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Just get the surgery.
/r/seduction03/04/24 12:33 PM
2

You are too needy: you need to step away from women and find other sources of happiness and validation. They are rejecting you because they can sense your desperation and it's turning them off. The solution is to make dating and women less important and to stop needing. The solution is NOT to try even harder.
/r/seduction03/04/24 12:32 PM
3

Oh noes! Sex is so dirty and immoral so save it for those you really love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:17 AM
3

It seems that the only common denominator is that you are violating rule #1: who cares what women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:16 AM
-1

Perpetual victim. I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:56 AM
-1

Being the weird loner in the corner is how you see yourself. And because that's the energy you project; that's how others will see you. Doesn't sound like you are very comfortable with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:53 AM
2

I mean you were warned about this numerous times and chose to proceed in the dumbest and least efficient way possible. You approached 500 women and didn't get laid once. And furthermore, it's a college, so they all talk and exchange notes on what guys to fuck and you ain't one of them.
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:50 AM
2

Jesus, that's what you call a Country Club on Atlanta?
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:46 AM
9

You thank your lucky stars? I can't figure out if you brain damaged or just stupid.
/r/seduction03/04/24 10:38 AM
2

You can either write lengthily posts rationalizing your victim status OR you can go out and get a woman to fuck for yourself. But you CAN'T DO BOTH!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:24 AM
7

All I know is this. The less I need women, the more they seem to want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:22 AM
1

Good for you. That's how it's done. Now ghost her and don't text her at all. Ask her out only when you see her in person again or after you have two other girls.
/r/seduction03/04/24 12:11 AM
1

No it's not necessary
/r/seduction02/04/24 11:54 PM
4

So, are you saying it's easier in places with a lot of good looking women? Wow! I think you just won the Nobel Prize!!!
/r/seduction02/04/24 11:53 PM
3

You are not going to like my answer or solution.
/r/seduction02/04/24 11:48 PM
1

Do you want her to register as a child molester?
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:51 PM
1

How were you talking to a woman that you only met a few days later? I don't understand if your English is trash but what can you expect from Italians.
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:50 PM
2

Thank god I don't go out wjth women who are insecure and can't trust I will take her out on a date she'll enjoy. No chance of us ever meeting or dating irl.
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:41 PM
0

Yes, very much! I like myself. I've put in a lot of work in who I am. I'm honest, I speak my mind. I'm direct. Women know where they stand with me. I am happy to be a man, I very much enjoy it and I enjoy women. I'm happy to take responsibility and make decisions for the two of us. I also can get the job done in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:20 PM
1

No; texting early just says "I usually get ghosted so I need to check you are for real". Telegraphing your lack of confidence is a lack of confidence.
/r/seduction02/04/24 04:43 PM
1

Oh, it's absolutely a very common problem, especially among men and I'm sure among many women as well. From a male perspective, it's a paradigm that virtually permeates every aspect of our culture and upbringing. It looks something like this: women only want someone who is impressive, rich, plays sports, etc etc. Basically if you are someone who benefits society, you are allowed to be confident and go after what you want. Which works out great for society because it motivates men to contribute. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:42 PM
3

I'm not saying that social circle is the only way. You just have to understand that the way most men approach cold approaching is super wrong and counterproductive. The thinking is like this "I'm horny and would love a pretty girl to suck my dick. So I will go around and approach random women until one says yes." The thing is, this approach is super dehumanizing to women. You are telling them "there is nothing special about you in particular. I'm just horny and you happened to be the 10th woman …
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:07 PM
1

What is your end goal here? What do you want these women for? What are you looking for? Be very specific.
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:53 PM
1

And that's why you won't get her.
/r/seduction02/04/24 11:57 AM
-4

Yes, desperate. Depends on how long you've been without sex and how much of a wimp you are. If it's been a long time since you've had sex and you are a wimp, you should totally do it.
/r/seduction02/04/24 11:17 AM
-8

You sound pretty desperate, so you should probably go to the date with the friend.
/r/seduction02/04/24 10:58 AM
2

Sure thing. And I commend him, but random cold approaching should only be reserved for when a man is trying to get over his shyness and anxiety about talking to women and asking for their number for example. It is NOT a viable dating strategy. I did it for years and the returns were pitiful, mostly because you give off of the vibe that you do this to all women, she is nothing special and if you have to resort to randomly walking up to women, it probably means nobody else wants you and you are a …
/r/seduction02/04/24 10:50 AM
1

Incels should lean towards milfs and gilfs then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:44 AM
1

If you are going to stare at pixels on a screen, you may as well pay for OF or watch porn. Same end result. Or you could go out in the real world and find a girl to fuck you.
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:32 AM
1

lol, not hard to see from your post why they left you to chase the next shiny thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:03 AM
1

There are more single women here than men. They outnumber men 3:1 or least that was the statistic back in the day. Nowadays may be even better. This is the perfect place to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:53 AM
-1

You can collect all of these and put them in a book called "The making of the incel".
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:13 AM
5

Probably easier than you and your buddy taking two girlfriends home together.
/r/seduction02/04/24 01:10 AM
3

Well older women are the ones spending money. You guys really need to put two and two together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:08 AM
15

None of this matters because let's face it - a woman's brain doesn't fully mature until she's 65. Until then any decision that she makes, she cannot be responsible for, therefore she was groomed, used, manipulated, coerced trafficked or otherwise fooled into being with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:07 AM
4

But TikTok told me, whaaaaaa , whaaaaa! The internet said that that's what women expect, whaaaa, whaaa!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:21 PM
0

Violating rule number one again. There are only two rules. Not too hundred. Not even twenty. Just two. Who cares what she or women think You are the most important person in the relationship. That's it. Not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:22 PM
0

You got trolled on RedScarePod and now you come here hoping you won't get trolled?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:36 PM
20

Slow day on OF?
/r/seduction01/04/24 08:34 PM
5

Some things you have to accept. One of them is that women will never take responsibility for things and if she didn't enjoy sex wjth you, she'd rather blame you than face the reality that she made a choice she now regrets. Be cool with it and move on.
/r/seduction01/04/24 08:30 PM
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The problem is that the men who turn to Red Pill or any of the other ideologies have bought into the belief that women are so called "Key-holding goddesses". Meaning, they hold the key to the man's happiness, self esteem, him having a better career, the respect of his peers, her sex would be so wonderful and mindblowing that he would be on sevent heaven every single day of his life, etc. When you are coming from such an extreme level of idealization and start seeing that your object of desire is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:25 PM
-1

You guys have to work extra hard to prove how big of a victim you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:36 PM
1

Most humorless group on the Reddit's
/r/seduction01/04/24 05:32 PM
1

Oh okay. You are talking about banter. Go on youtube and search Brent Smith Bulletproof Banter
/r/seduction01/04/24 03:25 PM
0

When the story you tell yourself about yourself is empowering, women will be attracted to you without you needing to do anything or dance around like a monkey. If your story is "I'm a loser and I have to entertain females to get some attention or pretend I'm better than them, when inside I feel like a worm", then you will attract nobody.
/r/seduction01/04/24 03:23 PM
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He is not. He's desired outcome is obviously dates and sex. If he is so concerned with an outcome none of this will ever work.
/r/seduction01/04/24 03:21 PM
0

If you don't see how it's related, you are beyond help.
/r/seduction01/04/24 03:20 PM
1

Well, kudos to you for approaching. But that's about the end of my positive feedback. Everything else is wrong and will only lead to a bunch of rejection, fake numbers and a reputation as "that guy". You need to completely rethink your strategy. Right off the bat, your biggest mistake is going out for the purpose of approaching women. Automatically that makes them the prize you are chasing so desperately. Second, why are you so desperate about chasing women? What do you think women have that you…
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:32 PM
1

The only thing that matters is the story you tell yourself.
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:27 PM
1

But nothing has happened so you have been chit chatting for 3 weeks? Am I reading this right or am I retarded? Why are you so invested in this woman that you haven't even met? Is your love life THAT lacking? You need to understand that the way you create attraction just through flirting and pushing and pulling and negs and displaying high value. You create attraction by being a man who is in demand (or at least appears to be). A guy who is stirring there chit chatting with a girl and is always i…
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:10 AM
1

Find a copy of the book "how to get over that bitch and grow balls they can't resist" by Anthony Clark.
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:07 AM
1

Say, it's a shame to look at a beautiful girl like you on a phone screen. I would much rather see you in person.
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:06 AM
1

Sleep with other men.
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:05 AM
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Why are you sitting there chatting with her for 3 weeks? What on earth do you think you will accomplish with this?
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:04 AM
5

Yes, spend the next 20 years improving yourself and don't even think about women. Women and sex are for losers and simps anyway. You are a grind king. Go get your cash. Work hard. Don't look at women. Get that job, house and car. Max out your 401K. Build muscle in the gym. When you are 40 or 50, or even 60 just to be sure, that's when you should start talking to women. Hope your dick still works by then and you don't die of a heart attack because of all the stress.
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:02 AM
2

The interesting unspoken assumption here is often referred to as Marx's Paradox. Not Karl Marx, the ideological founder of communism, but the 20th century philosopher Groucho Marx, who once famously said: "I don't want to be a part of a club that would have me as a member". In the world of sexual relationships, this means that a man meets a woman, woman likes man for whatever reason, because she's horny, bored, likes his style, he makes her laugh, etc., so she decided to sleep with him. And man …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:54 AM
0

Crazy pussy is the best pussy. No man can argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:47 AM
2

You are presenting this as a zero sum game. You can either succeed in asking out your female friend OR you absolutely MUST agree to being her friend otherwise you will be forever miserable. I can clearly see why so many of you young men struggle with women. You literally give away all your power to the wind. Why chase someone who isn't into you? Why make yourself miserable over a total stranger not liking you? Why live in a black and white world where happiness is only possible with a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:46 AM
-1

Why do Nazis hate blacks? Why does Hamas want to kill Jews? Why is the Earth not flat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:43 AM
1

You underestimate the power of good dick. Or a man who can put up a picture on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:41 AM
1

lol, play by the rules? Whose rules?
/r/seduction01/04/24 02:28 AM
5

I guess we both living in NYC lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:31 AM
2

You make one sane statement and one INSANE statement. The same statement is that it is natural to desire a relationship. The INSANE statement is that you are ENTITLED to get one and absolutely should without a doubt get one or else your life will be miserable and unbearable. Do you see how this is a recipe for disaster?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:59 AM
-3

Women gatekeeper shit. You have up all your power hoping you will get to smell some pussy and then wonder why no women want you. What are women gayekeeping exactly? If she don't wanna give me pussy I will just go somewhere else. There is 4 billion of them. Every other human has a vagina. You dumbasses acting like it's the most rare unobtainioum or something. What pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:57 AM
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A 19 year old girl in my city was stabbed to death because she turned down some guy from the hood. He stalked her outside of a deli and stabbed her to death. Wounded her twin sister as well. That's what women often have to deal with. You guys are fucking scared to death to even look in the general direction of a woman because she may call the cops on you and out you in jail for life (retarded take), but you downplay the actual violence and stalking a lot of women experience when they turn men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:45 AM
-1

lol, getting a man to sleep with you is not big feat. Keeping a quality man is what women struggle with. You guys could also be getting sex if you were less discerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:42 AM
1

You are way over communication and by it you are signaling that you are not a guy who dates or has sex often. I know I'm right. If I can figure you out via a Reddit post the girl figured you out the week before.
/r/seduction01/04/24 12:41 AM
1

Sorry, meant to write "he had a penis". My question to you is, why do you think a man is looking at you? Is there something special about how you look? Is your hair purple? Your nose huge? Do you have a tattoo on your face?
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:16 PM
2

Hey everyone, I refuse to go to any establishments that cater to young attractive singles and engage in activities that will certainly help me get close to said attractive young singles. Why am I not getting laid?
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:14 PM
1

Are you a 9?
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:13 PM
-1

She some minimum wage loser and you are fucking afraid to hit on her? wtf?
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:12 PM
1

Say you are in bed where the real fun happens.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:12 PM
1

There is only one psychological concept you need to know in order to get women. And I mean get in both sense. Both "get" her to go home with you and "get" women as in understand them. Are you ready? Here it goes; People (women especially) NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. That's all you need to know about women. Look at all your behaviors and experiences wjth women through the lens of the above concept and you will always have success.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:11 PM
1

Stop going out to get laid. Guys who are butthurt about rejection are sooo fucking needy and they tie all their self worth to their ability to get women. That means you are always giving away your power to women and chasing them as if their pussy is made of diamonds and somehow that will make you love yourself.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:09 PM
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Look into their eyes and imagine undressing them and fucking them.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:07 PM
2

I mean, you just met and you are acting like a couple of 5 years. Hey honey I'm going to the store to get snacks. Anything you want? No. Okie dokie. See you later, I'm going to clean my apartment but maybe after that we can watch the office together. Like dude wtf? Stop treating her like your girlfriend.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:07 PM
1

How can someone tell you what YOU want specifically? The whole point of this is to sit down and figure out what you want. What does it mean "to get laid"? Go and pay a hooker if that's what you want. It's easier and cheaper and less time consuming. Figure out what you want and that will inform your strategy on how to get it.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:04 PM
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He has a penis and wants to stick it inside you.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:02 PM
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They are all socially retarded
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:02 PM
0

Exactly! Those guys never get it. They think "if I stop simping, I will get nothing", but that's an unfounded fear. If they stopped simping and actually got some self respect, they'd actually start getting women interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:22 PM
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The biggest losers are the men who refuse to acknowledge there is a game to be played and even if they acknowledge it, refusing to play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:21 PM
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As I always say: whatever power you think women have over you is only the power YOU choose to give to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:20 PM
1

Oy vey. So when you see a pair of nice tits, you sit back and say "Oh yes; nice round breasts. Good shape and perkiness. I suppose I have been so culturally conditioned to find nice plump breasts attractive that I will go ahead and decide to feel attracted and turned on". Spare me. You know you get a boner just thinking about them honkers and it's nothing to do with social and cultural norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:05 PM
4

Ugh? What are you on buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:02 PM
1

I didnt say you need to improve anything. Just posed a question what sexually desirable traits do you bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:46 PM
3

Defeatism is a super desirable sexual trait! NOT
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:31 PM
3

Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:30 PM
3

But the dumb guy doesn't have to spend half his life working like a mad man to be good enough for a woman. He just goes and takes what he wants because women want his decisiveness and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:29 PM
1

Sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:28 PM
8

In high school none of the super smart guys ever got laid. It was always the dumb jocks. So sorry, but your intelligence is not a sexually desirable trait. What else do you bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:07 PM
0

It's pretty simple. If you have the love/sex life you want, then great. If not, than no amount of rationalization and complaining will change that .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:01 PM
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Women wear revealing clothing to signal availability and fertility, meaning she's in that part of her cycle where her brain is telling her MUST COLLECT SPERM. I'm sorry you know nothing about mammal biology, estrus, etc. Yes, I'm aware humans have a so called hidden estrus, but for discerning men, the signs are pretty obvious .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:28 PM
1

I mean it's not like Asians are getting laid and having kids anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:26 PM
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Who gives a fuck about what women think? You are making the opinions of you by total strangers you do not admire more important than your own opinion of you. There is nothing more pathetic than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:23 PM
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If you want to live your life the way others tell you to, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:09 PM
1

Imagine being 6'5" and still too much of a loser to get laid without magic tricks and a system more complicated than the theory of relativity.
/r/seduction24/03/24 04:46 PM
1

The sexiest thing a man can say to a woman is "I got this". Women want to feel confident in you. It's not just confidence. But confidence in you, specifically. That you can get the job done. It's like when you go to a job interview. They care about your resume and academic accomplishments, but at the end of the day they want to feel confident that YOU can get the job DONE. That's all there is to it. What does that mean for a guy? It means developing an interesting enough persona that women won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:59 PM
2

Very pretty women tend be especially lonesome because not too many men ask them out and the ones who do usually feel the need to try and impress them. I see so many lonely beautiful women all around me. They are out all hanging out with male models. Male models are hanging out with other male models at gay clubs, lol. I have found just being normal with them and not being affected by the beauty to be the most important thing.
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:50 PM
0

The only comparability that I care about is whether she takes it up the ass and enjoys it!
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:47 PM
2

The only difference between them all is actually in the man's head and how he chooses to treat them (or thinks has to treat them differently).
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:45 PM
2

All men lie to women. Constantly. You know why they do it? Fear. You know the number one thing that attracts women? Confidence in yourself (lack of fear). The reason guys are never honest is because they think if they are something bad will happen. A woman will be offended and throw a drink in their face. Or she will call you a pig who only cares about sex, then her friends will make fun of you, then they will call the cops on you and you will get arrested, tried and sentenced to 20 to life in p…
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:43 PM
2

That's stupid. Why would you only go after women who are into you? You should be approaching 10,000 women a day and even if they show resistance just keep going until they say yes. Haven't you read any of Mystery's stuff dude? Who needs social skills and calibration when you can just steamroll every interaction.
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:04 PM
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The harder you try, the more you get rejected. The first thing I tell guys is to go and find another source of happiness that has nothing to do with women. Women should be very low on your priority list of things that make you happy. Right now you are staking your entire self worth on some bitch giving you the time of day and that makes you needy and desperate.
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:02 PM
0

I have no interest in sexually inexperienced women. My worst nightmare. Even the ones who are not virgins are often so bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:47 AM
2

All these women to fuck and they are alone? It's a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:02 PM
1

lol, the minute you give up being so desperate for pussy, women will start coming out of the woodwork. You don't want to give up seeking and pursuing because you are afraid something bad will happen. Like, if you are not constantly hitting on women then no woman will know you even exist. But it couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/seduction23/03/24 03:01 PM
1

Send a retarded text get a retarded response.
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:33 PM
1

The Game was never meant as an instruction manual on how to be good with women. Even the fucking retard Mystery eventually realized that while all his skills might entertain a woman for 5 mins, even if he managed to get her in bed by an act of God, he still couldn't keep her around. If you actually want to do things the right way, read in this order: Intimate connections by Dr David Burns Dating Essentials for Men by Dr Robert Glover The Rules of David X
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:32 PM
1

"You come here often?" Walk up to her, pat your pockets down as if looking for something then say "I seem to have lost my number, can I have yours?" Walk up to her and say "did an angel just fall from heaven and into this bar?" Depending on your race/ethnicity ask her "There is something about you! Do you have any Irish/Guatemalan/black in you?" If she says no, say "would you like one in you tonight?"
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:28 PM
0

I wouldn't get physical until she touches me first. Even then, I'd avoid any PDA until we are home. You are taking all the wrong advice from clueless pick up artists.
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:26 PM
1

Are you 13 years old?
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:24 PM
1

I once hooked up with a girl who didn't speak English. Want to know how our conversation went? What exactly are you hoping to achieve here?
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:23 PM
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You don't have to ask her out immediately, but you need to express your interest and flirt. You can even say, next time I see you I will ask you out. I just don't believe in taking to such a beautiful woman over text, would rather do it in person.
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:20 PM
5

5-10 mins is okay to account for traffic etc. anything more than that is unacceptable. If you get there and she is telling you she is just leaving and 30 mins away, I'd give her the riot act and go find another girl
/r/seduction23/03/24 02:18 PM
1

Nah, I'm pretty confident in my skills and being able to get some young stuff it I ever needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:14 PM
-1

Completely agree. I can't think of anything more needy and weird than spending hours on a corner trying to bother any passingly attractive woman just so you can post a field report and claim you are getting better and one of these days it will click for you. Unfortunately, I did it for years and it is the most inefficient and unproductive waste of time. Plus any of the losers who advocate daygame and approaching 1000s of women, if any of them had success, they'd be too busy fucking their girlfri…
/r/seduction23/03/24 11:22 AM
1

Your mom doesn't want her son to be sexually successful?
/r/seduction23/03/24 11:15 AM
10

These comments come from people who don't have casual sex (but probably badly want to). Also women who have been brainwashed their entire lives that having sex just for fun is wrong and that they have to nail down any man who expresses interest in sleeping with them and get him to commit (commitment is just another way of offering security to a woman, it's not monetary but it is the same thing) otherwise they are just giving the milk away for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:03 AM
1

Yes, it's possible IF the person wants to. It's a question of motivation, not if finding actual information on how to do it. The information is out there. There are courses on how to have a more positive outlook on life, you can ask people for advice on grooming and dressing better. There are courses that teach you basic social skills and dating skills. The info is there. The motivation to do what you need to do? That's a whole different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:11 PM
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I mean you can't be expected to teach social skills to someone who's missed the boat for 20+ years over a Reddit post or comment. By the time they are on Reddit, these guys are so deep into their rabbit holes, that digging themselves out is a task of Herculean proportions. It's much easier to keep dwelling on the same one or two talking points and never making any progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:54 PM
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That's not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:39 PM
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When a woman asks you that, tell her "I don't like boring questions". Let her qualify herself. You are a fucking moron of you think you have to jump through every hoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:03 PM
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I'm not crazy about his new social media definition of a Nice Guy. In my day the Nice Guy was the guy who hid his sexual agenda (pretended to not be sexually interested in women, and that fucking them or thinking about sex is demeaning, which made him different from all those other jerks who women complain about). Therefore, he came across as unassertive, bland, boring, spent too much time being friends with women instead of setting up a frame of "I'm a man, you are a woman, sex is the most natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:25 PM
2

Doesn't that imply I have to leave my apartment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:53 PM
0

So if you got dropped on a deserted island, your first thought would be "Damn, I'm definitely not getting laid anytime soon"? Or would you be concerned with how to survive, get food, shelter, etc? See, the problem with all you guys are that you can only think in black and white/all or nothing terms. You either don't need love and that means you should cut off your dick and go live in a cave alone for the rest of your days OR the only way that you'd be interested in connecting with other is becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:51 PM
1

There are more men than women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:47 PM
1

