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45	Feeling bitter.	Inner Game	SnooHesitations4922	/r/seduction	20/10/22 08:04 PM
23	Unpopular opinion: chivalry is NOT dead.	Fundamentals	SnooHesitations4922	/r/seduction	25/08/24 07:41 PM
1	snapping a dry streak	Outer Game	SnooHesitations4922	/r/seduction	28/10/22 02:41 AM

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7	Girl suddenly switches up You can be all over each other until leaving the bedroom. Once you're outside the bedroom you need to act like you would when having an office affair. You want to show discretion so you naturally behave in a detached manner so nobody catches on. Take that same detachment you would show in a work affair situation and apply it to all situations. In the same way you use discretion so colleagues won't catch on at the office, use it with a club affair to instill uncertainty regarding your interest le…	/r/seduction	06/02/25 03:57 PM
15	Girl suddenly switches up Whether you found her at the club or at church the concept is the same. A girl's desire switches up the second you become more interested in the girl than she is in you. Even if your actual interest didn't exceed hers; your perceived interest is all she sees. You could have said or done something or behaved in a way that made your perceived interest exceed hers, giving her the s.m.v. advantage in her mind. The easiest way to do this is to follow up after sex too quickly via communication, this a…	/r/seduction	06/02/25 02:42 PM
2	How would you approach winning back a girl that had a crush on you at first but you ruined it by being too needy? There is only one way to re gain a woman's desire after it's lost, but most guys can't do it because it involves successfully seducing specific targets. Actual, confirmable preselection is the uno reverse card. Sleep with one of her friends, and she will suddenly feel like you are a safe bet and change her tune real quick	/r/seduction	05/02/25 11:10 AM
2	Why just why are we so scared? There is an empirical, anthropological reason. For most of human history, getting rejected could mean death or exile from the tribe. Men developed a mechanism over time to prevent those consequences, which is still written into our d.n.a. It's called approach anxiety and it's part of our evolution. While this anxiety comes natural to all of us, only a few of us know it can be disregarded because we no longer run in small tribes. Unless you don't do anything crazy, you probably won't get executed…	/r/seduction	04/02/25 11:20 PM
3	Seducing Single Mothers At her young age she is still going to be sexually available to whichever Chad knocked her up. Given that isn't a huge issue if you aren't looking for an attachment; she will make you pay for everything he did or didn't do regardless because he is too sexy to punish. The best bet is not getting to know her child, avoid even meeting the kid. Not only do you want to avoid deviating from your intent u already declared; If the kid bonds with you, both of you will feel hurt when you eventually end th…	/r/seduction	04/02/25 01:04 AM
1	When to abandon an interaction? You stick around for tests that can be passed. You walk away when the girl intentionally insults your intelligence. If you ask a question that requires a response other than yes or no; and she responds with a yes or a no, turn your back and walk. You: "Which college did you attend?" Her: "Yes" See how stupid that sounds? In girl world, that is her telling you directly she thinks you're stupid, which is worse than a civil rejection.	/r/seduction	03/02/25 12:37 AM
20	How to handle Valentine's Day with girls you JUST started seeing I play into it. I was actually in this situation with my current girl because 2 years ago valentines day was coming around and we were only talking for a couple weeks at that point. For some reason a corporate created holiday gets women's emotions stirred up, you have to treat the situation like it is the girls time of the month...which means the rules temporarily change, you can't be the stoic alpha preselected guy who don't care. I flat out went against what I preach and bought flowers and res…	/r/seduction	03/02/25 12:29 AM
3	What am I doing wrong? That one line; "I don't think this is going to work." That is a verbal aphrodisiac.	/r/seduction	02/02/25 03:36 PM
6	What am I doing wrong? Your sub communication, keep your mood between 5 and 7. For example If the girl gets excited and increases her vocal cadence, you don't adjust yours to match, keep it steady. Same thing with the pitch of your tone. If she gets fidgety, keep your movements disciplined. If her eyes light up, your's stay calm and tranquil. You don't want to feel internally "giddy". That is what makes a girl feel like a deer in headlights. The above behaviors show you have that under control. This stuff is far more …	/r/seduction	02/02/25 01:10 PM
1	What am I doing wrong? The questions come in all shapes and sizes, and the answer is always the same. The second you became more interested in the girl than she was in you is the same second you lost her. This is confirmed by your own past experiences if you try to recall your interactions. Just practice indifference to beauty. It's ok to be interested in someone, just manage those interest levels so yours is always a bit lower than the girl's.	/r/seduction	02/02/25 12:42 PM
48	More Attention and IOIs the older I get Men age like wine, women age like milk. When I was in my early 20s, I couldn't get any attention from any girl my own age, let alone ending up on dates with them, so I was stuck dating milfs and corralling cougars. Now I'm 38. My chick is 22. Up until I got with my current gf, my 30s were busy. Now younger women were going out of their way to interact or even flirt with me with no effort on my part. Then the lightbulb hit. It was never the age, it was the data from experience both good and bad t…	/r/seduction	02/02/25 12:21 AM
3	Investing into a couch in my living room for game? The most effective setup I had was when I had a couch and entertainment center in the bedroom. Me and my roommate used to have both our entertainment centers and couches in the living room. We realized that was inefficient because when it was just us at the house we usually gamed and watched stuff together anyway when we had the rare chance. Our bed rooms were big enough to set them up as combined living room/bedrooms for dates, and between us we had enough resources to keep a 3rd living room se…	/r/seduction	01/02/25 11:50 PM
3	How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties? Seducing women in your current state is worse than pointless, it would discourage you into an even deeper hole. Put that on the back burner. Overtly practicing neurotypical behaviors should be your highest priority, alongside getting in shape. Even after all that you can't feel entitled to female attention just because you fixed yourself.	/r/seduction	01/02/25 11:06 PM
5	Single Mom Tips Reaching out for advice is not beta behavior, u are on the right track. A good leader knows how to be a good follower to someone more competent in a given area, remember that when you take over the business.	/r/seduction	01/02/25 07:17 PM
16	Single Mom Tips Single moms tend to act like beta males. Test her interest. If you send her a single text or DM or simply like something she sent you or posted, then forget about it and don't immediately follow up...see if she starts doubling or triple texting you like young men would when a girl delays her responses. If she does that double texting and starts responding to you promptly you can most likely get her. Then begs the question...why would you want to?🤣🤣 It's never as simple as just clapping cheeks, t…	/r/seduction	01/02/25 07:03 PM
2	Pursue without “chasing”? Having options does autocorrect your mindset and behaviors and quells neediness, so there exists a paradox. How do you generate options if you currently have none? Nobody was born with options, we all started somewhere. You fake it until you make it. Women prioritize illusions of value over actual value. The guy that is better at behaving like a preselected man will do better than the guy who is actually preselected but doesn't effectively demonstrate it. Just learn and overtly practice outcome …	/r/seduction	01/02/25 06:39 PM
1	Pursue without “chasing”? Yeah, it's all how you behave while doing so. You can't operate or move or speak or carry a tone which signals that you will be negatively impacted in any way if things don't go your way with her. Girls like indifference to their beauty. That doesn't mean being indifferent to their existence.	/r/seduction	01/02/25 09:20 AM
1	Handling rejection! " I'm certainly not everybody's cup of bratwurst"	/r/seduction	31/01/25 10:05 PM
28	Successful womanizer for years, now in healthy relationship Being excited about a roller coaster thrill is a feminine trait. I'm not trying to insult you, use that to get over your past. I post here on the seduction sub as an outlet because I can no longer practice what I preach, if I did I would lose a keeper. My girl is lower 20s, lifelong dancer and gymnast, is a PhD candidate, knows how to put her phone down, and is an actual good person who doesn't play the "good girl" game. Because of all this I know if I didn't have a past with lots of women, ther…	/r/seduction	31/01/25 08:30 PM
5	How do I get over my fear of talking to girls? You freeze up because you aren't confident in your social ability and don't want to be seen as "weird". As someone on the spectrum, I can tell you that free will is more powerful than your condition, you just need to overtly practice what comes naturally for neurotypical people. Prioritize slowing down and steadying your speech cadence and refraining from sudden fidgety movements and vocal tone shifts and having relaxed eye contact. Doing that also relaxes you and slows down your mind enough to …	/r/seduction	31/01/25 08:18 PM
14	Pursue without “chasing”? When you maintain outcome independence you are pursuing. When you are more interested in the girl than she is in you, and you are attached to the outcome: you are chasing.	/r/seduction	31/01/25 07:51 PM
3	How to navigate going over to the girl’s place instead of yours? Exactly, women speak and hear in a different language. Everything a man says is heard by women as "I'm preselected" or "I'm unselected".	/r/seduction	31/01/25 05:03 PM
3	How to navigate going over to the girl’s place instead of yours? Yes, the girl will act suspicious either way to test you for outcome independence. This happened on my second date with my current gf and we were much closer to her place. I knew driving all the way back to mine would probably kill the heat. I told her my brother and nephew were staying over while their house was being bug bombed (this was actually true). She said "you're full of shit, one of your gfs is already there waiting for you". Her saying that means she sees me as preselected so I played…	/r/seduction	31/01/25 03:39 PM
9	How to navigate going over to the girl’s place instead of yours? I would usually say my auntie or whoever is staying over for a few weeks, my place is lacking privacy at the moment. In the case I'm am traveling I don't even book a hotel because if I am successful in going to a girls place I would have wasted money. That is when I play the part of the handsome traveling stranger. I say "I was planning on driving home overnight unless you had other ideas". When I was younger this is how I got cougars to drag me to their lair . I was basically banging for lodgin…	/r/seduction	31/01/25 02:59 PM
0	Need a reality check My current gf is the most grown up and mature I've had and she is 22. I am 38. Some people thought it was weird but that's where not caring is a luxury, the people that actually matter supported us. I got sick of the entitlement of women my age and she got sick of the overbearing clinginess of guys her age, it was a good fit. Ultimately all that matters is that she is over 18 and you are compatible.	/r/seduction	30/01/25 04:36 PM
7	What is the gym equivalent for females? Marshalls/Homegoods .	/r/seduction	30/01/25 12:14 AM
1	Holding Frame is Scary We agree that a preselected, outcome independent man will crush it regardless of most variables. Taking the lead and setting boundaries can deteriorate perceived preselection because it shows you care. Your morals and ethics can be known to the girl by displaying it for the general public, but directly expressing them to the woman makes her too sure of your interest level. It depends on the context. If I've been seeing a girl short term, I'm not going to over exert "masculinity" and set boundari…	/r/seduction	30/01/25 12:00 AM
7	Holding Frame is Scary There is a fix. Refrain from giving away personal info and don't try to get too much from the girl either. Girls sleep with guys who they hardly know while getting to know the guys that they are withholding from. The challenges come when the girl is sure of your morals and ethics. The easiest way to reveal your morals is by taking the lead and setting boundaries as most incompetent dating coaches would tell you to do. Until a woman has your child, the only person you lead is yourself so that the…	/r/seduction	29/01/25 02:07 PM
1	Girl says I HAVE TO bring her a gift on our first date If she is a Ukrainian from tinder that just means put a gift bow on your cock	/r/seduction	28/01/25 05:44 PM
0	Struggling even with women under my "league".. How to find out what women expect you to be? I'm not saying to purposely pretend to be disinterested. In saying to actually be less interested in the girl than she is in you due to you having higher priorities. If her interest level is a 9, u max out at 8 because your full interest should be in the well being of your family. If there is even a slight chance the girl would be carrying your kid, she needs to know that strength exists in you.	/r/seduction	26/01/25 02:16 PM
0	If you could summarize in a phrase the right mindset in dating success, what would it be? If you are convinced that a guy couldn't do better than you, would you be able to look up to him? I think not. You would milk him for attention and resources while sleeping with someone you actually respect. If you really felt safe with a man who isn't preselected, you are the exception and not the rule.	/r/seduction	25/01/25 08:21 PM
0	If you could summarize in a phrase the right mindset in dating success, what would it be? Women have natural safety mechanisms. When a girl feels like other women of her quality or higher would like you or are actively seeing you, those safety mechanisms are satisfied. If you have options, you naturally won't behave in a way where your interest level exceeds the girls and you won't invest prematurely.	/r/seduction	25/01/25 03:53 PM
-5	Stop listening to women for dating/relationship advice Can't take dating advice from a species that is programmed to deceive men to justify disqualifying them. The most common deception I see from female dating coaches is "take the lead and set boundaries". Then guys try that and the girl is laughing at him inside her head. Doing that is the very form of investing that shows you aren't preselected by women of equal or higher quality and she goes and sleeps with some dude that is.	/r/seduction	25/01/25 02:13 PM
65	Struggling even with women under my "league".. How to find out what women expect you to be? Women scare like deer. Your interest level in her exceeding her interest in you is the high beams. When that happens, the girl feels like you can't do better than her so she can't look up to you, hence feels unsafe. The more you refuse to commit, the more loyal she will be to you even if a relationship isn't verbally declared. The more you withhold physical touch, the more she will touch you. The more chaos and turmoil you create, the better she will behave. What we think is bad they think is go…	/r/seduction	25/01/25 02:44 AM
136	Struggling even with women under my "league".. How to find out what women expect you to be? I can tell you what women expect you to be. They expect you to be less interested in them than they are in you. I just gave you the whole game, enjoy yourself.	/r/seduction	25/01/25 01:41 AM
6	Very basic question: How you flirt? The hotter the girl, the sharper and harder she is gauging your preselection level or your sexual value. When you speak with logic you are not speaking their language. If you talk absolute nonsense the girl knows you aren't trying to impress her with your male logic and perceives you as has having options of her quality or higher hence feels safe with you. Speaking logically can make you come off as "try hard" and lacking options, hence the girl feels unsafe. 8s 9s and 10s aren't only unresponsi…	/r/seduction	25/01/25 01:33 AM
9	A small tip from a girl If men have to work to be attractive and women simply have to exist, men are the prize. The female ego selects the prize they THINK they deserve.	/r/seduction	24/01/25 11:52 PM
20	A small tip from a girl This is a perfect example of female nature...which is deceiving you into tanking your own value to justify disqualifying you. Women are the choosers, don't forget that. Only make a move when a woman puts herself near you and throws a bait/hook so you don't end up being just another follower, or worse: face charges.	/r/seduction	24/01/25 09:20 PM
0	Explaining to a woman that I was "off my game" after a date? There is no easier way to tank your perceived value than to explain yourself to a woman. Own your words and actions.	/r/seduction	24/01/25 07:41 PM
18	If you could summarize in a phrase the right mindset in dating success, what would it be? "I will remain less interested in you than you are in me as a good deed so that you know I'm preselected and you feel safe"	/r/seduction	24/01/25 06:55 PM
5	She is very talkative and social, you are the quiet guy Less talkative men can be very compatible with outgoing and social women due to the concept of male/female polarity. The opposite also holds true.If one person likes to talk, they appreciate someone who likes to listen. Being the quiet guy actually has a lot of advantages that don't get much publicity. The less words you use, the more non-chalant and less "try hard" you appear, signaling emotional strength plus you ain't giving away your whole life so you are leaving things for the girl to disco…	/r/seduction	24/01/25 06:36 PM
21	Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number. I would agree if the two people were part of the younger crowd because social media is the default communication method, but I as an older guy prefer to get a phone number IF the girl already agrees to hang out. Men develop attraction through time together, women build it through time apart. I avoid using socials in order to minimize "filler" communication and remain a mystery that she has to uncover page by page in person...if she knows too much about me too soon, the book is closed and she exi…	/r/seduction	24/01/25 06:25 PM
2	Is it possible to be a nice guy but not boring? No. You can be a good man and not boring, but being nice expecting some form of return is automatically boring because it's so routine.	/r/seduction	24/01/25 02:45 PM
73	Very basic question: How you flirt? It took me until my late 30s to realize that every girl I slept with or had a relationship with happened to be someone that I did not flirt with at all when first knowing them. Ive been flirting by not flirting at the very start, I'm ok with giving a woman a normal greeting and having regular conversation; but the hotter the girl; the less logic I speak with. I see if the girl flirts first or initiates physical touch so I know she chose me, then I call her out on it while maintaining a neutral m…	/r/seduction	23/01/25 06:33 PM
3	Girls saying “why” when you ask for their number. They are just verbally and intentionally doing what they would naturally do either way, which is check for weakness in the face of beauty so they can gauge how preselected you are. They want to know why you want their number thinking that it is just because they look good, they expect you to give an answer related to their physical appearance. Them asking "why?" is a good thing, it's not an outright rejection, she's giving you an opening to give a good answer. View it as an "interest test" inste…	/r/seduction	23/01/25 05:36 PM
17	What is some of the worst seduction advice you heard on the internet? "focus on self improvement" Self improvement is separate from seduction. When guys link the two in their minds, they enter into "try hard" energy and try to upsell themselves based on their improvements and appear even less preselected for doing so, making women feel like deer in headlights. Self improvement is very important to us men. If you did the work and got a good physique and some money in your pocket you should carry yourself as if you were born like that and it's your default with no n…	/r/seduction	22/01/25 08:34 PM
1	How do i get confident talking to girls IRL in a romantic way Remove logic and don't put yourself into "try hard" energy. Move and speak like life is easy and you were born the way you are right now. I will go as far to say don't even flirt. Have regular conversations about illogical and fun subjects avoiding personal questions and oftentimes the girl will flirt first...that way you know she chose you and not the other way around.	/r/seduction	22/01/25 04:06 PM
2	2nd date wasn't as good as the 1st.. should I wait for her to text or should I text? I usually text when I get home after the 1st date Stop doing that. You're lucky she showed up for a second date. I wouldn't bet on her texting you. Send her ONE text in a few days and forget about it.	/r/seduction	22/01/25 03:57 PM
6	Safety tips on inviting girls over or going to their place. Any girl that is willing to hook up within 72 hours of meeting them is getting taken to the Hotel Mama Bicho, i aint taking chances.	/r/seduction	22/01/25 01:28 PM
0	Paying for dates I don't go on dates until after the girl has already slept with me and we both decided we are still interested in each other. After that I suggest alternating taking care of the bills. Women have their own careers and their own money, I'm not going to insult the fact.	/r/seduction	22/01/25 12:44 AM
1	Weirdest scenarios yet Because they are baiting you into being more interested in them than they are in you and you were falling for it. They do that by acting more promiscuously than they actually are or acting more traditional than they actually are.	/r/seduction	21/01/25 06:34 PM
5	Lots of IOIs but no actual interest Women can use IOIs and even give u contact info as a deception to keep u happy when u are physically present as a safety mechanism upon or after an approach...once they are away from you, they ghost. Cold approach is no good. Women are the choosers, so the very act of cold approach can make the girl perceive try hard energy, and the risk of giving off that aura is actually higher for successful men or guys on self improvement. You can decern whether or not IOIs are a deception. If u are obliviou…	/r/seduction	21/01/25 03:07 PM
24	Pulling without a place I had friends and coworkers that have spent time homeless...yet they still got more ass than a toilet seat. They always found some girl to adopt them for dick. This is women wanting to fix broken dudes. These guys had stuff in common; they never once looked like they were homeless. Tight haircuts at all times, and u could tell they never held their situation against themselves. The only stuff that will bother the girl is the stuff that bothers you. You communicate you are staying at your parents…	/r/seduction	20/01/25 07:07 PM
2	Got to hit and then got served the worst flake out in the history of flake outs? Their actions tell me they aren't (all) messed up in their heads, they all just operate polar opposite to male logic. Once I adopted that mindset it became difficult to turn a girl off. I am a relationship oriented person and like showing affection, which got me stomped on for many years until I learned the balance. I realized I can do whatever I want as long as I execute it as a preselected man would. For example, if I want to cuddle; I put up last minute resistance with my words and body posit…	/r/seduction	20/01/25 04:59 PM
9	Got to hit and then got served the worst flake out in the history of flake outs? The sex is not why you got ghosted. The cuddling after the sex was. You did or said something post sex that came across as becoming attached. After the first time you hit, it's even more important to be detached because this is when the girls evaluation of your preselection level goes into overdrive. Girls that play the good girl game and claim they aren't that type of girl are the experts of deception.	/r/seduction	20/01/25 02:21 PM
77	What is your best technique when it comes to texting? Minimize texting to the point where you don't need a technique. Women are not the cause of modern dating struggles...the invention of the cell phone is because it deceived people into adopting unnatural communication patterns. Nothing will tank your s.m.v. faster than the device in your pocket for many reasons. Women's attraction increases through absence, you can text all the right things at all the right intervals and the woman would still get turned off for over-communicating when you aren't …	/r/seduction	20/01/25 09:20 AM
3	Lost my communication skills with women and it feels depressing when I'm realising it.... If I can summarize, have normal conversation with no motive and see if the girl flirts first. That way she is choosing you and not the other way around. You want to speak and behave like you are preselected at all times. If you already have quality options or are taken or married, you naturally aren't going to automatically like a woman you don't know just because she is good looking, this is the kind of man u need to emulate in 2025. A girl can't desire or earn your interest if you walk up and …	/r/seduction	18/01/25 06:20 PM
4	Lost my communication skills with women and it feels depressing when I'm realising it.... Maybe you didn't change but society definitely did, it ain't just you feeling like you lost your game. 5+ years ago you could still directly express interest in a woman and she would often be flattered and reciprocate just for you having the balls to say something. The pandemic happened and every girl that wasn't already using dating apps and heavily using social media started doing so; now all women have infinite options regardless of their looks and personality. Now you can display that exact …	/r/seduction	18/01/25 04:55 PM
16	Inviting a girl to your place within the first 3 dates? You don't verbally approach the situation. She already knows you want sex so you don't want to crash the vibe. In my experience every time I closed with a girl at my place for the first time, I never directly asked her to come over. I would usually part ways with her and call it a night. Sometimes the girl would hit me up an hour later with something like "I really wanted to go back with you", and I would reply "you still can" and she would show up.	/r/seduction	18/01/25 04:42 PM
1	How to spike emotions in women It feels harsh to us. From a woman's point of view; enabling these emotions is a good deed. Their whole game is to make us think this is not the case, which is why they confirm the fact with how they behave and not what they say.	/r/seduction	17/01/25 07:21 PM
7	How to spike emotions in women It's a toxic mentality in the eyes of men. Women consider anything that is not boring or good for their emotions ethically good. In fact they consider liars to be more honest than honest men...if the lies stimulated her emotions.	/r/seduction	16/01/25 12:58 AM
3	How to spike emotions in women I played with the settings, should be good	/r/seduction	15/01/25 10:11 PM
3	How to spike emotions in women You can try. I don't know how dms on reddit work.	/r/seduction	15/01/25 10:07 PM
7	Only getting rejection when going direct Dating coaches are scam artists. If they coached you effectively, you would have no need for repeat business with them. Women want what they can't have, so you can't signal that you can be instantly won over. By being direct, you are confirming a high interest level in someone you don't even know, which makes the girl think you can be weakened or deceived by her physical beauty. You always want to remain less interested in the girl than she is in you. When your interest level exceeds hers, she f…	/r/seduction	15/01/25 08:50 PM
12	How to spike emotions in women I already gave you the answer. Try to see through a female lens. Saying things that create chaos, turmoil, drama, and competition anxiety are negatives to MEN. These toxic things stimulate emotion in a way that confirms you as a safe bet and preselected because you are competent enough to know that they turn her on despite what she says. Women see these things as positives, and it's their job to convince us that is not the case. The way they behave in response is completely contradictory to how …	/r/seduction	15/01/25 08:32 PM
6	How to spike emotions in women It's the same whether u are committed or not. It's not about being disloyal or unethical, it's about having the ability to do so if you chose to be a dirtbag. Im in a serious relationship and I really like my girl and I never was a cheater and would not do that to her. regardless: there is more than one woman I know that would hook up with me tonight if I was available, and she knows it because I still behave in a preselected manner. I don't overtly try to stir up drama, but sometimes she thinks…	/r/seduction	15/01/25 08:03 PM
27	How to spike emotions in women The chaos and drama comes from you having the ability to sleep with other women whether or not you intend to. It's all stuff that indicates preselection. For example you don't come home on time or are late to a date and don't answer the girls texts. You show up and have to hear about it, and you tell her that you work all day and you will do as you please. You argue then 10 minutes later her clothes fall off. You behaving and talking like that to her without the details makes her think about who…	/r/seduction	15/01/25 04:12 PM
50	How to spike emotions in women Say things that instill chaos, turmoil, competition anxiety, and fear of missing out and drama. All of the above takes priority in a woman's mind over looks, status and money. Women will verbally talk like these things are negatives but will behave otherwise. I always used to criticize men for being addicted to and causing drama but I was wrong. They didn't like drama any more than I did...they leveraged it to keep their women turned on. Women keep spouting how they hate drama yet always keep th…	/r/seduction	15/01/25 03:30 PM
2	High rejection ratio on daygame Try approaching with the assumption that the girl already doesn't like you. It's counterintuitive yet makes a difference, it keeps you outcome independent and out of try hard energy and also tunes your mind to make you not automatically like the girl just because she's hot...so you aren't making her feel like a prize/property.	/r/seduction	11/01/25 11:02 PM
4	I have a date tonight and she wants to bring her family member child to the date Just go. Don't worry about being "assertive" or "establishing boundaries" when it comes to the kid at the date. To do so would be perceived by the woman as premature investment. Letting it happen in this instance means you are outcome independent and might just be a safe bet.	/r/seduction	11/01/25 08:36 PM
51	Th power of saying no ! Saying no to women is an aphrodisiac and your instincts know this, which is why you feel the way that you do when denying a girl. They may or may not say harsh things in response, but watch how they behave and communicate afterwards. Saying no to an attractive woman is one the biggest demonstrators of preselection, because the female ego assumes that the only way you don't say yes or are not agreeable is if you already have women of equal or greater quality.	/r/seduction	09/01/25 05:13 PM
6	Asked to sit down with them, but they got up and walked away Everything you did there made it obvious you don't have game and triggered their safety mechanisms, which they sub communicated to each other. The "game" is behaving like a preselected man at all times because women prioritize illusions of value over actual value. Read that thrice. You acted like they were your only options yet they weren't even options at all, which is exactly what gets people pepper sprayed. You should have had a fun and detached chat without immediately jumping to personal qu…	/r/seduction	08/01/25 04:10 PM
20	"So why are you texting me?" She wants you to get to the point. This is different than irl interactions where you can sub communicate intent and vibe with tone of voice and mannerisms. With social media as the median and texting as the communication method, all that matters is if she likes your pics, so she already made up her mind if u are a Chad or a Brad. You just have to ask her to meet up and it's either a yes or a no, anything else is just filler that wastes both your time.	/r/seduction	08/01/25 02:51 PM
1	What do you do when a woman you’ve been talking to (and with good rapport) says she feels off and probably doesn’t want to talk today? Fair enough, she needs the space. Now you need to consider why you agreed to delete dating apps before you even met up. That should only happen when u enter a committed relationship. Even if she actually deleted hers, she might resent you for cutting off your options prematurely unless she is that rare exception.	/r/seduction	08/01/25 02:42 PM
1	What do you do when a woman you’ve been talking to (and with good rapport) says she feels off and probably doesn’t want to talk today? I don't dignify that with a response, I do the same thing that she is doing which is talk to someone else. In my experience, if the girl is genuinely interested; she will still talk to me on her "off" days and share what's so off about it.	/r/seduction	08/01/25 01:41 PM
78	Impossible shit test A no win scenario is always a possibility. You can't lose if you don't play. Disregard it.	/r/seduction	05/01/25 01:37 PM
7	How can I end first dates smoother? Tell her it was fun and stoically walk away without even hugging her. Watch what happens.	/r/seduction	05/01/25 02:41 AM
16	What's your WORST cold approaching experience? Genetics and ease of access	/r/seduction	04/01/25 05:48 PM
40	What's your WORST cold approaching experience? I had an entire fraternity engage in a car chase with me because I asked a random girl to dance at a party, and she actually did dance with me. I then got screamed at by one of the dudes to leave immediately, and I told him to make me. He started throwing blows but I was able to get him to the ground and I booked it to my car and realized after several turns that multiple cars were following me. Knowing I was outnumbered I drove straight into police HQ so they dispersed 🤣. I found out from frien…	/r/seduction	04/01/25 05:29 PM
5	Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them? Which is why I was claiming that directly expressing interest is an effective filter. If you tell a girl you really like her and she rolls her eyes at you in disgust and takes a condescending tone, she is most likely the modern type. This applies whether or not she was initially attracted. If you express interest and the girl reciprocates and is flattered( if she is initially attracted) or politely turns you down with no hard feelings (if you just aren't her type); this is more of a traditional …	/r/seduction	04/01/25 01:11 AM
2	Looking for a mentor It's about balance. If you want something serious you can be husband material, you can show it via actions you take but just don't talk like it. You can be a good provider and still have the girl put you in the fuckboi category. You do this by speaking absolute nonsense, refrain from logical or deep conversations and just make her feel like it is fun to talk to you. When players talk there really is no definitive start or end point to the convo, it's all vibe. Sign up for Casey Zander's "languag…	/r/seduction	04/01/25 12:00 AM
3	Looking for a mentor It's actually your accomplishments and achievements that hold you back. You hit the grind and succeeded in many ways when focusing on yourself, and you check a lot of female's boxes. In doing so, it's time to realize you never needed those boxes checked to find quality women. for a potential gf or wife. Successful men make a common mistake when dating, and that is using their successes as social lubricant, either externally or internally. You have your life together but you can't lead with that.…	/r/seduction	03/01/25 11:30 PM
6	The perfect example Keep in mind a good portion of women have the same social issues alot of men struggle with. Some simply don't display body language and i.o.i.s that reflects their thoughts and feelings because it doesn't come naturally to them. On my first date with my current girl we had interesting conversations and she was verbally flirty but her body language seemed closed off so I was going to give her space and not push for another date, figuring she wasn't too interested. The next night she used the anci…	/r/seduction	03/01/25 05:45 PM
2	What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you? The best cure for resentment is to study and learn under the very people that you resent. Part of being a good leader is being a good follower...it means knowing when to defer the lead to someone more skilled than you in a given specific area. The guys that can pull all have one thing in common...getting women is not their primary objective, it's a side mission. Having higher priorities neutralizes the thirsty energy so you become more attractive.	/r/seduction	03/01/25 02:50 PM
40	Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them? It depends on the woman, which is why directly expressing interest is an effective filter. Most modern women will be turned off because they will perceive you as not preselected, they want to be part of a rotation so they can't think they are your best or only option. With them you need to be stoic and detached. Traditional women from good families are more likely to be flattered because they are not looking to play games, they want to see some capacity for loyalty from someone masculine enough …	/r/seduction	03/01/25 11:52 AM
31	How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women? I'm going to take heat for this. Preselected men have a lot of communication behaviors in common with young American women. They aren't quick to respond, aren't easily available, and somewhat narcissistic and entitled, and always leaves breadcrumb trails of social evidence that he is up to no good at night. He is the cause of drama, not the effect of it. If you ever watched Maury or Springer, you can spot the preselected men and the beta males by this alone. It's not even about masculine or femi…	/r/seduction	31/12/24 06:52 PM
1	I think I’m starting to hate women… 99% of the attention that attractive women get is unwanted. It's harder for them than you think, every waking second has to be dedicated to managing and filtering options and dealing with repeated unwanted advances (harassment). You don't have those burdens as a guy. All you have to do is appear preselected until you actually become selected and it gets easier and easier.	/r/seduction	31/12/24 05:22 PM
26	How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women? That means a man who already has women of equal or greater caliber than his target interested in him or actively seeing him. This is why married and taken men get hit on more than single men, because women prioritize other women's desires and ways of thinking more than their own.	/r/seduction	31/12/24 01:38 PM
73	How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women? You don't tell a girl you are seeing other women until she asks you directly, because she already knows. Preselected men with multiple options behave in a way that women detect instantly, which is why each woman got involved with you in the first place, this concept is the root of everything I talk about on this sub. If she brings it up, you want to confirm preselection without being hurtful. You simply say you can't invest in anyone at this time and are actively meeting people. It's a win win. …	/r/seduction	31/12/24 11:34 AM
1	Dating without dating apps is so much better. There really is no clear cut solution, u just need to date a bunch of women so you can get a sense of who has the capacity for loyalty. Any girl that tells you she never had flings with guys that don't care is lying. Smart girls get out of that phase while still young, others end up never getting off that cc and get old and wonder why they can't find a guy to commit to them. A girl will show clear green flags if she likes you enough to be loyal to you. She will start doing all the stuff that you…	/r/seduction	30/12/24 03:04 PM
2	Nothing to say/Mind going Blank You just need to implement conversational threading. It's very basic and there are many coaching videos on it. Its entire purpose is to give you additional relevant subject matter without you having to run a search engine in your mind to find what to say. Pick up on a key word the other person has used and use it to continue the topic or expand on it, or to pivot to a different subject altogether. This way you are letting the other person do the thinking for you and you are making a connection i…	/r/seduction	27/12/24 10:51 PM
1	I’m thinking about spending $3,000 on a photographer who offers professional photo shoots, a personal stylist for each session, and dating advice. I guarantee if you go through with this you will be severely disappointed. Think with a woman's mind. Professional photo shoots and stylists and coaching will put you into "try hard" energy. Women do not want you to exert that kind of effort into winning them over because it signals you aren't preselected. This is why trying too hard like that triggers their safety mechanisms. The preselected guy is more likely to sport jeans and a beater with sunglasses and have his boy take cheap cell phone pi…	/r/seduction	27/12/24 05:44 PM
4	Should I accept girls as friends? Not as platonic friends unless being manipulated is something you enjoy. They will assume you are playing some long game and will milk all the attention and resources they can get out of you. It is possible to have female friends but there has to be something in it for both people. Women want everything from men and men really just want intimacy from women, so a FWB that behaves like an actual friend that has your back is really the only acceptable female friendship. This is the type that will g…	/r/seduction	27/12/24 03:37 PM
22	Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot? No. That's an easy way to turn a woman off. If she is someone you want to be with it's even more important to not do that. What happens when you test loyalty is you do not appear preselected and you tank your own s.m.v. Once she feels like the only option you are done.	/r/seduction	26/12/24 02:58 PM
3	No Public IOIs? Always work on yourself, but also realize iois don't tend to happen when you are looking for them. IOIs happen when you aren't even paying attention, because women want what isn't easily available, so you will never know about most IOIs you have actually had aimed at you. With all that said, don't worry about IOIs. They are not required to start a conversation, just be normal. Just have regular conversations with women and see who you vibe with and who gives you IOIs directly.	/r/seduction	23/12/24 04:26 PM
1	What are the best conversation topics to talk about with women/ womens attraction to physical strength? I find that the hotter the girl, the more she likes stupid men. So talk stupid, but not nerd. speak nonsense so you don't get caught up in "try hard" energy. If you ever heard how the "players" interact, it sometimes sounds like a different language. There isn't really a concrete start or end point to the convo, the words and the vibe are one. The second you say something logical you murder that vibe. As for physical strength, most women only count it as attractive if that strength comes from a …	/r/seduction	22/12/24 03:29 PM
3	how do you recover if she says something was a creepy sentence About the same time tiktok went mainstream	/r/seduction	21/12/24 08:35 AM
20	how do you recover if she says something was a creepy sentence You don't. That was a direct rejection with indirect wording. A girl that is interested will not use the word "creepy" on you in any context, in fact she will just giggle at the exact same sentence that u said to the uninterested party. Words like "creepy" and "cringe"; women will only use on non Chads.	/r/seduction	20/12/24 12:51 PM
2	The secret to how most guys become playas I need whatever you smoked	/r/seduction	20/12/24 12:32 PM
2	One night seduction Women naturally have much more social competence than men. The giveaway is if she suddenly "loses" her social skills and composure for brief moments in your presence and acts fidgety and hyper and talks nonsense, because she sees you as an escape from reality which she don't have to worry about being completely socially acceptable. This is why a girl farting in front of you (as disgusting as it may be), is a reliable signal that you can hit it.	/r/seduction	19/12/24 07:01 PM
6	One night seduction Don't go in with a plan at all. Keep the verbal interaction as regular conversation, but have a silent sexual conversation in parallel with non verbal behaviors that display capacity for detachment so you appear preselected. For example if she leans in towards you, lean away a little and smirk as if she's being naughty. It's all about having an outgoing yet unattainable vibe. When you act like that, a girl that thinks u are attractive usually won't be afraid to initiate the physical touch or eve…	/r/seduction	19/12/24 06:11 PM
1	I keep running into this same pattern when it comes to dirty talk/sexting, and the girl ghosting me all a sudden. If you want to know the psychology behind it; every time you you sext or send nudes, you are actively failing shit tests before the girl can even give them. The more open a girl is to engaging in that behavior over the phone, the more she is baiting you to do so. The girl no longer needs to question your desire level, you showed your hand by not exercising sexual discipline outside the bedroom.This makes you look less preselected, which triggers female safety mechanisms and she ghosts you or blo…	/r/seduction	19/12/24 01:08 PM
-1	When dating a girl for a couple of months, do you plan every date? Nope. Doing so would ruin my outcome independence. Ive been in a relationship for 2 years and I still don't plan the dates. Dates are inherently a feminine thing. If I was already seeing a girl for a couple months, I tell her she already knows what I want to do (intercourse) so any other plans are on her. The puas have all of you fooled. "Masculine" qualities such as taking the lead and arranging dates or "checking" a woman you aren't committed to easily backfire because they make you appear les…	/r/seduction	18/12/24 07:08 PM
1	"28M and 26F: Her Behavior Changed After I Hung Out with Another Woman—What’s Going On?" This is an overcorrection on her part. Preselection is so powerful that even a taken woman will become uncontrollably attracted to you if she knows you are seeing someone who she is or used to be friends with. If she had a fallout with a person, the effect on your perceived smv is 10 fold. She might be loyal to her man and feels a sense of guilt over a possible change in how she feels about you, and attempts to negate that guilt by acting distant and not initiating as much. Truth is, her boyfrie…	/r/seduction	18/12/24 06:35 PM
3	"28M and 26F: Her Behavior Changed After I Hung Out with Another Woman—What’s Going On?" This is an overcorrection on her part. Preselection is so powerful that even a taken woman will become uncontrollably attracted to you if she knows you are seeing someone who she is or used to be friends with. If she had a fallout with a person, the effect on your perceived smv is 10 fold. She might be loyal to her man and feels a sense of guilt over a possible change in how she feels about you, and attempts to negate that guilt by acting distant and not initiating as much. Truth is, her boyfrie…	/r/seduction	18/12/24 06:34 PM
1	Long eye contact when walking As calmly and levelheaded as possible	/r/seduction	18/12/24 12:06 AM
1	In a Rut Examine concepts that you already know. The rut itself makes you appear less preselected. It's why it's so easy to hookup when you already have women but almost impossible when you don't. I find the best way to negate this is to just operate how you normally would, but have wing women to go out with. I cherish my few platonic female friends because they ain't afraid to dress up nice and come out and have a good time, and I don't even need game, the girls want to "steal" me from the hot chick.	/r/seduction	17/12/24 04:33 PM
3	Long eye contact when walking If the sustained eye contact happens organically you can approach. If it was you forcing it like a staring contest you shouldn't. Either acknowledge or greet the person within 3 seconds of mutual eye contact being established. That is how you are looking at the person without staring, and you already broke the ice.	/r/seduction	17/12/24 02:43 PM
82	How can I have sex with this person?? The naked man is a good method for divorced women. If you are at her house and she leaves the room for the restroom or whatever, be bare ass naked for when she returns. She might start sucking it just because u gave her a good laugh. This works exactly 2 out of 3 times. Have bailout money ready.	/r/seduction	15/12/24 02:51 PM
9	I’m not having fun talking to girls Oh Lord you learned from the wrong dude. He's one of those guys that says what he has to in order to farm views and subs, just like the rest of them. Believe it or not, based Zeus was way better (exact same person). All these dudes trying to give you instructions on how to talk and how to carry yourself but no one talks about how women actually think. Women treat life like a romance novel. Most novels involve the man having some character flaw that the girl feels compelled to correct for her own…	/r/seduction	15/12/24 01:40 PM
45	How to not get stressed around pretty girls The thing about hot girls is that they know what they look like, and leverage their appearance in of itself as a passive, sustained shit test. They use their appearance to filter out emotional weakness. This is an advantage, because the hotter the girl is, the better she responds to indifference. The quality of women available to you scales up in tandem with your outcome independence. The way to do this is to pinpoint how beauty throws you off kilter. This is that excited or "giddy" feeling you …	/r/seduction	15/12/24 01:08 PM
7	Controlling my lust The best way to control lust is to have multiple sex partners or be in a relationship where sex is constant. If you are getting regular sex, there is no need for lust outside the bedroom and it's easy to see the goodness of life and be objective because lust isn't dragging you down. Sex is not inherently bad, the distracting desire for it is; just as money isn't inherently evil but the love of it is.	/r/seduction	13/12/24 08:10 PM
1	How to ask friends sister on a date This is why I'm telling you to hook up with one of her friends. You become even more unattainable on top of her wanting what her friend has, when women are in that position they do not hesitate to do all the approaching and propositioning, taking the burden off you.	/r/seduction	12/12/24 09:40 PM
1	How to stand out from other men I actually swear by underselling myself (I'm not sure if there can be anything between us, I'm not exactly loyal..), it's controversial because it's counterintuitive...but something magical happens. I under qualify myself on purpose and suddenly the girl starts trying to upsell herself because I'm being the opposite of a "try hard"...that is how polarity applies to social concepts and not only behavioral traits.	/r/seduction	12/12/24 09:36 PM
3	How to ask friends sister on a date Forget about her and date one of her friends, u already have the preselection among that group of girls in your favor. More than once I've had sisters of friends that have been into me, and I would consider them off limits for years on end. The most recent one I caved in after 10 years of flirting and asked her out, but had a conversation with the brother first. He was neutral about it so me and the girl set a date. She not only instantly reversed her attitude and vibe towards me, she stood me u…	/r/seduction	12/12/24 09:20 PM
2	"Confused About Starting a Conversation" If you are confused on how to start a conversation with a girl you like, who is also a human, you won't appear preselected no matter how popular you are. Back to basics. Say hello and connect on something you observe about her, the surroundings, or mutual situation at hand that you are genuinely interested in. Observe, share, ask...in no particular order. hold the conversation by using conversational threading....taking a key word and branching off of that and repeating so u don't run dry on top…	/r/seduction	12/12/24 07:32 PM
14	How to stand out from other men If you want to stand out as a good option for women, you will be outcome independent. Even the vast majority of handsome guys don't get that. I lost count of how many times I've seen a girl roll her eyes and dismiss men that are much taller and better looking than myself, only for the same girl to flirt with me and sometimes hook up. This is because those guys went in attached to the outcome overselling themselves as if she is a prize to be won, making her feel like an object. They suddenly shif…	/r/seduction	11/12/24 02:59 PM
2	Is too much fun a turn off? The fun for them is having to keep shit testing you because you keep passing those tests. Once you fail and she feels like your interest level exceeds hers and she completely won u over, tests are no longer needed and she just leaves because it's no longer fun for her.	/r/seduction	11/12/24 10:55 AM
5	Women using seduction tactics on you. Women don't use tactics because they are already loaded with options. They use deception to filter their options. If a girl is using actual p.u.a. strategies on you, she is acting masculine to test if you will act feminine.	/r/seduction	10/12/24 10:28 AM
3	Is too much fun a turn off? Dudes misunderstand. It's about making the girl feel like she is having fun, it's not about you having fun. What women consider "fun" is fixing a broken man, but only for herself... basically romance novel thinking. The woman is going to get a thrill from trying to get the stern and serious masculine man to act feminine to "fix" him, and when she succeeds that book is closed and she moves on to the next one. Read that thrice.	/r/seduction	09/12/24 10:13 AM
60	how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the club I don't even recommend neurotypicals to try picking up chicks at clubs, they are the type that will cause long term strife for short term pleasure. If u really want to get girls from clubs, let silence be your friend and utilize a non verbal vibe. Guys that don't know how to talk get laid all the time, they are the ones that know when and how to shut the fuck up (in positive context)	/r/seduction	07/12/24 04:00 PM
1	What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game? Seduction sub. This stuff is for getting laid by entitled western women to generate options so when u find a girl that is worth it she knows you chose her over other women.	/r/seduction	06/12/24 05:09 AM
4	What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game? It's a seduction sub. Seduction is the polite word for manipulation, it's about reigniting past abandonment complexes or satisfying current complexes. My current girl don't take none of that, hence why I invested. She actually reciprocates affection and doesn't get turned off by it. If this was a relationship sub, I would say avoid women who think in storybook style and are grounded in real life, which is very few in the U S. For real commitment, not one person can chase the other, they need to …	/r/seduction	06/12/24 05:05 AM
18	What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game? I don't even think it's about being a loser, girls sleep with good looking losers while milking the pockets of winners. It seems it's the difference in fantasies. Men's fantasies are naturally good and peaceful; to land a girl who isn't broken and doesn't cause drama. Women's fantasies are dark, they crave the chaos and turbulence of dealing with a broken narcissist.	/r/seduction	05/12/24 04:57 PM
9	What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game? That style was good for flings when I was single, but I couldn't play like that with my current gf. She was 10 years younger, just completed grad school, she's almost never on her phone and her social media is limited to promoting her side hustle as a purse/jewelry maker, clearly has traditional values and from a good family. With those kind of green flags I went against the normal p.u.a. advice and I invested, however if I wasn't outcome independent and withheld in the beginning she probably wo…	/r/seduction	05/12/24 04:10 PM
79	What’s your biggest delusion or cope when it comes to game? Most of my life I was delusional when it came to women. I always used to think that the more I like a girl, the more she would like me. I didn't necessarily have the game wrong, I had it backwards. As I grew the courage to socialize with more beautiful women, i realized the more cold and brash and detached I was behaving, the more the girl flirted with me. If I talked with slight disdain in my tone, the girl would put more care into hers. It all led me to the conclusion that women want to fix br…	/r/seduction	05/12/24 02:38 PM
