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Fundamentals 3boodqt/r/seduction01/02/24 02:18 AM
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Inner Game 3boodqt/r/seduction08/02/24 01:20 AM
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Outer Game 3boodqt/r/seduction29/10/22 12:30 AM
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Comprehensive3boodqt/r/seduction10/02/24 10:22 PM
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Fundamentals 3boodqt/r/seduction08/09/22 11:47 PM
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Field Report3boodqt/r/seduction19/12/20 12:48 PM
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Field Report3boodqt/r/seduction14/02/26 04:31 PM
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Outer Game 3boodqt/r/seduction02/03/22 03:27 PM
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Outer Game 3boodqt/r/seduction15/02/24 10:02 AM
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Conversation3boodqt/r/seduction18/10/22 12:01 AM
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Resources3boodqt/r/seduction27/06/22 10:42 PM
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Outer Game 3boodqt/r/seduction18/02/22 03:30 AM
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Field Report3boodqt/r/seduction11/12/20 11:08 AM
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Escalation & Calibration3boodqt/r/seduction27/03/22 09:37 PM
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Conversation3boodqt/r/seduction03/04/22 05:44 PM
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Fundamentals 3boodqt/r/seduction24/08/22 09:48 AM
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Outer Game 3boodqt/r/seduction14/02/24 03:37 AM
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It's not that I do not take the risks.. it's that I do 100% percent of the time, and my personality / charisma or game if you call it, ruins it all the time. I've seen how my friend talks to a girl, and he is what you wold call "smooth".. and it's damn crazy! I wish I has his skills
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:45 PM
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I am..
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:51 PM
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Exactly. But not sure how to make them "feel" things
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:27 PM
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How the hell do I become a person who's a vibe to be around!! It's very difficult for me to
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:25 PM
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I have exactly the same problem.. wish if there's something that helps us in life cuz it's driving me crazy that I'm not one of them
/r/seduction14/02/26 09:24 PM
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I am humble, and I've asked him A LOT, and to be honest he doesn't mind giving advices, he's just not sure how to teach me the skills..
/r/seduction14/02/26 06:43 PM
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Well, it certainly isn't the timing that's bothering me.. what is bothering me is I do not have enough "skill" to attract, sometimes I feel as though my personality hinders my looks.. as in, girls are attracted and they lose attraction later on, because I didn't know how to escalate, or didn't know how to keep conversation fun and push her buttons so to speak. What I'm actually jealous of is the following; Having the skill to get a girl so infatuated with me that she will follow my lead to the m…
/r/seduction14/02/26 04:55 PM
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I like the idea, but when he does asks these types of question it usually on the friendly side, and she is required to be nice for her job. So she isn’t really interested
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:19 AM
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Yeah I never saw a girl as out of my league to be honest! What makes her that? Her good looks? That’s it? So she isn’t out of my league
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:18 AM
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I’ve gone through something similar. Wasn’t like this before and now I’m here. I’d like to see what advices you get
/r/seduction19/05/24 01:00 AM
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Based on the reasons you wrote, I understand behind their judgement.
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:42 PM
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Let me tell you this, yeah I’m the same.. And stopped playing because I felt bad for doing so because I’d like to be “myself”.. What ended up happening was I became lonely as hell! And to make things worse, I don’t know how to play the game anymore. So I’ll be honest with you, you do have to keep playing.
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:44 PM
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What do you mean for the plot?!
/r/seduction21/03/24 07:01 PM
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Yeah I struggle to make it flow naturally these days, I used to be good at it, but now I’m stuck in my own head.. and if not, I become a “nice guy” without no flirting
/r/seduction19/03/24 05:16 PM
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How did you transfer from the water to the chatting and flirting is my issue. 😅😂
/r/seduction19/03/24 03:56 PM
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“Present himself as desirable to women” How bro!! I got little to no social skills/game. I hate it here. I would say it’s my looks or style, but I’m 100% certain it isn’t
/r/seduction19/03/24 04:58 AM
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My replies before were yeah it’s your effect I can’t help it.. if she insist on challenging the fact: that what I told a girl once: “Yeah I’m a sexual person, that’s how I’ll always be.. if you don’t like it let me know cause I’m not going to change, if she says yes, I’ll say cool and drop her off or just hang the phone if we’re in a call. Granted it has to be done very calmly
/r/seduction15/03/24 04:41 AM
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then roll into trying to break touch barrier and being flirty. Yeah I haven’t gotten to that stage.
/r/seduction13/03/24 09:37 AM
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I just want a hookup, wouldn’t be going for a relationship with that chick trust me.. So anyway, if you were in my shoes and she replied to you that way.. what you would reply?
/r/seduction13/03/24 01:54 AM
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Fair enough, I’m trying this next time.. just so I know I’m actually understanding it..: There was a group of girls who were wearing birthday hat, and one of them was staring like crazy for some reason.. I said “Happy birthday” and she replied with “it’s non of your business”. How should I have replied back? Should I’ve said “just saw a beatiful girl that I wanted to wish her a happy birthday, but as you wish” .. Is that how you mean?
/r/seduction13/03/24 01:41 AM
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So if she’s brash and cocky, I should act sweet and kind?? Don’t know if that’s how it works but I’m interested to see your insight?
/r/seduction13/03/24 01:28 AM
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I do agree fully, I feel like I lack that edge somehow..
/r/seduction13/03/24 01:26 AM
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Honestly I’ve been on both, even when I was a bad boy, women used to talk to me a lot and enjoy my company.. Because I was able to keep them on their toes, now not so much
/r/seduction12/03/24 07:31 PM
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I wander in between two groups.. someone help me I’m lost
/r/seduction12/03/24 07:29 PM
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Whatever dude.
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:52 PM
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I don’t smile at all, I have a poker face but with staring.. Sometime I smile with just my eyes, never with my mouth.
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:49 PM
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Well I’m good looking, I’m a 6/7 based on most women who have actually known me. Not a brad pitt but I sure look good.. Just like you say tall and something else, I’m saying even good looks need to come with something else. So work on what you can control, I’m not tall so I can’t control that! Btw their respons usually is tall handsome. tall comes first
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:48 PM
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I’m not good in giving you ideas, but when I had confidence and personality, I used to go up to the girl to talk and she’s interested. Second thing, is the eye contact.. Don’t be afraid to stare.
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:44 PM
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I have no skills mate..
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:39 PM
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I’m good looking, but also doesn’t matter either. It’s 100% personality, and how do you say height doesn’t matter when all women you ask what they’re type they say tall.
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:38 PM
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Do you want me to be completely honest with you my friend? Your height should guarantee you the door, just like my looks guarantee me the door. The only thing that stands between you and getting women, is social skills & self-confidence. Once you get both, the rest is easy. I struggle with both, sometimes with either and the affect each other.
/r/seduction12/03/24 04:52 PM
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I would’ve replied with “Not really”.. but if she unmatched so be it.
/r/seduction12/03/24 05:19 AM
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Curious what is your opener at the bus stop, was it an opener that immediately shows your interest? for ex. Hey, I find you cute or whatever.. Or was it situational opener? If it was situational, how did you start to the flirting part?
/r/seduction12/03/24 03:57 AM
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Alright, I’m no approach expert, honestly I suck at approaching if I’m going for the sole purpose of “I want to get her number”. So I’ll give you an approach I did the other day just because I wanted to speak to one of the girls in the group to see where she’s from (that was my purpose, I was going to see what language she speaks because I was curious about it). So I went and they were three in the group at the time: a guy, a girl (the one i’m curious about) and a woman who looks older most like…
/r/seduction12/03/24 03:46 AM
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Is this a troll?
/r/seduction12/03/24 12:12 AM
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Why act nervous to see, when I already saw how they react when I am actually nervous?!
