Successful guys:

  • Are patient

  • Take personal responsibility

  • Seek pleasure

  • Understand that rejection and failure are necessary to succeed

  • Don’t let others deter them from getting what they want

  • Embrace being disliked by some (or many)

  • Are sexual

  • Avoid porn and limit masturbation

  • Don’t use expensive dinners or gifts to buy a woman’s affection

  • Are open to change and embrace discomfort

  • Are motivated and inspired by the success of others

  • Don’t commit too early to one woman and let things develop naturally

  • Treat all women (and people) the same.

  • Don’t rush during sex, embrace foreplay, use fingers and tongue effectively

  • Don’t pretend to be a woman’s friend in hopes she’ll have feelings down the road

  • Stay calm and move on easily after rejection

  • Are whimsical, sometimes self-amused, and march to the beat of their own drummer

  • Derive their self worth from their purpose and personal ethics

  • Are disciplined with their fitness, grooming, and eating habits

Unsuccessful guys:

  • Want quick results and answers

  • Blame others, particularly women for their misfortune

  • Avoid pain

  • Are deterred by rejection and fear failure

  • Allow the opinions of others to influence them

  • Want to be liked by everyone

  • Are lustful

  • Frequently use porn

  • Try to buy attraction with extravagant gifts and dates

  • Are resistant to change, and prefer to avoid discomfort

  • Are bitter and jealous towards men who are more successful; dismiss them as “Chads”

  • Get fixated on one girl early on in the dating process and don’t keep options open

  • Give preferential treatment to attractive women.

  • Rush to intercourse without foreplay

  • Pretend to be a woman’s friend with ulterior motives

  • Freak out when a woman rejects them

  • Are uptight, serious and conform

  • Derive their self worth from approval from women

  • Complain how Chads (i.e. guys who are disciplined) get all the women.