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I post a lot of pictures. Clearly I am very ugly . Or at least my looks have zero impact on women believing I am attractive. Which leaves just confidence. Which is , in so far as I can tell, the only thing that really matters.
/r/seduction26/07/26 07:45 PM
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I feel like women actually have to feel this on a visceral way. 11 years ago no woman seemed to care that I was teaching myself coding and advanced math. Now I am a lead AI engineer and being courted by big tech companies. I have already tripled my income , have huge impact in the DoW and most likely will make half a million in the near future. And I've given dozens of tech talks. The number of women that have known about this and are impressed and want to date me because of it is precisely zero…
/r/seduction26/07/26 07:27 PM
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You know what is funny. I have been doing what everyone has said I should do which is to not live a life concerned with women , have purpose, and work on myself. I have killed it with my career and am now a lead machine learning engineer that is respected in his field. I have killed it in the gym. And I do have close friends and am good with my family. None of this has resulted in improvements to my dataong life. But I sort of expected this to happen. I do enjoy life a lot more. So that is nice.
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:56 PM
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Yes. Also many women sleep with men casually in order to get him into a long term relationship
/r/seduction17/07/26 08:52 PM
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Dating coaches are great and probably what most men need. Most of the people that give dating advice are not going to stick with you and hold you accountable. And someone, without a financial incentive, pretty much has no stake in you having good results. I think instead of tossing out dating coaches, we should be reviewing, vetting, and pointing men to good ones that actually help.
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:23 AM
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I think more people, in general are wearing headphones. I wear noise canceling headphones because I may actually become a felon if I listen to inconsiderate people that play their phones in public.
/r/seduction07/07/26 07:25 AM
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Never
/r/seduction03/07/26 03:43 AM
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I am.so confused. Do you not think people here are trying this or are aware they need to learn how to read women better? Do you think it is easy. What happened to this forum. We used to encourage men and give them real actionable steps to improve. Your response is just unnecessarily critical with no salient path forward other than "get better".
/r/seduction30/06/26 05:16 PM
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My anxiety went up after I lost weight so I think it differs from man to man
/r/seduction29/05/26 03:04 PM
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I don't think the difficulty of dating for men has anything to do with the cultural climate or the world writ large as it is largely a personal journey. If dating feels hard, it is because no one has taught you how to do it, which is why you should be here.
/r/seduction27/05/26 10:45 PM
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To be clear. It is less about having female friends , job, and more about how these translate to your demeanor when you talk to women right?
/r/seduction26/05/26 03:54 PM
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9 hours a week . probably more if you factor in cardio / activities. Makes no difference to my attractiveness. And yes I diet. You can see some of my pictures on my profile.
/r/seduction17/05/26 07:41 AM
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centuries ago most men did not procreate. The natural state of things is for is for the majority of us to die alone..or be sent off to war..universal pair bonding is a modern construction
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:58 PM
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So would you say your experiences with them make future experiences better? Because I have really awkward conversations that go nowhere. Or they like me as a person but just see me as a friend. Or they just reject me super early on often for significantly more attractive men and women. I have noticed that the more women get to know me the less they actually want to ever date me. So you know that doesn't feel great.
/r/seduction12/05/26 12:01 PM
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What did "Kind of succeed" look like to you? And are you just naturally confident with women?
/r/seduction12/05/26 10:50 AM
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Hundreds. I spent years going out to night clubs, sometimes multiple times a night and never succeeded with is much as a phone number. I also joined a bunch of clubs and every social interaction the women went with other men. After all of that I stopped pursuing women like a decade ago because when I asked for advice I kept getting told to "Be myself.". Welp I am doing that but being myself almost never involves flirting or asking women out. And they certainly do not flirt or ask me out.
/r/seduction11/05/26 02:06 PM
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Some of your points I agree with. The gym thing I very much don't. You can see in my pictures that I do go to the gym and have changed my physique drastically. The amount this has changed my dating life is zero. I think it is worth it because strength is its own reward but you are setting men up for failure by telling them the gym will magically solve their problems. The research actually does say women care about physical attractiveness but I think it is layered . A woman will not ask you out o…
/r/seduction11/05/26 11:43 AM
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If you start getting used to rejections not once you start getting used to rejections. My own experience is that rejections just get progressively worse. And I know I am not alone in feeling this way. Not all of us are fortunate enough to have emotions that work the way yours do.
/r/seduction11/05/26 11:37 AM
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Historically maybe, but not anymore. https://www.southdenvertherapy.com/blog/how-couples-meet-where-most-couples-find-love-2025 . BTW this is normalized so it does not mean absolute levels of meeting your partner are the same . In fact they keep on going down. You are partially right in that it was easier in the past. I also think that heterosexual dating is not as encouraged as before. From my perspective as an actual single hetero man, the amount of cirticism I see is really high. And the amou…
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:04 AM
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I don't think most men actually do become "good with women". Most men lower their standards and take the first opportunity that comes their way and then stay with them out of necessity. This is why they are very bad at giving dating advice. Most men don't get good at dating. And ones that do let their skills erode over time.
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:53 AM
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*If you get into that zone*. You also sound incredibly dissimisive and possibly a bully.
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:51 AM
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You sound incredibly priveledged.
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:51 AM
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I think you misunderstand me..I am not saying I would literally sleep with lots of women, I would just want to be able to.
/r/seduction06/02/26 11:51 PM
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If I could sleep with all of these women I would instead date around and then get into an optimal loving relationship. Sadly that is not likely
/r/seduction06/02/26 09:07 PM
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I actually have a lot of hobbies and activities like sewing, cosplay, ballet, and figure skating that cause me to encounter a ton of women. But they never talk to me and are not attracted to me for obvious reasons. Also men find out about this and bully me. There is no easy way.
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:32 PM
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When you say you do not care, what does that mean are you actively talking to and pursuing women? People keep telling me to not care and I tried this. But what I did is just focus on my career, exercise, and side projects. In the process of this I became significantly less social. I stopped going to events. I never spoke to women (or really anyone) unless I something specific. And wouldn't you know. I have not been on a date or really had a conversation with a woman that was not for a functional…
/r/seduction28/01/26 07:50 PM
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The f is that
/r/seduction28/01/26 12:09 AM
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In my experience man "man hating" women have just been deeply hurt by men. Most often they were in a relationship with a man that gave them the impression of a certain kind of relationship and then the reality of how that relationship went was very different. They then have gone through the process of breaking with that men and feeling very hurt. Or, even worse, a continued process of breaking up and getting reattached. Now I am not attractive to women , so I have never dated these women. But, i…
/r/seduction27/01/26 04:56 PM
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Yeah. You can see from my most recent post how my physique has improved over the past year. And you know how much it has improved my dating life? Zero. At least at my stage of dating capability, physical appearance is completely irrelevant.
/r/seduction27/01/26 04:47 PM
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As someone that knows a ton of gorgeous women that complain about men without money I don't believe this for a second. You need to have ambition and drive sure but not necessarily literal money. Charm , humor, and confidence get you way further
/r/seduction14/01/26 07:53 PM
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You are thinking of emdr
/r/seduction03/01/26 04:22 PM
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Question about confidence from someone who has never had therapy work for them. What did your therapist actually do to help you. Typically CBT allows the therapist to get a repore with you and then cover traumatic memories. Then they explore how those memories have caused you to form a sense of self and change that sense. This is a rough idea. Is that what you experienced? What do you do if your memories and experiences are so strong and so hurtful that they don't seem to be capable of being cha…
/r/seduction02/01/26 08:08 PM
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Really this post is softly saying game is wrong without saying it
/r/seduction28/11/25 04:18 PM
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The advice works if you do it. But very often your emotions and fear of rejection can prevent you from doing it, as is my case.
/r/seduction26/11/25 02:42 PM
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No
/r/seduction26/11/25 02:37 PM
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No
/r/seduction26/11/25 02:10 PM
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This post is incomprehensible.
/r/seduction26/11/25 12:10 AM
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I am curious. How does going from date to sex even work?
/r/seduction25/11/25 06:12 PM
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I agree. I mean, if you want to be technical, women actually do like kind and compassionate men. But they are imagining men they are already attracted to when they say this. So kindness is more about keeping a woman that likes you than attracting a woman that does not.
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:26 PM
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Personally I just don't think being attractive is related to being nice. If you are an attractive man, you can have conversations that make her feel something. You can be nice or you can't. It does not matter. The issue is men think it does, often because others tell them to. So they need to get that out of their head.
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:32 PM
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Are you a guy that can get sex on the first date?
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:29 PM
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Are you a guy that can get sex on the first date?
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:28 PM
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Do they really. Alas there is nothing I want to do is Portland lol
/r/seduction22/10/25 11:56 AM
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Damn I am trying to find the opposite. Which ones have the most white women that like black guys lol
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:15 PM
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As a coder in a mostly male field. What the hell are you talking about
/r/seduction11/10/25 01:04 AM
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You telling me this does not make it easier to deal with
/r/seduction09/10/25 12:00 PM
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Pain of rejection is significantly higher than pain of regret Significantly
/r/seduction08/10/25 10:51 PM
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Knowing this does not make the fear easier to deal with
/r/seduction08/10/25 10:12 PM
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Perhaps that may happen one day. Reading this comment will not make that happen
/r/seduction08/10/25 09:57 PM
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Obvious But , as someone that is afraid of rejection, the fear isn't something you can turn off.
/r/seduction07/10/25 07:08 PM
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I didn't. I blamed myself harshly , stopped approaching and am now lonely. The funny part is that this is following conventional dating advice.
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:15 PM
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What does this even mean?
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:13 PM
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So in other words. There is no way of knowing.
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:06 AM
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The cost is not my concern. Women make.me anxious. So I would only pay for the services unless they were really effective (like if I could get at least one date a week or something)
/r/seduction17/09/25 12:12 PM
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Got it. I ask because I am not getting many matches with free version on any app and I never have. Women also don't go out with me irl. It would be nice if I could pay money and improve my dating life but it feels hopeless.
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:48 AM
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Ok so was your experience getting gold or platinum and not experiencing a benefit until you used super boost? Have you experienced having no matches on free and then buying gold or platinum ? If so did your outcome not change when you used super boost? Your post espouses what you think will happen , but I can not tell if you have gone from having no matches to having any kind of success. It seems like you have success now so, if you started from having no matches , there must have been something…
/r/seduction16/09/25 03:43 PM
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What did you experience?
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:40 PM
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Is this based on experience? Like did you personally experience this?
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:01 PM
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Are you basing this on experience? Or are you just saying it?
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:01 PM
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When women imagine a "nice guy" they imagine a man they are already attracted to. I.E. A man that is confident and charming (by far the number one thing that determines how attractive you are). They then want this man to be compassionate and kind to them, and only to them. This is exascerbated by them often meeting attractive men that are not nice, not compassionate, and certainly not loyal to them. Attractive men are not common, therefore they have options. So why should he cater to her, when s…
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:30 PM
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No
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:19 PM
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As a bayesian i am sure you know that women only have a latent chance of likinh you that you jave to sample.each time. But really it takes a lot of attempts to get the plate diagram. You feel me. Your certainty about yoir attractiveness is only a degree of belief man!
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:37 AM
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You van 100% be fit, successful, and confident without turning into a douchebag. In fact doing so is very much likely to teach you humilty, compassion and patience. I think if you are getting angry from this conversation, you don't have either of these. And I question if you are in a prescription ti prescribe ways of being attractive. Ad for broader definition of success... no.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/25 07:02 PM
