Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?

eckzotic · 2022-01-21T18:36:41+00:00

Start solo traveling

Alextryingforgrate · 2022-01-21T18:44:37+00:00

Its called not giving a fuck in what other think and how epic you can tell a story or make things sound.

i.e. Neil Degrass Tyson makes space sound super fucking amazing.

1keentolearn12 · 2022-01-21T20:31:46+00:00

Some of these people have ADHD

Casanova-Quinn · 2022-01-21T21:45:14+00:00

even in parties we just dance have fun but nothing really exciting ever happens.

That's because YOU have to make it happen. Most people will just follow the herd, the cool people MAKE the excitement happen. Get creative and take the lead.

angelsfan-34 · 2022-01-21T22:04:30+00:00

I was the wild guy. When I was younger I was sheltered from a lot of the world, I had strict parents, never really drank, or partied. When I turned 18 I went to college 8 hours away from my home. Everyday I forced myself to try and talk to as many people as I could…. The truth is right now with COVID, it’s so hard to live that type of life. People don’t socialize like they did pre Covid, ya some do but still Covid adds a whole other layer. So I guess my advice is go out and try a new thing everyday, try to talk to as many people as possible, and learn how to be comfortable talking to strangers and really treat others how you want to be treated and you’ll slowly change over time

cheesy_delight · 2022-01-21T19:58:01+00:00

Do something you’re afraid to do. If you have the money, you could go white water rafting, bungee jumping, paragliding, skydiving etc. All these activities can be done on your own and not only do they sound fun and exciting, they are.

hazrat_unmad · 2022-01-21T19:26:17+00:00

I feel like every profile I see on dating apps is living a life of glamour and grandeur. And here I am just browsing reddit.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-21T21:30:10+00:00

Take women on an adventure, but don't make them the adventure.

cormacru999 · 2022-01-22T01:48:52+00:00

That sort of life tends to be dangerous & pretty empty besides the search for the rush. I lived life that way for a while & in some ways it was fun but there are no real rewards. A good life is far better.

m2niles · 2022-01-21T23:29:42+00:00

Yeah myself. Don’t be a spectator brother, you have to be a leader and make it happen yourself if you want the lifestyle you’re describing in your post. Acquire some capital and do the shit that makes you happy. Relaxed and laid back friends are good for when you’re trying to chill, but it’s way easier to have epic nights when you fly solo. This goes for exotic travel as well, if you have the confidence that you can handle it on your own, you will meet countless eager young hotties looking for an accomplished gentleman for companionship, especially in the eastern bloc. Obviously things aren’t optimal right now in regards to travel, but the good life is on the horizon.

nvkr_ · 2022-01-21T21:08:21+00:00

Drugs can lead you to a pretty wild lifestyle, though it may play out not so pretty at all for some folks

m2niles · 2022-01-21T23:17:34+00:00

Living in a major city is a huge perk to having an exciting life. I live in Chicago, the third most populous city in the United States and a massive tourist mecca. All sorts of fun stuff to do here. Take advantages of opportunities that pass your way and of course stay on your grind and chase your dreams.

Bno003 · 2022-01-21T23:16:47+00:00

I say yes to every opportunity that comes my way and even though I have plenty of friends I tend to travel alone, people see me as a lone wolf.

elisespeaces · 2022-01-21T23:42:26+00:00

Some people are just really good at telling boring stories well.

mingey555 · 2022-01-22T01:46:59+00:00

Do something every day that scares you. Throw yourself in the deep end, whether it be walking up to a group of interesting looking people at a party and starting a conversation, or booking in a shark-cage diving experience for yourself. It sounds like the opportunities you say "yes" to aren't exciting enough for you, so make your own exciting stories by doing exciting things, and I am sure eventually you will meet more exciting people who can invite you to crazier parties, adventures etc.

LifeIC · 2022-01-21T23:42:29+00:00

I'd say having that stems from having an abundance of life connections. So never stop connecting with the other lives on this planet.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-01-21T23:55:52+00:00

Take Muay Thai or Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. It’s not “wild” but will add at little edge to the too “formal” and nice guy side of you.

mama-arcier · 2022-01-22T00:12:55+00:00

I am a big hermit, but I would suggest searching for events near you regularly. There are often lots of events listed on Facebook publicly. It's a good way to find info on fairs, festivals, concerts and various other events in the area.

edit to add:

you can also look up specific annual events for things you'd like to try! EDC in Las Vegas is a popular EDM music festival that I know of. I've had multiple friends make plans for it, although it's something you'd have to really plan in advance for and buy your ticket months beforehand. Anyways, find events you're interested in and follow them on social media so you can see the announcements for upcoming events.

ragergage · 2022-01-22T00:26:12+00:00

YOURS MOTHERFUCKER. START ACTING LIKE IT

yeppersbruh · 2022-01-22T01:15:19+00:00

Be more risk taking, it’s what I do

Sometimes you need a little break though because your brain can’t take it anymore

Cyberfaust11 · 2022-01-22T02:02:32+00:00

It just looks like that on the surface. They likely spend more time projecting this likely false image rather than actually having fun.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-01-22T02:30:41+00:00

Backpacker by yourself is the best. In the before time.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-01-22T04:24:51+00:00

I mean 99.9999% of people aren’t a crazy wild unique memorable adventurer - and do you really want that lifestyle and all it’s instability?