1	Anyone here quit smoking weed to improve their dating life? I suppose you can say I was able to learn control from the experience so I can carry over those traits to when I am sober and made them into my default state over time	/r/seduction	04/12/24 03:00 PM
1	seducing our storage boy I don't judge you or your terrible father.	/r/seduction	04/12/24 01:27 AM
45	Anyone here quit smoking weed to improve their dating life? It depends on how your body handles being high. When I quit for a year, my dating life dried up because when I don't smoke I'm hyper and overthink and speak too fast and intensely, all stuff that is not attractive. When I burn I'm more relaxed and nonchalant and in control of my vocal tone and my speed of thinking, all stuff that can be attractive. The key for me is weed never made me lazy or took my desire to socialize because in my case it helps my social skills. If the need for weed holds you…	/r/seduction	04/12/24 12:48 AM
4	If you’re not the best at cold approach, find a wingman who is. Emphasis on watch how he does it, learn from him but don't go approaching with him at the same venue. Do not partake with him around unless you want to feel salty a.f. when the girl u were trying to talk to goes home with him.	/r/seduction	04/12/24 12:37 AM
4	looking for a male perspective! :) If grinding is making the guy uncomfortable, turn around to reverse cowgirl and lean forward to put your hands in a pushup position on the bed and start dropping it, that way your knees and hands are taking most of the weight. Side note for the gentleman: notice how most posts from men pertain to getting sex and most posts from women is about sex they are already having. This is why you don't exert effort into impressing anyone.	/r/seduction	04/12/24 12:20 AM
-7	She wrote to me saying I’m playful/such a tease Let's not play that good girl game, what is it you want from me you naughty minx?	/r/seduction	03/12/24 09:28 PM
1	Should I tell her my real age? That is what it seems, but there is an underlying root cause for most instances of a woman's interest shifting. It happens when the guy says or does something that shows his interest level has exceeded the woman's, signaling he isn't as preselected as she thought. This root cause covers thousands of words and actions that confirm to the girl incongruence of who the guy is compared to who she thought he was. This is the cause of flaking and ghosting.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 06:06 PM
10	Should I tell her my real age? That age gap is an absolute joke, there is no need to lie at all. She made up her mind about you within seconds anyway.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 05:34 PM
5	Approach technique for 3some There has to be a 3rd woman involved to facilitate the approach. It's best if this person is one of the girls that has already partaken, because the key is to demonstrate you are a couple that is preselected.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 01:17 PM
0	Is it possible or useful to qualify women in basic conversation? Wet for multiple reasons, the preselection thing is an effect of that specific example, but it does connect to the overall theme of outcome independence. You are signaling emotional strength just by being able to have a regular convo in the face of beauty without getting excited so the girl feels like u see her as an equal and not as property. You take this further by underselling yourself. It's easy to think you are disqualifying yourself by doing this, but girls think in reverse. Platonic inte…	/r/seduction	03/12/24 02:31 AM
3	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? When you are so committed to your purpose that your time becomes a valuable asset, a lot of women will give you the option depending on what you want. If you want a romantic relationship, she will be down because you can give security. If you want a fling, she will be down because you appear preselected due to not prioritizing her. My girl could be getting naked at 1am and I get a service call as a mobile mechanic. If I refused that job so I could get laid, she would've rolled her eyes at me and…	/r/seduction	03/12/24 01:07 AM
13	Dating without dating apps is so much better. I didn't find anyone that gave me that same treatment until I stole the method from the female playbook, but it's more of a romantic dating topic. I started withholding sex from women that found me attractive simply for existing. I met my girl last year, and she was really humble and consistent with communicating and she didn't use social media. With those kind of green flags, I withheld and told her to behave herself for a month and something I never seen was happening...mutual effort, not one …	/r/seduction	03/12/24 12:56 AM
-1	Is it possible or useful to qualify women in basic conversation? This is going to sound counterintuitive. You undersell yourself in regular conversation. You are then the opposite of a "try hard" hence not needy. Example: "I'm currently single because I'm not sure if I can be loyal"...you just made the girl wet even if you said this during platonic conversation	/r/seduction	02/12/24 10:59 PM
19	Dating without dating apps is so much better. I know, which is why I am now a reformed relationship oriented man...if I want a quality woman I have to be a quality person. This is a seduction sub so I share what I learned from being on the toxic side. It's morally wrong, but if you want to get laid fast, toxicity works.	/r/seduction	02/12/24 07:56 PM
1	Daygame, every number flakes? I'm not saying to stop approaching, you actually have to approach 10 fold to make attractive behaviors your default state and become approachable. I'm saying to stop "cold approaching". The pua terminology in your brain is what messes up your mindset. Replace "cold approaching" with "meeting new people". You can greet or acknowledge anyone you want no matter the setting, the person either dismisses the convo or extends it, it's called being normal. I met my current gf by meeting people that aren…	/r/seduction	02/12/24 07:51 PM
21	Dating without dating apps is so much better. I try to put the concept into words. Women's sexual behavior exists in "superposition". They are not good girls or hos. They are both and they are neither. The girl behaves in accordance with how she categorizes each individual guy she is talking to. She will be a good girl for a "keeper". At the same time she will be a ho for an expendable dude that she thinks is hot. They try to have it both ways simultaneously, that is 90% of women on apps and/or over 30 right now.	/r/seduction	02/12/24 07:09 PM
1	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? "Society lied to you when they told you the man courts the woman. Women are the choosers, and they chose a competent hunter gatherer. If you are too busy exerting effort into courting, you ain't hunting/gathering".	/r/seduction	02/12/24 06:50 PM
45	Dating without dating apps is so much better. I abolished apps when logic kicked in. "Why would a woman put herself online when she can get laid whenever she wants even if she's average?" It's because despite popular opinions, they use the apps to screen for resource indicators and look for their beta provider, hence why most say "no hookups" so that Brad expects her to withhold from him and be a "good girl" he can win over while she keeps sleeping over at Chad's, who never spent a dime on her and refused to commit. I know because I've been…	/r/seduction	02/12/24 06:43 PM
2	Daygame, every number flakes? Keep in mind why flaking happens. Women are masters of detecting when you deviate from your default state, which they consider emotional weakness. If you did everything by the book and were nonchalant and not needy and playful, that's probably exactly why u got flaked on. If you were forcing yourself to show those traits as a tactic, and that isn't who you are at all times, the girl knows it. Women are the choosers. Stop cold approaching. You are automatically handing them the leverage. Take all…	/r/seduction	02/12/24 04:27 PM
7	How many times should I ask her out? Don't ask her out anymore. Once a woman declines and goes unresponsive, you can't keep asking her out. To do so is the actual definition of harassment...repeated advances after she said no the first time. This kind of stuff is exactly why guys get eviscerated if not reported. You return the favor and ignore her and generate other options, that is the only way u have a shot with her in the future	/r/seduction	02/12/24 03:32 PM
7	Books/ podcasts dedicated to texting? Women being so flakey There isn't much resources that will change anything, women just have too many options so they don't have to reject guys in a respectful manner, they just leave you hangin. Let them flake. The girls that are least likely to flake are the ones that see one guy at a time, aren't addicted to i.g. and probably don't have a bull ring and multicolored hair. They are rare, but most good things are.	/r/seduction	30/11/24 01:22 AM
1	How much does a great body help in attracting females? 10% body, 80% sex appeal, 10% personality. If you look at all the dudes in the real world that always have women; they have all sorts of different bodies and personalities but their haircut and facial hair always taper in congruence with their shoulder to waist body taper. That masculine geometry is part of the sex appeal in part because it reflects congruence of the internal core to overt behaviors.	/r/seduction	29/11/24 12:17 PM
4	How to avoid overthinking when wanting to make a spontaneous cold approach Don't overcompensate for overthinking by turning off your thinking completely. Consider very few basic criteria u want your opener to meet, then think fast off that. I use 3 criteria to make a semi random statement The opener has to be relevant to the social situation at hand. The opener must imply that the girl is not the prize. The opener must not make logical sense. An example would be a blonde cougar was exiting the store with a couple cases of beer, I get the door for her and I say "how tho…	/r/seduction	28/11/24 11:35 PM
2	Should Autistic Men Not Even Try? That isn't what I see, and I'm so autistic I used to think farting was a proper greeting. If you look through the lens of what the Internet says reality is, then yeah, women demand perfect, only Chad has a chance, LMS or bust .. If you look at actual reality and the behaviors and energy of people towards each other, then what women demand is a broken dude that she wants to fix, but only for her. Read that thrice. Girls milk resources from chads while they sleep with idiots.	/r/seduction	28/11/24 11:19 PM
2	Should Autistic Men Not Even Try? You do know always trying to be socially "correct" or trying to display perfect social skills is a turn off for women, right? Women don't like try hards. For this reason, u can twist autism into an advantage. Your problem is you see autism as weakness and overcompensate and get stuck in struggle energy. You want to give off "life is easy" energy. You don't have to be neurotypical for that...play into autism and speak nonsense...girls think it's cuter and funnier than saying the "right" things.	/r/seduction	28/11/24 10:23 PM
1	I'm having difficulties escalating on a date The more romantically detached a guy is, the more you want to know what you did wrong...hence why you are posting here. They probably think if they reciprocated interest then you would think you can do better and just ghost them. From my experience they are correct.	/r/seduction	28/11/24 01:52 AM
1	What’s your best day game tips? Because by playing "daygame" dudes are acting differently around attractive women than everyone else hence showing "try hard" energy and handing the woman the leverage on a silver platter.	/r/seduction	27/11/24 12:55 PM
0	Tell me what you think about my current scenario This seems textbook. Usually when pulling back has the undesired effect, the girl hooked up with someone else or her kid's dad and projected feeling deviant onto you by accusing you of being mad about something you could not have known about. Forget single moms. Even if you are a single father...it's even more important to find someone who isn't stuck on the c.c.	/r/seduction	26/11/24 11:06 PM
4	When a woman says "let's take things slowly"? The more a girl likes you, the more she withholds. If a girl thinks you have boyfriend potential, she cares about how you perceive her and she doesn't want you to think she is easy. If you are expendable to her, but she finds you attractive, she will be more likely to sleep with you quickly because she doesn't care how you perceive her. This is why you never try to please a woman or go out of your way to establish a romantic connection. They behave in accordance with how they categorize each ind…	/r/seduction	26/11/24 12:43 PM
2	I can’t force things. Feel like a lot of us van relate. When you try to win people over on command, you are trying to force a vibe which can make people feel like a deer in headlights. People don't feel that way when you naturally cross paths and meet in the commission of a separate objective because you aren't raising your internal emotions and you are remaining in your default state, coming off as genuine. There are ways to train yourself to get around this catch 22. You can approach and talk to any woman or any person that you want if you can mast…	/r/seduction	26/11/24 12:23 PM
2	What's your line to seeing an attractive woman? Underselling yourself is counterintuitive but so are females. I got laid by telling a girl "Im not sure if u want to know me, I'm not exactly loyal and I'll probably expect you to pay for the dates as a barter." "In exchange for what?", she replied. I ask, "Care to find out?" and she drove me straight to her place where I gave her pulsating orgasms....then she got clingy. I still don't remember how I escaped that morning.	/r/seduction	25/11/24 09:24 PM
23	What's your line to seeing an attractive woman? This is the only correct answer. You have to use Costanza method. Do and say the direct opposite of what you normally would to show irrational confidence.	/r/seduction	25/11/24 06:00 PM
4	They Reflect You I somewhat disagree though the concept is true in practice, but there is a caviet. The quality and quantity available to you are based on outward illusions of value, not actual value or your internal feelings if it. One guy shows up who knows his worth and understands his own value, but is bland normal joe on the outside. Another guy struggles and he knows it, sometimes doubts his value, but he shows up with a gold watch and aviator shades as if he knows he's bad. Which one of these guys in this…	/r/seduction	24/11/24 01:23 PM
43	What’s your best day game tips? Picture a good car salesman versus a bad car salesman. A good salesman keeps the pressure off and lets the customers look around and keeps himself in a position where they approach him for service.when they see something they like. This salesman has the leverage. A bad salesman approaches the customer upon entry and talks their ear off and tries to convince the person into considering something they may not even want. In this situation, the customer has the leverage. The moral here is that the p…	/r/seduction	22/11/24 11:53 PM
1	What are your go to questions when meeting new people ? When my girl starts bitching about Harris losing I deflect with nonsense so an argument doesn't happen and the vibe remains fun Here's one from the other day that made her bite me: "don't blame me for voting red...I truly believe writing in Elmo was the right choice to make public television great again" (Captain Morgan pose)	/r/seduction	22/11/24 12:19 PM
1	BEST Tinder Response to "What are you looking for?" "intercourse, it's what this is for"	/r/seduction	22/11/24 12:34 AM
64	Dealing with last minute resistance from 9s and 10s the bad kind of last minute resistance is where the girl wants to leave then block you. Not much u can do about that, this is when she finds you sexually unattractive. If she's sees you as expendable yet sexually attractive, she's more likely to hook up with you fast. When a girl likes you and sees complete package potential, she will also give resistance because she cares if you think she is easy. In the later scenario, it's to test your interest level to confirm beauty can't hold power over yo…	/r/seduction	21/11/24 10:11 PM
4	What are your go to questions when meeting new people ? There is factors, it all depends on your age, the girl's age, and what you are looking for. I'm mid 30s and when I was single and just wanted to build options for fwbs, I went with talking to women around my own age or older and doing the detached thing because I'm actually detached, I'm not investing in high milage. In turn, I am expendable so they don't care if I think they are easy, so the ones that are sexually attracted to me usually try to get theirs without having to jump through the hoop…	/r/seduction	21/11/24 08:10 PM
23	What are your go to questions when meeting new people ? I ask what year she graduated. It's the social loophole that lets you get the girl's age without being offensive. From there I continue depending on how old she is. If she is 26 or older I stop asking questions that establish connection and just start talking nonsense to remain detached and be expendable to her so she doesn't care if I perceive her as easy, making a hookup more likely. If she is 20 through 25, I'll invest. I'll ask her where she's from and where she is going, ask about her sibli…	/r/seduction	21/11/24 07:11 PM
2	How are you using frame control? Frame control is a balancing act. I learned the simplest way is energy control combined with outcome independence. Harness that and the frame controls itself. Best way to describe it is I am maintaining "life is easy" energy. I'm not giving off "struggle energy" or "try hard" aura. It started with dumbing myself down. A lot. Now I talk about simple things in a fun and nonsensical manner with a smile as if I'm just coasting easily through life, with no care if I get somewhere with the person or n…	/r/seduction	20/11/24 08:00 PM
1	Girl at gym It's ok to continue socializing as normal acquaintances, but she clearly has chosen a top option that is not you. The next day her top option will be someone that isn't him. What is not ok to keep socializing with the hope of getting somewhere with her. Stay separated from possible outcomes.	/r/seduction	20/11/24 06:59 PM
0	How do you respond to rejection texts? I block. Non response isn't enough, I ain't trying to pull back in hopes of using reverse psychology to change her mind, I legit don't want to deal with someone that isn't interested.	/r/seduction	20/11/24 06:48 PM
1	Can You forgive a Cheater? If I expect to be forgiven, it is right to forgive. That does not mean I associate with that person any further and knowingly putting myself in position for a repeat.	/r/seduction	20/11/24 05:45 PM
-3	Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount? Any tangible "proof" can be questioned. The proof is in how people behave.	/r/seduction	20/11/24 04:45 PM
13	Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount? Biologically speaking, there is a huge difference. Men naturally get an "ick" factor when they know a woman has a high body count. Women get that exact same "ick" factor when they know a man has a low body count. This is why a man's s.m.v. increases with experience, and a woman's s.m.v. drops with experience. Women feel physically safer with a man that is preselected by other women because they prioritize how other women think over their own thoughts, men think for themselves.	/r/seduction	20/11/24 04:21 PM
5	Sex on the first date You answered your own question. If the girl seems annoyed or don't take suggestions and goes home with you anyway, she sees you as expendable so she don't care if you perceive her as easy. A girl that wants a romantic connection with you will care about how you perceive her so she may withhold.	/r/seduction	19/11/24 10:55 PM
12	What should guys know about girls physically and emotionally? Emotionally: girls are unstable. this is because of varying estrogen levels. Because of the instability, their safety mechanisms are hyper sensitive to not only testosterone, but a steady level of it. This is why the more level you are and the less "try hard" u come across, the more the girl likes you. If you can refrain from shifting your emotions in the face of beauty, that signals ability to remain calm under duress and level your testosterone. If you want to make a girl safe, keep your inter…	/r/seduction	19/11/24 07:23 PM
1	Can approaching girls in the street lead to a relationship? It is not different. Most people now meet on dating apps. Most people also now get divorced or dissolve the relationship. There is a definite correlation.	/r/seduction	19/11/24 05:28 PM
-4	Can approaching girls in the street lead to a relationship? It's different because you are remaining in your default state and not automatically giving validation by the act of approaching, you are in it for an interesting interaction, not pussy. You should meet anyone you want. You talk to any type of person you think has potential to be interesting, and talk to men, women, and old people all the same, and some of these people that you meet might happen to be attractive women that happen to be into you. Other people u meet might be able to introduce to …	/r/seduction	19/11/24 02:45 PM
2	How to approach someone in a tech park? Say hello and introduce yourself like one adult to another. Shit, even small children know how to do that. she will either dismiss or extend the interaction.	/r/seduction	19/11/24 02:04 PM
-5	Can approaching girls in the street lead to a relationship? If the two people happen to cross paths and meet in an organic way then it's completely possible because a mutual foundation of interest was established. If the man goes out of his way to "cold approach" for no reason other than the woman's beauty and forces a vibe then no...the foundation of how it started was rooted in lust. Very handsome guys can pull this off to get sex, but any relationship that forms will be toxic.	/r/seduction	19/11/24 01:31 PM
3	Reach out to old friend I would say reach out to her and talk to her as a friend to figure out if you are actually interested in her aside from what she looks like before advancing, you don't want her to feel like a deer in headlights. It's been 12 years, you are both different people than you once were, you can't go in blind, and u also can't trust what women post, that's just the public image they want to portray, you can only evaluate how they behave offline, then decide if you want to ask her out romantically.	/r/seduction	19/11/24 01:23 PM
6	Flake looking likely. Do a takeaway? This sounds like she likes you, but is exercising her options like any woman would. Instead of planning on whether you are ghosting her or confirming her, just make other plans, whether it be with another girl or something more important. You will then naturally either pull back or confirm based on your plans or lack thereof. Pulling back only works when you have a legit reason, it can't be a premeditated strategy, trust me; the universe will somehow tell the girl you are pulling back as a tacti…	/r/seduction	18/11/24 09:48 PM
1	praising girls I never tried. I didn't have to. The coke approach is a female approach. I just pull out a bag and the skinny white girls approach me.	/r/seduction	18/11/24 02:06 PM
21	praising girls Jezebel, hoodlum, cumquat, malignant. Use positive terms in a neutral tone if you want her to like you. Use negative terms in a positive tone if you want her to be turned on by you.	/r/seduction	17/11/24 11:58 PM
19	Why am I so grounded everywhere else in life but seduction? Women just operate differently. You decided to improve your dating life, so you need Costanza method. Do everything the opposite that you normally would. If you wanted to get better at a sport, you exert maximum effort. If you wanted to elevate yourself in your career field....maximum effort. You want to be better with women...exert minimum effort to demonstrate that the effort is saved for higher priorities than her so she can actually feel safe with you as a competent hunter gatherer. You earn…	/r/seduction	17/11/24 01:48 AM
35	Why am I so grounded everywhere else in life but seduction? In order to achieve the successes in life that made you into a calm grounded person, you must have exerted effort. Exert effort into everything you do EXCEPT for trying to win women over. Becoming ungrounded around women is the result of you being more interested in the girl than she is in you. If you maintain your interest levels below hers, your behaviors will be as grounded as they are at any other time.	/r/seduction	17/11/24 01:20 AM
14	Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs? Yes. At normal restaurants that have bars in them Clubs...no	/r/seduction	16/11/24 11:21 PM
2	Cold Approaching a girl with a friend who is clearly less attractive You are not wrong. This takes skill and balance and ability to read the room. The attractive one already has to be eyeballing you because she knows exactly what you're trying; if she's into you, she won't care. This was proven by Barney Stinson many times. He runs a play that's obvious bullshit and the girl knows it....goes home with him anyway.	/r/seduction	16/11/24 08:37 PM
10	Cold Approaching a girl with a friend who is clearly less attractive Hit on the less attractive friend to make the more attractive girl feel like her s.m.v. tanked so that yours appears to be above hers. In my case I like chubby girls so I actually have to hit on the hot one🤣	/r/seduction	16/11/24 07:43 PM
3	A guide to a great date with a not-so-great girl Yes, it's worked multiple times. One freaked out, from that I learned not to bluntly ask unless the girl already signals she wants it quick. Sometimes you talk about what u are looking for and when you say you're staying single and meeting people, or u aren't looking for fast commitment; the girl's eyes will light up and she starts acting like a richard fiend. That is the green light to proposition her directly, because that's clearly what she wants. The key is I only ruled out a possible commit…	/r/seduction	16/11/24 07:37 PM
3	A guide to a great date with a not-so-great girl That's the beauty of two people that consider each other expendable, why not?	/r/seduction	16/11/24 04:37 PM
-3	Why am I getting dumped after one date? This is why women will sleep with verbally abusive men for years commitment free. I do not condone any kind of abuse. It's effective but wrong, which is why I settled down with a girl that doesn't take shit, but you have to go through a lot of whores to find a high quality woman that respects more traditional ways of doing things. You adopt the traits which aren't inherently evil that abusive men happen to display such as assertiveness, willingness to walk away or pull back first, call out misbe…	/r/seduction	16/11/24 03:34 PM
1	Why am I getting dumped after one date? It's because the date went well. Women are used to every single interaction with a man being positive. They optimize for what is missing. Most men can't be genuine. Be authentic even if there is neutrality or even negativity involved. If you don't like or take offense to something she says, don't be afraid to give her a condescending look and tone. So "no" to stuff you don't like. Before I met my current gf, for more than 10 years every date I went on that went well resulted in me not hearing fr…	/r/seduction	16/11/24 03:08 PM
-1	Word of advice guys. If she doesn't respond never double text..... ever Sometimes the girl wants to know if you are interested enough to double text. Don't do it. Women respect men that don't respect them. It ain't good or bad, it is what it is.	/r/seduction	16/11/24 02:17 AM
18	A guide to a great date with a not-so-great girl For girls that aren't so great, I don't care enough about the outcome to feel the need to follow a guide. To do so would bring massive "try hard" energy. I dress and talk like I would any other day, once I realize she ain't so great, I just tell her "there is clearly no romance potential here, which means, if you want;we can skip all the b.s. and get to the fun part." For girls that are great...almost the same thing, I stay outcome independent, difference is I'm not going to bluntly proposition …	/r/seduction	16/11/24 01:12 AM
2	Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laid Wrong. Women sleep with preselected men, fuckboys just happen to be one of those types that commonly carry that status. The content of your character doesn't matter. If a particular girl knows you are sleeping with one of her friends, you bypass all shit tests and she will want sex with you regardless of your personality.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 08:01 PM
3	I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour Later I will not be trapped like this. Both truths, one was taken out of context.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 11:58 AM
1	How do you guys keep going? Exactly. This is a seduction sub so I try to stay relevant to how to create an abandonment complex. It's wrong but effective.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 03:17 AM
1	How do you guys keep going? My current gf is one of those🤣 A Living e.d. cure that doesn't test me or people in general. I do respect the meaning of commitment, which is why I withhold everything unless I already know for fact I'm genuinely interested in the girl for who she is. I was stuck in my ways though dealing with DGs because that is the vast majority. I guess I was the broken guy she wanted to fix, but just for her.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 02:46 AM
3	I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour Later Which is why I have downvotes. The internet is so predictable.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 01:28 AM
1	How do you guys keep going? There are always exceptions to the new norm. If you are dealing with conservative women with good fathers and low body count, you have to do the complete opposite of everything I preach on this sub.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 09:30 PM
3	How do you guys keep going? To be clear, it is natural to show interest and you should or nothing happens. If the girl's interest level is 9, yours should be 7 or 8. It is when you exceed her desire levels she feels unsafe and you strike out. Women know what your actual interest level is. Creating a lower perceived interest level is how men flirt, just like women flirt by displaying higher interest. An example is when the girl goes to grab your hand and you gently put it back to her side and tell her "behave yourself till …	/r/seduction	14/11/24 09:25 PM
3	How do you guys keep going? Of course women like high interest men, but they do not respect them. In a woman's mind she is thinking "I like that he is so interested. That is guaranteed attention and resources" only to later on consider that guy a sucker. The thing about modern times is women no longer need attention or resources, they get plenty of that on their own. They only need what's missing which is dick. This is why they may like the provider but they respect the side guy.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 09:09 PM
2	I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour Later This teaches us that women are natural deviants, which is why they need men to guide them, and men can only do that if they answer to God and not the woman's physical beauty. Adam was held accountable for weakness in the face of beauty.. All he had to do is say "No". This is why that one word:'No" is an aphrodisiac to women that satisfies safety mechanisms because it shows you are stronger than your lust and you are guiding her on the right path.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 07:48 PM
3	How do you guys keep going? Me personally, I withhold, I don't care if I give a platonic vibe or not because I'm not trying to force any kind of vibe at all, I remain neutral so whatever happens happens organically. Women hook up with their guy friends all the time, it's the friends that they don't think are masculine enough who they put in the "friend zone". If I take beauty out of the equation and live by my standards ...Why am I going to show romantic desire when I don't actually know if I'm interested in the girl yet? …	/r/seduction	14/11/24 07:33 PM
3	How do you guys keep going? I came to this conclusion because I did a bunch of social experimenting and observing, and I already knew all about shit tests but wanted to dig deeper. I always thought it was to gauge your masculinity but I was only partially correct. It's to gauge your options. There are even feminine men out there that still get more ass than a toilet seat....because they have high perceived preselection, rendering most other factors irrelevant. You can prove it to yourself. Walk into a bar with a good looki…	/r/seduction	14/11/24 06:26 PM
36	I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour Later Adam, the first human. I ain't trying to push my personal beliefs; Whether or not you actually believe in Genesis, it's the best teacher of human nature.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 06:04 PM
1	How do you guys keep going? The rules of biology are above the rules of society. The reason that women are automatically the prize over the vast majority of men is because most men think that looks money and status is what matters, and it is ...to us guys. Women see differently. It's all about how you behave. I lost count of how many times I've seen some tall handsome dude raise his emotions and talk to a girl as if she is a cute puppy and she would immediately dismiss him and have no problem talking to my ugly ass because…	/r/seduction	14/11/24 05:05 PM
1	Should I approach women at my gym? The solution is usually "don't be a creep". There must be understanding on how a woman defines "creepy". Creepy=social incompetence. It's a hard truth especially for people on the spectrum like me. If you read the room and see the girl is closed off and focused and you approach anyway...that is creepy to them because that social miscue triggers her safety mechanics. Even worse if you look for more than a glance without somehow acknowledging the person, that is creepy. Be normal. Treat the men, w…	/r/seduction	14/11/24 04:13 PM
3	How do you guys keep going? I kept going by learning what shit tests actually are. They are interest tests. I'm 1000% convinced that a lot of guys that struggle, including my past self, will often show more interest in the girl than she is showing towards said guy. That reverses the polarity and leaves no room for the girl to chase. Girls test mens interest level at all time both consciously and/or subconsciously to gauge how preselected they are. I firmly believe men are the literal prize because we have to do the work to…	/r/seduction	14/11/24 04:00 PM
206	I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour Later Further proof that men are not only allowed to have standards, but the universe works in their favor when they enforce said standards. A certain guy was not able to say no to his wife because of her physical beauty, and was the cause of the fall of man.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 02:42 PM
3	Sacrifice dates for piercing and tattoos? The important thing is to do what makes you happy. If you want tattoos and piercings, they become a filter. Anyone who is turned off by them wouldn't be a good match for you anyway. I myself ain't pierced or tattooed, but generally in the dating market they generate high sex appeal, because they used to signal rebellion. They are much more common now so they aren't as rebellious from our point of view, but women still see them and view preselection...they are thinking..." There is no way he does…	/r/seduction	13/11/24 02:55 PM
0	How do you gauge or respect someone else’s comfort level with touch? Are there ways you’ve found to make touch feel more consensual and comfortable? Take the thinking and guessing out of it. She is confirmed comfortable if she is the one who initiates the physical touch. You withhold physical touch. If she leans toward you, lean away. Even if you are about to kiss, put your face close to hers then back off. If you act like she isn't supposed to touch you, trust me she will. Then when she does you can tease her by accusing her of being presumptuous or telling her to behave herself to further her desire and get the escalation going.	/r/seduction	12/11/24 09:30 PM
2	Radio Silence for a while now Whatever your first instincts are telling you about what happened is usually correct. She be fucking.	/r/seduction	12/11/24 01:32 PM
104	How to make women lust after you? Apply polarity. there's no better high on this planet than having women lusting after you, complimenting you calling you handsome etc. You are aware of what attracts you, so you need to be the opposite. The lens through which women view reality is different. The same things that give you that "high" will make a girl roll her eyes at you and block you. To make women lust for you, remove your lust and be outcome independent. withhold your validation and physical touch, she can't pine for what she …	/r/seduction	12/11/24 01:29 PM
3	No Seduction! Girls actually like serious, logical men. You can talk about philosophy all day, but you need to have that simultaneous, non verbal sexual conversation to stimulate emotion regardless of the convos subject matter. That is the difference between the 1 on 1 and the social setting interactions. Women view detached behaviors as a form of sexual challenge...makes no sense but is what it is. It's a balancing act of being social yet both verbally and non verbally indifferent. A standard example is if w…	/r/seduction	11/11/24 11:32 PM
2	Shit test or just blunt women Those aren't necessarily overt shit tests. This may just be unpolarized flirting. Women make the same mistake that men do and forget attraction works differently for the opposite gender. Many girls think we are attracted to the same things that they are, which isn't the case; and think that they are flirting. No kissing on the first date as it’s a turn off” she might be attracted to sexually disciplined men who withhold and deny them, so she showed that trait she says out of the blue some guy al…	/r/seduction	11/11/24 11:01 PM
0	Need some general advice I've had plenty of flings and some relationships, but to this day I have not had a fling or relationship with anyone who I cold approached. Any female friend I asked said they don't even see guys that approach them. This is because for a woman to be attracted to you, you have to be less interested in her than she is in you. Cold approaching a stranger u know nothing about automatically signals your interest level is higher. It's ethically wrong to be interested in someone without a reason other …	/r/seduction	11/11/24 04:40 PM
6	Where to meet at places I'm not shitting where I eat Women are the most attracted to guys that they aren't supposed to have. They live breaking the platinum rule. Do not worry about shitting where you eat. Worry about discretion. The reason many affairs backfire is because people talk too much. The key to getting everyone to keep their mouth shut during and after the affair is to remain as detached as possible so you and her aren't giving the vibe that anything is happening. This same detachment is needed to make her respect u enough to keep her o…	/r/seduction	09/11/24 10:18 PM
6	Has your desire ever clouded your judgement? Of course. I used to have a FWB that I refused to even consider a relationship with, and when I first sensed that she caught feelings I failed to do the right thing and end the arrangement. Instead, I created an abandonment complex on purpose to keep her coming back, I would bareback yet I wouldn't even speak to her outside the bedroom or take her on dates or even get to know her better. At that point I only recently discovered women are aroused by detachment, so I thought I knew what I was doin…	/r/seduction	08/11/24 06:21 PM
2	Did I do something wrong by telling her I never went on a date? How would you feel if a girl told you she has slept with 200 guys? Women feel that exact same ick factor when you tell them or even hint at lack of experience. Women's sexual value decreases with experience, men's increases with experience. I hope that makes sense.	/r/seduction	08/11/24 12:52 AM
7	Fear of coming as a creep If you can talk to a woman without getting excited about it, you naturally act normal. It's when you get "giddy" that a cute girl is in front of you that makes a her feel like a deer in headlights. Your vocal cadence hastens and your pitch of tone raises, you start making sudden fidgety movements and become hyper in the mind and nervous about the "what ifs?"...sound familiar? We've all been there. If u slow everything down and remove your outcome dependency, you can meet whoever you want without…	/r/seduction	08/11/24 12:19 AM
24	How to be vulnerable with women? You do know that being vulnerable makes women feel unsafe, right? Save that for your friends and family, not someone that u want to plant your seed in.	/r/seduction	07/11/24 11:19 PM
2	How to force myself? If you force yourself to talk to girls, you will be forcing a vibe. You need to make talking to girls an involuntary reflex no different than breathing....it actually is an involuntary reflex because the continuation of the human race depends on it. You make talking to women part of your default state so you're not actually exerting effort into winning anyone over. You do this by removing the lustful motive and having normal conversation with as many women as possible until u are doing it automa…	/r/seduction	05/11/24 02:27 PM
3	difficult game If a girl uses your IG or lack thereof to disqualify you, she wasn't interested from the start. No girl has ever cut off Chad over IG or who he's with. I don't use socials. No girl that has ever gone out with me gave me a hard time about not having accounts...because they were interested enough to go out with me. On the flip side many that have rejected me or ghosted me used my lack of socials as their grounds for disqualification, I've even been told "that's cringe". In actuality I simply wasn'…	/r/seduction	05/11/24 02:04 PM
10	The #1 secret girls don't want you to know The #1 secret girls don't want you to know: The traits women publicly define as "masculine" are the same traits that benefit them. This is their big secret. They got you all thinking that your money and your purpose is what will get them in bed. Don't fall for the b.s., real masculinity is emotional discipline.	/r/seduction	05/11/24 12:45 PM
1	Not sure what to do next… You already fucked up so move on. Just got in bed, and I have to say thank you for letting me take you out. She rolled her eyes when she saw that. Right there you showed incongruence with how u were previously behaving by implying she was the prize who gave you the opportunity to win her. Women are masters of detecting when your interest level exceeds theirs, when it does, they assume u aren't as preselected as they originally thought. All it takes is a single pedasteling sentence or behavior an…	/r/seduction	04/11/24 06:06 PM
1	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? 1 hour, only because it was a 45 minute drive to my crib. Talked on p.o.f. for a few days then met her and her cousin and the cousin's roommates at a bar to shoot some pool. I completely ignored the girl because I found her cousin to be a good and interesting person to talk to. The way the girl was clinging, I knew I just had to stay detached to keep her pining. After 15 minutes they all wanted to quit pool so I actually called it a night and walked away without the girl as if we never met up🤣 I…	/r/seduction	04/11/24 05:52 PM
21	The “game” has been good to me! I’ve had my share of gf’s, fwb’s and one night stands. Here’s my take on it! Alot of girls make the mistake of thinking that men are attracted to the same things that they are. Girls will sometimes withhold attention and refrain from showing interest towards guys they like because they are attracted to detachment; which satisfies their safety mechanisms....and many who don't know how to view life through our lens assume men like the same...which is why iois are unreliable. I don't believe in "cold approach" with motive...because i don't actually know if im interested in …	/r/seduction	04/11/24 03:49 PM
0	How to give her the best sex of her life? You have to hold back a little if u are interested in the girl and unleash different skills a little at a time. The ultimate form of validation is giving her 100% sexual effort, this is why so many times the guy will be confused as to why he don't hear back from the girl despite the sex being great for her. If you don't intend to see the girl again you can go all out from the start. Figure out how her vulva and clit and g spot and "A" spot respond to different methods and movements, each girl is…	/r/seduction	04/11/24 03:20 PM
4	Why do women want you, when you pay don’t attention to them? The most attractive trait is neither indifference or focus, it's perceived preselection, everything I talk about is a means to naturally display it. Whenever I refer to indifference, I'm not implying that u have zero care for the human being. I'm saying to have zero care for the outcome. Not caring if u actually get anywhere with the woman or not tunes your words and behaviors to pass tests women give to check your preselection. Best way to achieve that outcome independence is to direct focus on…	/r/seduction	02/11/24 02:28 PM
16	Why do women want you, when you pay don’t attention to them? It backfires because u are using it as a technique. Focusing on your priorities and being neutral towards attractive women should be your default mindset. If you suddenly break that neutrality by overtly hitting on a female acquaintance or co-worker or whoever...that comes with a sudden energy shift and u make the person feel like a deer in headlights. The way a woman views a man's energy through her lens is: detached=sexy. Not hitting on women sounds like it does nothing to get you laid, but th…	/r/seduction	02/11/24 09:35 AM
140	Why do women want you, when you pay don’t attention to them? When you don't pay attention, the female ego assumes you must be preselected by other women when you aren't exerting effort into winning that particular girl over. this satisfies safety mechanisms. It's a balancing act because u can't completely be absent or nothing happens. Women like men who are socially present but indifferent. This is why women's have flings with objective coworkers, they are present, but they ain't there for her. It beckons back to ancient times and base biology hasn't chan…	/r/seduction	02/11/24 12:04 AM
1	Resources for how to approach naturally? Haven't seen this discussed much In my experience, I find "hello" to be the most effective ice breaker, you don't want to pre-meditate your opener or it won't be genuine.	/r/seduction	01/11/24 03:51 PM
26	Resources for how to approach naturally? Haven't seen this discussed much The best resource for approaching naturally is your senior citizens. Talk to as many old folks as you can, they are more open to talking to people randomly....and notice how you aren't trying to force a vibe with them and your not feeling "giddy" or showing "try hard" energy. Carry that same neutral energy over to talking to anybody else and eventually attractive women. The difference between a natural approach and a forced approach is lust. Remove your motive so the interaction is natural.	/r/seduction	01/11/24 02:19 PM
18	I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my head If you don't succeed in getting the girl; the universe filtered out a mismatch on your behalf regardless of whose fault it is.	/r/seduction	31/10/24 05:50 PM
8	How do increase confidence? Any ritual? You focus on others as much as yourself. You help as many humans as you possibly can and bring them positive gain, even if all you have to give are your words. You never know when an encouraging word or a kind gesture can give a person enough hope to save their life. You find confidence through selflessness. I used to think beer and pot and porn and cursing and gambling and every vice in the book was giving me confidence because of feeling like I'm doing what I want, but it was all a false comfo…	/r/seduction	31/10/24 12:27 PM
6	The main thing that drives sexual attraction in women is leadership Leadership is no different than looks, money, or status. Every man should pursue these things and be a leader by default, but its got nothing to do with seduction. Women are aroused by men that simply don't care. They do respect leadership, but that isn't the way to get the first foot in the door. Outcome independence has to be the focus, because it demonstrates perceived preselection which is the most attractive trait. . Women are sick of feeling like property, u got to be indifferent as to whe…	/r/seduction	30/10/24 11:28 PM
6	Trying to improve after I realized I've been falling into the same cycle over and over. With women the illusion of value matters more than actual value, this is why everyone needs to start somewhere and behave like preselected men and have a better chance of actually becoming selected.	/r/seduction	30/10/24 08:03 PM
10	Trying to improve after I realized I've been falling into the same cycle over and over. When u focus on one girl you already committed to her exclusively in your mind. In that mindset, you talk and behave in ways that make a girl feel like a deer in headlights because u being focused on her shows you aren't preselected which triggers female safety mechanisms. Then when she exits you feel hurt because of the picture of you and her u painted in your head. You have to have options so u automatically talk and behave right, and u have more options than u realize if u can take focus off …	/r/seduction	30/10/24 07:49 PM
3	Help crafting an approach at class My best advice is to get that one girl out of your head until you actually know her and multiple other girls better, otherwise u would be going in with a bias that would clearly show and tempt you to chase her based on what she looks like. That is what gives girls the "ick" factor. Whatever your beliefs are, the book of Genesis is a good teacher of female nature. Adam let beauty control him and unlocked the knowledge of evil and brought about the fall of man. If u let the beauty of one girl dwel…	/r/seduction	30/10/24 07:37 PM
5	Help crafting an approach at class In my case I actually have no intent when I approach because I don't even know if I want to ask the girl out yet. I can't make that decision based on beauty alone. If I like the vibe I will start pulling back before she does as if I'm the tease, further demonstrating I actually have standards outside of how hot she is.	/r/seduction	30/10/24 07:10 PM
6	Help crafting an approach at class She was probably already in defensive mode, girls wake up to more messages than they can count and a lot of them are legit creepy a.f. Every woman that has an Internet connection will have her defenses up. Crafting and approach won't work. A crafted approach is a premeditated approach and that comes served with a healthy dose of unwarranted validation and a side of "try hard" energy. I find "hello" followed by a genuine and relevant comment is a good start. Models is only half correct. You want …	/r/seduction	30/10/24 05:43 PM
-3	I feel resentful towards women? Shift your resentment to modern boys because u can't even call them men. Women behave the way they do because men are desperate and not acting masculine. Women developed new safety mechanisms because men do not know how to step away. "Chasing" is the polite word for "stalking".You wouldn't believe how many guys start acting like actual creeps at the first sign of disinterest. Most women will not reject you directly anymore, they will eviscerate you and make you question yourself by dangling a ca…	/r/seduction	29/10/24 08:18 PM
17	How should I respond when she disqualifies herself? That is not a normal shit test. This is a test you are guaranteed to fail. Remember this because it's one of those things about female nature that is sneaky a.f. Women disqualifying themselves to you is how they disguise the fact they are disqualifying you. That's one of those things where their mind is already made up and they going to dangle the carrot of hope in front of u by not rejecting u outright.	/r/seduction	28/10/24 11:42 PM
-3	How to stop thinking that an approach will be weird Never go out of your way to "approach" a woman because that is trying to force a vibe from the start and giving a degree of validation instantly. Meet women organically without going out of your way. You do this by never letting a woman cross your path without you greeting or acknowledging her, all as u move about your normal routines...this keeps you in your default state so u aren't shifting your emotions and making the girl feel like a deer in headlights. Once you see the difference in how th…	/r/seduction	27/10/24 02:35 PM
1	How do I pick up older woman at bars? Tell them directly, without putting thought into it; what your tongue is capable of.	/r/seduction	26/10/24 10:21 PM
1	How is it possible ? I can explain, this is typical. When you were shy and indirect you came off as more outcome independent. It's actually better to be a social moron than to always say the "right" things and approach the right way because the social moron carries less "try hard" energy. This is what gives the illusion of "beginners luck" the seduction information out there is intentional misdirection. You want to UNDERsell yourself. As u get more reps and get less shy and more open it's easy to start trying to app…	/r/seduction	26/10/24 06:50 PM
0	I'm a 23M, need advice to talk to Older Women. When I was in my early 20s I only really dated older women. Best advice is to break the rules and make them feel special. Compliments work on them differently than they would coming from a man her own age, it's almost an honor coming from a younger guy. Older women ain't necessarily looking for commitment from younger dudes, but they want the sex served with a side of humanity, but be aware they pre determine the situation to be temporary 99% of the time, hence why they are older and still singl…	/r/seduction	26/10/24 05:51 PM
1	Confessional: I’m a giant pussy No need, u just need to physically be off campus if u have no legit business there. Your age and status as a non student don't even matter, it's just these college chicks have these mental mechanisms where if you approach you are cringe for not going to that school. That same mentality does not exist off campus. You can prove this in the field by observing their filtering tests. Talk to some girls on campus, and I guarantee among the first questions will be about your major or field of study. Th…	/r/seduction	25/10/24 04:30 PM
20	Confessional: I’m a giant pussy Keep the approaches off campus unless you work or study there, you need to maintain plausible deniability because words such as "creepy"and "cringe" are thrown around too much even if you are neither or. Use the surrounding area such as any shopping centers, this is how these 19 year old chicks are getting with "dilfs" all the time.	/r/seduction	24/10/24 11:19 PM
12	Going through dry spell and feel exhausted/tired of trying Always trying to get the girl is exactly why you are in a dry spell. Women do not want you to actually exert effort into arousing them or winning them over. For this reason, learning "game" can get you stuck in bad ways, then u get discouraged and fall into a downward spiral from the lack of results. You have to let go and reset, forget the clutter of strategies and tactics and focus on basics: Women are aroused by feeling safe with you. What isn't talked about enough is the lens through which w…	/r/seduction	24/10/24 12:03 AM
1	How do you feel about a girl calling you “adorable”? I treat it like the interest test that it is. No not reciprocate. Either agree and exaggerate or deflect and change the subject, or ask her to clarify exactly what she means.	/r/seduction	22/10/24 09:32 PM
4	did i mess up? You called her multiple times after a non response to you asking to talk on the phone. You know in the pit of your stomach exactly what's happening. She's getting her back blown out by some dude that barely communicates with her, and giving you the runaround. Never keep pushing when a woman doesn't respond. It used to be called harassment. Now it's commonplace because you dudes got no options so you keep chasing one girl the second she gives you a shred of attention or acknowledgement, which is …	/r/seduction	21/10/24 11:40 PM
1	Is this a good idea? Same rules as highschool. The cool kids rarely approached, the girls would chase them. Even when they did approach, their reputation was never negatively impacted. the cool kids were literally cool...they were calm minded and didn't care about outcomes. They were the opposite of "try hard". It's ok to approach as long as you are normal and don't get excited about it. You are introducing yourself to a human being and taking nothing more from it than good conversation unless more is offered. As lo…	/r/seduction	21/10/24 11:32 PM
14	How to lead a conversation? Don't worry about anything. When you talk, speak absolute nonsense about life, the dumber the better, you really can't care about the outcome either way so have fun with it. That helps stay away from the interview style discussions. If the girl likes you, she will laugh when you aren't actually trying to be funny. My last conversation with a random chick involved me talking about my early morning tacos with plethoras of fire sauce that pair with my coffee to get me mobile and agile. I thought th…	/r/seduction	21/10/24 04:07 PM