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What do you.mean 'someone like.andrw tate'? Is that a bad thing ? So you think it is a good thing for men to not be successful or something?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/25 06:45 PM
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I don't know what you are implying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/25 06:26 PM
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Andrew tate has no solutions. But nither does the left. I don't think there really is a loneliness epidemic. But if you want to help lonely men, the only choice is for them to double down on their masculinity. They need to grow and improve their incomes, fitness, and confidence. And this will require work and effort. All you can do.is to.push them to do this. But, if they did, they would become empowered , individualistic and successful. And your ide9logy does not actually believe in this. To wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 08:29 PM
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Men are physically better than women pn average and are needed for yhe more dangerous combat roles that are harder to recruit for. Now officially the US military will allow women in combat roles, if they pass the physical standards,.which are the same for men and women. A d barely any pass and move on to combat. Right now the army has 3.8% of its combat troops to be women. The marines 2.3%. And the Rangers. .2% In the case of a large scale war, would it make sense to ask.millions of women to att…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/25 04:30 PM
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I have very little patience for this behavioral and would probably not date a woman like this. If her friends are going to be prejudice against me, than I don't want them in my life. Just like anyone that would be prejudice against me.
/r/seduction10/06/25 05:04 AM
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I was in a discussion group and a woman talked about how the male loneliness epidemic was fake but it should exist because we deserve to be alone, babies are parasites and despite being he mother she hates us for forcing women to have them, and that Elon musk is terrible. She was nice to me because she wanted to correct systemic racism (I'm black but i make over six figures and am a lead ai engineer). Yeah I don't think the left will be a good place to be a man anytime soon.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/25 12:51 AM
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I don't think this is a problem. This is just how people are. But yes. I don't talk about my feelings because no one wants to hear about them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/25 09:55 PM
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I don't think there is a male loneliness epidemic that is new. Men have always been lonely. I have always been lonely. This thing happening now is just made up for politics. Neither side has a solution. But especially democrats don't. Which is one of the many reason I am.perfectly fine with men using the loneliness epidemic to turn away from them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/25 10:42 PM
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So somehow this was recommended to me which is hilarious because I am a republican adjacent classical liberal libertarian. The left loss me a long time ago. You guys want to tax me to pay for people that don't work as hard. You want to regulate the companies that I invest in. You have made women hate me, so i will probably always be alone. You don't want to see me as a successful African American without you. And you hate the technologies i work on, that allow me to have a high income. And when …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/25 08:57 PM
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I have never paid for a coach but I think that they aren't that bad of an idea. Most of the people that criticize coaches don't criticize the effectiveness, they criticize the cost. If you have the money, then it can be worth it. I genuinely think the reason people can be so against them is because they themselves can't afford them and they are jealous that others can.
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:42 AM
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You aren't manipulating a woman as long as you are sincere. If you want a relationship, say you want a relationship. If you want sex, say you want sex. You don't have to do it overtly, but showing the correct insicators helps.
/r/seduction24/03/25 01:34 PM
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This is what happens when you tell men retarded shit like "You need to.love yourself before anylne loves you." , "The right one will come when you are not looking." or ,"Just go to the gym bro." A lot of.l dating advice is nebulous, does not involve accomplishing goals, and does not actually give specific things to shoot for. So it gets interpreted as, "I am not worthy of love until.i am perfect." And perfection is an impossible goal to achieve.
/r/seduction11/03/25 12:49 PM
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The attractiveness threshold is way higher for men since less men experience female attention. Lots of evidence for this. Look at the swipe rates on dating apps. How people treat women vs men on social media. Or how there are entire industries centered around female beauty. Also super nerdy girls are super attractive. Do you think someone like Simone Giertz or Becky Smethurst has no simps? Cmon. Being fat I get, but you are entirely in control of that.
/r/seduction07/03/25 11:48 PM
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I think i wil be more charitable to you since you are answering honestly. And I can get fired up. I am a very heartbroken person and I sometimes take that out on people, and I apologize. You seem like a decent person that wants to be happy. I also have a lot of self loathing and internalized misandry that I take out on others (one of the reasons i am undatable). I will say i am a bit unsatisfied on what you explained about what you want in a man. As I dont think loyalty is an inherent trait. I t…
/r/seduction07/03/25 11:02 PM
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I believe women above a certain attractiveness threshold have to exist and just get suitors. But women that sre frustrated with men arent cognativeky aware of men they dont like.
/r/seduction07/03/25 10:40 PM
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I mostly agree. But i dont think any guy in the friendzone is being pursued by a woman. Rather he is pursuing her but she is keeping hkm at arms length.
/r/seduction07/03/25 07:33 PM
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I dont think heterosexual women exist, as women are attracted to how we make them feel, not who we are. Most men would make amazing boyfriends. But the skills to be a good boyfriend are different than the skills to attract women. And many men that learn to attract women either have no interest in being a good boyfriend or find a good woman quickly and get taken off the market. I recognize that women have it hard. I just dont empathize with them since their situation is completely different than …
/r/seduction07/03/25 07:06 PM
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My last paragraph is to express that it is not so clear if women actually like men or if they like what we do for them. Insofar as what I can tell it is the latter. Here is the thing. As a man, I never get hit on or approached by women. Ive only been able to successfully date by showing confidence and portraying a certain false personality. And it is a massive challenge to do even that. Nothing of what I observe women being attracted to is inherent to being a man. It is just skills that we build…
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:37 PM
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Women, and most likely you, 100% want a man that is good at game. As tbe qualities those men have are attractive. What you dont want is a man that will be unfaithful. If you genuinely wanted a man that is bad at game, then were are a dime a dozen. Dating would be easy. As for why people can be hostile, i think it is because seduction for men is completely different than for women. We need to get women attracted to us. You need to keep a man. You dont benefit from learning how to daygame men. It …
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:16 PM
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Yeah as someone that ie above average size (I think top .7% depending on which data set), i have never felt rhat my dick is more or less pleasurable to a woman. I didnt even know i was eay bigger than average until i researched the science. I have never had a woman say she liked sex with ne because of my size. And women have rejected me out of fear of being hurt.
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:25 AM
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The best thing you can do to please a woman in bed is to listen to her and ask her what her likes and diskikes are while being mindful of her boundaries. That being sad. Paying attention to the clitoris and g spot also helps. Learn the angles and dont be afraid do go down on h we r. Her gfs certainly have no issue with this
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:22 AM
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Yeah but hot guys are guys that they like being app4oached by. So , if they like being aplroached by you, you are hot.
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:18 AM
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Why do you care ?
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:16 AM
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I want to.know tjis too
/r/seduction24/02/25 03:00 PM
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I just assume they are gay and also want to attract women
/r/seduction12/02/25 04:20 PM
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They arent even saying that, because , if you did, they would date you. What they are really saying is , "I want to reject you and a still feel good about myself".
/r/seduction12/02/25 01:30 PM
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yep
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:52 AM
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I cant say anything without knowing more about your situation. I think , for anyone, being good in bed requires communication. Talk to your partner. Know their desires and know their boundaries. Also readjust and update as necessary. I think if i were to advise a woman on how to be good in bed with me, i would stert with what she wants. I am a giver, and I personally love it when women enjoy themselves. Like it turns me on when they are into sex and i especially want them to like it more than me…
/r/seduction05/02/25 03:56 PM
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Be more specific and more intentional. But also position yourself as evaluating her (because you are). "I think you are gorgeous, and I'd love to see if we click. How about dinner this Friday at ~~".
/r/seduction20/01/25 06:04 PM
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Sometimes women play hard to get. Not saying this is what she is doing but I do think some level of persistence is appropriate until you get a solid NO
/r/seduction20/01/25 06:02 PM
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I am curious if anyone has used the really expensive tinder tier
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:37 PM
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Raya really? Are you a man? How much was it and what is the experience like?
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:36 PM
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The girl wanting to do this is not in your control. Approaching her, expressing attraction, and being physically compelling in the first place is. And yes you need to approach her, even if she wants you. 99% of time this is required.
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:59 PM
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Seduction, for men, is about mastering your own mindset far more than it is about worrying what is in the woman's head. I suspect the issue you are having is that you are internalizing your failures. By saying "it is all your fault" , you are owning your mistakes. The hope is that this causes you to be critical and try different things. But, sometimes ir can cause you to become discouraged. Personally I say it is OK to accept that you have feelings and understand that each rejection comes with t…
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:00 PM
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Sample size of one
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:04 PM
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Very often reddit is not about truth but what sounds good. And reddit seems to not like the very clear truth that younger women are more attractive than older women.
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:06 PM
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Younger women get more attention and that attention is very often sexual. They are less comfortable with themselves and that can make it harder for them to respond. Thus they can come off as witchy and more coarse. It is kind of fair imo. More desirable women are going to be harder to approach. It is the way of the universe.
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:05 PM
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I don't care. I still want to learn pickup
/r/seduction22/10/24 02:29 PM
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This is why I am not friends with womenni am attracted to
/r/seduction13/10/24 04:55 AM
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I personally think it is meh. My favorite convention has consistently been Fanime and also Magfest, Although the latter has a lot of women. But 100% Katsucon has the most gorgeous girls of any con. For some reason in the past 10 years it has gotten a lot of social media fame that draws them in . It is also social and still a hotel con. I think AX can have lots of girls too but it gets crowded. Some.other cons I would recommend, but haven't been to, are collolsalcon and Holiday Matsuri. The forme…
/r/seduction04/10/24 11:40 PM
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Yes. Act interested in the animes and games she likes
/r/seduction04/10/24 10:36 PM
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This is true but there are still a lot of young attractive men at these conventions so don't rely on your looks alone.
/r/seduction04/10/24 10:35 PM
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As so.eone that tried and failed from trying for a decade I think it is possible. Even if I didn't do it, I don't have rizz. Anime conventions give you access to a lot of young hot women. At night, especially, their is a lot of partying. I think it is best to do your research on which ones are like this. But Fanime, Otakon, and Katsucon would be my recommendations. Anime LA , before it moved to Ontario was also good. I also think cons that are in hotels , where the hotel offers rooms for the con…
/r/seduction04/10/24 10:35 PM
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Most of the men they are attracted to don't worry about women hating men. Food for thought.
/r/seduction22/09/24 06:09 AM
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You probably weren't assertive and masculine enough They desire you for your emotional support and don't want to ruined that by dating you. If they date you, then they risk losing this it you break up or they provide enough for you
/r/seduction20/09/24 09:39 PM
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Having zero emotional intelligence. If she has a smoking hot bod, but I don't think I can feel heard and be myself, I will not have any desire to be in a relationship
/r/seduction17/09/24 10:52 AM
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Talk to another woman. Also how did you text her if you didn't approach her?
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:20 PM
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That also works for men too. If you approach a man, and he tells you to fuck off then by all means go away. But approaching him , outside of any other context is immoral. And so it is for women. You should want more men to approach women so the women can then decide who they want and don't. This is especially true if you think most women would benefit from the company and affection of a man, especially a good one. The more men approach women, the more women will be better off.
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:01 PM
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If you are causing people to be uncomfortable for your own benefit , I would agree with you. But if you are not intending for the other person to be uncomfortable, than it is fine. You aren't in control of other peoples' feelings and them dictating you what to do in a space everyone has equal access to would make them an asshole.
/r/seduction14/09/24 07:32 PM
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I'm not concerned with you in the context of this conversation. I'm talking to men that aren't rapists and this aren't of any danger to you. If anything you should want these men to approach you as you would be safer in their company. Unless you think every man is a rapist , which is factually incorrect (it isn't even close) and deeply sexist.
/r/seduction14/09/24 07:31 PM
1