I think I can be interesting and fun just by having a compelling conversation with someone, no need to show off the shark tooth necklace from the great white that you fought off whilst diving in Marianas trench

100oclockDrunk · 2022-01-22T04:48:49+00:00

Honestly I don't know where you live but you don't even have to travel far for excitement. Trying taking the public transportation. Or spend some time down town in a big city. I ways come.back with a story

rich_god · 2022-01-22T09:48:00+00:00

To add to what most people have said until now : Remember that whenever you think that something would make your life better, you're building an idealised projection and preventing that thing to happen in your life (because you're protecting yourself from the disappointment). If you have a balanced view of it, you can welcome it with more fluidity.

Having an "epic wild ride" of a life is not better than having a quiet peaceful life. I've had a period where I had 5 beautiful girlfriends at the same time, I organised orgies and had many group sex experiences on a weekly basis, I would meet hundreds of people every month, including a lot of beautiful women interested to unleash their sexuality with me, for two years I lived in a community I built with a lot of crazy events, new people coming every day, just a neverending flow of new experiences, new connections and surprises. My life was definitely a wild ride (and it was my ride, there are many different way that wildness can express itself).

While this was definitely a very teaching and rich period to find myself and learn how to connect with others, I was not happier, I was not more full. Living such a life is exhausting. It requires many social and emotional skills. It means being hurt deeply and often. It means living authentically and owning your shadows. It means having nothing stable to rely on and being unable to plan your life or build something long-term. It means being criticised, having arguments and people you love and respect telling you you're going in the wrong direction. It means being deeply alone and confused at times. And it means not knowing what the fuck you're going to do in your life.

If you still believe it's a call for you. Not because you think it would make your life better but because you know it's the path for you, then the method is easy : give up as many things as you can that brings comfort in your life. Maybe it's your house, your stuff, your money, your friends, your video games, your weed, your porn, anything that help you maintain those patterns that you know and make your life easier. Dive into the hard mode of life, be radically honest, go for things that you think are terrible ideas (dance class, theatre improv, singing circles, meditation retreats, festivals on your own, backpacking, yoga retreats, psychedelics ceremony, polyamory events...), connect with people that you believe are way out of your league. Anything that is scary and out of your comfort zone is great, anything that is taking the risk of hurting yourself emotionally is great. Be betrayed, be rejected, be left out. Open your heart to people, love them as much as you can without expecting anything, be generous and contribute to everywhere you feel what is being done is meaningful. Nurture your gratitude, contemplate the beauty of the world, be present, say yes to life and seize the opportunities.

I wish you the best.

gulaschgel · 2022-01-21T19:59:55+00:00

Have money. Money gives you the freedom to make your life a wild ride. I'd suggest to learn stock or crypto trading, with a very extended learning period preferably with fake money before. There are brokers that let you trade fake money to learn the basics and see if you would be successful had you invested actual money

Carpsonian22 · 2022-01-22T00:32:30+00:00

I think you need lots of money or a trust fund to be that kind of person. That sure would be nice…

Vv2333 · 2022-01-21T23:53:25+00:00

Honestly no. I've just focused on having my own kind of wild fun. Going to sex parties a lot, traveling solo, etc. Wild good shit happens to me, but some times you have to be mindful.

One time when I was working in NYC one winter night, I see this Asian chick get out of a cab and I'm tryin to help her get home and she just says " you should fuck me." Then I had to do a dropoff in this apartment and it's cold so I'm like OK let me at least get this chick out of the cold. Anyway I take her to the staircases to find out where TF she lives so she can go home and she starts taking her clothes off!

As you can see she's drunk. I will note that when I stopped shortly on our way to this spot, I took off my helmet and she made this like shocked look and then just kissed me. So she's taking her shirt off and I'm seeing her tits (bolt ons) and she's trying to take my pants off, and I'm not trying to get head from this drink chick because I've heard horror stories about what happens when you do that.

I carry her up to the top of the staircase and we keep making out but I stopped because I just couldn't fuck this drunk girl, the ramifications and risks of doing so in this day and age are too risky.

Lo and behold security finds us and escort us out of the building to our separate ways. Strangest part was her address was a street with a number I keep seeing over and over.