/r/seduction07/03/24 04:13 AM
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How do you do make your intention known??
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:00 AM
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I don’t know but I thought it’s too early to ask for the number since the conversation was literally for two/three minutes so I was certain that I’d be faced with rejection as a part of “play hard to get” or seeming difficult from her POV. Which most of the time I don’t know how to manage my way around it. I also thought she’s in my building so there’s a high chance we meet again. About the holding up the meal.. how’s that considered flirting, care to explain it 😅? Like what part of flirting is …
/r/seduction16/02/24 06:27 AM
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Yeah that’s what I like to do to be fair, but how is the question..
/r/seduction16/02/24 06:23 AM
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When you say them asking OK what is it? That’s not what usually happens.. What usually happens is they stare quietly.. Also another thing, the approach you mentioned would immediately put me in the “nice guy” territory in her brain. I feel they like me from staring because I don’t show that I like them, but when I show it they lose interest. If that makes sense..
/r/seduction14/02/24 09:58 PM
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It happens a lot, at first I thought similar to you, but every friend I ask they say it’s normal they do this all the time with every one because they love to play hard to get and wants someone to chase them, don’t take it personally and try to find your way through. And it is understandable because approaching and dating in my culture is innately wrong, but it does happen all the time.
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:01 PM
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I honestly don’t care if she says no, if she just stares quietly or whatever the case.. All I’m afraid of is coming off as “awkward”. Don’t know from where that fear emerged but it sure there now!
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:38 AM
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For two reasons.. They have being faced with rejections too many times. They don’t have no flirting skills, so they’ll afraid of being awkward and creepy. If you see my last post, you’d see I literally get anxiety from approaching three girls who sat together. Two I can handle, three is too much on my body; Blood pressure is high, leg shaking, all in all awful experience
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:27 AM
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Why would anyone want to ask these questions??! If you mean in a group setting and you were having a group convo then I guess that’s fine.. But yes I agree with your friends, Lie!! You’re thinking way ahead of the game by thinking relationship when you don’t know how her body looks like!! For all you could know she might have a p** somewhere!! Too early to think about relationship, let alone the repercussions of your lie in the future in a relationship, it’s a whole new map.. I sometimes be guil…
/r/seduction14/02/24 05:11 AM
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What the hell is A1 & A2 ?!!
/r/seduction14/02/24 04:09 AM
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Hey man, mind checking my last post?
/r/seduction14/02/24 04:05 AM
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Mainly because women talk around.. And it does ruin your chances if they heard that you got awkward personality or whatever..
/r/seduction12/02/24 03:35 AM
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I do go meet people, I even try to hit up on a girl I’ve had talked to and chatted with in the past.. But it’s just boring, hella boring I can’t fathom. Like at this exact moment I’m chatting with a girl I chatted with in the past (around corona time), and we had fun conversation, we stopped just because each of us had their thing so we didn’t continue but now we’re talking again and it is hella boring. Could be the issue is her and not me but I do not know.
/r/seduction11/02/24 09:19 AM
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I really do not know how, or what exactly is depressing my natural personality from coming out.
/r/seduction11/02/24 08:08 AM
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I realised a lot of guys lie about stuff like that, and a lot of guys actually don’t. So I just take that information and not really care if it’s a true or lie.
/r/seduction11/02/24 08:06 AM
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Bro I’m 25, and the worst thing is.. Is my personality became worse a lot in the last two years.. It used to be the best there is.. I don’t know what to do or how to regain my old personality back. For example:: I know when people are attracted to me, I had always the gift to tell, but before I legit used to approach any girl I thought interested, and I approached with complete confidence. Now any girl that I know is interested I get nervous like crazy, I could hear my heart pounding.. and the m…
/r/seduction11/02/24 06:46 AM
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Hey bro.. So my personality changed in the last two years or so, and I’d say it changed to the worst rather in a good direction. I know when people are attracted to me, I had always the gift to tell, but before I legit used to approach any girl I thought interested, and I approached with complete confidence. Now any girl that I know is interested I get nervous like crazy, I could hear my heart pounding.. and the main reason is: “She might not like my personality and get turned off by it” So my q…
/r/seduction11/02/24 06:44 AM
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Me too, even with some of my longtime friends I became awkward and “weak” so to speak.. I wouldn’t say my old personality was the best, but it sure was amazing and I didn’t really care much about personality issues or social struggles or even with women. Sometimes even, my personality is great at first few conversations and I see my old self back, then out of a sudden it shifts again. It’s like I got two to three personalities somehow!
/r/seduction11/02/24 12:36 AM
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It sure feels like my personality is growing to the wrong direction though..
/r/seduction11/02/24 12:34 AM
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I agree with you, but I feel my personality is growing worse and worse, and I feel as though I do not know myself
/r/seduction11/02/24 12:34 AM
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Even that doesn’t work sometimes, like she says, “I know what you’re doing/trying to do” and you do not have a reply to that
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:48 PM
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That’s what I’ve done too, it shows mutual interest
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:11 AM
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Haha I do get what you mean it happened to me a few hours ago. And I do get cold too sometimes, but I don’t believe it’s the right choice. I think women want to play the game so you have to play. I’m not sure entirely but what we’re lacking is escalation..
/r/seduction10/02/24 04:36 AM
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I don’t know how to combat it, but I’m interested to know people’s answers.. My best bet, is women love teasing, so they’d love it if you actually said “no” but in a joking manner. Like saying, no you shouldn’t harass me. I’ll only allow one kiss (jokingly of course).. Something like that, but I don’t really know cause I’ve had a similar situation to you recently
/r/seduction10/02/24 04:32 AM
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I’m not one to speak, but that approach seems hella detrimental in the long run, cause it create a reputation of an asshole/creep and no one want to hang out with you anymore which eventually lead to being lonely. I could be wrong but that’s how I saw your life story flashing when I read the post. Also who told you that opener is a good opener? I would definitely try all sort of different things in the street or a new city where no one knows me and it doesn’t have much consequences so you can be…
/r/seduction10/02/24 04:22 AM
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I’m kinda in a similar predicament to OP, a girl in my building always stare, the other day she even smiled. But she always with her female friends so I don’t approach. Do I gesture with my eyes for her to come over to talk? And even if I see her alone I do not know how to open up the conversation or what to say.. I struggle with cold approaches if there isn’t something in common or something I can comment on in the surroundings, like there’s literally nothing I can comment on so I don’t say any…
/r/seduction08/02/24 04:46 AM
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Brother you need to teach us how your game work, or at least where you learnt it? Can you check your PM’s
/r/seduction08/02/24 04:09 AM
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Literally man he came out of the blue.
/r/seduction08/02/24 04:04 AM
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On the road
/r/seduction08/02/24 04:02 AM
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If you go for a white woman that is.. Also, I never believed height or race make a huge difference, it does make a difference slightly. But I know for sure if you’re good with words you won the lottery. I’m 173cm, not tall really but I’ve had a lot of women finding me attractive in the past.
/r/seduction08/02/24 02:53 AM
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Honestly I wasn’t scared in the slightest I even told him “try it” when he threatened me.. And when he was stuck on my face I pushed him away with my hands. I don’t believe I get scared of fights as in my country we fight all the time, but because in the UK; if you’re the one who start throwing hands you’re in the wrong. That’s why I didn’t punch him in the face. I don’t think there was any way to diffuse the situation, the only option I’m thinking now was jesture on grabbing her hand and leadin…
/r/seduction08/02/24 02:45 AM
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Thanks to both of you, yeah I’m not feeling bad I only post here to learn, so yeah I do like his comment and will keep it in mind.
/r/seduction08/02/24 02:35 AM
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I can’t tell if this is sarcasm or you’re being real.. but either way, I’m not that good at all and I’m honest in saying it..
/r/seduction08/02/24 02:12 AM
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I was trying my best to diffuse the situation but the drunk guy stuck literally in my face threatening to throw hands. I wasn’t scared but I couldn’t get rid of him at all, how could I have get rid of him. Should I have grabbed her hand and took her out of the situation? In my brain now I’m thinking I should’ve lead her out of the situation cause we were stuck there for a couple of minutes while the guy is in my face.. But I also thought giving her my hand would’ve had turned her off so I don’t …
