Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex

handsomecuddler · 2022-09-11T18:55:03+00:00

agree with all points... teasing and delaying are huge turn on for most women. And you'll likely stand out as someone unique/special to her as most guys in her past have either skipped all of this to focus on self-centered pleasure or aren't sufficiently aware/knowledgeable of it to begin with.

incognito3107 · 2022-09-11T20:04:38+00:00

Of course, knowledge about woman's biology and how to get her to highest pleasures is one of the most crucial things to make her crazy about you and to build happy relationship.

jdolf-clitler · 2022-09-11T19:59:42+00:00

....and the winner of Reddit goes to; this person!! Congrats. Please go teach this to everyone. Everywhere. Till the end of time. I have spoken.

monstressxo · 2022-09-12T00:46:16+00:00

Whoa, ladies, careful reading this before bed… 😅

What a gem - an amazing post featuring some true advice.

animeyukihira · 2022-09-12T07:28:39+00:00

this nigga the pussy professor

ladygodivajk · 2022-09-11T23:12:16+00:00

This post should be pinned! Important stuff here for all! God, I love the tension & build up. There’s nothing like the satisfaction of being with someone who also enjoys the same.

throwawaynibs · 2022-09-11T23:10:37+00:00

Yup listen to this guy. Also thinking sex is like porn will just get you disappointed women that tell all their friends you suck in bed.

districtexotics · 2022-09-11T18:42:08+00:00

I would love to try and find out just exactly how true this is 😁, letting my ego go to rest for a minute

kettlebell_workout · 2022-09-11T19:02:54+00:00

Good stuff.

I would also add that a guy has not only dick and fingers. There are lots of other body parts. Knee, elbow, palm, cheek etc. All of them could and should be used. And if you run out of options there are literally 1000s of other objects to use.

Once I found a feather from the pillow lying on the floor, and made her cum with it.

a_fricking_cunt · 2022-09-11T21:22:08+00:00

Imma save this post, not like I'm going to use it

Sure-Wish3240 · 2022-09-11T21:23:58+00:00

Not every woman is up to every game every day.

But you have to always offer your A game.

And after you drained her of fluids, last as long as you manage during intercourse.

lonelyassfemale · 2022-09-11T22:10:09+00:00

I wish every man could read this.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-09-12T14:49:02+00:00

100%.

That being said, some women do just want you inside them asap so you gotta find that balance. Best way is to play with their clit as you make out with them until they are wet enough, checking for that periodically by fingering them. Once they are, it's game on.

KingAJ032304 · 2022-09-12T02:36:25+00:00

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Crazy-Platform-5581 · 2022-09-12T05:41:40+00:00

To everyone who hasn't read it yet, I highly recommend 'She comes first' by Ian Kerner. Was an absolute gamechanger for me.

xxchhfdd35325 · 2022-09-12T16:38:21+00:00

Totally depends on the woman I had a gf that would get annoyed with long foreplay she loved getting eaten out for a few minutes then get on that dick

GLight3 · 2022-09-12T00:13:53+00:00

I keep hearing this, but in my experience women prefer energetic fast sex (push her against the wall, rip her clothes off, and go to town) and get bored when I try to do foreplay or anything slow/soft. Not saying OP wrong, necessarily, but people seem to think that this applies to all women, which in my experience is definitely not true.

Nice_Calligrapher452 · 2022-09-11T23:22:32+00:00

Best post on reddit.

Ricb76 · 2022-09-12T00:47:01+00:00

Bang on advice. Sometimes you might just have a quickie, but if you're taking your time then what this guy said should do the trick for many women.

2bn1sWAY · 2022-09-12T01:01:22+00:00

I have to admit, already knowing all this I have been very selfish not allowing the LovE process to manifest upon my oral stimulation of her love 💕 bean 🫘

Tyrthesemiwise · 2022-09-12T04:44:08+00:00

Side note on the first part of the last paragraph: seriously, this kind of stuff is not simp behaviour. If you like being dominant (and it's totally okay to not be, exploring your sub side is healthy too) you can have a lot of control over your partner by building anticipation and not giving them what they want.

aeroaca9 · 2022-09-12T13:08:33+00:00

Well it doesn’t really matter without a partner

UncleGrga · 2022-09-11T21:14:26+00:00

God, this reads like an askreddit thread where guys talk about going down on their fat polyamorous girlfriends.

Now these guys are gonna scratch up some poor girl’s vagina with their monkey paws fishing around for the g-spot

zertsetzung · 2022-09-12T12:24:01+00:00

Maybe Im just the grumpy 34 year old in here, but I feel like Im being lectured by a 20 year old who is talking out his ass.

DryCardiologist8847 · 2022-09-12T05:27:05+00:00

I think it comes down to personal preference and/or mood. Sometimes, I don’t want foreplay, I just want my man to shove his penis inside and fuck me hard and rough. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-09-12T17:11:55+00:00

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Hov_Allah · 2022-09-11T22:50:51+00:00

Fore play is to get someone in the mood. If yall both are already horny, you can go straight to smashing and still have good sex

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-09-11T21:51:03+00:00

hahaha no no no my sir, caring about them in bed is the biggest mistake

skaag · 2022-09-12T04:05:31+00:00

I happen to have a girlfriend who does enjoy being touched with the fingers, but LPT: Not all women are the same, some are EXTREMELY sensitive, and some people also have very rough skin on their fingers.

c2kink · 2022-09-12T06:02:05+00:00

🤩

EU-Howdie · 2022-09-12T12:37:52+00:00

Really ??

jwaters0122 · 2022-09-12T13:03:19+00:00

most ppl on this sub cant even get to this point in seduction, let alone get a text back.

novasolid64 · 2022-09-12T15:34:21+00:00

Don't forget about the a spot

Title	Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex
Author	MO_drps_knwldg
Upvotes	523
Comments	68
Date	September 11, 2022 6:30 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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