| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?I had to decide whether i wanted a relationship with her or whether i wanted my hoe phase.. i chose her bc i did like her and she likes me a lot as well | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?BRO THAT IS ME RN!!! | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?I like this comment , will do | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 08:53 PM |
| 6 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?You’ve really opened my eyes man thanks for that | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?No you’re right that was what i was implying, well in my head i was thinking that if i had casual sex with many women, my confidence in general would increase, therefore when I’m finally ready to go into a relationship with a woman i wanna be with, i wouldn’t be an insecure mess bc i have had experience with many women | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?I agree 100% but i didn’t mean confidence in terms of being good at sex or whatever. I meant confidence with women as in being in a relationship. I barely just lost my virginity a few months ago at age 24 and then met another girl and now we’re in a relationship. Although i have very little experience with girls i know what to look for and beware of when cuffing one. My girlfriend has good morals and values that match mine but i find that i am very insecure and i trip over small shit a lot. I wi… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?Very true i was much more confident when i was younger | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?Damn i haven’t thought of it that way.. it actually makes sense. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !I've been to Iran about 7 times.... lmao you're literally wrong about Iran.. there are underground parties and stuff where people meet, and there are some secret spots where guys will drive by and try to pick up girls. But they are secret and underground for a reason, because of the fear of what the government will do. I don't think you've ever been to Iran lmao | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !bro don't throw Iran in there lmao that is such BS. Even holding hands with a girl can get you in trouble. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionI believe you should show emotion and vulnerability to women , not necessarily every woman, but the one you choose to spend the rest of your life with. Women are different, some see you acting that way and get turned off. I've had it happen , because of that alongside other things I dropped her. Why would I want to be with someone who can't accept me at my worst? Obviously I'm not talking being vulnerable and insecure everyday , but we men are people too and we're not perfect. I believe men shou… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Any other guys with trauma?honestly if you’re that terrified of making a move, maybe try saying something like “i really want to kiss you right now”, or even “can i kiss you”? Obviously the vibes need to be there but you get what I’m saying | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 08:31 AM |
| 5 | friend is cheatingWtf am i reading.. your friend is wrong for cheating on his girl and you’re a fucked up friend for wanting to steal his girl. Regardless of whether he’s cheating on her or not, that’s your friend’s girl. It’s none of your business what they’re doing, there’s plenty of hot women everywhere stop focusing on this one girl. Your friend will get what’s coming don’t worry about it, but don’t try to meddle in their relationship | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:28 PM |
| 2 | "My neighbors hate me"she for the streets, dont cuff her | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]he’s not necessarily ugly. Look at male models nowadays, the “sickly” malnourished look is kinda in, sunken eyes, dark circles, high cheekbones | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 10:30 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Country dance clubs for white girls, reggaeton/latin clubs for latinas | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 08:34 AM |
| 177 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?Start solo traveling | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 06:36 PM |
| 2 | (19m) feel like i’m missing outGreat comment, I have the “i don’t wanna bother anybody mindset” as well | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This happens to me. I would always be nervous when it would happen from just holding hands or something, and I would try to hide it. It wasn't until I lost my virginity not too long ago and became comfortable with that girl, that I found out it wasn't too weird, she would compliment me on how hard I would get. Not trying to toot my own horn, but I'm guessing the other guys she was with weren't the same. Take it how you will. If you really wanna hide it, do like the other guy said and tuck it und… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I met up with a girl for the first time a while back, we met up in a parking lot somewhere, she got in my car and we drove to a restaurant about an hour away. We talked and really vibed, she even stated that she never vibed and talked this well with a guy before. We got to the restaurant, ate, had fun. And then on the way back she was really touchy and flirty but i didn’t make anything of it, and when i dropped her off at the meeting spot i didn’t go for a kiss. She blocked me on everything a co… | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | How to flip the situation in a toxic relationship?CUT HER OFF. If you're anything but happy when spending time with a girl, and she plays game/does toxic shit, cut her off. Trust | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Any advice/tricks on how to force myself to cold approach women during the day?Ok thanks I will try to just begin with compliments and expect nothing. It's seriously been a life goal of mine to just be able to talk to anyone and everyone but I'm always afraid of looking like a fool | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Any advice/tricks on how to force myself to cold approach women during the day?Honestly man I’m socially anxious (worse when it comes to attractive women). I tried to give myself a goal of asking for simple directions to women on my college campus and I did it for a bit but then stopped. I was never able to really progress to giving compliments, I feel like women will suspect I’m trying to obtain something if a random dude like me gives them a compliment | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 09:08 AM |
