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/r/seduction15/07/26 01:22 AM
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Meh.. shit gets old. What is happy anyways?
/r/seduction11/07/26 04:43 PM
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There's the answer
/r/seduction11/07/26 04:42 PM
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Bahaha she fucking made everything private 😂🤣
/r/seduction11/07/26 04:42 PM
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Two options. 1: Maintain "frame" and be "above" it. Be butt hurt about what she's doing and break it off so you feel respected. 2: Stop cock blocking yourself, yield to her bullshit and keep fucking her when you get the chance without attachment. Idk why everyone is so eager to break out of relationships/situationships when the other person presents bad behavior. Why do you care? If you care, you've missed the point. When she treats you poorly, just chalk it up as one more instance and hate fuck…
/r/seduction10/07/26 04:48 PM
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Triangulation is a delicate business. It's easy to push too far. Shit gets explosive when vanity is at stake.
/r/seduction06/07/26 08:58 PM
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Depends on your value. If you've got it to flaunt it and it's easy to see you're a butterfly, go ahead. That said, a butterfly need not display it's wings to prove they're butterflies. You can just tell by the way they are.
/r/seduction15/06/26 02:54 PM
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Both. Attraction can be instant or learned. Nobody is attracted to a person's personality that they've never met before.
/r/seduction13/06/26 09:44 PM
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It doesn't fall on the man to do all the work. That's just how you're going about it. You're playing the numbers game and shotgunning women in hopes of X number of approaches = X number of lays. I don't get approached by women all that often but when I do, they're absolutely fucked and don't even realize it. The beauty of sitting back and letting them come to you is, 1, you know they're into you so you're not wasting time or effort with women unavailable to you and 2, maybe even more important, …
/r/seduction07/06/26 06:58 PM
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You never tell the devil you're coming. Always keep it to yourself.
/r/seduction04/06/26 01:55 PM
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Usually when I'm feeling some kind of way about something, I have sex and I don't feel that way anymore. Go fuck, soldier!
/r/seduction03/06/26 01:40 PM
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"Best time to plant a tree is 30 years ago. The second best time is right now."
/r/seduction03/06/26 01:39 PM
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Fuck what they think. It has nothing to do with 3rd parties. If you're a consenting adult, and your partner is a consenting adult, FUCK what everyone else has to say.
/r/seduction02/06/26 02:24 AM
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I could write novels about this. If I had any form of seductive traits, it would be being able to invite a woman in for the long haul. First, be worth it. Learn to cook, for instance. Be good at it. Relationships longer than a weekend exist in the quiet and mundane. Second, embrace feminine finery. Develop a taste for what women love. Revel in it. Third, constancy. Learn it. Live it. Fourth, be romantic. Not for a night, not for a week, forever. It's work, it really is, but, anyone can say the r…
/r/seduction28/05/26 09:55 PM
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Reframe this. Your time was not wasted and you learned something valuable. The story isn't over either necessarily. People experience grief in all sorts of ways. Give her space. Don't be cold about it if she reaches out. I know you know what you see on socials but don't make assumptions about it's meaning. Keep doing you things and chin up. I know it sucks when you lose compatability like this. It's entirely plausible that she felt it too.
/r/seduction23/05/26 06:58 PM
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In the classical sense, seduction extends far beyond just getting laid.
/r/seduction23/05/26 03:26 AM
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Appreciate the reminder.
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:05 AM
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Though I'm not OP thanks for replying. It's crazy to me that this sub calls itself "seduction" when really it's a "trips and tricks to getting laid" and/or "how to bullshit your way into someone's pants with so and so's technique to speaking with the opposite sex. Oh and don't text back too soon or too often or seem like you actually give a fuck about another person at all" etc This is the particular area of seduction I'm most interested in. The self identification and the archetypal alignments.…
/r/seduction06/05/26 02:47 PM
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There's nothing wrong with a slow seduction. Surely you're not chasing just her so let her move at her own pace. Some people are slow to warm up and suspicious of the motives and attention from the opposite sex. Don't let this affect your end goal here. Constancy is the name of the game with these types. Let them dictate the time line, just don't get tunnel vision.
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:05 PM
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Long game. These types don't make rash decisions on the inputs of others. They march to the beat of their own drums. Become familiar, then. Keep your approaches light. Think constancy.
