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| 2 | all that glitters is not goldHow exactly do you suck tits? I always feel awkward doing it on a ons and the only girl I’ve dated didn’t like her boobs being played with | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:32 PM |
| 7 | all that glitters is not goldAnd slurping tapeworms | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 7 | all that glitters is not goldMore guys (and girls) need to be told and reminded that they’re not going to mesh with most people and they shouldn’t settle for that | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:30 PM |
| 4 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?I’m someone who thinks and self reflects a lot and unless I’m drunk or on drugs this approach just doesn’t work for me | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:04 AM |
| 7 | what makes a man seductive?Yet the guys I know who pull the most women are guilty of all of these ‘sins’ | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How to be more sexually exciting in a way that’s still respectful and mature?You’d think most people wouldn’t allow themselves to fall so easily for confidence considering it doesn’t actually mean anything - the 45th president was elected for being confident whilst being completely incompetent… goes to show what fools we are. But I suppose that’s how it is so I might as well use it to my advantage. You’re right in what you say but I know some women who that absolutely would not work on so it does depend on the individual too | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:23 PM |
| 6 | How to be more sexually exciting in a way that’s still respectful and mature?Could you give me an example of how you would tease a girl in a way that isn’t completely lame or offensive? This subreddit acts like flirting and teasing is the easiest thing in the world but whenever I ask for examples of it I either get some line that sounds like something Jonah hill would say in Superbad or no response at all, and It doesn’t come naturally to me | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Conversational starters that dont make you sound robotic or autisticI’m saying it doesn’t naturally invite an interesting conversation and is more likely to make women roll their eyes than if you were to find something in the setting or environment to talk about. What comes next after you ask how they’re doing? Do you ask what they do for work orwhat their favourite sex position is? A lot of generic cold approaches can be really exhausting | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 08:15 AM |
| 10 | How to be more sexually exciting in a way that’s still respectful and mature?1) Yeah that almost never happens to me lmao 2) how do you go from talking about sex or something sexual to hooking you with her? I know it should be quite natural but I think there’s definitely some room to fuck it up and cause yourself to come across as immature or disrespectful or too clinical and not sexy enough | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 07:36 AM |
| 15 | How to be more sexually exciting in a way that’s still respectful and mature?Can I ask what signs they give that they want things to go in that direction? And how a guy can go that way subtly and respectfully without going from 10-100 and putting them off | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Conversational starters that dont make you sound robotic or autisticReally ? That’s the most boring question, it’s like a retail worker approaching you. If someone said that to me I’d just say yeah not bad thanks and that would be that | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Conversational starters that dont make you sound robotic or autisticI’ve never heard an example of these that wasn’t either really lame or a bit too invasive and possible offensive | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:10 AM |
| 6 | Conversational starters that dont make you sound robotic or autisticStill all depends on whether the girl finds uou physically attractive, if not she’ll be like ‘uh.. thanks” but I guess you won’t know until you try | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | How to close the girl in the bathroom?His full time job was to test out the local psychiatric and prison facilities | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that for the low effort / cold / distant approach to work she has to have a very high level of investment in you?You can usually tell by the way they look at you and how quickly they reply to messages etc | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 01:50 PM |
| 5 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?This sort of reflection doesn’t give me a happy go lucky attitude so much as ‘might as well end it now and get it over with’ | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 01:50 PM |
| 4 | How to close the girl in the bathroom?You just close the door, and perhaps put a piece of rebar through the handle and bend it if you don’t want her getting out. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Great Date, No Text Back (M)Could you offer a few examples of generic flirting I can apply to most interactions because you seem to know your stuff and every example of flirting I’ve seen suggested has been lame | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?Honestly your dating experience sounds irregular enough that I suspect there are some specific things you're getting very wrong. But, without observing you directly, I have no idea what those might be. I'd caution you against making any sweeping conclusions about women or dating. You do sound jaded and like you might be projecting that back out into the world (which is obviously a problem). | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?You're missing at least two ingredients that will improve your situation: (1) Jealousy, (2) Abundance. More importantly, if your goal is a higher number of sexual experiences with a variety of women, you need to meet them where they are, on average, and not expect them to adjust to you. None of this bullshit about logical conversations or whatever. I'm rather like you in that regard, but you have to override that aspect of your personality if you want to succeed. Caveat: if you just want to find… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:35 AM |
| 40 | Any advice on how to avoid the "i just didn't feel the spark"I agree but there’s some irony saying this within a community where success with women is obviously extremely important to everyone and doesn’t just come naturally, it’s like telling people to relax and have fun with their practical exam in a way | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 12:16 AM |
| 15 | Just saw a friend pull a girl home and I'm dumbfoundedRemind him that Ted bundy received more love letters in prison than he he ever will and that Genghis khan slept with more women than he ever will… one’s ability to pull women doesn’t reflect the quality of one’s character, sometimes all it reflects is one’s ability and willingness to exploit women’s insecurities and manipulate. It honestly saddens me to see so many people - especially younger guys - disregarding their strengths and attributes and instead basing their self worth entirely around s… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?Imagine how much easier (more balanced) it would be if men didn’t launch themselves at anything with a pussy and maintained standards and didn’t change their plans and made women work just as much for their attention… that should the the whole alpha mentality not just trying to maximise the body count | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?So what approach should I take then? If the answer was to just be myself then this subreddit wouldn’t exist but that’s what I’m leaning toward because it’s too much of a headfuck trying to play Tetris with a computer that changes it’s algorithm every 5 seconds and then what do I have to keep that shit up while we’re dating as well? | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?Yeah I’m a really analytical person in general and relationships are a headfuck with no logic involved The issue is I’m only really attracted to about 1 in 50 women who have a certain physique and look so when I meet a girl like this I do what it takes to try and date her and my efforts backfire, I know the answer is still to move on as quick as possible but it’s not as easy as just moving on to the girl next her like it seems to be for some guys because chances are I’m just not attracted to the… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?I’m 27 but generally don’t go for women below about 22, interestingly it’s an issue across the board but older women are generally a bit better with communicating whereas younger ones seem a bit ruder but really i thing that’s just the immaturity or difference styles of communication In saying that enjoy pretty high brow logical conversation without much emotion and with really dark and dry humour so the few times I’ve had dates with younger women I’ve found myself wondering what the hell to tal… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?Looks and wealth definitely play huge roles, I guess we just need to optimise both as best as we can but also I wouldn’t bother with a girl who’s an obvious gold digger (it’s reasonable for a girl to want a guy who’s financially secure obviously) The real stoic mindset is to learn to be fulfilled without needing to pull women, only doing it for the hell of it every so often but not making it a core mission in your life - something I need to remind myself | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?I’m not sure who the top tier of women go for online but even tho I’m tall and good looking and have a funny bio Ive never match with them. Are they going for 8 foot Greek god millionaires who have a different Lamborghini in every one of their photos? (whilst that top tier girl is usually just a bimbo working as a beautician with fake tits) The other thing is I don’t really enjoy bars or clubs so that limits where I can meet people eh | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?I guess that’s why offline is a bit better, since the bar isn’t quite as high and we’re not being compared to as many guys? The whole thing is brutal though often you feel like a vulture competing for scraps on dating apps | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?That’s the thing I’m 6’5 quite good looking and have fun banter and I’m living in the trendiest part of town so I’m not sure what more they’re expecting really Is the bar really that high? I don’t go for the top tier of supermodels anyway | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?Yeah definitely but I’ve noticed lots of women are hard to arrange dates with these days, very few can meet within a few days for whatever reason they’ll say oh I can do Sunday evening and then I’ll have a friends party or something so it gets pushed to the following week and then something else comes up (I feel like it never used to be such a problem) | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?But you walk a fine line because I think I’ve annoyed girls by sending stuff that was sort of silly or unnecessary (memes or questions or shit from my day as tho im their best friend) and then they’ll stop responding but perhaps those girls weren’t ever going to convert into dates anyway The whole thing of trying not to be too much or too little just feels like such a silly waste of energy too doesn’t like you’re trying to jump through invisible hoops | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 10:47 AM |
| 7 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?Is it? Seems like a waste of time for them as well | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you refer to it as ‘date’ or not?I think he’s saying that by him inviting women to get drinks, there’s an implication that goes with it that’s already assumed. Having to say it out loud is redundant | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Do you refer to it as ‘date’ or not?But if you met the guy on a dating app or he approached you and asked if you wanted to get a drink what else could it be? She wouldn’t turn up expecting a therapy session or a business meeting? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you refer to it as ‘date’ or not?But do you consciously avoid calling it a date? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you refer to it as ‘date’ or not?1) can you give me an example of a flirt that isn’t lame or sleazy? 2) Depends on the girl. Some see a bar first date as being slimy and activity first dates are always so much better on paper than practice especially because I’ve you don’t get on then you’re kind of stuck with them for a few hours while a meal or coffee date could just be an hour or so with sn option to extend it if you’re enjoying their company | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?I’d rather put my dick in a blender than call someone | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?By that logic I’ve only had like one woman interested in me across my entire life | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you refer to it as ‘date’ or not?Well I mean what else could it be when you meet on a dating app? I guess if you don’t have chemistry it will just become a platonic thing tho | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 09:31 AM |
| 0 | Question about this girl I slept with and am intoSidenote: makes someone a good lay? | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too???“I don’t know about that but you’re definitely too conceited for me” then walk off | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 11:46 AM |
| 4 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofYou’re telling me that everyone wants to be an asshole but some of us are just too scared of the repercussions? You’re free to think that but I can tell you it’s definitely not true, and I’m not friends with anybody who has asshole tendencies , why would I be? Of course a man should be willing and able to defend his girl if it’s needed and he should stand up for his beliefs even if it turns people against him but he shouldn’t be a dangerous savage who women need to civilise and the fact some wom… | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofWhat’s incredible is that there are women - many women - who have fallen for men like this, realised it was all a facade and ended up in an abusive relationship, managed to escape it and then repeatedly fallen for the same types of men. It’s almost hard to feel sympathy for them but humans are far from perfect and this is just one example of how. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:35 AM |
| 23 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofYeah. Its absurd to me that anybody would or could have a long term relationship with someone they have no emotional attraction to - it shows a lack of self respect above all, but it’s probably why there are so many relationships in which both parties are emotionally disconnected, never truly bond and really only use each other as a dildo / fleshlight and a way to fill the void because they’re incapable of being single. My view is that a lot of extremely conventionally attractive women are essen… | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:25 AM |
| 13 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofI know, that’s what makes it feel like a farce. An apparently intelligent young lady will repeatedly throw herself at men who she knows on some level are going to drag her into danger and peril and tries to justify her decisions logically. Men fall for other stupid tricks and allow themselves to be swindled all the time but the point is that nobody should feel good for getting someone interested using these scumbag tactics. This is why a lot of nice guys have a valid complaint when their nicenes… | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:01 AM |
| 4 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofAlso these dark triad traits mimic competency without actually requiring any of it. I know there are a many reasons but I guess I wanted to emphasise that we shouldn’t feel bad about ourselves just because we’re not getting many women since it isn’t an indication of our quality as a person | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofwhere were you meeting them? Many of us just don’t have the opportunity to mingle with like minded women when working full time, having chores and exercise and stuff, and if we don’t really enjoy the bar or club scene we’re sort of relying on dating apps or occasionally meeting someone through mutual friends if not approaching strangers | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Is it wise to rub one out before deciding whether you’re actually interested in meeting up with someone?Yeah staying in and doing something you enjoy is lame, we should be sticking our dick in as many wet holes as humanely possible so we can feel like a real man for a while! That view is just as lame as the incel perspective | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it wise to rub one out before deciding whether you’re actually interested in meeting up with someone?Well that’s the question- if I’m really interested in a girl would I still feel like meeting up with her after jackin the beanstalk? Probably not eh | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it wise to rub one out before deciding whether you’re actually interested in meeting up with someone?For about a minute then I’m soft until I recharge I agree I’m more likely to have sex if I haven’t jacked off because I’m more likely to make moves but I always blow my load early and I’ve tried all the tricks to help | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | So, when do girls start thinking it is offensive to not make phisical moves?You’re the guy who women laugh and tell their friends about if that’s your attitude or you have never met up with anyone you weren’t interested in or who clearly wants into you | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 05:42 AM |
| 14 | So, when do girls start thinking it is offensive to not make phisical moves?I’ve had some luck saying stuff like “you’re really tempting me to break my no kissing until marriage rule right now” that way you can gauge their reaction or once I more directly said “hypothetically if I tried to kiss you right now how would you respond?” and she said “you should find out” but not all women will respond well because some of the like to cling to a fantasy where everything just happens (including sex) | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 05:40 AM |
| 4 | So, when do girls start thinking it is offensive to not make phisical moves?Why don’t more women make it more obvious by touching you first or giving more clear but signs? Do they think that would render them slutty or they enjoy being coy and making a guy work for it? | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is easier than people thinkI’ll do this and I’ll make a friend not a romantic or sexual partner though… at some point you need to be more attractive in a sexual sense | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work.Yeah I like that approach and I think it comes across more natural then trying to ask them out right away but sometimes I’m not sure what’s acceptable to talk to them about because I don’t want to ask deep personal questions like we’re on a date but I want to ask a few personal questions just to see if I actually even want to have a date with them | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | What are some fun snapchats / messages you can send a girl to keep the spark alive if you can’t meet up for weeks?I never snap friends and almost never use social media, I find the whole thing kind of brain numbing and I think it detracts from real experiences so it’s not my natural instinct to snap stuff so I basically need to plan my snaps as though I’m doing self promotion. I’d rather just message them but I take it some women get bored of that | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 12:21 PM |
| 2 | I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work.How do you get women to open up and be that friendly? Usually when I try to talk to women and ask them questions like that they’ll just give me a short answer and their expression will tell me to fuck off, and im actually quite good looking and charming, but I can’t relate to the posts here where women seem to be fun to talk to… maybe its a cultural difference where I live? It’s the main reason I don’t really like approaching women, because most of them are really harsh and blunt even if they lo… | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle itPeople also look more attractive in masks, it’s a well established phenomenon. I once had a date with a girl who I met wearing a mask and when she removed it on the date I realised I wasn’t attracted to her face at all | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work.how do you actually implement push pull because I’ve never seen it done in a way that doesn’t seem unnatural and sociopathic | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Girls are getting weird!!lol | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themI’d say I’m morally advanced to him but you’re right its naive to think that would translate through life | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | if a girl shuts down all ur kino advances does that just mean she doesn’t find you physically attractive enough?I’ve got ptsd from watching Todd Vs infield stuff I’m surprised he hasn’t been glassed or maced or anything with how pestiferous he comes across I do notice that whenever I’ve been successful with women I’ve been myself ir at least not trying to think about pick up stuff I’ve read There are a few useful tips here and there but most of it comes across as awkward and unnatural especially for the types of guys who have to actively learn it like myself who are usually more subtle and reserved | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 9 | if a girl shuts down all ur kino advances does that just mean she doesn’t find you physically attractive enough?Is that why most genuine dickheads do well with women, because it’s not an act | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?There are plenty of women asking the same question in regards to a husband | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 05:16 AM |
| 8 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?It’s a shame because most guys aren’t aggressive and disrespectful like that at all but as they say when you’re in the snake pit you have to assume they’re all venomous | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 0 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themWell besides the superficial stuff I’m not a conspiracy theory crazed misogynistic bigot so that’s got to be worth something | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Just because an opportunity presents itself doesn’t mean we need to drop what we’re doing and embrace it though. We’re you even attracted to her? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 04:58 PM |
| 19 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Would it kill them just to strike up a conversation like we’re expected to ? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 04:56 PM |
| 8 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themWell I guess Ted bundy had something we don’t as well because he got more love letters in prison than we ever will. I know sex is important but what would make one guy so much better than the next If not for his ability and willingness to learn her body and stimulate her according to her preferences? I mean yeah might have an 8 inch dick and be able to fuck for an hour straight but is that really all most women want? I don’t know | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 03:46 PM |
| 6 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themIt’s more of a culmination of this scenario playing out multiple times inthe last few years / a reminder that I decided to turn into a post that might provide some value to others I do find it hard to reconcile how some people go for guys who are unabashed pieces of shit… but I mean I know a black female trump supporter so that’s people for you. I’ve read mansons stuff, it’s ok as pulp psychology but if you’ve seen his interviews you’ll see that for all his wisdom his head is a lot bigger than h… | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themAre you one of those fools who believe that any time a guy makes a valid criticism of the character or behaviour of another man he’s automatically a moralising hypocrite incel nice guy? Can’t I criticise someone for being a bigot with obnoxious tattoos who clearly thinks they’re the shit? I’m not sure that checking out someone’s profile for a minute classifies as stalking either | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 03:04 PM |
| -2 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themYeah I remembered they do make a lot if they’re on the mines, but I guess the point is that it’s not as though his job was the drawcard (unless he was flexing how much he was making and shes a bit of a gold digger) | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:58 PM |
| 2 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themBut unless he raped her she must have been interested enough in the guy to spread her legs for him. Also, women are largely turned on by words and have wildly different preferences, I can’t imagine a blue collar Neanderthal would stimulate that noetic side of her or bother learning her preferences. Fucking someone like an animal would get old after a while wouldn’t it? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Not wanting to fit in with mainstream society completely changed my results with women, I got hotter girls as a result.What sort of experiences? Like one minute you’re talking to a girl outside a cafe and next minute you’re stabbing a syringe of adrenaline into a heroin addicts heart or something? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Not wanting to fit in with mainstream society completely changed my results with women, I got hotter girls as a result.This isn’t really a call to self empowerment so much as it is a call to ditch men and monomaniacally chase women…it’s not my philosophy of how to live but it seems to be working well for you I guess | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:46 PM |
| 13 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themIf she’s putting up with all the other bullshit because he’s making 120k on the mines then that says a bit about her | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:49 AM |
| 21 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themI know excessive interest is often unattractive at least before there’s a relationship established but I’m not really sure how to apply this to courtship… I think I act as interested as I shood and I’d feel disingenuous acting less interested | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:20 AM |
| 3 | We so often believe that we’re never good enough for them… when in fact we may actually be too good for themOh | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 06:07 AM |
| 26 | Girl asked me text her when I got gone after date and I did tYour bigger problem is that you seem either illiterate or brain damaged | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to beBecause these women are playing the same game. They are trying to get a guy out of their league to commit when he only wants to pump them. They're the ones being disingenuous and putting on a mask as well. They choose to wilfully, both consciously and unconsciously, misread the signs a guy out of their league is putting out because they would rather get pumped and dumped by a 'better' guy than have to settle with someone on their own level. I'd argue that these women aren't getting played bro. T… | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | I'm done with social circle!Most people don’t like hanging out with someone who thinks they’re superior to them so maybe you’re coming across as a bit too arrogant? | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | What to do if you're not Witty?Important to note that what one person considers hilarious the next person might consider lame or obnoxious I | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to beI agree that it’s usually obvious but also if women are so well attune to dissimulation then how come every girl has been played and so many pricks end up with women? | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to beIs it really based on confidence level? Any deadbeat can roll off his parents piss soaked couch and front up as a confident guy, I’ve seen it. Inner confidence doesn’t really announce itself and it’s easy to miss (unless that’s what you’re referring to) It seems that it’s basically impossible to know if a guy is well meaning - my cousins ex partner seemed great for a year then he became jealous snd tried to kill her. There are some red flags but there a lot of luck involved too. And I don’t see … | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to bePerhaps There’s definitely an air of arrogance and conceit about almost all attractive women as though you’re blessed to receive a modicum of their attention even if they have nothing to offer besides their body | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 5 | I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to beI need to overcome the visceral response that takes place when I’m very sexually attracted to a woman since that can cloud my judgement. Since emotional compatibility is vital for me I’m not willing to compromise just for an opportunity to get my dick wet, and to that end I really am requiring them to qualify for me, but my thought process is less like “I hope they’ll like me” and more “I hope I like her because she’s really sexy” … but unfortunately it’s pretty rare that I can say I’m both phys… | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Is there a risk in being too conversational when trying to build initial sexual rapport?Two things though 1) what if I’m a naturally very talkative guy, and being reserved feels artificial? 2) I never seem to get women talking at length - guys complain that women talk their ears off but I can’t say I’ve ever had that happen even when I’ve been asking them open questions | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a low effort person?1-2 messages per day is enough for me - how frequently do you want to message ? | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Fellow brethren, what are your best open-ended openings?People often tell you it doesn’t really matter what you say… my experience is that it does matter, a lot. And the opener is the most crucial part so it’s pretty difficult not to overthink it until the opportunity has walked past | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 4 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?Obviously without action you’ll never get anywhere but man confidence is fucking overrated… Sure in ancient history it meant a lot but nowadays it doesn’t necessarily signal shit… one of the most outwardly confident guys I know is a fat braindead pothead who’s never had a job… half the slimy fucking degenerate womanisers I know exude confidence… how naive are women to fall for this veneer of competence… a couple unexpected shit tests could shatter that facade and expose the insecure shitkickers … | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone else feel they never get Indicators of Interest (IOIs) from women?Arrogant as always | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Let's talk about ugliness causing creepiness.Those who do conflate the two aren’t the types who will be reading and considering Zizek essays though | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like its too much pressure to be good in bed as a male?Tell her you’re not a mind reader and she’s only making things less enjoyable for both if she doesn’t communicate what she likes. If she keeps bringing up her ex then let her run back to him and find someone who appreciates you Also not everyone is into kinky stuff, I just like it vanilla and If someone isn’t ok with that off they go | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 08:13 AM |
| 3 | What topics should you talk about with a girl?I meant to say they’re nervous so they’re not being as outgoing as usual which could lead to a conclusion that they’re not interested | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What topics should you talk about with a girl?What if she seems to have no knowledge about anything so can’t really continue the conversations | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What topics should you talk about with a girl?Could it be that they’re just very nervous ? | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:13 AM |
| 7 | To the MALES: glitch for Karisma, less approach anxiety, and more confidenceStopped reading after the first nonsense sentence | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:11 AM |
| 251 | drug abuse gets you laid. Has anyone noticed this?Probably attracting unstable / damaged women who seek emotionally volatile guys You’d be surprised how many women feel uncomfortable in a healthy relationship without any drama - it’s sad but even my cousin is like this and she’s only recently been addressing it with counselling | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?They don’t acknowledge it explicitly but their actions infer that by the fact they repeatedly end up with close minded morons That’s a good idea though, I’m probably being too passive about it That said it’s frustrating because very few people I know met their partners through forcing themselves to go out and meet people, if usually just happened… but whatever, I need to be more proactive with it | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?Physically they have a certain physique and features, emotionally they’re open minded, intelligent, curious and creative with a dark sense of humour. I need physical attraction for anything to happen but I need the emotional attraction to actually date them | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 03:42 PM |
| 11 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?Seems strange to be attracted to 90% of women but I envy you because life must be so much more arousing and gratifying. I’m only into women with a very specific body type, like thin but chubby at then same time and with particular features and when you consider personality it’s about 5% I’ve tried having sex with women who weren’t my type and I don’t even get hard so there’s no point It makes this a lot more frustrating | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 03:18 PM |
| 3 | This literally increased my level in the dating gameWhy does this shit never seem to work outside of Hollywood and inspirational reddit posts though? | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?What sort of up questions would you generally ask to build rapport btw? Or what topics work well? | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?How do you game a girl on a dating app who only gives you one word responses though? At what point would you decide to move on? | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?Well I’m tall, muscular and I’d say quite attractive, intelligent, funny and respectful, but I guess that’s for her to decide. In this case if she’s being cold I guess I just move on | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?And what are those guys doing differently? If I’m cold in retune to a girl like this we never talk again (which suits me) so I assume it’s all whether she finds the guy hot and he has social proof and all that bs | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 04:16 AM |
| 0 | How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?Sometimes it just feels like you’re expected to be a dancing monkey in which case I start to wonder what the fuck I’m dancing for - I don’t exactly want to date someone like this and it’s a lot of work to go through all so I can put my dick in a warm hole for 15 minutes. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?Do you find this is a pretty common situation tho? I swear about 1 in 3 women are like this, if not more | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 02:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with someone who’s being cold and closed off?I just don’t understand how women like that think they can get through life being so cold and dismissive? I guess enough guys will jump through all the hoops just to try and fuck them | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 01:33 AM |
| 18 | How can I take rejection graciously?But most players turn into petulant children if they face a string of rejections - I feel like most truly confident guys don’t approach women constantly and intensely because they don’t feel the need to, only when they come across someone they really feel drawn towards | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Incorporate deliberate silence into meet-ups?For some reason when I try to create a silence it just backfires for me and the awkwardness becomes palpable / guys keep telling me about how women won’t shut up but that’s not the case in my experience | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginI’m not exactly a gigachad but I’m 6’5 and muscular and with a fairly attractive face but I’m very rarely approached and women very rarely make their interest known or escalate with me so I need to go through the whole process and even then it’s no guarantee it will work - I just know so many idiotic guys unemployed potheads who are inarticulate and immature and not even very attractive yet who do well with women and my mind can’t comprehend how | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginI can see how all that works yet I can’t bring myself to believe that’s what the average guy does to get intimate with a girl because I know the average guy isn’t that calculated nor that charming or smooth - I know boneheads that get a lot of women and I don’t know how, I guess they’re just relying on raw sexual attraction and they’re pretty direct because they lack tact | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 12:35 AM |
| 18 | No issue getting dates but physical escalation is a mystery for meStrangely holding hands feels more intimate than having sex for me, I’ve only ever held hands with someone I was dating long term and even then it felt a bit uncomfortable. Maybe I just don’t like public displays of affection though | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 05:22 AM |
| 120 | Advice for a 37 year old virginInterestingly though the players I know are among the most deep down insecure people I know - they can muster a veneer of confidence but underneath it they actually think quite lowly of themselves ( which comes out when they drink sometimes) So clearly true confidence and self esteem isn’t a requirement so much as the ability to act with confidence in a moment | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Advice for a 37 year old virginWhat’s a good way of expressing attraction? I assumed things like crossing the road to talk to a girl or strong eye contact was implicitly expressing that but maybe they need more direct and explicit? | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Is the "texting is for logistics only"-Mindset really still applicable these days?heard of erotic literature? Most Women go wild for it | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?So is that achieved through asking personal questions, flirting and eye contact and stuff? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:37 PM |
| -2 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?And if she says reality tv (a cliche example) and I bring up how I know someone who worked on a show and how scripted it is and how reality shows shape public discourse by normalising certain reactions etc she tunes out so I have to keep talking about how Tyler cheated on Jess or some superficial level stuff in most cases or I risk boring the shit out of them | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Yeah altho I’m basically a disciple of Christopher Hitchens so I can’t help but criticise religion at every chance I get even unintentionally I’ll drop a sardonic comment here and there so I don’t think I’d be compatible with any religious person unless they’re only a nominal Christian, Muslim, Jew etc You’re right that it’s a good filter though, especially when I’m considering long term compatibility I also met a great intelligent girl a while ago and she also had a partner and basically told m… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:22 PM |
