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| 11 | Never become complacent in a relationshipThe point is that men often stop behaving in ways that initially attracted the woman because they misunderstand how women love them | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/24 05:05 PM |
| -7 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlThat is a pity boo hoo | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 05:50 PM |
| -2 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlShe was mid. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 05:00 PM |
| -1 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlIf you say so. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlI've got the video of me getting tapped out pal | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 04:57 PM |
| -1 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlDid you read the article? This is an insight I developed from this experience. Moreover, she was mid. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 04:20 PM |
| -42 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your Girldid you read the post? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 03:56 PM |
| -6 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your Girlyou're missing the point of the article. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlYour girl is still going to lose attraction for you if she witnesses you lose a fight | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 03:44 PM |
| -14 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlAlternatively, you could do this. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 02:46 PM |
| -2 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlIf you are low skill level never bring her to your gym to watch you roll. You can bring her to you fights but just know her attraction to you will be lowered if you lose. There's numerous anecdotes of this happening to men after their girl watches them lose mma fights / bjj competitions. Don't lie to her, she'll obviously find out. There's a visceral change that occurs when she actually witnesses you losing the fight as opposed to her hearing about the outcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 02:45 PM |
| -14 | Never Lose a Fight In Front of Your GirlHelps that I actually love writing, too | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/24 02:29 PM |
| 8 | Reclaiming Our Worth: Men, Stop Devaluing Yourselves in the Worship of Female NudityWell, now that women are (mostly) capable of providing for themselves, it's become more and more difficult for the average man to get with the average woman. As such, you literally have men pedestalizing the vagina because of how rare access to it is. Moreover, you have women on the internet and mass media espousing the idea that men should "just be themselves" to get more women, but they don't realize that being themselves most likely won't get them more women because who they are presently isn… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/24 01:55 PM |
| 13 | Reclaiming Our Worth: Men, Stop Devaluing Yourselves in the Worship of Female NudityThis is precisely why i stopped writing about how to get women/ how to be better with women and instead write about observations I've made on my journey towards self actualization, as working to become a better man will make you better with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Altruism, Manipulation and Mental Point of OriginGood post. As men, we can't always be virtuous because doing so will result in us being taken advantage of by those who are not. There's how the world works, and how we think the world should work. It would be great if everyone was virtuous but virtually no-one is all the time is because that's antithetical to human nature. I was talking to this guy and he claimed that negging was shitty behavior. But, is it really shitty behavior if women like it? I don't think so. Certain guys can't compete wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/24 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Recalibrate YourselfGood post. While it's good that you recalibrated yourself, you still are dealing with internal problems that will inevitably seep outwards (as it did with this girl) and other chicks you date will pick up on this. So, perhaps take a break from dating/ women if needed. I don't think you necessarily slipped up, you're just dealing with other stuff and don't care about chicks as much. It's not a big deal -- it happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?i'm pulling most of it from thin air | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?she has a kid dude, yes. Check out my blog on how to approach women in the gym | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?Be indirect in the gym. Abort this mission, soldier | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?Nice. It seems natural to her and it allows her to win you over.if.you play your card right. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 12:12 PM |
| 5 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?Precisely | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 12:11 PM |
| 7 | Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly?Yeah asking for a girl's number when going direct almost always seems forced which is why I don't do it anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/24 12:11 PM |
| 27 | Thank you for helping me find a 6-year LTR. It all ended just as you said it would.Sounds like you never internalized anything you learned. Of course things will inevitably crumble if you implement stuff to win a chick over and it's not actually congruent with who you are. You're supposed to develop the internal in conjunction with the external so you aren't "playing games" You eventually become someone who just "games" naturally. The advice here is still phenomenal -- you just did't follow the most important part: actually becoming the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/24 10:15 AM |
| 8 | Self Improvement Won't Get You More GirlsThanks boss. Your internal sense of self really does express outwardly. It can be faked for a while, but eventually the real you will seep out. You mean to tell me that cute girls put themselves in your vicinity after you boldly and confidently teased them, and not because of your gigachad looks and statue like muscles?????? Looking forward to your next post, broski. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/24 09:23 AM |
| 1 | How To physically Escalate With Women On Dates: A Beginners Guide to Kino EscalationLMAO. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/24 12:05 AM |
| 14 | How To physically Escalate With Women On Dates: A Beginners Guide to Kino Escalationdeleted | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/24 09:38 AM |
| 9 | From Banter to Conflict: How a Debate on Men’s Emotions Evolved into a Showdown Between Vulnerability and UtilityYep. It's just how guys interact with one another. Most dudes now (especially those of gen-z who aren't a part of any athletic club or team) don't realize this because of the indoctrination and feminization that occurs in schools. Also, parents let young children play on screens all day instead of playing with their friends outside, preventing them from experiencing the young male experience. Instead of learning how to be more masculine in the real world through real life experience with their g… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Crucial last moment texting shit test.agreed. You're rewarding bad behavior when you say "if you change you're mind i'll be here." She literally flaked on you and you're indirectly saying I'm not cool and flaking on me is okay. A man of value isn't going to tolerate a girl flaking on him. He moves on to the next and doesn't waste his time. You are literally conveying that it's okay to flake on you and there's no consequences for doing so. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 12:17 AM |
| 9 | Crucial last moment texting shit test.I agree with this guy. It's 10 PM she knows what's up. Saying "wear something tight" alludes to having sex and she, like you said, wants to be able to think to her self that "it just happened." Don't make girls feel like sluts. Don't allude to sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 12:14 AM |
| 6 | Crucial last moment texting shit test.Right. It's knowing that you are capable of replacing the girl you have with one who is of equal or higher quality. You can have multiple chicks and not have an abundance mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 12:12 AM |
| 10 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).For sure. The most annoying part is when people who met you when you are jacked don't like you as much or become disappointed once they see that you lost your muscles. Makes you realize they didnt care about you but your attributes they wish they had | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 10:25 PM |
| 122 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).The same thing happened to me. I started running long distances again and lost most of the muscle I gained in a 16 month span. Years have passed and I'm now built like a Greek god again. The biggest takeaway for me was the importance of internal strength/ self worth. I still felt like a badass even though I looked like starving Marvin from South park. Everyone treats you differently when you are jacked. You can't let anything external dictate your self worth, because anything external can be tak… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Being Disliked Requires CourageGlad you liked it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Being Disliked Requires CourageThe interaction with the homeless lady was an example used to convey the idea that you always have to make yourself your own mental point of origin and not be concerned with being disliked for being yourself as a consequence of social conditioning. Many guys don't even have the courage or confidence to bluntly say "no" to an annoying salesperson while walking in Costco to buy a rotisserie chicken for dinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Being Disliked Requires CourageGood deal, man. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Being Disliked Requires CourageYep. Never be afraid to say "no." | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Being Disliked Requires CourageI've noticed that too. The more indifferent you are to someone being in your life, the more they respect you. Probably because it is understood that people who are doing this are being their authentic selves and are deemed as more sincere and trustworthy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 3 | A "pookie" online profile, someone make sense of this.Right there with you pal | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/24 11:14 PM |
| -19 | A "pookie" online profile, someone make sense of this.Wow. He's not even attractive | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/24 10:47 PM |
| 38 | A "pookie" online profile, someone make sense of this.Let's see the pic of the guy you used | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/24 09:39 PM |
| 6 | Being Disliked Requires CourageI couldn't type the words fast enough | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/24 08:47 PM |
| 10 | Being Disliked Requires CourageBro like he started talking about how everyone is equal and hierarchies aren't how society should work and I honestly didn't want to finish it | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/24 07:39 PM |
| 22 | Being Disliked Requires CourageI did actually. The book has some good advice but gets gay and liberal near the end | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Soy Boy Cucks, Preaching and Pussy ParadiseYeah, I learned the hard way not to express RP concepts to normies. Doing so invariably results in them exploding in your face. I've found it best to plant seeds in their heads, or allude to how their desired behavior will result in a woman not being attracted to them. What people don't realize (or fail to accept) is that self development in any aspect of life typically takes a considerable amount of time and effort, and people often dislike exerting themselves mentally and physically because it… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/24 08:13 AM |
| 0 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?Did you read my article? I literally conveyed everything you just articulated. I agree with everything you said. I never said they were exclusive to particular environments -- you either did not read my entire article or misinterpreted everything I wrote. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?I agree, I was using the term "high quality women" because that's what influencers in the manosphere refer to women who exhibit more feminine behaviors and have lower body counts as. The idea is that these women do not not frequent venues that lower quality women do | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:31 AM |
| 0 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?A "high quality woman" isn't necessarily going to bars to get wasted. They can go to a bar to strictly have a few drinks and just chat it up with their girls. They can also seldomly get drunk. Sure, they may not regularly do it, but it doesn't mean they can't be influenced by their girlfriends to go out, have fun, and have a gratuitous amount of drinks because she's enjoying herself. Women can get drunk on occasion and not be trying to escape their lives. You are idealizing how you think a "high… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:27 AM |
| 0 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?Agreed. Why would a "high quality" woman not spend a weekend at a bar or nightclub with her friends if girls love having fun and are extremely impressionable? This doesn't make them "lower quality," as you can spot the "higher quality" ones in these venues through experience | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:23 AM |
| 0 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?i agree with everything you said, and in the article I said that, after gaining experience, you will be able to spot women with the more feminine traits that most higher quality men desire. The assertion is that, contrary to what those active in the manosphere claim, you can find these women in places like bars and nightclubs, and that lower quality women frequent places where they think are solely occupied by "higher quality" women | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:18 AM |
| 0 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?I agree with you. That wasn't the point I was articulating in the post. The point is that according to most influencers in the manosphere, "quality women", women who have low body counts and exhibits traditionally feminine behaviors, aren't going to be found in places like bars or night clubs, which is wrong. No where in my article did I suggest that "high quality women" were different. In fact, I said they just express hypergamy differently. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:14 AM |
| 0 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?Sure, you're probably more likely to find a high quality woman in a church than a bar or nightclub, but they can still be found in bars or night clubs. That's the point of the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?You can find high quality women in bars. They have degenerate friends despite not being degenerate themselves | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/24 08:09 AM |
| 6 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?Another based Alpha-Bunny take. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Slept with another girl, I am in a 5 year LTR, I really liked it, confused AF.Why are you in a relationship with a delusional feminist? It sounds like you no longer even enjoy being around her. You lost frame by not calling her out on her stupid newly developed opinions she adopted from school. You also lost frame by becoming less attractive once you got complacent. We can't tell you what to do, only to do what's best for you. I would not tell the girl you recently slept with that you have a gf -- that's stupid and nothing good can come from it. If you are scared that you… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/24 08:10 AM |
| 3 | I converted a incel into a betaYou did good. BP guys aren't very rational when it comes to the women they're with, and that's especially the case if its their first romantic partner. Let him get hurt, used, and abused. He'll come back for advice when things inevitably go south due to him being inexperienced. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/24 08:46 AM |
| 31 | Using Hypergamy to Your AdvantageExternal self development is good, but internal strength and indifference is the most important aspect of frame that almost know one talks about. Just because you optimize your looks, money, status, and game doesn't mean your wife won't exercise her options and leave you for a more ideal partner if she wants to. You need to develop an internal sense of self and indifference to whether your woman is in your life or not. Once you genuinely become indifferent, you will naturally exhibit more mascul… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/24 08:38 AM |
| 5 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans LifeIt's unfortunate feminists have infiltrated the church and brainwash leaders and young men for their benefit. It's also difficult listening to some nonsense espoused from leadership when you are rp aware; you want to help some guys out, but they will refute everything you say and slander your name when you're not around, so it's not worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!anytime, pal | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Why Pleasing Yourself is the Best Way to Get the Girls!And now you have a great story to tell about how you purchased a camera knowing absolutely nothing about photography, commanded multiple partially nude buff men around in costumes to pose in front of hundreds of others, and inspired other photographers to begin taking pictures of your scene. This is why it's important to do stuff other than play video games and work. If you want to be interesting you have to do stuff. Agreed on pleasing yourself first -- women will often times adopt the interest… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 08:38 AM |
| 1 | The role of make-upA woman's currency is attention and her agency is her sexuality -- of course they're going to wear makeup to sexualize themselves in order to secure the highest quality partner possible. I wouldn't even necessarily say that high value men are being tricked and deceived. I mean, presumably, the guy will see the girl he has been seeing without makeup prior to exclusivity (or he can just tell her to not wear it), so he's not necessarily going to have ugly children as a consequence of her inflating … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Surviving the soy corporate world.Your coworkers are under no circumstances your friends. Anything you say can and will be used against you. I work as an engineer during my day job and told my coworkers that I train MMA and bounce at nightclubs on the weekends -- they all thought I was super cool. They thought I was especially cool when our annual performance review rolled around and promotions were being discussed. I was up for a promotion, and my boss -- who works out of state -- asked my coworkers if they thought I could hand… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Forget to be HumanIdeally, you'd like to self actualize and internalize what you learn so you no longer have to be "running game" as game should become a natural part of who you are through your self development. I use to like writing about game, but then I realized it would be better if I just wrote about insights and observations I made while working towards self actualization because doing so would result in men becoming higher quality dudes who would be more likely to exude behaviors that are attractive and a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 08:08 AM |
| 3 | People only treat you as poorly as you allow them toYeah, that's one of the only options. I just straight up ignore certain people now, and that's the only option. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/24 12:07 AM |
| 3 | People only treat you as poorly as you allow them toAlways pay attention to any behavior from people relatively close to you that stands out as odd. It's a big indicator that something is off. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/24 12:07 AM |
| 4 | People only treat you as poorly as you allow them toYeah, you get it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/24 12:06 AM |
| 3 | People only treat you as poorly as you allow them toI said "ostensibly" and it's true. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/24 12:06 AM |
| 4 | People only treat you as poorly as you allow them toThat's exactly what they do | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/24 04:39 PM |
| 34 | People only treat you as poorly as you allow them toPretending to be disciplined lol | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/24 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpI probably shouldn't have given them any reaction, but I had known these guys for a considerable amount of time and wanted to tell them they were punks for being friendly to my face but clowning me behind my back. I wanted to let them know they were dorks for doing so. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level Upand at the forefront of those losers ^ | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpAgreed. They also were totally bad mouthing and slandering me. It was problematic because they had influence amongst staff and various members there. I now know to fly beneath the radar | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpRight, and those men are feminized and delusional | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpAgreed. This was at an earlier stage in my development and was a reflection of where I was at the time. Now, something like this occurring would be comical. You're right -- I was approaching lots of girls in the gym for reps, and now if I where to do such a thing it would be seldom and for a girl i was actually interested in. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpGood points with the white knights. I have not come across too many, in my home gyms. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpI never understood jealousy either. If I see a guy who is more jacked, has more money, has higher status, has better looking girls, I assumed he had to work his ass off to do so, and instantly want to talk to him to see what he is doing differently from myself. Actions are a far better indicator of feelings than words. Words lie, it's hard for actions too, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpEnvy and jealousy are absolutely inherent to human nature | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpThanks -- I'm glad you're benefitting from them, man. I ignored my gut instincts multiple times too, so just be glad that you're aware now and can act appropriately when this behavior inevitably occurs again | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpYou hit the nail on the head. It's pathetic that calling it like it is -- with men -- is frowned upon today. As men, we can't afford to keep the peace because doing so will result in you getting walked over by a guy who isn't willing to keep the peace, and there's many dudes like that. Yeah, that did make them uncomfortable with themselves an I never thought about their behavior from that perspective. Ultimately, I don't care though because they are capable of improving if they wanted. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpThanks. That is ultimately what I should have done. Good read. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpYou can approach women in the gym as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a woman is indirectly rejecting you or not interested in communicating with you. Those white knights in the gym aren't even talking to women, they're just wishing they had the courage like you to do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Always Trust Your Gut: Expect People To Become Envious of You Once You Level UpThanks - I agree with you. I no longer care about the situation at all; however, I did at that current stage of my development. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 01:11 PM |