/r/seduction08/02/24 02:10 AM
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Chill down.. When I approached her and said something she removed her headphone on her own!
/r/seduction08/02/24 01:41 AM
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I mean if it’s a stranger, how would you approach without complimenting looks? Do you mean like compliment the style, if I liked it?
/r/seduction01/02/24 05:11 PM
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While I do agree to some extent.. How you meant to show interest, and how do you approach..? What’s the alternative
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:04 PM
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From Saudi..
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:03 PM
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I wish if I read your comment before I texted her.. I already texted the sentence above. But I’ll do your advice 👍🏻
/r/seduction01/02/24 06:54 AM
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No man I’m asking a question, you said an odd statement, which I agree will get a reply but most likely it will be “What do you mean?” and even you don’t have a reply to that
/r/seduction01/02/24 05:42 AM
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What if she says..: What do you mean?
/r/seduction01/02/24 05:38 AM
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What do you follow it up with? Like if she replies what do you say
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:41 AM
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That’s odd.. very odd
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:39 AM
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I know I would text too.. But what is the question?
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:22 AM
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I don’t know to be honest, she doesn’t remember it. She didn’t give out a reason.. But if she doesn’t reply so be it. I can’t force her to be attracted
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:44 AM
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I actually did speak for more than two minutes, but wasn’t anything funny just general question about where do you study/age and stuff. I’d say the only two funny things: 1- Was my approach, I went to her and said the lady I was with in the elevator just now told me to tell you you’re cute. 2- She was trying so hard to find her number, and I joked about how bad of a memory she has. So the reason why I wrote the sentence in the post was related to 1 as my sense of humor.. What do you think?
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:01 AM
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I’m not going to ask her out just yet, I don’t think in our culture it’s easy to ask a girl out this fast.. I’ll wait a couple of days. Haha I like the virgo shit, yeah maybe I shouldn’t think about advanced plan and just go with the first sentence.
/r/seduction01/02/24 02:50 AM
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When you say keep it simple, like what would you say? Is my sentence wrong?
/r/seduction01/02/24 02:50 AM
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Okay if it’s a good sentence I’ll try it.. I agree with you compliments on looks too much isn’t it, but I still don’t know her personality at all to be honest (I was dead nervous when I approached and she was ordering a taxi so there’s nothing I could’ve done, I did my best) I was thinking about changing it to “Hey some girl gave me you number and ran away, hope you got home safe", if she replies I’d tease that she was trying too hard to give it, then say but she was cute so I accept. Something …
/r/seduction01/02/24 02:42 AM
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I don’t know “how” to flirt and vibe
/r/seduction31/01/24 01:00 PM
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I don’t understand, do you mind PM’ what you mean and maybe send one or two technique ?
/r/seduction14/09/23 06:45 AM
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How do you get them to ask you out, i’m curious
/r/seduction14/09/23 01:14 AM
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Never thought any girl is out of my league, I just don’t go talk to most of them cause of my failed experiences of getting the girl and never getting laid because somehow I make her lose interest because of my personality, so now I’ve developed social anxiety because of my social awkwardness which is annoying. So now I’m nervous to go talk to them not because they’re hot but because I have the thought of “I’ll just go and embarrass myself” in the back of my mind. I remember I actually did score …
/r/seduction14/09/23 01:09 AM
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Honestly it’s the worst word that came to existence, just like the word Keno back then.. What’s wrong with charisma/game to invent the childish word rizz
/r/seduction21/08/23 04:14 PM
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Hey Man, I don’t know where you read that I get dates, I most certainly do not sorry 😂, I’ve been on some dates but there are just very little, and I’d say that happen because those girls found me too good looking, but even then, the dates failed miserably, so I really wouldn’t say I have any wisdom.
/r/seduction31/10/22 09:38 AM
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Thing is, I do have the looks, I’ve seen a lot of girls who were attracted to me because of looks, but I realised looks are not everything, yes it’s cool and can help, but not so much
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:01 PM
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I have heard of it, and do plan to read it for sure, I hope it does help me and I do benefit from it. One thing about my personality, is I know I’m somewhat funny, I make people laugh, but because sometimes I try hard doing it, I give low subconscious vibes, and people end up laughing “at me” or see me as “child-boy” if you would call it. I’ve seen people with great charisma, they know how to be funny, but also let other respect them and enjoy their company (have some sort of gravitation), and t…
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:12 PM
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Hey I like the comment, and I’m honestly the opposite, I have good looks, but my character sucks “apparently”, I’ve always struggled on how to gravitate others towards me and still do, I believe I’m a nice guy, which is good, in some way, but still I’m unable to be with anyone.
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:34 PM
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That’s absolutely true, but the issue is, I don’t know how to develop it, I’ve struggled with that all my years and still do!
/r/seduction30/10/22 08:29 PM
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yes I am
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:35 PM
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I ain’t looking for a longterm at all
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:41 PM
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Attractive is really subjective though.. Like look-wise I think I’m good-looking, but personality-wise it’s really hard to know what’s attractive!
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:06 AM
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I agree, that’s the best combination for sure, I’ve always seen people who are “bad boy combined with nice guy” are the most popular and they get a lot of girls, but that’s the thing I’m not really sure how to get there
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:20 AM
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I do look like a bad-boy that’s 100% true.. But for the treat them like shit part, I’ll be honest, I don’t know how I can do that, cause when I try I take it to the extreme. So please do elaborate on to how..
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:44 AM
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I have my own place, but I can’t get the girl….
/r/seduction18/10/22 12:15 AM
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I don’t see any of those reasons in mind, my issue is I do “something” which I don’t know what, that happens to turn them off! And I’m only saying this because I see girls attracted to me all the time, but suddenly out of the blue, they try to avoid having conversations about me, and say things about me to other people which in turn make those also avoid me.. Seems okay now when I look at it, but I’m not sure “what” I’m doing wrong, nor how I’m meant to fix it..!
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:54 AM
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This just sums up exactly my situation except I’m 24. Can talk to girls, but don’t know how to flirt.
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah that’s the thing, I can’t seem to have skills to talk to men either these days!
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:04 PM
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I have exactly the same thing, it is what you call social anxiety, or social awkwardness, I’ve developed it recently (last year) that’s why I say the skill has gone away
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:45 AM
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Well I do talk to people, but unable to get friends or whatever, cuz I’m socially awkward and I can be “friends” with people but somehow a lot of people don’t enjoy my company and I hate to force myself to fill in, other people have it naturally they can engage and acquire a lot of friends and people enjoy being with them, I don’t know how or what kind of skills they have, but sometimes I do envy them, that’s why I need to learn how to be social. Same with girls, they get attracted to me, I go t…
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:48 AM
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I’ve tried your way man, ended up in the friendzone cuz I didn’t know how to catch signals.. Also there are books and videos that teach how to be social around people in general, no one said people are aliens, but some of us aren’t gifted with the skills to be able to socialise with people, others are not able to socialise with women.. leave people alone to learn
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:49 PM
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True, but unlike men they get un-attracted to you by the simplist mistake, how you present yourself, game, etc.. guys rarely care about personality and even if they do, it happens after the potential of a relationship
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:46 PM
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And that’s why boys never listen from a fish on how to catch
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:44 PM
4