Spend most of it on hookers and blow and then find a nice girl who doesn't care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:53 PM
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Why does anyone think that monogamy is normal and not something that's been socially engineered and hammered in us for thousands of years through religion and culture? As a matter of fact, almost all ancient cultures allowed for polygyny, including fucking Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:53 PM
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Instead of focusing on what you can extract from women (very needy), focus on what you can give. are you someone who can make people laugh, are you fun to be around, are you enjoying your life in a way that people want to be a part of it? Are women having fun with you or are you constantly trying to direct any interaction towards you wanting to extract value out of them? Guys who always go out trying to get something from women are way too concerned with getting what they want and then way over …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:47 PM
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I will reserve that for when a Republican judge declares sperm to be human beings. I don't want to go to prison for genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:16 PM
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Think about how you phrased this "affection and sex....have to be obtained from other people". Think real hard about what this implies about your view of the world. That woman are nothing more than a resource to obtain sex and affection from. Flip it the other way around: "men are nothing more than a source to obtain money and favors from". If a woman said that, would that make you more attracted to her, or would it disgust you? See, if your view of the world is that you are lacking and other pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:07 PM
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I disagree. I have been trying to manifest a naked horny woman out of thin air and into my living room for....going on 42 years. I know one of these days I will succeed without having to go out socialize and talk to other human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:16 AM
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Loneliness is not the absence of love or a loved one. Loneliness is caused by the belief that we direly NEED another person for our happiness. While I will be naturally sad for some time if my wife left me, I am also extremely confident in myself and that I can enjoy life without her and that any time I wanted, I could go and meet another women in probably under an hour if I really tried. I have no fear of being alone. Once you get over that fear, you will never be wjth someone because you NEED …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:13 AM
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You are completely misunderstanding and misrepresenting the advice about finding happiness in life without women. You also make one huge erroneous assumption, which is that women will solve your loneliness, because that's what's stopping you from being happy. Firstly, loneliness is not a function of being uncoupled. People can feel lonely in the middle of a marriage or a relationship. They can feel lonely living in a big city or a small town, surrounded by loving friends and family. Feelings of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:07 AM
1

I thought it's from the "I'm broken" video, but I just realized he was already bald in that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:46 AM
1

Just express your interest like a man. Stop being a pussy.
/r/seduction21/03/24 11:18 PM
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Ugh
/r/seduction21/03/24 11:07 PM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:32 PM
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As I said, women are attracted to a man who is not afraid. That's why they often go with some jerk who doesn't care for her as opposed to the nice guy who will worship the ground she walks on. The jerk has more valuable genes because he is more likely to intimidate others or scare off male competitors. Women feel more safe with someone like that as opposed to the nice guy with his lips permanently glued to her asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:21 PM
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I would feel way more empathy if it weren't for the fierce resistance than any of these men put up when someone offers to actually help them. Nothing is ever good enough for them short of them growing 6 inches, changing their face and their race completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:11 PM
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If you are fearful to go after what you want, talk to the woman you want, then yes, it is quite possible she won't be attracted to your best possible version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:10 PM
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Where did I say that, bruh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:26 PM
1

Have you gone after small women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:56 PM
1

So she had no idea why you asked for her number? And what did you text her exactly?
/r/seduction21/03/24 04:55 PM
2

Even Peter Dinklage has a regular height wife. Before he was famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:46 PM
1

So why didn't you ask her out then and there?
/r/seduction21/03/24 04:44 PM
1

Why did you take her number?
/r/seduction21/03/24 04:35 PM
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The thing is that women want men who are complete and NOT men who don't feel complete unless they have a woman. That means men who have learned to source their happiness and fulfillment independently of women. I don't know what Revolution you can speak of, when it is clear that most males are terrified of getting to a point where they don't need women for happiness and fulfillment. It seems to be every romantically unsuccessful guy is desperately attached to the idea that he needs a woman in ord…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:42 PM
1

Get it looked at. You may need to balance your hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:20 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5879019/#:~:text=Avoidance%20is%20typically%20considered%20a,the%20maintenance%20of%20anxiety%20disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:56 PM
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No, my point is that fear is the problem, because it stops you from making attempts, it kills your confidence, it makes you nervous. By and large, women are wired to look for men who are bold and confident and NOT fearful. It's a biological predisposition the same way we want women with big breast and beautiful skin, hair and lips. These are indicators of reproductive health and fertility. A man who doesn't fear others is more likely to be able to defend a woman. Safety and security are a big th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:49 PM
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The sexiest thing a man can tell a woman is "I got this". How many goody two shoes nice guys can confidently utter those words and have women trust them that they can get the job done. It's really as simple as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:13 PM
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You do know that dating is a two way street right? That men fantasize about a naked and horny woman who wants to sleep with them. But for a woman to become that fantasy you have to offer her what she is fantasizing about. And let me tell you, it's not a guy who sits at home and types furiously on Red Pill videos about hypergamy and cantal tilt but is still afraid of taking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:09 PM
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Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:08 PM
2

lol for sure for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:07 PM
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Why stop there? Just keep making up scenarios that only exist in your head. You should become a horror film writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:21 PM
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Yet even the most desperate virgins admit that they had at least one girl in their lives who was interested in them, although they were not interested in her. At the end of the day, no woman wants to mate with a man full of phobias and fears because that means passing on your coward genes to her offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:20 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:33 AM
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If you are not doing anything wrong there is nothing to be ashamed or scared of. Seems like you are having irrational fears of what may happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:19 AM
2

So you don't trust yourself to be a normal guy and not a creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:02 AM
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I hope more people never bring this regard again.
/r/seduction21/03/24 11:02 AM
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Once one of my work buddies asked me if I was doing steroids when I showed up to a work function in a tight t shirt. I feel women check me out at the gym all the time. But they don't talk to me. I can tell you that the thing that makes the biggest difference IS confidence and finding yourself sexy. Just changing your body will lead to some marginal success except if you come from one of two extremes - either too skinny or too fat.
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:59 AM
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Stop getting rejected.
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:56 AM
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Thanks for acknowledging
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:54 AM
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There are appropriate fears and inappropriate fears. If you live in a bad neighborhood or a war zone, sure, you can be afraid of going out and even talking to people because you don't know who may be hostile or out to hurt you. Going to a third world country known for women luring dumb westerners to get robbed is also a legitimate fear. I'm curious what you consider rational fears and I am 100% the majority of them are completely irrational and just excuses you are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:53 AM
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I actually think understand that it's fear is liberating. Because our excuses can seem very real and rational. But once we realize it's just fear and it's just silly excuses, we actually stand a chance of overcoming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:51 AM
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I forgot about all the girls that know karate and kingfu! My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:50 AM
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Laziness is avoiding something you either need to get done or that will immensely benefit you. Avoidance is a fear based strategy. Fear of having to do the hard and sometimes unpleasant work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:49 AM
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I tried using examples that can be applied to both genders. But since it is mostly men who complain (and I'm a guy myself), my post was probably a little biased that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:48 AM
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I'm on the fence about needing to improve yourself at all. I think the trick is to understand that you are okay as you are. Speaking of yourself as a human being and a man of course, not saying people shouldn't improve skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:47 AM
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Fear of appearing beta. Bam!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:46 AM
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Laziness is avoiding something you know you should be doing, which is just another form of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:45 AM
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First of all, I never said I was RedPill. Second, yes! I've witnessed way too many men whose strategy is to dress in shades of grey, dark green and brown blending in with the background and behave just like the grey masses and then wondering why no girls like them or match with them. Men are so desperate to fit in with the crowd that they have no chance of ever being noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:45 AM
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So fear that you wouldn't be able to find out someone to date and that you'd end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:43 AM
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I'm not even going to bother responding as you got eviscerated by other's comments already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:42 AM
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You don't think if you confronted your fears that you would become immensely powerful?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:39 AM
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You know what I said was in the context of dating. Let's be fair, you can dig up much more terrible stories about things men do to women all the time. But at the end of the day - fear!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:38 AM
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You think these women walk around packing? Or they know kungfu?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:36 AM
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Impressive! Very nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:36 AM
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Why are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:29 AM
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If your standards are so high that no one is ever good for you = fear of having an imperfect partner, fear of disapproval by others
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:27 AM
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Hold hold on! So you figured out that it wasn't your social status, height, jaw structure, facial symmetry or the girth of your penis that made a difference. It was the simple fact that you no longer felt desperate and needy? Well, while I have nothing against guys going to Asia to bang Thai hookers, you don't need to do this to get rid of your desperation and neediness. You could have done it right here at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:51 PM
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It is. Loners don't get laid. At least not without a lot of effort and money. There is a reason they are loners and it is usually due to underdeveloped social skills and unresolved phobias and anxieties. Take it as someone who used to be a loner. If I were OP, I'd actually work on creating an awesome lifestyle, having friends to hang out and have fun with, do stuff and keep busy. When women see a longer, they think "why doesn't he have any friends, why are people avoiding him, why is he avoiding…
/r/seduction20/03/24 06:33 PM
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Tell him all about your magical pussy and then tell him he can't have it.
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:39 PM
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Tension headaches?
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:39 PM
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This is all very good. I used to use a tired and true line "If you can look at me like that, you can also talk to me".
/r/seduction20/03/24 04:36 PM
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No, I'm saying is that at one point in the evolution of humans, the powerful, elder people in the tribe realized that they needed young men to contribute much more of the tribe in order to win in the competition with other tribes. They needed to make young men stay in the cave, make weapons and other technological advancements instead of being out fucking cave girls and only worrying about surviving for today. To give them an incentive to work hard, the elders convinced young men that they are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:23 PM
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Just be a normal guy. Smile, nod, use situational openers and banter. For example, I was getting my clothes from the main floor locker and I saw this cougar who was stretching by herself on one of the stretching tables. So I smiled at her, she smiled back, so I went up to her on my way out and I said "I thought you were supposed to get a handsome, muscular personal trainer to do the stretching for you". Of course, she laughed and we just chatted a little. But it can be as easy as that.
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:02 PM
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Just be a normal guy. Smile, nod, use situational openers and banter. For example, I was getting my clothes from the main floor locker and I saw this cougar who was stretching by herself on one of the stretching tables. So I smiled at her, she smiled back, so I went up to her on my way out and I said "I thought you were supposed to get a handsome, muscular personal trainer to do the stretching for you". Of course, she laughed and we just chatted a little. But it can be as easy as that.
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:50 PM
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SHE IS NOT INTERESTED!!! SHE IS JUST FOLLOWING YOU BECAUSE SHE IS BUILDING A CASE FOR SEXUAL HARASSMENT AGAINST YOU. EXPECT THE FBI TO KNOCK ON YOUR DOOR ANY MINUTE!!!!
/r/seduction20/03/24 12:21 PM
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It never ceases to amaze the type of suffering men would inflict on themselves out of their own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:15 PM
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I don't know. Get a life? Go get a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:05 AM
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Cause women lie to and treat each other sometimes even worse than they treat you. So women prefer to have male friends because men are less drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:04 AM
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Oh god, Esther Vilar again. You just discovered that obscure book and now you think you have it all figured out. Evil wimminz everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:03 AM
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Your boyfriend is an idiot. The link between success/hard work and self-esteem is 100% socially engineered. Society (even back when we were tribal, that was still society) found a way to harness men's natural sex drive to help move the society/tribe forward. What best way to get men to work hard was to tell them "you are worthless as you are, but if you work hard, you will build your value and women will start finding you attractive. So go, work, scale new peaks, sacrifice yourself and at the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:59 AM
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Men? As in all men? No. Men as in sexually unsuccessful men on PPD? Absolutely. Actually, it's one of the main reasons they are sexually unsuccessful. Basically Ken's. The sole reason they exist or can feel happiness is to please Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:51 AM
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You literally contradicted yourself in your first three words.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:31 AM
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You can't be this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:28 AM
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Some of the worlds most desirable men:
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:39 AM
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Tell your man to find a TEAM CBT therapist and be done with this SSRI shit. The only meds he should be putting in his body are Testosterone, adderall and maybe cialis if he needs some extra help there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:38 AM
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The opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference. Love and hate are much closer on the spectrum of emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:34 AM
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This is copypasta that's been circulating the internet for years. Don't get your panties in a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:34 AM
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And then men claim women have high standards for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:33 AM
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I've always said that I look like a famous Hollywood actor and have a 10" schlong and you can't prove otherwise. I win!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:25 AM
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I mean we can't turn you from an always losing nice guy to a playboy over a couple of Reddit posts. You really need to re-examine your life and renounce and loser behavior.
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:22 AM
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Do you do anal? How often do you do anal? Would you have anal sex with me? You get the jist.
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:21 AM
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Being a loner is a symptom of something wrong with you on a much deeper level. Take it from me, loners are bottom of the barrel and there much worse scumbags women would fuck before they settle for a loner.
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:19 AM
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lol, see a ton of you guys running around like chickens without heads. If any of you were any good at hooking up and keeping women around, you wouldn't have to go out 5 nights a week and collect 20 numbers a night all the time. You would be too busy fucking and having an actual life. People who advocate high volume of approaching give themselves away as losers. Been there some that. Yes, I realized it was a total loser lifestyle.
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:17 AM
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Don't think so. They all came over the border.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:29 PM
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lol, Europeans are the least religious people in the world. Def less religious than the US, Latam or Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:21 PM
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Dude, you need some reading comprehension. You keep replying to my posts but can't even distinguish between a rhetorical question and a genuine question. It's super annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:24 PM
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How come the most catholic countries keep popping out the most kids? I used to take the bus to my college and it was on the way to a catholic girl's high school. The amount of HS girls who got knocked up that I saw was exponentially higher than when I was in HS. Can't stop young girls and boys from fucking, but don't educate them on safe sex or birth control and you will get a bunch of teen baby mamas and daddies, who will high tail it out of there as soon as they can. Great thinking religious n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:21 PM
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Depends on how horny and desperate I am at the moment, the last time I've sex, what my testosterone levels happened to be, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:18 PM
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Those shelters house 100% homeless and mentally deranged black men who have a very "positive" track record with the Asian community in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:59 PM
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Or....just hear me out. Men would stop being this easy and desperate for pussy and they would vet women much better. Which would make them the CHOOSERS, as opposed to the needy simps that are too afraid of even talking to a girl because she may not like them.
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:57 PM
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How do you know you want to kiss and fuck her? She's a total stranger. Maybe she just got done blowing a horse or her dog. Maybe she's a murderer or a thief. Or swallowed 5 loads behind a Wendy's dumpster for meth money.
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:06 PM
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That's quite the opinion you have of women there buddy.
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:04 PM
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Bro, there is no cure for hypogonadism. You can't just eat your way out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:03 PM
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It's actually a problem much deeper than "I'm not a pretty boy". The problem is that you don't believe you are lovable as you are. Which forces you try and overcompensate for your perceived deficiencies by being extra nice, extra attentive, extra clean and perfect, with the perfect job, perfect little apartment with a skyline view, etc. Here is the problem with this. By being this guy who is always overcompensating and performing for women, you are subconsciously signalking to them that you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:50 PM
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Actually happens all the time. Well, maybe not to you. But many women play the "friend" game and in their minds they also give the men they are interested a whole bunch of signals, which the male friend inevitably doesn't pick up on. So women, thinking they threw their sex at the guy now fee completely rejected, so they end up ghosting him or being angry at him for seemingly no good reason. If you ever had a female friend who just got mad at you and stopped communication, it is for this precise …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:26 PM
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Approaching is fine but you need to do it from the frame of "I'm going about my day or I'm out with my friends enjoying my life and I see this super cute girl who catches my eye. I Akins of want to meet her and I know she's dying to meet a guy like me". So you approach a girl because there is something interesting or special about her. If you approach from the frame of "I'm so lonely and desperate for any woman to pay attention to me", women will sense that from across the room and will avoid yo…
/r/seduction19/03/24 12:16 PM
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A few reasons. For one, it shows you went there for the purpose of trying to pick up women. Right away this raises the questions: is this guy desperate? does he have no other way of meeting women? -if he doesn't have a social circle and any women who want him, he's probably weird and not someone I should meet, other women probably know something I don't does he just lurk around malls looking for random women who will give him a number, how desperate is this? Even if you get over those because th…
/r/seduction19/03/24 11:32 AM
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All I know is that if her father hates you, you are getting more pussy than god.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:23 AM
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This is one of my biggest regrets. I was on a work flight and my boss was sitting right across the isle from me and this impossibly hot flight attendant was constantly shooting me eyes. I usually don't have problem approaching but this seemed like such a weird situation, with work people right there then we are all in a pretty confining space. Only later I figured out I could have given her my business card or something not to make her too uncomfortable around her co-workers as well. Good for yo…
/r/seduction19/03/24 11:04 AM
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Always be nice and positive even with women who have turned you down. This doesn't mean you should try to get together with them, just be like "ok cool, she's just not ready for me, I get that, no pressure". The more butthurt you are about it, the more attached you are, the more your emotions will sabotage you.
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:59 AM
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Just smile and say hi. Look at them and figure out what turns you on about them and them compliment them on that.
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:57 AM
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I've seen guys like you lurking around parks and malls, hiding in the shadows or prowling the place approaching random women. If I can spot you and see how cringe and weird you are, women have probably already seen you from miles away.
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:55 AM
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So you are telling me in high school, the hot cheerleaders dated the Chess club?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:49 AM
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I don't remember ever saying anything about hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:45 AM
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Learn to take charge and have a plan. The sexiest thing you call tell a woman is "I've got this".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:45 AM
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Hip to waist ratio has long been established as an indicator of being able to have an easier pregnancy. They call them child bearing hips for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:40 AM
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Here is my view of the world. It may not be pretty, but it is reality and we have to live in it. Sexual attraction, at the core is a designed to get us to mate and propagate the species. It doesn't care if you don't want to have kids, if you want to have sex recreationally or just because you enjoy it. If the latter were true, we would be having sex with all kinds of random people. But we are not, we are looking for people we feel sexually attracted to. When it comes to sexual attraction, men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:44 AM
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If all these women are fucking so much and men are not fucking at all, who the fuck is fucking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:05 AM
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Cold approaching hundreds and even thousands of women doesn't guarantee that you will improve anything. You can practice hitting a golf ball ten thousand times, but if you don't know proper posture, swing, timing, etc., you will just end up practicing the wrong things over and over and over. I think you are focusing on the wrong thing. Once you develop a reputation of a desperate loser who keeps getting shot down by girls, you are toast. You will never get laid on your college again, especially …
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:04 AM
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Anyone who shits on social circles gives themselves away as a social retard.
/r/seduction19/03/24 02:05 AM
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Be a soy cuck then. Who gives a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:35 AM
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I think 99.99% of what you think happens when a woman rejects you, exists only in your own head and nowhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:31 AM
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No! Life should never be disappointing, sad, difficult, a man should never get rejected and he should be given his fair share of vagina dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:30 AM
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People want what they can't get. Of course, women will chase after men who have many options with women. Would you go a restaurant that has no one eating in it? Or to the restaurant which takes reservations a month in advance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:29 AM
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Her Prince Charming is someone who is not afraid of her, nor afraid of expressing his interest and showing that he cares about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:43 AM
-2

Educate yourself dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:40 PM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:28 PM
1

And I bet chicks are checking you out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:27 PM
-2

You need to educate yourself on the difference between TRT and steroids. You sound ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:50 PM
1

The main complaint on PPD is that taking action and fixing your life is hard. Which is ironically a sign of low T. Being unmotivated, lacking drive and ambition. TRT can fix that so you can go and fix your shitty life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:42 PM
-3

I'm offering solutions. You are offering....???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:28 PM
-2

They sound low T. It's an easy problem to solve with some injections. They can become real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:26 PM
2

If you have hot flashes and your vajayjay dries up, do you call your therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:25 PM
-1

Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:16 PM
1

Pretty ignorant statement. Educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:16 PM
1

If you are low T you are low T. Can't fix that non pharmacologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:11 PM
2

Why aren't you using HRT?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:59 PM
1

I mean do you think looking like a concentration camp survivor is sexy?
/r/seduction18/03/24 06:58 PM
0

I'm 42, married, don't approach other than for innocent flirting. I find mostly women in their mid 20s who are very obvious about checking me out.
/r/seduction18/03/24 06:58 PM
3

Instead of trying to make good approaches and get phone numbers, go out and do 15 approaches with the goal of getting rejected. Don't do anything stupid or offensive. Just walk up with your phone on your hand and say "Hi, I'm Bob. I thought you looked really cute and would love to take you on a date. If you are up to it, here, put your number in my phone and I will call you tomorrow to make plans". Do this until you get 15 rejections.
/r/seduction18/03/24 06:56 PM
3

That's because loneliness is a feeling not objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:25 PM
1

Well, so let's first define loneliness. In the medical literature it is referred to as "the distress one feels from the gap between the relationships one has and the relationships one believes they need to have." In other words, the circumstances that can cause loneliness can be completely subjective. One can feel very lonely even if they are married, if they believe that they need to have a more exciting, beautiful, understanding partner. One can be surrounded by friends and family and still fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:14 PM
0

You are a fucking loser and a virgin. And you are worried if you will get tired of fucking hot girls? Probably not something you will ever have to actually worry about.
/r/seduction18/03/24 02:28 AM
5

U up?
/r/seduction18/03/24 02:20 AM
2

Tell me you are autistic without telling me you are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:00 AM
1

Did she toss around like a wild salmon that's been caught and was really super loud when orgasming?
/r/seduction17/03/24 05:24 PM
0

I can tell right away you won't be successful just by the way you phrased that question.
/r/seduction17/03/24 05:23 PM
2

I prefer condoms but you do you.
/r/seduction17/03/24 05:21 PM
2

Why do you think he could be bothered to help himself? If he took responsibility, he would have already sought help.
/r/seduction17/03/24 05:20 PM
1

Well, dudes on PPD would have to actually be dating to offer any helpful view on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:39 PM
1

No, they are smart ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:38 PM
0

That's how it starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:35 PM
2

Follow me instead of?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:34 PM
12

You just butthurt that bitches are out there getting their money. If there are suckers who give them money, why feel bad about them? It's their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:58 PM
-1

I bet you that for every man on PPD who shares a photo of himself, I can find you SEVERAL guys in real life who look like him and have a girlfriend, just by stepping outside of my apartment (I live in NYC in a very touristy area so I can accomplish this exercise in an hour tops).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:55 PM
1