0	I've never been better in my life but I never felt worse This feeling of loneliness is the price that is paid for the progression of learning female nature. You may be at the point where you want to be with a loyal woman to start a family with. When I got to that point it seemed like an impossibility and I felt alone despite having a rotation. When you realize female nature; that staying less interested in the girl than she is in you is what keeps her attracted to you ...how tf can a real relationship with mutual respect exist? That is the paradox. Th…	/r/seduction	21/10/24 01:52 PM
3	The meaning of “no spark”? "no spark" means there was no sexual polarity. A girl can reject you even if she is attracted to you, because arousal is different than attraction, and no polarity means no arousal. To make a "spark", consider the girls behavioral traits that are pleasing to you, and display the opposite traits. She is the opposite gender. The reason guys get the eye roll and get ghosted is because they try to force a vibe by syncing up with the girls behaviors instead of maintaining masculine behaviors.	/r/seduction	20/10/24 06:45 PM
1	What is your game centered on? The formula is socially present+ neutral=wet. Approaching in itself projects too much interest in someone you don't know, so u get to know women you are socially involved with and don't objectify them. This is why women will hook up with coworkers and neighbors and other dudes regularly involved in their activities and routines, and those guys usually didn't exert much effort. In other words, girls love breaking "the platinum rule"	/r/seduction	18/10/24 05:07 PM
2	Had an Amazing Night, Then Got Completely Ghosted Why Does This Happen? I have watched Casey because he has some good points for being a younger dude, but he is an extremist, he believes in showing no care at all, I believe in caring for the human being. I just don't care if she gives me pussy or not. I believe in showing my interest with a level cap to keep it lower than the girls interest for me, if I showed zero interest there would be no mutual attraction.	/r/seduction	18/10/24 05:02 PM
12	Had an Amazing Night, Then Got Completely Ghosted Why Does This Happen? Sounds familiar...i think the reason she ghosted is the fact that you had an amazing night, which can reveal your interest level leaving little room for her to chase. I can practically guarantee whoever she is sleeping with did nothing correctly when they met, and he likely stirred up some drama among the group. That drama usually involves gaming multiple women in front of each other or sleeping around within a friend group. Women reward the things that piss them off in every way except with the…	/r/seduction	18/10/24 12:23 AM
5	When a date rainchecks, how do you spend your suddenly free night? I take the night for my damn self. I will light a blunt and stream old PBS episodes of "the joy of painting" and paint along, or "sunshine cuisine" and master a recipe. One of the paintings got me some attention on i.g. that may or may not have resulted in a meaningless hookup with a friend of a friend, the details; as a gentleman I can't disclose. It all works out.	/r/seduction	17/10/24 11:01 PM
77	What is your game centered on? All I know is that the less I like a girl the more she likes me. It makes no sense to desire a relationship with someone that likes you more for liking them less, so my game is centered around detachment... basically not caring enough to use "game" at all because i have actual higher priorities than trying to win women over, which is exactly what they want to see.	/r/seduction	17/10/24 06:02 PM
3	Hi I need help with getting girls please Think about your competition. In the past your only competition was within the girls social circle or other dudes at the venue or setting. Now you are competing against anyone with an Internet connection. How do you possibly separate yourself? You leverage the girl's own ego into demonstrating preselection by being neutral. You don't like her, you don't hate her, you don't care, you are always willing to keep walking. Girls have such a huge ego and so many thirsty brads hitting them up that if y…	/r/seduction	17/10/24 05:14 PM
2	Seeking advice Sasha method is certainly better than picturing a romantic connection, but in my experience you can't care at all, having dirty thoughts is still caring about the outcome. I swear by indifference because it signals preselection. Whether the man's thoughts are clean or dirty, any kind of hope for an outcome signals lack of options, and that triggers the girls safety mechanisms. Socially present+neutral=wet. Guys that have a serious girlfriend or are married or have a big rotation are naturally go…	/r/seduction	17/10/24 04:53 PM
3	Seeking advice They are talking about outcome independence. You can't have any kind of picture in your head that makes you idolize the girl or think about an outcome such as her being your girl or fling...your emotions will be unchecked from the start and the girl will feel that pressure u are putting on yourself to achieve that outcome.	/r/seduction	17/10/24 02:38 PM
2	Ditching apps and cold approach Make cold approaching your default state so that it does not feel forced. Get some type of words out to the hottest girl everywhere you go, with no thought of outcome. If you don't feel like it's forced, neither will the woman, then it suddenly becomes as socially acceptable as regular conversation	/r/seduction	17/10/24 02:34 PM
4	Speech Autisim Person, How to start conversation with a girl who is Jogging, or Walking? Need Opener You actually want to be autistic. You have to be oblivious to social protocol, if you went in with some premeditated strategy or scripted line, you are showing you care about the outcome and the girl will get the ick factor. You want to speak absolute nonsense. If a girl is jogging towards me I ain't trying to interrupt her or "cold approach" her I'm just going to look at her and tell her "be careful your sock's untied". Either she thinks it's lame and keeps going or she stops and replies, I don…	/r/seduction	16/10/24 04:56 PM
1	Laughter being anti-seductive Girls like comedy, but most dudes don't deliver it right. Notice how professional comedians and late night hosts don't shift their emotions when delivering the punch, and they almost never laugh at themselves...as if they aren't joking at all...which makes it funnier and the comedian appear more competent. Delivering comedy like a "class clown" is anti seductive because that lift in emotion makes it "try hard" and makes u fail interest tests.	/r/seduction	15/10/24 08:15 PM
25	What's a good opening phrase? There is no right or wrong phrase, but as a grad student I'm sure you would appreciate knowing the right formula to form your own opening phrases. Socially present + neutral= wet. It's that simple. Start with your most basic greetings and adjust them to meet the formula. A simple hello can go a long way if you deliver it with no attachment to the outcome and willingness to walk away. Low and slow tone, no sudden fidgety movements, no care in the world. My go to line is [deadpan] "sup?" and keep …	/r/seduction	14/10/24 12:40 PM
2	When to tell a girl you want something casual? Women date casually by default, most will assume that is what it is until the man acts like he seeks commitment. You tell her u want casual with your actions by escalating sexually with kino and mannerisms while remaining emotionally detached. You don't want to verbalize your intent unless she directly asks what you are looking for, in which case you say "I'm meeting different people, what happens happens" as if u are completely indifferent about it.	/r/seduction	14/10/24 11:15 AM
18	When to tell a girl you want something casual? Women date casually by default, most will assume that is what it is until the man acts like he seeks commitment. You tell her u want casual with your actions by escalating sexually with kino and mannerisms while remaining emotionally detached. You don't want to verbalize your intent unless she directly asks what you are looking for, in which case you say "I'm meeting different people, what happens happens" as if u are completely indifferent about it.	/r/seduction	14/10/24 11:15 AM
4	Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern dating When u realize detachment is actually a good deed in the eyes of women, there is no going back so have fun with it.	/r/seduction	13/10/24 09:13 PM
27	When did women gain so much leverage? Women gained leverage when men started to keep trying to change the minds of women that aren't interested in them. Alot of the posts in this sub show this. Dudes wanting to know how to get out of the friendzone or win over someone that ghosted them or generally turning a no into a yes. What men call "chasing" women call "stalking" What if all men agreed to never chase women that aren't interested in them? The playing field would level back out and be based on compatibility. Right now most women'…	/r/seduction	13/10/24 07:01 PM
8	If you forget everything else about seduction, remember this one thing Romantic dating is not a fight but sexual seduction is. Biology is a bitch. The second the man loses leverage and shows his smv is lower than the womans, she cannot be physically aroused by him because she can no longer look up to him and feel any sort of security if she ends up knocked up.	/r/seduction	13/10/24 01:20 PM
8	Girl sleeping around in talking stage coupled with male best friend issues A girl will never give you open access to her phone unless she WANTS you to know what is on there. She probably wanted you to disqualify her as gf material so she can stay on the c.c. but also wanted to keep you in her rotation if you fucked her good, hence why she's begging for forgiveness.	/r/seduction	13/10/24 01:06 PM
-7	Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern dating I blame it on men. Never before in history have men actually tried to change the minds of women that don't like them or already rejected them. It used to be if the two people didn't vibe it was over right then and there and the guy wouldn't let the girl live rent free in his mind. Lust is the problem. Women hate chivalry now because men attach a motive to it. Most guys cannot even hold a door open for a woman without getting excited about it and glueing their eyes to her as she goes about her bu…	/r/seduction	13/10/24 12:55 PM
21	Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern dating It's ok to desire and savor deep connections...with everyone except attractive women. This is nothing new, modern dating is the same as cave man dating. The woman seeks a competent hunter gatherer. When you try to establish a deep connection with a woman she thinks she is your priority which means the hunt is not your priority, hence you become a liability to survival. Being turned off by desire for attachment is not something they can control, it's a natural safety mechanism. You want the girl …	/r/seduction	13/10/24 02:51 AM
0	From getting good at game to “settling down” Everything in life is a contest whether u like it or not. I don't want my girl to look down on me so I won't let my interest level exceed hers.	/r/seduction	12/10/24 09:26 PM
-1	From getting good at game to “settling down” Are you literate? I said LESS interested. Nowhere in my post did I say remain uninterested.	/r/seduction	12/10/24 04:33 PM
42	Bringing girls back in a ghetto apartment. I wouldn't worry about it, in case you haven't noticed there is more fucking going on in the ghettos than anywhere else...	/r/seduction	12/10/24 03:34 PM
8	From getting good at game to “settling down” The game does not end when you are committed, the only transition is you start withholding sex from women outside your relationship. Your indifference and preselection cannot suddenly change because you had a conversation saying that you are exclusive. You have to remain less interested in the girl than she is in you, its the exact same advice that applies to single men learning game; it has.to be sustained.	/r/seduction	12/10/24 07:38 AM
5	Am I their gay friend now? Sounds like an excuse not to use the play I just spelled out for you	/r/seduction	11/10/24 10:43 PM
5	Am I their gay friend now? Yes! You are the gay friend that has decided to convert to heterosexualism and have no idea what u are doing so you need step by step guidance.	/r/seduction	11/10/24 10:32 PM
28	Are same day lays possible in 2024? It's more possible than ever before. If you tell a girl that you are vibing with directly that there is zero chance for a relationship forming, watch how her eyes light up as she becomes a richard-fiend. She will know you have no desire for romantic connection so she does not care if you perceive her as a ho so she will probably sleep with you, while she withholds from the guys that actually like her and take her on dates...because she cares about how they perceive her.	/r/seduction	11/10/24 06:28 PM
2	How to avoid the friendzone (the hard truth) IDK if I'm "good" at something that requires no skill. You just flash a slender white girl a bag and she fucks you, not really any kind of effort or involved.	/r/seduction	11/10/24 02:22 PM
0	Should i seduce girls i’m not really into? Yes. You are all but guaranteed to pass shit tests from girls you don't like because shit tests are actually interest tests. If you aren't invested you aren't going to have the kind of tone or behaviors that make the girl think you can't do better than her hence she can look up to you. I don't suggest forming any kind of romantic relationship with someone you don't like, but have flings so you can train yourself to maintain how you behave in situations where you aren't invested and outcome indep…	/r/seduction	11/10/24 10:47 AM
1	How to avoid the friendzone (the hard truth) A tag some mod gave me because I once misspelled cold approach	/r/seduction	11/10/24 10:11 AM
6	Feelijg jealous of friend getting instagrams You got bigger problems if u feel resentment for life or yourself because u ain't getting results on social media. IG is purely physicality based. Women will reject a guy for having the wrong color shoelaces in the pictures, even if he is Chuck Norris in real life. I've done well, I'm in a committed relationship but I still have options from when I was single if something goes wrong...yet i have had ZERO success over social media and dating apps since 2011. It ain't your fault or the women's, it…	/r/seduction	10/10/24 06:31 PM
4	What are you guys opinion about nice guy, bad guy trope? Being nice or being bad doesn't matter. Indifference to beauty matters. The stigma against nice guys is a result of guys getting rejected for showing desire for romantic connection, regardless of personality. Bad boys and dangerous dudes are just more likely to remain detached and indifferent. Nice guys tend to become more interested in the girl than she is in them, failing the interest tests and demonstrating non selection and setting off safety alarms. Girls are actually sexually attracted to …	/r/seduction	10/10/24 05:01 PM
10	At a doctor clinic a girl who works there is giving me look People look at people. Don't try to evaluate if it's a choosing signal or not, just acknowledge her and socialize with her like a normal human and her behaviors will reveal her interest level.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 02:16 PM
20	How to avoid the friendzone (the hard truth) Women definitely sleep with their male friends, specifically the guys that have no desire for romantic connection that they find attractive. The men that have no desire for romance are sex friends, the ones that do have that ulterior motive for romance are cast to the "friend zone" as platonic friends to keep on a string for attention and resources. This is exactly why committing should never happen until the girl demonstrates capacity for loyalty by cutting her male friends off.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 02:11 PM
1	Signs a man is catching feelings for his fwb (woman)? Just another guy that isn't congruent with his intent, or outright lied about his intent. He might think showing the affection is a sexual turn on because of former partners that mislead or deceived him into thinking that is what girls like, when in fact there is no faster way to make a woman feel like a deer in headlights.	/r/seduction	08/10/24 11:27 PM
2	What do i improve? Your behaviors correct themselves when you remain less interested in the girl than she is in you. That isn't a mindset that can easily be adopted, you need to find a higher priority than bedding a beautiful woman and stick to it. Even in my current relationship, my girl could be bare naked in the middle of the night, but if I get a service call for my mobile mechanic business I'm out. If I refused the call in order to get laid, she would have rolled her eyes at me and rolled over and fell asleep…	/r/seduction	08/10/24 04:51 PM
113	Do this if she leaves you on read Never chase someone that doesn't like you. If a girl shows she isn't interested never try to change her mind. We call it chasing, they call it stalking, this is what gets dudes reported. . Before social media this never happened. You would usually meet a girl through a 3rd party and you either vibed or you didnt. if it wasn't a match you told the person who introduced you that you dont think you click and end it right there.	/r/seduction	08/10/24 10:50 AM
5	its so easy to just not engage or strike up a convo with a girl who you make eye contact with It's more about what you don't do versus what you do do. To show you are keeping your cool when u are talking, don't suddenly raise your pitch of voice or tempo of words and refrain from fidgety movements...be still and at peace, but subtly talk with your hands like an experienced salesman or public speaker would. Behaving like that actually centers your chi and calms you down. As for non verbally signaling a girl you are interested, research different kinds of eye contact and use your hand gest…	/r/seduction	08/10/24 10:42 AM
1	What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy? Yes and no. If she is shy you don't want to do a cold approach regardless or she will be uncomfortable from the start..., you want to find someone who can introduce you or somehow cross paths with her in a natural way to get a better read.	/r/seduction	08/10/24 01:37 AM
16	Never reveal signs of stress, fear, or weakness when approaching a woman. No. Given it looks good on paper, but indifference to beauty is the critical aspect of what makes a woman decide you are safe; because their minds associate preselection with neutrality in their presence. Suppressing signs of fear, stress and weakness shows that you care about the outcome, and women are masters of sensing that lack of neutrality, you can't care if you get anywhere with the girl or not. Best case scenario is you have no stress or fear or weakness to begin with, but this is not a …	/r/seduction	08/10/24 01:31 AM
1	I keep getting rejected because of my job Anytime after 9pm eastern	/r/seduction	08/10/24 12:07 AM
1	I keep getting rejected because of my job Just stick to irl game. Ultimately women from OLD in modern times are not good people. They ain't even worth a fling nevermind a relationship. ( My blu ray player disappearing convinced me) Women never actually need the internet to get laid or find a boyfriend, so u need to question why they put themselves on the web in the first place, then ask yourself the same thing.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 11:27 PM
1	I keep getting rejected because of my job Girls on OLD only ask deal breaker questions when they already categorized you as a "maybe" or "no". Women evaluate strictly on pictures and texting behaviors because they have no idea how you behave in real life. This is exactly why I abolished OLD, I'm not a Chad, I play an abundance game to increase my SMV, my only chance of doing that is offline. If the girl on tinder or hinge has a burning desire for that Chad with the good pictures and abs and a cute dog by his side, you really think she w…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 11:21 PM
3	It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified You don't say you have options with your words unless you are doing it with a semi joking tone to tease the girl, because blatantly saying you are seeing other women with serious tone can be very hurtfull if the girl likes you. Not caring about outcome does not justify hurting people. Your tone, cadence, and non verbal behaviors display selection automatically when you have an outcome independent mindset. You ain't going to do stuff that makes girls feel like deer in headlights like getting "gid…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 11:12 PM
4	I keep getting rejected because of my job I guarantee you ain't getting rejected because of your job. You are getting rejected because you are talking about your job in the first place. When talking to women on OLD you don't want to reveal shit about yourself because all you have are your words to go by, the girl cant see your nonverbal behavior...so you are just there to put the hammer down. Irl if your job don't bother you, it will show in your behaviors and the girl will also be good with it. The hottest girls I ever dated in my life…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 10:56 PM
1	Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy? You have no way of knowing if I'm being masculine or not because you can't know my tone, non verbal behaviors and emotional state over text. Saying nice words does not determine if a person is masculine or not. If I shifted my emotions while making my point, that would be feminine. If I remained stoic and didn't get excited like im trying to be a hero or give an attitude in my tone like Im sarcastic...that would be masculine.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 10:45 PM
1	Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy? I don't see you or people asking for help as losers, I've been in your exact position which is why I have an irrational desire to help as much as possible. You are clearly salty, and that is your problem. You have to be happy without women in your life to get women into your life.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 10:14 PM
2	Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy? My beautiful and loyal girlfriend. The confirmation that I am correct. If I didn't learn all this stuff the hard way, we never would have attracted each other. She actually sits there and reads this sub we me and co writes articles and replys sometimes. She says the sexiest thing about me is that I "just get it". Her words.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 09:45 PM
23	its so easy to just not engage or strike up a convo with a girl who you make eye contact with You are actually on the right track. The more you cut verbal communication and lean into non verbal mannerisms, the less "try hard" and more preselected you appear compared to all the other guys. The key is to keep your cool if your signals to each other were enough to make her approach and talk to you. Keep the focus on the non verbal but refrain from lifting your emotions or getting excited that a cute girl is talking to you, because that will show in your voice when you speak and can easily f…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 09:39 PM
2	Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy? If you are a good guy that values connection, I assume you want the girl to feel safe and comfortable with you...so you have to train yourself to be neutral in the face of beauty so she can be comfortable with you. Women define safety differently. Indifference to their beauty is what makes them feel safe because of the preselection it signals. Once a woman can confirm you cut off all your options for her, she feels like a deer in headlights because she senses the weakness of you adopting a femal…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 09:32 PM
3	It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified You can pursue without chasing. When you are pursuing, you don't care about the outcome. When you chase you are outcome dependent. Just communicate in a way that demonstrates preselection, which goes hand in hand with outcome independence. You have to carry the attitude of "I already have women...she's cool, but it don't matter where this goes" I'll literally say stuff like "I need to know when we are meeting up so i can inform my girlfriends I'm busy" Yes I get verbally eviscerated...yet she sh…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 09:21 PM
7	A relationship will not make you happy, this is why I'm pretty happy with my relationship because I found a girl that is happy with living in her feminine role. She supports my purpose by my side however possible as an equal without me having to ask for it, she is actually bringing something to the table. If I didn't swim through a bunch of whores I would have never learned how to identify someone worth having a relationship with. This is why you should never show desire for commitment while single, you need to keep your options open until you fi…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 09:11 PM
1	Why do girls always go for jerks when I'm a nice guy? Women behave in accordance with how they categorize each guy they talk to. Girls actually like nice guys that are willing to connect with them and support them, but you would never know it because of how they operate. Liking someone is different than being aroused by someone. When a girl likes you she does not want you to perceive her as a ho, so the more she likes you, the more she withholds and the more she tests you. The exact same girl that makes you wait past the 3rd date is sleeping with s…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 09:04 PM
9	It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified You got it wrong. You have to care about the woman as a human being. What you cannot care about is the outcome. You can't give a shit if you get anywhere with her or not, that doesn't mean having no care for the individual. The whole point is to be LESS interested in the girl than she is in you. That does not mean show zero interest. If her interest level in you is a 9 keep it between 6 and 8.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 07:22 PM
37	It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified It's even simpler than that. Remain less interested in the girl than she is in you. Every time a woman decides she is done with a guy or ghosts him or blocks him, the exact moment she made that decision was when he spoke or behaved in a way that expressed that his desire for her had exceeded her desire for him, and she now perceives him as not being preselected by other women and that is what trips every safety alarm in a woman's instincts. For every time a man wondered what went wrong and could…	/r/seduction	07/10/24 05:56 PM
1	Why girls like being ignored There is no escaping the frame test, you are stuck in a lose lose because the test will be either subconscious or intentional or both. I wouldn't even know how to get out of that one and when that happens I suggest Netflix. Shockingly that works 1 out of 3 times.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 02:46 AM
2	Why girls like being ignored I think 2013 was around the time that women started to use every app on their phone to find guys instead of strictly dating apps. As a gig driver, I can confirm women will even use the doordash app to find dick, nevermind insta and chat snap. Before that u didn't have to jump through all the hoops, it was normal people looking for other normal people, you met up and you either vibed or u didn't, there wasnt alot of intentional shit testing. That was the year that 6s and 7s started thinking they …	/r/seduction	06/10/24 11:42 PM
3	Why girls like being ignored This is why I've abolished online dating, I had it figured out up until 2013 then suddenly I didn't. Shit tests can be both subconscious and/or intentional, and girls on the apps got the intentional side mastered. Trying to get to know each other before the date defeats the purpose of the date, the girl will decide to go out with a guy that isn't desiring to know much about her. I refrain from texting at all because every word is over evaluated because you can't put tone/mannerisms unto it, even…	/r/seduction	06/10/24 11:14 PM
1	Whats the simplest setup I can master to increase my cold approach confidence? Get cold approaching out of your vocabulary because every single time you do that you are giving the woman the leverage automatically. Seduction is sales. If the prospective customer reaches out to the salesman, the salesman has the leverage. If the salesman "cold calls" prospective customers, those prospects have the leverage. Just have sex appeal and have a life and don't care about any outcomes and women will put themselves near you or go out of their way to interact with you.	/r/seduction	05/10/24 11:40 PM
3	Why girls like being ignored Sry 4 the late reply, what was your question?	/r/seduction	05/10/24 11:05 PM
115	Why girls like being ignored It's all congruence with mating strategy. Males seek as many partners as possible, women seek the best partner possible. When a woman detects that a man lacks options, she feels the exact same way a man would feel like if the girl had a big rotation and huge body count. Women don't only want to be ignored, they don't even want you to like them. Women have such an ego today that their mind automatically assumes you must have other women when you ignore her or pull away or have disdain in your ton…	/r/seduction	04/10/24 11:30 PM
2	Overall Principle You stumbled upon the answers by accident. It's all related to preselection and the girl gauging your options. If you already have women, you are naturally going to end the date on a neutral note that didn't suggest or rule out another date. If you aren't preselected, you will end the date by pushing for the next one. Basically any behaviors or words that convey preselection will make the girl want to see you again, anything that confirms non selection will get you ghosted	/r/seduction	04/10/24 07:01 PM
-3	How to stop giving a F? You stop giving a F by eliminating lust from your body mind and soul. That task is not possible for humans in physical existence regardless of effort. You need to ask Christ to take your lust whether or not you believe in him or believe what I'm saying. If lust is not a factor, there is no need to give a f.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 02:03 PM
2	Should you move on if she flirts with you but then calls you a friend? Be friends. Nothing wrong with that. Keep in mind that women do have sex with their male friends that they find sexually attractive, just as they would withhold sex from romantic suitors that they don't find sexually attractive. Take it as a challenge. A naughty challenge.	/r/seduction	02/10/24 05:02 PM
3	Stand Tall! Your motive for learning competencies should not be to attract women, that would put you in "try hard" energy. Your motive should be to build something, whether a business or skill set or security for your family. When you have real purpose as a motive, you become more attractive as a side effect because the girl can sense you ain't doing what you are doing to try to get her, you are doing it because you can.	/r/seduction	01/10/24 11:47 PM
-1	What is Warm approach and how can i do it well? Participate in activities that interest you and take on volunteer projects in your community. Warm approach is the way to go. Most women don't want some random dude coming out of nowhere trying to flirt with them, get to know a bunch of women in an organic way so you are only asking out the ones you actually like	/r/seduction	01/10/24 04:41 PM
30	Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance. Wanting to get to know her was the problem. When a woman tells you she just wants to be friends, that means she detected a desire for romantic connection on your part so had to set a boundary. Females are simple. They don't want men to desire romance with them the same way we want them to desire that romance with us and it's a natural safety mechanism. Women test your interest level at all times to gauge how safe of a bet you are. What women consider "safe" is you having options of her caliber o…	/r/seduction	01/10/24 04:34 PM
3	Stand Tall! Women like seeing guys master more of the manly crafts but ultimately it doesn't matter which area they desire. If you prioritize what they desire over what you want to do, they will see you as weak	/r/seduction	01/10/24 02:32 PM
9	Stand Tall! In my experience trying to focus on confidence wasn't enough. I had to develop the base root of confidence which is competence. I would advise anyone to prioritize competence in any area they desire. It not only brings you gain and confidence, competence on its own sexually attracts women. When you can fix a woman's car or make a repair around her house and you actually know what you are doing, she gets in her feminine energy because you are in your masculine.	/r/seduction	01/10/24 01:28 PM
8	How do I stop being logical and start being fun around girls? (Didnt find any similar threads) Women are emotional creatures, hence by the natural laws of polarity they are attracted to the opposite. Women actually are attracted to logical, stern, and/or serious men. You may just need to adjust non verbal behaviors. You can get away with using nerd subject matter, but you need to behave like a handsome secret agent while doing so.	/r/seduction	30/09/24 10:16 PM
2	Your fear of woman is not real, this is why Allow me to rephrase. Sexual harassment is a repeated unwanted advance, so it really can be anything, but the woman has to verbally tell you that the words or actions are unwanted...then you can't and shouldn't repeat. You don't have to be afraid of committing harassment if you know how to read the room. More importantly you need to see the value of women. You came from one.	/r/seduction	30/09/24 11:59 AM
4	Your fear of woman is not real, this is why Harassment is clearly defined. REPEATED romantic and/or sexual gestures or attempts to arrange a date after the 2nd party declared disinterest. You can't get in legal trouble if you walk away after the first time a woman rejects you. You are breaking the law if you keep pushing. You SHOULD have sexual harassment pressed on you if you keep pursuing after the girl says no, that is showing you are so weak that you might be unsafe, which is why the laws exists.	/r/seduction	29/09/24 10:29 AM
7	What's the beat piece of advice you've ever gotten on this sub/ elsewhere? Be an unapologetic narcissist. Don't sweat trying to make the girl like you ...that would show you care about the outcome. What is more important than the girl liking you is for her to be attracted to you.	/r/seduction	29/09/24 10:18 AM
31	What's the beat piece of advice you've ever gotten on this sub/ elsewhere? Best piece of advice I got is to simply not care. It sounds very generic and obvious but I was mistaken as to what that actually meant until I got into my 30s. It didn't mean not to care about the girl as a human being. It means to not give a shit about the outcome of the interactions. Adopting that mindset auto tunes behaviors to demonstrate preselection and make the woman comfortable	/r/seduction	29/09/24 12:59 AM
41	Your fear of woman is not real, this is why People need to know what the fear actually is in order to disregard it. Approach anxiety is not only real, it's wired into every male. Rejection used to mean exile or even execution, so men evolved mechanisms to avoid those consequences and they are still written on our d.n.a. The fear is real, but no longer relevant. In modern times as long as you aren't too crazy the chances of exile or execution is extremely slim because we no longer run in small tribes, the whole world is a connected mess.	/r/seduction	28/09/24 03:04 PM
61	How the hell am I supposed to succeed being neurodivergent? The most important thing a neurodivergent man can do is to not equate your self worth with your ability to get women. I say that from experience because I have dyschronometria, which has many symptoms in common with autism, it took me 20 years to start generating options, only to realize I could have done it from day one if I would have stopped exerting effort into winning women over. If you measure your worth by your results with women, you will keep sinking deeper into a depressed hole and get…	/r/seduction	27/09/24 07:34 PM
1	How important is mood in the approach? There is guys that can walk into a bar completely miserable after a bad day and still take someone home...because they understand polarity and dont instantly cheer up in the presence of beauty and come off as fake. Misery, neutrality, excitement...all the same as long as it's genuine.	/r/seduction	27/09/24 05:01 PM
0	How important is mood in the approach? Mood is not as important as maintaining the steadiness of your mood. If you picture your mood having a scale of 1 to 10...10 being positive, 5 being neutral, and 1 being negative; you ideally want to maintain your mood between 5 and 7 at all times, but the important thing is to not shift your mood by more than 2 points; whatever your mood happens to be. Sudden lifting or shifting emotions is exactly what makes a girl feel like a deer in headlights and give u the eye roll from hell. Women by natu…	/r/seduction	27/09/24 04:43 PM
5	How do i escape the fuckboy trap? Don't worry about forming a personality that attracts girls. If you self improve for the sake of getting girls, you get stuck in "try hard" aura Develop a personality that brings gain to your family and friends and wallet, and u will naturally improve with attracting women. What makes girls comfortable is knowing they are not your top priority, which they will never admit; but their behaviors say otherwise.	/r/seduction	27/09/24 04:24 PM
48	How do i escape the fuckboy trap? A fuckboy doesn't go on "dates" or get into deep conversations trying to form a connection, he is more or less a human dildo that speaks absolute nonsense in a way that displays detachment. He lets the perceived preselection of the fuckboi archetype do the work for him. If you tried being arrogant while also trying for an emotional connection, that throws the incongruence flag.	/r/seduction	26/09/24 03:57 PM
83	How do i escape the fuckboy trap? The fuckboi vibes isn't making girls run away. Lack of congruence does that. If you look like a fuckboi but are not one, your behaviors ain't congruent with your appearance. Fuckboys are called exactly that for a reason, girls fuck them....not for the appearance or behaviors, but the alignment between the two. Either dive into that persona and become congruent with it or change your look a bit to align with your current internal core.	/r/seduction	26/09/24 03:21 PM
5	3 Rules To Succeed On Dating Apps Human nature is exactly that. Incredibly stupid. It is what it is. I think among gen z and later emojis should hold absolutely no negative weight because it's part of the language they always knew, but among old people like me they can be perceived as not masculine	/r/seduction	26/09/24 12:13 PM
8	3 Rules To Succeed On Dating Apps Rule number 3 cannot be overstated. Even if YOU see emojis from a grown ass man that u know is otherwise pretty mature and serious, you feel a little weird like u can't fully respect it. Imagine how the women feel.	/r/seduction	25/09/24 11:17 PM
1	Any former fat guys that have gotten through it? I was almost 300 pounds by freshman year of highschool. I dedicated myself to sports, dropped 100 by sophomore year and became an all state DT...only to realize that weight wasn't the problem, losing composure in the face of beauty because of me judging myself was the problem. There were dudes much larger than me being surrounded by women just off of how they behaved.	/r/seduction	25/09/24 09:27 PM
7	How to deal with AMOGs You ain't wrong, you appear valuable and preselected when u simply don't play along when other men challenge you around attractive women. I personally no longer care what the women think (which is kinda the point. If someone wants to disrespect me or interrupt an A/B conversation, damn straight I am immediately addressing it. I would rather knowingly lose my shot with the girl than leave knowing I didn't stand up for myself. Self respect is more important than strange pussy.	/r/seduction	25/09/24 09:03 PM
7	How do you guys juggle dating multiple girls? There is nothing ethically wrong about it. Before social media there was a word for guys that did this. Batchealor. Get multiple women together then decide who u want to take on dates.	/r/seduction	25/09/24 08:38 PM
18	Your best unexpected hook up story! I'll start I went to play pool at a bar with my pot dealer and her housemates, she brings along her shy cousin to try to get her out more. I wasn't there to hook up with anyone. She didn't talk much but was really clingy and touchy and at the end of the night I'm driving home and the shy cousin calls me and tells me she got my number from her cousin and she wanted to go back with me. I told her ok I'll pick her up but I'm not looking for a girlfriend but shes welcome to come relax and watch TV. Not even 10…	/r/seduction	25/09/24 08:17 PM
1	How to get a young girl to open up Tell your friend to eliminate any and all sense of urgency and be normal, unlike the title of this post	/r/seduction	25/09/24 04:53 PM
1	How to talk better? A lot of the non verbal behaviors auto tune themselves if you adopt an outcome independent mindset. If u don't care if you actually get anywhere with the girl or not, you naturally ain't going to lift your emotions when talking which prevents an increase in your pitch and tempo or sudden fidgety movements. The other part of the equation is talking with polarity. If you are a nerd, u know how magnets work. Common poles repel, opposing poles attract. Write down the behavioral traits a woman shows …	/r/seduction	25/09/24 03:14 PM
2	How to talk better? Don't worry about talking better when it comes to words say what you want, not doing so is not being genuine. You don't want a woman who isn't ok with what u like to talk about. You talk better by behaving better. My girl talks nerd stuff with me all day we assess our Pokemon go crawls all the time🤣. Even when I was single and playing pool with girls I would start talking about how Im leveraging plane geometry to whoop their ass I talk nerd words and subject matter if I feel like it...but I don'…	/r/seduction	25/09/24 01:54 PM
39	How do you guys juggle dating multiple girls? When I was single I didn't go on romantic or dinner dates. To me it wasn't as much about seeing multiple women as it was about demonstrating that I had the options, which in turn generates more options. I wasn't going to show any one of them a desire for a romantic connection until it was deserved, making it known I see other women without actually having to say it. Sometimes I would even have get-togethers inviting more than one of them putting them right in front of each other. I have no shits…	/r/seduction	25/09/24 01:14 PM
14	Are girls turned on when they see you with other girls? Actual confirmable preselection such as being seen with other women is so powerful that women won't even test u when you got it. It's the only escape from the dreaded friendzone. Girls will talk shit, they will complain about u to their friends, they will call you a player with negative connotation, but pay attention to their behavior, not their words. A preselected man will be rewarded by women in every way EXCEPT with their words. It's better to be the guy she sleeps with and complains about t…	/r/seduction	24/09/24 04:01 PM
5	how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"? You can be a blank slate and still talk about theoretics and the "what ifs". . What makes u weird or creepy or not isn't the subject or even the words, it's your perceived preselection. If you lack experience you can still behave like a preselected man by being indifferent. Say what you want with no care if it actually works or not, what will creep the person out is trying to force a vibe with the "correct" questions and answers; which would confirm to the girl non selection on your part.	/r/seduction	24/09/24 12:56 PM
42	how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"? Talking about sex and dating in general can do the trick. You can gauge changes in her body language and mannerisms when this subject matter is casually discussed to determine if she's having dirty thoughts about you. Typically if she tries to change the subject fast then she don't see you that way, but if she tries to extend on the subject u can most likely escalate, again; depending on the body language.	/r/seduction	23/09/24 10:34 PM
20	I always end up receiving the “Sorry, but I’m not looking for anything at the moment” Understand what actually makes a woman feel comfortable. The answer is indifference and the preselection that it signals. The less you care about the girl, the more comfortable she feels. No woman will ever tell you that directly, but their behaviors say this is true. I'm not saying not to care about her as a human. I'm saying you can absolutely give 0 shits if you get anywhere with the girl or not. If you have attachment to any possible outcome, you demonstrate a lack of options. When a woman t…	/r/seduction	23/09/24 08:43 PM
10	I'm a 5 ft 5 obese janitor with moderate autism. What's the best way for me to find a girlfriend and get laid? Don't worry about getting laid, that comes naturally when u put maximum effort into your physical and mental health. You can beat autism, the amount of Americans that share our condition is astronomical so it's easy to blend in. You just have to learn and practice the social skills on manual mode because they aren't naturally part of your instincts like "normies", so u need to train the subconscious with reps. Take a shot of apple cider vinegar each morning, work hard and lose some weight. Cold …	/r/seduction	23/09/24 05:37 PM
41	Why are the prettier girls more receptive than the less attractive ones? One of my first observations when approaching and talking with a lot of different women was the hot ones are more humble and courteous than the average or even subpar chicks. It took me awhile to grasp why. A lot of millennial women adopted gen z behaviors and live on social media. The average and subpar girls still get dick from the ballers on I.G. despite those high status guys not committing to them, which cultivated narcissism and entitlement among average girls. This is why if you ask a lan…	/r/seduction	23/09/24 05:26 PM
1	Are masculine looking men "out of trend" for women in their twenties? Masculine men will never be out of trend because what and who women do is completely different from what they say. I never got attention from and dates with women in their 20s when I was that age. I started working manly jobs and naturally evolved into the archetype by the time my 30s came around, then it was effortless. Yes, some girls will complain and tell their friends u are too toxically masculine or selfish or emotionally closed off....that's exactly what you want, u dont want to be the fr…	/r/seduction	22/09/24 11:28 PM
-1	how to regain my game I recommend getting away from all those content creators. Some do bring valuable information, but if you got tactics and strategy and gambits swirling around your head, it's easy to slip into "try hard" aura and reveal your interest level; reversing the polarity. You have to do and say what you genuinely want, it's the only way to stay in your default state so you can effectively filter your options	/r/seduction	22/09/24 10:08 PM
3	Dates ending with a kiss but they still friend zone me Casey is an extremist who thinks girls don't even want you to like them and he believes in concealing interest level. Showing zero interest is worse than showing too much, that only works well with damaged goods. Girls want you to like them, but they DONT want you to be excited about it as if u are accomplishing some big mission. This is why u legitimately manage your interest level so it's slightly below hers by having bigger priorities than her not put up some fake facade by concealing interes…	/r/seduction	22/09/24 03:03 PM
3	Dates ending with a kiss but they still friend zone me Don't over analyze. Just keep your mood between a steady 5 and 7 out of 10 and keep your interest level slightly below the girls. Don't be too agreeable, have slight disdain if your tone if it's deserved.	/r/seduction	22/09/24 01:14 PM
7	Dates ending with a kiss but they still friend zone me You are getting on the dates and escalation which is more than most can pull off, u just must be dropping the ball somewhere without knowing it. you can ask yourself the questions to diagnose yourself. Ask yourself: Did I, at any point, become more interested in her than she was in me? Did i, at any point, show desire for romantic or emotional connection? Did I take a step back for every two steps forward while escalating? Did I, at any point, feel internally or externally "giddy" while with her…	/r/seduction	22/09/24 12:58 PM
2	Where to find 20+ for my age? Luck had nothing to do with it, I was hooking up with a tutor who also worked agri and was closer to my age and my girl was her student that basically just had to steal me from her. Looking good and young and having great charm and game is all well and good, but pales in comparison to preselection.	/r/seduction	19/09/24 12:32 PM
11	What are your usual responses when women challenges you? "be sure to let the door hit you on the way out." There is no way to win until u meet a girl that does not feel the need to challenge you at all. If you call out the challenge, you are "insecure". If you don't call it out, you have "no boundaries". If you meet halfway and negotiate, or attempt some witty line to reverse the frame...you are "controlling". Always behave like you have options even if you don't. A preselected man simply ain't going to care enough to even dignify a challenge with a r…	/r/seduction	19/09/24 12:21 PM
3	Help an autistic learn to flirt Don't overthink. You just need to learn and consciously apply certain social skills on manual mode until they become automatic, as certain nuisances that come naturally to most people won't be part of your instincts at first. Believe me, I know. The biggest thing is to always keep your mood between 5 and 7 on a scale of 10. (1 being negative, 5 being neutral, 10 being positive) Being TOO excited can make people as uncomfortable as u being pissed. Match your tone, tempo, and volume to demonstrate…	/r/seduction	17/09/24 11:58 PM
3	Where to find 20+ for my age? Get a job or volunteer at a big college or university. I work part time as a laborer for an agriculture department, it's how I met my current gf. I was 36 she was 22 yet more mature than any woman I've seen that was over 30. participate in public events and activities, u don't need to be a student to be involved, u just need legit reason to be on campus in case the police ask😂	/r/seduction	16/09/24 10:23 PM
-6	How much does occupation matter in regards to game? Everything. Your competence in your occupation is your entire masculine identity, as it forms your behaviors, appearance, and how you speak. This is where a man is at his highest congruence. I never met a firefighter or a pilot or a marine or a mason that was an incel. The pilot behaves like a captain, the marine looks like a marine. Girls brag to the world. "I'm seeing a doctor, I slept with the matre' d, i had an affair with my lawyer"	/r/seduction	13/09/24 11:19 PM
6	Has your views changed since learning game It depends if you are on the internet definition of incel (misogynist) or the medical definition (involuntary celebant). The fact that I, a non Chad; can close with a taken or married woman if i feel like it just by behaving in certain ways and being the guy they ain't supposed to have....yeah, it's a sick dark world.	/r/seduction	10/09/24 11:49 PM
94	Has your views changed since learning game Exactly. Finding the balance of being polarizing without compromising your own personal morals is the struggle. The things that turn women on are the same things that piss them off because those things demonstrate outcome independence. In English...you can't care about forming romance. I mean zero percent. It's nice when it happens, but u can't give a shit if it happens or not. That way it happens naturally. The way I found to stay polarizing without becoming evil is actually to leverage and enf…	/r/seduction	10/09/24 01:47 PM
243	Has your views changed since learning game Once you realize polarity was the answer there is no turning back. Once you grasp that the opposite behavioral traits of what is pleasing to you is exactly what pleases women, it's a struggle with your own moral compass. You would think that a girl that is kind and sweet to you would deserve the same in return, yet if u behave as such she gives you the eye roll from hell.	/r/seduction	10/09/24 10:22 AM
274	Has your views changed since learning game Learning game comes with a toll. Once I realized what actually works, it's like a wake up to how sick and dark reality actually is	/r/seduction	10/09/24 09:17 AM
6	Does being seen with unattractive girls hurt your game? If u treat the unattractive girls differently than the hot ones, yes it will hurt your game. It don't matter if you treat them better or worse or behave more flirty or more disconnected. Beautiful women are attracted to indifference because it counterbalances all the bias and/or favoritism they received their whole life. If you treat everyone the same, it's actually the better quality girls that will be drawn to you.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 10:41 PM
1	How do you guys handle nonverbal signals that say don’t approach? Meeting and talking to people that don't want you to do so is a waste of your time and energy. Approaching a woman when she signals she is not open to it is what gen z calls "creepy", i call it stupid. What is actually creeping them out isnt your looks or the approach itself...its the fact you weren't socially adept enough to read your surroundings and approached anyway.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 08:45 PM
2	How likely are girls to cheat? Girls are very likely to cheat because that is how they naturally operate. They can love you and still cheat on you just because she thought some guy was hot. The only way a girl won't cheat is if she respects her man enough to consciously suppress her naturally occurring shiny new object syndrome. This is why it is more important for a man to love his woman than to respect her, and it is more important for a woman to respect her man than to love him.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 08:39 PM
0	What is Game? [Defined] Wow. I thought the definition of game was mojo....but here we are.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 02:07 PM
17	I’m Soft and Feminine: A Question about being a Walking Contradiction Its not even a real world contradiction, I know plenty of softer men doing just fine. They know how to still behave in a way that demonstrates abundance. Preselection is so powerful it renders many other factors irrelevant. If a girl has to chose between the richest man, the best looking man, the most masculine man, or the man with the most options, she is taking the guy with the options, regardless of his personality, even if he's feminine or soft. If women sense o.p. has been around the block,…	/r/seduction	09/09/24 01:02 PM
1	Fumbled the girl of my dreams and now I’m sad You shouldn't have to cope because u should have never have pictured her as the girl of your dreams. You tried making a fling into something else because of the realization u don't live too far apart. You continuing to text could have implied desire for romantic connection, reversing the polarity that had her wanting to spend nights with u in the first place. The second a woman senses that you idolize her, or that u become more interested in her than she is in you, she assumes you don't have opt…	/r/seduction	08/09/24 05:53 PM
1	Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success? I'm not shocked, neither should you be. Women want what they can't have, which is the entire basis of all game and seduction. The downfall is when you are genuinely disinterested is when the game backfires because the less interested you are in a woman the more interested she is in you.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 03:26 PM
1	Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success? It's a tough situation because outright rejecting her or lecturing her to back off would make her push even harder. Sometimes the only option is to place an r.o. If u live in a far left state like me u would get laughed out of the court room at the hearing, but there is still x amount of days before the hearing that the order is guaranteed to be valid so u made ur point.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:44 AM
9	Anyone here a loser who turned it around? There was a specific starting point, but the change in mindset was certainly not a "eurika" moment, it was a culmination of countless interactions and social observing. I was issued a challenge by my best friend to start at the top and speak to the hottest girl wherever I happen to go, the type of conversation doesn't matter. It was a rough start, but the more I did it the more talking to quality women became normalized in my mind, so I was able to collect data over time to conclude that the bes…	/r/seduction	07/09/24 10:18 PM