Easily
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:58 PM
1

You did. Which is your real issue. You have to solve your approach anxiety and be more confident, which is what 90% of the men here must also do. The good news is it possible
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:37 AM
2

Why do you want to approach a woman from a car instead of on the street or in any other way. Personally I say to get out of the car and talk to her. Try to not make it seem like you are picking up a prostitute by showing genuine interest in her. This is pretty 99 % similar to other approaches . And , in some senses, it will be better because you will have better.logistics
/r/seduction13/09/24 11:56 PM
1

There is a way. Do you think that no one has ever done this?
/r/seduction13/09/24 11:55 PM
2

I think people that believe this are either. Poor and cheap Malevolent towards men Projecting because they found it easy to be attractive and they think other men will have just an easy time
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:29 PM
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You can game women while being kind to them. The issue is not being kind. It is being entitled. Don't expect a good woman 's attraction because you are nice you will have to provide something else.
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:26 PM
1

You don't have a good response to me do you. Give me a good reason why you can not talk to a woman in a situation where you could talk to a man.
/r/seduction13/09/24 07:04 AM
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Can you talk to a man in a dark parking lot? Then you can talk to a woman. They aren't special.
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:54 AM
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Women have no greater or worse moral value then men . Which means that if it is an appropriate situation to approach a man , or even an ugly woman, it is appropriate to approach a hot woman. This includes the gym, the subway (when the doors are closed), on the street , in dark parking lots, and on long elevator rides. Not only should you approach these women for your sake but also their sake . If you are a good man a woman will more than likely benefit from your company. And it is on them to rej…
/r/seduction12/09/24 12:05 AM
1

How do you do it without thinking about it? Aren't we thinking about it right now? How do you think about not thinking?
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:10 PM
0

Because it involves emotions. And people can become attached to those they have sex with. I personally want to have sex with a lot of different women (as a man) but , if I was in a committed relationship, I'd be exclusive.
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:43 PM
2

Lol this place used to be better but it has become full of blackpilled crabs in a bucket. Anyway. Way to go man.
/r/seduction28/08/24 12:42 PM
1

Nice man. Thank you for posting this story and giving us hope
/r/seduction28/08/24 12:41 PM
3

Funny. I have been an impromptu magic mike for women at night clubs. That movie made my life awesome. But yeah. It is rare for me to get female attention. I think, when I was better looking, I was very young. So that did a lot. I still work out, but I don't have the body I used to. I am way more muscular now, but kind of stocky. I wish i had a slender kpop like physique. But that is whatever. personality is way more important IMO.
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:17 AM
0

For day game yeah. Night game slightly easier, but it also involves logistics. People here post about doing it all the time.
/r/seduction28/08/24 02:58 AM
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Would you say it improved your confidence, or did women approach you out of nowhere? I used to be a model and I am not bad but I have never had women approach me. So I have never bought the whole "Just workout and everything will be fine." Idea. I think exercise makes you better than a lot of men and can help with self esteem but it isn't the only thing one should do.
/r/seduction27/08/24 11:36 PM
2

Agree on everything but I think you are overselling the importance of getting fit. It is great but it is not a panacea.
/r/seduction27/08/24 08:34 PM
14

Start off with easy and go hard. Level zero would be to start up a conversation with a woman that you can have with literally anyone else and are not flirting. Asking about the weather, time, or directions. If you want to practice this, you can even talk to people that are not attractive women. Level one would be innocent compliment. Her shoes, or clothes, even hairstyle. You can even have the excuse that your sister or mother likes the same thing. Level 2 would be a conversation. Try to talk to…
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:01 PM
1

I am with you on online dating. It can be the worst but it can be viable. Well what made you stop l? It feels like you had some kind of event or emotional blocks that made dating not worth it. How many approaches were you doing it have you ever done? Was it, say, 100 a week?
/r/seduction27/08/24 05:41 PM
1

How are you cold approaching? How often are you doing it and what are your results? Also tell me more how warm approaching is going? And what are your experiences with groups? I personally don't believe in online dating but how you to date is your profile? Have you gotten it reviewed?
/r/seduction27/08/24 04:59 PM
1

an approach here and there looks like what? How many approaches are you doing per week? And what is your method?
/r/seduction27/08/24 04:57 PM
2