| 0 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?That term has been thrown around too casually for my liking, I’m not sure you know what it actually means. Let me explain it for you; blah blah blah I do think the term is used too liberally though, I like to think I talk the same way to men and women and don’t ever knowingly talk down to anybody More likely the problem is I’ve gone on a tangent and she’s just pretending to be interested but she’s doing a good enough job of it that I keep going. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?https://youtu.be/ABsd5WssVS0 Yeah this is taken to an extreme and is an interview but what about this sort of caliber of conversation is so unsexy that guys should steer clear of it? I find eloquence and intellect to be very gratifying and attractive, and there’s no reason it can’t lead into sex or something more intimate at least. I think one of the issues Is that too many people just want to turn their brain off on weekends and when dating - I can relate to that but it sucks nonetheless The ot… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?So a recent example I enthusiastically asked a girl what her star sign is and she told me then asked what mine is and I said “not sure, whatever December is” and she didn’t really see any humour - then I said I think star signs are a great measure of compatibility and she agreed and I continued “yeah if you believe in them we’re not compatible” and she chuckled slightly but was clearly somewhat taken aback in a bad way. At another point we were talking about female comedians and I said “oh there… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?I understand it’s an attractive trait but in practice it seems to get in the way of connecting emotionally if anything - or at least it has to be expressed in certain ways so you don’t bore them / don’t get accused to trying to infantilise them | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?I want a partner who I can read a paper and debate a bunch of topical issues with or at least discuss them in some depth People say well that’s what friend are for but is it really unrealistic or unusual to want this in a partner as well? Once the bubbly romance bullshit boils away I want someone who I find interesting to be around too | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:12 PM |
| 0 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Yeah some probably get defensive and insecure too but I guess the underlying theme seems to be that facts and substantial discourse pales in comparison to emotionally charged interactions which isn’t a surprise but definitely something I need to bear in mind since most my conversations with friends etc are closer to the former | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?And if there’s no real overlap I guess there’s just no point bothering at all? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Unless you see she’s receptive to smarter conversation I actually don’t know what to do with a woman who doesn’t know much about anything and doesn’t get my humour though. Being extremely direct and sexual might work to get me laid on a date but how would that work in a relationship? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | People I find attractive are the ones that are never attracted to me... ?What if I told them I have a fetish for chubbier women and showed them my porn browsing history to confirm it? | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Should I Join A Church Group Just For The Purpose Of Meeting Women?I can guarantee none of them actually follow the edicts of their faith surrounding extramarital sex and so on (and good thing too because it’s sick and inhuman) so go ahead But don’t let any of that brain rotting sludge actually get through to you | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | People I find attractive are the ones that are never attracted to me... ?So I prefer chubby girls whilst I’m really fit looking… yet I get more attention from fit girls and struggle to get chubby girls interested.. how does that work? | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 07:46 AM |
| 2 | When it rains it pours and when it stops it’s dry it’s a goddamn droughtGood point I have had a few girls bail then later admit that it’s because they were feeling insecure and self conscious or something to that effect and I always forget things like that and assume it’s something I’ve said or done But it does kill me a bit getting apparently so close to meeting someone cute then next thing you know you’re blocked or something it makes everything feel so fickle and I look at guys walking around with partners and think hmm what did this guy do that I’m not doing, bu… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls reply to OLD messages with one or two word answers?Yeah that’s the brutal truth | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 15 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?Realising how few women have actually liked me - in 90% of cases I have to initiate and drag the conversation along and plan the date and plan the 2nd date and send a follow up if she doesn’t reply etc it gets exhausting But I feel that if I cut out all the women who didn’t pull their weight I would only meet about 2 women per year and chances are I wouldn’t find them that attractive | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:43 AM |
| 18 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?They’re often the most boring out of bed too To the point that I don’t actually know how to connect with them most the time | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How could you connect with a woman on another wavelength?I’m not sure if it’s an issue with me not being able to open them up or if most attractive women really are just incredibly vapid | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:13 AM |
| -2 | How could you connect with a woman on another wavelength?Have you never met someone extremely superficial/simple minded? consider yourself lucky if you haven’t because it doesn’t have to do with respect, I’m not applying a moral judgement just an honest review of their personality And it’s not just a matter of being shy - my cousin is like this and I still haven’t really managed to connect with them | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Did my first cold approach today and feeling like shitDon’t bother with hints that will make it more complicated, if you’ve had a nice interaction just casually say you know what this is a bit out of character but life’s short and you seem like nice company so I don’t suppose you would be up for continuing this over a coffee sometime? Or even better if there’s something related to the conversation e.g I need to ask you more about blah blah or I’ll show you that blah blah thing I was just talking about | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Can you elaborate on reassurance? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?I know it sounds crass but I have in the past been feeling rejected and low and then literally just told myself “life is short, don’t spend it wallowing in pity, go out meet new people and create new memories” and like a switch I stop feeling sorry for myself and my mood improves - it turns out I don’t actually need the cute girl at the cafe to like me in order to be happy | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 07:24 AM |
| 2 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?I’d say most guys are actually like that and end up meeting their partner through work or a mutual friend but it’s also a very passive way to meet people and requires a fair amount of luck | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Equally though I think the advice that the woman should be doing 90% of the talking and the guy should just be asking questions is a poor strategy - I find that women become noticeably invested in me after I’ve shared some personal anecdotes and even gone on a rant about the power of music or independent thinking or something to show that I’m a deeper thinker than perhaps what they were expecting. It might not help much for causal sex but definitely for something deeper | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Yeah the past / narrative is massive - it’s insane how much a brief interaction with someone can alter their warmness towards you let alone a shared experience | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?It’s not always so easy to find a valid reason to initiate a conversation when you’re walking past eachother at the mall though :/ | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | We’ve decided to meet at a bar we both want to check out, but it’s a 20 minute drive from either of our placesI can’t really cook anything but I do have a home cocktail bar, the issue is that tends to sound slimy even though it should just be fun | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | We’ve decided to meet at a bar we both want to check out, but it’s a 20 minute drive from either of our placesSo if it goes well where would you plan to have the 2nd date? Nearby my place or perhaps even at my place? I don’t just want to fuck her as soon as possible but meeting out at bars and stuff really adds up $ and there’s only so much you can do at these places | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | We’ve decided to meet at a bar we both want to check out, but it’s a 20 minute drive from either of our placesGood point I’m not expecting sex and generally never have it on the first or even second date but I’d be more comfortable in a place where I know that we can wonder to another bar or to a park nearby to talk or back to my place if she was wanting to and also save a fair bit of money on the travel but maybe I’ll just meet at the other bar | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but..The word “perfect” is almost always proceeded by something undesirable, I never tell a girl she’s perfect and shudder the few times girls have called me that because they end up getting overly attached or disappearing | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 03:45 PM |
| 14 | Fat guy looking for PRETTY girlsThe issue is that even fat ugly people aren’t necessarily sexually attracted to other fat ugly people | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:44 AM |
| -8 | Fat guy looking for PRETTY girlsHe could have said it with proper English. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | “Women want constant emotional spikes”I mean I have a billion issues with the world that I’m happy to discuss at length from religion to politics to capitalist exploitation to environmental damage to human stupidity, but that’s not what you meant by issues is it | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Does day game/cold approaching work well because women aren't approached at all anymore outside of bars and apps?I feel like many women fantasy about the perfect guy approaching them, but would get uncomfortable and annoyed if anyone other attempted to | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | If I cut off anyone who didn’t return my energy and enthusiasm I would almost never date anyoneI guess I’m only physically attracted to a small percentage of women so that already narrows things down and then filtering for personality narrows things even further so I sometimes compromise a bit on personality hoping that they open up more over the 2nd and 3rd date but the fact is most women are just bimbos (and most men are morons for that matter) and they have bland interests and pretty lacking senses of humour and frankly they’re just not very interesting to talk to | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | If I cut off anyone who didn’t return my energy and enthusiasm I would almost never date anyonePush pull seems a bit sociopathic does it not? I don’t want to spend my interactions stuck in my own head trying to strategise and calibrate, that takes away the fun. I mean I’m not a people pleaser so I don’t think I need to push a woman away because if I don’t like what she’s saying or doing I won’t pretend to. How do I push someone away, by suddenly going quiet or moving away from them or being mean? If those childish head games are what it takes to get a woman interested then I don’t think I… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 08:14 AM |
| 3 | If I cut off anyone who didn’t return my energy and enthusiasm I would almost never date anyoneWell I’m tall muscular intelligent fairly funny and charismatic but I think I lack the raw masculine edge that a lot of women are loath to admit they’re attracted to - it’s not me tho, I’ve never had it, and I don’t think that alone should hold me back. I’m probably not sexually direct enough most the time because I’ve got a pretty low to mid level sex drive so it’s not always on my mind and I just don’t feel like it should be necessary to always be flirting and escalating hardcore but I feel li… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 06:54 AM |
| 5 | If I cut off anyone who didn’t return my energy and enthusiasm I would almost never date anyoneWhen I was watching Todd v and co I actually found myself getting less motivated and more exhausted because it overly complicated every interaction and I didn’t want to be thinking about qualifiers and shit tests and push and pull and shit, and I think that was causing me to come across as calculated ( I can’t believe his in field stuff works,it seems so slimy and cold and it’s completely out of character for me) I know trying to get by without that stuff is still frustrating and exhausting obvi… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Logistics/Etiquette Questions, Nowhere Else to AskI’d meet them at a bar or something first to see if you even find them sexy (sometimes video calls can be deceiving) but you might as well go for it if you’re really into her, just send her a short snap chat of something in your day whether that’s your dog or something funny you see until you meet I obviously wear a condom but I’ve never been that concerned about going down on a girl, maybe I should have been, I don’t think there’s anything to worry about with this girl tho Good luck son | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Best thing to say after getting her snapchat?Just use any throw back humour you can “hey it’s blah blah from blah blah you seem like fun command so as the winner of the cornhole championship I’ll pick the Cafe - how would ____ sound this Sunday?” Or something like that but I’ve noticed that women I met at clubs rarely ever reply, they probably can’t even remember it very well | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | So 8 days ago a random girl approached me and said something….interesting to me. What did she mean? What should I have done?It’s not a matter of being nervous so much as the girl is almost always just really fucking boring and/or bad at having an engaging conversation so I have to do all the heavy lifting.. maybe I’ve just gotten unlucky | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 02:47 AM |
| 6 | If I cut off anyone who didn’t return my energy and enthusiasm I would almost never date anyoneWell I went years without any girls in my life because I was focused on my work, writing music, friends and other stuff, but that’s gotten lonelier as I’ve gotten older so I’ve come to realise that I need to be proactive and invest some effort but I’m sick of chasing them and I’d rather just let them keep on running.. I guess I’m just surprised how common it is | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | What’s the difference between ‘telling the girl what she wants to hear’ vs being a “nice guy”?Basically being a cunt can work (it’s complicated why) but being a genuinely nice guy won’t get you rejected by the types of women you actually want to be with. Telling a girl what she wants to hear is not a good strategy because it ends up eroding your self esteem as well | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any strangerI’d say 1) pre plan some fun - unusual questions that you can ask especially on a date 2) have some questions up your sleeve if there’s a silence e.g “alright give me something from the top of your bucket list” but don’t rush to fill the silence either 3) talk about positive things - their favourite music, food, travel plans etc 4) don’t suppress your passion and interests (but don’t talk about them endlessly either) 5) don’t be afraid to challenge their opinions (but don’t make it a heated argu… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any strangerWhy does conversation flow so much more effortlessly with certain people? It’s not just a matter of their level of interest or their level of conversational skills either because there are a few borderline autistic people who I can talk endlessly with and a few extreme extroverts where our conversation keeps dying and being reborn against its will every 30 seconds | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any strangerIsn’t that the essence of that just instructing us to ask question after question ad nauseam? That has never worked so well for me because when When I add my own input it starts feeling like an interview | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 10:24 AM |
| 21 | So 8 days ago a random girl approached me and said something….interesting to me. What did she mean? What should I have done?Where would it go from there? People tend to brush over the finer details “just let the conversation move naturally” well in my experience it doesn’t usually unfold naturally after the opener and I consider myself a pretty good conversationalist so I must be missing something | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 06:57 AM |
| 3 | How can I get women to talk to meLet it also be known that Ted bundy received more love letters in prison than every guy in this thread combined will receive. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Men in relationships, how do you continue to flirt with other women when they ask you “do you have a girlfriend?”Would you be cool if you knew she was fucking her boss or personal trainer? | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?I’ve been conditioned out of being myself because I have a very dark and inappropriate sense of humour and I’ve been fired because of it so whilst some people really appreciate it I suppress myself because those who don’t could really get me into trouble I mean It even backfired on a date recently when I complemented her “I’m impressed, a lady like you doesn’t even need a personality but you’ve got a great one” and she was like what do you mean? You think attractive women have everything fall in… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Well that makes sense that women are testing to see how playful a guy is or almost as a pre foreplay but where do you draw the line with what’s appropriate, like I’ve seen women jump down guys throats for staring too long and who would report a guy to security if he tried touching her hair, and then there are women who are bored to death if you’re not doing that. Personally I’m not always in a flirty mode, most the time I’m working or trying to get something done, I’m not trying to calibrate whe… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?I get it but it just seems silly I mean what does stealing a notebook or making a joke convey? Omg does he like me or not!!?! I think he does but he just made a kinda mean joke about me! Wait now he’s being really nice to me! Surely that shit stops being endearing once you hit about 15 years old and you can just convey your interest through eye contact, words and (the one that most people apparently forget) the fact that you’re hanging around them maybe even giving up your evening to be with the… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?We live in a world where most people would rather cling to a wrong opinion than admit their ignorance or error, where being confident is all it takes to persuade most people, where over 50% believe they have a magical sky daddy who cares about them and where over 50% of Americans can’t even find on a map the country they’re willing to invade. I know a guy who dated a girl through lying about every aspect of his life until she found out she was so deeply invested with him that they stayed togethe… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Your smart little riposte kinda proves my point tho doesn’t it Obviously I was being hyperbolic when I said there a missing gene but some guys are still out there paying slimy dating coaches thousands and approaching women every week but still struggling I know we all have to do the best with what we have but it’s insane how much variation there is that’s really the thing I was whinging about | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Yeah but I think you somewhat overestimate how dumb and incapable of learning a lot of guys out there are (unless these guys are able to apply critical thinking to seduction and nothing else) I think it’s just as much using exploits and leveraging social image and desperation and probably being really fucking direct and getting knocked back from most women but succeeding with a few, and I guess I can’t fault them for that | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Good point, I think I fall into a trap of believing that I should be able to attract most women if I’ve got good game but the fact is there are some (lots of) women where trying to connect with them is like trying to mix oil and water and given how short life is it’s a waste of time It just sucks that I’m usually the most physically attracted to those types of women | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?I’m fairly good looking and had a normal upbringing but I’ve still never really understood romantic connection / it feels sort of foreign… perhaps I’m autistic 🤔 If I am it can’t be too severe because I’m socially competent in other ways and I have a good sense of humour but in the context of romance and sexuality I’m like a bumbling idiot | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Is it though? I’m miles funnier than some guys I know who do better with women and I can often have girls in fits of laughter but without the ability to effectively sexualise things it feels maybe not useless but not enough | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Yeah but I’m not sure how your average joe who by all accounts is quite dense and uncharismatic is able to muster the tact and social acumen needed to flirt like that, in my opinion it’s a highly advanced social skill more than is needed to connect with people normally (especially today where saying anything disrespectful can land you in trouble) I’m always meeting boring dimwits who seem to do well with women and it seems to defy logic | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I can only seem to be flirtatious and charming when I’m not trying to beTouching doesn’t come naturally either, I barley hug any family members and I’m not touchy with friends but I guess I’ll have to force myself | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?This community has created a strange lore around shit tests like holy shit panic stations let me phone Todd v and repeat her question… usually it’s not some highly calculated inquisition (most women are just as dumb as most men) and just answer it how you would any question: with honesty but delivered in a fun or humorous way | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I can only seem to be flirtatious and charming when I’m not trying to beI agree but also sometimes I get too platonic because I’m not a naturally flirty / romantic person and I’ve got a fairly low sex drive so I can risk boring women, I think I need to force myself a bit | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How to not be seriousDo you laugh with friends or anyone else? If not you might be depressed. There’s a lot to despair about in life and some people are too oblivious but I didn’t realise my depression was the main source of my cynicism | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Quick guide to hookeup with a girl at a clubGet drunk and head into a place full of sweaty belligerent pricks with overpriced drinks and bad music so you can feel like dogshit the next day and maybe if you’re lucky have shit drunken sex with a possibly std infested bimbo, not my idea of a fun time | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What are some specific flirty things I can say and do when conversing.I say it the same way I say anything , am I supposed to put on my deepest sexiest voice or something? | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What are some specific flirty things I can say and do when conversing.Say their name too often and they’ll think you’re trying to sell them a used car though | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I agree every woman has different preferences… but how do I figure them out without asking questions or through trial and error? | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Experience gives you the power to read someone’s mind? | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcYeah that’s all fair enough The other thing of course is that sex at 4am drunk and tired with a stranger who probably has gonorrhoea isn’t that great either, at least for me I can barely even get it up when I’m drunk and I’d rather just have sex with someone I’ve at least gotten to know a bit so the juice probably isn’t worth the squeeze all things considered | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcI’m not always sitting there with a pipe in my mouth reading from the trial of Socrates on a date I’ll make cocktails at my home bar, verse them in Mario kart, flirt and laugh and stuff but I not the psychotic energy you get on a night out | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcI’ve only got laid clubbing overseas because I was actually enjoying myself too It’s just funny how there’s an expectation that guys should like clubbing and then so many realise (usually after forcing themselves for too long) that they do not | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcWhich goes against the notion of the guy who’s cool calm and collected too doesn’t it? | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcBut if you’re not escalating on the dance floor and you’re in a place where it’s too loud to hold a conversation how are you supposed to build that connection? Unless you’re insanely good looking and charismatic I can’t imagine why women would invite a guy they meet back to their house | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:49 AM |
| 2 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcI enjoy live music, some festivals and quieter parties so I guess I’ll just stick to those The closest I get to enjoying a club is when my friend DJs because I like his music and it usually attracts a good crowd of more alternative people since it’s industrial techno Or when I’m overseas I find them more enjoyable But I don’t think I’ll ever go clubbing again on a regular night in my city | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:00 AM |
| 3 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcDefinitely never understood how anyone can stand to be at those places for hours and hours unless they’re on ecstasy or something Maybe some guys really are that horny | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:59 PM |
| 0 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcIt’s that’s not my idea of fun foreplay or connecting I’ve had women grind on me and it just felt lame I’d rather just talk then kiss and start foreplay So I guess clubs aren’t my scene | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 2 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcBut most guys in clubs aren’t calm at all and if you’re too quiet you don’t even get noticed | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:10 PM |
| 16 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcImagine just seeing them as cum buckets | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 4 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcConcerts is a good idea because if I don’t meet a lady I still get to enjoy music rather than being in a cramped sweaty pen full of aggressive apes and screaming women with shit music and overpriced drinks Only issue is they’re often really expensive, not as frequent and a lot of women really are just here for the music | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 0 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcSurely everyone at clubs and party events can’t be wild like that, there must be a lot forcing themselves into that environment because they think that’s what the ought to do or fooling themselves into believing they’re having fun. I know I did that for a few years when I was younger. There’s a lot of detriments to clubbing but the obvious benefits are that you know almost everyone is single and most likely willing to have sex that night - still it’s not my scene so I need to try and find differ… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 4 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcDo most people just go animalistic in clubs? Seems like a lot of guys thought process is something like pound beer manhandle some slut take a swing at the fuck who bumped into you, take a piss, slap some bitches ass, smash another drink, swear and shout nonsense, push some shithead blocking the way, kicked out, vomit in the alley, cat call some bitch see if she bites and so on That’s extreme obviously but man I’m basically the same as normal just a bit more ambitious and tactless | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:02 PM |
| 14 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcHmm… perhaps 27 isn’t too young for that. My personality is certainly more suited to that type of venue and my ‘game’ is verbal which gets rendered useless in clubs. I’m honestly not sure that I know if any places like that though, I’ll have to look and ask around because I’m sure they exist | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Side note how do you know what a woman is into in the bedroom without asking her 20 questions (which they don’t seem to like). I had a girl tell me afterwards that what I was doing hurt but she didn’t want to say anything so now I’m paranoid that they aren’t really enjoying it, but I don’t want to stop the show and ask. It seems like your doomed if you ask too many questions or make too many assumptions | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:24 PM |
| -3 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.I think you view women as being a little more logical than they are | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:22 PM |
| 0 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.And I don’t condone anyone who beautifies themselves in a way that is completely misleading, why do you? | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.If this isn’t satire I’ll blow my head off with a shotgun You guys really think that a 6’3 guy can just Waltz down the road click his fingers and a woman will undress for him or something? Because that’s the impression I get from guys here I’m 6’5 muscular and good looking and I can count the number of times I’ve been approached on one hand meanwhile I’ve been stood up ghosted and rejected countless times | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:01 PM |
| 0 | My super simple “Basic Guy Game” structure that will help you get comfortable meeting new women.Maybe women are as ruthless where you live but over here very few people talk to strangers and if you ask them these sorts of questions most will become clearly uncomfortable (and im a good looking and fairly charismatic guy) | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 01:11 PM |
| -1 | Cant get an erectionI wouldn’t bother with pre workout at all If you can’t muster the energy naturally you probably shouldn’t be going that hard anyway Meanwhile I have to take amphetamines for my adhd and they really fuck things up | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:04 AM |
| 0 | My super simple “Basic Guy Game” structure that will help you get comfortable meeting new women.I just never know what to talk about - I feel like asking about her clothing is a good way to get viewed as gay or slimy (ive made that mistake) asking about her race can backfire (I’ve made that mistake) and asking what she’s up to is just boring and socially inept (I’ve made that mistake) | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a sex bucket list?It matters more about the type of girl than her heritage / appearance but I guess there’s an allure to the “exotic” and I can see how that might have an evolutionary angle from helping to propagate out genes with a range of mates that we find attractive but also I have no idea what I’m talking about | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me?Clubs are full of plastic bags as far as I can tell but I’ll try to go to some more quiet events Thing is I struggle to get the dates in the first place obviously it’s like having a good car with a battery that won’t start, once it’s up and running (we’re on a date) it’s fine but meeting them is the tough part and I’ve had most luck from daytime approaches or dating apps but they both have their issues, and some events are swarming with attractive single women but I struggle to pull them because… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me?My main hobbies are writing music, writing poetry, reading and rock climbing, so they aren’t very conducive to meeting people and I don’t want to turn them into social things either I’ve concluded that I do need to approach because meeting people organically only happens rarely through volunteering or something | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | does anyone know where to find hookups?the casting couch? | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 10:03 AM |
| 2 | does anyone know where to find hookups?Have you checked behind the couch? | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 10:02 AM |
| 14 | I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me?It’s hard to have fun in an environment that I don’t enjoy though, some bespoke bars and parties are ok but clubs I rarely enjoy unless im on drugs (which causes other problems) and I think that’s obvious in my nonverbal language so I guess I should try to find places that I can still manage to enjoy | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Are you attracted to most women?Is this why most advice says if you’re rejected just walk over to the next girl and try again as though in supposed to be attracted to most the women there? | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Are you attracted to most women?I’m definitely not but I think my boyfriend might be | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?I did and within seconds it had been sliced and fried up as teppanyaki (it was quite chewy but overall tasty) | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?Tattoos, travelling , alcohol, parties etc? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Learning russian to pickup girls in Kiev and Moscow soonThis would be strange even if those areas weren’t gripped by a war | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Isn’t that because they have the most logical personalities ever and that is at odds with dating? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?would you say women who only go for women with good jobs are ones to avoid ( unless they have ambitions themselves) ? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?The most outwardly successful people I know are some of the worst to be around because they’re not the types to hang out and talk about life for a few hours since that wound be a waste of time, ifs as though they have a stick up their ass that compels them to be productive at all times and to me that seems a bit crass and egotistical. I’m sure they’re not all like this but I couldn’t date anyone with this personality type and they wouldn’t want to date me either | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:44 AM |
| -1 | What do I talk about with girl I am seeingSo then don’t advise people to say whatever comes to mind then, rather say be confident when you escalate in a calculated manner because that’s really what you mean, unless all of your thoughts are charming and attractive which I doubt | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | How to cross the touch barrierOh I was thinking you meant to leave it on their thigh while you were talking, do you mean more like a quick touch with the back of the hand? And good point, I know the key to escalating is to be casual and confident but still calibrated so if they’re not really into it you can slow down but I still find it tough - I need to remind myself that if I never escalate they’ll probably get bored sooner or later and ill lose them that way | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | How to be commanding and bold whilst still coming across as chill and easy going?I have adhd and anxiety and I’m probably the most indecisive person you’ll ever meet so yeah it doesn’t come naturally, plus I overthink everything ( I feel like a lot of people under think everything but that’s another story) it’s not a very sexy combination but despite that i can be charming On top of that I’ve misread signals before and that makes me paranoid that maybe they’re not really interested etc And on top of that you got half the women trying to act as independent and masculine as po… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:31 PM |
| -2 | What do I talk about with girl I am seeingYou know your best friend has the personality of a pot plant and is stupid enough to try and water it What do feminists and bicarbonate soda have in common? Both basic both bitter, only good for cooking and cleaning and prone to overreacting and becoming salty I wonder if regular people are just overgrown midgets? Or sorry the vertically differently population Isn’t it funny how drinking overpriced poison or smoking a stick of toxic chemicals is a sign of sophistication Holy shit you have bad ta… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 3 | How to cross the touch barrier1) surely you can’t just place your hand on their thigh whilst you’re talking unless it’s basically confirmed that you’re about to have sex? 2) would it be weird to say that you took a massage course and want someone to give you feedback? Because I’m getting my cousins who’s a masseuse to teach me the ways because I think it’s a handy skill to have in general | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates?On the point of putting up stories etc how much am I hurting myself by having an inactive social media? I just hate it but I realise it’s the best way to build interest in people who don’t know you | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you?What’s an example of a mild sexual or romantic gesture that’s appropriate to use say at a shopping centre or workplace or somewhere where that sort of thing isn’t typically on display? | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you?I feel like most guys would rather date girl B if she was more attractive honestly | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 02:40 AM |
| -3 | If you had no more than a minute to approach and try to get a number how would you go about it?Well isn’t it worth thinking about ahead of time so you can refine your approach to maximise the chances of it going well? The whole point is when I don’t really have time to think in the moment and need to fall back on something But thanks for the tips there | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 8 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Saying you’re rusty is probably better than saying you’re a virgin right? She might be thinking oh god I’m going to have to teach him where the holes are whereas if you’re rusty it makes sense if you don’t last as long or take a while to get into the groove of it | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:27 PM |
| 3 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadIt reminded me that you don’t need to be all calibrated to connect with someone, whether or not it ends up going anywhere I wouldn’t have even gotten that far If I’d tried to be all smooth and manly There are some girls in some situations who respond well to that energy but I find most girls just want a guy who seems genuine | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:47 AM |
| 4 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI think what helped was actually not feeling as though I needed a certain outcome, from the beginning I thought I would just see what happened and I never thought about trying to calibrate myself or act sexy or anything ironically if I had I probably wouldn’t have gotten as far She was in a pretty vulnerable place and I think coming across as calculated would have made her back away | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:30 AM |
| 3 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI think I come across a lot more natural and charismatic when I talk about topics I’m interested in or which seem relevant rather than trying to think of which ones might lead to sex and at least the first time you meet someone I think it should be about establishing trust and rapport and the interest can be communicated via eye contact and body language and tone However with that said do you have any advice for certain topics or questions which aren’t too sexual but aren’t too bland either? | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.That’s my point, I only go once or twice a year to look for books so if I wanted to meet a girl there I would need to go a lot more often and then I would feel slimy | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 01:50 AM |
| 6 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI talked about all those with her yesterday actually besides space, I can’t not. I even told her I have no interest in talking about sport news, trash tv, and superficial bullshit. Life is short and I’d rather not talk at all if that’s going to be the basis of the conversation. Obviously I’ll be polite but if I get the sense that’s all someone is willing or able to talk about I’ll cut it off and find someone better to talk to Some people don’t know how to handle it but the only time I try to sta… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 01:30 AM |
