used to think that life would be much better when I had a lot of money. Today I make bank at my job and earn pot loads through my stock trades. Nevertheless, I find myself unable to seek clarity on my goals and objectives. I feel you. Time does go by pretty fast when you lack innate motivation. Hope we both figure it out soon.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:46 PM
9

Well said
/r/askTRP02/05/21 04:44 PM
2

can you elaborate on what you mean by “no one cares”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:32 PM
1

Arranged marriages have a low divorce rate because of social taboo and stigma. Not because the folks in the marriage are happy. If you study the divorce rates in the larger metropolitan areas within SE Asia, the divorce rate is super high. And several of the ones that don’t end up in divorces, involve unhappy people.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:21 AM
12

Purple pill 2050 question : What would be the ideal n count of the sex robot for me to consider buying it from the store? Argument 1: Studies show that the higher the n count of the robot, the more chances it has of becoming smart enough to kill you in your sleep. Argument 2 : Robots these days reach an n count of 10 within just 3 months of manufacturing. Argument 3: Never buy a robot that someone else got to “test fuck” for free Argument 4: AI (feminism) has totally destroyed the traditional te…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:13 AM
1

What did you mean by the last statement ? Just curious.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:32 AM
19

Can further confirm. I’m the OP’s split personality.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:54 AM
5

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:23 AM
2

If I were the OP, my response would be “Easy for you to say, given your username “ :p
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:18 AM
4

Bro I wouldn’t recommend it at all. Getting sex is so much more about who you are than it is about how big you are. Also how is it going to help you get laid ? Are you going to tell women that you’re interacting with that you’re big ? Think about how that conversation will sound in your head. This money could be so much better spent on fitness, investments and self development. If you have peaked in those domains, even then, save it or donate it. You’re bigger than the average size and I’m sure …
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:16 AM
1

What’s the meaning of the brackets ? Sorry I don’t understand it :|
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:53 PM
6

Man ! Science has come such a long way. Wish they can build a time machine soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:51 PM
133

Honestly, shaking his hand would have sent the best signal over. It shows that you DGAF about the cheating and are doing so well in life, that even the thought of her infidelity doesn’t bother you. I always feel that the best response is indifference and not wrath.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:45 PM
3

I like numbering my points. Just a habit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:00 PM
3

Hierarchy is an inherent part of society. Once the “weak” get weeded out, it could be a matter of time before you and me become the new weak. Don’t confuse those with less to be necessarily weak. They have nothing to lose. The day they have their back against the wall because they feel that the resource holders DGAF about them, we might be the ones running to protect everything that we own, against their rebellion or wrath.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:56 PM
1

The economy of the world is a thing. It a synonym for the global economy, a popular thesis topic for 6/10 Phd candidates that master in macro economics. Look around yourself. There’s millions of people dying due to a pandemic. There’s people in countries where basic sustenance is a challenge. Poverty, unemployment etc are critical issues even in developed nations. How can we claim that there’s no room for improvement ? If the offset to make all that better is for some people to CHOOSE to not bui…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:50 PM
7

Single people have lesser obligations and have a lot more time to contribute to work. That does wonders for the economy of the world in genera.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:44 PM
2

I’d say it’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:42 PM
8

There’s surgery for increasing height ?! Really ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:24 PM
11

Given the height difference, I would have chokeslammed her to prove my point. JK dude, nothing justifies being rude. I wouldn’t have taken it either. But seriously, for next time, choke slam through the dinner table!
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:47 PM
1

Don’t try to use moisturizer as lube. It will make things messy and make her drier. This may or may not have anything to do with me when I first lost my virginity.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 01:02 PM
1

Even if you have emotional needs, focus on getting dependent on the companionship and not the companion. You are likely to a stray away from oneitis that way.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:41 AM
1

Good advice
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:09 AM
2

What’s the chameleon trick ? Like actually wanting kids but pretending not to ?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:35 AM
10

How do you define existential threat ? I thought fear rape and sexual assault were examples of that kind of a threat ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:21 AM
1

One has the word “dating” in it and one doesn’t. Take a guess about which one promotes overall improvement instead of just getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:03 PM
2

And men are mostly to blame for that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:42 PM
1

depends on what I’m listening to and considering as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:40 PM
1

I like your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:38 PM
1

Well said. Learnt this the hard way a few years ago. At what point do you recommend that exclusivity should be established ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:34 PM
11

Think that has as much to do with validation as it has to do with thirst
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:32 PM
2

What is NLOG ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:39 AM
3

Yep. Sexual compatibility wasn’t even a thing in India say 20 or so years ago. If you’re incompatible, live with it. Now, just like any other country, things have changed a lot. Sexual compatibility is important for sure. But in an arranged marriage set up, it gets tricky. Imagine telling your mom that it won’t work out coz the girl won’t swallow :p
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:36 AM
2

Why do you feel so ? What challenges exist ? Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:29 AM
2

Dating at 35 is over ?! Damn. That’s when I was planning to start dating seriously :p
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 03:12 AM
0

Says the jack ass whose post and comment history comprises almost exclusively of growing weed and having to find partners on R4R communities. Seriously, the fact that you are giving advice to someone about dating is pathetic. You’re a piece of shit that will never be a High value male. Let alone beta, you’re probably not even worth being piss Also it’s you and not your. Fucking dipshit. GTFO
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:17 AM
1

I was a prosecutor for three years. I have seen enough shit to know that everyone lives their life thinking that there’s a lot of shit that will never happen to them. Until it does. IDGAF about fake simulated crime thrillers since they’re inaccurate anyway. Anyway to each his own.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:58 AM
5

Right until she leaves a suicide note blaming the OP. Or her phone records/texts are pulled up where OP has regular correspondence with her. Guess who the prime suspect for abetment to suicide becomes then.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:43 AM
8

Thank you for your services on the frontline over the last year!
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:12 AM
1

Be cautious of the ones that threatens suicide though: Softest possible next. If she makes an indiscretion impulsively, it might get messy.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:09 AM
2

Gotcha. Either way it means affirming something ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:20 PM
1

I agree. It’s not the same at all. The magnitude and the intensity is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:15 PM
1

What do you mean by most jurisdictions? Across the world you mean ? It’s not recognized in India. Also not in China. Neither in a lot of other south East Asian countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:47 PM
3

How about letting him respond without you throwing in cocky remarks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:35 PM
2

Wow. Didn’t know that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:35 PM
2

True. A lot of men will laugh at fellow men that complain of rape and sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:13 PM
2

Got it. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:13 PM
1

I doubt that. Rape across most jurisdictions is an offence against a woman. Am I wrong ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:06 PM
2

What does based mean ? I see it being used here a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:31 PM
1

Nope. Not a troll. Just a normal argument that’s challenging your denial. You think SAHMs only existed in the nineteenth century ? You think they don’t today ? I can show you thousands of examples across the most developed cities where they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:31 PM
1

She doesn’t have to. I didn’t mean that guys she dates will call her that. I meant she will have become, what a lot of people on ppd refer to as riding the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:57 AM
1

You are extremely silly. How hard is it to understand ? Once a girl becomes of an age where she is legally allowed to marry, she has several options, one of which includes : marry a guy and become a SAHM. In that situation she wouldn’t have to pay rent. In case she decides on any other option other than that, she is obviously choosing to get into a lifestyle where she has to pay rent. Hence is a self made choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:55 AM
7

Set your black rook on a block that is on a straight line with the white knight on the chess board . Then wait for your turn and bazinga !
/r/askTRP29/04/21 06:03 AM
2

Im a 32 year old guy that was raised in a double income household in a developing country. Had it not been for my mother’s contribution to my household income when I was growing up, I wouldn’t even have been able to go a good enough school to learn proper English, let alone migrate to the US. So if your argument is based on the rhetoric of me not understanding the value of a woman’s income, nip it in the bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:01 AM
9