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:21 AM
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Whoops. Lmao 🤣
/r/seduction14/04/26 10:43 PM
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If she's crushed on you it'll take a lot more than that to reverse the effect.
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:27 AM
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Careful not to assume what makes you happy will make him happy, you know? It's not a critique of what you've done or what you're planning of course, just saying the whole point I was trying to make was getting out of your head and seeing things through his eyes, then aligning yourself within that framework. Men do deserve flowers and surprise dates. Do men want such things though? More importantly, does he want such things. It's easy to take what would make us happy and apply it to everyone as i…
/r/seduction27/02/26 04:01 PM
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LTR is the hardest thing most people will ever do. It takes work and skill. Many here, despite being good with the opposite sex, are terrible partners. Either they don't have it in them or they get lazy and complacent. Easier to make a group of women happy for a short while than make one woman happy for the long term. That said, you've gotten some... Interesting advice lol. Some didn't even see that you're a woman and offered advice as if you were a man 😂 I'm 24 years in with no marriage contrac…
/r/seduction17/02/26 05:48 PM
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This is the truth. It's not everyone's truth but it will be the truth for many. The "dating" world is a dumpster fire especially if you've got any long term goals. The only ones that are available are the ones nobody else wanted (for the most part.) That's not to say you won't have dancing partners. You will. But I think what you'll find is a downward spiral of sorts. Alternatively to your current partner and her not meeting hopes and dreams of yours, OP, you might consider how you could encoura…
/r/seduction05/01/26 01:19 AM
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Ugh! Artwork!!
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:36 PM
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Soft comfy mattress like memory foam for instance. The mattress atop its own platform bed that's sturdy, doesn't creak, doesn't move. It must feel solid. Surrounding the mattress, a beautifully ornate bed frame, heavy and richly colored. Dark sheets, like a dark blue for instance. Purple (not the silly kind of purple,the royal kind) micro fiber duvet wrapping a heavy but fluffy boxed down comforter. Don't be afraid of a little weight. It's magic. More pillows than you think you'd need. It has to…
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:35 PM
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The pain of rejection is much shorter than the time and pain of wondering "what if." That said, timing is everything.
/r/seduction27/10/25 07:33 PM
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Still letting her call the shots?
/r/seduction26/10/25 09:50 PM
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Conversely the bearded homeless looking types appear outwardly to be confident and well off as well. It takes balls and a certain financial freedom to appear as they do. This is illustrated throughout history at different times. Plump women meant they could afford to eat well which isn't idealized anymore since culturally having an active lifestyle is more sought after, along with the money and time to perform those activities. "Red neck" was a derogatory term for those tanned laborer types who …
/r/seduction23/10/25 04:47 PM
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Well, first you must identify what it is you're insecure about. Only then can you strategize to rail against it. What are these insecurities?
/r/seduction18/10/25 05:53 PM
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If you're already prudish and closed off you may as well lean into that and learn how to submit while being the one in control of the situation. You may ask how. Easy. Think about sex while you're interacting with him. All you have to do is think about it. Think about what turns you on. Think about the things you want to do with him. Think about the things you want to do to him. Think about the things you want him to do to you. The threesome? Being dominated by your husband and another woman at …
/r/seduction11/10/25 03:37 AM
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We are both kinky people She says in that post 🤔🤷😂
/r/seduction11/10/25 03:30 AM
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Ten years ago or so I was looking for some advice on my photography portfolio. I had posted some images and wanted some feedback and critique on what I had done, and where to go from there. I got some comments.. most neutral, it was okay but nothing that was necessarily helpful. Until, this one individual came in and laid it out for me. They gave me what I needed, an honest critique, exposing my flaws and weaknesses, and pretty much tore my portfolio to shreds. I was crushed. They were unnecessa…
/r/seduction09/10/25 02:46 PM
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Jesus this sub is fucking hopeless. The eyes are the easiest and best way to express interest nonverbally. In fact, nonverbal communication is immensely important, especially in the beginning. I don't think much has been written about this. Probably your best bet if you're not naturally good at this is studying videos of and practicing in a mirror. (Mirror practice is a thing.. Napoleon, JFK, and countless others)
/r/seduction09/10/25 02:00 PM
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Well, it's probably not for no reason. It's just that the reasons aren't known to you. The reasons may be related directly to you, indirectly related to you or not related at all to you. Don't get too caught up in the why's of it. Get caught up in your life instead.