40	Anyone here a loser who turned it around? I was originally not selected by nature for reproduction. Almost 260 pounds by 8th grade, I was the fat nerd In highschool I stayed dedicated to sports and dropped 100 pounds, was more social and gained some status... so physically and socially I turned it around big-time ...and I got even LESS attention from girls as I improved. This is exactly why seduction is separate from self improvement. It wasn't until my 30s that I realized success with women didn't scale up with my looks and other facto…	/r/seduction	07/09/24 08:19 PM
2	Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success? "The Mosbey".	/r/seduction	07/09/24 04:29 PM
10	How to get a girl as a man not interested in getting laid? You might as well use the dating apps, most human beings have a basic need for sex regardless of their moral compass. There is no such thing as a hoe and no such thing as a good girl. This is because every woman behaves in accordance with how she categorizes each individual guy she is talking to. A "good" girl that will withhold physical intimacy to establish a romantic connection with you, that sees you as a catch; will still be sleeping with a dude that doesn't take her on dates or show romant…	/r/seduction	07/09/24 04:12 PM
12	Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success? I was an all state d tackle in highschool, pretty well known for my work ethic but I was never conventually attractive by societal standards. I didn't hit my stride with casual dating and hooking up until I realized I can't exert the same kind of maximum effort that I put into other areas of life into winning a woman over. As a jock and an overachiever I was used to lifting my emotions and raising my energy to get anything done. It took casually talking to hundreds of attractive women to get the…	/r/seduction	07/09/24 01:05 AM
9	Are Flirty Baristas Always Just Trying To Get Tips? All service workers are trying to get tips at all times, but the single ones are still looking for guys like any other girl. To decipher if she also wants your steak tip or just flirting for monetary tip, u just need to look for the tells. If she is just flirting to be friendly and fulfill her duty, it's going to flow well like she does it everyday because...she does. If the girl gets fidgety and starts having trouble with flow of words and talks stupid and her breathing gets a bit labored she i…	/r/seduction	05/09/24 11:36 PM
3	Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship? The more attractive the man, the less secure the deal is.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 09:00 PM
1	who do you think is better at seduction? a salesperson or a lawyer? It's pretty close because common traits are involved but I say lawyers because their desire for marriage is the lowest because they know exactly what happens😂	/r/seduction	04/09/24 11:17 PM
11	I feel like I am a loser - Have a good foundation but no games If u have those advantages and you go on that many dates, the issue is the intangibles. Women like nice guys. They are actually sexually attracted to gentlemen. Most guys do not deliver their words and actions, however, without lust attached and that makes you appear to be not preselected. This is why being a gentleman and being nice or polite gets such a bad rep. Perhaps having the advantages that you do have makes you expect sex? The key is to never at any point become more interested in the g…	/r/seduction	04/09/24 02:58 PM
3	Why do I feel like I'm on God-mode when drunk? That means absolutely not caring if u actually get anywhere with the girl or not	/r/seduction	03/09/24 11:19 PM
36	Why do I feel like I'm on God-mode when drunk? It depends what you were drinking. Beer makes everything feel fun, vodka makes everything a legendary mission. Altered states of mind remove outcome independence which is why it makes talking to girls seem easier. If you can do that sober or lightly buzzed and lower your ki when u talk instead of raising your energy, then you have greater sex appeal than any of the drunk hyperactive animals that are spewing word vomit.	/r/seduction	03/09/24 05:55 PM
2	The eye-contact game.. It's the most basic and most important conversational skill in existence. Observe share and ask in no particular order. Make an observation that is interesting to you, it can be about the surroundings, the person, or something about the general situation at hand. Share your thoughts about it and/or ask for their opinion. Use o.s.a. in tandem with conversation threading. That is picking a key word to branch off of and extend the convo by repeatedly using o.s.a. with a new relevant basis, this sto…	/r/seduction	02/09/24 05:41 PM
-5	Imploded my chances with a girl because she saw me making out with another girl during night out You did not implode your chances, you significantly multiplied them. The things that turn women on are the exact same things that piss them off. If you really like somebody, hit on her friend right in front of her, or better yet hook up with the friend. Note how they will reward you in every way except with their words.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 12:13 AM
1	Do you call out your “friend” who hits on a girl you are interested in? You don't call someone out when they are helping you by sabotaging themself. If you call the person out, you are sabotaging yourself and helping him. The guy who exerts less effort into winning the girl over will be more attractive to her every time. If you call him out, even if he respects you and backs off...she will know about it....and you are basically MAKING her more attracted to him because you are showing the outcome matters to you more.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 11:54 PM
81	The eye-contact game.. You just need easily forgotten fundamentals that apply to all social scenarios. If you're autistic af like me and they ain't part of your instincts u just need to drive on manual until the concepts become auto. Staring takes one person. Eye contact takes two. If she drops eye contact; don't try to extend it; go about your business. The best way to make sure you (and the other person) are comfortable with keeping eye contact is to say hello either verbally or with a gesture within 3 seconds of es…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 11:43 PM
1	How do you pump your positive energy up before going out? You don't. Keep your energy positive yet level without raising your ki; nice and relaxed like you are enjoying a visit to Grandma's house. Pumping up your energy is for the gym or cheering on the home team. If u lift your energy when dealing with women u create the "try hard" aura that makes their eyes roll because when u do that you are making the impression u are taking the feminine role of being the chaser.	/r/seduction	28/08/24 06:09 PM
2	Unpopular opinion: chivalry is NOT dead. Exactly. Treating everyone the same regardless of age or gender is not only what women want to see, it removes the limits on who you can meet and bring mutual gain.TBH if I see a father walking around town with his daughter, holding a door for them is MORE important to me than doing the same for an attractive woman.	/r/seduction	26/08/24 12:41 PM
2	"You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrong If someone you admired as an athlete challenged you to a rock climb at your peak you would most likely say yes. With women it's the opposite. Sometimes you have to tell them no. If a girl is horny and things are about to go your way u sometimes need to withhold. Say no to anything, actually. If they know you take risks in general but ain't so willing to take risks on them whether sexually or mentally, they sense this "step daddy" energy and they keep having deviant thoughts about you.	/r/seduction	26/08/24 02:36 AM
2	"You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrong That massive priority that removes thirst is building competency in high risk skills. I never once met a fire fighter or a bmx biker or a marine or snowboarding junkie that was an incel.	/r/seduction	24/08/24 11:07 PM
2	"You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrong Sexual discipline comes with preselection, but it can be achieved through other means. Everyone had to start with no options at one time or another, many guys couldn't get the rolling start until they had a higher priority to distract from the thirst and be able to behave normal around women and not care about the outcomes.	/r/seduction	24/08/24 10:02 PM
5	I literally cant talk with girls and I need help You just need to understand the cause of your lack of confidence around girls. Understand that all men have anxiety hard wired into their DNA as an evolved instinct to prevent their own death or exile. In the past, getting rejected could mean a death sentence or exile from the tribe, so men developed courting anxiety(or approach anxiety) as a survival mechanism to prevent these consequences. Now apply all of the above logically. In modern times this survival mechanism is illogical and irrelevant…	/r/seduction	24/08/24 06:22 PM
1	"You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrong Ive never once got in trouble for talking to someone because I have enough of a life to keep the lust out of the equation. Unfortunately, most guys can't do that.	/r/seduction	24/08/24 05:29 PM
-1	"You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrong Fuck approaching. Approach the bag. It's unreal how when u go on a campaign to get your money right without the thoughts of chasing women distracting you, actual real life females will try to distract you and make themselves an option for u	/r/seduction	24/08/24 07:44 AM
14	"You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrong You are not wrong. The truth that no one wants to hear but everyone already understands is that you are only one approach away from prison or worse. This is why "approaching" is not in my vocabulary. The act of approaching in itself is fraught with the wrong energy, as if the guy just has to go out of his way to give free validation to someone he doesn't even know. I just meet people through natural means like routines, activities or social functions that I might find interesting regardless of g…	/r/seduction	24/08/24 07:21 AM
3	Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship. Im stoic, but not to the point of robotic, I'm somewhat stern and serious kinda like dads used to be when they actually had authority. This way when the humour or emotion does come it's happening naturally and means more. When I banter with a girl I speak absolute nonsense in a fun way, but I'm not saying the stuff like a clown, I'm still maintaining stoic mannerisms and tone so it's kinda confusing the woman as to if in serious or joking. For topics, you don't want an interviewy vibe, so u are …	/r/seduction	24/08/24 12:13 AM
45	Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship. Best example I can give is my most recent FWB before I got with my current gf. This girl comes over at midnight to hookup, dressed to the max with makeup and jewelry. I asked her "what's with the overkill at this hour?" She said she just came from a date at a Michelin starred restaurant, and she's telling me the dude seems like a great guy, degree in finance, already has a valuable portfolio and his own house etc etc...then she proceeds to let me put it down her throat. Instead of going home wit…	/r/seduction	23/08/24 05:54 PM
63	Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship. Women behave in accordance with how they categorize each individual guy they talk to. The same women that want an ltr with you will still be sleeping with some guy that don't even try to get to know her. You have to be an expendable idiot. Maybe u come off as a catch. Dumb it down a little.	/r/seduction	23/08/24 04:07 PM
4	PSA: Seduction is 10% theory and 90% a numbers game I feel you. The way I switched it off was I thought back to highschool sports and dwelled on the difference between football players and soccer players. I, being the all state defensive tackle that I was, always had to raise my ki and lift my emotions and sound like a big choo choo train to get anything done and I dealt with girls the same way. I remember the soccer players never hooped and hollered and had silent discipline; and were light years ahead of us in standings and the cheerleaders dat…	/r/seduction	22/08/24 11:04 PM
11	PSA: Seduction is 10% theory and 90% a numbers game I agree with you in theory. My whole thing is objective separation of self improvement and seduction because the optimal behaviors are different. A man should always exert maximum effort into his body, his purpose, his family, and his money, and where most men fail is thinking that seduction works the same way. Women get freaked out by "try hard" energy, because men and women are opposites that are supposed to go together easily like salt and pepper. If a man's motive behind his self improvement…	/r/seduction	22/08/24 02:07 PM
53	PSA: Seduction is 10% theory and 90% a numbers game Focusing on volume is futile if there isn't a core foundation of how to behave around women and the guy is stuck in beta ways. A high rejection rate will hurt the guy's mental health even more in parallel with the more women he talks to, it can make a dude discourage himself and even destroy him over time.	/r/seduction	22/08/24 01:11 PM
1	I just met this girl on the weekend and have a question.. Do not even consider the texting interactions, in fact try to minimize them. With i.r.l. interactions, sometimes the girl will be receptive and move fast to making out or sex ...this is the ultimate interest test to see how you behave afterwards. In my experience if everything went well in person and the text game is whack, that means the girl wanted less communication and more detachment so she can stay turned on because she's actually interested.	/r/seduction	20/08/24 03:09 PM
2	I just met this girl on the weekend and have a question.. Men are supposed to exert effort into survival, so women don't want a man to exert effort into getting her so she knows he's preselected and likely has survival traits. Ghosting happens when the man clearly became the chaser. Women chase men, men chase the bag. Everything a woman says and does is to test your interest levels to make sure she isn't the man's priority to gauge his options. These tests happen both intentionally and unintentionally. Texting is nothing but tests. Girls bait you into …	/r/seduction	20/08/24 02:52 PM
-1	I just met this girl on the weekend and have a question.. It's not a question of it's okay or not. It's a question of why would you want to? The second you show more interest in the girl than she shows in you, you become the girl.	/r/seduction	20/08/24 02:37 PM
0	What’s your go to line when a girl flakes out on a date yet proposes another day for the date? No	/r/seduction	20/08/24 11:02 AM
3	What’s Going Wrong on First Dates? I look back at the first date for both successes and failures. Every time I got a second date or closed or started a relationship...even the girls will tell you I did nothing correctly. Every time I got ghosted or rejected after the first date, it was a date where i did everything right. Let stuff go wrong. If you are too perfect or too structured on your date the girl will perceive "try hard" energy and think that u lack options and that she is the best you can do and she will feel like u are b…	/r/seduction	18/08/24 07:30 PM
0	How does one become less needy and narcissistic? Be less needy. Continue being a narcissist. Good women sleep with self centered pricks. The things that piss them off are the same things that turn them on. If you can apply patience to narcissism, you will be able to command attention without actually displaying the need for an audience...people will want to be the audience on their own accord. It's as simple as lowering your tone and slowing your tempo and consciously refraining from fidgety movements. Not only will that alone make others perc…	/r/seduction	18/08/24 04:50 PM
1	How likely is it to go from Dating to Relationship? Stay detached until a ring is on someone's finger. Even then keep behaving like I didn't close off your options. Being detached has accumulated too much negative connotation, when it's actually a morally right thing. Women think differently. They have different safety mechanics that we can't understand but can clearly observe. When you get attached the girl thinks you don't care about her, which is usually why they ghost. It's counterintuitive but I'm not lying. Girls need to know you are strong…	/r/seduction	16/08/24 12:38 AM
1	How to get unstuck in social situations? It all makes sense. The first thing you should do is leverage attractive traits u already possess. You say you are stuck up. Remove the negative connotation. It can be a good thing. just keep it in check around non targets. Women like the opposing behavioral traits of those that are pleasing to men, you just need to be social enough to display polarizing traits u already have. Best way to beat the social anxiety is to consciously slow everything down. When you speak with lower tone and slower te…	/r/seduction	15/08/24 01:32 AM
26	So what turns on women? Nothing to do with anything tangible, this is masculine behavioral stuff. I mean don't exert psychological effort into getting pussy. Don't be a try hard. Don't be falsely agreeable. The less you care about getting somewhere with the girl, the more your behaviors auto correct to appear preselected and the more comfortable she feels with you. A preselected man isn't going to put high stakes on an interaction with a woman because he already has women. The simple way to word it: don't get "giddy" t…	/r/seduction	14/08/24 03:53 AM
61	So what turns on women? Women won't tell you what actually turns them on so they don't come off as deviant....u have to listen to experienced men. The answer is preselection and the behaviors that come with it, nothing can convince me otherwise at this point. Women prioritize what other women want over what they personally want. They consider how other women think and what they do over their own thoughts and actions. You can hit that gym all you want and make as much money as you want, and girls will still ghost u or l…	/r/seduction	14/08/24 12:14 AM
27	Ibiza tips? Same as America. Hand out free coke samples to pale skinned girls in exchange for free head.	/r/seduction	13/08/24 02:46 PM
5	Zero female interaction , too scared to approach, what can be done to change that ? Think like a nerd and apply logic to give yourself confidence. Accept the scientific reason why you are scared to approach so you can address it. Our DNA as males is programmed for survival. In ancient times, getting rejected could literally be a death sentence or get u exiled from the tribe. Over thousands of years, we adapted instincts to prevent the consequences, and that approach anxiety u feel is part of that evolution and is in your DNA. All men actually have approach anxiety for this reas…	/r/seduction	13/08/24 01:12 PM
100	Hard to settle down once you know about game? Knowing about game is good for relationships and actually helped me settle down, because now I know exactly why women leave men that commit to them; I found a girl that separated herself from her competitors and made me desire to leave the manwhore lifestyle behind. I will not cheat or be unethical, but I continue behaving in a manner that sustains the competition anxiety, because now I know the relationship will fail if she, at any point: feels like my smv falls beneath hers. It's about behavin…	/r/seduction	13/08/24 09:59 AM
1	When is the right time to ask for a date? The right time to suggest a date would have been before you exchanged instas in order to make it clear you have no intention of being a mere follower. Doing it like that also takes the thinking out of it. For me personally; if I ask to exchange numbers and she is ok with that, I assume she is normal and will text her in a day or 2. If she is not ok with phone numbers but she IS ok with swapping instas, I assume shes just racking up followers and u won't catch me being the first to initiate conta…	/r/seduction	12/08/24 06:11 PM
79	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Yes, with women I couldn't stand once I got to know them. You can be obvious about sexual interest, just keep it mainly non verbal behaviors to have that simultaneous silent sexual conversation. What u have to keep in check is your romantic interest. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships so if the girl thinks u are easily won over, it sets a red flag off in her head that makes her feel like u are beneath her. Do not let your heart be won over as easy as your cock.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 12:05 AM
13	The popular self help advice of “If you want ppl to be interested in you just be interested in them bro!” doesn’t really work w/o looks or status most of the time I think the universe works exactly the opposite that the self help material claims. You cannot be more interested in a person than that person is in you, otherwise you are giving them no possible gain by knowing them. Maybe a better way to explain: If you want people to be interested in you, offer them value. If you bring good value, you are going to be selective about who receives it. If you are selective, you will not show too much interest too soon. The person u are talking to needs to know y…	/r/seduction	10/08/24 08:25 PM
1	Is she like that or I’m just thinking she is because of my sexual history? It's nobody's fault, except mother nature. We can't comprehend the female mind as females can. They biologically consider desire for commitment weakness and feel the instinct to test your interest. If at any point u become more romantically interested in her than she is in you, the dynamic is reversed and the girl feels the need to eviscerate u to stop ur genes from being passed. Some girls go about doing that in much filthier ways than others.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 02:39 PM
1	Is she like that or I’m just thinking she is because of my sexual history? There is no way she isn't. If she told u she came home at 5am, she was subtly telling you "that happened". If there was some innocent reason she came home at that time she would have never mentioned it. Women intentionally drop hints about what they are up to, to make you think and question yourself in order to punish you for desiring commitment.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 02:08 PM
1	Is she like that or I’m just thinking she is because of my sexual history? Somehow you knew what time she came home. She just "happened" to go to a restaurant near where your colleague lives...this evidence was meant for you to know, otherwise u wouldn't know this stuff	/r/seduction	10/08/24 01:23 PM
1	Is she like that or I’m just thinking she is because of my sexual history? She's doing that behind closed doors IN ORDER TO disrespect you.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 01:21 PM
2	Is she like that or I’m just thinking she is because of my sexual history? Your objectivity isn't necessarily skewed by your history in this case because the vast majority of women build a similar history and had similar experiences at a young age. You know the tells and behaviors, u ain't seeing a situation that doesn't actually exist. Once the girl detected you wanted a future with her, she hooked up with guys that don't want that with her; fully knowing she don't need to say anything for u to know what is happening and to start questioning everything.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 12:42 PM
13	How likely is it to go from Dating to Relationship? Get this in your head while you are young: the gatekeepers of relationships are MEN. Your post implied you don't believe that. Just as women control the progression from meetup to dating and the likelihood for sex, you control the progression from dating to relationship and likelihood for marriage. You harness that progression by not letting your heart be won over as easy as your cock.	/r/seduction	09/08/24 02:19 PM
1	Is a woman saying she’s looking for friends on dating apps subtle code that they’re looking for NSA? Yes and no. What a woman is looking for and how she behaves is based on how she categorizes each individual guy. This is why there is no such thing as a slut, and no such thing as a good girl. You are either seen as a beta provider, an alpha bull, a friend, or irrelevant. For simplicity we will go with: potential bf, boytoy, platonic, or nothing. If a woman tells u she is looking for friends on dating apps, she most likely put u in the "platonic" or "nothing" category, because she knows saying t…	/r/seduction	09/08/24 01:19 PM
2	Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?" Working on yourself should be the priority....but it has nothing to do with seduction, it's separate, self improvement is for u and your family. If you advance yourself for the sake of getting laid, you are in for disappointment. How many dudes built muscles and built money...and still don't know what arouses a woman? A woman will leave a bodybuilder or a millionaire for a preselected man whose behaviors exude sex appeal any day of the week. Preselected men do not over exert mental or psychologi…	/r/seduction	09/08/24 01:34 AM
35	Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s? Women will be down for whatever corresponds with how she categorizes you. If she sees you as potential bf material, yes; you will need to court her and she will withhold; she wants that process to build a foundation. If she sees you as a human sex toy, you can just order McDonalds and hook up without spending much money/time. What changed is how certain women view you as you got older. Examine if you are behaving congruently with how u want to be perceived. It's much easier to come across as a "…	/r/seduction	08/08/24 01:20 PM
1	I think I'm falling for my roommate Pull way back. You ain't lovers. You used to be friends, now u are in a business arrangement. The easiest way to lose your friends is to live with them, nevermind falling for them. Remain as indifferent as possible until the lease is up, then work on your friendship, find other women in the meantime. There is a cheat code but I don't recommend it: if you hook up with one of her friends and it becomes public knowledge, she will gain intense sexual desire for u, but in the aftermath of that there …	/r/seduction	07/08/24 02:24 AM
1	What to do next? She was testing your interest and she detected urgency. At some point u must have shown u are more interested in her than she is in you. Be patient in the future and leave gaps and pull back here and there so she has room to chase you. She is someone u deal with on a regular basis, not a street walker u don't have to see again.	/r/seduction	06/08/24 05:20 PM
3	How am I meant to react to being approached and flirted with? You react like its an everyday thing like eating drinking and shitting, which means you are indifferent to it and keep a stoic edge and don't get giddy when u get approached.	/r/seduction	06/08/24 03:55 PM
30	We talk about how to seduce a girl, but how about keeping her interested in the long run? The same way you seduce her. Seduction is about demonstrating preselection. Maintaining relationships is about maintaining preselection. That does not mean to cheat or be unethical. It means she needs to know you can cheat if u wanted to. The second that wives and girlfriends are convinced their man fully cut off all his options is when the problems start, it's why so many wives don't even sleep with their husbands, all attraction dropped with the mans perceived s.m.v.	/r/seduction	06/08/24 02:45 PM
9	My first cold approach was interrupting her being cold approached lol That guy didn't read the room right. The validation vacuum only works when the target has already given the guy non verbal pre approval, and/or shows clear annoyance with who is talking to her. If the girl is into the guy she is talking to, the dude trying to take the validation is only sabotaging himself and helping that guy. This is why when I was younger I only did that when I already got some kind of choosing signal and the girl was clearly annoyed with the guy. I don't even recommend it. I …	/r/seduction	05/08/24 08:16 PM
21	How do you stop being thirsty? Change the words in your internal vocabulary to be more tranquil and less harsh. Instead of trying to "stop being thirsty", focus on "being more patient", and u can apply that to your life as a whole. Patience is one of those behaviors associated with preselection, the most attractive trait. In a female mindset the girl thinks "he ain't in a hurry, he must be getting some elsewhere which makes me feel safer with him."	/r/seduction	05/08/24 08:05 PM
146	My first cold approach was interrupting her being cold approached lol You performed the "validation vacuum" without realizing it. It's one of those moves with a high pickup rate. You create a distraction with yourself at the center of it when another man is actively engaging your target, as if you are taking the attention he is giving her out of the air and putting it onto yourself. It's most often done in environments where single people meet, and it's usually done by doing dirtbag shit like placing yourself where the girl can see u but the guy can't and you smil…	/r/seduction	05/08/24 12:23 PM
5	Is this a matter of confidence Get approaching girls out of your mind and chase that loot. When u approach that bag, the women u meet in commission of collecting resources will approach you.	/r/seduction	04/08/24 04:02 PM
5	Cold approach - increase the volume I resolved it when I eliminated the term "cold approach" from my vocabulary. Now I just acknowledge anyone I happen to cross paths with or meet through activities like a civilized human. If one person finds the other interesting, a conversation can start and possibly extend. Best to do this with every type of person, not only your "targets", that way after some time u stay in your default state around the attractive women u do meet. Doing it like that makes it effortless, which is exactly how yo…	/r/seduction	04/08/24 02:17 PM
10	When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girl I've never been to prison because i never throw the first blow and there are usually cameras to prove it.	/r/seduction	03/08/24 12:56 AM
2	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me? It's the loophole so you don't have to fake preselection. You simply don't show up for a date until you have at least 2 other dates scheduled or 2 other women interested in you, and a lot of your behaviors are automatically more masculine and patient. If you talk to 100 girls and u act normal, you can easily find 3 that will go out with you. This has to stem from a realization and belief that there actually is no such thing as zero options, because as long as you have a dick somebody somewhere w…	/r/seduction	02/08/24 10:56 PM
2	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me? I used the rule of 3 so I rarely had to fake anything. Your options is in your tone and vibe, hence very hard to fake. If I really had zero options, I would get a rolling start by holding off on spending time with any one woman until I met at least 2 others and have agreed to a date or a hangout. This method is very effective for negating needy or lustful behaviors and the options kinda stack themselves after that.	/r/seduction	02/08/24 08:51 PM
63	When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girl In my experience the girl usually leaves with a 3rd party that wasn't paying much attention to her at all, let alone trying to compete for it. My old advice was to keep the peace and steer into the skid and steer the other dude into giving her more attention hence letting him be the "try hard" and passively sabotaging him while u sit there and don't give a shit about the outcome, making you appear more preselected than the interuptor. My new advice is fuck getting walked on. If some other dude i…	/r/seduction	02/08/24 06:26 PM
5	Girl I’m seeing never flirts back? Women and men both make the same mistakes when it comes to polarity. Both genders often think that traits that are attractive to them are also attractive to the opposite gender. Example: women are attracted to guys with options, so often they think we are turned on by the same so they actually start talking about other guys to us. It gives us a kinda ick factor but they think it's a turn on. Same applies to flirting. Women are not turned on by the same kind of flirting we are, we like when they …	/r/seduction	02/08/24 01:07 PM
-4	How to go about cold approach when you have a kind of intimidating appearance? Eliminate cold approach. Meet lots of women through natural means like activities and community projects so u ain't forcing a vibe and they can get to know you without as much of a guard being up. See who you click with and do warm proposition.	/r/seduction	02/08/24 12:05 AM
1	She asked for my number but won’t answer when I called Let me unconfuse you. "The hotter the flame, the shorter the burn". Women with high initial interest are the most prone to losing interest fast, because they were actually testing YOUR interest and checking your urgency. They do this to assess your congruence...to confirm if you are as preselected as she initially thought you may have been. Women will move fast to bait you into acting urgent or feminine to justify disqualifying you. If you show equal or greater interest and/or urgency than the g…	/r/seduction	01/08/24 02:29 PM
2	Do you change your approach based on the age of the woman? You just need to react to situations u run into with what I would call the dumb version of your instincts to make it a naturally occurring interaction and not forced. A good example would be the chipotle chick. I was walking through the parking lot and this girl backed right up into me with her car, I got tapped on the hip and I kinda yelled at her with a smile "if that is your idea of hitting on me, your flirting needs work, miss...your insurance info please" I accused her of hitting on me and …	/r/seduction	01/08/24 01:20 AM
2	Do you change your approach based on the age of the woman? The younger they are, the more illogical and aloof I behave; because of their higher s.m.v., they are drawn to effortlessness in a sea of thousands exerting maximum effort. The older they are, the more stoic and detached I behave, though I will let more intellect show. This is because they have lower s.m.v. but they THINK they have higher s.m.v...so they are drawn to guys that obviously have low desire to commit, just like all the Chads that wouldn't commit to her when she was on the c.c.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 12:36 AM
11	How can I improve my sex appeal talking wise It's mostly about the subject matter. You want to have fun conversation with colorful adjectives that does not revolve around getting to know one another or establishing emotional connection. Speaking absolute nonsense is better than speaking logic I had a FWB who to this day I don't know what she does for a living. I got laid off of talking about the fight I had against a goose at the age of 4(I did not win) and discussing how the time of day affects the behaviors of old people at supermarkets.…	/r/seduction	31/07/24 04:54 PM
10	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. The best relationships I've had were with women that were NOT into me at first they grew to like me over time. It's polarity. It's easier to remain masculine towards someone that is cold or rude than it is with someone kind and sweet. The hotter the flame, the shorter the burn. This is why high interest women are very prone to losing that instantly...they bait men into acting feminine to justify disqualifying them by playing the good girl game. With low or mid interest women, they ain't going to…	/r/seduction	31/07/24 03:21 PM
2	How do you show anger or aggressiveness or other type of emotions Don't bottle up the emotions, leverage them. I use the emotions as motivation to remain stoic, to me being non reactive is equal to throwing blows (to those who deserve it) , the satisfaction that will come with standing my ground while the person has no viable rebuttal purges the negative emotions and helps the mind reset.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 01:56 PM
6	How do you show anger or aggressiveness or other type of emotions Remain non reactive. Some people get even more pissed when you are stoic because you didn't give them the reaction or conflict they were fishing for ..which is the whole point. Be at the cause of the drama and not the effect of it. Good example would be my most reason FWB. She shows up at my gym just to tear me down about spending too much time with my workout partner (who was cheerleader captain in high school that I've been fitness partners with for decades) and hoping to confront both of us. …	/r/seduction	31/07/24 01:17 PM
3	Plea for help As long as you are desperate, you will be in repulsive "try hard" energy when u do get the courage to make moves. Forget about women and just chase the bag. Women chase men who collect and utilize tools for survival, and in modern times that is money. If they can tell that u want them more than u want that loot, u won't hear from them again.	/r/seduction	30/07/24 11:16 PM
3	Mid twenties. in college recently single You are only as weird as YOU think you are. If you feel weird then you behave weirdly. Join as many groups and activities as you can and just focus on networking. If you are fearing that you can't get with someone at the quality of your ex...that means u consider your ex high quality. You have confirmable preselection which is the biggest advantage a guy can get. Literally show pictures of your ex to other girls and say nice things about her, and their brains shut off because their vaginas start…	/r/seduction	30/07/24 07:24 PM
39	How to understand women's body language/facial expressions? There is thousands of micro nuisances associated with non verbal communication, but they can all be put into two categories: inviting or dismissive. It's pretty easy to let your instincts categorize the different cues only using 2 categories. Dismissive cues are simple, they explain themselves, best to walk away and not try to generate a vibe that isn't there. This is good news. You know not to waste time that u can't get back. Be even more aware of the inviting cues, they are both good and bad …	/r/seduction	30/07/24 07:08 PM
1	How do I find cool guys/wingmen to go out and pick up girls with? You don't. Do not keep competitors in your constant radius while gaming especially if they're cool and u want to keep them as friends. Girls are always more attracted to the wingman than the guy who called dibs on the target, because the wingman desires the target less or not at all so he is automatically perceived as more preselected.	/r/seduction	30/07/24 03:04 PM
6	What to do when women talk shit about themselves? You are supposed to say: "If you ain't happy with something about yourself, maybe a fancy dinner after some sloppy sex would fix it."	/r/seduction	29/07/24 11:01 PM
2	I actually don't understand what I'm doing wrong When I talk about interest testing, I'm specifically talking about romantic interest. If you don't express sexual interest via your behaviors you won't get anywhere. You keep romantic interest in check, because men are actually the gatekeepers of romance while women gatekeep sex, so you want to act like your gender and present the value of a man that is not easily won over. When you touch and make out keep the romance out of it, make it sloppy. Withhold physical touch at regular intervals and in…	/r/seduction	29/07/24 04:51 PM
1	I actually don't understand what I'm doing wrong I got you, this is simple. You may have done nothing "wrong". Most girlfriends I had will tell you that I did nothing right when I met them. You must have somehow reversed the polarity. The second that your interest level exceeds hers is the second she decides that you must not be able to do better than her, and she then sees you as beneath her and she is done with you. High interest women are especially prone to flaking, then you wonder what you did wrong because she seemed so interested. In ou…	/r/seduction	29/07/24 03:08 PM
40	I get tons of attention from women but when i open my mouth i see all the attraction goes to the window. This is common, but took 2 decades to diagnose and cure this situation for myself. Losing attraction fast when u start talking is caused by you saying something or behaving in some way that makes the girls think you are not as preselected as they initially thought you were. Most of the time this is caused by the man coming off his default state and lifting his emotions when communicating...or having that "giddy" feeling internally that affects hundreds of behavioral micro nuisances that girls in…	/r/seduction	28/07/24 08:37 PM
2	True SEDUCTION is Passive I agree with you, though I put it in different words. I always preach that true seduction is demonstration of preselection. passive and stoic behaviors and lack of urgency register in the girl's mind as "there is other women I have to compete with and beat"	/r/seduction	28/07/24 06:59 PM
3	Trying to make this women obsessed Just get used to turning down pussy. It isn't easy when you are a sexaholic. I got over it by learning how to maintain the default state and gaining so many options so rapidly that I had no choice but to turn sex down. TBH my current gf was making me wait until the 3rd date. I knew right there that there was ltr potential because very few ever made me wait more than 3 hours, so when she started moving on me on the 3rd date I told her to behave and made her wait another month😂 That was when I was…	/r/seduction	28/07/24 05:43 PM
3	Trying to make this women obsessed You don't. In this situation she is clearly not gf material and u are clearly not bf material. Commiting to her would rain fire on your peace and it will turn into too much drama. You can probably keep seeing her for years without making anything official, but ultimately you cannot commit to someone who fucked a stranger fast if you expect loyalty.	/r/seduction	28/07/24 04:47 PM
3	Trying to make this women obsessed You don't have to verbalize your abundance unless u want to be hurtful; you show it in your behaviors. The more interested in romance that you act, the less abundant she thinks you are. 100% of fwbs I had that came back multiple times...I never took on a date or spent a single penny on, or even talked about what they did for a living...and I didn't actually say i was seeing other women...I didnt always know to be like that on purpose but each of those situationships had that in common. Again, th…	/r/seduction	28/07/24 04:28 PM
1	Trying to make this women obsessed Actual confirmable preselection compared to perceived preselection makes the girl feel even more weird when you don't behave in accordance with your sexual value by desiring commitment. She starts thinking "he's going to cut off his other options just for me? He must be crazy because I wasn't acting like gf material, I was easy". When you withhold, that train of thinking can't exist in the girl's head, u didn't give her the window to be easy.	/r/seduction	28/07/24 04:10 PM
13	Trying to make this women obsessed The only girls in my entire life that didn't instantly lose interest the second I told them I wanted them as a girlfriend were the girls that I withheld sex from while getting to know them. I imagine my personal experience lines up with universal concept. My advice to you is pull back fast, see if she hits u back up after a few days. Think about how a girl's brain works. The second you show desire for emotional connection, or that you want her as a gf, she will lose all respect for you and disap…	/r/seduction	28/07/24 03:39 PM
4	When did you start learning and practicing the game An entire economy exists because of women and big tech corporations financially leveraging beta male behavior. Any girl can make money with zero job skills or training because if she shows an ounce of skin online, dudes will view and pay subscriptions by the thousands. This has made every woman with a smartphone feel like they are a celebrity even if they don't participate in leveraging thirsty behaviors because they are herd thinkers. Celebrities are still human and can only reciprocate a small…	/r/seduction	28/07/24 10:36 AM
6	I’m not closing enough; what am I doing wrong? You have a 2:1 close ratio. This sub is for people who have trouble speaking words to women. I don't think you're doing much wrong. Only way for 100% is if you are so good at reading people that u only deal with the girls that already decided they are a sure thing for you.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 11:31 PM
3	Where to find women if you’re under 21? Literally anywhere that doesn't serve alcohol. I'm old, I have access to a lot of venues, but i haven't actually met a woman at a bar or club for ltr in over a decade, because I realized the setting in which you meet does matter, they are more or less useless unless west nile snatch is something you enjoy. If you don't want drama in your life, don't go where single people typically gather. A good start would be to take walks and give compliments to girl's dogs. Not them, their dogs. You would be…	/r/seduction	27/07/24 08:40 PM
44	When did you start learning and practicing the game Same time I started playing sports at 13 years old, walking around the mall with the guys trying to get numbers. As much of a dumpsterfire as that experience was, I would go back to doing that any day because smart phones and social media didn't exist and girls were mainly limited to who they met in person. I'm glad I started pre internet, now I know multiple eras of dating. Back then girls would take serious offense to ignoring them or not picking up the phone, especially if they liked u at fir…	/r/seduction	27/07/24 08:30 PM
31	Does anyone belive if this is true? The more you go to the internet for dating information, the more limiting beliefs you will cultivate in your own head. These people are in the business of generating views and subscriptions. If they gave actual viable information, you would no longer need them and they would be out of business.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 08:19 PM
1	When should you implement the Push-Pull method? When you feel like it. Be aware of your instincts and let it happen naturally. If you are overtly trying to hit the "correct timing" then push pull becomes part of a "strategy" instead of your natural way of talking, and you force yourself off your default state hence try to force a vibe, then comes the eye roll from hell.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 08:14 PM
2	How do you guys do it? Going on a first date in general is a bad idea until after you already hooked up and determined there is relationship potential. Taking a girl u only recently met on a "date" implies a desire for emotional connection and the girl computes that as you being non selected. It's better to have a casual "hangout" and do fun, physical activities where there are natural openings for kino and roasting, such as bowling, playing pool, air hockey. In many cases you can have an instant "hangout" right there…	/r/seduction	27/07/24 02:01 PM
1	I’m officially physically attractive. Now what? My experience with not focusing on building genuine confidence. Yes and no. There is naturally a healthy ying yang between introverts and extroverts, but keep in kind universal turnoffs to avoid. Any behavior that can make the girl think you don't already have women can be categorized as universal turnoff. You want to make lowering your ki part of your approach regardless of personality type, and have an effortless edge to your method. Raising your energy can make you come across as "try hard", which girls perceive as lack of preselection on your part.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 12:17 PM
2	How do you guys do it? Nobody starts with any options, which is why it's important to behave like you do until you do.	/r/seduction	26/07/24 11:58 PM
41	Could we all be less attractive than we think? Hell no!, every one of us is MORE attractive than we think because those of us that are heterosexual do not judge men through a woman's lens, hence can't see ourselves objectively. Keep in mind actual reality is different than what the internet says it is. I have gotten in my own way too many times when I was younger because I didn't understand why a girl "out of my league" would be interested.	/r/seduction	26/07/24 10:51 PM
3	I’m officially physically attractive. Now what? My experience with not focusing on building genuine confidence. Commonalities are irrelevant asides from behavioral traits being shown. For example, you probably seen for yourself how the girl has high initial interest then suddenly she doesn't; the very second a girl decides the guy is not safe or "creepy" and gives him the eye roll from hell is the same second the guy started being as kind and sweet to her as she was being to him.	/r/seduction	26/07/24 09:01 PM
3	Which js better: I follow girl’s IG or girl follows my IG? You have to make it clear you don't intend to be just another follower, keep social media out of your interpersonal dynamics as much as possible.	/r/seduction	26/07/24 04:43 PM
6	I’m officially physically attractive. Now what? My experience with not focusing on building genuine confidence. Competence in any/all aspects. Not only did I maximize my competency at job skills, I worked on game in parallel as part of overall competence, hence learning about polarity, making me realize I had the game backwards even at my physical peak. If I didn't work on different competencies including game, I never would have realized what actually works, which is polarity; showing the woman opposing behavioral traits that are pleasing to you as a man. It's how magnets function. Similar traits repel, …	/r/seduction	26/07/24 04:18 PM
4	How do you guys do it? You have to talk to her but you don't exert the kind of effort that is forcing a vibe. When you try to force the vibe, the girl assumes you aren't preselected. My most recent bar pickup before I decided to have a real girlfriend is a good example. I was just there to meet a coworker for a drink and i noticed a dime at the bar reading on her tablet immediately shooing away multiple guys that approached. Each of them I would say was much more conventually handsome than myself. I end up next to her…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 04:10 PM
2	Whats happening Not consciously. Ignoring women is even more offensive to them when they think you are attractive. The point is that some of the exact same things that offends girls is what arouses them. This is why she complains to Brad about Chad. If you are busy and not giving girls that are attracted to you the time and withhold communication, they assume you are busy with other women, so u must be fit for survival; that is how they think. You may have demonstrated preselection even if u weren't aware of it…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 03:13 PM
2	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere Can't have it both ways. You have to be steadfast in your intent from the start and filter your options. For a real relationship, capacity for loyalty has to be shown to each other while getting to know each other before actually committing, which means both people are being sexually disciplined. I didn't change who I was, I didn't start simping, but instead of playing hard to get my heart in order to get her sex, I flipped it. I made it hard to get my sex in order to get her heart. My girl is j…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 11:12 AM
18	I’m officially physically attractive. Now what? My experience with not focusing on building genuine confidence. I was the fat kid growing up, then became an all state athlete that you couldn't convince to skip the gym. It took a long time for my mentality to become congruent with my appearance, I was still the fat ass in my own mind for many years. Even after I gained confidence and I addressed the mentality there was another issue. Successes with women weren't actually successes. There were certain girls that would have never given me the light of day, now suddenly they want to spend time together. I con…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 10:44 AM
2	5 years ago, it was easier IMO It's not harder. It's backwards.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 11:45 PM
27	How do you guys do it? You have to see it as "I'm not climbing that mountain, I'm using the lift and skiing back down." Men and women are supposed to go together easily. Guys get rejected for being a "try hard" more than anything.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 11:32 PM
1	Being naturally flirty Try something else. It's 2024. Being flirty is now seen as "try hard" energy which registers in the modern woman's brain as you lacking options. You will notice the less u flirt when talking to the hotter girls, the more they flirt with you. Be more stoic and serious to achieve balance.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 11:11 PM
6	Do women with tattoos look down on men w/out tattoos? I actually have zero (pending a TB12 tattoo I must get due to losing a bet), so I was able to see the shift for myself. In my early 20s that was an alleged reason some girls rejected me, I was too "clean". My current gf (who has a full sleeve) actually claims the clean thing is now very uncommon, therefore kinda sexy. Given she has a bias, I've had several other tatted girls who would always bring up my lack of tattoos, but nearly always in a positive way.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 10:45 PM
9	Do women with tattoos look down on men w/out tattoos? Not so much anymore. 15 to 20 years ago tattoos were a huge sex appeal thing because not all guys had them, now they are so common they lost all value and aren't really a factor	/r/seduction	25/07/24 10:19 PM
1	How important what you say when you approach a girl? What you say absolutely matters AS MUCH AS how you say it. A man's words, context, and tone should always be congruent. If I go in thinking "I'm going to use push/pull with a relaxed masculine tone...and I hit a suave tone, but the words are "you are pretty cute for a fat whore."; I can assure you I'm going to get pepper sprayed.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 04:34 PM
42	In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state? I know many guys that were studs in college, now they are having dry runs despite not falling behind on bettering themselves. It's pretty common. Women get so much effort from men trying to get them, that said effort lost all value. They usually change their behaviors to be more resistant to and repulsed by "try hard" aura after the college phase when they got spoiled by those heavy amounts of effort and attention. Now it's easier for them to perceive "try hard" energy where it doesn't actually …	/r/seduction	25/07/24 02:44 PM
0	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere Women actually regularly date beta males. They get the free resources without the fear of the man being disloyal. Women like being needed and being pursued. My most recent FWB before my current gf came over at midnight one night for sex, and she was dressed up with makeup and hair done to maximum effort and I asked her "what's with the overkill?". She told me she just came from a date and she actually says the dude was an absolute gentleman and successful businessman and she can't help but like …	/r/seduction	25/07/24 11:42 AM
3	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere Women here are catty because most males in the USA are cowards. They kinda had to adopt counterintuitive filtering processes.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 03:50 AM
3	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere It took 20 years of learning to realize that there wasn't so much to learn. Women just want to feel safe with you. They perceive how safe you are according to your options. Just always behave like a man that other women want and you're good.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 02:01 AM
1	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere Now you can move forward with confidence, this is the kind of self awareness that will eventually get you what you want with the women you want. It's ok to feel needed, that is part of primal masculinity. To be needed you can't need. We need girls to need us and girls want guys to want them. Best way to show her that you want her is to show you don't need her.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 01:24 AM
3	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere If in doubt, be aware of when you feel excited or "giddy" and check those internal feelings when u are with a good looking woman. Every mistake men make is because of that giddy feeling. It's very easy to feel like that when it seems things are going well. Men are supposed to be a rock that can't be moved by beauty or changed by sex. Stoicism is not being a robot. You are human and will have feelings, you don't try to fight them, you accept they are there, but disregard them, kinda like days u d…	/r/seduction	25/07/24 01:11 AM
5	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere Based on recent feedback on here I'm considering publishing something based on lessons I learned as a non Chad that can pull...if u amoung others would be interested in checking out a draft. I'ma call it: The Costanza Method because everything I learned involves doing the opposite that my male logic tells me too.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 01:02 AM