| 3 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadAn we also talked about our jobs, hobbies, goals, world news, politics, drugs and some other topics I just didn’t mention that in the post. I managed to include some innuendos too I remember at one point she said she uses her car horn too much and I said glad to hear you’re a horny lady and she laughed That said I do have a bit of an issue with making the conversation too logical and focused on the information not creating emotion. I can struggle to sexualise a conversation, my approach is to ho… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 01:17 AM |
| 6 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadSorry you can relate to mental illness, ADHD is probably the most destructive one I have but anxiety and depression aren’t fun either. I’ve come along way toward mitigating them between medication and psychotherapy but they’re always lurking in the peripheries. For the longest time I wasn’t even considering a relationship but I’m ready now and I think a healthy relationship could actually provide a huge boost. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 07:01 PM |
| 4 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadThat’s the knee jerk reaction but actually what’s creepy about it? She seemed mature and she seemed interested in me, I’m not trying to force anything on her. Why is it assumed that I’m taking advantage of her somehow even after I explained how we met? You could say damn that’s quite a significant age gap but to say that’s creepy as fuck implies there’s some sort of exploitation going on | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 06:51 PM |
| 8 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadYeah I didn’t believe there were people like that out there until my cousins boyfriend turned abusive after a year and I admit I didn’t see it coming. It’s hard to know with certainty that the apple of your eye doesn’t have a rotten core inside but there are some signs I try to stay mindful of | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:52 PM |
| 19 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadAt least she’s taking charge and addressing her issues, that’s more than I can say about most people | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 22 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI’ve realised almost all my friends are neurodiverse (it still seems like a slightly unintentionally patronising term, j just tell people I’ve got a few disorders lol) In saying that, upon reflection I’m coming to realise that straight laced neuro typical types seem to bore me a bit with how linear the conversations usually are, which isn’t to say they’re boring j | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:44 PM |
| 15 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadYeah she wasn’t extremely mentally Ill or anything just ADHD, I’m more fucked in the head than she is . I’ll message her tomorrow I guess. The only caveat is that I’m 27 and shes 21 but she seemed mature enough | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 03:51 PM |
| 24 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI appreciate the concern but I’m not looking to regularly court women at my psychiatrist , I have ADHD as well and she’s a social worker who seems like a sincerely nice person from what I can tell. I like to think I’m pretty good at detecting and rebuffing attempts at manipulation, I’ve only had one woman try something like that and I cut it off immediately. I’ve always been attune to that sort of bullshit and I think it stems from having enough self respect - most people must know on some level… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How to stay away from logical conversation?People tell me I’m passionate and funny but I tend to talk about a lot of politics, literature, music and topics that aren’t that sexy because I enjoy it - I have managed to go from talking about this to kissing but I feel like I should really be making the conversation more sexual. What are a few question or topics I can bring up? | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:08 AM |
| 10 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Interesting that a grocery store is fine but gym is off limits - the former usually has people in a rush whilst gyms often have people hanging out and making small talk before - after and between sets, but I guess you don’t want things to potentially become uncomfortable between you and another member? Also isn’t visiting a book store simply to hit on women a bit creepy? I only go once or twice a year to browse and that’s not enough opportunity to meet women Lastly why wouldn’t you approach a ma… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 02:12 AM |
| 8 | Best peacocking items for 2022To be fair most guys who do well with women don’t actually bring a lot to the table when the confidence and bravado is removed | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Best peacocking items for 2022If I saw a guy in top hat and goggles I’d assume he’s had a few too many acid benders | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Best peacocking items for 2022An enormous tail of variegated feathers | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up there?Even though it might seem obvious how would you kiss someone in that situation? Or would you just move in with your big slobbering mouth? | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Did I fuck up there?“A bit flirty” by pressing her finger on my lips and telling me she is good in bed lmfao if this is a bit flirty I don’t think I’ve ever had a girl flirt with me | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Getting girls works best when you don't give a sh*tSurely not giving a fuck about social grace and tact and self restraint is off putting to a lot of higher value women right? Any guy can “not give a fuck about anything”, I know a guy from school who’s unemployed and smokes pot all day but surprisingly he doesn’t do too well with the ladies It’s more like being willing to express yourself and confident enough in your opinions but not just being a socially unhinged asshole | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Getting girls works best when you don't give a sh*tThat doesn’t work too well when your authentic self is highly controversial with a very morbid sense of humour though in my experience | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Getting girls works best when you don't give a sh*tThat said if you’re offending over 50% of people you meet it might be time to look in the mirror and wonder if you’re a cunt | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Is seduction supposed to feel mentally exhausting?So in other words it’s still exhausting for you but you can socialise for longer periods of time before you need to recharge? I still generally enjoy it when I’m on besides those days where it’s just not happening for whatever reason | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?Except they’re not half as good at camouflaging their intentions as they seem to think and it feels completely unnecessary in 2022 in the west | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?People with emotional maturity? | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Best place to travel to solo in Europe?Just do a contiki and hope unlike me you get paired with some attractive women because you don’t even need to have any game to sleep with them, on the last night one got naked in my apartment, she was the only cute one on the trip but she also had a partner back home and my best friend was recently cheated on so I told her if she calls and breaks up with her bf right in front of me I’ll sleep with her and she obviously wouldn’t so that was that. Life would be easier without pesky morals | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 07:17 AM |
| -3 | Best place to travel to solo in Europe?He meant for sight seeing and history not carnal pursuits you Neanderthal! | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Is seduction supposed to feel mentally exhausting?Are you not exhausted after? I still get exhausted after a fun party etc but that could be my introversion | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Because when other things are going well I don’t find myself giving much of a shit whether a girl replies to me or stands me up on a date etc | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Is seduction supposed to feel mentally exhausting?I mean having to be more exciting and charming than I ordinarily am when hanging out with friends etc I’m naturally pretty low energy and j don’t think it would cut it with most women at least until they get to know me and definitely not at a party or lively environment | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:42 AM |
| 29 | Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women?What if your interests are reading, writing music and other things that don’t require you to leave the house? The real estate agent who did the last inspection of my property was cute but I can’t rely on that as a way to meet women | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 03:24 AM |
| 4 | Is seduction supposed to feel mentally exhausting?Yeah I feel you but it can be a gamble as to whether a girl I meet online will be fun company and also places where guys traditionally meet women (bars and clubs etc) tire me out so quickly I only have about 3 approaches in my tank then I’m getting the fuck home to watch a documentary or play guitar or something | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I get approached in the club and get told I’m very good looking by women but then don’t secure the bagWouldn’t you say that asking really deep questions is a form of intimacy? Things they might not have been asked in months It doesn’t necessarily get women sexually charged but I always have a deep dive with women on a date (because I hate small talk and I want to see whether they think along the same wavelength as me) after which they become much more attracted to me on an emotional level | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Yeah I’ve written a lot of comedic material including a script for a few episodes of a sitcom and stand up sets but my delivery is shit. I’m too normal and not quirky enough, from Carlin to Gervais most successful comedians have a funny factor to their demeanour but I don’t. Also my sense of humour is dark and absurd, not quite the zany cute stuff that works best with most women In any case it’s the least of my issues But I know some guys who are as funny as a Holocaust reel and yet they’re swim… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it necessary or helpful to turn the conversation sexual when you’re escalating or not?Could you give me an example of a flirt? I tend to put pressure on myself to make it really charming and clever but I’m pretty sure most guys are being a lot more blunt and crass than I am and it’s working for them | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 4 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?I’m not sure it is that easy to learn how to be genuinely funny. It takes a huge amount of preparatory work learning trivia and pop culture and shit to expand your reference base and comedic timing and even then some peoples minds just don’t operate quickly enough to be considered witty, some people are really linear thinkers and so on but we can all strive to reach our potential at least | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Chemistry is just physical and emotional attraction anyone is it not? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 4 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?It’s a sad reflection that someone is to be commended for operating with basic decency but I think you’re right that most abusers aren’t actually calculated as they’re sometimes made out to be, and they have never learned how to have a healthy relationship. I think things are changing for the better as well (I mean a few generations back a woman was completely dependent on her husband and couldn’t divorce, my grandparents had an arranged marriage and so on) hopefully it continues on this traject… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 09:50 AM |
| -2 | Is it necessary or helpful to turn the conversation sexual when you’re escalating or not?Well escalation isn’t just foreplay it can begin from the moment you meet them right? And how do you bring up sex talk? One moment you’re talking about dogs and then you just ask them what their favourite sex position is? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Yeah a lot of the time it’s based on healthy connection but I know some smart educated attractive women (including my cousin) who end up with guys that everybody knows are bad news, and sometimes they can even recognise it, and that’s what always shocks me. We usually accept the love we think we deserve, so there must be a lot of bitterly insecure people in the world even those who seem to have a lot going for them. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:05 AM |
| 9 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Well I’m not about to exploit some deep seated issues to get them interested in me I’m not an asskisser and I’ll argue and debate my opinions but treating someone mean to keep them keen because they were emotionally deprived as a child or are addicted to emotional thrills or whatever is fucked up and the fact it’s so common is what astounds me | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itDo you think greater transparency online plus calling out predatory behaviour had something to do with it? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itWhat if you don’t have social media because the world of online showboating and insincerity sickens you? How much more difficult is it to meet and connect without social media? I’ve been thinking about deleting or deactivating it but it does help to serve as an assurance that I’m not a serial killer, | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Don’t stress about the perfect opener. If she’s chill or has any decent social skills at all, then it doesn’t matter.That’s 80% of women out the window in my experience For the best perhaps but still | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:31 AM |
| 2 | it really isn't difficult.They want attention until they’ve got it in my experience | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:30 AM |
| 0 | I give upWhilst it did have some valuable insights I think it made things feel more complicated not because it was full of sneaky little schemes like The game but because I would actually get more stuck in my head wondering whether I was being authentic and whether I was thinking with my dick or compromising my goals both long and short term for women etc | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:27 AM |
| 2 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?I don’t think this attracts women in that they literally see you leading a group as much as enhance your self efficacy and self esteem | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Remember, the most important trait to work on is your weakest.Or just be a possessive deadbeat, that seems to work for a lot of guys too | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:04 AM |
| 34 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?But it always astounds me how women can be so cold to people they don’t know and then randomly get so devoted to a guy who apparently treats them like crap / has nothing special about him | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsHow many kidneys have you got? Also how do you have sex with someone who you can’t really communicate with? I guess she was communicative in other ways? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:01 PM |
| 8 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"If you’re getting that you’re probably not connecting too well with them, unless it’s said with a cheeky undertone | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:59 PM |
| 9 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?I guess that advice is true “to get her you have to be willing to lose her” which seems counterintuitive in the age of dating app’s especially but more I think about it the more I realise it’s accurate, at least with most women | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?I’ve never had anyone define it or give examples that don’t seem sociopathic and unnatural though | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:52 AM |
| 8 | Tinder Rant from ex-PUA. OG PUAApparently you have the literacy of a 12 year old so that might be working against you as well | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:50 AM |
| 5 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayApparently I’ve had like 2 women interested in me in my entire life lmfao | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:45 AM |
| 0 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?Pretty narrow - it’s hard to explain exactly what it is that I find attractive (I guess something like tanned and sort of exotic looking with a particular physique) basically I’ll be able to take one glance at a woman and know immediately if I’m attracted, and it’s not like I can be a bit attracted it’s either there or it’s not. I’ve tried dating someone I wasn’t so into hoping it would build up over time because she was really lovely but that just ended up being a disappointment for both of us … | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?But what if you almost never have people chasing you because you do most your dating online where they ball is always in the woman’s court? I’m not a bad and club guy snd don’t meet anyone through work so it’s not easy | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?Oh right I assumed that was just how people flirted ( that is by not smothering the other person) | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?I do love latinas but it seems a bit extreme moving somewhere just for this plus I don’t want to exploit them Some women are definitely spoiled though - I know one who just used dating apps to get free meals | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?When I think back though maybe 50% of women I had dates with weren’t straight forward to the point where they said they were busy when I suggested a day so I had to suggest another one then another one and eventually dragged them out on a date - and quite often they would be really interested on the date as though it was some sort of test that I had to pass If I pulled her plug on every woman who didn’t match my effort I wold only have like one date every 6 months I don’t know why this is, I don… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:53 AM |
| 3 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?I’m only really attracted to about 1 in 30 women so the abundance approach doesn’t work so well for me | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:47 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?But also after sex things often shift in the man’s favour because women are more inclined to want to keep him around especially with the old social stigma that still exists a bit | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?Good to know there are women like you out there, it seems that the types im physically attracted to usually don’t share your appreciation for intellect or at least not the ones I’ve met but i can’t see myself actually entering a relationship with someone who doesn’t value intellect and learning and debating, it’s another layer that makes things even harder really | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?So basically if that’s not there from the start is going to be really difficult to build that unless you do something seriously heroic or which would completely shift her perception of you? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?Is this the hot and cold shit? I’ve never understood how that works in practice. I saw an infield video of it and it seemed sociopathic and unnatural, he would be complimenting her then go quiet and say something slightly rude, I felt second hand cringe just watching it even if it does work Or do you mean more like you’re escalating then you stop and talk about music for a while without trying to escalate or anything so it’s not as obvious what you’re doing | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:45 AM |
| 5 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?I’d only have about a date every 6 months if I did that (I’ve got high standards too) but I mean yeah maybe that’s a better approach ultimately I feel like quite often though when I have a date then the tables turn and the girl ends up chasing me after because I’m better in person than over text so sometimes I do what I can to get her on a date | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 15 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?A woman who gets 30 matches a day is going to play hard to get regardless of what I do though | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Is there anything a guy can to do eliminate last minute reservations she might have? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I love him so much but...I understand it but I still don’t understand it You’re an attractive successful intelligent woman, why are you with an unemployed abusive lying scumbag? If your trauma bonding and internalised worthlessness is that strong then you should be undergoing intense psychotherapy and psychiatric intervention because you’re a completely broken human being But it’s so common it’s ridiculous | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to standout to women who have options besides just being very handsomeDo women actually prefer a loudmouth extrovert who talks shit? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation?How necessary is it to actually talk about sex before having it? I don’t know if I ever really have - I think I just have them come over and we’re taking about stuff on the couch and then we’re kissing | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation?What do you mean describe what you would do to her? So you’re on a first date and suddenly you’re saying baby id love to suck those nipples whilst sliding a finger into your dripping wet pussy as you grab my rock hard dick blah blah blah I feel like that wouldn’t be necessary unless you’re sexting which wouldn’t really be necessary until after you’ve had sex? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 16 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayWhat if she apologises but doesn’t reschedule, would you bother? It’s easy to say oh move on but it’s not everyday or every month I have a date prospect with someone I find very attractive | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 01:59 AM |
| 18 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?But how often does a woman suddenly have an epiphany that the guy she’s been playing hard to get with is actually really great and worth pursuing? I don’t think a girl has ever spontaneously become interested in me like that, only after I’ve sent her something or given her a reason to | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?How would you demonstrate this say with online dating? I think my weird interests and tendency to disappear for a day or two and my slightly unorthodox way of writing probably unintentionally ticks that box. I’ve never known exactly what’s meant by mystery besides making women work to get information out of you rather than laying all your cards on the table | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Navigating the platinum ruleI’ve regretted approaching once or twice but that’s mainly because they overreacted and made it weird when I saw them again, but regretted not approaching too… I think it’s worth just approaching to have a chat and if they seem interested then go from there, so it doesn’t feel so calculated | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you?A random question but when you say your game is pretty tight these days what would you say is the single biggest change either mentally or practically that helped you the most? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:40 PM |
| 7 | Thailand a bad idea?Do they just want money or what? Latina women are unbelievably attractive, why would they need to render themselves to your average yank tourist other than money or marriage? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 9 | Thailand a bad idea?Besides being a bit of fun does the confidence actually translate back home? I think I’d enjoy It at the time but maybe feel a bit dirty and pathetic on the flight home | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Worry less about 'rejection' on cold approachAny man who approaches 21 women in a day is not someone to be admired because at this point any courage is outweighed by horniness ego and desperation in my view | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Worry less about 'rejection' on cold approachIf you were truly outcome independent you probably wouldn’t spend your time approaching women on the street though | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 9 | Nine tips for improving your conversation and social skillsWhat If you have no trouble talking to the fat dude with the beard about axe throwing but the thought of approaching the 10/10 makes you queasy, and you know that if you drink any more you’ll be a write off? How do you steady yourself so that you’re not conveying the most stiff and uncomfortable version of yourself? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoThing is I’m only attracted to about 2% of women so I try to make it worth with them even when it becomes obvious they aren’t really interested because chances are I won’t meet another one I’m into for a few weeks at least and I guess part of me doesn’t want to accept that it’s not working out. I know it’s stupid but it’s not as easy for me as “just take 2 steps to the right and approach the next girl” | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoIs that for women who are somewhat interested in you but not majorly so they’re keeping you on the back burner and you need to put in a bit of time and effort to get them out on a date because they’re not going to pull their weight at least until they meet you? Did he give any more advice about how to deal with these sorts of women? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoWould you cut someone off if you make say two attempts to meet up and they say they can’t but don’t try to suggest a day themselves? Because that’s at least 50% of women too | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoOnly a few of them because no matter how hot a girl is I’m not gonna fuck her if she annoys me so this method isn’t great because you end up wasting a lot of time but just for the principle of it it goes to show that sometimes being the simp will at least get some women out on a date | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoI almost never have women reply fast to me, even the ones I’ve had a date with. Idk if that’s a reflection on the way I talk to them or what bur ever even if I Reply quickly they’ll take at least a day so I mirror that | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoYeah honestly I had a time when I would literally plan the best possible messages for them in my notes and what time to message and would go to places just to get photos to send them etc and what do you know I was having a lot more dates… only most people are as boring irl as they are over text… and they always happen to be the really attractive ones | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:34 PM |
| 4 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoIn second half of 2020 I went simp mode and did whatever it took to get a girl on a date even driving to places just to send them a cool Snap and shit. I felt like an idiot so it wasn’t worth it but I went on about 20 dates (most women were boring af tbf) , cant say it doesn’t help tho if you just want quantity over quality | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoExactly, so why do we keep seeing it in relation to dating apps when there’s no real investment yet? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 6 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoInteresting approach. I did that once too almost out of pure frustration with someone who ghosted me after we’d been talking a while “Hope I didn’t give the vibe of a guy who’d get mad if you told him you weren’t interested, but in any case I take it you’re not so yeah I wish ya all the best” and she ended up replying saying sorry been busy blah blah but she’d gone over a week without replying at that point. On that point tho I regularly take a day or two or three to reply to people unless we ha… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:16 PM |
| -1 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoSo do most women dramatically overestimate their value then, because I’ve had girls who are comparably way worse looking than me act like a queen and expect me to treat them like one How can a guy exude the image that he’s higher value than her? If he’s cool and distant early on she will probably just find another guy ime | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”Well ask a woman if she would appreciate a guy coming up and asking her to coffee immediately when she’s at work or having lunch with her family or something and 90% will say nah (unless he’s extremely attractive/ charming) | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”Of course but you should have a little interaction first to know if you even have any compatibility and on the 2nd point in the post I do not believe it is high value to scamper over to a woman at work and request her phone number that’s taking advantage of how she’s supposed to be polite to you and how she can’t leave even if she’s feeling uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”I get the impression from your comments that you wolf whistle as girls walk past or straight up grope them ex president style If you don’t think walking up and asking for someone’s number when they’re at work is a direct approach you’re probably not fit to be giving anyone advice | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”Well then girls aren’t very good judges of value either because there’s nothing self respecting about soliciting a woman with a date when you haven’t even got any gauge on her personality and are put your urge to have your dick sucked ahead of other peoples comfort. It takes more fortitude to restrain yourself in certain situations than to give in to your impulses. The thing that inspired me to write this was a girl who was having brunch with her family when a guy walked over and said hey you’re… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”I should have clarified in the post that I was referring to guys who run over ask a woman out in one breath - I’ve heard women talking abort how uncomfortable this makes them and it’s not wonder it doesn’t work very often I know what you mean though, people here act like you become stronger every time you’re rejected but I think they’re lying to themselves | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”I mean you probably won’t be thinking “gee I wish I spend more time running around asking women for their numbers like a dog chasing cars” more like “I wish I had followed through with my passion for photography, I wish I gave Naomi another chance, I wish I had moved to Canada when I had the opportunity” | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | First thing to realise.Thanks that’s actually quite insightful I suppose while I consider myself to have pretty strong conversational skills I struggle to small talk about nothing - when I’m with friends I’m nearly always talking about something of substance but that would seem too intense and socially inept during a cold approach however I’m just not very comfortable at talking about superficial stuff for long, for instance talk of earrings would go to body modification in general then to say African tribes with extr… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”I thought this place was interested in building value not just running around madly flinging shit at the wall and seeing what sticks | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”Asking someone out before they have even opened their mouth indicates that you don’t really care for their personality so the only need being met is getting ones dick wet. Maybe that boldness is attractive to a few women but it’s not “high value” behaviour | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”So the only way to initiate a conversation with a woman is by saying “hey you’re really cute so If you’re single I was wondering if I could get your number so we could get coffee sometime”? That’s the comment I saw regarded as strong and confident, at a girls workplace. Maybe it’s better than noting but it’s also desperate and puts the woman in an uncomfortable position | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | What does confidence mean to you?Respecting and valuing yourself regardless of the outcomes is what people should be aiming for I think | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.I wasn’t aware that the only alternative to a slimy womanising deadbeat is a sheltered vanilla loser You understand you’re justifying deceptive behaviour by defending the game? What’s so bad about the deadbeat getting the girl? Because guys like that are much more likely to end up emotionally manipulating and abusing women and if you don’t see that as a problem that says something about you | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.The issues is these games have cheat codes. Some deadbeat could push the right buttons and next thing you know she’s vying for his attention when in reality he’s an ambitionless abusive loser, you see it time and time and time again. We should be smart enough to challenge the idiotic part of ourselves that says “oh wow he’s acting quite interested in me therefore he must not have many options therefore I better not settle for him” by saying “actually no everything I know about his so far indicat… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.I’m more interested to know how you made a woman orgasm 5 times on a one night stand | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 16 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.This is why I fucking hate courtship. We’re grown ass adults we shouldn’t need to play these juvenile head games | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.I just say it casually I’ll say I’m on antidepressants casually I’ll say I have adhd casually I’ll say I lived at home until 26 casually Most girls don’t seem to care when you’re so nonchalant about it, sometimes it’s a relief so they can stop putting on an act as well, and if they do then they can go fuck themselves | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 03:17 AM |
| 16 | First thing to realise.That’s the bloody thing. I’ve yet to see a post here that actually goes into depth about what to talk about with a stranger if there isn’t a natural topic of conversation which there usually isn’t. Say you comment on their fashion (which seems a bit questionable to me), and suppose they take it well and laugh… then what? Are you supposed to ask if they shop here very often or how their day is going? Do you ask them what their favourite food is or whether they prefer dogs or cats or what their fa… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | is your goal one woman or multiple?Multiple is always better in fantasy than reality I realised I don’t even like dating multiple women in a week, it’s exhausting and something about it just doesn’t really sit right with me | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayWell that’s the thing, I’ve had my moves backfire a few times when I thought they would be appreciated, plus I’ve heard my female friends talk about their uncomfortable experiences on dates so now I’m paranoid about making women uncomfortable but then I fail to escalate and I end up sabotaging myself anyway and they probably get disappointed. How would you act if she really wasn’t responding well to your moves or she told you she doesn’t want to move that quickly? And do you have any suggestions… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayHow sexual are you during the cold approach? I love a good conversation but yeah obviously I’d like to get intimate as well and sometimes excessive conversation can work against that end Say you’re on a first date at a restaurant/bar, are you asking them questions about themselves or telling stories that demonstrated desirable qualities, or are you being really sexually forward and turning everything into a sexual innuendo and touching them etc? I don’t really know how forward I should be becaus… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayFair enough, can I ask would your approach here differ if you just wanted to have Sex with her versus if she seemed like someone you saw a future with? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayWhat do you talk about in 5 minutes? I understood the longer the initial interaction the more likely they are to actually follow through and meet up again because it builds more familiarity and trust But I’m not about to try to sleep with a married woman anyway and hope you wouldn’t either | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Strangest cold approach of my life today1) what do you generally talk about? Are there any topics you go to or stay away from? 2) how about a first date, do you think they should be a long and in depth or do you think they should be kept short just to give them a taste of you? I guess it depends whether it’s set up as more of a one night stand type of arrangement or more of a potential relationship? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 15 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayYeah I understand that but It was a nice interaction so it doesn’t feel like a waste of time I try not to look at life as though it’s separate into things that waste time and things that are of value, I think there’s something to be gained from all of these experiences | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayIt seems like most women enjoy someone who they’re on the same wavelength with, so even if their partner doesn’t provide that they look for it elsewhere… the question is why not just find a guy who is on their wavelength? Why not just find an attractive capable man who they also have interesting conversation with? What’s the benefit of being with a man who’s brusque and emotionally withdrawn and why is that still considered attractive in 2022 when everyone knows that it’s really just a signal of… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?They also do it because guys often react when the gild they’re talking to politely tells them that she’s no longer interested | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Naturally quiet and low energy guys have you managed to make it work for you?It’s hard when you’re at a club / bar or loud party though - you have to stand out in these places or people look past you | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 0 | How can I get a deeper and nice soothing voice?https://youtu.be/cr0Q7fPI98o Do heroin | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Attractive guysAh yes I like to use the sausage trick on ladies too. “Why does my sausage have hair and veins on it?” | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 04:49 AM |
| 0 | She said i talk too muchWhat if they’re boring as fuck and you don’t particularly care about anything they have to say though | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?Yeah I guess I just feel vulnerable giving a direct flirt without the wit to soften it or I feel like it may make her more uncomfortable but I think this mindset is hurting my chances of connecting with women on that level as well | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?I guess I overestimate how witty you need to be to flirt. I should know better given that I have made a post asking this subreddit to give me their best flirty line and they were all abysmal, yet they apparently worked, so it goes to show how non verbal language is far more important. I’m not one to naturally offer compliments either so I need to remind myself that it’s not slimy to compliment someone’s style or a tattoo or something. Just today the manager at the shaver store had a very obscure… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?How do you build so much comfort and sexual tension in 5 minutes? Don’t women take time to warm up to guys and wouldn’t you come across a bit desperate if you’re trying to get with them immediately? It seems like a lot of the advice contradicts itself | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?But what makes that sexy and not sleazy ? Is it just whether she finds him attractive ? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?Good tips I still don’t really know how to intentionally flirt with someone, I only seem to be able to do it if it arises naturally otherwise I feel like a bit of a slime especially if it’s a cashier or something. What would be an example of a flirt that’s appropriate for someone at work? And I’ll try going more slowly although I try edging when I masturbate all that seems to go out the window when I have my dick inside someone who I find sexy | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?But besides from eye contact and body language what does give someone sexual energy from the moment they walk into the room? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?That sounds like a fair analysis My 2 sticking points are 1) I’m only attracted to about 5% or less of women so it’s hard to have an abundance mindset when there’s only about one or two girls in the pub or club that you’re into. I tend to then act unnatural around these girls and it backfires on me 2) I can’t last longer than about 2 mins in bed no matter what things I try so I can use my fingers and my tongue but if they a marathon they’re going to be disappointed | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersManson and Roch therault did alright with the ladies | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?Bloody hell am I the only guy on earth who thinks some belly fat on a woman is sexy? Weird how guys love a girl with huge tits and ass ( which are just fat in most cases if not implants) but they get grossed if a girl doesn’t have an invisible waist. I get seriously turned off if a girl has abs even though I’m a gym guy But yeah I’ll try to work on my non verbal language but I feel like it’s a certain look in someone’s eye or the way they move and it’s not that easy to learn, there were guys who… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get seen in a sexual light immediately by most women whilst others don’t?Where do you draw the line between being comfortable and being a guy who feels like he’s entitled to sleep with women or doesn’t care if he makes them feel uncomfortable in public? Or in other words what exactly do you mean by comfortable? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 06:53 PM |