What you described in the last paragraph is what a lot of delusional people refer to as riding the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:30 AM
-2

Let’s say that you meet a nice guy that doesn’t want to hook up. Go on a few dates, eventually sleep with him. Then you break up for some reason. Thereafter you move on to the next guy and the same process. Now your intent might be to establish relationships with all those guys. But then since you have now had sex with 2-3 guys, a lot of people will now label you as having ridden the CC. Even if the reason why you broke up was because the guy you had sex with, represented wanting a commitment an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:29 AM
3

Ma’am what world are you living in ? The ppd sub is full of men that scream out hoarse that they would die to marry a virginal woman that stays at home and cooks. Surely those may not be the men the girl wants to be with. But that’s again a choice. Not a mandate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:14 AM
3

That’s a self chosen expense. Nobody compelled the woman to have to get into a situation where she has to pay rent. She could have chosen to get married and live rent free as a SAHM. Or become a nanny and stay with the family that she works for. She chose to manage her own life and choose a job other than those two. She had every right to do that. But it’s not a mandate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:11 AM
2

What do you mean they have to ?!! Where is the mandate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:25 AM
0

Yep. I agree. Being a stay at home wife or partner has its own set of responsibilities. It’s essential to comply with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:14 AM
-1

Because when they fought for it they did not perceive it as a burden. They perceived it as the right to work and be paid for it. And yes, if a woman doesn’t want to work, she doesn’t have to. I think women fought for the choice to work. They didn’t fight to have it mandated. Anyone that shames a woman for opting to be a trad wife is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:09 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:25 PM
-3

Society not putting a burden on women to earn is not privilege at all. It is a continuation of age old norms that have attempted to keep women away from engaging in non household oriented roles. Since this was a practice since ages, dislodging it will take a lot of time. During those times, women kept on maintaining traditional household roles, thought the proportion kept reducing bit by bit through generations. Hence what appears to be a privilege of being absolved from a responsibility to earn…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:46 PM
11

I learnt this after being friend zoned during undergrad. The ideal approach is to opt for neither extreme. Don’t be too distant or hard to get. At the same time , don’t be over friendly or try to compensate. Just be normal. It will send across a message that you are secure enough to handle the rejection and over some time, as you continue to improve yourself, she may feel differently. Whether you want her then or not is your choice though.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 06:08 PM
1

So you’re saying that the high n woman will choose to cheat on her partner at the exact same time that they are trying to start a family ? Most couples either use protection or birth control during sex. The only time that either is removed, is when they’re starting a family. So the woman will choose that exact duration or interval to sleep with another man and get impregnated by him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:10 PM
-7

How old is she ?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:03 AM
0

I fail to understand this argument. What’s the logic behind her making you raise someone else’s kids? You will be exclusive with her way before she gets pregnant right ? And so if you are the only one that’s sleeping with her during that time, how can she be carrying someone else’s child during that time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:00 AM
1

Gotcha. Gen x is 1965-1980 birth right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:31 AM
3

There is nothing wrong or awkward about being a stay at home mom. Women never advocated for dislodging that as a valid option. Women fought for CHOICE. The right to be able to choose whether to work or to be a SAHM. Women rebelled against this tradition because it represents an inactive participation in community and society. Just like not being allowed to vote. I don’t think that women rebelled to have the identify of a SAHM tarnished. They rebelled against being compelled to do so. It’s about …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:18 AM
1

OP might send the wrong signal to the other dude, if he literally tries to do exactly what you said in the last line.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 10:33 PM
17

RKO out of nowhere
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:14 PM
0

Please ask him to not beat up my son
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:48 PM
2

I’m curious, why does your flair say gen x slacker ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:27 PM
1

What’s transactional sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:10 PM
0

Depends on how old my prospective partner is: Between 20-25 : 5-8 Between 25-30 : 9 -13 Between 30- 35 : 14 I guess. I focus more on how the notches came. If they came mostly from frequent hookups and casual sex with random men, then the lowest of numbers will not impress me. But if I see a genuine attempt to establish relationships with the occasional encounter with casual sex, I wouldn’t care too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:33 PM
1

It’s a pathetic practice women use to justify their poor decisions. Not to mention, it subconsciously wires us to start taking even legit rape allegations with a pinch of salt because “who knows, she may be lying as well”. Disgusting that women do this!
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:46 PM
1

What’s a high body count as per your standards? For someone that’s 20 / 25 / 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:24 PM
5

What are n count memes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:48 PM
7

Why the aversion to American girls ?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:22 AM
2

What would be some criteria that you would consider while choosing an LTR ?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:57 AM
1

Why do you think that she did whatever she did because she was a non virgin ?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:40 AM
7

How about you hit her up now ? If you want an LTR ?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:38 AM
3

What do you mean “ she looks like she steals” ? 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:31 AM
2

What traits did you think your ex had that you have a hard time finding in someone today ?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:22 AM
11

Do you mean you let go of a good girl because you kept wondering what else is out there ?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:14 AM
1

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:01 AM
1

Yeah so don’t LTR them. Just don’t shame them. No one is asking you to not have standards. Just don’t call them out over shit that doesn’t concern you. Which it won’t if you don’t LTR her in the first place.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:55 PM
0

Why does it have to be an extreme ? Why does it have to be either a virgin from a developing nation or a slut ? Why not a woman that falls within the median 50 percentile category?
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:35 PM
0

Wiser words have never been said. On one hand you want women to be more sex positive so that you can enjoy more sexual experiences, but on the other hand you promote an environment where you will slut shame women for putting out. You are defeating your own purpose. Stop slut shaming. Period. You should be coming across as someone that women feel comfortable sleeping with. Not someone who she thinks will judge her for showing her ankle.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:33 PM
1

Congrats!
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:07 PM
11

Very true. Not to mention. Unsolicited dick pics.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:03 PM
18

People buy bath water? LMAO ! What has the world come to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:10 PM
0

Bro homosexuality is not something to be ashamed of. I would understand if your father had somewhat limiting beliefs about it, given that he is from a different generation. But the right thing for you to do is to support her at a time like this and ensure that she manages to feel that you can be a dependent sibling. If you think that she would change her mind after hooking up with guys, let her figure that out on her own. But try and support her in whatever way possible:)
/r/askTRP26/04/21 04:12 AM
1

What are some of the criteria that you recommend one should keep in mind while choosing an LTR ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:19 AM
1

Joe Pesci ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 11:00 PM
1

What about Adam Sandler ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:59 PM
1

How do you define damaged women ? Curious
/r/askTRP25/04/21 09:16 PM
3

This man knows his shit. Really hope more people around the block learn this. No matter how many studies do the rounds, I’d refuse to believe that a girl that had a threesome with randos and has an n count of 3 has better pairbonding abilities than a girl with n -15 but all with people she knew and vetted well.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 08:18 PM
1

How do you rank Morgan freeman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:23 PM
1

Why does it have to be either extreme ? How about you find a normal girl that falls within the middle 50 percentile ?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 06:20 PM
30

Bro I have seen men yell themselves hoarse here while claiming that the best thing a woman can bring to the table is her beauty and feminine looks. Not just that, they also go on to say that the wisdom and intelligence of a woman is of no value to them, since they make enough money. Isn’t that reinforcing the habits of women that want to invest in only their appearance and nothing more ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:01 PM
0

Got it. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:53 PM
3

So is your argument, that if at all paternity tests were not to be constrained, men would have no issues with high n count women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:48 PM
1

How do you define damaged ? I’m curious to learn.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 04:15 PM
6

