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I would make it slightly earlier in the evening like 5 or 6pm depending on if it works with her schedule also. If the date goes well you can always extend it to dinner.
/r/seduction10/05/23 06:40 PM
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My current boyfriend doesn’t really drink. Not drinking isn’t a dealbreaker for most women If you need a replacement date for “drinks” then a small unique tea house or coffee house is a great place.
/r/seduction10/05/23 04:44 PM
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No I’m not. I dated a lot before my relationship. I’m telling you as a woman what works.
/r/seduction10/05/23 12:02 PM
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Most of these aren’t going to make my “panties drop” These are great date ideas, getting to know someone dates, and generally good relationship dates. But as for seducing/panty droppers, art museum or ballet isn’t doing that. Wine tasting, maybe, but the bigger picture here is to learn early on what the girl likes. For some girls I’m sure a ballet would do it, for me it wouldn’t. A friend of mine would go crazy over wine and charcuterie on a yacht; I went crazy for my man over beers and axe thro…
/r/seduction09/05/23 07:49 PM
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It’s fucking creepy and predatory.
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:55 PM
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You’re a creep and deserve that rejection. Try working with women closer to your age and clearly legal, not “might have been” legal. What the actual fuck dude. Edit: you probably got that rejection because she was underage.
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:54 PM
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Taking daily showers and having a clean living space are not materialistic wtf are you on here lol
/r/seduction28/10/22 07:46 PM
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Here is your answer ^
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:10 PM
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Huh…?
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:08 PM
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I guarantee you he’s not pulling anyone with this cringey attitude
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:52 PM
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I am a woman and I approve this entire message
/r/seduction27/10/22 07:04 PM
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I’m a woman. She didn’t reject you from your looks, based on this post and your comments. Work on yourself.
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:34 PM
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We are impressed by anything you are legitimately passionately passionate about. It can be a small thing or a big thing. We just like to see that you love something.
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:50 PM
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My boyfriend now was my archery instructor. It was a great hobby to meet someone. He also breeds and shows Great Danes. Hobbies I’ve been intrigued by before have been guns, gym, 3D printing/models, hiking, DJing, motorcycles, off roading, playing instruments, gardening, painting.
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:36 PM
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Idk but this sub comes up on my feed often and I feel a lot of posters in here need some serious introspection, help, social skills, and common sense.
/r/seduction25/10/22 01:50 AM
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You are all so ridiculous in this thread. I work out regularly and I travel often. Here are the reasons (in no particular order) why I would have done that: I wanted a pump for what I’m wearing tonight but also need to get ready and don’t have a lot of time/mismanaged my time. my plans changed unexpectedly and need to leave earlier than anticipated. I was expecting the gym to have more amenities than it did and decide it’s not worth the time. Edit option: - did you creep her out? I would not wan…
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:11 PM
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If I was out and about with a colleague talking about work (I work in surgery) and some rando came up to us out of the blue and said “so, you work in healthcare?” I would be completely taken aback and move the conversation elsewhere. I’m not sure what you were trying to accomplish here but you’ll need to work on your introductory/initial conversation skills
/r/seduction18/10/22 01:53 AM
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This was such a cringe to read 💀😬
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:27 PM
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There’s not enough context her to fully know why she’s acting this way, imo. Have you tried asking her on another date?