5	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere You could have maintained your frame in your own way, but she just didn't perceive it as such in her girl brain. A man's attraction is built during time spent, a woman's is built during time apart. U stayed cool during time together and kept the escalation on point, which is why sex happened. During the time apart is when your behaviors are really being analyzed. In the future set a different tone during time together. Instead of matching escalations, slightly deescalate in a masculine manner so…	/r/seduction	25/07/24 12:54 AM
27	Confused about success OLD date not going anywhere It's very simple, although it took me 2 decades to figure out this stuff. Women are always naturally testing your interest level to confirm the sexual value they first perceived you to have, but they do it intentionally and to maximum effect after you sleep together. You somehow must've conveyed the desire for emotional connection, or you showed u are more interested in her than she is in you, so she perceives that as u not being as preselected as she thought u were. This is the #1 reason women …	/r/seduction	25/07/24 12:29 AM
8	I kinda ghosted a girl for valid reasons It's already over. You decided it was. When you ghost somebody, you have to be willing to stick to your decision or the girl will interpret the situation as you playing mind games. If you have the same scenario that most women have... and u have so many options that you ghost a person by forgetting about them, that is one thing. When you ghost out of necessity you got to stick to it and withhold communication until u happen to cross paths.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 11:37 PM
6	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? I can picture that scoring some points depending on the girl, but when I say "better than them" I mean; less likely to act on lust.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 05:38 PM
1	she starts talking to me .. You were cardboard charisma so she senses no "try hard" energy. You were stoic so she simply felt safe around you, she couldn't help but flirt a little bit even if she had a bf. Use the concept at all times, because the entire manosphere is dead wrong. Let every other dude be "charismatic and charming". Charisma and charm on your part are for everyone except the girl that wants you. Think about that. In my own experience, the best random interactions I've had with women were the ones where nothi…	/r/seduction	24/07/24 04:04 PM
73	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? Buckle up, uncle snoo got a long lesson for u... Once you understand how to leverage the times we live in, the hotter the girl, the EASIER she is to seduce. Think about how many options a 10 has with the invention of the smart phone. Sounds grim. Think again about how many of those "options" are just tools for attention and resources and how many she actually finds arousing. Sounds a lot better. Women are attracted to men that they consider better than them. You cannot physically look better tha…	/r/seduction	24/07/24 02:44 PM
1	How to gain a girl's attention on text/dms This ain't some strategy to win the person over, that one girl already made up her mind, I'm encouraging a mindset that will get the dude's mind off the chick and keep him out of prison so he can attract someone else. To be clear; it's someone the person will have to be around regularly, so hopefully by her keeping in mind that he took the L and didn't hit her back up; she dosnt ruin school for him	/r/seduction	24/07/24 06:40 AM
5	Next? This situation is textbook. You are right for not responding. I guarantee that full "schedule" involves a Chad or Tyrone she found on social media that lives closer to that area. She continues to text to keep your hope alive and she needs a backup knowing how flakey Chad can be. Fuck being a backup option, find someone that don't cancel plans.	/r/seduction	23/07/24 04:55 PM
2	Am I coming on too strong? Another thing is having standards and choosing how to meet women wisely. Most girls I have set a date with before getting the number showed up, those girls I didn't meet at a venue or singles environment. If it was at a club or bar, then yeah, it doesn't surprise me at all to get stood up because they are too busy on that c.c. Even when they do show up they never get off their damn phone	/r/seduction	22/07/24 08:45 PM
2	How to gain a girl's attention on text/dms I see now. Try lowering your energy around the girls. You don't want to be amped and loud or boisterous or a clown, that is locker room behavior. Have a collected, stern, and serious edge (kinda like a strip club bouncer blended in with the crowd) so your jokes or clever lines come more naturally and have more punch when they happen. I think u haven't succeeded in getting a girl u like from the go because you are naturally going into "try hard" energy when u are around the girl u like. The key t…	/r/seduction	22/07/24 08:35 PM
4	How to gain a girl's attention on text/dms As I said, I can write a novel on it. The reality is you cannot at any point be more interested in the girl than she is in you, or she perceives you as not being preselected. A girls mind computes high interest as you lacking options. Non selection is a trait that scares girls like deer in headlights. This is why guys get the eye roll from hell when they try too hard or lift their emotions when talking. Most of what a girl says and does is to test your interest level to gauge your options, wheth…	/r/seduction	22/07/24 07:33 PM
4	How to gain a girl's attention on text/dms If all else fails and you get tempted, just always behave like higher quality women are interested in you until you actually become preselected. If u already got girls, u ain't going to make game plans or exert effort to gain attention from any one girl. If you notice; the guys that have access to a lot of women behave alot like most women do. They are flakey and ghost girls and already have the replacement lined up in advance and will literally forget to text because of all the activity	/r/seduction	22/07/24 06:57 PM
10	How to gain a girl's attention on text/dms I have evaluated your post and I could write a novel off the psychological white board I just wrote in my head, but I'll tell u what u need to do. Pull back before she does and talk to other girls. Probably disappear from her dms until u see her in person. Even when you do talk to other girls even if it's right in front of her. This kind of planning out and thinking into winning over the attention from a "tailor made target" screams non selection on your part, and appearing not to be preselected…	/r/seduction	22/07/24 05:49 PM
0	Escalating Warm Leads It works best if they are close friends. That is the highest form of actual realized preselection. They will be pissed because they know u tricked their biology, You will be verbally slayed, but they will ride u like the Seattle slew and complain about you to everyone which is exactly what u want. Just have bailout money.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 05:33 PM
8	Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women? If u want sexual flirting to go back and forth there has to be polarity. Do not flirt with her the same way you would want her to flirt with you. Women are attracted to the opposite behavioral traits that are pleasing to men. men should flirt by concealing their interest and showing sexual discipline and patience. An example would be how happy Gilmore told the girl "slow down I just met you" if u remember that whole scene. If you want to program your mind into flirting right, get used to saying …	/r/seduction	22/07/24 03:16 PM
3	Clean shaven or stubble? Depends on the health of your facial hair. If you can get an even, symmetrical stubble than do that. If you can't get a stubble to come in without it being blotchy and u can't groom it completely mint, you are better off clean shaven.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 02:49 PM
2	Escalating Warm Leads Having one is worse than having none. If you have no one you can still be perceived as preselected based on your behaviors. If u only got one, lack of multiple options is seen as confirmable.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 02:43 PM
7	Escalating Warm Leads You WANT to be seen as the playboy. You ever noticed that girls reward players in every way except with their words? They will verbally eviscerate them but they will keep sleeping over. You can be part of a friend group and sleep with multiple girls in that group with them knowing about each other. Key is to never just escalate with one girl within the group, it got to be two or more.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 01:59 PM
2	Leaving this sub The value of this subreddit cannot be overstated. It's a tip tier guide on what not to do and which mindsets not to adopt.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 01:52 PM
10	Am I coming on too strong? The girls' advice is trash. To be more accurate, it's intentional misdirection. The whole point of the date is to get to know the person, too much artificial communication before the date ruins the vibe and the mystery. The guys advice is ok, you don't want to overdo the texting, but they missed the solution. When you meet a girl, you can't beat around the bush, you need to have already agreed to a hangout before you even exchange contact info. This makes it clear you don't intend to be a textin…	/r/seduction	22/07/24 01:49 PM
2	Help Needed Probably move on. Her claiming she didn't feel a romantic connection is an out. She's just using those words because she don't want to say: "im giving my time and my sex to another guy" Women, by nature; don't even want a romantic connection because they compute the romantic desire on the mans end as him not being preselected. Her saying she exited because of "lack of romantic connection" is equal to a man saying "I stopped seeing her because her tits were too nice" You probably did nothing wron…	/r/seduction	22/07/24 01:19 PM
-2	Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first date Do NOT do handholding until there is a promise ring involved. You do not want to imply a romantic desire for her in the early stages, or she will call up some dude to hook up that dont even like her. When a woman says "I didn't feel a spark", she is telling you that you were more interested in her than she was in you, hence you weren't polarizing and left no room for her to chase.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 12:32 PM
6	How do you elevate things in a pub/bar? You don't elevate in the bar, at first. Isolating your target sounds like harsh wording but it's the only way to accurately gauge the girls interest so u can know how to proceed. You go out for a smoke or some fresh air and tell her to feel free to join you. If the girl thinks u r attractive she will usually go with u. Girls behave differently and more openly show their interest level and start their own escalation game when u have them one on one away from the crowds and noise. By the time u go…	/r/seduction	21/07/24 05:54 PM
23	What are some gestures that women receive that men don’t but should more often ? The best thing you can do for a man is to put your phone away when your with him. This is now how we determine the difference between hookup and wife material.	/r/seduction	21/07/24 05:04 PM
5	Girls who say they “don’t kiss” on first dates I'm saying make the kiss part of the sex, not some heartfelt bs to bond with her. If you can get the girl to play fight with u or dry hump u or bite you before you actually kiss her you are doing it right.	/r/seduction	20/07/24 04:41 PM
1	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work You of course have to approach and show attention. You just have to do so with minimal effort. Women sleep with the guys that won them over effortlessly. What it all means is do not lift your emotions or raise your ki just because you are introducing yourself or talking to a beautiful woman. Be unphased in the face of beauty so the girl sees you as fit for survival. I'm telling you, the hottie at the bar shooing away guy after guy is more likely to talk to you if you remain stoic and greet her w…	/r/seduction	20/07/24 11:19 AM
2	Girls who say they “don’t kiss” on first dates What you do is take handholding or anything that implies desire for emotional bonding out of your escalation process. I believe the opposite of what the gurus say. You need to kiss her on that first date. You want the kiss to be a sexual kiss, not a romantic kiss. If you refrain from pair bonding behavior the girl will perceive the pending kiss as sexual, therefore she is more likely to let it happen.	/r/seduction	20/07/24 10:58 AM
1	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work Mastery of anything is the art of subtraction. The LESS effort you put into getting a girl to like you, the more aroused she will be. I will take it as far to say women DO NOT want you to like them romantically, because once you do; the girl feels like your only option and sees you as beneath her. Not even Chad and Tyrone are immune to reality. If Chad cuts off all his options for the girl he likes the most, that girl will exit his life no different than she would do to Brad. Back to the questio…	/r/seduction	20/07/24 10:48 AM
2	Is pre-selection true attraction? Pre selection is not true attraction personality-wise. Pre selection is true arousal in the context of sex appeal.	/r/seduction	20/07/24 12:22 AM
1	My coworker I liked rejected my kiss. I won't emasculate u about being a creep. I will put it into different words. Your behaviors demonstrated lack of options and that u can't do better than her so she saw you as beneath her. People use the word "creepy" to describe the way a non selected man behaves. Eventually non selection can lead a person to become psycho and do unspeakable things and people know that, hence why the term "creepy" gets thrown around and the person is seen as a threat. In the future act like you have other optio…	/r/seduction	19/07/24 11:59 PM
3	Looking for advice on how to move a date past just conversation, 39/m Just don't talk about anything serious as if you're vetting the girl as a romantic partner. One girl that slept over recently before I committed to my current gf knew little about me except a fight I got into with a goose at cape cod when I was 4. We were discussing funny things about animals and sharing thoughts about the shifting habits of old people at supermarkets, but we were escalating sexually that whole time non verbally and hooked up before and after getting drinks	/r/seduction	19/07/24 10:36 PM
3	Looking for advice on how to move a date past just conversation, 39/m What worked for me was developing authentic outcome independence that makes a woman's beauty a non factor in my interactions, so I'm naturally not showing too much interest in someone I haven't known for long, making me realize I need to leave "gaps" so the girl has room to chase me. I actually pulled it off by accepting a challenge from my best friend. He wanted me to shoot straight for the top to walk up to the hottest girl in any setting I was involved in and talk. I did that until it became …	/r/seduction	19/07/24 08:58 PM
4	Looking for advice on how to move a date past just conversation, 39/m Speak absolute nonsense about life, the surroundings, and dating and sex in general, and use euphemism and innuendo. This keeps convos from being like an interview and let you and the girl have that sexualized, non verbal second conversation. You refrain from giving away too much about yourself and you ain't prying for all her info. Not too much different than how u talked to girls in kindergarten. Girls think that deep conversations about career, dreams and ambition are nice but they don't get …	/r/seduction	19/07/24 07:29 PM
8	Looking for advice on how to move a date past just conversation, 39/m Everything I ever learned and eureka moment I had can be put under a simple core lesson. Women do not want you to like them. You can show sexual interest, but your romantic interest levels must always be less for her than her's for you. Once you work off that, you will see you don't even need "dates" to get to physical intimacy, and as an added bonus more focus can go to more important things. If you have noticed the couples that have been together for a very long time, u probably seen that the …	/r/seduction	19/07/24 06:34 PM
5	In the emergency section of a hospital now. The doctor is cute. Is there any way to ask her out successfully? Trust me, u don't want to ask out healthcare workers successfully.	/r/seduction	18/07/24 05:35 PM
5	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work Men have an object (cock) and women have a hole, and only one can be chased The more a man desires a woman, the less that woman desires him. Types and leagues don't matter if you know how to arouse a woman. My "type" I would save for an ltr, everyone else is open season	/r/seduction	18/07/24 01:48 PM
15	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work Ur post demonstrates outcome dependence. No amount of approaches will yield any results until you stop giving a shit about the outcome. Get limiting beliefs out of your head and "approaching" out your vocabulary. Socialize with every type of person equally, and u won't make women feel like an object...when you don't see them as the object they see you as the object because you are the one that actually has the object.	/r/seduction	17/07/24 08:59 PM
18	How to stop being the good/nice guy and be more dominant/confident? Focus on congruence and separation from possible outcomes. You cannot force a personality shift for the sake of getting the women that you want, or you will just end up forcing a vibe and make them feel like deer in headlights. If you are passive by nature, use the strengths of it so u remain congruent with your inner core. You can remain non confrontational; you actually demonstrate more dominance because of it due to the fact it shows lust isn't your guiding principle. You can use your pasific…	/r/seduction	17/07/24 12:22 AM
-1	What's exactly charisma? compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 10:27 PM
1	Is the feeling that someone is interested in you usually true ? Or is it delusional? It's not easy to discern perceived interest from actual interest. Sometimes a girl will be neutral or not sure about you, but will act super interested to bait you into slipping out of your masculine spirit to justify disqualifying you. She tests your own interest levels to see if you are more interested in her than she is in you. This is why getting stood up or ghosted when u think things were going well is commonplace. Sometimes when a girl is very interested she will conceal her interest and …	/r/seduction	11/07/24 01:10 PM
2	Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before dates Turn your weakness into gain. If she is mad a.f. she might sleep with you more. Just man up enough to show up for the date one out of 3 times.	/r/seduction	09/07/24 05:51 PM
13	What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy? The way women define "creepy" is a hard truth especially for people such as myself that are on the spectrum, but this truth applies to all men. In girls minds: lacking social competence=creepy. Failing to read the room and/or the person is seen in a girls subconscious as a survival threat and the girl can get physically creeped out even if u aren't a creepy person. Guys let their social skills slip when lust is tied to their behaviors. It isn't even the lust that freaks the girls out...they are …	/r/seduction	09/07/24 03:33 PM
-1	I feel like giving up You don't need to give up. You need to change the environment. You show up to a bar with a tall guy. You compare dating app results with a tall guy. You are judging yourself based on stuff that can't be changed. Bar girls and girls on apps are used to getting dick from their exact type. The whole point of girls going to bars and using apps is to find a specific type of guy physically that they have pictured in their mind and will have a guard up towards everyone else. In these environments you w…	/r/seduction	07/07/24 07:56 PM
3	How do you go for casuals rather than going for a serious relationship? For a girl to regularly come back commitment free, all u can do is give her the best sex possible, the only reason they stop coming back is that they found better	/r/seduction	06/07/24 06:38 PM
16	How do you go for casuals rather than going for a serious relationship? When girls are looking for something serious; they are still sleeping with their boytoys that don't take them on dates while they withhold from their ltr prospects. Women behave towards each individual man based upon how she categorizes him. They either see the man as a boytoy, a potential boyfriend, a gay friend, or nothing. Let that sink in. This is why there is no such thing as a good girl and no such thing as a ho. If you are going for casual simply demonstrate that you are not boyfriend mat…	/r/seduction	06/07/24 03:56 PM
17	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls In my experience when either me or someone I know got their girl stolen, the guy either had multiple baby mamas or was actively hooking up with one of the girls friends. Their looks were variable, but they all had one thing in common. High sexual value. It is a preselected man that will take your girl regardless of all other attributes.	/r/seduction	06/07/24 03:12 PM
9	Anyone else have a difficult time saying no to sex? I used to have the same issue before I learned that sexual discipline is the actual measure of worth as a man and lust is the enemy of masculinity. Once you do find that one person that you really want to commit to, she will lose all respect for u and shift her behaviors when u go to have that conversation if you did not withhold sex when first getting to know her, she will perceive lack of congruence. Even if you aren't interested in a long term girlfriend and want to keep playing the field, th…	/r/seduction	06/07/24 03:05 PM
6	This community says that looks don't matter but when i watch video i still doubt of if that is true just search saffiir___ in Instagram and tik tok and see his profile and videos i can't put them here Yes looks matter. What matters even more is congruence. You can be a giga chad but if your behaviors are not congruent with your appearance then Brad can take your girl.	/r/seduction	06/07/24 11:58 AM
1	Do you ever meet a girl but you know you can’t afford her lifestyle so you just never shoot your shot? I'm my experience it's all in which kind of shot I'm shooting. The girls with the more luxurious lifestyles tended to not expect me to maintain their lifestyle ONLY IF I was just a boytoy. They already got money so I provided the dick. It goes the other way as well. If I showed desire for commitment their expectations would instantly skyrocket to justify disqualifying me. Expectation for resources are placed on guys that are bf material. The guys these girls sleep with are different than the guy…	/r/seduction	05/07/24 11:48 AM
1	Why do women attracted to me act so bossy? You must be at the level where your preselection is confirmable hence don't need to deal with the tests at all. Most of what I post revolves around perceived sexual value. Actual realized preselection bypass tests altogether. P.s. I don't even know what a delta male is. I must be old	/r/seduction	04/07/24 03:01 PM
4	Why do women attracted to me act so bossy? You just answered your own question. But then I’m considerate and respectful if she’s being considerate and respectful Lack of polarity is exactly where the 99% of men screw up and it's not being talked about nearly enough. The behavioral traits that are pleasing to us are considered weakness through the lens of women. You don't have to be an asshole but you do have to be an ass; because it's more fun for both of u.	/r/seduction	04/07/24 02:54 PM
38	Why do women attracted to me act so bossy? High interest level does not bypass testing. Preselection does. If the girl really likes the guy but can't confirm preselection; she will test until she can. If a high interest woman CAN confirm preselection she will not test at all, it's the only thing that can bypass tests. This is why hooking up with your target's friends is a cheat code.	/r/seduction	03/07/24 10:35 PM
6	Current state of the seduction industry? It's a dumpster fire. All the advice out there just puts men into "try hard" mode and makes them even less successful instead of focusing on masculine behavior	/r/seduction	03/07/24 07:57 PM
41	Why do women attracted to me act so bossy? You should, but different women have different resistance levels. It is not unusual for said resistance to actually scale up with romantic interest. There is usually a lot less resistance for a quick fling or if she don't see u as b.f. material. In similar situations I've been in, the girl was eventually submissive but just didn't want to submit easily, the struggle was the fun part for her. If you just hit it prone on jackhammer mode while also giving her the crippler crossface for trying to be…	/r/seduction	03/07/24 07:42 PM
224	Why do women attracted to me act so bossy? A high interest woman being bossy is normal. She sees you as masculine so she consistently reaffirms it by checking your congruence. It's better than having a girl that questions your masculine spirit and plays "the good girl game" to bait you into acting weak to justify disqualifying you.	/r/seduction	03/07/24 07:29 PM
-2	How do I get consistency taking someone home from the bar? To increase consistency u perform the validation vacuum. This play is grand master level and I personally quit tricking peoples biology but it works if u are just looking for hookups and are ok with dark psychology. Knowledge of martial arts and witnesses that will take your side are recommended. Identify the girl you like and wait for another man to get into a convo with her. Position yourself so the girl can clearly see you but the guy is facing away, and without using words directly signal he…	/r/seduction	02/07/24 05:02 PM
1	How to stop my self worth being tied to sex Be a decent and empathetic person.	/r/seduction	02/07/24 09:39 AM
36	I’m (23m) the only man at a new job, how should i make the most of this? I would do my job and be as objective and indifferent as possible. I find it very redundant to lecture on not shitting where you eat, but the phrase exists for good reason. If so much as one of those women is attracted to you, it will make others there also attracted to you. This sounds great but drama and cattiness will ensue, directly putting your money at risk. Just make acquaintances there to give u some social proof and they can help find u women that u don't have to work with.	/r/seduction	02/07/24 01:10 AM
4	Best meat market to find desperate middle-aged/old women? Dollar General. It's known as DG for a reason.	/r/seduction	02/07/24 01:03 AM
3	When did you start getting success? When I stopped trying so hard	/r/seduction	30/06/24 02:30 PM
1	Stop playing video games, get out into the real world. Of course u need to exert effort into increasing your skills including being good with women. They just don't want you to exert mental or psychological effort into getting in their pants because putting forth that effort is their job.	/r/seduction	30/06/24 10:28 AM
4	Can't get second dates? I should have mentioned that "outcome independence" covers everything we are talking about. Separation from all possible outcomes is the formula to passing the tests naturally and demonstrating preselection.	/r/seduction	30/06/24 01:29 AM
7	Can't get second dates? This is textbook. At some point you failed an interest test. Girls test if you are more interested in them than they are in you whether intentionally or not. If they are from an online dating app it's definitely on purpose. Girls that are neutral or unsure about you test u by acting kind and sweet, sometimes overzealous and excited to meet you. They are baiting you into doing or saying something unmasculine. It's called "the good girl game". There is also congruence testing which is closely rela…	/r/seduction	30/06/24 12:08 AM
7	Is it just me or is Seattle like the worst city for day game in the USA? Isn't Starbucks as common in Seattle as Dunkin donuts is in Massachusetts? I don't know Seattle but I do know that female nature is universal. No one city is better or worse than the other for day game. No matter the setting, Chad is still Chad and Brad is still Brad and girls have way too many options that they DON'T consider viable. If girls at a college think it's weird that you don't go to that school, they will never say that about Chad if he doesn't go there. It's justification for disqual…	/r/seduction	29/06/24 11:46 PM
22	The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating Problems You calm down. Lower your tone and slow your tempo, refrain from sudden fidgety movements. The more level and chill you are in the face of beauty the more u appear preselected.	/r/seduction	29/06/24 06:56 PM
5	The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating Problems By eliminating lust.	/r/seduction	29/06/24 06:50 PM
233	The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating Problems To summarize: behave like you already have women even if you don't. Behave like a preselected man until u become one. That's it. Everything else falls into place automatically for a man that is perceived to have options. A preselected man simply isn't going to or say things that turn women off because he isn't under pressure hence neither is the girl he's talking to.	/r/seduction	29/06/24 02:16 PM
6	Have you had great success with night game/day game (not old) without using established pua strategies? Nearly every woman I have slept with or been in an ltr with will tell you that I did nothing correctly. I learned early that p.u.a.s are like any corporate business. They withhold the whole truth to get money...to keep you viewing and buying into their subscription programs (looking at u Denmo 🤡) If they gave you good info u would no longer need them. The manosphere is full of hypocrisy. You aren't supposed to give away free validation, yet going in with a strategy or a game plan is in itself un…	/r/seduction	29/06/24 01:30 PM
201	Stop playing video games, get out into the real world. I strongly advise anyone to examine their motives if deciding to quit or cut back on the gaming. If u quit for the sole purpose of getting women, you will be even less successful with girls because you will carry "try hard" energy with you; thinking that somehow your decision has anything to do with arousing a woman. Stop playing for any other reason. To put more hours into your hustle, to connect in person with family and friends, shit; quit to play golf if u must. Quit to try hard at stuff u a…	/r/seduction	29/06/24 01:09 AM
1	Do you think someone could have woman having no job no house no car (being poor and not independent) Yes, thinking u need anything material to have women is limiting beliefs. As a young adult out of high school many of us got kicked out at 18 and had nothing. People were fucking in the woods and dumpster areas. Not ideal but the point is if you have a cock you have enough.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 12:12 PM
0	Game Your own post reveals your issue hence gives the solution. You got caught up in the manosphere and have the jargon swirling around in your head so u are relying more on calculated tactics and strategem than your own instincts. You are best off with casual chatting and forgetting the p.u.a. lingo so your instincts are open and u can stay in the present moment and have better banter. You can get further with a woman with normal conversation than any p.u.a. psychology hack. If u go in trying to exe…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 10:23 PM
14	Why does a woman feel uncomfortable while leaving a toxic man she knew only for 2 months? Because what men view as toxic women view as arousing. She's having attachment withdrawal. Best to move along. You will be the one that pays for Chad's toxicity if you don't.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 09:18 PM
5	Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inaction You HAVE to be less interested in the girl than she is in you for her to see you as someone she can look up to. The key word is "less". You can't display non interest or low interest or she will know the exact game u are playing. Picture out of 100% mutual interest; you hold 45% of the interest and she holds 55%. Strive for this ratio to strike the right balance, you want to show interest while still giving the vibe that you have options and can do better.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 05:08 PM
85	Why do women ghost after giving great vibes before hanging out? When girls are actually interested they conceal it and may even give u a hard time. When a girl is neutral or unsure about you she will play the good girl game and set great vibes and act interested and not really do anything wrong. This is to test your interest and bait you into doing or saying something unmasculine to justify disqualifying you. Just think back if you could have in any way insinuated that you were more interested in her than she was in you, and that is the very second she decid…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 01:32 AM
4	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Lesbian flirting is more closely related to how primal men flirt than how modern men do it. A lot of lesbians, especially the butches, paint the picture that their target is actually chasing them, this is how Chad and Tyrone flirt. Modern men reveal too much interest too fast and make the girl the prize as if she is some type of object.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 11:47 PM
5	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Once upon an erect peni.... I digress.... I was best friends with a lesbian couple in my teens. Lesbians have networks of other lesbians and bi chicks... some of my first flings I was put onto by them. I was trained. I needed it because despite being an All Massachusetts athlete I was terrible with girls. Lesbians will share with u the secrets that men don't give away. They taught me how to be polarizing and flirt and close at house parties and how to meet girls in normal everyday settings. They…	/r/seduction	26/06/24 10:56 PM
3	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? If she is being passive and giving mixed vibes but clearly behaving in a feminine leaning manner, be yourself and behave like the man. Be direct and communicate the value that you put on your time. Tell her you see her as more than a friend and if she doesn't feel the same that you will stop wasting both your time. Polarizing masculine behavior is all mindset that shows in your communication. If you are prepared and willing to walk away regardless of how much u like the person, u can't fail.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 10:43 PM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? That is the way.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 10:36 PM
11	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Truth be told I learned most of my game from lesbians. My biggest lesson was that polarity can avoid and even reverse being in the friendzone. In my case I need to display the opposing behavioral traits of what is pleasing to me to ensure a man to woman vibe. In your case you are a woman to woman situation so u simply need to categorize her behaviors as masculine or feminine leaning, and u turn on the opposing behaviors. This whole concept is exactly why many lesbian couples are stereotypically …	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:21 PM
-1	How to ask a girl out over text? Go about it however you feel like, it's the only way to be genuine and natural. If she's interested it's very difficult to screw up, if she isn't interested there is not much u can say to convince her otherwise. Truth is having to decipher and having to figure how to go about asking a girl out automatically puts u in "try hard" energy that demonstrates lack of preselection. (In English: she will think u can't offer her competition to get you which is her primal desire) It causes the same effect …	/r/seduction	26/06/24 12:39 PM
6	Make 'em laff Are we still on the seduction sub? Don't be a clown. Have a stern and serious edge like a man, but balance with humour. only make jokes when they come to you naturally, don't force a vibe. Slip in some innuendo when it makes sense to you. If a girl likes you, she will laugh even when u know u messed up what u were saying.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 12:03 PM
1	Lack of women during Daygame? Petco and PetSmart. You're welcome.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 02:47 AM
1	I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas. I hate to break it to you, but female nature is universal. You are better off in the USA because in most normal societies; fornication is still considered bad. You said exactly what your issue is. The more effort you exert into trying to get the girl, the less effort she gives. Some of the exact same girls u took out to dinner hooked up with a guy later that night that never took them on a date because he "gets it". Do not do dinner dates until u have already slept with the girl and still have g…	/r/seduction	25/06/24 10:17 PM
15	Neediness vs. being direct: Tell a woman "I want to fuck you". Your grasp of the concept is not wrong. It is exactly why the men that women date romantically are not the same guys that they sleep with fast. To solve the paradox, you are telling her you want to fuck her before getting to know her with your behaviors and choice of conversation topic, not the actual words. You demonstrate capacity for detachment while still having fun by talking absolute nonsense like you are back at the playground in grade school as adults...don't talk about career or ambitio…	/r/seduction	19/06/24 02:16 PM
12	Is it normal to not understand woman’s behavior as a man? It's not possible to understand a female mind if u are not female. We can, however, take note of behaviors and see definite tendencies. When a girl is mad and won't say why, do not push for an exclamation. You might be in a good spot. If she is mad at you, you are likely not boring. Girls sleep with the guys they complain about. Girls forget about the guys that do everything right.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 02:05 AM
-1	Do you think someone with autism could play this game? Yes. Look at all the wrestlers/ body builders/martial artists that are clearly autistic yet have hot girlfriends. If you can't excel at social cues by no fault of your own; maximize something else within your control.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 07:08 PM
4	If a Girl Suggested a Dinner Date, is it Low Interest? Its not necessarily low interest, it's situational. If she is dating to find an ltr then she might actually be normal. In that case her behaviors at dinner will tell you if she is exploitive or just traditional. If she is just looking for casual flings then it's an exploit because she wouldn't expect or require dinner dates with Chad or Tyrone or Esteban.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 01:01 AM
8	Women ghost me just because I ask for a phone call Don't think for a second you are doing anything wrong by wanting to use the ancient phone app. Just ask for a call without using words that show urgency. "We should chat on the phone for a few if ur free." Girls don't actually think talking on the phone is weird, we just live in different times where instead of rejecting you directly they use any means of justification to ghost you. The same girl that gets "freaked out" by you asking her to talk on the phone is also eagerly awaiting a phone call…	/r/seduction	14/06/24 12:32 AM
6	Does your action make difference? You are the opposite gender. The things that are adorable to you will usually not be as pleasing to the girl. If she is being passive and playing hard to get, you can create polarity by being direct. You just need to directly signal you are interested in intimacy without expressing desire for connection or commitment prematurely. You do that by calling her out on her desire. "If that is your idea of trying to seduce me; your flirting needs work...or we can skip the work and just do the fun part"…	/r/seduction	13/06/24 03:12 PM
0	Is sounding unmascluine a killer of atraction? Is there salvation? Sounding un-masculine isn't always an attraction killer. Attraction is manifested by polarity, so sometimes sounding unmasculine won't kill the attraction...if you are dealing with a masculine woman. You really don't want one of those so u need to maintain your masculine essence so u can attract feminine women. If u feel you slipped and the girl is pulling back, pull back further and faster than she does and she might reach back out to you, but sometimes these things ain't worth putting effort i…	/r/seduction	13/06/24 11:59 AM
0	Does your action make difference? I'm a 5foot 6" Canadian	/r/seduction	12/06/24 11:06 PM
1	Does your action make difference? I'm not too sure...I can't discount scientific truth but I've been with some great looking women and I'm a 6.9 at best. I make up points by being polarizing. There is more than one way to win in all aspects.	/r/seduction	12/06/24 09:52 PM
32	Does your action make difference? No. The best relationships I had were with women that couldn't stand me at first, any one of them will tell you I did nothing correctly. The hotter the flame; the shorter the burn. This is why seduction and romantic dating are two different things. Seduction is about initial sexual attraction and lustful urgency. When things are hot and heavy initially one or both people tend to pull back fast, hence one night stands and hookups where u never saw them again. Dating is about personality attractio…	/r/seduction	12/06/24 09:42 PM
19	We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl. It absolutely doesn't make sense because the female mind thinks differently so it's somewhat inconceivable to us...all we can do is take note of certain behaviors and do the math. If Chad catches feelings and eventually commits, the girl loses respect because the guy no longer appears congruent with the persona she originally perceived as a man of options, suddenly she feels he's beneath her. Look what happened to Tom Brady. If Brad withholds sex when he could have easily got it, he becomes Chad…	/r/seduction	11/06/24 08:49 PM
13	College was shit for getting laid for me. Is it going to get better? Wait 10 years and get a job on campus or take part time continuing education courses. When you go back as the older guy you will see everything is the opposite. I say that as an example; you don't need to wait that long if u can grasp the concepts. I was never a full time student but was always involved at campuses in my area through jobs and working adult classes. When I was college aged none of the girls would even acknowledge my presence despite being athletic and outgoing. When I got into my…	/r/seduction	11/06/24 01:52 PM
162	We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl. Pay attention in social settings and you will see that average guys that have hot girlfriends are usually more mature and disciplined than the hot girlfriend. These are the guys that are the only man besides the girl's father that are capable of telling her "no". If beauty holds no power over you, your attraction power doubles with zero changes to your looks. Women are attracted to men that they respect. The downfall of Chad and Tyrone is that these guys will say yes to the quick sex most of the…	/r/seduction	11/06/24 11:17 AM
2	What's the best way to deal with single race cliques in night game? Ultimately you need to disregard race and your entire sense of logic altogether and just roll with the punches.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 06:03 PM
2	Seems to me talking about exes on first date is a great idea Don't go out of your way to talk about exes too much. Here is a cheat code: What you do is find normal context to show the girl pictures of the hottest ex you have, don't talk shit, say something positive in passing ("she was beautiful, we would have been together a long time if she didn't move for work") then change the subject. If the girl you are talking to thinks that ex of yours is hotter than herself, there is almost no way to not get laid..	/r/seduction	09/06/24 01:28 PM
-1	Escalating advice Most guys that are otherwise competent at social dynamics kinda hit this "wall" when it comes to demonstrating interest in a relationship with a girl. Truth is you can't. Most women perceive desire for commitment with them as weakness and the second you escalate and show that desire: her desire for you drops because she now sees you as "beneath her". If the girl decides she wants you as a boyfriend she will ask you to have the dreaded "what are we?" conversation. Even at that point you have to s…	/r/seduction	08/06/24 05:43 PM
2	What is socially "dangerous" in a fun way? Commitment free sex with multiple women within the same friend group	/r/seduction	08/06/24 05:17 PM
0	Is it inherently wrong to change yourself? No. Free will is part of being human and allows us to become whatever we want. What is wrong is all talk and no action when it comes to making the changes we want.	/r/seduction	07/06/24 10:21 AM
6	How to stop being perceived as husband material? What you say might be true in your version of reality, u might even still have a soul. This, however, is a seduction subreddit, I stay true to the topic. Nothing will ever convince me that preselection is not the most sexually arousing trait to women, and I understand it is not womens' job to admit it, it's confirmed by their real world behaviors. .	/r/seduction	07/06/24 09:18 AM
28	How to stop being perceived as husband material? Instead of talking about each other; talk about absolute nonsense. I must've been talking to a Dunkin girl for 5 minutes this morning about letting a family of Canadian geese cross the road with that Halifax hood swagger. Perhaps a bland subject and questionable delivery...but she initiated physical touch immediately, I probably could get her if I wasn't taken. Don't give away too much about yourself, also don't show too much desire to get to know her. You can use anything else on earth as conve…	/r/seduction	06/06/24 05:37 PM
-1	How do you manage 2+ girls Don't worry about them finding out. You WANT them to know about each other, just in an indirect and subtle way by intentionally letting info slip to key personnel in your social circle. If you are the cause of the drama and not the effect they will keep coming back because dramatic and turbulent is far better than boring.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 04:45 PM
-3	How can I get multiple sexual partners? Nearly any white girl that shows up to a bar without her husband or a date is going for dick. You really just got to talk around and demonstrate capacity to remain detached. if a girl asks what you are looking for, the answer is:"someone to skip straight to the fun part with". Once you can bed one or two female regulars at any given venue, it will be easier to get the other women that know them.	/r/seduction	05/06/24 12:19 AM
10	Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in Seduction The things that girls do and say, whether they are conscious of it or not: that gauges your options. Girls naturally test you to see if other women of said girls quality or higher are into you or would be. They do this by evaluating your interest level and congruence.	/r/seduction	04/06/24 03:12 PM
3	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me? To be specific, I had to unlearn the correlation between self improvement and seduction because they are completely separate, this is where many content creators and gurus are misleading people. Self improvement is all about the things that are valued among MEN. Money, status, fitness....they matter far more to us guys competing with each other than they do to women. If you were on a grind and you hit all your goals, it means nothing if u don't understand what arouses women. I do not discourage …	/r/seduction	04/06/24 02:08 AM
4	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me? I don't actually have autism, I have dyschronometria which has a lot of the same symptoms and social ramifications because I don't perceive time that has already passed the same way as most so my mind constantly slips out of the present moment. In summary I behave autistically by default if I don't consciously exert effort not to. Hookups came easy 2003 thru 2007 over dating apps. That all happened before I really put effort into learning social dynamics. As social media got bigger and changed t…	/r/seduction	04/06/24 01:40 AM
-1	Can someone explain how casual dating works in the USA? I fail to recall filing all that as a complaint... ...because I tell girls I'm not looking for commitment and they turn into richard fiends. I leverage the state of society.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 11:32 PM
-1	Can someone explain how casual dating works in the USA? The one that tries to be the world's police.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 09:13 PM
-4	Can someone explain how casual dating works in the USA? There has been little to no regard for the sanctity of the creation of life since birth control and profilactics became widely available. This is the basis of hookup culture. In the West it is "normal" for 2 people to use each other for sex just for fun then go their separate ways. Desiring commitment is actually considered a weakness here. If you tell a girl outright that you aren't looking for commitment her eyes will probably light up and she'll turn into a richard fiend.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 07:02 PM
1	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me? Be the one that creates something else to do. My assistant foreman at work got into a 2 year non relationship simply by organizing a game of ultimate frisbee because there was nothing else going on, and the girl went straight home with him without him even flirting with her at all. The fact that I got her large chested friend and he ended up shelling out child support is irrelevant. If all else fails free cocaine does work well with the thin white girls.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 06:56 PM
112	Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in Seduction These "naturals" have no shortage of women, but make no mistake; girls really like guys that can attract them without spewing word vomit. Naturals keep the flow going to not allow time for shit tests. They also do this in social settings to make themselves the only option. I say it's equal if not better to actually pass the shit tests than to avoid them. What is even better than all of that is to be preselected to negate shit tests completely.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 06:47 PM
6	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me? The more I met people without bars and alcohol involved the easier it got. Bars are like highschool, people simply talk to each other different because of the "hierarchy". You can get further with the same people away from the bars than u would while at the venue because they ain't worried about their "status" as much.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 05:29 PM
3	Looking for advice on how to best double text for a short term fling Do you even hear yourself type? You don't do anything about it because she went out to do someone else. If you double text in a situation involving "tinder" and "short term fling" you are convincing the girl you are beneath her and there will be 0 chance of future contact. If you do nothing at least there is a chance of her reaching back out to you once Chad ghosts her. Even if that happens you should return the favor and not respond to her because you should have options.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 05:02 PM
35	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me? You got the right idea, focusing on being a good conversationlist is huge because it gives you the means to meet anyone you want. It's not easy for many guys, I'm autistic a.f. so I had to learn differently over time since social cues and proper tone didn't come naturally to me...then I had to unlearn half of what I learned... I really didn't get a good start on the abundance thing until I disregarded most of what the manosphere and p.u.a. communities had to say because most of the content is ge…	/r/seduction	03/06/24 04:53 PM
42	Watching friend picking up a girl made me reconsider everything And that made me questioning my efforts at attracting chicas, because I had been trying really hard to do that throughout the first half of my twenties with no luck. There is your answer. Women do not want mental or emotional effort being exerted into trying to get them. Girls scare easy and are sensitive, I always tell men on here that it is the "try hard" energy that makes women feel like deer in headlights. Your friend most likely exerted near zero effort. He was probably doing his own thing …	/r/seduction	02/06/24 12:12 AM
3	How to deal with shit tests about your appearance (weight, height, features, eye color etc) and personality Being called loud or overconfident is completely fine, it's actually more of a compliment than a shit test even if it carries a testy tone. Being called a manwhore is exactly what you want to hear. The girl is basically confirming to you that she sees you as preselected, which is the most attractive trait there is, she will reward you in every way except with her words. Agree and exaggerate or continue to be stoic like you are withholding your intimacy.	/r/seduction	01/06/24 11:26 PM
2	Time for a dating coach? Do not pay for a coach, u don't need it. It can be unfathomable how far you can get with a woman with just regular conversation. Get the term "approaching" out of your vocabulary. Just meet people and talk to those who you find interesting regardless of gender and all other variables. If one of those people just so happen to be an attractive woman that you happen to hit it off with then so be it.	/r/seduction	01/06/24 10:46 PM
4	Remember kids.. Quite exactly the first lesson my dad taught me during puberty.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 05:00 PM
3	Do cute (6-8) girls act more stuck up than hot (9-10) girls? I reluctantly admit u are correct. It's literally been years since I've seen a guy walk up to a dime and get words out. I could be blind to the fact they ain't getting approached because it's become so normal in my mind that it's easy to assume that it's normal for most others. On a side note I don't even think it was my confidence. I just got used to just being relaxed and calm around girls after dialing in on what makes them want to continue an interaction. I saw a pattern that made it seem li…	/r/seduction	31/05/24 02:47 PM
7	Why do women think it’s weird to sleep with their friends? They don't think it's weird, they sleep with their friends all the time. Women define sexual disciple completely differently, they don't care if society says they ain't supposed to fuck certain people...They want their beta friends to think it's weird so they don't try anything. They will have no issues sleeping with the alphas regardless of what their interpersonal dynamic is.	/r/seduction	31/05/24 01:49 PM
2	How do i flirt This will sound like bat shit advice compared to anything u will hear on this sub, but don't flirt. Took me 20 years to hit that "eureka moment." Women flirt. The best way to "flirt" is to not flirt at all because flirting in of itself is feminine behavior. It goes against man/woman polarity. I'm sure you have noticed in your own experience or in social climates that when the guy flirts back with the girl in a similar manner that she did with him, her energy instantly shifts like her vagina is b…	/r/seduction	31/05/24 01:30 PM
22	Don't chase It could be just me; I don't think I have ever had personality/romantic chemistry with anybody I have had commitment free sex with. Come to think of it I've never went on a date where money was spent with any of those same girls. It is because there was no chemistry it was easier to stay detached and not chase, then for some reason they want to come over at night when I'm not exerting effort into getting to know them whatsoever. The girls I actually want to know better are flakey. Let that be a …	/r/seduction	31/05/24 01:03 PM
43	Do cute (6-8) girls act more stuck up than hot (9-10) girls? I got this lesson immediately as I started approaching more. What we are seeing is the real world impact of social media. The sub par girls (below 6) are even worse. The subpar and cute girls still get dick from the ballers on ig, but just don't get commitment from them. This caused a massive ego and narcissism issue. With the hot girls, the opposite is happening. They know they have every advantage in life and many want to feel like they are earning their way and becoming humble, they don't wan…	/r/seduction	31/05/24 10:11 AM
7	When People Say "Confidence Attracts Women", What do They Mean Exactly? They mean behaving like you already have other women attracts women.	/r/seduction	30/05/24 06:56 PM
4	have you ever met promiscuous girls who sleep around with these characteristics? I've met promiscuous women that happened to have some of those traits, but traits and promiscuity are actually irrelevant because what was happening between you and her applies to most if not all men/women dynamics. At some point you must have become more interested in the girl than she was in you. You even admitted to obsession. You probably weren't polarizing and reflected back more interest than she threw at you. Most if not all women perceive too much interest as weakness; because in the fem…	/r/seduction	29/05/24 06:21 PM