As a guy who had a fair amount of sex during my years, I can assure you they NOTHING is a defense against a potentially failing relationship. If you think that a young woman that’s 18-24, has a lesser chance of hurting you in love, do not for once reel under this misapprehension. If anything, those women are less patient since they know that they have time on their hands and can find another guy if they break up with you. At the end of the day, everyone settles for the best option available to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:12 PM
2

Me too. Not a day goes by when I think of just how differently I would have led my life, had I been able to internalize all this earlier in life.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:03 PM
8

This group seems to have lost a lot of its purpose. I joined here to learn about RP wisdom and seasoned advice from people who had internalized and applied some of the concepts. So far, I’ve read people post stuff like “ gays are closet straight men trying to screw your girlfriend” , all women that aren’t virgins are whores and a post about a guy that thought his sister was trying to screw him. I understand the importance of keeping this platform open and interactive. But sometimes it’s hard to …
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:15 AM
1

That’s true but then what about things that are beyond your control? For instance her past
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:26 PM
9

I mean it is something I would not condone but I would not break up over it. Just keep monitoring for red flags. One of my exes did something similar. She texted a guy she had broken up with a few months ago, two days after we became exclusive. But they were “friends” the whole time after their break up as well. I didn’t say anything at that time because I continued to vet. Eventually she came clean herself and told me that she still spoke with him. I told her I didn’t like it and she stopped ta…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:18 PM
1

What country ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 06:57 AM
1

They’re*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:38 AM
2

I thought boob size couldn’t be changed through work outs. Can you give me pointers on how I can get my girls to get bigger ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:36 AM
2

Don’t risk it unless you get an STI test done and are absolutely sure that she’s on permanent birth control. Not sure how you would even be super sure of the latter.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 05:05 AM
19

I mean even when making the shortest possible post to state the opposite, OP could not subconsciously omit to mention the financial aspect involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:33 AM
1

How old are you ?
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:35 AM
8

I agree. I’m not saying they’re not useful. I’m saying that dad bods aren’t preferred over muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:26 AM
114

All of this makes perfect sense until you want kids bro. If lineage wasn’t an issue, more than half of the men across the world would be living like this.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 12:14 AM
27

Those men are not loved for their bods. Their bods are overlooked because of the other values they bring into their spouse’s lives. If adjudication was happening purely on a bod basis, dad bods won’t be preferred over lean muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 11:27 PM
39

Women saying that they like dad bods is their equivalent of saying they like nice guys. It’s mostly a facade put up to defeat the notion of them wanting higher standards in the men they date. They don’t like dad bods and they don’t like nice guys either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:44 PM
0

Could you help understand what gutter female means?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:53 PM
1

Bro that way you would only end up with 30 plus used up women that have no direction or vision in life.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:52 PM
1

Could you define what party girl refers to ?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:52 PM
2

Do you regret breaking up with her ? I mean at least she was a potential hoe instead of the actual ones out there today
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:51 PM
3

Same with south East Asians. They become pathetically slutty.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:50 PM
0

She didn’t sleep around before ? I mean pretty girls with fat bodies do manage to get a lot of dick if they wanted to. Some folks have a fetish for fat
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:43 PM
6

I mean there’s more layers than that. If I wanted to choose a girl for an LTR, I’d rather choose someone who had 5 notches from serious dating or LTRs than one that had 3 from 3 ONS’s.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:43 PM
6

Give up ? You’re ok with the fact that she may have rampantly done all that in the past ?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:34 PM
11

This man knows it !
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:32 PM
7

Yeah man. I feel you. I work on myself everyday to change my perception of what an LTR ought to be vs what’s the best I can get in today’s world.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:16 PM
11

That’s only possible if you are within that age range. For a late 20s guy, finding a girl that young is very difficult. Also, by 20, most girls today have had 2-3 notches minimum
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:34 PM
12

It is. I’m not saying it’s wrong. Just pointing out a fact.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:14 PM
39

You do realize that you eliminated almost the vast majority of women these days right ?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:40 PM
1

Anyone. It could also be an alpha who decides to settle down. Not sure whether that makes him a beta. I always thought betas were men that were pursued ONLY for their resources when women want to settle down. If an ex alpha decides to settle down, not sure whether he would becomes the beta provider for whosoever he settles down with.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:34 PM
4

You’re good man.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:13 PM
2

Yes but those super hot ones also have super high standards and so it’s not like they have a lot of dating options.. they also walk out of relationships much easily since they know that there’s always going to be other options. Sometimes that leads to high n counts.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:04 PM
4

When did I say anything about LTRing them ?! I just said that women are capable of doing that. Hence my idea was to challenge the bifurcation and not to say that I would ever LTR a woman like that. I would not.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:42 PM
7

Yes. This is so true. People need to stop categorizing women into nice girls and sluts. Every woman is both. Just different sides come out at different times. The same woman that has been gang banged will happily wear an apron and clean the kitchen for the rest of her life when she finds the right man.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:28 PM
5

It might be a tough spot you are in OP. It also appears that there have been a plethora of varying comments that are advising you to approach this differently. Here are my two cents: Don’t think that she cannot be a good LTR just because she had a crazy past. I am sure she can be. The main paradox is the why behind it. Most people would agree that the reason she is choosing to be in an LTR and giving it her everything it because she has outlived her “crazy” life and now she wants to settle down …
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:58 PM
1

Where is that ? I’m curious. Also at what age ?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:20 PM
-5

I guess it depends on a bunch of things. How many js a lot ? What are your chances of finding someone with a more tame sexual experience? Have you vetted her present and future potential well enough ? Does she have any red flags? Does she add emotional/ physical/tangible value to your life ?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:00 PM
2

By experience do you mean sexual experience?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:53 PM
2

I didn’t have a specific moment per se. Just one relationship after another with seemingly great women made me realize that the Disney princess story doesn’t exist. My biggest RP lesson has been to stop chasing that perfect angel out there and try and make the best of my life through other avenues. My LTR is just a part of my life now, as opposed to how I used to treat my women as princesses and queens before I became RPed.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:19 PM
1

How do you define promiscuity? What’s the metric to determine it ? Different people have different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:53 PM
6

If your only metric to determine the “best” is past relationships history and nothing else, then maybe you should stick to that standard. Most mature people look beyond that and vet a person based on who they are today. The past of a girl should be a relevant factor but not the only factor in determining compatibility.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 12:01 AM
12

Because she grew to not like those people as much to she got cheated on or there were logistical issues like having to move for work ?!? What kind of a question is this ?! These are all reasons why she may have had failed relationships without it being her fault. Even if it was her fault, she’s a human being and allowed to make mistakes. As long as she didn’t cheat or date someone that was cheating, it doesn’t make her wrong.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 11:59 PM
8

What do you mean ? Because she is a human being and has dated/gotten involved people before you ? Is she supposed to not live her life and try to find love or affection?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/21 11:50 PM
3

Your sample space is too huge to get a correct number. It will vary a lot based on generation and location.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 07:19 PM
6

Yeah not just approaching women. This also includes interactions at social gatherings, parties, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:18 AM
0

Yes I totally agree. It’s important to be motivated and not let rejection affect you. I was just elaborating on what usually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:54 AM
1

Love the username !
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:20 AM
76

Please understand how this works. Good looking guy tries to approach/ strike up a conversation with a girl—— receives positive reaction—— gains exposure and conversation——-has more and more conversations and social interactions ——-develops social skills——- becomes socially more skilled and interesting to talk to—— understands fundamentals of social skills and leverages learnings on loop Average looking/ not good looking guy approaches/tries to strike up a conversation——- gets shot down or polite…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:18 AM
6