Bro what have you actually tried?
/r/seduction27/08/24 04:29 PM
3

Keep telling yourself this . The easiest way of getting such a pipeline to is put in effort. Most men don't do this , which is why it does not happen.
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:45 PM
3

We are not here because we are "the vast majority of men". We are here to improve our dating lives. And this is completely feasible, if you put in the effort.
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:43 PM
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Your problem is that you actually care about this. You should have a pipeline of women available to you so that's when this happens you can easily switch to another.
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:18 PM
1

People say this not because they want to help you but because they don't want to listen to you talk about your dating problems
/r/seduction26/08/24 07:10 PM
2

I think physical attraction is , at most , 20% of total attraction. And physical attraction can include dress well and good hygiene.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:54 PM
19

humble brag
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:52 AM
3

I am just really awkward and full of anxiety. I also signal low confidence.
/r/seduction04/08/24 11:04 PM
1

I just say thank you and assume nothing further
/r/seduction04/08/24 04:13 PM
1

Look up literature on AMOG defense. The key is to be more reactive to her than him. The other thing is to just not get so fixated on one woman.
/r/seduction03/08/24 04:08 PM
1

Fair but that is more than me. How do you respond? Have you looked up compelling messages you could send?
/r/seduction29/07/24 06:59 PM
9

You get matches on hinge?
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:50 AM
2

I was. And I went to many of RSDs seminars
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:46 AM
1

Pickup was never mainstream. And there is nothing wrong with starting a business to help men. They just later branched out to help everyone. And there are still people that run pickup businesses. And don't be a commie
/r/seduction28/07/24 02:20 AM
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Disagree. There are many excellent PUA's like Todd Valentine. And we need the idea much more than ever.
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:50 AM
1

In this case I say increase your numbers and have a better vetting process for women. Make sure that, after she dates you, she sees you with friends .
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:34 PM
1

Not really if you are attractive physically but if you have good pictures and a good profile. The two correlate but they are not the same.
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:18 PM
3

I actually self sabotage a lot. I just have it in me that I am unattractive so I ruin any chance I have and I certainly don't put in any effort. Reje tion is just something far too painful and I don't want to experience it ever again.
/r/seduction01/07/24 12:14 AM
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A lot of women I know prefer acoustic men because the sound quality degrades when you convert to digital.
/r/seduction18/06/24 12:09 AM
1

If you can't pull by being yourself, you are going to have to change. There is no way around this, as the world does not revolve around you.
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:40 AM
4

Why are people like this
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:58 PM
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Yeah a lot of people have crabs in a bucket syndrome. They see others improving and tell those people that that positive change is inauthentic. You can see them here in this subreddit. It is pretty disgusting.
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:37 AM
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Not only is it not wrong. It is probably the most moral thing you can do. If you don't like your life, you will have to change. If we all did this, in aggregate, the world would be better.
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:32 AM
4

A lot of.people say that changing yourself is faking.
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:31 AM
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It is terrible advice and people that give it want you to fail.
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:44 PM
1

The System by Todd Valentine. He's not asian, but he is the best
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:42 PM
2

Yes
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:53 AM
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The only people that believe this are the ones that are bad at it. I had a coworker that specialed in baristas and waiters. He accomplished this by making conversation and.getting them to like him
/r/seduction27/05/24 12:50 AM
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not really When you are doing approaches properly, women won't know you are doing them. No one will. All of the fear is in your head.
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:08 PM
9

You can 100% still do this
/r/seduction26/03/24 01:39 PM
5

Rejection HURTS. I can't just recover from it easily like some men. It sticks with me for days, months, even years in some cases. Public embarassment and fearing for my safety if security or a cop is near by. Rumors. She could talk about me to her friends. Being publicly shamed online The nagging of my insecurities telling me they are right. Even if the approach goes well, I still have to talk to her. Did I mention rejection hurts?
/r/seduction21/02/24 09:14 PM
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Glad to know no woman has liked me ever
/r/seduction21/01/24 03:44 AM
9

30 plus high earning woman are not attractive at all. Personally I am barely attracted to women over 25. And I want to lead in a relationship, and I can pay for most things myself as I have a good income. I get nothing from dating a woman with money, except potential headaches.
/r/seduction27/12/23 04:11 PM
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I can relate to you. Let me ask you something. Do you yearn for validation? Do you take the bullying that people have given to you, over the years, and just repeat it? If so, you could possibly be subjecting yourself to confirmation bias. It could be, and in fact is likely the acse that many women are attracted to you. But, you would never notice or believe them, because you have those deeply painful memories already in you. These memories are going to shape your world view, and warp your percep…
/r/seduction20/12/23 06:36 PM
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I don't think this belongs here to be honest. This is not going to help other men date.
/r/seduction18/12/23 04:22 PM
1

Its funny because, realizing your sticking point, getting suggestions, not getting stuck in analysis paralysis, is exactly what coaches are for. HMM.
/r/seduction04/11/22 06:11 AM
1

Women ARENT' helpful. we agree! If it is any saving grace. I'm happy with a lot of other things. I'm just horny af and that sucks. Man If prostitution were legal we so wouldn't be having this conversation. As usual most things could be solved with #Capitalism
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:33 PM
1

It tickles me that you are trying to justify your relationships with men. And especially that you believe you are in command of your own thoughts. Look up cognative biases. Confirmation bias, selection bias, survivorhsip bias, etc. etc. I bet you will quickly find many biases that describe your own behaviour. I bet you are actually questioning how good your relationships with men are and if your assumptions about them are true. And you are probably thinking, in the back of your heard, that maybe…
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:07 PM
1

I think you are missing the point. I'm clearly a fat ugly sack of shit right now, but I'll work on it and be a chad in the future. I'm like a lowly startup that will soon become a great FAANG company. I'd much rather learn from a PUA coach , who has a track record of teaching people how to pickup women. Than a woman who doesn't. If you think you do. Actually try and do it. Like seriously. Take a genuine newb who has difficulty with women, and see if you can get them laid. And laid with someone d…
/r/seduction08/10/20 04:36 PM
1

You broke down what YOU thought are helpful but you aren't listening. Here is the thing. We agree on something. Like I super agree that more men should seek therapy and improve their mental health. Although I don't agree in self love. Self love is BS peddled by instagram girls to virtue signal and appear to have a nicer life than they do. I stg, everyone I know on that self love train never climbs out of depression because they think by announcing to everyone how confident they are, they solve t…
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:50 AM
1

Actually another rant why on why dating advice from women is USELESS for men. You imagine us as ideal men. You think that we are able to be stoic, hide our emotions, be assertive, and be confident. You think it just "Comes" for us. Well I got news Jessica. It DOESNT. Men are effing HUMAN BEINGS. We have feelings. We have fears. We doubt ourselves. WE get scared. You can't just expect us to be like Thor Odinson or Jimin . Some of us arne't funny. Some of us are weird. Like do you know what it fee…
/r/seduction07/10/20 03:36 AM
1

Ok so you are right. I'm a fat ugly loser with nothing going on for me. And I really should change that. I won't disagree with that. I have a ways to go. I've read plans such as models and a bunch of PUA stuff. Gosh I've read and understand a ton, although I could understand more. The issue isn't the plan, it is the motivation. As for the whole "trying to dissuade us". Its annoying as sin since you wanting us to be in relationships offers nothing for us and everything for you. You don't know me.…
/r/seduction07/10/20 03:22 AM
1

You wrote another response about how "most men on this sub just want a nice gf and they need to be themselves.". So I don't know how long you've been around here but that isnt at all what this sub is about. This sub is about teaching men to be as seductive and to attract as many women as possible. Now what they do with that is up to them. They can sleep with a bunch of women or not. They can get into a LTR or not. It doesn't matter either way as it is their choice. I think most men want options.…
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:55 AM
1

How brene brown of you
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:00 AM
0

Talk about meteors.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:37 PM
2

Most men aren't sleeping with a ton of women. Most men just get the first woman they find and then use marriage to stay together. Most men have a scarcity of women and end up in miserable normal relationships. Also, who wants to be normal. Dating and sleeping with the most beautiful women isn't something every guy is going to do. Nor do they deserve to. It is going to take work, traning, and effort to acheive. If you want to spend money to get ahead do so. Now I am big on personal finacne and no…
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:52 PM
4

r/thanksimcured
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:58 PM
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Welp was just on the phone with my mom and she told me to bottle up my feelings and not show them to people. Fuck vulnerability.
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:06 PM
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Ok so I saw him watch another video and I wasn't a fan. He interviewed an "incel" and said that PUA isn't how normal people men meet women and that it would bever be successful. But that is pretty much the point. If you are trying something not other men are doing that is exactly HOW you become succesful. I think the psychologist doesn't like the idea of pickup and is sex negative, and I support guys that want to be better PUAs to go to therapy. Pick up is psychologically and emotionally drainin…
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:51 PM
2

Todd V's paid content is better in all honesty. At 150$, it is worth it.
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:48 PM
3

downvote!
/r/seduction05/10/20 07:47 PM
1

I'm not judging them. I am one. And I know how they think. Far better than you. What is crazy is that convincing gullible women like you that we actually care about how is how the best PUAs can actually sleep with so many of you. Here is the thing. Anytime you talk to a woman about the guys they fuck, they never say that the dude met them intentionally. But did you ever think that maybe they did. Maybe many of those "natural" men, that are so charming and suave, just practiced a lot? The thing i…
/r/seduction03/10/20 02:28 AM
1