So, are you telling me that a woman who wants a man who is her knight in a shinning armor, riding in on a white a horse, who is also tall, handsome, strong, has all his hair in the right places, who is considerate, kind, empathetic, generous, charming, intelligent, thoughtful, honest, responsible, patient, disciplined, confident, ambitious, a great lover, only has eyes for her and nobody else, can't hope to meet such a man in her lifetime?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:49 PM
1

Because hypergamy and polygamy/polygyny are normal phenomena that are taken to an extreme by whatever mano or femo sphere you choose to listen to. It's like saying all animals are viscous and will kill anything in their path with zero emotion or empathy. Anyone who has ever owned pets knows that they do have a dark side and cats and dogs can kill small, innocent creatures, but they also know pets have emotions and empathy too. But to specifically answer your question. The point is for two people…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:39 AM
2

And did you die,
/r/seduction16/03/24 10:59 PM
2

Where there is a goal, but my goal isn't to get her or to sleep with her. Get that out of your mind because that will always force you into the wrong behaviors. The goal is to find out if she is what you want. There is a saying "Women go on dates to find out if they like the guy. Guys go on dates to find out if the girl likes them". Except that this is absolutely the wrong way to go about it. In the above scenario, who do you think has the power and is being chased? Of course, it's the woman. So…
/r/seduction16/03/24 10:00 PM
21

You are doing this wrong. Here is what you want to do: Firstly, decide what you want. I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about what kind of girl you want and what you want her for. The options are typically a ONS, a FWB or someone to date more seriously with the option of becoming part of your harem or an exclusive girlfriend down the line. All of these are different situations that will limit your options. That's good! For example, if you want a ONS, you won't be going to dates. You won't a…
/r/seduction16/03/24 11:25 AM
7

Well that's your problem.
/r/seduction16/03/24 11:15 AM
4

Well there is a lot to unpack here. First of all, take responsibility for yourself. Nobody can make you do anything that you don't want to do. If you can't be bothered to improve your social skills, why should strangers who make videos on YouTube be bothered to make you? Get it. Second. Start small and build up from there. Start with smiling at 10 strangers. Then smile and say hi to 10 other strangers. Then smile, say hi and the ones who smile back, stop and ask them how their day is going. Then…
/r/seduction16/03/24 11:15 AM
7

What is your goal on these dates?
/r/seduction16/03/24 11:11 AM
2

Simple. Only nice guys end up in the friendzone because they always play not to lose. As long as they are in the friendzone, they figure they haven't lost yet. They haven't won, but they haven't lost either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:33 AM
1

I agree and disagree. I don't think one should change himself for a SPECIFIC woman or subculture of women (say rave girls, alt girls, etc). But if one is interested in attracting a group of people, like women, and one has trouble appealing to enough women that would be satisfactory to him, then by all means he should change to become more appealing to these types. That being said you should differentiate between BECOMING attractive or arousing and THE PROCESS of mating. You should work on becomi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:25 AM
0

All humans have eyes in the front which means we are all predators. Only people who haven't gone to high school can claim that women are not predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:19 AM
1

Well yeah, but then the challenge becomes about keeping the person.
/r/seduction15/03/24 09:29 PM
-7

This is the most loser thing I've ever heard.
/r/seduction15/03/24 09:07 PM
1

Thank you but people only want what they can't get.
/r/seduction15/03/24 09:06 PM
3

Dress up like Mohammad.
/r/seduction15/03/24 09:06 PM
15

They urinate on them to mark their territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:05 PM
4

It's like when you are interviewing for a job and they ask you if you are interviewing elsewhere. If you are not, they are not in a rush to make you an offer and not in a rush to make you a competitive one. They may spin it as "you need to tell us if you are interviewing elsewhere so we don't waste our time talking to you, blah blah blah", but the reality is the party that has the least options, has the least power. Your FWB is trying to see if she can gain the upper hand by becoming your sole s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:03 PM
16

lol, you are imbuing women and social media with some magical powers they certainly don't possess. Do you know who is even more insecure than most average guys? Hot women! They are the most insecure creatures out there. Do you know why people use the red flag and icks as an excuse? Because they are anxious and phobic and have trouble opening themselves up to intimacy. Discovering red flags and icks is just plausible excuse to not get involved with anyone because guess what? Sex and relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:43 PM
9

They are usually mentally over it for much longer than you think. The actual break up is just a formality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:47 PM
2

Why is that there is a post like this every other day and you losers never learn your lesson.
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:19 PM
1

Duh.
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:18 PM
2

You and I share the same problem: we are TOO good looking!!! Women just don't believe we are for real.
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:17 PM
3

So why don't they make 11 the new 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:16 PM
0

Because the biggest predictor of sexual attraction from women is the man's behavior and confidence in himself. A guy who is confident that he has strong genes that women need, would be more direct and to the point and not hang around like a desperate nice guy friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:14 PM
4

I always went in cycles and I believe most men do too. There were times when I was horny and just wanted new pussy and once I got tired, I sought a steady gf. Contrary to popular belief, it is work to go out and find new partners, including FWB who are not sitting around waiting for you to call them whenever you feel horny. The reality is, just because a man is having casual or non committed sex with a woman, it doesn't mean that she is off the market or that she will be off the market forever. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:54 AM
2

The men who come up with this legislation are 70+ year old creeps. They probably haven't had sex from their wives in decades. I guess they just want to stick it to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:51 AM
1

Yes. Typically women don't settle for a friendzone type relationship and they get mad at a guy for not wanting to sleep with them. So they blow up the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:47 AM
1

They do. But it's not their priority for most of the time like it is for men. Women think about relationships/connecting all day and men think about sex all day. By giving them what they wanted they give us what we want. We both enjoy sex and connection. But if you go up to a woman and you only care about sex with her, you are basically telling her the rest of her is worthless. It's dehumanizing. The analogy with men is that we enjoy spending quality time with women and even spending money on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:27 AM
24

I mean in every day life, women are definitely bitches, but then I hear stories about a boyfriend pushing his girlfriend infront of a subway train and her losing both her feet (happened the other day in NYC), a guy killing his baby mama and their daughter (they just caught him cross country), another guy ramming his girlfriend with an SUV and her dying, some psychopath killing an escort (caught him cross country in Arizona) and I gotta say, men are definitely the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:56 AM
1

Very bad. Women don't want much. Just someone they can be confident to get the job done. To handle stuff. If he can't, than she will not feel safe and confident with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:14 AM
1

Yea it's very needy and suffocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:12 AM
4

So what do you want her for? You need a cook? A cleaning lady?
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:53 PM
0

If you can't find another reason to talk to a woman other than her got body, you may want to rethink your priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:54 PM
2

You are just not desperate and horny enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:08 PM
4

That's 3-5 days a month. Men practically ovulate all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:38 AM
0

You have been posting about living in LA for months now, you still haven't gotten laid? Jesus. Just go out an hour before closing time. The girls that are left are the ones who didn't go home with anyone. All the guys will be drunk and desperate. Then you show up! Fresh, showered, smelling nice and pretty sober. You will clean up. If you want to have more steady FWB, just approach women and express interest in them (you are the man, you don't have to hide that you are interested in a woman). Tel…
/r/seduction14/03/24 11:38 AM
3

Of course you can change what you are attracted to. You just need to be sufficiently horny and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:32 AM
3

You are strawmanning and using extreme examples. Yes, if we took everything on Reddit to be true, our view of the world will be completely skewed. Women are not opposed to being approached or flirted with. The reason this has spectacularly backfired for most men in the past 5-10 years is because of the proliferation of pick up artists who would approach women for no other reason than just wanting sex. Now, to a man that may seem totally normal, but to women to ONLY be treated as a piece of meat …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:31 AM
0

Yes I can. Instead of being a needy weirdo who has to approach thousands of women (you do understand that eventually you will run out of women to approach and you will develop a reputation) and constantly try to push them to get something out of them, you actually focus on yourself and developing attractive qualities. Then instead of pushing against women who are not interested whatsoever, you approach women who approach you. Those who send you signals and want to be approached. I know this is a…
/r/seduction14/03/24 11:21 AM
2

It's just another side of the same coin. Neediness manifests in three common behaviors. Total social isolation - probably the most common one. Guys feel so intimidated and inadequate that they don't even want to try. But they still live their lives in misery because they think they lack the ability to be happy unless they have a partner. Nice guy route - this guy at least socializes somewhat, but he is always so deadly afraid of offending women that he's always plays not to lose. The result is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:17 AM
4

Blame it on the ahaaaahaaaahaaahaaalcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:11 AM
1

The way it probably worked is that the other tribes women kept nagging the cavemen that they didn't have enough help with cave chores, so the men banded up together and attacked another tribe to get some slaves to help with the cave chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:11 AM
-6

I've no idea what women are thinking but if it's not sex then they are thinking the wrong thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:06 AM
3

We'd all be sitting around for months getting to know each other while deciding if there is some attraction. In the meantime, sabertooth tigers would eat us and other tribes would conquer us and enslave us. Men are a tad bit more....action oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:06 AM
1

Walk up to a woman, pat your pockets as if you are looking for something, then look at her and say "excuse me, I seem to have lost my number, can I have yours?"
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:31 AM
1

Bro; I've been trying to tell you that I've been there done that. It's a colossal waste of time (who even has time to approach 300 women in one month nevermind one day) and it is actually ineffective, inefficient and totally creepy. If you live in a NYC or London maybe you can afford to approach that many women, but in any other place, you will soon get a reputation as a weirdo and a creep. Just going off what that other post mentioned about your little guru there, I already know he is a massive…
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:27 AM
56

If everyone thought like women, humanity would have gone extinct millions of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:11 AM
1

You wait a year or two to have sex with a guy?Your cooch must be seeing less action than Hillary Clinton's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:54 AM
0

You do you bud. If you think your neediness and desperation.....oops, I meant "persistence" are actually attractive to women, all the more power to you. But if any of you guys were actually successful in meeting ANY women in your thousands of approaches, you'd actually be too busy fucking to have time to do 300 approaches a day. Your pathetic lack of success betrays you and anything you write is cap. There are normal guys out there getting more pussy than any of you losers approaching tens of th…
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:52 AM
-1

There is no frame. You either are a guy that has something women need or you are not.
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:05 AM
-4

I didn't have to read beyond the title to know your advice is dog shit. Didn't you stop to think at rejection #100, or #300 or even #500 that maybe what you are doing is NOT working? What was the definition of insanity again? Something about doing the same thing and expecting different results....hmmmm???? You don't learn anything by doing the same thing wrongly 1,000 or 10,000 times or a million times. All you learn is how to do the thing the wrong way because that's all you will experience. Yo…
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:04 AM
1

Yes. Perfectly normal. Go up to super attractive women and say "Hey, I need to tell you something. My entire life I've been really intimidated by attractive women like you, so I finally decided I would overcome this shyness. So I just wanted to say hi, how are you doing" Go and do this 15 times.
/r/seduction14/03/24 01:59 AM
5

Interesting? According to your profile you are struggling with dating, yet shitting all over any advice Models has. Okay. You do you, my ngga.
/r/seduction14/03/24 01:27 AM
5

No because he won't have challenged his fears and demons.
/r/seduction14/03/24 12:40 AM
2

There are always betas who will settle for raising an alpha kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:32 AM
-1

Once he fucks a woman all his problems will disappear. Stop being Mr nice guy.
/r/seduction13/03/24 11:26 PM
3

You are required to do it alone.
/r/seduction13/03/24 11:26 PM
-1

That's not how it works. You are just making excuses.
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:21 PM
-2

What about "kissless virgin" is so hard to understand?
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:21 PM
4

Women are not interested in mating with men who are losers and more importantly men who behave like they are losers. Why? The evolutionary imperative for the female of the species is to mate with someone who is best for her offspring. Sometimes this means a man who doesn't care for her or about her, a man who will not stick around, is not decent, etc. But because he has strong qualities such as being able to command respect, has no fear, is bold, etc., she sees an opportunity to pass these survi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:21 PM
1

I think men misunderstand vulnerability. They think being vulnerable is starting off by presenting a confident and happy outer veneer and once they have gotten a woman comfortable, they pull the mask and say "Gotcha!!! I'm actually a super depressed, low self esteem loser who tricked you into dating him". And then they wonder why they get rejected after they are vulnerable. Vulnerability means sharing something that is intimate and a potential weakness, but by doing it without shame or fear, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:12 PM
3

Yeah I thought you were gay
/r/seduction13/03/24 09:09 PM
1

Download Grindr.
/r/seduction13/03/24 09:07 PM
2

She is not into you. You never accept a tentative date or someone giving you the runaround as in "Call me before the date to see how I feel about it". What fucking shit is this? It's actually quite embarrassing that men are so desperate for pussy that you will accept that and be so nice and accommodating to someone who obviously lacks respect for your time.
/r/seduction13/03/24 09:07 PM
2

You mean partners to bang behind the porta potties?
/r/seduction13/03/24 09:02 PM
6

Here is how you do it. Stop jerking off immediately. You are not allowed to jerk off until you get laid. Start going out every single night to popular bars and clubs. Always show up an hour before closing time. If it means that you have to take a nap during the day in order to have energy and wake up at 12-1AM, shower, drink Red Bull and go out. The reason you show up an hour before closing time is because that's when the most desperate to get laid women are left. You show up fresh smelling and …
/r/seduction13/03/24 08:59 PM
6

I can step out of my door and find decent and attractive women within walking distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:05 PM
2

lol? My grandpa rode a motorcycle in WWII. I had amazing role models growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:58 PM
3

Talking stage?
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:47 PM
1

What you said is virtually the #1 reason why men struggle with dating and sex. When you decouple self worth and happiness from whether you have a partner or not, then you stop needing and chasing them and that's when others start chasing you. You will see that the men who struggle with women the most are also the ones who are the most attached to the idea what you NEED women to be happy. They cling on to their neediness and desperation, but never realize that the more needy they are, the worst t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:29 PM
1

So is she a I don't give a fuck girl or is she an attention whore type of girl? The two are diametrically opposite.
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:42 AM
1

Mmmkay
/r/seduction12/03/24 09:53 PM
2

I actually meant that the men won't blab about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:21 PM
2

You want it/need it too much. That much desperation is the world's worst cologne. Here is an exercise for you. Go out for the next two nights (or wait for Friday night) and resolve that you will go out to have fun and enjoy yourself and you won't attempt or even think about meeting women.
/r/seduction12/03/24 09:20 PM
0

Guys who are burning out are not succeeding because they want/need it too much. Women pick up on that neediness from miles away and they figure "If this guy is so desperate to get laid or pick up a girl, it means he is not getting any somewhere else, which means other girls know something I don't". Those guys aren't burning out because they are having too much sex.
/r/seduction12/03/24 09:16 PM
4

I don't think any woman really WANTS to wait. It's always motivated by some fear. Either fear of appearing too easy OR the guy pumping and dumping her. Virtually all women rationalize it with "I want to wait,!sex complicates things, I want to see if he's serious blah blah blah".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:27 PM
6

Men have been trained since they were kids to sabotage their chances with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:14 PM
27

It influences some women to not do it and virtually all women to hide it. Women will still get laid, but they may only do so with a small number of men they trust won't blab about it and they will definitely have casual sex with men who are not pretending to be boyfriend/husband material. Those guys get the "I don't sleep with men I'm dating for at least 3 months and unless we are exclusive" treatment. Mostly because they have been trained that if they are too easy, men will see them as sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:13 PM
6

No, of course not. You can want whatever you want. I just think it's silly to want an inexperienced girl. And interestingly enough, I think experienced men would indeed agree because they've been around the block and know how much inexperience can suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:06 PM
13

People never want what they can get and only want what they can't get. A guy who has a lot of drama, who is too focused on himself and not on women and dating, who tends to pay less attention to her is usually more interesting to women. You just need to learn how to play the game and that in the beginning it pays to be more light and carefree, never getting into deep stuff and being too sincere and vulnerable. It also means that you are not committed and your feelings are a bit more ambiguous. I…
/r/seduction12/03/24 03:16 PM
-1

Why would you become exclusive with the first person who pays some attention to you? It's usually women who push for exclusivity early on even before you've had sex, because they only bring their looks and sex to the table and they are afraid that once they have sex with a guy, he may not stick around. So if they can wring his hands into accepting exclusivity before sex, then maybe he will stick around out of guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:10 AM
1

Look up Brent Smith Bulletproof banter on YouTube. It will give you all the right tools to start being more social.
/r/seduction12/03/24 10:50 AM
0

Here you are turning it on women again. It's not their fault so many men are total wimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:43 AM
1

It doesn't mean conquering the world. It means staying home, never going out, becoming a total recluse and if you are really brave cutting off your dick and balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:14 PM
2

Whenever I wear my Armani suit with a white shirt or a black turtle neck with a grey suit jacket, I get a ton of chicks checking me out.
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:50 PM
3

Their national sport is complaining and asking "why you not earn as much as Galia Zveznidchovichkova'a husband? He went to Germany to drive truck and now she has color TV. And we still only have a radio. Loser husband".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:44 PM
0

You don't understand. Guys are not horny enough anymore. They have too much porn to jerk off to. They are not motivated to go and meet girls. When I was growing up in Sofia as a teenager, my first girlfriend approached me and took me to her dad's office to give me a blow job. But she was special. After that I had to do everything myself. If I wanted to get laid I went out to find a woman to get laid with. It's not complicated. They are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:41 PM
1

Go out and approach 10 with the intention of getting rejected. Don't do or say anything stupid or offensive. But don't try to get a positive outcome. Just say "hey, I thought you look really nice. I know we don't know each other but I'd love to take you out for a drink and get to know you a little better. I'm Bob by the way. Give me your number and I will call you tomorrow to arrange something". That's all. Collect 10 rejections and then we can talk again.
/r/seduction11/03/24 03:45 PM
0

Women have always wanted men they can't get. The same applies to men, but I assume your beef is with how difficult it is for men to do online dating. The problem is that the very fact that you as a man use a dating app, shows that you are someone who is easy to get. You are throwing yourself at women and communicating "please like me, please like me, I can't get anyone to like me". I'm sure that's not all guys on apps, but if you go to any of the dating app subreddits like r/Bumble and r/Hingeap…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:27 PM
11

If it's not on TikTok does it even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:54 AM
1

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:39 AM
1

Ugh? A cursory look at PPD or any of the dating advice type subs will show you that most men indeed LOVE to chase after hard to get women. They may bitch about it, but they absolutely do. Men are always posting about m counts and virgins here and how much they hate that a woman can easily get sex. I'm sorry that you see no evidence when the evidence is all around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:38 AM
-1

By stopping making excuses.
/r/seduction11/03/24 02:01 AM
1

Step 1: Open mouth. Step 2: produce sound Step 3: make sound into word Step 4: repeat
/r/seduction11/03/24 02:01 AM
-1

If you don't think you have "it" then you don't.
/r/seduction11/03/24 02:00 AM
-1

The reason casual sex when had by women is perceived as negative ia because of the Sexual Cartel. A cartel is a formal agreement between suppliers of a good or service to control the supply and thus regulate the price of said good/service. OPEC is a good example of a cartel that controls the supply of oil and its prices globally. The Sexual Cartel was invented by women, who decided that they should not make their sex available to men for less than the price of security, whatever that may be. For…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:42 PM
2

Being interested in a relationship is very far from DIRELY NEED A RELATIONSHIP IN ORDER TO FEEL HAPPY AND WORTHWHILE AS A PERSON.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:20 PM
-5

Don't be a rapist. There! You are already more normal than 90% of Indian men.
/r/seduction10/03/24 05:46 PM
1

And yet, she probably left with him.
/r/seduction10/03/24 05:45 PM
2

Ultimately it doesn't matter. If you are attached to the outcome AKA you desperately want and need something from women (like a number, sex, attention, validation, etc) and that's why you approach them, your success rate will be close to 0% no matter the environment (the only exception is a brothel).
/r/seduction10/03/24 05:44 PM
0

I can smell your desperation through my iPhone screen.
/r/seduction10/03/24 05:41 PM
5

I don't really agree with your assumption that people are inherently desperate for love. I think we are CONDITIONED by society to be desperate and needy, but it's definitely not inherent. And ironically, your post that many people are unhappy and even lonely WHILE in a relationship, just goes to prove that the love of others is not a guarantee you will be happy and not lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:38 PM
6

All I need to see is that she was on RT, a Russian propaganda network, and it's clear to me what her agenda is. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:48 PM
0

That actually makes you an even bigger loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:27 AM
0

You are not horny enough.
/r/seduction10/03/24 03:52 AM
3

Didn't your papa tell you not to eat the lead paint chips as a child? Or not to play in the sand next to Chernobyl?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:51 AM
1

Jesus fucking Christ. You learned one expression and now you use it to get you off the hook for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:46 AM
3

Why didn't you just tell her to do what turns you on? Dance for you, finger her pussy, lick your feet? Women want to be told what to do in bed. Stop being a nice guy.
/r/seduction09/03/24 09:56 PM
1

And yet here you are saying women can solve all your confidence issues. How's that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:54 PM
4

The biggest irony is that once you overcome your fear of being alone and you stop chasing others in order to get what you could only give yourself, other people start chasing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:12 PM
2

In his mind it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:03 PM
14

That's just another way of saying someone else is responsible for my problems. I can give you a little hint. No matter how many women you sleep with, they can never make you confident and in love with yourself. Their pussies don't have some magic confidence juice. It all comes internally, from within yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:03 PM
1

There is already a book and a TV show written about this concept called The One, except that it relies on genetic testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:01 PM
13

lol, thinking any of these guys actually want solutions. The solutions are out there for them. None of them want to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:00 PM
1

You got this wrong. It's not the ability to fight as much as the lack of fear that attracts women. I see buff guys in the gym all the time, yet they would shit their pants at the idea of walking up to a woman and saying "You look beautiful in this dress. I would like to get to know you a little better". Men display their sexual fitness in their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:50 PM
-2