No one is wasting their prime. If you don’t know that they’re fucking, that’s because they’re not fucking you. You’re right that standards vary when choosing an LTR vs a casual hookup. For an LTR a lot of people have standards higher than they can attain. But that doesn’t mean that until they find that guy or give up, they’re not sleeping with others casually
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:48 PM
1

Oh wow. Did she swear on a solemn oath before she spoke with you or did you hook her up with a lie detector test ?!
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:38 PM
1

I stunted most of my potential chasing the wrong things. Grew up being conditioned by movies and books about what love is. Chased that for the longest and hence didn’t explore my dating and sexuality perspective enough. Eventually when I realized the truth, I started changing my stance and approach and got more “tangible success”. But sometimes I feel that the formative dating years of my life ended up being wasted and also instilled some deep rooted notions in my head about love, that I still s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:00 PM
11

Red pill or not ,never make the mistake of correlating fiction on movies and books with real life. One of the major reasons why fiction sells is because it offers something that people don’t ordinarily experience in real life. Enjoy it for what it is and then put the book away and lead actual life as independent from fiction as possible!
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 01:30 AM
0

Congratulations in advance for the one that is soon to come :)
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:21 PM
1

That’s what I meant. Irrespective of your ability to afford it, it’s still good money lost. Bad luck. But we all make some shitty mistakes and learn our lessons the hard way.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:22 PM
2

Yes my comment is very much based on being ethical. I’ve always been that way and it has brought me a lot of happiness so far. So I’ll stick to it. You can stick to not wanting to
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:21 PM
0

Damn that’s rough dude! Sorry to hear that
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:57 PM
9

Quiet simply because it’s wrong and unethical. The purpose of the red pill or any other ideology cannot be to be an irresponsible person. You are literally bringing another life into this world and not taking responsibility for it just because you want to be “alpha”. If you want to pass your genetics on to the future generations, show some respect towards them. Don’t bring a child into the world and then leave it to wither and suffer because you don’t want to take care of it. That just means tha…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:56 PM
5

What’s the issue with homosexuality ? In a way those men have become stronger in being able to express their sexuality more openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:11 PM
2

Trust me ! Stop caring. You will be happier.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:43 AM
3

Nah he means thankful for coming clean. Not for letting the housemate fuck her.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:37 AM
7

The problem is that most of the social movements were started with one intent and eventually got nuanced into becoming something way beyond what the intent was. True feminism was and is a tool to bridge the socio economic gap between the men and women that has existed due to centuries of patriarchy. But today it is often misused to justify utter crap and erratic behavior. I think all men will agree when I say that of feminism were truly about equality and equity, then most rational men will supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 10:37 PM
1

Yeah I agree. Madonna whore for sure! I’m not judging the OP but I guess I agree that it stems from Madonna whore. But I’m surprised that it’s common in NYC. I would imagine that being a cosmopolitan city that it is, people would be more accepting towards casual sexcapades of women?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:23 PM
1

This happens the most in communities where sexuality is a lot more repressed and considered a taboo. Because most men there are conditioned to believe that women need to behave a certain way to be “good girls” and any deviation from that deserves contempt.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:05 PM
15

A very pathetic and backward view. Homosexuality has been scientifically proven.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:53 PM
1

Cool username bro. You from Patna ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:03 PM
2

What is it that’s bothering you ? The fact that she had a fling ? Or the fact that she didn’t tell you about it ?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 02:24 PM
2

So your basically saying that most girls today have lost the ability to pair bond ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:23 PM
9

Think this is the best way to put it. Find someone that you can live with without wanting to shoot yourself and then do steps 2 and 3.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:14 PM
2

Yep. Agreed. Not the wisest of decisions to ask for specific details.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:56 PM
3

It most unmarried women hit 10 before 25, how is 10 high ? Isn’t high or low to be determined based on scale ? If most of a particular group has a particular number, doesn’t that number cease to be high and become more of an average ? Especially since not a lot of women are married before 25 and so they represent a majority of women in general ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:39 AM
1

Yes asking about n count is always a bad idea. How on earth are you going to verify that she is being honest ?!! I agree with this dude
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:28 PM
1

Why would you worry about point number 5? If anything that shows that she is into exploring her sexuality with her partner. Plus he was a serious boyfriend. That is definitely one of the points you are over thinking about. :)
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:19 PM
5

Yeah but that’s very different than having 11 at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:54 PM
5

So much debate doing the rounds. And yet not one proper consensus on what high n count is. For all you know, everyone might be arguing about completely different categories of people because of no clear definition for “high n count”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:53 PM
2

I never reframed my strongest of Indian accents. Why should I be ashamed of who I am and where I belong to ? Got plenty of lays nevertheless. The idea is to be confident in your skin and embrace who you actually are
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:38 PM
3

Maybe in Portugal. In the US, for millennials, it is in the average to above average range. At least for people that want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:20 PM
1

But then why would he be picked unless he has bucks ? The woman’s priorities change while choosing for LTRs right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 05:06 PM
7

How are both disgusting ?! Curious to know your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 04:48 PM
1

Ah gotcha. Yes makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:02 PM
5

What country are you from ? I’m just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:30 PM
8

Have you ever thought of the fact that by holding 10 as a threshold, you are perhaps skewing your perspective? I could be wrong but I’m pretty sure that an average woman that leads a normal life can end up having 10-12 partners by age 30. When I think high n count, I think 20 by age 30. 10-12 by age 30 is perhaps average or above average IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:17 PM
1

I meant to refer to all chads that want to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:49 PM
3

Failed relationships means CC too ? I thought CC alluded to only promiscuity and choosing casual encounters over LTRs!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:48 PM
1

I didn’t mean the expanded version of the abbreviation. I meant what does it represent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:59 AM
4

What is the CC according to you ? I’ve seen that word used a lot here, but never could get one good definition of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:38 AM
4

I feel you ! Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:28 AM
3

Good point
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:24 AM
1

She has her name in the video ?!?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:26 AM
1

How did you even come across it ? Of all the porno in the world, you run into hers ?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:14 AM
3

Why are you upset bro ? Was it a recent break up ? If you’re over her already, what’s bothering you ? Maybe she doesn’t feel sexy around the new guy and had to wear the panties you gifted her to feel turned on :)
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:08 AM
2

Did she appear to know that she was being filmed ? Or was it just the guy recording her without her knowledge?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:57 PM
9

An n count of 5 at age 28 is sluttish ?! I’m curious what number at that age would you find non slutty ?!
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:06 PM
2

I mean I guess to each his own man. She doesn’t have to buy it for you. She contributes to other stuff like groceries and utilities, which otherwise would have gone from your pocket and a continued arrangement like that helps you save more to buy a better car with in maybe 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:42 AM
1

Yeah but like a better car. I mean you can’t say that you can ever have enough money. Even if you’re satisfied in the lifestyle that you have, you could still enjoy a better one, given that you don’t have to compromise much for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:07 AM
2

All I can say is that it’s best for you to work on developing a mindset where you won’t be affected at all in case she does cheat, rather than being able to tell signs that she is. If somebody has to cheat, she would do so even if she weren’t in an “easy to cheat in” environment. And if someone has good control, then she won’t do it no matter what. I can understand you feel awkward that she stays there with those dudes. But just think to yourself whether your feelings stem from just her environm…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 10:32 PM
1

What does high interest mean ?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 12:28 AM
3

You mentioned religion in your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:09 PM
2

Men also care about their own financial future right ? If a partner works and brings money, that reduces your expenditure and helps increase savings, it’s good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:27 PM
2

Like how is that the case if she splits everything proportionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:24 PM
2

Date better girls man. I know plenty that are frugal and judiciously use their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:23 PM
0

Never understood this concept. How is this prevalent if everything in the house is being split equally or proportionally ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:23 PM
2

