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| 16 | Nothing seems to work with this girl, I need your thoughts please.Never be needy and chase rule #1 | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how some men do it, could someone please explain?Game can be learned, but some guys are just born with it. Some will cope and deny it, but it’s just reality | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 10:28 PM |
| 5 | 18M How do I avoid becoming an incel?Limit your time online, stay in shape, get regular social interaction, avoid porn | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 02:22 PM |
| 85 | How do you charm bad bitches?Generally speaking, you have to be polarizing in some manner. Being a middle of the road dude doesn’t work | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 12:39 PM |
| 8 | Do Women Really Have That Many Options?When it comes to online dating, they are absolutely bombarded with options | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Which is better: direct or non direct?Your energy, self confidence, social ease is what matters most. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 12:17 PM |
| 7 | [Advice] Set a firm boundary with a flirty coworker who snapped at me under stress. Did I kill the attraction, or increased it?I think the other commenters are right here. This is a red flag for a relationship with this woman. First, workplace relationships are usually a terrible idea. You have no space from the person, even if things are going well. If things go wrong, it will make your workplace environment more tense and it will be distraction. The fact that you went out of your way to help her, she snapped and then iced you is a terrible sign. I would lock in and focus on your work, hook up or have a fling, don’t ge… | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 5 | [Advice] Set a firm boundary with a flirty coworker who snapped at me under stress. Did I kill the attraction, or increased it?You did everything right. You were grounded, upfront, but weren’t butthurt. You held frame. Even if it changes your dynamic, so be it. Don’t grovel or try to win back her favor, proceed as usual. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl rejected me, still invites me to hang outShe wants free attention and validation | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Got dumped after 4 dates - met on HingeDon’t chase, move on. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 08:35 PM |
| 3 | What Makes a Guy Instantly Attractive?His fitness, and the way he carries himself. Does he have social ease, does he have an aliveness that’s infectious | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How to actually get laid after datesThanks for the compliment. I guess I should take the AI accusations as compliments as well, have never posted anything created by AI, even if some may not believe it. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 04:38 AM |
| 2 | How to actually get laid after datesFair enough | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How to actually get laid after datesThanks for being balanced and reasonable, even if you disagree. Yeah it’s the laziest knee-jerk accusation most trolls use nowadays | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 03:30 AM |
| 3 | How to actually get laid after dateslazy criticism which isn’t true. do better | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find LoveTrue | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 04:12 AM |
| 1 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingSend me a message | /r/seduction | 27/03/26 04:12 PM |
| 8 | PRINCESS HAND HOLD: THE MOST EFFECTIVE MOVE TO SPARK ATTRACTION ON DATES (KINO)Ramp up slowly correct | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:34 AM |
| 11 | PRINCESS HAND HOLD: THE MOST EFFECTIVE MOVE TO SPARK ATTRACTION ON DATES (KINO)Thank you, yeah Kino is essential to spark attraction | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:34 AM |
| 8 | PRINCESS HAND HOLD: THE MOST EFFECTIVE MOVE TO SPARK ATTRACTION ON DATES (KINO)It’s actually fascinating to witness in person | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 11:31 AM |
| 29 | PRINCESS HAND HOLD: THE MOST EFFECTIVE MOVE TO SPARK ATTRACTION ON DATES (KINO)Correct. High risk very high reward | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | What is the best book that will improve your game?To be transparent this is my book The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who don't get rejected...lol no such thing as | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Any good free resource for online dating?u/tripledigitnomad | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsLook into the concept of Covert Contracts. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 11:49 AM |
| 18 | I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desertSomething about your photos is probably off | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Im afraid that i will get ignored or rejectedIt’s part of the game, always | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Why your cold approaches are failing, PartAgree with this | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Why your cold approaches are failing, PartExtremely good point. A lot of guys do the opposite, they put time and energy into those who don’t express interest | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Why your cold approach fails, Part IYou’ve been 100% successful on all of your approaches? | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibeAbolsutely not. Online dating is the best resource for pure dating abundance if you have an optimized profile and GOOD PICTURES | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibe100 agree. Actually getting back into martial arts again shortly after an extended break | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibeWhatever you will have a blast in and feel comfortable and confident | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibeNot sure if AI is there quite yet for optimizing Online Dating photos where they look natural, but it will be there soon. I always advocate for getting professional photos done | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibeAppreciate it! | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 10:35 AM |
| -1 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downIf you read the edit that was in the post before your comment, I even mentioned that women have to be in the correct headspace before they want to enter a LTR, which directly applies to your explanation of why she wanted to “settle down”. You mentioned that most women want to settle into a stable relationship by default. I mentioned in the post that a guy demonstrating he can provide safety, resources, and potential for loyalty are factors. You don’t agree that those are some of the primary fact… | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 10:51 AM |
| -3 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downAnd you believe absolutely none of those factors played into her wanting to settle down? | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 10:31 PM |
| -3 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downAre you in a relationship? | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downGet professional photos made for your profiles | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downGet in shape, get good pictures, you’re giving up on one of the best resources to meet women | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downDon’t fake it. Get the reps in, online date, cold approach, get in shape | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 09:39 PM |
| 11 | Fundamentals: The simple, crucial basics of being attractiveReally like bullet 3, and think that could be a topic unto itself, agree completely. You have to lead the energy dynamic in your interactions with women. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm older than most here I think (41). Recently single after a long marriage fell apart. Looking for advice with how to handle OLD.The more you date and interact, you’ll find you will get better and see patterns. Keep putting yourself out there and enjoy the process Just don’t be attached to outcome, view it as a social experiment and enjoy your freedom Make sure your pictures are on point | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Which dating coach programs or systems have you gotten laid with?Get in shape, get good online dating photos, cold approach, be as social as possible. You’ll have more success have a well maintained physical appearance, keeping your social skills sharp, and maxing opportunity more than any course | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:19 PM |
| 10 | Maintaining your Masculine Energy while being in a relationshipGreat quote | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Not Your Fucking Friend: A Guide to Breaking the Nice Guy MentalityGreat idea, agreed | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Not Your Fucking Friend: A Guide to Breaking the Nice Guy MentalityConcur | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingI can’t fully disagree with you, but men need to know these things. This is the reality | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:16 AM |
| 2 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingI don’t think this is overly complicated tho | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 02:24 AM |
| 0 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingThank you | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 03:26 PM |
| 0 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingAppreciate it | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 03:26 PM |
| 3 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingHey excuse me is apologizing? Some guys who are beginners might also need something to ease in. Chill | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Inner Game: Masculine Archetypes, Part I100%. Unfortunately, that is a much more common archetype nowadays than what is covered in the post | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Inner Game: Masculine Archetypes, Part IYeah, this is modern take on the archetypes | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 03:30 PM |
| 43 | Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired?Woman told me on a date that I was very masculine but kind. It stuck with me more as just being proud as a man than being desired | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:37 PM |
| 0 | Book summary— The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael OwenThanks man, I appreciate it. Yep, that was a mistake. Don’t be outcome dependent is what I meant. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Essentials of Good GameIt’s where everything starts | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Essentials of Good GameThank you! | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Essentials of Good GameThank you 🙏 | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenPlease don’t listen to this | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 09:58 PM |
| 10 | Pickup with depression. Is it possible?Some will say yes, but I think a core component of good game is a reflection of your internal state of mind. It’s hard to put out attractive energy if you’re down about yourself and your life | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark MansonI’m going to be transparent that this is my book, but it’s the reason I wrote it. The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 03:53 PM |
| 4 | About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark MansonYeah he’s definitely gone full self help guru and has distanced himself from it. I actually thought Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck read like a bad Millennial blog that didn’t age well. Models is definitely his best work imo | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 11:52 PM |
| 22 | About "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" by Mark MansonI still think Models is the GOAT, but it is too idealistic for these times in dating, maybe not so much when it was published a decade+ ago. Most of it has held up though | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenI’m going to be transparent, I’ve bulked a lot over the past year and half, but gained more fat than I’m comfortable with. Bear bulk is fun, but also is a bitch to slim down and make the gains worth it | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 02:42 AM |
| 10 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenYeah I think the women love dad bods is one of great lies of the Internet | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 12:51 AM |
| 16 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenUpvoted. I don’t fully agree on the dad bod part. If two guys were equal in all other areas, one had a dad bod, other was trim and had lower bf, the slimmer guy would win out imo. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 10:55 PM |
| 7 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenVery true. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | What Elements Create an Attractive "Aura" Beyond Just "Good Looks"?Body language, eye contact, sense of style, quick wit | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you avoid porn?Yes | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Help on dating an avoidant woman?Simple: Don’t | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Complete Beginner Kino GuideThe light, playful ‘princess’ handhold on dates is S tier in terms of sparking attraction | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 02:08 PM |
| 4 | How did you actually improve your text game on apps?Another commenter mentioned this, but don’t try to impress her, look at her as your equal. Be yourself unapologetically. Trying to be something you’re not eventually backfires. Just don’t be too needy This concept applies when you’re on the actual date. The more you try to impress, the less success you’ll have | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Dry Texts - What She’s Really ThinkingYou should write something and share your immense knowledge | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Dry Texts - What She’s Really ThinkingLol like Julian Blanc refers to himself as JulienHimself? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Dry Texts - What She’s Really ThinkingGood points, I think dry texting has become more the norm for younger generations | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Dry Texts - What She’s Really ThinkingIt’s still common nowadays unfortunately | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Dry Texts - What She’s Really ThinkingGood one | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Dry Texts - What She’s Really Thinking😊 | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Sent me a paragraph wishing me a happy birthday 3 weeks after she rejected me. What did she want?Not sure why this got upvoted. She wanted attention | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 10:03 AM |
| 10 | I never imagined reading a book could be so beneficial.It should be required reading for all young guys. Agree. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Not Your Fucking Friend: A Guide to Breaking the Nice Guy MentalityAgreed | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Not Your Fucking Friend: A Guide to Breaking the Nice Guy MentalityEverything is AI now I guess. I’ve never used AI in any of my writing, I use AI art though. Not sure if I should take that as a compliment, or that my writing is soulless 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Maintaining your Masculine Energy while being in a relationshipDidn’t say that | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Maintaining your Masculine Energy while being in a relationshipYeah, I thought it wasn’t an unreasonable thing to mention… | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibeIt’s a lazy insult and assumption if there’s advice given in a format like this | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Inner Game fundamentals: Elevating your vibeI’ve never written anything with ChatGPT, even if it is in a list format. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 08:13 PM |
| 1 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingBumble, Hinge, Facebook dating mostly. I would also recommend getting your Instagram updated with good pics the project a fun lifestyle | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 02:49 AM |
| 1 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingOnline dating is where most of my dates came from by far, and some day game. Didn’t night game during my time when I was single, didn’t fit into my lifestyle | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingGreat call out | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Teasing: The most important seductive skillThanks a lot for the compliment, glad you enjoyed it! If you are willing to leave a rating on Amazon it would help me greatly. I don’t think teasing works well when you try to have canned lines. Women are perceptive, they’ll know if you’re trying to tease just to get a reaction. I would start by using what the article mentions, have a playful or playfully exaggerated reaction to something she does or says. No need to make it a huge deal, just be self-amused and make it light and fun. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Got ghosted need helpThe book Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Got ghosted need helpModels has a really good perspective about rejection | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Teasing: The most important seductive skillGive us a preview. What do you consider top 3 seductive skills if teasing isn’t top 10? | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 09:17 PM |
| 0 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datinghttps://holdyourframe.substack.com Thanks for the heads up. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Teasing: The most important seductive skillThanks for the comment. Agreed | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Did my 23F coworker only like the chase? Did she give up once I showed how much I actually liked her and only wanted attention ?Don’t date single moms is the moral of the story. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 11:28 AM |
| 13 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingDo you have any field reports to share? | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 12:57 AM |
| 5 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingSelf improvement, dating, game, mental health | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | What are the Kino Escalation techniques you guys have used or discovered that worked well in infield?Light subtle touch of hands on dates | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Best way to build or improve your inner gamehttps://holdyourframe.substack.com/p/inner-game-internal-ambiguity-leads | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 11:23 AM |
| 1 | What’s your single biggest most important “the one thing” that lead to a change in success?Detaching from expectation | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Fundamentals: The simple, crucial basicsI like it | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Fitness, high level social calibration, escalation, non-needinessYou have to put yourself out there in social situations. Stop watching porn, reduce caffeine, work out. Go to therapy | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Is Studying 'Game' While in a Relationship a Form of Cheating?Absolutely not. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?https://www.amazon.com/Foundation-Blueprint-Becoming-Authentically-Attractive/dp/B0BZFCW8WG/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3DMXN2EM0SVOZ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.6KKLdeWMvTH8ye7HWTe3u_9bjzQxt6eVKheD1O5XcyHdtQM1KTbFoAyNGBu_z6sA954aIkfB2bPnVJiIWzIaVL9Tfyns4LtW8NGwOlskW_ReCbfzqSZsT_GGjc8ddgc_e569uDPyVBNrACequwcLfJnZWQ2b2-f0b-Zykvng54nUJz4XQrLC8qMOFUd7-Kz1KuThdJ9OhSsdzCSkZ2nmKw.tlg7zok4hjYnVpjC2yVHRZsq6o-2abLBtBp5aL3mUJw&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+foundation.+michael+owen&qid=1743973640&sprefix=the+foundatioo.+michael+ow… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?I will try to check it out soon! | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 12:07 AM |
| 31 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?Second this. Should be required reading for young guys in high school or college | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | The Real Battle Every Man Must FightHumans strive when they are having FUN, it is in our nature. My advice would be the opposite—chill out, have fun, don’t put so much dramatic expectation on things | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?Much appreciated man. There’s a lot of self-righteousness regarding self promotion even if it’s upfront and transparent. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 03:03 PM |
| 44 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?I’m putting my book in for consideration. The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man Similar in tone to Models, but the final chapters cover online dating and cold approach, and the final chapter has exercises. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 11:08 AM |
| 2 | How to adopt the bad boy personaAmazing. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 01:47 AM |
| 3 | For Guys Who Like to Read Seduction Books…It’s not for the faint on heart. Here’s to many more-cheers! | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 07:36 PM |
| 2 | For Guys Who Like to Read Seduction Books…Congrats! | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 14 | How to adopt the bad boy personaAgreed, his lyrics will definitely just take you out of a Nice Guy frame of mind and a little less give a fuck. Like That, Mask Off, Superhero to name a few 💀 | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 06:33 PM |
| 67 | How to adopt the bad boy personaIt’s not so much you have to be a Bad Boy, you need to just have a more powerful masculine presence. Lift. This is non-negotiable Compete with other men frequently in sports. You need to be around other powerful men to build your presence. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Glover. Do things that challenge you frequently. Consume music and movies occasionally that are aren’t Nice Guy in nature. Future is toxic, but his music can put you in a DGAF mood. Be more self amused about minor shit | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensThanks man | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Weak frame 101: Picking hobbies to impress womenBy establishing an identity outside of women? | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 06:55 PM |
| -1 | Weak frame 101: Picking hobbies to impress womenThanks for reading. Cheers | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 09:34 AM |
| 13 | Hobbies that could make you better with women?Don’t pick hobbies based on what will impress women! If you have a passion and purpose behind it, and she sees you can’t be swayed form it, that’s what will be attractive | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Books on SeductionMichael Owen | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 01:05 AM |
| 7 | Books on SeductionFor transparency this my book: The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensSome great insights, dude. Thanks for the comment | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensJust getting to this but agree w you. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 01:35 AM |
| 21 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happens100% It is truly shocking once you see for yourself how many messages average and below average women get. They shrug like it’s normal and nothing unusual. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensHaha I don’t disagree with you, but there’s a lot to be discussed on this topic imo | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Why am I able to flirt effortlessly while being drunk but not when sober?I had a friend who was like this. Sober he was very shy, reserved, would over think things. His drunk game was god tier. Flirtatious, charmingly obnoxious. It means you have this charm and capability within you, but when you’re sober you have some things mentally that are holding you back. Work on your Inner Game some, and also try to adopt the mindset of being more self amused and whimsical | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 11:01 AM |
| 34 | A woman decides in the first 5 seconds if she likes you or not, True or False?I think in general people make judgments about others—whether they feel safe around them, think they’re attractive, etc—in less than 5 seconds | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 10:57 AM |
| 5 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingThanks for the words, glad you got something out of it | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 09:09 PM |
| 7 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingGlad it could help, let everyone how it goes | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 08:27 PM |
| 59 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingI think there’s a lot at stake for them from a biological standpoint. Women have limited reproductive time, whether they overtly think of it or not. Committing to a man is a big investment for them, and they will evaluate their decision in detail | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | When Hollywood portrays attraction honestly Part I: The Last American VirginYeah, it’s kind of flown under the radar all these years but should be required viewing | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:28 PM |
| 2 | When Hollywood portrays attraction honestly Part I: The Last American VirginYep, Covert Contracts are the calling card of the Nice Guy | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | When Hollywood portrays attraction honestly Part I: The Last American VirginAppreciate it, thanks for reading | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Just picked up a girl from the busGreat story and break down, another from the legend | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.Absolutely. Looks are never a guarantee, women have so many options that it doesn’t mean you’re a shoo in | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 04:51 PM |
| 12 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.This is great advice that should be prioritized. Being detached from outcome, and treating seduction and dating as a fun social experiment will take you far in the early stages. Just be observant. Being in shape isn’t the answer to everything but it really opens so many doors. Your social skills have to be just as on point to hold attention. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Stop crying about how dating apps suckTruth that many don’t want to hear | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 02:16 PM |
| 6 | Long term members of this sub, filter out some good adviceAt the end of the day, experience and being observant is the best teacher. You have to put yourself out there a lot—online, cold approach, be involved in social activities and groups. Seduction is just a subset of having highly tuned social skills and a positive self image. Also, be disciplined about being in shape. | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 12:30 PM |
| -15 | good places where to find women that are dtf?This is truth. People downvoting suck at OLD | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Settling downDo what makes you happy and feel free. | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 11:57 AM |
| 9 | Fundamentals: The simple, crucial basicsDefinitely wasn’t meant to be, posted as a basic reminder for beginners | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | DON’T SAVE HER, SHE DON’T WANNA BE SAVED.100% | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:59 AM |
| 8 | DON’T SAVE HER, SHE DON’T WANNA BE SAVED.Glad it brought things together. Myself and others have experienced this. Hope it helped. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:15 AM |
| 7 | DON’T SAVE HER, SHE DON’T WANNA BE SAVED.Yep, we have to be observant and share knowledge. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 12:07 AM |
| 17 | DON’T SAVE HER, SHE DON’T WANNA BE SAVED.Truth. Easier said than done, esp for young dudes. Feelings get mixed up easily | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Took even more L’s. How do I cope?Remember at the end of the day that they’re strangers | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 08:18 PM |
| 40 | DON’T SAVE HER, SHE DON’T WANNA BE SAVED.They’re alluring for sure, that’s why I wrote this. | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Where to meet many women to cold approach?Target High End grocery stores Farmer’s markets, or community events Parks, dog parks High foot traffic areas with restaurants/shopping | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 07:35 PM |
| 7 | How Nice Guys can be more mysteriousI always try to distinguish between and good man and a nice guy. The nice guy is disingenuous, his actions are based on the trying to win the approval of others | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 10:25 PM |
| 30 | How Nice Guys can be more mysteriousAgreed. I wrote this as a recovering Nice Guy myself. Nice Guys are terrified of silence, but there’s ambiguity around the other person’s approval. It’s very uncomfortable for Nice Guys/people pleasers to not try to fill the void with questions or meaningless chatter. | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Disturbing patternWhen I was single in FL, I noticed this was prevalent as well. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Do i have the right to be mad? Gf still following her ex.You can have boundaries without getting mad. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Inner Game Fundamentals: Stop romanticizing isolation and struggleNo, being sincere 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Inner Game Fundamentals: Stop romanticizing isolation and struggleYeah, definitely. I actually don’t disagree with you | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Does it help being arrogant / having a superiority complex?Being slightly cocky and self amused helps | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 02:18 PM |
| -5 | What is more worth it, Tinder premium or Bumble premium?Talk to my guy u/tripledigitnomad. He’s (as the name implies) a nomad and has experience in this | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downMy physical fitness is tied a lot into my confidence as well. It’s impossible for me to separate the two | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downMuch appreciated | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downSo it sounds to me like your relationship doesn’t necessarily conflict with the post. It sounds like there are some elements to your personality and look that she considers of value, and she views you as being superior to her in some regards, even if she seems to hold more ‘value’ at surface level. Thanks for adding your insight and experience to the discussion, interesting to hear different perspectives. Cheers | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downObjectively, you might be better looking than her, despite your apparent belief that she is. Your height doesn’t hurt either | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downAgreed. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downTrue love isn’t transactional, but love is built on attraction. Attraction is transactional. You may disagree, but I believe that’s reality. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 05:11 AM |
| 26 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle down‘Just have confidence’ is a cop out, sorry. I agree that there isn’t hard set rules in every case, you know that it goes beyond having confidence | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downCan you expand on that? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downShe still looks up to you in some manner. The post says it doesn’t mean you have to be rich, so you likely are more socially calibrated and dominant than she is. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downSometimes more dominant women want a less dominant man. But you probably provide value to her by demonstrating your humor | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 08:56 PM |
| 8 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downHow long have you been together | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 08:10 PM |
| 17 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downAgree, it’s a nice thought, but it’s not in line with reality | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 07:22 PM |