Ok so I am assuming you are a woman. None of the men you dated, or had sexual experiences, you were aware were shallow. Indeed many of them were. In fact, more then likely, most of them were. However, how they behaved around you isn't indicative of how they truly thought or felt. You want proof of this, if a guy approaches you in a club, and you quickly "connect" or whatever. And that connection results in you sleeping together. Once you feel safe, go through his phone, and look at how he's talk…
/r/seduction03/10/20 01:41 AM
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I'm incredibly shallow but I am also bad with girls. Still though. The point of this subreddit is to bang as many smoking hot girls as possible. You can't do that by throwing that out as your first step.
/r/seduction02/10/20 10:08 PM
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This is true but you will also get girls that are uglier. Also. in my experience, the best PUAs can still only want to date smoking hot girls while still evaluating them for other qualities besides looks. In fact, qualifying the women are really great ways of attracting them more.
/r/seduction02/10/20 09:49 PM
4

The challenge is acting confident
/r/seduction02/10/20 02:03 PM
2

You basically you are calling me ugly. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:55 PM
2

I am triggered . I suck
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:21 AM
1

The problem with a lot of this "So it can happen." stories is that while, "It can happen.". It doesn't mean its likely to happen.
/r/seduction22/09/20 02:24 PM
1

Then we are going to have to learn how to recognize their signs.and behaviours . BUT that is seduction
/r/seduction20/09/20 09:07 PM
1

If that was the case than why learn seduction? If women put effort into attractive us, even a little bit, this process would be so much easier.
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:04 PM
2

But what are the mechanics of this exactly? I am going to be doing all of the work. So how is it her responsibility to attract me? In what universe do women have to pick us up? At any point she can just stop talking to me and get another man. It isn't like I'm special.
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:28 AM
18

yeah but you are not likely to find this person. And your standards change with time
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:37 PM
2

right but i still need her to like me
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:37 PM
3

Yep! This is why I don't have as many female friends. At least I don't get as close to them as my male friends. I'd rather not catch feelings for them. I also get annoyed when a female friend say, "Well why can't you be friends with women. Do you hate them?". No I don't hate them. In fact, I love them and that is the problem. ITs far too easy for me to friend a woman, and not have those feelings reciprocated. I'm not a friend of being hurt. Esp. since showing women the kind of attention and kind…
/r/seduction31/08/20 02:12 AM
1

How do you have trouble meeting guys. You sound amazing. I am jealous of the guys you are interested in. But you said you aren't into guys like me. eh well.
/r/seduction21/08/20 02:31 PM
1

Work on nonverbal communication but be obvious. Smile, sit close, wave. Be really forward and persistant. Don't know what else to say.
/r/seduction21/08/20 02:30 PM
1

This is the conundrum of dating. In one sense you need to portray a confident person of value to attract a woman, but you can't be too distant lest you seem unauthentic. The more you show who you really are, the more chances you get for her to reject you. It is something similiar for them too. And yes. The chance of her ultimately not connecting with you and rejecting you entirely is real. But you don't get the better connection without taking this chance.
/r/seduction19/08/20 09:07 PM
2

Not really. Why would it be sarcasm? You said you haven't shown her the real you. That is a sign of a lack of vulnerability. Part of being more intimate with someone is showing who you really are.
/r/seduction19/08/20 08:25 PM
1

Sounds like you aren't vulnerable enough.
/r/seduction19/08/20 07:42 PM
3

What is your career like vs hers? What are your future goals? How well do they align? If I could take a stab, when she thinks of where she wants to go in life, she just doesn't see you in them. There could be a lot of things. Are you valuable to her outside of sex? Could you meet her parents? Are you responsible? etc. etc.
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:14 PM
1

It is good to hear that. I have actually been feeling a lot of sexual shame lately. From all of these articles of asshole men that can't take rejection to the many asexuals in my life. Feeling sexual desire just increasingly feels like something I should hide and not show anyone. And I am a man.
/r/seduction10/08/20 09:41 PM
2

Totally. And we need to support the women that are willing to reject us by taking said rejection as well as possible.
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:34 AM
1

So that is the thing right. Part of pick up is the tension. Is being man to woman. You can't ignore or tip toe or around. This is why so much dating advice for men SUCKS. So many people want to do the nice and comfortable thing and avoid issues. In reality, we need to do things that are scary and uncomfortable. Similiarly that is why I don't really think articles like this belong here. By far the easiest thing to do is be nice and take rejections easily. The hard part to do is muster up enough s…
/r/seduction07/08/20 05:46 AM
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This is well and good . But, regardless, you still should approach. I worry that articles like this serve to dismay men vs encourage them, and a lot of guys here need encouragement.
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:25 AM
5

This would be excellent advice if i could get to this stage. Which i can't
/r/seduction04/08/20 07:17 PM
3

If they just want to bang you and lose interest. Isn't that the goal?
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:34 AM
9

I don't feel like an Expert but thank you. The field of GIS is so vast and I care more about modeling and machine learning. I am sure you have a lot to contribute to the field as well! I bet you could teach me something.
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:33 PM
4

welp I stopped lifting weights but I do bodyweight exercises several times a week. None of this matters since I don't have confidence.
/r/seduction21/07/20 06:04 AM
22

Machine Learning Engineer. I write python code to train machine learning models on satellite imagery. I gave 5 talks about this at various meetups in 2019 which sucked up a ton of time. Even when I am not doing that, I study statistical methods and read research papers. I also have side projects. And hobbies like nerf and cosplay (which I rarely actually get to indulge in).
/r/seduction21/07/20 05:41 AM
22

I make six figures and always have shit to do and girls don't think I am attractive.
/r/seduction21/07/20 05:25 AM
1

Real talk . I think if you can continue to work up the nerve to do approaches, that you should get a wing man or a coach to ask for help and improve. You will always get better if you improve.
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:45 PM
3

Do 1000
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:16 PM
2

In almost every case I dated a woman, I knew them a couple of days before asking them out. And I definately never really got to know them or had an extended conversation before our first date. Also, honestly, I never truly knew them in the same way I know my friends. I pretty much just crafted a personality that was more confident, charming, and less cavalier than I really am to get them attracted to me. Women that I have true deep meaningful conversations with. Or that I have known for years. O…
/r/seduction16/07/20 12:45 AM
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My experience is everytime I start off as friends with a woman, they just write off my masculinity and think of me as gay or a brother. So when I ask them out, it never works. Dunno what you are doing differently. Maybe you aren't needy? Maybe you can naturally get women attracted to you. But not all of us are like this. Its definately been the case for me that the more women get to know me, the less the are attracted to me .
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:56 PM
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Man wouldn't be great if someone, who is an expert could write some material about this? Perhaps in the form of some kind of book
/r/seduction02/07/20 02:09 AM
4

Unfortunantely I think you are just going to have to accept that not everyone will get what they want. I actually think this is a part of self development. Too many guys are out here trying to please everybody and make everyone feel good. Going down that path means you will never be confident. At some point you are going to have to know that you are doing the right thing, even if some people don't like it. And I think cold approach is part of that. You know what gets me? How we debate if its ok …
/r/seduction26/06/20 02:20 PM
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You have to consider context. This is a subreddit where guys come to get advice on how to seduce and attract women. The fact that this subreddit exists is a sign that attraction is something you need to train for, for men. Part of that training is overcoming your own fears and anxieties. So coming here and telling all of these men, many of whom struggle with being afraid of rejection, that you feel uncomfortable being cold approached, i don't thikn helps them achieve their gold. Now I do think i…
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:49 PM
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I have never col approached as I am afraid of freaking you guys out. But here is my perspective. I kind of hate to say this. But us approaching you .... isn't about you. Any guy that approaches you has heard 1000 accounts of women being approached by creeppy men. Basically every women I have ever met has told me this, including my mother. But these women don't really have solutions for how to successfully meet them. I literally get advice that says, "The way to meet women is to know when to not …
/r/seduction26/06/20 01:12 AM
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I think some of the negative responses come from the experiences many men, including me, have of being "respectful" with women and having that not result in dates or sex. I feel like these experiences are far more common than what you resulted. And it does make sense. You need to compel a woman to like you or give her some form of value besides your kindness. Most of us struggle with that. But, that being said, recognizing boundries and showing non neediness is important. I think many in the sed…
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:25 PM
5

There are takeaways from this post that people seem to ignore. You do want to show confidence and assertiveness, but you don't want to be pushy. Show women you want them but not that you need them. If they feel like they can trust you, they will be more comfortable with you, and more vulnerable.
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:08 PM
1

I do question how much of a bad thing this is. I haven't really had women try to get to know the real me. If I am a provider at least that is just one thing to work on.
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:24 AM
2

The thing is it takes some practice to be able to learn body language. Doesn't happen overnight. Unfortunately, this is just how things are. Men are going to have to do some level of opening women and many will be awkward about it. Its up to us to still be respectful though.
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:22 AM
4

