I've made something of a hobby of posting in this sub reddit lately. It's become like my journal for the things I've learned over my seduction mastery journey. Appreciate you guys for sharing your ideas and commenting on my posts. Anyway, this just recently hit me, and I had to write it out. Enjoy

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Most of this subreddit is young male beginners in seduction, and I honestly love seeing the pure interest and desire to learn. I wanted to drop some basic game that all intermediate to advanced seducers learn in their time practicing game, but some of us have to bump our head a few time before we really get it. This is kind of a cheat code that will save you from the years of bumping your head.

You need to look like your game. You do this by focusing on your primary and secondary characteristics.

Often times on this subreddit you'll see posts of beginners saying things like "How do I open?" or "How do I escalate?" or things like this. I believe these are dangerous questions, because you will end up hitting your head against the wall for years wondering why you're not making any progress or closing any dates. Youtube is a beautiful thing, but a huge mistake that beginners will make is watching hours worth of "How to get her to like you" content. The reason why this is a problem is because the youtubers are telling you what works for THEM. When you go up to a girl (or any person really) she has already characterized you in her head simply based on the way you look. If you have a scruffy beard and you're smoking a cigarette, she's going to perceive you as being more grungy and direct. If you are wearing an anime T-shirt and Jordans she's going to perceive you as being more nerdy or childlike. Of course certain perceptions are easier to work with than others, but the baby faced anime T-shirt guy often shoots himself in the foot by trying to pretend to be the scruffy cigarette guy. Women are experts in social interaction. They've been spotting fakes in school since they were 13 years old. If you are pretending to be some guy you saw on Youtube who isn't actually anything like you, she will notice and she will cringe. A girl perceiving you as cringey is an INSTANT REJECTION. Cringing dries their puss up on the spot within fractions of a second. Here's what you need to do.

First, identify the universal characteristics that are attractive to women. We all know what these are by now. Things like confidence, being direct, being socially valued, etc. Once you identify these traits, throw all other methods out of the window. I'm a boxer, so I'll put this in boxing terms. Once you develop your fundamentals, you then need to perfect your style. Mike Tyson was a short, powerful guy with a low center of gravity, so the peakaboo style was perfect for his build. Muhammad Ali was a tall guy who was light on his feet, so he learned to float around the ring and utilize his long arms to fight at an odd distance. These are your primary characteristics. These are the things that a girl notices about you within a seconds of laying eyes on you. If you fall too far outside of this box, she's going to think you're faking (and you probably are).

Second, develop your secondary characteristics. If you like UFC, take Jon Jones for instance. In the ring, the dude was a straight killer. He also had multiple arrests, did PEDs, did cocaine, and had a HUGE ego. The interesting thing about the guy is that if you see any of his interviews, he was a pretty soft spoken down to earth dude most of the time. This added an allure to his personality. What does this mean for you? Here's an example. If you're the scruffy cigarette guy, lean into that energy for the initial part of the interaction. Then, lets say she asks you what's your favorite TV show 30 minutes into the date. Tell her it's Vampire Diaries. Tell her it with a straight face. This will mix your primary characteristics (being rugged and direct) with a secondary characteristic that you just now introduced (you expressed interest in a girly TV show). Watch the look on her face when you say this. At this moment, at least 3 different emotions and 5 different thoughts are going through her head in a split second. This is what you want. It makes you unpredictable. It makes her wonder about your childhood. Your secondary characteristics should only come out every now and then. Try for something like 90% primary, 10% secondary, and then edit that balance to fit your own personality.

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TLDR: Lean into what a girl already thinks about you. And then break away from it periodically.