Men are lying to you. They say stuff like "women should be more careful who they pick instead of going off their pussy tingles", yet will admit that they want to fuck anything that moves simply because of a certain hormone that runs through their veins. They are just mad that they aren't the ones getting picked by women and are trying to shame you for it. But that tactic is no different than overweight women shitting on men who don't want them saying "you don't even know what a REAL woman looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:33 PM
8

The people who procreate will be dumber and dumber. Ghetto ass people and illegals. They are still making babies. Successful and intelligent people are focused on enjoying their lives and whatever is left of our planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:29 AM
2

I don't care about other peoples standards. I only care about mine. If some broad doesn't want to be with me because I'm not tall, or black; or make a million bucks, I don't give a flying fuck. Her loss. There are thousands like her out there. You guys think pussy is this special, precious thing that is the most scarce thing in the world. Bro, every second person on earth has a pussy. It's the most abundant resource on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:59 PM
18

He knew before hand that he wasn't attracted to her and still went on a date. So who exactly is disrespecting whose time here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:50 PM
4

I think the problem with nice guys is that they are too nice, accommodating and considerate to people who they don't owe anything to. She doesn't owe you any niceness or any of her time. If it took you 5 mins to figure out there is no chemistry, it's better off that you go on your separate ways. I kind of don't understand why you are so butthurt about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:48 PM
1

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:01 PM
1

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:01 PM
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I will say this. Every species on earth has a mating dance. It is different for each species, whether insect, avian, mammal, fish, whatever. People who know how to do the mating dance, are typically successful in mating. People who 1. Refuse to do the mating dance and/or 2. Refuse to even accept that there is a mating dance, usually end up unsuccessful, lonely and bitter. I observe the latter with both men and women, but it seems more prevalent with men. Women seem to understand that if they pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:11 PM
0

Studies only work 60% of the time every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:07 PM
1

Soooo...she may as well have a gangbang and get them all out of the way at once is what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:31 AM
2

You are living in their reality and you are just a servant to female whims. You will always end up used and manipulated. Until you let go of these regarded ideas that you have to do what women are telling you they want, you will have zero success. Second, you seem hyper focused on the outcome and sex with them, which essentially makes them the prize. Because they have what you want and can choose to give it to you or not.
/r/seduction08/03/24 01:29 AM
2

You are looking at female attraction criteria through your male perspective. So you are hyper focused on looks and on stuff like career (which is the typical social programming). None of these things are the true standards. What do women require? I will tell you. A man who is not afraid of them. Not afraid to express his interest, be direct, be honest. Be their prince. Count on the fingers of one hand how many men you know who embody these traits. It's perfectly normal if you come up with 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:26 AM
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I mean this is the exact same advice I'd give men. Don't see what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:21 AM
1

You don't have to do absolutely anything you don't want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:41 PM
1

You are making an erroneous assumption that equates confidence and assertiveness with being an asshole. This is a typical error resulting from black and white thinking. You are either an inoffensive nice guy OR you are a raging asshole fighting with everyone. Absolutely nothing in between. No other options. Second, I don't make up the rules about what women respond to attraction wise. I'm sure men don't like that women are not attracted to shy and meek guys, no less than women don't like that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:03 PM
3

No. Unlike many people here, I can easily go out and meet women. They are everywhere and they are lonelier and hornier than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:40 PM
1

Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:37 PM
-2

Depends! Is her porn just acting and she can't actually satisfy me OR has she learned a thing or two in the business?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:54 PM
1

This one is even better for dating stuff. Most sensible and mature book on the subject that I have found.
/r/seduction07/03/24 02:00 PM
3

Dating Essentials for Men by Dr Robert Glover.
/r/seduction07/03/24 01:54 PM
1

Sweat, tobacco and whiskey of course.
/r/seduction07/03/24 01:52 PM
0

I think lesbians have it the roughest. Not only are there not enough lesbians out there, but most of them are kind of dumpy. There is no way around any of this. If you want to meet people, you need to put yourself out there. Go out, socialize, make it clear you are available. Women these days sound like men. "Nobody approaches me!!'n whaaa whaaa" Okay, do you go out to places where people socialize and hook up, like bars, lounges, concerts, clubs? Do you go dancing? "Oh no, I'm a home body. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:55 AM
3

Perhaps people wouldn't feel that lonely if they didn't tell themselves all the time that they absolutely need love in order to be happy. However, society bombards us wjth messages to the contrary - all you need is love, love is the most powerful force in the universe, people who need people are the luckiest people - and so on and so forth in every pop song, movie, tv show, book, poem, etc. No wonder people feel miserable if they don't have their perfect dream partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:05 AM
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Naturals just have the right beliefs/inner game, such as: women like me, women wanna fuck me, I'm a quality guy, I know my value. That's it really. The rest is just conversation and flirting a bit, which is just playful joking around with sexual/romantic undertones. Then you just make your move. Guys way over think it and over analyze. Once you have your inner game in place, everything else just comes in naturally. It's like when you are learning how to drive. At first, every move has to be calc…
/r/seduction07/03/24 12:08 AM
3

Decide what you want and go for it. It's as easy as that. Be honest with women. If you can't attract them by being honest and confident, they are not worth it. But I will play with your question. Whose advice do you take? The guy who has the outcome you desire. If I want to learn how to run a successful startup, I'm not gonna ask the guy who keeps failing and going bankrupt or the worker bee who doesn't know a first thing about running a business. I'm probably not going to ask the scam artist wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:10 PM
6

I will avoid them and bang the bad girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:56 PM
2

Depends on what you want. If you want to experience Asian poon, sure. Book some travel and go. If you are looking to solve your dating and sex life problems and don't want to hop on a plane every time you get horny, that may not be a long term solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:55 PM
5

I mean men claim to be the more logical sex not controlled by our hormones, but apparently most guys can barely contain their horniness and aggression (excess testosterone). People claim a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:54 PM
2

Sure, but I think at this point there are enough resources out there to teach men how to overcome their niceness and lack of confidence with women. Help is available for those who actually want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:48 PM
1

Nurturing and pleasant woman translates roughly to "has big boobs". Cute and not a total bore translates roughly to "has big boobs". We, men, aren't very complicated creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:15 PM
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It's actually even more simple than that. If for example you are trying to sell me a hammer and you sell it by saying "look at this hammer, it is very pretty, it has such nice color handle, isn't it nice? I've taken great care of this hammer and I have looked after it so it doesn't have any scratches on it. But why don't you want to buy it?" The thing is the qualities you are trying to sell are not the qualities I'm looking to buy. I don't need a pretty hammer. I need a sturdy hammer with good w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:12 PM
2

You are wrong. People are attracted to what is the best for their offspring. Why are men attracted to hot looking women with bog breasts and round butts? Because a woman's youth and looks are indicators of her health and fertility. This has been scientifically proven. A nice round butt doesn't drive men crazy because Kim Kardashian said so. The hip and butt contain omega 3 fats that are only used when a woman is pregnant and they are crucial in the development of a baby's brain. What i said abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:03 PM
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Well, you have to ask the guys who blame women solely about that, but imho the blame is usually shared. There are a lot of red flags that people choose to ignore in the haze of infatuation. I have been guilty of this a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:58 PM
-2

The concept of college didn't exist for the vast majority of the time that humans have existed as a species. Yet somehow they got laid. Unless of course, you find evidence that there was a caveman college hundreds of thousands of years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:38 PM
1

Female pickiness is a myth. Women fuck total scumbags, abusers, criminals, cheaters and all kinds of low lives all the time. The thing is, these types of men typically have something that women want, whether that's confidence, strength, looks, whatever, that nice guys don't. And no amount of whining about it, will change the evolutionary mate selection criteria women have. The same way men are not about to stop fucking hot bitches who treat them like disposable atms in favor of chubby, frumpy wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:35 PM
1

I give IOIs all the time. I learned the "go first" principle a long time ago. If you want women to give you IOIs, give them first. If you want women to like you, like them first. Express interest first. You are the man. You are the chooser. By going first you lead and you choose. Passively waiting for women to choose you doesn't work nearly as well.
/r/seduction06/03/24 11:54 AM
6

The 2000s asked for their feather boas and top hats back.
/r/seduction06/03/24 11:50 AM
1

Wrong.
/r/seduction06/03/24 11:48 AM
3

Women, love and sex are not nearly as important as we make them out to be. As a matter of fact, the more important we make them in our lives, the less of those things we get.
/r/seduction06/03/24 11:48 AM
1

Are you ashamed of smelling like a man?
/r/seduction06/03/24 11:47 AM
1

For the same reason that men at that age can't find a woman. Too neurotic, too afraid, too delusion and 100% unwilling to acknowledge they may be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:43 AM
2

Women who are used for one thing and kind have low self esteem and men just discard after they are done wit them. Treat them like queens because theyve never been treated like this and they will go through hell and back for you. And the queens are those whose asses men always kiss and who walk around with major attitudes because of it. Treat them like whores, with a bit of disregard, ignore them, make the relationship about sex only and although they may be appalled at first, because they've nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:30 AM
5

Remember! Men buy into this bullshit which is why women keep doing it. You all say stuff like "she has high n count, she slept with that good for nothing (insert racial/ethnic slur) bastard and hour after meeting him, what a dirty slut! I want a good girl, a wifey, who will make access to her vagina exclusive only to me". Now that last part is virtually unrealistic for 99.99% of women because they have urges are not about to become celibate nuns. They will have sex with men they don't count as f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:52 PM
2

Where does this type of woman go to socialize?
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:25 PM
1

Wrong question. The question you should be asking is what do I want? What do I want to accomplish? Your question is like saying: should I take a car or a train? Okay, but to where? What is your destination, how long do you have to get there? Is your destination a popular city where parking is difficult? Do you have a lot of luggage? What are you trying to accomplish?
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:59 PM
1

It's not this. Bad boys have a more dominant personality and have no qualms about putting a woman in her place (not violently of course). This excites women. They kind of want to be told what to do and have someone take the reigns. They may push back, but surrendering to a man who can call the shots is fulfilling their emotional needs. Nice guys just don't have that edge.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:58 PM
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Because they went out to get laid not collect numbers. Guys are using the wrong tools for the job.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:56 PM
1

Many years ago I was in the job market and started visiting some job hunting related forums to get some encouragement and interview prep ideas. Needless to say, the forums were full of complainers talking about how the real unemployment rate was actually triple the official one, how no one was hiring, how unrealistic employers are, blah blah blah. We are talking about a time the unemployment rate was 4-5%, which is pretty reasonable. My point is, there will always be people who will lame everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:27 PM
2

Sure, let me dig up my magic bullet. I know i put it somewhere.
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:04 PM
0

Exactly. The more you think about what they are thinking (which will always be wrong), the more anxious and afraid you get and the more you talk yourself out of it. I know you are being fastidious, made maybe take that advice in stride for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:33 AM
5

Carefully
/r/seduction05/03/24 02:39 AM
-1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:00 AM
0

Yes to all of the above. As the joke goes with these guys "I have tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:42 PM
-1

Offer them cocaine or money.
/r/seduction04/03/24 10:51 PM
2

Let's see. If you go to a lake and you see a bunch of men fishing nice big fat fishies and you are standing there but none of the fish are biting, do you just laugh at those other guys and call them simps because they learned how to fish properly? If you want to catch fish, wouldn't it make sense to learn how to do it properly even if that means changing your gear, bait, throwing technique, etc? Or do you just keep doing the same thing hoping for different results? I think there is a word that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:50 PM
1

Work on your outward appearance. Being average looking doesn't mean dressing and styling like an average guy. I used to advise guys on the dating app subreddits on how to dress and get more female attention and they usually reacted violently to any suggestion. I think a lot of men who are insecure and have low confidence, dread the idea of standing out and dressing sexy. So they dress in drab clothes in shades of grey, green and brown. You know, the colors of camouflage. Also, smell nice. Yes, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:37 PM
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Shy girls are biggest sluts and freaks.
/r/seduction04/03/24 05:14 PM
0

You lost the second you used words like "it's just the way things are" and "I can't afford to". I will let you meditate on the why.
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:29 PM
0

Not only I would, but I have. It didn't work out but that's beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:25 PM
1

I meant make up at 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:30 PM
1

Learning to be happy by myself on my own was the best thing that I did to my sex and love life. Once I learned I didn't really need women, I regained all my power in sex and relationships. See, when you are fearless about this type of thing, anything is possible. You can meet anyone, approach anyone, you date on your own terms, and if someone says a cross word to you or raises a red flag, they are gone faster than the speed of life. When I was afraid of being alone and sexless, I'd let women wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:29 PM
1

Wives are causing all the problems aren't they.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:25 PM
2

Let's see - women get their boobs cut open and inserted big plastic bags, they inject rubber into their butts to appear bigger, they inject literal neurotoxins into their faces to make their wrinkles disappear, they inject god knows what in their lips to make them nice and plump, and that's on top of putting chemicals on their faces every single day since the time they were 13. And men - I'm scared of needles, steroids bad. Lol. Then don't complain you can't attract female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:21 PM
3

I'm annoyed when losers on PPD speak for all men claiming we are all desperate, horny losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:18 PM
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You shouldn't be giving a fuck about women's standards. They are just playing with you to see how easy to manipulate you are. Apparently very!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:45 AM
-1

Well. I have to say you kind of sold me on what a catch you are within the first 3-4 sentences! Great job!
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:26 AM
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Imagine your ancestors successfully procreating since they were amoebas for 2 billion years and all of sudden on of their progeny goes: eh, I can't get laid because social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:21 AM
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Glad you are taking responsibility for it. Once I did the same, the floodgates kind of opened. I did everything that PPD tells me is wrong: approached women in normal public places and got dates and girlfriends, dated women way younger than me, had ONS, dated multiple women who were clear we are not exclusive, had my ass eaten out, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:20 AM
0

What is the outcome you want here?
/r/seduction04/03/24 01:27 AM
2

People never want what they can get and only want what they can't get. It applies to both men and women. But yeah, focus on yourself and she will focus on you.
/r/seduction03/03/24 10:52 PM
1

Overcommunicating and constantly checking works like all the time. /s
/r/seduction03/03/24 10:03 PM
1

Bro, you are not going to fight Mike Tyson for the heavyweight championship of the world. If you can't have a normal conversation with women and need all of this, then something is very wrong with you.
/r/seduction03/03/24 04:24 PM
2

You can't. People never want what they can get and only want what they can't get. Once you know they want you, they are what you can get so you end up sabotaging yourself and go chasing after the women who can't distinguish you from a pile of steaming dog shit.
/r/seduction03/03/24 02:01 PM
1

Like least wild Madri Gras party. Where all the beads and boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:46 AM
-1

Once you get your head out of your ass and wash off all the shit that's clogging your eyes, ears and mouth, you will see that women put an equal effort in pursuing men. Their problem is the males that show up, show up like little scared boys, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:45 AM
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You sound a little triggered my man. Isn't there a man's lib or MGTOW meeting you should be attending tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:40 AM
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Honestly hearing men talk like you and I completely understand why women shit all over you and don't want anything to with you. Y'all such fucking pussies. For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:43 AM
3

Just pick an activity you like and go do it with her. Hiking on secluded trails or hunting animals is off the table.
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:42 AM
0

I mean, you haven't even met this woman in real life and she is already occupying so much real estate in your head. But you are not needy. Mmmmkay
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:41 AM
13

Just spend hours and hours reading content, watching videos, asking questions and never ever go out and talk to women.
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:40 AM
1

Enjoy being a dingleberry. If you don't know what a dingleberry is, it is a piece of shit stuck on an ass hair and it singles back and forth but never reaches the pussy.
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:38 AM
0

https://images.app.goo.gl/f4BMELYnpUMb85Zp7
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:28 AM
1

All you need is to do the come hither with your fingers.
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:23 AM
-3

You sit down on a couch, put your hands on the back, put your feet up on a table. Act like you own the place. The girls will come to you.
/r/seduction03/03/24 12:17 AM
2

Well, you need to change your approach and perspective. If you talk to women because you are desperate for sex and you are trying to get them to like you, you will be crushed every time some chick decides to ghost because of your height, race, the way you dress, the team you support, or whatever other arbitrary reason they come up with. However, if your primary goal is your enjoyment and your happiness, anyone who is a bad fit, rude, has unreasonable expectations, they won't be a good fit for yo…
/r/seduction03/03/24 12:15 AM
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They? How many men are you dating right now exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:10 AM
1

Nah: you will be focused on failure and excuses. You will be spending more time reading about approaching than actually doing it. Just go and do it.
/r/seduction02/03/24 08:19 PM
1

A few questions: What does "I'll chat on the apps" means? You need to be specific here. Post an example of a recent conversation that ended up in a flake. Second, don't ask women when they are free. It's much better to set the frame early on that they are the ones dating you ("when are you are free" communicates "I really want to date you and will play along with your availability, because let's face it, I can make myself free anytime for a pretty girl like you"). Say "I'm free Wednesday or Thur…
/r/seduction02/03/24 01:03 PM
2

Believing that she will completely forget you exist and stumble on the first guy's dick that she comes across, says more about your level of confidence than about her interest.
/r/seduction02/03/24 12:54 PM
0

Who gives a fuck. You are focused on the wrong things.
/r/seduction02/03/24 12:52 PM
2

Can't you go back to your country and offer a bunch of goats or camels for one of these girls you want so much? Isn't that how it works?
/r/seduction02/03/24 12:51 PM
3

I read through some of your old posts and have no idea what to make of you. It sounds like you have some real paranoia and anger issues with women. Not saying you shouldn't be careful, but your over-defensiveness and over-sensitivity are just...weird. Also, I just don't think you know what you want. That's why these women are ghosting you and ignoring you. What the fuck do you want? A WhatsApp pen pal? Talking about her dog's cancer?
/r/seduction02/03/24 12:49 PM
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You should approach them at a 45 degree angle with half your ass towards them and then ask them for a female opinion. 60% of the time it works every time. And please don't spit at people. It's not polite and is considered a crime in the US.
/r/seduction02/03/24 12:41 PM
3

It's the source of all problems with women.
/r/seduction01/03/24 09:17 PM
4

Stop approaching. Approaching is not a panacea and it will not solve anything for you. It's like practicing a golf swing. If you do it wrong and you do 10,000 attempts all you will accomplish is doing the wrong thing 10,000 times. You don't improve simply because you approach more if you don't have someone guiding you on how to do it correctly. To start off, if you think you are average looking, you are probably not giving off very sexy vibes. Instead of going around and desperately bothering wo…
/r/seduction01/03/24 07:27 PM
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Tattoo this onto your forehead: people NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. If you filter all your experiences with women through this lens, it will make total sense. Yes, the guy who ghosts, doesn't always pay her attention, disappears for a while, etc., he becomes the guy she can't get. She can't land him and tame him, therefore she ONLY wants him. The guy who gets needy, too attached, is always available is the guy she CAN get, and she NEVER wants him.
/r/seduction01/03/24 12:08 PM
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Maybe if you stopped jerking off for a few months, you'd have enough motivation to and get some real pussy? Just a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:57 AM
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You, know, I was going to write some advice for you based on your title and the first line or two, but this time I actually took my time to read the entire post. And OF COURSE, you just ended up being a bitter, hateful guy, who pretended to ask an sincere question only to have his ugliness come out. Perhaps those women that lost their shot on you did it for a very good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:56 AM
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These days people are incapable of thinking beyond extremes. It's very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:53 AM
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Well, maybe they should be better pickers. Since they have all the power when they go overseas, they should have picked better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:48 AM
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You think only women trade up? I mean, I know you guys want to be the biggest victims and will compete for who is the biggest victims but even that is a bit ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:23 AM
2

Seduction is for women. In the animal kingdom, the male is the top of the food chain. He has the power and strength to hunt and fight off competitors. Only in the human kingdom, the woman is top of the food chain and the male is the one who needs her for sex, intimacy and everything else. Do you see something wrong with this?
/r/seduction01/03/24 01:15 AM
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The majority of women I've picked up I have been solo. There is no objective reality. To one person being by themselves means "I'm loner loser who has no friends" to another person it means "I'm so confident in myself I can go out completely alone and walk away with an attractive woman".
/r/seduction01/03/24 01:14 AM
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Anxiety=fear=DNA that women do not want to mix their DNA with.
/r/seduction01/03/24 01:12 AM
2

Flip the words "anxious" and "awkward" and "video games" to "fat", "ugly" and "time with my cats" and pretend what you wrote was written by a woman.
/r/seduction01/03/24 01:12 AM
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I resemble that remark/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:08 AM
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You sound like those guys who plug in an address in Google Maps and eventually figure out that the directions it gives are wrong so no matter how much they go in circles they still end up at the wrong place. And instead of accepting that they had the wrong map, they continue to insist that the map is correct and that it's reality that's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:06 AM
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Doesn't do anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:04 AM
2

You don't get it. When a woman comes to the point of leaving one guy for another, it's been a decision that's been brewing for a very long time. She is not leaving because she is happy but she will a tad more happy with a new guy. She is leaving because the incumbent is no longer meeting her needs. You are willfully distorting the phenomenon to make it out to be like women are evil bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:28 PM
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I don't even think about them. They are the ones who hates themselves actually. I just follow their lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:26 PM
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This is not how it works. There is no monkey branching, which implies that a woman leaves one relationship because she has come across an incremental upgrade. Women tend to stay in dying relationships or relationships where they have lost attraction to the male until they meet someone else and can seamlessly transition to a new relationship. Meaning, most women will not dump a guy, stay single and only then look for a new guy. I'm sure it happens, but is not as common. To men it may appear as "m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:30 PM
3

are you that desperate for pussy? Go pay an escort, at least you don't have to drive 5 hours and you will be guaranteed sex.
/r/seduction29/02/24 08:39 PM
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You are not trying hard enough. You have to try even harder to please her and walk on egg shells around her "problems".
/r/seduction29/02/24 08:38 PM
3