| 8 | Any advice/tricks on how to force myself to cold approach women during the day?50 people a day???? Holy shit lmao | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 159 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?-2 | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Props to ya | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | As a man, how important is it to you to make sure the woman you're having sex with is left satisfied?Thx man. I’ll ask my urologist about the hpv vaccinations n hopefully get it 💉 | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | As a man, how important is it to you to make sure the woman you're having sex with is left satisfied?Thx for the advice man | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 5 | As a man, how important is it to you to make sure the woman you're having sex with is left satisfied?that's what I'm scared of though.. like with intercourse I can wrap it up, but how can I go down on her and stay safe? I can't be direct and ask every woman if they're clean down there right? | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Is " Hey, I know this is a bit weird, but I think you're cute, can I get your #/Snap/IG" a bad way to cold approach?Damn. Well said. I guess I just need to work on my conversation skills | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Is " Hey, I know this is a bit weird, but I think you're cute, can I get your #/Snap/IG" a bad way to cold approach?Lmfao calm down bro🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 05:28 PM |
| -2 | Is " Hey, I know this is a bit weird, but I think you're cute, can I get your #/Snap/IG" a bad way to cold approach?What if I have never cold approached before, and I get very nervous in situations like these. Is this atleast a good way for a beginner. Or you just wouldn’t recommend doing this at all? | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:09 PM |
| 3 | I’m a reformed fuck boy who’s had sex with way too many women over the last 10 years and I fell in love after 5 minutes of meeting my new girlHow can I not get emotionally invested? Do you limit yourself to only hanging out and fucking with a girl a certain number of times? I feel like I caught feelings for this one girl bc we would hang out and go on actual dates every weekend. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If you always ask her out on Sunday then maybe try asking her out on a different day | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | If you brush off sex on the first date does that make a girl fall harder for you?On my first ever date, we watched a movie, and after the girl wanted to have sex in the back of my car. I was a virgin at the time and I told her I didn’t want to. I only didn’t want to bc I didn’t want to do it in a tight cramped spot like that, maybe I should have explained to her that was the reason why, but she was very embarrassed and I just drove her home. Girls don’t ever get rejected and lots of them are insecure so you might not ever talk to them again if u do | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm catching feelings for the girl I lost my virginity toI cut this girl off already for many different reasons. The other post that you came from was just a general question I had, I wanted to see what others opinions were on the matter | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth it trying to get a girl to change some of her ways for you?I don’t follow any of that shit lol | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 07:24 AM |
| 21 | Is it worth it trying to get a girl to change some of her ways for you?Well not gonna lie it might be an insecurity thing, but also I genuinely believe that girls that do that do it solely for attention. Why would she need attention from other dudes replying to her selfies? | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity but couldn’t “finish”So if I’m the opposite, and I cum fast. Should I constantly flex my kegel muscles? | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine?This comment is the best | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 07:58 PM |
| 5 | I'm catching feelings for the girl I lost my virginity toReally? How does wim hof breathing help? | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 07:20 AM |
| 8 | I'm catching feelings for the girl I lost my virginity toThanks for all the comments you guys made me feel a lot better about the situation | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 07:19 AM |
| 6 | I'm catching feelings for the girl I lost my virginity toSorry to hear that man, i hope you get over her and find the right one! | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 07:18 AM |
| 39 | I'm catching feelings for the girl I lost my virginity toI’m afraid this will happen to every girl i fuck man | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Vulnerability is not being weak or soft, but rather being strong enough to deal with the consequences of exposing your true self, thoughts or feelings.Saved. This is so relatable, I hide my true emotions at times bc im afrai of being vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Right on bro, 24 here, lost it a week ago. I think it's important not to rush it and have your first time with someone you're comfortable with and trust, thats just me tho | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls bring up their exes on dates?This comment right here. I never make moves or escalate. What are some things i should do to escalate on the first date without looking like a creep | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 5 | Make a habit of talking to all strangers, not just attractive women. Seduction is a subset of being generally charismatic with people.THIS POST. A major goal in my life is to be able to talk to complete strangers, not just attractive women. You'd be surprised what kind of connections you can make , so many opportunities can become available to you. I stepped out of my comfort zone a while back and just started with a simple "good morning" to people at the bus stop, I made a cute female friend that way and even got her IG, we talked on the bus all the way until we headed our separate ways. Unfortunately I stopped doing this and… | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Getting addicted to approaching is a super good feelingThis is the level I aspire to be at. I'm 24 and still have never approached a girl | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Roughly speaking how many percent of your quality of life is dependent on your dating/sex/love life? And how much of your free time do you invest into improving your dating life?I go to the gym to get stronger and improve on the soccer field. Not everyone just wants to get buff and impress women lol | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice!how'd it go! we all want to know | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 04:39 AM |