| 50 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downAgree on finding a mentally stable woman, but I think you’re simplifying things beyond what’s realistic in modern dating. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Inner Game😊 | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Inner Gamelol thanks for reading | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 06:58 PM |
| 3 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?For full disclosure, I wrote this book, but I stand behind it. First section covers Inner Game, the rest covers the basics of attraction and covered daygame and online strategy: The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 06:44 PM |
| 10 | 2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guysCheers to your success, man. You’re one of the OGs, learned at lot from you as well. Here’s to 2025 | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Inner GameNope, but thanks for reading anyway. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 08:26 PM |
| 19 | The Mindset That Attracts Women InstantlyBeing self amused | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Book Summary - The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael OwenGreat feedback, I appreciate it | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Book Summary - The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael OwenI don’t have any infield. I’ve been in a relationship for the past five years, and didn’t record when I approached back when I was single. I’m not a master of approach. I had a good amount of success, but I also got turned down or politely declined, just like everyone else. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Subtle touch, flirting, teasing, and eye contact - the basics of escalationReally appreciate it, glad you got something out of it | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 02:22 PM |
| 9 | Subtle touch, flirting, teasing, and eye contact - the basics of escalationThanks for the reading and the compliment. | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Who else was told growing up work hard, get a good job, make a lot of money and girls will come flocking to you?That’s the checklist mentality, which is false. You need social skills as well | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 12:59 PM |
| -1 | Fundamentals: How to get better online dating resultsAgreed. His photos are likely off | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Fundamentals: How to get better online dating resultsVery good point about safety | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: How to get better online dating resultsDefinitely agree that you have to be polarizing and have some element of your profile that’s out of the norm. Almost like you don’t care about getting matches and you’re doing it for amusement | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here quit smoking weed to improve their dating life?I can speak for myself but my game was best when I abstained from alcohol and lived the sober life | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 09:43 PM |
| 2 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingDefinitely. Be social with everyone you encounter. Social skills are like a muscle, less use they atrophy. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingThank you! | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingI agree 100% | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: A Guide to Not Overthinking on DatesI’m not here to sugarcoat things. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 03:57 PM |
| 19 | Women’s Seduction Subreddit?lol you’ve seen how many messages and likes average and below average women get on dating apps, right? They’ll be ok. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | 5 Proven Topics to Talk About on a Date That Build Deep ConnectionTopic 4 is a terrible idea. Have seen first hand how talking about exes turns the tide of the date in a bad direction. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Expensive dates sub-communicate low value and desperationAgree w this | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Can You forgive a Cheater?Never. Cheaters don’t even get goodbyes | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.Thank you, Karen. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 11:26 AM |
| 4 | Expensive dates sub-communicate low value and desperationGreat idea. Anything that is fun, low pressure, light activity where physical touch can be initiated is great | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:10 PM |
| 3 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.Rough day at the office? | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 11:41 AM |
| 19 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.Not sure why that was downvoted. I agree completely | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 06:50 PM |
| 0 | How To Sexually Escalate On A DateSolid stuff. On dates I’ve found that light, playful touching of the hands is powerful. It’s turned the tide of my dates from neutral/mild to an eventual hookup. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 01:01 PM |
| 11 | Rolls of men and women in dating todayYou’ve got to hand out the fresh rolls at the salad bar. It’s your duty as a man. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 03:50 PM |
| 107 | Why do older women seem so much nicer when approaching?More life experience and have been humbled by the world a bit | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Do different men peak at different ages?Concur with others. I believe guys can still have success, but they will peak at a certain age. I peaked in my late thirties, some guys peak in their late twenties, some into forties or beyond. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Which books do you recommend to start?Upvoted. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Which books do you recommend to start?I’m going to caveat this by saying I’m the author, but I wrote my book The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man for guys in your position. First part is dedicated to Inner Game, last chapters cover Online Dating and daygame | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 10:21 PM |
| 2 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingAppreciate those words, thanks for reading | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 11:29 PM |
| 24 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingJust saw this and agree completely. The more you try to fix it, the more you’ll push her away | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 09:10 PM |
| 11 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingGreat additions. Thanks for the quality comment, upvoted. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | For beginners: 7 fundamental lessons I learned to improve my datingThere’s no way around it, if you’re dating multiple women, there’s an element of dishonesty at play. Never blatantly tell her you’re dating other women, or use it to make her jealous. Always portray a busy lifestyle, if she asks, then you can be a little playful say that you enjoy her company and aren’t actively looking | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 03:30 PM |
| 6 | Stop Clowning YourselfI think if he was on a date, 1 on 1, if he constantly made jokes at his own expense, tried to be a clown constantly, it would wear thin quickly. Looks give you an open door immediately in environments like bars or clubs, but in terms of dates, I think the good looking clown bit would only have limited success. But I understand what you’re saying and agree to an extent. There’s more room for foolish behavior when a woman finds you attractive | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Stop Clowning YourselfThank you, appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Book Summary - The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael OwenThanks for the words, greatly appreciate it. Thanks for disagreeing in a reasonable manner, too. It’s rare. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 06:29 PM |
| 10 | How tf do i make things sexual?Just don’t be too overt/thirsty about it. Subtle hand touch is powerful. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:48 PM |
| 43 | How tf do i make things sexual?Yep. This is the path. On dates, a light hug to greet. Sit close enough so that touch isn’t blatant, or weird. When joking or emphasizing a point, gently touch her arm of hand for emphasis. Do a playful ‘princess’ hand hold. Lightly hold her hands under yours. You can either just go for it, or ask about a piece of jewelry and if it has significance. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Models has nothing new, is it about frame?Would recommend my book The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man. I wrote it for the reasons you mentioned about Models. It contains more actionable advice to develop inner game, and it also covers cold approach and online dating in the final chapter. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Girl sleeping around in talking stage coupled with male best friend issuesFile this under ‘bruh…’ | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 10:58 PM |
| 0 | When did women gain so much leverage?The price will always rise when there’s an increase in demand. Men are willing to simp over even below average women nowadays, a lot of it is our own fault for not having standards and putting women on a pedestal. A lot of it is societal conditioning, but our standards are nil in the west. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:03 PM |
| 24 | 4 Reasons Approaching Women In Real Life is 10x Better Than Dating AppsThe this or that mentality is dumb. Use both. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 03:32 PM |
| 85 | You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely.So many ways to meet women aside from cold approach. Social circle and online are amazing resources, even if guys like you shit on it | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How important is mood in the approach?This will get downvoted, but I think it’s everything. Vibe, internal frame of mind, inner confidence se the tone for everything | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Are there any good modern books on dating?I’ll caveat by saying I wrote this book, but The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming and Authentically Attractive Man. I wrote it so it’s actionable, straight forward, and has exercises at the end. It also has a chapter covering the basics of online dating and cold approach. The first part of the book is dedicated to developing inner game and becoming a fundamentally attractive man | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 11:54 PM |
| 1 | online datingOP, it would be wise to follow his advice. | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How to become attractive as a man?Yes, good call. Edited original comment | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 10:01 AM |
| 0 | How to become attractive as a man?Long ass link but here you go | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How to become attractive as a man?https://www.amazon.com/Foundation-Blueprint-Becoming-Authentically-Attractive-ebook/dp/B0BZDHJRBH/ref=mp_s_a_1_8?crid=12YMNULOIDEYL&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.K7igcg3UUgfXJGktKD1_6HGU7tvtuYiRVtZW-n5NlJGFw0mQkfjLXe5h5D4dCxDeCAFB0yM7TRa8ncna9YgKLztwGCW74gwdtQwfiQ6Q5OQr5GFftR1M2wXA2jb1yxNO1esqPVEOooEwly13TThVeTIffN5UuPPYszvl1brikzl8WNhR-v29x97jNPXGYKEsBaSJMiXu9qpss5ok2O-zdw.5bXJxTlIdmuicODA_9V-Yh0p7vcMaQ4lCd2ym_kDUvc&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+foundation&qid=1727228722&sprefix=the+foundation%2Caps%2C110&sr=8-8 | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 01:46 AM |
| 4 | How to become attractive as a man?Read The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man Edit: I wrote this book and released it last year | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach Fundamentals for BeginnersYeah, I just don’t like how people say one is superior to the other at all times. But like you mentioned, environment makes a huge impact. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 01:01 PM |
| 7 | Cold Approach Fundamentals for BeginnersOn your last point, people will deny height isn’t a factor, but I think cold hard reality says otherwise. Shorter guys can definitely thrive, but height is an advantage. I’m stating the obvious, but it’s still denied for some reason | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approach Fundamentals for BeginnersI definitely agree with that caveat, and that’s what I meant in what you said in the second paragraph. I meant you shouldn’t dedicate all of your social battery to just talking to women you’re attracted to. Good call out. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 12:17 PM |
| 2 | I get zero action on dating appsIt’s hard to tell without seeing pictures and reading specific profile answers. Picture are king. You might be in good shape and attractive, but it’s not being conveyed through your pictures | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | One Thing I've NoticedMomentum is a factor in dating. I think it’s honestly just part of the game. You’ll have slow streaks, then things will be on fire other. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Stop Being a White Knight About SexNever said anything about not respecting women. You’re looking at it like a Nice Guy. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 11:20 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?I believe that there truly are naturals out there, and sometimes it’s hard to define, but women are drawn to them. I think unattractive people have the capacity vastly improve and have more success in dating, but the naturals will always have an advantage. It’s the same with any facet of life. Some people just have it naturally, while others have to work much harder. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 11:18 AM |
| 15 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageExcellent post. Essentially repeating what you wrote, but dating was far easier in my 30’s than my 20’s. Be in shape, have a developed sense of identity (easier said than done though), and have your shit together. It’s easier not to simp in your 30’s and 40’s due to life experience. Knowing what you’re doing online helps immensely. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 06:21 PM |
| 3 | she’s hot & coldNo need to put up with that | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 10:23 PM |
| 8 | Stop Being a White Knight About SexWhy do you post advice then? | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 06:54 PM |
| 109 | Stop Being a White Knight About SexAgree 100%. The more you place expectation on something the LESS likely it will happen. Have fun, stay in the moment, don’t make assumptions or live in fantasy. | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 04:20 PM |
| 2 | I'm really starting to wonder if it's even worth it. I'm on a massive as dry spell guys. Is this what hookup is about?Everyone has dry spells, guys who say they don’t are liars. Other commenters are right, how the fuck are you going to meet women if you don’t use old or approach. You’re not even on a dry spell, you’re on an island | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Dating coaching - too pricey?This will get downvoted, but don’t neglect online dating. If a coach only focuses daygame/nightgame, you’re wasting your time. Majority of your dating opportunities will come from online dating, unless you have a high degree of status. Even the guys who are good at daygame won’t get as many pure number of dates as guys who have their online dating locked in. Boot camps seem like a waste of time and money. You can go out and learn through trial and error, experiencing rejection is part of the gam… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Date game: Always match her energyRed flag | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 01:25 AM |
| 30 | Date game: Always match her energyVerbatim from the post: You should be natural and be yourself, not put on a front, but this post is meant to serve as a warning to guys who feel that they need to go into overdrive when a woman acts cold. Some feel ‘instinctually’ that this is the best way to handle things, when in actuality it backfires and pushes her away further. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Date game: Always match her energyLooking through it after a bit I agree with you. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Date game: Always match her energyIt’s astonishing when guys who give shitty, mid advice themselves with ZERO reception or engagement think they have ground to stand on to criticize. Look at my post yesterday. It would take you years to get that kind of reaction. Look at the shit you post before you criticize others. You tried and you failed miserably. I get it, you think I’m mid, that’s what happens when you actually have balls to put your thoughts out there. Some people will like what you have to say, others won’t. The times y… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Date game: Always match her energyYeah, kind of like your advice, doesn’t provide anything of substance. Seriously, keep posting. Don’t give up. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Date game: Always match her energylol found the “Trust me bro, I know what I’m talking about” guy. Your comments don’t have any actionable advice whatsoever, it’s just mid grade snark. It looks like you attempted to post here a few times, combined less than 5 upvotes, but yeah sure your comments are fire. Nice effort though, your revolutionary advice clearly connects with people. You’ll get more than 10 upvotes soon with some effort. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Date game: Always match her energyAll of the comments I’ve seen you’re downvoted into hell, or you’re humblebragging to gain clout. Shame on me for falling for it. You’re a grifter looking for attention who’s never actually contributed something. Look at most post history on this forum, you’ll never do anything nearly as impactful. Keep trolling, scrub. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 04:42 PM |
| -11 | Date game: Always match her energyThen write something better. I don’t see you contribute anywhere. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Does Reply Time Really Show Interest?Agree with this. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Does Reply Time Really Show Interest?Speaking truth. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.🫡 | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.It is absolutely easier said than done, you’re right | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.If you’re not in a leadership frame in your relationship or with whomever you are dating, it will make the woman feel unsafe. Feeling safe around a man and trusting him is the biggest priority for women. Being a leader doesn’t mean you’re controlling. It means you handle things, she trusts your decision-making. In this dynamic she can relax, and allow you to lead. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.Agreed. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 10:35 AM |
| 11 | Stop entertaining drynessUnderrated. Great post. Match the energy | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Sex Game: Slow down, Build Tension, Use your fingersI never tried the west coast, just the middle and index. Very interesting. Thanks for the comment, sir | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Sex Game: Slow down, Build Tension, Use your fingersHeartbeat rhythm is moving your fingers in a steady rhythm, guy. Also, putting pressure as described, while rubbing with the other hand builds an incredible amount of tension and teases in a good way | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 06:45 PM |
| 233 | Why do I feel like I'm on God-mode when drunk?My friend was like that. He was a shy, unassuming guy, but when he got hammered was on semi obnoxious god mode and women loved it. It means you have that part of your personality within you, but you’re holding yourself back in some regard. | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Why self improvement won't solve your dating problemsThis is absolutely true. It’s a checklist mentality that guys fall into. They think that once they reach certain benchmarks, women SHOULD be automatically attracted to them. Nice Guys and socially avoidant guys buy into this. Attraction doesn’t work that way. You need to develop social skills and Inner Game as well. | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 01:20 PM |
| -1 | What resources have you used that made you see results?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathThat’s why putting yourself in a leadership position, no matter how small, is important in social circle game. Great points | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathThank you. It’s been polarizing for sure. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?A hard workout. Also visualizing positive elements about your life and personality | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathYou’re not wrong, but some commenters aren’t distinguishing between what is and what should be. It shouldn’t be this way, but I’m not going to deny the world we live in. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 09:44 AM |
| 0 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathYep. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 09:41 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathBe that guy. Thanks for the catch, updated. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 09:37 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathPost never said anything about asking for help online. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathThanks for reading and agree w/ you | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 09:25 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathThank you. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 09:24 AM |
| -6 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathWe keep going around in circles here, bud. You like to criticize others for without holding the mirror to yourself. You are a hypocrite because you accuse people of being generic and derivative, and while you do the exact same thing with what you write. Likewise, you feign moral superiority and try to advocate on behalf of men who might get “harmed” by my post. Get the fuck over yourself, dude. You want validation and to appear to be the good guy as much as anyone else does. It’s Reddit. I can r… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 03:41 AM |
| -3 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathLolol it’s funny when trolls get pushback and they say, “Oh wow, seems like I touched a nerve.” Don’t criticize if you can’t take it as well, dude. It’s a valid point in my mind. You said my advice was generic, and I pointed out, while you are entitled to your opinion, thousands of others have found my advice useful. It’s not a point of validation, it’s just a fact. Again, the reason I pointed out that you have one generic post yourself, because you don’t have any grounds to make any type of acc… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 02:14 AM |
| 5 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathNothing wrong with helping people, but if someone asks for help over and over, without displaying any type of self sufficiency or capacity to learn, are you going to have the same enthusiasm to help if you’re being completely honest with yourself | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:38 AM |
| -11 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathProbably could have tempered the message a little, but I still stand by the general premise. However, agree throughly with your second paragraph. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:36 AM |
| -14 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathNever said you shouldn’t be authentic, I even said it’s not fair. But you have to admit there is a very low threshold for patience for men in society nowadays. Not saying it’s right or just. But just being an authentic person is not enough in today’s world. Call it cynical, but just being a good person isn’t enough to thrive, that’s fairy tale thinking imo | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:35 AM |
| -16 | For Men, Incompetence is DeathThat’s fine if you think that about my advice. I’m also one of the most consistently upvoted users on this forum as well, so there are others who likely disagree with you. Looking through your post history, your advice on cold approach is exactly of what you’re accusing me of—a re-hashing of what’s been stated hundreds upon hundreds of times. You also even say the most generic dating advice there is in that same post: “it’s a number game.” You absolutely have no room to accuse anyone of being ge… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | I am 40 years old but concerned about daygame...My honest opinion is that social circle is the best for finding a relationship. Read about demographics in Mark Manson’s Models. Become involved in groups, activities, and social circles with women you want to meet, and become perceived as high value in that circle. It takes social skills and social momentum, but in my opinion will have much better results for the time invested. Not saying you shouldn’t daygame OR do online dating. Live in abundance and keep options open. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:25 PM |
| 41 | Has anyone genuinely used mark manson advice with womenSome of his advice from Models and elsewhere can be somewhat idealistic at times. Models is still the GOAT though. I think in general it’s good advice to not try force something that isn’t there. If she’s hot, it’s def understandable. But if you try to force something with someone who you find boring, or just has a shitty personality, it’s needy to try to force it because they’re hot and you want validation | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?Absolutely. I don’t think it will change though. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Is seduction cruel?Attraction isn’t kind, logical, or fair | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:23 PM |
| 12 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?Exactly, this. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:21 PM |
| 327 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?No. However, average looking women have an inflated self perception due to online dating and social media. Guys will simp over marginally attractive women nowadays in the online realm. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:21 PM |
| 24 | Girl who’s “too busy this week” for a dateIf someone wants to see you, they’ll make the time | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I have a theory about why Blue Pill wont work.Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. Live free and don’t suppress yourself for others. Everything else is noise | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?I understand how that might be misconstrued, I can assure you I’m not an incel and know men need to take accountability to be successful in their dating lives. | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 01:28 PM |
| 51 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?This will likely get downvoted. American (esp white women) are terrified that women from different cultures and countries will displace them. It is socially unacceptable for them to attack other women, so they attack men who date women from cultures outside of the U.S. as being predatory. Yes, there are true predatory passport bros out there who engage in activities that support sex trafficking, etc. But don’t let anyone shame you for dating outside of your country, race, or culture. It’s sexual… | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 10:52 AM |
| 2 | What books do you recommend?Agree with this. Strange title, but it’s about building a positive self perception | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What books do you recommend?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 06:04 PM |
| 8 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?I don’t think just dweebs and fatties are the ones simping over women on the apps. I think attractive dudes do it too. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 06:16 PM |
| 4 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?It makes zero since that women get tons of likes and swipes in online dating. Where did I lose you? | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 05:38 PM |
| 20 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?I think that’s utter cap when it comes to online dating. They may not like all the options presented to them, their pure number of options is massive | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Will adopting a dachshund effect my game?Don’t be the guy that gets a dog to get more chicks man. That’s weak Nice Guy behavior | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 04:26 PM |
| 12 | Recently 27 years old and new. What are some good tips for someone who’s starting late?This will get downvoted, but get in the best shape you can, looks max in general. Get good pictures and hit the dating apps hard. Treat dating as a social experiment to gain social skills and hookup. Be observant about what you do right and wrong. Each date is a learning experience. Embrace the process | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 27 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?That definitely could be the case. A lot of guys inflate their self perception of their attractiveness as an ego defense | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 02:56 PM |
| 113 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?They’re absolutely flooded with opportunity. The simp industrial complex has given near constant validation to average and even below average women. It’s part of the game, which is a numbers game to a certain extent | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a 0 sense of humor girl?Have fun with that. | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentals: Qualities that make her want to be in a relationshipWith that mindset, you are | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 02:58 PM |
| 3 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?I know u/tripledigitnomad and assure you you’re saying that to the wrong person | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 02:49 PM |
| 21 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?Agree with this 100% those initial stages very little room for error | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 02:47 PM |
| 3 | 🙋 Step-by-Step: How To Get Better At ApproachingGood breakdown. 🫡 | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 08:08 PM |
| 11 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkI’ve had similar experiences. It turned the course of the date. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 27 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkGreat call out | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | choosing a place to liveI always recommend putting your personal comfort and happiness first. Pick a place where you’re going to enjoy life the most. That being said, from a logistics standpoint, living close to the city will be most beneficial in terms on opportunity and for bringing women back | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | I want to attract an "influencer" type.u/tripledigitnomad has dated several in South America, and from what he’s told me it’s not what it’s cracked up to be. He posted about this topic recently | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:41 PM |
| 4 | How do you keep your inner game after so many rejections?Disconnect from the idea that rejection just happens to you, and realize that these women are strangers. They have no bearing or impact in your life. The biggest players have been rejected, usually often. Attraction isn’t completely a numbers game, but it is a huge part of it. All guys get rejected. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 30 | Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal?It’s more common than you think. You seem to have a good grasp of it. A lot of the initial traits that spike emotions in women, ie the novelty of being good looking and cocky fade, they lose interest. I don’t think it’s something you’re doing necessarily. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Clean shaven or stubble?Stubble | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Pick up Relationship BooksThe Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man has a chapter on cold approach and OLD | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | First night out was a complete disaster. Seeking for advice.He doesn’t post a lot here anymore, but 57 pickup seemed like a beast when it came to not getting shook by rejection in night game | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Common Photo Mistakes That Are Killing Your Online Dating SuccessThat’s usually said by people who suck at it. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 03:09 PM |