Start thinking about yourself the opposite of how you think of yourself now.
/r/seduction29/02/24 08:37 PM
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See, that's where you are wrong! They put themselves down. Perhaps they learned from their parents or early classmates or whatever. But folks continue to indoctrinate themselves with crazy, irrational ideas about themselves and about the world long after they have grown up. Blaming me for trying to tell them defeatist nonsense? Lol. Still can't take responsibility for how you make yourself feel! You make yourself feel inferior. You make yourself feel like a loser. Nobody can do this for you. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:00 PM
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I love guys who self select out of the mating market. Making my job easier!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:17 PM
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I never did online dating tbh. Apps came after I got married. But the reason I learned to approach women was because I would always go out with friends and they would always comment on random attractive women they would see out and about, but of course, they couldn't even conceive of being able to walk over, introduce themselves and see if they may possibly be interested in him. I got tired of that sort of a loser life. I didn't want to be the guy always looking at women and wishing I had the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:16 PM
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Beggars can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:10 PM
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Lol, nice try! The clit doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:09 PM
2

Well, I can tell you that the act of "looking" for IOIs is actually causing you to get no IOIs. I know weird, right! But hear me out. Women never want what they can't get and only want what they can't get. A guy who is constantly looking for IOIs and trying to get permission to approach is actually a guy who is needy. You need the IOIs as validation and as a clue that you can start feeling good about yourself. It basically comes across as "please look at me and notice me and acknowledge that I a…
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:14 PM
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Learned to enjoy being alone and to stop fearing it. Once you do that, no woman will ever have leverage over you. What can she do? Deny you sex? Threaten to leave you for another man? Don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you.
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:07 PM
1

So you can't skip steps in the mating dance. You still have to dress sexy, put on make up, do your hair. You can meet men in everyday walks of life. Do you take some time to grab a coffee in the afternoon at a nice, trendy cafe? Do you take your lunch outside at a place where men of your type go? Do you a stop by for a quick glass of wine at cool happy hour type bar? There are many places where you can meet guys and you have to be open to it and send signals. When someone takes a bite, just trea…
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:05 PM
1

Brent Smith Mastering Indifference or Brent Smith Bullet Proof Banter
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:00 PM
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Men equate looks with attraction. At the same time, my wife may look at someone like Emma Stone or Anna Taylor Joy and squeak "omg, she is soooo beautiful and has an impeccable style" and I will go "eh", because these are not the type of women who turn me on. I think when women look at a man, they can objectively rate his looks, but his looks are not a necessary requirement for attraction. Much more important is this man's aura, vibe, authority, ability to take charge, etc. An example may be Ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:40 AM
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There are two types of status. The most commonly understood type is social status. Basically having something that society deems of value. This type of status can be very different across cultures. A soccer player from Europe who is treated like a living god there, once he comes to the US, he will be just another nobody. A NFL, American football player, who goes to Latin America will be just another nobody although in the US he gets the hottest cheerleaders. Also, social status is highly depende…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:34 AM
1

Or don't need a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:04 AM
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Nobody is reading your other posts. If you need help with something offer a specific situation wjth as much detail as possible. "I don't usually vibe wjth women" shows me that there is something wrong with the way you show up.
/r/seduction28/02/24 11:07 PM
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Write your congressman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:21 PM
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Because typically women want the emotional connection after sex to continue. Now if the men had made it very clear that all he was offering is one fun night and she accepts, then she is fully aware of what to expect. But let's be honest here, men are good at promising things that they never intent on delivering. He doesn't need to marry the woman, but if he just kept engaging with her, called her after sex and spent time with her, she would have likely been extremely happy that she met him. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:01 PM
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Interesting you should mention this. I've gotten most of my jobs through head hunters. Even when I decide to apply for a role, it's because I've been excited about the opportunity and NOT because I desperately needed a job. I also never said you should cut off your dick and go live in a cave alone for the rest of your days. You should still go out and socialize and have a fun. Wouldn't that make you a more interesting potential candidate as opposed to the guy who runs from woman to woman with hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:57 PM
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You are misunderstanding what they mean by being "used". Let me give you an example from a male perspective. You meet a girl, you flirt and have a nice connection. You later call her to ask her out on a date. You decide that she is quality enough to splurge on a nice restaurant and a show after. You go all out, pay for everything and as you get out of the car to drop her off, you decide now is the moment to go for a kiss. And just as you are about to do it, she offers her cheek and says "Hey, Jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:21 PM
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How to get over that bitch and grow balls they can't resist by Anthony Clarke.
/r/seduction28/02/24 07:59 PM
1

Just be honest and say "I don't feel comfortable answering these job interview type questions." Why are you still trying to twist yourself over in a pretzel to please some rando on an app.
/r/seduction28/02/24 07:58 PM
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Google Brent Smith Bulletproof Banter
/r/seduction28/02/24 07:56 PM
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Well, the strategy is to stop categorizing yourself as a loser. Because if you see yourself as a loser, so will women. The second part of this strategy is to develop a lifestyle that is fun and brings you happiness and that will attract women to you as opposed to going out and chasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:49 PM
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The reality is that a man is more likely to attract women to him when he is living his best life, having fun, socializing and not out there "seeking" his next prey. This is in alignment with this universal principle: People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. That's why the guy who is desperately seeking sex and intimacy, who tells himself he is lonely and miserable without a woman and that he NEEDS something from her, will always be the guy who gets ignored. Why? Bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:48 PM
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I highly recommend you get one for yourself and see what it's all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:59 PM
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If you really are a virgin, how would you know any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:52 PM
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Yes, they can figure it out from your vibe pretty quickly. They have evolved to sense it from across the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:51 PM
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Do you like yourself? Do you believe you are sexy and everything about you is sexy? Or do you wish you were someone else and can only focus on your "flaws"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:13 PM
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Doesn't sound like you are motivated or horny enough.
/r/seduction28/02/24 01:58 PM
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All women want what they can't have. A guy who is trying to sell himself to them is someone that they can have very easily - he is practically throwing himself at them. You have to only approach women if they look compelling enough to make you leave your single life behind. For that to be true, you have to love being single and cherish your freedom. If you are unhappy or lonely, then you will always be approaching women with a hat on hang begging for their attention and love. That NEVER works.
/r/seduction28/02/24 01:53 PM
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You didn't even bother to read my comment did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:18 PM
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Avoiding pissing off a girl on a date comes from the frame of playing not to lose. It's a bad frame. You need to be honest and straightforward with women. Honesty attracts them because they are used to men lying through their teeth about everything. Honesty shows you are not afraid and you are not there to impress them or please them. If you can't be honest, you are a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:16 PM
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You can do whatever you want but that doesn't mean it's a good idea to be doing it. Why ask to be exclusive with someone you barely know? You have wasted a lot of time if you find out you don't get along. Or you may feel obliged to stay with a person who is not good for you because you pushed for exclusivity while you should have been playing the field. The smarter thing would be to tell a woman that you only go on formal dates with women you are exclusive with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:15 PM
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I was going to say, I've seen more fat and short bitch lesbians with relatively hot girlfriends than the equivalent in straight couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:11 PM
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Do you have empirical evidence for this other than "I pulled this out of my ass"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:09 PM
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Women simultaneously only go for the top 10% of men, but also somehow manage to ride the cock carousel and rack up 3 digit n-counts by the time they are 25. They are extremely picky, yet they are having sex with multiple men all throughout their teens and early twenties. They simultaneously only want a very tiny percentage of men, yet somehow getting sex for them is extremely easy. Yes, all of these have been stated as facts numerous times on this very sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:07 PM
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The average man isn't unattractive because of his looks or because women supposedly lack high libido. You are making the classic mistake of projecting your male arousing mechanism onto women. What are the magical conditions that are necessary for a man to become sexually aroused, to the point of having an erection and being able to use it? Well, a man generally needs two things: A woman who he finds physically attractive enough (very fluid criteria that changes based on the last time he's had se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:02 PM
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Testosterone is not the sole hormone responsible for female arousal and libido. Men and women have different hormonal make ups and even if a man's estrogen levels are messed up, his libido and erections can be affected negatively. So it probably can be observed in women that if their hormonal levels are messed up, including their testosterone levels, their libido can be affected. Estrogen has a very strong role in female libido as well as testosterone. These two hormones work In relation to each…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:59 AM
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No, I wouldn't recommend it. I would recommend that the person who is struggling with dating should actually find a purpose/mission in life that makes him happy so he doesn't seek happiness and fulfillment from women. This way he will always have leverage and will be the one who is being chased as opposed to the one desperately chasing others for approval and validation. This person should still socialIze and flirt with women but not make them the cake but rather the icing on the cake. The cake …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:52 AM
1

So basically we all want to fuck our own moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:49 AM
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You can meet women anywhere anytime. Stop being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:47 AM
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Wrong! Focus on what you want and what you are going to do.
/r/seduction27/02/24 08:17 PM
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I don't know what to tell you. The world is not going to change itself to accommodate your problems and issues. What do you think is more rational and achievable? For the world to change to accommodate introverts, shy and fearful men? Or for individual men who want to meet women to overcome their shyness and fear? I come across a lot of Gen Z people in my daily life, including women who were coddled wjth stuff like "looks don't matter, embrace your hairy legs, fat is beautiful". Personally, find…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:12 PM
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You are doing it all wrong. Stop reading PUA bullshit immediately and just be a normal guy. Women are not a computer game. The harder you "try", the less successful you will be.
/r/seduction27/02/24 02:07 PM
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Please stop saying stuff like "I'm pretty confident"....except that "I can't talk to girls". You are not confident. Accept that.
/r/seduction27/02/24 01:39 PM
1

Depends. Are you bigger than the guy?
/r/seduction27/02/24 01:35 PM
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Perhaps his brain was in his ass the whole time?
/r/seduction27/02/24 01:34 PM
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Or maybe, just maybe, women only have as much power over men as men choose to give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:32 PM
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Firstly, hypergamy originally meant a woman marrying into a higher class/caste. It has been perverted to mean women ONLY being attracted to men who are considerably better than them at everything. Even if we take the RP definition as the basis, there is some grain of truth in it. Of all the things men believe women are attracted to like: height, money, looks, muscles, athleticism, musical ability, celebrity, high status career, you can always find exceptions to the rule. A woman hooks up with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:04 PM
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You need to go to the passport bro sub and read some of the horror stories then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:47 AM
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Tell her she smells like spring.
/r/seduction27/02/24 12:45 AM
1

You forget you are dealing with a largely neurodivergent crowd here. Guys who do great in their computer science jobs but who can't put two words together in a social situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:06 PM
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I mean if you are a 14 year old boy or girl it's natural to be romantic and sappy. If you are 24, 34 and older, to still hold on to romantic tropes is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:05 PM
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And when she asks you right back and you answer truthfully "ZERO", don't be surprised when she drops you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:14 PM
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The fact that you had a crush on her means you liked her more than she liked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:15 PM
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You are being creepy and really ambiguous at the same time. Stop making allusions to bring spicy and things getting more frisky, etc. just say: "good meeting you. Let's go out and get to know each other better. How is Thursday at 8pm for drinks?". It's direct and to the point without being sexually creepy. Stop trying to be cute and funny
/r/seduction26/02/24 04:50 PM
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It's men who misinterpret this. The reality is if you present yourself as a great guy and a catch, a woman will automatically think "I cannot appear to be too easy or he will lose interest, so I MUST play hard to get and out sex on hold to make him take me seriously". And why, you may ask, do women think they have to play hard to get? Because men tell them that they don't respect "sluts" who sleep with men too fast. It's just a case of men shooting themselves in the balls as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:11 PM
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Probably no different than women who want a man who is: kind, considerate, charming, funny, tall, handsome, good in bed, empathetic, ambitious, punctual, doesn't live further than 20 mins from her, loves animals, loves the same music and activities as her, only has interest in her sexually and is willing to commit. Of course, all these qualities cannot possibly coexist in the same man at the same time at least not for very long. But here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:07 PM
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Being desperate is what's keeping them single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:44 PM
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Again, same old trope. Women valuable, men worthless. When are you guys gonna give up this self flagellation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:46 PM
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That's quite the logical jump!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:14 PM
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Yes, totally. They can sense you ain't getting any sex and they don't want anything to with you. A guy who is actually getting laid, wouldn't be so pushy or care about getting them home.
/r/seduction26/02/24 12:13 PM
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You could do 10,000 approaches and get the exact same results. Contrary to popular opinion it is NOT a numbers game. My feeling is that you are coming across as needy and desperate and they feel that energy. You said you interactions are jot leading to a result. Well, they are not leading to a desirable result, but they are leading to a result. The fact that you are focused on the result, tells me that you have a neediness/attachment problem. I can tell you that women smell this shit from a kilo…
/r/seduction26/02/24 12:12 PM
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Lol. You know in a fraction of a second if you want to bang a girl. Don't sell me this bullshit of "I developed feelings for her later". You either want to fuck her and make a move or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:56 AM
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Oh poor victim you and those insane female expectations that you are obligated to meet because you have zero free will :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:54 AM
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What's it with you nice guys and virtue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:52 AM
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First of all, who cares what women say or think. You will be much happier and more confident when you stop caring about women's thoughts on things. It truly doesn't matter. 90% of the time it's lies and bullshit just to see how easy it is to manipulate you and shittest you. Apparently, it seems to be working with 99% of men, because you get your panties twisted in a bunch over every little thing women say. Imagine some Neanderthal being told by his cave chick - you can draw naked women on the ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:51 AM
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Ugh? Confessing your feelings to her is the exact opposite of the universal law that states: people NEVER want what they can GET and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. She knows she can have you anytime she wants. You are head over heels into her. There is no challenge. Now, if you had become scarce with that girl and gone out and started dating others, she would have been way more interested in you. So you completely misunderstood the principle and played all your cards wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:44 AM
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I don't expect you to understand...obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:55 AM
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Of course, Im not saying all men. But if someone makes the extremist statement that all women are unconditionally loved just for being women, I am not going to argue against that by making an equally extremist statement that all men ONLY care about pussy and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:09 AM
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It's not harder for males at all. Males just refuse to accept that they can be respectable and important. They choose to keep indoctrinating themselves with ideologies and irrational beliefs that keep them feeling like insecure rejects. So you didn't have an optimal childhood. Boohoo. Go on Oprah and complain about it. Or choose to stop indoctrinating yourself by thinking of yourself as a powerless victim who is not worthy of respect and actually start respecting yourself. That's all that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:07 AM
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System that only exists in your own imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:40 PM
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I literally have never seen empirical evidence that this is true. As a matter of fact, it seems that most people get a lot of their first sexual experiences and tons of easy sexual in high school, when most boys don't have jobs or any real accomplishments, other than some maybe doing athletics. It's a totally made up BS that you guys have bought into. Basically man=no good, woman=prize. So man must work hard to come up to woman's level. Mark Manson calls that bridging the inferiority gap. But is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:25 PM
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The biggest issue with the safe, nice guys is that they are playing not to lose. Sure, they will never say anything offensive or edgy or risk making a move because a woman may get offended, but they are also not winning. Not willing to take risks and bold, risk rejection. Perhaps these are the guys you like, but I've found most women co wider guys like these pretty vanilla, unless they are 35 and super desperate to pop out babies and that's all they could find.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:13 PM
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Bro, the things I've done in my past, most women will be the ones worrying about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:06 PM
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Men are not hypergamous at all. We are all happy to get a woman who can breathe and walk on her own, as evidence by above comment. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:04 PM
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It's funny to me that TRP has started this whole shebang of "women are loved unconditionally" when a cursory look at most posts and comments on here will show you that most men have anything but love for women in general. Maybe they mistake their desperate need for vagina for love, but even then, it seems those men love the vagina but are quite annoyed by the person it is attached to. So again, not sure who came up with the whole "women are loved for who they are unconditionally", when evidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:01 PM
1

There are studies that the human population may have been down to just a few thousand humans at one point in history
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:56 PM
1

None of them actually said they wanted a ONS. They all said they wanted to get laid, but it turned into a ONS because they weren't feeling the guy and he definitely didn't deliver in the bedroom. Now fuck off loser
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:26 PM
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If you really think a woman sleeps with a guy and gets off and learns a thing or two from him and still says "eh, it's a one night stand, because men who can give me orgasms are a dime a dozen", you are even stupider than you come across in your OP. As I said, women go out to get laid all the time and they for sure hope they will meet a man who is good enough for multiple repeats. None of them go out wanting a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:21 PM
1

