Over the course of the last year I’ve become relatively successful on OLD apps, had a bunch of dates, probably between 50 and 70 first dates and a good amount of physical intimacy, too. There were some high quality women, too, that I met more then once.

Now in real life I barely approach girls. Never had a date from a cold approach. On parties I’m relatively invisible usually, just 5’7’’ and very average looking, despite athletic figure and communicative, fun guy.

Now I wonder should I even bother or just focus on OLD completely? I feel a bit like I may be missing out on something not improving cold approaching, but at the same time I get all I want from OLD.