| 9 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersDick brained peacock | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | I suck at flirting in a pub settingWhat do you talk about with a girl at bar? Topics like work, study, news, what she’s drinking seem too boring. Topics like interests and passions or their views on things seem too personal for someone you’ve just met in a bar Sexual topics seem too slimy I’m not even a bad conversationalist I just have no idea what to talk about at a bar or club | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:41 AM |
| 3 | I suck at flirting in a pub settingWell that’s a catch-22 isn’t it? You need to believe you can get girls by proving it by getting a lot of girls, but in order to get girls you need to believe that you can get girls | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:37 AM |
| 9 | I suck at flirting in a pub settingSee I’ll go out, shoot my shot, get nothing then head home and jack off, I probably jack off every 2nd day, and never really realised that could be killing my desire to flirt with women. Obviously you still need to be subtle and respectful and can’t just come at them like a horny demon though | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 243 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersThis just confirms that clubbing is all about peacocking and being extremely high energy… not my scene at all | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How to demonstrate lust for a girl in a way that’s respectful?I’ve seen it with every couple I’m friends with at some point so clearly there is a desire that most women have it be boldly flirted with if they feel comfortable with someone. I’m not going to go around squeezing random girls asses if that’s what you’re concerned about. Also when would you put your hand on the small of her back? That seems like couples behaviour to me not something I would think to do the first time I met someone. Also, when you say get in their personal space do you mean sit n… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How to demonstrate lust for a girl in a way that’s respectful?I wonder if he really just wants to show me his goldfish with 3 eyes or if this is just a sly contrivance to create plausible deniability before he initiates foreplay with me 🤔 But good points Although I actually like some subtle flirting as well, I’m not a guy who just sees boobs and wants to jump her bones | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | How to demonstrate lust for a girl in a way that’s respectful?You see couples do it all the time so evidently they do. Probably not by a guy they hardly no admittedly but it was just a crass example of an extreme flirty move. Point taken though | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:54 PM |
| 3 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)You think a gymmed out skinny girl will make you happy or you just want to sneakily take a video of yourself fucking her so you can send it to the boys and get respect? Imagine how insecure you’ll feel being with a girl who gets hit on every time she leaves the house as well | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 11:30 AM |
| 3 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?What do you mean by basic conversation? I’m never sure what to say after opening. I don’t want to ask boring questions about how their day is going but I don’t want to ask really personal ones either. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:39 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of bad boysThat sounds a bit like trauma blunted emotions / ptsd though , when I had a really bad drug trip and tried to kill myself that left me without feeling much emotion for a year I was able to do anything without anxiety but I couldn’t experience positive emotion either so it was terrible | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meLove is just friendship + sexual attraction and they’re both based on criteria we don’t have much control over plus there are no soul mates, just people who seem to check most of our boxes, so find someone you enjoy being with and find sexy and that’s enough. Unfortunately so far it’s been that if I enjoy being with someone I don’t tend to find them sexy and If I find them hot I usually don’t like their personality but I’ll keep looking | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meDo you think every guy should try to have a player phase to get that out of his system or do you think that’s unnecessary? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | How to be “mysterious” the right way?Is it fair to say that she has to have a high degree of initial interest for a mysterious approach to have any chance at working in your favour? To me being evasive like that is just a matter of being a fun conversationalist too, I never just give a straight answer when they ask what I do | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to be “mysterious” the right way?It seems like a fine line between being intriguing or being a red flag | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:22 AM |
| 2 | How to be “mysterious” the right way?Unless you’re Harry styles how the fuck would this work? | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | AMOG WHAT DOES IT MEANS ?You’re familiar with MOG, well this is an automatic one | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you seen a move like this?I’ve seen a man lie on his back and piss into his own mouth but this is almost worse | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Next move?Now I think you’re a complete imbecile | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Next move?I think you’re a bit of an imbecile Stop playing games and just meet up with her, if she doesn’t want to then you’ll find out sooner and can move on | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | What kind of girl do you think is the girl elaborated below?You can be her wallet :) | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I make my texting less boring?In my experience across hundred of matches women don’t take well to being asked out within a few messages no matter how witty you are,unless it’s a Friday night most will unmatch or never reply because they get the sense that you’re extremely thirsty or just spamming messages to every girl you can, there’s seem to be a sweet spot between about 10-15 messages, if you’ve had rapport But also it has to match your character offline too, if you’re not someone who tries to make everything that comes o… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I only ever seem to get anywhere with women who are 110% into me from the startWho would you say is the biggest slimeball in the industry? Have any of them been charged with harassment or rape or anything before? I don’t know much about the industry but I know that many of them slithered over to the life coach farce when they realised times were changing and guys were actually facing consequences for sleazy tactics. Like that Neil strauss or whoever wrote the game then basically renounced it and wrote some Moralising book about the value of being faithful and shit try to a… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | I only ever seem to get anywhere with women who are 110% into me from the startThat’s just pathetic and almost harassment Why is he trying to teach people to be persistent with women who aren’t interested in them anyway? That’s a good way to get their confidence destroyed and possibly get a glass smashed in their face or thrown out by security | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:29 AM |
| 5 | Think she’s mad coz I made her give me head?Well going by your story you pressured a drunk girl into doing something she apparently didn’t want to do and don’t seem to see anything wrong with it | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Governments worldwide should ban Tinder and similar appsIt would require a mass deflation event of all the average women (either appearance or being boring and uneducated) who’s egos have been inflated by the apps so that they become interested in average guys again | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | I only ever seem to get anywhere with women who are 110% into me from the startTodd V claims he does it a lot He even says sometimes the girls will laugh and keep walking and he will reintroduce himself and say oh you must not have heard me properly, I’m Todd and then ends up having Sex… I call absolute bullshit on it though | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Think she’s mad coz I made her give me head?Could it be because you’re a piece of shit? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:00 AM |
| 2 | What are ways to "game" girls within friend groups without appearing creepy?What’s an example to a flirt? All the ones I’ve read here are pretty inept so I’m wondering if they do even need to be witty or if I’m just over complicating things | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Talking to girls on the phone is super underratedI don’t even call my best friend on the phone how tf am I gonna be charming with a woman I’ve never met | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekI’m glad this worked for you but I think only a very particular type of girl would respond well to a guy they just met having a therapy session with her | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?Then what? Give her a slimy compliment or make boring of conversation about gym shit? If she hasn’t finished she’s not going to want to talk for long | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:36 AM |
| 6 | I only ever seem to get anywhere with women who are 110% into me from the startHave you not read the posts here? Most of the bragging is from guys who managed to pull girls who were cold and uninterested at first because they think that’s a demonstration of how advanced their game is I don’t want that but I do want to get better at it with girls who are slightly interested so I’m not just limited to the girls who show lots of interest immediately | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:07 PM |
| 3 | I only ever seem to get anywhere with women who are 110% into me from the startYeah I definitely struggle with opening unless there’s some natural segue… that’s why a lot of my successes are with girls from volunteering, Class, a friends event etc where I’m not having to trot over to a strangers and try to hook her with some random drivel. I’ve seen some in field videos but I just can’t imagine myself opening that way, maybe I’m still in validation seeking and not self amusing enough but I don’t like making people uncomfortable either if I can help it, yet I realise that I… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?By knowing what your worth - knowing that tho you may be more likely to get rejected, it’s ultimately their loss because you’re a respectful, intelligent, funny, interesting person whos always trying to improve etc - most people are not. If you’re not than become someone who is | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:29 AM |
| 3 | How did I fumble all girls last nightWhy are we giving kudos to teenage fantasy bullshit that involves no forethought and lying? It’s not brave it’s being desperate to have Sex | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why has cold approaching such a bad reputition?That’s true but wouldn’t you say it’s still important to have a bit of a gameplan? I’ve had fun interactions with women but had no idea how to move it to anything more so it stayed platonic until it reached the point where thats all it could be In other words you had success just being yourself / having fun because you had the fundamentals down? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:53 PM |
| 8 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?As the saying goes, dating for modern man is akin to seeking water in a desert, whilst dating for modern women is like trying to find clean water in a swamp. Most women receive such a comparatively high volume of offers they can afford to be picky: especially in the age of dating apps, the average guy doesn’t often even qualify for the average girl, unless he has a way to get his foot in the door such as by working together and thus spending a lot of time together. The top 5-10% of men have thei… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 3 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?The moment she mentions boyfriend you turn and briskly walk away | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | What are Some Good Conversation Fillers Right After Opening ?I struggle with this too It’s not a date so I don’t want to ask all these personal questions and that feels a bit socially inept but also I want to ask a few questions to figure out if I even like her enough to ask for her number All I can say is when it flows I don’t even think about what to say so I just try to focus on people who bring that out and cut it off with the ones who make it all feel like a chore | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.OLD doesn’t need to take that much energy, you could just get a few good photos, set strict preferences and just check it 5 minutes every evening but don’t rely on it | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Some highly practical advice wouldn’t hurt here every now and thenWhat would you consider the fundamentals though? I think I probably do actually have a strong enough understanding of how to open, how to escalate physically and logistically but adapting it to the situation and executing it is where the trouble lies Maybe at this point putting more info into my head isn’t what I need - rather just forcing myself to get out there and put it into practice | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Some highly practical advice wouldn’t hurt here every now and thenTo be fair I’ve watched a lot by Todd v and one of the rsd guys and whilst they offer some helpful tips their style makes my skin crawl a bit, it’s so different to my natural personality and approach and often seems slimy as fuck, I’m dumbfounded that it works but hey Ted bundy got more love letters in prison than most of us will ever get. It’s not just that they’re more confident it’s that if I heard someone talking like that to my sister I would beat the shit out of them I guess I could try to… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Some highly practical advice wouldn’t hurt here every now and thenThat’s practical advice I had never really considered haha I just go with whoever’s available usually which is very few of my friends since most of them are in long term relationships. Going out solo has worked out ok a few times but for the most part I don’t find it enjoyable and it’s way harder to talk to women in a group at least until like 1am when you can say your friends went home and it sounds reasonable I know I mentioned clubs but I’ve never loved clubs and loud bars anyway since I exce… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.Porque lo nos dos? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice for sexting / dirty talking with someone newHow so? That’s the way my friend said he does it and it seems to work. How else are you suppose to go from normal conversation to exchanging nude photos or talking about how you want to fuck them? I don’t really but sometimes women want to do it before meeting up I’ve noticed I meant over text. How would you build tension over messages? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice for sexting / dirty talking with someone newOh | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | A guide on how to (and how not to) use humourYeh I don’t actually know why tf I made this post | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:11 PM |
| 3 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?Where do they learn about proper foreplay techniques and erogenous zones? About cunnilingus and g + a spot fingering? About various sex positions that allow for the stimulation of different parts of her clitoris? About womens orgasmic taste and squirting and types of orgasms? Different thrusting techniques etc Porn is a load of shit, school doesn’t teach you anything, dads are too awkward, friends just talk about doggy style and in my experience most women don’t offer great feedback and will oft… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?Can you elaborate on blah blah blah I don’t know how to take clothes off in a way that’s remotely sexy | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 06:49 AM |
| 28 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?Another question I have is: how the fuck does the average guy just know how to escalate with women? Most guys I meet have no charm or sexy charisma yet they’re out there fucking women. I guess they just go for it and don’t overthink things but still I wonder where people learn this | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?If I listened to my body I would be serving time in prison | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 06:41 AM |
| 2 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?I need a partner who’s happy to debate about the morality to atomic bombing in World War II though, for casual Sex I don’t really care as much but if I’m going to spend my life with someone I want them to also enjoy learning and discussing things I know that rules out 95% of women | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?Yeah that seems like a different atmosphere to my gym but It was still well played on your part I once got talking with this beautiful girl at my gym who looked a lot like Emilia Clarke and I thought we were hitting it off, then a guy walks past and kisses her… it was her fiancé, but then we talked about work and it turns out they just started a disability support company and I was able to build a website for them, and I might end up working with them again since I’m studying community services … | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?I think you hit the nail on the head with the last part actually | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?I’ve tried all sorts of methods to stop my over analysis of everything and at this point I might just stab a screwdriver through my eye socket to see if I can give myself a lobotomy | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?Do you think their raw sexual energy and tendency to blurt out whatever they’re thinking is more attractive to some women? I try to prolong the sexual undertones without revealing my hand but I suppose if a woman is just looking to get fucked than a simple approach might work Also should be noted that these guys are pretty good looking, I don’t think an ugly and dumb guy would have much of a chance | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?But that was more that you happened to see her in the gym trying to do something right, I see what you mean though I’ve passed up a few opportunities to approach women in the gym because I thought it was off limits and didn’t want to make things uncomfortable since that was my closest gym but in hindsight I wish I had approached Did you just teach her then ask for her number, get her on a date and have Sex with her or did you go have Sex in the gym bathroom or something? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?The guys I had in mind when I wrote this speak like they’ve had a stroke so all they have going for then is there looks, which I suppose is enough when combined with their raw sexual energy | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?But some of these guys I know who say they get girls are the least sexy people you’ll ever meet they just speak in a monotone and there’s no wit or charisma, all the attraction must be because they’re decent looking and I guess technically they still escalate even if they’re as smooth as sandpaper | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?1) Do you mean warmed her up by physically touching her? I mean it when I say I know some guys who talk like caveman so unless just saying “fuck you’re hot I wanna fuck you so bad” is enough then I don’t know how they would do it 2) what would be an example of a dirty joke? Do you mean like “what’s the difference between oral and anal? One makes your day while the other one makes your hole weak” or something more like dirty talk? 3) Do you set boundaries by talking about them or by going slowly … | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.A lot of young mums are sexy but that doesn’t change anything I said lol | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:43 AM |
| 4 | I f***king love rejection.Nobody should love rejections unless your plan was just to ask a woman out with no intention to take it any further. But I guess this mindset is healthier than being petrified of rejection | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:40 AM |
| 0 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.The examples I see her and in field videos always make me cringe because they’re so blunt and tactless but apparently that’s what works? Women in North America did seem a lot more up for talking to strangers than my country (Australia) though | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:31 AM |
| 4 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.Ted Bundy received more love letters than any of us will | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:16 AM |
| 11 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.Surely just get a vacuum cleaner and stick some raw chicken to the nozzle | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.Moral of the story; Attractive men stop putting your dick in less attractive women and jack off instead. You’ll stop inflating their ego, give less attractive guys a chance, and not risk pregnancy or std. Plus if you’re really high value you wouldn’t give in to the urge to have sex with women you’re hardly attracted to | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:13 AM |
| 6 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.Do they? Most of them seem to get flustered and annoyed here | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understandIs that why Ted Bundy received more love letters than most of us ever will? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | 1st date tomorrow. We're getting Smoothies and going up the street to a park to catch the sunset. Unsure what I should do hereRemove a few ribs that way you never have to deal with subhumans again | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | What’s the ideal balance of friendliness to romance to fun?I mainly use reddit to procrastinate or when I’m bored so I probably ask the same questions, partly to get a discussion going as well I do read the responses but probably don’t internalise them enough Also I overthink everything if it wasn’t obvious.. I’m trying to challenge it.. I might delete reddit for a while | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | How are some guys so good at getting girls talking?I mean I don’t want to ask them generic questions, I’d rather ask them who their favourite serial killer is and their craziest experience involving alcohol or drugs etc but there’s a line between too boring and too weird which I’m cautious of overstepping Also most flirting I’ve heard is lame as fuck (including all the examples of flirting I’ve seen posted here) like its either some Michael cera esque endearing crap or it sounds sleazy like the dialogue from the intro of a porno but I think I’m … | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | How are some guys so good at getting girls talking?Should I stop screaming at them? But seriously I have a strong deep voice so I’m not sure what else I should do? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:55 AM |
| 2 | How are some guys so good at getting girls talking?Yeah It just seems to contradict the whole mysterious badboy bullshit that women also seem drawn toward because those guys exude the opposite of trust and comfort The other issue is that any questions I ask feel so generic and I convince myself that they’re just going to come across as annoying, I guess it will if she’s not interested in you whatsoever. And I still don’t understand flirting during daytime - it wouldn’t feel right to use a cheesy pick up line or some bullshit about how distractin… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:41 AM |
| 14 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?No more idiotic than players who spend their entire lives thinking with their dick | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 05:29 AM |
| 20 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?I know at least 2 couples who have been together since they were 15 and every time I’ve seen them they’ve appeared happy together, maybe deep down they do wish they had tried sleeping around more but I think all things considered their life has probably been happier than that of a player or someone who bounces from partner to partner, even if they are improving themselves in the process I was just playing devils avocado anyway | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 05:27 AM |
| 8 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?But don’t love yourself so much that you’re unwilling to change or improve | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:33 AM |
| 7 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?What do guys mean when they say “treat her like a queen?” To me that has connotations of showering women in roses and chocolates and shit I just treat women like I would anyone else I respect (plus intimacy obviously) | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:31 AM |
| 16 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?What about those guys who marry a girl they met in high school and don’t regret it ? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:28 AM |
| 2 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Most players only apply the 1st one | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidJust a reference to a joke or conversation we have had e.g one girl did crochet so I said something about how she must have passed away in a freak crochet accident and just said no pressure but let me know if she’s feeling for up hanging out over a 🍹 sometime and she replied, meanwhile if I’d said something scathing like “well thanks for wasting both of our time” it would’ve gotten me nowhere. I’ll only bother if I’m really interested in meeting her though | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidI surprisingly have revived a bit of interest just by sending a respectful but humorous follow up text almost as if it’s a “shit test” to see how I respond | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidSo what sort of things would you send / what sort of questions would you ask during this flirty stage? I tend to overthink it and either send noting or send something too sexual or I seek her opinion on the communist manifesto or something | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidShort sassy nonsense texts bore the shit through me tbh but it seems to be the only style of communication that most women are looking for | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:57 AM |
| 25 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?I’ve thought about yoga recently because my physiotherapist recommended it so I might try to find a class and not to seem too sleazy I’m sure a lot of guys join it with one thing in mind lol But also I’m not actually shy my hobbies are just reading, writing, composing music, which aren’t exactly social things and I prefer doing that to clubs or bars because I just find it more interesting so maybe I’ll look for book clubs or something to make it a bit more social Dating apps are obviously anothe… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 31 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?I know I’m just quite content with my personal hobbies and travelling occasionally but that just doesn’t lead to meeting many people so I’m going to have to force myself to do pick up some more social stuff, maybe volunteering or mixed sport or something | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 04:44 AM |
| 78 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?All my interests are solo things | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How to seal the deal?But why do I never see much info about this stage of seduction? It’s like everyone thinks once we start kissing that will naturally just lead to Sex but in my experience it sometimes takes a lot more finessing to get there especially if there are barriers like they have friends with them or we aren’t near either of our places or anything | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:06 AM |
| 13 | Her text read “stop by & crack this pussy open like Humpty Dumpty lol” & I’m starting to catch feelings ..That’s perhaps the least attractive sentence imaginable | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 11 | If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction?Could you define interesting and boring texting? | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 02:56 PM |
| 2 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?I like to tell them where going to have a debate about American interventionism in the middle east and then actually sticking to it and reproaching any sexual advances as being entirely inappropriate during such a solemn discourse | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”Surely any woman worth a damn sees through the macho bullshit once she turns 15 | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Met a cutie who flirts with me, but she’s married…Always thought it was pathetic how guys get violent when they realise their partner or wife is cheating. Nothing says lower value than being willing to get incarcerated over a woman betraying you | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Most good posts are from years agoAlso I don’t know how to successfully pull one girl from a group of girls, especially if they’re sober But I did meet a cute girl whilst volunteering last year and dated for a month or two | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Most good posts are from years agoThe other way in is meeting them through friends or volunteering or work or something but that obviously require a lot of investment and not everyone has time | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:08 AM |
| 14 | Most good posts are from years agoThe only time cold approach during the day has worked for me in the last few years has been with tourists Sometimes it almost feels like it’s dead Why bother potentially inviting an unwanted interaction when there’s an endless sea of suitors in the palm of her hand who she can screen better by checking their social media rather than a stranger who walks up to her | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 36 | Most good posts are from years agoIt’s become a lot harder with online dating and social media Most women in public are on their phone and don’t even look at you as you walk past. You know how porn desensitises guys and we no longer find average women attractive - I think it’s like that with women, if they have hundreds of guys messaging them on Instagram and dating apps including wealthy doctors and really attractive men, then their standard is going to rise and they’re going to become less attracted to the average guy who’s ap… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 01:13 AM |
| 12 | Should fathers teach sons how to improve their "game"He lost his virginity to his dad when he was 12? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesOf course but the point is sometimes you see a friendly looking stranger but you just can’t think of anything to say to initiate a conversation so in those cases it’s probably better to be direct than to walk past | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How to be fun whilst still being taken seriously?I thought everyone was trying their hardest not to be normal these days | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How to be fun whilst still being taken seriously?That’s my struggle because the boundary seems to shift in every social situation sometimes even when an extra person enters the picture, or do you mean boundaries that you always stick to? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 4 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesNo but to me your comment implied that it’s better to go for whatever is easily available to you even if you’re not particularly attracted to them | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesAny self respecting guy puts quality over quantity | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:12 AM |
| 25 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesShe’d have to be pretty dense to wonder why a young man is enthusiastically talking to her, at least where I live where nobody really talks to strangers | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:08 AM |
| 0 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI think it’s healthier to approach a woman with the mindset that they also have to qualify for you and simply being cute isn’t enough (it shouldn’t be if you have enough self respect) so the dynamic shifts to a man going about his day and figuring he will strike up a conversation with an attractive woman to see if her personality matches and whether or not she’s interested in connecting with him, rather than a man on a mission to get as many women’s numbers as possible Easier said than done thou… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:00 AM |
| 9 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI agree but it can be tough when you see a cute girl walking past and if you hesitate for a few seconds she’ll be gone forever and you can’t think of anything unique to say | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:57 AM |
| 9 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?If you’re naturally terrible at dancing and have no rhythm is it worth even trying with women or will you just look like a fool ? | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Which part of South America should I visit? If I go solo maybe safer for me to go to a city in America near the border that has latina women? I live in Australia btw | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !I hate lol as well, it reminds me of some obese manchild with dorito fingers typing Le troll lol pwned or some stupid internet shorthand bullshit | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?Is that because they like the feeling of having sex regardless of who it’s with or because they want to run off and tell their friends they just had sex even if it’s with a woman they’re not attracted to | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !I definitely want to visit at some point, as someone who loves tanned women with cute faces and curves they’re probably sexiest women on the planet and I never see any in my city (in Australia) but don’t want to take advantage of mislead them. Maybe better to just go to a town in America near the border? Also what’s with the young white girls getting stolen and sold into Sex slavery? Latina women are so much sexier than the average American girl. Are they considered exotic or something? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | So guys are out here killing innocent people because they can’t get laid?If you’re born into wealth and privilege it still isn’t the best but it isn’t the worst | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | So guys are out here killing innocent people because they can’t get laid?If Elliot “the supreme gentleman” rogers couldn’t get laid what chance do we have? It would be bad enough if they killed hot women but they tend to kill children, old people, nerdy guys etc just look at the victims of rogers killing spree It’s more complex than that though, mental illness, often a sense of helplessness, bullying, persecution complex and some form of bigotry. People shouldn’t be allowed to buy semi automatic weapons. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenOr just the odd woman who doesn’t play by the rules I guess | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Wow I was expecting my comment to get downvoted but clearly a lot of Aussies reading this feel the same way. I’m all for people having standards and in south east Asia and South America they probably don’t have enough self respect and are disempowered by the culture but I really don’t understand what the deal is with Aussie girls. I’ve literally been laughed at on a few occasions for just being friendly by women on a far lower tier of attractiveness to myself for what it’s worth I guess it’s a c… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Day gaming at grocery store?Yeah I should probably practice making conversation with strangers more. When I was in the US i was taken aback how casually people would acknowledge me when I was out. Back home you almost never see strangers acknowledging each other, they look right thorough you | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:44 PM |
| 11 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?Why is that? Is it because most high value guys will still jump at the chance to stick their dick in something? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:53 AM |
| 24 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?Modern dating and dating apps makes everyone feel so disposable and interchangeable that it’s pretty impossible for anyone to be that into you until you, especially before you’ve even met, and especially if they have a whole pool of other options | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:52 AM |
| 16 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?If every guy on earth completely ignored every woman for a week or two the tables would turn (or there’s a chance it would backfire and they’d all go lesbian) | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Day gaming at grocery store?I tried cold approaching back when I was working at a grocery store without my uniform on not even to get their number but just see how they responded and my conclusion is that the girl has to be well into you from the first glance for it to work - a lot of people find grocery shopping stressful and try to get in and out as quickly as possible so I think you’d have a way better chance at retail stores | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenGood practical advice there I just really need to practice the whole inviting someone into my fun thing because I’m not used to that, for me it’s always a direct decision to hit on someone and it becomes obvious that’s what I’m doing but I can see how that approach can work against me because it causes my energy to shift from having fun to trying to be seductive because when I’m having I’m not naturally trying to escalate I guess stuff like kissing a girls forehead or putting my arm around her j… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:25 AM |
| 2 | How to get better at Day GameSay she’s shopping at the mall.. what are you supposed to ask her questions about? What stores she’s visited? What she had for lunch? Where she parked? Sometimes there just seems to be nothing to go on and it wouldn’t be appropriate to start asking deeper questions like you would on a date | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:50 AM |
