Be Interesting: This is why you’ll see a beautiful woman with a broke artist or musician, while they dump a traditionally successful, but stiff Nice Guy. Sometimes it’s a facade, but these type of guys are purpose driven, aren’t taking the typical path in life, don’t care about societal expectations. You also have to KNOW that you’re interesting and project as well.

Tons of guys have interesting components of their lives, but don’t believe it themselves and don’t project it in their mannerisms. You nave experiences, knowledge, point of view, or skill that will enhance her life in some manner.

Be Fit: This has been debated endlessly, that confidence is all that matters. Bullshit. Women by and large prefer guys who maintain their bodies and are in shape. Doesn’t mean ripped or bulky, just toned. Being in shape is a big part of having body language that is considered attractive—broad and takes up space.

Be stylish: This is subjective, but having clothes with good fit and accentuate the arms, chest, shoulders. Also allow relaxed body language and make you personally feel confident are key.

Be authentic: Are you trying to get that girl’s number because she sparks something in you, or are you trying to just receive validation? For the most part, women can smell bullshit and desperation. It is exhibited in your body language, micro expressions in your eyes, and face. Go for the girl because she is someone YOU want to pursue. If you compliment her, mean it. If you’re sexual with her, mean it, just don’t stroke your ego.