Man it has been 8 years since I had my last gf shit.
/r/seduction08/06/20 03:53 AM
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I agree but just chill dude. No one is taking this that seriously. It is meant to be wholesome and uplifting.
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:31 AM
157

HE fucked the moon
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:18 AM
35

omfg you gotta see this scene in context. They were already pretty much in love when this happened.
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:18 AM
7

I've actually found that , as I grow older, I am attracted to fewer women so this is easier. I actually feel a bit demisexual now in that I really need to get to know a woman to be attracted to her. That being said. If Emily Ratajowski or Jennifer Lawrence wanted to hit it. I would hit it.
/r/seduction24/05/20 02:45 PM
6

I think the big incongruency between Hollywood and RL is how often the protagonist just tells the woman he likes her or he "wins her over" and she "converts" to liking him. In my own dealings with woman, they start out liking you. Or, if they come to like you, it is not clear as to why. The notion that there is a set number of things you can do to get a girl to like you is false. Rather, you have to be prepared to deal with some level of randomness. Either open As for "the friend zone". I heard …
/r/seduction24/05/20 01:14 PM
6

It took me a long time to understand this as a guy. But men really don't have the experience of someone liking them and then having that be a lie to fuck them. We are just so often not pursued purely for sex that if someone likes us, we just assume they like us. The drawback is that sex is never handed to us. We have to earn it. So if we were to find ourselves in a situation where someone wanted to have sex with us, we are more likely to take it enthusiastically. Even if we aren't particularly a…
/r/seduction24/05/20 01:06 PM
3

I can't get over this. If I am happy alone why would I want to bang girls?
/r/seduction23/05/20 04:33 AM
2

They changed their content from dating to self development. Why? I don't know.
/r/seduction22/05/20 05:48 PM
1

I am not an expert at this but, in my experience the more you close with a woman, the less likely she stays interested. Always leave her wanting more. So it may often be disadvantageous to close with a kiss.
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:58 PM
1

Couple of things. It seems like you had some pretty bad self defeating thoughts and those held you back. You immediately dismissed anyone over 5'10" and searched for a reason that their advice wouldn't apply. I suspect that would hurt you. The PUA bootcamp is interesting and I am sorry to hear that. I have always wanted to go to one myself but eventually decided not to. PArt of pickup is strengthening relationships with your friends, improving mental health, and improving fitness. I wonder if th…
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:05 PM
1

Man of us don't have common sense. What seems obvious to you only does so because you have experience.
/r/seduction10/05/20 10:11 AM
1

I guess, for the next 4 years, I will do squats and dip my face in acid. Besides, women aren't attracted to youth , they are attracted to confidence. I've met so many 20 y/os that love men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Look at how many women thirst over Jeff Goldblum
/r/seduction06/05/20 02:04 PM
2

I agree it is harder to maintain. The only barrier I have is not having enough time though. haha.
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:08 AM
1

Your only as old as you feel!
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:08 AM
1

You know I am 33 and am really not so concerned with younger women not liking me because of age. And yeah I agree a lot of women my age are looking for mature long term shit and that is not what I am about unless certain conditions are met. As for financial responsibilities? Sort of? I have way more money now than I ever did.
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:07 AM
1

Interesting. I am 33 and still look the same and have yet to lose a lot of energy but I also workout a lot. I haven't had my friends settle but I just keep trying to make young friends. Harder since I am so busy though.
/r/seduction06/05/20 08:06 AM
0

I like all of this. Tell me something. I have a certain social group I want to be higher profile in. I would love to host parties and get girls that way. Any advice? Lets say this group is centered around one of my geeky interests and can be very large. I am not well known but i do have some people that know me. There is a lot of drama so i have been careful so far. But I am trying to think of a way of doing better and building strong connections with people . Both because I do want stronger fri…
/r/seduction05/05/20 09:04 PM
1

Why does being in your 30s matter?
/r/seduction05/05/20 09:01 PM
1

Welp guess I am not a real man
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:56 PM
6

I'm pretty masculine and I've noticed a general lack of attraction the less I talk. Which sucks since I like to talk. Women like me a whole lot more than they like a lot of men, but the same way they like a pet or a little brother. It is what it is. I wish I could just be stoic and talk less, but its super hard.
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:58 PM
2

I completely agree now if I could only find a soul tribe.
/r/seduction07/04/20 03:18 AM
1

Why did they stop with dating? It isn't like its bad to offer dating advice. Did I miss something. I have went to two of their live shows and they were way more packed when it was dating.
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:04 PM
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Just bought Todd V's course. I wanted to. It seems higher quality than anything out there. And I would so get coaching if it works out. I really want a coach because having someone in my corner could help with motivation. Another big factor. I have a lot of extra money. So me paying for something isn't a big deal .
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:02 PM
1

I mean I still like them but damn if it isn't hard to actually talk with them. I genuinely try too.
/r/seduction15/03/20 12:37 AM
15

Not only that but men, if they take care of themselves, can stay attractive into their 50s an 60s although, at that point, being attractive is about things other than looks. I am 33 and I am finding i like 30 - 40 year old women but for different reasons. E.G. I actually want a relationship with them since i am intersted in them more as a whole. Younger women are just less interesting and don't have as much to explor
/r/seduction14/03/20 08:27 AM
1

Yeah but like you gotta understand that every guy is going after the same hot young attractive women. If you look at women that aren't in this category, which is most of them, things aren't so different. It is 'hard' for men to make it on dating apps. But a lot of men need to own up to the reality that what they want is going to take effort. The good news is that not many men actually put in this effort.
/r/seduction02/03/20 01:55 PM
1

Sample size of one dude.
/r/seduction02/03/20 01:53 PM
2

It is what it is. The market for women is competitive. I just see it as you must work to get the girls you want.
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:20 PM
1

I love you. You are awesome. Keep at it and you can get better. I am so fucking rooting for you.
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:46 PM
1

I support you man. People that have this mindset will severly reduce the amount of women they get.
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:45 PM
5

Yeah. I think this matters because often time men get into this cycle of self doubt and think we aren't good enough for the girl. No. We aren't good enough for the girls we like. Big difference.
/r/seduction21/02/20 02:07 PM
20

Yeah but men often don't consider unnattractive women as women.
/r/seduction20/02/20 11:24 PM
21

Be wary of the cognative bias here. A lot of bragging and a lot of inflated numbers. Also a lot of the most succesful men bragging. You are on your own journey. Keep at it. My results are way worse than yours. I basically get nothing. And I worry a lot about my appearance at 33.
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:15 AM
1

Lol just let them stay salty. More girls for us.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:55 AM
1

NEVER GIVE UP.
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:00 AM
1

Yeah I crave intimacy. Sexual of course but also just touching, hand holding, cuddling. Honestly I have sucha strong desire i don't mind if it comes from men, even though I don't consider myself gay or want to sleep with men (doens't stop a lot of people from forming their own opinions). Anyway. I have a lot of things I enjoy. I don't know if I'm good at any of them. I mean. I am good at coding, math, and dance. Women are only interested in 1 of those. Was really good at physics but couldn't fin…
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:00 AM
1

Currently, I am in a rut of not being social, but in my history, I have done a lot of activities involving women. Sports, dance, ice skating, sewing, snowboarding, etc. etc. I don't feel like I have a problem being in the same vicinity as women, even in a social setting. Progressing to dating is the issue. It isn't like women really take the first move so the onus is often on me. And it just works terribly so very often. Most of the time, if I get close to the women she will be taken or gay. It …
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:21 AM
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I think about this a lot. But I am too afraid. It kind of burns me up since, at 33, I feel my youth slipping away. But I just can't with women. Don't know what to do really.
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:10 AM
1

I've thought about this for a while but I ..... just can't.
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:55 AM
1

Dude I am 33 and haven't started . You are 21. It is rough and takes time to build up the skills. Stay in there.
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:51 AM
3

We all have bad sets. He looks really young in that video so it is probably from when he is less experienced.
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:48 AM
1

What is wrong with Todd V?
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:44 AM
1

I agree .... sort of. Anyway. Flirting isn't easy for many of us. So learning techniques helps a LOT.
/r/seduction07/01/20 03:02 AM
0

She could have asked before hand. I have had that happen where girls will ask guys to protect them. Then, in the heat of the moment, find themselves attracted to a guy. Often times people just fall prey to emotions, women especially.
/r/seduction05/01/20 09:55 AM
1

I mean I haven't been laid since forever as I am. So I def have to do something right?
/r/seduction03/01/20 06:06 AM
2

As a guy I can totally relate to how OP feels. It happens to me all the time everytime I see a pretty girl. Its an emotion. A wave of feeling that screams at us that we must do something to get her number, get a date, get her as a gf, or even have sex with her. I feel like those that don't feel this way either don't get this emotion that much, are in commited relationships themselves, or aren't around people they are attracted to. But it is normal. As for "interactions are not won or lost". You …
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:46 PM
3

I think the issue is, when we imagine girls picking us up, we imagine smoking hot confident girls doing it. Normal, kind of weird, awkward girls not so much. This video sort of showed that. I think each one of the girls was attractive and I would date them under the right conditions, but the conditions must be right.
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:10 AM
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I have actually slid into many girls dms and gotten, at least conversations. Not saying they led to anything. The key was I stayed within something we both had a strong interest in and I talked to girls with under 10000 followers. Actually one girl i have been talking a lot to and that is because i changed my account from my egirl only account to my main one. I told her she was so interesting that i wanted to talk to her normal person to normal person. And it is interetsing since she posts all t…
/r/seduction22/12/19 07:38 AM
1