| 1 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenBy a basic escalation plan do you mean gradually touching her more, getting her one on one, maybe talking about sexual topics? Despite what I said bagels I find that I’m somehow even less sexy when I try hard to escalate and I have got some girls unintentionally but that’s mainly been when they’ve been pretty forward themselves so I just need to keep being fun company and it naturally happens. The girls who basically stand back fold their arms and say “alright let’s see what you can do” I have n… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else sabotage themselves when you finally meet someone you’re really into?Good point I’ve heard different things that some women find vulnerability and openness nice because it makes them feel special whilst others want a guy who looks like he sleeps with women every day and she’s just another one of them - I guess it depends on the woman | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 6 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !I’d feel a bit shifty taking advantage of that, yeah I’m sure the Sex will be fun but I wouldn’t feel good about myself. Same with southeast Asian women. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Avoid girls with sombreros haha I mean I wouldn’t know which zones are safer and who looks dangerous and who doesn’t, I just see sexy Latina women but that’s good to know. Since I’m Australian maybe it’s safer for me to go to el passo or something | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenYeah good point but I personally do need to force myself to escalate, I can be good fun and humour but I’m not naturally sexy and I think I misjudge how calculated a lot of guys are who do end up pulling - or yeah maybe it’s become natural for them I don’t think it will ever become second nature to me and I’m a bit of an odd guy whose not exactly going to appeal to everyone but I will need to force myself a bit at least to approach and escalate. I’ve done so much reading up that it’s actually ba… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenBut what if you’re thinking “I’m having a great time… I don’t want to potentially ruin it with a brutal rejection or having to think about pick up bullshit when I just want to keep drinking with friends” ? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:03 AM |
| 4 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenBut what if you hate pick up because you think the game is silly and exhausting, and you would rather be hanging out with friends or doing something else? Eventually you’d have to force yourself or you’ll never get anything | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:00 AM |
| -2 | Staying hard…tips?It’s not always the easiest decision because it’s sacrificing no strings attached guaranteed pleasure every day for a chance at having a lot more pleasure but with a lot more investment and it could be a lot messier (with std, unwanted pregnancy, money, getting too attached etc) | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:55 AM |
| 8 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Say you go by yourself what would you actually do? I take it you mean the less tourist parts of Mexico, so would you just find a hotel somewhere and try to go to the local bars / clubs or would you do more day game around malls and pools or would you just get on dating apps and if so would you agree to meet a girl at her place or is that too risky? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:37 AM |
| -5 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !What do they want white guys for? So they can tell their friends they had Sex with a white guy or so they can hand him to the cartel? Most white guys are ugly as fuck and not smooth or sexy | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:34 AM |
| 17 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Have you noticed that the average Aussie girl is incredibly snarky and stuck up? They have an attitude of don’t fucking look at me, and yet they’ll end up with the weirdest rat looking bogan idiot or some pseudo hippy surfer yuppy | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:31 AM |
| 46 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !I mean it’s a pretty huge financial commitment travelling abroad to these places just to get laid and may not fit in with work and shit And the prospect of going solo to somewhere like South America can be daunting, I had a friend who got robbed twice in 2 weeks in Brazil | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:27 AM |
| 34 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Why? South American men are generally better looking and Latina women are some of the best looking on the planet Do they just want you to take them back with you or something? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?Depends how you define flow state I guess, I would think that in most clubs acting crazy would probably get you more results than being more withdrawn, I guess flow state in a club is being effective with nonverbal communication? | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?Yeah definitely I’m trying to go sober for a while though Do you feel like a guy needs to be in that high energy state to have much chance with women at a club? I’m not sure if it’s even worth bothering If I’m going to be sober and not as fun as other guys | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How.You’re rocking the boat, guys here have shaped their entire universe around the pursuit of sex… and yeah that’s why it’s important to challenge that narrow view because it leads to serious disillusionment and emptiness down the line | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | What can a 5’6 who’s a brown fat virgin do? Is there anything he can do to get better?What are the chances of pulling a girl from the smoking area or are last off the dance floor? I hate dancing unless I’m drunk or on drugs and I’m going sober for a while but want to give nightclubs another shot | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Was he flirting?Well this guys clearly doesn’t seem to have much respect for women and just seems them as fuck toys so it reminds me that I should feel proud of that fact that I have respect since there are a lot of guys like that out there | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Was he flirting?Posts like this remind me my life isn’t so bad | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?Do you still go clubbing now you’re taken? I remember a post which basically said ask yourself if you would enjoy a club if there were no single women in it and if the answer is not at all then perhaps clubs aren’t the best environment for you since there will be guys there who enjoy dancing and socialising in that way that you’re competing with. I can’t say I would But the other things is although I’m 6’5 and muscular my game is mostly verbal and i don’t really enjoy dancing so clubs don’t play… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:15 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?If you have more energy after working out you probably haven’t worked out hard enough. A hard workout will leave your cns taxes and your muscles sore | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?I’m really dependent on the atmosphere of a place - certain clubs will drain my energy almost right away but others are more enjoyable. Same with people I’d like to be more consistent but if I’m not feeling it I tend to just abort the mission I guess the question is whether I should bother forcing myself to go out / approach if I’m really not feeling like it. I could stand to improve my sleep a bit too but I think it’s mostly this mental thing | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:08 AM |
| 2 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?Yeah well enough that I have the energy to lift pretty heavy weight 5 days a week. I think the burnout is more mental, which may indicate that either I don’t value the outcome as much as these other guys, or just don’t enjoy playing the game as much. Also I’m mostly introverted and after a few hours of any social situation I feel like getting the fuck out of there I could talk with and be intimate with a girl all night if I like her and it’s a quiet environment but the commotion of a bar or club… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:46 AM |
| 4 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?Yeah it’s probably that plus valuing different things, for instance I feel better when I write a song than I do having sex with a random woman I just met | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:27 AM |
| 3 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?I just find more interest in writing music, reading, learning and hobbies than I do pursuing women most the time. The game feels tilted anyway, our partner selection metrics are way off and over value confidence and undervalue humility and part of me doesn’t want to play the game because I don’t like the rules Yeah making a cute woman smile and eventually putting my dick in them is nice but I’ve detached the ego aspect that seems to motivate a lot of guys, I wouldn’t feel any worse about myself … | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:22 AM |
| 15 | Cold approach helpThat’s almost impossible when girls are on such high guard, basically be somebody they’re very attracted to or they won’t appreciate it | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:30 AM |
| 11 | Cold approach helpWith that said if you’re just going in and showering a girl in compliments you’re probably not going to have great outcomes and that will discourage you from wanting to stick at it | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do some guys have so much energy?I guess I don’t feel like the juice is always worth the squeeze Some guys have this tunnel vision and I’m quite jealous because I really can’t relate to it | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | First cold approach at 36Take it as a win even if the result wasn’t ideal | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Little newbie stepsGood advice but a few points I’ve heard about the other school of thought that is basically don’t lay your chips on the table so easily, keep her slightly guessing as to whether you’re going to ask for her number like every other guy who bounds over to her like an excited puppy, I seem to have had more success when indirectly approaching women rather than saying “hey I thought you were cute” etc since that should be implicit by the fact you’re approaching them. I’ve also been advised not to offe… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with extreme, almost overwhelming Approach Anxiety?Try to think of it more as just making conversation with a cute woman to see what she’s like - for all you know she could be a complete bitch. Don’t go in with the sole intention of asking her out at all costs, that’s degrading to oneself. You can still be direct but make it more about testing the water to see if you like her vibe as well before asking for her number. I also think it’s worth having a few lines up your sleeve especially if you’re rejected you can just play it off and say “no hard… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Little newbie stepsI mean I was being facetious with that comment You’re right that it helps when you’re doing something organic and not just running after women but surely asking for directions or asking about her clothing would just be irritating for her and she would be thinking “I know why you’re talking to me just get to the fucking point already” I think clubs and on vacation are completely different though because they’re more sexual and there’s more of a reason to approach them | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 04:06 AM |
| -1 | The “Age knowing” thingI ask them to produce an identifying document such as their drivers license or passport. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Little newbie stepsOr maybe don’t shame them just for rejecting an obnoxious stranger who approaches them when they’re going about their day That also makes you look petty, just so “if you change your mind I’ll be eating a tub of ice cream with a box of tissues” or something. I had one girl change her mind and ask me questions when I said that as though the rejection was a test to see how I’d react (which is actually a good idea on their part) | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Little newbie stepsDo you have questions up your sleeve? What if there’s nothing to talk about because you meet her walking on a mundane street nearby and can’t think of any real reason to talk to her or what to talk about | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Little newbie stepsIs walking up and telling a girl hey you’re cute I wanna stick my dick in you etc even a guy idea for more advanced guys? I don’t think women respond very well to it anymore especially if there are other people around | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?That’s another phenomenon I’ve noticed; women seem to either drastically overestimate how attractive and interesting they are or drastically undervalue themselves, and I feel that dating apps are pushing many women toward the former because endless matches and thirsty messages from apparently handsome strangers will begin to inflate even the most modest egos. I may have also underestimated the extent to which the average woman actually cares about wealth and status. I presumed that connecting pe… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?Yeah I guess the apps are just less popular now eh? And when people start leaving that becomes a self perpetuating process I guess. Also you’re right I never thought about how feature like standouts could make it harder for the averages guy because women probably aren’t even seeing them anymore Whenever I go out I realise holy shit there is a world of cute girls out there… my city has a culture where people really don’t take well to conversing with strangers though, nobody even acknowledges you … | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?If you’re a hot girl who gets into clubs and gets free drinks? What do you do for nightgame? I also hate nightgame, I can’t stand drama or drunk people and everyone turns into dramatic loud obnoxious cunts | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?Maybe our scores dropped? I doubt it though I think they’ve gotten more money grubbing taking away free features and adding new paid features and they’ll often tell me that there are no women in my area then suddenly a whole new bunch will drop in as if the app is limiting how many you can view and I think they give you fake matches every so often to keep you paying I wish I got in on the fun years ago | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?I wouldn’t say it’s 100% a scam since I have met people before but it’s becoming more and more of one and they’ve been taking away free features and making you pay for everything and I’m pretty sure they give you fake matches every now and then to keep you hooked | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:43 AM |
| 6 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?I wonder why though. What are women looking for? Have a lot of them ditched dating apps? People seem to be more addicted to their phones than ever in public though | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?No tattoo shaming bro It’s a serious post minus that sentence | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Movies/series that subtly up the spicy mood?!I once watched Schindler’s list on a second date and we were so moved by it we didn’t really talk the whole time then we had a discussion about war and morality and then she went home. We ended up bonding that night though - I think she was pleasantly surprised that I was interested in more than just sex. We had sex two dates later but we didn’t end up being right for each other. But yeah if the aim is casual sex I won’t make that mistake again For me It’s always a fine line between not coming a… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Movies/series that subtly up the spicy mood?!Actually on that point do you bother watching the movie or do you just try to look for an opportunity to kiss her? It’s a bit ridiculous that we need to use a movie as a smokescreen when we both know what we’re planning to do | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:54 AM |
| 12 | Movies/series that subtly up the spicy mood?!120 days of sodom | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:52 AM |
| 18 | Movies/series that subtly up the spicy mood?!The Human centipede. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Esoteric question to seasoned "pimps"That makes sense offline but why is it that when there’s a poon monsoon I also get more matches on dating apps Also why does ignoring women get you nowhere sometimes and other times it makes them fight for your attention? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Esoteric question to seasoned "pimps"My life is more of a famine and every now and then I wander come upon some flyblown roadkill | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Anyone ever take dance classes?I always intended to but put it off for so many years that the local free dance place closed down last year lmao | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meI’ve read a few pick up blogs that refute the notion that it’s all a numbers game or say that’s not actually a healthy way to look at it because it naturally devalues oneself and puts quantity over quality and can discourage people from addressing their issues instead just approaching until it sticks | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 08:21 AM |
| 4 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meI thought meetup was just a bunch of single guys with the same idea lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meWarhammer 40k and video game speedrunning. What’s my prognosis? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Why would anyone over the age of 14 give a shit about lay count...?Are you playing a frat boy character for laughs or are there really pathetic people as pathetic as you in the world? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?Yeah I’ve noticed something similar. I guess we shouldn’t be surprised since it makes sense - imagine being sexualised by everyone you meet and never having to develop any more substance to get partners or even friends or jobs, but it’s a disappointing trend | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What’s your biggest piece of sex advice?Thanks for the tips. I’ve got a few more questions that I would really like to get your advice for. Should I ask her what she’s into and how she likes to be pleasured or should I try to figure it out using her body language? The problem with asking is it can make things a bit awkward if the girl doesn’t like talking about Sex so openly but the problem with body language is that, well we all know how often people fake pleasure to make their partner feel good. Is there a sexy way to take their clo… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?I mean I’m interested in the psychology behind courtship and mate selection and stuff too ( studying psychology) but you’re right it’s a fruitless endeavour I guess since everyone’s individual and can’t be reduced to generalisations | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:24 PM |
| -2 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?And here comes the disrespectful cunt I suppose? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 5 | I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do?Hmm What are some of the common mistakes in your experience? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?Interesting perspective, we do tend to shape our attraction on past experiences don’t we. The guy I mentioned in my post is considered a piece of shit by most people who get to know him but he’s doing something right at least in the early days of meeting people. I guess Ted bundy received hundreds of love letters in prison, so it’s not a rational thought process My take is that you shouldn’t love your cousin just because he’s family. I hate my father and my cousin when I came to the unfortunate … | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?The mate assumptions do backfire so often it’s almost embarrassing. To think how many times I know a friend who’s gotten beguiled by someone and it becomes obvious to everyone else that they’re not a good person but the friend has the rose tinted glasses on and can’t see all their issues. Or the way extreme confidence often turns into extreme controlling and abuse I’ve tried to challenge my natural attraction more these days as I’m looking for a long term partner and I wish more people would | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?He’s perhaps the most insecure person I’ve met. He feels inadequate without money and women. The people who we immediately deem as being confident are often the least confident because real self esteem is discovered not announced - but perhaps women don’t see it this way | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:48 AM |
| 0 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?So what it is that these women are looking for? Someone who looks like their dad and gives them love that he never gave them? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?Half the guys I know who do well with women don’t have the emotional intelligence to mentally arouse them init an orgasmic state even if they’re good with their tools | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | I'm 26 going on 27. Is it too late to become a fuck boy?You worked hard earned money and now spend it on hookers? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm 26 going on 27. Is it too late to become a fuck boy?What if my personality is more quiet and introspective and I get exhausted in loud social settings? This has basically ruled out bars and clubs and left me with dating apps or day game which I’ve had some success with but it’s not as easy as nightgame I guess I don’t actually know what to do with a shouting drunken girl at a bar | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | I'm 26 going on 27. Is it too late to become a fuck boy?26 going on 27!? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm 26 going on 27. Is it too late to become a fuck boy?Are you enjoying it? My life is a lot calmer and more peaceful when I’m not trying so hard to get laid and i tend to drop the ball in other areas. I guess it’s a matter of finding the right balance | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:21 AM |
| 2 | I'm 26 going on 27. Is it too late to become a fuck boy?Someone’s I forget that it’s supposed to be fun | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Best way to reconnect with someone who you haven’t spoken with in a year?I just have no idea how to use it anymore. haven’t really used it in about 5 years and I feel like an old man with it but also I didn’t have this particular girl on Snapchat | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Best way to reconnect with someone who you haven’t spoken with in a year?Yeah I’ll need it won’t I | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Black women aren't really perceived as women so what options do I have?You’re attractive but your personality isn’t | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 06:06 AM |
| 10 | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?For years I assumed that the emptiness or sense of uneasiness following casual sex was stemming from the lingering social stigma but eventually I realised that’s not the case at all - I don’t actually feel dirty or immoral for having casual sex, but I feel like I’m selling myself short, and I believe that human beings are hardwired to spend time bonding with their sexual partner, so the fuck and duck methodology leaves us feeling unsatisfied as soon as the rush of euphoria fades off. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:46 AM |
| 6 | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?Imagine how much less casual sex there would be if there wasn’t the macho culture telling guys that their worth is determined by their body count Well I guess there will be less of it now that fucking abortion is illegal again | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?You’re cute. What the hell does being black have to do with it unless you live in a swamp in Alabama | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 06:00 AM |
| 10 | Will the overturn of Roe v Wade make casual dating and sex more complicated?It’s unbelievable that we’re having this primitive debate in 2022. Anyone who argues against abortion should have been aborted and anyone who argues against contraception should have even tossed out in a condom. Gaining control over our reproductive cycle has been a crowning achievement of the human race; it’s done more to empower women, reduce poverty and improve quality of life than anything else - and now the bible bashing cousin fucking barbarians are undoing the progress. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Jobs that allow you to meet a lot of people?Dreams come true indeed I feel like any sort of tour jobs would work as well where you get to spend a few hours with a group and it wouldn’t be too odd to arrange to meet up with some of them after or keep in touch (probably against the policy but whatever) | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 09:29 AM |
| -1 | Is the average person here 15 years old?The post was partly me venting about how stupid game is, how easily manipulated so many people are, who then turn around and wonder why they’re just being considered a sex you or why they kept ending up with people who don’t really seem to respect them or who cut and run or disappear after sex. It should matter greatly what you say, confidence shouldn’t be the key (look up the dunning Krueger effect which explains how the stupider someone is the more tend to overrate themselves), we shouldn’t fe… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Is the average person here 15 years old?Well you’ve made me look like a bitter old schlub so well played young one | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pubLoud and busy bar environments have got to be the worst place for coming up with interesting stuff to talk about - you’ve got to shout and ask them what? If they’re enjoying the music? What their favourite drink is? It’s the most superficial boring conversation | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pubIt’s harder to be improvisational funny when you feel like any slip up and you’ll get dropped like a hot coal but you’ve got to push through that I guess or you’ll never end up relaxing around women | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 3 | It's offensive NOT to approach a girllol | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Is this a good opener for day gameThis is how I imagine every cold approach going “Hey sorry to bother you but I thought you’re kind of cute so I was wondering if I could get your name?” “No” “Oh neat I’ve never heard that as a first name, is it spelt ngo?” “No” “So no…what are you up to?” “I’m riding a unicorn to the magical land of Fuck off” “Really? It looks to me like you’re just out shopping” “Are you blind or brain dead or both?” “Im Todd Valentine. What are you getting up to later?” “Going straight to security and telling… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Is this a good opener for day gameI prefer saying hey can I meat you real quick, and if she says ok I pull down my [redacted] | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Should I hide my "toxic" opinionsIn that sense it’s actually quite self degrading… I really really want this girl to sleep with me and I’m willing to put up with whatever it takes to get there and say what she wants to hear … is that really behaviour we should be encouraging? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | What makes an interaction awkward?Ah | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:43 AM |
| 3 | I tried talking talking to women with a lesbian friend I met at a pride parade and it really works! I've gotten more numbers and dates from it than when I approached by myself!Surely a lesbian woman at a pride event would be a bit suspicious of a guy who tries to befriend her so she can be a wing woman for him lol | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:33 AM |
| 4 | Change Her Mood, Not Her MindWhat if I’m naturally more of a deep / brooding type of guy which some people find interesting but wouldn’t describe me as fun? I use a lot of dark humour and irony but I’m not like a jester who can pick people up when they’re feeling low | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Is showing direct interest a turn off for most women or only those who aren’t interested in you?Fair enough, if anything I text too little, since I only check my messages once every day or two. I’ve learned not to bother trying to show much humour or talk about anything deep over messages though since it gets lost in translation I think it depends on the overall vibe and situation too - it’s obvious when you don’t really have any chemistry with someone, but I’ve had dates with good chemistry where I either deliberately didn’t go for a kiss or something happened like the last time I had a f… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Is showing direct interest a turn off for most women or only those who aren’t interested in you?Yeah I hate the mind games but I understand that I would be a fool not to realise how important these things are - even people who deny them succumb to them. I also hate trying to find the right balance because I’ve lost women by being too distant (but because I was trying to be but because I had other things going on) so it feels like you’re walking a tightrope | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | What is something you've learned throughout your seduction journey?It should allow you to notice and process your thoughts and emotions better without just projecting them immediately and should help you become a bit less anxious when uncomfortable ones arise because you’re in better control of them | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do.Call me old fashioned but I want a girl who wants to fuck me because she likes me not just because she’s bored or wants something from me Also I seem to doubt that an average looking autistic guy is having sex with good looking women - maybe the girls where I live are more cutthroat but I almost never see an attractive girl going for an average looking guy | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:15 AM |
| 8 | I'd say for most of the women that let you fuck them, you are actually the price. You still gotta "pursue" a bit, but its just formality. Opposite to the women that have no interest. But some guys struggle to see the difference.I don’t understand a blind word of what i just read | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 02:50 PM |
| 5 | (F) Tried something different yesterday while mastrubatingAre you not seduced!? | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Do Asian girls usually act weird when approached?That’s the opposite of my natural style which is more subtle and conversational… why must they be the most attractive women on the planet | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How important really are charisma and wit?I’d rather date my hand than anyone under 8, and as if turns out we have had quite a long term relationship | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Why do guys put girls on a pedestal?I think it’s also the lore around Sex… it’s not just getting your dick sucked it’s what separates boys from men and all that nonsense | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:24 AM |
| 6 | is cheating really that common? how are so many other guys able to find women who are willing to cheat with them?That’s also a somewhat dehumanising / depressing perspective. I don’t deny it but it runs against the narrative where people feel special and think their relationship is something special so a lot of people try to deny it | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Do Asian girls usually act weird when approached?Any tips for attracting South American women? I think I bore them because I’m not radiating blinding sexual energy all the time like they are | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Welp, that was a failure.I’ve come to realise that being charming and flirtatious is much like like falling asleep - the harder you try the more likely you are to fail. In my case anyway | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:04 AM |
| 0 | Welp, that was a failure.Just talk to them about whatever you want - if they bore you or you don’t like their energy move on to someone else. This way you’re not vying for attention but if you do hit it off with someone you can always get their number or even see if they’d like to continue hanging out after the party winds up | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itselfWhat if you hate bars and clubs and your friends don’t go out anymore and people in your city walk around intentionally trying to avoid talking with strangers though - I’ve tried to delete dating apps but I end up crawling back to them when I realise that the alternative isn’t amazing either | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itselfTo be fair I’ve met some great people ( mostly through hinge) and had met some shit people IRL who just wanted a free drink or end up being psycho plus it’s easier to swipe on the go rather than having to go out but I agree if your lifestyle allows it you should try to meet people offline | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itselfI literally got on dating apps in early March 2020 lmfao You would think the pandemic would have helped things with OLD but apparently not | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itselfI’ve noticed this although maybe it’s because I’m in my later 20s now but most women have moved away from dating apps and are focusing on meeting people through their friend circles… which means there’s a limited chance we’ll ever meet them but I guess it’s more motivation to get out and meet people the old fashioned way | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?Well It’s been shaped by my experience. Every now and then I’ll go out and have fun but usually only if it’s a friends birthday, I’m overseas, I like the Dj or band or I’m on drugs or there’s a theme like were doing karaoke or dressing up for Halloween or something so it’s not just a standard night out Last time i went out by myself some guy threw a bottle at my head when I was walking so I’m just sick of stuff like that I’d rather watch a good movie, play guitar, hang out with a friend, play po… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 02:36 AM |
| 17 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?Paying $20 for an Uber to the bar/club district, waiting in line if it’s crowded, having to listen to some frat boy fuckhead yelling in your ear, the place is crowded you can barely move and so loud you can barely hear anyone, drinks are over $10 each, shit music is playing some idiot bumps into you and you spill your drink, there are at least twice as many men as women and all the women are in their little packs, you hate dancing but you can’t win them over with your words because it’s too loud… | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Non Asshole way to get a girl out of your house after sex…Im an extremely lightly sleeper and I can’t seem to fall asleep with someone else on my bed so if I actually need to have some sleep I need them to leave | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Women, do you like getting approached in public?So what then? The whole “life’s short you’re cute let’s have coffee sometime” thing? I thought that level of directness makes most women uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | 25F**A Little Confessions**I think perhaps she mistook this as a subreddit where we want to be seduced or aroused Oh she also has an erection | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:45 AM |
| 2 | 25F**A Little Confessions**I’m sorry ma’am/sir can you please repeat your order I didn’t catch all of that | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Should I just lose it to a hookerI wouldn’t. You won’t feel any better about yourself. Who gives a fuck about virginity anyway - you could go fuck a drunk ogre laying in her vomit outside a club or a hooker but is that going to make you feel relived? I doubt it Just be patient and keep forcing yourself to socialise and you’ll meet someone you actually want to have sex with | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | What’s a good response to ‘when was the last time you had sex’?I feel like it’s worth saying that this subreddit has built a bizarre mythology around “shit tests”. I’ve asked a lot of my female friends about it and they say if they do ask these sorts of questions it’s not part of a cunning scheme to catch a guy out and make him look like a loser. Maybe there are some snarky girls out there who enjoy making guys squirm by trying to make them jealous or uncomfortable but not most. It’s still worth thinking about how you’d like to answer some of these common q… | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?You shouldn’t need to, just relegate it to lesser importance and make sure it fits into your lifestyle and goals When other areas of my life fall apart I seem to focus on dating and women and it took me too long to realise that | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s a good response to ‘when was the last time you had sex’?When a girl asks that is she typically wanting you to come across as though you’re a guy who gets a lot of action or would that be a turnoff because then she wouldn’t feel special? | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | What’s a good response to ‘when was the last time you had sex’?A gentleman never tells. So It was about 4 months ago | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:41 AM |
| 4 | Is it ok to take a step back from women and focus on myself for the time being?Permission denied. Get back on the battlefield you lily livered son of a bitch! | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 52 | She said she was on Birth Control?Hey I’m 27 and still leech off my parents :) | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:49 PM |
| 11 | She said she was on Birth Control?That said paying a bit extra for a quality condom is definitely worth it not just because they’re less likely to tear but some of them aren’t too bad, like the thin with added lube | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:48 PM |
| 3 | She said she was on Birth Control?Random question do you only use lube if she’s not naturally lubricated or do you use it every time? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | To much anxiety while going out solo.can’t argue with that | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 09:06 AM |
| 9 | I approached the hottest girl in the venue last night.Anyone who used the word baddie I immediately assume their parents are related or they’re under 15 | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.Never ask for consent should be the tagline on this subreddit | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.What do you mean turn their head and Hover over their mouth? | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:40 AM |
| 6 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.I had a few girls get a bit put off when I went for a kiss so I’ve stopped doing it, now I mention it You don’t say “ma’am if it isn’t too much of an inconvenience I would rather like to kiss you at present” you just say something like “hypothetically if I went in for a kiss right now how would you react?” And they usually tell you to find out or in the case of a bad reaction you could just say duly noted and move on | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 27 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.I mean that would only work if she’s at the stage where she’s 100% wanting to kiss you otherwise it would be a bit off putting possibly even disrespectful | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:32 AM |
| 3 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?By playing a pokeflute? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 06:27 AM |
| 7 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?What if someone approached you wearing a cowboy bebop shirt? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?I do say the thoroughfares of this particular metropolis are positively sordid and malodorous, and the womenfolk are dressed terribly indecently! | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 05:51 AM |
| 2 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?Save up for surgery to remove a rib? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 05:47 AM |
| 3 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?I prefer older women with some extra pounds too actually- yet all my friends want women who look like emaciated teenagers so there’s less competition I guess I should really join a dance class, I’ve been talking about it for years but never committed to it. Even if I don’t meet anyone it can’t hurt to know how to move more smoothly | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | How can I get a woman to want to have sex with meProbably not the type of women you’d want to be with for more than a few hours but this is a fast and dirty fix Although how do women even know you have much money unless you flaunt it with embarrassing chains and rings and stuff that | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 04:15 AM |