I hope this is sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:22 PM
1

What do you mean it’s not true ? It’s a what if statement. I didn’t say that’s what happens. I asked what if that were to be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:21 PM
2

I guess it’s hard to tell generation on Reddit. I read it here mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:18 PM
7

That’s crap. There is no one specific religion from where virginity stems as a virtue in society. There are a plethora of countries in SE Asia and the Middle East where virginity is strictly enforced as a standard and Christianity is a very small section of that society. Also, to your point of men and women always being available for sex to their partner is wrong too. It defeats the very notion of consent. Prolonged denial of sex to the other is wrong and defeats marital obligations. But to say …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:16 PM
2

That’s exactly what I wrote in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:01 PM
2

I’m criticizing abstinence on this post because it’s relevant here. I’ll criticize slut shaming on posts where that is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:40 PM
4

How is your first point even remotely related? Also, I’m not telling anyone anything. I personally don’t slut shame anyone. So I’m going to continue on that path.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:31 PM
6

This is why virginity until marriage is a messed up concept. People should be given a chance to explore each other sexually and check compatibility before getting married. If the woman changes her stance after marriage and suddenly becomes unavailable or less enthusiastic due to reasons other than the ones beyond her control, I would consider it wrong and misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:25 PM
6

Isn’t this an assumption? She could be buying a good education for the children, a shared mortgage on a car, expensive electronics for the household,etc etc. Seems to me that your objections stems from the fact that she doesn’t contribute proportionally enough to the household. If that’s the issue, it’s unfair. But if she does actually contribute enough, why is it still an issue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:00 PM
3

Check post edit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:20 PM
3

Those are two different things right ? She can be physically attractive and still have a career? Those are two mutually exclusive things. I’m not saying that having a career will be able to help supersede a lack of physical beauty. But then within the group of women that are attractive enough to LTR, her income does impact your savings doesn’t it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:08 PM
1

Think you didn’t read the entire comment of mine. Never justified wifing up a slut. But how you determine sluttiness, is contingent on several factors and not just n count. If you think that n count is the Bible of determining sluttiness, then you’re wrong and impractical both. For starters you can never tell whether she is being honest about her number. So, no thank you I wouldn’t obsess over her number, unless it is super high and instead vet her on my own.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:00 AM
7

That’s an astonishing stat!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:34 AM
9

Great point. Quick clarification: Hindu is a religion. Think you meant Indian ?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 09:49 PM
1

It shouldn’t. Good luck :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:55 PM
2

Then maybe you’re not chad enough to get laid with generic social skills whereas I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:52 PM
2

Then dont go to a fucking book club. Go somewhere where you enjoy and then do the exact same thing. The book club is just an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:27 PM
1

Dude your so delusional seriously! I mean I really wonder whether you have any idea how the world works . Having social skills or what you call “game” is independent of where you are. If you want to meet a girl and have her suck your dick within 30 min of meeting you, then go to a bar and try your luck with the “game”. If you would rather invest in getting to know people, do stuff you enjoy doing and then building into something casual, then you need to break the silo in your head. PUA is bullsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:25 PM
8

Do you think that the obsession with sex or n counts stems mostly within people that are sexually inexperienced or don’t have options ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:08 PM
5

Ah gotcha! Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:06 PM
53

It’s a strong solution to a lot of societal problems we have today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:03 PM
3

What’s PED ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:02 PM
5

This is a very well balanced answer and reflects pure perspective without any resentment and bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:29 PM
4

Yeah I agree. Some men will do a lot of those things to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:27 PM
4

No one can help you if you don’t want help
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:30 PM
1

I think what you’re referring to is the AF/BB notion rather than the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:11 PM
1

So then stop looking for women in trailer parks and ghettos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:08 PM
2

The issue is that you won’t. You won’t find chaste women or at least the ones that are chaste as per your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:04 PM
2

Bro a lot of us average men have accepted the situation for what it is and try to work on ourselves to make things better. That’s why we’re not angry or at least don’t sound like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:01 PM
2

This is super true! That’s why men have these ridiculous perceptions!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:00 PM
2

The last line ! Well said.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:58 PM
5

It doesn’t have to be meetups. It could be any event that helps you expand your social circle. If you don’t like meetups, find something else. How about nonprofits ? I joined one recently and there are no les than 30 people between the ages of 25-32 as part of it. I’m willing to bet that at least some are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:57 PM
16

I’m a guy and I don’t go to clubs. Before I got into an LTR, I never went out to clubs and bars on weekends. I did stuff that I enjoyed and tried to meet new people. That is EXACTLY how most of my casual sex happened. If you go there with the specific intent of picking up chicks, you may be disappointed. But if you live your life and do stuff that you enjoy, you have a far better chance of getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:51 PM
6

Yes ! I agree. Putting woman on a pedestal and wanting the typical Disney princess is exactly what fuels the women are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:44 PM
5

Lol ok dude. I mean I’m sure your experience is the ideal prototype for how the word operates. Btw, my uncle, who is 55 goes to the bar sometimes to catch a drink with his buddies. I guess it’s safe to say that bars have older people too ? Seriously man, get up and go outside into the real world and do normal stuff for yourself. Yoh will get a lot more chances at scoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:03 PM
16

How do you develop skills ? You do so by going out, meeting more people, making a few mistake, learning from them and eventually becoming a more attractive person overall. You don’t have to “game” women to get them to sleep with you. She is a human being that needs sex. She will sleep with you if you’re a pleasant person that has an impressive personality. Experience helps you get there. Listening to YouTube coaches that are basically monetizing your situation won’t do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:01 PM
0

Those are the guys that are the loudest about their RP affiliations. Most sane ones internalize the RP content, apply it and move on with life, instead of posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:54 PM
20

Because you probably don’t have a lot of sex going on in your life or never have, you do everything with the agenda of finding sex. Whether it’s joining a book club or going to a bar. Most normal and sane people live their life, incorporate hobbies as part of it and the sex then happens. I didn’t say go to the club with the intent of getting your Willy wet. I said go there, meet people, expand your circle and then you will have more people to interact with and potentially fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:49 PM
12

It’s not stupid. It happens WAY MORE than you think. You are ignorant to think that is doesn’t. And no one talks like that and parades it in front of others. You meet, strike a connection and then if both of you are game, you have a FWB/hookup. This is exactly how most normal people who are not bar or club hoppers or don’t always scout the dating apps, get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:46 PM
5

You are dumb and ignorant to think that book clubs have only those people. Young people read and are enthusiastic about books as well. I read about about world wars as well as fiction. There are plenty of young people that joined the book club between 25-35. The problem with people like you is that you don’t know anything about the world and live in stereotypes. Just like a book club for you means just 40 plus year old women, you apply EXACTLY the same logic when thinking that casual sex is avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 12:44 PM
2

Right in the feels !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:06 AM
25

I used the meetups app to meet fellow kayaking enthusiasts. New people would come every weekend. Met some amazing people. Also join a non profit that shares a cause that you strongly feel towards. New members join everyday. I dated a girl I met through a non profit for a while and she was a really nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:04 AM
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Try going to social circles where the circle is not set. Book clubs, hiking groups, cooking classes etc. Lots of new people to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:00 AM
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Here’s my two cents on this: AF/BB exist in a way that women change their priorities when they are seeking marriage and LTRs, while getting close to the age of marriage. Even if they were seeking and maintaining LTRs previously, they won’t necessarily vet aspects such as financial security and parenting skills during those ones as much as they would during the time when they want to get married. Prior to that compatibility and physical attraction will matter a lot more than it would then. Financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:57 AM
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I’m curious . What does replying to the auto mod on Reddit mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:40 AM
2