| -2 | Fundamentals: Common Photo Mistakes That Are Killing Your Online Dating SuccessI’m sorry, but that’s cap. If you’re good at online dating, you can have multiple dates in a week. You’d need to go to a lounge or bar several times a week to get the same results. Don’t get me wrong, men need to get experience with day/nightgame, but skipping online dating altogether is missed opportunity. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 01:33 PM |
| 10 | My coworker I liked rejected my kiss.I agree with you 100%, if a woman simply isn’t into you, there’s only so much you can do. My argument was for him chasing her. Sometimes you have to just move the fuck on. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 08:59 PM |
| 18 | My coworker I liked rejected my kiss.Definitely. I look back at the random girls I simped over and put on a pedestal in my early 20’s I’m astounded. A lot young guys get caught up in any semi attractive girl that will hang out with them because they don’t have the exposure yet. With life experience comes wisdom | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 08:50 PM |
| 162 | My coworker I liked rejected my kiss.The grand confession of feelings never works. Being incrementally flirtatious and playful works better. You were in a needy weak frame, after she rejected you. You got pouty and were looking for sympathy pussy. It doesn’t work that way. You should have just let it be, dropped her off and then distanced yourself. Focus on the next phase of your life and what you can do to attract women there. She knew you liked her, but wanted attention and validation and enjoyed what she was getting from you. Ta… | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 06:49 PM |
| 9 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Not relationship material at all. No need to analyze it too much, she sounded unstable. Move on and stay locked in like you did | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Take a break from the game.Burnout can still happen when you’re winning, but definitely stay in the game if you’re happy. Cheers | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Take a break from the game.That’s a good question. I’m in a long term relationship, so dating casually doesn’t occupy my life, but I’m obviously thinking about the subject a lot. I like refer to this in the post, but even when my dating life was very active I would het burned out. I would remove myself and do things that made me fulfilled or challenged | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Take a break from the game.Agreed | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How to approach a married neighbour?lol | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Getting laidHit online dating hard, have a friend or hire a professional for a few bucks and get better pictures. Make it to the 2nd or third date and you’ll usually get laid if you have t given off the friend vibe too much. Don’t overthink, treat it like a social experiment | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys, if you're lonely, be glad. You're not with the most annoying species on earth right now.It wasn’t as bad 3-4 years ago, but the Incel/Blackpill influence has definitely gained strength recently. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:27 AM |
| 0 | I am not congruent with most of "just move on" advices here...Never Chase is a mantra for a reason. Chasing someone who is ambivalent about you almost never works in the end | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Advice on dating books?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 23/06/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Girl blew me off twice, Do I chase or let it go.Never Chase | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 02:17 PM |
| 15 | should skinny fat guy try getting a partner or he should prioritise getting in shape firstI mean, you can continue to work on your social skills and work on getting in shape at the same time, you’re overthinking it | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Four Static Mindsets That Will Destroy Your Dating LifeGlad it helped! | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Four Static Mindsets That Will Destroy Your Dating LifeDamn, bro not even a shred of hope? 😂💀 Not hating on your opinion but that’s bleak | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneYou’re welcome, really glad it helped. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Good books on basic attraction and seduction?I don’t nightgame, I only wrote about what I had experience doing. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Arranging dates far outExactly. 2-3 days max. 3 is too much even imo | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Good books on basic attraction and seduction?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen. The first part of the book covers developing Inner Game, last two chapters cover Online and day game | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?It’s not unpopular at all, at least from my perspective. I really think it all starts with inner game | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?You can either get in your feelings about it or use it as a tool to help get dates. I’d rather use it to my advantage than get hung up on the imbalance and numbers | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?Disagree. You have to optimize your photos and the rest of your profile to a degree. Had lots of success without paying for premiums. You’re right that even average looking women get thousands of likes though | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?You know you’re not required to pay for the premium subscriptions right? | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 01:58 PM |
| 73 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?The thousands of dollars you spend on a boot camp could be spent on a new wardrobe, a gym membership, books. Daygaming and dating apps are free, experience and maxing your attractiveness and social skills will yield more results over time | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | A quick guide: why you should never try to win back an exThanks for reading, glad you got something out of it | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 10:36 AM |
| 16 | How to go on a date in JapanThis is the most logical answer | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Stop turning your dates into interviewsGreat examples, thanks for the comment | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 11:11 AM |
| 25 | Stop turning your dates into interviewsYou can be yourself, but it doesn’t mean you should be an unattractive version of yourself. Ask questions, get to know her. But don’t droll on with endless questions. Being the most unattractive version of yourself isn’t “being yourself” | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Subtle ThingsIf she didn’t really flirt with you, or you didn’t make a move, what’s the point in dwelling on this one random interaction? | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:58 AM |
| 8 | To the subset of seducers/seductresses here in LTRs, how do you maintain the relationship and keep your partner actively engaged? What are your tips to alleviating boredom, both for yourself, and your partner?Been in a LTR coming up on 4 years. Before the relationship is even established, I think there needs to be a fundamental level of respect and a mutual feeling of ‘I’m lucky to be with this person.” I hate using the word lucky, and it’s not meant to be in a needy sense, but a fundamental feeling of what this person offers is better than what others have. There could a multitude of factors that this involves. Fundamentally, I think that having a compatible sense of humor and values is important. S… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 06:39 PM |
| 3 | I need help with Tinder or Instagram chatting,someone with experiences please!!!u/tripledigitnomad is your guy | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 05:24 PM |
| 11 | How to find a girlfriend ?Instead of relying on information from your friends, why don’t you download the apps and see for yourself. Guys get way in their feelings about online dating because they don’t have success, and then say, “Nah, only girls online are trash.” It’s a defense mechanism to soften the rejection. Met my LTR from Bumble, there were tons of attractive “girlfriend type” women on there. If you want practice, try Hinge. The women are generally less physically attractive, but it’s the easiest to get dates. D… | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeStart living a more social life, pick an activity or hobby where you interact with women and others Make sure your home is organized, your grooming and fitness are developed, basically get your shit together Put yourself out there more on the dating apps, get better photos by hiring or asking a friend. Max your opportunity Travel more if you can, put yourself outside of your comfort zone, get new experiences Have a plan in place to follow your passion/purpose, make that the focus of the majority… | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | How to be happy on your ownPrioritizing your career isn’t necessarily your purpose. Your purpose is a skill or pursuit you believe you were almost “meant” to do. Usually it’s something you’re naturally drawn to, or have some natural talent doing. For me, my purpose is writing. I’ve always been drawn to it, I have a natural skill for it, although I’m always trying to improve. I feel like if everything I have was taken from me, if I had an outlet to write and be creative, I would still be fulfilled and happy. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 12:16 PM |
| 39 | How to be happy on your ownThis has been said over and over, but you need an overarching purpose to your life. Something that you’re willing to put above anyone, any relationship. It’s easier said than done, takes a ton of self reflection and work | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 01:04 AM |
| 0 | My above-average looking asocial friend gets lucky by exactly doing nothing at the parties I invite, and now he lectures me how to pickup girlsDo you feel like he’s trying to make you feel shitty, or is really trying to help and impart some knowledge? It might be useful to actually listen instead of getting jealous about it. He’s probably got a more attractive vibe about him too, looks are only part of the equation | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps suckSpeaking facts. Dating apps are a great way to meet lots of women. Most guys just need to make small adjustments and get better photos instead of getting bitter | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 02:16 PM |
| 6 | Why do some women text/talk to me for a couple days then dip?Probably spending too much time chatting instead of getting a date set up. Building rapport is important, but too much talking without a date set up and things will fizzle. If you’re talking online, remember that women are absolutely flooded with options and are probably talking with other dudes. It’s largely a numbers game | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 03:21 PM |
| 0 | The more you try for a relationship, the less success you’ll haveDef keep telling yourself that. Best of luck to you | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The more you try for a relationship, the less success you’ll haveUh, move? | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 01:28 PM |
| 0 | The more you try for a relationship, the less success you’ll havelol yeah. Looks like you want to do the same but your advice has fallen on deaf ears. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 01:27 PM |
| 32 | Hype a short king up for a date with taller girlThe more you play up the height issue in your head, the more you’ll psych yourself out. Treat her the same as if she was your height or shorter, def no need to bring up in conversation. Like the other commenter said, you got the date. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself. You’re not there to win over a girlfriend or wife. You’re there to have fun, learn about her, help her have fun. Detach from lofty expectation. Get a workout in before the date, or do something physical like push ups or a qui… | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 0 | How attractive men handle rejectionThanks a lot, really appreciate it | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesAs much as people shit on online dating, in terms of actual dates and hookups, it is just more efficient. I still believe in cold approach and think it should be a skill that’s developed, but most guys have a lot going on in their lives and don’t want/need to dedicate hours every week to cold approach | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 10:19 PM |
| 5 | How attractive men handle rejectionI’m numb to it at this point hahah | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 08:32 PM |
| 17 | How attractive men handle rejectionBeing attractive is more than outward appearance | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 06:55 PM |
| 15 | Resources for relearning and getting back to the “game”?Models by Mark Manson The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen More important than books though is just a lot of social interaction and learning the lessons yourself. Online dating, activities, cold approach, talking to strangers—social skills are like a muscle, the less you use them the more they atrophy Also maxing your fitness, style, inner game. Also learn about escalation and date game. Guys go on endless dates and never get anywhere because t… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 01:26 PM |
| -1 | Approached and got told to F offWhy is direct approach put up on a pedestal on this sub | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:46 PM |
| 12 | How do y'all feel about lending girls money?Nope, learning to not be a Nice Guy is getting comfortable with saying no | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What it means to Never ChaseWrite a book and hundreds of articles then talk shit | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:10 PM |
| 0 | She talk to a few people on tinder, start following many man on instagram.Be honest with yourself instead of staying trapped in fantasy. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 09:29 PM |
| 5 | What it means to Never Chaseu/bearjew289 lolz why block me before I can respond then? 🫣 | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Ex cheated on me and now wants to get back. Im scared. Please HelpJust posted on this. Never put time and effort to those who don’t value you, esp those who betrayed you. She’ll do it again—you know this | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 06:03 PM |
| 10 | Finding love…I really believe that the more you date for a relationship, the less likely it is to happen. Have a clear idea or list of what you’re looking for, continue dating, and things will develop when you least expect, or even when you’re not looking for it. That was my experience at least | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveAgree about it being an individual experience, put an edit upfront | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveI own Aventus, and now actually prefer MB Explorer, kind of a fresher, lighter take esp for high heat. Aventus is still the OG though | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 01:53 PM |
| -1 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveI should have caveated by saying that scent is indeed subjective, and each scent interacts differently based on each individual’s skin. Added an edit up front about this. That being said, saying it’s utter rubbish that certain scents appeal to women is extreme my dude. These are generally very well received by women and people in general, just meant as a general guide. I’ve gotten this feedback in my relationship, in my dating experience, and it’s supported also heavily online. I never said thes… | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 01:50 PM |
| -2 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveI probably should have caveated by saying that someone should try the scent and determine how how it makes them feel, and if it fits their archetype, or what they’re trying to convey. Hard disagree of letting the marketing of a scent convey determine your choice. It’s all about how the scent makes you feel, how it interacts with your skin, not if the brand image aligns with that you want to convey. You really think an ad or marketing campaign will tell you what you need to know about a scent? I … | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveListen, I’m a big fragrance fan myself and definitely recommend everyone does their research. This isn’t meant to be an end all be all, just suggestions based on my experience | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveI think a woman will only get turned off if she doesn’t like the particular scent. If she enjoys it, it’ll be a pleasant trigger for her, she’s likely to say oh I’ve smelled that before, what do you have on, not eeewww I’ve smelled that before you’re so unoriginal | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveI still think you’re vastly overestimating most people’s familiarity with scent. I wouldn’t be able to recognize 1 million right off the bat. I think the idea that a cologne is ‘too common’ is mostly an idea on the internet | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Style fundamentals: 6 Scents that women loveat the end of the day, I think a guy should wear what makes him feel confident, whether it’s something unique or more niche, or something more mainstream. The vast majority of people don’t wear fragrance, the only one I’ve smelled consistently out in public that I’ve recognized is Sauvage. So even if a fragrance might be popular, the vast majority of people likely won’t smell something and think it’s overdone. Most people and women out there aren’t familiar with men’s fragrances | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Oldman curious about IGDespite what misgivings someone may have about social media, having a decent IG is a powerful tool in the dating world. Not absolutely required, but skipping it completely will be cutting off a legit source. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating Lifelol nice cop out tho | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | The 5 Pillars of SeductionA+ post | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeThen add some details or write something better | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeI really appreciate it. I don’t mind people disagreeing, but it should be supported by actual argument and can be done with some semblance of respect. Thanks for reading, glad you got something out of it | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeThanks, glad you got something out of it | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeThanks for those words, I appreciate it | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeI’m not married but have been in a long-term relationship for 4 years | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:51 AM |
| 28 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeMeh, it’s Reddit. Not my first rodeo..thanks for reading! | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeI think therapy is always a good tool to use, but it's not a fix all for everything. Confidence is the broad concept that I think is overrated. I think self-perception/self-narrative is more important than trying to generally being confidence. Try looking into Cyber Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz as a starting point. Continue with the working out. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 08:27 PM |
| 18 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeYou absolutely do have competition, you can bluster and deny all you want to look cool online but that’s the reality of it. You’re not helping anyone with that type of fantasy. -So you made a broad generalization about my points being misleading. What specifically is misleading? I’ve asked this question before, so please don’t answer with a platitude of “I do nothing”, but how do you specifically spark attraction on dates? So you’re saying that fitness, grooming, style DON’T matter? What’s the t… | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 07:36 PM |
| -23 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeIt’s going well, thanks. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Are there any good seduction/pickup youtube channels/podcasts ?Modating.substack.com I post new articles every Tuesday and Thursday, and post the summaries on this sub | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himMuch appreciated bro. We’re collaborating on a something hopefully out sometime this summer | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 04:56 PM |
| 13 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himThis is a critical point, with good looks come a higher expectation of social calibration. Not to blow up his spot but I know u/tripledigitnomad personally and he’s an attractive dude, but he’s talked about how looks aren’t everything esp in night game, you kind of have to be very boisterous and be on point with the energy | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himAmazing take. Looks will get attention for a moment, but social skills and vibe matter. This guy sounds like he was socially calibrated as well. Another myth is that guys just are handsome without any type of effort. He probably was naturally handsome, but very likely also was in good shape, and had a good style. A lot of guys have nice natural features, but take shitty care of themselves and look schleppy | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 12:32 PM |
| 0 | How to Attract a 'Type A' WomanGlad it helped! | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Recommended online course/material?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen Models by Mark Manson Other than that, go out and gain real world experience. Max your looks, lifestyle, Inner Game (both Models and The Foundation will help) Life is the best teacher, you have to put yourself out there extensively | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Shocked girls approachNothing wrong with being bold and direct, but if they’re bugging out you need to build more rapport | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:34 PM |
| 29 | How did game change from 2005 to 2020?Agree heavily with this. The concepts themselves are valid, but execution and intent are way off | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 02:24 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is / are the best books / resources for pick-up and dating?Thanks for your interest. I wrote it so I’m biased, maybe there are others on the sub who can chime in on that. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I don't care what stage you are in life: There's Hope!I’m going to write about this on Thursday will post a summary of on this sub. Sounds like you need some inner game work and put yourself out there more. Working on your looks only gets your foot in the door | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:03 PM |
| 2 | I don't care what stage you are in life: There's Hope!https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0BZFCW8WG/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=&sr= | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is / are the best books / resources for pick-up and dating?Models by Mark Manson The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 10:44 AM |
| 6 | I don't care what stage you are in life: There's Hope!You definitely should have hope. u/tripledigitnomad has some good ideas on other dating pillars. Not saying the below are easy, but keep these in mind Max looks and fitness Max inner game and self perception Max lifestyle Max online and texting Max your DATE GAME You WILL have dating options if you keep these up | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree with this ? I have heard it from a lot of people .Hey I know you | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 11:22 PM |
| 36 | I don't care what stage you are in life: There's Hope!As someone who didn’t really start until I was in my late 30’s after a divorce, and published a book at 40, agree 100% I will say, you HAVE to keep up your fitness, grooming and fashion though if you want success. Maintenance is work | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with this ? I have heard it from a lot of people .No trying to spam, but I publish articles on the same type of topics every Tuesday and Thursday. Modating.substack.com | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 09:56 PM |
| 66 | Do you agree with this ? I have heard it from a lot of people .I don’t think you should lower your standards, but one thing I’ve noticed about guys with little to no experience is that they want (or claim they want) a head turning 10–a Margot Robbie in Wolf of Wall Street type— out the gate or nothing at all. I think it’s a defense mechanism, kind of a justification for not having success is just saying well I have high standards, and they shy away from opportunity from attractive women who may not be at that level because they want validation from the outs… | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 07:02 PM |
| 10 | Friend being a bummerFriends who think small and hold you back should be phased out. It’s somewhat cold, but negative ‘friends’ will absolutely suck the life and motivation out of you | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 06:39 PM |
| 10 | She pulled away after sex on first dateYep, be chill about it and don’t over analyze. If she wants to see him again she’ll reach out | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend of six months this is what happened. What to do next?Dude, you’ve got a lot to learn about true masculine frame. You sound like a little boy | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:04 PM |
| 11 | Best book to read about seduction.Models by Mark Manson The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 01:55 AM |
| 36 | Seducing girls with a dominant personality?I date someone who is very type A and has a big personality. I will say that despite their type A personality, they’re still sensitive and want a man who will make them feel protected more than anything. They want someone that allows them to be able to shut off that persona. You have to demonstrate that you’re quick witted, and don’t get rattled easily. If they give you shit, you have to find it humorous and tease them back. Also demonstrate competence and leadership in other capacities | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:06 PM |
| 7 | examples you do that show you're not a "nice guy"The ability to disagree respectfully while staying grounded, and the ability to say no is huge as well. Nice guys are people pleasers, if you uphold your boundaries and needs while being respectful you’re on the right path | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Are guys doing street interviews for pick up now?This has been going on for a very long time... | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Miami Field Report / FeedbackDon’t think you did anything wrong per se. I’m a firm believer in the golden rule of ‘never chase’. She made her choice, let her live with it. Be chill about it, live your life and find another woman you think is a 9. There are hundreds of thousands of others like her, esp in Miami. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 10:48 AM |
| 0 | Follow up to question about costumes, peacocking and general views on PUA practicesFYI one of my posts is on the wiki, I’m aware. You should not be commenting or providing advice on this forum, based on your post history. You are a mess, and I say that with all due respect. You are asking for advice on how to upload to spankbang, you wrote an emotional diatribe about a woman who was toxic and emotionally abused you, and are still simping for her. This not someone who knows game or has had any type of success. You are neckbeard, plain and simple. I welcome people who disagree, … | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Follow up to question about costumes, peacocking and general views on PUA practicesThanks, you basically just gave a non answer and spoke in platitudes without any true detail. Then do better, write something with your deep insights. You’re like the Rob Tube guy whose answer on how to spark emotion is:” Nothing. I’m just myself authentically.” Or, thinks that physical escalation is “handsy negging” Great, you obviously have tons of experience | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 09:10 PM |
| 0 | I cold approached a burn victim… should I feel guilt?I don’t think she was necessarily testing you, just showed she had a sense of humor. I think you’re overthinking this scenario a bit | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 10:26 PM |
| 0 | I cold approached a burn victim… should I feel guilt?Her response about girls with glasses and a burned face was good tho | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 10:02 PM |
| 62 | Women Only Find Me Attractive in a CostumeI think a few things are at play. Although a lot of PUA theories are outdated in my opinion, the fundamental concept behind peacocking is valid. Humans are drawn to novelty, just do a quick search on some studies and articles. Secondly, I think when you’re dressed in a ridiculous costume in the right social context, you’re subtly in a more relaxed state. There isn’t as much pressure to ‘impress’ women or try to look overtly attractive. You’re there to just have fun, and women can pick up on that… | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Kino Reciprocation?Try the princess hand hold, compliment her on her jewelry or nails, or just be playful during the conversation. Touch isn’t enough, try also letting her know something about you that’s personal. You don’t need to unload your darkest secret or anything heavy, but start forming an emotional bond | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 03:06 PM |
| 2 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeI think cold approach is a skill guys should develop, the ability to see a woman you find attractive, walk up to her and talk to her without being nervous or creepy is a skill all men should have. That being said, I truly don’t believe that in terms of getting dates and hooking up, that cold approach provides as much opportunity. You have to admit, even if you’re good at cold approach, a majority don’t lead to a date. I’m older, but I think as guys mature, they simply don’t have time to dedicate… | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 02:22 PM |
| 2 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeI don’t think you’re being a hater, but I disagree to an extent. Yes, some women will automatically discount some shorter guys. But I think the height thing is vastly overplayed. A shorter guy with good high quality pictures will be on par with a 6’2 guy who has bathroom selfies, poorly lit or low quality photos. Being a certain height is definitely not a guarantee if your pictures suck. Not all women automatically worship guys who are 6’0 and above like some would have you believe | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 02:17 PM |
| 2 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeAgree, it has to look natural to some degree. Your primary photo should be your ‘hot guy’ photo — well dressed, smiling, wearing nice clothes but if it looks too staged then agree it will set off some red flags, that’s why being natural should be discussed with the photographer | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Kino Reciprocation?Specifically, what kino did you initiate? Try initiating kino involving the hands. A very light ‘princess’ hand hold, or something light during conversation | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 12:52 PM |
| 2 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeWhen I was single I didn’t use it but I’ve heard the same thing about FB dating. Have the Chat GPT bios been effective for you? Bio IS important, but photos are still king in my experience | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 02:32 AM |
| 5 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating Life🤝 thanks bro | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 07:55 PM |
| 11 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeI appreciate that you disagree and can still be respectful and chill about it. Rare for Reddit. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 07:35 PM |
| 5 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeMy bad, got you guys confused. Agree with you 100%z | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeRead your last sentence. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeThank you | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 05:41 PM |