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:05 AM
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You need to start off by removing the attitude of calling us “females.” Immediately no. We can immediately see that through whatever else you’re saying
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:14 PM
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Hate to be the one to tell you this but in the past I’ve done that when I’m not into the guy and just want it to be over.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:39 AM
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Agreed
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:34 AM
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I’m a woman this is deadass spot on. Listen to this person.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:33 AM
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This is an overthought question. Did you enjoy the date? Text her. If you want to give her the option to text you first, then wait until the next day. What if she really likes you but doesn’t want to seem desperate because she’s asking this same silly question to herself? That’s why you wait a day. You’ll know by her reply from that how she feels. “Hey ____ I just wanted to say I had a great time last night, thank you for letting me treat you to dinner. I’d love to go out with you again sometime…
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:16 AM
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DO NOT USE THIS ewww
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:20 PM
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As an actual woman a few things. 1) you don’t try on thongs lmao unless you wear the pad looking pantyliners and even then you try on briefs in the same size and buy the the thong in that size 😂😂 2) you don’t come out of the dressing room lmfao wtaf. 3) I’ve never been to a lingerie store that allows men past the dressing room main door 😂😂😂 fake ass fucking post bro
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:29 AM
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What’s true? Get out of whatever mindset you’re in lol. Read what I wrote and do it. Don’t listen to whatever male echo chamber podcast you’re stuck in. I am literally the exact type of woman that men in this sub are trying to seduce and I’m telling you HOW to do it.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:40 PM
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What? 😂🤣
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:33 PM
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Compliments, questions, and listening. We are humans who like genuine human interaction. Do you like compliments? Talking about yourself? Being heard? Instead of practicing with the intention of sex, try the intention of getting to know a person. It will flow from there ;)
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:18 AM
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how would you talk to another guy if he said in casual conversation that he has a gf? Carry on the same way. I know we are in a seduction sub, but part of the journey can be meeting and talking to women without the intention of ONLY fucking them.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:08 PM
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You waited until the end of the night, she was probably a couple drinks in and sassy, and had already been approached repeatedly. What you did wrong was wait too long. She didn’t see any confidence in you and sassed her way out of it because she didn’t want to deal with “yet another.” You should have approached her way earlier in the night. You know the scene in Hitch where he approached her in the bar? This is like that …
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:35 PM
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Immediately no
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:31 PM
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That’s what I figured. Which is funny because I can totally relate to the girl if that’s the case. In fact, one of my most recent posts is about a somewhat similar issue
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:13 AM
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I really wish I could read this content because the comments have me intrigued.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:26 PM
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I am a woman and I approve this message. Why do some y’all make it so difficult? This is the #1 way to do it. Also make sure the house is clean and stocked well (towels, trash cans, snacks and drinks, etc)
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:06 PM
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Agree with the post above, you need to do a lot more reading and research on sex.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:07 PM
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I think you should ask her on a proper date and gauge her reaction to it, then go from there. Be prepared to stay FWB. But tell her you’d like to take her on a proper date and see her dressed up, then offer for her to stay overnight after. If she says a big hell no or is otherwise wishy washy, you’ll know. If she is otherwise interested, go from there.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:55 PM
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The video wasn’t actually clear if it was a mom or boyfriend hahaha. As a mom to an almost 10 year old, I assumed it was a mom locking it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:03 PM
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Not really sure what you mean by defending the man because the comments I read on this TikTok were as follows (hilarious): there was audacity in the car you mean a pile of 💩in the car a 🤡in the car there was a joke in the car a waste of oxygen in the car I simply would have lost my job that night men ★ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ would not recommend 2021 we laying eggs. I’m tired that’s not a man that a rodent the ✨disrespect✨ I scrolled for a while and didn’t see a single comment defending the man. Maybe some igno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:46 PM
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No no no no don’t misconstrue lol.... I said it felt like the first contraction. There was another 14 hours of progressively intensifying contractions after that before pushing for an hour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:44 AM
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I’ve broken a bone and had a kid and I’d say it’s about in the middle. IUD is the same pain, for me, as my first labor contraction, the one where I KNEW it was time. Honestly breaking my arm was nothing compared to IUD or kiddo Edit honestly though I love my IUD. a few seconds of pain for no period (for me) and no worry of getting pregnant now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:07 AM
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This situation just happened to me. I went on a couple dates with a guy then out of nowhere he deletes/blocks me and ended up proposing to his GF. He went on dates because he was not sure he wanted to propose to her or not. I was a test for his own emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:29 PM