| 13 | The Red Pill showing itself in real lifeYou presumably leveled up because you wanted to become a higher quality man -- not to make women who didn't give you the time of a day a decade ago feel inferior now. When I graduated high school almost a decade ago, man of the chicks there wouldn't give me the time of day. But, with that being said, I also probably wasn't worth giving the time of day to. Now, after developing myself and working incredibly hard, i'm more physically attractive and competent than most men in any room I walk into. … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/24 07:42 AM |
| 8 | Hitting on girls, is not scary. (Part 1)When I was conquering my fears of approaching women, I was doing so from the frame of becoming more masculine. Courage is a pillar of masculinity, and I knew that if I didn't have the courage to approach the girls I wanted and establish romantic interest, I wouldn't be courageous in moments I actually needed to be. Furthermore, like OP, there have been many times -- especially as a beginner learning how to cold approach women --where I said exceptionally cringeworthy things and had sets that wer… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/24 08:49 AM |
| 20 | From Normal Kid to Wimp: How I Unlearned Neurotic GaslightingI like your diction -- good post per usual. That's good that you don't avoid confrontation and calling stuff out when it's necessary, now. As men, we shouldn't necessarily ever seek out confrontation, but we also should never avoid it when necessary, which is what you realized when you finally decided to beat up your brother in front of your mother in the house. It's unfortunate that boys are brainwashed at a young age to do everything for the benefit of their mothers and not to upset them. It a… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/24 08:39 AM |
| 4 | Better the Devil You Knowwe are bringing sexy back | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/24 10:51 AM |
| 6 | Better the Devil You KnowThe main take away from this is that we as men has the ability to develop ourselves into the type of man we want in life regardless of our spawn point if you are willing to do the work. Be prepared to lose friends once you level up and develop yourself because, as mentioned in the text above, no-one will believe that the new you is the real you as you are behaving in a way that is incongruent with what they anticipate. Good post. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/24 07:49 AM |
| 4 | How to Become A Man Respected By OthersYou do exactly what I said in the article. You don't be friendly with them and let them know that if a certain behavior continues that you will not talk to them unless it is work related | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/24 11:20 AM |
| 3 | How to Become A Man Respected By OthersDefinitely practice letting go of people. It'll help dudes get over women they are obsessing over too. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/24 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How to Become A Man Respected By OthersDid you read the post? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/24 11:18 AM |
| 6 | How to Become A Man Respected By OthersExactly. Children are indoctrinated and the feminization process begins at birth | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/24 11:17 AM |
| -1 | How to Become A Man Respected By OthersLol | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/24 01:26 PM |
| 4 | How to Become A Man Respected By OthersMake this the pinned comment | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/24 12:36 PM |
| 10 | How to Become A Man Respected By OthersFor sure. You start respecting yourself by establishing boundaries and taking care of yourself physically | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/24 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Instead of best you can get for baby mama, what about worst?You want to reproduce with a low quality woman who won't have the best genetics for your child? Children need a mother in the house. A father can not teach man femininity -- well they can now as a consequence of men now being feminized -- and vice versa. So, I don't recommend being a single parent for that reason alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/24 01:11 PM |
| 29 | You'll never find the right girl, until you pick herYou can find quality women online -- you just need to know how to spot them. The idea that you can't find quality women online is unfounded in reality -- why wouldn't they be on the internet? That's like saying high quality women can't be found in bars or night clubs, i.e. fun environments where cute girls hang out with their friends. It's like saying you can find high quality women in churches, parks, the gym, or coffee shops, almost as if low quality women don't visit those venues. I know wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/24 01:07 PM |
| 15 | Do status and wealth matter more than looks?Status is the largest attraction trigger due to it ensuring survival during our ancestors evolutionary past. The order of money, looks, and game is just dependent on the stage of life a chick is in. A divorced mom in her 30s in most likely going to want provisioning so money would matter more than looks and game (presumably) Conversely, a hot chick in her 20s is more concerned with the alpha fucks side of hypergamy, so status and looks matter more. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How To Find Your Purpose In lifeDid you read the post? That's literally what I articulated | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/24 06:40 PM |
| 5 | How To Find Your Purpose In lifeRead mastery by Robert Greene and way of the superior man by David deida | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How To Find Your Purpose In lifeNo, read the virtue of selfishness by Any Rand for your answer | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | You Do Not Talk About Fight Club: Rabbits and the Bonobo Masturbation SocietyWhen did I ever say not to have goals? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | You Do Not Talk About Fight Club: Rabbits and the Bonobo Masturbation Societystay mysterious about it and don't care how she responds. If she leaves because of it who cares she can be replaced. Always do what you want and never concern yourself with appeasing a chick you are dating. You always come first. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/24 02:25 AM |
| 41 | You Do Not Talk About Fight Club: Rabbits and the Bonobo Masturbation SocietyDon't ever tell anyone that you read self development books. Once you do and you demonstrate objective progress you can expect them to believe they could do the same if they read books and you can expect them to become envious. They become envious because they are constantly reminded that their ability to improve their lives solely lies in their hands and you - a guy improving his life's circumstance - are a constant reminder of that. Additionally, as mentioned in the post, they won't think you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?It is an evolved evolutionary fear so it may never go away but it will lessen | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/24 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Them Grapes Are Sour! Why Self-Deception is Holding You BackThis was a phenomenal read and I loved it. Great post. All men need deluded self confidence. That is literally the reason I have accomplished every goal I've ever had. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/24 10:06 AM |
| 4 | You lived without her. You can live without her.Muse upon when a thought is provoked/randomly generated is what I meant | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/24 09:49 AM |
| 2 | You lived without her. You can live without her.glad to hear it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 2 | You lived without her. You can live without her.I have not read anything from anyone in the RP space come at it from this angle | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | You lived without her. You can live without her.you pinned the nail on the head man, cheers | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 06:59 PM |
| 9 | You lived without her. You can live without her.You're correct but the frame i'm evaluating this from is one in which random memories are generated randomly. Instead of looking at it from the perspective of sadness you can laugh or your mistakes made when less experienced. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 06:58 PM |
| 7 | You lived without her. You can live without her.This cocky and funny/ narcissistic behavior is what the chicks --and more importantly myself -- love, so I don't intend to. Thanks boss. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 06:56 PM |
| 3 | You lived without her. You can live without her.If you have to breakup with her then you have all the power and it shouldn't be as tough. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 03:16 PM |
| 4 | You lived without her. You can live without her.I am exceptionally attractive. At least a 9. This was not always the case, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | You lived without her. You can live without her.that's the spirit | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/24 02:26 PM |
| 6 | Getting girl after break upIron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/24 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Be The Villain100%. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/24 02:46 PM |
| 12 | Be The VillainUnflattering reminder of womens nature | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/24 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Be The VillainThat's not the point of his post. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/24 08:55 PM |
| 12 | Be The VillainIt's just a reality we as men have to accept and use to our advantage. The best way to begin behaving like a villain is by making yourself your own mental point of origin, and realizing that if she is going to cheat on her boyfriend with you then she would cheat on him with another guy so it may as well be you | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/24 07:33 PM |
| 13 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?Don't listen to dating advice from women ever. It wouldn't be creepy if a guy they perceived as incredibly hot said that. Okay, yeah, guys have approach anxiety. How do you conquer approach anxiety? By approaching lots of women until it's dissipated | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/24 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?Glad you liked it | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?So, how is it not true? You can absolutely hit on women there if you want to | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/24 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?Who cares if you get rejected? That's life. I've been rejected an unreasonable amount of times and I can sleep well knowing that I don't have any regret. I'll take rejection over regret any day of the week. Furthermore, how does you briefly conversing with a woman deteriorate your social status? No one knows the dynamic of your relationship and more importantly no one cares. In fact, most guys will be envious that you have the balls to cold approach a chick when most guys hide behind phones to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?This doesn't strictly pertain to the gym. It doesn't matter the approach method utilized, the idea is that you can hit on women anywhere as long as you are socially literate | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/24 12:58 AM |
| 10 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?I don't think men aren't approaching because of an underlying fear of being canceled. I think that's a buffer against rejection. Men aren't approaching women because they don't have the confidence or social skills to do so as a consequence of growing up behind screens | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?I misinterpreted what you meant in your original post | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?Not grounded in reality dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/24 11:02 PM |
| 9 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?I prefer shooting for a single and taking the back | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Are You On Your Mission? What Does This Even Mean?Good post. An important note is that finding your life's mission (or purpose) is incredibly difficult and generally takes life experience and considerable amount of introspection to determine. I highly recommend reading mastery by Robert Greene if you have trouble finding purpose in your life. It's probably the best book on the topic if you don't know how to get started. Women aside, men evolved to need purpose. As such, with this being a demonstrable truth today, if you don't have purpose today… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/24 03:27 PM |
| 20 | The King is Dead, Long Live the Amalgamation!Good post. Men became more feminized after world war 2 when the father left the home to work and the mother was left to take care of the children all day. This began the process of men becoming more like women and repeating the cycle for generations. Unfortunately, as a consequence of being unplugged and seeing the world through a different lens, you can't really talk about certain issues with people unless you are on the same page. I've only encountered three guys who were red pill aware in my … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.lol | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.I acknowledged that using anger as fuel is a good idea, just won't solve your problems as you can't expect an internal problem to be fixed with an external solution | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | You aren't attached to Her. You're attached to how she made you feelReuploaded per moderator's request | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/24 07:59 PM |
| 6 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.You did not say there is a one, you implied it in your response. Also, seeking validation externally is inherently feminine (I'm not judging you it's just the reality) and should be sought internally because anything external -- especially women -- can not provide you with the feelings you desire because it can be taken away from you | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/24 06:38 PM |
| 6 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.Do introspection to get to the bottom of your problem, solve it, and develop yourself internally and externally and she's effortlessly replaceable | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/24 06:18 PM |
| 10 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.The problem I have with your assertion is that you still are convinced that there is a "one" even though you don't realize. There are 4 billion women on this planet. To think that ther isn't one out there on planet earth who could understand you just like how your previous girl did is literally idealistic and delusional. Do you realize how absurd it is to think that a girl you (presumably) met within a 100 mile radius is the only one capable of providing you with certain feelings Ina. Specific c… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/24 06:14 PM |
| 12 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.glad you enjoyed it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHThe purpose of that section was to signify the importance of closing when a woman reaches an emotional high during the approach | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/24 10:37 AM |
| 0 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHYo close when an emotional high has been reached | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/24 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHYou can absolute hit on girls at the gym - not a dick move. It wasn't creepy and she did not interpret it as such -- I just demonstrated too much interest.. Yes, women love to play silly games like this. It may be hard for you to understand using your logical guy brain, but women are visceral, meaning they are more emotional and an emotional impact needs to be left during a cold approach so they can desire seeing you again. Of course games.like this seem silly to a guy | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/24 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHThe purpose of the neg in this context is to get her to qualify herself. I wasn't anxious, the problem was too much interest was shown. I could have closed after the high five but I lowered her attraction with the comment regarding the kids | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHGood deal | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHlink it and i'll send you $100, pal. The $100 is waiting -- I give you my word | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHI did not -- that was a completely different field report and was 14 days ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHYou didn't read the article. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 02:49 PM |
| -4 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHLol ok | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 02:46 PM |
| -12 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHlol | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHI showed too much interest. She was incredibly receptive to my opener. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 02:35 PM |
| -1 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHagreed and discussed that in the article | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHlol fair enough | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 01:48 PM |
| -14 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHDid you read the article? I literally said I blew it when I said our kids will be gorgeous. I also said I should have closed on the high note after the high five in the article. My game has social calibration, I understood I did something wrong and left. Which is why i should have recovered via the neg and qualifiers. These techniques are not "old" they work and are backed by psychology. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHI under no circumstances think I am a seduction guru. I am providing an analysis of where I went wrong during a cold approach from a red pill perspective | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 01:39 PM |
| -1 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHIt works. Do it. Just say it slow and confidently. As mentioned in the article above, I should have closed after the high five as her interest was already incredibly high. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 01:35 PM |
| -6 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHIt's overpowered. It has to be delivered in a very confident way, though. So no stuttering or any of that nonsense. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 01:34 PM |
| -21 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHExactly. If he read my post, he would've realized that the chick was extremely receptive to my opener due to her nonverbal body language and her extending her hand out for a handshake. His claim that I was creepy is delusional and unfounded. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 01:24 PM |
| -13 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHThe line was not creepy. It's my go to direct opener in the gym. Also, it's not creepy if you are physically attractive. And yes, I displayed far too much interest when I told her our kids would be good looking. I was literally conveying that she was good enough to be wife material without her having to work for it at all. I displayed that I was sold on her by her beauty alone, which is completely anti seductive and a massive turn off. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/24 01:05 PM |
| 2 | There are problems in the link between self-improvement and physical training in today's media.Looks, money, status, game, masculinity, and inner strength are aspects of life than men need to develop in order to become higher quality. Physical fitness is one aspect of self development that men can enhance in order to make themselves for valuable and higher quality. While it is technically low hanging fruit -- and arguably one of the easiest aspect of one's life to improve -- self help gurus or life coaches tell men to start lifting weights because it is something in their direct control a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/24 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Let Women Use Their ImaginationI agree and understand. I did not write about that but I have in other articles | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/24 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Let Women Use Their ImaginationCheers | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/24 09:25 AM |
| 11 | Let Women Use Their ImaginationYou are absolutely right and spot on. This is something I only internalized semi recently and will write about it one day. Just keep in mind getting to the state of true indifference is difficult and takes a considerable amount of time for most people | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/24 02:26 PM |
| 8 | Let Women Use Their ImaginationIf you tell a woman you're a virgin prior to having sex I can assure you you will remain a virgin ( potentially unless she is also a virgin) edit: I mean if he is about to literally have sex for the first time and he reveals it seconds before it occurs he will remain a virign | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 12 | Let Women Use Their ImaginationLol | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/24 11:39 PM |
| 10 | Let Women Use Their ImaginationBoth good responses | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/24 07:43 PM |
| 30 | Let Women Use Their ImaginationSometimes you should absolutely lie. For example, if a guy is a virgin he should under no circumstances tell his girl that he is a virgin | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItYou wouldn't tell them you think they are wife material while dating them, no. If a woman brings up marriage you never say something like yes you want to marry her when the time is right, but you just answer in such a way that suggests you aren't sure yet, even if you know she is wife material | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/24 07:03 PM |
| -3 | Dating Analysis: Men Are Like Light Switches, Women Are Like Door Knobs10-4 | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/24 04:16 PM |