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:46 PM
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Constancy. Match her energy. Don't put more than you get, but also don't put less into it. If it fades it fades. If she wants to close the gap, let her. There's no point in moving on from this unless your goal is to cock block yourself in the future.
/r/seduction07/10/25 04:29 PM
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I like your flexible, yielding approach to things. Many men here are so caught up in being the 'big strong man' that they consistently miss opportunities and inevitably cock block themselves over it. Bouncing on women friends for instance.. putting women on ice in text (not texting back until the following day or whatever) it's like, c'mon. Unfortunately the rules of "game" are so deeply embedded in the community they'll never be overcome with reason. Only with experience. Unfortunately also too…
/r/seduction04/10/25 03:40 PM
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It depends on her interpretation of your nervousness. A general anxiety probably is not all that attractive. Shook by her look? Well, that's engaging as fuck lol
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:47 PM
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Don't fool yourself. There are many women who lurk here.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:32 PM
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Name em, bud.
/r/seduction18/09/25 06:45 AM
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Pretty much!
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:44 AM
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Depends on the situation and the proclivities of the woman.
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:31 AM
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I'll be a bleeding heart devils advocate here. You weren't ghosted, she just took a while to get back to you. Shit happens. Maybe she really is going through some shit right now. Wtf are you going to do? Here's what I'd say.. "Well, I hope you come out of it on the other end stronger than you went in" or something to that effect. If you can incorporate something about her texts she's already sent you here she'll feel seen too. All these cats that close themselves off is cool and all but not allo…
/r/seduction14/09/25 12:30 AM
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Best you can do is try and provide a sort of life that's difficult to find elsewhere. Not by what you can buy, necessarily, but what you offer or bring to the table. The goal being to make all other relationships feel like hamburger helper, when compared against your...pick favorite cut of meat and insert here. Options are endless if you're creative.
/r/seduction27/08/25 09:43 PM
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Yes, absolutely. Here's why... Who gives a fuck? All you're trying to do is get your dick wet. What difference does her bad behavior, or her supposed disrespect have to do with your goals? Wanna punish her? Punish her in bed. Ig her like everyone else is suggesting and you'll never get that opportunity.
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:54 AM
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Relationships aren't a goal to be achieved and then you just, relax. If anything, longer term relationships are harder than short term because you need to keep up the momentum. It requires real effort, and constant creativity. Typically, when a partner says "I love you but I'm not in-love with you," this is what they mean. The things you did at the beginning of the relationship, is what made him or her fall for you. Slowly, complacency took root, and this attention waned. It makes sense, right? …
/r/seduction24/08/25 07:06 PM
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I'm sure you're sure 🤣
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:54 AM
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I'll take your word for it weirdo
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:28 AM
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Do you just assume your farts smell good or do you double check to make sure?
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:23 AM
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It's about choosing the right victim.
/r/seduction14/03/25 07:56 PM
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There's a pecking order within groups of women that is fiercely enforced. Focus your attention on the aesthetically challenged of the group and the women who believe they are above them will throw themselves at you to prove it.
/r/seduction22/02/25 05:36 PM
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Adding to this, find someone to practice with. It doesn't come naturally to look at folks between their eyes and it'll feel weird until it doesn't.
/r/seduction07/01/25 01:30 AM
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No. Leave it entirely up to her. Don't avoid her that would send the wrong signal. Subtle escalation if any. Barely perceptible. Ask for more sweets with /that/ look in your eye.
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:52 PM
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Brother from another mother lol
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:50 PM
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Play the long game. Be cordial and open to opportunity but allow her to close the gap, if close the gap she shall.
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:28 PM
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Ugly chicks have cute friends. How else are you going to gain entree into her group? Get close and stir the competitive desire in her cuter friends and you could be swimming in pussy.
