I’m a bit shy and I rarely meet up with women from dating apps. But the last 2 dates i had they both brought up their exes , multiple times throughout the date. My last date even told me “you’re so funny we could be friends instead of dating”. I know she finds me attractive because she’s said so but wtf, are these shit tests, or is she not interested? Is it maybe because of my shy body language and maybe I’m not flirting enough on the 1st date? When they do these things it really makes me feel some type of way lol, i feel slightly disrespected. Maybe I’m overthinking it