| 2 | LEARN SOCIAL SKILLSTHIS IS SO TRUE! the only way im able to talk to girls is through meeting up with them from dating apps , and even that is very stressful for me, I know cold approaching and socializing in person is much better but I can never gather the courage to do it )': | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to ask for after a cold approach (snap, phone #, IG) ?hahaha tiktok, I understand you though. Definitely going for the # | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it to needy to ask a girl “what went wrong”? Or something along those linesBut do you think i should ask to find out what went wrong if I’m curious? Or would that appear needy and i should just leave it? | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it to needy to ask a girl “what went wrong”? Or something along those linesAnd we only went on 1 date not a few, sorry if i didn’t clear that up | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it to needy to ask a girl “what went wrong”? Or something along those linesSo the next day after the date i actually asked where she would like to go next and she said she wasn’t sure. After that i told her I’d figure something out the next weekend , and when that day came she said she was busy and couldn’t go out. After that the messages started becoming more and more dry and i told her the couple weeks after to let me know when she’d be available to go out again. She just replied with an “Okay “ and kiss emojis | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | how do i know if a guy is interested so i can hit on him?DAMN this hit close to home because IM that lame duck guy.. lmfao | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 12:00 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Don't make this mistake...One of the scariest things for me when cold approaching a girl is when it's in front of a lot of people.. I can't even give compliments or ask how their day is going when people are around. | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 02:25 AM |
| 8 | What are the baby steps you took to dealing with approach anxiety?I know I will.... sometimes I see a beautiful girl that'll maybe give me a look or two, and still not do anything. That's the worst feeling of regret right there | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 02:45 AM |
| 9 | How did you guys get over approach anxiety? I picked up girls before, but it’s been like 5 years coming out of a long relationship. Seems impossible to get restartedThis is so true | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Turning the odds in your favour(use with caution)This is actually genius haha | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | What gave you that final push to cold approach a random girl for the first time?I feel you on that point you made about being in situations where girl's stare but you still can't approach. You're totally right though, rejection sucks but it's as bad if not worse when you don't even try. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 08:13 PM |
| 3 | What gave you that final push to cold approach a random girl for the first time?Haha that's one way to do it. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The #1 thing that stops me from cold approaching a random girl is the fact that my face would turn really red, anyone else experience this? What's a good way to stop this from happening?Thanks! I think I just have this thought in my head to where a girl will think less of you if you turn red. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women do the bare minimum in regards to conversation on dating apps, but expect men to be interesting and humorous?That totally makes sense. I've always thought that in real life I would be much more successful. I feel like on online dating apps there is much more competition, where in real life just the fact that you cold approached a woman would put you above so many others. My problem is I have never cold approached before, and my lack of conversation skills not only online but in real life also give me anxiety about potential awkward moments and such. :/ . | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 03:56 AM |
| 3 | You pay a price for avoiding rejection. Whether you run from it or try to fake / impress your way around it. Your best results are dependent on you getting rejected A LOT more than you think.That's cool and all. But I don't think tigers and gazelles share the same habitat.... That being said this was a good read | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 01:58 AM |
| 2 | How To Walk Into A Bar This Weekend?BRO. There is definitely truth to this because I find when I'm talkative as soon as I leave the house and giving high fives to random people, I am much more confident and loose at the bar. But the thing for me is I don't have the balls to just randomly approach a girl at the bar and engage in conversation! I can only do it when I'm outside of the bar with a group of my friends. What do you recommend bro? I also don't want to depend on alcohol to talk to girls, as much of my friends do. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 01:06 AM |
| 13 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t."who says anything about sleeping? " Yo that's good | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl replies with one liners?Thanks, that makes sense | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 09:45 PM |
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