| 6 | Dating Analysis: Men Are Like Light Switches, Women Are Like Door KnobsIt's just an assessment of what a guy did wrong with a woman he was pursuing from a red pill perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/24 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Girls Just Wanna Have Fun: How to Not Be Boring When Cold Approaching WomenI addressed the importance of not being too funny / overdoing it in the article -- there is an entire section dedicated to it. This is a tool in the toolbox that men can use to stimulate a woman's emotions during a cold approach. It's by no means the only one or most effective, but it is a tool that is good to withdraw when necessary. Also, you can be hot and still be boring. It is actually a massive problem men who optimize their looks fact due to not possessing social skills that are congruent… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/24 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Girls Just Wanna Have Fun: How to Not Be Boring When Cold Approaching WomenYou can DM me and I will help you out when I get a chance this evening. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/24 01:20 PM |
| 7 | Analysis: What Happens When Men Show Women Too Much InterestI agree. Where did I suggest doing that in the article? Not saying you're wrong -- but that's not something I would say | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/24 07:40 PM |
| 4 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItThe seduction never ends. You internalize these behaviors. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItExactly. She's figuring you out, wondering what else you have hidden in the arsenal to be revealed to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItSounds right. A woman not knowing where she stands with you is a great position to be in. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItYou demonstrate your intentions, never explicitly state them. If you only want to have sex with a girl, you don't tell her that. Similarly, if you suspect that a woman is relationship material, you would never tell her that, but rather, demonstrate it with your actions. Yes, familiarity is inevitable, However, you must internalize never being boring and predictable. This helps prevent familiarity and makes a woman feel as though she doesn't have you quite figured out. You don't have to tell your… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItThere's merit to what you're saying but the seduction never ends, especially during a LTR | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 12:33 AM |
| 8 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItThere's no playing games. I regularly advocate internalizing certain aspects of my writing. I may not have mentioned it in this article, but I regularly discuss the importance of developing yourself into a man of value who is genuinely too busy to see the women he is dating regularly. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/24 09:34 PM |
| 48 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItYep. A woman's imagination is the greatest tool in your toolbox. Always let her use it. She most likely crafted some fantasy about you in her mind and how you acquired them, and was then disappointed once she found out the truth. It's how it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/24 05:16 PM |
| 32 | Your Girl Does Not Want You to Be VulnerableThanks for mentioning this | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/24 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Never Ask A Woman To Be Your Girlfriendall of them | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/24 10:55 PM |
| 4 | How come I do well in night game but suck at day game?Some people are just better at one than the other. You didn't really give any examples of what you do during the day time, so it's hard to pinpoint what you're doing wrong. You can approach directly during the day, just don't give women too much validation and keep the conversation under three minutes. You can be direct but not necessarily as direct as you would in night game. This article goes into detail about how to directly approach women during the day: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedg… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 10:17 PM |
| 4 | She messed my mind up. How to get myself together?You get over this girl by developing an abundance mindset. An abundance mindset is developed by internalizing the idea that no matter what happens with any woman you are dating, that you will be able to attract one of equal or higher quality. This can be ensured by your continuous self improvement and development. So, continue developing yourself as a man and you will without a doubt have more access to more women. Increase your income, looks, physique, social skills, and game. Do this and you w… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Instagram DM Advicewhen you are shooting your shot via dms, stop building comfort and rapport. Those aren't necessary for her to need to go on a date with you. Instead, do this: Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next. I ask her out by asking what her availabilit… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:27 PM |
| 3 | How do we feel about Daygame?I don't like bars or nigh club, so all i do is daygame. I approach women in gyms, coffee shops, grocery stores, wherever I want really. If a woman is in a public space, you can hit on her. Just avoid hitting on women at work. Women say they don't want men to approach them in public spaces during the day, but that's because there are guys who can't take a hint. But if you take care of yourself and aren't socially awkward it's always game on. I went out to a bar this past weekend and left after 15… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Can't progress after kissingAfter kissing her once, kissing her again throughout the date is no big deal, and you can invite her back to your place and most likely not be denied. Once you make out with a woman on a date, you can safely invite her back to your place and reduce the likelihood of being denied. Escalating is all on you, so after your make out, continue being seductive and make up and excuse to go back to your place, just tell her you want her to meet your pet or to watch a movie or something. This article goes… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Had two great dinner dates with great conversation but no physicality. Third date ideas to help make it non platonic?Stop with the dinner dates, those are feminine and unless you're sitting next to each other it is hard to physically escalate. You're on a date with a woman who presumably considers you to be physically attractive. Unless you have it on good authority that she is not ran through or a more traditional woman (especially if she is from a country with traditional values) you can always kiss them on the first date. When implementing kino, start out with very small touches that are harmless that sugge… | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 02:49 PM |
| 12 | How to not be so easy?You avoid being so available and easy by just not being available all the time. Find your purpose and mission in life, work towards some goal, and develop yourself as a man and you literally won't be overly available/ too easy because you are too busy developing yourself. So, continue developing yourself as a man by doing the following: Increase your looks by getting into the gym and developing a skincare routine, learn social skills and female nature, learn how to cold approach women, learn how… | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | How to get over someone you just metYou get over getting ghosted by developing abundance. An abundance mindset is developed by internalizing the idea that no matter what happens with any woman you are dating, that you will be able to attract one of equal or higher quality. This can be ensured by your continuous self improvement and development. So, continue developing yourself as a man and you will without a doubt have more access to more women. Increase your income, looks, physique, social skills, and game. Do this and you will n… | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 04:17 PM |
| 6 | How effective is sliding into IG DMs + Proper way to do so?when you are shooting your shot via dms, stop building comfort and rapport. Those aren't necessary for her to need to go on a date with you. Instead, do this: Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next. I ask her out by asking what her availabilit… | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 04:12 PM |
| 3 | If a girl sees you more than once, do you still do the approach or is it done?No | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Fashion advice?I suggest having a "look" More specifically, a look that conveys who you are as a person and is genuine. You can also do the following: 1.Wear clothes that fit well. If overweight, wear clothes that don't reveal your bad features (like a belly) You can wear looser fitting clothing that looks nice Never have clothes that are wrinkly and smell bad. Always smell good. Evaluate the color wheel so you can know which colors go together to have a fundamental understanding of what works so you won't hav… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Texting with a long time to the next dateNo, you're just going to lower her attraction. Talk to other women, she's going to talk to other men. Do not put all of your eggs in this basket and assume she will have met someone else in this month. Also, develop an abundance mindset so you don't worry about having to maintain ONE woman on your roster for an entire month. An abundance mindset is developed by internalizing the idea that no matter what happens with any woman you are dating, that you will be able to attract one of equal or highe… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 10:29 PM |
| 4 | I fumbled so hardYou didn't fumble, she lives two hours away, of course she isn't going to text you. This was a good learning experience. You should have physically escalated more and passed her shit tests with ease to build attraction. You mention finding out having lots of interests in common, which suggests to me that the conversation was more platonic and boring as opposed to emotional. Having shared interests with a woman isn't going to make her want to sleep with you more. Next time, focus on stimulatingly… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Dating appsOptimize your profile by having good pictures that convey pre selection and social proof. If a woman matches with you it means you have been categorized. You are categorized either into date potential category or free attention category. You are on a dating app, so if a woman matches with you, you must always assume that she is physically attractive from the jump. Thus, it is best to have an opener that is direct, playful, and fun. You aren't direct to the extent of telling her that you want to … | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 10:14 PM |
| 8 | If a girl sees you more than once, do you still do the approach or is it done?You absolutely can. Just make sure she doesn't think you are orbiting around her building the courage to approach her. Additionally, don't mention that you've seen her around, it shows that you've been keeping an eye on he and are just now building the courage to approach. This article details how to approach women directly: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-direct-game?r=31tj3q&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web This article details how to approach women indirectly: … | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Yes, You Can Approach Women In the GymJust walk up to them and get their attention. They may take them out or not | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Was talking to a chick online then she ghosted when I told her my height, how do y’all deal with being ghosted especially when you’re having a very bad month?You get over getting ghosted by developing abundance. An abundance mindset is developed by internalizing the idea that no matter what happens with any woman you are dating, that you will be able to attract one of equal or higher quality. This can be ensured by your continuous self improvement and development. So, continue developing yourself as a man and you will without a doubt have more access to more women. Increase your income, looks, physique, social skills, and game. Do this and you will n… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 03:12 PM |
| 4 | I shut down once I know a girl’s into me; how can I stop being weird about getting physical?You're on a date with a woman who presumably considers you to be physically attractive. Unless you have it on good authority that she is not ran through or a more traditional woman (especially if she is from a country with traditional values) you can always kiss them on the first date. When implementing kino, start out with very small touches that are harmless that suggest that you are just a normally touchy guy, after continuing the seductive process, you can become more intimate by either jump… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Girls don’t think they have a chance with me. How did you fixed this problem?You need to build attraction when you are with them. The fact that they dance with you, compliment you, and approach you first suggests that you are physically attractive but are probably boring them/ not behaving how they expect an attractive guy to. Women's emotions need to be stimulated for them to have any interest in you outside of physical appearance/ to keep them engaged. So, learn how to not be boring during conversation, and learn how to be seductive/ learn how to escalate physically an… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 7 | Practical tips to reduce approach anxietyEveryone has approach anxiety because of how we evolved. It will never go away, but will dissipate with the more approaches you do. It's best to conquer this fear by jumping off the deep end and approaching a group of hot women, or the hottest women in the vicinity to realize that approaching women isn't all that bad. Furthermore, jumping off the dep end will make all subsequent approaches much easier because you've already played on expert difficulty. You should also reframe your fear and estab… | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Now, that I have some confidence by reading about different types of cold approaches, I am kinda overwhelmed by all the options I have.You practice the various options and determine what works best for you and craft your style from that. Direct Approach This is when you the first thing you communicate to a woman indicates that you are romantically interested in her. This could be complimenting her physical appearance (not her style/outfit) but looks, or using a pickup line. Direct approach is best for guys who are more confident and bold. Pros Allows for intent to be known and clear can save you time if she is not physically at… | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 08:31 PM |
| 17 | Why Good Looking Men Struggle With Womenhere you go: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 08:16 PM |
| 2 | I have no idea how to seduce the type of woman I want to attractYou seduce this girl like any other girl. Seduction is universal and is not dependent on the type of woman. The most seductive thing you can do is listen and make someone feel like they are being heard. Do this, while establishing romantic interest, being funny and playful and kino escalating to prevent yourself from becoming a platonic guy friend. There's many ways to be seductive. The most effective seduction technique is listening. More specifically, be outwardly oriented and present in the c… | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 08:14 PM |
| 12 | Where the HOT ones areyou can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. I don't like bars or nigh club, so all i do is … | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Girls who stop responding after getting asked outThe amount of attention these women have on dating apps is absurd. The fact that you are scheduling dates is very good. Don't take it personally, they are literally inundated with options from men, and they constantly have new ones messaging them. They then are no longer incentivized to go out with you as a consequence of having so many matches. You literally just have to keep sourcing and talking to as many women as possible. It's just how online dating is. This article details the importance o… | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety: Eliminating fears around approaching womenEveryone has approach anxiety because of how we evolved. It will never go away, but will dissipate with the more approaches you do. It's best to conquer this fear by jumping off the deep end and approaching a group of hot women, or the hottest women in the vicinity to realize that approaching women isn't all that bad. Furthermore, jumping off the dep end will make all subsequent approaches much easier because you've already played on expert difficulty. You should also reframe your fear and estab… | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How has your anxiety towards approaching in public (day game) changed over time?The fear dissipates the more you do it. If you master it and stop doing it, you will have nerves come back (not as much as before) but luckily they will subside substantially more quickly than when you first got them: This article goes into more detail about how to get over your approach anxiety: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-conquer-your-fear-of-approaching?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching?When guys hit on women, they often communicate with them like they would their guy friends. In a logical, information exchange based way. Essentially, guys put more importance on the exchanging of facts as opposed to the "vibe" of the conversation. Women don't care about facts nearly as much (at first anyway) as men do. So, you need the social skills to be able to take any piece of mundane information she gives you and turn it into something that is playful and fun to leave an emotional impact. … | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 02:14 AM |
| 3 | How can associating your self worth with being able to date and have a girlfriend affect you?Your focus should always be on your purpose / mission in life. Everything else comes after. Enhancing your dating life is important, but if you tie yourself worth to having a girlfriend then you ultimately won't ever be worth anything because your girlfriend will leave and then you have nothing. So, develop yourself as a man and develop abundance. Enhance your looks, money, social status, develop competency in some domain, learn about female nature, and game. Do all of this and you will without … | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 01:56 AM |
| 5 | How do you differentiate a date and a hang out?You use the word date if it is an actual date. A hangout is a "date" if she is coming over to your place and there is a potential for her to have sex with you. It sounds like you are probably a beginner so the latter is not your case. When yo are texting her, use the word date, so she understands there is romantic interest. Literally message her and ask her what her availability is to go on a date. That's it. This article goes into more detail about how to ask women out on dates once you get the… | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Where are you all finding dates?you can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. I don't like bars or nigh club, so all i do is … | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 01:43 AM |
| 8 | Women Want You To Be MysteriousYou internalize these behaviors | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 06:13 PM |
| 3 | How do I make our convo less one sidedwhen you are shooting your shot via dms, stop building comfort and rapport. Those aren't necessary for her to need to go on a date with you. Instead, do this: Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next. I ask her out by asking what her availabilit… | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl's interested but doesnt rly know how to talkAsk her on a date and stop texting her. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Should I engage in long conversations before the first date ?You should not be messaging her in the time between the date for a couple reasons. First, you should be busy working on your purpose in life and developing yourself into a high quality man. You literally shouldn't have time to initiate conversation with her randomly throughout the day because you're busy trying to become a badass. Secondly, it's not what women want you to do. Women need to be wondering about you and anticipating when she will hear from you next. When you aren't messaging her dai… | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 12:33 AM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong?Stop texting like a platonic friend, be direct, establsh romantic interest, then clsoe. When you get a girl's number or match with her on a dating app, your objective should be to get her out on a date. You should not be messaging women to build comfort and rapport prior to asking her out, because women do not need comfort and rapport necessary to go on dates with guys. It is not uncommon for women, modern women in western society specifically, to have one night stands with men from bars or to l… | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | If A Woman Thinks You are A Player, Do Not Tell Her Otherwise"is it that obvious?" "I try to keep it on the low" | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?I attribute most of my success to internalizing the idea that women love boldness and they love having fun and playful conversations. There's a saying that "girl's just wanna have fun" and it's very true. Additionally, I attribute my success to being a really good listener. Being an effective listener is one of the most seductive things you can do with a woman. More specifically, being outwardly oriented and present in the conversation. Demonstrating that your full focus and attention is on the … | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached for the first time todayyou can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. I don't like bars or nigh club, so all i do is … | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 3 | What are good small talk topics to discuss...Comfort and rapport are not needing for a woman to agree to go out on a date with you. Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next. You can get women to go on dates with you in 1-4 messages. Texting like a platonic pen pal is absurd. Texting her mo… | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Setting up a hookup from tinder matches?I ask her out by asking what her availability is to go on a date during a specific time frame and don't ask for a specific day, but a range (like availability next week). Once she gives it to me, I give her a location and time to meet there. I get her number, and send her a text telling her who it is. I do not text them until the day of the date. If they message me before the date, I message them back, but I never respond in such a way that pushes the conversation forward or provokes a response … | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Flirting is the hardest skill known to man, or at least known to me..This wasn't a terrible exchange. Asking her to guess where you are from in an elevator setting (which presumably wouldn't last long) was stupid because obviously she's not going to guess you are from bahrain. Also, you continued to make small talk with her despite giving her no reason to care. You then said maybe you'd invite her one day, which makes no sense because you are conveying to the woman that she can have you . You definitely escalated and you did flirt, just doing it in this context w… | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Instagram and seductionYou can reduce screen time to only 30 minutes a day or less. If you can actually get dates from it I wouldn't delete it, just limit your time. Also, view this as a way to get over your fear of approaching women in real life. Social media is a buffer against rejection, you will also develop better social skills, social intelligence, and game from having to approach women in person. Because you can get dates on instagram that suggests you have a good profile. You should leverage that to your advan… | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 09:57 PM |