Sure you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:06 PM
0

Easy. You are needy, you are what girls can get, and that's why they don't want you. Actually, the harder you try to get them, develop a spark, create attraction, or whatever you want to call it, the more needy you will come across.
/r/seduction25/02/24 06:06 PM
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No wonder you failed. Can't even relate a situation in 2 sentences. I didn't even read your post.
/r/seduction25/02/24 05:58 PM
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I don't think you hang around many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:55 PM
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Look at you, nice guy, always treating them so nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:55 PM
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You do understand that women never go out wanting to have a ONS? Women go out wanting to get laid AND hoping the man will be exciting enough in bed that they can go for multiple repeats. A ONS means either or neither party found the experience enticing enough to go for seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:50 PM
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What you understand by personality and what women understand by personality are two completely different things. For you "personality" means being nice, pleasant, inoffensive, overly respectful. For women "personality" means confident, knows what he wants, unafraid to take risks, exciting. The two are diametrically opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:49 PM
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Lol, I've no idea what you are talking about. I have no trouble approaching women anywhere and have done it many times in the past. What you thought was a nice, friendly, attractive guy to these women he may have come across as needy and desperate. Men are clueless about things like vibe, while women are much better at detecting that. If the guy was a typical pick up artist who goes out wanting to get something out of women, that's why he probably got rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:43 PM
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Are you dumb? You said you wanted casual and she wanted serious. Do you know what you want or not? You sound like a wishy washy pussy.
/r/seduction25/02/24 05:39 PM
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I think humans are so arrogant and self centered to think their current problems are unique and the biggest problems that humanity has ever faced in its millions of years of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:43 PM
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Sounds like the end of the road for you. Miserable failure. You've lost your man card and can never be seen in public ever again. Cut off your dick and live in a cave for the remainder of your life wjthout interacting with another human being ever again.
/r/seduction25/02/24 03:41 PM
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She is not what you wanted. What's the problem?
/r/seduction25/02/24 03:40 PM
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I mean society frowns upon a lot of things. A boy becomes a man when he gives up the need for approval. Maybe it's time for you to become a man and eschew social approval. Especially if to you, rationally, going after 18 year olds is okay and normal. You know you are not doing anything wrong, so no need to be influenced by what society says.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:09 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:07 PM
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Interesting! I "tried" to date a couple of Japanese girls in NYC, back when it was still a city they wanted to visit or live in. I have to agree, most of their mental development was still around 12-13 year old, although they were in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:05 PM
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Who exactly is stopping you from going after 18 year women? Can you point to the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:50 PM
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They do! When I feel great about myself, as I already said. I've been approached by women quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:43 PM
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Think Orlando Bloom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:42 PM
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I'm very good looking guy. 8.5-9+ in looks. The only thing that makes a difference in how women respond to me and how attracted they are to me is how I feel about myself. If I feel like a worm, I can't get the attention of a 300 lbs 2/10. If I feel like I'm the coolest guy I know and I love me and my life, I can get literal models interested in me just by existing. I've proven this to myself over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:12 AM
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No woman goes out hoping to get a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:52 PM
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It's not a method of birth control, it's just a fact. And this was in response to the whole pregnancy risk. Not only is the risk overblown, but any woman who has an active sex life can easily safeguard against pregnancy with multiple birth control methods. It's just a stupid argument for why women are not having as much sex as they would like to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:06 PM
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Rule#1: Get out of your own way. So many guys talk about themselves as if they are losers, inexperienced, unworthy, they make stupid comments, try too hard, etc. Women don't want to make babies with excusers and losers and if a guy thinks he is a loser, so will the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:55 PM
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Yes. Do you not understand English?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:49 PM
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Pregnancy fears and female pickiness is way overblown. A woman can realistically get pregnant only 3-5 days a month, but she can freely have sex the rest of the time. Also, women will fuck all kinds of losers, drug addicts, guys who barely lay any attention to them, etc. So much for female pickiness. The problem is not in female pickiness, it's in men being fucking pussies and talking women out of fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:43 PM
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No amount of whining is ever going to get you laid or improve your love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:41 PM
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Women on PPD: dating old men is gross, ewww, they are such creeps, they are grooming young women, ewwww, I would never date an older man and I doubt any women are dating older men. Also women on PPD: then only way to explain the discrepancy between men and women in the relationship study is that women are in relationships with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:37 PM
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You didn't understand a thing from my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:47 PM
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Every person has three aspects to their personality. Think of them as circles within each other. The outer circle is the social persona. Your job, how you dress, what you project to the outer world. For woman it can be made up, lip filler, high heels, boss bitch. For a guy - powerful business man, dressed well, designer sun-glasses, fast car. That first circle is fake. It's a social fabrication. But most people get caught up in the illusion. Men look at glamorous women with social power and thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:46 PM
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That's BS. These skills are passed father to son for eons. We've been around for much longer than social media, iPhones, organized education or religion, much longer than spaceflight, cars, telecommunications, antibiotics, running water, even the fucking wheel. Even animals teach their young how to hunt and survive. But all of a sudden human needs to throw all this away and consider it weird and socially awkward to learn from their parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:30 PM
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No, I don't think that's necessary the case. I think many boys don't have ANY guidance on how to navigate relationships. Everyone blames moms for not telling their sons lbs a bad boy because girls like exciting dangerous types". But that's stupid and shortsighted. If you were a dad, would you give dating advice to your daughter that says "guys love a girl who shows skin and looks and acts sexy and gives great blowjobs, so if you are going out, make sure your skirt is shorter and your heels highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:00 PM
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So you were failing women's tests? So the tests served their purpose.
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:29 PM
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The Rules of David X.
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:27 PM
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Google The Rules of David X. Read it 20 times.
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:25 PM
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Sure. Let me fix your life in a couple of paragraphs on a Reddit post.
/r/seduction24/02/24 01:23 PM
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Firstly. This is not a dating advice sub. Secondly, what exactly have you tried? I need specific details. Be specific, because if you are not I know you are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:19 PM
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Too much to drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:16 PM
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You keep posting the same post every couple of weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:08 PM
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Bingo. I've never gotten laid more than when I stopped caring about getting sex or getting a girlfriend. Women wouldn't leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:13 AM
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You do realize this is a completely regarded take and that if women didn't want to have sex, we would have seized to excise as a species. Yet, we've been around for over a million years. Dumb Neanderthals figured out how to get laid but you can't. Perhaps you are too smart.0
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:12 AM
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The losers are out in full swing tonight. Take cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:10 AM
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You are barking way up the wrong tree. It all comes down to money for you guys. If you think your worth as a romantic partner is how much money you can offer a woman, then just go lay hookers. At least you are guaranteed to get sex. I've never offered women anything financial. Never paid someone's rent, offered to buy her a car, fly her across the country. Yet women wanted to be with me regardless. Women who make more than me and don't "need" me. My wife makes 3-4 time what I make. She doesn't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:07 AM
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Where the rest of the women who are not on apps? Who is fucking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:00 AM
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That is truly the most regard and artistic post I've read on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:11 PM
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Imagine having such a low regard for yourself, that you would refuse to invest in your own mental health and would rather spend the money on getting drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:09 PM
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Bro, cognitive behavioral therapy has been around for many years. It involves doing homework (daily mood logs and disputing your irrational beliefs) and it involves a lot of practical exercises as well, such as exposure therapy, shame busting exercises and more. There is a lot of practical stuff. It's just that guys resist the process of changing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:06 PM
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It's no more crazy than men saying "all you need is to have a vagina. Don't even bother washing it. Who the vagina is attached to doesn't matter either".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:58 PM
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But your complaint was women don't forget d that interesting including your ex partner. My question is, why do you expect women to fulfill all your socialization needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:57 PM
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Do you take interest in women and what they are interested in? Because I can tell you most women are not interested in LoTR and DND lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:53 PM
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From the Miriam Webster dictionary: Hypergamy: marriage into an equal or higher caste or social group. I think it is the red pill who perverted the term and change the definition as they see to fit their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:49 PM
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Johnny Soporno has some wonderful talks on this topic as part of his seductive reasoning paradigm. I don't want to get too deep into it so I will try to summarize. Men and women are socialized differently. Generalizing here, but it is more often the case than it is not. Women are taught from the time they were little girls that right is the same as wrong, up is down, white is black. They will tell a girl who chooses to do things her own way, who makes decisions based on what she thinks is in her…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:40 PM
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If you don't know Jack shit about therapeutic approaches, can you please stop writing posts talking out of your ass then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:58 PM
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Saying that therapy doesn't work is like saying that medication doesn't work. Well, what kind of therapy and for what purpose? There are many schools of therapy and the majority of them can be pretty ineffective. What you describe as talk therapy is probably just psychoanalysis which has been long abandoned as an approach since at least the middle of the 20th century. Also therapy for what? What problem are you solving exactly? You don't need to solve your childhood trauma to be more confident w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:55 PM
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I dare you to find a person who married the love of their life. People usually marry the runner up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:40 PM
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So according to her women have only two choices in the dating world. Be a slut - ie give it away for free!!! OR Charge for it - in other words be a hoe. Whether you are charging with demands for dinners, trips, getting your rent paid or outright saying $150 for a bj, it's the same thing. You are a prostitute. What a way to live and exist in this world! No wonder women are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:39 PM
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I would fuck a bunch of hookers if I had the money to blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:54 AM
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If I hear that someone is a 22 year old virgin, I would think that I met a guy who is simply not horny enough to go out and get what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:54 AM
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If you had one girl to fuck you, you wouldn't be posting this drivel on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:52 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:51 AM
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True true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:49 AM
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He won't have her as a wife for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:49 AM
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Because men are pussies. Because men like you look for the problems outside of themselves and never take responsibility for their own love and sex lives. While you are sitting here mulling the failures of society, Chad is out there ducking through his harem or getting blown by two chicks. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:48 AM
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True. Fear is the real enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:32 AM
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Are you implying that women are superhuman beings that are exempt from feeling human emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:26 AM
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I can meet women anywhere. I got over my fear of women long time ago. There are 8 billion people in the world. Half of them are lonely women. Do whatever you want with this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:47 PM
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It's not like women make up half of the population or something. They are SOOOO RARE
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:19 PM
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Yes go out and meet women in real life that will fix all your issues. If you don't want to do that that you don't want it enough. You are not horny enough. Try being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:04 PM
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You can twist this anyway you want, the problem always comes down to violating the two rules: 1: who cares what's she's thinking 2. I'm the most important person in the relationship (not her, not some other guy who is interested in her, not Chad....I am rhe most important).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:04 PM
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I don't know how many famous female physicist there are, but I know something else. I was more horny than I was afraid of women. I was definitely more horny than I was smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:19 PM
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You need to back up like a lot. First of all, what it is that you want? Do you want to have a FWB? A ONS? A harem of girlfriends? A single girlfriend? You need to decide what you want, because one girl can't be all of these things for you. And depending on what you want a specific girl won't be right for you. And you will behave differently. So what do you want? If you can't make a decision about what you want, you are a pussy and she will end up deciding for you. When you make a decision about …
/r/seduction21/02/24 09:17 PM
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Because fear is caused by overthinking and over analyzing. The dumb jocks in high school kept it simple. They didn't have the problem of over thinking so they usually got the hot girls. The smart guys, as is evidenced on PPD, spend all their time analyzing data, statistics, the likelihood of a woman being on her cycle, having a boyfriend and also owning a gun she can shoot you with. By the time they are done processing and analyzing all the data, the girls have gone to bed with the jerk several …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:05 PM
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Women want someone who is confident and makes them feel safe and secure. When guys figure out that their fears, phobias and neuroses are the antithesis of confident and strong, maybe a lightbulb will go off. Until then, yea, it will be the selfish assholes who win because they are going after what they want and they are not affected by external noise. This is a true phenomenon. If a decent guy is too afraid to approach a woman and make a move, she would rather end up with a jerk, who is not afra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:01 PM
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Easy. It won't be us hooking up and fucking. It will be our AI avatars who will be perfect looking. Hmmmm...someone should make a movie about living in a virtual simulation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:10 PM
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A guy doesn't have to be good looking to get women, but he cannot be weak...a pussy. If you are ugly AND you are a pussy, you are in big trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:08 PM
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Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:42 PM
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Lol. People kill themselves all the time. People who have loving families, who are in good marriages, people who are rich and good looking. Another ai get from that era was Chris Cornell. He was tall, good looking, great head of hair, literal rock star with millions of fans, beautiful wife and daughters. Yet he offed himself. Depression has NOTHING to do with our real life circumstances and EVERYTHING to do with how we think about ourselves and the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:20 PM
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When I was little, kids from my class were drawing naked women with penises. I told them "girls don't have penises". They were stumped and made fun of me. "How do you know that loser, hahahahs". Little did they know that I had seen my mom naked, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:16 PM
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The guy will try to swim back to the mainland in 2-3 weeks max.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:15 PM
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Just schedule them at the same time.
/r/seduction21/02/24 06:09 PM
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Nobody can help you because you are not proving any detail
/r/seduction21/02/24 06:09 PM
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Not true at all. Most attractive women like to go to well lit, popular places where they can be seen. It's more likely to find a hot woman at a well lit, trendy lounge that caters to an upscale crowd than a rough dive bar frequented by loser alcoholics. It's the same with fitness classes. They go to popular classes with poppy music and a lot of other women.
/r/seduction21/02/24 06:01 PM
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Maybe you need to read it again. The point of the book is to accept that you are okay and that you are not unlovable which will stop the maladaptive behaviors, which is what being a nice guy is all about. It's a maladaptive behavior resulting from the irrational belief that you are not okay, therefore you need to "bribe" women into liking you by being an always pleasing and always losing nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:43 PM
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Imagine having all this evidence against the belief that nice guys get the girl and still holding on to the nice guy persona
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:35 PM
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You must have needed that green card pretty bad to marry her even after she broke all these laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:33 PM
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Women are not forcing you to play by any rules. You choose to play by their rules mostly because you are A. Desperate B. Don't have rules of your own OR C. Both of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:30 PM
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You totally missed the point of the book. As usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:29 PM
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No, but I can tell you if you follow his stuff you will be going down a very dark path that will make you into an unhappy weirdo. And you won't even get laid all that much if at all. Ive been at this for way longer than most guys on this sub and have been aware of MM for many years as he was coming up. There are a ton of problems with it. It's mostly all fake. You have to create a fake persona that you always have to turn on when interacting with women. The whole MM is predicated on this assumpt…
/r/seduction18/02/24 01:27 PM
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Oy vey
/r/seduction18/02/24 12:52 PM
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He can't offer any advice because he has no fucking idea what he's talking about. He's coming from the common frame of "women secretly despise you and can't distinguish you from a pile of steaming dog shit BUT if you work hard enough, dance hard enough, perform like a monkey, you may be able to bridge that gap from you being a lowly, nobody to finally be worthy enough of the Princess whose shit doesn't smell. Women think you are a worthless loser but with "game" you can get them to like you." Th…
/r/seduction18/02/24 04:49 AM
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Sounds rapey
/r/seduction18/02/24 04:46 AM
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You are thinking of the agricultural revolution, a mere 10-11,000 years ago. Humans have been around for much longer than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:10 AM
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If that happened as often as you think, do you think tribes would have allowed it to go on for long?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:38 AM
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Okay, it's starting to make sense. It seems that men with a nice guy problems tend to see the world in absolutist extremes. You are either a goody two shoes or you are Hitler. You are either a weak pushover or you are a psychopat. No grey in between whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:29 AM
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Hold on? Why is the opposite of a an always losing nice guy - a jerk?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:28 AM
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So there are advantages to being a nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:27 AM
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Got it! So you do see a benefit and advantage to being a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:27 AM
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Okay now we are getting g aomwwhere
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:00 AM
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Okay, now we are onto something. But do men even need to acquire all these things? We've been fucking and procreating for hundreds of thousands of years. Did cavemen need all these things to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:48 AM
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Ok, be angry for a little bit but then change and adopt the new more effective beliefs. But I don't see that. I just see a bunch of guys complaining they've been lied to and doing nothing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:47 AM
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Hope it's working for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:45 AM
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Got it. But I'm talking about the men who are awardee that being a nice, considerate guy doesn't work, yet they can't give up that idea. And are angry that they believed it but are doing Jack shit to actually change. And why are the only people who get morally repugnant? This sounds like a crazy idea. Almost as crazy as the idea that a moral goody two shoes nice guy should get the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:39 AM
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No, we are talking about being a nice and considerate guy as a dating strategy. If it doesn't work, why do you keep doing the same thing over and over?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:36 AM
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Well, I guess you can't be that angry at being a nice guy then. It sounds like it's kind of working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:35 AM
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But it seems a lot of guys are super angry at being nice guys yet they have not changed. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:35 AM
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Isn't sex a common interest? It better be.
/r/seduction17/02/24 11:11 PM
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Why do you need to get a girl to like you?
/r/seduction17/02/24 11:09 PM
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You got over believing in Santa and the tooth fairy. The only reason you believe in being a nice guy is because it benefits you in some way so you keep indoctrinating yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:56 PM
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Well, he ded now, but we had an on and off relationship for a while. He was a difficult person with a drinking problem, very negative and critical. I never really liked him, but towards the end of his life I felt sorry for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:51 PM
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This means without having to say "where do you want to go honey", "what do you want to do honey", etc. A man still needs to lead. And the men who lead get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:50 PM
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It doesn't take a lot for a woman to be physically attracted to a man. Most men are completely fine in that regard. It may seem like news to you, but humans have been procreating just fine for hundreds of thousands of years before Tinder. We will be fine as a species and will manage to extinct ourselves out of extinction before we die off because women are only fucking 5 Chads in the entire universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:43 PM
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I mean if you've been here long enough you will know that most PPD males are extremely autistic or socially underdeveloped and need things explained to them like they are five.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:41 PM
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If a man cares about what a woman has to say, he will care if she says "faster" or "slower" or "harder" or a "a bit to the right", or "just like that".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:12 PM
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You say those exact words: "hey, we are really connecting here and you seem interesting. I would like yo take you and get to know you better. Give me your number and I will call you tomorrow to arrange a date". Do NOT CHANGE ANYTHING IN THIS WORDING.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:36 PM
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Ngga I ain't reading this war and peace shit
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:35 PM
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I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:34 PM
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You didn't happen to have bad luck. You are just an idiot.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:33 PM
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Good start with the lying. Very nice. You are a real winner.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:32 PM
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Wow, Mark Manson tells a story about a guy like you in one of his seminars. Exact same story. Missed out on his youth because he was married and couldn't do anything with college students coming onto him (he was a college professor) and then when he divorced at 50, started going out to clubs to pursue these same young women. Except he was a creepy old guy and kept getting shot down. Lolololol
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:31 PM
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I've never been approached more by women than in my 40s.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:28 PM
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I figured out you are autistic just from the title of your post.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:26 PM
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Stop trying to figure out what women are thinking.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:26 PM
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The purpose of a relationship between a man and a woman is sex. If you need a pen pal, I'm sure there are some guys in prison who would love to write letters with you
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:24 PM
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I have no idea what is the point you are trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:22 PM
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People having irrational demand on themselves and the world are the unhappiest. This includes 99% of male and many female posters on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:52 PM
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This isn't about pursuing or not pursuing. A woman could be pursuing a man and not plan a date. This has nothing to do with this. The truth of the matter is, men are the ones who take the lead and make decisions. To the regular man maybe that's a burden they hate. To me, I embraced this responsibility long ago and I have been extremely successful in dating because I did. Instead of bitching and moaning about having to make decisions, I decide the date on my terms. I decide when and where to go a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:48 PM
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I can't even understand what you are asking w without actual examples of what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:44 PM
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The thinking is that because most men will fuck anything that barely resembles a woman, then all a woman would need to do to get laid is shout in a loud voice "someone come and fuck me right now" and a queue of willing men would form around the block. And the only reason women don't do this all the time (or ever) is any of the following: -they don't sleep with men just to spite them -they are not interested in sex -their standards are so high that only .000001% of all men are attractive enough f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:42 PM
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They are. But one is even more delusional than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:22 PM
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If it was so easy for women to have sex why aren't they having it 24/7 with all kinds of different men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:12 PM
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That's a big part of the whole pedestal thing. Along with how pussy will supposedly cure them of their depression, low self esteem, lack of career prospects, lack of direction/purpose in life, loneliness, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:05 PM
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There is none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:01 PM
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Men could also have sex with lots of other men if sex is really all they cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:00 PM
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So why aren't women having sex 24/7. The explanation must not be anything about how their pussies don't work or how they despise men, because let's face it, female erotic pleasure is 100% scientifically proven and the fact that we exist as a species and have the biggest human population in history, proved that women do in fact want to be with men. So whatever your explanation is, it cannot use those two irrational arguments. Let's go?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:00 PM
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So why don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:57 PM
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So do men. You can go out on the street or another crowded place and loudly proclaim "I will have sex with ANYONE who wants me" and sure enough some homely dude will come out of the woodwork and take you up on your offer. Oh, but you are not sexually aroused by a random homely dude? You want an attractive girl who wants to have sex with you? Well, women have some requirements that must be met before they are aroused enough to have sex and just because some guy is offering it, it doesn't mean tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:57 PM
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Exactly right! See men and women both tend to project their sexual arousal process onto the other gender. Take men for example. What does it take to make a man aroused (meaning have an erection and be able to actually use it). It's a magic combination of two criteria: Someone who is attractive ENOUGH (which depends on how horny the guy is, how many beers he's had and how late into the night it gets). She must appear willing. That's it! That's all it takes for a man to become aroused enough to ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:54 PM
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That's not what they are trying to do. They are trying to encourage women to feel attraction for men they are not attracted to. Slightly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:45 AM
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Never had a woman tell me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:44 AM
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None of you like the truth when I tel it to you. You keep putting t women on pedestals, you keep trying to desperately pursue them as if their pussy is made of diamonds and go about it on this needy and separate way. When I tell you you need to give up your addiction to female validation and love/sex, you will finally get it. But you never want to give it up. You don't want to give up being needy and submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:00 PM
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Sure thing buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:33 PM
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Imagine living your life based on the ramblings of a second rate comedian who let himself be punched in the face on national TV and become the butt of jokes for years after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:38 PM
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As the Buddha once said "all suffering is caused by desire". And if you desire something that doesn't exist that makes it even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:37 PM
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It absolutely will. There are so few men out there that are perceived as being on the same level as a hot girl that it won't be that difficult to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:50 PM
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The advice has several implications. But basically, most men tend to see women as "up there" and men as "down here". They will use arguments such as "women have inherent value", "women were born with a vagina so they are valued right off the bat", "women have all the power", "women are the choosers", "women decide if you will have sex", etc, etc. Then they see themselves as "down here": men are useless, men are inherently worthless, a man has to work hard to create value for himself, a man must …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:47 PM
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I don't know. From most of the posts here men don't seem to like women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:30 PM
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I'm not saying it's fine or enjoyable, just not the dire need you are telling yourself it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:46 PM
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You won't even be aware you act needy. It's your vibe. You don't have to call a woman 10 times in one day because she didn't pick up the phone when she told you she would. It's just how you come across.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:19 PM
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It sounds like you are needy and latch on to them the second they give you some attention.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:11 PM
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What's the point of your sob story?
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:08 PM
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No. Everybody knows that you have to give a woman 100% attention and text her all the time otherwise she will forget you exist the minute she doesn't receive a text from you in the form "wyd" or a meme or a good morning text. This is like basic stuff my man.
/r/seduction16/02/24 12:07 PM
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Yes of course. We all fantasize about turning the proper, nice girl into a total slut that takes it in all holes. But just for us of course! Not for any other men!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:04 PM
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Bad attitude, insulting towards men or myself specifically, bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:59 AM
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The thing that helped me progress much faster is the exact opposite of what you are doing right now. I mean it's all great that you want to fix this part of your life, but you are going about it from a place of "lack". You are telling yourself you lack skills, lack the ability to attract women, lack social skills, so you go out trying to meet women but carry this needy, lacking vibe and this will kill your attraction 100% of the time every time. Don't get me wrong. You will have the illusion of …
/r/seduction16/02/24 03:33 AM
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Autism in its full glory.
/r/seduction16/02/24 03:16 AM
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I mean you choose to want a kid and a family and a life partner. You are amplifying this to some dire need. Wtf is going to happen if you don't get the woman that you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:04 AM
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I mean you lead with THAT!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:45 AM
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Good luck with that. I'm sure some woman will be happy to be reduced to a baby maker just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:41 AM
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Whatever you are willing to give up, you will get more of than you can handle. It's not about giving up love and sex necessarily. It's about giving up the need for love and sex. Why does it work? It follows a simple but powerful universal law: people NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. A person who constantly NEEDS others for love, happiness, attention, companionship, etc., is by definition someone who is easy to get. He literally throws himself at others: "take me, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:41 AM
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That's what neediness is. It's not the actual appreciation of another person. It's the belief that another person holds the secret key to your happiness and only if you earn their love can you finally get to the real prize. And then those needy guys wonder why they get rejected. Women never want to attach themselves to a guy who is not complete as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:56 PM
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The delusional always comes out with these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:44 PM
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Leave it to religion to cuck men out of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:35 PM
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And you are magically still alive! Well look at that! So much for your "dire natural need".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:15 PM
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Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:14 PM
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So your empirical evidence that supposedly supports your argument is "a friend of mine told me"? Mmmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:03 PM
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The so called genetic garbage was evolutionary more successful than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:58 PM
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This makes zero sense. Men and women go after each other and NOT after some third gender, aliens or large farm animals. Therefore, it is easy for a woman to date men, then it must be equally easy for a man to date those women. Here is an example. 100 women. 100 men. 100 women find it extremely easy and effortless to find a date with one of the existing 100 men. Of those 100 men, let's say 80 get a date with a woman. If it is easy for the woman to get a date, it means that it is easy for the man …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:50 PM
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Very good question! Allow me to elaborate. When we need someone else in order to be happy and fulfilled, it amounts to us saying "please take me! I can't even stand myself! I'm worthless without other people taking interest in me". Wow, do you think this makes for a very "marketable" partner? Here is another reason. Needy people are inherently greedy and self centered. They always seek to extract something from other people: attention, validation, approval, reassurance, etc. When people feel tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:37 PM
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What's the longest you've gone without sex or companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:47 PM
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You can certainly pleasure yourself if so inclined but I have still to hear about someone dying because of lack of sex. The very existence of this sub and the men who frequent it (mostly virgins) supports my notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:14 PM
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There is a HUUUUGE difference between NEED and WANT. I will always maintain that the problem most men have is that they have convinced themselves they NEED women and sex. Once they let go of that silly notion and learn that life is enjoyable and worthwhile outside of sex and relationships, then they will have a much easier time getting involved in those if they so WANT. The biggest issue (and that applies to both genders) is that neediness is perceived as undesirable so constantly buying into th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:12 PM
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They don't! It's all in their heads and ironically, if they were to give up their dire need for love and sex, they'd have more of both than they could ever handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:30 PM
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It's not true but a lot of guys believe that the only value they bring to the table is being able to earn money. They reason "a woman is only going to want me if she NEEDS me, therefore a woman who earns her own money will never need me, therefore I need to find a woman who is fully dependent on me so I can have some power and leverage in this relationship." That's why men lament that women don't "need" them anymore. But interestingly enough, men never say they don't "need" women although men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:18 PM
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Why do you believe a woman MUST ABSOLUTELY be super responsive to you just because you've went out a couple of times?
/r/seduction15/02/24 05:15 PM
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Do you have any empirical evidence that women only fuck 10% of the male population?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:28 PM
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Would you have sex wjth someone you are not attracted to or a person who does not arouse you sexually? Are you even capable of having sex with someone who doesn't arouse you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:59 PM
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It just be Opposite Day in PPD land.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:12 PM
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Have you ever been approached by a strange man...excluding any socially acceptable place where people meet, so the only place that counts is a dark alley at night, a poorly lit parking lot or the dumpster behind a Wendy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:09 PM
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I've been at this way longer than you have and have been more successful at it than you. The thing that matters the most when it comes to attracting women is how you feel about yourself. In your case, no matter how much you dismiss this fact or try to pretend that you do in fact accept and life and respect yourself, I can easily see through your BS. The reality is you have a poor self image, a poor opinion of yourself and that's what's holding you back. I can spot guys like you easily. Women can…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:03 PM
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Point proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:44 PM
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Albert Ellis said that Shoulding and MUSTerbating are the most common ways of making ourselves miserable, because they force us into extremist and irrational ways of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:06 PM
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Can you love your mom and a romantic partner at the same time? Can you love two of your kids at the same time? Can you show fondness for more than one friend at a time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:03 PM
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I won't point it out because you will try to counter it with a statement that lacks any evidence. So I will let you figure it out for yourself. But ask yourself: do you really treat yourself as well as you say you do? Do you really?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:02 PM
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Oy vey. Do you think being this desperate, needy and socially regarded is actually attractive to women?
/r/seduction15/02/24 12:00 PM
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Try looking at them like you are fucking then.
/r/seduction15/02/24 11:58 AM
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How you groom yourself and how you dress is a reflection of how you treat yourself and how you feel about yourself. I see way too many guys who look like they have given up on life, dating and themselves. Dressing like shit, looking unkept. All the guys who have decent girlfriends have at least some fashion sense and take pride in how they present themselves. So whatever you want with this observation.
/r/seduction15/02/24 11:57 AM
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Your other comments betray your bravado.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:47 AM
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That's the point. You have to start treating yourself well and others will follow. If you wait for them to treat you well while you treat yourself like shit, they will just treat you like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:48 AM
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Go and talk to ten people about how awkward you feel going out by yourself.
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:03 PM
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So you have no idea what you want?
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:00 PM
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The article you linked to talks about fertility not fitness. Genetic diversity has been studies and it has been shown that less genetically diverse people suffer from higher mortality: https://bmcgenomdata.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12863-014-0159-7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:29 PM
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I never said automatically. That's an irrational demand you have made up. But it will definitely INCREASE your chances of others finding you sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:33 PM
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Because it's not. If it happens, it's only because of cultural norms, ie man made reasons. The species needs genetic diversity or we will become a genetic dead end in a few generations. There are isolated populations around the world where inbreeding is well documented. You don't want those consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:12 PM
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Oy vey! The concept of self fulfilling prophecy is pretty well established in psychology. You may want to look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:10 PM
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I TOTALLY REMEMBER THAT! I'm 90 now and I can't get it up but remember those post war times very fondly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:27 PM
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I think I've read studies about how when we were in tribes, women were more likely to leave their tribe and shack up with a man in another tribe than shack up with a man in their own tribe. Which makes sense from a genetic diversity standpoint, otherwise we'd be mostly regarded in a few short generations. I think the theory of genetic diversity also explains why so many men struggle with dating. They all look the same, dress the same, smell the same and behave the same. They remind women of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:04 PM
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Christian girls are the worst human beings on Earth. There, I said it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:59 AM
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I'm sorry your mom or society other the bank that loaned you a lot of money to go to med school lied to you that doctors are entitled to the hottest women and banging a new supermodel every week. I have to say, reading your post made me cringe hard because this is such a trope you hear on PPD all the time. It's always a variation of "I was told that if I work really hard and scale new peaks and have all these achievements, I will finally be worthy of a slightly better looking vagina." All this t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:59 AM
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What fucking self defeating bullshit is this? Don't you get tired of beating yourself up every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:44 AM
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I've had women literally tell me "attack that pussy". They certainly didn't mean "make slow and gentle love to me"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:54 AM
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Most men with large penises have absolutely no idea how to use them, ending up bruising and hurting their sexual partners rather than satisfying them. I'm of a very average size down there and my penis is more than enough to satisfy any size queen that comes my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:59 PM
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Okay, if you can show me a scientific instrument that accurately measures self esteem and is not based on "self reporting", then I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:37 PM
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Do you have a device to measure self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:28 PM
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So are you trying to say that life is unbearable and not worth living unless you are beautiful and tall?
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:51 PM
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So you are saying you refuse to feel good about yourself until some random woman feels good about you?
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:33 PM
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I read through most of the comments here and it is NO SURPRISE that so many men struggle romantically. As I always say: infinitely more men suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur. If you don't feel sexy for yourself, how do you expect other people to find you sexy? People are followers. They take cues from you on how to treat you. If you treat yourself like crap, so will they. Waiting on others to give you clues whether you should like yourself or not by liking you or dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:57 PM
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It sounds like once she expresses interest, your head starts spinning and you get needy and over invested. Learn to deaccelerate these type of things. Be harder to get and not that available. Don't fast forward in your head what sex with her will he like, etc. Have an end game to your night. Whether it's an after party, or a night cap, whatever. This way you can always tell her: "hey, I think Im done with this place. Heading home for a night cap. You are welcome to join if you want". And then st…
/r/seduction13/02/24 04:54 PM
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How can we help you if we have no idea what your profile looks like or how you message women?
/r/seduction13/02/24 04:50 PM
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Trying to think about what others are thinking or what the woman you are approaching is thinking is absolutely the worst thing you can do. It will not fix your fear it will make it worse.
/r/seduction13/02/24 04:49 PM
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Understanding the sentiment is not enough. You have to start living it. Women will say a lot of things just to say a lot of things. Sometimes it is to see how easy you are to manipulate, at other times it their own neuroses attempting to sabotage them. You can't focus on what a woman means when she says X. You need to focus on what you want.
/r/seduction13/02/24 03:30 PM
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Rule #1 who gives a fuck about what they are thinking or saying
/r/seduction13/02/24 01:50 PM
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But the thing is it is NOT an effective way of meeting women. It's counterintuitive because it is just the illusion of action. Meaning, the guy takes action and makes things "happen", but at the end of the day the results are lacking. Why, you may ask? For a man to go out and spam approach dozens of women it just signals his neediness and desperation. That's why a lot of these pua types always brag about how many sets they open and how many numbers they get, but they rarely talk about going on a…
/r/seduction13/02/24 01:49 PM
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I think it's much more likely that a woman like this will end up lamenting to her girlfriends about where all the good men have gone while refusing to look in the mirror. In a lot of ways, neurotic behavior like this is just the female equivalent of a man who is so afraid of potential rejection that he doesn't even go out to socialize. The problem is the irrational neurosis and irrational beliefs that drive neurotic behavior and other maladaptive behaviors. At the end of the day if a woman is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:36 PM
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I don't understand what any of this has to do with integrity. Believing in irrational beliefs doesn't make you a high integrity person. It makes you a fool. And men can lie all they want but they can't change their behavior without changing their identity. And their behavior will always out them as a low status male.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:49 PM
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Ok. Just wanted to make sure he is completely absolved of any blame in your upbringing. Obviously he couldn't have possibly screwed you up because he was NEVER there in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:16 PM
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The short answer is yes.
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:14 PM
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Set the rules early on and get her agreement (or disagreement) with the arrangement. If you do not set the rules first, she will and you are NOT going to like them.
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:14 PM
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No offense, but from the sound of your post it looks like you are refusing to do anything that actually works. You seem to be clinging to this identity that you have created for yourself of the awkward, socially inept weirdo nerd and you refuse to give it up. Until you do, don't expect any change in your situation.
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:04 PM
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Yes. There is a bit of that. I got to a point where women were talking for me pretty easily and it can be emotionally taxing.
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:00 PM
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That's not why people frown upon it. Just like anything most men are so lacking in calibration and common sense, that they will take something as normal as meeting someone on the street and make it into a weird, needy and desperate display of male autism. Meaning, guys will start randomly stopping and bothering women everywhere until someone punches them in the face or calls the cops of them for harassing people. When things reach that point, the whole concept of approaching a stranger gets a ba…
/r/seduction13/02/24 11:56 AM
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You need to learn to speak Inceleese. "High standards" roughly translates to "A man who has qualities that I do not".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:52 AM
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So who is fucking the 9s? Do you guys even hear yourselves talk? If you actually heard another person say what you said, you'd think they are totally nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:49 AM
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Cause they are usually hot and men are ruled by their hormones and boners. Oh, you really bought into the BS that men on PPD fed to you that men are rational and will take any fat ugly bitch as long as she is nice to him and that they can totally control who they are attracted to? Yeah right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:46 AM
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Where was your dad in all of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:43 AM
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Surprise surprise. People already do all of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:39 AM
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Don't you people ever get tired of sounding so insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:16 AM
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As I said, this isn't about cutting off your dick and locking yourself up in your apartment and never coming out. But I guess that's what you want to read into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:12 AM
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You basically said that life has no purpose unless you live it for others and not yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:38 AM
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The point here isn't to cut off your dick and balls and live in a cave in the mountains with no human contact for the rest of your days. The point is: are you afraid of being alone and therefore act desperate and needy for scraps of attention OR are you someone who believes they can lead a happy life with or without a companion and if they wanted one, they would be with them because they choose to and not because they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:55 PM
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So have you died yet from not having a companion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:53 PM
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How has being this dense worked out for you so far in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:52 PM
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I don't think they are weak, but they believe in some very irrational and incorrect ideas that are harming them and their romantic success. The irrational idea is that "Love is a requirement for happiness and fulfillment and I MUST absolutely be loved OR I will be miserable and worthless". Imagine if you placed such crazy demands on yourself! Hat would mean that anytime you are by yourself you will feel awful and terrible. You will devalue yourself and need others for your basic emotional needs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:56 PM
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Can I get on Oprah?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:11 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:56 PM
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I think I was preyed on sexually when I was a teenager. In high school it was always the girls a year or two older who were into me and my first gf was one class above me. Now 26 years later I am ready to talk about this. They took a advantage of me and my undeveloped male brain (the male brain doesn't fully mature until 25). They took advantage of my ability to get a rock hard erection and be able to have seggs 3 times a day. Where can I submit my lawsuit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:39 PM
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Man, you are not fucking getting it at all. Women WANT TO CHASE. They will never admit it, but chasing a man fulfills their innermost emotional needs. All women yearn for a man who is above them, their Prince Charming. It's been like this since times immemorial. Even in fairy tales, it is always the Prince or King that the girl is after. No woman wants to be pursued by a man because that automatically assumes that he is below her level. Pursing and adoring implies that you need the other person …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:38 PM
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Who says they are getting abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:02 PM
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I think because people tell themselves "If I make a move I may get rejected and that will be uncomfortable". Which is a sane and true statement. But then they usually add (spoken or unspoken), "and if I do get rejected it means that I'm a worthless loser and everybody will laugh at me, therefore I MUST never fail". Which of course leads to total avoidance, playing it too safe, or being too platonic and taking weeks, months and even years to express your interest. The second part of that thought …
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:54 PM
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She was in your bed and you didn't try to fuck her once?
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:46 PM
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Let me answer this for you. It fulfills an emotional need women have that nice guys can't fill. The same way a guy will prefer to date a hot stripper who may neglect him than date an average or otherwise unremarkable woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:21 PM
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YouTube Brent Smith Indifference or Brent Smith Bulletproof Banter.
/r/seduction12/02/24 12:01 PM
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Start with taking some popular exercise classes if your gym offers them. These usually have a 4:1 women to man ratio and most of the girls tend to be hot. Become a regular. Every time you come in for class, come a bit early, greet everyone, banter a little bit. With time you will know most girls there and you can start talking to them outside of class if you run into them as well.
/r/seduction12/02/24 11:59 AM
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Here are a few suggested readings/viewings. On YouTube you can find: Albert Ellis "Conquering the dire need for love" lecture: https://youtu.be/lMBqFFnSS5U?si=ehXv5k8-VqXJ527P Also, download a PDF copy of Intimate Connections by Dr. David Burns: https://www.scribd.com/document/170138411/Intimate-Connections-David-Burns And finally I'd suggest you read Dating Essentials for Men by Dr Robert Glover.
/r/seduction12/02/24 11:54 AM
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It's all relative. A short man will do abysmally in the Netherlands or Scandinavia and will probably clean up in Mexico and Guatemala.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:48 AM
1