/r/seduction31/08/24 04:06 AM
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🤓
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:40 PM
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I've been in a relationship with the same woman for 22 years, without the need for the contract of marriage. You had to sign paperwork to try and keep it locked down. What do you think you're telling me? 🤣
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:07 PM
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This is the most backward post I think I've ever seen here yet. 🙄 If you think you can abandon the idea of seduction because you've committed to a long term relationship, I don't think you understood the true concept of seduction at all. Consider now what you intend to do for her when the inevitable boredom and complacency of 15 years of sucking the same cock sets in. Add kids, careers, daily struggles and, the hot new coworker who looks at her the same way you used to. You see where I'm going w…
/r/seduction07/08/24 04:29 PM
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Stay engaged. Don't run from it. Punish them openly for their mistakes and heavy handedness. Use subtle facial expressions and body language with her as he's talking to make fun of him. Him getting pissed or pissy about it plays into your hands. You've got to stay cool and collected if you're to compete on this sort of level and unfortunately the only way to build tolerance to it is to actively put yourself in the position to have to do it. No amount of talking or reading or thinking will harden…
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:10 PM
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Nonsense. Lots of women want a project lol and lots are dying to be a mans inspiration to succeed.
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:58 AM
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It's only immoral to the men who are afraid of being found inferior. Don't want to fall victim to the dynamic? Be the better man. It's only in this way you'll be able to keep her. Thinking your above it by claiming it to be immoral only exposes your fear of competition.
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:42 AM
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But there's only one her. Have you ever been head over heels in love before?
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:35 AM
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We're all jockeying for the best partner we can find, all of the time. Two days in a relationship or 30 years, everyone is subject to this dilemma and no relationship is definitively closed off from this dynamic--ever. Seduction exists specifically for this reason.. That is unless your idea of seduction is picking up hoes at the bar who were planning on getting laid that night anyway and she just happened to consider you her best option, or maybe just got tired of looking for better options.
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:34 AM
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Getting yourself under control is going to be the hardest thing you've ever done. It sounds like she's already "seduced" by her reaction to other women hitting on and flirting with you. It's my opinion that jealousy betrays her inner thoughts so I think if I were you I'd be pretty confident that she's at least thinking about you romantically. Depending on her love language, being playful with you could be flirting but I'd be cautious about pushing it too much further. Just maintain status quo, b…
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:21 AM
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This is foolish. Job recruiters know the best employees aren't looking for jobs and the same goes for dating partners. If you're only looking for women who are single you're bound to only find the worst of the bunch largely rejected by the rest. Have at it, if that's your jam.
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:55 AM
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You're upset with yourself for falling in love? Why should you be forbidden from having feelings? Are you supposed to be some automaton devoid of emotions or something? What you NEED to do is find space for yourself in the feelings. What you SHOULD do is not freak out and go no contact like that other dip shit suggested. What you HAVE to do is find a way to exist, in love, without pushing it too far or freaking out and losing your mind. If what you're saying is true, and you're into this chick, …
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:51 AM
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Discover who you are. Act in accordance with that. Blossom. Women who like you for you will find you. No matter how late a bloomer you are. No matter your looks. No matter your financial situation. No matter no matter.
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:47 AM
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Never approach your target directly. Always from the side. If your target is with a friend who is.. aesthetically challenged, that is who you should be approaching! Women are wildly competitive and your target is well aware of her position as the attractive one. You hitting on her homely homie will spark this competitive nature in her. This serves multiple purposes but on the most basic level, if you had any actual shot with the pretty one she'll happily butt in, taking her natural position in t…
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:31 AM
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What are you saying to these women? How are you starting the conversations off? Your job is to get in the head of the other person. Any picture or profile post put up by any person reveals all sorts of things about them, if you know how to look at it the right way. Study the pictures. Study their profiles. Then, with what you've learned, ask questions that engage that individual. Pay attention to the background!