| -17 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on Datenot in the scope of this post. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 04:14 PM |
| -16 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on DateYes there is. Read | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 04:12 PM |
| -8 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on Dateyes there is. read | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Tale of two Tinder datesWith the second girl you started off on a bad foot by not ensuring that the place would be open. This shows her that you do not pay attention to detail and are incapable of following through with plans and just go with the flow. This is feminine behavior. She didn't spend all that time getting dressed up just to for some guy to not have everything taken care of. You then went to another venue that was booked (shows incompetence on your part) and then you ate at some low budget restaurant where s… | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I stop the dates and offer to come to my place?You need to leave them with an emotional imprint so they will feel desired to go on a date with you. Number closes, as you are realizing, doesn't really mean anything. Like, good job on getting numbers, but you will find that they don't really mean anything because you will most often get ghosted unless you stimulate her emotions during the conversations. This article discusses how to stimulate a woman's emotions during a conversation: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-an… | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Did I (M23) miss a cue?It doesn't matter if it was a cue or not. As men, you should have the ability to approach a woman you find attractive without her giving you indicators of interest. Also, sometimes women will be very interested in you and not give any indicators of interest. So, yes. The next time you see her there, move in and talk. You don't actually have to eat with her, just have a quick conversation and get her number. Since you're in a cafeteria, I suggest you approach her directly (letting your intentions… | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you ask for the socials of your matches?The goal of dating apps is to go on a date. Schedule a date with her then get her instagram. Do not make yourself an overly available platonic texting buddy. Schedule a date, then ask for her number, and then Instagram. This article discusses how to convert matches to dates on dating apps: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-get-dates-on-dating-apps-a?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Fundamentals: Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Her actions are the most reliable indicator of interest and trustworthinessA woman's behavior is a far more accurate assessment of their feelings than the words, especially if her words are incongruent with her behaviors. Most men can tell that a woman has lost attraction / is no longer interested despite claiming otherwise. When this happens, it is important that you back off and go talk to other women. Men should date multiple women in order to develop an abundance mindset so they won't be devastated when the girl they have been seeing indirectly indicates that they … | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Practice methods for convo and advice?You can practice your social skills on anyone at anytime. You can practice being seductive by being a good listener. More specifically, be outwardly oriented and present in the conversation. Demonstrating that your full focus and attention is on the person speaking, and that you are genuinely interested in them and what they have to say as a person is extremely seductive because so rarely do other people take a genuine interest in another person. When you do this, you exude warmth and make the w… | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How to properly deal with AMOGs who become physical first despite there being no justifiable reason?You're going to develop yourself into a more physically threatening man so this will happen far less. The reason men are instantly being physical with you without thought is because they don't consider you to be a threat and feel as though they can do whatever they want to you. This will subside when you put on muscle and their is a threat of violence associated with messing with you (meaning, pushing you could result in a fight or them getting their ass kicked). So, get in the gym yesterday, an… | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Sticking PointYou are approaching women indirectly. While I do believe that beginners in their cold approach journey should approach women directly, I understand that it's not everyone's style and that there are definitely times when going indirect is more ideal. When going indirect, make sure your opening statements are not completely boring and logical, or statements that could provoke a response of "yes" or "no" because, unless she is very physically attracted to you, that will be all she gives you. After … | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 02:50 AM |
| -1 | Dating appsHave really good pictures taken by someone who know how to take good photos. They can be taken on your smart phone, just ensure that the person taking them knows what they're doing. Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next. I ask her out by aski… | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Being Complacent after one closeI have the exact opposite problem. I feel good after getting a number close and use that feeling to approach more women. I also understand that a number close means nothing and that there is always a possibility of getting ghosted after getting a number, so I approach multiple in case any of them flake or don't respond to my message. I also know that no matter how cool a girl is that I meet, there is always another one around the corner who is just as cool or more cool. So, you can do whatever y… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Getting over insecurities about boring someone when they're with one one on oneNot a problem, it's a skill that be can be improved. Seduction is universal and is not dependent on the type of woman. The most seductive thing you can do is listen and make someone feel like they are being heard. Do this, while establishing romantic interest, being funny and playful and kino escalating to prevent yourself from becoming a platonic guy friend. There's many ways to be seductive. The most effective seduction technique is listening. More specifically, be outwardly oriented and prese… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls blocking me after number close?Numbers don't mean anything. Girls will just give it out to not have to reject you directly and deal with a potential temper tantrum. A cold approach is only successful if the woman actually shows up to the date. Just keep practicing. That's the only way to improve. If you have trouble escalating and and are too friendly, try approaching women directly. That is, indicating that you are romantically interest in the woman you are speaking in with your opening statements. You can also use a techniq… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Third date recommendation + approach advicebuy me dinner first... oh, wait. you can't afford to. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Things I've learned over the past yearGirls find me attractive. I have trouble internalizing this but I can't deny it anymore. The ugly nerdy kid is only inside of me now. Congratulations on the self development. Now, you need to work on your internal state and actually become an internally confident person. Your internal confidence will cause you to externally appear more confident and allow for confidence to literally radiate from within you, and people will pick up in the fact that you are confident because of how you carry yours… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:54 AM |
| 3 | What can I do?Yeah, she's most likely getting ready to break up with you and is checked out of the relationship. At this point, break up with her and go talk to new girls. She's talking to her ex crush and flirting with other men who are your "friends." That's blatantly disrespectful on her behalf and they very clearly are not your friends. Break up with her, level up, develop yourself as a man, and pull more attractive woman than her. Success is the best revenge there is when it pertains to an ex. Also, are … | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Tips for overcoming nerves?Everyone has approach anxiety because of how we evolved. It will never go away, but will dissipate with the more approaches you do. It's best to conquer this fear by jumping off the deep end and approaching a group of hot women, or the hottest women in the vicinity to realize that approaching women isn't all that bad. Furthermore, jumping off the dep end will make all subsequent approaches much easier because you've already played on expert difficulty. You should also reframe your fear and estab… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:36 AM |
| 4 | YogaThis is nonsense. Don't become a yoga instructor simply to hit on women. You can literally approach women anywhere. You can hit on woman anywhere as long as you have the social intelligence and social skills to understand when a woman is indirectly communicating that she is not interested, because women will almost never directly reject you. Women say they don't like being approached by men in certain spaces because they have been approached by weird creepy guys who could not take a hint and lea… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Not knowing how to closethey weren't interested. There was something you did during the conversation that lowered their attraction to you, or they just weren't attracted from the jump. They indirectly rejected you to be nice, because women very rarely will tell you no. It's not a big deal. It's just how it is. Keep talking to women at clubs, keep doing what you're doing, just make sure you aren't boring these women in your conversation. So, when you go out, make sure you are having fun and playful conversations that ar… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Third date recommendation + approach adviceInvite her to your place for the third date. You've made out, just tell her you want her to try your cooking or because you want her to meet your pet (just make up an excuse) Also, no, if you can't afford to pay the bill in full you shouldn't be dating. If you do split the bill, it should be after ya'll are in an exclusive relationship, or at the very least, after yall have had sex. Once she's at your house, don't allude to having sex or directly mention it. Just turn her on, physically escalate… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:28 AM |
| 24 | Best way to get back into the dating scene after a loooong timeThe dating market place has been globalized due to social media and dating apps, meaning women are more inundated with attention from men their ever before. Consequently, you have girls who are below average, average, and slightly above average who believe they are substantially more attractive than they actually are due to dudes in their inboxes providing them with free attention without having to give anything in return. Women have always dated up, but now the average man has to work substanti… | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 02:11 AM |
| -2 | Asking Women Out Has to Make SenseI provided one | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Showing too much affection?She just wants to go out with you and not strictly be used for sex, that's all. Maybe she wants a good looking guy to go out and do stuff with AND have sex with. This does not necessarily mean she is looking for anything serious. Just continue to see her and hook up with her. You aren't giving her any mix signals, you are doing what you said you wanted to do (hookup), and that includes kissing and cuddling prior to and after sex. Technically, you are out on a date when you are in public with her… | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 01:23 AM |
| -1 | Asking Women Out Has to Make SenseI did | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell her?She most likely doesn't remember you what so ever. It's been four years, and assuming she is at least average, she's probably acquired tens of thousands of matches in this time period. Don't bring it up, she may think it's weird that you remembered her after so much time. Furthermore, doing so provides no purpose. benefit to you. What's she going to respond with? Nah, she doesn't remember you? Then what? I've rematched with women from times ago after they left me on read and unmatching, and sche… | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Pilates classesI wouldn't necessarily go to a class with the intention of meeting high quality women, as that's stupid and a waste of time. Yeah, there will be attractive women in there, but they are literally everywhere. You can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely will come out and directly say no, so, as lon… | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 03:52 PM |
| 9 | My text game is pretty badKeep texting for logistics/scheduling dates, and rewarding good behavior when she messages you first. In person is what matters, anyways. In order to effectively schedule a date, say " Hey, what's your availability to go on a date (insert time frame)" and when she responds, give her a time and place to meet. Don't text her until the day of the date, and only message her if she messages you first, but never respond in a way that provokes a response from her or moves the conversation forward. Text… | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with 3rd parties?focus on putting on muscle first. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl says her schedule Is unpredictableThat's a soft no, most likely. Did you ask her when she was free? Or did you ask her for a specific time frame/ provide specific dates like a man is supposed to do? When you ask a woman out, you are suppose to ask what her availability is to go on a date and provide a time frame (like for next weekend) If she was super interested, she would have provided you with specific availability. I'm not saying it is completely a wash but it most like is. You can try saying "what's your availability to go … | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 04:32 AM |
| 58 | Why are you scared to approach women?All men have varying degrees of approach anxiety. This is because in our ancestor's evolutionary past, men who approached women who were taken was either murdered/ beat up by their man. Additionally, it is because we lived in tribes of no more than 150 people, and if word got out that you were rejected by one or a few women, then no other women would want you because it suggested that you were lower value. So, essentially, approaching women and it going poorly had the potential to result in murd… | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 04:22 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with 3rd parties?As far as other guys go, they interrupt your set because they envy the fact that you can approach women, but don't consider you physically intimidating enough to not disrespect you. Essentially, you probably look like a guy who is easy to pick on and someone who would tolerate disrespect (which you admittingly are). In the short term, learn how to create boundaries and if you need to tell a guy to leave, tell him to leave. Long term, put on muscle and learn self defense so you can be strong and … | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Doubts about doing something with a girl I recently metIf you're certain that you're not in the friend zone, go for it. Don't literally say "i like you." Are you positive that you are not in the friend zone? If so, I would suggest going about this more indirectly. That is, building her attraction over time and then establishing romantic interest. My advice would be to be seductive, kino escalate, and flirt. See how receptive she is too all of that. If she is receptive, then that is a good sign she will want to go out with you. So essentially, flirt … | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approachAs far as your friends go, tell them that is unacceptable behavior and to stop doing it. If it is annoying you, and is something you don't want them to do, create a boundary. If they cross it, you punish them for it by withdrawing your attention from them and not hanging out with them again. If they are your friends, they will respect you and not cross your boundaries. Otherwise, you have to cut them lose and make new friends who will not cockblock or disrespect you in front of women you're hitt… | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Rejected after first date/kiss closeYeah, never reveal how much you like women -- especially during the first date. That lowers their attraction because it shows that you are far too interested in them despite barely knowing them, and it tells them that they can have you despite barely knowing you. Never directly reveal how much you like them verbally. That is extremely anti seductive. Women want to feel as though they had to work to get you to like them. Also, bad move telling her that you live with your ex. She will not feel com… | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 10:56 PM |
| 4 | How Becoming More Attractive Helps Your Gameexactly. all of these dudes have clearly not done the work to go from average looking to very attractive and it shows | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 08:36 PM |
| 10 | How Becoming More Attractive Helps Your GameExactly. I have no idea what everyone else is talking about. This is what I was conveying in the post | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How Becoming More Attractive Helps Your GameAlternatively, you can optimize your looks and physique so you can compete with the more physically attractive men. | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Matched with a girl on Tinder but can’t meet her until next monthyou don't say that with words. you demonstrate it. The date is scheduled. If she messages you ofcourse respond. Keep in mind she's probably talking to other dudes and will be flooded with new messages from new guys during these three weeks. | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 04:38 PM |
| 6 | How Becoming More Attractive Helps Your GameThanks boss. | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get to know about her first doesn't workYeah, don't try and get to know them first. Save that for the date. Comfort and rapport are not needed to ask women out and aren't seductive. Here's the method I used to get women to agree to go on dates after 2-3 messages: Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a n… | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Hinge openersHave a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next. I ask her out by asking what her availability is to go on a date during a specific time frame and don't ask for a specific day, but a range (like availability next week). Once she gives it to me, I give … | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 04:24 PM |
| 9 | Matched with a girl on Tinder but can’t meet her until next monthShe's not going to forget about your existence. Stop messaging her, it's not going to increase her attraction. All texting her for the next few weeks is going to do is make you appear more common, and you are going to reveal far too much information, resulting in her knowing enough about you and not wanting to go out with you again. This fear of her forgetting about you comes from scarcity. Go and meet new women in the country you are currently in, and deal with the one in your country when you … | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Is there away to persevere through the mountain of rejectionsWell, keep leveling yourself up as a man and continue enhancing your game and social skills. Rejection is normal, but try and evaluate why you are getting rejected by being perceptive and introspective. Try and determine what you are doing right and what you are doing wrong during each approach. Make sure you've optimized everything in your control (looks/physique). Don't be discouraged at rejection, but if you are constantly getting rejected and not making progress, you have to evaluate everyth… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | how do I seduce a girl when I meet up with her irl after months of online textingseduce her during the date by being a good listener and having the primary focus of the conversation on her. Stimulate her emotions by making her laugh, don't directly reveal information about yourself so you can have an aura of mystery about you, and kino escalate physically because she is a girl you are romantically interested in and not some platonic friend. Also, make sure to flirt and establish romantic interest when you are with her. Be bold, and don't be afraid to escalate the physicality… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 10:18 PM |
| 3 | I approached a girl for the first time (in almost 4 years)Congrats on your approach. Also, good job on the kino escalation (her caressing your hand) but during approaches during the day, it's typically best to avoid so because some women will find it creepy, and it really doesn't need to be done to build attraction. You being well groomed and in decent shape got your foot in the door, which is why she held your hand and looked at your ear. Your problem during the escalation is that you just had a boring platonic conversation with a woman you were physi… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 10:04 PM |
| 3 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withMake sure to kino escalate too. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 05:42 PM |
| 14 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withYou're in the friend zone and she soft rejected you so you're probably stuck in there for good but you can try this: Seduce her by being a good listener. More specifically, be outwardly oriented and present in the conversation. Demonstrating that your full focus and attention is on the person speaking, and that you are genuinely interested in them and what they have to say as a person is extremely seductive because so rarely do other people take a genuine interest in another person. When you do … | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 9 | Non “game” fixes that created a huge jump in my daygame results as a beginnerKudos for putting in the work and enhancing your appearance. For everyone reading, most people will never outright tell you that your style sucks or that certain features on you are unattractive. So it's important to be very reflective and introspective to determine what problems you may have. Cleaning up your appearance will definitely put your foot in the door and give you time to build more attraction with women, so optimizing your looks is definitely something that should be done. Always kee… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 01:27 AM |