| 5 | How can I get a woman to want to have sex with meAnd get robbed? Why would a beautiful latina go for a gawky white guy? South American men are known for being smooth and confident aren’t they? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Today I knew that the problem is my social anxiety and my shyness.How do you know you can’t retire from the game? My neighbour used to devote all his time to fucking women and he says he fucked hundreds but then at about 30 he became disillusioned and stopped wanting to feel like an ape that’s enslaved by it’s dick so he moved away to a remote part of my country for awhile and stopped pursuing any women, changed career and now he’s a relaxed nature loving guy who plays guitar, reads and has been dating someone for a few years He says sometimes he misses the ol… | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?On that note if you’re not feeling great or not in the mood would you force yourself to go out and meet people? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?taking androgenic steroids will turn you into a horny motherfucker, but also cause you to do some stupid things and has some bad side effects | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?But what exactly is the frame you’re trying to control? That you’re a man and she’s a woman and she’s interested in you? And besides your voice and body language do you try to control it by staying away from topics that aren’t sexy and making things flirtatious, but disagreeing sometimes and not being a pushover either? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 02:55 AM |
| 3 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?I practiced daily enunciation exercises and tongue twisters, practiced speaking properly to decrease my lisp, listened to articulate speakers such as Christopher Hitchens and started to emulate their intonation such as casually telling a joke in a low register to catch people off guard, always sounding calm and collected with the occasional use of higher pitch for dramatic effect I feel as though I went from sounding insecure in myself to sounding a lot more cool and confident | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?My conscience | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 4 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?Is that making sure the dynamic is always that she’s working for your approval and you’re going to have sex? How do you do that without coming across like a sociopath? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when your girlfriend talks about her problems?I suppose quality time and conversation don’t make for a very appealing Instagram post | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 02:59 PM |
| 0 | What do you do when your girlfriend talks about her problems?So why does it seem so many prefer a bouquet of flowers or a weekend away to an exotic island? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Day-Game Cold Approach Seems Insane?I’ve seen it done awkwardly and had a few bad interactions but I’ve done it tactfully a few times and met a few nice people. It should also be mentioned that other methods take a lot of time and investment and $ too | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Do men care about boobsWhat if she’s a redhead? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | how to tell someone to not wait 2 hours before every text?I take days to reply to anyone - girls, friends or family or even work lmao | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 3 | How do I get past my looks?Sid from ice age was a funny fellow but you wouldn’t have the ladies lining up for him - although it does help in life in general Being tough doesn’t help much because you don’t get a chance to display it unless you’re known as a fighter and attract the damaged women who are attracted to those sorts of guys | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:16 AM |
| 33 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?She might just be an eco activist you never know | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:42 AM |
| 5 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?I’ve found this works well if the girl is extremely physically attracted to you. So does walking up and burping | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:18 AM |
| 266 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Are you aware that over 10,000 hectares of the Amazon are deforested and destroyed everyday which besides killing and displacing animals and local tribes will accelerate anthropogenic global warming because it was acting as a lung for Earths atmosphere. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:17 AM |
| 86 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?“Oh? Thanks haha” “Yeah…. So…. um….. you…. you come here a lot?” | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Help seducing a guy!Please no judgment whilst I be an unfaithful whore. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I get more “drip”?Indeed the ambition is to become so obsessed with one’s physique that one’s becomes autosexual with some occasional hip thrusts with ones gym partner. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I get more “drip”?Wait till you’re older and your pelvic floor muscles weaken, you’ll be dropping all day. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 01:24 PM |
| 4 | A woman is never too busy to text you back. If she doesn't, take the sign.I go days without replying to people I’m interested or friends or family sometimes if I’m stressed or really busy but I guess I’m an outlier there | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | "I'm not that kind of guy"I can argue with it based on my experience - the two guys I know who’ve slept with the most women are basically unable to be in a relationship for more than a few months, so I think eventually you need to commit to a different mindset if you want to build a life with someone else | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.I’ve got about 15-20 friends and none of them go out regularly enough plus all the girls and their best friends aren’t sexually interesting to me so unless I make another set of friends which isn’t really that practical, I have to rely on tinder or cold approaching | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:16 PM |
| 4 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.The other benefit to social circle is having friends which is more important than fucking women in any well adjusted guys life, but to be fair having friends doesn’t always equal a social circle you can use to help you meet women - when I meet my best friends we just play poker or play music since they have partners and they’re not the type to go out unless there’s a good reason for it | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:14 PM |
| 36 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on ScheduleI forgot I had a date on when I found out my mum collapsed and was taken to hospital, even if I had remembered I wouldn’t have gone in that mind state - I tried to explain when I remembered later but she blocked me. Maybe she’s gotten that as an excuse before | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:56 PM |
| 7 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on ScheduleI just say something dumb “hey I might be a few minutes late, my wedding is stuck 😬 nah I’ll see ya at 6 :)” I think using some humour can help to dispel any nerves they might have at the last minute | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Bro how do you keep them engaged?!It’s funny how influencers are prime role models in living shallow unsubstantial lives | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Bro how do you keep them engaged?!But if they’re seeing each other for months they must. Or not? I can’t imagine keeping it up for so long. Anyone who does would probably benefit from therapy | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Bro how do you keep them engaged?!I know of some guys who have dated insipid airheads, I assume if the man isn’t a simpleton himself then he must just get her to talk about superficial shit - the meal they’re having, reality tv, her friends, dogs etc or have one of those creepy arrangements where they don’t really talk like friends, almost like a extreme dominance dynamic that’s always there | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 05:42 PM |
| 0 | how do you respond to a girl saying "I like my men black"Accuse them of racism | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:53 PM |
| 32 | What's that aura that some guys project which makes others instantly show respect ? And how do we get it, or is it for some people only?But nobody likes someone who takes themselves too seriously- they’re unpleasant and it’s a signal of insecurity the same way never taking oneself seriously is. There’s definitely a sweet spot | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Bro how do you keep them engaged?!How do guys date women like that? What do they even talk about? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Overcoming sexual insecurityLength wise 5 inches is honestly enough for most women - the cervix has no feeling , the g spot is never deeper than that. It’s aboth angles more than size. Porn messes with your head | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)I know girls who will avoid leading on anyone in public because they’ve had very bad experiences with it | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Sleeping with lots of average girls to gain confidence?You guys really go for quantity over quality? If anything That’s a simp mindset | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | A super easy and simple trick to make sure that once you ARE the boyfriend, how to not fuck it up.It’s a way to remind yourself that you’re worthy of being in a relationship but it’s not a guide for how to stay in one. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | A super easy and simple trick to make sure that once you ARE the boyfriend, how to not fuck it up.If any of you need a guide to having hollow one dimensional relationships look no further | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 11:21 AM |
| 2 | How do i try kissing the girl and how do i know she’s ready?WAit for an intimate moment then say something humorous like “so hypothetically if I leaned in for a kiss, how would you hypothetically respond?” whilst staring into her eyes and if she wanted to then that will usually stimulate a kiss | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 10:30 AM |
| 12 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meNo shit I’m naturally avoidant not clingy and most women don’t take well to it | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | "what are your intentions with me"You dodged a semi illiterate woman who doesn’t know the difference between statements and questions | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you do to put yourself in the mood for going out and meeting people?What’s your reason for going out? I have to force myself a bit otherwise I’d rather read, write music, hang out with a friend, go to the gym etc Walking around taking to strangers can be ok but it’s not exactly my idea of time well spent when I could be working on my album or learning or something | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | What do you do to put yourself in the mood for going out and meeting people?I’m an extreme introvert and I only have so much stamina to socialise every day, I’ll even stop talking to friends and family once I reach that point, and certain environments like busy bars and banal conversations about generic shit cause it to drain incredibly quickly- sometimes forcing myself helps but often I just get more grumpy and short tempered if I’m forced to socialise when I don’t feel like it That’s why I tend to have deliberate social periods then go inwards for a while to recharge | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenTry doing it when you’re in a good mood - go to places you enjoy or feel comfortable at, pump yourself up beforehand with good tunes maybe have a shot of alcohol - I that when I force myself to approach women as if it’s a punishment for being weak minded I end up being too harsh on myself and don’t project the best side of myself | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 05:53 AM |
| 7 | Thoughts on No More Mr Nice GuyBy nice guys do people generally mean grovelling cowards who only put on a kind agreeable pretence in an attempt to slither their way into a woman’s pants? Because there are genuinely nice guys out there who have respect and empathy for women and they don’t deserve to be trashed the way they are | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | I suffer from severe depression. I literally do nothing most days but sleep and scroll YouTube, twitter, Reddit, etc... I don't have anything interesting in my life currently to the point that I contemplate suicide almost weekly but somehow I easily get women.You’re crushing the dreams of those who believe that getting women is the panacea to their self loathing and depression Good for you but I assume you’re good looking and these are promiscuous women or you’re not as depressing to be around as you think you are | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:44 AM |
| 20 | “i’M aN iNtRoVeRt. hOw Do I mEeT gIrLs?”Introverts tend to get easily overwhelmed by crowds and prefer quieter settings though Being around loud noise and drama drains my battery quickly meanwhile I could sit at a park and talk with someone all day Unfortunately with day game you need to go to places with high velocity of people passing through though | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?Yeah you’d get a bit more attention if you had a stronger jaw line but that’s not reality so unless you decide to get surgery then do the best with what you have - undoubtedly a man with a weak jawline who has good social skills and personality can attract more women than a guy with a strong face structure, I’ve seen it | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | In your experience what conversation topics seem to get girls excited and engaged?Of course I’m going to relate topics to them but I’m not just going to interview them about their life the whole time Also some girl are fun but others are excruciatingly boring to talk to same with guys | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | In your experience what conversation topics seem to get girls excited and engaged?Ah I Can’t do the mystical drivel unless we’re both pointing out how silly it is, which fortunately I’ve been able to do with most of the girls I’ve dated recently but I understand many women cling to “spiritualism” like shit sticks to fur and I’ve had a few cases where my naysaying was a dealbreaker But personally I don’t dissemble or keep quiet if I don’t like what I’m hearing even if it harms my chances of getting laid - I know a lot of guys will go along with whatever but I’m just not like t… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I try to lower a girls expectations of sex?Just an ssri called Zoloft. Some don’t get any side effects but I do, if they don’t fuck off I’ll have to try another one. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Should I try to lower a girls expectations of sex?I mean it’s not necessarily a small deal if the girl has high expectations, but one of the main reason I want to tell her in advance is so she doesn’t assume that it’s all because I’m not attracted to her But the last girl I saw was on antidepressants and they effected her orgasms so a lot of people are more understanding these days | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Should I try to lower a girls expectations of sex?I’ve got cialis but I took it once and it gave me a bad headache. I don’t want to rely on anything but I might need to since I’m on a medication that’s messing me up already Or find a girl who doesn’t care for penis penetration (I’ve met one so they’re out there) | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Increase your attractiveness and your life will be easierThe real victors mindset is to realise that chronically pursuing causal sex isn’t a road to a fulfilling life - all the guys I know who are like the kid you described are quite hollow and aren’t people I or anyone well put together person would choose to spend much time with. But yeah people who think working on themselves is all it will take to magnetically attract people to them are in for a rude awakening. It will help, especially the physical improvements, but it takes more than that. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Increase your attractiveness and your life will be easierWhat an incredibly stupid post You’re telling people to rigorously pursue some purpose but not to try so hard? Why do you think meatheads have oriented their life around working out and looking good? (If it’s not for women then it’s for an even stupider reason) And from my experience these men are the most insecure even if they give the impression of being carefree | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | For someone looking to get back in the game, what are some top flirting tips/techniques (both in bars and clubs)Expecting the worst just makes me think oh I’ll go hangout with a friend or play guitar or something instead then | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:05 AM |
| 3 | I dont get it. I constantly see guys in relationships with females absolutely mogging themPeople don’t like to admit it but luck goes along way I know a nerdy schizoid guy who was paired up with a cute girl at school for a project and they ended up dating and eventually getting engaged. Of course he had to be willing to take things in that direction but it never would have happened otherwise. A lot of women also have bitterly low self esteem, even attractive ones, so if you can make them feel good about themselves that’s a large part of it. Also other people can look at a lemon and s… | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:59 AM |
| 10 | What are the consequences of being a great seducer?Possibly Sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted children, unable to maintain a committed relationship, some people will think you’re sleazy | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Why is the cold approach advice here so basic?But your vibe is a mix of what you say, your delivery, your appearance, your body language etc right? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:54 AM |
| -5 | Don't sleep on TinderSome causal sex is fine (life is short, indulge while you can ) but If that’s all anyone ever wants suffice to say they’ve got some issues that they’re distracting themselves from. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is the cold approach advice here so basic?It’s not weird but in my city it’s not the norm to approach strangers, and stomping over to a girl and saying “hi you’re cute” (which is what I see here) strikes me as autistic - it should be implicit that you’re talking to her because you’re attracted to her - but that’s my question.. maybe women don’t mind men being more direct like that? I know some would be put off by it but I guess some appreciate the boldness | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Why is the cold approach advice here so basic?When you talk to a stranger you’re not doing so with the intent to fuck them which is ultimately the impetus behind cold approaches and people can tell me they’re outcome independent but evidently they’re not Talking to the fat fuck cashier having a smoke outside is not the same as talking to a beautiful young lady that struts past you and your subconscious knows it. And I’m not sure where you live but in my city it’s not very normal to strike up conversations with strangers, in fact people are … | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:04 AM |
| 0 | For the hatersOn the other side of the spectrum hardcore pick up guys are all egotists and Sex addicts | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:06 AM |
| 9 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Example of those boundaries? I think many guys are guilty of abandoning their principles for a change to get laid | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:41 PM |
| 15 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?We generally see people as we want them to be, not as they are. We idolise them and look past their glaring flaws and faults until the infatuation wears off and then we act as though they arose from nowhere. Also, once you start acting with a facade you’ve lost, because either they take to it and you need to keep it up, or they don’t and you’ll never know if they would’ve preferred you being yourself | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | This girl said, arrogance is charming. What the fuck does that even mean?If you were high value you wouldn’t need to be arrogant because the worth would speak for itself | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | This girl said, arrogance is charming. What the fuck does that even mean?Issue is that guys are being fed the narrative that arrogance and extend dominance is not only unattractive but toxic and so when you see or hear a girl responding positively towards it your worldview kind of shatters for a moment But in any case there needs to be underlying respect. Only an emotionally scarred woman would want to be dominated by a guy who she doesn’t feel comfortable with | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | This girl said, arrogance is charming. What the fuck does that even mean?Until she realises she doesn’t and her life is in ruins because she thought she did | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s the smoothest way to bring up sex in a conversation?Fair enough, but even if cheesy and awkwardness is ok I’d rather be tactful because that’s just the sort of person I try to be in all dimensions, so how would you like a guy to bring it up in a way that isn’t going from what your favourite food is to what your favourite sex position is And have you got sexual with guys without the conversation getting sexual? I feel like if we’re going to be talking about Sex at length we better end up having Sex or it will feel like a build up with no finale | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 05:04 PM |
| -3 | What’s the smoothest way to bring up sex in a conversation?And from that to “alright then assume the position” | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | What’s the smoothest way to bring up sex in a conversation?Actually the next question is what makes good sex talk? Should I be asking about their preferences and stuff or just talking about experiences or asking light hearted questions to get them thinking about it | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:11 AM |
| 12 | What’s the smoothest way to bring up sex in a conversation?There was one time I brought it up which really killed the vibe and got her thinking oh we’re going to have sex? And she put on the breaks. It’s as if you have to dance around the topic without actually causing them to think about it too much- I guess there’s still some stigma attached to having sex particularly for women. Do you try to make the conversation more intimate as you escalate or isn’t that necessary ? | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Why are romance novels are considered female pornJust be true to yourself but also take some time to ask about their desires and passions and do your best to accomodate them You can’t compete with an Imaginary character | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?I’m only really attracted to about 1 in 30 women I meet so I couldn’t just walk from one woman to the next. And if you’re going for quantity over quality that’s basically an admission of low self esteem… how badly do you need to prove to yourself that you’re desirable if that’s your mindset? Unless you’re addicted to the adrenaline rush or the sex but it seems like a hollow way to live that would diminish over time. If that’s what makes you happy then go for it but many of the famous pick up fig… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?Well for all the self empowerment advice one reads and internalises it’s still quite crushing to have women roll their eyes or act as though you’re pestering them or clearly lie to get you to fuck off. Plus anyone who approaches that quantity of women doesn’t strike me as someone who’s confident rather someone who’s desperate and lacking self respect; they absolutely need to get a number or need to get their dick sucked or they couldn’t look at themselves in the mirror that evening. A lot of big… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?You’ll have more charisma but most people certainly wont be swarming with women simply for being true to themselves, I don’t want to sound pessimistic I just don’t want to set up unrealistic expectations either | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:05 AM |
| 6 | Girl sent me a friend-zone text. How was my response? Would like to know for learning purposes.What’s with peoples hard ons for one line responses with no grammar and half the words missing? I’m not expecting essays but surely sending a few lines isn’t a turn off - are women out there thinking wtf he just sent a 4 line message… what an obsessed creep? | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 09:52 AM |
| 0 | Can we all admit that seduction is a big jokeCertainly hasn’t been my observation. Half my female friends have been with guys who treated them like trash from the get go and it was obvious to everyone besides them and just go out and observe pick up in action and see how incredibly lame behaviours work. If this is considered an incel attitude that says a lot | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so attracted to confidence and fun.Because as members of the most intelligent species we should be able to see through facades to assess the character of the smooth talking schmuck in front of us, and see the qualities buried in the quieter guy who seems stable and sensible. Maybe less so for casual Sex but definitely if we’re looking for a relationship | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Dating is pretty bad right now, dont beat yourself up for lack of sucess.I’m tired and all I read was I can have Sex with a dog in the bed anytime I wanted | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 05:34 PM |
| 3 | I am deeply terrified that I missed out on the human experience in life. I have never hugged, never kissed, never had friends, never done anything that didn't have an "economic" value assigned to it. Virgin at 30.I’m beginning to suspect that most therapists are fucking pricks who enjoy having control over vulnerable people. There are some great ones out there though such as mine | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | I am deeply terrified that I missed out on the human experience in life. I have never hugged, never kissed, never had friends, never done anything that didn't have an "economic" value assigned to it. Virgin at 30.Don’t hate yourself. Whilst in hindsight you regret some of your choices, you never made them with an intention to harm yourself in the future. And now you’ve recognised how you would like to change, you’re on the right path. Some people will judge you for it but there are a lot of compassionate people in the world and it’s just a matter of finding them | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?Yeah, in fact I use that as a metric of whether I want to keep seeing someone - if we can have fun talking about anything they’re a keeper. Maybe for casual Sex it’s not advisable to talk about religion or philosophy or gender inequality etc tho | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Will having a lot of sex make me happier?Millionaires are statistically more likely to kill themselves than people in absolute poverty according to a number of studies. Perhaps it has to do with a phenomenon called affluenza, where the wealthy feel jaded and empty, whilst the impoverished are more motivated by their material survival needs. In the context of sex I think it needs to be said that frequent casual sex is not the pathway for long term fulfilment or happiness, and if you orient your life around attaining that then you’re in … | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outAh that seems quite mild to me (unless some guys are really touchy about their lack of foreskin) On New Years I was really drunk at a party I told a girl that her boyfriend was a lying drug addict piece of shit and showed her messages where he had messaged me looking for drugs despite telling her he has no money and making her pay for his rent - she broke up with him right there and he went home and tried to overdose on pills and ended up in hospital. I don’t regret telling her since she deserve… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Tf is wrong with women? Am I doing something wrong?“What the fuck is wrong with men. One minute they’re sweating over you the next minute they go cold on you” That’s why I hate tactics like this and don’t have tolerance tor anyone who tries to gamify courtship (unless they’re extremely hot of course) | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outYeah I think I’ve just met a lot of brittle women lately… one of them criticised me for ordering a dish with chicken because she was vegan (yet she didn’t say anything about it when I told her the restaurant we were heading) I’ll just focus my energy on the right type of women who I can have a playful conversation with | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outI mean it when I say that I’ll only mesh with someone who is not only ok with but embraces dark and absurd humour because that’s the way my brain operates and most people don’t really know how to respond to it. All my close friends are on my wavelength for that very reason, but I guess I’ll never know until I try to open her up… and prepare to have a drink thrown in my face | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:37 PM |
| 9 | When a tinder girl wants to bring a friend on the first date, how do you turn it down without sounding annoyedIt’s hilarious and honestly a bit pathetic how strong the force of social proof is… one minute you’re not even on the radar, then your two attractive longtime friends meet up with you for a drink and suddenly you’re the prize | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:32 PM |
| 25 | When a tinder girl wants to bring a friend on the first date, how do you turn it down without sounding annoyedI understand a girl doing it for added safety but why in seven fucks would a man bring his buddies on a date | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outCan you elaborate on slavish obedience and addiction? I want someone who’s an equal besides submitting to my natural dominance in the bedroom not a sex slave | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:43 AM |
| -1 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outWhat are a few assumptions you can make that are safe but not too boring? I’ve gotten in trouble on a date for assuming someone’s ethnicity and religion lol | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:41 AM |
| -11 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outThat seems like a good way to offend or annoy someone if I’m drunk and going without a filter “you look like the type of girl who waters fake plants and wonders why they’re not growing” or something is bound to slip out But I guess if she thinks you’re hot she will probably play along with this guessing game | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:39 AM |
| 5 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outThese days when I’m drunk I become paranoid that I’m blabbering shit and being offensive, but I guess that’s what most people do anyway | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outI’ve gotten better at realising when they don’t share my interest in Norse mythology or whatever but I can’t bring myself to make small talk about star signs or reality tv or anything, I’d rather abort the mission and find someone interesting to talk to… I’m not good at pretending to be enthusiastic about things that bore me Unfortunately pick up seems to be all about small talk and most attractive women are unbelievably boring | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outI’ve gotten better at realising when they don’t share my interest in Norse mythology or whatever but I can’t bring myself to make small talk about star signs or reality tv or anything, I’d rather abort the mission and find someone interesting to talk to… I’m not good at pretending to be enthusiastic about things that bore me That’s the other thing… why are attractive women so goddamn dull most the time | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outI’ve made things sexual but I don’t have full blown conversations about Sex and asking them about their favourite position or anything unless we’re basically having sex. I wonder if other guys do? To me it seems a bit unnecessary since you can convey sexual attraction without having to talk about it but maybe women are wanting me to talk about it more explicitly | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 07:19 AM |
| 13 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outHow do you steer it toward sex? “How good is this music… it would make a great soundtrack for pounding your brain out later this evening” Or something more subtle? Honestly even on a date I’m not sure how to talk about sex I’ve never actually talked about Sex before having sex with someone for the first time | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 06:32 AM |
| -42 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outI’d sooner resign to celibacy than speak about such topics Also the environment doesn’t really lend itself to having a proper conversation, most guys I observe on night out are just drivelling utter shit with moments of giggling and dramatic outbursts Actually I do a thing where I ask what someone’s star sign is and act interested and then when they ask me what mine is I say I don’t know whatever December is | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | What are some reliable ways of assessing how attracted they are and whether you have a green light to escalate?I mean when we’re on a date and I’m escalating toward having sex | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Girl talked about sex a lot on our last date, pretty sure she wants to fuck next time. Don't have much experience what do?I guess some think it’s less attractive for a guy to be reserved than a girl | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:34 AM |
| 4 | Girl talked about sex a lot on our last date, pretty sure she wants to fuck next time. Don't have much experience what do?Some girls really cant orgasm especially with a new partner so I wouldn’t want to put that expectation on anyone but definitely worth trying for it before swapping to penetration | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Girl talked about sex a lot on our last date, pretty sure she wants to fuck next time. Don't have much experience what do?Can you elaborate on how you would like a guy to go about that? You can see how asking a guy to go caveman could result in uncomfortable and selfish sex so you would need him to communicate and notice your body responses and so on | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | What are some reliable ways of assessing how attracted they are and whether you have a green light to escalate?I can’t say I’ve ever had a girl be that flirty with me… not even girls I’ve ended up having sex with. Maybe women in Australia are more discreet about their attraction | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What are some reliable ways of assessing how attracted they are and whether you have a green light to escalate?Ah what’s your idea of a flirty joke? A light hearted teasing about the way they laugh like Marge Simpson or something more sexual like making a joke about their lower back pain if they have big boobs or more just saying things like “of course you would say that” if she says something cheesy or vague statements like “you know you’re not as bad as they say you are” I feel like a slimy shit if I try to say things that don’t come naturally to me in the moment | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | What are some reliable ways of assessing how attracted they are and whether you have a green light to escalate?By yes and no do you mean when you really go for it with a kiss or ask for a number or suggest heading back to your place? I guess it’s usually obvious if she has strong or no interest in you, it’s the middle ground that trips me up | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:56 AM |
| 3 | How can we improve this subreddit?I feel like the subreddit would be shut down if it were just the flagrantly manipulative black hat style seduction | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:40 AM |
| 4 | What are some things I can do to be around more women?What if youre only ever really in public when you’re grocery shopping or at the gym? Most women deliberately avert eye contact and are glued to their phones (and im a tall fairly good looking guy) Should I just go traipse around the downtown hoping to serendipitously run into someone with mutual attraction? I have no other reason to | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | What are some reliable ways of assessing how attracted they are and whether you have a green light to escalate?What if she bites your dick off? | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Advice for pulling at workGrab them by their pussies and you might wind up being president of the free world | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you be an asshole without being an asshole?I feel like it actually requires insanely advanced social skills to be able to navigate touchy subjects with people whilst flirting and building rapport and to push the boundary as cheeky and bold without stepping over it and looking like an asshole, especially with someone you’ve just met | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | I have a really deep voice, & it is something I am complimented on fairly often. How can I use it to my own advantage?Have you tried talking? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Is this a good Opener on Tinder?This was a good self esteem boost | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:19 AM |
| 3 | (M28) Show me how to be more seductive.Read the most popular post of the day here which advises how to develop underlying confidence and attractiveness | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?My dating coach said I’m at level 37 and for just $50 a week compounding monthly or selling him my sister he could get me to level 45 within a year. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManValuable post - confirmed what we all know but need to remind ourselves The question I often have is where to draw the line with whether or not to continue pursuing a woman - sometimes it’s electric but most often it’s a bit of a slog and we don’t have perfect chemistry… I guess that’s something only I can decide for myself though | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Do you talk about sex during a date?Surely the healthiest mindset is to internalise some parts of these methods into your existing personality without trying to change yourself too drastically? Say I get a girl interested by using the mystery method.. am I supposed to keep up the facade? What happens if I slack off and reveal my true self? It seems like you’re playing a long defeat that way Also I’ve tried more adventurous stuff in bed and just don’t really enjoy it. I guess it’s a matter of finding someone who feels the same way | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:03 AM |
| 5 | I left after hooking up with a guy but idk if it was wrong/rudeWait a few weeks and tell him you’re pregnant. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Condom sex is way overratedHaving a baby you don’t want and can’t support with someone you don’t like or know very well is overrated | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is BrutalYeah I’d rather not compete with 5 sweaty aggressive fucks on coke for some dolled up drunk slut on the dance floor who I can’t even see properly and can’t talk to because it’s too loud to have a conversation It’s some caveman shit I’d rather meet a girl at a library or a park a beach or a small festival, actually talk to them and figure out how well we mesh and then take it from there | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is BrutalToo loud to talk, cramped, full of belligerents, expensive, women think they’re queens It’s everything I hate rolled up into one place The only time I enjoy it is if extremely drunk or on drugs and at that point im not going to pull many women and if I do I wouldn’t be able to fuck them anyway since my dick wouldn’t work | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my dates I’m a full time streamer and esports player without it being a complete turn off?Any girl who would see that as a dealbreaker isn’t someone you want to be with anyways Besides that’s more attractive than half the dirty physical jobs or soul crushing office jobs | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approach is BrutalIt doesn’t seem to get any easier either - perhaps the 2nd girl you approach is a bit easier but it’s as though it resets every day. Personally I don’t think the juice Is always worth the squeeze But I hate bars and clubs and dating apps so it’s the best chance I have | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you talk about sex during a date?What if you’ve had a very boring Sex life and are only into vanilla types of Sex? Wouldn’t that be like bringing up travel and then saying you’ve only left your city once for a weekend? | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:10 AM |