OMG, and don't get me started about that frumpy woman with the weird accent - what was her name, oh Sofia Verbara or something. She 50 and dating a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:47 AM
1

Pick up a book. The Romanticists and Existentialists have been talking about alienation and loneliness for well over a century.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:45 AM
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That's like saying you have a chance against a chimpanzee.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:39 AM
3

Have you tried calling your mom?
/r/seduction12/02/24 03:40 AM
-1

The 2000s called and they want their top hats and furry boas back. Oh, and their lame routines.
/r/seduction12/02/24 03:37 AM
-2

Neediness
/r/seduction12/02/24 03:35 AM
-2

Wait? I thought they were riding the cock carousel? So who is fucking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:22 AM
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Calling her on the spot is such a lame and needy move. All it does is signal "Girls give me fake numbers all the time". Then what is she supposed to do with your message? And what do you mean you waited 8 hours? If you met her at midnight you sent her a text at 8am in the morning? I mean that's kind of eager and needy, don't you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:29 AM
-1

Maybe. Many men worship fake, plastic silicone Barbies, which in itself communicates that they see themselves as below women. It's this lack of self worth and value that makes men undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:23 PM
2

Stop demanding from yourself to succeed in every interaction. In other words stop telling yourself you ABSOLUTELY MUST have a positive outcome.
/r/seduction11/02/24 10:12 PM
37

Is this totally made up scenario with us in the room right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:38 PM
6

I prefer to judge people on their own merits and personalities instead of things they had no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:35 PM
2

Try taking a shower too.
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:43 PM
1

He is either offering way too much detail or barely any detail.
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:42 PM
1

I can only recommend Dating Essentials for Men by Dr Robert Glover and Intimate Connections by Dr David Burns.
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:40 PM
1

Any book about how to be better at sex.
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:40 PM
-15

Maybe the problem is you.
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:37 PM
17

So, get knocked up at 20 = you are stupid slut who ruined her life. Try to get knocked up in your 30s = you should haven't been riding the cock carousel in your 20s and should have been busy getting knocked up then. And then we wonder why women are crazy. It's because men make them crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:36 PM
5

I'm not reading your full rant, but let me lose a question to you, assuming that you are a man and that you are disturbed by the idea that women are seeking more and more independence. Here it goes: WOULD YOU RATHER A WOMAN BE WITH YOU BECAUSE SHE NEEDS YOUR INCOME FOR MERE SURVIVAL...OR...BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BECAUSE OF YOU AS A PERSON?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:12 PM
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This is two neurotic and anxiety people trying to make something out of nothing. What are you doing talking to someone for two weeks on an app and never moving forward? You don't want to give out your number? He doesn't want to ask you on a date? Wtf is wrong with youth today?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:09 PM
1

Well, people might actually think all of these things and even tell you what they are thinking. What's the worst that can happen if that were true?
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:55 AM
1

It's never acceptable
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:53 AM
-2

Get your head out of your ass. Your excuses are hurting no one but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:47 AM
-4

So where do you think all the women are at?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:59 AM
5

But I thought women were supposed to like me for muh personalitey!!!!! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:26 AM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:24 AM
2

I give a fuck and I do enjoyable things because I know I and my date will enjoy the said activity. I lead by doing and not asking. I also lead because it is what I wanted to do in the first place, not because I want to get a specific outcome, which is what all these guys are getting wrong. They are all thinking I MUST get the girl to like me, so if I DO X she BETTER do Y and if she DOESN'T than she is a ROTTEN hypergamous cock carousel bitch or whatever slur you want to substitute. I am focused …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:23 AM
2

That's total BS. It's a limiting belief. How do you think women meet men? That they magically conjure them up in their living rooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:20 AM
4

Yeah, seeing your reflection in the mirror doesn't count for "ton of women". Sorry. But nice try. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:42 PM
5

It's never too late. You just need to do some digging around and understand what is stopping you. I'm usually a big proponent of cognitive behavioral therapy for changing beliefs and irrational thoughts, but I just discovered it's predecessor Rational Emotive Therapy, which is more my jam. To check out some of the books by Albert Ellis and watch Albert Ellis Gloria video online.
/r/seduction10/02/24 10:59 PM
3

First of all, if you have loser friends not only will they sink you (imagine you are learning to swim and you go in the ocean with friends who can't swim, if they start drowning, they will drag you underwater with them), but they will also undermine you whenever you hit it off with a girl. That friend of yours made fun of you because you got rejected. Suppose you hit it off with a girl. He is the type who will come over, our his had mmmd around your shoulders and say to the girl "I don't know wh…
/r/seduction10/02/24 10:57 PM
26

You need to read between the lines of his comment. Let me translate for you: "Whenever I got to a bar it's 70% male" roughly translates to "I'm too lazy to go to any place other than my local dive/sports bar, which is full of equally socially awkward dudes". "When I go to shows or clubs" translates to "I primarily go to see metal bands or other obscure genres which have very little women interested in them". It's like if you want to meet women, you go to well lit, trendy and popular bars and lou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:54 PM
9

That's cause you haven't been at a Tool concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:49 PM
12

Lol, you guys always complain women are passive in the dating/mating game, but at the same time they are take charge boss babes who never ever would follow a man. So which one is it? Make up your minds. If a woman is passive, it means you can be in control of the relationship. You call the shots, you decide where to go out on your schedule and what to do on your schedule. She can come or not. That's her problem. Your idea of leadership is all conditional. If I do X she should respond with Y. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:48 PM
4

Your chances for getting a date on Saturday night would double.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:06 PM
1

Why do you feel the need to spend all this time texting women?
/r/seduction10/02/24 07:01 PM
10

For all intensive purposes, it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:52 PM
3

Just open your heart to Jesus child!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:51 PM
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Guys repeat after me: women are totally within their right to not want to fuck a loser like you no matter how much you complain about hypergamy and Chad and how much you threaten a violent overthrow of society. You have the sole responsibility for making yourself more sexually appealing and no amount of blaming women will change that. It's like blaming the climate that we have cold and warm seasons and refusing to dress warm in winter for example just because you don't like that the climate is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:58 PM
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Nah. I am 100% sure OP is not only not being forced to have sex with anyone, he is not getting any opportunities to have sex. So the analogy would be that he is just as likely to be judged on his bad past and bad choices, such as being a loser in high school, not playing sports, not dating, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:55 PM
4

This wouldn't be a problem if people just abstained from sex altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:52 PM
100

If she insists on no condom, she ain't getting the dick. It's literally the most valuable thing I own and I ain't about to put in some potentially diseased hole. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:52 PM
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Thanks for providing overwhelming and irrefutable evidence for your claim!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:13 PM
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You only talk about sex over text when you've had it. If she brings it up first, you play hard to get and say "why are you talking about sex, we don't know each other that well". And stuff in that vein. Yes, women are testing you to see if you have control over yourself or if you are just another horn dog who loses it the second she mentions sex. If you are in control of yourself, you can be in control of the situation and in control of her eventually (she is looking for someone strong enough th…
/r/seduction10/02/24 01:04 PM
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Women date whomever the local version of a high status male is. Often it's men in criminal enterprises, local celebrities, etc. I'm talking about the top tier women of course not plain janes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:24 AM
-1

Hmmm. How do you go about measuring this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:36 PM
0

The real origin of neediness is that you believe you NEED to have sex with this particular woman or ELSE you are a loser/worthless/subhuman, etc. That's what causes neediness. You can have the inclination and preference to have sex, but the second you demand from yourself that this is an outcome you MUST get, you become needy and women pick up on that from across the room. You can easily be needy even if you have options because you are taking off the table your most powerful option - the option…
/r/seduction09/02/24 08:19 PM
4

What I've learned is that there are infinitely more men who suffer from delusions of inadequacy than delusions of grandeur. In a way this makes me feel great, because if I were to become single again, I would absolutely clean up in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:57 PM
5

Tomorrow's post: hey guys, I got suspended from my 100K a year college for harassing women. Now I have to get up in front of the school panel and argue why I shouldn't be expelled.
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:35 PM
1

Oh look at that. The guy who thinks dating and relationships are an awful race to the bottom who is wondering why he is avoiding them?
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:24 PM
14

A guy who inserts himself in the professional beauty business. Basically every good looking woman will at one point want to make money off of her looks, whether it's some modeling on the side, Instagram endorsements, bartender at a hot club wearing skimpy clothing, stripping, OF, porn, an escort or even a street walker. Insert yourself into any of these industries as a relatively high status guy and you will get laid. These jobs can include bouncer at a club, bouncer at a strip club, club DJ, pr…
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:21 PM
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Well, whenever you hear women lamenting "where are all the good men", they aren't talking about the army of nice guys who would lick their unwashed taint for a chance of seeing the hole above it. The reason women say this is because the majority of men do not THINK of themselves OR BEHAVE as quality, high status men. If you read between the lines of most posts here, there is one recurring theme. The majority of men believe women are up there and men are down here. They constantly flagellate them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:10 PM
1

Okay. So you are saying you are REFUSING to feel good about yourself UNTIL you achieve the looks you are after. And also, you are REFUSING to see yourself as sexy until girls give you the permission to feel sexy? Am I getting this right?
/r/seduction09/02/24 04:53 PM
1

What would it take for you to start liking yourself and having confidence and feeling sexy?
/r/seduction09/02/24 04:09 PM
4

Holy irrational, distorted and self defeating assumptions here my man! You are all over the place, so where do I even start. Let's start with the most basic of all fallacies: projecting your male arousal mechanism onto women. Ok, what does it take for a man to become sexually aroused enough to have sex with a woman? Well, it's a combination of two magical criteria: Someone who is attractive enough (a very fluid criteria, that changes based on the last time you've had sex, how desperate you are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:07 PM
1

Have you considered that your demands of loyalty and exclusiveness are completely unrealistic and therefore the cause of all your suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:58 PM
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Maybe stop jerking it off to anime and get some therapy to help you with your poor self esteem. No woman would date someone who has such a low opinion of himself. A defeated loser. Fix yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:14 PM
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I think he already hinted at that. They were just in the wrong state (guessing NOT Alabama).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:12 PM
1

When you make their sex the prize, women will absolutely feel your neediness and desperation and will end up rejecting you. Women never want what they can get and only want what they can't get.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:47 AM
3