Another time in Miami it was Valentine's day and another drunk girl walks up to me as I'm waiting everyone else to get my sandwich. She starts talking to me and tells me she broke up with her boyfriend because of some jealous bullshit.

(Sidenote to anyone reading this: if you have a girlfriend and either you or her are jealous types, never take her to Miami.)

Anyway she pulls out a Gpen and we're chatting up and whatever but she's giving me these eyes and I'm like "wtf are you looking at" and immediately knows what she's hinting at so we start making out for like 10 minutes, she's trying to reach for my dick and shit and I didn't realize we were making out on this dudes car and he was there with his girl.

They start talking to us but I started picking up some weird vibes when the male started showing some photos of his dishes (he was a chef). One he was sitting under some strange symbol and the other was some crab sandwich. He was also showing photos of his girlfriend and she looked really pale, like she doesn't have enough blood in her body.

I then remember the bigass awning facing the parking lot this sandwich shop is in and it's for a place called S Club with the logo being a big S with a man with a tail and horns sitting in between it. I don't have to spell that out for you. I was mad because she said she was a model and was tall enough for it to be true and kind of cute, but it felt again like a trick.

Regardless the adventures will continue, I'm just in a cocoon phase now.

Idk what it is but I guess I'm lucky with women but lucky enough to know when NOT to proceed.

lordsudbury · 2022-01-22T02:58:53+00:00

yeah me. my career peaked at 24 and after that I just yolo'd travelling for like ten years. lived in 12 countries, did the craziest sh*t ever, I have the wildest stories. I'm super boring now but I had some hell of a life

undecided-name · 2022-01-22T08:46:01+00:00

Read a book called radical honesty and do as he says there. I've noticed when I've done that my life is more like a movie than the boring work-eat-sleep type thing

lebabymama · 2022-01-22T20:54:23+00:00

If you see someone doing something that looks fun, try it yourself. Do this all the time. Fill your life with adventure by trying new things!

DamaloBlack · 2022-01-22T09:56:05+00:00

Yeah, but, hummm, they definitely have unresolved psychological problems

creativeoutlaw44 · 2022-01-21T19:28:16+00:00

I did as a teenager, but you have to realize that a "wild life" as romanticized is a double edged sword and you must accept the consequences.

I grew up with a guy who was no-holds barred ball-to-the-wall crazy (in a good way) and totally the life of the party. Easily got us alcohol when we were 18, hosted parties, was a natural at getting puss, etc. But the flip side of this is that he got terrible grades in school, constantly was fighting with his parents/people, multiple run ins with the law, could barely get into college, and ended up flunking out sometime in his first or second year because he was just drunk all the time.

I think he's an electrician right now, so he didn't necessarily "fail" at life (and probably makes more money than me), but his wild and crazy personality caused a lot of problems in his personal life and eventually I had to stop being friends with him because the drama was bleeding over into MY life.

A historical influence for me is someone like Neal Cassady, inspiration for the "Beat Generation" of writers who was known as a totally free spirit. He was indeed a cool dude with many amazing qualities, but if you've read anything about his personal life it was a total mess.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neal_Cassady

And in case you think it was just other people bitching about his life/values, here's a semi-direct quote from him toward the end of his life:

In January 1967, Cassady traveled to Mexico with fellow prankster George "Barely Visible" Walker and Cassady's longtime girlfriend Anne Murphy. In a beachside house just south of Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco, they were joined by Barbara Wilson and Walter Cox. All-night storytelling, speed drives in Walker's Lotus Elan, and the use of LSD made for a classic Cassady performance — "like a trained bear," Carolyn Cassady once said. Cassady was beloved for his ability to inspire others to love life, yet at rare times he was known to express regret over his wild life, especially as it affected his family. At one point, Cassady took Cox, then 19, aside and told him: "[T]wenty years of fast living — there's just not much left, and my kids are all screwed up. Don't do what I have done."

You can DEFINITELY have an exciting life and not succumb to burnout, addiction, or anything else, but I would say this is a minority of people. Stop giving a fuck whether Sally Jimjam or Joe Wanabeadad likes you in the suburbs and just do what you want. This doesn't mean you should be an asshole or just shout racist/offensive shit (unless that's what you really believe...but hey, that's freedom), but instead just calm the chattering voice inside that says "will people like this?" and replace it with "those who like it will let me know, the rest were never going to be my friends anyway."

https://www.theodysseyonline.com/beat-generation-quotes

Just my two pennies.

Rock_Granite · 2022-01-22T00:22:56+00:00

Do you know for a fact that his life is super exciting.... or does he just know how to tell a good story?

MegaManXanax · 2022-01-22T00:59:53+00:00

Ehhh if you look beneath the surface their lives might not be as fulfilling as you think

aceraptor9111 · 2022-01-22T01:51:04+00:00

Always say yes and always full send it.

n0wmhat · 2022-01-22T01:55:38+00:00

Be careful.. a lot of the "wild guys" I know are struggling financially due to hopping jobs/ getting fired for not showing up, plus spending all their money immediately on partying or on the next plane ticket.