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I want my hundred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:06 AM
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That sub and relationship advice sub are mostly entertainment anymore. There’s so little actual advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:27 PM
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I find it very odd that this post is huge on another sub, but we follow here and praise HVM like this and get shamed to hell on the rest of reddit. So weird to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:53 AM
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Omg I need to do this ! Excellent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:53 PM
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I struggle with flair here too 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:36 PM
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WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:45 AM
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This, along with most of AITA, is suuuper fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:23 PM
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Right? But yes I think it’s intentional!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:53 PM
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Just in a literal sense to answer, -gamy is marriage and -amorous is love. In the US at least it’s still illegal to marry more than one person by law. So polygamy can’t really exist in a definitive term here. But polyamory isn’t illegal with consenting adults. They can still act married all together but not legally and by definition be so. For monogamist it’s probably because in a traditional sense we date for courtship and date to marry. So being monoamorous would ideally be monogamy anyway. Al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:52 PM
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I work in neurosurgery reading brainwaves for a living. At my sons birthday party one year, a dad of a kid, who worked from home doing some kind of graphic design work, asked me what I do for a living. When I started explaining, he asked about brain surgery and I explained what I do. He interrupted me to tell me I was wrong about how they do craniotomies because he watched it on a documentary. I can’t even bring up what I do anymore on dates. I don’t even list it in my profiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:13 PM
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That’s my ex! Jk but not really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:27 PM
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I’ll never understand this? I mean I understand the meme but this is a seriously scary new trend. I have a friend-couple. When I first met them he doted on her and talked down on his friends who were legit incels/mgtows (they even share reddit things on IG. I’ve since unfollowed all of them.) Something changed. He started hanging out with them a lot more and now he’s used some intel rhetoric against his girlfriend. It’s a trend I’m seeing with a lot of males lately and it scares me into being si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:18 PM
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It’s difficult to explain without getting on there and reading his responses. I totally understand the sentiment you have, and I was skeptical. But he does it in a way like.....You can post a screenshot of a text and he will be able to say “this guy is just looking for a one nighter.” He can see right through guys bullshit that we sometimes can’t. And again, there’s 10k women and he’s the only man. I know you’re not going to be convinced but try to open up to the idea of it. But this Facebook pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:27 PM
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There’s an almost identical to this sub facebook page called Fabulous Femmes TFG tfg is fairy godfather. There’s like 10k members. The group is all females and one male (the fairy godfather) and the man helps explain the men’s thought process on dating and sex and relationships and other topics. He’s a good hearted self described “fuckboy” but he gives really insightful explanations for a lot of behavior. They also have a “handbook” page full of information on dating strategies. The topics there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:00 AM
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Because I’ve been told this so much, and even recently I’ve had guys tell someone that my personality and other attributes are there but that they don’t see blondes as wives. Edit forgot to add I’m blonde and very much so, platinum! Ever since I was 18 I was told something like this every so often. Ironically, nearly every ex has married or got into long term relationships with a brunette after me also, only furthering my anecdotal theory. I’m very interested in why this seems to be an idea for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:32 PM
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Can I ask... what color is your hair??? I know it sounds random of a question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:23 PM
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I’m missing intimacy. That was the reason for the last dumpster fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:32 AM
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Literally my last guy was the epitome of low value male, the epitome of the worst of my dating ventures. Don’t judge me for this because I have since found here and facebooks equivalent. 30m, ~90k debt, lived with roommates, got money from parents, mattress on the floor sometimes with no sheets, refused to pay for anything we split all the bills until my birthday because he said I should pay for him since he’s a guest, refused to drive out to me ever, was poly and let me know my “place” about it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 05:02 PM
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For this reason I am one and done! I wanted 2-3 kids but I can’t deal with the man behind the kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:37 PM
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He was a pre-FDS fuckbuddy that I wanted to turn more into a FWB. I honestly didn’t even want a relationship especially with him, I just wanted some dinner dates and nights to dress up for. He stood me up for our first attempt at it and later I saw him in person and he said he felt like he was buying sex with a dinner date, and could just hire a prostitute instead. This was after I repeatedly explained that I was in no way looking for a relationship. I just wanted to be treated like a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:00 PM
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I was literally told this exactly before!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:34 PM
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Thanks! Haha. I just re-read this too and it’s literally him. Even looks like him almost to a tee. He always wanted to go half on everything. He told me before valentines that I should get him flowers not the other way around. And he was really explicit about women making the first move! Like why. I have now dated the lowest of the lows and I’m over it. I’d rather be single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:19 AM