0	How do you guys stop having every girl you have sex with to stop falling for you and keep it as just fwb? By not being boyfriend material. I respect what commitment means and I'm too unavailable.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 04:29 PM
1	How to look calm, confident and friendly not intimidating? Dudes will never understand that doing most of these things the manosphere tells them to do puts them into "try hard" energy, which is actually the easiest way to repulse women. They don't actually want mental effort being put forth into trying to get them	/r/seduction	29/05/24 02:18 PM
5	What is proper way to give smile to women The answer is to say words to the girl that give context for you smiling. It's the same concept as prolonged eye contact. Don't do it at all unless u were intending to talk anyway.	/r/seduction	28/05/24 03:12 PM
32	What is proper way to give smile to women I'm going to give some unorthodox advice based on me taking 20 years to figure it out. Don't. Smiling for no reason at a stranger counts as unearned validation that makes the girl feel like a deer in headlights. It is what it is. Smiling is also an easy way to let your emotional state fluctuate. If you pay attention to the types of dudes u see the hot girls hanging around with in public...notice how they don't even look happy to be in their presence... Remain stoic and If u do catch eye contact,…	/r/seduction	28/05/24 01:59 PM
2	Does a "good" opener matter? The downfall of online dating is both sides have no choice but to pre-meditate, it's probably the main reason I only meet people I.r.l. now. I gave up on opening online sets a long time ago. In the mid 2000s when o.l.d. was newer I saw lots of action, but 100% of girls I closed with opened me, my success rate in situations where I sent the first message was 0%. This made it clear that the girls on the apps have no problem initiating with the options they actually want to hook up with. I would re…	/r/seduction	27/05/24 04:24 PM
3	Does a "good" opener matter? If you think you can't say "hi, what's up"; you are in trouble. The more thought u put into opening correctly, the more you will present "try hard" energy and the more you will fail. Your words don't even matter. Your tone and behaviors is everything. You can get away with a lot as long as u don't lift your emotions when talking. A deadpan "sup", for example, is far more effective than any premeditated opener.	/r/seduction	27/05/24 02:06 PM
14	Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl? 25% as harsh is shockingly accurate	/r/seduction	26/05/24 12:55 AM
3	Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret? It's hilarious that dudes struggle for years to learn how to pass shit tests when they don't need to face them in the first place. A woman will not test a man when she already has the info she need....that the guy can get another woman at her level or higher.	/r/seduction	25/05/24 11:59 PM
12	Sexual tension 101 In a woman's eyes you are either an emotional tampon or a cock to play with, there's no way to be both. This is why the guys that women date aren't the same guys they sleep with. To be considered a cock, u literally have to be a dick. Just do so in a fun way. You are automatically not being too non chalant or doing too much or trying to hard...being an arrogant prick is actually the balance. When you AREN'T being a dick, the girl thinks you don't care about her...u ain't giving turbulence and un…	/r/seduction	25/05/24 03:38 PM
2	Why is night game so much harder than day game? Night game isn't harder. It isn't even different. You are different. The environment and noise is an excuse. At night it is naturally easier for guys to slip into a "try hard" energy because they know exactly why all these girls are running around showing skin. If it seems girls have a bigger guard up a night, this is exactly why, they fully expect every guy to exert too much effort to win them over when the fact is they want effortlessness, no different than during the day.	/r/seduction	25/05/24 02:43 PM
-1	"Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady? "I would give her enough respect to allow her the privilege of finding out for herself on the date"	/r/seduction	25/05/24 02:32 PM
9	Best advice to dating older mature women I used to date older women, they can be very sexually aggressive when it comes to younger guys...hooking up with them is their whole game. A common giveaway that an older woman is into the younger guys is if it seems she's exerting effort into talking like the younger crowd. us old people tend to speak slower and quieter with stoic body language...so if she is having a upbeat way of speaking with some volume and flailing her arms a little bit that means she is trying to be on the younger level s…	/r/seduction	25/05/24 01:14 AM
15	Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret? Go straight for the hottest girl in the venue. don't do no stupid shit that will get u brutally dismissed, talk like normal. As long as u get along with her and have some banter it don't matter if u actually take her home because every other woman in that place now has competition anxiety.	/r/seduction	24/05/24 08:17 PM
3	What I didn’t wrong ? That was the mistake. Took me until 35 to figure that out. Desiring emotional connection or romantic commitment is the exact thing that repulses girls. Most women do want exclusivity. They just don't desire it with a guy that desires them because of the lens through which they see safety and respect. In a girls mind if you desire her romantically, she thinks you are not selected by other women even if you are, and non selection is the biggest red flag in female thinking. A girls feelings of safe…	/r/seduction	24/05/24 02:08 PM
4	What I didn’t wrong ? Girls will feel uncomfortable and even unsafe when you suddenly change course. You conducted yourself as a friend then proceeded to try to make it something else. I bet you were kind and thoughtful hence why she told you a lot about her life and started talking about the future. I bet the guy she is seeing didn't make a fraction of the effort u did to get to know her. She probably hooked up with him just because she thought he was hot or was someone that could be detached enough to fulfill the a…	/r/seduction	24/05/24 01:17 PM
1	How to get someone's ig/number??? If you don't want to feel creepy don't do cringe stuff. Just walking up to a girl and complimenting her and asking for contact information is the best way to fail. Actually meet people and get to know them. The more chill u are, the more people that the folks u meet in your journeys will introduce to you, and some of them will be attractive women.	/r/seduction	23/05/24 01:37 PM
0	Being to available I've had the same problem most of my adult life, I was convinced I was alone and needed a woman by my side despite knowing I have my blessings, friends and family. All good things do come to an end. The reverse also holds true. It happens in cycles, let the bad things end. I didn't get past the loneliness complex until I accepted that desiring a woman by our side is exactly what drives them away. I realized it only after I crossed that line where I stopped caring to the point of not even glancin…	/r/seduction	23/05/24 02:02 AM
9	Being to available Find motivation to get into physical activities, you will learn to enjoy them more and more as you go. FYI sex is a physical activity. Trust me, us guys that academics come easy to have a struggle. I learned the first 50 digits of Pi by heart before I learned how to make a woman feel comfortable. I will try to run this down for u in a way an intellect can grasp. Women see safety and respect through a completely different lens than us guys. We as men can't comprehend it, but we can observe and ke…	/r/seduction	22/05/24 11:49 PM
1	How many girls do you talk to at a time? No more than 3 at a time. Only reasons are to pass shit tests and keep my energy in check and avoid giving the vibe that the girl I actually like is the only option.	/r/seduction	22/05/24 03:18 PM
70	Power of social proof If she wasn't directly shit testing you, she was getting the info she needed by waiting for other women to do the evaluating for her. This is why preselection is such a powerful attractive trait, that it is the only way to bypass shit tests completely. The only women that never intentionally tested me were girls that were friends of flings/exes.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 02:36 PM
7	Eye contact and smiles with strangers I remember a long time ago in a galaxy far away that people acknowledging each other with eye contact, smiles, and even a proper greeting when crossing paths was normal. Now we are questioning if it's an opening to approach. Absolutely pathetic.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 11:49 AM
-2	How long would you wait to setup a second date? My best suggestion is to just wait for the girl to push for a second date while you are seeing other women. That way if u never hear back from her it ain't no sweat. You have to do what the girls do. Even a sub par girl will have 6 or 7 guys on call at any given time. Have options and be willing to exercise them, be flakey, ghost people if you must. We don't particularly enjoy this kind of behavior from girls, but this same stuff coming from men is what makes women feel safe because it demonstra…	/r/seduction	20/05/24 10:59 PM
5	How do I attract white women You can be a Pepsi guy, as long as u are a Pepsi guy that also offers free samples of cocaine	/r/seduction	20/05/24 02:35 PM
15	How do I attract white women Have coke on you even if u ain't a user.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 01:15 PM
2	How should I approach a girl in the gym Exactly. If you are selected, if you already have women, you ain't going to care about the outcomes of your interactions and you will always be willing to walk away from bad behavior and that will keep your own behaviors in check.	/r/seduction	19/05/24 07:50 PM
1	Players i need help! Last time I got asked that, the answer was "Alaskan thunderfuck" She wanted to come over to try some and watch Netflix. We did not watch much Netflix.	/r/seduction	19/05/24 07:48 PM
8	Approached and got told to F off The worst a woman can do when you approach is say no...if you behaved like a man. If you showed weakness or anything not masculine they will harshly reject you. It's their instinct to damage you and prevent you from passing your genes. You got told to fuck off because you didn't say anything or make eye contact until you both got off at the station. The second you approached you confirmed to her you were premeditating it the whole train ride. By waiting until you got off to approach, she was won…	/r/seduction	19/05/24 07:44 PM
4	Players i need help! Blueprint: Disregard all possible outcomes that didn't even happen yet. Don't be scared of silence. Silence does speak loudly, but make your silence say the right things by owning it, don't get fidgety and keep eye contact until the words come to one of you...this increases your mystery and indifference if done well. Utilize conversation threading. It's the most basic social skill in existence. Branch off of key words and phrases to formulate your responses and continue the subject or transition…	/r/seduction	19/05/24 05:22 PM
0	Long term travel is one of the best ways to level up your game I can't debate correctness. Long term travel requires detachment to be a legitimate necessity. It just so happens detachment makes women feel safe for intimacy.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 07:22 PM
15	When you ask a girl out too early, could there still be a chance after that? Yes. You already made your intent clear. Be patient and pull back and ask other girls out, if she is interested she will reach out to you when the time is right.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 06:52 PM
4	How should I approach a girl in the gym Sure it is. It's easy. If you look and act selected, you can create perceived preselection. The only downfall is you have to face shit tests so the girl can confirm, but it will give u the rolling start needed to gain actual selection. Shit tests are going to happen in most scenarios regardless, so it's definitely about working on the perceived image. The only way a girl doesn't test you for preselection is if one her friends already wants you. This is why it's super important to work the whole …	/r/seduction	18/05/24 06:43 PM
5	On and off all the time The way women operate is they line up other options before they exit a relationship, they don't take the same time between sexual partners that most men do. She might like texting with you and even hanging out with you, but she is clearly sleeping with someone else. Most likely someone that exerted no effort into getting to know her. The flaw in your thinking relates to this very post. You are asking for advice pertaining to one girl instead of dating and seducing women in general. This demonstr…	/r/seduction	18/05/24 01:09 PM
31	How should I approach a girl in the gym How to make it not awkward or creepy: Stop assuming approaching is creepy. Certain behaviors are creepy. How women define creepy: social incompetence and non selection. If you are socially competent and preselected, approaching is normal, even fun; the way it should be. You really just need to behave like you already have women so your emotions stay centered and u make people feel comfortable. Bonus points if you actually have other women interested at said venue or gym. Just read the room and g…	/r/seduction	18/05/24 12:26 PM
1	How can i rekindle the spark betwen me and my ex ? There is an alternative. In my experience, hooking up with or dating one or more of the exe's friends is basically a cheat code. Yes she will be pissed at the dude...as she's tearing off his clothes and begging for him back.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 05:04 PM
1	How can i rekindle the spark betwen me and my ex ? Your well being is on the line here, you shouldn't even be on this sub asking for advice on how to sabotage yourself. If you did successfully rekindle something you would most likely be back at square one because whatever enabled or increased your depression involved her. You will not know how much better it is in the long run to break the cycle until some time passes. Take short term pain for long term gain, not the other way around.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 05:00 PM
2	So this girl I grew up with hit me up the other day... You are here posting about this because you are letting lust influence you. Take this as what it is. Two friends reconnecting. Remain indifferent, if she wants to do something outrageously immoral let the ball be in her court. Not worth being responsible for bringing drama into 2 marriages, let that liability be on her.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 03:32 PM
2	What element is missing in my personality? Just have a base blueprint and develop yourself into it. You want to be indifferent, polarizing, and pre selected. These are the traits that demonstrate you ain't a "friend" personality. Friends care. You can't care. It's actually ethical not to if you are looking through the woman's lens of reality. You can care about all human beings but you can't care about the outcomes of interactions with girls. You cannot care about their beauty. Adopting this mindset will automatically dial in your behavi…	/r/seduction	15/05/24 04:30 PM
0	Experts what are your best tips and tricks Practice behaviors and demeanor which you can see positive results from in real time immediately with zero experience to encourage yourself. In social situations, consciously refrain from fidgety movements, raising the pitch of your tone, increasing your tempo of words, or feeling internally "giddy'. These are behaviors of a man who beauty holds no power over. These things make girls feel safe because they show emotional control on your part. No amount of money, status, fitness, or followers can…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 11:28 PM
1	What is the best cost-effective way to follow up after a successful cold approach When Barney Stinson ran his plays, girls went home with him fully knowing he was full of shit. Given TV sitcoms ain't real life but the concept holds true. Girls play along when they want to get theirs.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 11:16 PM
10	What is the best cost-effective way to follow up after a successful cold approach The most cost effective way is to use classy reasoning to get the girl straight to your place. I personally utilize the helper role...the primal feminine state. I say I'm tight on time, and mention I could use help at my place with something that I can display competence with(painting a room, tuning instruments, etc...). She very well knows what you are trying when you do this but that is the exact reason why a yes would mean she is down. It's shocking how often they go along with it if you alre…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 05:44 PM
9	Curious about social media As an older millennial I consider social media the cause of most social issues and I've never have leveraged it for dating because I have plenty of social exposure to people my age with similar beliefs. This same social exposure makes me understand that my stance is not viable for the younger crowd. The same way that muscle cars were a man's status symbol in the 60s, today's status symbol is your i.g. Nobody asked for it to be like that, but tech giants know psychology. Women want what other wom…	/r/seduction	14/05/24 02:37 PM
9	Too late? It took me until about 35 years old to hit that balance, to be "good" with women. It ain't too late, in our 30s is when men build the same attraction power that women aged 18 to 30 naturally possess. It all has a common blueprint, which is polarity. It's like 2nd grade when we learned how magnets work. Opposite poles attract, common poles repel. It is very easy to overlook the concept given we live in a society that pedestals women. Note the behavioral traits of a woman that are pleasing to you …	/r/seduction	14/05/24 02:15 PM
-2	Since when is cold approach not seduction? This is straight up delusion. Cold approach and seduction have been separate things since the dawn of time. Seduction is WARM APPROACH. Cold approach is like taking a 3 point shot with a blindfold.	/r/seduction	14/05/24 12:20 PM
2	Dealing with men ‘claiming’ her In this situation, I do nothing about it. I let that guy sabotage himself. If he's in a social setting and not treating everyone equally; only being warm to the women, giving fuck off energy to other dudes...he is completely showing his hand. He's not being indifferent. it's highly likely she ain't comfortable with that and is just humouring him. So u need to be the one that is indifferent. Like all situations, u need to behave like a man with options even if u are lacking. Don't let it bother y…	/r/seduction	13/05/24 05:47 PM
71	Had my first hookup but what comes next? Normal. This seems like the guy is concealing his interest to keep you attracted so he is starting to stagger his communications and make it irregular so he don't appear too available. Judging by the fact u don't want to scare him off in case he wants to hookup again, i would say it's working. Guys; take notes.	/r/seduction	13/05/24 12:13 PM
4	Stuck in a Triangle of Love & Need Help Choosing Between 3 Women You lost me at "between 3 women". You have options. That is already the victory most people on this sub need. If you are trying to choose a girlfriend, I am 1000% convinced u need to pick the girl who looks at her phone the least when spending time with you.	/r/seduction	13/05/24 10:32 AM
-6	Do you wait for signs to approach? Nope. Most "choosing signals" and "demonstrations of interest" is actually the girl baiting you into approaching only to immediately disqualify you so she can get that nice little power trip. Whoever she is sleeping with didn't give a shit about signs to approach, he was simply her type and present and most likely an arrogant prick.	/r/seduction	11/05/24 04:51 PM
7	How should one act when a women send you choosing signals than says “I have a boyfriend” You say that you have a math test, therefore you both have something to cheat on. In all seriousness, women prioritize having options even while in a relationship, even the women that won't cheat will always have the next guy lined up before the breakup. Don't count yourself out based on anything she says, all that matters is her behaviors. She was sending you these signals BECAUSE you were minding your own businesses. Then suddenly you approach or proposition her out of nowhere. Of course she w…	/r/seduction	11/05/24 01:24 PM
7	If you make a girl cheat, it's an overall net positive in her relationship since it shows her true colors What does this say about you? It says you have no sexual discipline. You ain't the one cheating so you justify it as a positive and negate responsibility. You are hurting someone either way because of your choices. It takes 2 to fuck. If that is something you enjoy that's on you. Cheating situations and even most other forms of casual sex will fuck somebody up long term, and the vast majority of the time that "somebody" is a 3rd party that actually did nothing wrong.	/r/seduction	09/05/24 02:50 PM
3	How to identify Ghosting - How to deal with it. Do nothing. It's just what girls do, just see it as part of her ensuring her survival. When I say girls are checking your patience and your attachment what she is actually doing is subconciously assessing your options. (Preselection) Simply behave like a guy that already has women even if u don't. She needs to feel that u can do better than her, or you ain't a prize. Btw if one or more women that the girl u are talking to personally knows is also interested in you....she won't even test you, thi…	/r/seduction	09/05/24 12:25 AM
10	How to identify Ghosting - How to deal with it. Texting less or pulling back is not always girls preparing to drop u from their life. Girls will pull back from guys they actually like to check their attachment level and patience level, whether they are aware of it or not. Girls discuss this stuff with each other, and when questioned they usually respond with "I do like him, so I was seeing what he would do" When this happens, you do nothing, you stay on your mission and keep generating leads and options. If she does like you, she will confirm…	/r/seduction	09/05/24 12:06 AM
1	Is it that simple. And if so what am I doing wrong? These are single moms. If you didn't already hook up u probably ain't going to. You weren't polarizing. You were flirty playful and sweet. You are the opposite gender so you need to show the opposite behavioral traits of those that women possess that are pleasing to you. When you do so you will be rewarded in every way except with her words. When she calls you an asshole or dumbass is when she wants to rip clothes off. She will complain, but you know the drill...girls sleep with the guys they co…	/r/seduction	08/05/24 06:09 PM
96	How to respond when a girl suggests dinner I say I prefer a simple, fun hangout, dinner is too formal too soon. First date should always be about having a casual and fun initial connection such as bowling or air hockey or drinks at a comedy show. Dinner is a pressure cooker for people that just met. It may sound harsh but I've never had a girl not respect this thinking even if she got mad at first.	/r/seduction	08/05/24 12:26 AM
4	My guide on getting girls at a college campus as a non-student My strategy is no strategy at all. I work part time as a landscaper at a big university and I'm an independent mechanic with several students and faculty as clients at multiple campuses. I have legit reason to be present and have priorities greater than the girls, it keeps my vibe in check. When I was college age as a non student just attending the frat parties, these girls never even acknowledged my existence because i was going out of my way to chase them. Now as an older guy I can line up dat…	/r/seduction	08/05/24 12:05 AM
9	Do you care if there's an age gap in dating? My girl is 21 and I'm 37. She is more mature and nurturing than anybody my own age or older that I've dated. I learn as much from her as she does from me. Girls that don't stay on the c.c. or that have never got on it get taken early, I was completely done with cleaning up Chad's mess by dating women 35+	/r/seduction	07/05/24 11:50 PM
2	If the phone is for setting dates, how do I get to know her when I can’t go on a date currently? Understand the lens through which women view reality, safety, and respect. It's different then how we see these things. Any woman you are talking to is evaluating you 24/7 testing your interest. She is basically gauging your options. In a girls brain, the more interested you are in getting to know her, or the more u desire to take her on a date (as in dinner date or big money date) the less safe she feels because it suggests you lack options even if you don't. Being too interested makes them fee…	/r/seduction	07/05/24 11:44 PM
1	What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks? I think it's because guys will fuck up and learn from fucking up with their logic, but women that made mistakes will stay in bad ways as they get older and the bad ways get gradually worse because they operate on emotion and the bad ways are the crutch. I think this is why older guys and younger women are naturally good matches, the girl never needs to get stuck in negative complacency if she makes good decisions while young and sees someone that already fucked up to steer her on a good path.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 11:17 PM
1	What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks? Noooo...many age like fine wine. The older they get without staying with one man, the more masculine their behaviors become.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:31 PM
4	What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks? Don't listen to these people in here, the important thing is to have a legit reason to be present on campus, if you are both over 18 u can date anyone who wants to date you. I'm 37 and I mostly date college women and/or women in their lower 20s after years of making the futile mistake of dating women my own age or older. Not only are they grown adults, many of them are vastly more mature than the chicks 30+ years old.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 05:24 PM
8	How did game change from 2005 to 2020? Not as much has changed as one may think. People have always been the same (both males and females), the difference is promiscuity used to be performed with discretion because it was considered degenerate behavior; now it's all out in the open and it's "liberating" and something to be proud of, since over the course of this timeframe the internet has made bad things good and good things bad.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 04:25 PM
5	When will you be done with pickup/active dating? I will be done when I find a girl that is interested in being an actual wife, not simply the name on the marriage license that has all the leverage. I get women need their own careers and pursuits but if I have kids they ain't going to be raised by everyone else except the parents who are both always working. This is a tall order in the US and many would call it offensive and a pipe dream. So I see no end in sight with active dating.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 07:55 PM
1	What to do when she’s persistent in knowing your sign/age/ethnicity/etc at first approach? Then u need to be the one willing to walk away. I would usually call the girl out on getting too "interviewey" and just start talking random nonsense to steer the conversation towards talking about life and the world instead of one another.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 03:32 PM
5	What to do when she’s persistent in knowing your sign/age/ethnicity/etc at first approach? Don't overthink this. It's ok to talk about yourself, just refrain from giving away everything, give your info in bits and pieces. What is more important is to not ask as much about her as she does about you, because the less u want to get to know her, the more she wants to get to know you.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 02:26 PM
1	How to become more expressive with emotions Don't. A woman's entire game is to get you to do exactly that in order to disqualify you.	/r/seduction	05/05/24 08:38 PM
4	Being the funny guy? The "try hard" energy needs to be taken out of the equation if humor is a big part of your game. What makes you a clown is when u lift your emotions from your default state in order to get approval or attention. You can say all the same stuff and same jokes, just keep your tone of voice and tempo of words in check and refrain from fidgety or wild movements. This signals that your humor is part of who you are and you won't give off that 'try hard" energy, it just is what it is and you are who you…	/r/seduction	05/05/24 06:49 PM
1	First time dating in the US, but a second date never happens. What am I doing wrong? Good things are happening to me, I just try to elaborate on what should be common knowledge. We are on the same page when it comes to blaming women getting old. I'm in a position where I don't blame women and I certainly don't encourage it because we must hold accountable who is actually to blame...men that reward thot behaviors.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 10:01 PM
1	I embraced the possibility of rejection Let it break u in a controlled way if you must, and don't skip straight to the healing, let your comeback happen at a gradual positive curve so you don't get discouraged and crash.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 09:57 PM
1	I embraced the possibility of rejection Be careful. Stay positive but don't embrace rejection or it will keep happening more than u need it to. Let it sting enough to push you to learn how to increase your success	/r/seduction	04/05/24 07:57 PM
57	Woman I had ONS with - hot and cold behaviour (NSFW) You met this woman on tinder. Do what she is doing and work a rotation.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 07:53 PM
-2	First time dating in the US, but a second date never happens. What am I doing wrong? Western women have a different view of what weakness is. Basically any type of desire to connect emotionally or to commit is considered weakness, and this is what going on a date signals even if that isn't your intent. Basically they take it as you lacking options even if you don't.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 07:22 PM
13	First time dating in the US, but a second date never happens. What am I doing wrong? "dating" in the US is a dumpster fire. The guys that women go on dates with are not the same guys that they sleep with. They sleep with the guy that never even had to take them on a date in the first place. When women ghost after the first date, that just means they got their dose of free dinner and free attention from a decent guy that wants to get to know them, so now they can resume sleeping with a preselected, indifferent man that doesn't try to know them outside the bedroom. Most women are …	/r/seduction	04/05/24 12:09 PM
20	"You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this? I ain't trying to be funny. I say I don't use Instagram and if questioned I say I don't owe any explanation fully prepared to walk. She can look at me as weird as she wants, there are others that wont/don't/haven't.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 12:48 PM
3	Always losing from other men You are stating opinions, I'm stating proven biology. Human nature does not change, our conscious minds change over time depending on what tech company or political faction is manipulating us, but instincts remain the same. Just the fact that male approach anxiety still exists proves that the primal instincts are passed through our DNA.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 09:58 AM
1	Do you really enjoy flirting or am I the only one who doesn't? I enjoy it now for what it is. Some days are better than others. It used to feel like a chore where I had to leap over hurdles and jump through hoops and pass tests. It wasn't fun for me until my mid thirties when I finally learned about indifference and to disregard feminine beauty and the outcomes. It's not enjoyable until you are free. When u don't have an outcome on your mind u get into a more genuine flow and become more polarizing which is fun for all parties involved.	/r/seduction	03/05/24 09:34 AM
3	Always losing from other men The first step is separating reality from fiction. Your ability to get with women and your sexual history has nothing to do with your worth as a man, so u must cast out the assumption that being a virgin makes you a loser. It is not your job to chase and win over a woman, it's their job to win men. A man's job is to hunt and gather, therefore your worth is measured by your competence. Find what you are good at and offer either skills or knowledge to those who need it, and keep building networkin…	/r/seduction	02/05/24 10:38 PM
11	how to deal with “im looking for serious relationship”? These statements of intent are for non chads. The same girls that say no hookups already get fucked every night by some guy that don't even know outside that bedroom. Don't pay attention to what they say, focus on how they behave.	/r/seduction	02/05/24 05:10 PM
6	Logistics is just as important as game In my experience if the girl is comfortable enough around you to sleep with you, logistics don't bear so much weight. There still needs to be a degree of logistics, but timing matters more than setting, some girls are fiends that will gladly get a rush from doing it in the car like a hooker. I don't like bar/club girls knowing my address so if going to hers isn't an option there is the hotel I most likely already lined up because I'm the guy from "out of town".	/r/seduction	02/05/24 03:26 PM
3	How bad is it to have 2 girlfriends I'm sure you knew guys that had situations where they were seeing multiple women and somehow one found out about the other with no direct confessions and the drama ensues and as pissed as the girls are they are riding the dude like the Seattle slew regardless. This is most oftentimes orchestrated by the guy himself intentionally letting info slip over socials or circulate around key persons in his social circle.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 11:33 PM
1	How bad is it to have 2 girlfriends It's bad. It's also the only way to keep either one of them attracted because of female deviant nature, it's actually best to indirectly make sure they know about each other.	/r/seduction	01/05/24 07:27 PM
-7	¿How can I meet a "goodie"? The truth sucks, but you actually have to be a worse person and a bigger degenerate to attract the good girls because of what attracts them...which is polarizing men. It works the same way magnets work, which was covered in second grade science. They are not going to be attracted to the same behavioral traits in a man that they themselves possess. If, for example; the girl is kind and sweet to you, she is internally disgusted when you are the same way to her. If the girl is really smart, she's g…	/r/seduction	30/04/24 07:43 PM
8	SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’. Define Chad.	/r/seduction	30/04/24 12:08 AM
1	Failed approaches The more you cold approach, the more u discourage yourself off of failed attempts and the worse you get and the cycle repeats. If you keep practicing free throws without applying the correct technique, practice will not make you better. The right baseline technique is indifference. (Being neutral, to not care.)This doesn't mean don't care about the human, it means don't care about the girls beauty or the outcome of the interaction. This mindset automatically calms your demeanor and sets the righ…	/r/seduction	29/04/24 05:35 PM
340	SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’. I am a chad. No Chad in the history of ever actually says that they are a Chad because they don't have to, hence I can't take this post serious. It's the GOOD GIRLS that are the masters of baiting a man into disqualifying himself. The baddies are what they are....trainwrecks.	/r/seduction	29/04/24 05:19 PM
27	examples you do that show you're not a "nice guy" Forget about differentiating nice guy and bad boy. Focus on being genuine. Treat everyone equally regardless of feminine beauty. If you go out of your way to be harsh just to demonstrate you ain't a nice guy ...that is perceived as fake behavior no different than being nice just because the girl is cute. BTW, if the girl finds you very attractive, how nice or bad you are don't really matter, u just have to avoid getting in your own way with stupid shit.	/r/seduction	29/04/24 12:34 PM
14	Is there anything more essential than confidence? The point that so many dudes miss in the manosphere community is that women like competent men. Competence is more essential. It is the foundation that backs your confidence and self acceptance, and in of itself is an attraction trigger. If a girl is seeing some "Chad" and she needs someone to fix her car or repair her furnace and the dude supposedly "knows what he is doing" and he is struggling or failing, she will laugh at him in her mind regardless of his looks money or status, and he becomes…	/r/seduction	28/04/24 02:09 PM
105	Are guys doing street interviews for pick up now? Only trust what you see in real life with your own eyes because almost anything online is fraught with conflict of interest. Content creators have every incentive to accumulate views, doing so with honesty is not a requirement. It's all staged	/r/seduction	27/04/24 03:00 PM
0	If a woman tells you she needs to take time for a relationship, is her attraction to you forever killed? She might still have personality attraction for you but her arousal shifted to someone else ...most likely the type of person that would cheat.	/r/seduction	26/04/24 08:24 PM
2	Living on a boat with a girl The greatest way to "dvh" in a 1 on 1 is to actually trust your value enough to not have to go out of your way to demonstrate it to the girl. What no one will tell you is to overtly dvh directly to the girl is to give unearned validation that can put you in "try hard" energy. Women want effortlessness. Your value demonstrates itself at all times passively through your behaviors and competence. Just relax and be the best at every task on that ship, she will catch on. You're supposed to be the bes…	/r/seduction	26/04/24 06:00 PM
1	Everything starts well and they just ghost me I am talking about primal stuff that existed since the beginning of time. Women define safety differently. They have had more options that can be handled even before the internet. They only consider a small portion of their options viable. the difference is promiscuity is seen as "liberating" when it used to be looked down upon. You may have never done anything to overtly make a girl feel unsafe, but if she senses her sexual value is higher than yours, she automatically feels unsafe and it's her…	/r/seduction	26/04/24 05:28 PM
1	Everything starts well and they just ghost me In the 90s the worst that could happen is a girl says no. Women used to clearly communicate their lack of interest, which was the far more respectful thing to do. Girls have changed how they reject men. It has nothing to do with infinite options. Now they will make you think you are getting somewhere with them only to silently cut u off or stand u up on the date. Ghosting can be very damaging and disrespectful versus an outright rejection and they know it. They are trying to damage u to ensure y…	/r/seduction	26/04/24 03:43 PM
1	Is it worth it to change places so that you can be around a specific girl? She will. Women's sixth senses are from a different multiverse, we can't comprehend them.	/r/seduction	26/04/24 03:02 PM
3	Is it worth it to change places so that you can be around a specific girl? It's not worth it and it's not ok. Going out of your way to be around a specific girl is exerting the kind of effort that is repulsive to women, it comes off as artificial and try hard. Women do NOT want you to exert mental or psychological effort into getting them. The guy that puts forth every effort ends up being boyfriend material. You want to be boy toy material until it's time to chose a girlfriend. Girls want to see competency and social intelligence. If you had a purpose or genuine reaso…	/r/seduction	26/04/24 02:18 AM
4	“Men should always lead” gets blown out of proportion Let it happen. The most down voted posts on any sub is usually the most accurate, it's almost an honor.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 07:35 PM
6	“Men should always lead” gets blown out of proportion It's all situational. If the building catches on fire or a random tornado is about to hit or some kind of emergency where lives are at stake...it's in peoples best interest that a masculine man takes the lead because he is most likely to not let emotion influence decisiveness. As far as dating, it's about becoming a team, it's ok for the man to defer the lead if the woman genuinely brings something to the table that the man cannot, such as knowledge of her local vicinity for taking a walk and do…	/r/seduction	25/04/24 07:28 PM
52	Women’s interest just die out This is a game that cannot be won because women seek what is missing and chase what is different. Not even Chad is safe. Look what happens to big male celebrities all the time. Tom Brady himself got dumped for the kids martial arts instructor. This is why marriages become so stale because the woman is forcing herself to stay with one man against her nature and desires. With that said, simply refrain from making effort to please women. Easier said than done. Girls will act interested and super fe…	/r/seduction	25/04/24 07:20 PM
8	If she had more relationships than you Average and even sub par girls have had more flings and relationships than the vast majority of men. Now is not even the time for dating, just see a bunch of girls and have fun because women always chase something different, and always look for what's missing. This is why guys tend to be satisfied with something steady and take personal time between relationships, and women can effortlessly find a new man the same day they broke up with someone, because they already had the new guy lined up. Nev…	/r/seduction	25/04/24 04:34 PM
5	How to properly respond to “Well if you’re not doing it then I shouldn’t have to do it” OR “YOU do _, so why can’t I do _”? ⚖️ If somebody tests you like this, in my experience the best response is proving your point with the person's own words. "you are the one saying you can't/shouldn't do (blank) not me."...	/r/seduction	25/04/24 03:40 PM
9	Why does this girl always pick on me/ tease me? Read your own post. This girl is using MEN'S game on you. We flirt by concealing and confusing our interest level and pushing and pulling, women flirt by being subtle yet pleasant and easy to talk with. She either sees you as feminine or a joke...or she just has masculine qualities, either way better dodge this one.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 12:54 PM
11	Tips for entering masculine frame on dates A masculine frame isn't something you can "enter" into because the girl is supposed to enter your frame. You are supposed to be masculine by default at all times. If a girl acts like a blank sheet of paper on a date, I walk away and find someone more fun. I ain't going to crank my game up or exert extra effort for a girl that ain't bringing the vibes. I ain't interested in someone that isn't interested in me. So if you are a guy that is masculine at all times, and the girl doesn't want to come i…	/r/seduction	23/04/24 09:37 PM
1	Are btch shields and sht tests really a thing? The lingo of the manosphere has caused confusion. These are a thing but too much negative connotation was put onto the concepts. A "shit test" is just the girl testing your amount and quality of options by checking your congruence and interest level to see if you can attract someone at or above her level. Girls naturally do this whether consciously or not because their survival depends on it. A "bitch shield" is the girl plainly signaling disinterest...which is a good thing so u don't waste time…	/r/seduction	23/04/24 05:56 PM
1	Best inner game mind switches? It's making the decision to become these things for your own enjoyment. If you happen to pull some women it's a side effect.	/r/seduction	23/04/24 01:07 AM
2	Not F closing This is where the nuisance comes in. Everything a woman says and does tests your interest level. The less interested in her you are, the more interested in you she is...in a ltr or romantic sense. You DO need to behave in a way that expresses sexual interest without actually caring about any romantic or emotional outcomes. This applies regardless of your intent whether u want a fling or a gf because women can only love and/or be aroused by men who pass the interest tests.	/r/seduction	21/04/24 04:56 PM
1	How do I know if she wants something casual without directly asking? Stay open to asking directly...IF you feel a mutual sexual vibe is already established. Women are turned on when you are direct like a man...IF they were already into the idea of sleeping with you so u need to strike when u know the iron is hot.	/r/seduction	20/04/24 11:26 PM
17	Not F closing Just rewire your thinking to line up with basic primal instinct. Women have sex with guys they feel safe with. Us guys can't fully comprehend the lens through which women view safety. It is the woman's job to chase and care about a competent hunter/gatherer. It's the man's job to hunt and gather. In modern times this means it's your job to use your skills to get your money. Emotional attachment makes women feel UNSAFE because it signals lack of options. A competent gatherer who puts his grind fi…	/r/seduction	20/04/24 02:24 PM
3	My game is literally nonexistent, how would you start from zero? You have an advantage. You can start with a clean slate so you ain't dealing with over-information. Focus on one word: polarity. The physics behind how magnets function that we all learned in 1st grade. Common poles repel, opposing poles attract. This concept will steer you into what to say and how to behave in a natural way. Write down the behavioral traits that you value and look for in a woman, and for each trait write down it's opposite. You just wrote down the blueprint for what you have to…	/r/seduction	20/04/24 12:45 PM
2	Can’t stop thinking about negative interaction You need to question whether you actually behaved in a "cringe" way or not. If the girl isn't interested, anything you try is "cringe" even if it isn't. If the girl is interested, anything you try is not cringe even if it is. You cannot attack yourself. If YOU feel you were cringe than address it, if not don't dwell on it.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 06:20 PM
1	Would you consider this red flag, high maintenance? Tinder is the red flag.	/r/seduction	17/04/24 10:40 PM
1	How to be funny without being a performer and a joke teller? Tell the same jokes and say all the goofy stuff you feel like, but with stoic tone, tempo, and poise, and a dash of sternness as if you ain't joking at all, but let your crooked smirk show. Just don't lift your emotions like most would when trying to be funny. This actually makes the jokes funnier and invoke more emotion, plus u are staying in masculine frame instead of giving off clown vibes or "try hard" energy.	/r/seduction	17/04/24 02:10 PM
2	Do repeated glances mean anything from a girl? Of course there are exceptions...they are exactly what they are...exceptions, not the norm. There are girls that will stay with one man until death do they part...these are the women with good fathers that stayed off the internet enough to not be influenced by the hive.	/r/seduction	16/04/24 08:53 PM
1	Do repeated glances mean anything from a girl? This is correct but u need to put a positive light on it. Women are attracted to guys that don't try at all. They don't want to see mental or psychological effort being put forth to try to win them over. With this said, not trying is an advantage. Don't try. Think primal. Your job is not to pursue the woman, your job is to hunt and gather. It's the woman's job to chase a competent hunter gatherer.	/r/seduction	16/04/24 08:48 PM
36	Do repeated glances mean anything from a girl? You do know girls show false indicators of interest to bait guys only to reject them right? If they are interested, and you get together, even if u get all the way to marriage she will always be looking for something different and new anyway. It's a game that cannot be won. Never try to please a woman. Do what you want. Just talk to who you want and what happens happens.	/r/seduction	16/04/24 03:25 PM
9	Why do I have more success if I’m playing a role? Feel like a psychopath.. Girls KNOW when u are playing the part. If u feel you are having more success because you are playing a role, it's because they are playing along. Playing a role to get what you want used to be considered degenerate behavior. Casually hooking up also used to be considered degenerate behavior. Girls will not make a "psychopath" wait. They make genuine guys who are boyfriend material wait while they hook up with liars who are expendable.	/r/seduction	14/04/24 11:04 AM
2	Need advice about dating in college Get your mind off this one girl. Get some coke bagged up and walk into a frat party and accept alternate payments, and the situation won't be an issue any longer.	/r/seduction	12/04/24 10:20 PM
13	Need some real, ACTUAL pointers for getting more Second Dates. When a girl says she didn't feel a connection, she is actually telling you there was no spark. "Spark" is polarity. You have to take note of the girl's behavioral traits that are pleasing to you, because these same traits coming from you will either kill the spark or not generate it at all. If she is kind and sweet to you, be an ass. If she is humble, be cocky. If she is smart, talk stupid nonsense. The crooked grin that comes on your face when you do this tells both you and the girl it's workin…	/r/seduction	12/04/24 10:17 PM
3	Give me advice on how to proceed. If you already banged plenty of women, I guarantee with some of them...you did little "correctly" and still ended up in bed just because she already pictured it with you. Just bank on your own experience. Accept her offer to pick you up and don't try too hard. Matter of fact, don't try at all; she's the one showing interest so let her make the efforts; be an idiot that speaks nonsense and innuendo. If you're looking to smash, don't be boyfriend material. Be the guy she sleeps with quick while sh…	/r/seduction	10/04/24 05:35 PM
13	Eye contact issues Just understand the difference between eye contact and staring. You only need to hold the eye contact until the girl drops it. If she ain't looking and you still are...you are officially staring at her body. If the girl doesn't drop the eye contact, you can't be first to look away. Keep your eyes relaxed but on hers. This is where the pressure is felt because you don't want it to become a contest. You negate this by staying verbally engaged, or make non verbal gestures if u are at a distance. If…	/r/seduction	10/04/24 12:57 PM
2	Am I massively over thinking this. There is every indication that her not initiating texts is no big deal, what matters is she responds to yours. Women simply don't respond at all when they ain't interested, or wait unacceptable amounts of time to clearly demonstrate lack of interest. When a woman is very interested in you...she will sometimes withhold initiating contact, sometimes this goes on for months. This is done on purpose to check your interest and see if you have a sense of urgency...she wants to reaffirm to herself you …	/r/seduction	09/04/24 11:15 AM
7	Am I massively over thinking this. There is every indication that her not initiating texts is no big deal, what matters is she responds to yours. Women simply don't respond at all when they ain't interested, or wait unacceptable amounts of time to clearly demonstrate lack of interest. When a woman is very interested in you...she will sometimes withhold initiating contact, sometimes this goes on for months. This is done on purpose to check your interest and see if you have a sense of urgency...she wants to reaffirm to herself you …	/r/seduction	09/04/24 11:15 AM
0	🚫 Stop Trying To Be Confident (try these instead) I don't necessarily see anything wrong here.. it's just an information overload. The whole point is to think less and do more. I say focus on competence. It is, after all; the source of confidence. This is why women have secret affairs with their personal trainers or martial arts instructors, the carpenter, the HVAC dude...this stuff happens constantly in the real world. it would not be happening if they were bad at their job.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 10:39 AM
15	What is the best way not to feel negative when you are rejected? In my experience the best way to feel more positive is to look back at the interaction and take the data from it and apply it to the next attempt. This is Kaizen method: continuous positive improvement. Ask yourself: Was I attached to the outcome? Did I raise my vocal pitch, did I increase my tempo and/or volume? Did I do or say anything that can be perceived as cowardice, frugality, or incompetence? Did I make any sudden fidgety movements? Was I internally "giddy" when talking to her? If you an…	/r/seduction	08/04/24 02:28 PM
40	If you're in your early 20s If we are talking about college chicks, u can actually get away with having none of the above IF you treat the girl like she is not good looking. Blatant insults work well. Do not use on real women.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 01:05 PM
1	Do Women like to be ignored? Women do not like being ignored, not many humans do. Some of the same things that piss them off is exactly what attracts them because women see safety and respect through a completely different lens than we can fathom. Anything that shows you have higher sexual value than the girl is a similar concept. If you are seeing some girl, for example; and you hook up with her best friend, she going to be bat shit pissed. Then later the next night she rips your clothes off. If you ignore a girl while hun…	/r/seduction	07/04/24 02:02 PM
25	How do you know if you’re being a “nice guy”? You know you are being a "nice guy" if you have to put thought into calibrating your behaviors. Being a nice guy isn't actually an unattractive thing. It gets a bad rap because most "nice" guys ain't actually good men, they are putting up a faux facade. Psychological and mental effort being exerted into making a girl like you is what makes her feel like a deer in headlights. If you are polite and courteous by default...being an ass would be fake behavior. Don't worry about being nice or being a …	/r/seduction	06/04/24 11:19 PM
1	How to actually build any amount of confidence, or overcome that feeling of “something must be wrong with me”? That feeling of inadequacy, especially in your mid to late 30s comes from having this idea that your worth as a man actually has some kind of correlation to success with women which is absolute bullshit. You got guys that have done all the self improvement and have met their goals and become the man they want to be...and still can't get women interested in them. On the flip side...you got degenerate man child-like beings in the company of women all the time. The key actually isn't building confi…	/r/seduction	06/04/24 11:31 AM
15	How do I start with the game Don't fill your head with too much info or you will overthink. Stick with the bare basics. If you understand polarity, u understand the entire game. Think of the behavioral traits of a woman that are pleasing to you and show the opposite traits. This sounds completely counterintuitive but u need to go out and see how girls respond for yourself. If the girl is kind and sweet to you...she will be repulsed if you are the same way to her. Men and women function exactly like magnets. Similar poles re…	/r/seduction	05/04/24 01:15 PM
0	What kind of games and narratives you can play Correction. YOU can't be indifferent. I had to face too many people in pine boxes, literally no outcome of any interaction with any woman means half a shit to me or actual men that have had actual trials and tribulations. I don't put myself in no win situations. I don't know how to play basketball, I ain't showing up. One thing I do know is how to stay detached and say what I want without being scripted and fake.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 02:41 PM
0	What kind of games and narratives you can play Fuck games and narratives. Actually be genuine and don't care about outcomes and you will have all the "game" you need.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 12:57 PM
9	Men continue to stare/maintain eye contact after you’ve looked away That isn't a seduction technique. Strong eye contact can be arousing, but that requires 2 people, staring only takes one...it's really just blatantly signaling thirst and social incompetence. When guys are told to hold eye contact that just means don't be first to break it, it don't mean stay fixated.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 10:08 PM
2	Being to nice? your a lovely guy Men are not supposed to be lovely or nice. She basically insulted you to your face without the harsh connotation. I can tell it's a polarity issue. You need to address that before escalation or the right escalation won't properly exist....You can fix it. Literally write down the behavioral traits a woman shows that are pleasing to you, and display the side of yourself that has the opposing traits. If you want a girl that is lovely, you can't be lovely, you need to be rigid. If …	/r/seduction	27/03/24 02:19 PM