That or they are "wild" because they are fueled by a never ending stream of daddy's money.

iiexistenzeii · 2022-01-22T02:40:12+00:00

Remindme! 1 hour

Indian_Cap · 2022-01-22T02:55:36+00:00

Have money. Be like hank moody.

lightningsam14 · 2022-01-22T03:18:39+00:00

I feel like if you don’t know that person, it’s you. Appreciate what you have ‼️

jimmykingfish · 2022-01-22T05:11:38+00:00

I guess I'm kinda that guy, playing music had gotten me into all kinds of interesting places and people...and jails. I've lived at the band house and had my fair share of groupies and wild sex with wild women. I've traveled a bit but could always travel more. I meet no strangers and I treat everyone with respect and listen to their stories and experiences. They all have a story to tell so it never hurts to buy them a beer and tip your bartender well, they're the difference between a good time and an epic adventure. Hand them a 20, ask for whatevers on tap and tell them the rest is theirs. Good luck on trying to buy another one and if they tell you the price do it again. Eventually you wont be buying anymore beer. Never turn down an invitation or a breath mint. Never say no to new foods or a good time. Big girls eat good, small girls are wider than all outside, and Rick James was right: Cocaine is one helluva drug. Lick it before you stick it, eat I every day and take the high road. Drunk people are easy to fight and hard to forgive so a little leeway is always a good thing. Never put your head on the bar and never drive if you been drinking, you have one life so use it dont lose it. Have fun because all the time your allotted is the now.

Sensitive-Permit-877 · 2022-01-22T05:22:14+00:00

Yeah you have to seek it out yourself and find people already doing it

Chemical-Illustrious · 2022-01-22T06:51:47+00:00

Hang out with me

Famous_Durian · 2022-01-22T09:14:30+00:00

I’d suggest you to travel either with friends or alone. I’ve never traveled alone tbh but every time i’ve been somewhere if i somehow manage to get separated from my group of friends i always end up talking to strangers either locals or other travelers.

There was for example this one time we were 5 that went to Amsterdam. The other 4 were going to KFC but i wanted to try another italian place i found on google maps. I told them to go, dont worry about me we’ll catch up later.

Got there, stood in a line waiting to get inside. The group in front of me probably noticed i was there by myself and started talking to me. Turns out they were travelers from USA and Canada. I told them im from country X, but my homecountry is Y. Oh cool bla bla random chit chat, and while we were talking a worker heard me talking about my homecountry, turns out the owner, manager and all workers there are from the same country. I sat with my new american and canadian friends, then the owner came and had a drink with us, told us about how he moved to Boston as a young dude, worked all over the US, came back to europe, lived in italy and now in Amsterdam. Recommended us to come back during summer, places to be, gaves us his contact info etc. Had a blast there. Then i went with my new friends to a cozy old school pub right next to one of the canals. Lots of beer, stories, laughter before we went to a party.

All in all nothing that ”wild and special”, but it was fun, i got to know new people and a cool restaurant management, went to a cool party = lots of cool memories and story to tell among others from my trip to amsterdam.

jimmykingfish · 2022-01-22T17:42:17+00:00

Genuine intrest in other people. I used to be you and some days I still am that guy. Get out of the house without a mask and go volunteer. And not necessarily an organization. Clean up your town, pick up garbage organize a cleanup day one Saturday. People like a hard worker and they like a beer after working hard, casually mention you're gonna grab a beer at John Does Watering Hole and if you aren't overbearing about it somebody will inevitably join you. Give people the opportunity to get to hang out. Remember this: you are always the coolest guy in the room. You are the party and you dont have to be the life of. Don't whatever you do, do not try to get laid, do not hit on women, you come off as a loser and desperate and women smell it and avoid it. Act like getting laid is the farthest thing from your mind and be that. If it is the company of women and the envy of men you want, you can have that but be forewarned what I tell you is dangerous but it works. Go 60 days if you can with no sexual release of any kind whatsoever. In 61 days you'll need. A baseball bat for all the women coming after you, and your gigantic balls. The blue fades after a couple days, then it is simply a matter of it building up in your flesh and seeping through your skin. Most guys cannot do it, but if you can a very popular guy you will be. Ever see a fat ugly guy with a babe? He knows the secret. It will scare the daylights out of you, the sheer volume of women throwing themselves at you, so be wary. Some don't taKe no as an answer. If they can bear children, you will be the flame to their moth

Anywheredog · 2022-01-22T01:23:36+00:00

I recommend meth.

Not even joking.

Title	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?
Author	sobrage
Upvotes	176
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Date	January 21, 2022 5:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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