| 8 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeYou should be doing both. Even good day game doesn’t provide the same number of actual dates that online dating does | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 04:46 PM |
| 5 | 3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating LifeThere should be some local photographers who specialize in online dating photos. Look at photographers with existing reviews Call around and do your research. Look at portfolios, compare prices Make sure you emphasize that you want natural looking photos. Photos that look staged or too much like a headshot will look suspicious online If you have any friends with a background or experience in photography, ask them | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Books on the subjectThe Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Book Summary - The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen - 1 year anniversaryI didn’t include any in the summary, all in the end of the book | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl with a boyfriend texting meIf she cheats with you, she’ll cheat on you | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneGlad you got something out of it! | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzone👏 | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneThat’s not friendzone, that’s friends with benefits | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:44 AM |
| 8 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneHe’s a template troll, his comprehension is awful as you mentioned | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 12 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneJudging by your post history I don’t think you have room to call strangers nerds tho | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 08:37 PM |
| 10 | Did reading books improve your game?Yep, you summarized it well. Theory is useful, but theory without application and practice is mental masturbation | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 01:29 AM |
| 185 | Did reading books improve your game?I can tell you, even as someone who wrote a book on the topic, that experience is undoubtedly the best teacher. Reading can put you in a good headspace and provide some framework, but reading alone is meaningless without putting yourself out there extensively and being observant about what works and doesn’t for you | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 12:20 AM |
| 6 | A lot of women I've spoken to recently don't go out of their usual routineAnother valuable example of pay attention to what women do, not what they say. She promised to follow through, but her actions indicate that she doesn’t value you | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Best country for a 10 day tripBrazil comes to mind. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Good ways to start kino at home?Princess hand hold in a playful, light manner. Touching of the hands is powerful | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Is it too late 32 years in order to learn seduction?https://www.amazon.com/Foundation-Blueprint-Becoming-Authentically-Attractive/dp/B0BZFCW8WG/ref=sr_1_6?crid=35SNON7SQTDFM&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.K7igcg3UUgfXJGktKD1_6HGU7tvtuYiRVtZW-n5NlJFE2YY3ancNKqUeMAHJvu-1DARmR5yPVh05BkzBXogQkc9j6ecxJvSr3R5ZCDZxFpBxQOIEbUz3xU7Bj68ICyDwdMZQHEARZ6ZMPToG0AEOv7k_zerwSwpPXff84Zzz6JDU3rkOMdQifshHKJdgQ5J5On56ZtG0kmvKwcBBZbyqxLQcZE0YqEgXrSFWySYxfy4.sEcL-b1kptMeI3MHvmAOi84TEk7lquyxIVOFrX-zjj8&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+foundation&qid=1712946079&sprefix=the+foundation%2Caps%2C… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late 32 years in order to learn seduction?Women are attracted to guys who have their shit together a live an attractive lifestyle. That doesn’t mean you have to be rich, but you will get more interest if you demonstrate status in some manner | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late 32 years in order to learn seduction?A lot of things—health, appearance. Working on confidence isn’t a simple answer. That takes work and putting yourself out there extensively. I wrote a book on building inner game called the The Foundation which outlines a lot of steps | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Advice to an Adult Virgin (GIGACHAD EDITION)This topic looks familiar 🤔. That being said, I agree with most of what you said, except 8 about the $500 course | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:29 PM |
| 10 | Is it too late 32 years in order to learn seduction?Absolutely not. If you take care of your physical appearance and health, put yourself out there a ton, get used to having success and detaching from rejection, I don’t believe in age limitations. I was 37 and divorced when I started fresh. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Advice to an adult virginThanks for saying the list is shitty, then repeating the advice I already gave in #6. Hard disagree about online dating, guys who suck at it always bash it. If you’ve had success, you wouldn’t dismiss it | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | How to not put women on a pedestalVery much agree with all of your points excellent. I’ll to post on this concept one day, but it’s difficult to convey. I call it leading the energy dynamic. That’s why women generally hate being around shy men who lack confidence. Your third and fourth bullets summarize this very well. Some may say this is a sexist view, but since women have more inherent social value than men, we have to be more interesting, provide more fun, etc. Men have to EARN social value. I’ve seen men complain on this fo… | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 01:55 PM |
| 12 | How to not put women on a pedestalI definitely agree that scarcity is this biggest factor in putting women on a pedestal. Lonely guys feel like that woman is their “one shot”, and then the woman is elevated | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 03:27 AM |
| 2 | What to do when she goes coldGreat strategy. Good luck… | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 03:02 AM |
| 4 | What to do when she goes coldYou’re welcome, hopefully it helps some | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 08:34 PM |
| 2 | What to do when she goes coldThanks man, much appreciated | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 05:51 PM |
| 4 | What to do when she goes coldAppreciate it! | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Approaching & first date attitude dilemma: golden retriever or rottweiler?I think you’re overthinking things. Be yourself, be relaxed, be friendly/social but just don’t be too eager and needy for acceptance | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 2 | How to tell if she's relationship materialCongrats! | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 05:55 PM |
| 3 | How to tell if she's relationship materialThanks for the comment. I usually don’t write about pickup content, but how to be an attractive man who can attract a quality woman (or women) | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 01:45 PM |
| 7 | How to tell if she's relationship materialYou shouldn’t force something you don’t feel. Physical attraction and sexual chemistry shouldn’t be discounted. If you get into a relationship with a woman you don’t find physically attractive, you will regret it | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 01:02 PM |
| 6 | How to tell if she's relationship materialHahah upvoted. These are definitely difficult to find nowadays | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 10:37 AM |
| 14 | How to tell if she's relationship materialIt isn’t, but that’s a great point I missed. Some women act like Jekyl and Hyde if something stressful is happening. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 07:49 PM |
| 3 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?Agree 100% | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 06:01 PM |
| 12 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?100% on this as well | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 04:51 PM |
| 74 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?I’m not married yet, but I’ve been in a LTR for 3 years after dating heavily after a divorce. I really think the more you ‘date for a relationship’ the more you shoot your self in the foot, and actually the less likely it is to happen. You have to let things develop and keep options open until you’re in an actual relationship. However, I think it’s VERY important to have a clear idea of the type of ideal woman you want to settle down with and be very specific in your mind. Write it down even—wha… | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?If you know your size I’ve never had an issue. You can also…return the clothes if they don’t fit | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 03:21 PM |
| 54 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!You don’t need to be a “red flag” guy. Just be more succinct and a less little expressive in your texts. Don’t respond to her immediately when conversation is initiated. No need to overthink the ring just don’t be needy and too eager | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 07:10 PM |
| 6 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?Look into Banana Republic or Uniqlo. Great online deals | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Anyone had any luck on weed?2024 has been a wild year for this sub, and I was around for the Sunshine Man years | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Dating 7’s and 8’s vs 9’s and 10’sThere is a definite difference between dealing with 7’s and 8’s vs 9’s and 10’s in online dating. Although 7’s and 8’s still get tons of attention, the window to make an impression on 9’s and 10’s is much narrower. You have to be more polarizing or demonstrate high value very early with 9’s and 10’s, their attention is limited | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | At Some Point “Day Game Sessions” start getting degenerate.This will get downvoted, but agree 100%. If you just spam approach all day, at certain point you have a low value, desperate energy | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive manLove it | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 12:47 PM |
| 8 | Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive manThanks for the personal input, glad it helped some | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive manWell said | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Controlling thirstiness/lust is one of the most important components of being an attractive manAppreciate it! | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 09:59 PM |
| 0 | At what body type/shape did you get the most girls/success?Underrated and crucial comment | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some great books for Soothing your Musculinity?Also recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy. It goes into the reasoning why Nice Guys exist, which is often trauma involving parents, the societal conditions men have grown up in. The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming and Authentically Attractive Man dedicates the first part of the book to developing Inner Game and masculine frame | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Would the gym help (19M)?The gym helps with life. It won’t solve all of your problems of course, but the mental health, general health and confidence improvement are uncanny | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I get bored on datesDon’t force something that isn’t there | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 02:56 PM |
| 0 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainGreat article. Good luck with Substack! | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Tips against attachmentReach out with any questions. Similar content is posted every Tuesday and Thursday. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 03:22 PM |
| 0 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainThanks—if you’re interested feel free to check it out. I post similar content every Tuesday and Thursday and usually post a condensed version on this sub | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 03:03 PM |
| 19 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date Againhttps://modating.substack.com/p/act-like-a-friend-get-treated-like | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Tips against attachmenthttps://modating.substack.com/p/do-you-fall-in-love-too-easily | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Nervous beyond beliefI’d echo this. Keep your head on a swivel for your safety. Otherwise, just don’t overthink | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating appsPhotos primarily matter the most. However, general advice is to keep things relatively short, don’t go into diatribes about what you’re looking for. Be playful, sarcastic in a few of your answers | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | I started reading models and I'm not sure if to take it seriouslyModels still lives up to the hype in my opinion. But I understand your criticism. It’s too idealistic in today’s dating culture. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Need Tinder adviceWhat do you think? | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Need Tinder adviceHave seen attractive girls say it as well, although agree with what you’re saying to an extent | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 08:52 PM |
| 2 | 💐 Exact Steps - How To Build Comfort and Rapport On a DateLooking forward to it man keep it up | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 08:48 PM |
| 5 | 💐 Exact Steps - How To Build Comfort and Rapport On a DateI was in your spot a few years ago. u/total_obligation_371 ‘s posts are gold. I wrote a book about what I learned to transform my dating life called The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man. Also highly recommend Models by Mark Manson. Other than that, treating dating like a fun social experiment where you get to have experiences you missed out on in the past 15 years. Stay up with your fitness and grooming, utilize online dating to your advantage. You’ll be surpr… | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 03:45 PM |
| 9 | Need Tinder adviceWould also spread your net wider beyond Tinder. Hinge is easiest to get dates from, but there are more less attractive women, so you’ll have to spend a little more time finding women you’re interested in. My favorite app was Bumble, had the most attractive ‘relationship’ worthy women. Met my LTR on Bumble and had the best dates from there. My experience was that opportunity came in waves, one week was on fire with matches, a few weeks where it was relatively dead | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 03:33 PM |
| 30 | Need Tinder adviceAn important thing to remember is women, even average ones, are absolutely flooded with options on Tinder and other apps. Flaking just doesn’t happen to you. That being said, you first need to maximize your profile. Make sure your pictures are all high quality, you’re demonstrating an attractive persona. If you’re not happy with your photos, spending a few hundred on a photographer is a good investment if you’re serious about having an active dating life. Secondly, be playful and flirtatious in … | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 02:47 PM |
| 3 | 💐 Exact Steps - How To Build Comfort and Rapport On a DateExcellent write up on how small talk is absolutely necessary, it’s not just deep conversations and heavy topics. You give really good examples of how not to turn the date into an interview with an endless series of questions. I would say in general to stay away from depressing, emotional topics on the first several dates, esp exes. In my experience, bringing up exes can an excellent date sour. I really think that early on, they’ll associate you with negative feelings they have that come along wi… | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 11:11 AM |
| 10 | She (20F) became distant out of a sudden after chatting for weeks with me (24M). What do I do ?You put wayyy too much focus on her. She was essentially a pen pal where you never even went on a date. She’s not testing you at all man, she’s not interested. You don’t have other options, so you’ve come overly fixated on her. Not judging, but when you don’t have other options, it’s what happens, you place your hopes on someone you barely know | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 05:48 PM |
| -2 | How to trust a womanDon’t, never 100% at least | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Need your guidance for a better masculine man....I have a post coming out on Tuesday about this, how to develop masculine frame | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What are the good books for dating tips?I think you should be putting yourself out there and getting practice primarily through online dating, and then with daygame or nightgame. Read books in the meantime that you find interesting. Don’t wait until you finish books to begin. Books should just supplement | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 08:38 PM |
| 2 | What are the good books for dating tips?I think there’s a lot of value in reading, gaining knowledge and improving. I wrote a book in the subject, so I obviously believe it’s worth the time. But I agree with the original comment that the best way to learn is by doing. Books won’t solve all your problems | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDExactly. Guys who give the advice to dump the apps are projecting and encouraging others to disregard a major source of opportunity. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Act like a friend, get treated like a friend - and soon be forgottenEven beginners know that physical escalation is crucial in building attraction, lol not sure where this term ‘handsy negging’ term you’re coining came from. All of your responses provide literally NO actionable advice. You just say “I’m myself I don’t waste time”. That’s a millisecond of my life I’ll never get back. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Act like a friend, get treated like a friend - and soon be forgotten“I do nothing.” That was groundbreaking advice, thank you. I already addressed balancing everything by being authentic in the blog post. So your counterargument is something I already said. If you’d take the time to actually read it, instead of trying to piggyback off my posts for attention. Is there anything else I can help you with? | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Act like a friend, get treated like a friend - and soon be forgottenlol touching someone’s hand is feeling them up in public? That’s a reach, wouldn’t you say? Friends ARE cool. But not when you have attraction to someone and want something more and are honest with intent. Thanks for grossly mischaracterizing the title for attention though. So, I’m curious how you specifically prefer to spark emotion on dates. Please no platitudes like, “through deep conversation” “being vulnerable” or “being genuinely interested in learning about her” | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 6 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDOnline dating | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDHate this take. Why the this or that mentality? If you get good at OLD, you are passing up tons of opportunity that comes to you. Even if you are excellent with daygame, the truth is the majority of interactions don’t translate into actual dates, the success rate with ACTUAL DATES is superior with OLD if you know what you’re doing. You said yourself you made up those stats. Utilize everything at your disposal—daygame, social circle/ activities plus OLD. OLD is like your passive income stream for… | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | What are the good books for dating tips?Will check it out | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | What are the good books for dating tips?Haven’t read that, but No More Mr Nice Guy also by Glover helped me tremendously | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 01:57 PM |
| 2 | What are the good books for dating tips?Agree. Good books help put you in a good frame of mind and set a framework, but the true success comes from actually putting yourself out there frequently getting in actual experience, and being very observant. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Online Game after a looong timeVery high level here. Big thing before any of below is that you don’t get in your feelings about online dating. If you don’t have initial success, it doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. It just means you’re not selling yourself properly and need to make some minor adjustments. Remember, online dating is just a tool you use to get as many dating options as possible. It’s not a reflection of who you are or anything deeper Your location will limit your options. Logistics matter in terms of opportunit… | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 01:51 PM |
| 7 | What are the good books for dating tips?It lives up to the hype in most cases. What’s impressive is that it was written over a decade ago and doesn’t feel outdated. Biggest criticism is that it’s a little idealistic for today’s dating market and it doesn’t cover much about daygame and nothing about online dating, which is understandable since it was released before online became more mainstream | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 12:33 PM |
| 5 | What are the good books for dating tips?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 12:27 PM |
| 3 | What kind of questions do you ask a girl to escalate?u/tripledigitnomad and I have discussed this before and think the sitting next to her thing is way over emphasized. As long as you’re close and not far across from her it doesn’t matter | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 12:50 AM |
| 9 | creepy vs flirting?Compliment women on their vibe or energy instead, or say they have a great look instead of specific body parts | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 09:12 PM |
| 23 | creepy vs flirting?Someone’s been doing their squats? You sound like a 60 year old man trying to hit on a chick in the gym | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:28 PM |
| 28 | creepy vs flirting?Lolol the squat comment is wild. I think the difference between creepiness and flirting is thirstiness/lustfulness | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:26 PM |
| 6 | How to revert a reputation for smelling bad?Really simple bro, keep up with your grooming and smell better. Not that hard to become the good smelling guy. Smelling good is really one of the most low effort things a guy can do to increase attractiveness. Mont Blanc makes some good affordable fragrances. Check out Legend Sprit or Explorer. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Closing that night is crucial imo | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:17 PM |
| 41 | How to revert a reputation for smelling bad?You’re overthinking this waaaaaaay too much. Seriously doubt all women have conferred and you’re known as the stinky guy. Just keep up with your hygiene, make sure your breath doesn’t stink, and pick a fragrance you enjoy and makes you feel confident, one spray at the most | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.I don’t disagree with what you’re saying at all, esp that second paragraph, but I see it over and over from guys who get their hopes up after meeting a girl in the club | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Seeing reality for what it isn’t trying to make them feel good. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Lolol your experience doesn’t match mine, I’m the authority. YOU ALL ARE DELUSIONAL EVERYONE IS DRUNK | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:10 AM |
| 0 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.It’s been your experience that every girl you’ve encountered out at night has been blitzed or on drugs? | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Fair enough, but in the blog post I explicitly say alcohol can be a factor. Best of luck. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 12:54 AM |
| 4 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.This post isn’t an overview of night game, if that’s what you’re expecting. It offers an explanation to many guys—and there have been a lot of these posts—who are confused about when they meet a woman and from their perspective have good chemistry, but she blocks or is not responsive. Of course there are other factors at play, but you mean to tell me every number you’ve gotten at a club led to something or she was always responsive? Nightgame is far more suited if you’re looking for a ONS, and n… | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.A lot of the “gurus” are angry neckbeards who don’t post anything themselves or offer any advice. Have seen a lot come and go over the years. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.I didn’t say they all flake tho | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Thanks for reading, glad it helped | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Agree with you if there’s no interest or feelings there. I’ve encountered hundreds of guys—clients, posts here, etc—that get way too far ahead of themselves and try everything they can to lock a woman down | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.‘Bruh’ is your counter argument? When a lot of guys meet a woman they like, they are already in a future state, trying to lock her down. It’s fine if you disagree, but how about more than an emoji? | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 08:46 PM |
| 11 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Definitely wasn’t expecting it to get this much controversy with some, but this isn’t my first rodeo either. Thanks for reading | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Women don’t get attracted to men? It’s a need based need based need? News to me | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 06:51 PM |
| 9 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Last two paragraphs of the blog address that. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 06:14 PM |
| 24 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Then why do guys constantly post about meeting and girl in a club/party/bar etc, get a number or Instagram, and then are throughly disappointed when she flakes? I see it as a very common theme with guys I work with, and isn’t always related to drugs or alcohol However, I state in the post that alcohol may be a factor as well. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 05:07 PM |
| 17 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Agree. I didn’t address this in the post, but ONS should be more of the objective than getting a number with night game | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:58 PM |
| -5 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Bro, just downvote then. I stand by what I wrote informed by my experience. Post your own thoughts on the subject then. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Response to the critical & nostalgic sticky post hereMods shouldn’t pin their own posts to the top of the sub IMO. Let your content speak for itself like the rest of us. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:41 PM |
| 9 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.So you think it’s just as common for a woman to meet a guy at a club, they exchange information, she reaches out, and he blocks her the next day on social. Ok. The audience for this post isn’t women, and I think you’d agree that this scenario likely happens far more to men. Women are inundated with interest from guys on a daily basis, whether it’s online, if they go out, etc. It’s a much bigger deal for most guys if they meet a woman out and about and they place their hopes and get let down afte… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:35 PM |
| 25 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.I am for real. I’ve seen this scenario posted all the time and with my clients. It’s a common mistake guys tend to make and make assumptions with someone they met in a bar, club, or party. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?You need to subtly physically escalate esp with light hand holding. Physical touch with the hands is powerful | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:45 PM |
| 10 | How do we feel about Daygame?You don’t need to be so formal about the decision. Practice day game, talk to women you find attractive, but also just practice being generally social with everyone when out and about, you’ll develop a generally social vibe It doesn’t have to be a this or that mentality. If you want to maximize options, day game and use online dating to maximize opportunity. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | How to get over someone you just metNot to spam, but I have a post on my blog on this topic coming out tomorrow: modating.substack.com A summary will be posted on this sub | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 08:32 PM |
| 4 | How to get over someone you just metI have a post coming out on this tomorrow since it’s been a common topic recently. Women are anchored to how they feel in the current moment, men are more future oriented. She was in a high energy, social environment where she met a stranger who she vibed with (you). After the emotional spike of the situation died down; she did some evaluation and determined it was something she didn’t want to put effort into. Easier to block than have a guy hanging around she met one time. Guys have to understa… | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Can cold approaching be successful for long term relationships?Any method you use to put yourself out there, meet women, and hone your social skills will be beneficial | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I hate These "how to Tell if She secretly likes you"As you should. Women don’t play hard to get the vast majority of the time | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Which seduction course should I start with?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 09:38 PM |
| 16 | How to work on your 'vibe' and make it better?Lifting does wonders for your mood and physical presence Default to positive thoughts about yourself rather than negative Avoid porn and other lustful low value habits Sleep and eat well Be generally social when out, strike up conversations with all people, not just women | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Setting up a hookup from tinder matches?I was going to say, calling u/tripledigitnomad lol | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 05:20 PM |
| 11 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on DateYou say physically escalate but don’t give any specifics on what that means or if it involves touch | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 04:13 PM |
| 28 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on DateNo mention of physical touch or teasing | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 04:11 PM |
| 73 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on Date1000%.Subtle, escalated physical touch is without a doubt the most powerful way to spark attraction. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 04:09 PM |
| 6 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessYup, a lot of guys let their ego get involved and think they’re different than the other guy, but the cycle continues | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessI would agree with you. A good portion of women don’t take personal responsibility for their actions | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 12:52 PM |
| 3 | What are the best books/resources for LTR?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming and Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessJust recently joined Substack. Have been posting on this sub for a while now | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 10:57 PM |
| 18 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessIt’s not going to 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 08:48 PM |
| 10 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessSo you’ve never encountered a woman in your dating life whose words didn’t align with what she said to you? Not saying all women do this, but women do lie, it may not be intentional, and they don’t see it that way, but many women will def mislead guys if they don’t have high attraction | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessTrue, those examples are meant to highlight what men typically do, which is get hope based on what she says, and they wind up languishing as a penpal or source of validation. | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 07:26 PM |
| 32 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessHard facts you’re speaking. Not taking responsibility is the 1% red flag | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 07:17 PM |
