Delusional scarcity mindset:

You believe this is the only person you will ever connect with on deep level, or you will never find as anyone as attractive that will have you in their orbit. Any type of affection from this person—even if it’s solely platonic—is better than not having them in your life at all.

No self-prioritization:

The object of your affection is put on a pedestal. To them, you are a low priority, even if they aren’t being intentionally hurtful. You, on the other hand, spend the majority of your emotional energy on them. You choose to have them in your life, even if it is unhealthy and torturous for you.

You have an unrealistic, idealized version of this person. You fail to take full stock of their faults, and only emphasize their looks and positive qualities.

You’re afraid to hurt them by removing them from your life, even if it’s what is best for you. You place their temporary feelings over your personal development and overall happiness.

Dishonesty with intent:

This is entirely your fault. You are dishonest with your actions around them: you have never expressed your true feelings; or your romantic feelings have been rejected, and you falsely convey satisfaction with platonic friendship.

You believe the fairytale that undying devotion eventually turns into love or attraction. You sacrifice the chance to meet other incredible people, who prioritize your company or are a better fit, by waiting foolishly in the wings.

This is a reality check. The friendzone should not exist if someone prioritizes themself and views themself as a prize, is honest with intent, and realizes there is not just one special person.

Don’t waste any more time worshipping at the altar of another person, one who views you as secondary character in their life.