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Shit that's brutal. Bit of a blackpill question but are you indian in America? In that case it might be a bit harder to pick up girls.
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:25 AM
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Get a hair system
/r/seduction25/06/25 06:04 AM
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I think it's more of a question of what demographic you're gaming and not what techniques you're using. PUAs would like to live in a world where every woman is the same and reacts to the same things. That way they can take an individual approach and extrapolate general rules from it. Unfortunately every person is different and you're going to need a wildly different approach when gaming girls in clubs, at anime conventions, at a hobby meeting or at a kink munch. I know a guy who is naturally sub…
/r/seduction03/06/25 07:48 PM
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Just pop some tadalafil
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:35 AM
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An app for finding wingmen is an epic idea honestly hahaha
/r/seduction17/01/25 10:56 AM
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In total, i approached probably 12 or 13 times I think. No lays from them so far, my buddy got a few lays though but he is unhinged. Approaching in nightclubs is kind of difficult for me because I go to scene clubs where everyone knows each other so I don't want to risk my reputation. I saw some dude with his friend approach there though, he even snatched away the girl I was talking to lmao
/r/seduction30/12/24 08:59 AM
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Would also like to see the infields
/r/seduction30/12/24 08:51 AM
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Hm very softboy-ish style you say. I could try that I think with stuff from second hand stores.
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:34 AM
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It's ironic bro don't shit yourself lol
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:32 AM
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Lotsa alt girls love themselves some bbc from time to time, I got cucked once myself. That being said thank god I'm white lmao not just white, but a racemixed germanic/slavic hybrid
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:01 PM
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All women can be unstable and fuck you over.
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:00 PM
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The photo with the guitar is a wonderful idea hahaha I even have a nice one lying around somewhere (can't play tho)
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:14 PM
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Hair system lol
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:41 AM
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Cool story. It's rare for someone to get out of the friendzone like that. I was on hugging/touching relations with a girl before and thought that I could escalate when we were cuddling in bed intending to go to sleep. Didn't work out.
/r/seduction25/12/24 11:34 AM
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op can't get laid because he's autistic
/r/seduction15/12/24 10:50 AM
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I'd save up for a vacation in Thailand if I were you. Get it out of yourself and have the time of your life for 2 weeks and then go back to reality. If you're white and not completely ugly, an Asian girl might be into you lol
/r/seduction15/12/24 10:49 AM
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This girl sounds toxic as fuck OP, you're much better off without her. I wouldn't try to be with her if she behaves like that. You can write a letter to her and rip it up instead of sending it to get closure. She's going to make you very unhappy
/r/seduction11/12/24 09:33 AM
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We're both just fucked in the head it seems.
/r/seduction07/12/24 01:59 PM
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I did have a fucked up childhood and was troubled from a young age already. Didn't consider this could be causing attachment issues though
/r/seduction06/12/24 08:21 AM
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Hey thank you so much for the detailed reply! I really appreciate it. I meditate 30 minutes per day usually, mainly breathing-concentration. Though I have to admit I have been slacking off a bit recently. Perhaps upping it to 45 minutes would help. I work in customer service for the money because german speakers are paid really well in my country and doing e-mails is quite easy. As my passion and side hustle though I do fire shows. I funnel money from my day job into my passion project. Despite …
/r/seduction06/12/24 08:13 AM
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This
/r/seduction05/12/24 06:19 AM
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Maybe she just wanted to bang other dudes but come out as virtuous while she's at it.
/r/seduction04/12/24 11:03 AM
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Not sure if it was seen as beta to not make a move. I didn't make one because I was coming down from acid after having drank some beer and smoked some weed. I just felt like shit and passed out in her bed haha she was really supportive though
/r/seduction03/12/24 07:02 AM
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Shoving her against a wall and staring at her sounds pretty aggressive. You're right though aggression is key. Not sure how to change the frame the next time though
/r/seduction02/12/24 05:00 PM
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I want sex but not as a one-time thing and possibly an open relationship. I'm pretty clear with what I want.
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:28 PM
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Yeah it would be best to pull a false time constraint in such a situation probably. Hard to find an excuse to leave at 4am while you're both lying in bed though lol There is a difference between overcoming last minute resistance and being overly pushy. With LMR you just pull back she's reacting to escalations anyway. With being pushy there is no reaction to escalation and I don't want to feel like I'm raping someone.
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:15 PM
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I generally prefer seducing high interest girls. Getting rejected over and over with low-interest girls is very frustrating. It makes me feel unattractive and unwanted and disgusting. It's also a waste of time for her because she could be spending time with someone she's actually attracted to instead.
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:13 PM
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focus on volume
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:40 PM
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I don't want ONS, I'd like to stick around. But going from my previous experiences with women they usually throw themselves on me very quickly. That's why I thought that I must have done something wrong or that she's simply not attracted to me because that's unusual behaviour compared to other girls. Women like sex too.