| 7 | Girl you're talking to tells you she's always been respectful to the guy she's being seeing for a year even if she sexted with you a few months ago. Do you bring it up or play along?Observe what women do, not what they say. | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 11:50 AM |
| 4 | Approaching Women Directly Versus IndirectlyI’ve never believed in the one size fits all approach. I believe guys need to experiment and see which fits their natural strengths best, where they feel more comfortable. The key is being playful, relaxed, and in the moment. I personally prefer indirect, although I think that’s a misnomer. You can strike up a conversation with an attractive woman, be flirtatious without directly stating your intention. That’s how conversations naturally unfold, it’s really not indirect. My personal belief is th… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Course on dating/seduction for autistic guysThe Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man. Covers inner inner game and mindsets for success | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Tinder, Photofeeler and success for men over 40?Would recommend spreading your net wider beyond Tinder. Bumble was my favorite in terms of quality of women, Hinge was the easiest to get dates from. If you want to really have more opportunity. It’s a wise investment to hire a photographer and get some hight quality photos unless you have an experienced friend who can help out. Have fun and good luck | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 08:33 PM |
| 11 | What to Do If a Woman Starts To Lose InterestGood job on the quality and consistency of posts recently | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | What books/courses of Seduction do you recommend?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Are "Mystery Method" and "The Game" still up to dateThe Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenBecause that’s a dumb hypothetical question with no validity. I didn’t say anything about an ugly guy and attractive guy with the same social skills | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenYou shouldn’t strive to be either, both looks and social skills can be improved. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenLooks are a huge factor, I’m not denying that. But there are tons of traditionally good looking guys who suck with women. It’s not a golden ticket | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 04:20 PM |
| -4 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenSounds like an incel point of view. My initial comment got downvoted, but without fundamental social skills and some game, the impact of looks is very short lived. A socially calibrated, highly confident, yet average looking guy will typically beat out a good looking yet shy and awkward guy who acts nervous around women. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 04:03 PM |
| -8 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenPosted about this concept a few weeks ago. With better looks comes higher expectation of confidence and social skills. It’s generally off putting when women encounter a good looking guy who’s awkward or shy. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Daygame bootcamps/communities in Montreal in 2024Please don’t drop thousands on a bootcamp. All the knowledge you need is already out there. If you’re observant, you’ll learn through experience. It really is the best teacher. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Seasonality in seductionNo I’m US | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Seasonality in seductionPretty much, my experience that success is cyclical. Bumble in particular on the apps I experienced this. Hinge was more consistent for me, but Bumble has more attractive women | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Look Like Your GameInteresting concept and great write up. Agree that your physical appearance should match your inner vibe and mindset | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:51 PM |
| 33 | Seasonality in seductionI don’t believe in seasonality, but I def believe in momentum. Slow periods, followed by a little more activity, then you gain momentum where you’re flooded with options, and then it slows back down. Experienced this particularly with online dating. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Being a side piece/reboundOnly requirement you have is to not catch feelings and hook up. AND KEEP YOUR OTHER OPTIONS OPEN. She is not your girlfriend, you don’t owe her any type of loyalty If you feel like you can’t be the rebound without getting jealous or catching feelings, would bow out and distance. She’ll likely make that difficult because women on the rebound are used to attention and validation. She will for sure use you for that, and it will seem like she has actual feelings for you. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Going to girls home vs yoursConcur with others 100%. Your place. Make sure your place is clean, esp your bathroom. She will excuse yourself at some point and judge your cleanliness. Hard for her to want to get naked with you if your toilet has shit stains and your shower is moldy | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 02:23 PM |
| 5 | You will never improve until you stop thinking of yourself in static, negative terms: “I have no game”, “I suck with women”, etc.Just started, but already would be at the top of my list of recommendations for inner game development | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Could online be enough?Unpopular take on this sub but yes. For someone without social media status, fame, or wealth it’s the most efficient way to | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 02:15 AM |
| 5 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsThis is 1000% hard facts. Knowing how to have an abundance in dating will prevent you from making the wrong mistakes when you do want a relationship. It will be for the right reasons, you’ll know what you want, and it won’t be out of loneliness or desperation. | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Breaking touch barrier with hands is so powerfulI started with a light hug as well. The hug is good, but it really isn’t as big a deal as the hand hold | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 12:02 PM |
| 4 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsI would DM OP directly on here. It’s his personal IG and doubt he’ll give it out | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 02:30 AM |
| 11 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsI’ve seen his Instagram and his receipts. Dude’s not lying at all. He also recently got with an Insta influencer with 200k+ followers | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Breaking touch barrier with hands is so powerfulIt’s not terrible, if you don’t think you can initiate naturally. But I’ve found it best to just subtly hold her hands lightly while at some point in the conversation. It shows more intent and boldness | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 08:42 PM |
| 9 | Matches on dating apps randomly stop texting backSpeaking straight facts on this. Have to stop viewing your experience with online dating the same as a woman’s they are bombarded with options. Getting ditched mid conversation is just part of the game for men | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 08:28 PM |
| 3 | No instagramThis is my take as someone who’s a little bit older. Aside from the dating benefits, there is an advantage of building your own brand and identity online. If you find it toxic, just kind of ‘post and forget’. Social media is not great for mental health, but if you manage your own personal usage and kind of just let it take a background role in your life, it can have benefits. I just started building my public brand IG last year after being staunchly anti-social media for years. It will help you … | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 06:06 PM |
| 6 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)Definitely agree with most of these, particularly having her come to your place and breaking the touch barrier, esp with some sort of casual hand holding or touch. I’ve seen how that can alter the mood of a date in a positive direction from women who were neutral to a hookup Don’t necessarily think the 1 hour rule is critical, sometimes more than an hour is needed to build trust and rapport m. However, BIG agree on no dinner dates, I am a big believer of no breakfast or lunch dates either, frame… | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | what made you give up on dating & women?Like other commenter said, don’t quit take a break and just focus on what makes you happy, stay healthy, and what you think your purpose is. You’ll attract more quality people if you’re fulfilled and happy in your life | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Date game is not emphasized enough. Being decent at cold approach is not the end of the story@tripledigitnomad and I are coming up with a course to address these type of problems soon. Basically, you need to spark more emotion in her. Try subtle (but not creepy) handholding, and acting less like a friend. You have to frame yourself as a romantic/sexual partner not a friend she has pleasant conversations with. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 03:54 PM |
| 7 | You look like a fuckboyTerrible take. You want to give an impression that other women desire you in your pictures and that you have a little bit of edge or a bad boy quality. You sound like a stiff 60 year old. What matters is your actual character. You can have an image of being a badboy or a fuckboy to gain some interest. But still have integrity in your personal life | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 01:24 PM |
| 35 | The State You Meet Her In Is VERY ImportantIt’s very important. I think it factors in especially whether or not she wants to be in a relationship. I think even if she’s attracted to you, but not in a relationship frame of mind, she’ll still be more resistant to more long term dating Mark Manson covers this concept in Models briefly | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Does Introvertness and Shyness negate looks?It’s the second most recent post in my post history | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Does Introvertness and Shyness negate looks?Posted on this concept recently and agree 100% | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 07:20 PM |
| 8 | Does Introvertness and Shyness negate looks?Yes, 1000% yes in terms of anything beyond initial attraction. Shyness is an attraction killer on most women. Looks will get your foot the door, but will turn most women off immensely if a guy isn’t self assured | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How often do you have your first kisses at home vs out?Concur. Parking lot is great spot. In my experience, going to for the kiss like sitting at a bar or at the table can have mixed results. It’s a high risk/high reward move. It can be a powerful way to escalate and can get her emotions highly engaged, or she can get very turned off | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Cold approach success rateSo what? At the end of the day, getting dates is what matters. A guy can be decent at cold approach but still have shitty date game | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach success rateReality is that you will have to improve on your weight to have true success. That’s just the truth. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Cold approach success rateStill believe in cold approach as a general social skill and it gives you some freedom online doesn’t, but the truth is that having a good online profile is so much more effective. Guys get in their feelings and hate online dating, but it is by far the most effective way to get dates with some small adjustments and decent pictures | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | PT jobs for socializing and meeting womenAny type of face to face customer service jobs. Bartender is ideal because it’s a high status from a social point of view in that context | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Which is best game/sex course that has helped you and you would recommend it to everyone?I def agree with you. The tone is dumb, but some really good techniques and explanation of how the clitoris is connected to almost everything related to making a woman cum is very useful | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 12:23 PM |
| 9 | Which is best game/sex course that has helped you and you would recommend it to everyone?She Comes First by Ian Kerner | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Seducing a girl with a boyfriendI’m a firm believer in keeping your energy clean. It’s hard when a chick is throwing herself at you, but if you do, I wouldn’t catch feelings. She will do the same to you eventually. Guys let their ego take over, but you’re not special | /r/seduction | 18/11/23 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Did tinder get harder than a couple of years ago?This got downvoted, but it’s the absolute truth. People don’t want to hear that effort is needed to get results. Just want to either get bitter about online dating, or looking for a magic fix | /r/seduction | 15/11/23 04:13 PM |
| 7 | My top 11 guides from the past 5+ years to improve faster & attract more girlsIn terms of online dating, @tripledigitnomad gives some of the best, most realistic advice on this sub. | /r/seduction | 14/11/23 07:54 PM |
| 318 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?The last point of putting yourself in a leadership position is crucial. Great call out. Also, if you expose yourself to public speaking frequently, even in a small capacity, like leading a weekly team meeting or doing toastmasters. As I get older, I’ve realized that doing difficult or uncomfortable things and rising to the occasion is the greatest source of confidence | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyI don’t disagree with a lot of what you’re saying, based on what she’s told me. I’m only hearing second hand, but it sounds like a lot of women are demanding or expect material things, I think that’s in every culture. Compared to the US though, the dating market sounds less skewed in the favor of women. Good insight because I’ve only heard secondhand from a woman’s perspective | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyThanks a lot man, really glad it’s made a difference. Very motivating to hear | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 03:28 AM |
| 17 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyA year or so ago, on this forum, I posted the virtues of Eastern European/Slavic women vs American women, and got absolutely slaughtered. American women get up in arms and throw around the passport bro term, but it’s sexual jealousy and fear. They can’t attack other women, so they attack men who prefer women who are better educated, more feminine, in better shape, and more intellectually independent (not the toxic American Boss Bitch TikTok bullshit). I always recommend to date women from foreig… | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 02:16 AM |
| 17 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyMy LT girlfriend is Russian. She explained that essentially because of war and other societal factors, men hold the power in the dating world. Here in the US, great good looking guys simp for mediocre women. In Russia, it’s flipped. Beautiful women are in competition for Schleppy dudes. | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 02:09 AM |
| 5 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Definitely read the book. He explains why. | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 08:27 PM |
| 20 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Amazing book. Explains how Nice Guys are afraid of sex, which is a big part of why dudes are friend zoned | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:You’re simply framing yourself as friend and being too nice, like they mentioned Too polite, playing not to lose, not being vulnerable and bold with who you are, not teasing/flirting not being sexual | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 02:08 PM |
| 16 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveLook at my post history and make that determination yourself. I’m not forcing anyone. | /r/seduction | 06/07/23 06:51 PM |
| 21 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveI have. I posted for years here without any type of self promotion. I continue to do so, but I also offer coaching services. | /r/seduction | 06/07/23 06:38 PM |
| 31 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveThanks brother. If you’re interested in coaching or just a quick chat, send a message. Appreciate it | /r/seduction | 06/07/23 05:38 PM |
| 406 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveSpot on. Unless you have a clearly defined sense of who you are, how you expect to be treated, and how you treat others, you will not have an anchor. As a result, you’ll constantly seek validation from others. Great post | /r/seduction | 06/07/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they make excuses and self-victimizeAnywhere out in public you see an attractive woman lol High end grocery stores Target Cafes and coffee shops Community events/farmer’s markets Dog parks/parks Bookstores | /r/seduction | 06/06/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they make excuses and self-victimizeOnline, daygame, social activities, going out at night, the examples are numerous | /r/seduction | 05/06/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.Nope, not too late at all. You have to embrace being a beginner and wanting to change. | /r/seduction | 11/05/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.https://www.amazon.com/Foundation-Blueprint-Becoming-Authentically-Attractive-ebook/dp/B0BZDHJRBH/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?keywords=the+foundation&qid=1683510414&sr=8-4 Feel free to message me with any questions. | /r/seduction | 08/05/23 01:47 AM |
| 10 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.That’s an amazing approach. The attitude of “I’m going to have fun either way” is extremely attractive | /r/seduction | 03/05/23 10:35 PM |
| 6 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.You need to have a conversation with her and clear things up about what you are. It sounds like you’re really not into her, but you’re worried you won’t find anyone else that will date or have sex with you | /r/seduction | 03/05/23 06:02 PM |
| 12 | Treat dating as a social experiment where fun and honing social skills are the sole objectives. Detaching completely from expectation gives you power.I don’t disagree with you, but I think that pressure prevents you from having fun. You’re going to be more nervous, more hesitant and unnatural because you don’t want to lose something that’s potentially good. I think being pressure-free is the key to being fun. Good call out though | /r/seduction | 03/05/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Pants with Pockets - the "unstated requirement"Pook vibes on this. Good job | /r/seduction | 20/04/23 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.Ah, didn’t take it that way. I’ve definitely heard of RSD, Owen Cook, Julien, etc, but I’m not familiar with their products or courses. No plagiarism intended—thanks for the heads up. | /r/seduction | 12/04/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.From where? | /r/seduction | 12/04/23 04:40 AM |
| 17 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.Mark Manson refers to this as demographics in Models. I expand on this concept in my book, The Foundation | /r/seduction | 11/04/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men’s advice. How to view yourself as a prize and have an abundance mentality when you haven’t had success with in the pastNever | /r/seduction | 30/03/23 07:03 PM |
| 2 | any advice to raise my self confidence and approach girlsYes, it’s glitching for me as well. | /r/seduction | 04/11/22 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractiveThanks for those words, very motivating! | /r/seduction | 03/11/22 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractiveSo sayeth the Victim | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyYou’re fucking kidding right? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyIt’s fine for some people, not others. Not saying everyone should give it up across the board, but some might not consider caffeine as a source of anxiety because it’s socially acceptable, as you just demonstrated. People react to the things they ingest in different ways. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:23 PM |
| 11 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyBeing socially anxious would hinder seduction, correct? The point of the post is to be mindful of some habits that may contribute to anxiety, but aren’t frequently considered. Not saying that alcohol or caffeine consumption contributes to social anxiety for everyone, but it might for some. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:42 PM |
| 9 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societySo based on that logic, tobacco has been beneficial for society. So you think that consumption habits and health practices that were accepted hundreds of years ago apply today? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyI drink coffee. I should have been more clear on the post that caffeine doesn’t apply to everyone in this instance, but for some it could be a contributing factor that isn’t always considered | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyI drink coffee. I should have been a little more clear that caffeine doesn’t make everyone across the board more socially anxious, but for some, it might be a contributor, and it might not be considered a source | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backIt’s great you’re trying to understand it and explain it to others but you limit a whole 30yr long relationship and family to just two factors when there’s so much more that goes into them. They’re complex people who have more than two needs and we only see surface level stuff they’re comfortable telling in interviews I agree that status is a factor for some people and different styles of leadership is too, but they don’t seem like the problems in that relationship from what I’ve seen | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:06 PM |
| -1 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backBut that would require they have opinions and advice of their own… | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backI agree the concept of marriage needs to evolve in some manner, don’t have the answers, but the old model doesn’t work | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 04:18 PM |
| 44 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Focus on having fun, don’t have expectations or fantasize. You want to be able to be yourself 100% with someone you’re with long term. The more you worry about keeping their interest, the more you’ll get in your own head and start to act unnaturally. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backuuuuh it’s quite clearly because he was putting football before his wife and family, leaving all the family/housework tasks to her and expecting to have to do nothing when he got home, that simple. Plus could’ve been other stuff going on that we don’t hear about. It didn’t matter he played football it mattered how he was then not doing his duties at home and I can tell you her asking him to retire from football would have been the very last resort. A woman can still be the leader in the family a… | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backI would agree, although someone’s public persona may differ than they are in private | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:25 AM |
| -11 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backRead the second bullet point and try again | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 12:55 AM |
| 19 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backThis is exactly true. Status is far more powerful the less familiar it is. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backThanks, appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?I wanted to post something else today, and they limit one post every 24 hours. Will post it again tomorrow | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?Thanks brother | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:32 PM |
| 143 | Keeping a solid 9Don’t make her the focus of your life. Realize you were good enough to get her, and you can get others at her level. Be yourself and enjoy your life above all else, the more you try to ‘keep’ her, the more you’ll fail | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 3 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexOf course the WSB/Superstonks guy in the comments is subtle. Gracias | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractiveIf a girl ghosts, she just didn’t find you attractive, period. Looks may not be the sole factor. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:21 PM |
| 5 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexThis is true | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexAgreed. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexI don’t hate you, I kind of like your snarkiness | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexWhy are you bringing hetero hate into this? Why can’t I just be an asshole? | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:26 PM |
| 6 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexYes, the guy who gets the girl is the one who puts her on pedestal who and performs an act of self sacrifice and devotion, she sees the light, and leaves the unappreciative “jerk” she was with | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:25 PM |
| 3 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexCongrats to you and the gender fluid pidgeon | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:23 PM |
| 3 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexYeah, when guys are younger, we buy into the myth that you’re a bad guy or manipulative when a woman sleeps with you, that the ideal is a “gentleman” that waits until a relationship. However, life teaches us otherwise. Sex is part of a bonding process, and a way to establish yourself as a sexual/romantic partner in the eyes, not a sexless platonic friend. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:21 PM |
| 12 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexI think it stems from shame about sex. When we’re younger, we buy into the idea that when a woman has sex with you, there’s an element of manipulation, or you’re ‘using’ her, which is completely idiotic. Life teaches you otherwise. Women want sex as much as men. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:19 PM |
| 2 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexVery happy in a ltr, maybe go fuck yourself first. 😃 | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:13 PM |
| 4 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexIf you’re waiting for marriage for sex, then some sort of physical intimacy, kissing, making out, touching. Something to make it clear from the jump that you’re not just a friend. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexBeing sincere your username is great | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 02:29 AM |
| 6 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexNever heard it in that context but agree | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 10:23 PM |
| 87 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexExperienced that in college. One day my AC went out and I messaged one of my female friends about it. She said, “Well come over and cool off and watch a movie with me.” We lied down in her bed, and watched like three movies in a row, she was almost squirming for me to make a move, but I didn’t do a damn thing. She told her roommates she actually wanted to have sex, but I didn’t make a move. I wound up developing a huge crush on her and was friend-zoned. Nice Guy 101 scenario. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 09:55 PM |
| 14 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex👆 | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. Understand and accept this before you project romantic fantasies onto someone you barely knowYou said it brilliantly in the second paragraph, in a way I haven’t seen before. I really think that’s why when women fall out of love with a man, they’re done, and it’s nearly impossible to get them to feel the same way. It’s like what’s happened with Tom Brady. No matter if you’re accomplished, and she was madly in love you previously. They lose love at the drop a hat once they’ve felt unsafe and insecure enough. Not saying it’s fair, but it’s reality. I believe men are the ones who are tied t… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 12 | On the rise of lonely single menVictimhood is celebrated everywhere, especially on the Internet | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Are men approaching me for my body or?That’s an impossible question to answer. Some guys might like your body, some might like your face, some like both, some like the energy you put out or your style. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 6 | On the rise of lonely single menNo fucking clue why this is downvoted. There are people who are born without the ability to think or move on their own. There are people who have terminal illness. OP, it’s understandable that you’re frustrated, but you’re playing the role of the victim. Rejection happens to everyone. Guys who are successful with women get rejected a ton, but are detached from rejection and don’t take it personally. You’re never going to have success if you continue to feel sorry for yourself. Think of relative … | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenAgree, you don’t need to be at a certain “point” before you start putting yourself out there. Sooner the better | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 07:48 PM |
| 22 | Texting Fundamentals for NoobsAgree with most, but don’t agree that it’s just for logistics. Especially nowadays, texting can be used for light banter to build comfort, but you’re correct about not being too available. Be friendly, succinct, have a little light banter, but focus on getting to know them in person. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenAgreed 100%. Fitness can’t compensate for piss poor social skills or a weak character | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenI don’t understand why it’s seen as one or the other. If you’re charming, it doesn’t mean you have to be out of shape. If two guys are equally as charming, but one is in shape, the guy who’s in shape will usually win out, unless the other guy has more status | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenAgain, not judging you. When someone is dismissive, I take a quick glance at their post history to see if they practice what they preach. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 01:02 PM |
| 5 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenNo thanks. Just curious | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenAre we talking about women? You posted in a gay forum two weeks ago looking for a companion. No judgment, but this post is related to attracting women. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenRead: “This doesn’t mean that you have to be ripped or extremely muscular” | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 12:46 PM |
| 11 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenDon’t disagree with you | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 08:43 AM |
| 7 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenLolz at calling others sexist then says “drowning in pussy”. Alrighty, this is going in circles. You claim to have been in game for 12 years, madly successful but you post verbatim “how does anyone make friends or get dates?” and post in limerence forums. That sounds like someone with a ton of options. Best of luck to you. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 08:40 AM |
| 9 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenYour post history indicates otherwise, it has nothing to do with misogyny. You gave an evasive non-answer. You indicate that you struggle with dating, but then post dating advice. Again, it’s fine if you disagree, but if you’re smug and dismissive, you deserve to get called out. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 08:31 AM |
| 7 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenI’m not shaming you for feeling down, but how can speak with such authority on seduction and bash traditional masculinity, and then post how you’re alone and can’t get dates? You also post about being irrationally jealous. Should you work on yourself first before giving advice? | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 08:21 AM |
