Good books on basic attraction and seduction?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-06-07T06:47:27+00:00

What have you read so far?

Models by Mark Manson advises getting more attractive by being polarizing, non-needy, and dressing better. Maybe this is what you're looking for?

Others advice being more attractive by using push-pull and being cocky/funny.

Still others advice displaying "high value" IE. High social status, and high socioeconomic status.

All these approaches can work if done well.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-06-07T12:36:00+00:00

The Foundation: A Blueprint for Becoming an Authentically Attractive Man by Michael Owen.

The first part of the book covers developing Inner Game, last two chapters cover Online and day game

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-06-07T03:52:53+00:00

I always recommend How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It's an old book but the advice holds up.

Regist4 · 2024-06-07T07:56:27+00:00

I read Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo back when I was a clueless teen with no idea how to talk to women and it genuinely changed my life. It's much lighter on all the PUA "techniques" which can sometimes be gimmicky or manipulative and is more about how to become a man that women find attractive. You can probably find a free download of it somewhere these days.

Neil Strauss' books are pretty good too - The Game is more autobiographical than instructional but it's a very entertaining insight into the LA PUA scene in the mid 2000s and the people involved (Mystery being the main player in that). Rules of the Game is his instructional guide - it's a bit heavier on techniques like negging, peacocking etc. but builds you up gradually with action plans you can go and try out at each step of the way. Might need some adaptation for the modern dating world and how prevalent apps are now but most of it will still be applicable.

Ur_X · 2024-06-07T13:02:20+00:00

The Game and Mystery Method are great foundation books. Sure their style is old but a lot of the mind set stands

18cmOfGreatness · 2024-06-07T16:03:38+00:00

Go to libgen and search for Swinggcat, or google his name and check posts summarizing his book on sosuave. That's the only game on pickup you need, and the author speaks exactly about attraction. Mark Manson is way too mainstream, and his advice is rather basic, and he also contradicts himself in his book. But he's a good choice if you want more basic advice instead of learning game.

awaalehimself · 2024-06-07T04:09:51+00:00

You don't need books, you need to take action. Do ten approaches, fail 8 or 9 of them and then reflect on what you did well and not so well. Then you'll do 10 more, and another 10. Once you are consciously aware of your weaknesses, start reading. Pick Krauss or Mystery, forget Manson unless you wanna pull on your level.

some_kind_of_friend · 2024-06-07T21:33:07+00:00

OMFG this sub makes so much more sense now.

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