Hey Man that’s really good advice, how did you happen to acquire this skill, It’s really hard for me to acquire it, although I had it before, it really went away as the years passed for some reason.
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:38 PM
2

I know I ain’t expert in talking with women / game.. I know a lot about eye contact and expressions due to my acting skills, so what you really want to do if a woman look at you and you catch her, is maintain eye contact with a “resting bitch face” for a few moments and then keep doing what you do, look at other stuff, and just glance at her afterwards see if she’s looking back at you.. Another way also, which I found very effective even when I was wearing my mask during covid, is as soon as bot…
/r/seduction15/09/22 02:47 AM
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No man the thing is, ethnicity isn’t an issue cuz I actually like to go for girls from the same ethnicity, but the issue lies with: most girls from my country if approached they say yes??! 🤨 (this makes them play hard to get and think of themselves as more valuable than us) but I really want to know how manage my way around it.. girls are all the same around the world but with slight differences. But I really appreciate all your comments it did made me feel better about today.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:05 AM
1

That’s actually very cool advice, I’ll try it next time for sure.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:59 AM
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Wow I could feel the change of your tone through the text 😂 Thanks for your advice I really appreciate it.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:54 AM
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Okay I kept reading because I respected your opinion.. but I gotta say: doesn’t hi come before how are you? and I do wanna let her know that I find her attractive.. but my question is if she immediately dismiss me before I even say how are you what should I do, please see my comment clearly before coming off with a huge temper over your head. Ohh and one other thing I’m here to learn so don’t expect me to be a pro immediately so you would be satisfied with how I present myself. thanks.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:35 AM
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It does..! cuz a girl can lose attraction if she didn’t like the personality.. and also I’ve seen ugly guys win over girls that attractive guys couldn’t.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 01:30 AM
3