I can relate but i do not think this is because of looks. It can often be because of how you appear socially. Women are often attracted to confidence and leadership. If you are quiet, reseved, or if a lot of guys are making fun of you, that shows you aren't any of those things. This happens to me a LOT, including with guys that appear to be my "friends".
/r/seduction21/12/19 07:07 PM
1

I am not. This is theory. Knowing what to do and implementing it in practice are two very different thing.
/r/seduction08/12/19 07:52 AM
1

Shit test is playing mind games to test their confidence. If you do this you will just piss them off and come off as a "Genuine" asshole. Women shit test us without realizing it. They do it so they can actually be attracted to us. For us to do it would be unnatural and obvious to them. Qualifying them is stating that you are interested but you won't let your interest or their attractiveness put them on a pedestal. By qualifying you are seeing if they have qualities and values that you would appr…
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:45 AM
1

Thank you for this
/r/seduction05/12/19 07:51 AM
11

dont shit test. Qualify
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:58 PM
1

you are way better than me sir
/r/seduction09/11/19 05:12 AM
0

It won't. But I still want to do it.
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:44 PM
25

I love kind women. What are you talking about. I just think it is kind of weird when they are too needy and agreeable. Esp. if they are hot. Its like. Why would they spend time with me when they could find someone else easy.
/r/seduction01/11/19 06:08 AM
1

I am myself. I am shy and I cant talk to girls. It is working super well.
/r/seduction06/10/19 09:00 PM
2

Thoughts on age. I am AA, 175 pounds. I am honestly in a rough spot emotionally so I just can't deal with dating. But I am also 32 and haven't been in the game since forever. I am trying to give myself just one more year to get my shit together but it is clear that time is of the essence. ​ You know it kills me a bit that I have known about pick up for over a decade and never really done anything about it. I am afraid i'll never progress but my clock is ticking. And I ain't getting any younger.
/r/seduction05/09/19 04:17 AM
2

I have. I know all the theory but I don't have the confidence.
/r/seduction28/08/19 03:03 AM
1

I been in this subreddit for years. And have not progressed. Unfortunately
/r/seduction28/08/19 02:16 AM
3

That makes no sense. To have approached you must have put in some effort right? This effort constituted a decision. That decision is a "try". Even if it was an easy decision or a decision that you did not have ot think about, it is still a decision. For those of us with a lot of self doubt it isn't easy to make that decision effortless, unless we practice.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:28 PM
1

I am lost. You approached. So you tried. Wouldn't not trying be to ... not approach? I think maybe you weren't nervous so it didn't feel like much effort. And that is impressive. But, getting to that point is pretty difficult.
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:54 PM
8

exercise, diet, and skincare my dude. I can't wait to be 40s. And attractiveness is in your head. Lot of young girls swoon over 40s and 50s year old men.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:56 PM
1

A lot also settle down with the first woman that likes them because they do not have the confidence to stay in the game. This is why I can't get behind the getting married is the ideal outcome line of thought. It can be great for some but a lot of married men are miserable. ​ At work the other day many of my coworkers lamented that if they were single again they would not know what to do. And just. Dunno seemed kind of sad.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:25 PM
3

They have made teaching men how to meet women their life's purpose. I think of them as mentors and motivators more than anything.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:22 PM
1

Going out to wild parties all the time seems like an awesome way to live.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:10 PM
7

Jeffy is what 44 and is still running game? He actually gave me hope since I would so love ot do pickup for a decade at 32. Honestly some of us just don't want kids, wife, etc. The option to stay dating and meet beautiful women for as long as possible is pretty exciting. Wouldn't really want it any other way. Also the nice thing about the single life .... its cheap.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:09 PM
15

You and I both know that this isn't true. People just have more options and are behaving as such. But hey. You have more options. So use them to find someone you are really compatible with.
/r/seduction18/08/19 12:06 PM
2

The be confident thing is so hard tho
/r/seduction14/08/19 02:12 PM
3

He probably is. There are different schools of thought for game. And whichever one works best for you is the one that you go by. I think the school of thought is only as good as its ability to relate to the student. I relate more to todd so that is why i go with him.
/r/seduction10/08/19 09:59 PM
8

He is ex RSD and teaches practical dating without all of their bullshit.
/r/seduction10/08/19 06:36 PM
5

This is me. Do not know what to do.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:01 AM
1

lpt. If you compliment a girl, be specific, and don't necessarily go for her looks. Compliment her in a way that makes her feel empowered and accomplished. Some easy areas to go for are. - Hair style. - Fashion - Accessories. - Makeup - Books she's carrying - Any clues to her hobbies or likes. Such as organizations she is apart of, games or movies she might have a logo for, or sports she is interesting in. - Context. Is she going anywhere interesting? Is she doing anything notable? Compliment he…
/r/seduction06/08/19 09:15 AM
1

What kind of response are you getting?
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:38 PM
3

Engineers dont get laid at all
/r/seduction25/04/19 01:14 PM
1

Probably less for MIT, Caltech, and Stanford if we are to be real.
/r/seduction25/04/19 12:33 PM
1

I literally just got rejected a second ago. Glad I saw this.
/r/seduction17/04/19 06:27 AM
5

This really means that if you have a life you will be more interesting to women if you happen to meet them. But i you are just walking on the street or soemthing it won't help you. If you are in a new club where you are unfamiliar it won't help you. Basically this is just saying to have social circle game, but it only works in your social circle. People that recommend this are imagining guys that are popualr and are assuming they get lots of women, maybe they do, but they also have to ride subwa…
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:38 PM
2

I have had a decent amount of women come up to me. They don't really have to do much or say anything special. They just need to show a bit of interest in me and say...something. I would love to meet women in bars or rather book stores but often i must take the initiative. And i never do. I think if a woman is proactive, kind, shows interest in me, is upfront about being attracted to me, and has interests and passions herself. I'd go for her.
/r/seduction08/04/19 11:32 PM
3

Look up crabs in a bucket. It is a common occurence. When you experience success and others get jealous, they will try to pull you back. They feel that, instead of trying to do better them selves they should bring you down. Good job with doing better. I am interested in RSD but still am dealing with inner game issues myself. Do you have any suggestions on where to start with them? I was thinking of actually starting with todd v's course.
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:43 PM
1

Oh gosh ty for your offer. O dont know this is sort of a feeling thing. And emotions arent rational.
/r/seduction31/03/19 10:23 PM
1

I'm afraid. I don't think they want to meet us on the street, or in the subway. Or anywhere. Also low self esteem with regards to my looks, clothes, body, and face.
/r/seduction31/03/19 05:46 PM
0

Oh gosh it happens to me all the time. I have had women make out with me on the dance floor. I am sort of over it though. I wish i could just get to know them better and take them home. And i am getting older and dacing is harder. lesigh
/r/seduction31/03/19 04:00 PM
1

nope don't. Maybe a little bit at anime conventions since i know the girls i meet there are weird but otherwise i avoid women like the plague.
/r/seduction31/03/19 03:56 PM
1

Honestly i dont have the confidence. Oh well
/r/seduction31/03/19 02:55 AM
3

lol this is literally still me and i have been trying pickup for 10 years. But hey never quit you know.
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:39 PM
6

haha yeah. I can only get women by dancing. I've literally had them grab me, pull me into their group and grind on me for hours. Because of dance. Someone women say, "I wish you were my husband" because of dance. Women think i am super cool and confident because i can dance. Unfortunately that is about it. I want to figure out how to give them value in other ways.
/r/seduction18/03/19 04:53 AM
1

mastery by robert greene it is nonfiction all of robert greene's books are inspirational.
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:49 PM
1

I have no idea what this debate was about. But I hella tidy up anytime I intend to bring a girl home. I mean I have done more extensive things to get laid, like travel 3700 miles, lose 20 pounds, and attempt ot have a confident personality. So spending an hour cleaning my room is nothing. RN though i have huge self confidence issues so my room is spartan af. But if i had a gf id keep that shit spick and span. Girls are worth a freaking hour of your week to tidy up and be presentable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 08:37 AM
1

I have read through the first chapter and want to finish it soon! Just a lot to be done right now. I am at the point where I want to look into getting a dating coach. I mean who knows if they can help but I would love it if they could.
/r/seduction10/02/19 04:22 PM
1

You are very kind for offering to help. But I don't really know if i can be helped? Maybe after seeing a therapist or something but i am so hurt by trying to date right that i have sort of lost the desire to try. Anyway, it has been a bit of both. I used to be a bit more forthcoming about asking girls out, but i had so many flakes and they would take so long to text that I sort of got disillusioned. A lot of time the conversation would go to 3 or 4 texts and then peter out. And it was very commo…
/r/seduction08/02/19 11:57 PM
2

Its been a long af time. Like years? Maybe a decade
/r/seduction07/02/19 04:54 PM
17