Be it the west or the east, the only guys that over crib about a woman’s notch count are the guys that don’t get laid. For them , sex is this alien concept that they can’t fathom to wrap their heads around and hence they go antagonize everyone that has it. I don’t care about a notch count because I am confident that I can fuck my woman well. Does that mean I will LTR a slut ? No. But does that mean I will treat n count as the Bible of character. No! I have had enough sexual experience and dating…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 11:18 PM
0

Not just insecure. Read his comment and post history. He has been sexless his entire 20’s, married a single mother who was 19 and got dumped and now visits brothels to see sexual satisfaction. Insecurity is an understatement for a guy like this. I doubt my wife would want a threesome because I have enough experience to be able to fuck her good. If she does, she might invite a female friend of hers over whom I will fuck good as well. Meanwhile you can continue talking about “western men” reducing…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:56 PM
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Waiting for someone to type “lift”
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:48 PM
3

There is somewhat of a sense to your argument, but 9 is too less. You’re saying that a body count of 10 is high ? For a woman that is around 30, a high body count would be somewhere around 20. 10 is like less than 1 per year. If you’re in a big city or have been to college, 10 is too easy at age 30 or so.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:32 PM
2

Ah gotcha. Yes not a bad idea. Get that premium Dilmil membership bro !
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:55 PM
1

Gotcha. Yeah can’t deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:53 PM
7

Then take my advice, as a fellow Indian in the US, that practiced as a lawyer for 6 years in India. Find a girl here and marry her, if marriage is your thing. Don’t get into an arranged marriage with a girl from India and bring her here. Western men have this cockshit theory that Asian women, especially SE Asian women are suitable wife material because they still see those countries as what media portrays them to be. As a lawyer, I can across multiple cases where women that got married to Indian…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:52 PM
3

Yeah maybe sales jobs as well. But then there are a plethora of jobs where looks don’t matter. I work as an Ops manager at a biotech and make six figures. Everyone around me is ordinary looking and doing fabulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:46 PM
1

Are you based in India or the US ?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 04:45 PM
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Why are you over thinking this ?! No girl is going to blatantly mention that she is looking for a hookup . Just invite her over and go with the flow.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:40 PM
3

Only a foolish and dim witted recruiter would hire a woman at a position where her looks don’t matter. If I’m the CEO of a tech firm, who do you think I would rather recruit : a Harvard grad guy with relevant work experience and skills or a busty blonde that isn’t as good as the other guy ? The ONLY situation where attractive women might get preferential treatment are industries and roles that are “visual”. Whether it’s the servers at hooters, the briefcase women on deal or no deal or an Instagr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:37 PM
5

There’s all kinds of people on tinder. A lot of girls that I know are on all kinds of dating apps. Tinder, bumble,hinge, ok Cupid etc. A lot of them are looking for relationships. Perhaps tinder has a certain reputation but that doesn’t mean that you can’t find love there. Once you meet someone, just navigate the meetings in a way you would treat a relationship. Simple. Theres Instagram baiters and shallow women on every app. Not just tinder. Hinge is full of them ! As is bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:03 PM
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Also true. So then if nothing is guaranteed, what’s the point of worrying about promiscuity affecting the future ? Either don’t invest in an LTR or stop giving a damn about her past, unless it’s super crazy.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:35 PM
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But i didn’t say “a lot of casual sex”. I mentioned just a few instances. Basically to delineate women that make a lifestyle out of casual sex and don’t actively seek relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:32 PM
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Yeah that study is a piece of shit that gets passed around like a joint because men who always had issues wifing up promiscuous women, finally had an outlet to justify their decisions. If one is truly alpha, he can make the best housewife out of a hoe. Whether he wants to is his prerogative.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 01:13 PM
1

I “waited” for the right one and ended up delaying losing my virginity by a long time. Regret it a lot. I am not sure about you , but I made the mistake of romanticizing sex. It should be special, only within LTRs, only with the right person etc etc. I guess subconsciously started expecting a partner with similar views as well. Next to impossible, especially amongst the college crowd, where I was looking. Ended up losing it on a casual date. Girl didn’t even know that I was a virgin. Just happen…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 11:36 AM
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It depends on what country you are in and the surrounding culture. Also depends on whether you are a virgin by choice or due to lack of an opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:29 AM
2

These are the same people that shout or hoarse when people use the n count influencing cheating study.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:52 AM
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Damn bro. Sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:51 AM
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Let me give you some long but sound advice from personal experience. I am aware that this is not your first post about this. You had posted the exact same situation from a different account, on multiple Reddit pages such as this one, relationships, retroactive jealousy, married red pill, Christians and maybe a couple more. And I think on another occasion from another account a few days ago before that. In my humble opinion what you are suffering from is not an apprehension of her notch count. It…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:09 AM
1

Not just on sex. But sex is an important factor as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:36 PM
8

Wants attention. Won’t give it up. Move on.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:11 PM
2

If you mean with respect to promiscuity then nothing is a safe bet. There is literally no way to tell. All these so called red flag enthusiasts don’t know shit and harp on to that one stupid study that interlinked cheating with high n count. There was this one girl in my class who used to actively preach celibacy and how she was still getting over this ex of hers that left her about a year ago, because she would not have sex before marriage Really quiet and timid girl. We went for drinks once an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 07:09 PM
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My experience is that personality traits aren’t the ideal way to determine promiscuity. I have known the most confident and outspoken women that flaunt themselves on instagram and yet only sleep within LTRs. I’ve also seen timid abd otherwise uptight girls get drunk and hook up with a literal rando at parties. It takes one moment of weakness, FOMO or YOlO on behalf of a library geek to go out and seek sex. That’s why I always say that vet a girl based on present and future. There is no way you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:59 PM
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It’s the new norm. Welcome to 2021 bro. Everyone’s messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:28 PM
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Some of them may sleep around even more. Generalizations are rarely true when it comes to human nature. Extroverted girls often get their validation from Instagram followers, orbiters and other male attention. Quiet chicks don’t and seek it via sex .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:26 PM
8

Seriously man. I’m tired of RP being full of jerks that have no morals or principles
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:23 PM
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Dude I mean have you guys not heard of basic concepts like STIs ?!!! Go to Bangkok and fuck without a condom. Seriously. Go for it
/r/askTRP09/04/21 05:13 PM
5

Sounds like you’re from India ?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre09/04/21 04:35 PM
0

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:32 PM
2

Attraction and romance flies right out of the window when life is uncomfortable and not at par with expectations. Anyone that believes otherwise is basically fooling themselves. This is why I recommend for people to start exploring their sexuality and relationships as early as possible. It’s because if you don’t, you will eventually end up spending a considerable part of your life believing utter impractical and inappropriate stuff that is sold to people via movies and books. When people say tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:21 PM
2

It’s not hard. It’s “simple”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:45 PM
2

You have to understand that men will treat you like gold if you make EVERYONE wait. Because that is an indication of the fact that you value sex for what it is and do not give it out casually. But when he realizes that you gave it up to a guy you met at a bar within 2 hours of seeing him, you’re basically saying that I don’t mind giving it up for that random dude that didn’t even have to commit to me, but I won’t give it up for you until I can secure some form of serious commitment or indication…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:44 PM
1

Not banging everything that moves does not equate never having partaken in casual sex. Read the clarification number 1 in the OP post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:34 PM
1