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All of this is almost literally the last guy I dated before finding this sub. Almost overnight my entire view on dating has turned a 180
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 12:03 AM
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Related to the post I’m not sure but I named my son Declan and he’s a huge sweetheart so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:44 PM
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Why the name Declan? Too specific... isn’t the Karen equivalent version Kyle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:32 AM
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The worst was the last one. Right around the time finding this sub and a similar sub on Facebook. From the beginning: he has holier than thou attitude about everything. He is poly. We start dating, or what he would call dating, what I would call friends. Things he told me during the 2 month relationship: women and men should be total equals, but they can’t be because men have had to “carry the weight” for so long, so women in 2020 should make the effort for basically all of it. I should buy him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:44 AM
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this is a great crossover to r/wowthanksimcured
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:59 PM
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Same. I have this feeling that things will skip generations. Our generation has to deal with some pretty crap men, so I think we will raise the next generation accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:24 AM
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I’m learning still, but I have such a different attitude about dating now more than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:32 AM
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here it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:55 AM
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I believe it was on r/dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:55 AM
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Right?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:52 AM
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Nooooo I got you! I was just explaining how the very original post was just BASIC. And guys were telling him he’s putting too much in too early on. NO, he’s NOT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:52 AM
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The OP literally went on 3 dates and was saying how he put effort into planning and they had a great time. The dates were dinner, movie, and a paint night. Super basic, inexpensive, planned dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:46 AM
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Omg! My ex did this! And yes it precedes more violent behavior. He broke all my makeup first then my doors until he finally put his hands on me. I’ll never ever tolerate this shit again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:03 AM
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He was hoping for a threesome girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:41 PM
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Holy hell lol omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:39 PM
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Any link to the full article?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:35 AM
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Me to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:32 AM
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Currently reading. Also have read Fuck Him which is the same ideas but a shorter watered down version
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 08:18 AM
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“You know, it's funny; when you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:49 PM
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I have been single for 6 years now. I go to movies, dance classes, pole class, fitness class, paint nights, comedy nights (our local bar,) food festivals, farmers markets, brunch, steal the glass. When I go out to eat alone like for brunch or steal the glass nights I’ll take a book and sit at the end of the bar. I’m currently looking for archery lessons and cooking classes. I am 100% comfortable doing anything and everything alone. I don’t recommend for everyone but I also go to club events and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:41 AM
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The butane can. Why? With the lid off. Damn fire hazard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:11 AM
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Omg no. Boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:13 AM
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I don’t have much to offer, I’m still lurking and learning a lot on this page, but I am curious how old are you and what age are these guys? I’ve found that guys around my age (32) are.... basically the worst. I and a lot of friends my age are single and struggling with guys our age. I have some friends who have pretty good luck with dating much older (like late 40s/50s) and much younger (I have one 30 yo friend dating a 23yo) but basically a lot of girls I know won’t bother with guys around our…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:48 AM
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Pee, and poop, and usually double or triple wipe during periods, plus wrapping period products for the trash.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/19 04:14 PM
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I’m a girl and I agree. Us girls discredit the same macho behavior.
/r/seduction24/03/19 07:02 PM
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I was in a diner (Denny’s by my house) late night on a Friday with a girl friend. A guy just sat down next to me and started talking to me. He complimented my outfit, and gave me his number. We dated for 4.5 years. I 100% support doing this, it’s spontaneous and confident.
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:48 PM
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Violently raped vs being date raped, there’s a bit of a difference there...
/r/seduction24/12/18 06:02 PM
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I grew up in a scuba shop around compressors. They scare the fuck out of me because they are basically bombs
/r/seduction24/12/18 04:45 PM
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One of my biggest fears is being violently raped. So yes, this would be a very awkward question on a first date.... On the flipside, one of my other biggest fears is machinery/metal pipes, which makes for a decent conversation.
/r/seduction24/12/18 04:43 PM
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Just ask her. “Sorry our initial meeting was so brief, I didn’t catch your name.” I’m a girl and would not be put off by this. I don’t see the issue at all.
/r/seduction06/11/18 10:13 PM
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