I wish. Girls never text me.
/r/seduction07/02/19 05:14 AM
1

Personally i don't like to tease women. But i do steer the conversation to see what her values are. I try to give off the vibe that i am not really down with anyone since my time is valuable.
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:03 AM
4

Its funny I'm the opposite. It is hard to talk about dumb stuff, but i am fine talking about compiler processes or quantum mechanics. Even smart things I am out of my element on are fine since i an learn something. But I dont give a fuck about the kardashians or gossip. Or just people that have a poor understanding of things that I must constantly correct.
/r/seduction29/10/18 06:04 AM
1

I'm so worried about my mental and physical health right now. I look fine but I have heart palpitations and weird rashes and itches. I can't bring myself to go out anymore. And yeah I think something is up with my emotional state and that needs to be addressed before i touch dating.
/r/seduction17/10/18 11:09 PM
7

Yeah that is what kills me. I am not a virgin, but i haven't had sex in 6 years.
/r/seduction14/10/18 10:15 PM
15

You need to give them more memory
/r/seduction09/10/18 12:38 AM
3

its hard af!
/r/seduction09/10/18 12:38 AM
1

!RemindMe 2 days
/r/seduction27/09/18 10:43 PM
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!RemindMe 5 days
/r/seduction22/09/18 09:54 PM
1

Wow man
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:47 PM
2

I am reading it!
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:30 PM
2

Well shit I defnhave that lobely void. Fuking
/r/seduction20/08/18 10:53 PM
1

So I am similiar to you. I am also brown skinned, live near a city, and have a lot of hobbies and goals. But the one thing I do not have in my life is dating and getting laid. what would you say to me? I can get a ton of fullfillment, but I still feel the need to cold apporach. Is there anything I am missing?
/r/seduction20/08/18 09:36 PM
1

First off. I have a ton of money. Second, I don't mind paying for good content. I dunno I think I'll just buy something. Here is the issue. I'm a hard case newb. I've been trying for decades to master pickup and game and nothings worked. I don't mind giving this a shot. No one has say, "The paid content has no value.". They have all said. "You don't need the paid content.". But put yourself in my shoes. I don't know how to make this work and I would do anything for it to. I dunno. Maybe I'll try…
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:47 AM
6

This is great and all but I'd rather just pay for it. I actually am not a big fan of stealing peoples' work. Lets have some integrity. I think that is a core part of the values that will get you laid. Or maybe i am cray
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:21 AM
1

I go all the time. No success
/r/seduction04/08/18 05:44 AM
1

Interesting perspective. I still have such a hard time approaching. I mean I saw a girl today and just chocked. Ughn.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:49 PM
1

I know the method but acting is tough necause i dont have the confidence
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:20 PM
1

What have you gotten from them. I still feel stuck.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:30 PM
1

Money isnt an issue for me. I actually believe in paying for content.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:30 PM
1

I havent seent their stuff so o dont know exactly. But ty for your input.
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:39 AM
4

dataisbeautiful
/r/seduction31/07/18 06:35 AM
2

I like cosplayers
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:42 AM
1

What type of stereotype would attract punk/goth girls or geeky girls i wonder?
/r/seduction23/07/18 01:36 AM
112

Girls have egos just like us.
/r/seduction17/06/18 12:56 AM
1

400 ??? Well done
/r/seduction01/06/18 04:59 AM
1

You meet them there. That is interesting.
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:19 AM
1

I can pass for younger easy haha. Can you meet girls at the cinema? I'm alsontrying to figure out how to get invited to college parties. Thinking about just moving near a college
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:51 PM
2

Dude when I hit on early 20 somethings and younger I just can't figure out how to respond at all. I just can't process. I wish I could but my mind is interested in nerdy and serious things too much. I met this one girl and she was having a conversation about dressing up as a furry and going to dave and busters. Then her friend threatened punch her in the face and called her a slut. I just am like dafuk
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:46 PM
9

That is interesting. I am finding that girls 18 - 25 to be harder since I just have no idea what to talk to them about anymore.
/r/seduction05/04/18 03:51 AM
1

Ok I think I get this more now. Funny I just talked to two girls right after making this, and this makes a lot of sense now.
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:01 AM
3

I think that this vid by RSD Madison and Owen is pure gold Especially Owen's rant at 38 minutes. Society, as a whole, is fearful and emotional. we go crazy over north korea, bitcoin, net neutrality, and a plethora of other things. In the dating world this translates to BS advice people to feel better about themselves, instead of actually being effective. Things like "Just be nice." or "Just wait and the right girl will come along." When you should be telling guys to take risks and be confident. …
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:38 PM
3

What about themselves? I love it when women talk about themselves.
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:32 PM
1

haha this was awesome. I think there is a corellation between financial success and dating
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:32 PM
5

I actually think that if you go with the true meaning of feminism, PUAs benefit. Feminism wants a world where women and men are equal. But remember that, in this world, women would probably feel more comfortable around us and trust us more. I think an equal world means people bullshit less. And that benefits us all.
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:31 PM
4

no
/r/seduction25/12/17 11:25 PM
1

Well who says this? Is it men? Attractive women? One of my qualms is I want to go after women who are younger but now I feel old and creepy. Women my ages are way more available but none of them excite me. Lesigh
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:27 PM
1

Wait, if you are getting rejected a lot, doesn't that make you unnattrative? If you define attraction as the probability of being rejected.
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:26 PM
1

I guess the thing that gets me is spool many guys are confident and I am neurotic and insecure. And I don't know how to deal with that
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:25 PM
1

Where so you suggest starting?
/r/seduction14/11/17 10:23 PM
0

I think unnatractive is being rejected by every woman you know.
/r/seduction14/11/17 06:54 AM
4

Bruh I'm 31, lonely af, and still afraid. And now I'm losing my attractiveness. So like yeah. I wish I was 21 again.
/r/seduction14/11/17 05:18 AM
0

The problem is that if a hot woman rejects me or is doafisted it hurts way more emotionally. They are much more likely to do so since more since they are approached by men all the time. And I am not any more special, attractive and especially not funnier than the next man.
/r/seduction14/11/17 05:14 AM
3

I do a lot of things alone. I am ok with this.
/r/seduction26/10/17 02:21 AM
2

IKR. Girls aren't stupid and can detect negging.
/r/seduction17/04/17 01:54 PM
3

I see didn't know that. In the US, the age of consent is 18 (but some states have different laws for this) and there are real penalties for violating this. I guess it is just a social taboo as well.
/r/seduction17/04/17 08:10 AM
-11

wtf. This is isn't legal.
/r/seduction17/04/17 08:04 AM
-1

I literally don't can I block this whole subreddit. I'm not subscribed to it and have no idea to see it on reddit's front wall.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 05:17 AM
-6

Why is/was this on the front page? Is this a default subreddit now? If so. I am very dissapointed.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 04:53 AM
2

Thats an interesting insight. You know I actually really can't stand movie or food dates. Even in a relationship, I never go to the movies. Unless it is a shitty movie and we can go on a tuesday, with old people, and make fun of it. '
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:49 PM
1

I've always wondered if women are just not as instantly attracted to us from the get go. I'm just generally unnatractive. Or they get so many messages that it is hard to sift through.
/r/seduction17/03/17 04:36 AM
1

First off all people are emotional maybe some more than others but men hide their emotions so dont be fooled by this. I also pretty effeminate and lately I have been starting to embrace this aspect of myself. I recently came out as genderqueer and sometimes present as female. I am also getting a lot of 'girlfriends' and am learning to be more comfortable with just being friends with them and not seeing that as a failure. I actually think a lot of value can be had from being in close relationship…
/r/seduction25/12/15 07:29 AM
3

who are you talking about?
/r/seduction31/03/15 12:55 AM
1

Yeah I want to be respectful but also assertive. It is a very fine line to not cross into creepy territory. .
/r/seduction11/02/15 11:31 PM
1

I actually agree with that I like how this subreddit is against the use of alcohol.
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:37 PM
1

Welp I'll be in cosplay so that is normal for the time being. How can I focus on building attraction over just being friendly? I'm very social and friendly but I feel like there are a lot of chances I miss.
/r/seduction11/02/15 08:54 PM
1

I meant to say. Why else would you go to the gym if not to work out.
/r/seduction11/02/15 02:22 PM
2

lol I mean why else would you want to go to the gym?
/r/seduction11/02/15 01:51 PM
6

Hey those are my people your talking about.
/r/seduction11/02/15 01:30 AM
1

I only said, "your pretty" when I have no fucking clue what else to say. Those are the tough ones. A lot of times they are just so hot that building up the nerve is enough for me. But yeah any advice on those? I think that maybe e 7's and 8's I can deal with but the 9's and 10's are still difficult.
/r/seduction10/02/15 11:25 PM
1

Well I clearly speak english
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:04 PM
25

So, as an attractive black man, I should move to scandinavia.
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:11 AM
2

You know what. I'm going to call BS on you. I've just walked up to girls in similiar situations and talked to them. I didn't get numbers but they did not immediately back off. I didn't lead in with "You are cute." I just said what was on my mind. How about this. Instead of making a blanket statement, just agree that everyone's experiences differ. Your mileage may vary dude.
/r/seduction21/05/14 08:53 AM
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