Well not everyone for sure. But a LOT of the population that you would want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:11 PM
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I mean I could be wrong but this study shows that they surveyed how many people had casual sex in the last month?! Is that not too short a time frame to determine whether they had casual sex ever ? Also this just surveys 17-24 year olds. What about the ones that are older than that ? Lastly, maybe they’re having less casual sex. That doesn’t mean that they’re not having any casual sex at all. My question was pertaining to a few instances of casual sex. Not an entire lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:10 PM
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I agree. But then worry isn’t something that a lot of people can control. The mind wants what it wants, especially in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:06 PM
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If a girl that hoe-d around finds a guy that she really want to settle in an LTR with, she is going to do everything in her power to pretend to be miss goody good girl. She doesn’t even have to do it for that long. Just enough to get habituated .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:04 PM
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I agree. Especially when it comes down to something like casual sex, a lot of people feel inhibited in getting in the stride of it, due to taboo. Thereafter, the more you spend time with otherwise cool and fun people that occasionally engage in casual sex, the more you consider opening up yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 11:54 AM
2

Is there also an optimal hole to fuck ratio ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:25 AM
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Did you like not read the OP post ? Read clarification no 2!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:23 AM
6

She literally responded with “ I fucked just three”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:21 AM
4

How do you find our what her A game is/was ? How do you determine what she gave to others ? Not challenging. Just curious to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:14 AM
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Yeah but they usually marry within their own communities right ? Plus most of them are married by the time most average men want to settle down ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:57 PM
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I genuinely have a question here. How do you know about whether she has been with someone that was better than you ? Like do you make a list of all the guys that she has slept with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:55 PM
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Q4M
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 10:25 PM
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If you’re married, why the username ? Just curious !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 10:02 PM
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I think he’s trying to allude to the instance where she makes the new guy wait longer than she made the previous one did or refuses to partake in sexual acts that she actively engaged in with her previous casual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 09:35 PM
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No I mean what part of the statement “women engage in casual sex once or twice “ did you not agree with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:00 PM
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So what you’re saying is that the actual number is more than once or twice or is it less ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:56 PM
2

Having a lot of guy friends that may have slept with her can be as crazy as having a lot of girlfriends who are constantly egging her to go get some D
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:21 PM
1

What does n mean here ? Notch count ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:05 PM
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Seriously. Such a valid point. Men here be like “I am upset that my LTR has a high notch count and was promiscuous” and then post a question saying “ She wants to do a four way with me, a raccoon and Ronald McDonald. Should I do it ?”. You’re supposed to respect your LTR and anything that adds to your doubts about her promiscuity is off the table.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:54 PM
1

You mean the asktrp community ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:02 AM
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Is promiscuity not shamed in the west ? I moved to the west from another more conservative country and expected that things in the US would be more open and liberal. But then everyone on Reddit seems to be shaming promiscuity. Or is Reddit an inaccurate reference ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:01 AM
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Your brain is stupid and obnoxious. All women aren’t whores. It’s your perspective that’s a problem. Don’t think that the red pill is an ideology that hates women and declares war on them. It’s a realistic perspective to life.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:39 AM
1

If she says no, respect what she says. I know chicks can be manipulative, but then it’s better to not go ahead with such girls rather than have your career ruined thanks to a fake lawsuit.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:33 AM
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But how would they know about your sex skills without getting in the sack with you ? She finds out only after you have gotten her to sleep with you right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:29 AM
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Lol no no sorry. I meant mid 100-200k. My bad. I wish dude :|
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:09 PM
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That’s just one example of several tiny instances spread across a bunch of months. Anyway I never meant for this to be about race dude. I meant to compare good looking to average looking dudes. Sorry if I over emphasized the white part. I like your comments and thoughts on most posts here. You’re a cool dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:58 PM
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I think you overlooked my second last paragraph. The ignorance was never blatant or super obvious. It was subtle and engrained in extremely routine stuff. I’m not saying they were discriminating. I’m saying that they had preferential behavior towards certain people. Also I never claimed that those women were hot. Not being racist is fundamental. Most people aren’t racist to others on their face. Neither was I saying that those instances were prototypes of those women’s preferences in the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:57 PM
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No no. My class was very diverse. A lot of really smart and attractive black people as well. Just that in the three examples I took, the person getting the most attention was white. Other than that, my class president was a buff black guy that was super popular and super nice. I only used the white boy as an example since he was clearly a lot better looking than me. Not to mention, even from a personality perspective, growing up here in the US gives locals a much better context and cultural alig…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:14 PM
6

Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:55 PM
7

Oh I agree. This is me reminiscing about by grad school days. I guess some of my frustration back then, stemmed from denial to accept the fact that I wasn’t as high value a guy in this new environment. But soon, I accepted it for what it is and started doing exactly what you mentioned. Things got way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:08 PM
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Of course they’re better looking than me. That was the fucking point. But it’s fine. Your last point made complete sense of why your points are not just pathetic but you’re one of those delusional dudes that says “lift” to every time asks a question. Anyway I’m done responding to a bitch like you. You’re a loser and don’t deserve my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:30 PM
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Yes because in my example the guy was white. Anyway, you seriously got offended about something that I had no intent of communicating. Let it go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:17 PM
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I knew there would be some moron who would make this about race. I didn’t mention race as a determinant here. Just that in my examples, the prettier guy was white. You could replace him with your black friend and the effect would still be the same. This doesn’t have anything to do with white vs colored people. This is an example about good looking and high social value people versus average joes that don’t have exceptional social skills or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:13 PM
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I think for a lot of men the case is not that they didn’t try to do social things or didn’t try to embrace the fun side of life. They tried to do that and realized a clear distinction between how they are treated versus how handsome and witty men are treated. I am a man of color in the US. If I had a penny for every single time I attended a social event at my business school and almost every female’s subconscious reaction was to fraternize with the handsome guy at the table and somewhat “politel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:54 PM
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I think a lot of RP men are divorced fathers. Hence they antagonize all single mothers in the same way they antagonize their respective spouses
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 05:31 PM
4

Couldn’t have been more accurate. Ninety percent posts on asktrp are teens seeking advice on how to message women and giving each other virtual high fives for something that will never get them laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:47 PM
13

That happens a lot of times with female bodies with age. Also gets triggered by menstrual cycles. Try giving her oral pleasure to stimulate it, in case you aren’t already .
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:20 AM
2

Just trying to check whether there is any country in the world where so many red flags are considered normal enough to be even asking this question
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:35 PM
1

How old is she ? What country is this ?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:29 PM
1

That’s a valid point. Well thought out
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:13 PM
1

What are your short term and long term goals ? A lot depends on that
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:12 PM
1

I thought casual sex only entailed FWB or ONS. I mean if you’re sleeping with someone exclusively with the intent of eventually getting serious, is that still considered casual ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:03 AM
1

My bad. I should have clarified
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:19 AM
1

Do you mean have or ever had ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 12:04 AM
1

Do you mean an extended lifestyle of casual sex or the occasional casual encounter here and there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:58 PM
1

Hypotheticals are important in understanding the principle behind a particular social phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:51 PM
1

I think on my original post, I referred to casual sex as ever having casual sex. Maybe the occasional hookup or casual fling in a sexual history of 10-12 years. Several guys say no to a girl that partakes in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 11:47 PM
1

I seriously doubt this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:51 PM
1

All men care. Some care more. Some less. But all men care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:46 PM
1