| 2 | I was so confusedBasically she thought you were very attractive, but when you approached her you demonstrated that you were very inexperienced and had no idea how to build attraction with a woman. No big deal, you're a noob and it happens. She probably wanted to hook up but when you approached her you turned her off do to your inability to build attraction / escalate. If you had a little bit of skill this would have been a layup, so I suggest you keep practicing and talking to other women. Learn how to be seduct… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Able to attract but fumble closingYou need to develop your social skills so you can be able to effectively converse with women you're hitting on. The most effective seduction technique is listening. More specifically, be outwardly oriented and present in the conversation. Demonstrating that your full focus and attention is on the person speaking, and that you are genuinely interested in them and what they have to say as a person is extremely seductive because so rarely do other people take a genuine interest in another person. W… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | How to Pull More WomenI don't have a social media following as I'm not on it. Regardless, status attracts women | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What’s the move after a one night stand?Wait a couple of days to ask her out again. When you ask her out, ask her "what's your availability to hangout (and give her a timeframe, instead of a specific date)" You want to wait a couple days so you don't reveal that you are overly attached/ interested in her. If a girl at your age (21) has a one night stand with a dude, it most likely suggests that she has done it multiple times before. So, if you behave like you have not done this before, being overly eager to see her again, she will thi… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 35 | I [21M] just had one of the best nights of my lifeCongratulations pal. Now that you've done this once, you must always remember that it can happen again. No matter what happens with this chick, don't get devastated if she ghosts you, don't be devastated if she withdraws for no reason because you now know that you have the skills to do it again because you've done it once before. Keep doing what you're doing and talking to more women. Keep this woman as a plate and continue going out and talking to/ hooking up with other women to become even bet… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet women?You literally have two free days to go out and meet women. If it's important to you, you can go out and meet women on those two days. Hell, you can go out and meet women at bars and clubs after work. I like meeting women in gyms, you say you workout so that is also an option. Essentially, you can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Before work do it in the gym, coffee shops, or grocery s… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Help me guysUnder no circumstances should one of your guy friends be attempting to hit on your girl. That is completely unacceptable behavior. You have to call him out on this and tell him to stop flirting with her and to stop being extra friendly. He may try to gaslight you can claim he's doing otherwise, but be firm and hold your ground and tell him to stop. I would trust your intuition, and if you think he's hitting on your girl he is. Also, this is a boundary. If someone crosses your boundary, you punis… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Day gameyou can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. If there are any events like a farmers market t… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How to Pull More WomenRead books and apply what you learn. There are abundant resources available | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs?It's not weird at all. Men like younger women and women like older guys, it's just how it is. You can still approach women your age despite looking young. You may be immediately disqualified in bar settings, but outside of bar settings you should be fine. As far as avoiding creep status, you're only creepy if you behave in a way that is creepy. More specifically, guys only consider women to be creepy when they find you unattractive, or when you can't take an indirect hint when they are rejecting… | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 04:35 PM |
| 4 | What should I focus on while taking a break from dating?Develop yourself as a man to make yourself more attractive to more women. Increase your looks (get muscles and stay relatively lean), get a skincare routine, learn how to dress, find a good haircut, Money, get a good paying job or get your finances in order/ pursue a career that pays well. Enhance your game (social skills as it pertains to intersexual dynamics) , learn about female nature, what behaviors attract them, learn game techniques Status - increase your social status by being a guy who … | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Dry spells / feeling undesirableDry spells are normal and out of your control. Make sure there is nothing external about you that is making you unapproachable (like improper body language and facial gestures). One way to never worry about dry spells is by developing yourself as a man and leveling up. Increase your looks, money, social status, game, and social skills, get muscles, and you will without a doubt have more access to more women and be universally attractive. Sometimes you will get rejected by every woman you approac… | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 04:05 PM |
| 2 | OLD follow upSkip the small talk and ask her what her availability is to go out on a date. She's also most like has hundreds of other dudes in her inbox, and you are a low priority. Just how it is. Stop texting in an attempt to build comfort and rapport prior to asking these girls out, you are not their pen pal. Read this to learn how the most optimal way to convert matches to dates on dating apps: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-get-dates-on-dating-apps-a?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_me… | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | If you have to question if a girl likes you, does that mean odds are she does not?Flirt with her and gauge her interest level based off of her responses. Basically, women will almost never come out and directly let you know that they are interested in you through their words. Instead, they will demonstrate it with their actions. It's not entirely clear if she actually likes you in this case, so your best bet would be to flirt with her and gauge her interest level based on how she responds to your advances. You can ask her out directly when you see her, or you can build her at… | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Openers for speaking to girlsYour opener can be direct or indirect. With a direct opener being anything that conveys romantic interest during your opening statements. And indirect opener being when romantic interest is conveyed at some point in a conversation other than the opening statement. If going direct, I recommend something playful and fun that might even make her laugh. For example, i was walking downtown in my city, and a woman was walking her dog. I told her her dog was gorgeous, and asked if it needed a father. I… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Asking a girl out through a mutual friend?Don't ask her to give you her phone number, just find her on instagram (ask your friend for her instagram if needed), follow her, and then ask her what her availability is to go on a date. Skip the small talk, skip the building comfort and rapport nonsense, be direct and ask her out. It's that simple. Random guys follow women on social media all of the time they have never met on person and go on dates with them. Women follow back men they have never met if they find them to be attractive. So, y… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 10:17 PM |
| 4 | How I beat approach anxiety and learned to game properlyAnd so, there's no such thing as "girls out of your league" Leagues do exist, but not in the same way that most people think. Most people think that a woman is out of a man's league if she is considerably more attractive than him; however, a man's value does not solely consist of his looks. A man's value consists of his looks, money, social status, and game. So, yes, leagues do exist, but men can bring stuff else other than looks to the table to attract high quality women who are substantially m… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateWell, it's something that's out of your control, and not something i've ever had to deal with. But I will say it's only a big deal if you make it one. Don't mention it and bring it up and you will find that most women won't when you are first dating them either. If they ask, just say you have sweaty palms, and don't make a big deal out of it. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | How to Get Over Your Fear Of Approaching Womendidn't you tell me you approached a chick with headphones in the other day? | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Why is game so difficult?Game won't become easy until you make certain internalizations. Once I worked on becoming truly more masculine, developing myself as a man, and internalizing the idea that women love boldness and having fun and playful conversations, may game went from good to amazing. Applying techniques is great, but you truly won't become good until you have a firm understanding of female nature, and become the game through internalization. Learning game is great for getting women, but if you want to sustain … | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:06 AM |
| 0 | When to have the talk about how do I and the girl see us?The man always has to let the woman initiate the topic of exclusivity, if a man initiates it, it suggests that he doesn't have other options, and that the man likes her far more than she likes him. Not saying the logic is true, but that's what women think when men ask for exclusivity. Women want to have to work for you and feel like they got you to settled down with them. If you ask what we are or go for exclusivity, they can't have this. Ultimately, if a girl likes you and wants to be exclusive… | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 11:42 PM |
| 0 | headphones and cold approachingYes that's where I dated the majority of women in 2023. https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-at-the-gym?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=31tj3q | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateThe guide has examples in it | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 05:13 AM |
| 2 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateTry the ones posted in this article: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 04:17 AM |
| 3 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateThis article discusses how to do that extensively: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 04:17 AM |
| 2 | headphones and cold approachingCongrats on conquering your approach anxiety. So, I hit on women in the gyms regularly, and women always have headphones in. You do not begin speaking until you have their full attention. They may not take both earbuds out, but if they take one out that means you have their attention. Talking to them before they have at least one earbud out lowers your perceived value to them. When you approach, always approach from an angle where they can see you. Ideally, you would want to approach them direct… | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 01:18 AM |
| 3 | How to Make out with Women on the First Datecomprehensive guide https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 12:32 AM |
| 8 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateGentle quick touches with the back of your palm when you are talking during conversation. You have to prime her, don't make an excuse, that's obvious what you're doing. If you aren't comfortable grabbing her hand, you can play a game or palm read or something like that. Sometimes you can be bold and hold her hand but you have to prime her. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 10:46 PM |
| 3 | second date advice?When making moves, you have to be bold and take risks. Women usually aren't going to escalate physically with men (especially on first dates) because that is the man's burden, and women don't like being perceived as sluts. You need to learn how to escalate with women, so you can make a move. Become familiar with kino escalation techniques. That is, where you begin escalation with seemingly small, harmless touches, and become more intimate until you begin to make out. She isn't your platonic frie… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How I can cure my approach anxiety is a 2 step processDude, if you want to talk to women and be undisturbed just take one out on a date. You don't have to do all of this extra stuff that is unnecessary. Approach women in person (directly or indirectly) establish romantic interest, get their contact information, and schedule a date. Going on a long ass drive with a female uber driver is nonsense. Also, stop wasting money on bootcamps, those aren't necessary. I really need to FEEL that girls are interested in me - not necessarily romantically, but mo… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Sending a text after a whileGirls don't need time to get over their boyfriends to date another guy. If another guy enters her life adn she percieves him as a romantic option, she will go on dates with him. Women never reject men directly (for various reasons) so she was just politely rejecting you because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. You have two months left before you move. Use this time to date other women in your city, or even at your gym. Her checking you out means nothing, and her saying hi to you is literal… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 10:08 PM |
| 4 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateGlad to help | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 08:55 PM |
| 13 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateAppreciate it | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 08:55 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate flirting to sexual questions when I myself am a Virgin?Let women use their imagination. If they think that you're a player, let them continue to believe so. Women, despite saying otherwise, love players. They love being with guys who other girls want, because it means that there man is more valuable. I know that you say you don't like to lie, but I promise you that if you tell woman that you are an inexperienced virgin, they will, most likely, think that something is wrong with you and be extremely turned off. So, it's just the game we play and you … | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Do compliments work?Compliments only work if they are genuine, and the sincerity of it emits/radiates from you. For example, I complimented this woman and I told her that I loved curly hair (she had curly hair), and the sincerity of the statement was revealed through my facial gestures because I actually meant it. Women, people in general, can tell when you are saying something just to be nice (like a compliment) or are being sincere about what you say due to non verbal cues) . Keep in mind, compliments do not unde… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I prevent the friendzone?You prevent the friendzone by never putting yourself in it in the first place. The friendzone exists because you did something to put yourself there. Don't be indirect with women. When you approach them, you need to establish at some point (either in the beginning or during the conversation) , that you are romantically interested in them. There can't be any ambiguity. Also, if you're hanging out with women, you need to be physically escalating with them because that's the difference between a pl… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 04:16 PM |
| 12 | Should I say something to her on Valentine’s Day?No, don't do that. Acknowledging this holiday is something that is reserved for more significant women in your life. If you do this with her, it will suggest that you don't have other women in your life that you're talking to, and that you're far too interested in her. Don't do it, she will be weirded out. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Text her? What do I doFor the first girl, just send her a text message and ask what her availability is to hang out. That's literally all you need to do. You can take her on a formal date if you want, or you can just ask her to hangout in your dorm (make up an excuse like to watch a movie) and hookup. As far as the second girl goes, you aren't exclusively seeing either of these women, so you're doing nothing wrong. Just think about how many dudes the average woman is talking to. I can assure you it is far more than t… | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 11:40 PM |
| 40 | Lost this super hot girl at club. How do I get over it?Bro you talked, laughed, and hugged what makes you think she wanted to sleep with you? It sounds like you were just being another platonic friend she was talking to. You didn't even kiss and you think you could've slept with her? The insecurities thing is nonsense, if she literally gives you the greenlight and tells you that they are just friends, that is your time escalate the situation. He's just a friend. What's their to worry about? You say that abundance mindset is basic level stuff, but yo… | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Got a girl comin over, she has a boyfriendYou can hook up with her, just know that how you get them is always how you lose them. You are not delusional, she knows the implication of the message she sent and what the emoji suggests. Furthermore, she posted an ass pic for you to indirectly pickup on the fact that she wants you to pound her. Furthermore, she's coming over at 9pm. So, when she comes over, make sure to make her laugh and do kino escalation so you can prime her for making out and then eventually sex. I don't ever advocate for… | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Sudden Pull-back after long term suggestivenessyeah you should be fine and that's a very good sign she texts first. Just escalate during the trip and you're in there | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 04:25 PM |
| 10 | Night Game Help?: Positive interactions have resulted in nothing but "ghosting" and "no-replies"Bro, if they are making out with you and grabbing your Johnson, that means they want you to take them home and sleep with them. Women live in the moment, if you don't take an extremely obvious hint like that, then you will never talk to them again. Hell, they probably don't even remember you. Additionally, why are you trying to take hoes out on dates, dude? These girls are literally making out with you and groping you after talking to them for a few minutes or hour, and you want to take these gi… | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Sudden Pull-back after long term suggestivenessShe probably felt like a whore after sexualizing the conversation. Also, stop texting her everyday unless she texts you first. Yes, you should obviously make advances on the trip, she literally told you she was into you and sexualized the conversation. She could literally be pulling back for any reason, maybe your response caused her to do so? Not enough information given to determine. Just be cool, and implement kino escalation when you guys are hanging out. Start out slow, and then escalate un… | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 03:26 PM |
| 6 | How to escalate her in date and text?You don't need to escalate on text. You should set up the date by asking her what her availability is. When she gives it to you, give her a time and location to meet. Only message her if she messages you first until the day of the date. Focus on escalating during the date. During the date, let her do the majority of the talking, focus on making her laugh (stimulating her emotions) and not being boring. Escalate with her physically, by implementing kino escalation. Start with small seemingly inno… | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | You Can Approach Women AnywhereYes too direct (being sexual) is bad when first meeting a woman in most circumstances (there can be exceptions) but definitely during the day | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 11:36 PM |
| 2 | My dream girl is spending all her time with me but tells me she isn't attracted.Well, your first mistake was waiting five days to finally kiss her. Dude, you should've done that way earlier. Your second mistake was spending every waking second under the sun talking to her about shared interests. I promise you, she doesn't care about all of the stuff you all have in common. Contrary to what many think, women don't care about shared interests. That stuff is secondary to attraction. What does matter to them, however, is how you make them feel. You most likely friend zoned your… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Accidentally set a date up on Valentine's Day with FWBHonestly, don't cancel another time because as men our word is our bond and it has meaning. If you cancel again you demonstrate that your word is meaningless. If you don't want a relationship don't verbalize with your words that you don't want a relationship. Demonstrate it through your actions. Just keep hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. She will take the hint that you want to keep things casual. Also, don't get her a valentines day card. Totally unnecessary. You are only giving off boyf… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 10:33 PM |
| 3 | My gf (F21) an I (M25) are not talking anymore. Should I text her or wait for her ?Bro she has zero interest in you. She's hoping that you will take a hint by her behavior. Women, especially younger women, dislike confrontation. They don't want to breakup with you because they are afraid of how you might respond, so they will behave in ways the demonstrate that they are checked out of the relationship, hoping that you get the hint and end it. If your girlfriend liked you she would want to spend an annoying amount of time with you. If your girlfriend liked you, she wouldn't fla… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Is poor texting skills a sign of poor social skills?You don't have to text much on OLD. I literally get women out on dates after a few messages (2-4) bantering/ being playful back and forth. I normally ask women what their availability is to go on a date on the third message I send via OLD. It's hard to convey charisma via text message, so I always recommend limiting texting to logistics for the date and for messaging her back when she messages you first. You don't necessarily need to know "how to be a good texter" just focus on getting them on a… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 09:44 PM |
| 0 | You Can Approach Women AnywhereWell, it's very important that you develop your understanding of non verbal and sub communications so you don't get creep status. It's actually quite easy if you're socially calibrated. You can still attempt to close if you'd like, but anything other than a yes is a no and you back off | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 03:19 PM |
| -1 | How to make a girl more invested than you?Are you sleeping with these women? Are you getting physical with them/ making out or just being some platonic friend. For most modern traditional women, most won't invest in you emotionally until after you sleep with them, unless you know how to stimulate their emotions and get them hooked, which you don't. SO, my advice for you is to make sure you are escalating physically with these women and sleeping with them (unless that's not what you want to do). Having a good lifestyle alone under no cir… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Women never show iois to meDon't worry about iois prior to approaching. Women can find you to be very physically attractive, and you can be their type, but they still won't give you iois in certain instances. Instead, you have to be bold and just approach a woman regardless of any indicator she gives you. If you rely on indicators of interest, there will be very few women for you to approach. So, just be courageous and bold and go for it. If I waited for a woman to give me nonverbal permission to approach her I would not … | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 03:09 PM |