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:01 AM
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Thanks. To clarify, I didn't mean not to speak to anyone; I just meant don't show up as a new face at class then hit on everything that moves first day. Allow a little time. If someone approaches you by all means--you are fresh meat after all ;)
/r/seduction17/06/24 02:41 PM
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In this case, don't approach. Let them. Allowing them to close the gap will help you maintain your reputation, because it was their idea to approach you. This means they carry the burden of guilt when things inevitably go awry and there will be no hard feelings or resentment towards you because of it. Understand, the women in these classes are highly vulnerable. Your presence, being a man, by itself, is off putting. Staying cool, not approaching, but being friendly and warm, will put them at eas…
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:48 AM
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OP, I'm sorry. I can't imagine what this is like. Reading this makes me realize I take so much of my life for granted and I should really appreciate some things more than I do. I wished I knew what to tell you. You're very "matter of fact" about it though which is helpful. Unfortunately, I think you have.. certain realities to life, but you know this far better than I do. That said, I do not think your dating life is at all over, but I do believe it will be more difficult for you to find the one…
/r/seduction15/06/24 08:05 PM
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As someone else said.. imagine being a woman and having the courage to pass along a number to someone you caught eyes with. You're at home, thinking about him.. wondering if he was really interested or if you misread it. Three days is more than enough time to come full circle with your own thoughts and emotions.. from hope to despair to coming to terms with it and finally, moving on. Meanwhile, this guy, not replying following the three day rule, thinking he's some sort of alpha for it finally g…
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:59 PM
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The best time to have talked to her was at the bar; the second best time is right now. Tell her thank you for passing on her number and just roll with the conversation. She's thinking of you right now I guarantee it. Don't wait 3 days to find out she was only in town for tonight. Go. Do it now. Godspeed!
/r/seduction15/06/24 03:49 AM
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Seems elementary. Idk why guys started doing this as if not texting you is going to make you want them more? In what world lol
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:59 PM
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Yup. Competition is fierce and plentiful. Good point!
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:08 AM
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Playing the game of "who can care less more" costs you guys more pussy than it gets you.. this concept should be taken out back and shot already. Like... stop being fucking weird about talking to girls. There's no reason to keep it short or wait days, which is a fucking eternity, mind you, just to hit her up to do something. Your putting her on ice is what got you the cold shoulder. What you gave is what you got and what you put is what you found. You should have struck when the iron was hot.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:34 AM
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Maybe she wants to be emotionally engaged? Maybe she wants to be toyed with. Maybe she wants to stress about you. Maybe she wants you to make her jealous. I'd hate to see you choke her out when really what she wants is to wonder if that other woman you're with is really.. just a friend.
/r/seduction10/06/24 02:33 AM
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I think that's considered average, yeah? Maybe a touch over average, actually? Note how no men have replied to this one.. lol.. tell you something? Porn is subverting you. Stop watching it. You can not, for a second, use porn as a gauge to judge your own body. You are not inadequate. Even to go as far as to think your cock size is going to prevent you from doing well in a relationship.. NO! You must stop this! Any woman who is in to you will not care about your cock size as being thee determinin…
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:08 AM
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OMFG this sub makes so much more sense now.
/r/seduction07/06/24 09:33 PM
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Our sex life is great. But this isn't about the body anyways, it's about the mind and spirit, and keeping them engaged in hopes, dreams, imagination and life. It's about alleviating boredom, for my partner and also for myself. It's about staying multiple steps in front of stagnation and cutting off the inevitable apathy that so many relationships fall into.
/r/seduction05/06/24 02:22 PM
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Blech
/r/seduction02/06/24 11:54 PM
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I understand what you're saying and where you're coming from but it's like, fuck, does it always have to be war like this? Does it always have to be this battle to see who can care less more?
/r/seduction02/06/24 10:59 PM
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If you intend to wait this out you've got to find some way to occupy your time, and your mind. Now's the time to get lost in some project you've been putting off or...whatever.
/r/seduction02/06/24 06:32 PM
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I have an intimate understanding of what you're going through. Here's the deal. You've tasted the proverbial forbidden fruit. You're never going to get over her. Nobody and nothing will compare. All conversations with new women will seem dull. The connections you make will never shine as bright. Smiles will never be as pretty. Their asses will never be as cute etc etc.... until they are. It seems like we only ever really want what we can't have. We want to go the places we're not supposed to. Do…
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:49 AM
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I think this is context dependent. If she's in a bikini and at a bbq and your comment will be "hey! I like bbqs too"... don't. If she's in green house and there's a rare houseplant you want to trade for another rare houseplant (I'm sitting in my jungle of a livingroom..) that's much more ok
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:33 PM
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Is that what you'd do?