| 4 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenYou can be kind, smart, funny, and be in great shape. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Primary elements of the Friendzone: Scarcity mindset, no self-prioritization, dishonesty with intent. A reality check.Thanks for those words, glad you got something out of it | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 03:41 PM |
| 62 | What are some mantras, mottos or quotes you tell yourself?Just because you’re attracted to a woman, it doesn’t mean you’re emotionally connected. She’s a stranger. If she rejects you, you’ll never see her again. Rejection happens to everyone. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 02:21 PM |
| 12 | How do I get over the fact that I’m not a tall white dude?Genetics play a big role. Some people are more predisposed to being socially anxious. As the other posters have said, there are lifestyle choices you can make to alleviate some of the anxiety. Continue to lift. This is a great lifestyle habit. Make it one of your priorities, push yourself each time you go in. Take Creatine Monohydrate, one of the safest and most researched supplements. Some studies have examined the positive effects on the brain. Remove all porn from your life, limit masturbatio… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Do you find that you only attract one type of woman?Don’t neglect your legs if you want to get bigger, even if you want to focus on improving your upper body | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Primary elements of the Friendzone: Scarcity mindset, no self-prioritization, dishonesty with intent. A reality check.Absolute truth. Too busy = too busy for you | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:39 PM |
| 9 | Do you find that you only attract one type of woman?If you don’t mind, what were your levels before doing the cycles? Do you notice a difference in your mental outlook? | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?Just because a girl goes on a date with you it doesn’t mean she likes you. Just because a girl kisses/makes out with you it doesn’t mean she likes you Even if she has sex with you, it doesn’t mean she wants to be with you long term. Women are fickle with their emotions unless they are emotionally invested (they want to be in a relationship with you) You said it yourself, her energy was off. Maybe she just wanted to make out, or to see if she felt a spark. Don’t try to force something that isn’t … | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themDon’t confuse love and lust | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themIt’s easier said than done. You’re definitely not alone with that struggle | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themGotcha 👍 some people get up in arms about re-posting occasionally | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 06:34 PM |
| -3 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themI still wrote it, not sure why that matters. I’ve been posting here a long time— 95% of my posts are new, I’ve recently started re-posting some of my earlier stuff. I’ll re-post if I feel like it and believe others will get something out of it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behaviorYou are speaking in platitudes | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behaviorYour choice isn’t better or worse than someone who connects with a mainstream masculine identity. It’s what works for you. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behaviorYou conform to a demographic as well that denies gender. You’re not special. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 10:46 AM |
| 7 | An awful lot of theory is stopping you from learning the actually valuable skills of attracting women.You should, it’ll bring you back to reality | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 9 | An awful lot of theory is stopping you from learning the actually valuable skills of attracting women.Alrighty then you’re clearly qualified to give the generic neckbeard fake male feminist relationship advice you’ve dishing out. Teasing, joking, is a fundamental part of flirting and expressing attraction. I guess you just stare into their eyes and say “I love your mind” or some bullshit, while the rest of us are primary school children. Over 2 years!! | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 02:16 PM |
| 5 | An awful lot of theory is stopping you from learning the actually valuable skills of attracting women.Have you been in a relationship before? | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 02:08 PM |
| 7 | An awful lot of theory is stopping you from learning the actually valuable skills of attracting women.Don’t assign stupid names to it like Kino, call it physical touch like an adult. Subtle physical touch and teasing (not negging) is absolutely powerful for building attraction on dates. Those who discount it’s importance have not utilized it correctly, or are afraid to escalate and be sexual. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | New rule for men looking for an LTR or marriage: Don’t court her unless she’s your girlfriendFocus on having fun. Exactly right—inexpensive, but fun dates in the beginning. You want to see if you can have fun with her anywhere, and that she enjoys being around you. If a girl is really into you, it doesn’t really matter what you do as long as she feels safe. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:57 PM |
| 39 | Girls are getting weird!!That introduction was lame and generic, you didn’t contribute anything to the conversation that would entice them to have you join. It’s like you see woman in a grocery store with apples in her cart, and say “So…you like apples!” | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behaviorYes, you can appear stiff and unnatural if it’s overdone. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 18 | Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behaviorWomen seem to have a 6th sense for it, it’s remarkable. I think both men and women do, but like you said it’s less of a factor in how men interact with you. If unsure of yourself, most women will treat you with disdain | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Toxic/low value behavior I have seen in most men that enter game that you need to be on the lookout for.Great breakdown. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behaviorSo, you’re saying body language doesn’t play a role in how you convey yourself and your masculine energy? Or does it just ‘radiate from within’ or some other useless platitude you want to dispense? | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 03:16 PM |
| 6 | What's your seduction hot take? Like something you believe, but would probably get you downvoted if you posted it here?Guys who incels call Chads are usually disciplined (eat well, lift, exercise, take care of their grooming and appearance) hence the reason they look good | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 10:58 PM |
| 11 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?Yoga, if you’re not creepy about it | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 10:28 PM |
| 106 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?Gym membership, a watch, decent sneakers, some solid color t shirts that fit well, some cologne | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Not wanting to fit in with mainstream society completely changed my results with women, I got hotter girls as a result.Get comfortable with people disliking you if you want to achieve high levels of success at anything https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mdp7ip/get_comfortable_with_people_disliking_you_if_you/ | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 09:02 PM |
| 4 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudes🙏 | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 10:24 PM |
| 115 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesOn to the next…cue the Future clip… | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesCongrats man | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Who is your favourite monarch as a seduction ideal?This is dumb but I still like it | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesI’m being sincere—if that makes you happy and is your preference, no shame loving the life you prefer. I can relate to that feeling. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesWell, I think your primary issue is that you view those traits as being static and they can’t be changed or improved upon. In fact, these all can be improved. The second point about being ugly and disgusting sounds like a self-perception you should work on, either through therapy or some other form of professional help. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesThanks brother. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesI post because it’s what I believe needs to be said, not because I think it will be popular. I’ve been raked over the coals in this forum and others because of unpopular beliefs I’ve put out there. Not my first rodeo. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 02:07 PM |
| 22 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesWhat gets me are the complaints about how hard it is to be an average guy. Then don’t be a fucking average guy. Just because we have modern conveniences doesn’t mean survival of the fittest doesn’t apply when it comes to finding someone. And if you’re an above average guy, you shouldn’t put average or below average women on pedestal either. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | My problem is I can’t approach unless I am out and having a good timeAgreed. I used to think that it was something that could be hidden or faked, but your state of mind will convey in your mannerisms, no matter how hard you try | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | My problem is I can’t approach unless I am out and having a good timeI don’t think there’s anything wrong with this. You don’t have to be “on” all the time, or “push through” if you’re not feeling it. You’re going to be more attractive when your mood is elevated and you’re putting out good energy. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 11:37 PM |
| 3 | more successful online than in person?I don’t think that’s the best avenue to demonstrate that you have dating options. They don’t want to be viewed as another in an endless line of hookups. They’ll usually bring up the subject in person. They’ll usually ask if you date a lot. Kind of give a playful, semi-evasive response. Don’t deny, but don’t blatantly tell her you date other women regularly. Most women are emotionally intuitive and will get the gist. Flaunting it on Instagram will work against you in my opinion | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl told me im "cute, until I open my mouth."That was a light roast, next time give her some shit back in a playful way and flirt | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 05:07 PM |
| 9 | more successful online than in person?This is a great example. You’re able to effectively portray an attractive, adventurous lifestyle that women want to be part of, even though you have relatively few pictures of yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 59 | more successful online than in person?Cold approach is put on a pedestal in this sub. I believe in it, and think it helps contribute to being attractive, but in terms of efficiency, there is absolutely no way cold approach comes close to the amount of women you can meet through online dating and social media if you are effective. If you have some sort of clout, influence, or effectively portray an attractive lifestyle on Instagram or social media, that is like fishing with dynamite. There’s a misconception that you’re only ‘good wit… | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Dating apps are awesome for a 40 plus year old manThis is a weird post. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 10:30 PM |
| 9 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.I think guys have certain avenues where they are more naturally inclined to meet women successfully. For some guys, it’s utilizing social circle or activities. For others, it’s night game. For me, I had most of my success online and some during the day. Night game for me is weak, because I almost never go clubbing. I think all of the primary avenues (daygame, nightgame, online and social circle) should be considered and not necessarily discounted because you haven’t had success. I’m in a LTR, so… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:31 PM |
| 3 | How do I get closer to my female friend that I'm interested in ?In my experience, if a woman is really into a guy, she’ll find a way to see him, regardless of how busy or stressed she is. It sounds like you might be rationalizing because you want a certain outcome, instead of seeing reality for what it is. You didn’t go overboard previously, but you’re beginning to make yourself too available, and that is incredibly unattractive. You have a good plan of reaching out once things settle down, but why do you necessarily need to be the one who has to maintain a … | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 62 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Men who self-victimize and make excuses are always horrible with women: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/rg9hzg/men_who_are_unsuccessful_with_women_share_one/ | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:13 PM |
| 5 | How do I get closer to my female friend that I'm interested in ?Honestly, are you getting any flirtatious vibes from her? Solely based on your description, it sounds like you two have a friendly, yet platonic vibe. I would hang back until you get settled there and maybe reach out, but focus on setting a date, not becoming her text penpal. Casually ask her out, don’t tell her you like her, or go into a diatribe about how you’re glad you reconnected, etc. Just ask her out on a date, you’ll have your answer based on her response. If she says no, you’ll be in Eu… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Going to make some approaches. Any tips?Hands in pockets is body language that conveys discomfort or being timid. Hiding your hands is body language that is meant to protect yourself when you feel uncomfortable. A woman may not know this fact, or realize you’re doing it, but she’ll process it instinctually. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Going to make some approaches. Any tips?Practice by being social with strangers in general, strike up conversation with men, women, attractive, unattractive etc. Get into the headspace of being outgoing, lighthearted, slightly self-amused. Treat the interaction like striking up a conversation with people is common for you and you don’t really think twice about it Have an adventurous mindset. Look at it as a fun experience interacting with an attractive woman, not a chore to get her to like you Be mindful of personal space and not runn… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Help needed here ?Agree with the other comments. The pettiness is a red flag, esp blaming it on alcohol, instead of taking ownership of the actions. The “free spirit” girls are sometimes alluring, but they often come with baggage. If you’re really into her, but are put off by her behavior, then tell her in a respectful, calm manner. Then, ask her about her show and listen. If you give her another shot, and she exhibits the same behavior, it’s time to bounce. My guess is that she’ll do it again soon. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 12:43 PM |
| 5 | So like, self improvement should help a lot, right?It doesn’t mean anything if you have low self-esteem and sub par social skills. Don’t fall into the checklist mentality, where you think that just because you have things going on in your personal life that women will automatically find you attractive. You can still be incredibly boring if you’re too nice, too available, and don’t convey your enthusiasm for your lifestyle in an interesting manner. Pursue your interests for you. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 05:22 AM |
| 10 | How to get her backLeave it alone. She’s not interested. Why would you seek out someone with so many issues anyway? Your infatuation with her looks will fade, and then you’re left with a nightmare. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 6 | I am attaching my ego to a flakeDon’t attach emotion to someone unless they play a significant role in your life. Everyone else you encounter is a stranger that is removed from your life. In order to date the type of women you desire, you’ll encounter a lot of rejection along the way. That’s part of the deal. You’ll encounter women who will make you forget about this one, if you continue to put yourself out there. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Let's chat about being creepy.Creepiness and awkwardness happens when your outward actions don’t align with your state of mind. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 06:13 PM |
| 5 | How can I stop being interested in women?This comment > The Grapes of Wrath | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Most common place to day game?Underrated comment. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm using my dog to hook up with girlsNope, no problem whatsoever. Attractive women usually love dogs. I think a natural looking picture with a dog is S tier on any online dating profile as well. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with the depression of being an older virgin?I played around with my online dating profiles. I didn’t get discouraged when I wouldn’t get matches for periods of time. Guys get way too sensitive about online dating. It’s a tool, nothing more. It’s like passive income. I have a few posts about online dating in my post history. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 02:50 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys deal with the depression of being an older virgin?When I was coming out of a divorce, I realized that I was not good with women. I embraced the attitude that I was bad with women, but I wanted to improve, and everything was going to be a social experiment until I got better. I basically did a shit ton of online dating, and a little day approaching. I think I dated around 30 women in a period of 6 months. I got rejected by a lot of those women, but I didn’t have any expectation going in. I just wanted to have fun, hook up, and improve my social … | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning.I’m publishing two books early next year that expand on many of the topics discussed in Models. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 04:58 PM |
| 10 | Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning.Being in shape, well-groomed, and having style is more important than being naturally good looking. Even then, it’s not everything. You have to have solid social skills. If you’re physically attractive, but have a creepy or anxious vibe, you won’t have a lot of success. There are really good looking guys who have a boring, White Knight vibe, with no edge to their personality. While a good looking guy may have an easier time sparking initial interest, it doesn’t last long if he’s too nice. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a 37 year old virginBingo. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedListen to this guy. You let her lead, weren’t sexual enough, or at least didn’t spark anything emotionally. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themNothing wrong with being vulnerable. This post is more about romantic fantasizing and projecting. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 06:02 PM |
| 14 | Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with themGreat point. There’s nothing wrong with vulnerability, but projecting romantic hopes on someone too early is a mistake. Women are fickle with their emotions, if there isn’t a high level of emotional investment or attraction. You can be vulnerable, but realize that just because she seems into you one moment, it doesn’t mean you’re headed for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | It’s Not a CompetitionYour happiness is the only objective | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 05:14 PM |
| 18 | If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with othersReally glad it helped. Most friendships have a shelf life. People come in and out of our lives. We’re social creatures, so it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t seek out friendships, but placing our happiness primarily with others is a sure fire way to be miserable. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexThanks for reading. Means a lot! | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexI would contact them directly. They have a weird set of standards they follow. Somehow sex isn’t part of seduction. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so confusing?Respect her wishes and go no contact. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 10 | How to pick up enviromental activist chicksIt’s the same kind of men who identify as male feminists. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of yourIt doesn’t have to be in your corporate job. It can be in your social group, an intramural sport, volunteering, starting your own business or side hustle, improving your public speaking skills through a club like Toastmasters. There are numerous opportunities outside of a corporate work environment | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:25 AM |
| 5 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexHow was this uncivil? Sex isn’t part of seduction? | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex@mods | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 03:13 AM |
| 16 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWell, you gotta clip the nails my dude | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 14 | Girl always expects me to pay for her in datesYeah his status is confirmed in her eyes, and it’s full simp | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 07:39 PM |
| 130 | My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learnedYou nailed all of the red flags. At least she was just a college girlfriend and not your wife | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 07:26 PM |
| 15 | Is it worth having a girlfriend like this?Simple wisdom here. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | What are some books that can help me with holding a conversation with any strangerCharisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:41 PM |
| 5 | She has a boyfriend and I'm boldly walking a wayOP: “But I’m different.” | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:40 PM |
| 6 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedI wrote this with guys like that in mind | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 11:51 PM |
| 12 | I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there.That’s what you think. Not saying to have a distrustful attitude, but guys always overestimate the bond with friends. Friendship is largely temporary. If there was a situation where you were in the way of something they really wanted, whether it’s money, advancement, a woman, or something to do with their family, they would pick the former over you. Again, it’s good you have close friends, but don’t idealize your friendships. They have their own interests they place above you, although they woul… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:37 PM |
| 11 | I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there.Never said all people are like this, I have a handful of close friends I trust. However, I never trust anyone 100%. Humans are inherently selfish. And at least some of your friends would drop you in second for a woman, their family, money, or an opportunity to advance themselves. You’re not as high up on their priority list as you think. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 96 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Don’t think it’s toxic at all. He’s correct. He’s not saying to be aggressive or force yourself on her, he’s saying don’t act like a platonic friend. You need to sexualize yourself, just having a pleasant conversation isn’t enough. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls always ask why am I `quiet’?Women generally don’t like shy/quiet men | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:58 PM |
| 20 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedGlad you got something out of it | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?Not everything is a shit test | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 53 | I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there.Most people are selfish and disingenuous. This is the harsh reality of life. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:44 PM |
| 3 | How to not be seriousThis is a serious situation | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | a horrible trait I have is being a bad listener.Lost Art of Listening has some good points and Charisma Myth has a portion about being present | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Make a habit of talking to all strangers, not just attractive women. Seduction is a subset of being generally charismatic with people.I’ve seen that, it’s a great channel. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcDon’t alter your behavior to impress a club ting | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t?Don’t fall into the checklist mentality: “I have so and so, she should be lucky to be with me, but she’s into that loser.” The guy who smokes weed might be more interesting to her, might have a better self-perception of himself, despite being judged as a loser by society. Sometimes if a guy thinks he’s the shit, and truly doesn’t care what others think, that will spark attraction with some women. There are a bunch of different factors, you’re thinking like a nice guy. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Learning from my failure(s)Great post. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?Unless you actually wind up in a relationship, that person should be considered a temporary presence in your life. Have fun and make dating about being a social experiment to improve your skills, not a search for a girlfriend. Don’t reach out with those type of messages if someone blocks you. You need to start respecting yourself more. If they don’t want you in their life, move on. Reaching out and wishing them the best is needy behavior. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 3 | can you rate my dating profile picture 1-10Yeah, not sure what the point of this post is aside from a confidence boost. If you’re getting results, doesn’t matter what photofeeler says | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 06:03 PM |
| 36 | can you rate my dating profile picture 1-10If you’re getting dates, and you’re happy with your options, no need to change anything dramatically | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | One of the most powerful mindsets in attraction is adopting the authentic belief that you’re more interesting than other guysI understand what you’re saying. The baseline belief of “I’m more interesting” might sound arrogant at first. However, I think approaching it from a standpoint of “I have unique experiences that most don’t have, I have something to teach this person that others can’t” isn’t necessarily a mindset of superiority. It’s more of a belief in the person you are, and feeling pride. I think you have to have a little bit of that belief and “take me or leave me, I know who I am, and I’m going to be myself … | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking my date planning?Based on what you said it sounds like she’s into you. She’ll want to hang out with you regardless if she’s attracted to you. Show her some of your personality and pick something you’re interested in. If she doesn’t like it, oh well. Pretending to be someone you’re not is an emotional prison | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking my date planning?I disagree with your views on sex and think it helps form a bond. Sex should be an objective. Don’t stress so much. Come up with a few options YOU think are fun. The more fun you have and more relaxed you are, the more fun she’ll have. You’re not there to impress her. You’re there to have fun and see if you like her as well. Chill out. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Should I pay for it or be patient?Don’t advertise you’re a virgin. If they ask, but upfront but put a positive spin on it. Say you didn’t put yourself out there a lot before, but are working to improve. Don’t pay for it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 12 | Girls, does texting back quickly make me seem needy?Mirror her behavior. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 8 | HelpThis. Being shy will be your biggest impediment, not only with women but in life. You can be introverted and still be social | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:12 PM |
| 5 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...Number 9 is the best point. You have to have the view that you’re offering something to her the other guys can’t; you’re more unique, interesting, charming, have more to teach her. That state of mind helps tremendously. Basically believing that she’s lucky to be with you. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Me (27M) going on my first date with a friend (25F)Those lines are very cringey | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 29 | Me (27M) going on my first date with a friend (25F)DO NOT get her flowers. That is way over the top too early. She’ll get spooked. You are overthinking this way too much and are going to shoot yourself in the foot by putting too much pressure on this. Be casual, flirt, use subtle touch (light hug, brushing of arms), and focus on having fun. Fun is your primary objective. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 01:21 PM |
| 3 | why is she very hot/flirty then coldThis, this. Loves that attention when the other source(s) isn’t giving any. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 8 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsYou’re correct there. I know women sometimes play Russian roulette when rejecting a guy. Most will handle it correctly and move on, however some flip out or keep pushing. It’s unfortunate. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:59 PM |
| 11 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsI get it. Sometimes you just want to chill and be left alone. Some guys don’t take a hint or can’t handle a polite rejection. I personally would prefer a polite “no thank you” rather not responding. I still think it’s incredibly rude if someone initiates communication politely and the other doesn’t even acknowledge them. Most men can handle a polite rejection. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:51 PM |
| 32 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsIt depends. If a guy is a creepy, pushy, rude, or she’s around her boyfriend, then a terse response is warranted. If a guy approaches her and is polite, not creepy, or excessively awkward, ignoring or saying something like “yeahhh,bye” is rude in my opinion. His cheetah print comment was a little cringe, but it seems like her response was a little arrogant | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10'sLeagues don’t exist. It’s nothing more than a self-limiting belief | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 62 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsBig props for soldiering through the rejections. Honestly, those rejections sound par for the course. That’s what you encounter—for many of the girls you encounter, you just won’t be their type. They’ll be rude or non responsive. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 12:50 PM |
| 6 | Best peacocking items for 2022I would recommend Seiko Presage for a mid range watch. I also have relatively cheap ones like a G Shock. It doesn’t have to break the bank, just something you think is stylish and makes you feel confident. A watch is a subtle indicator of status, so a relatively cheap watch is better than none. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 12:44 PM |
| 11 | Best peacocking items for 2022The only item you need is a watch | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.You can do something about it and make a better profile so you attract girls that make you forget her | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Should I take a girl who I know for less than a month to a UFC event?Exactly, you should go. If she’s into you, it doesn’t matter, she’ll want to spend time with you. You want to show her who you are unapologetically and what your interests are. If she doesn’t like it, then why spend time with someone who you have to pretend to be someone else around? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Getting discouragedKind of keep the same vibe you had when she started dancing with you, you’re there to have fun, not win her approval | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting discouragedI know you’re giving one example, but the question about the top was random and weird within the context of the situation. It’s like you’re saying something for the sake of saying something. In those situations, just keep dancing, be playful, maintain eye contact. Say let’s get a drink after you’re done dancing. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?He should have been more upfront, but it’s ultimately for the best. He doesn’t want to be your friend, he wants to be more. It’s better to distance or end the friendship, than pretend to be your friend when it’s not what he truly wants. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:48 PM |