| 7 | Gym girlsWhen women say they don't want to be hit on by men at the gym, they mean they don't want to be hit on by unattractive men who are socially incompetent and can't take a hint. If you are attractive, muscular, good looking, can take a hint when a woman don't want to talk to you any longer (socially calibrated), there is nothing creepy about approaching women there. I have literally dated multiple women concurrently while they were at the gym at the same time. You can actually hit on women there. Th… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 03:05 PM |
| 5 | How to stop deriving your value from womenYou are seeking something external to solve internal problems. That can't work. You could have every girl you approach and you still won't be satisfied because you seek external validation. Ugly girls looking at you like a weirdo when you approach them is not a big deal, it happens to attractive dudes all the time. Get use to it. Also, don't rely on alcohol to hit on women. It lowers you inhibitions and makes you more confident. You need to develop this confidence sober. You develop your purpose… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Should I cancel dates with women from apps who refuse to give numbers?If they agree to go out with you and don't want to give their numbers, it's most likely a safety concern. She's probably been stalked or harassed by a guy she gave her number to in the past. While most girls will absolutely give their numbers to you if they are going on a date with you, some most likely won't if they have had a bad experience doing so in the past. So, go on the date, have fun, and hook up. It's not necessarily going to be harder to take her home if you are a cool and fun guy who… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 11:13 PM |
| -1 | Everyone thinks I am attractive but I can't get a relantionship.Yes confidence and self esteem have an incredible impact on yourself and your dating life. Looks are very important for getting your foot in the door, but despite what most dudes on here say, they are under no circumstances everything. If your friends say that you're attractive and that you can hook up with more attractive women, I believe them. With that being said, there is an expectation that attractive men should be confident and have high self esteem. Girls love confidence and a man with se… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Can’t get over my fearlol well a hospital is new. In essence, you conquer your approach anxiety by literally just doing it. You have to accept that most women you talk to won't like you (totally normal), and that rejection is not a big deal. Also, there is no better feeling than the feeling you get when conquering your fears (approaching women) even if you get rejected. I conquered my approach anxiety by reframing how I went about this. firstly, I wanted to become a guy who could walk up to a group of women and appro… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 11:02 PM |
| 4 | So difficult to get girls, then when I get one she gets so weird.Reply to them but respond in such a way that does not push the conversation forward or provoke a response from them. Also, always make sure you have dates scheduled with them when talking. Don't just give free attention. Schedule the date with time and location. Only message them it they message you first | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 10:21 PM |
| 32 | Places to meet girls that are actually open to talkingThey hated getting hit on by losers who are not socially calibrated who can't take a hint. They do not dislike attention from attractive men who are attractive, built, well groomed, and socially calibrated | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 06:22 PM |
| 2 | 29M I don't know what I'm doingDon't waste money on a coach | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 05:57 PM |
| 6 | 3 Surefire Ways To Know She Wants To Kiss YouIt might sound counterintuitive, but you’ll have a much better chance of kissing and sleeping with a woman by clearly disagreeing with her on specific topics than mindlessly following her lead like a lapdog. Yep, this demonstrates polarization and that you are not behaving in a way to appease her. Most men believe that they must be super agreeable so a woman won't dislike him or so that he won't upset her, but women love it when a man is adamant in his convictions. Women love it when guys disagr… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 04:57 PM |
| 61 | Places to meet girls that are actually open to talkingyou can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. I don't like bars or nigh club, so all i do is … | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 04:29 PM |
| 27 | So difficult to get girls, then when I get one she gets so weird.Women tend to become more attached after having sex because there is now an emotional investment. Most modern women, especially those who are ran thru, are only able to invest in a man emotionally after sleeping with him (some don't after sleeping with him) but this is primarily how it's done. If you don't want to spend lots of time on the phone with them, then don't. It's that simple. You do what you want to do. Your reality is real. I would never want to spend time on the phone with a woman i'… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Your girl does not want you to be vulnerableExactly. I'm convinced the people claiming that men should be vulnerable and show weaknesses to women have never done so lol | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for correcting negative text game/ rizz?You asked for my advice and keep fumbling hot girls who actually want you because you have no clue what you're doing. Good luck | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Your girl does not want you to be vulnerableUnder no circumstances ever tell your girl you feel lost. Do that and you will observe her attraction dissipate and she feels like you will not be able to protect her. That is nonsense | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Your girl does not want you to be vulnerableExactly. I know | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 11:41 AM |
| -17 | Your girl does not want you to be vulnerableYou're not withholding your emotions. You're just not displaying them in front of your woman because you understand female nature. Women do not want you to be vulnerable with them under any circumstances. Complain to her about your problems and discuss all of your fears and insecurities and watch how that goes for you. Go and be vulnerable with a girl you're dating and let us know how this works out for you. Stop reading books and actually be vulnerable with a woman and let us know how it goes p… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | too late?I wouldn't text her. She may not respond since you haven't talked to her in a few months. The good thing is that you were the one who stopped things so you actually have frame and power in this dynamic. I would just talk to her in person (if possible) and build attraction with her again and have the feelings she has associated with you (positive feelings presumably) come back. So, essentially, you are building attraction with her again in person so she will be more receptive to you asking her ou… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Approaching from behind seems acceptable if you start taking to your target’s friend, right?So, ideally you never want to approach from behind because it immediately lowers her perceived value of you. It requires you to get her attention instead of you already being in her peripheral. You normally want to approach from the front, or at an angle that she can see you. Also, I highly recommend never touching her from behind to get your attention. This creeps her out and makes her uncomfortable (unless she finds you particularly attractive) It also catches them off guard. So, if they're at… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 02:10 AM |
| 17 | She says she doesn't want a relationshipFacts. Also, never under any circumstances ever be vulnerable with a woman, especially when she tells you she wants you to be more vulnerable. When women say this, they are trying to see if they can move you from you masculine center. It's essentialyl a test to see if they can get you to cave into their desires. In reality, that want you to be a rock who they can be vulnerable with and they want you to be like a rock who is immovable. Also, if you've ever been vulnerable with a woman, you've pro… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for correcting negative text game/ rizz?When you get their number, you don't need to be texting them trying to build comfort and rapport. Texting is for scheduling dates and messaging them back when they message you first. If they approach you first, that means they think you are very attractive. So, once you get their number you literally ask them out on a date. It's all it takes. You don't need to be like Shakespeare or Casanova. Save building attraction for the date. If a girl think you're hot and approaches you first, you can lite… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Should i reject girls offering their Instagram?I don't have any social media presence either, and women have never commented on it either (or thought it was werid). When you close with a woman, get her phone number instead of an instagram. If you have a social media with no following / nothing on it. Women will think you're a weirdo, unfortunately. Just get their number, and if they ask about your Instagram just say you don't have one. Don't make a big deal out of it. It's only weird if you make it weird. If you ask a girl for her number and… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 11:35 PM |
| 55 | How the fuck do you approach when going out with friends?Okay, so those aren't your friends. Your friends will not make fun of you for getting rejected by women. Men getting rejected by women is a universal experience that every guy can relate to. They should be applauding you for being courageous enough to approach women. You need to get a new friend group. One that doesn't put you down when you approach women. Anyone who puts you down like that and its not in jest is not your friend. You shouldn't stop cold approaching because you're afraid of judgm… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Approaching Women DirectlyWhen you're standing in line show a girl a picture of your dog or pet and after she responds tell her that your pet is actually looking for a mother. That's direct | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Did I just shoot myself in the foot?Yessssir. Thank you very much I appreciate the kind words | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 03:52 AM |
| 5 | Did I just shoot myself in the foot?Mistakes: Stop paying for everything. Save your damn money, that's foolish. The reason the guy was upset because you paid for him and his girl, which belittles him and makes him feel less masculine. Next time, pay for people you want (those closest to you like your roommate) and that's it. You paid for entrance into the venue and all of the food. That's why he gave you bad looks, men are supposed to be providers and some other random guy is providing for him and his girlfriend, making him look u… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I need to stop waiting and go for it. Should I aproach like this?Don't say " I don't usually do this" it lowers your perceived value, suggests that you don't get girls as attractive as her, and don't say "you seem interesting" these things will not build her attraction towards you. I only advocate for beginners to go indirect if they have very good social skills. Use an opener, that is direct, playful, and fun. During the conversation, focus on making her laugh, and actually being present in the moment. Trust me, do not say what you were originally going to s… | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Approaching Women Directlykeep approaching women. don't stop and never get too attached to one. you're doing good | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Approaching Women DirectlyLiterally say "what's your availability to go on a date next weekend," she gives it to you, and you say "let's meet here at this time" | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Approaching Women DirectlyDon't do another dinner date. Either take her out to a bar or just make up an excuse for her to come to your place. You now need to physically escalate. Also, stop texting her so much. When you have a time frame as to when she will be back in town ask her what her availability is to go on a date and provide her with a specific time and place. You need to hookup, you are not a platonic friend. So, you should be focused on physically escalating up until making out or sex. Do not do another dinner … | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Approaching Women DirectlyOh you're doing night game. Yeah if you're doing night game women auto rejecting you is normal. Also yeah don't just stand there when they want to dance bro lol it's all good you live and learn. I can't dance either | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Approaching Women DirectlyI count a success as a woman showing up on a date. The 20% rejection rate probably before you even finish opening suggests 1. Your opener is too long (doubtful) 2. They aren't attracted to you at all and dont want to waste time There are definitely other reasons, but those quickly come to mind. Where are you approaching? Are you approaching them as they're walking and they seem to be in a hurry? Or is it in places like gyms or coffee shops. Depending on what the woman is doing at the time could … | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Approaching Women DirectlyAll me | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys ever give women another shot?Nailed it | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 11:18 PM |
| 19 | Do you guys ever give women another shot?If a woman circles back like that, I usually just put her in the sex only category. If a woman disrespects me like that, I will spend no money on her, and only invite her over to my place and we hookup. I also make them bring me stuff like food and have them cook for me. I maintain them on the roster by being very seductive and remaining mysterious. So, when they're over, I'm seductive in various ways, and they become attached to the feelings I give them, and the eventually desire for something … | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Approaching Women DirectlyI can't tell you. You have to go in the field and see how women respond for yourself. You experiment through trial and error to find what specifically works for you. You may be more attractive than you think, you won't know until you go and see what works. All that matters is that the woman you're approaching finds you attractive | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Approaching Women DirectlyWell, you're on the right track. Indirect would be approaching women and not revealing that you are interested in her during your opening statements. So, having a normal conversation and then building attraction during it and at some point indicating that you are romantically interested in her | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:25 PM |
| 10 | Approaching Women Directlyread this, it's very extensive: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Approaching Women DirectlyIf that's the case it may be better to go indirect. You can also out in the work to become more physically attractive | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Approaching Women Directlycheers man. hit me up if you ever need advice | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Approaching Women Directlyyes any other details you would like? | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:43 PM |
| 3 | How to KEEP FWB?Well, the worst thing you can do it desperately text/call her and try to keep her in the rotation. This will demonstrate that you have no other options and that you can't get sex/ aren't having sex with others girls, which will turn her off. I would suggest acting like it's not a big deal and just being understanding, if she wants to come back for sex she will. I know getting over stuff like this is tough, but if you did it once you should not have any trouble doing it again. I would suggest tal… | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Approaching Women Directlyyes | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:30 PM |
| 3 | She seems distant after I kissed at the end of the second date, time to move on definitely?A couple things you did wrong: Never text a lot before the first date. You reveal far too much information about yourself, remove mystery, and make her less attracted to you because she knows far too much about you. Also, when a girl you barely know asks you to hang out on the same date, never be available to do it. Doing so shows her that you are far too interested and lowers her attraction. She wants you to be unavailable to hang out when she asks to hangout on the same day because it shows th… | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 11:42 PM |
| -3 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenlooks get your foot in the door, and will even let you sleep with women, but you won't sustain them. I'm literally more ripped than michael b jordan. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 11:11 PM |
| -2 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenlooks get your foot in the door, and will even let you sleep with women, but you won't sustain them. I'm literally more ripped than michael b jordan. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womengetting women and sustaining them are completely different. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenyou will get more attention from women, yes. But if you do not have congruent social skills you will not sustain any of them. go from a 5 to an 8 and you will see | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenExactly. This is precisely what I've been trying to convey, but these guys aren't reading the entire article | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenI'm jacked and ripped and very attractive. Social skills are still incredibly important. I have never not once said looks don't matter. You did not read the entire post | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenSocial skills are still incredibly important? I'm jacked, ripped, and well groomed and social skills are.atill incredibly important | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenI discussed the importance of optimizing your looks | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 05:51 PM |
| -1 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenDid you read the article? I literally said men should work to optimize their looks and that doing so would put their foot in the door. Do not comment if you clearly have not read everything. I discussed everything you addressed | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 05:48 PM |
| 6 | How approch this girlSince you don't really have any cold approach experience, go up to her when she is alone and not surrounded by too many other people. I hit on women in gyms all the time. You want there to be enough space for you all to talk at room level and no one can interrupt your conversation. In gyms, if you're having a conversation with women and people are nearby, people will sometimes ease drop and join in on your conversation. For example, I was flirting with this girl and telling her what I wanted her… | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | How to improve my “game”?!!Well, I learned this the hard way, one of the worst things that can happen is either getting beat up in front of your girl or getting threatened by another man who appears more violent than you and not being able to beat his ass. Very unfortunate that is happened to you, but trust me, it turns them off because it makes them feel like you can't protect them. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 02:42 AM |
| 7 | How to improve my “game”?!!Okay, so your response to her asking for directions was extremely good. She was receptive to it, as she continued the conversation and asked you questions. Basically, she was initially attracted to you in the beginning, but after she listened to you talk, she most likely lost attraction. She could've lost attraction because of how you handled the situation with the drunk guy (you may not have handled it the best way if she told him to leave, it's on you as the man to defuse these situations) The… | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Hinge chat analysis and adviceso, none of us could tell. Which meant the woman most likely couldn't tell. It's hard to pickup on sub communications via text message which is why you shouldn't do stuff like being sarcastic until you get to know her better. She probably didn't pick up on it either | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Texting AdvicesDude, you slept with this girl and you're getting too attached. You barely know her and you are wondering why she hasn't responded yet, yes that's bad. I would suggest asking her what her availability is to hangout again, built attraction in person, and hook up again. You are texting her like you are one of her female friends asking trivial questions. You've already hooked up, schedule the date and do it again. Also, you need to work on developing abundance so you don't get too attached to a gir… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | How are things in the online dating space?Optimize your profile by having very good pictures. They don't have to be professionally taken, but you generally shouldn't have selfies or unflattering selfies. The best pictures are those that indicate preselection, status, and demonstrate your good looks/ physique. Online dating ultimately comes down to looks, always keep that in mind. Don't be too wordy in your bio, don't use emojis in your bio, and don't reveal too much information in your bio. When you do match with women, be direct, playf… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 03:18 PM |
| 13 | Hinge chat analysis and adviceYour opener was a logical question. Don't do that, women do not like being logical, especially on dating apps. She probably only responded because she was bored. Secondly, when she said 'I've had people tell me before" you shouldn't have said that you were "so honored" that was simping and very naïve. You literally just indirectly conveyed that you don't match with attractive women (standouts) regularly. Attractive women want to know that their man dates or has the potential to date other attrac… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Advice for an approachI never advocate for hitting on women that you work with for various reasons, but if you do, I would suggest going about it indirectly. That is, building attraction with her overtime, strictly because this is your place of work. So, when you speak to her, you need to leave an emotional impact so she will associate good feelings with you and want to talk to you again. One way I like going about this is through being funny, bold, and unpredictable, although there are many ways you can go about sti… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | What to doIf she approached you that means her attraction to you is very high and at this point all you have to do is not mess it up. So, get her number if you don't have it already and ask her out on a date. When you ask her out on a date, you ask her what her availability is, and then give her a time and place to meet. If you see her in person again, just be funny and make her laugh. Don't do anything anti seductive like talking about yourself too much and being a bad listener. She wants you to ask her … | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Stop Texting WomenThat's a horrible way to go about asking you on a date. I also never suggested that men should ask women out on the initial message. The guy sounds like a loser. The idea.im trying to convey is that texting can't build attraction and you can get a woman to agree to go out with you in 1-4 messages and that too much texting turns her off and makes her less interested in you. That's a fact. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 01:59 PM |