10	Finding a girl who wants to grow with you? Stop needing motivation. The girls see you need it, it ain't their job to motivate you. You should do what you need to do regardless of how you feel. You need dedication. If you are dedicated to what you want to do and how you are going to do it, you don't need outside motivation. When the girls start seeing you don't need them, then they want you.	/r/seduction	27/03/24 12:04 AM
6	Escalation is bullshit!! It’s a man’s belief that he can convince, control and manipulate a woman into having sex with him .. no dude! No. Escalation is making intent clear, and it's a good deed. An actual feminine woman wants the man to take the lead in the physical aspect of the dynamic. It elevates initial interest to the insane attraction and comfort levels. It is not a manipulation or control, it's fun and enjoyable for her, so it's good manners.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 02:32 PM
-3	Having a hard time getting girls that are above 7/10 For hotter girls you give immediate validation. This sounds like the opposite of good advice but hear me out... Deliver a genuine compliment about something u like about her unapologetically.... Then you immediately retract that validation you just gave with a tease or roast. Example : "I must say you look exquisite tonight, and for that we will keep that silent white wine fart you just made under wraps"🤣 Maybe not a great example because it came to mind instantly but that is the concept. If you…	/r/seduction	25/03/24 03:05 PM
5	How DO you hit on a girl who's the center of attention? Fortunately girls who are at the center of attention are easier to win over than one would think. 99% of guys who ain't being a nervous wreck are getting excited or "giddy" when talking to a girl like that and exert that "try hard" energy. Us men like when girls act a little giddy and give effort to win us over but women are the opposite. You separate yourself from the majority by slowing everything down. Talk at literally half the tempo of the other dudes and consciously refrain from sudden or …	/r/seduction	25/03/24 02:24 PM
-2	Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached? See it as men and women having different operating systems. Men operate on logic. Women operate on emotion. With that said, stimulating a woman's emotions is not done with logic or facts...but the act of doing so is logical. Because stimulating a woman's emotions is the logical way to connect with her, you are demonstrating manliness by doing so.	/r/seduction	24/03/24 12:32 AM
0	My girlfriends mom is hot The solution is to get both of them simultaneously. This way the inevitable breakup won't be as physically harmful to you and you may keep sexual access to both of them. This takes grand master game with pinpoint accuracy. I sure as shit don't know how to do this but my brother has done it repeatedly, including at a young age. He would say "keep in mind girls have a deviant nature and the more forbidden or evil a sexual situation is considered the more likely they will let it happen...so plant t…	/r/seduction	24/03/24 12:10 AM
0	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move This is a seduction sub, not a dating sub. Of course the girl will choose a guy who got somewhere and has some resources and brains...to be her boyfriend. The same girl who is getting to know the guy who got the money and the achievements will still be sleeping with the arrogant loser who speaks nonsense who she doesn't even know outside the bedroom while she makes the prospective boyfriend that she actually likes to wait it out for physical intimacy.	/r/seduction	23/03/24 10:58 PM
1	At what body type/shape did you get the most girls/success? Congruence comes from being fully comfortable with both your internal and external traits so they can become one energy. If you are still the same nerd in your head...be exactly that, readjust your style with no regrets, wear a Starfleet insignia on Gokus gi if you must, as long as there is congruence. The key here is to have other nerds to socialize with...there is more female nerds out there than will ever admit they are such.	/r/seduction	23/03/24 09:06 PM
9	Let’s hear some going same night lay success stories Every time the girl slept with me the same night I did absolutely nothing correctly. I got laid by a girl at a pub telling me her name and I replied "I'm French, my tongue has a mind of its own." She left willingly after a complimentary breakfast. Another time I said almost nothing to a girl I met up with at a group thing because I was more interested in playing pool with her friends because they were the better banterers. I drive away to call it a night saying bye to everyone except her and no …	/r/seduction	23/03/24 12:12 AM
1	How did I fumble this smh (20M) Doing or saying as you please without giving a solitary fuck is actually the only way to be genuine if you think about it; behaving without outside influence. Swimming against the tide and doing things how you actually want makes the girl feel safe with you for some scientifical primal reason. A woman feeling safe makes her feel a physical need for your sex.	/r/seduction	21/03/24 08:53 PM
2	How did I fumble this smh (20M) Be an idiot that speaks fluent nonsense with frequent euphemism. A girl I hooked up recently worked at the dispensary. There was a particular joint I wanted called banana punch. I told the girl: "One banana punch; and not the kind that Ray J gave to Kim" with the straightest face and she died laughing and literally followed me out to have a smoke with me and wanted to get drinks after work and we were going at it no more than an hour after that. That lame line I said came straight from my mouth …	/r/seduction	21/03/24 08:00 PM
3	How did I fumble this smh (20M) You may or may not have been too slow, it all depends how the girl categorized you. Women behave according to how they categorize each guy they are talking to. She could have seen you as having good inner game and flirting skills and actually wanted to get to know you...so she would naturally make you wait so you can have a "build up" to intimacy. The guy she took home could have been an arrogant idiot with miniscule game that she sees as expendable and fucks him just because she thinks he's hot…	/r/seduction	21/03/24 12:45 PM
11	how do i put myself out there after a rejection? Satan can appear to us in his original form...a graceful angel of light in order to deceive and attack us. Whether or not you hold religious beliefs, this describes what happened to you. You thought you were in love with one girl because of her beauty and grace, and when things didn't go your way, you lost your will to move on and talk to other girls... This train of thought where there is nobody better than "her" can destroy you, there are guys that lose the will to live because of this stuff. …	/r/seduction	21/03/24 12:39 PM
43	At what body type/shape did you get the most girls/success? At one point I was at minimal body fat with a v taper build, and pronounced arms/shoulders... exactly where I wanted to be. At this time I got LESS girls than ever in my life. I was getting eyes rolled at me left and right. It wasn't until my 30s I realized why. It was never my body type, it was my lack of congruence. I was in great shape, lost 50 lbs, but still behaving like the fat guy. My internal core didn't match my outer appearance, creating a "try hard" aura. Women have supernatural sense…	/r/seduction	21/03/24 12:28 PM
0	Am I ready for a relationship You should try shutting your brain off and just go on dates with a bunch of women and focus on fun and take the pressure off. If you are relationship oriented, it's even more important to have options so you can pick the best partner for you, and so you can learn and grow from different experiences. Most men ain't who they have to be to sustain a healthy relationship until their 30s or even 40s. Don't worry about your relationship readiness, just have fun and keep an open mind.	/r/seduction	20/03/24 09:45 PM
2	a practical problem - cant even start This is actually something that all males have hard wired into their biology. In ancient times, being rejected could have gotten you executed or exiled by the tribe. Your dna thinks it's a death sentence and automatically tries to prevent those consequences. Knowing that, you can disregard that survival mechanism because we live in completely different times. That dread you feel is just mechanism, it's separate from cowardice. Cowardice would be failure to disregard how you feel and to make excu…	/r/seduction	20/03/24 02:29 PM
1	Hitting Girls at the gym? If you are at the gym to hit on girls you already lost. Be the hardest working dude there and options will present themselves everywhere.	/r/seduction	20/03/24 01:32 PM
32	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move This post got more upvotes than most I have made in recent memory. I can only speak on personal experience so let the general public judge. Btw; felons, ex cons, and your basic broke scum of the earth get more ass than a toilet seat for a reason. Fuck being "good enough".	/r/seduction	18/03/24 04:51 PM
1	are some girls actually mean to the guy the like? They do it on purpose to confirm the guy is actually the man they first perceived him to be. I, for one, am all set with these shit talking tests, i could easily pass them with my experience but now I'm willing to walk regardless, don't need it.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 12:49 PM
365	Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a move I think guys need to accept that the Internet has lied to them and that they are good enough as they are with no grind or work required because they have a dick. The grind is for themselves and their families. Matter of fact, women hate psychological or mental effort being put into getting them. They want to see competence and physical effort, even if it's just working on the girls car or cutting your neighbors grass. This is why if you are working really hard on a project in public women often …	/r/seduction	18/03/24 12:41 PM
24	Anyone here in their 30s or 40s? 37 I would not date most women my own age because there is no self accountability among many older millennial women. Everything is Chad's fault despite her choosing him, and I had enough of taking the backlash, everything from them is a test and a good dynamic is more than just passing tests. I've been having a much better time dating 10 years younger or more. Alot of the younger women do not want to end up 30+ and not having a man and unlike women my age they are fully aware of the social progr…	/r/seduction	18/03/24 11:58 AM
28	Biggest turn off for women The biggest turnoff is "try hard" energy. When the internal core does not match the outer appearance and behaviors the girl feels like a deer in headlights. They have superhuman senses for congruence that is unexplainable. If you make a strong approach without hesitation like you should....but on the inside you are a timid procrastinator in general...the girl will know and feel freaked out because of the "try hard" energy. If you dress and groom to the max but don't feel confident....same thing,…	/r/seduction	16/03/24 05:25 PM
19	Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellect I'm pretty convinced the whole manosphere thing is geared around dealing with damaged women who can't just stay with one man because "something better is always out there"	/r/seduction	15/03/24 04:11 PM
72	Here’s a thought: attraction is triggering primal instincts instead of intellect It works but everything about attraction and seduction is shades of grey. With the past girlfriend that I was the closest to, I did nothing right. Most of our conversations were logical and intellectual from the start. This normally drives women away, but not with her, it don't make sense. Nothing about the game does.	/r/seduction	15/03/24 12:48 PM
11	Women on app wants to hook up, how do I not screw this up? You don't screw this up by screwing her asap without thinking and then disappear as fast as possible.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 10:39 PM
7	How to get good at flirty banter? Conversation threading is a way to never run out of things to say without overthinking. You simply branch off the other person's key words, or phrases, or parts of sentences to extend the banter. It's the most basic conversational skill there is. There are many videos and articles on conversation threading with examples. Combine that with talking in an emotionally stimulating way. With women you can only talk logic maybe 25% of the time, its no fun for them. Being aloof and talking complete nons…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 05:15 PM
9	What are the body language signs that indicates she is into you and what are the tricks to do to know if she is into you Just because a person is introverted or anti social doesn't mean they lack desire for socializing, much of the time they would rather do without it than feeling like they are being off-putting to people, but as humans they are still social creatures. I'm introverted, I have dischronometria, it can present with autism-like traits. My biggest takeaway is I was judging myself more harshly than other people ever were. Once I started giving my self a chance others did the same in return. With girls t…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 04:47 PM
9	How to get good at flirty banter? Practice conversation threading and avoid logic.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 02:46 PM
3	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches I don't disagree with any of your post, but I'm a firm believer rejection can be cut in half and that harsh, hostile rejections can be eliminated completely, just by how you behave and knowing how to read a room. If the girl looks closed off, I'm moving along. If she rolls her eyes at me, I'm heading for the hills. God help me if she pulls out her phone immediately upon greeting her, I'm out. A girl will not always make it obvious when she is interested, so both open and neutral women should be …	/r/seduction	14/03/24 02:44 PM
3	How do you make friends and social circles do you need to seduct them? Serious question I'm lost Focus on fun. You need to make it fun for everyone, whether it's girls u are interested in or other men or old people or anybody. You can completely have nothing in common but the differences can give you material for fun banter and you can still make their day. Learn conversation threading. Pick a key word or part of a sentence the person is saying and branch off that. This way you are thinking with the other person's brain and not yours, you are showing presence in the moment and actually cari…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 01:11 PM
64	What are the body language signs that indicates she is into you and what are the tricks to do to know if she is into you It's all shades of grey. Some girls can be very interested and not give any obvious non verbal signals, either by being shy or lacking experience, or ain't wired for it. Keep in mind in the west a massive amount of the population is on the spectrum to some degree, more common in guys but girls got problems too...not everybody's body language will reflect their inner thoughts. The reverse is also true. A girl can give you all the signs and not be one bit interested in you, she just treats attenti…	/r/seduction	14/03/24 12:30 PM
1	My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approaches Imagine if a post this long was focused on how to not get rejected in the first place.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 12:09 PM
1	You are what you attract? I agree. Congruence is the #1 thing people in general test at all times. This is why I preach no fake behaviors and showing opposing traits that are legitimately possessed. I take more pride in being an ass than using it to flirt.	/r/seduction	13/03/24 11:37 AM
3	You are what you attract? No, you can't over validate or compliment natural looks regardless of the type of woman and also have to be willing to walk away regardless of traits im talking about the same kindness you would show to anyone u ain't trying to hook up with, just basic pleasantries. We shouldn't even be talking about this because you should be going for women that show feminine traits from the start, because if a relationship happens, you want to be the one wearing the pants. Opposing traits work on the colder r…	/r/seduction	13/03/24 01:52 AM
2	You are what you attract? Yes, exactly, that is what is polarizing to them. Most dudes think the opposite. This is why sometimes when a girl was rude to you and you gave the benefit of the doubt and were patient and kind while willing to walk away..., she remembers that and completely changes her tune if u come back around.	/r/seduction	13/03/24 01:36 AM
5	You are what you attract? You are going to love it when u get used to consciously leveraging the concept	/r/seduction	12/03/24 03:09 PM
25	You are what you attract? The internet is wrong. Money, status, fitness...these are things that are considered high value by MEN. These are very important and shouldn't be disregarded but you must grind for yourself and your family, not the girls. What women consider high value is indifference (neutrality) in the face of beauty. When you display opposing traits you are showing you ain't letting her beauty influence your behavior and make u into a fake "nice" guy. That is the foundation of polarity. Polarity is the physic…	/r/seduction	12/03/24 01:21 PM
32	You are what you attract? The hot ones are easier to attract than the average ones and it took forever to figure that out ...this coming from an average blue collar idiot. Adopt the mindset of being the OPPOSITE of who you want to attract in terms of behavioral traits. Have u ever seen couples where the girl is a dime and you wonder how that complete slob she is with was able to get her? I guarantee it's polarity. Women see respect, value, and attraction through a completely different lens than us. Picture the traits of …	/r/seduction	12/03/24 11:11 AM
25	Kinda afraid to go for a kiss Research the escalation ladder. There are different points of view on it so try different things and see what works for you. You basically have to "unlock" tiers of physical activity to increase the girls comfort levels, and gauge those comfort levels to know when to escalate to the next step. For example if she seems comfortable with the normal socially acceptable touching such as high fives, hugs, casual touches on the hands, shoulders or forearms; you can unlock the next tier which is back, n…	/r/seduction	11/03/24 12:15 PM
-1	Can’t “seduce” women If you say so. I have said far more controversial stuff and had the girl red in the face laughing before going home with me but you do you. It's not what is said it's how it is said.	/r/seduction	11/03/24 11:58 AM
2	Can’t “seduce” women You just need to focus on not exchanging facts or logic like u would with talking to men. To talk in a way that spikes a girls emotions....you have to be an aloof dumbass, but with control of your tone, tempo, and mannerisms. It's ok because it's fun for both of you. Talk absolute nonsense, make up your own words if you have to, and use lots of adjectives to paint pictures. Say for example u on a date at a fancy restaurant: "The escargot here is fantasterastic, I need more to enter my face hole.…	/r/seduction	11/03/24 01:00 AM
1	How to talk with women? Women only think you are as weird as you think you are. If you believe you are creepy or awkward, you will behave as such. Try a normal conversation like you would have with Grandma...u ain't going to be nervous or awkward around her. Once u get used to talking in the kind of relaxed state, start mixing in more emotionally stimulating banter.	/r/seduction	11/03/24 12:47 AM
1	Starting a conversation in public It's such a bad idea that 2 of my longer term girlfriends I met at the gym, nevermind several casual friends and platonic friends. I don't see things through the same lens as most people. I don't even see it as approaching, it's normal socializing, humans meeting humans. It is ok to meet a woman anywhere if she is open to it. It is also not ok anywhere if she is closed off to it. Read the room and ur good.	/r/seduction	11/03/24 12:40 AM
2	Starting a conversation in public I do encourage gym approaching in a natural way when it's obvious the girl isn't closed off. "Anywhere" includes the gym. It's perfectly normal to introduce yourself at the gym especially if it's someone that is regularly there just as you are...it's fine to ask for a spot or talk about fitness stuff and you can mix in banter as u go. Key is knowing when not to approach. My way of gym interacting is different than when I was younger. I don't even glance at the women, I make them invisible while …	/r/seduction	11/03/24 12:16 AM
201	How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym? Make dating the side quest. It should never be the main objective. This mindset gives u the wisdom to know how to strike balance, and as an added bonus makes you more attractive. Your primary mission should be to become the strongest man possible for your family and yourself. Do this and the side quests will open up to you all over the map.	/r/seduction	11/03/24 12:00 AM
4	Best ways to approach Social media dating? Specifically, dating apps is where I find it grueling. Don't. Why would you knowingly mix yourself in with thousands of competitors when you can stand out from the crowd by approaching in real life like old people? Social media is even more saturated with competition than the dating apps. Social media dating is the same as dating apps....an excuse not to walk up to a girl and introduce yourself, banter with her and ask her out, and the women know this...which is why they behave completely different to guys they met irl vs. online. Trust me, I'm an o…	/r/seduction	10/03/24 07:45 PM
2	Starting a conversation in public Starting conversations anywhere you are is normal. It's only weird if a girl makes it obvious she isn't interested and you push the convo anyway. That lack of social intelligence makes women feel very uncomfortable. If you can tell she is interested or neutral then go for it. Most girls will communicate non verbally if they don't want to talk before you even finish your approach. If she is working out with earbuds in, you know she's closed off and on task. If you look for eye contact and she rol…	/r/seduction	10/03/24 07:32 PM
1	What is the way to become extremely social, friendly? You need real world experience. Jump straight into a job and use it to become social, don't wait until you learn to go to work. Get a basic customer service job or any kind of job where you have no choice but to interact with many different types of people everyday, there is no shame in working as a waiter or cashier etc...your senior coworkers will give u guidance if they are any good. Since socializing with randoms in a job scenario is organic and natural without going out of your way, the pre…	/r/seduction	10/03/24 05:11 PM
5	Approach anxiety. Yes I know… You cannot eliminate approach anxiety because it's hardwired into all males. In the far past getting rejected could get you exiled from the tribe or even executed. Our DNA is still programmed to prevent these consequences, but this hardwiring no longer applies in modern times. While you can't get rid of the anxiety, you can disregard it. Same way you disregard laziness if it's time to work or go to the gym. Approach anyway. it's all awkward. steer into the skid. If the girl is interested she wil…	/r/seduction	10/03/24 12:15 AM
5	The Game of Pickup: Learn How To Not Get Rejected It's entirely possible to cut rejections by at least half. This is very important so that approaching makes you more confident instead of discouraged. The way to do this is to learn to read the room and the person before even approaching. The girl will usually make it obvious with her mannerisms, eye rolling and facial expressions if she does NOT want u to try something. They won't always give iois when they are interested. This way can simply not approach anyone that doesn't want you to.	/r/seduction	09/03/24 05:21 PM
2	I was always looking in the right places, but now I'm purposely searching to look in the wrong. It really doesn't have basis in science. Nothing about humans does besides our physical anatomy. I have no doubt the pickup gurus push this stuff but that's beside the point. All I know is what I experience for myself in the real world. Nothing happened for me until I started displaying opposing traits of the girl I'm talking to, then it was consistent successes. Not a coincidence. Abuse is not good but it's dark example of the polarity concept. My whole life ive seen and heard about good girls …	/r/seduction	09/03/24 01:09 PM
2	I was always looking in the right places, but now I'm purposely searching to look in the wrong. You can understand why girls are drawn to abuse if it's put into the right words. Women are drawn to abusive arrogant pricks because of polarity...the way magnets work. They are physically and mentally aroused by the direct opposite behavioral traits and concepts that men like about women. it's not logical and at the same time it is. Common poles repel, opposing poles attract. Polarity has a dark side because whether it's positive or negative opposition it's still polarizing. This is why a murde…	/r/seduction	09/03/24 04:33 AM
3	I was always looking in the right places, but now I'm purposely searching to look in the wrong. It's actually easier to find a one night stand at places that common sense would normally dictate u would look for a girlfriend, everything from church to the local dog walking park. At the bars and clubs the guard is up, and the girls on the apps always bring unwanted side effects with the sex. Most women want to skip all the back and forth b.s. and get straight to the fun part, it don't matter where u are, u can find them. If you take your pinky finger and move it around inside your ear, which…	/r/seduction	09/03/24 02:21 AM
38	What do older women think about when there attracted? Older single women's entire game is hooking up with younger men because many of these guys do not yet understand the realities of why most older women would be single in the first place so they are more likely to be carefree and have fun with them without the judgements. Some older ladies wouldn't rule out a potential relationship with a younger guy if compatible in that way...but most just got dick on the mind.	/r/seduction	09/03/24 01:07 AM
13	How do Guys get SECOND Date? To get a second date u need to physically escalate immediately during the first date to demonstrate u have no intention of being friends with her. It don't have to end with sex but it needs to come close enough to where she has a goal in mind for that second date.	/r/seduction	08/03/24 02:40 AM
1	So this happens most of the times. When I am talking to someone, I can come up with something creative or flirty reply when the conversation is over and when I recall the conversation. Screw practice, this can be addressed nearly instantly. Take anything the girl says and twist it into making it look like she was using sexual inndeuendus. I had a female friend recently ask me to do a side job for her to "trim her bush out front." I replied " oh my...you ain't talking about the juniper outside aren't you"🤣🤣🤣 It can be anything. I vividly remember getting a girls number when I worked at Taco Bell which actually turned into a sustained fling. She asks if she can have extra meat i…	/r/seduction	08/03/24 02:23 AM
1	So this happens most of the times. When I am talking to someone, I can come up with something creative or flirty reply when the conversation is over and when I recall the conversation. Because when the conversation ends the pressure comes off so witty material comes to your mind but it's too late. Recognize and hold onto the emotional state you feel post conversation when u revert to default and come up with something u should have said. If you can manage to stay in that state and keep your chi the same before, during, and after the convo, you will naturally be able to come up with good stuff with good timing	/r/seduction	08/03/24 01:58 AM
2	Act like a friend, get treated like a friend - and soon be forgotten Maximum mental effort should be put into all things...except into interactions with someone you like. I got out of the habit however of being childlike...now its more of talking complete nonsense for the actual words but keeping a tone as if I'm speaking logic..it creates a paradox that makes the words or jokes hit harder.	/r/seduction	08/03/24 01:39 AM
2	Act like a friend, get treated like a friend - and soon be forgotten If anything I caught a very recent clip that might be the most important. He was talking about how to be the loser that the girl sleeps with. So many dudes have it backwards. Many men think that feeling like a loser or lacking purpose disqualifies them when it's in fact the opposite in terms of casual hookups. The girl don't see a future but she still needs to get some so she won't make that guy wait while the baller that checks all the boxes ends up waiting while the loser is getting it.	/r/seduction	08/03/24 12:35 AM
2	Act like a friend, get treated like a friend - and soon be forgotten I don't listen to Zander that much but he might be the best in the business. His philosophy aligns with mine so he really don't give me anything new but still a great listen I would always recommend to any young or old man. He kinda says stuff we already knew in our instincts but can put it into words that most of us couldn't.	/r/seduction	07/03/24 11:56 PM
20	As someone who used to pull, I’ve become so desperate and not sure where to start? Address the desperation by picturing the hottest girls you see throwing the loudest, wettest, most percussive fart u ever heard. Picture that they shit themselves just a little bit. This will humanize them in your mind. Opening the conversation can be less daunting with the simple o.s.a. formula. Make an observation about her or your common surroundings or situation, share your opinion about it, and/or ask hers. This makes you both feel at easy and not weird because it's normal, acceptable socia…	/r/seduction	07/03/24 11:51 PM
9	What Is The Best Way To Learn Night Game In 2024? It may sound crazy but step into old school chivalry. Certain things go in and out of effectiveness as years pass. Basic pleasantries are currently very rare because most guys are convinced it's a turnoff when the fact is they were just delivering it wrong, most can't do it without thirsty behaviors. Women want rare and different. The old way of courting or seducing is suddenly viable because it's different. If you can show chivalry with indifference, you will see girls are physically aroused by…	/r/seduction	07/03/24 11:33 PM
10	Act like a friend, get treated like a friend - and soon be forgotten Very good advice. I preach to guys when in doubt, shut off your brain, everything you need to know comes automatically if u are polarizing. Polarity is the difference between friendly and sexual energy. Think about the behavioral traits that are attractive to you as a man...the woman will be aroused by the opposite. It makes no logical sense to us but perfect emotional sense to the girl. Whatever u like about the girl you talking to, display opposing traits, but u still have to be yourself, just…	/r/seduction	07/03/24 08:53 PM
9	creepy vs flirting? Understand how women define creepy. "Creepy" actually means lacking congruence. If you approach a girl or flirt with her or even have a normal conversation...if your internal guts aren't a match for your outer behaviors and words, this is what creeps girls out. They get freaked out like deer in headlights by anything that can be perceived as fake behavior. The problem with online interactions is there is no non verbal nuisances or communication, so really anything can be perceived as creepy if u…	/r/seduction	06/03/24 09:39 PM
2	How to revert a reputation for smelling bad? I've struggled with body odor the entirety of my life. I find the only lasting solution was to continuously do full body detox and eliminate the source (the toxins), just be sure to consult a doctor on the safest way to do it for yourself. After that just continue on like normal, if u don't smell ur reputation will address itself, it's a chance to demonstrate positive change	/r/seduction	06/03/24 08:36 PM
13	What should the goal be? Girlfriend or roaster? Regardless of your intent, you need to behave like you have other options even if you don't. You have to let whatever happens happen naturally, you need to let the girl be first to show desire for commitment because if you show your hand first you are denying her her fun, and your taking away the space she needs to chase you. I'm sick of chasing, so I stopped, I leave the emotional gaps open for the women to do the chasing. The goal should be to unlock the girls feminine energy by allowing her t…	/r/seduction	05/03/24 11:55 PM
1	Giving IOIs... Most non verbal displays of interest are passive. Women are naturally passive. Women are attracted to the polar opposite. Be non verbally direct. Initiate physical escalation. Mix passive non verbal cues with overt kino. Read her palms or find some socially acceptable context to touch hands, then shoulders and forearms, and as u gauge her comfort levels; elevate to back, legs, hair and face. You establishing physical touch says you are sexually interested, and the girl letting you escalate and r…	/r/seduction	05/03/24 08:58 PM
6	Looking for your inputs Bad boys don't care about outcomes. You don't have to be an asshole...just adopt similar traits to an asshole such as outcome independence and lack of hesitation. Who gives a fuck if some girl thinks you are boring?, someone else will find you charming.	/r/seduction	05/03/24 05:18 PM
3	Girl's Dont Want Dad Bods If the guy with the dad bod can stimulate the girls emotions and drive her nuts; and Chad can't because he leans too much on his appearance....take a wild guess who she is more aroused by....	/r/seduction	05/03/24 05:06 PM
1	How to approach a girl I don’t know Just behave and talk to her like you already know her, but make sure you somehow verbally acknowledge that you don't. it's really that simple. You wouldn't hesitate to walk up to your grandma or auntie and ask how she's doing and have a conversation, you would be comfortable, it should be the same thing with a stranger, just say to the girl at some point that you don't know her but you want to.	/r/seduction	05/03/24 12:36 PM
1	Sex By doing so with irrational confidence and aloofness.	/r/seduction	05/03/24 03:31 AM
6	How exactly can you maneuver dating in the workplace? Very discreetly.	/r/seduction	05/03/24 02:53 AM
27	How to not be so easy? You initiate the natural stuff, like setting up the date and physically escalating. You do not initiate artificial stuff such as texting, don't be first to text and don't always respond immediately. Leave room for the girl to chase you. Do this by making sure she is never 100% certain how interested you are in her. You can give a genuine compliment then immediately take back that validation with a tease for example...the uncertainty is really a girl's idea of fun.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 12:01 PM
7	Easiest way to start? Just see reality for what it is and don't lie to yourself. Remind yourself that women WANT to be approached. They want to be flirted with, they want men to be sexual with them. They want it happening in real life more than ever before. It's how most of us were born, approaching is as normal as eating drinking and shitting. Approaching is now a superpower, too many guys stopped doing it, and most guys that do approach make the girl feel weird because of incongruence (the guy goes in feeling weird…	/r/seduction	04/03/24 01:55 AM
4	Fashion advice? The most important thing is congruence so the best fashion is a person to person basis. If I dress up all fancy, I'm actually getting less looks and good vibes from women because I am blue collar to the very core. Tee shirt and jeans is best for me. Dress according to your internal core and your behavioral traits. If you don't behave how you dress, you throw the energy off.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 08:41 PM
12	Dating apps Dating apps are an excuse...to not walk up to somebody that you might like and flirt with them and ask them out. Save yourself the time, money, and strife; a woman can only appreciate who you are over what you have to offer if your dynamic is organic from the start.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 07:26 PM
3	Practical tips to reduce approach anxiety Approach anxiety can be reduced but it must be accepted that it cannot be eliminated. It is hardwired into males because rejection could have got a man executed or exiled from the tribe in the past. The past no longer applies so we need to just steer into the skid like driving on ice and have fun with it.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 05:37 PM
2	Was talking to a chick online then she ghosted when I told her my height, how do y’all deal with being ghosted especially when you’re having a very bad month? There is nothing unethical about dating multiple women until serious commitment or marriage as long as u ain't hurtful or overtly rub it in peoples faces, it used to be called being a bachelor.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 03:41 AM
2	Was talking to a chick online then she ghosted when I told her my height, how do y’all deal with being ghosted especially when you’re having a very bad month? If things work out with the first girl keep going on other dates until the day you are committed. Any one girl that considers you attractive and/or likes your personality expects other women to be actively pursuing you... Once the girl senses she's the only option is usually when she goes cold.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 03:15 AM
2	Was talking to a chick online then she ghosted when I told her my height, how do y’all deal with being ghosted especially when you’re having a very bad month? Try to get a couple more dates set up, that way you don't lose mojo if stuff don't go your way	/r/seduction	03/03/24 02:44 AM
95	How do you approach women in clubs? Club approaching is different than most other situations. Single women are there for dick. Many taken women are there for the same. You don't need to use your words, they are muffled anyway without u screaming. All you have to do is arouse and seduce which can be done 100% non verbally. You can have entire conversations with just your eyes and body language. Scan for eye contact, see if anyone was also looking for your eyes; if some girl gives you that 1000 mile gaze with a smile u best walk ove…	/r/seduction	03/03/24 02:41 AM
3	Was talking to a chick online then she ghosted when I told her my height, how do y’all deal with being ghosted especially when you’re having a very bad month? I got ghosted or stood up by 4 women during February and I haven't fumbled like that in years. And Not much else went well. I got over it by using prior leads to generate more options for myself, not just for women but for money. Screw healing, I'm using my pain as fuel. Time to heal or deal is time that you are thinking and not doing.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 02:31 AM
6	Is this a red flag? Bumble is the red flag. Everything else should have been expected. If you meet above average women in real life...you wont ever be back on bumble. Quality women behave differently to men they met organically vs. men they met on apps. You will also notice the dimes are EASIER to approach and more humble than the entitled land whales with zits. With this particular girl, be assertive but not prickish...tell her it seems like she don't want to know about you...and her response will tell u what you …	/r/seduction	03/03/24 02:24 AM
17	Love-Bombing women to accelerate emotional intimacy No, I did the opposite, still bad. I used to intentionally create an abandonment complex by not showing any desire to spend time with or even get to know the girl outside the bedroom. The fucked up thing is each time I did this the girl was fully aware of it and still kept coming back. I would say stuff like "you ain't girlfriend material, this is why sex is all we have"...and they still kept coming back. In these scenarios It kept going until I had to break it off due to guilt. I'm glad I don't…	/r/seduction	02/03/24 03:57 PM
2	What was your first cold approach like? How did you feel? This was 20 years ago. I was 18, took my first car to best buy to get my first cell phone. This is more of a warm approach because I had to talk to the person regardless. The cashier was really flirty and she drew a heart and smile with her name on the receipt. I took that as a choosing signal and asked her if she wasn't seeing someone if she wanted to go out. She looked completely freaked out like a deer in headlights and said she had a boyfriend, closed the register and bailed. For context I w…	/r/seduction	02/03/24 12:38 PM
1	Where are you all finding dates? I'm fuzzy on that it all happened quick. I know she said she has no choice but to make it up to me and asked me to hang out at a local spot and I said she drove a hard bargain but sure and we exchanged numbers and didn't really text until right before we met up. I actually fucked that up. I should have taken the lead and set up the date and picked the spot. That relationship was doomed from the start with the precedent that I wasn't in the lead.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 02:58 AM
4	Where are you all finding dates? Anywhere. My most recent girlfriend I met at a chipotle parking lot when she almost ran me over backing out of her spot. I told her " if that is your way of hitting on me then your flirting might need work." and I guess she found that funny. It's got to happen naturally, hence can happen anywhere anytime.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 02:14 AM
19	How can associating your self worth with being able to date and have a girlfriend affect you? It can destroy you. You need to understand your worth as a man has nothing to do with your dating ability. It's the girls job and pleasure to pursue the man, the man's job is to hunt and gather. When you think about it like that, you become free from a burden that you never had in the first place, pursuing ain't even your role as a human hence your ability to date and have a girlfriend means nothing to your measure as a man. The opposite holds true. Being great with women and having a lot of sex…	/r/seduction	01/03/24 09:23 PM
3	Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching? If by "unique" you mean "bat shit crazy" u are not wrong, chicks like what they like	/r/seduction	01/03/24 09:11 PM
2	Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching? You just need to stimulate emotion, there is countless ways to do that. Just don't exchange facts or be logical. Be different. Matter of fact..talk complete nonsense, but with masculine tone, tempo, and poise. You will notice the less you make sense, the more she smiles and/or laughs. Don't worry about giving class clown energy as long as u don't get hyper or giddy like a clown. Don't use common words, use uncommon words with common meaning. Matter of fact use made up words. For example "You loo…	/r/seduction	01/03/24 06:20 PM
1	Something I've realized from my short experience with women. Women go back to their abusers because they define safety and security differently than we do. In her mind, the guy that abuses her has a higher capability of violence and a safer bet for her and her future offspring. If he is violent towards her, in her mind he's likely to be violent to threats against her. This is the basis of Stockholm syndrome in females. The more unsafe the guy actually is...the more safe the girl feels around him. I, in no way shape or form condone abusing women...but prim…	/r/seduction	01/03/24 12:06 PM
36	Do you lose 'social value' if you are seen by yourself? Being seen by yourself can actually elevate your value if you carry yourself right. Women are very attracted to lone wolves but won't admit it. People in general are drawn to those who can go out and socialize solo, because you are seen as neutral and not part of any one clique....which makes u free to befriend any type of person. If you've ever seen one punch man u know what I'm talking about. You get bonus points for having the balls to go out alone if you can mingle and work a room without le…	/r/seduction	29/02/24 09:42 PM
1	What are good small talk topics to discuss... It is not possible to create polarity without getting to know the person in real life. Do not use the internet for small talk, either they want to meet up or they don't. Keep in mind women don't actually need the internet to find a guy or for anything else. Even on the date...you don't want to do alot of talking...focus on non verbal masculine behavior and either take her home or don't, you do not want anything serious with a woman that puts herself online despite no need to do so, they really j…	/r/seduction	28/02/24 12:30 PM
4	"Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what? 🤣🤣🔥🔥	/r/seduction	28/02/24 12:13 PM
21	"Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what? This is pretty common. Consciously the girl is probably trying to get material to do her part on upholding a conversation. Subconsciously, everything is always a test regardless. The answer is simple: I. Am. Him.	/r/seduction	28/02/24 12:12 PM
5	help me reveal girls wild side It's simple. If you like shy and introverted, you need to be the polar opposite. I'm an introvert and the sexual spark is much more intense and fun with extroverted women. Same concept applies. I lack experience with shy girls because the polarity ain't there, but I have experience with polarity itself and general social dynamic. You are more likely to seduce the introverted type with a direct approach than a girl that ain't shy. By direct I mean still stay in the frame that you are the prize (b…	/r/seduction	27/02/24 07:15 PM
1	Sticking Point You seem like someone I can tutor, direct message if you want, I don't like giving away what actually works for too many to see because I'm controversial	/r/seduction	27/02/24 03:15 AM
8	Sticking Point Be careful of research. Guys that are naturals never knew anything about openers, routines and closing, which is the whole point. Too much information can fuck you up. Whenever you have to consciously think about what to do and say, you aren't completely present in the moment. Just let go. Shut your brain off so you stay present and your words and behaviors will be genuine and you will know what to do or say based on the situation and not on your recalling info about game. Listen intently to the…	/r/seduction	26/02/24 10:02 PM
5	Am I coming off as desperate if I invite girls back to my dorm after hanging out with them once? It only comes off as desperate if you display thirsty behavior. Create the atmosphere that the girl is the thirsty one and you have restraint. Get used to having fun with it to keep the vibe fun and sexual. If you know the girl is already interested, instead of inviting them over; accuse them of wanting to come over and tell them to check their dirty thoughts until you get there because you are a gentleman.	/r/seduction	26/02/24 02:15 PM
3	What does this mean if girl asks you? If a girl asks you this, you can either acknowledge and exaggerate, acknowledge and deflect with irrelevance, or answer with your own question. Make sure these replys come with a crooked smile to signal to her and yourself you can't be moved off kilter by this test. "Yes...but it only got somewhere with a couple hundred of them" "Yeah but root beer floats are damn delicious!" "Do YOU approach random girls on the street?"	/r/seduction	25/02/24 03:37 PM
14	‏I’ve got confidence but no social skills/game, it is worrying.. All you need to do is slow everything down enough to be completely present in your interactions so you can respond instead of react. If you listen intently you won't have to take yourself out the present to think or strategize, you can respond naturally based on what you're told and get a good flow state going.	/r/seduction	24/02/24 04:12 PM
42	What books/courses of Seduction do you recommend? I've read many books by puas and papers by psychologists. My recommendation is DONT. The more info you have, the more you think and recall, and the less present you are in your interactions. Too much information will dampen your vibe and your flow. You can get further with a woman with normal conversation than anything else. Nothing in the publications is black and white, it's all grey areas. Look at most long term and married couples...more often than not.the man will tell you he did absolutely…	/r/seduction	24/02/24 09:54 AM
8	How Becoming More Attractive Helps Your Game Guys don't understand and I actually blame the internet, young men are brainwashed into thinking looks is the only thing that matters because women who live online who only judge by looks get all the publicity so the men think that their reality is actual reality.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 08:32 PM
22	How Becoming More Attractive Helps Your Game Congruence between the external and internal is extremely important, women have superhuman capabilities of detecting the lack of it. It's is actually BETTER to look like shit and feel like shit than to look like shit and feel good, because at least that is congruent, albeit in the negative way. The opposite holds true. If you maximize your looks but you don't behave and feel how you look, the lack of congruence creates a "try hard" energy. Always keep your behaviors and outer appearance in sync …	/r/seduction	20/02/24 08:27 PM
7	My dick game is top notch but my verbal game is lacking. Any recommendations? If there is one thing I learned...it is if I can arouse a woman without a lot of words...it's best to shut the fuck up. If you got sex skills it shows in your behaviors and women sense that about you before even experiencing it. Keep doing what you are doing and use the power of silence and let her yap about herself. You already made it to the top, don't start trying to talk too much and move down the escalation ladder.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 08:18 PM
1	How to friend-zone women you are trying to seduce? From my experience the girls I like the most are the same ones I need to "friendzone" at the beginning. For someone with ltr potential, it's even more essential to give time and have patience. During the first couple times spending time with each other, I got this thing where if the girl gets a little bit "lubby dubby" with physical touch such as going for hand holds; I gently grab her wrist and tell her "behave yourself hasty one". This more often than not gets a playful rebuttal that starts a …	/r/seduction	20/02/24 07:44 PM
2	Step-up your game folks! I don't manipulate. I just give women what they want...which is cluelessness to my actual interest level and indifference to their beauty. I give them female competition. I give them polarity (opposing behavioral traits as to those that are pleasing to me). I do good deeds, not manipulation.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 06:44 PM
2	Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approach You got nothing to be frustrated about. You are the one opening the set, these other dudes are making themselves look like idiots who got no game because they have to advance on another guys target he is already engaging with. I suggest don't even involve male friends at the clubs and bars if your looking for a woman. It's much easier to fuck up somebody that you don't know if you must.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 06:40 PM
0	I approached a girl for the first time (in almost 4 years) Your good, just self diagnose every interaction u feel didn't do right and calibrate. Just try to recall if u displayed any enemies of your masculine spirit, ask yourself the questions. Did you do or say anything that could have been perceived as cowardly, incompetent, frugal or lustful? Did you get thrown emotionally off center at any point? Did you remain indifferent to her beauty? Always consider the possibility you may have done nothing wrong. For similar situations such as in your post, I p…	/r/seduction	19/02/24 09:00 PM
48	How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone with The is only one way out of the friendzone and it is exceedingly difficult. You make such drastic and fast positive change to yourself that you are perceived as an entirely new person with a whole new energy. I do not recommend this. I recommend finding someone that is attracted to you as is. Only transform yourself for yourself if that is what you want.	/r/seduction	19/02/24 04:41 PM
6	What is your guys' favorite cologne? There is no way to answer this because cologne works in conjunction with a man's natural scent. For me, Old spice krakengard got the best feedback from women despite being a cheap body spray. For a fancier cologne for formal/semi formal events I like Nautica	/r/seduction	19/02/24 03:11 PM
6	What do you talk about when you have very little in common. Or don't have similar interests. Too much to put into words, it's thousands of nuisances and recognizing grey areas, nothing is black and white about it. Watch some old movies, I'm talking from the 50s and 60s. There was no Internet so alot of the acting was much closer to the natural human state and not how most people behave today. For entry level, start with the first 3 Bond films. They are a good watch, but pay attention to 007. His posture, facial expressions, how he makes eye contact and when he does and doesn't gaze, his…	/r/seduction	17/02/24 09:04 PM
3	What do you talk about when you have very little in common. Or don't have similar interests. I arouse them from the start every time. It's initial non verbal connection, my words is probably 5% of my game, the rest is micro nuances and behaviors. It's the second silent conversation that can happen anywhere even with many people around, it's what seperates fuckbois from actual bachelors. I have noticed that opposing traits and interests generates better spark with the really hot girls. The average and sub par damaged goods have too delusional of standards to even have fun with someone th…	/r/seduction	17/02/24 08:45 PM
2	Sat next to a cute girl on a bus today but couldn't open my mouth. How do i stop doing this? Manipulate your own psychology. Tell yourself the facts: Talking to a girl you happen to be near is not weird. NOT acknowledging the girl is weird to her. The girl only feels as weird and uncomfortable as you do. Even the most basic pleasantries can establish comfort. I find "hello" to be an excellent ice breaker. If you are afraid of being weird, then don't be weird. Open your mouth and slow everything down. That fear you get that u feel in your gut is hardwired into you as a human because when…	/r/seduction	17/02/24 08:37 PM
11	What do you talk about when you have very little in common. Or don't have similar interests. I accepted that having nothing in common is a good thing for sexual tension (not always romance). It opens up countless opportunities for fun banter and teasing when there are opposing and different interests and you can focus on arousing her more than exchanging information. I openly disagree and voice what I don't like and the girls face usually lights up like she's accepting the challenge.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 08:28 PM
2	Is cold approach an edge these days since most guys gone online and women so desperate of not being approached? Cold approach is rampant. It is not competitive. More guys are approaching but actually made it easier to stand out because 90% of these guys are approaching with thirsty energy and don't even know how to have a conversation. In comparison, approaching in a charming and confident way with respect is so rare that it's almost seen as a superpower.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 12:07 PM
1	Is it possible to get your personality back..? Sometimes I wish I lived in whatever universe you are in	/r/seduction	17/02/24 12:03 PM
26	Can't stop thinking about this girl. Please help understand why she ghosted me so I can improve my game! I stopped at "Cant stop thinking about this girl". If you want to know why you were ghosted that is exactly the answer.	/r/seduction	17/02/24 04:55 AM
14	Have I shifted the power with my fwb? Yes but it's not easy. You escape the friendzone. You implement such a drastic and sudden positive change to yourself that you are perceived as an entirely different person. When I was about 19 I bought a pickup truck, a cowboy hat, and learned guitar all within days., completely changed my style and my energy. Girls that never gave me the light of day in high school started hitting me up. The truth is you shouldn't want to give time to someone who put you in the simp category, whether or not yo…	/r/seduction	16/02/24 04:28 PM
3	Is it possible to get your personality back..? You were so quick to talk shit you must've missed the key words: MAJORITY/MOST. The entire game is finding the rare girl that thinks, feels, and lives on her own terms so that you know she chose you purely based on her individual will and is likely more capable of loyalty.	/r/seduction	16/02/24 04:22 PM