/r/seduction01/06/24 02:15 PM
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Downvoted by vette drivers lol. The only thing your car tells anyone is "Look what I kept in the divorce!" But hey, look at the bright side.. that bald spot on your head is just the solar panel for the sex machine. I hope you have the convertible so you can charge 'er up lol
/r/seduction01/06/24 02:28 AM
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Deliberately disenchant her. Make it her idea to break up by behaving badly, then, when she suggests it (breaking up) jump on it so fast we all feel the world spin backward a bit. Naturally, you may ask how to disenchant her? Well, you can come on to her hot and heavy (not like trying to sleep with her come on to her) but just endlessly fill up her space with you. Don't give her a second to breathe without you being there. Emote endlessly about your feelings. Tell her all your insecurities and I…
/r/seduction01/06/24 12:57 AM
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More or less, yes. Generally speaking, successful people flaunt their success and an easy way to advertise your success is by driving a literal billboard that screams success. This concept can be expanded further to really any topic of interest. People rob banks because that's where the money is!
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:32 PM
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Find your local cars and coffee spot. Usually on a Sunday morning. The try-hards are the ones that drive Vettes so avoid those types. An interest in cars is really all you need. Having a cool car will certainly help you gain entrée easier.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:07 PM
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Thanks. I prefer a light touch so brow beating my partner into submission just doesn't align with my personal values. No judgement and I'm happy you found a partner who tolerates that. Different strokes and all that jazz.
/r/seduction31/05/24 11:05 AM
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Show me a gorgeous married woman with a great ass and I'll show you a husband who's tired of her shit. -Confucious, probably.
/r/seduction31/05/24 10:06 AM
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You gotta take care of you first. Once you've got that, only then will you have the latitude to bring someone else in to share it with you. But, because it's yours, and not a group effort, you get to pick and choose who sticks around. This is a powerful position to be in. I know it's hard, being alone. You're doing all the right things though and your future will thank you for it. I say bravo, soldier.
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:13 AM
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How long have you been in a ltr?
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:31 AM
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I appreciate that. Like I said, it's just so tiring. I don't like feeling like I have the fuck-its, you know? I was just hoping some folks here could provide new ways for me to shake it up before I end up shaking off doing more stupid shit.
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:27 AM
0

I'd take that as a W lol
/r/seduction31/05/24 01:41 AM
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Bravado and a 6 pack what else do you need?
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:52 PM
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I appreciate you taking the time to reply. You make a lot of good points. I think what I feel the most is that it's just always me. I'm always the one offering new ideas, new things to try (non-sexually I mean,) new places to go, new things to do, etc. I guess I'm just so worn down from it being one sided is all.
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:52 PM
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But it inevitably becomes mechanical. Just going through the motions as it were.
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:47 PM
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Yes. When in Rome!
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:30 PM
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I understand what you're saying. I just recently had a similar type of experience that's marked me forever and I learned a valuable lesson from it. The thing is you don't know for sure what's going on, on her end. Turn the cheek and don't take it personal, if the only goal is getting your dick wet. Let her bad behavior / disrespect roll off you. If it's fwb only wtf do you care? If it's making you feel some kind of way retain that energy for when you get to fuck her again and then take it out on…
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:16 PM
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We're a select group lol
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:04 PM
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You're letting the devil know you're coming! Your energy is perceptible to those not even consciously aware of it. Feel too aggressive and, well, you already know the results. It's your aura, if you will. Subtlety is the key to aggressive passivity. Suggestive looks and engaging smiles/glances. Practice making "fuck me" eyes if it fits your esthetic, then get caught giving them. Body language is everything here. Most men will be suspect of an aggressive woman. Shit gets really scary when things …
/r/seduction30/05/24 03:02 PM
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First, faking it is making it. Second, flank them. Approach from the side or not from the perspective on hooking up/hitting on them. Mention something about their wardrobe. Notice the mundane. See her in a dress and notice there's pockets? Mention the pockets lol.
/r/seduction30/05/24 04:52 AM
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Breathe. If this is a fwb situation just let her do her thing. If you bang you bang. If you don't like how she's treating you evaluate your feelings for her and act accordingly. Broach the idea of an exclusive relationship with her or deliberately disenchant her.
/r/seduction30/05/24 04:48 AM
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