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:38 PM
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I don't want a ONS though. I don't want to be just her guy friend either
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:33 PM
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I really needed to hear this, thanks
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:33 PM
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I'm gonna try a last time just because I prefer to regret trying than to regret not trying. In the former case I will at least not torment myself with thoughts of what could have been.
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:25 PM
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So what would you recommend? Try a third time or just move on and be done with it?
/r/seduction02/12/24 12:49 PM
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I loled at sapiosexual as well. Couldn't have possibly fucked up this one more. Probably the worst seduction of the year, if not of my life. Unfortunately I didn't have options at the time. If I did, I think leaving would have been easier and I wouldn't have been convinced to stay as easily.
/r/seduction02/12/24 12:13 PM
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Perhaps I don't respect myself, you're right. What do you suggest in this case? Ghost her and move on?
/r/seduction02/12/24 12:06 PM
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Yeah I feel like she's totally playing me. No sex on third date and I'm out. You're right about the making rules for betas. All of a sudden she has super high standards for sleeping with me while normally she is promiscuous. I don't know how to avoid such a situation though. Acting like a typical 'alpha' just feels super unnatural to me and I like to build longer relationships.
/r/seduction02/12/24 11:25 AM
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I'd like to tell myself that. I'd prefer to take responsibility and figure out where exactly I might have fucked up first though.
/r/seduction02/12/24 09:23 AM
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Because despite my good looks I'm unable to pull consistently.
/r/seduction02/12/24 09:21 AM
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No that's a number's game
/r/seduction26/11/24 07:14 AM
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I don't fake it I'm just a schizo
/r/seduction24/11/24 03:09 PM
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Those are some pretty good points
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:31 PM
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Nice post. The flirting right at the beginning is a very good idea. I usually try to go for the close or escalate to messenger asap. This might help her warm up. Good stuff, very smooth.
/r/seduction31/10/24 05:32 PM
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You can always use her as a wingwoman or social proof. She's still an asset. Maybe a less valuable asset than a fuckbuddy but what you do with your assets is up to you.
/r/seduction12/10/24 11:25 AM
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You have to be willing to take more hits than others in order to get to where you want to be. You think the seduction masters had it down from the very beginning? The thing that will set you apart from average chumps is how much rejection and pain you're able to take. Someone average will give up after getting rejected 5 times in a row. Do you think someone who is willing to take 100 rejections is going to be average? As long as you put the reps in you will get where you want to be. No matter ho…
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:58 PM
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Mostly location I'd say but I think it doesn't matter. I got laid many times in a grimy crackhouse on the outskirts of town without any problems. If she wants to have sex with you it doesn't really matter where or how you live tbh
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:54 AM
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You use Instagram or what?
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:01 PM
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That's the spirit
/r/seduction01/09/24 10:51 AM
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Hahaha i love this one
/r/seduction31/08/24 12:54 PM
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Because I'm a pussy
/r/seduction22/08/24 04:20 PM
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Why did he betray his friend? Did he promise him not to sleep with her? Is there an unspoken agreement of "no fucking each other's cousins"? Most of the time couples meet through friends. I don't see what's the problem with that. If his friend found out, why should he be furious about that? Did he want to fuck his own cousin and not have any rivals?
/r/seduction20/08/24 11:20 AM
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I'm thinking of getting a hair system simply because I love having long hair and I'm losing it. I wouldn't really care about what others thought of me as long as I can look the way I want to. Plus I might be able to experiment with different hairstyles once I take the switch. Women can put on make up, why can't men put up hair? We can look how we want to without being confined to a very narrow style without hair basically.
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:49 AM
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Women who would do this wouldn't be worth your time anyway
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:46 AM
1

Just get some cialis op. It helps a lot and lasts super long
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:55 AM
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Don't listen to this op. Women are the worst source of advice when it comes to seduction. Doing this shit will land you in a friend zone at best
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:19 AM
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Amen
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:17 AM
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It is relative but it is even more relative than you say. Value depends on the demographic as well. An artsy goth girl is going to be into the broke emo musician more than the chad business owner. An introverted bookworm type will likely be into guys with more intellectual capital. This universalism is straight up bullshit in my opinion. Not every girl, everywhere in the world is the same and value is highly subjective. Obviously there are some basics like money, looks and status but building on…
/r/seduction16/06/24 03:10 PM
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Relatable af when you can't kiss because the girl just won't stfu hahaha
/r/seduction02/06/24 08:43 AM
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That's the problem, that there is this perceived dichotomy between consent and seduction. It doesn't have to be a rapport-breaker like "can I kiss you", it can also be a cocky "do you want to kiss me?". I'm not sure though that's why I made the thread after all. The guy that said the stuff about making her beg had a really good point imo
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:42 AM
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Yeah saying I'll go get the condom is usually what I do as well. Still, putting on a condom feels like it increases friction and the possibility of LMR each time. I only had LMR in such a situation once though.
