Instead of focusing energy specifically on interacting with attractive women, learn to be generally charismatic with everyone. Charisma stems from having a genuine interest in people and treating everyone the same, both men and women.
This is vitally important when you finally talk to an attractive woman, because your general energy and mannerisms will be the same, with an added element of sexual energy displayed through your body language, eyes, and slightly more playful demeanor.
As much as others want to say outward appearance doesn’t matter, it does. Greatly. If you have two guys with the same level of social skills, where one guy well-fitted clothes, stays fit, and maintains his grooming, while they other guy is schlemp, the guy who takes care of himself will almost always come out on top.
Finally, women are attracted to status in men. To deny this is delusional. Status doesn’t necessarily mean having money, but rather being established with his goals, or actively working towards those goals. Potential can be just as attractive as success, if a woman sees determination backed by action.
Finer logistics matter somewhat in attraction, but the main thing to remember is to not be needy and work to have an abundance mindset. If this mindset is adopted with the previously mentioned characteristics, you will already be ahead.
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You sharpen those skills by going out in the world and starting conversations and trying to make them enjoyable. Just like you sharpen basketball skills by playing basketball. You'll make mistakes and that's OK... the key is to get a lot of reps, so you learn what works and what doesn't.
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There are at least 7 million pages on the internet that get into specifics. For example, from the first search result of "how to start a conversation" with example:
Notice something nice. ...Pay a compliment. ...Ask an opinion. ...Offer help. ...Look for common ground. ...Ask for help or information.
Other topics to search on:
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OK keep on trolling homie! g'night
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More bluepilled nonsense as usual for Reddit smh
Money and looks that’s it
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