| 18 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Really average looking women are often harsher in their rejections than the attractive ones | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:20 PM |
| 14 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”There are just shitty people out there, both men and women. People who say those type of things typically are extremely insecure or have some other form of inner turmoil going on | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Seducing my ex-fwbIt sounds like she’s a lot of talk. Just go in with expectation that you’re just there to have fun and catch up. If she brings up other guys, act like it doesn’t phase you one bit. If she brings up other girls, be elusive and just imply that you’re enjoying yourself. Don’t be thirsty or jealous, but still be a little flirtatious and employ some subtle touch—a hug to greet her, brushing of shoulder and slight touching of hand when joking around. Just have fun. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The checklist mentality - just because you have some conventionally attractive traits doesn’t mean women will be automatically drawn to youRead my other comment. Never said you need just one. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:48 PM |
| 7 | The checklist mentality - just because you have some conventionally attractive traits doesn’t mean women will be automatically drawn to youI never said those things don’t help and game is all that matters. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:17 PM |
| 7 | The checklist mentality - just because you have some conventionally attractive traits doesn’t mean women will be automatically drawn to youThat’s true. A lot guys convince themselves that they’re good looking to protect their ego when they don’t have success | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?You have the ‘checklist mentality’ trap that a lot of guys fall into. Since you believe you have all of these conventional traits that women are supposed to be attracted to, you assume women should be flocking to you. You may have those things, but are you actually interesting? Are you too nice and available? Do you have any edge to you, or are you just a clean cut nice guy? Having cool friends and good career doesn’t mean you’re interesting and unique. Just because you can keep a pleasant conve… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroI really think having even one or two good, positive friends who uplift you is a key component of dealing with rejection effectively. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:53 PM |
| 11 | So I been texting a girl...Nope, that’s corny as hell. Hiking is a terrible first date, and she already said she would be creeped out. Hiking has limited eye contact, not enough chances to talk and bond, bad environment to physically escalate. If you’re going to do an activity, make it light like playing pool or going for walk after drinks. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Should I leave it alone with her having the last text here, or reaffirm that my position won't be moving and she can come to me? I really do think she genuinely wanted to hang with meLeave it alone. She was very clear how she felt about you, texting more won’t fix that. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 9 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?Cut porn entirely Limit masturbation to once a week (7 days) Lift/do resistance training I didn’t notice a difference with any of these, but some recommend Maca, Sea Moss, or Ashwagandha for libido | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | How can I get a girl I am starting to be close friends with into falling in love with me?Take a moment and chill out. You don’t love her, you find her attractive. You’re being needy. What the other commenter said. Be cool, ask her out. No grand confessions that you love her, or spill your guts emotionally. She’ll feel trapped and turned off. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 11:47 AM |
| 5 | When telling stories what kind of emotions are you trying to evoke in your dating partner?Underrated comment | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Are women ever truly single?If she’s attractive there will be always be orbiters, but it doesn’t mean she has a romantic interest attachment. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | mixed feelings dating single mom'sLike the other commenter said, there’s a vast difference between someone who got a raw deal in a divorce and is handling their responsibility as a parent who goes out occasionally vs someone who’s 22 drugging and THOTing out in the club with a child at home. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | I often hear the advice "Don't try too hard" and "Stop looking for a relationship and one will come to you". How is this not BS?I definitely think if you seek out a relationship and really want one, you’ll psych yourself out too much when an opportunity comes. As opposed to when you date, have fun, stay in the moment, and let things develop naturally, there’s not as much pressure and you can be in a more relaxed, natural state when you meet someone | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 66 | mixed feelings dating single mom'sHow do you think she became a single mom, by making good decisions? | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Just read models by mark manson what should I read / watch next?Real world experience is the ultimate teacher. Start by making a habit of striking up a conversation with strangers you encounter. Men, women, attractive, unattractive. Practice being social. That should be your focus. When you have downtime read The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 20 | What's a no no during texting?Spilling your emotions to someone you barely know. “I really enjoy seeing you, I feel like we have a connection…” | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl engaged is unhappyCome on dude, be honest with yourself. This is a Nice Guy orbitor 101 situation. You don’t care about her happiness. You want her to be with you. You’re just playing the white knight role. Ask yourself this, what makes you think she won’t do the same to you? Any woman who trashes her man to another man isn’t trustworthy. Maybe he’s not the toxic one. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:07 PM |
| 14 | Getting my confidence back?Fuck no. Went through a divorce a few years back and these habits saved me from spiraling, and started to thrive instead, including with dating. Would add cutting back on alcohol significantly | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:09 AM |
| 33 | Getting my confidence back?Stay off porn Work out frequently, incorporate resistance training/lifting Read. Surround yourself with positive friends Interact with strangers at every opportunity Buy some new clothes, don’t need to break the bank | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 11:41 PM |
| 86 | Female friend is touchy with other male friends but not meShe doesn’t view you in a sexual manner. The other guys in the group have social proof because they’re in relationships and she’s drawn to that. She sounds like she’s an attention seeker. It sounds like you’re easily available and you’re simply a way for her to feel validated. She sounds like a toxic influence, I would focus my attention elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 51 | This community has helped me a lot with women. Thank you! Would love to share what I’ve learned!Great post. Number 5 is critical; your self- perception and the energy you bring to the interaction is essential. If you go in thinking you’re creeping her out or bothering her, it will usually manifest that way in some manner. Keep being observant. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Asking for feedback from ex datesNope | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being the background character?Ask him for advice instead of viewing him as competition | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:02 PM |
| 2 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Going to be the contrarian here and say no. Group dates are a bad idea for first dates. You want to bond in some manner; much harder to do with other distractions around | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Going on a first date tonight. Kinda nervous. Any advice?Just focus on having fun. You want to see if you like her, keep that in mind. That’s just as important as if she likes you | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | what movies should I watch to know more about seduction or pickup.None. Hollywood is fantasy and never properly depicts how attraction works in the real world | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Back in the dating game after 4 years. Just need some insight as it’s all newThis is the one fundamental thing I’ve learned. If a woman is really into you, you will be a priority for her. She’ll reach out and make herself available, no matter how busy. These are the type of women you usually wind up dating or getting into a relationship with. The ones who are very interested in you off the bat, not the ones who forget about you, go silent, or are difficult to get a hold of. If you’re really into her, reach out one more time, but have a date in mind and ask her. Don’t sen… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | 'Dating 10/10 model girl' - Girl night outs - what is acceptable and what is not.If you have a problem with what she’s doing, you need to tell her in a calm, centered way. You shouldn’t hold back how you feel with anyone. Having the balls to start your boundaries is one of the most attractive qualities you can have. Just don’t lose your shit and act accusatory or jealous. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:27 PM |
| 117 | The moment of clarity when you realise there’s no sparkDon’t force something that isn’t there. Move on. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid "You're so sweet/kind/nice."?You have to have social skills, but being in good shape and having clothes that fit well is a great equalizer. Congrats on your progress and have fun out there | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 5 | How to avoid "You're so sweet/kind/nice."?You’ll be surprised how many women in their 20’s will want to date you in your 30’s when you’re in shape, have your shit together, have a decent sense of fashion, and are well-groomed. Get some good pictures up on Bumble and Hinge, indicate some status and you’ll be good. Don’t discount dating older women (40+) as well. They have a poise and confidence about them that’s extremely attractive. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Crossing the sexual rubiconJust came to say rubicon is a great word | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends"There’s a world of difference between being friendzoned, and being in a friendship with sexual tension that hasn’t been realized | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?Like the other commenter said, your note was a little too serious and overbearing. Next time, keep it fun, simple, flirtatious | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants a relationship?It’s better to be upfront and respectful to tell her you don’t want a relationship, than to trap yourself in a sympathy relationship because you feel shame. Sexual shame is powerful and will make you do things that you truly don’t want to do. That’s a Nice Guy mentality. It takes two to tango, my friend. She made the choice to have sex. There isn’t supposed to be an exchange of sex for a relationship. You didn’t perform some manipulation or trickery, you attracted her. Be upfront, tell her you e… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Falling for this Hinge match but she lives across the countryThe answer is to not ask for a LDR at all. You’re acting needy. You’ve met this girl twice. You’re going to sacrifice all of the other opportunities you have for someone you barely know? She’s likely going to think you’re rushing way too much and get creeped out. It sounds like she simply wanted to have fun with a guy while she was traveling, nothing more. Just tell her to stay in touch and contact you whenever she’s in town again. Leave it at that. You have a scarcity mentality at the moment. K… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | She kissed me, but is now seeing someone else and just wants to be friendsJust because a girl kisses you, it doesn’t mean she likes you. If a girl flirts with you, it doesn’t mean she likes you. Even if a girl has sex with you, it doesn’t mean she likes you Move on and stop being a Nice Guy. She wasn’t your girl to begin with, you don’t have rights to her. Women are extremely fickle with their emotions unless they are emotionally invested in you. Burn this into your brain. Kissing you is not emotional investment | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 5 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...Agreed. That was a frustration with Bumble. Not nearly on the same scale as Tinder, but it was annoying. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:42 PM |
| 80 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...Good breakdown. Agree with the majority of what you said. Bumble has the most attractive relationship caliber type women by far. Success came in waves for me on Bumble, but agreed premium isn’t necessary. In current LTR from Bumble. Hinge had the least attractive girls overall, but there are some gems. Easiest to get dates on Hinge imo. Tinder was a cesspool. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Women are visual creatures tooI think that having a masculine look with some edge is more important than being traditionally handsome. But I agree with you that familiarity in outward appearance is attractive in many cases, that’s why you see so many couple that look like one another. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:41 PM |
| 9 | Women are visual creatures tooGreat answer. The most attractive women are drawn to polarity. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Why do I feel less attracted to a girl after I engage in conversation with her and talk about personal things?Do you watch porn? Sounds like you have a mind frame of seeing women as nothing but sexual objects and not actual people. If you’re attracted to a woman, talking to her shouldn’t necessarily put you in the frame of a platonic friend. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 126 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Yoga | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | How to broach the subject that I think I love my best friend?First, get your feelings squared away in your mind. Do you really ‘love’ her, or is she just an attractive female that’s been a presence in your life, and you don’t have other desirable options currently? You might be placing your romantic desires and fantasies on this woman because she’s been a consistent presence, and you can assign a face to your romantic hopes. Get into a mindset of abundance first. She isn’t yours”last shot” at love, she isn’t “the one”. You find her attractive and want to … | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:55 PM |
| 2 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?When you’re feeling good about yourself and are content with your life, would you treat someone that way? She obviously has some stuff going on internally and feels the need to take out on others. People who talk to others that way have some sort of inner turmoil going on, or are just shit bags. You don’t want to waste time around those types of people. Become detached from the opinions of strangers. I know that probably stung like hell, be reframe the rejection into something that’s humorous an… | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:10 AM |
| 5 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?I’m an elite battle mage 🔥 dice skills | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:36 PM |
| 18 | Don't be afraid to show a woman what you want!First, props to you. You truly put an abundance mindset into action. However, like others said, the “self-described alphas” was cringe. Men who describe themselves as being alpha are usually the weakest mentally. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you ask them to lunch?Arby’s sexy time explosion? 🔥 | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Why are you IN or NOT IN a relationship right now?Stay cool, use all avenues at your disposal, keeping being a good dad and fighting for him. The universe will bring things around to you, she will fuck up somehow. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?You said it yourself, you’re overthinking. Not advocating for acting dumb, but smart people are often too much in their heads. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:39 PM |
| 8 | She doesn’t believe in loveThat’s her way of saying doesn’t believe in love with you specifically | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "you’re so dreamy"?Thank you | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Will be able to pleasure women?Focus on using your fingers and tongue. Some of my previous posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vbiamw/focusing_on_making_a_woman_cum_is_not_submissive/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/t9f9i7/mens_advice_dont_get_hung_up_on_not_being_hung_a/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/re51q1/sex_is_like_a_play_intercourse_is_the_final_act/ | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Do You Guys Take Shots Before a Date?Nope. Deal with your insecurities and nerves in a healthy way, don’t put a band aid on the problem | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Signs of sexual tension between a female friend?Yep, ask her out for drinks. See where it goes from there | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | feel like a total ass right nowYou didn’t do anything wrong. You gave her a sincere compliment and she was insecure. This is a huge red flag. Having to walk on eggshells around someone is going to make you miserable | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people find confidence in hobbies and passions. But for some reason, nothing interests me. What should I do?I would suggest to keep at it. Even if it doesn’t become your primary passion, you’ll still get a shit ton of self confidence from it | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Yes, being an attractive person with developed social skills is what matters, it’s what’s always mattered. Pickup artists have now rebranded themselves as “Dating” or lifestyle coaches. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Do or Don’t ask for a second date during the first date?Men’s perception of vibe and women’s are different. Just because you make out and have a good time together doesn’t mean she likes you. For men, we’re much more stable in our attraction when we like a woman. Women are more fickle, unless they have a high level of emotional investment (ie view you as potential boyfriend) or are highly attracted to you. If a woman is into you, she will reach out. Women typically don’t play ‘hard to get’. If they are into a guy, they naturally want to be around him… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Do or Don’t ask for a second date during the first date?I would typically say no, stay present and focus on having fun on the first date. A second date will come together naturally if the vibe and chemistry is there on the first. Sex should occur by third date at latest. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Bf isn’t good in bed and idk what else I can do to help him get better, feels like I’ve tried everything.+1 on this and the last few chapters of Vagina by Naomi Wolf | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | JewelrySpend a money on a watch instead. I wear a watch on one wrist and an inexpensive hematite bracelet on the other. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Who are the top 10 Dating Coaches who actually walk the walk in 2022?Fluid Social sounds like a plumber | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Without paying, what do you think is the fastest method to get laid in 2022?Being good at online dating and actual dating once you meet up in person | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 14 | Why do some guys become territorial over a girl they're not dating? Especially when they themselves are in a relationship with another woman?You’re also cheating with weird spacing in your sentences. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Cheeky line, but she’ll smile and laugh every time.Let me guess, you’re British | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 13 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidWhen I was writing this, that came to mind as well. It’s very difficult sometimes to not fall back into asking generic questions. In online dating, it’s best to ask a question specifically about one of her pictures or her prompts. So, if she has a picture of herself at the beach, say something like: “Pick one: go for walk, sit and do nothing with some music, or go surfing?” Maybe not a prime example offhand, but thinking of interesting ways to ask boring questions instead of: “what do you like t… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidI agree to an extent, maybe with minor things like exclamation marks and boring questions. But the needy ones, like texting ‘I miss you’, or giving too many compliments can chip away at a high level of attraction | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | I am attracted to tall womenSure, but dude. You need to get your mind right | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | I am attracted to tall womenHuh? Why would that be different than a short or average height girl? | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | I am attracted to tall womenI’m into tall women as well. I’m 6’0, gf is 5’10. Definitely possible. Do you find tall women intimidating? Like others said, you’ll need to work on your confidence and self-perception | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 8 | This guy seems to flirt like crazy but then acts cold and doesn’t get personal. Is this all in my mind?Exactly this. Don’t allow yourself to be a distraction or an amusement for someone else. You’re not required to follow him back. Just because someone flirts with you doesn’t mean they like you. They’re getting an ego boost. It sounds like you don’t currently have a lot of confidence since you’re relying on validation for someone who’s in a relationship. Would recommend just keeping your work relationship distant, but professional. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 8 | is having 'style' as a man considered by some as gay?I don't think having style is necessarily seen as gay. But if you're too clean cut, too meticulously put together, too groomed, it might be misconstrued. But if you have your own sense of style, it's what you prefer, and you're comfortable in your own skin (which it sounds like you are), that's all that matters ultimately. You'll get a lot of hate from other guys who are scared to talk to women | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | why is it bad to be an emotional sponge?No | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I’m good at cold approaching and short dates but I’m not good at longer dates (3+hrs). Any tipsYou’re not meant to connect with most people. You only want to dedicate time with women that you can be yourself entirely around. Your personal freedom to be yourself far exceeds impressing any woman by putting on a front. By the way, many attractive, feminine women will be drawn to the fact that you enjoy activities like marital arts, etc | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Approaching women at a food festival?If a cute girl in your vicinity has some food, lightheartedly tell her it looks like she has good taste and ask if she recommends any place to check out at the festival, or compliment her on something she’s wearing. Just strike up a conversation and be social. Don’t really need to overthink it if your energy is positive and relaxed. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | In love with my doctorHe’s likely well off, has status, is providing a protective service that makes you feel safe, of course you’re going to be attracted to him. A lot of doctors are highly sensitive to any type of inappropriate behavior or malpractice, so you’re likely fighting an uphill battle. Good luck though | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:07 AM |
| 11 | What's wrong with this sub recently? We are here for seduction strategies and self-improvement, aren't we? Instead, most guys here seems to hide behind a screen (OLD, Insta, ...) and talk sh*t about traditional approaching.Having OLD game, Date game, knowing what the fuck you’re doing in the bedroom will bring you more options with women consistently than cold approach. As the other poster said, this is a seduction forum, not an approach forum. Guys get up in their feelings about OLD because they don’t have initial success, but it’s just a tool you can use to your advantage, nothing more. This will get downvoted, but hard facts. When you know what you’re doing with OLD it’s far more efficient for getting dates and… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Best affordable city for a guy in his early 20s trying to meet attractive women?Currently live in the Orlando are, lived in Tampa for 3 years prior. Correct, unfortunately all three now have pretty high cost of living. First and foremost, you want to live where you will be happiest and enjoy the quality of life, not just based on the women. I would probably recommend Tampa for a single guy who isn’t into the flash of Miami. With sports, proximity to the beaches, breweries, etc, it’s definitely a party town. There were tons of beautiful women, and venues to meet them. The ma… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | I invited a girl out to breakfast after work, and she gave me an excuse. I teased her, and wished her a good night. Did her next response leave room for something else?Sounds pretty much like common sense, place wasn’t open. Not everything is a test or a game. She just didn’t want to sit around waiting an hour. You did a shitty job planning. Your texts reek of insecurity. You ‘tease’ her, then say just kidding lol, then close with an over enthusiastic statement with an exclamation point. Nice Guy 101 move. The ‘man dime’ line was cringe. Just say, “Understood. Have fun with your friend.” Sounds like she’s far more mature and upfront than you are. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:42 PM |
| 18 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedOnly texting rule is just to not overdo it. Otherwise, text what you want, when you want. Altering your behavior to get a specific reaction is weak | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Met a cutie who flirts with me, but she’s married…I zoned out on everything else except the sheer amount you eat at Wawa. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | any advice on how to better my chances with white women?White people love pumpkin patches, farmer’s markets, seasonal coffee, dogs, brunch, avocado toast. Not really useful in seducing women, just an observation | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how I can better my chances with black and latina girls?Just saying pretty or beautiful | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:27 AM |
| 36 | It's completely normal and OK to suck at first when learning anything new. Social skills are no different.What helped me after getting out of a long term relationship and getting better with women. I accepted that I was bad with women and truly wanted to learn. I took my ego out of it and went from the perspective that I was starting from the ground up. Realized there would be lots of rejections and missteps along the way. Those rejections and missteps happened. A lot of success came as well. I treated dating as a detached social experiment, only objective was to get better, have fun, and hopefully … | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 6 | How do i get the confidence to start approaching?View it as an adventure and get into the mindframe that you enjoy taking to beautiful women, and aren’t outcome dependent. You don’t go into the conversation needing her approval, or a phone number etc. You’re having an experience. If there’s good chemistry, then suggest meeting up later. If not, you had a (hopefully) fun conversation with an attractive woman and honed your social skills a little. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Any advice on how I can better my chances with black and latina girls?I was married to an Americanized Colombian woman. I would move numbers 5, 8, into the top 3, and keep number 3. Great call outs. For number 3, not necessarily brands, but just being well-groomed and well dressed was extremely important. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how I can better my chances with black and latina girls?Honestly, just commenting on a picture with online dating with “Linda!” or “Linda hermosa” got responses | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Should fathers teach sons how to improve their "game"Great life advice. I played tennis half heartedly in high school, but was never really dedicated to a sport or social activity. Didn’t discover martial arts until my 30’s. Wish I had taken up boxing or another martial art in my teens. My son is still small, but have him in a tumbling class, to socialize with other boys and learn to be physical. He really enjoys it. Hope to introduce him to marital arts in a year or so, but ultimately whatever he’s interested in. Being involved in sports and acti… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:45 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys look at waiting for sex with a girl who is a virgin and has all qualities to be someone you can a have a serious, long term relationship with?Exactly. Putting virgins and extremely low body count women on a pedestal is more about the guy’s insecurity. If you have a lot of experience with women yourself, it doesn’t matter. Women who are sexually experienced don’t intimidate you. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:07 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys look at waiting for sex with a girl who is a virgin and has all qualities to be someone you can a have a serious, long term relationship with?I married a woman who lost her virginity to me. I’m divorced now. Our sex life was decent when we were dating, but as time went on, it really started to suffer. She was closed-off sexually. She was self-conscious about letting me go down on her, rarely tried different positions, etc. Most guys get this idea in their head that marrying a virgin or a woman with little experience is the goal, but they often are insecure sexually, especially if they grew up in a religious setting, or body insecuriti… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:17 PM |
| 27 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herThe text was cringe. Lesson learned | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:29 AM |
| 9 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?Unless he’s trolling, this should go in the hall of fame for bad (life-ruining) advice. Having a child with a party girl will destroy you. Your infatuation with her looks will fade, her looks will fade. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | what do you think of polo shirts?If you have toned shoulders and arms, well-fitted polos look great. Agree with your friend though. A solid color t shirt, jeans, and a watch is a classic. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?You’re getting finessed in real time, sir. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Having props will bring attention to you…so the drone actually did nothing to help you talk to women | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?The feedback loop goes like this… Average woman says she wants a “high value man” High value men are desired by lots of women. Woman comes in contact with high value man. She herself is not high value enough to keep his interest for a LTR When he dips, she claims he was a player, when in fact she just wasn’t a top option Since she hooked up with the attractive HVM, her ego is distorted, thinking she is attractive enough to land one of these type of men beyond a fling, completely ignore the less … | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:07 PM |