I don’t know if why, but if you sense they’re asking a genuine question answer with whatever you like to answer (a joke, genuine answer; up to you).. but!! if you see an indirect insult answer with: why do you talk too much (but please do it playfully!!). Lastly don’t listen to Coco who commented, there is nothing wrong with being a quite person.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:25 AM
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Thank you very much I’ll definitely try to implement it!
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:18 AM
2

Okay your first point, yes I had a couple of approaches that worked really good before, I remember three approaches: One girl I made a comment about her headphones, One about her choice of ice-cream, One about her dog.. they all did succeed.. but that’s when I have something to comment on, my struggles are with cold approaches 1 and when I have nothing to comment on 2; have had success but very little (they didn’t reply after I got her number) or recieved with hostility (which honestly I think s…
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:14 AM
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A woman did say hi to me once and we talked normally I wasn’t weirded out at all, but you’re actually right I’ll start with a comment next time 👍🏻..
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:05 AM
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Yub..!. I mean that how I start and then move to comment if possible, but some girls doesn’t give me the chance to even leave a comment.
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:58 AM
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I do walk away too but it really does lower my self-esteem and makes me more shy every time I go to a girl, like before I used to approach with no problem, now because of the extrinsic factors I miss a lot of approaches because of the anxiety that kicks in, sometimes I force myself go talk to the girls other times the anxiety get’s the better of me.. If you want to see how I look and actually tell me the truth about my appearance I’d be happy to dm you my instagram. Lastly I do thank and appreci…
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:55 AM
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Hahaha it’s a joke relax 😂
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:34 AM
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I don’t believe I’m super handsome that’s for sure, but with looks I’m probably 6/7 .. - Have you never experienced this before? where a girl say yeah?! or what do you want?! 🤨 if yes, please do tell how did you manage your way around it in a respectful yet masculine way? if not, then that’s alright..
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:34 AM
9