| 5 | How to get over bags you fumbled?You get over women no longer in your life b developing an abundance mindset. An abundance mindset is developed by internalizing the idea that no matter what happens with any woman you are dating, that you will be able to attract one of equal or higher quality. This can be ensured by your continuous self improvement and development. Additionally, if you are fumbling multiple women, perhaps do an introspection and determine if you are behaving in such a way that is anti seductive and turning them … | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 03:05 AM |
| -1 | Stop Texting WomenI do not want to text them lol. I'm busy working on my mission, which is what all men should be doing. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Stop Texting WomenYes, it absolutely does. Your opening message is not asking her out. If she has a date scheduled with you she's not going to forget about you. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 01:00 AM |
| -6 | Stop Texting WomenA date is scheduled there is clearly interest | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Not on Social MediaI don't have social media and it doesn't affect my dating at all. I primarily stick to cold approach and use dating apps, with the majority of my actually dates coming from cold approach. If you do decide to go with the online dating route, make sure to get good pictures taken. They don't have to be shot by a photographer, but you do want various pictures of you doing various things with a high quality smart phone. I would not recommend selfies. Not having social media isn't a problem, but bad p… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 12:58 AM |
| 131 | “Do you do this often?”Girls like dating men who get other women. It's preselection. It's not necessarily a shit test, but you can absolutely fail by telling her no and that you don't get other women. You also don't directly communicate getting other women by telling her the amount of women you're dating. If they throw a question like that at you, it suggests that they believe that you are desirable by other women. So you respond to that with something like "you're my favorite" or something playful and fun that doesn'… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Stop Texting Womenlol all good | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Stop Texting WomenI addressed this in the article. You have to go about it playfully to control the frame back. If she does not accept your frame. Move on to the next | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Stop Texting WomenI addressed this in the article | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Stop Texting WomenAssemble matches and talk to them when you get in town. No need to talk to them now while you are in another country. Or, you can message them a few days out and schedule a place to meet for when you get there. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 03:11 PM |
| -10 | Stop Texting WomenTry this info out mate | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 02:26 PM |
| -2 | What I attribute Success with women toI'm helping men and providing very detailed responses to their problems actually. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Tips for texting a tinder date?false | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 01:04 PM |
| -2 | What I attribute Success with women toi made a comment similar to this and added three paragraphs. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 01:59 AM |
| 10 | Overseas and went on date after cold approach. Advice and questions?When you invite a girl over to your place, you never allude to having sex, which is what you indirectly did. Instead, what you do is, have an excuse for her to come over. You are in a hotel so you could say something like wanting her to watch this really funny movie/tv show, or if you had your pet with you you could have told her that you wanted her to meet your pet. When you allude to having sex, that makes women feel like sluts, particularly so before you have ever had sex. What you do is invi… | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Tips for texting a tinder date?yours truly | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 09:31 PM |
| -7 | What I attribute Success with women toIt's being said in a playful, goofy way dude. It's not meant to be interpreted literally and the women do not. Obviously I don't promote going to women and saying something like that literally. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Tips for texting a tinder date?You're welcome | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 07:34 PM |
| -24 | What I attribute Success with women toNothing is copy and paste. Every answer accounts for the specific circumstances detailed. And I'm not selling anything to anyone. There's literally nothing they can purchase. So you can't read and you have no idea what you're talking about. Brilliant Your can go through all of my replies and see that nothing is generic, copy and paste, but rather details the specific circumstances. Im trying to make sure men don't get played by modern women and teach them the skills necessary to successfully nav… | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 06:16 PM |
| -45 | What I attribute Success with women toI literally told men what behaviors women find attractive. Read and get to work and stop being lazy You literally ignored my first four paragraphs. This very clearly isn't a humble brag. Im teaching men how to level themselves up to attract higher quality women and that almost everything is in their control | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 05:52 PM |
| 13 | Tips for texting a tinder date?Wait a couple of days and ask her what her availability to hang out is. Under no circumstances should you be messaging women daily. Doing so lowers their attraction, makes you appear more common, and removes mystery. You want to get to the point where you are so good with women that they are the ones messaging you regularly after taking them out on a date. This message details how to text women after getting their number during the dating stages: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/what-to… | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | How long do you wait before inviting the girl home?If you ever make out with a girl on a date, you can always invite her back to your place. Do not wait until the second date if you are making out on the first date. If you get ghosted on the first date after making out it suggests that you are doing something wrong, could literally be multiple things, but given the information provided, it's likely that you went on dates with ran thru women (most modern women are) and left no emotional impact. You made out with them, which means sex is an option… | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:42 PM |
| 3 | How to Develop an Abundance MindsetIs your game trash? You mentioned nothing about your game / ability to build attraction with women you are interested in. My anticipation is that there is an incongruence with you appear to be and how you behave around good looking women that turns them off. That's most likely it. It could be a number of things, but that's most likely it. You mentioned external things that do increase your value but the ability to build attraction with a woman is very important. Those things don't matter if you … | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Where to actually meet pretty girls?You can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely will come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. I don't like bars or nigh club, so all I do is … | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:30 AM |
| 12 | My insecurities why I don't cold approach. Help me how to deal with them.I've approached an unreasonable amount of women, and I've never felt judged. If anything, other men respect how courageous you are and start wondering how you developed balls to approach women. Guys literally stare at me when i'm at the gym approaching women because of the amount of courage and confidence it requires. Dudes literally ask me how I do it all the time. Other women won't really care either and think you have balls because most men don't approach in person (during the day) anymore. E… | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Dating apps / Ghosting / Text gameWell, to optimize the amount of matches you convert to dates, I would suggest having a direct opener. Like you said, they are talking to tons of dudes at once, and you can't be another guy just asking them random insignificant stuff. Be bold and have a direct opener. Then, assuming she is complying, after 1-3 messages you can ask her what her availability is to go on a date. If she is interested, she will give it to you, anything else is a literal no and you should move on to the next girl. You … | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How to Be Mysterious With Womenbuddy look at my pictures and tell me you don't think I can get a girl friend | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 07:45 PM |
| 4 | I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone.Women only consider you to be creepy if you are very unattractive or you can't take a hint. Luckily, you can control your looks by getting in the gym, losing fat, putting on muscle, and being well groomed and well dressed. You can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly sa… | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 02:00 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys talk when you’re flirting?Flirting is just your ability to build attraction when you're talking to a woman, and there's various ways that this can happen. After your opener, either direct or indirect, you have to have the game (social skills) to build attraction. Basically, you have to have the social skills to discuss anything and build attraction. There aren't certain topics that you should be talking about, your focus should be on building attraction and stimulating her emotions. So, basically, you need to have the so… | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 01:34 PM |
| 8 | How to Be Mysterious With WomenHaving a girlfriend / wife should not be your end goal. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 12:45 PM |
| 9 | How to Be Mysterious With WomenWhat does that have to do with anything? I date women non exclusively. Im trying to accomplish all of my goals and don't want to tie myself down with one girl in a long term relationship | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Flirting advices: I struggle to create sexual tension with womenFirstly, when you try to escalate, it has to make sense. You have to start out very small and build your way up until you calibrate that she is ready to be kissed and start making out. You have to seduce her, build attraction, and physically escalate while with her in order to create sexual tension. Also, don't try to escalate with women who view you as friends, that's a recipe for disaster and almost always won't workout in your favor. Furthermore, women LOVE boldness, edginess, and being inapp… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Is it good idea to ask her out on valentine day? (22M)There's a chance you've already put yourself in the friendzone, as you talked to her for 12 hours straight on one occasion and did not escalate physically or verbally, and then you had another platonic conversation with her for 7 hours. Chances are, you probably revealed far too much information about yourself and she no longer views you as a viable sexual partner. Don't go and try to set stuff up for valentines day. That's a day reserved for women you are seeing exclusively or take more serious… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Is asking only once, always the right choice?Don't ever ask women for dating advice. They won't ever give you the full truth because they don't want to hurt your feelings, and often, the truth is unflattering because women have been conditioned to believe in certain things and when they say stuff that goes against what feminism suggests it makes them look terrible. Yes, only as a girl out once. If she doesn't accept move on. If she wants to go out and is interested in you, she will let you know. If you continue to purse a woman after she d… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Girls don't like me because I look like a serial k.llerJust always be aware of what type of energy you are emitting when you are with other people. It's going to be incredibly hard given the circumstances, but you're literally just going to have to look in the mirror/ watch youtube videos on how to get rid of resting bitch face. The always looking around is something that can be fixed by no longer looking around when you are out in public (easier said than done, I know) but you're going to have to stop doing that because that does freak women out an… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 11:00 PM |
| 7 | How to get her to invest in me?A woman will invest in a man only if he has high social status or after you've left an emotional impact. So, when on a date with a woman, you get her to invest in you (pursue you first/ do things for you) after you have stimulated her emotions very much or after sleeping with her. For most modern women, you have to sleep with them to get them to invest in you. If you are struggling with escalating with women, reevaluate your approach. Are you approaching women indirectly and not indicating that … | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 10:52 PM |
| 7 | Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or?No, he will not be able to utilize them for social circle game because his female friends will not attempt to set him up with their female friends because they know too much about him and will either reveal that to the prospective partners (their friends) or automatically disqualify him to them. They can still be wing women for talking to random women, but not as it pertains to social circle game, he has no chance with that | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 01:02 AM |
| 4 | Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or?You can leverage your female friends to introduce you to their friends. It is problematic, however, that you feel like their gay friend. This means that they are far too comfortable with you, and that they do not see you as a potential sexual partner what so ever. Essentially, you are just another one of the girls. This is problematic for social circle game because they most likely know all of your icks and you've probably revealed everything about yourself to them since you are "friends" and th… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Being ghosted by different woman frequently .If multiple girls above 7/10 are ghosting you after dates, it suggests that you are doing something wrong. If you're certain that they're not using you for a free meal/drink, you need to have the ability to stimulate their emotions during conversation. Even if they give you dry/boring answers, you have to be able to take that information and make them stimulate their emotions. There's multiple ways to stimulate a woman's emotions, but my preferred method is through laughter, because having good … | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Did my first true cold approach and oofofcourse i'm on to something i'm brilliant and i've been doing this much longer than you | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Value offering textscomfort and rapport are not necessary for building attraction. If you have her number, ask what her availability is to go on a date. If you have her number, her decision about you has already been made up, and there's no amount of texting that's going to build attraction. lots of things have changed since we evolved over two hundred thousand years ago, but female nature has not. All texting does is make you appear more common, and actually lower your value. You literally have a scarcity mindset … | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Going to meet and party with old female friend.No need for a movie, you can't be seductive during a movie because neither of you can talk. Just stick to drinks. Let her do the majority of the talking and be seductive. Flirt and calibrate where her attraction is and go from there. When she's talking, make she to ask fun questions and make the conversation playful so she can laugh. Also, kino escalate with her and see how receptive she is to the touches. If she is receptive, escalate the touches until you start kissing. This isn't a formal dat… | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Should I text her back or hold onto my dignity like a man should?Okay a couple things, you're 18 and she's 16, I wouldn't even bother anymore, even if you met her when she was 16. Additionally, she's 6 hours a way. There's no point in being in a long distance relationship. You're an adult now, so you should be focused on leveling up and being more high quality so you can have access to more women. I know it sucks now, but the more women you talk to, the less you will care about this girl. So, get in the gym, develop your social skills, and go talk to more wom… | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 0 | How to Have Fun and Playful conversations with womenKick rocks | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Texting and a rosterWhen she is back in town ask her "what is your availability to hang out (insert time frame, not a specific date)) when she is back, or like two days before she is back in town. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | SuperMarket"Tell me your availability to go on a date next weekend and I'll tell you all about my piano playing skills" | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why I struggled with women as an engineerGood assessment. When women have problems, the majority of the time they don't want you to actually solve their problems, they just want you to listen to them and make them feel good. Most men use deductive logic to solve women's problems, but women don't want you to do that. They just want you to listen to them be emotional and complain, and that makes them feel better. Women are entirely capable of solving their own problems, but they want a man who will listen to their craziness/ This is some… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Feel the soilIf you can't tell, just flirt and escalate. How she responds to your advances (escalation during the conversation) will provide you with guidance on how to proceed. Keep practicing with multiple women and eventually you will sharpen your social skills so you will know if a girl is flirting, giving IOIs, or just being nice. Also, you're going to have to get over the paranoia and just be BOLD and go for it sometimes. You will get rejected, it's a a part of life and not a big deal. The paranoia ste… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | You look like a fuckboyIt's a good thing. When women accuse you of being a player or of getting women, just playfully play along with it. Don't brag like a goofball and talk about all of the women you've been with, but don't deny it. The worst thing you can do is deny it and be vulnerable with women. If you were to tell women that you actually aren't a fuckboy or that you aren't a player or guy who gets women, it turns them off. This is because women want guys that other girls want. It has to do with preselection and … | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Sometimes when I ask for a girl's number, she would reject me but insted offer her social media info. What would you do in this situation?Yes, it's the right move. If a woman is interested in you, she will give you her number. Would a woman not give Michael B. Jordan or Drake their phone number if they asked because of their excuse? Absolutely not. You don't need the status of famous people to get numbers, the point is if a girl likes you 99% of the time she'll give her number out. Other commenters just don't realize that this is a another indirect form of rejection. Women do not communicate with men directly for various reasons, … | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Texting and a rosterDude, do you think she is going to forget about you after two weeks gone? I'm extremely busy and don't talk to girl for weeks at a time. If they message you, which they should be doing after sex unless they have remarkably high body counts (or if the sex was bad/average) just tell them you are out of time and schedule a time to hangout for when you get back. They aren't going to forget about you. Talk to other dudes? yes. Forget your existence? no. All texting does it make you appear more common… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 07:05 PM |
| 1 | SuperMarketShe didn't suggest any follow up days, so just wait for her to let you know if she is available. If she doesn't respond before or after Saturday don't double text or message her. If she likes you she will reach out. Also, 'A lot more chatting later" you should've asked her out way before when you did. Comfort and rapport are not needed for a girl to go out with you. All texting does is lower her attraction and make you appear common like all of the other dudes who message her. You literally coul… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:57 PM |
| 5 | How to set the rules of a relationship?Well, it seems as though you all are not in an exclusive relationship yet, so don't get in one or suggest that you become exclusive. Additionally, men should never be the one to suggest exclusivity for various reasons, but it basically boils down to it lowering her perceived value of you (and many other reasons) So, just keep doing what you're doing. If she wants exclusivity, she will mention it as some point. You set the tone of your relationship by demonstrating with your actions, not your wor… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Struggling with romance on datesYou need to be bold and take risks. So, when on the date, make sure she knows that you are romantically interested in her. She obviously knows this, that's why she's on the date, but on the date act more like a love than a friend. You do this by physical escalation and saying things that indicate you are attracted to her. My favorite technique to use is future forecasting. Future forecasting is when you playfully allude to having a future together with a woman in a way that is so absurd she know… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Does Introvertness and Shyness negate looks?Damn that's rough bro it's alright happens to all of us. Hopefully it inspires you to level up and develop the skills to also be able to do that | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 03:27 AM |