Just say, I prefer to reschedule and will be along other plans for the afternoon. How is your Sunday/Monday whatever?
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:18 AM
1

It doesn't matter what they want and what their intentions are. You care only about what you want and you express it to the woman after you get to know her. She may or may not be on the same page as you. But you trying to get on her page is the wrong approach.
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:15 AM
1

Whatever helps you sleep better at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:49 AM
0

Imagine if you didn't care about what they thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:09 AM
1

And you are the cause of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:53 PM
-1

Have you figured out what she's thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:45 PM
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Ahhhh...you dedicated so much time and money and hold all of your happiness hostage to the pursuit of a wet hole in the middle of 2X3" pink flesh. Cool bro! High five!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:41 PM
5

I mean if you hate that women have sex with you so much, perhaps the rational thing is to cut off your penis or not date and try to get laid. Wouldn't you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:03 PM
5

You are really way overgeneralizing here. Unless you can provide rational, irrefutable evidence that EVERY single attractive girl is like THAT, I'm going to call BS on your entire post. So what powers do attractive girls have on you exactly? What can they make you do that you don't want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:47 PM
2

Okay, let's stick to virgins. If they are so great they would have gotten laid with the hot 18 year old cheerleaders they want, wouldn't you agree? If they were desirable they wouldn't have trouble getting the type of women they want. But the problem is, they are not getting what they want. They are in their 20s, 30s, 40s and even 50s. Never touched a woman. The longer time passes, the more everyone wonders wtf is wrong with them? It's not like they stopped making men, so new men are coming on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:11 PM
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Men and women have the same drives and want the same thing - each other. What do you think it is that women want that's so different than you? Some love and some sex and someone who cares about what they have to say. It ain't that fucking complicated. You are making it complicated. You are overthinking everything. If you want a coffee, you go to Starbucks and order a coffee. You don't think about what the barista is thinking about why you want a coffee and whether you can afford a coffee and why…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:47 PM
2

Fine! Thank you for that perspective. Now do the same assessment of the average incel/virgin and let's see who is more or less desirable!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:44 PM
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Thinking women are all wonderful, pure and their pussy juice is the source of all happiness and contentment is just as unrealistic as thinking they are all hypergamous gold diggers out to extract every penny you've got until they can jump to the next sucker. And yes, you can absolutely vacillate between the two paradigms because as I said, love and hate are very closely related and there is but a thin line between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:43 PM
11

No. They are the same man. Just depends on the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:19 PM
11

It's not. The more you chase wonderful and put it on a pedestal the more it escapes you. Love and hate are very closely related emotions. So TRP hating on women is just another way to put them on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:12 PM
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What you are seeing is simply the other side of the same coin. Believing women are always malicious, that they only go for the top 5%, that they wouldn't even look at anyone below 6,3", that they have had 100 cocks before they turn 22, that they get alpha widowed, that they will always monkey branch is just another way of imbuing women with some magical powers they simply do not possess. It's no different than believing women are all wonderful. The implication is that they are better and more po…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:35 PM
1

You are welcome to dress in shades of dark green, brown and grey and blend in with the background. Let men like me stand out and dress to attract attention and attraction. Don't worry your pretty head head about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:32 PM
1

Please DO NOT APPROACH WOMEN. DO NOT EVEN DARE FANTASIZE ABOUT TALKING TO WOMEN. Leave all for that to ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:29 PM
2

Slow day at OF?
/r/seduction08/02/24 07:21 PM
7

Very rarely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:53 PM
1

He claims that women prefer to passively give signals instead of actively walk over to men because they don't want to risk rejection. There is some truth in that although by virtue of expressing interest first they are already risking rejection. What if the man gives them one looks and tells himself "yeah, that ain't happening". Isn't that "rejection"? She wanted to be noticed and talked to and gave a signal and he didn't react positively. Isn't that rejection? On the other hand, his implication…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:33 PM
-3

It's exactly what the convo is about. He is afraid to risk rejection so to speak, although what rejection can he risk when the woman already approached him? You can only get rejected if you desperately want and need something from the other person (their approval, attraction, sex!). If you are talking to them to simply see if the two of you are compatible, there can't be a true rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:25 PM
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You can rationalize your fear of taking action all day and night until you are blue in the face. None of this will change reality or get you laid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:26 PM
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The way women approach is to give signals of interest. Men are splitting semantic hairs by claiming that "approach" is only when someone walks across the room, pushes everyone out of their way and says to you "how you doin', hot stuff?" Same with chasing. Asking for someone's number so you can invite them on a date is not chasing. Chasing is when the other person needs you and wants you more than you need and want them and they are trying hard to impress you and get you to pick them. That's how …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:50 PM
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It's very easy. Don't make it complicated. Go up to her and say "Hi, I see you around all the time and wanted to wanted to say hi. I'm Bob, what's your name?" and take it from there. You don't have to ask for her snap, you don't have to ask for her Insta, you don't have to say you want to take her out as your opening line. How about you have a normal conversation and take some interest in that girl? Yeah! Like she is someone who may have interesting stuff to say? Yeah! Ok?
/r/seduction08/02/24 12:02 PM
2

Why are you so focused on bringing them home? It's sounds like their pussy is the ultimate trophy you need to win?
/r/seduction08/02/24 11:53 AM
6

How to lose your job 101
/r/seduction08/02/24 11:52 AM
1

Why are you so concerned with the faceless others and what they think and not concerned with you and your relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:44 AM
-1

Sorry about that. Obviously your way has been working out super well, in both this situation and the countless others you have posted about in the past. Im not worthy to be speaking to such a god of seduction!!!
/r/seduction08/02/24 01:44 AM
1

You lost me when you said she had to take off her headphones to listen to you. Are you that needy and desperate for a woman?
/r/seduction08/02/24 01:40 AM
4

Does having a kid somehow render her unfuckable or unable to have a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:03 PM
-1

All I want is a woman who can give a stellar blow job. My mom never gave me BJs, so not sure who is entitled to a woman being like his mother???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:58 PM
7

I mean you guys complain that you are desperate virgins and nobody wants you. You don't get to be choosers. You are beggars. Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:57 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:01 PM
1

Vetting goes both ways honey
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:22 PM
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Being impressive works until it doesn't. Until the next guy who is an inch taller comes around, or the guy with better defined muscles, or bluer eyes or stronger jaw. Or one day being impressive works, but when it doesn't you can't go and get taller and there is always a limit to how much muscle you can build. Fuck impressive. Try being interesting. Being interesting is way more effective than being impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:18 PM
6

Something those kids will never understand. It's really your opinion of himself that is the most important thing a man can improve on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:16 PM
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Sure...in opposite land maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:56 PM
1

No problem. If you don't take criticism personally, you will improve way faster. Also, for banter stuff look up on YouTube Brent Smith Bullet Proof Banter.
/r/seduction07/02/24 02:45 PM
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Are those SA accusations with us in the room right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:26 PM
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Cause that's how this whole thing works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:12 PM
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Well, they already approached you. Now it's your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:33 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:31 PM
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I don't know why a woman would want to fuck a stranger. I forgot women lack sexual organs and desires. Like Barbie they are completely flat between the legs. Nothing to see there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:30 PM
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Lol delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:29 PM
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It's so hilarious that men are terrified of expressing interest or even looking at a woman and being caught looking BUT at the same time they demand women have absolutely no fear and anxiety and clearly state their interest in fucking said man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:28 PM
2

I like the banter although a bit nerdy and potentially creepy at times. Once you move to text, just drop the terrorist thing. If you don't know when to drop a joke, it becomes creepy and socially retarded. Don't push it. Second, don't make dates at a secluded park. That just increases the creepiness factor. She even hinted that she would prefer dinner instead and that totally flew over your head. She was giving you a hint "I DON'T WANT TO MEET A STRANGE MAN IN THE PARK ALONE, WHERE I COULD GET R…
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:14 PM
8

Yeah bro, no. We could feed you lines all day but that's not the problem. The problem in your fucked up mindset. Even before I saw the messaging, just by these you refer to this woman 8/10, banging, standout, total goddess, only if I have sex with her all my friends and enemies will be jealous, I will be an instant celebrity, I would be so lucky to put my dick inside of a real life goddess, my life would be changed forever. Dude, STOP STOP STOP placing yourself below women. Just STOP! It is not …
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:02 PM
2

Except women usually end up dating the type of guys they grew up with. In 99% of the time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:51 AM
3

It will be like that TV series based on a book called The One. You take a DNA test and it is determined whether you are a natural horn Chad or not (can't cheat genetic tests) and then the database matches you with your soulmate. For some guys, they will have multiple soulmates while others won't have any (that wasn't in the show, but that's my prediction). Men who managed to "cheat" the system by pretending to be alpha males, will no longer be able to do so. We will go from only the top 5% getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:49 AM
2

If you hang out here long enough you will see a clear pattern. Men who struggle with women have the following on common: They give women way too much power in their own heads, they believe women are all-powerful, hypergamous keyholding goddesses and only if they had a woman they would instantly no longer be depressed, no longer feel bad about themselves, all of their friends would respect them and be jealous of them, their career would take off, their dick would grow overnight and oh.....sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:47 AM
4

Yeah no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:47 AM
6

Wtf do you think a date is for? I can't with some of the women on this board. I will grow old and my dick won't work by the time I get to have sex with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:33 AM
0

Wtf so you think a date is you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:32 AM
3

Then don't make posts complaining about women giving you the runaround and treating you like a used tampon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:53 AM
8

You don't get it. You are still living in a paradigm where women are scarce and you have to get every single one that bites out on a date. In my world, first of all, I am very direct and clear and to the point. I tell them when I AM available. I don't ask for their availability because I'm not looking to fit in their life. They need to fit into my life, my schedule. Do you get it? You still live in the paradigm that the woman and her vagina is the ultimate prize/goal. That's the wrong paradigm t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:43 AM
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When I was actively dating, I dated on my terms and my schedule. I never sat around waiting for a woman to become available. I asked her out once and if she gave me the runaround, she was history.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:17 AM
-1

Bro, he is a fraud and a weirdo who barely got laid. Use your brain man.
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:37 AM
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Nah more like I wouldn't study money management or anger management from him.
/r/seduction06/02/24 11:56 PM
1

It's literally the sexiest thing you can wear.
/r/seduction06/02/24 10:32 PM
8

It's just two different types of social conditioning. Women are conditioned to choose security, which equates to getting a desirable man to quite literally buy you (with dinners, favors, marriage!), although deep down they may just want to enjoy sex with an exciting hot stranger. And men are conditioned to choose approval before anything else, so they will go for someone who appears to be a good girl and has some physical attributes they can flaunt to their friends and family, while deep down th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:19 PM
1

It's just the reality babe. What do you bring to the table to compel a man to invest time in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:44 PM
2

Don't go out for the purpose of meeting women. Right away your entire vibe and body language and behavior will communicate to women "IM NEEDY AND DESPERATE" and you won't get anywhere. Always have a clear purpose for going to place. Ideally, you will go out with friends just to have fun and enjoy yourself without any agenda or goals to meet women. This will give off a vibe of being a fun guy who enjoys life, who is exciting to be around and who a woman will want to attach herself to. If you are …
/r/seduction06/02/24 05:48 PM
8

Tell them "a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell and a lady never asks."
/r/seduction06/02/24 05:42 PM
1

Apparently women have a lot of time and patience to chase men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:41 PM
24

It's not just women, it's people in general. The same guy who says he will never touch a woman with an n count of 3+, logs onto PornHub every night and watches gangbangs. Of course, he will find a way to rationalize his behavior, but the truth of the matter is his attraction to a woman has very little to do with how many or how few men she's slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:37 PM
6

You are always competing. If not against other women, than against his single lifestyle, which maybe more fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:35 PM
-1

Wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:33 PM
6

Well, you guys love using the economic analogies to dating, so in economics, the highest value commodities are those that are in highest demand. So it would make sense that a high value man = a man who is in demand. Now, think about all the behaviors that men exhibit that communicate to women "I'M NOT IN DEMAND, NOBODY WANTS ME". Whether that's low self esteem, attachment to outcome, neediness and desperation, working too hard to get a woman, making sex the ultimate goal, etc. Women can sense wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:22 PM
0

How are you satisfied and frustrated at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:33 PM
12

First of all, The Game was written to specifically RENOUNCE the emptiness and vanity of the pick up lifestyle. Second, I don't know anyone who actually respects himself who does the Mystery Method. I mean the guy literally attempted suicide twice over a woman. Does this sound like a happy and fulfilled guy who had the lifestyle he wants?
/r/seduction06/02/24 03:34 PM
16

You only get rejected when you want something from women. Stop wanting things from women that you can give yourself and you won't get rejected anymore. Most men want validation, want to be liked, want a number, want her sex, her approval. When you learn that you can give all these things to yourself simply by liking yourself and being your own best friend, then you will no longer need women for any of that. You will approach them simply because you want to find out if they are interesting and if…
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:40 PM
1

Que?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:44 PM
7

Eastern European girls will eat you for breakfast.
/r/seduction06/02/24 12:02 PM
3

Actually being pushy and pursuing is a better strategy than sitting at home and wallowing in self pity, but it's still a pretty bad strategy overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:58 AM
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Most people can pick up the clues EXCEPT (wink, wink), those who give off the desperate clues (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:57 AM
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Think of the average PPD poster: they sound defeated, have low self esteem, believe themselves to be bottom of the barrel in terms of worth and value. They believe they are too ugly, too short, too poor, too autistic, etc. If this was war and they were soldiers, those guys would have waived a white flag before they were even given uniforms and weapons. Now you tell me something. Throughout human history, women have evolved to sense how a man feels about himself, because that was the only true in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:54 AM
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The phrase is "self-fulfilling prophecy".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:45 AM
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The men who think they are ugly have bigger problems than just some physical flaws. Most of their problems are between their ears. As a matter of fact, their biggest problem is that they think they have a problem, which then makes it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:45 AM
1

Of course. I mean unless you are 6'3", you shouldn't even be looking at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:43 AM
4

Lol, women always chase the men they want. When a woman says "oh yeah, I wasn't really interested in dating him, but he kept asking me every week for two years and I finally relented (started getting old and tired of being dumped by hot guys), gave him a chance and he turned out to be the sweetest man ever", all she is saying is "I settled for the guy". Nobody wants to be the one to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:21 AM
2

It is always the other way around. Men chasing never works. Every successful relationship I've had, the woman has chased me and tried to lock ME down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:52 AM
1

I don't understand why any man wouldn't want to take the lead. If I'm the one who leads, I'm the one in control. I'm the one who calls the shots. How is that a bad thing to men? Only to insecure losers probably?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:51 AM
2

That advice is often misunderstood the way that "just be yourself" is misunderstood. When people say you will meet someone when you are not expecting it, it doesn't mean that a naked girl will materialize in your bedroom while you are playing CoD in your underwear or while you are jerking it to Asa Akita's latest anal gaping video. It means that when you stop making dating and sex so important in your life and you start just living and enjoying life to the fullest without thinking and obsessing …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:48 AM
3

I mean be honest with her and say that you can't really offer her emotional or Eve physical availability beyond end of month, but that you can promise she will have the best time with you between the sheets and whatever little time you have left outside of that. And that you won't just dump her afterwards, but will be there for her as a friend even if you leave for far away.=
/r/seduction06/02/24 12:17 AM
4

It's not going anywhere. Don't bother. No flirting no sexual tension. Stop talking to women about their day and their mundane lives. She can put on 50 Shades of Grey and break out her vibratory and it will be more fun than talking to you.
/r/seduction05/02/24 05:39 PM
2

Sure. So you have to become really cognizant of this and just observe for starters. One tell tale sign is women who are facing the crowd with the bar behind their back. As opposed to let's say two women who are facing each other or facing the bar. The latter is definitely more closed off, there are there to talk with each other, etc. But a woman with her back towards the bar and facing the crowd is doing it because she 1. Wants to be seen 2. Wants to see who there is fuckable. Other things that …
/r/seduction05/02/24 03:53 PM
20

So he shows up as the gay best friend? No sexuality, no forwardness or sexual boldness? How is he going to get a woman if he is not flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:53 PM
2

Wrong question. Man is the chooser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:14 PM
1

You are asking the wrong question. Your question should be: how do I find the girls that ALREADY WANT to be taken home that night?
/r/seduction05/02/24 12:02 PM
6

Well, it begins by using a term like AMOG. Right away that shows me you are a fucking loser and any guy can come in and steal your girl like that.
/r/seduction05/02/24 12:01 PM
3

I don't think any of us have seen a girl in the wild. Sorry bro.
/r/seduction05/02/24 12:00 PM
2

Well, first of all make sure that you spend at least three weeks talking to her on the apps. Begin conversations with "wyd", "how is your day going". After you talk about the weather, ask her what she does for a living, where she is from, what she's studying and what her hobbies are. By week three you are probably going to know most of her life story. Great! Now, it's time for you to start thinking about asking her out on a date. Remember, women on apps have many men vying for their attention an…
/r/seduction05/02/24 11:56 AM
0

If you are getting ghosted after the first date, it's because you are too needy which your post tells me you are. They sense that your vibe is all about needing to get something out of them and that turns them off. Stop making sex the prize.
/r/seduction05/02/24 11:47 AM
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Oh enough wjth the ducking victim Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:45 AM
35

Don't forget that women hate sex, yet apparently any woman from 16-26 participates in the cock carousel and manages to get double and triple digit n counts. But they don't really like sex. Oh and they are constantly fucking new guys but simultaneously ONLY going after the top 1% of all men. How does the math work out, I don't know. But it's true!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:46 AM
5

One can only wonder how humans or any species for that matter has managed to survive for billions of years when one of the sexes is completely uninterested in sex and procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:43 AM
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They are bothered because they don't get to do nasty things to that poontang. She is willing to show it to total randos for $9.99 a month but not to the guy who took out for dinner and listened to her problems all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:35 AM
6

Bro, most women look like shit without makeup. They are routinely asked if they are sick or something if they don't have makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:27 PM
-2

Because men are inherently the better looking sex. We are bigger, have thicker skin, are stronger, tougher, we can go out of the house wjthout having to put on make up to make ourselves presentable, etc. make no mistake. It's a man's world out there no matter how much losers on PPD want to claim otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:20 PM
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How do you get through life if you are so easily triggered by every little thing on the internet that some rando decides to post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:16 PM
0

If you go to a club that has 3 dudes for every girl, some guys....well most guys are bound to leave the club alone. But that doesn't make the rest of the women in the population all of a sudden disappear into thin air. The larger population is still 50% men/50% women. You insist on trying to find a woman in the biggest sausage fest, you only have yourself to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:13 PM
-1

The male to female pop is 50/50. Only a fraction of people are on apps, who are the rest of the women fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:02 PM
1

The same way you can suffer from perfectionism targeted towards yourself, you can also suffer from others perfectionism. Meaning, that you are only willing to accept others as partners if they are perfect to you, or meet some unrealistic criteria. There are certainly a lot of people out there like that. For the most part, others perfectionism is really a defensive mechanism. It's like those 40 year old virgin guys who insist that they will only sleep with a woman who is also a virgin, under 25, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:32 PM
2

It won't work because you are obviously focused on how to get her in bed and that's your measuring stick for success and not whether she is someone you want in your life because she is making it more fun. So you are too desperate for sex and will eventually agree to whatever she wants to do. So until you change your metric of success, you won't be able to have cheap dates.
/r/seduction04/02/24 05:15 PM
-1

I've never seen a man take any of those suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:09 PM
1

Bro you have some serious issues.
/r/seduction04/02/24 03:09 PM
1

Mostly about how much I workout my glutes in the gym and how much she wants to touch them.
/r/seduction04/02/24 03:05 PM
4

I'm over this place. I'm heading back home for a nightcap if you want to join me.
/r/seduction04/02/24 03:04 PM
0

So every girl is part of a Chad harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:31 PM
1

Well, I have good news for you and bad news for you. The good news is you don't have to do anything to avoid getting desperate in old age. And the bad news is.......well, you don't have to do anything to avoid desperation because you are ALREADY desperate and that's why you are not finding anyone. The only way to avoid desperation is to find out for yourself that being loved is not a requirement for happiness and fulfillment. In other words, you do not need women in order to fully experience joy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:05 PM
1

It reminds of the Mark Manson (author of Models) theory around demographics. Basically; the idea is that there are certain demographics which will fit specific men much better than others. He gave an example of a 50 year old professor who was going out to night clubs and hitting on 20 somethings and always striking out. Now if the guy had adjusted his strategy to go after late 30s and 40s women in a more sophisticated environment, he'd probably do amazingly well. So what it comes down to is this…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:46 PM
2

Girls outperform boys in their teens years because boys are too busy jerking off every 5 mins. I thought that was common knowledge. In their 20s guys learn to somewhat control and channel the horniness into more productive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:37 PM
1

The reason many women go for older guys is that the older guy is perceived as a higher status than her peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:34 PM
0

So for every woman on earth there is a 20% Chad for her. How does the math work out exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:19 PM
2

Lol if only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:46 AM
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Anyone can become successful on apps or in dating but the vast majority of men absolutely refuse to do what it takes to achieve that. Trust me. I've tried giving advice to unsuccessful guys and they resist every single suggestion that would actually make a difference. Preferring to stay in their little box of self pity and misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:32 AM
11

Is this some kind of an app?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:29 AM
5

So who are those women on the apps shacking up with? Aliens? A third gender nobody knows about? Large farm animals? Who else but....guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:28 AM
4

It seems like that to you because you have zero understanding of what women are attracted to and therefore, the only thing you can do is project your own sexual arousal mechanism onto women. What does it take for a man to be sexually aroused? Meaning, to get a boner and be able to use it? Well, it's a set of two magical criteria: A woman who is attractive enough (a fluid criteria that changes depending on the last time you've had sex, how desperate you are or how many beers you've had). A woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:27 AM
1

YouTube Brent Smith bulletproof banter.
/r/seduction04/02/24 03:18 AM
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When you make pussy the prize, it will always run away from you.
/r/seduction04/02/24 03:17 AM
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