69	Have I shifted the power with my fwb? You have to behave based on how the girl categorizes you. If the girl strictly sees you as a sex partner, then the more attention you withhold the more she gives because she knows the game and is simply playing along. If the girl has feelings for you and sees you as boyfriend material....she can take serious offense to you suddenly or drastically pulling back because she don't want games being played. That's when they go sleep with someone they hold in the FWB category who played games from the …	/r/seduction	16/02/24 09:00 AM
2	Is it possible to get your personality back..? Your skills may not have even deteriorated. The dating game is just less and less in favor of men on a year to year basis, so it's easy to think you lost your personality. Most women are on a hive mind and want the same type of guy ...but that type changes with the seasons. One year it can be white collar pretty boys, and the next is blue collar bearded idiots. Right now the loudmouthed and mentally bold, strong, athletic type is in because every girl aged 18 to 38 fantasizes about Travis kelcie…	/r/seduction	16/02/24 08:42 AM
4	When to have the talk about how do I and the girl see us? If you consistently spend time with the girl, you are already in a non exclusive relationship even if it isn't labeled. Never be the one to bring up this topic, don't even think about it. You need to leave room for the girl to keep chasing you. If you initiate this conversation, you already lost. Eventually she will ask how you see each other. The only answer is you tell her you enjoy her company but also make it clear you enjoy the way things have been going as is, and you want time and patienc…	/r/seduction	15/02/24 11:36 PM
3	Why is game so difficult? Game is not difficult...in fact it is a single word: indifference. Think of it like that. Everything about the game, all of the thousands of verbal and non verbal nuisances and social skills and psychological implications involved are rooted in indifference. (neutrality). Detachment from outcomes and beauty. Knowing that lets you consolidate all the information floating around in your head so u can better internalize it.	/r/seduction	15/02/24 11:27 PM
9	How to go out alone without feeling awkward or judged? Going out alone after a few times trying it is actually less awkward because you're actually feeling less judged. You ain't with your friends or people whose opinions actually matter to you so it's liberating. If you feel like the weirdo with no friends, keep in mind everyone is weird in their own way. Either way this is the best way to expand your network and get new people in your life.	/r/seduction	14/02/24 05:45 PM
2	is hitting on women in an unapologetic way enough for getting moderated sucess? Being direct and bold is good when properly utilized If you are just looking for quick sex, directly hit on her on sight. If you are looking for an intimate friend or possible girlfriend, you want the conversation to be natural and normal so u can get a read on each other and make a valid decision as whether to hit on her and ask her out if she seems into you towards the end of the interaction	/r/seduction	14/02/24 12:44 PM
1	My dream girl is spending all her time with me but tells me she isn't attracted. Im going to give you some wisdom so you can prevent this in the future. When a girl says she "isn't feeling it" or "there was no spark" and she can't even explain why: your dynamic lacked polarity. Polarity is the "spark". You say she's your dream girl which means she had behavioral traits that were very pleasing to you. I bet a buffalo nickel you behaved towards her in similar ways thinking it would be pleasing to her. Polarity is a magnetizing dance of opposites...opposing traits. If the girl …	/r/seduction	13/02/24 08:00 PM
-1	Why are so many people afraid to make a move? That means to arouse either sexually or personality-wise or both. It usually happens by just having normal interactions in a masculine manner, women can't help but be flattered by a man who refrains from urgency and slows everything down because that manly behavior became so rare and it is the natural aphrodisiac	/r/seduction	13/02/24 12:22 AM
2	How to begin being friends with benefits with someone? It's not really something that should happen artificially, just go with the flow. The girl will naturally take the path you lead her down if she is attracted to you enough to sleep with you. Just vibe and escalate until sex happens. Let the "intent conversation" happen without words, u show u ain't looking for serious by being the opposite of serious...be fun. After that the key is to actually be friends and have activities besides sex but keep it a man to woman dynamic. If u ain't friends it's …	/r/seduction	12/02/24 08:56 PM
6	Why are so many people afraid to make a move? People are afraid to make a move because they see engaging with a woman and vibing as a chore...a puzzle to solve, a hurdle to jump. It should be FUN and comfortable for both people. This is what the majority of guys are missing out on. They just need to learn to make it fun for themself and the girl. The fun comes with polarity. Once a man understands this concept it is possible for him to charm most women at will regardless if they are actually interested or not. Liking someone is voluntary, b…	/r/seduction	12/02/24 08:33 PM
11	I want to hookup with my neighbour Just forget about lust and be good friends in this scenario. This dosnt mean you have to be in the "friendzone" or friend role, you just can't show urgency but at the same time connect with her in a masculine/feminine manner. Be patient, go for a walk with her, actually get to know her, make it clear u ain't looking for serious but stay present in her life. Worst case u only end up being friends but she gives you value because other women will see u with her or she can help find u girls	/r/seduction	12/02/24 03:54 PM
2	Women never show iois to me You want to look for eye contact. Either she will give you the resting bitch face, roll her eyes, or lock eyes with you. If eye contact is established, her eyes and facial expression will tell you exactly what to do. Generally if she has a happy relaxed look she is open to an approach, sometimes this will start other iois. Sometimes you'll even get bedroom eyes ..this is where u got to move immediately but smoothly.	/r/seduction	12/02/24 03:11 PM
1	Stop overthinking Our dynamic started a little "too strong" and she seemed genuinely comfortable with me so my logic was to set a tone for patience so we can keep time together valuable and she has room to chase I was leaving gaps but we were hanging out in bits and pieces in the starting stages, and she agreed to the patience thing but sometimes she would start getting lubby dubby, she would go to hold my hand and id do the logical thing and gently take her wrist and tell her "behave yourself"...and every time i…	/r/seduction	12/02/24 01:38 AM
2	Stop overthinking Yes I would. I have emotions. I even show them. I do not operate or make decisions based on them. My girl is 10 times smarter and more logical than I am with the degrees to prove it. We have polarity because of how we operate with each other. We both have emotions and logic, but how she treats me is guided by emotion and how I treat her is guided by logic. Logic dictates show opposite traits because it's fun for her.	/r/seduction	12/02/24 12:46 AM
4	Stop overthinking Getting out of the house is the first and for some the hardest step. Then there has to be a certain degree of thinking. Not overthinking does not mean don't think at all. Matter of fact, think critically. Overthinking is the enemy of critical thinking. Critical thinking dictates women are emotional and men are logical, and the spark between men and women is from polarity. Logic is the opposite of emotion. Whatever traits a woman displays that are pleasing to you....show opposing traits. You're w…	/r/seduction	11/02/24 09:16 PM
3	Places to meet girls that are actually open to talking Anywhere. A girl will decide in seconds if she is open to talking to you no matter the setting. I met my girl at chic fil a almost completely non verbally, we got lost in each other's eyes and stayed there	/r/seduction	11/02/24 08:36 PM
4	8 years of relationship and My Gf Cheated on me. 23M Focus on your internal guts so you can stay more detached and have enough options to be able to pick a girl that respects you and is capable of long term loyalty...only way to find someone like that is to date dozens of women if not hundreds	/r/seduction	11/02/24 08:32 PM
73	Everyone thinks I am attractive but I can't get a relantionship. Women see attraction through a completely different lens and they don't want us to know that. 1000% of the time she will choose the most masculine man over the best looking man, and they go to such great lengths to hide the fact that society labeled masculinity as "toxic". In the eyes of women attraction is based on the man's ability to disregard her beauty and his own emotions. They want a man that shows indifference and patience. If you can look at a woman without lust and talk to her like nor…	/r/seduction	11/02/24 08:17 PM
1	Do I tease too much? Texting is for setting and confirming dates only, you do not want any more conversation that has zero in person sub communication than is needed	/r/seduction	11/02/24 01:51 AM
10	Is 24 too late to change? I didn't figure it out until mid 30s that there actually isn't a lot to figure out. All you need to do is be polarizing. Do not treat the girl the way you want to be treated, treat her how she wants to be treated. They will never say they want to be treated in the opposing ways that please you. I really like my girl. She's kind, sweet and modest....I am an indifferent aloof ass, the polar opposite. If I was to always be kind sweet and humble in return that would be no fun for her because I'm tak…	/r/seduction	11/02/24 01:48 AM
2	too late? You text her a question mark. That's it She will either respond with an exclamation point or nothing at all.	/r/seduction	11/02/24 01:34 AM
3	People who understand confidence sometimes I want to speak louder and with full confidence I feel some resistance You raise your volume without raising your energy, stay centered. Think about it...hearing a grown man suddenly shift his tone for stuff that is not a big deal just to make sure hes heard...that feels weird right? Keep a soft and clear tone just increase the volume enough to reach the ears of the audience. In fact, consciously lower your tone and slow your speech as you raise the volume, tap into the bass end of the sound spectrum by talking from your diaphragm.	/r/seduction	11/02/24 01:31 AM
1	Restaurant date If you establish a good non verbal connection you will be able to have sub conversations without words, u will feel out how that person wants to be treated. Make relaxed eye contact with the back of her eyes until you see her soul and she melts, make friendzone a non option. Don't worry about running out of things to say, the most intimate connections are when u don't need words, let the silences work for you, reestablish deep relaxed eye contact and she will usually re break the verbal ice if u…	/r/seduction	10/02/24 06:52 PM
65	Dancing with girls at club Do the exact same thing without the fear and awkwardness. You CAN do nothing ...you are giving them the gap to close, but you have to be a masculine presence, they just don't want to close the gap with someone that feels awkward and afraid. Instead of being afraid of grabbing them and grinding with them, just keep moving around stoically with slight disdain as if you are "nexting" each girl, and they will have no choice but to put in real work to convince you to dance	/r/seduction	10/02/24 02:40 PM
29	When you talk about sex over text with a girl This is easy to solve. These kinds of things are best dealt with in person because without the non verbal aspect there can't be polarity/synchronization. injecting the artificial element into the vibe where intimate stuff is being talked about but neither person can read each other can kill desire	/r/seduction	10/02/24 04:52 AM
9	Do you guys ever give women another shot? She can come back for sex but the door for a relationship is only unlocked once per person.	/r/seduction	10/02/24 12:48 AM
2	How do I compete (and win) taller and better-looking guys without getting hopeless? By focusing on what women consider high value. The superficial stuff is what MENs minds consider high value. A strong internal core that can't be swayed in the face of beauty or duress is what women consider high value. The woman will choose the guy she feels safest with and the most charmed by 1000% of the time regardless of all other variables.	/r/seduction	09/02/24 08:14 PM
8	How do I get better at reading dating intentions? Intention is unique to each individual. You have to let whatever happens happen naturally, some people intended a one night stand and ended up growing old together, others dated for marriage and end up having a dirty fling. It's best to have the intent conversation non verbally as you go. If asked what you are looking for don't lie, but also say you are open to things taking their natural course.	/r/seduction	09/02/24 02:13 AM
4	Saw this line somewhere, thought id share it. Girl: I have a boyfriend. Me: I have a math test. Girl: huh?? Me. We both have something we can cheat on	/r/seduction	08/02/24 11:09 PM
5	Why optimizing your looks won't get you more women It took me until my mid 30s to figure out that lust is the enemy of the masculine essence when I always thought it was the opposite. I didn't have the game wrong, I had it backwards. Make that one change, don't care about pussy, care about people, and you will be swimming in so much sex you actually won't have to care about finding it.	/r/seduction	08/02/24 06:42 PM
17	Why optimizing your looks won't get you more women It's motive. I will never protest self improvement because it's the most important thing through the lens of US MEN, but not women. If your convictions behind self improvement are to please women and get laid you already lost, all that does is surround you in that "try hard" aura. If you are improving to give yourself and your family a better life, you will flourish in all aspects of life. Seduction is separated because it's a whole different process. We self improve to build what is valuable to…	/r/seduction	08/02/24 05:50 PM
10	Why optimizing your looks won't get you more women You really got to adopt the attitude of "who the fuck cares about getting laid, I got better things to do". If you eliminate lust from your spirit and be less urgent and more patient, women will lust for you, that's how polarity works, plus your social skills will dial in automatically. Don't even worry about your words, say what you want. What matters is your behavior, women communicate 90% non verbal. With my main chick I'm on the verge of commiting to, there was no chaser or chasee, we first …	/r/seduction	08/02/24 05:34 PM
14	Why optimizing your looks won't get you more women In my case, women never gravitated to me naturally until I lost my dad and one of my best friends in quick succession. After a worst case scenario actually happens, nothing else is a big deal, including getting to know a beautiful woman, so Ive been broken but also am naturally more non chalant and indifferent, automatically disregarding my own emotional spikes and the girls beauty. Men have to suffer trails and tribulations to strengthen their spirit. I don't wish anybody have to learn how I di…	/r/seduction	08/02/24 05:15 PM
28	Why optimizing your looks won't get you more women Good post. Looks do matter but not in the same way to women that they do to us. The outside appearance can display "try hard" energy if it's not a reflection of the internal guts of the man. Once I separated self improvement from seduction unreal things happened. I focused on centering my inner core and being charming and indifferent in the face of beauty, and it's literally the hottest girls showing interest, the same kind that used to swat me away like an insect. If you can simply arouse the w…	/r/seduction	08/02/24 04:27 PM
2	How approch this girl You don't need guides, just shut your brain off, make eye contact with the alpha female and tell them they look like they're having fun and ask what kind of trouble they getting into, and bounce off the responses with quips and inndeuendu, if u make them laugh, you won.	/r/seduction	08/02/24 01:18 PM
1	How approch this girl You can do the easy thing and charm the entire group if she is always with her friends and keep an open mind because one of the other girls may click with you more naturally or any and/or all of them can give u value and get you leads.	/r/seduction	08/02/24 04:36 AM
1	Not on Social Media Actual grown women are turned on by the "lone wolf" thing. Anyone that judges you for lack of followers was intending to leverage your following to begin with. Ditching internet based thinking is the way to filter out people that don't value the actual person you are.	/r/seduction	07/02/24 02:06 AM
4	Not on Social Media I have never once heard a complaint about me not having an IG. Girls really value actual natural socializing over the artificial stuff...they cant get off the screens because no guys come at them with social intelligence anymore. If girls you have dealt with think you are weird because u ain't on socials, it's because YOU feel weird about it and they sense that weakness to disqualify you because it shows in your behaviors. My current main chick is a second year grad student that looks like Court…	/r/seduction	07/02/24 01:13 AM
5	Look Like Your Game This is a great post. I had to solve an issue where I noticed the better I dressed...the LESS positive vibes I got from women. Most good interactions I've had involved me being in work gear, not exactly looking my best. I realized it's because in the work gear I'm in my default masculine blue collar spirit, which is who I am...so naturally dressing to impress probably gave off "try hard" energy without realizing it, so I had to dress well more and more off the jobs until it rewired the default t…	/r/seduction	06/02/24 10:49 PM
8	Not on Social Media Not having social media is an advantage. You can focus on what actually works, which is charming a woman with in person polarity and indifference. The same cute girl that wouldn't give u the light of day on a dating app or IG would probably go out with you if you can make her feel comfortable and flattered in real life, the thousands of followers they have do not have the power of non verbal arousal on initial contact because they ain't actually present.	/r/seduction	06/02/24 10:38 PM
13	Stop Texting Women All I see is more rules for a subjectively attractive guy, a dude that the girl personally finds attractive so she tests constantly to confirm her suspicions Objectively attractive men who the majority of women desire don't even need to worry if they send one too many texts or say the wrong thing, they wont even be tested	/r/seduction	06/02/24 04:16 PM
3	how do you not let rejections affect you? You simply cannot give a fuck, you can't care. I do not mean don't give a fuck about women as humans, you just can't give a fuck about the outcomes of interactions with them. The key word is indifference. The more indifferent you are to the girls beauty and the things about her that please you, the more comfortable and interested in you she becomes, and the less relevant unwanted outcomes become.	/r/seduction	06/02/24 02:39 PM
1	Need tips: Getting a shy woman to open up Sometimes shy people are that way because they simply didn't learn to process certain non verbal communication, it ain't just autism patients, most humans in the west are socially effed up in some manner. If you can sense your non verbal cues not having the same effect it would with most women, be more verbal and direct, that is sexy to all types of women anyway.	/r/seduction	06/02/24 07:54 AM
2	Dumb question : How not to waste too much money dating ? There are many instances where I did take girls on dates within days of meeting them...because they have already pleased me by showing good effort and communication. I'm just saying don't do anything for the girl until she knows she earned it, it's called mutual respect	/r/seduction	05/02/24 11:58 PM
3	I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone. You shouldn't be insecure at all because emotions are fake. They are real concepts but a creation of our own minds. That is hard to grasp but they are things that don't physically exist that influence our behaviors and actions. Out of all people, Goku actually got it right. When you disregard emotion under duress, your instincts do the work for you.	/r/seduction	05/02/24 01:15 AM
1	Flirting advices: I struggle to create sexual tension with women It's best to use in semi-serious connotation with a crooked smile. For example if the girl expects you to spend money too soon you can say "No, I will not be swayed by your feminine wiles, sicko!🤣🤣" This is passing her tests and keeping it fun simultaneously. My favorite is when she inevitably says..."you can come to me with your problems". THIS IS A TRAP. In a more stern but lax manner I say. "No. I want to have fun getting to know you, let's keep it to that."	/r/seduction	05/02/24 01:09 AM
2	I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone. Don't care at all. The second you do you will fuck up how your talking to her. If you care about what she thinks it's impossible to be completely genuine	/r/seduction	04/02/24 09:16 PM
-3	Dumb question : How not to waste too much money dating ? Find leads, make female acquaintances in the course of your routines and activities and let things happen naturally. Have normal conversations but be charming with your body language and tone. This way you can warm approach someone u already familiar with. You can go on a "hangout" without it being a date where anything more than petty cash is spent by either of you. Once u get used to it u can pull off making one of the first hangouts at your place or hers.	/r/seduction	04/02/24 05:19 PM
26	Dumb question : How not to waste too much money dating ? Do not date until the girl has given genuine effort to please you. Giving a woman anything before she knows she earned it will send her straight to a guy that don't do shit for her. No money being spent until sex is had and connection is formed outside the bedroom is the only way to build a non transactional foundation with a woman	/r/seduction	04/02/24 03:55 PM
-4	My best daytime opener (try this!) Did you read the second half of my reply? You just quick to talk shit and hit me with internet based terms like copium. I believe a genuine question that actually needs answering can work for anybody because it's a natural interaction. The only guy that can get away with asking questions he already knows the answers to just to open a set is the hot guy. He CAN present fake behavior with the girl fully knowing it.	/r/seduction	04/02/24 09:11 AM
2	I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone. You ain't wrong, if you flirt with someone you might be judged and called a creep...this is when not caring is a luxury. As you get better at flirting and witnesses see that it's working they will get even more bitter. A hot gas station chick I flirt with here and there said she would still buy me a drink any day after talking about how we slowed down on the alcohol going into our 30s and set up a hangout right in front of everyone there. I go outside and a dude yelled at me about it asking how …	/r/seduction	04/02/24 09:04 AM
-17	My best daytime opener (try this!) Nope, girls ain't stupid, using innocent questions as an opener only works if the girl is extremely physically attracted to you; or you aren't running a tactic and genuinely need the information and are willing to walk away.	/r/seduction	04/02/24 05:57 AM
0	Is cold approach an edge these days since most guys gone online and women so desperate of not being approached? Exactly this. I like fat bitches with big titties so I get flirted with by the slender girls and the fatties give me that look like "who the hell are you, insect?"	/r/seduction	04/02/24 05:48 AM
1	Solo nightgame attire I see a pattern where women magnetize towards me when I'm in high visibility work gear...then I put a serious effort to cleaning up well and dressing the part.. and the attention and flirting go to almost zero. It took until 35 years old to realize why. I'm in the blue collar masculine energy in the work gear and in and can be perceived as "try hard" after I change up. I want to say dress however you normally dress or the girls will sense you are deviating from your default for them. Just make s…	/r/seduction	04/02/24 01:05 AM
1	I feel unable to seduce with a cold approach. How overcome it and start meet women? (33M) Essential to the survival of not the individual but the entire species	/r/seduction	04/02/24 12:29 AM
6	Is cold approach an edge these days since most guys gone online and women so desperate of not being approached? I recommend anybody start with the hotties even if it's just normal conversation with no intent. It's really the best way to make sure you ain't trying to learn the nuisances from a masculine women and get your game backwards. Constant interacting with beautiful women builds up perceived value so the guy has a starting point to gain the actual experience. If I never accepted a challenge to walk up to the hottest girl and just get words out, I would have never learned to slow everything down and …	/r/seduction	03/02/24 07:48 PM
2	I feel unable to seduce with a cold approach. How overcome it and start meet women? (33M) You have to not give a fuck about seducing or meeting anybody no more than you give a fuck about how u go about eating drinking and shitting. This is the only way to maintain a centered internal core and not make the girl feel like a deer in headlights. Think of it like this. Eating and drinking are natural processes that are voluntary but essential to survival, yet we ain't ever putting much thought or stock into how we are going about it. Mating is the same concept...it's a voluntary natural p…	/r/seduction	03/02/24 03:00 PM
38	Is cold approach an edge these days since most guys gone online and women so desperate of not being approached? You have been lied to, women are not desperate from lack of guys approaching. They are desperate for someone to come at them right for once. Millions of guys learning on YouTube how to be an alpha male and do cold approach are out there practicing. Cold approach is only an edge of you grasp how most men are fucking it up. They actually think what they learn on YouTube and reddit will work, so they start with the 5s and 6s and work their way up. You must do the opposite and approach the hottest g…	/r/seduction	03/02/24 02:47 PM
31	Flirting advices: I struggle to create sexual tension with women You already have an advantage. You probably have the ability to say no to beautiful women. That is the sexual tension cheat code. The word NO in any capacity said for any reason is an aphrodisiac to women because they never hear it. They see that their beauty has no power over you so they consider you in power and when that happens they become available to you in any way you want them whether it's serious or casual.	/r/seduction	03/02/24 01:41 PM
8	I deleted girl before our arranged date, because she has been ignoring my messages. I would have done the same thing, you have to be willing to walk away from behavior that displeases you but the fact that you are second guessing it shows scarcity. If you knew you could do better u would have deleted with zero remorse and the post wouldn't be here. Remember that "options" is the magic word.	/r/seduction	01/02/24 04:02 AM
1	Should I give up? Your course of action should be to internalize that approaching and flirting with a girl is as natural as eating, drinking water, and shitting...so should be just as easy. You do this by talking to the hottest woman you see everywhere you go for a month, but with no agenda, your just getting words out. you ain't going for approaches at this point, just normal conversations to prove to yourself that talking to a cute girl u don't know isn't weird. Once u get more comfortable and pick up on the nu…	/r/seduction	01/02/24 03:51 AM
4	My brothers want your advice . 1.how do you fully eliminate neediness . Why does it happen and how to completely destroy it . 2.how do you stop seeking validation You don't want the answer. Neediness comes from deep seeded insecurities like you think you ain't good enough because you made minor inconveniences like getting rejected or losing a job into a big deal. The only genuine way to eliminate insecurities and need for validation is enduring losing somebody. You can recover from any failure but u can't get back a loved one. Once a worst case scenario in your life happens, there is not much else that is worse. Suddenly you don't give a rats ass about tr…	/r/seduction	01/02/24 03:42 AM
9	I don’t get choosing signals from women anymore? It's perception. If u are internally lacking confidence you won't see choosing signals even when they happen right in front of you. When u are confident you see them everywhere. You aint feeling less confidence because of less choosing signals, it's the opposite.	/r/seduction	01/02/24 12:05 AM
2	You look like a fuckboy They are, and the women that get with them know that, many won't hold themselves accountable for choosing that kind of guy. I, however, am talking strictly fuckboy attire, not behavior.	/r/seduction	31/01/24 10:36 PM
13	You look like a fuckboy Agreed, I should have just called shit test. I guarantee 99% of the time a girl says "you look like a fuckboy" or "you seem like a player", she is getting to guy to deny it to justify disqualifying him.	/r/seduction	31/01/24 07:30 PM
5	Conversation starters with girls at college bars That is all that all game is	/r/seduction	31/01/24 04:20 PM
8	You look like a fuckboy Exactly, I'm talking solely about attire and image. The fuckboy look does nothing if its overcompensating for internal insecurity/cowardice. Dressing this way does not dictate the character, it demonstrates perceived abundance until the girl tests for the guys actual value .	/r/seduction	31/01/24 03:01 PM
110	You look like a fuckboy Good thing. Just say "guilty as charged". Fuckbois have that label for a reason. People put a negative connotation on the term because of how desirable these guys are to women. Guys will be salty and look down on it, Women will talk with disdain about fuck boys, they will say fuck boys are only good for one thing...which means by extension they are letting that one thing happen. If anything upgrade to fuckboi formal which is the more adult version where you have a nice collered shirt and dress p…	/r/seduction	31/01/24 10:50 AM
9	Why I struggled with women as an engineer As a hyper logical and sometimes over analytical man I had all the same struggles most my life. It took until my mid thirties to realize I should have never thought I wasn't good enough because I had it RIGHT the whole time but didn't know how or why. We know that women operate on emotions. The "spark" of man to woman dynamic comes from polarity. What is the polar opposite of emotion? You guessed it ..LOGIC. Drill that into your skull. You my friend have an advantage, you CAN solve them like an …	/r/seduction	31/01/24 09:54 AM
18	Conversation starters with girls at college bars College bars are simple. These girls have access to not only any guy at school or around town, but also their entire social media following. The girl will look at you and decide "fuck yes" or "hell no", there is no in between.. if you aren't perceived as better than her best current option, there is nothing that can be said or done. The opposite holds true. If she sees you as an upgrade from her top guy, it's very difficult to fail. Key is to read and work the room and not waste time talking to …	/r/seduction	31/01/24 09:33 AM
-1	Help Play into how you feel in this scenario because it can make your texting more effective. Be resentful, bitter and brash with your messages and use no emojis. In return the girl will be humble, kind, and responsive, they are attracted to the opposite traits that we are because they view safety and value differently. That's how polarity works both in text and real life.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 06:19 PM
-5	Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid it None of this is inaccurate. I however, have a different stance. No dates at all until after sex is had. Dates are intimate, therefore shouldn't happen until you know there is a connection outside the bedroom. This way the sex isn't transactional and the girl actually feels less like a whore. The vehicle has to be test driven before any sort of investment is made. It's really how us men shit test a woman's interest level. If you can get her in bed and make her cum multiple times without spending …	/r/seduction	30/01/24 01:41 AM
0	Don’t love the PLAYER, love the GAME I hate the game so much I put it to work for me as my slave.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 08:13 PM
-3	It's not always your fault when you lose a girl It IS your fault, but outside your control. In most cases when a girl is lost is because you ain't at the perceived value of the new guy she just lined up. Nothing really can be done.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 07:19 PM
30	How do I attract the girls I want? I have interactions with girls that I don't particularly care for all the time in the course of my day to day happenings because I have to. Anything from the gas station to coffee shop. They are kinda cold and brash, and I return it in kind. Over time I noticed if I am also this way towards interested girls that are polite and sweet they start displaying even more affection and interest. Have the conversation, just utilize the principal. If you are drawn to a girl for her sweetness, affection, a…	/r/seduction	28/01/24 04:07 PM
4	🥶 approach That terrified feeling that you feel manifests from deep internal insecurity as if you think approaching and flirting isn't even a normal thing ..like it's some huge hurdle or challenge to overcome instead of a fun way to meet someone. The mating process is hardwired into us, it's as natural as drinking eating or shitting. Therefore; it should be as normal and as easy as eating drinking and shitting. Remove the label of cold approach. Just talk to the hottest woman you see anywhere you happen to…	/r/seduction	28/01/24 12:09 PM
24	How do I attract the girls I want? Comparatively speaking I like those odds.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 10:18 AM
236	How do I attract the girls I want? By behaving towards them exactly like you would towards the ones you don't want.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 04:40 AM
-5	Is it a bad idea to let the girl choose the date? This is textbook. This is her giving u the rope to hang yourself with. This was her evaluating your response to test your leadership. If you can't lead the girl you can't guide and protect her and her future offspring. You should have said "no, I am unavailable, we should try that coffee date at (insert place/time)" If she cant fit into your schedule she aint trying too hard to know you. I guarantee she would have been available for the coffee date that Chad or Tyrone or Esteban set up.	/r/seduction	28/01/24 01:31 AM
1	Is it worth staying on media? I have gotten laid off social media more than anything. The women were absolutely terrifying, I recommend irl connections.	/r/seduction	27/01/24 03:37 PM
1	Controlling emotions Work on your emotional control in all aspects of life, not just with women. The key is to be stoic, which does not mean be a robot. You can't kill your emotions or u kill your humanity. You can't bottle them up or they will show in your behavior. You definitely can't let them out full force. What you can do is let them go.... disregard the emotions you are feeling. The difference between boys and men is the ability to disregard emotion to do what has to be done. You can have emotions, you can ev…	/r/seduction	26/01/24 09:52 PM
1	How Should I Proceed? Do I Have A Chance? Even if u know u ain't in a realized scarcity mindset, how you are perceived in the eye of the beholder is what matters. For example, going onto reddit to ask about how to get into a relationship with one specific girl you don't know can make readers perceive you as having a scarcity mindset even if you don't. I just don't want you to make that girl think the same thing, if you put any kind of stake on the interaction, it will manifest in your tone, mannerisms, and ultimately display u went weak…	/r/seduction	26/01/24 05:39 AM
1	How Should I Proceed? Do I Have A Chance? You have no chance if you are in the scarcity mindset that this post demonstrates. If I can tell how scarce your mindset is just from typing, imagine how strongly a woman, who has superhuman powers for sensing sexual value; will sense it through your behavior. You talking about relationship with someone you haven't even dated or hooked up with. this attitude is what scares off girls like a deer in headlights. If this girl is really that interesting to you,.have at least 3 other options or girls …	/r/seduction	26/01/24 02:44 AM
-1	Girls ask me out regularly... and I hate it You're just not grasping polarity. The girls are asking you out which means they have high initial interest. High interest women are the most prone to dropping that interest as fast as they gained it. Think about the things about these women that you are attracted to; maybe sweetness, submissiveness, lack of drama. Female attraction and male attraction are different. If you are attracted to sweetness, a sweet girl will be attracted to sourness. A drama free girl will be attracted to chaos. A sub…	/r/seduction	07/01/24 08:59 PM
1	What should you wear when going to meet potential girls? It's because they think you a dealer🤣 You might have some other boxes checked. I highly encourage beginners to immediately wear great attire so they can have an instant confidence boost in every area of life	/r/seduction	02/01/24 11:18 PM
2	What should you wear when going to meet potential girls? Dress like a grown man. If you do that, you have an automatic edge over 70% of your competition. Women see things different than us. Most will chose the best dressed guy over the best naturally looking guy, so take your dress serious and it can get your foot in the door. If you dress like you already have women, you will get looks. Dressing right gives you automatic social proof even if no one even knows you! Whatever you chose keep it clean and ironed. Ditch the video game stuff, if u like grap…	/r/seduction	02/01/24 05:37 PM
2	50 women in one day Yes, talk to every woman u cross paths with, regardless of ur interest level. I'm telling u to do this to reset your default state so that you don't fuck up how u talk to the ones u do find appealing.	/r/seduction	10/10/23 09:52 AM
1	50 women in one day You shouldn't be putting a number on this or even be seeing it as a challenge. Talking to attractive women everywhere you go should be a part of who you are, no different than blinking eating and pissing. You just need to make the decision that you will not cross paths with a woman without saying something, then everything else falls into place.	/r/seduction	09/10/23 03:27 PM
2	Hand /cheeks kissing is definitely underrated. Thank you for the educational post. The hot guy CAN engage in chivalrous behavior. The rest of us normals would probably get pepper sprayed.	/r/seduction	08/09/23 07:04 PM
3	What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend. I beg to differ. What all the men with hot girlfriends have in common is they are genuine. Some dudes are just permanently awkward, but certain guys know how to steer into the skid and own their default personality. A guy who acts like he has social skills will do worse than a guy that is self aware of his social function and owns it. Given the best case scenario is to actually have social skills without having to fake it, what matters most is presenting zero fake behavior.	/r/seduction	05/09/23 09:10 PM
0	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? What's off is the masculinity, everyone in the west got "masculinity is toxic" in the back of their heads even if they don't believe it. Sometimes things we do or say conveys frugality, cowardice, and incompetence...the big 3 enemys of masculinity. You can actually look back on any interaction with a woman and identify exactly when and why she went cold. When I do this, 100% of the time it's because I said or did something that can been perceived as frugal, cowardly or incompetent. I started to …	/r/seduction	01/09/23 01:40 AM
2	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? It takes years if not decades of taking what you can get and talking to women everywhere u go to rewire the mind	/r/seduction	01/09/23 01:34 AM
20	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? Learning game is simply unlearning the things that throw our primal skills and mindsets off kilter. Social programming and an individuals life events can make us "learn" the wrong things. In real life, most guys that don't have a problem with women never studied game because there was no need to, their subconcious never considered human mating "not normal" or some kind of hurdle that has to be jumped. To them it's a voluntary survival mechanism based on involuntary instinct such as eating and dr…	/r/seduction	01/09/23 12:45 AM
4	What does this girl mean? Seduction? Key word "else". Being offered something else implys there was something in it for you that you already got which there wasn't, so that rules out the literal context and leaves the figurative dismissal context. Sometimes what is said does matter more than how it is said	/r/seduction	14/08/23 01:43 AM
9	What does this girl mean? Seduction? This is textbook. "Do you need anything else" in that context is an extremely elitist and backhanded way off saying "off you go" She sees you as an orbiter that will gladly do her bidding while she is willing to do chads bidding. Don't do anything for a woman that she isn't also willing to do for you.	/r/seduction	14/08/23 01:35 AM
3	How to get some pussy quick (no dating apps) That just means instead of going to a direct proposition, to slow down a tad and build some rapport and keep working the casual touching until it gets hot and heavy like u would on a normal date...but since this is for a quick hookup, this is a three point shot...u want to shoot it at the top dead center of your jump. u want to suggest sex the second she kisses u with tongue or touches u sexually	/r/seduction	13/08/23 08:30 AM
11	How to get some pussy quick (no dating apps) Quick pussy is the whole point of the game. It's not just 304s that give it up quick either. When a girl's interest levels in a guy are high at the start, she will not make him wait. So quick pussy is the biggest indicator of interest. whatever ur intention is, u want to move fast. As for pulling it off, it takes confidence that is not rational, and gauging her interest levels at each step of the escalation ladder. If I succeed in getting a girl to buy me a drink, for example; when we finish our…	/r/seduction	13/08/23 03:22 AM
1	Get your shit together before you start doing "game" and cold approaching women. I think having a girlfriend or a main chick to care about is actually the key to getting the shit together, you know u got someone in your corner, u have motivation to get up get out and work every day.	/r/seduction	12/08/23 11:00 PM
10	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. A mod gave me the tag or whatever it is because I replied to some post where the op misspelled "cold approach" and typed "coke approach". I told him if he is already good at coke approach than he needs no advice when it comes to thin white girls.	/r/seduction	03/08/23 12:21 AM
275	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. Women who are interested DO need seduction. A woman who isn't interested can't be won over with game, true but... A woman that is interested can flip it off like a switch at the slightest excuse. In fact the faster they attach, the faster they csn potentially detactch. It's harder to keep interest than to gain it initially, this is where "game" has to be consistently sustained.	/r/seduction	02/08/23 01:23 AM
-2	You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATE I remember this dude who told the lady straight up that he wants to marry her, and wants her to be the mother of his child. That man was Tony Montana, and yes it happened. Obviously this is fiction, but the point is a top tier man don't got to worry about the escalation ladder, he can say what he wants and get away with it.	/r/seduction	28/07/23 01:42 AM
158	Get your shit together before you start doing "game" and cold approaching women. Do NOT wait until you have your shit together to practice dating and relationship skills and get used to approaching. Level up your dating life and get your shit together simaltaniously. If you make it past the finish line before you ever try going out approaching...you may no longer be a loser, you will be a winner who has no idea how to get women. It's better to be one of those losers with irrational confidence that can get laid than a successful man who can't.	/r/seduction	18/07/23 07:55 PM
3	Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubs Night game 101: If the girl asks u to buy anything, she is not interested in you. If this was 5, 6 years ago; i would say its a simple shit test to see how u respond.... but with where we are at right now: its an outright rejection. You said it yourself; the best convos were with whom asked for nothing. The best answear to give if u are asked to buy a drink: "I pass." This makes you the rejector instead of the rejectee...with this there is always a chance the girl will do the whole "wait, stop;c…	/r/seduction	10/07/23 08:29 PM
2	Women will follow you till the end of the earth if you have good dick game. It really is the entire game. If you are their best option in bed; suddenly your money, status, looks, personality become irrelevant. Every time you see a woman all over a "subpar" looking dude....it's because the dude did his job. There has been women that don't even like spending time with me that still try to sleep over because I'm only good for 1 thing. I'm OK with that.	/r/seduction	04/07/23 07:55 PM
3	Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay?? Outcome independence.	/r/seduction	19/06/23 03:44 PM
4	Take women off the pedestal and put yourself on the dammed thing instead I don't disagree with anything in thos post...but maybe we should be using a magic formula. It does exist, it's simple, and it's relative to everything in the post. The formula is....do not raise your default emotional state while interacting with women. This will allow u to talk to girls like the normal thing that it is. If u can keep a level default state throughout everything you do, barring actual major stuff like people dying; women will be attracted to u even if they don't know why. Every …	/r/seduction	08/06/23 04:08 PM
4	JUST BE YOURSELF is the most brilliant and simultaneously the STUPIDEST advice on the planet, if you don't have a clue what it means! I have a short counter rant: Fuck being yourself! Be what women want! They all want the same shit! It should be easy! If you are currently struggling then yourself ain't good enough. Make everything about yourself more attractive to your very core, and become a new person. Being yourself only works if you are the best version of yourself.	/r/seduction	05/06/23 05:43 PM
24	The #1 Habit of losers. I think the worst habit of losers is complaining. Even if the dude dosnt verbally complain and bottles up his complaints and let's them swirl around in his head, it's very damaging and amotivational. All time and energy wasted complaining or having complaints on the mind could have been used to actually respond to the issues at hand. This is why learning how to be responsive instead of reactive sets one on the path to greatness. Instead of reacting emotionally, take a step back to disregard the …	/r/seduction	04/06/23 02:21 AM
49	Approaching is normal and so many men are doing it Approaching is actually EASIER than ever before. I don't know why...it should be the opposite. I just introduce myself, have a brief conversation about anything commonly observable, and ask to get to know each other over a round of pool. I just make sure I have already gotten green lights. I probably have a 10% success rate. Considering the times and the country I'm in, that's incredible.	/r/seduction	31/05/23 06:51 PM
-5	You're doing online dating all wrong, here's how you save time and your sanity I think it's so much simpler to abolish online dating. The women on these apps are too combative even for just a casual fling to be worth it, most bring too much drama and somehow already know everyone u know even if they are from out of town. Everything is argumentive from after the first lay if not right from the start to justify moving to the next guy, thanks to the loss of ability to pair bond and excessive options. Women that meet guys i.r.l. that dont use apps have just as many options, bu…	/r/seduction	21/05/23 06:37 PM
2	I think most of men that can't get women are not masculine enough. Men ain't in control of their emotions like they should be. The difference between a boy and a man: a boy does what he feels like, a man does what has to be done regardless of how he feels about it. Women love men that can disregard emotion. You ain't going to be a robot fighting how u feel to force yourself numb, and you ain't letting it influence your decisions either, you are feeling it; and letting it fly off the shoulders. The more stoic and non reactive you are to all situations, the more …	/r/seduction	19/05/23 03:02 PM
8	How to approach a girl in a party? You just have to learn how to turn off your mind right before and during your approach, especially if u are smart, u really got to dumb it down. Once you start asking yourself the "what ifs" you will second guess yourself and hesitate. This does not mean put zero thought into it. Before u even set foot into the party, you need to think about how will dress, walk and talk and more importantly how you will feel doing so, if u can predict how you will feel in different situations it becomes easier …	/r/seduction	31/10/22 06:58 PM
0	I need your guys advice First off, don't try and analyze the situation. You may not have effed up as bad as you thought. She has an unlimited source of male attention in her pocket, and when chad, Tyronne, pookie, or Esteban from ig hit her up, she will find any and all justification to leave you on read even if u did nothing wrong, all of a sudden your little flaws become big. The best way to get over her is to hook up with one of her friends, then when she begs for u back, treat her exactly as she treated you.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 06:47 PM
2	Girl Suggesting a Dinner Date as a First Date. Suggest to her playing hide the wild gooseneck for a first date.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 11:18 AM
-7	Am I a pussy for not eating pussy? You are smart for not eating pussy. If you do, be sure to swish and gargle hydrogen peroxide for 2 minutes before and after.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 03:06 AM
1	How do I make conversation interesting and get out of the hi, how are you, how was your day loop?How do I make conversation interesting and get out of the hi, how are you, how was your day loop? You just need to put a positive spin on things. Don't see yourself as monotonous like a bot. See yourself as hard to get and mysterious with no room for emotion. Women put themselves on a mission to get men who don't or can't express themselves to open up, assuming she is interested.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 12:59 PM
3	He said : “ you always smell good , I like your perfume. Whenever I’m in the room and I smell this perfume, I know you’re around » . Is this flirting or he’s just trying to be nice ?? It can be tough to discern flirting from being nice if u see that he is that type of nice to everybody, its good news, it means hes genuine. The deciding factor is this...No man is going to compliment a woman's perfume if he is not interested in her, that type of complimemt has a very intimate edge that is different than say; complimenting your shoes or ur jewelry.	/r/seduction	22/10/22 08:16 AM
11	Do you find that you only attract one type of woman? Single over 30 garden tools.	/r/seduction	21/10/22 03:08 PM
2	Feeling bitter. Thank you , I needed the reminder. I thought all this reinforced how unfair life is, when it should have reinforced how easy finding dates even on the darkest day actually is. I've been so numb to rejection it don't matter, yet someone else's non rejection bothered me. I just beat myself up because I'm the type that usually celebrates and requests the highest of fives when a friend scores like a bro should, today I slipped, I know if I had the options I wouldn't have been even slightly phased.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 10:26 PM
1	Feeling bitter. I suppose it's just the ebb and flow and ups and downs of life. I just really pumped the brakes lately because there is far more important things for me to work on than getting women, I'm in that 1% of non chads that can talk and act like one, I used to know what I was doing, the mistake was busting myself to 0 options, my own experience dictates that for any 1 girl to be interested she has to know I have options...so no one to blame but myself, I know what has to be done...a 100 cold approach w…	/r/seduction	20/10/22 08:46 PM
5	Feeling bitter. The current chick is bi and open status, so this ain't even a surprise, idk about the server but she seen her all over him the whole time and she still didnt hesitate to agree to a hangout, but i know my dude, the server will be an afterthought after tonight. The thing that sucks is I'm fully aware of the basic concepts and dangers of self comparing, i come on here preaching the shit, now i cant even set the example, maybe the mourning has compromised my objectivity, idk. I'm supposed to go back…	/r/seduction	20/10/22 08:19 PM
2	When is it appropriate to ask a woman out? Asking a woman out can be very appropriate if she is interested, can be very weird if she is not. Without cold approach being an option, as u expand ur social circle and do some warm meetups, see who gravitates or kinda lingers around you, it's probably a safe bet to ask out someone who enjoys ur presence.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 01:17 PM
1	How do I make conversation interesting and get out of the hi, how are you, how was your day loop?How do I make conversation interesting and get out of the hi, how are you, how was your day loop? First off, Remember to use "how are you" as a question and not a greeting, this may not apply to u, I only say that because so many people will say "hi, how are you" and keep talking without pausing for an answer because they are using the question as part of the greeting. If a social moron like me grasps this then most of the world is in trouble Second, if u can't think of unique questions, you CAN have fun, interesting convos with the most basic of questions if asked with the right attitude. R…	/r/seduction	20/10/22 03:00 AM
1	Question about a date I just had today I don't hear alot of girls telling chad that they arent comfortable with him knowing where they are staying. If she showed up for a coffee date, then proceeded to use the word "uncomfortable", that is a hard pass. You probably didn't do anything wrong, she could have not liked the color of your shoe laces, or the coffee wasn't the right temperature, or the sun wasn't at the right angle, could be any number reasons or none at all No untethered woman is going to travel solo and be on layover and n…	/r/seduction	20/10/22 01:05 AM
0	How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too??? Whether it is a shit test or not, my response is the same, "That kind of attitude is just as common as beauty, ur not special."	/r/seduction	19/10/22 09:05 PM
6	Girls only talk about themselves, is a limited lie! Everybody talks about themselves. Its ok when asked to do so. The difference is a narcissist keeps it about themselves instead of being willing to go back and forth.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 09:00 PM
2	Approach by asking "Do I know you from somewhere, do we go to the same..." Give women some credit, they ain't that easy, unless they super into u enough to play along, with that kind of approach she knows instantly she has no idea who you are, and can percieve it as charming and go with it, or creepy and bug out, depending how big of a chad u are. The bigger issue applies to many openers guys use, it can be answeared with a "yes" or "no". Try asking something that a "yes"or "no" cant answear so their is a launch point for conversation. Use "how","when","what","where",w…	/r/seduction	19/10/22 01:34 PM
1	Should I disclose the fact that I am talking with other people? If handled with the right attitude, disclosure=social proof, which plays to your advantage. If u ever seen any of those stupid batchelor shows its the same concept, all the women know that they are all connecting with and dating the same guy which pushes them to overtake their competition. Girls would rather share chad than have anything to do with Brad, if they both like you, u probably a chad in their eyes, don't hide anything just don't be hurtful/disrepectful about it.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 09:02 PM
3	When she asks you What's Your Fantasy My reply: "Remember that old movie; return of the Jedi"....	/r/seduction	16/10/22 02:44 PM