| 0 | Did my first true cold approach and oofOkay, do what to want but I'm telling you her mind is already made up | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Best places for cold approach and how to multiple approach at same place?For day game you can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely will come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. At night, pretty much any large ba… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Did my first true cold approach and oofHonestly for your first cold approach you did a really good job. You established romantic interest and you went for the close. This is something most dudes don't work up the courage to do for a while, so good work. Keep doing what you're doing and the anxiety will go away in no time. Also, when doing cold approach, don't go for a handshake. You're romantically interested in her, she's not a boss or a colleague. It's not necessarily bad, but absolutely unnecessary. I see your updated history indi… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 02:30 AM |
| 4 | First date and she asked me outIf a woman approaches you, that means she is very physically attracted to you and most likely wanted to hook up. This is further suggested by the fact that she took you out and paid for it. She was hoping you would get the hint and escalate and hook up with her. If there is a next time, you need to escalate and get physical because that is what she wants. If you don't she's going to think you are a pussy or not attracted to her (most likely the former) Also, when women have the confidence to app… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.Cool quiz, I got sorted with Daygame and Cold Approach, which is how I go about meeting all of my women anyways. good stuff | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | When should I approach?You can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely will come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places. I don't like bars or nigh clubs, so all I do is… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Having Less Success than my Friends, why?There's not enough context in this post to specifically tell you what you're doing wrong, but you responded to an earlier comment saying "I do notice I am too talkative, too friendly. I’ll be vulnerable now and say I get anxious around girls I find attractive and rather than shut down and avoid conversation , I’ll go balls to the wall. I’m constantly cracking jokes, talking a lot, talking about anything, trying to get her to respond blah blah blah. I get hyper." Stop being so talkative and frien… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Push Pull or StabilityThese game techniques are good and can be helpful for initially building attraction with women and even to continue building attraction during the relationship, but you don't constantly have to be gaming them every second. Push Pull is something you do when she behaves a certain way to demonstrate that you can live without her. So, focus on becoming masculine in a relationship and just more masculine in general. You pull them in by demonstrating that you are the best guy she can get with and alw… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:38 PM |
| -2 | Do you want to go back to my place?All you literally have to do is say "alright, we're going to my place I want you to meet my dog" (makeup any excuse) it's literally that easy. Just do no allude to having sex at all during the conversation, that will make her feel like a slut and women hate that. Your suggestion works but it kind of over complicates things. A girl going back to your place on the first date, or just in general, is not a big deal. If she's not a traditional woman she's probably done it multiple times. After you've… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womenYou did not read the entire article. I literally discuss what to do so that doesn't happen | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womenRead the entire article. I literally discussed that those tools alone won't get you laid | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | She hits me up, but then doesn’t respond?Well your first mistake was sending her a voice note justifying why you did not message her. All you had to do was tell her she was busy, don't give women explanations, let their imagination run wild. When you start providing justifications and excuses as to why you didn't do something (in a case like this) it lowers your perceived value to her because it indicates that you care about her too much and that you would prefer not to lose her. Next time, just say you were busy and schedule a date wi… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 02:55 AM |
| 23 | What was your game changing moment or moments?My game changed when I internalized that women love boldness and they love having fun and playful conversations. There's a saying that "girl's just wanna have fun" and it's very true. Additionally, I attribute my success to being a really good listener. Being an effective listener is one of the most seductive things you can do with a woman. More specifically, being outwardly oriented and present in the conversation. Demonstrating that your full focus and attention is on the person speaking, and … | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Does Introvertness and Shyness negate looks?Yes, absolutely. This is something many men who self improve can't predict until it's too late. What you're describing is incongruence. The good well groomed, built, and attractive man is behaving in a manner that is incongruent with who he presents. That is, he is not behaving or speaking like a man who attractive, built, and well groomed. Normally, many guys who optimize their looks (looksmaxers) don't realize that while they will get more attention from women after their hard work, that they … | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Transferring her from location to home?In my experience, if you make out with a girl on a date that indicates that you can safely invite her back to your place. You still have to be seductive during the date and do everything right in order to build attraction, but it's still a pretty solid rule of thumb. All you literally have to do is say "alright, we're going to my place I want you to meet my dog" (makeup any excuse) it's literally that easy. Just do no allude to having sex at all during the conversation, that will make her feel l… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 02:38 AM |
| 10 | This is what I don't get about the "wait to text" line of thinkingI think you are misinterpreting what guys with good game are saying. You should not intentionally delay text messages if a girl messages you first. You should respond to that in a normal time when you are available. Obviously you never want to respond immediately for various reasons, but I don't think anyone on here is claiming to delay a response to a woman's message for days to build attraction. I regularly advocate for men to not immediately message women after dates and immediately trying to… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 02:33 AM |
| 4 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womenDid you read it all? I Discuss the importance of still establishing romantic interest in the article to prevent exactly what you're describing | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 11:23 PM |
| 6 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womenyou didn't read everything. I discussed the importance of escalating and establishing romantic interest and being playful and fun | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 07:26 PM |
| 6 | What do you currently lean on for success with women?Just made a post on this forum bruh, check it out | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Indirect game lovers, do you always act like “don’t know anything” tourists?I think you misunderstand what indirect game actually is. Indirect game is when your opening statements do not reveal that you are romantically interested in her. This can be done by literally saying anything you want. You don't have to act like a lost tourist. Always make sure that when doing indirect game that there is congruence between you talking to the woman and asking her out. Oftentimes, men will approach women indirectly, having ordinary conversation that does not allude to him being in… | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 03:37 PM |
| 3 | What do you currently lean on for success with women?You're probably just being boring. Being a good listener is very seductive, but you have to take what they say and be playful and fun with eh information so you can build attraction. Just being a good listener without stimulating their emotions will make them feel good but if you are being fun or funny you're just a boring guy | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 13 | What do you currently lean on for success with women?Phenomenal book. Read how to win friends and influence people next | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 12:33 PM |
| 181 | What do you currently lean on for success with women?I attribute most of my success to internalizing the idea that women love boldness and they love having fun and playful conversations. There's a saying that "girl's just wanna have fun" and it's very true. Additionally, I attribute my success to being a really good listener. Being an effective listener is one of the most seductive things you can do with a woman. More specifically, being outwardly oriented and present in the conversation. Demonstrating that your full focus and attention is on the … | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How to Have Fun and Playful conversations with womenWhat do you mean? | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | 🥶 approachGood job. That's normal. The tremors will go away with experience. I also bet the feeling you got after your approached the women was amazing, right? There is quite literally no better feeling than the feeling of adrenaline that surges in you after approaching a woman you are attracted to. The amount of time it takes for the approach anxiety to dissipate is dependent on specific individual characteristics and life circumstances. Also, it will never fully go away (most likely) but it will decreas… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 01:14 PM |
| 3 | How to Have Fun and Playful conversations with womenDo not criticize my work without reading it in its entirety. That is naive | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 05:22 AM |
| 4 | How to Have Fun and Playful conversations with womenI generated these lines instantaneously without thought. In my article I discussed the importance of not memorizing lines and developing the social skills necessary to ask questions like this at a moment's notice. This is necessary because clearly on this forum men do not know how to have fun and playful conversations with women. Furthermore, this isn't formulaic, it's s a guideline I literally discussed the importance of developing social skills and the ability to generate these kinds of playfu… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 05:14 AM |
| 3 | How flirty on OLD chatsText messages can not build attraction. When women match with you they categorize you and put you in the entertainment or guy she would actually go out with category. Your opener should be direct and playful. It's a dating app, never be afraid to be bold, women love that. You can get women to go on dates with you 1-3 messages in. You don't need to text for days and build comfort and rapport, that's absolutely unnecessary. After your opener, have one or two more playful and fun messages and then … | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Indicators of interest updatedBehavior is the number indicator of interest. If a woman likes you, she will let you know with her actions (behaviors) not her words. So, if she agrees to hang out with you, responds to your messages in adequate time, cancels and offers reschedule, these are are indicators of interest. Essentially, you will know that she is interested because of her behavior. Similarly, you will know that she is not interested because of her behavior. Just follow your guy, if you think a girl is/ is not interest… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 02:21 AM |
| 2 | How do you differentiate between real and feigned interest?So, never buy drinks for a woman when you are at a bar. That's a rookie mistake. Women will demonstrate that they are interested with their actions. You can not necessarily listen to what they say, because women communicate with men indirectly. If a girl is interested (in a bar setting) she will give you IOIs (indicator of interest) She will be asking you multiple questions back, getting close so you can get physical, laughing at your bad jokes, alluding to a future together (there's tons of thi… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 02:17 AM |
| 2 | How to Have Fun and Playful conversations with womenThis article goes into more extensive detail: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Tinder FR and adviceAbsolutely not. If she is interested she will respond to you | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth staying on media?All settings during the day. The dynamic is slightly different at night | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Help, we have great conversation but i don't know how to escalateStop being afraid of rejection or of how your interactions will be afterwards. She clearly like you and wants you to ask her out. Rejection isn't a big deal and is something you will have to get over eventually, so go ahead and do it now. Don't be worried about your interactions afterwards, if you like her more than just as a friend, then ask her out and stop behaving like a friend. People come and go and you will have plenty of opportunities with women as long as you put yourself out there. I h… | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth staying on media?I'm not on social media because I think it's degenerate, corrupting society, and destroying social skills (especially in men). However, Instagram is the world's largest dating app, and it allows you to demonstrate social proof, preselection, and lifestyle. However, you don't necessarily need social media to convey this. Many guys don't realize that you can convey value, social proof, and pre selection all indirectly through actions and behaviors in conversation. So, no, you don't need social med… | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 03:41 PM |
| 13 | Get zero or negative interest in real life but a ton of interest online - what is going on and how can I change it?There's some "vibe" or presence you are giving off that rubbs them the wrong way. Do you have resting bitch face, do you look gay? Do you have really bad breath? You logic is sound, you should be getting more attention in real life than dating apps if you're killing dating apps, so I would suggest asking someone you trust to give you an honest assessment of the vibe you give off when people see you. It is entirely possible that you come off as super intimidating. You can PM me pics and I can giv… | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Picking up girls at a Ballroom Dance classIn a class like this, I would recommend building attraction indirectly over time. So, you can play the long game and seduce them through various. This is best done by being a good listener, and knowing how to stimulate their emotions. I wouldn't recommend directly approaching the women individually because word will get out that one of the girl's rejected you and that will lower your perceived value to other women who may otherwise be interested. If you want to be seductive to all of them, remai… | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Tinder FR and adviceTexting should only be used for logistics and rewarding good behavior. You've already slept with her, so if you want to continue sleeping with her you don't need to text her like some platonic friend. You text her and schedule a set location and time. You ask what her availability is to hang out, and when she tells you what day, you tell her the time and the location to meet at. That's what men do, you have to escalate and handle all logistics, never leave it in the hands of women because they d… | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl is playful verbally and physically?Yes she's interested in you as this is behavior that is congruent when women like you. Women do not communicate directly with men. They will never directly tell you that they like you or that they want to go out with you unless you are extremely high status. What they do is behave in ways that indicate that they are interested in you. If they do this for a long time and you still don't make a move (or get the hint) they often interpret that as you not being interested in them. She is flirting wi… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 11:45 PM |
| 1 | I [21M] think I have a date! Finally!Bro she's using you for a free meal. She literally told you that she went to an event designed to meet members of the opposite sex and is not seeking a relationship. She was there to meet guys to date. It sounds like you were to platonic and friendly and didn't really build attraction. Women will waste your time and use you for a free meal and lead you on, which is exactly what you are doing. You are very clearly inexperienced so you can't tell (you made tons of mistakes) but you're just a free … | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | PT jobs for socializing and meeting womenI don't think a part time job is necessary to get better with women and social dynamics. You can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approachi… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | After breaking the touch barrier and flirting stage, what comes next?The onus is always on the man to escalate 99% of the time. You don't verbalize what you want to do, but rather, demonstrate. You have to be bold and take risks, it's okay if your advances get shot down, just build more attraction and try again. They're becoming less touchy because they're waiting for you to grow some balls and go for it. After escalating, prime them for a kiss so they aren't totally surprised that you go for it, and just do it. Don't ask, don't tell them. Just go. It's not reall… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | If I had to brag about one thing, it would be that all my LTR's were some of the best women on this Earth. That's not an accident, this title shows you how not to do it:I agree. I think that men should have an appropriate understand of game, female nature, and modern dating in 2024 so they can know what to traits, behaviors, and characteristics to look out for in women. The only time men should tolerate red flags is if it is a girl they are not taking seriously (just hooking up with). Most guys however have very few options and don't do the self development necessary to attract multiple women of equal or better quality so they tolerate disrespect and get in rel… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 4 | It always feel a performance pressure and it makes me anxious.So it sounds like you are very inwardly oriented (focused on yourself) as opposed to being outwardly oriented (during conversation). This causes you to be in your head and not be "natural". Instead, try focusing all of your attention on what the woman is saying and just having a normal conversation where you are playful, fun, and seductive. You said that you remember what to do and what to avoid. You need to develop yourself into a high value man so you can naturally display value. If you have t… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 03:23 PM |
| 3 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowcool. happy simping | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 03:09 AM |
| 13 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowThe overwhelming majority of the time it does. You are just coping because you are on the side of the stick that is getting rejected, and you are literally interpreting the words she is telling you. That's not how women communicate | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 02:52 AM |
| 17 | If a woman likes you, she will let you know If you try to schedule a date with a woman, and she tells you she's unavailable and does not offer a counter date, It absolutely does. The value exchanged in unequal. She is indirectly making it clear that she is not interested and you are continuing to pursue. Her perceived value is greatly lowered. Why would you continue to message a girl, even to tell her that you and your friends are going to hang out somewhere? She doesn't care. lol. Women do not hate communicating with men they like. Har… | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 02:51 AM |
| 9 | If a woman likes you, she will let you knowYes, it's the same except men ordinarily have fewer options than women, so the usually aren't the ones behaving in such ways | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 02:07 AM |
| 8 | fucked a very hot mutual friend, she only does serious relationships, i would like her to be fwb or a fling. What should i do?Never reveal your intentions directly. You demonstrate with actions, never explicitly say what your intentions are or how you feel. If you want to be friends with benefits with her, continue seducing her, and inviting her over to hang out. Do not take her out on formal dates, she will get the hint. You fumbled by saying you were looking casual, now she's most likely going to feel as though you are just using her for sex and now she's probably going to feel like a slut, and women hate feeling lik… | /r/seduction | 19/01/24 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Dating does not work black/ethnic men in the U.S.I'm black, gorgeous, and built like a Greek god. The reason these dudes are unsuccessful with women is not because of their appearance. It's primarily because of an incongruence with who he appears to be (a good looking, ripped black guy) who normally doesn't posess the adequate social skills that someone who looks like him has. So, while being jacked and ripped help (i'm jacked and ripped so I can talk about this), all it does is help men get their foot in the door more easily. It only helps th… | /r/seduction | 18/01/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Kissing on first date, was that too agressive move?It seems as though you did not prime her for the kiss. You need to physically escalate slowly (via kino escalation) to get her ready for the kiss. This doesn't take hours (hell I can do it very quickly now), but the idea is that the kiss should be expected after physically escalating, and not something random/ out of place. Also, you're 30 years old man. Kissing on the first date isn't a big deal, just think about how many women sleep with guys on the first date. Now, with that being said, if yo… | /r/seduction | 12/01/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to verbally ask a girl if she is interested in you, while on a date?Never ask a woman if she is interested in you if you are on a date. That is single handedly one of the lowest value things you can do. She's obviously interested in you if she's on a date with you, that's the whole point. It sounds to me like you have no understanding of female nature, and that you are a Nice Guy. If people are telling you that you are a good listener, and that you should be a therapist, that suggests to me that you probably don't have boundaries and may even get used. Women wil… | /r/seduction | 10/01/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How do I seduce girls?Learn to be a very good listener who can have presence and make them laugh, know how to escalate and be mysterious. There's tons of seduction techniques, but the most effective is being a good listener by being present in the moment and demonstrating that you are actually listening. Also, learn how to ask questions that aren't boring but rather stimulate their emotions. Learn how to escalate physically. This teaches you how to be mysterious: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-be-my… | /r/seduction | 02/01/24 11:09 PM |
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