| 16 | If men being non-needy is attractive to women, does that mean women find asexual/aromantic men more attractive?Neediness has nothing to do with sexuality | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?+1 on Voyage. And it’s like $20… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?Prada Luna Rossa Carbon - Smells like a less intense Sauvage Bleu De Chanel EDP Versace Dylan Blue | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | When Im drunk Im very good at online gameProbably | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 03:14 AM |
| 10 | Learning to take rejection gracefully is absolutely crucialUnderrated post and agreed. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 17 | When Im drunk Im very good at online gameOne of my best friends had incredible drunk game. He was a very reserved, but when he got drunk, he became a different person. Bold, flirtatious, slightly obnoxious. I think drinking brings out components of your personality that are already there, but for whatever reason, you’re afraid to let out, whether it’s shame, lack of confidence, etc. You have the full ability to be the same person, sober, you just have to determine what is causing you to repress yourself and hold back sober vs when you’… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | What makes the rooms vibe more seductive?Low lighting Clean, decluttered area Clean bed and sheets Music and candles are optional, don’t think those are absolutely necessary. Just make sure the environment is relaxing and makes her feel safe | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 07:19 PM |
| 12 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.Great example, you handled it correctly, but were obviously placed in the bad guy role. Cheaters typically have a substantial victim mentality. It’s how they justify their actions. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:25 PM |
| 9 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.Yes they would. It’s fucked up in both instances | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:14 PM |
| 27 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.You are correct. Expect barnacles on your junk if you’re willing to risk it | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 7 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.Still a douchebag tho | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | I meet a random girl on the Train yesterday and got her contact. Now what?Underrated comment. If you go out and spam approach a girl every 15 minutes, you begin to put yourself in a desperate frame. Attractive men go out into the world, so their thing, and if they see a woman they find attractive, they go up to her and strike up a conversation. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | She didn’t mentioned she’s marriedEven then not necessarily | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I have a pretty nice physique but I am lean, so I look just normal in clothes. Is there anything I can do about this to improve my chances with women?You have broad shoulders which is a good thing. Find shirts that fit tightly around the shoulders and arms. Continue to develop those parts of your body Apt 9 (Kohl’s) Uniqlo Bella Canvas | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Very unhealthy mindest about datingHaving options is a beautiful thing, putting all of your energy into one girl before you’re in an actual relationship is a mistake. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 19 | I always get held back by myself when I see a really pretty womanGet in the habit of being a generally social person, talking to all strangers, and treating them all the same, whether they’re attractive, men or women. When you talk to an attractive woman, there will just be some added sexual tension and flirtatiousness. Also remember that they’re people, not goddesses. They have jobs, do mundane things like get groceries, have families, pay bills. They aren’t perfect, you have something you can teach them and have something to offer. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I get better at cold approaching/build more confidence?Be less outcome dependent. Think of interacting with a beautiful woman as an experience where you have fun and let things develop, rather than framing the interaction that you want some form of approval from her | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 5 | She didn’t mentioned she’s marriedAbsolutely. Guys like OP who consider messing with married chicks think they’re somehow different or special, but the same thing happens to them | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 9 | She didn’t mentioned she’s marriedJust because a woman flirts with you, it doesn’t mean she likes you. Just because a woman gives you her social media, it doesn’t mean she likes you. Some women want attention and validation. They get a high from getting that attention and validation in the moment. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach in the mallUse this regret as motivation from next time. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:00 PM |
| 0 | With the recent ruling on abortion. How does this affect seduction?It won’t. Women want sex as much as men, regardless of some pretend strike | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Do girls like men who beat them?Holy camanoli | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 06:59 PM |
| 36 | My friends are shooting me down with girlsYou only want to surround yourself with people who are positive, support you, and allow you to thrive. You should distance yourself from any social attachments that hold you back. Friends come in and out of your life. You can outgrow friends, just be wary of anyone in your life that is a negative influence. Also, you don’t need your friends to join you. Just go and do what you want to do. Let them hang out on the sidelines and watch | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughI’ve been out of therapy for a year, starting again next week. Hopefully you can find someone that works for you and is affordable. Definitely look into therapy | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 29 | Your “Average Man” is Not EnoughHope you learn this life lesson earlier than I did. Feeling sorry for yourself, acting like a victim, and being jealous of others will only lead to misery. You feel like a loser because you have a loser’s mentality. If you’re actually serious about changing, take ownership of your problems. The victim mindset is addictive because it gives a false sense of security. If you want the life of a millionaire, then complaining on Reddit won’t get you there. In most instances, self-made millionaires had… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:27 PM |
| 112 | I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the yearIt shouldn’t be an assignment/chore. You will be in the wrong frame of mind. Women are very attuned to this. It should be fun, exciting, something you enjoy, not part of homework | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 4 | The best way to deal with a last minute date cancellation or “problem” is with polite ambivalence and leaving the ball in her court.Of course, glad it helped! | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:24 PM |
| 25 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Not racist at all, and moreso white American women. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 8 | I Can Never Get Second DatesAlthough it was kind of bitchy, the girl who you had sex with gave you an important insight. They probably find you boring. You’re not sparking something in them, you’re probably playing it too safe and not being polarizing enough. I would recommend a two part date if the vibe is there. Instead of just having drinks. Get a drink, then go for a walk somewhere. Walking and having a conversation is bonding. It sounds like you’re having trouble bonding with these women. Or do a date where a light ac… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:40 PM |
| 5 | What separates a platonic date from one with sexual tension?Sounds like you might be trying to force something that isn’t there, i.e. you might not be all that into some of these women. Women are emotionally attuned. They can sense when a man wants them, especially if he conveys his sexuality properly. Just going through the motions of touch, teasing, etc. doesn’t mean anything if there isn’t authenticity behind it | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:39 PM |
| 12 | Shy/Anxious/Overthinkers: guide to worry less on a date and in lifeI think the best way to relax is not to put expectations on things. You’re there to have fun and relax. That’s it. She’s not your future wife, girlfriend, partner, etc. Be in the moment, have fun, with sec as the goal. Things will evolve if there’s chemistry. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?She’s not attracted to you | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:21 PM |
| 23 | What's some harsh truths /r/seduction needs to hear?Self-victimizing about how hard it is to date as a man and complaining about the way things should be is mental masturbation and will always lead to failure. Be assertive, thrive within the confines of reality or suffer the consequences. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | My co-worker got in my car with her sundress w/ no panties on & she wanted me to rub her pussy when we got to a stop light .. is she being flirty? or just showing off?You ‘laughed it off’? Doom | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:23 AM |
| 5 | What is the right and healthy mindset to adopt if you’ve never had success with women before?This is really what you need. Only thing I would add is that you should keep in mind several specific moments in your life that you are proud of and make you unique A time when you overcame difficulty An accomplishment that you had to work for A particular compliment or time that you felt attractive An experience (or experiences) you have that most others don’t have. Something you can teach a woman | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Movies that show seduction properlyIt’s an obscure 80’s movie called The Last American Virgin. It accurately depicts how an unattractive Nice Guy falls for a girl (she gets knocked up and dumped by his friend). He does everything for her, but she winds up back with the friend. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:16 AM |
| 0 | PSA: The truth about dating apps from an insiderThis sub seems to be obsessed with dating apps and rebelling against them because guys get sensitive about not seeing initial success. It’s a tool. That’s it. You use dating apps simply for practice social/dating skills and to hook up. It’s fickle, it’s shallow, that’s the nature of it. Embrace it, accept it, use it to your advantage. But instead of using it to your advantage as a passive means to meet women, guys would rather get in their feelings and just discount it because it makes them feel… | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 05:17 PM |
| 10 | Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itselfCan you show your profile pics so you can get some advice from the sub? Learn to make adjustments and thrive instead of just giving up and having a victim mentality. Online is the most efficient way to meet women by far. I advocate for meeting women out in the real world, but in terms of pure numbers, online dating is the most effective. Sometimes you just need to make some minor adjustments. There are a lot more unattractive women on it, but you can find attractive women on Hinge. It’s easier t… | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Pua challengesThe only challenge that matters is being attractive | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Being silent/laid back can ruin you?Not saying their word, is gospel, but look at the other comments that are essentially saying the same thing. I would say the vast majority of men who have success with women would say that being shy/quiet will impede success with women | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Being silent/laid back can ruin you?Yes, I’m an introvert but I’m outgoing. My girlfriend even says she thinks I’m an extrovert, but I know this isn’t the case. I used to use my introversion as an excuse to be shy, but my success with women didn’t improve until I rejected that limiting mindset. I’ve also simply observed in social circles and interactions with strangers that this is the case. Being shy is the biggest inhibitor to success with women. It’s not being short, bald, or even being fat. It’s being shy. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Being silent/laid back can ruin you?Shyness is a social inhibition that stems from fear of rejection, it’s not a personality type. Being outgoing comes more naturally to some, but introversion and shyness aren’t one in the same. Introverts may need more recovery time and distance after social situations with large numbers of people, but you can be an outgoing introvert. Agree 100% with the other comments. Women typically don’t like shy guys. They’re seen as insecure or uninteresting. A guy has to be very physically attractive or h… | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 8 | Being silent/laid back can ruin you?Concur with this and the other comment. Guys who are gregarious and social typically do the best with women. You have to be physically attractive or have demonstrated social to pull off the ‘silent’ type’ vibe. That’s why it’s important to never be shy. Shyness is a social inhibition that stems from fear of rejection, it’s not a personality type. Being an introvert doesn’t mean you have to be shy. Introverts might need more recovery time in social settings with large numbers of people, but it do… | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:09 PM |
| 3 | people keep telling me i look and act like an abused puppy dogI take Muay Tai, but any martial art like BJJ will be like changing and allow you to take your power back. Most gyms offer trial sessions. Do it tomorrow! | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Girls been follow similar patterns?Big facts on number 2, especially in the online dating realm. They usually get the problem “solved” when you respond with polite ambivalence without expressing interest in a make up date: “No problem, hope everything works out” | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?You weren’t polite, you were a dick | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:37 PM |
| -2 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?Stop being a petulant douche. “Well actually…Aldi X split off from Aldi Y in the great Aldi brothers dispute of 1999, I’m an authority because I use Google, please don’t spread false Aldi misinformation on Reddit” Thank you for that critical piece of life information. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:17 PM |
| 50 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themIt’s just human nature, more attractive people get treated better— get better jobs, more respect, etc. That applies to both men and women | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?I remember I went on a date with a girl who claimed to be the biggest Star Wars fan on her profile. On our date, she said Darth Maul was from Empire Strikes back. I’m not a big Star Wars fan, I think it’s an overrated franchise, but I still knew he was from the first prequel. I told her this fact and she wouldn’t concede that she was incorrect | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 06:25 PM |
| 13 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?Damn. The ones who claimed to speak in sarcasm were usually the least intelligent in person as well | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:27 PM |
| 41 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?Haven’t been online in a while, but the common annoying themes I saw were: love of the Office, love of sarcasm (or claiming it was their second language 🙄), and how they love their dog and if their dog does like you it won’t work. Hopefully some things have changed. Those type of profiles got an immediate swipe left, no matter how attractive | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:07 PM |
| 31 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?I think they’re owned by the same company. Love Aldi | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 3 | people keep telling me i look and act like an abused puppy dogTherapy won’t solve all your problems, but it is a tool that will help improve your life. Another commenter mentioned it, but getting in good shape, having a masculine physique or doing a contact martial art will be the most profound way to build up your confidence and allow you feel like you have ownership in your life. Hopefully you’ve also cut your parents out of your life if they were abusive. Cutting out toxic influences is another way to re-build your self esteem | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkYou should have seen her naked in person by date 2 or 3 already | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Got anxious during a date out of the blue.People underestimate caffeine intake. It can really offset anxiety. It’s a socially acceptable drug. Chill on the coffee a little (or a lot) next time | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Just asked out a receptionist at my gym, how to text game?Agree with everything you said. I also think trying to set up a date within 2-3 days within initially meeting, whether it’s in person or matching online. The longer you wait to meet, the more fickle she will get about actually meeting, unless she has a very high level of attraction, even then, the interest wanes as more time passes | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Just asked out a receptionist at my gym, how to text game?Would recommend drinks over brunch to avoid friend vibes, but agree with phrasing it as a statement rather than a question. Also state a few places. (Place) or (place) are usually pretty low key (positive, relaxing descriptor) | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How would you guys handle a girl inviting you over and then not responding?Ball’s in her court now. Don’t reach out again. Understand the fickle nature of online dating and don’t take it personally and move on | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How to get a girl who gets repelled when you show interest for her?If you’re consistently monitoring yourself, or worrying about making the smallest wrong move, you’re with the wrong person. It’s an emotional prison. Nobody is worth sacrificing your personal freedom to be yourself | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Judge my texts, I always have been sucked at flirtingStop overthinking and have fun. If you’re constantly worried about sending her the ‘right’ text, you’ll psych yourself out. Just use a little restraint, and it looks like you did because you didn’t respond to her text right away | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do females move on faster?Women are grounded to the present. That current guy is making her feel the emotions she wants to feel. The history with the other guy doesn’t mean anything to her at this point. Women are very grounded to the present moment. It doesn’t matter if she has years of history with a guy. If she doesn’t feel a certain way about him any more, she will shut off like a faucet towards him. If a woman is in love with a man, I generally think it takes her a long time to fall out of love, but once she does, i… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needCorrect. Just by not being nervous or creepy you’re already ahead of most guys | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:05 PM |
| 5 | How to get a girl who gets repelled when you show interest for her?Why would you want to be with someone where you have to constantly monitor your behavior? Being needy is unattractive to anyone, so if you’re truly being needy you should be aware of that. But if she constantly is pulling away, that sounds like hell. Ability to be yourself in a relationship is paramount | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:03 PM |
| 3 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?This is the answer. Sparring should be taken seriously, not as a means to increase your manliness. It’s to give you practical experience with what you’ve been drilling. Getting hit in the head consistently, even if it’s not at full force, isn’t healthy. If you take a solid hook, even at 50% make you fuzzy in the head for a while. Take head trauma seriously, and don’t treat sparring as something you have to do twice a week to bolster your manliness. Approach it as means to improve your craft | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:46 AM |
| 55 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?Martial arts and public speaking/presenting regularly | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:28 AM |
| 13 | Best book or course which actually turned you into a playerThe link is a scam. This guy has several burner accounts and upvotes himself | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 08:45 PM |
| -1 | "I like your confidence, it's kinda hot"You have a dominant, masculine look based on what you described. I definitely have gotten more attention with bigger arms and shoulders even with a slight gut, rather than when I was skinnier but had s flat stomach. I would say as long as you maintain your stomach and stay in decent shape, maintaining an overall V shape to your body with your broad shoulders is what matters in terms of physical attractiveness. Being 6’3 obviously helps with that look as well, there’s no secret there | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 9 | Does smoking weed get you laid?Don’t rely on drugs to seduce women, don’t be that guy | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | FR: Pride parade awesomeness, left confusedHappens easily when a woman is attractive. But the infatuation fades after a while, and then you’re left with a toxic, unsteady relationship. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 03:30 PM |
| 6 | FR: Pride parade awesomeness, left confusedShe said she came out of toxic relationship Was ‘super self focused’ Constantly checking social media and herself in mirrors …so you’re disappointed you dodged a bullet with having a toxic girlfriend who makes out with other guys and would’ve cheated on you eventually? Don’t confuse love and lust, my friend. If you see her again, try to close for sex, but otherwise you got lucky. Leave her alone. It sounds like she’ll reach out to you when she needs attention, but getting involved is a mistake | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentHe not the best | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 09:57 PM |
| 15 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentHe was transferred over from the red pill sib | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentI like your style | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 06:05 PM |
| 25 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentGreat point. I was going to add that to the post. Guys get hung up if a woman wants to use a vibrator to get off, and get bent out of shape because they feel their ducks aren’t good enough. It’s like they get jealous of a piece of plastic. A good portion of women (if not the majority) can only get off through external stimulation. Don’t let your ego get wrapped up in getting her off. Real life isn’t like in porn where they get off just from intercourse. Great advice if oral isn’t on the table, i… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 05:55 PM |
| 3 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesWas going to say this post has some Dweck vibes | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 04:48 PM |
| 294 | I got a girl by ignoring herThis guy real estates | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:40 AM |
| 5 | Is me Eating Out my Girl Simp Shit?Making a girl cum is never simp shit | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 05:16 AM |
| 3 | How should I best allocate my money as a newly minted doctor?I think the bed and the couch are the most important pieces of furniture in the house. Living room and bedroom. I’m in FL, not sure if they have any in TX, but Ashley furniture was my favorite store when I furnished my house a few years ago. I also used Wayfair a lot and All Modern. No more IKEA, you’re not a student/resident any more. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you increase your sex appeal?This guy bulks his muscles and his LDL | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:43 AM |
| 7 | How should I best allocate my money as a newly minted doctor?First and foremost, get your place furnished and comfortable. Do it for you, not for women. It’s going to be hard to be seductive if you have chaotic energy in your life. Your personal living space is paramount. Put thought into it and don’t be cheap. If you’re going to splurge on anything, make this it. Buy some nice casual clothes that fit well. You don’t have to spend a lot of money either, it’s easier since you’re in shape. Apt 9 (Kohl’s), Uniqlo, Bella canvas, Banana Republic are some inexp… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 4 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, or have serious suspicion of, but would get you down voted to all hellOnline dating is the most efficient way to meet beautiful women. Guys have the wrong approach and discount it because their feelings get hurt. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to take a step back from women and focus on myself for the time being?They aren’t mutually exclusive. You can still date casually, use OLD for the sake of hooking up, and talk to women that you find attractive. Stop overthinking and have fun talking to women. It’s not like you can’t do both | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | More than 200 approaches. Zero lays. What am I doing wrong?Your energy is off somehow. You didn’t give enough detail or context to help though | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | What makes someone a man?You’re only going to find the answer to that question yourself. It means different things for different men | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Successful flirt attempt? Or not?She might be Colombian haha | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:33 AM |
| 8 | Has Anyone Went on a Date to Find Them With a Bunch of Friends?I think you played this correctly, sir. This doesn’t sound like someone worth investing your time in. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Successful flirt attempt? Or not?Maybe calling a woman beautiful in your first interaction is a little thirsty, but my opinion is that if it is authentic and you really wanted to express that to her, why not. I still think a little restraint is needed as well. Just chill on the compliments next time and treat her like a person, try to stop fetishizing her looks so much and treat her like a normal person. Easier said than done though Also, stop discounting yourself so much, ie you’re a dumb white guy who can’t pronounce Hispanic… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Successful flirt attempt? Or not?The second to last paragraph indicates that you over analyze things and still have some insecurities. She might have put on a shirt because it was more comfortable in the moment, not because you creeped her out. Calling her beautiful right off the bat was a little much, but it seemed like you meant it genuinely. If you see her next time and there’s a good vibe, take your shot. Just don’t be needy and creepy about it. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:20 AM |
| 2 | You know those old ladies who you have no trouble talking toIs the a pro GILF hunting manifesto? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | I’m a softyDo a contact martial art, or do an activity on a regular basis where you’re competing physically with other men, pickup basketball for instance. That will make you more assertive | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 32 | I feel like I missed out so badlyThis is a Nice Guy post. You’re claiming a girl that you don’t even know. Your friend had balls and took initiative. Learn from him and move on. She isn’t yours just because you fall in love with a girl that shows a little kindness | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Girl acts differently when talking to meThat’s the whole purpose of dating, getting to know someone. Social media isn’t reality. If she brings bad bitch energy, bring your big ball energy. Hopefully her energy matches what she’s been giving you in text and in person. A little bad bitch energy is attractive in my opinion. Don’t force it something that isn’t there. If you don’t like her attitude, you have the full ability to remove her from your life. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How to become a fuck boy, female edition?Is this a joke? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Are Girls Attracted To Men With Long Hair?The one that makes you feel the most confident is the answer | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Is it okay to end a friendship with someone who rejected you?It’s actually more truthful if you end the friendship, if it’s done in a calm, respectful manner. It’s deceptive to pretend to be someone’s friend, when it’s really not what you want. It almost always ends badly because jealousy comes into play. Do it for yourself though, and not to hurt her back. If you’re trying just to reject her back, that’s weak Nice Guy behavior. Just simply tell her you don’t think it’s a good idea to be friends while you still have feelings. It would dishonest to pretend… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 3 | I approached the hottest girl in the venue last night.You handled it really well, man. Handling rejection with grace will put you in attractive frame of mind. You put yourself out there, and that’s what counts. On to the next one | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 01:54 AM |
| 3 | why does a girl kiss me on the neck but avoid kissing on the mouth?Drunk uncle Ted, is that you? Lol | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:51 AM |
| 8 | Recommendations / seduction tips for a female that make her seem more seductive and alluring to males?Don’t be needy. Have your own hobbies, careers, and life outside of the relationship. Make time for those, don’t just to spend all your time on the relationship. A successful relationship isn’t measured by how long it lasts. Just because a relationship doesn’t end in marriage, or lasts several years, doesn’t mean it wasn’t successful. If a relationship ends, it doesn’t mean it was necessarily something you did. Maybe they weren’t right for you either. Why try to draw out a relationship if they d… | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Did I actually make this girl feel uncomfortable or was her boyfriend just upset?You sound like a bad pickup artist who can’t take a hint. The stripper line was creepy as fuck. What would you do if someone called your girl a stripper? Of course, some guys would try to fuck you up for that, especially if you’re in an environment where there’s alcohol. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?People discount it, but removing porn and limiting masturbation is key for an attractive sexual energy. It’s not a superpower and won’t solve all your problems, but it’s a key component | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500Sorry, but calling bullshit on that. That interaction wasn’t intentional. It’s one thing to be unmotivated, and get rejected. If he really didn’t care about the interaction, why did he react in such an utterly needy and validation-seeking way? You can’t believe that he went into that interaction seeking to intentionally fail and make a point. The women acted with ambivalence towards him, and he tried to push though, believing it would work. He may have used the video to display to his students a… | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500He looks like an angry toddler on steroids | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 8 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500I give advice myself, and I know what it’s like to put yourself out there, so I’m not going to blow up his spot. It’s pretty easy to find if you really want to look for it. He’s probably helped a lot of guys, which is important. The reason I brought up the video is because it highlights the dangers of thinking like a pickup artist (dating coaches are rebranded pickup artists). Your identity becomes centered around approval from women, and what to say, rather than developing into an attractive ma… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:32 PM |
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