Hello, There’s a bar next to my house. A decent looking bartender just got hired. I met her about 2 weeks ago and have came in a few times since on nights when it’s slow to talk to her.

She happens to be friends with my buddies gf. This past weekend was my bday....I was in the night before talking to her all night.

So Saturday we go out for my bday, my buddy and his girl pull me aside. They say that her friend (the bartender) digs me and I should take her home tonight.

Within an hour of this, I notice this trash bag 22 year old hillbilly I know hitting on her. I get up to piss and he takes my seat. I tell him to move and he tells me to get fucked. This is when I fucking snap, I ended up whooping the fucking shit out of him in middle of the bar, strangling him to the point where others said they thought I was going to snap his neck if they didn’t jump in.

I got kicked out of the bar, on the way out I asked the bartender for her number, she said “I’ll give you my number but not tonight, you’re way too drunk”

Shortly after this some bar patrons who witnessed this entire thing go down and were unrelated to the incident came to my house and started screaming obscenities out my window trying to fight. I grabbed a machete and chased them down the street (the bartender def saw this) and ended up spending the night in jail and getting a misdemeanor disorderly conduct.

My friends gf told me that night that after I fought that dude she was no longer interested. My friend told me the next day I might still have a shot with her but not to come around the bar for a bit. I’m gonna be wrapped up in a legal case now and won’t be able to go to the bar and am going to take the time to step up my fitness game.

Was thinking about going in their in a few days, on a slow night, and telling her some bs about how I had a legit reason to fight that kid (I have screenshot proof of some shit he was saying to me about how he’s going to call the police on me for having weed in my house) and telling her I won’t be around anymore, giving her my phone number and telling me to call sometime. If it works, that would be cool but if not it’s whatever. I have nothin to lose at this point imo.

Good or bad idea?