So should I go to her home and knock the door instead?
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:29 AM
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Man I don’t want the instead, I want the how to overcome it..! cuz not all girls will give you eye contact and even if some of them do they still do the same thing when you approach; Yesss?!! 🤨
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:25 AM
2

I have to ask, how do you treat girl that are interested in you/ or you are interested in if you are at uni, basically how to impress/flirt with a girl you already know and there is small attraction.
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:49 PM
11

How do you handle it? Like what do you usually reply to her?
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:04 AM
2

How do you reply to it?
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:03 AM
0

Well how do you handle it to lead to sex, that’s my question? What do you reply to her
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:03 AM
3

me too
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:22 PM
2

How did you study social skills, or do you have any resources suggestion we can take on?
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:17 PM
1

How have you learned game?
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:45 PM
2

What good traits you mean, do elaborate? .. By the way I’m very confidence, I can tell a girl she’s beatiful with no nervousness, but that just push her away rather than building attraction, so I’d like to know the good traits you mean, cuz I almost always end up in the friendzone.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:55 PM
2

I know right!
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:52 PM
2

Which youtube channel would you recommend?
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:29 PM
11

Can I ask something, I’m a good looking guy, and seen some girls somewhat attracted to me, but my issue is when they get to know me they lose attraction, I’m a nice guy and gentleman and I do have a lot of confidence, but that’s about it, I fall short in the sense of humor type of thing, and if I was funny to some girls I end up in the friendzone. A girl was attracted to me back in the days, and honestly I thought she’s still is so just yesterday I made a move and asked for can I have your numbe…
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:53 PM
1

Well I aready have the first 50% , but whenever I make a move I’m usually received with the rejection deal
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:51 PM
3

Okay I do believe you, but what’s your suggestion then?
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:55 PM
1

Can I ask something way out of the context, how do you give a woman a good time?
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:21 PM
6

“When a man cheat he’s a player, when a woman does it she’s a scumbag” That some twisted way to justify cheating for women, both are scumbag for cheating I don’t care. And stop chasing him otherwise you’d end up just like you started..!
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:00 PM
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You need some long therapy, justifying cheating like that.
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:42 PM
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It does.. I don’t know what she’s talking about! If a cheater come and want to talk I wouldn’t even talk to them.
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:40 PM
2

Man songs aren’t complicated, you’re talking with a guy who listen to music once a month, yes that’s me, but I’m asking about their favourite singer not mine. With Zodiac signs, I never knew what mine until girls started telling me I’m a Leo and what not, but yes I don’t mind showing that I don’t believe in them, but instead of saying “I don’t like them” I ask “Do you believe it?” and she’ll keep talking. If you want to go to PUA, that’s totally fine, I’d want to go to, cuz my issue isn’t afraid…
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:36 PM
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I have similar issues when unconfident so I hide myself and become less vocal than ever, I’d say I’m a very talkative person when confident, so I’ll try to give advice with girls I’ve talked to but had literally nothing in common, there are a lot of subjects women would listen to and know about that you can talk about.. Songs, favourite singer. Zodiac signs. Cooking. Places to go to or have been to. First impressions. Play with it and have some fun and banter wouldn’t hurt. these are some of the…
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:57 PM
1

Well I’ve captured it so…
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:32 PM
1

So how do you “flirt with everyone?”
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:31 PM
1

Okay, I like your advice a lot, you mention that generating attracting is pretty easy, do you mind telling me how?
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:41 PM
2

Ok that’s cool advice, so what should be my “Mentality” or what should I be thinking instead of “I want her to have sex with me/ I want her to like me” ?
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:11 AM
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Man the good looking doesn’t work..! it works 1% of the time only.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:06 AM
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Man I’m close to your age and I’m in similar situation and I do hate as well..! but I wouldn’t compare it to a guy who’s barely having things figured out with so much responsibility, I’m being honest when I say he’s got it much worse than us.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:42 PM
2

That’s actually good advice, but what do you mean bold apology?
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:25 AM
2

You’re the guy who looks at the glass empty all the time, the man had a failed marriage and now a kid that he need to take care of without the mother, geez..!
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:24 AM
1

I’d say huggs and cuddles happen with me too, like I remember an occasion when a girl hold my hand at one side and another (guy) friend at the other, so hugs and cuddles is okay to happen, but still, how do you develop into something more than friendship? or let’s just say how do you move it to “kissing”
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:09 AM
1

ofay let me tell you something, when we say friendzone, we aren’t blaming the girl, we are blaming our “lackluster abilities” so you just changed the name
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:45 AM
1

That’s the thing I do enjoy it too, but once we joke and do get to know them, now you are in the friendzone, and it’s climbing hell to get the attraction!
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:39 AM
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Man let her be, why the hell you are arguing if she’s angry or not, does it even matter?
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:31 AM
1

I hear the word flirting a million times, but I have to say I’ve never really understood what it means, like honestly how? I can do it with the eyes but that’s all and as far as I can, I’m not sure how to do it in conversations..?
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:30 AM
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Man Fu**k this shit, women are liars, it’s either because they don’t know their feelings for real, or because they intentionally do it, I wouldn’t know!! I’ll give you an example, a girl I know, while we were hanging out a couple of weeks ago, the dating topic was brought, and she said I’m not looking for dates I’m trying to focus on my work/ I prefer to get friend with the guy before I go out with them. And just yesterday, she said “Can I ask you about this guy I think you know him” and I felt …
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:24 AM
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Damn I do exactly the same thing fu**k.., but honestly my brain isn’t fast and quick to grasp those hints and act on them/ or my anxiety is stopping me.. both of which are awful
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:08 AM
1

