Sticking Point

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-02-26T21:19:43+00:00

Well for one you should think about way better openers than asking about clash of clans. Most women will think that’s weird or have no idea what the hell you’re talking about

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-02-26T22:02:53+00:00

Be careful of research.

Guys that are naturals never knew anything about openers, routines and closing, which is the whole point. Too much information can fuck you up.

Whenever you have to consciously think about what to do and say, you aren't completely present in the moment.

Just let go. Shut your brain off so you stay present and your words and behaviors will be genuine and you will know what to do or say based on the situation and not on your recalling info about game. Listen intently to the girl and you won't have to think about how to uphold the convo, u can respond based on her words.

Don't get me wrong, you need to know the basics, but internalize them completely so you don't have to devote a part of you to recalling. Keep in mind everything about the game is grey areas, there is no black and white, you are more or less free to do whatever as long as you're masculine about it.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-27T02:50:00+00:00

You are approaching women indirectly.

While I do believe that beginners in their cold approach journey should approach women directly, I understand that it's not everyone's style and that there are definitely times when going indirect is more ideal.

When going indirect, make sure your opening statements are not completely boring and logical, or statements that could provoke a response of "yes" or "no" because, unless she is very physically attracted to you, that will be all she gives you. After your opener, you have to build a woman's attraction to you. Avoid asking unlinked, rapid-fire questions like she's in a job interview, because this will cause her to associate feelings of boredom with you. Make sure your body language and gestures exude confidence, and ideally you want to have the social skills to take any mundane piece of information given to you and make playful and fun conversation.

You employ game techniques to build a woman's attraction when she is behaving a certain way, don't just go doing some technique you saw a YouTube pickup artist do without understanding why it worked in a given context. Never directly explicate your value, instead indicate it with your actions and behaviors. Directly stating things about yourself that show your external value can come across as you qualifying yourself to women (even if it's not the case) .

Eventually, you're going to have to be bold and establish romantic interest. When doing cold approach, always make sure to let the woman you know that you are romantically interested in her, otherwise asking her out will make no sense and you will most likely be rejected. After you establish romantic interest, make sure to continue building her attraction, and how you go about doing so is dependent on her response. If she's compliant and agreeable, continue having playful and fun conversations, if she's giving you shit and isn't completely sold yet, employ certain game techniques that would make sense in a given situation. After this, close by getting the woman's contact information. Anything other than a yes is a no, and is basically a woman soft rejecting you.

The overwhelming majority of the time (yes, there are outliers) women will give their phone numbers and not offer Instagram's instead to guys they like. Don't take rejection personally, it's part of the game

This article details how to approach women indirectly: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-indirect-game?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=31tj3q

This article details how to approach women directly: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-direct-game?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

luotenrati12 · 2024-04-01T13:47:56+00:00

Generally you can ask what she's up to right now to get some conversation hooks going after the opener. You can also comment on something about her outfit and then talk about that.

LifeIsTheBiggestTrol · 2024-02-26T21:20:26+00:00

So here is a little context, I am 21 years old, up until 2022, I was very fat and broke. I never grew up as a natural, I never got attention from women and got bullied most of my life. I took 2023 very seriously and I'm pretty jacked, rich and I dress pretty elegant. I still got no attention unless I was proactive which I sometimes got lucky with, sometimes not. Now I want to get good at this. Any feedback is well appreciated. Thanks

Title	Sticking Point
Author	LifeIsTheBiggestTrol
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	February 26, 2024 9:17 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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