| 5 | I got a hot girlfriend, and you can too!1) Hot is subjective- I’m not attracted to thin/muscular girls or ones with bland/dull personalities 2) This is basically a guide for how to suppress your individuality for pussy - ask yourself if it’s really worth it. In my estimation it’s not. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:04 AM |
| 6 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?How do you avoid the tedium of it though? Like doing it again and again and again, don’t you get a bit jaded wigh it? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a woman like Ted Bundy?Could you not imitate a confident and charismatic guy who didn’t also abduct rape and murder women? | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Where do you take someone on a date?I think These types of dates are fun on paper but expensive and not so shiny in practice The fact is if you’re going to gel with a girl you won’t need to do some unique activity with them, and if you really don’t mesh then locking yourself into archery or golf or something becomes pretty painful I always thought it was reasonable for the first date to be coffee or perhaps a cocktail, then the second one can be more elaborate if you’ve established the baseline attraction | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up.Arrogance is arrogance whether you’ve achieved things or not. Unfortunately it is an aphrodisiac for many women though | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I get a 10/10 girl?She still shits and farts and burps and cries and thinks people hate her and thinks she’s a fuck up etc just treat her like a primate | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | So I have a crush on the guy who works at the front desk at my gym…in need of advicePlease teach me how to enjoy banal small talk | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 10:01 AM |
| 2 | how do you guys handle so many women blowing you up on tinder?It’s a hard life brother I’ve had to hire two doppelgängers of myself to go on dates and fuck women for me | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | is seeing multiple people actually considered normal??Yeah but the core difference is that I don’t see it as a betrayal or infidelity in any form, just like someone who tells you they’re interested in buying your car and then says sorry they’ve found a better one just before they’re set to arrive | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:00 AM |
| 44 | Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club.Maybe fun if you have a fetish for having sex in public, very uncomfortable and rebarbative if you don’t | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 02:04 AM |
| 97 | Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club.I stopped reading at MBA holder | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | is seeing multiple people actually considered normal??I do it only because I’ve have women stand me up and disappear etc so I don’t get too invested for a while for my own mental well-being but I still feel a bit shitty about it, however I still my conscience by reminding myself that they’re probably doing the same thing | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | looking for a guy in Minnesota to slowly seduce my wifeHow the fuck did you get a wife | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:16 PM |
| 12 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsThis is what happens when you give a bunch of gentrified monkeys access to technology | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Hate approaching - what are some other ways to meet people more naturally?Try reading it again perhaps | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | 7 Ways To Build Sexual TensionI hate the whole dog and pony show bullshit “are we going to have sex? Maybe heheh 😈” as if they’re trying to delude themselves into a state of plausible deniability .. you know why the fuck you’re on Tinder I take it some guys find this fun as well. Maybe it’s my autism speaking but I just find it unnecessary. Maybe it’s a reflection on how society still somewhat stigmatises women having casual sex. Or maybe they just enjoy the thrill of it | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyI prefer “you look so inbred I almost mistook you for a sandwich” but either one should do the trick | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 02:26 PM |
| 83 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyIs making a humorous comment about one of their photos or their bio not a thing? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?Flawed human nature and mate selection criteria | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | People say cocky-funny method should only be used to attract hot girls, then what should I use to attract average looking girls?You have the spelling and grammar of a primary school student so and you seem rather guilty of #2 as well, so I assume you compensate for it with your Italian renaissance seduction? Unless English isn’t your first language in which case I guess I’m being an asshole. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel like you can attract most women or only certain types?Harsh but true, for a lot of women anyway (and a lot of men for that matter) Trying to apply logic to dating and led me to a lot of frustration but it’s how my mind works | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel like you can attract most women or only certain types?I guess middle ground - understanding that you will only appeal to certain types but you won’t know until you’ve tried | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Let’s just fuck already“Ma’am I’m having trouble understanding you can you repeat your order” | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you define a “man to woman” connection?But what if there’s no event and it’s just a girl I meet on a Monday morning or something? But yes I’ve noticed I’m always swarming in poon when I wear pantaloons | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you define a “man to woman” connection?The pants party? | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you define a “man to woman” connection?My good man; I reserve my affection for dignified womanhood not the strumpets and streetwalkers you so frequently have dalliances with - they demand a highfalutin courtship dance. One might do well to remember that he whomst lieth with dogs shall rise up with fleas. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Go to a Salsa/Bachata classes to improve your game.I’ve always hated dancing besides when I’m on ecstasy. Will learning to dance make it more enjoyable or are some people just not dancers by nature ? | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 11:42 AM |
| 8 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.I just realised I never naturally compliment women and when I try to correct that it seems to backfire… I think I they like having to work for you attention.. but sometimes that can backfire too… In confusions: I don’t know mate | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Is 4 bodies a lot for a 19 year old Girl?As long as they never find them you’re good. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 08:36 AM |
| 15 | Boring Replies from Girls in Dating AppCreative / humorous statements take a hell of a lot more effort and there’s a greater chance of it backfiring and being misinterpreted, plus sometimes you actually want to know something about someone without devolving into silly banter.. but yeah I’ll try to go more with this approach because questioning and dull answers gets mind numbing | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Five flakes in one weekTroll? Any woman that often schedules multiple dates at the same time and occasionally allows them to meet for the sheer spectacle is abnormal and cancerous If that’s normal to you you’re deranged | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.You might’ve answered your own question; it felt too perfect and that inflamed the self deprecating part of her which felt unworthy or undeserving of it, or perhaps she had a similar experience which ended in disillusionment or worse. Most of us seem to have an instinct that forewarns us when something seems too good to be true - sometimes it saves us from pain but oftentimes it just leads to unnecessary doubt and forfeited opportunities. I’m not sure what the solution is but that’s one explanat… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.I think a lot of strange behaviour can be explained by the fact we aren’t rational | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Five flakes in one weekYou sound as though you conduct your love life like a sociopathic robot I guess you hide that part from women? | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I overestimating how charming women expect us to be?Actually on that note how do you convey a quiet confident energy rather than just shyness? I guess it’s not really something that you can fake eh? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you bring up sex before having it with a new partner?what sort to person or situation would encourage you to bring it up beforehand? If they were being forward or it was established as a one night stand? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Am I overestimating how charming women expect us to be?Surely some women prefer the quiet brooding guy to the one who just drivels on for the sake of making noise | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Am I overestimating how charming women expect us to be?But I assume that only works if you have a natural personality that women are attracted to What if being yourself is being fairly quiet and saying strange often offensives shit with a dark and dry sense of humour that most women don’t appreciate? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Am I overestimating how charming women expect us to be?But I feel like the the amount of options women have at their finger tips if you’re not charming you need to be good looking. It doesn’t seem like raw confidence would really cut it? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you bring up sex before having it with a new partner?why? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:31 AM |
| 0 | Cold approaching is really insaneI cannot imagine that line working but maybe I overestimate how smooth you need to be | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Underrated flirting techniques?Can you give a practical example of how to exude this sort of energy? | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys simp?To be fair I’m guilty of getting caught up on certain girls too. I have specific preferences for personality and sense of humour and when I find a girl like that and it doesn’t work out I do find myself dwelling on it instead of moving right onto other prospects. I’m trying to retrain my brain not to | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys simp?Although most of these comments go unrecognised by the loos of things lol | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys simp?Religiously on the posts of women you’ve never spoken to yeh I’d say so | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys simp?I admit to having triple messaged girls before and getting a bit obsessed but I wouldn’t just mindlessly flatter someone, I would have a proper shot at them. It seems like a lot of the simping behaviour is designed to create an illusion of intimacy, like onlyfans | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many guys simp?The strangest part is that some of the guys are actually pretty good looking, better looking than the girls they’re simping relatively speaking… maybe they do this to every girl hoping that some message them or something. Or maybe they’re just dumb as shit Either way it’s pathetic to see some 18 year old blonde girl with larger than average boobs staring at the camera with some goofy caption and legions of guys reacting with silly emojis | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 07:00 AM |
| 0 | Give a few examples of generic teases or negsWell I don’t work but if I did I would because you maybe don’t know this but people love to be negged and it moves them to tears | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 01:17 AM |
| -1 | Give a few examples of generic teases or negsWell I’ve never contacted a women but I’m trying to get some good lines before I do so do you have any suggestions | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Does causal sex leave you feeling a bit empty?The ultimate goal is to have as few conditions as possible for happiness and fulfilment | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 12:47 AM |
| 9 | I've never seen any "Chads" or cool guys irl do the Pua TeasingThe most interesting character in a movie is almost the diametric opposite to the type of character this subreddit tries to breed with the constant flirtation and negging and mind games and shit though | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Cannot get hook ups. Have to resort to this.“Stable life, shit together” “I need sex” You need a mirror | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:52 PM |
| 3 | I moved to a new city and I have this cougar looking neighbor... I left her a note in hope of her reaching out cause idk where to even start.Well now you know what not to do next time | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever crushed on someone only to realise their sibling is actually a better match?Yeah I don’t think it’s fair to them or you. They should be with someone who adores them and you shouldn’t commit to someone unless they make your jaw drop (at least every now and then) | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:28 AM |
| 21 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recoverAbdicates guilt or her reputation damage, or perhaps just revenge or $ | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 12:46 PM |
| 14 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recoverOn one hand I think those found guilty of making false allegations should be subject to incredibly serious legal punishment, but on the other hand one can see how the system can prevent genuine survivors of sexual assault from stepping forward and pressing charges, on the chance that they have insufficient evidence and the defendant charges them with defamation - especially if they’re wealthy. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 02:40 AM |
| 50 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recoverSorry that happened. Slimy opportunists like that do a disservice to survivors of sexual assault by diluting the currency of the term rape and causing people to be more suspicious of allegations. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 02:30 AM |
| 3 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?It’s not my philosophy but I’ll bet that about 50% of guys here go for quantity over quality and just want to be able to say they’ve slept with 100 women. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?Is it usually obvious at the time if you’re planning to meet with someone again? Are there some hookups where you’ve both accepted tacitly that it will only be a one night stand and you wouldn’t expect them to reach out to you again even if they have your number? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Biggest confidence boost?The simple realisation that you don’t actually need anyone to like you. Your self worth isn’t determined by other people unless you allow it to be. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Are dating coaches a waste of money?I’d rather never be with a woman again than pay some slimy charlatan that much money | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Best replies to those girls who doesn't follow you back...How do you move on so quickly? I can’t choose who I get attached to , it seems to be almost subconscious | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:51 PM |
| 0 | … what the fuckI’m just incredulous at how stupid human beings mate selection process is that it would literally encourage people to choose partners who are likely to drag them into a life so instability drama and crime over a mild and stable life. Especially in the modern world it makes no sense. What’s your idea of having an edge? Push pull and hot and cold stuff? That’s better than actually being a volatile loser but it’s still silly that we need to resort to that to attract women | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 10:54 AM |
| 0 | … what the fuckI got over it after a few days but yesterday I saw her pop up on social media so I had a peek. I deleted her though and I should really delete everyone who I had a date with | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | … what the fuckI’m a nicer guy than he seems to be. I’m not a racist, for one thing. Some people are just nicer - they have more empathy, they’re not willing to encroach on peoples boundaries, they don’t put their sexual gratification ahead of other peoples comfort and they treat women like they would want their sister to get treated. If that causes women to get bored because their biological programming is all messed up then so be it | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | … what the fuckAs a developmental psychologist said women are attracted to dark triad traits until they grow up and realise that those relationships are disastrous and unstable in the long run, plus what does that mean? Are you going to act like a criminal to get the young naive women interested? | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | … what the fuckwell I have the same sense of humour and Interests and morals and ambitions as myself so yes I would. I guess people are looking for different qualities in different people and it’s not really fair to say they’re making a stupid decision but also they’re making a stupid decision | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | … what the fuckA caveman with a kid who lives 2 hours away Maybe I’m being harsh, but he also seems like a racist based on one of his posts I understand shes programmed to want a confident dominant man… maybe he has those qualities… but in no logical way does it make sense for a 21 year old girl to go for a 36 year old illiterate man with a child who lives in another town. There are enough men near her age who meet those criteria without the other baggage. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 4 | To much anxiety while going out solo.Do you guys really think the juice is worth the squeeze? Life’s short - you could be hanging with a friend, reading a good book, anything else instead of forcing yourself to stay in an environment you don’t enjoy. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Are we going to talk about why clever/funny replies are pointless?I think certain more refined women appreciate a clever volley of banter, but looks are still foremost, and I agree that you don’t want to set a precedent as though you’re wittier than Oscar Wilde then feel the need to keep that up if it’s not your character I mean half the guys who have the most success are borderline retarded, devoid of individuality and just regurgitate pick up lines they read, and that seems to do the trick I enjoy a repartee for its own sake but it really doesn’t get you any… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?I think reshaping your objectives and definitions of success might help. There’s a lot more to life than women / sex and it shouldn’t be your main source of confidence | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Will I keep meeting people I really connect with?You might never connect with anyone ever again, but it’s still worth trying isn’t it? | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back?I’d abort the mission | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Are you ever really yourself around women you’re interested in?Fun perhaps but what’s beautiful about wearing a mask? | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever really yourself around women you’re interested in?Why not? | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateSeems like the guys who do best with women have lifestyles where they’re naturally meeting a lot Of women, but I prefer reading writing, playing music etc to going out so I have to really force myself | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Are you ever really yourself around women you’re interested in?Yeah. Go through any of our cherished comedians back catalogs and you’ll find it full of stuff on par with this - George Carlin, Ricky Gervais, Kevin bridges, Jimmy Carr, David Mitchell Nothing is off limits and why should it be? It’s all a matter of context and delivery If someone can’t comprehend the concept of levity that’s their problem | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Are you ever really yourself around women you’re interested in?I mean we are just products of our genome, upbringing and environment and are constantly changing but be that as it may It’s obvious when you’re not being true to yourself, if you’re in tune with your body you’ll feel a slight bit of discomfort every time you say or do something that doesn’t align with what you really think or feel, that’s why I don’t hold back my opinions, even if they end up working against me. I guess if you just wanted a very short term sexual encounter you could act a certa… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:32 AM |
| 8 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateWhat if all my hobbies and interest and friends circles put me nowhere near women? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Elaborate | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here had success as an extreme introvert? How?Does your tolerance for dramatic bs build up with practice? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 01:06 AM |
| 4 | I have never seem a guy spit game like this1) do you think he actually enjoys it or does he see it as just being an ego inflation exercise? The guy I know who’s slept with the most women is almost like a robot with his approach toward life ; utilising emotional expression as a tool rather than having genuine reactions. It seems hollow and depressing from my perspective. 2) I bet he would care very much if women ignored him for days or weeks on end. He sounds like he’s built his identity around pick up, and sure a rejection here and there… | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here had success as an extreme introvert? How?Yeah fair point. Altho sometimes introverts can be really intense over messaging I’ve noticed haha And since I’m a guy I find most women are reluctant to come to my place on the first or second date so I guess a quiet cafe or park is the best option | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 08:23 AM |
| 3 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.The real question is whether you contort yourself to match their energy and mood? I’m usually pretty serious although I have a dark sense of humour, sometimes they find this extremely attractive but when they’re in a playful silly mood I can be a wet blanket because I just can’t force myself to match their energy | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How to subtly flirt?How overt could I be in a park with a girl who seems shy though? What should I try to do to flirt without making her uncomfortable? | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | How to subtly flirt?I’ve got girls interested in me before by being slightly flirty when I haven’t really intended to pursue them, so I think some types of women appreciate it | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 06:48 AM |
| 6 | Am I a low status man?Whats your response if they ask you what you do? I know it shouldn’t matter per se but apparently it does quite a bit, and not just to avaricious gold diggers but to women looking for a long term partner I guess if you’re only having casual sex it needn’t be a consideration | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 10:59 AM |
| 2 | losing hope...well it’s not a moral stance but I’ve seen firsthand how smutty and vulgar comments have made my female friends uncomfortable and I didn’t think it was necessary to be telling a girl about what you want to do with her since it’s implicit that if you hang out and head back to one of your places you’ll most likely end up having sex. I’ve also been of the opinion that actually speaking about sexual stuff can kill the atmosphere, sort of like when someone talks out loud in a game of Chinese whispers… | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | losing hope...So let’s say I’m tall and quite attractive, I have a deep voice, I’m intelligent and humorous and I can hold strong eye contact - why do I still seem to get treated platonically by most women? Do I need to explicit talk about how much I want to fuck them the first time I meet them or something? Surely they can infer that if I’ve approached them to talk I’m probably interested | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 5 | I have a co worker that I cannot crack its driving me nuts CONFUSED HELPAre you brain damaged? | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How does a regular guy get laid?It seems like seducing is code for try to desperately insert a sexual innuendo every 30 seconds out of a terrified fear that she might friend zone me. To me that approach goes from being confident to actually kind of tryhard I mean I’ll say a few things to express my interest in her but whenever I see practical advice here it seems like most guys are bludgeoning women over the head with sexual compliments and innuendos constantly. But hey if it works for guys then maybe that’s what most women wa… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 6 | What’s appropriate to talk about during a cold approach?Surely there’s a middle ground between being boring and trying to insert an innuendo into every sentence in fear that she might friend zone you The top conversation is dull but I’ve had dates that went from conversation like that to kissing because I built enough rapport where they felt comfortable The bottom conversation is more fun but also seems tryhard and grovelling, surely nobody actually talks like that normally? And the effort needed to try to spin everything she says into something that… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What’s appropriate to talk about during a cold approach?It’s not just meeting any new person it’s someone who you’re trying to portray yourself in the best possible light whilst holding frame and all that shit. But go on what do you actually talk about with someone you approach? | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:27 AM |
| 5 | How does a regular guy get laid?What the hell do you say to a girl at the grocery store? Say you make a comment about something, you talk about that for like 30 seconds - then what? Are you going to ask them about what they do for work or how their day is going or what their favourite sex position is? I never know what’s appropriate to talk about on a cold approach like that | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Dating after Nuclear war?Finally my mutant appearance won’t be such a repellent | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Introducing yourself as gay if you want to wingman?Honestly bro I’ve decided lately to be more discriminating about who I invest my time and energy in since I’m looking for a longer term partner ideally… and goddamn I’m really ruling out 99% of women… but it feels like the right approach after spending far too long trying to appease and make it work with vapid drama queens … if just sucks that the type I’m into personality - wise isn’t usually my type physically | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?Hmm I’ll often have women get annoyed that I don’t know what I want when I give an answer like that ( which is true… I don’t know if I want causal sex or something more) | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you take things slowly if they say they’re looking for a relationship?I’m looking for a longer term thing at the moment but agree that sexual compatibility is pretty important too so wouldn’t want to wait too long only to realise that we’re perhaps not compatible as we thought ( obviously you can work at it) If you’re just aiming for a casual relationship do you reflect that from the very beginning? How do you go about expressing that without someone who was initially more interested in a relationship l? | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 04:39 PM |
| 23 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itYeah it could be your 1000th time having sex but if you’ve got the wrong type of woman and the energy and empathy isn’t there it’s going to feel a bit uncomfortable No wonder so many guys complain that they don’t enjoy one night stands… it’s like yeah because you’ve just got a girl who you don’t know at all, who you’re not even that attracted to, when you’re tired and drunk, and you’re surprised when you don’t have amazing intimate Sex? | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 01:32 AM |
| -2 | Want advice on a very specific scenarioOh fuck off If double messaging a girl on a dating app is creepy in your world then you I take it you never leave your house because this is nothing compared to the lengths that the average guy I know will go to in order to attract women | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Want advice on a very specific scenarioI’ve had dates with women who ghosted me for weeks after I messaged I’ll sometimes go a week or two without replying to anyone or using the apps myself nothing to lose by giving it a go | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Age Objection: "you re too old for me"Perhaps try to find an older girl who looks younger? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupHow silly that we are expected to beat around the bush like that. But I guess that’s the reality of it | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupHow do you phrase it? | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 09:40 AM |
| 132 | Fall Back guy disguised as Male Best Friend?Got to love the irony of how frequently women behave like this whilst insisting that guys most know what they want and play no games | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 10:31 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys deal with mind blanks?People here laud that book as though it’s a holy scripture. I’ve read it along with Mansons later works and indeed it contains some valuable insights but I wanted some practical advice about how you guys usually deal with silences and mind blanks | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I missing out by not being on Instagram?Missing out on a lot of unnecessary envy, anxiety and virtue signalling | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says " I don't know you" and how would respond to it?It’s a fair point though. I have female friends who won’t give any guys the time of day if they were cold approached but they will go hiking with a stranger on a dating app who could very well be an axe murderer It’s a strange bit of illogic I think | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:57 PM |
| 4 | How to talk about nothing?Yeah well said I just struggle to accept it I have an incredibly wry and morbid sense of humour, and my friends and I have great off kilter conversations but it’s not something that translates well to a dating context. The Michael cera esque cute endearing safe humour that most girls respond best to on dates just pains me to do since I don’t find it funny and then I feel like I’m just putting on a facade. I guess it boils down to the fact that I don’t typically find date conversation fun because… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:43 PM |
| -6 | This is crazy but I’m moving out of London to WarsawAren’t 99% of polish women god fearing nut jobs? And isn’t it full of Ukrainians now haha | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:09 PM |
| 18 | I went from shy virgin to fuckboyIs it really a mission to get the most notches on the bed post? The more comprehensive literature helps you put game into perspective so it doesn’t become the dominant part of life | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Is this meant to be that way?Drink more, go out with the intention to have fun not just get women, go with a friend or two Or do what I did and accept that clubs aren’t your scene unless you’re on drugs or you really want to see a particular dj and focus on meeting women through cold approach and volutneering and other activities | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.How the fuck do people talk about nothing for hours on end? | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 08:30 AM |
| 14 | Beaches are great for Same Day Lays!1) What’s your approach to get a girl back to your apartment that quickly? I guess physical attraction would be the main thing at play 2) Do you not ever feel uncomfortable having sex with someone you only met less than half an hour ago? I take it I’m the odd one out but I usually need to spend a few hours getting to know someone before I feel comfortable enough to want to fuck them | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 12:27 PM |
| 6 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.What specifically do you mean when you say you improved by the way? Do you mean you became more aware of what’s appropriate to say and what makes women uncomfortable or you just became more confident in saying whatever you want? | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 09:19 AM |
| 63 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..How does a guy with an average sized dick even have sex in certain positions with a girl with an enormous ass | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 04:55 AM |
| 4 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..Make sure you’re thinking with the right head Also big asses do nothing for me but small, shapely ones do | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 04:54 AM |
| 91 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?We’re allowed to recognise our own shortcomings Confidence is too great of an aphrodisiac in modern society when it no longer means anything necessarily, just look at how this is exploited not only in the courtship realm but in business and politics | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 03:15 PM |
| 3 | I panicked while asking a girl for her instaNow you have a slightly amusing story to tell your friend tonight. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 309 | What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested?Makes you realise how pathetic the whole courtship dance is | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 4 | How would you compliment an older woman?I mean in general Everyone likes a compliment if it’s genuine but I feel like the way most guys in the seduction community deliver compliments without real feelings and it’s obvious that they’re just trying to endear themselves. I guess if the woman takes well to the guy then it’s not a problem though | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:43 AM |
| 4 | So do most guys here just go for immature, insecure, idiotic women or something?I walked over and chatted to a cute girl yesterday but she kept asking me whether I was ready to order | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:35 AM |
| 11 | How would you compliment an older woman?I much prefer older women (I’m 27) in the 30-40 bracket, not only because I prefer softer womanly bodies which they tend to have but because they’re generally better company. It seems like many younger people today are devoid of unique personality, or perhaps they just haven’t yet found their foothold in the world - many of them think they can get by with giggling and contributing almost nothing. Or maybe I’ve just gotten unlucky | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | So do most guys here just go for immature, insecure, idiotic women or something?Well from what I gather it seems like a lot of guys here are terrified of positioning themselves as platonic in the eyes of the girl they’re trying to woo and so they will overcompensate by jamming crude sexual lines into every sentence (assuming they actually talk to women) when the irony is that if they had talked to the woman as they had their friends they would probably come across as more charming, humorous, and confident - granted at a certain point one needs to make their attraction more … | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:29 AM |
| 6 | How would you compliment an older woman?Do initial compliments really work? I’ve always though they were a bit obsequious | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m certain that most of my female friends would be disgusted if someone made a statement like that, alright pal have fun saying that as you masturbate yourself to sleep Confidence gets people too far in life but I think this community exaggerates it- or they’re just going for insecure women | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not just that but none of the lines I’ve ever seen here or in pickup in field videos have been anything more than cringeworthy and sound as though they were concocted by a horny 16 year old I’m sure they work on certain types of girls, but I could never bring myself to use them. To be honest I’m not sure why I still bother coming here | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I feel bad for the people on the r/Foreveralone subredditIt’s not a particularly far cry from some of the guys here who’s self worth is steeped on their success with women | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 10:19 AM |
| 18 | How to drop a girl without being a dick?I usually make it about me. “Hey Rachel :) look you seem like a genuinely lovely person, and I’ve enjoyed chatting but I’ll be honest I’ve had a bunch of unexpected things pop up recently (family and work issues) that have put me in the wrong headspace for dating. So I’m just focusing m on myself for a while, if you’d like I could message you when I’m feeling back on top if things, but otherwise best of luck x’ Usually they reply something like “hey, sorry to hear that. Yeah let me know if you’r… | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 10:16 AM |
| 11 | How to drop a girl without being a dick?“you’re not interested in the nicest way possible” Oh | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting better as a man and you will get more pussy with ageAh fair enough. I’ve never found it easy to enjoy Sex with someone who I don’t have a deeper emotional connection with. I wish I could, life would be more interesting. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Where to have the first date if they live pretty far away?What does half trying look like though? And what if she hasn’t mentioned whether she is or isn’t willing to, would you ask her or assume that she is (unless she gives off the distinct vibe that she isn’t) | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting better as a man and you will get more pussy with ageMuscle and business sound like a sure fire way to attract a certain type of girl who becomes less besotted with you when your muscle and business decline | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Keep getting better as a man and you will get more pussy with ageWell 31 isn’t even old in most womens eyes and they probably consider you to be more stable and well established than younger guys | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?That’s my point; confidence is misinterpreted as signalling competence, which is attractive because historically it meant a survival advantage and superior genes and so on. Think about it, if there was never any correlation between confidence and competence then confidence wouldn’t be worth anything at all. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Where to have the first date if they live pretty far away?Do you try to have Sex on the 1st date or just focus on building connection? Or do whatever feels natural? | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?Dancing is harmless but there are guys who put on a complete facade and keep that going for months or years, there’s no way I could keep that shit up | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?One of the stupidest things about human beings is our tendency to misinterpret confidence as competence | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What am I missing?You understand that first point goes against basically all the advice here? I’m not trying to have Sex with the average person so I’m going to treat them a bit differently to an attractive girl If describing a guy who’s stabbed someone and cheated on his partner as an immoral cunt makes me a nice guy then I’ll accept that label | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 2 | What am I missing?Probably reading too much seduction stuff can backfire and cause you to seem less genuine for sure. I need to focus on just having fun again. But morally speaking this coworker is not a good guy - he’s bragged about stabbing someone before for stepping on his Yeezys and has cheated on his current partner. On top of that he knows nothing about anything, has a basic sense of humour and no ambition - but clearly he’s doing something right | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:10 AM |
