Notascoutstillag Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Do women down South ever date outside their race? Yes they do but realistically not often especially compared to somewhere like a bigger northern city or in Florida.	/r/seduction	03/10/22 09:07 PM
10	How to deal with her Instagram stories? This just made me lol	/r/seduction	03/10/22 06:07 PM
2	What matters the most for a man? Also to answer your question, Game Looks Status An uglier guy with good game can score a hot chick and status isn’t half as important as you think. You really think women care that much about fast cars? Some women want financially secure men but choosing one man over another because he has more social media followers? Lol. Not likely.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 07:12 PM
5	What matters the most for a man? So, I’m a woman. You’re contradicting yourself all over the place though. You begin with you’re 22 with no real status and “can’t even get a chance”. So the believing in yourself boils down to having confidence. It’s a vicious cycle that women can read when men don’t have a lot of confidence, which saying things like you don’t even have a chance implies, and is likely to give you less of a chance. Self fulfilling prophesy kind of thing. If you have a lot of confidence face to face then my bad fo…	/r/seduction	26/09/22 04:21 PM
4	What matters the most for a man? No dude, you directly avoided my question. What are YOU doing to “up your status”? No analogies. Also what are some real life examples of what you have actually given effort into and not been able to succeed in life? Other than dating/relationships. You say you can’t believe in yourself because you’ve ALWAYS failed but there’s no way that’s true. If it is, start with more attainable goals. You can always improve and to believe that you’re incapable of doing so is your first mistake to attaining …	/r/seduction	26/09/22 03:14 PM
4	What matters the most for a man? What do you do to “up your status”? Honestly, a positive attitude trumps all of those and concurrently helps with all of those. Women want someone who not just believes they can, but makes it happen. Literally whatever “it” is.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 02:51 PM
1	Friend flirts with me and I want to discuss it with them I totally agree, considering the the scenario described, I think your thinking on just being direct with it is the best approach.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 02:00 PM
13	Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning. Maybe instant attraction but not that important to developing feelings. Every woman I know, knows several men that are great to look at but for the love of all things good we wish they would just STFU because each sentence coming out of their mouth ruins it. On the flip side, a less attractive dude that is confident, funny, and going after his goals as OP said, even if they haven’t been achieved yet, as long as he is truly actively working on it, to most people will be more attractive than hot M…	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:21 PM
108	Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning. Refreshing to read a legit take that’s positive this morning. Highly recommend this advice to most of the other recently posted pity parties going on. Take control of your life, no one is attracted to a victim mentality.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:15 PM
1	Friend flirts with me and I want to discuss it with them I don’t use the app, just the web browser so I can’t read a “chat” but can read and reply to “messages” 🤷🏽‍♀️	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:04 PM
3	Friend flirts with me and I want to discuss it with them I’m a little confused by you saying you don’t want to be strung along by her but also that romantically you’d never work out, so what is it exactly that you’d like to determine with this conversation? It seems like if anything, she would be the one strung along if you are not into her? What do you want the end result to be? With a conversation like this, she is likely to back off or stop hanging out with you altogether if she was catching feelings. If you’re ok with that, have the conversation. …	/r/seduction	26/09/22 12:16 PM
2	Glasses in pickup You would look fine either way, work on your confidence.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 11:37 AM
3	how do you make friends? Ask people about themselves and let them speak without interrupting	/r/seduction	15/09/22 03:29 PM
1	The genius of cold approach (and why dating apps and social media will destroy humanity) You had me until “I have a theory” Above that is about right Below that I don’t even know wtf I just read but I know that I don’t agree with it. No one is out to get you dude. My only suggestions are find something better than “I just thought you were cute” and adding in “this is random but” will not up anyone’s game. Make it more interesting or fun. Enjoy your new pastime.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 11:29 AM
