TLDR: A light, playful holding of her hands in a playful manner is one of the most effective ways to physically escalate on dates.

Physical touch needs to be incorporated on your dates, especially if you’re failing to get second dates, or to hook up. I consider it one of the pillars of building attraction in the early stages, which is critical.

Start by a light hug when you greet your date. This is a safe, socially acceptable way to break the touch barrier. As the date progresses, lightly brush her arm when you’re laughing, or lightly touching touching her knee if you’re sitting next to each other.

Ramp up, always slowly escalate.

By far, the most powerful form of physical touch involves the hands.

When you’re in the conversation, always try the Princess Style, where you lightly hold her hands in yours.

I recommend just being playful and going for it. But if you’re uncomfortable, try asking her if any of her jewelry she has on has any personal meaning, or simply just give her a casual compliment.

Don’t be needy, or sudden about it. That’ll creep her out.

Don’t expect physical touch to always shift the energy of a bad date, or to immediately make her drawn to you. If she’s simply not attracted, or feels uncomfortable, there’s only so much you can do.

However, The Princess Hand Hold almost always ignites attraction if the vibe is right.

It reinforces the concept of bonding, and frames you as a potential sexual/romantic partner, not a platonic friend who engages in endless straightforward conversation.

Give it a try and report back in.

Full article on topic with examples: https://holdyourframe.substack.com/p/princess-hand-hold-the-most-effective