Post hookup

Practical_Window_919 · 2024-03-17T03:55:56+00:00

It's important to recognize that her investment may not match yours. Don't invest more before she does the same. You can't control your thoughts, so don't try to convince yourself of not being invested. Recognize it and don't fret about it. Even if you view yourself as below her, you can still expect someone to invest in you equally. Remember, you can't make her invest. Mirror her behavior and become a little boring to talk with. If she's giving low energy, do the same. When she invests, be skeptical before investing even more again.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2024-03-17T04:13:32+00:00

There honestly isn't a problem here and you did nothing wrong. Your perception of this situation is a result of lack of abundance.

A common result of lack of abundance is the inability to just let something be, or trying too hard to make something into something else. It was a hookup and that's it. And that's probably how she sees it as well. The girl sees it as just a one-time thing and it doesn't affect her and she's not trying to continue things because she has so much abundance that she doesn't feel the need to do anything else.

A little thought experiment will highlight this. Imagine if you knew for a fact that every single day for the rest of your life, you would guaranteed get to hook up with a new hot girl. You would have so much abundance and the knowledge that you would have infinite abundance in the future, that you wouldn't really care where the relationship with any one girl went. If they stick around, they stick around. If they don't, cool, there's plenty more where that came from. It's nothing against the girl personally (just like in this situation, it's nothing against you personally), you just have so much abundance in this scenario that there's no reason to focus on any individual girl.

There's a good chance you won't be able to get her out again. The way to avoid this situation in the future is to generate enough options to wear something like this wouldn't affect you.

redspikedog · 2024-03-17T04:32:17+00:00

Send a funny meme in a couple of business days.

Conscious-charlizard · 2024-03-17T10:19:26+00:00

To understand the situation better can you say about the situation how you landed hooking up,like met on some dating app or in club and how escalated between you guys

Coz it may b possibly she was just there for some good time or maybe u messed up somewhere

7CloudMirage · 2024-03-17T12:36:58+00:00

just stop whatever u are doing. you give off energy u got nothing better to do than just texting all day. forget about her for a week

osirise · 2024-03-17T13:42:31+00:00

Here's what worked for me. Write down your goals.

Every day fill up your schedule to fulfill those goals.

After you hook up with a girl. Only text when you have time outside of that daily schedule. Should be once or twice max per day.

She should be wondering what you're doing. Not the other way around.

It's not a gimmick because you will genuinely be busy working on your goals.

RestingBitchFace_1 · 2024-03-17T13:43:00+00:00

Stop being clingy. Hook ups doesn't mean you are dating. STOP.

Jironasaurus · 2024-03-17T10:51:05+00:00

Did she want only a one night stand?

Was she pleased in bed?

My advice is for you to lead the interaction by getting another date and see how she responds. The lack of a strong response may not mean anything as well.

tunnelblick · 2024-03-17T15:25:16+00:00

The day after the hook up, women might feel ashamed of themselves. They also might be unsure of the situation. Best follow up is a more normal message the day after. And of course not being pushy or needy.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-17T17:24:29+00:00

Did she toss around like a wild salmon that's been caught and was really super loud when orgasming?

Banhammer40000 · 2024-03-17T21:17:52+00:00

I would say instead of chasing, be the object worthy of chase. Attract instead of pursuit. It’s all a part of the push and pull. Leave her be for a few, push and pull others, work on your cold approach, day game, whatever.

If she reaches out, cool. If not, move on.

Title	Post hookup
Author	knetwotheeeee
Upvotes	7
Comments	16
Date	March 17, 2024 3:28 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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