1	Think I fucked it by texting back No you should not change the plans and ask her out for a drink yet. Keep the first plan centered around the dogs and use it as a feeler. Like someone else mentioned, shoot her a nonchalant text that doesn’t feel so much like a date, you’re going to the dog park tomorrow/for a walk when you get home from work does she want to join you kind of thing. You’re overthinking her not replying, especially that you said you’ll hit her up tomorrow. Why would you not follow through on hitting her up tomorro…	/r/seduction	31/08/22 02:50 PM
2	Seduction tips/resources for women? Girl, sounds like it’s a him problem, not a you problem. Good luck!	/r/seduction	20/01/22 03:48 PM
2	Seduction tips/resources for women? Do you guys ever massage each other? I feel like this is an awful suggestion with the whole Epstein drama lmao but it’s really easy to go from casual to super sexy fast (or slow if that’s what would excite him more)and helps to relax before hand. Also give you the opportunity to climb on top of him without putting any expectations on him initially. How do you feel about sending racy pictures? Sometimes it’s about getting him aroused when he can’t have it and giving him something to think about w…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:58 PM
3	Seduction tips/resources for women? This is simply not true 😂 Name checks out though	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:49 PM
4	Gym girls This! Other than IMO nothing wrong with trying to make sure you’re not a creep, because approaching in a gym cannnnn be creepy. It’s first and foremost about the eye contact. For example where I would normally say don’t approach a girl who is not paying attention to you in the middle of her work out, if you guys lock eyes and both smile etc. then by all means go for it, it’s all about the energy you’re getting back. And please for the love of all things good do not walk by and and clear your thr…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:25 PM
3	Gym girls No 😂	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:20 PM
1	How to talk to stranger girl which Recently followed in Instagram You’re literally on Instagram… talk about the things she posts maybe but hey isn’t going to work basically ever	/r/seduction	18/01/22 04:28 PM
2	A weird situation (idk if I’ve picked the right flair, idk what this would come under) Sounds very much like she was just using the phrasing of it imo and will not be on an actual date with K, but may confusingly refer to it as one all night. That's just that kind of girl for ya. Flirt with her so long as she's reciprocating, you won't be imposing on "their date".	/r/seduction	31/08/20 06:02 AM
1	How do I give ‘half compliments’ ? A lot is circumstantial. How old is the prospective woman and what type of setting are you in. You can say something along the lines of "That dress looks amazing on you but I'm not convinced you can dance in it..." Again definitely depending with how comfortable you are with her and what type of conversations you've been having.	/r/seduction	29/08/20 10:43 PM
1	Falling forward Nailed it. Glad to read things are working out for you. The best way to be good at dating is to be someone people want to date without losing yourself. Focus on your goals and you'll feel more confident. High confidence and being a part of cool things - owning a business, nailing a fun exercise, participating in some type of art or charity or volunteer work, mastering a trade - all very sexy. Good luck	/r/seduction	29/08/20 12:00 AM
1	Is it wrong to ask my science teacher about sex ed? Public or private school? Again not meant to be rude just genuinely blown away.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 09:16 PM
3	How do I give ‘half compliments’ ? Honestly as a woman that would be awkward as fuck. It doesn't give her anything to really say but "thanks... "Right and why are you paying so much attention to my "figure" ?It's an outdated term. If you're confident she likes you, you can playfully say something about her butt mayyyyybe but even with that you would have to be confident in saying it, which not to be a dick, but I don't see it going well. Don't compliment her on her figure. If you want to give her a compliment, compliment her eyes…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 08:51 PM
2	(UK) How do you show interest without making it weird? Is there a particular scenario you want to give us? Every scenario is different. Asking this question is too vague, almost like how can I cook a vegetable. Is it someone who is already a friend? A co-worker? A service worker such as a store clerk or server? Or a cold approach at a bar or beach or park or something. All very different.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 08:26 PM
0	Is it wrong to ask my science teacher about sex ed? I'm sorry that you're in highschool with no formal education on this... Have you thought about simply asking here? And may I ask where you're from? You're not in the wrong or a perv but a simple google search will probably answer any questions you have though it is totally normal for schools to teach about sex beginning in middle school even... in Ny a decade ago they taught us plenty with an emphasis on STDs lol	/r/seduction	28/08/20 08:14 PM