| 2 | What am I missing?It’s struck me that perhaps I would be doing better with women if I’d never read a thing about game and was just focused on having fun not on calibration and escalation strategies and all of that which caused it to feel less spontaneous and more inorganic Maybe that’s why some of these apparent half wits do so well - they’ve got that raw unadulterated energy and don’t seem to be strategising ( even if they are a bit) | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:07 AM |
| 2 | What am I missing?I mean obviously girls seem then as possessing qualities I do not so hats off to them there, but also I knew a gangbanger drug dealing piece of scum who had girls around the clock because of his tough demeanour - certain types of girls that I wouldn’t be interested in but the point stands that you definitely don’t need to be a genuine high value guy to attract women I’m not some incredible high value guy but I feel like I should be doing better than I do just based on the fact I’m tall and muscu… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | What am I missing?Well apparently I don’t even really know how to escalate at all. There are some instances where the girl is clearly quite attracted to me and thinks I’m a nice and funny guy but it’s as if I manage to talk and act myself out of her pants rather than into them - but eye contact, some flirting, some touching - what else am I supposed to do? I think my flirting needs some work - it tends to be dry double entendres that can fly over heads rather than endearing compliments or directly amorous remarks… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?I might upload 2 or 3 photos per year but that’s it I’m all about living in the moment and social media seeks to destroy that - my female friends will literally spent half an hour at every event just taking photos, it’s pathetic | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveI wasn’t making a case for avoiding it I was just asking what he meant by getting good at it | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:27 PM |
| 10 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveWhat do people even mean by get good? Most the time a girl knows before you open your mouth whether she’s interested in you. It’s unlikely that you can say some magic combination of words that will create interest where it wasn’t there based on your appearance or general vibe | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveYeah but having used both lately, at least the girls on dating apps are single and somewhat interested, whilst most people in person are icy cold and clearly don’t appreciate being bothered | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 05:00 AM |
| 0 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?Hmm Is that true even if they have a public account? At least in person you can be sure people bloody hear what you’re saying to them even if they’re not interested lol | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 4 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?But I feel that until I get a better profile (if I ever do ) then the message actually helps to create some interest if I make it funny and unique It’s still very unlikely and I’d be better off just meeting people offline though | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:01 AM |
| 6 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?I had a date with someone who I messaged when we were following each other last year so it’s possible but unlikely | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 11 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?I’m gonna do a photoshoot with my cousin taking photos this week But I hate social media and will never be someone who uses it regularly and certainly not posting stories and shit so it’s probably foolish for me to be attempting to meet people there | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 01:55 AM |
| 21 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?Is it worth bothering if you only have one fairly crap photo on your profile? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 01:51 AM |
| 4 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?So it’s worth sending them a follow request rather than sending them a message? | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Is there actually dark psychology stuff to make a girl fall in love ?I know that fear and arousal are often confounded, and some unhinged criminal types guys will give girls emotional spikes and push pull by default because they’re so unstable, which unfortunately works on certain types of women - not the type you want to go for or the approach you want to take | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you get sick of having to be “on” all the time?That’s true, but for me I need to have a certain level of physical attraction to actually stay hard lol. And if I’m really not attracted to them I don’t even feel like being intimate with them anyway, and the thought of it makes me a bit disgusted to be honest I don’t think it’s impossible for me to find someone who ticks both boxes but girls like that don’t come around every day Yeah I’m proud. I just realised that I don’t know how to use paragraphs, I just create a new one when I think I’ve ra… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you get sick of having to be “on” all the time?It’s important advice though, sometime I get stuck in the mindset of thinking “If I can I should” but truth is I don’t even like having sex with girls who I don’t enjoy being around, so there’s literally no point, it’s a waste of time energy money and there’s a risk of pregnancy STDs etc It sucks when you’re really physically attracted to a girl but your personalities don’t work… it always seems like I either love their personality or their looks neither both… one day | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you get sick of having to be “on” all the time?Good advice! But don’t be afraid to use paragraphs man | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How important is it to match their energy?Me neither I don’t even fuck women because I’ve got better things to do than try to give some hoe some pleasure. Sometimes I’ll take a hand shandy or a suction service though as long as it’s done on my watch | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Are there any ways to hack the game?I tried approaching girls last week and I was dressed well and in a good mood. The responses were icy cold. Only one nice interaction out of about 15. They especially hated it when I tried to invite them to the Scientology information session | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Are there any ways to hack the game?The curse is that you never know if anybody likes you for you ever again - in a way you can never make another genuine friend and be assured that they’re actually your friend | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone at a point in their 20s where they don’t care about women and only care about getting money.If your overarching goal in life is making money that’s arguably even shallower than trying to fuck as many women as possible | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Are there any ways to hack the game?I’ve seen enough junkies and scumbags with girls to know that it’s not that simple, although I guess that’s where you need to question the quality of the women | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 3 | i give up. I can't open my mouth at all. I think I'm going to check out.If that’s your wish then so be it but you’ve set a very narrow definition for success and conditions for self worth in life and I’m not sure why | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:11 AM |
| 9 | i give up. I can't open my mouth at all. I think I'm going to check out.Do you really think that your life is worthless without a slimy cunt to put your meat in? There are junkie psychopath pedophile scum who have girlfriends - you think they’re better than you as well because they managed to attract a girl? Getting women isn’t nothing it can be a fun experience but It wont cure depression or self hatred, you’ll feel good for a while, but eventually that diminishes. If you give people all the power to build you up then you give them the power to tear you down again | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Intimacy without commitmentAnd what if you’re not sure whether you want a committed relationship with them until you’ve had Sex because you want to test your sexual compatibility as well? People expect you to know immediately whether you’re just wanting something casual or not… I tell them that I’m open to something committed but not necessarily looking for it and they take that as me being fickle but what am I supposed to say? | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 12:45 PM |
| 17 | How are you doing with the dating appsWell I’ve got decent photos and I list my height as 6’4, so I get a few matches, and a few conversations but fuck me dead I cannot get a reply beyond 2 or 3 messages from anyone these days. I don’t know if I’m just lazier but it seems to have gotten significantly harder than it was just 2-3 years ago just to organise a date with someone. I’ve been ghosted, blocked and stood up so many times in the last year I’m surprised I still bother. But last week I went out and cold approached about 10 women… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 12:41 PM |
| 89 | Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose?I don’t think they intentionally do it, but A) they’re playing on easy mode B) they want to sound respectable and virtuous with the advice they give | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 12:23 PM |
| 0 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laid1) the issue is the getting laid part. It’s massively over valued - as though it separates boys from men. Theres a drug addict living a few houses down who looks like a skeleton with a few missing teeth and he someone manages to always have a girl with him… it doesn’t actually mean shit about your value as a person 2) by the time the girl sees your abs you’re probably going to fuck her anyway | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 6 | How does one attract a "baddie" type?1st question is do you really want a girl like that even for casual Sex? I’m really attracted to them too but I can’t stand their dramatic personalities most the time If you want to proceed Put yourself in places where you’ll meet them - there are certain clubs here that attract them - and be quite cocky and forward and be prepared for some shit tests (not the intellectual type you might get from a geeky feminist type but ones that challenge your masculinity). They seem to get bored easily (desp… | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaches indeed..I wouldn’t say it’s never ever worth approaching again but… yeah don’t be expecting a positive outcome, it’s clearly gotten much harder. Even approaching at social events has gotten tougher I hate what social media and online dating has done here | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | You ever say such a good flirty line that even you’re shocked by it?Hey girl if I were dyslexic and you were an angle you would be acute one, because something isn’t right with you. No I just can’t use pickup lines, if something comes to me while I’m talking I’ll spit it out but I feel uncomfortable using a canned line | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | What to do in a public setting when a female stranger responds to your smile by showing interest in you? Please share recommendations for this, and other public setting contexts where a female shows interest. Thanks!Yeah I know it’s just a point that’s often glazed over but when it comes down to it I often can’t think of anything to bring up or I overthink it and before long the opportunity is gone | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | What to do in a public setting when a female stranger responds to your smile by showing interest in you? Please share recommendations for this, and other public setting contexts where a female shows interest. Thanks!About what? “Hey… I couldn’t help but notice your coy smile and have interpreted that as a potential expression of your desire to be fucked senseless” It’s a real thing tho - I’m never too sure wtf to talk to a stranger about | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Public Service Announcement: Those girls you are afraid of approach are usually more insecure than you!That actually discourages me if anything. I don’t want to be with insecure, fickle people who one moment are calling security then laughing and letting loose then telling you to fuck off because you crossed some arbitrary boundary. Some guys love that aspect of game but I just find it exhausting tbh | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It almost sounds like you’re bragging about spending all day approaching women | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Riddle me thisThanks, I’ve heard Todd V (but if a schmuck but he has some good points) talk about playing to win rather than playing not to lose. I need to internalise it because lately I’ve been seeing it as a game of “don’t fuck up” especially because everyone is so disposable these days, one slip up and you’re getting ghosted or blocked, at least that’s how it feels. Plus it can be something as small as they misinterpreted something you said as being sexist or didn’t like something you posted. But I need t… | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Riddle me thisHmm that makes sense Though I don’t think there would be any sense in approaching random people I’m not attracted to because then the rejection wouldn’t matter as much and wouldn’t desensitise me On that note do you prefer the conversational approach or a direct approach? | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeCool so all I have to do to put my dick in slimy slits is get a big ego become selfish cold and heartless | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?Reminds me of the time my uncle Steve tripped and fell behind me and his pork sword accidentally entered my poop chute. He apologised but then he did it again he was such a clutz | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:07 AM |
| 10 | Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?Does pretending to ignore a girls clear advances usually make them go crazy and try harder or just move on? I can’t say I’ve been in that position many times before lol | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:04 AM |
| 27 | Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance?I know a lot of people would respond something like “bro she’s already into you just touch her back and get her into bed” but I also wouldn’t really know what’s appropriate when a girls being that forward - do I put my arm around her, go in for a kiss, make a joke about it, act as though I haven’t noticed to see how she reacts etc | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:02 AM |
| 18 | Hooked up with a girl at a festival last nightI’ve never figured out how to pull a girl at a festival if they’re with all their friends and I’m with mine and there’s people everywhere and nowhere to talk or chill What’s your advice? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:40 AM |
| 5 | How can I get much hotter girls on online dating? I get quantity not quality.He fucks 12 new women per month on average, how can he be shallow!! | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How can I get much hotter girls on online dating? I get quantity not quality.Do you see life as a competitor of who can sleep with the most attractive women? I’m actually curious if that’s your perspective | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Going clubbing alone after casual sexI’d have Sex then think “actually if rather go hang out with a friend now or play guitar rather than spend all night trying to chase women around” | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | [NSFW] I’m tired of jerking offI’d say quit porn and jerking but then you don’t want to direct all that energy toward women or you’ll come off too strong; redirect it into things like working out, competitive sport, creative pursuits | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]How about stuff like “You know you’re not half as bad as they say you are” if you say it in the right way I just like saying stuff like that to people to see how they respond, it makes life a bit less boring | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 12:52 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I’ve only been into sex shops twice and the only other customers I saw were sweaty middle aged men | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Not necessarily - if they’re overreacting or being melodramatic that doesn’t mean that I would too because logically that would help me connect with them. It means I value logic over emotionality - and to behave otherwise would be kind of manipulative. You’ve never met me, I’m not autistic, I just don’t really take well to prolonged outpouring of emotion or people who only seem to operate with rash decision making without applying much critical thinking. Like if a girl is going on about some iss… | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.It’s one thing to say you got more confident but what specifically are you saying or doing that’s so different? I assume you look better now that you workout but confidence isn’t always enough, especially online | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.Well it’s biologically and socially engrained in them to get as many women as humanely possible - it’s not even necessarily about the pleasure. I agree it’s sad, a bit dehumanising and a tremendous waste of time and energy | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that abstaining from masturbation does anything useful?I’m extremely anti religious but the shame is more cast upon myself for resorting to masturbating over pixels when I should be out connecting with women | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that abstaining from masturbation does anything useful?Also, I don’t know about you but if I’ve just masturbated to porn (especially fetish porn or something unusual) I feel strange interacting with women for the rest of the day… almost as if they know… it’s almost a guilty feeling But every now and then I get an overwhelming urge and I can’t really suppress it. I need to channel that energy into going out, but going out feels like such an expensive tiring chore sometimes | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 11:04 PM |
| 5 | because i have sex once a week, it distracts me from getting better with girlsWell how are you having sex once a week if you’re shy and bad with women? | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Something that never ceases to astound me.I mean I agree with all that, you obviously don’t need to possess all those qualities or even many of them to find a woman - but that’s something I need to constantly remind myself because I came to believe that I did, then would get frustrated and surprised whenever I saw guys who seemed to be the opposite of that doing well with women I guess that should be a relief, although It’s amusing how confidence is misinterpreted for competence, the only reason a woman is attracted to confidence is bec… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | How many here are tall, attractive, successful, but still struggle to land the girls you want/target?You can devalue the outcome but you can’t be outcome independent - if you were you wouldn’t be here and you wouldn’t bother approaching women. Also if I really adopt an attitude or not giving a fuck I end up being a bit of an offensive dickhead and I can’t see that working in my favour with women Probably displaying more of an attitude that you don’t give a fuck ( even if you do a bit) will help because I’ve noticed the same thing that whenever I have my sight set on someone I end up pushing the… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 6 | How many here are tall, attractive, successful, but still struggle to land the girls you want/target?Being care free and outcome independent … then you advocate to go introspective after every interaction to figure out what went wrong… seems contradictory to me | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Good point. It always astounds me how quickly the tides can turn I’ve seen guys simp out to get a woman whilst she’s hardly giving him the time of day then 4 months later he’s won her over and she’s like his puppy dog and hes treating her like crap whilst she defends him. That example has got nothing to do with this post but it’s amusing how quickly things can change once in a relationship So I guess it’s worth establishing that you’re able to be fun and relaxed up front (without appearing too e… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Ghosted after the 4th dateYeah that’s basically causal sex in a nutshell, or pursuing casual sex with the intensity that many people here do | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Yeah although at what point of dating someone would you just start talking how you want to talk? | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Yeah also look at leaders like trump appealing to emotion with almost no logic I’d actually like to date a geeky girl who enjoys intellectual discussion, perhaps even one who’s sapiosexual, but they’re few and far between and the only ones I’ve met like that aren’t ones I’ve been physically attracted to (I like ratchet looking girls haha) | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Oh em gee then Stacey and chad had sex in a graveyard and omg chad ended up finishing accidentally all over Stacey’s grandmas gravestone he was so embarrassed heheheh :p What are some tips for telling a good story? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?But what if you think it’s inappropriate to respond emotionally because they’re being histrionic and you don’t want to get dragged into it? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?You assume it’s struggling socially and emotionally but how about just not emotionally overreacting to a situation or wanting to problem solve it but in doing so coming across as unsympathetic to someone who’s highly emotional? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 11:10 AM |
| 0 | What to do if the girl talks too much and it's annoyingHire a hooker if you just want sex and nothing else | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Ghosted after the 4th date1) wtf is a baddie 2) there are probably only about 40 million attractive young single women, still a lot tho | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Mainly a relationship but I’m also brutally selective, I had about 20 dates last year but none of them I felt like progressing - I just don’t like the idea of dating someone who I’m not drooling over physically and very mentally attracted to her - otherwise I tell myself I’ll keep searching. Maybe I’m being unrealistic but I hate the idea of settling in any capacity and I have met one girl like that but unfortunately she had to move cities and it became too difficult | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?True but I feel like it would make things more interesting for me as well so it doesn’t feel like I’m just playing a computer game “she says this” —> I respond like this etc I guess some people enjoy gamifying human interaction like that but it gets exhausting for me Which is funny because you’d think my logical brain would enjoy it But I can’t exactly make myself a more emotional person so I guess I just have to play the cards I’ve got and try to connect with people best I can | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Good point I guess it does boil down to how you communicate and I can see how partners could synergize like that, but I’m just not sure if I could be with someone who’s highly emotional because I tend to have a low threshold for it and I get burned out very quickly by people who are highly emotionally reactive to stuff ( maybe also because I’m more of an introvert) | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 6 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Yeah I sometimes wonder if I’m just a bit sociopathic because the average person does seem to care about how their partner slept or how their days going, but I get most emotionally invested in conversations about religion, politics, the human condition, suicide and so on - the very things they warn you not to talk about with a partner. Or they say go talk about those things with your friends, not your partner. Ok so wtf do I talk about with my partner? How cute that dog is and how they had too m… | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Is being highly logical a curse when you’re trying to connect with someone?Yeah I want to fuck her so it would be logical to do everything that will give me the best shot at doing that, but I find it hard to be spontaneous and emotionally expressive Maybe it’s more like undiagnosed autism than being logical but all the most highly logical people I know (engineers especially) are some of the least emotionally reactive people I’ve met, and being stoic is good but being inexpressive isn’t | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How to determine if a girl is the right person to marry?Yeah I know what you mean, it’s something I struggle with too. Because unfortunately as much as I love being around someone I can’t convince myself to be sexually aroused if I’m not really. And then it doesn’t feel fair being with them if you’re not really that sexually attracted to them. That’s why I think it’s important to be very attracted to whoever you’re dating - it’s just as important as all the shit I mentioned. But also to remind yourself that you’re naturally going to become a bit less… | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How to determine if a girl is the right person to marry?Well that’s just lust - there must be one or two girls you’re met who you just enjoy being around besides wanting to fuck them? I’d say that’s what’s needed for a healthy relationship to work | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Are cold approaches inevitably a bit awkward?That’s the underlying context for everyone here though right I mean on a base level we wouldn’t choose to approach if we didn’t want some particular outcome unless you’re going around approaching every random stranger But I think it’s important to realise that although we want it we don’t need a certain outcome | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Are cold approaches inevitably a bit awkward?Idk tbh I’ve never watched rsd I just made that up. I feel like these things can actually work if they like your vibe and find you attractive but even in those cases it’s always got a slightly uncomfortable atmosphere to it. And if they find you attractive you could probably just walk up and be yourself I think it’s also because people these days are a bit hesitant to chat in public especially in the last 2 years | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Are cold approaches inevitably a bit awkward?The last time I got a girls number I was working in a store and sold her a pair of shoes The time before that there was a hailstorm and we had to take shelter under the same roof and started talking And before that a girl smashed into my car in the carpark and after we sorted out insurance we realised we liked each other a bit and had a date The problem is there’s not always much context, especially if you see a hot girl walking past you at the mall or something I mean the context is that I thin… | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Are cold approaches inevitably a bit awkward?There’s just so much flaking and catfishing and scamming and wasted time on dating apps in my experience I’ve had a lot of dates where I realised I wasn’t even attracted to her and that wouldn’t have happened if we met offline So I think they’re worth using but I want to focus mainly on meeting people face to face | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 05:20 AM |
| 0 | Are cold approaches inevitably a bit awkward?I agree but I also don’t accept that’s it’s possible to be completely outcome independent when approaching an attractive woman. The times I’ve done best are when I genuinely wasn’t looking to meet women so I must’ve given off a vibe that either I wasn’t desperate or wasn’t available and women were drawn to it, but I didn’t take it further because I wasn’t in the mood or position to lol | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Are cold approaches inevitably a bit awkward?If I wanted entertainment I’d put in my headphones and listen to an enjoyable podcast or hang out with a friend Trying to make small talk with a stranger isn’t really my idea of entertainment, I’m only doing it so I can potentially have sex with and possibly date them | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 02:04 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]“Hold hands? For I don’t feel like your third brother” Is this supposed to be delivered in broken English? I don’t hold hands on the first date personally it feels too intimate | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:39 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Stop seeing sex as a performance and start seeing it as a way to bond with someone, ironically then you’ll find yourself putting in a better performance - but that’s not the point Also make sure your actually comfortable and attracted to her | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What are some more Natural ways to break the ice like this one;Put yourself in places where it’s more conducive to having a conversation as well rather than just the shopping mall | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Was this a shit test?She turned out it be a religious crackpot so I dropped her | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:19 AM |
| 9 | How to determine if a girl is the right person to marry?How to know if you’ve found true love (in my opinion): 1) you feel like you can be unapologetically yourself with them and they appreciate it - you don’t need to put on a facade 2) you generally feel uplifted after having spent time with them 3) you can have discussions which don’t devolve into arguments 4) you always have their best interest in mind - even if it slightly inconveniences you (and expect they will do the same with you) 5) you have similar underlying values and morals (not necessar… | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What are words other than "cute", "beautiful" or "hot" you can give to a woman ?Pulchritudinous - They always get annoyed until they realise it’s a compliment because it sounds like a criticism Or something like winsome or nubile then if they ask what that means tell them they can look it up later and the mysteriousness seems to be attractive I rarely give girls flat out compliments though because it doesn’t feel natural, so only if I’m having a conversation and I decide to add a compliment, but I’d never just walk up to a girl and compliment her looks Girls also seem to go… | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | What causes YOU to lose interest in someone?People might say oh but you’re not perfect either so you shouldn’t expect that from a partner but I think it’s reasonable to expect these thing’s if you’re working on these attributes yourself | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 09:25 AM |
| 2 | What causes YOU to lose interest in someone?Most people are capable of discerning an offhand facetious remark without needing to grab a megaphone and and inform everyone about it but I will admit there are guys here who say things like unironically | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:31 AM |
| 9 | What causes YOU to lose interest in someone?Sarcasm you fucking nonce | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:21 AM |
| 2 | What causes YOU to lose interest in someone?That’s 90% of women (and men) right there haha | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 10 | What causes YOU to lose interest in someone?Lucky as though she pulled your name out of a hat lmao And I suppose when you’re having Sex she’ll just lay there because you’re so lucky to be in the presence of a goddess If men stopped fawning over attractive women they’d soon have to humble up and develop personalities but that’s obviously never going to happen | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 02:19 AM |
| 24 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?My first real approach was with this gorgeous tanned brunette at a store I was working at - all the guys were ogling her and I thought fuck it so I walked over… sold her a pair of shoes and got her number. I met up with her outdoors without her mask and… I don’t know what sorcery was at play but somehow without the mask she looked like an old witch. There was also a time I took my mask off with a girl I was with and she said “it’s funny how people always seem so much more attractive with their m… | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:58 PM |
| 6 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?“You really believe the propaganda huh you braindead fucking lemming?” Would that work? In seriousness, do these high school esque pick up lines work on older women? I see them all over this subreddit so I assume they do and I’m just overthinking it. My issues is I’ll say a line… perhaps she responds well… then what the fuck do I talk about? The weather? The obese guys buttcrack next to us? Her clothes? My haemorrhoids? | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I mean she was just doing her job but if you catch some signs of interest with prolonged eye contact or flirting you could | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?I guess for some guys that’s enough. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?Ah gothcha Sounds weird but my sex drive isn’t all that high (maybe haven’t met the right person yet) so I’d probably want something in between - we’ll probably leaning toward the Sex freak haha. One of my friends had a girl break up with him because she had a say higher Sex drive, and ended up cheating on him when he was away for a few days. Ifs funny how it’s assumed that the guy is always the one with the crazy Sex drive and the girl is having to try to put up with it - definitely not true It… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 06:56 AM |
| 3 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?To be honest I’m not sure how other people define things like “freaky” and “amazing” sex. Everyone has a slightly different definition obviously but yeah I’m curious what makes it for you | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 13 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?What does this possibly even mean | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 13 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?Oh yeah, the most conventionally attractive girl that I’ve slept with was a lot like that. It was as though she expected me to be so thrilled that she’s laying there that she didn’t really put any effort or enthusiasm into it. It felt uncomfortable and boring. I’m sure there are a lot of attractive women who pull their weight though | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 12 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?Can someone describe what “freak in bed” actually means? Is that like performing blood rituals or just being really enthusiastic about it? | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 11:19 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]How many women do you have shackled up in your basement? | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?It’s a vestige of our primitive neurobiology. A fucking silly one. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 07:41 AM |
| 3 | How to turn matches into dates?Since 2018 Around 3000 matches 500 conversations 100 numbers/ Instagrams 30 first dates 10 second dates 3 3rd dates 1 4th date 0 5th dates 💀 | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys find the energy to jump through all the hoops?I’m 6’5 so yes it is unfortunately | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 07:43 AM |
| 3 | You ever say such a good flirty line that even you’re shocked by it?But often she doesn’t like me already e.g in a cold approach, she doesn’t know anything about me rides my bad the weird shit I’m saying | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?I’m just making a conclusion based on observation Find me a 10/10 who is hilarious, has obscure interests and developed passions, is humble and not conceited at all. I’m sure they exist but I’ve never met one whereas I’ve met quite a few less attractive women who I would describe that way | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys find the energy to jump through all the hoops?Doubt making love to anyone is worth having to change and contort yourself whenever you’re around them, I want someone who wants me for me | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 41 | You ever say such a good flirty line that even you’re shocked by it?Maybe I’m just a bitter old fuck but not a single thing said in this thread has been anything other than cringeworthy to me | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys find the energy to jump through all the hoops?Well I’m 6’5 muscular dress well and well spoken, my game isn’t as sharp as it could be but I find myself just not enjoying interactions as much with attractive women not only because I feel like I’m being judged but because they just never seem to grab my interest emotionally/mentally the same way lesser attractive girls - it feels 2D and boring. Quite often I know what I would have to say and do in order to appease them but I just can’t be bothered I’m not naturally some alpha with bravado, I’… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?I understand i made some generalisations but 1) Women are generally speaking less funny than men. There’s a range of reasons why but mainly because they didn’t need to develop their ability to be funny, men already find them attractive. All female stand ups typically employ male type humour and most are dykes or tomboys anyway. Sure there are women who are funnier than me, but they’re a minority. I’ve never yet been amused in that way when speaking with an attractive woman as I have with guys an… | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Matched a girl 4000km away and she’s moving here soon. Not sure how to handle communication in the meantimeWhenever I’ve actually cut communication and told them to message me when they’re back in town or whatever I never hear from them again… just my experience… but also fuck messaging someone’s for weeks or months who’s not even available to meet up | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | What Protects Someone Like Dan Bilzerian From the Culture We Live In?Most people I know think he’s a egomaniac charlatan slimeball | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Yeah exactly. Meanwhile i know braindead guys who are all about the physical energy who could swagger over to a girl on the dance door and hook up with her - no conversation needed (which suits them well because they’re barely even able to string a sentence together) | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 01:50 AM |
| 32 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?I can guarantee that any guy here or who’s ever been part of the pick up community does in fact care whether they get laid - maybe not so much with the first girl who rejects them but if they get nothing but rejection they would start to crumble | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?What’s an example of a good tease? Most the ones I see here or in field videos are lame as fuck “oh I can tell you’re trouble” or “don’t let it get to your head but. [compliment]” I know the aim isn’t to actually be savage but I can’t bring myself to use some of those cheesy ones | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 11 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?9-10a tend to have a stunted sense of humour in my experience and will often do a ditzy giggle whilst contributing almost nothing themselves so it can be hard to have humorous banter which lends itself to raillery and teasing - it feels a lot more forced They can also be extremely insecure themselves because they realise their looks are their only source of value and I’ve offended a really attractive girl by teasing her about her looks before | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 02:23 AM |
| 0 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?Not brutal commends like “how long did it take you to squeeze into that dress hefalump?” but stuff like “wow you think just because you’re cute and have a sweet personality that every guy who talks to you is interested in you?” Or “sorry I only go for girls who are taller than me” or some shit but it matters most how you say it My friend gets a lot go girls and he said if you’re confident with the delivery you can actually get away with a lot more than you think | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How should I ask out a woman if she ignored my message?Is it possible to create interest where there is none online? I feel like it can probably be done if the banter is fantastic but it’s almost impossible and probably not worth the time | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:08 AM |
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