Can I ask one thing and one thing only.. How do you hookup with friends? please do tell. I really wish to know
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:06 AM
1

I feel bad for you, you asked the question and all that poor comments didn’t help, I have similar questions, but please know flirting is not creepy..
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:04 AM
2

I’ve never seen something this long that I actually have the intention to read. Thanks for your effort man
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:01 AM
2

How the hell it is easy man? I’ve spent 5 years and still in the same position, I meet girls they laugh I laugh and she call me the “funniest” but at the end of the day she is with another guy, I feel bad for my jokes honestly 😂! I rarely get girls and it does piss me off not knowing how to stop the cycle once and for all.! Are you jealous of me by the way?, is that why you don’t want to say it haha Your problem is easier man, just go to the barber get a good trim, wear and style your clothes an…
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:10 AM
2

Well based on hot girls trying to get me, approach me, finding my twitter and going to my DMs, a lot of stuff just says it.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:00 AM
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I mean the guy is right you know..! I’m a handsome guy but I always end up in the friendzone because I lack game, some people have it naturally some people learn it, and then there is me who just can’t seem to fuc**ing do it.. Edit: Ohh and it’s also happened to my cousin, we were at a caffee and there was this girl who keep checking and smiling at him, when we got out, she walked behind us so I had to leave to let him talk to the girl, it seems she didn’t even text him afterwards.. So it still …
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:53 AM
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Don’t know how to repel women is the realistic sentence I’ve ever seen 😂
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:51 AM
1

The issue isn’t with the girl itself.. it happens with almost every girl, I rarely give her the “attraction” side.. I’m not sure what and why or even what to do about it
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:09 AM
1

She avoids the question and doesn’t answer it!
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:50 PM
0

I don’t care if they want to be in my life or not, all I care about is “what is the mistake so I could avoid doing it to other people in the future”
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:49 PM
1

in person, I’ve gotten to know her person and all, but when in my head I said “I want to get her number today” that day wasn’t the best
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:47 PM
1

College
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:00 PM
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It’s not that I want you to guess, I just want to know how to let them tell my what have I done in the past instead of just avoiding
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:55 PM
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Well I spark their curiosity and they do chase, until they I show interest or we get a little closer that’s when I repel them!
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:52 AM
1

Well fair enough, but then how do I escalate with the girl that attracted to me (the first one) and lead her to bed (without giving the validation)
/r/seduction27/03/22 11:02 PM
1

Thanks for taking the time to reply! I’ll try to implement your advice
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:13 AM
3

I’m surprised to how even can you go to three people like that and talk normally, how did you even start, and how did the conversation go?
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:23 PM
1

How do you attract them though?
/r/askTRP14/03/22 08:14 PM
1

I’ll ask, how to be the “stud” instead of the other way around
/r/askTRP14/03/22 08:14 PM
1

Never seen a better advice
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:01 AM
1

You could say that, but honestly with some girl you don’t want to make a move, like I’ve got her number but I know she has a boyfriend so why should I try to initiate something, she’s a classmate and I need a wing girl so why would I? And to be honest, I don’t know how to make a move without coming off as a creep.. but I’ve made some moves in the past and were successful so that’s not my main issue. My point is that I want to develop an attractive personality and not be a person that girls don’t…
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:03 AM
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That’s what I’d like but from the country that I come from it usually takes a little bit more than just asking a girl out, and well also there’s the part of doing it the right way!.. Like honestly I’ve asked so many girls out, but they all just made excuses, so there is the issue of doing it in a way that she doesn’t refuse. I’d want to take them out immediately rather than texting because I hate texting, but it seems that it is a compulsory!
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:33 AM
1

Well I do make jokes and try to be playful, but she respond with what do you mean and don’t get the joke so it’s end up weird convo
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:44 PM
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The country that I come from it usually takes a little bit more than just asking a girl out, and well also there’s the part of doing it the right way!
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:41 PM
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I’m mostly in the same boat, but I’d say be interested in her lifestyle, ask questions and just start focusing as any normal interaction you have, you can be playful and throw jokes there and there but know that you don’t need to, so don’t force yourself in throwing jokes, one joke is enough then when it becomes natural increase the jokes, I’d say just go with the flow and just try to know her without really putting her on a pedestal cuz you actually don’t know her, (Ask about songs she likes, g…
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:39 PM
1

I wish I’ve read that before I jumped to conclusions, thanks for sharing your ideas!
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:08 PM
1

It’s alright I don’t mind if she’s not interested it’s her choice and feelings at the end, but the mix signals is what throw me off.. Just my advice for you is that deleting us and showing us that you’re not interested is much kinder and nicer.. I’m just saying this because women nowadays seems to expect to be treated nicely and with respect, yet they don’t give any respect back at all (ghosting is disrespectful). I’m not going with the bad guy bullshit, because I know my self-worth and I always…
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:02 PM
2

I get to the last stage, and that's when I blow it off somehow!!
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:54 AM
1

She said herself that if it meant to be I’m going to add you the next time I see you, and believe me if she didn’t like me she wouldn’t have added me, and she said I honestly like you but I’m worried I don’t want to seem so easy, I’d assume you are right that now she isn’t interested but at first she was into me.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:51 AM
1

