How you project your sexual energy plays a critical role in whether women are drawn to you, or repelled by you.

Sexual energy is conveyed through eye movement, body language, tone of voice, posture, words, and touch.

If expressed effectively, masculine sexual energy will make a woman feel desired, and in her natural feminine element. She will feel safe and will be compelled to open up sexually and emotionally. Being in her natural feminine element, she will test less and make pursuit easier. This is the foundation of sexual attraction.

If sexual energy is expressed ineffectively, she will feel unsafe around you, and will shut down physically and emotionally.

Men are described as ‘creepy’ when they express their sexual energy improperly, and women are turned-off as as a result. Consequently, she will be more defensive and in an unnatural, masculine state, which will cause her to shut down or test more.

  • Being Sexual is the state where your sexual energy is expressed in a way that attracts women and draws them into your personal orbit. They feel desired and feminine, and want to open themselves emotionally.

  • Being Lustful is a needy, desperate state where sexual energy is conveyed in way where the woman is simply a sounding board for your need to have sex, a means to end.

  • Being Sexual entails looking at her unapologetically, intentionally expressing your desire for her through your eyes, appreciating her looks as part of her feminine energy. Looking as her with desire.

  • Being Lustful is staring at a woman because she is visually appealing and your brain gets a small hit of Dopamine while looking at her. When you make eye contact, the look is fixated without on her any warmth of human emotion, or you dart your glance away from her in shame.

  • Being Sexual is telling a woman how she is beautiful, sexy, or has an amazing body because you feel it internally, and want her to feel the high of being wanted and desired. You don’t care if your words win her favor, you simply need to express your desire for her in the moment, and want her to remember how you made her feel, regardless if it makes her want you.

  • Being Lustful is telling a woman that you want her to prompt a reaction, or win her favor. Commenting or blatantly observing her body is a way to convey false boldness and bravado.

  • Being Sexual is just as much about her feelings as yours. It is being authentic and bold.

  • Being Lustful is selfish and ego-driven. It is the using the woman as a mode of expression of horniness.

  • Being Sexual is the pursuit only of women who truly strike a chord within you—whether they are more beautiful, charismatic, sexy, than most women you encounter. The type of woman that makes you lose your inhibitions in the bedroom, that you will tell is beautiful regardless of consequence.

  • Being Lustful is pursuing women who are moderately attractive in your eyes, because you believe that it is your duty as a man to pursue all attractive women, even if those that don’t spark a true desire.

Be Sexual, not Lustful.