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:47 AM
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It's not about not getting rape charges afterwards but making her feel safe and comfortable imo
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:45 AM
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Good point. So it's more like making a statement "i want to kiss you" instead of "can i kiss you", the latter being more submissive than the first.
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:41 AM
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This is great. Thank you very much for your insight. I haven't gotten a girl to beg yet but I will surely try it next time.
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:37 AM
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This. Keeping a log is the most important I think. There are guys who do too much theory without going out and guys who do too much practice without reflecting. Just like in chess, analysing your most painful losses to get the most learning out of them will yield you the best progress.
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:54 AM
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Putting him in your frame, I like this one.
/r/seduction18/05/24 11:14 AM
1

I run a compliance test in such situations. See her with a guy at the smoking area, walk by her again and just tell her "I'm going to the bar" in a tone that says "we're going to the bar". After I tell her that I just head straight off without looking back but walking as if I expect compliance from her naturally. This sort of command is hard to resist for a girl because of the position of the frame it's coming from. It communicates that she can talk with other guys but that she follows your lead…
/r/seduction18/05/24 11:00 AM
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Start spinning fire. The flow community is really cool and chill and in the us there are a lot of hotties in such circles as well. It's sort of a hippy kinda hobby and it's super fun. You can start watching youtube tutorials and spinning with a broomstick to start learning.
/r/seduction17/05/24 09:58 AM
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Stop giving a shit about what they think of you doing it. Everyone is going to think differently and you can't please everyone. Just do what you want and what you feel like. If there are consequences, you'll handle them. You can't predict the future so I wouldn't try to plan that far ahead.
/r/seduction29/04/24 12:37 PM
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Not giving a shit is essential. For yourself and for your results. Confidence usually results from not giving a shit among others.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:04 PM
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Don't get invested at all. No matter what happens, don't get invested in her or in the outcome.
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:48 AM
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Be self amused about it and show that you really don't give a fuck. I live in Poland and come from Austria so when I talk I have an accent like Arnold Schwarzenegger. It's fucking comical. Admit that you might sound funny sometimes and just play around.
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:03 AM
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This, be honest and open about it. Let her know she can't get away with it without you saying something to her about it.
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:01 AM
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Embrace the feeling of jadedness. Settle in it until you stop totally giving a fuck and because of this are able to do pickup purely mechanically. After a while you'll be able to do bolder shit as well because you just won't care anymore.
/r/seduction26/04/24 09:58 AM
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Any resources for pick up related self hypnosis?
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:55 PM
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Just b urself bro
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:01 AM
2

This guy fucks
/r/seduction18/04/24 06:31 PM
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Anything that is related to lying I'd say. More 'sinister' would be to feign vulnerability to disarm her. Making up emotional stories about past events that didn't happen so you can get into an emotional connection with her. I found it was easy to get laid straight after a breakup when I was vulnerable and somewhat fragile and went to my female friends for support. Sort of a 'emotionally vulnerable and looking for closure' kind of frame which can allow you to get a bit more aggressive and if she…
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:55 PM
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Yeah spiking emotions before leaving is pretty nice
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:50 PM
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I'd focus on metal concerts and talking to people by the bar there if you enjoy the music. Maybe you can find some goth/emo/punk parties in clubs that organize scene parties. Take into account the demographic of girls you want to sleep with. Do you want to sleep and talk with club chicks with whom you don't have much in common or with girls that can be more fun because they share your interests?
/r/seduction15/04/24 02:21 PM
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Bro can't cope with his approach anxiety lmao
/r/seduction14/04/24 12:30 AM
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It's a meme lol
/r/seduction11/04/24 09:04 AM
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This. Just flirting with a fat chick helped me do it somewhat more mechanically.
/r/seduction11/04/24 08:56 AM
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Gaming is a girly hobby. Men are supposed to build houses and die in wars.
/r/seduction10/04/24 11:25 AM
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That could be an opener ala mystery method lol
/r/seduction09/04/24 10:57 PM
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Spinning fire poi. Chicks love it when you light balls or sticks on fire and do tricks with them.
/r/seduction08/04/24 04:41 PM
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Rather than focusing, I was thinking of seeding jealousy. I know that I will be seeing girl 2 again sometime in the future anyway.
/r/seduction04/04/24 01:57 PM
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I would be very interested in that. Seems like a valuable and fun exercise
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:46 PM
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He could also be going out to sharpen his skills.
/r/seduction01/04/24 02:30 PM
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Guess I got my opener for my next anime convent then
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:50 PM
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Generally you can ask what she's up to right now to get some conversation hooks going after the opener. You can also comment on something about her outfit and then talk about that.
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:47 PM
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Damn son I wouldn't call this a failure at all. You got a shitload of data points to learn from. You definitely got better at game and next time it will be even smoother and easier.
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:18 PM
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