I don’t know honestly I just felt she’s either embarrassed or sad, so I just wanted to check up on her but that backfired massively
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:30 AM
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I’m good looking guy and women find me attractive, but still have similar issues as the post says, so I do not think looks are the whole equation
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:29 PM
3

I’ve been confident even when I’m tired, actually I’m more confident when tired because I don’t care that much and all I’m thinking about is sleep.. But I agree with you I have similar problems, I’m an extrovert who sometimes go through social awkwardness, I’ve read about it, it’s shy extrovert or socially awkward extrovert, who are most likely not confident in his communication skills, but I’m honestly in similar boat even if I’m an extrovert These problem come to me between friends, strangers,…
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:37 PM
1

Well, she called now, I didn’t respond but I’ll go to sleep and then respond when I wake up, but honestly I’m not sure how I would ho about it
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:56 PM
2

Well at least you get to kiss her and make out, I don’t get to that man!
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:23 PM
9

I struggle with escalating and gettinf the lay, any advice?
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:24 PM
1

What if she comes back on her own though? should I act excited/calm or uninterested? And should I tell that I didn’t like that phase and what was the cause of it or should I just leave it at that
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:44 AM
1

Okay last conversation just seemed odd I was trying to make jokes and make the conversation more fun but she didn’t seem like having it, and she just didn’t seem to like the conversation in general. I probably said you’re taking my time but it was an obvious joke and I meant it as teasing and she just okay bye and hung up, but I don’t think that is the main reason I think she wasn’t enjoying the conversation actually and took the opportunity to leave. My question is what topics should I actually…
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:53 PM
2

No one said anything about slapping a girl ass, I don’t recommend it not even to a friend! I said in my other comment that if you want to get to the intimate parts consider the kiss first as somewhat of a gate. As of touching after making excuses, I know I did that and failed massively and end up in the friend zone, so I don’t recommend it, the pool example maybe niche but it doesn’t matter if you show your confidence, but if friendzone is his struggle he might be able to get a girl to a pool wi…
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:21 PM
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Ok first, with the intention part is hard to explain because I don’t think I show it often, but if you are talking with her and approaching her that straight up showing intent, if she is a friend I think teasing in a way that says “you can’t do that” is showing a small intent, being gentlemen also go hand in hand, showing dominance as well (I know that once I was talking to a girl and she did something I dislike(disrespectful) and I told her should we talk about what you did before and she said …
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:38 PM
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No definitely don’t try to make excuses to touch them! that just gives out a friendly vibe, if you want to touch a woman without being creepy or overly friendly do it without hesitation, like say for example your at a pool and you are teaching her how to hold the stick it is fine and flirty to adjust her hand without hesitation, that shows confidence.. If you are walking beside each other and she was about to step on something dirty, stop and with your hand bring her closer (while touching her s…
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:20 PM
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My guy!! 😂👍🏻
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:57 PM
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You’ve answered yourself without knowing.. You said I did not ask for that and it was ok if she kept quiet. But she probably doesn’t know that and maybe you should have showed her that you don’t judge, maybe she was called a slut before.. Who knows man! nobody can tell what and why people do stuff, all you gotta do is not be mad or frustrated about something they’ve done and focus on yourself and what you could’ve done to make it better.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:52 AM
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I was thinking exactly the same thing, although I do value honesty as top tier, I would not really be any upset about this situation at all, even if I wanted more meaningful realtionship with her, I’ll just accept the situation and laugh
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:31 AM
2

Thanks now I feel like wasting my time replying!! good luck handling your brain my mate
/r/seduction13/04/21 06:24 AM
2

Naah Respect all people.. That’s what grown ups do, with that attitude you just make me think that in similar situation you might do the same
/r/seduction13/04/21 06:19 AM
0

Will you grow up? share your opinion with respect and dignity or DON’T
/r/seduction13/04/21 05:15 AM
2

Seriously mate, depends on the reason you guys left each other.. If it’s on bad terms I’d say don’t get back, if it’s on good terms I’d say make it up for you to decide whether you get her back or not, Not her, cuz this comment just make me think you leave it for her to decide.. And remember, she’s not entirely the same person who left because people change!! So don’t assume she’s the same person and lose the attraction already! get to know her again (if you want to only). Anyway what I would do…
/r/seduction13/04/21 05:07 AM
1

Ok thanks that clears it a bit, do you have any ideas how to manage it?
/r/seduction18/12/20 05:34 AM
1

I know but seems to work with guys a lot. And I mean a loooott!!
/r/seduction17/12/20 10:28 PM
1

Mate, I really want help with game and approaches and I feel you are the guy I could ask for, can you message me and give some tips, I’m 22 years old not that handsome but good-looking, and I only approached very few girls and I am really bad at it, I’m either so nervous at first and never do it, or do it and destroy the hell out of her life 🤦‍♂️😂, please can you help me a little with some tips.
/r/seduction17/12/20 10:18 AM
1

Mate, I really want help with game and approaches and I feel you are the guy I could ask for, can you message me and give some tips, I’m 22 years old not that handsome but good-looking, and I only approached very few girls and I am really bad at it, I’m either so nervous at first and never do it, or do it and destroy the hell out of her life 🤦‍♂️😂, please can you help me a little with some tips.
/r/seduction17/12/20 10:18 AM
1

Honestly I am, I know I’m attractive and I know even my personality is great, but the things is most girls in my class at college don’t really know me,, they just know me by name and what been said about me,! Anyway thanks for your advice it was helpful
/r/seduction11/12/20 08:38 PM
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