Flowers on third date?

Practical_Window_919 · 2024-03-17T07:02:04+00:00

Backing the previous comment—skip the flowers.

Consider this: grand romantic gestures can actually stress her out. If you really like her, why make her uncomfortable?

Buying her flowers is more about you expressing your feelings, meaning it benefits you more. Yet, it also sets an expectation for her to reciprocate, which can backfire.

Let her be the one to fall for you. The person who loves more deeply is the one who feels more, making them more vulnerable. As a man, you don't want to be in that spot.

Gradually invest in the relationship, guided by her actions, not your emotions. Think of it as a probation period where both of you are evaluating compatibility.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2024-03-17T06:14:20+00:00

What's your age? And are you a virgin?

I don't ask that as an insult, just info so I can get a better context. Getting a girl flowers on the third date makes me think you don't have much experience in dating.

The activity on the third date doesn't matter. If she likes you, she won't care much what exactly you guys are doing. But absolutely do not get her flowers. Just trust me on this. You guys haven't hooked up yet and you're not in a relationship and she hasn't really done anything special.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-17T17:21:39+00:00

I prefer condoms but you do you.

BarnacleNovel5354 · 2024-03-17T10:39:35+00:00

Definitely not, no way.

It would be seen as either creepy/pathetic or at best over the top and overwhelming. If she already likes you it won't really help, will it?

Maybe you saw it in a Disney movie or something else from the 1900's, but you'd probably go viral for the wrong reasons if you did it.

Sounds like you're in though if you don't stuff it up.

So basically watching a movie with her like that last time you probably could have already had sex that night so at least you shouldn't need to stress about things too much.

Have a night in together where you cook something together - if you've got a go-to recipe to impress her with that's a bonus.

Cook and eat the meal, then lead things to the bedroom and seal the deal.

ChicoBrillo · 2024-03-17T14:30:56+00:00

Would typically say no, but if you're going away, it could be nice, just don't expect it to be some kind of transaction where you get laid because of it.

No-Violinist4190 · 2024-03-18T11:39:04+00:00

Depends on the woman and how much she is into you!

2024-03-17T10:50:38+00:00

It's always an appropriate time for flowers!

brandonmadeit · 2024-03-17T15:47:00+00:00

Buy the flowers bro, real men do what they want to do. If you feel like flowers are a nice gesture go for it. Just don’t make a big spectacle of it, say “I saw these and thought about you” or something casual along those lines

Title	Flowers on third date?
Author	Local-Ad809
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Date	March 17, 2024 5:45 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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