Nope. Median literally means that half the people within the US had sex with more than 5 partners and half of them had less than 5. Someone may have had 100 sexual partners and they would still not impact the median, because despite their high count, they would still be counted as one single unit on the median scale. The same as someone that had just 6 partners. That’s how medians work. Median acts as a divide between those that have an ability to have sex due to several factors such as attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:36 PM
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I think what you’re saying makes sense. It’s a valid way of looking at it. My argument wasn’t to validate choosing women with a casual sex history as an LTR. It was mostly to embrace the idea that it is somewhat difficult for men to be able to locate women that have never partaken in casual sex. Or say to disqualify an otherwise amazing woman merely because she got involved in casual sex once or twice in her life. I am not sure whether, when you meant 15 previous partners being to high for you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 10:19 PM
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I agree with that. I think the core issue is that despite sexual behavior having changed drastically over what is was earlier, the idea of a perfect marriage where two soulmates come together has not. I feel that gone are the days where marriage used to be holy matrimony between two people coming together to celebrate life and companionship. Today it’s got more to do with just having a live in partner and sharing expenses. With divorces becoming more and more common and easier and also the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:34 PM
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That’s exactly what I would define it as well. It’s the most legit definition. But are you saying that 1-3 instances of casual sex which fall in the category of what you mentioned in your first paragraph would disqualify a partner for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:23 PM
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Seriously. When will people realize this ?! A lot if women would say that since were earning today as well, it’s ok for us to equate with men on everything such as casual sex. What they don’t understand is that even today, the pressure and expectations of a man to earn have a far higher threshold than that of a woman. Same applies for women and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:19 PM
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How is that an issue ? What’s the practical problem associated with that, other than it being something that wasn’t so prevalent in the past ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:08 PM
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I did nothing of that sort. The question refers to casual sex. Unless you specify otherwise, everyone is going to assume that you meant to refer to that when mentioning “sleeping around”. Anyway I agree. Rampant casual sex that is reckless and which accompanies poor efforts for an LTR search is not a green signal for someone looking to establish something meaningful with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:53 PM
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Coz they want different things at different points in life ? During the party years they want casual sex and crazy experiences. Post 28 they want to settle down and seek LTR’s. During the former, they care about wit and sexual capabilities etc more than they would during the latter. During the latter, they might focus more on the man’s income, status and leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:32 PM
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You do realize that median doesn’t mean average right? Median of 5 means that 50 percent of the US population has had more than 5 sexual partners where as 50 percent has had less than 5. Given that most people stay in the coastal areas, I would be willing to assume that the former category comes from the more thickly populated and progressive coastal areas, which is where sexuality is a major issue in the first place. Not a lot of people would be concerned about the sexual behavior of Susie, liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:30 PM
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Semantics are important here. What else would be important while evaluating promiscuity ? You said you have had two hookups. And yet don’t sleep around. A lot of people will identify having had two hookups at 21 as sleeping around. That’s why it becomes important to identify the definition and scope of terms, especially when having a FWB with a guy you know well and having a gang bang with 10 other dudes are all put under the ambit of “casual sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:23 PM
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You could try. But don’t think that there aren’t any foul women in other countries. I am from south east Asia originally and I practiced as a lawyer there for 6 years. Women churn and I mean churn the life out of their husbands during divorce proceedings in lost SE Asian countries. Yes, they may be a little less promiscuous. But that also means the sex will suck. And it nowhere guarantees that they won’t try to go for every penny that you have during divorce proceedings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:35 PM
1

Isn’t it better to not discuss it ever then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:45 PM
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Having one or two casual hookups does not equate sleeping around. My question referred to women ever having had casual sex. Not the occasional or two casual encounter/fling over a sexually active life of 10-12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:25 PM
0

Because high value as defined by the red pill isn’t always accurate. You may be high value without realizing it. Totally agree with paragraph 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:17 PM
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Yeah dude but women won’t advertise their casual intent on dating apps right ? I think most women want to find serious relationships but end up having the occasional casual encounter when they have the chance ? So for them, the intent to go on dating apps is to find a serious relationship. Just that sometimes they meet an attractive guy that is looking for casual and then end up hooking up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:54 PM
1

Ah I see what you’re saying. Yes that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:51 PM
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There isn’t anything wrong with that at all. Anyone that tells you otherwise is wrong and should be asked to shut up. My main point was that your aversion to dating such women is not to slut shame, but because you have not had the chance to follow a similar lifestyle. Am I correct ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:32 PM
1

If you’re looking to meet women in that age range , how will you meet them if they’re not actively looking for LTRs ? Also what’s a high number? Isn’t that subjective?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:30 PM
1

Oh yeah. Women tend to slut shame just as much if not more than men. Also is the culture dead ? I thought the world was getting more and more sex positive everyday ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:19 PM
1

Seriously. Maybe because the ones that are doing it aren’t on Reddit wasting their time :p
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:05 PM
2

Yes but only a few men have that high n count. Most don’t because they didn’t have the chancd
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:04 PM
1

How do you define casual sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:01 PM
1

Yeah gotcha. I think most men are in the same boat as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:43 PM
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What is your take, as a left leaning man, on LTRing someone that has had casual sex before ? Not in a reckless, every night different guy kind of way. But perhaps the occasional hook up or casual fling once or twice over a period of 10 -12 sexually active years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:37 PM
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They openly acknowledge to doing this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:33 PM
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So you’re saying that the only way to have casual sex is a high n count ?! What about a girl that has had an n count of 3 and all 3 were casual partners versus a girl that has had an n count of 5 and all were LTRs. You are assuming that anyone that has had 1-2 instances of casual sex ever, makes a lifestyle out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:57 PM
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You are wrongly equating having had casual sex with having a high n count. A woman could have a low n count and still have had casual sex. By your logic, woman that had 5 LTRs is a worst bet than a woman that had 4 one night stands at a club. N count can’t be considered empirically. It has to be considered with context
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:55 PM
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Agreed. I should have framed it better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:47 PM
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She sounds amazing. Wife her up !
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:13 PM
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I’m the OP. I never said that. Neither did I use the sour grapes line.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:10 PM
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I just graduated with my MBA in December. One very strong advantage is that it opens up a lot of doors and is very versatile. You can pursue any industry and role you want. It doesn’t give you a lot specific skills but helps gain over all general acumen and managerial skills.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:09 PM
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Hooking up with strangers that you meet on snap and ig is not the same as having a FWB with someone that you know well over a period of time. Casual sex is a spectrum. There’s a lot that entails within that with varying degrees of risk and damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:05 PM
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Well yeah the woman you described in the second paragraph is the woman that I was referring to. I agree with your contention of probably being apprehensive about Wifing her up. But a lot of guys equate having ever had casual sex with being the same as going home with a new guy every night. Those guys are the ones that are naive and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:37 PM
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Yes ! Equality is not the same as equal indulgence in wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:35 PM
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How is having had casual sex once or twice in their entire lives equal to fucking a ton of strangers?! Casual sex is a long realm and kind of a spectrum. You can’t put all acts in the same basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:33 PM
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I mean hypocrisy has been normalized in the dating world since ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:30 PM
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I think you confused my post. I didn’t say promiscuous women. I said women that have ever had casual sex through out their entire adult lives. Would you disqualify someone that has had 1-2 instances of casual sex with someone she knows well by putting her in the same category as the girl that went home with a new guy for all 8 weekends in a month ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:23 PM
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Coz you learn that this is the new norm I guess ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:14 PM
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That’s bull crap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:14 PM
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My post was basically referring to the first point you made. I am not referencing women that make a lifestyle out of casual sex and choose it over serious relationships. I am referring to the same girl that has experienced casual sex once or twice in her entire life, but has still generally been on the pursuit of serious relationships. A lot of guys disqualify her as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:14 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:10 PM
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I’m a guy just FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:10 PM
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What do you mean ? Why wouldn’t you want to be with such a person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:08 PM
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I mean my notion referred to having had casual sex ever. A person may have partaken in casual sex once or twice in 10 years. That’s still technically someone that has casual sex, and still not be in the same boat as someone that fucked the entire football team.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:06 PM
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I mean yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:02 PM
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How does having casual sex once or twice in your entire life equate to “having slept around”? Your statement is generalizing too much. Promiscuity refers to rampantly engaging in casual sex without the pursuit of a serious relationship. People can still pursue serious relationships abd have the occasional hookup, without having no damage whatsoever done to them. Some people equate having casual sex with scouting bars every night for new partners. That’s not common at all. Only a handful of peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:01 PM
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